HEATED DEBATE With California Boss Babe Feminists?! Andrew Wilson! Goth Dating?! | Dating Talk #215
Date: 2024-11-25
Duration: 9h 08m
Guests
Brian AtlasIdentified Speakers
SPEAKER_00Brian Atlas(host)
SPEAKER_01TTS Reader(audience)
SPEAKER_02Lexi(guest)
SPEAKER_03Anka(guest)
SPEAKER_04Tiffany(guest)
SPEAKER_05Ellen(guest)
SPEAKER_06Gianna(guest)
SPEAKER_07Brian Atlas(host)
SPEAKER_08Andrew Wilson(guest)
SPEAKER_09Rachel Wilson(guest)
SPEAKER_10Alyssa(guest)
SPEAKER_12Pa(guest)
SPEAKER_13Chloe(guest)
SPEAKER_14Cena(guest)
Key Moments
00:00:14
IntroBrian Atlas opens the show with announcements: BLM (Big Labia Matter) nonprofit, WoW guild on Nightslayer realm, Molten Core raid Dec 12.
“welcome to the whatever dating Talk podcast where we try to make sense of the modern dating hellscape I'm your host Brian Atlas”
00:03:20
IntroGianna introduces herself: 18, LA, model, studying psychology online at City College.
“hi I'm gaana I'm from Los Angeles I'm 18 and I'm a model”
00:03:51
IntroCena introduces herself: 18, Canada (Montreal), does OnlyFans, studying engineering. Brian notes she's a returning guest.
“hi I'm Cena I'm 18 my occupation I do only fan and I'm in school for engineering”
00:09:09
IntroChloe introduces herself: 20, lives in South Korea (only here temporarily), model and dancer, studied psychology in university.
“my name is yoa I'm 20 years old I live down in Korea so I actually I'm only here temporarily”
00:13:13
IntroAndrew Wilson introduces himself as host of The Crucible, political analyst.
“my name is uh Andrew Wilson I'm the host of the Cru Crucible it's a popular entertainment Channel on YouTube I'm political analyst”
00:32:00
RelationshipAlyssa reveals she's never officially been in a relationship, has a graveyard in her phone (changes exes to tombstones). Reveals her 4-year non-relationship was toxic/abusive. He cheated with her best friend while she was pregnant. She put water in his gas tank. Has a 3-year-old son.
“I have like a graveyard in my phone I don't know if anyone's seen that like once you're gone like you get three tombstones”
00:41:00
RelationshipAlyssa reveals she has had 2 abortions, was supposed to get a third but the ex never took her to the appointment (Missouri, abortion was illegal). Son's father told her if something happened to their son (who had a heart murmur) it was 'on my watch.' No child support, no contact.
“I wasn't supposed to I was supposed to get an abortion um oh and it didn't happen so”
00:51:00
Key MomentPa reveals her ankle injury: occurred during an upside-down 69 position (standing 69 → straddle handstand) with her 7-year situationship guy. Tripped over nightstand. Tells her boss a different story (tripped over a curb).
“he was just grabbing me me off from the bed um and because of I guess the like amount of drinks that we've had”
00:54:42
Key MomentChloe reveals she has Ehlers-Danlos syndrome, is blind in her left eye, went to hospital after sex ruptured an ovarian cyst. Graduated high school at 14.
“I'm tiny and um I'm like barely 53 and I have a genetic disorder”
01:09:00
QuoteTiffany on men liking submissive women: 'I don't think they have to but they usually do — men like to provide.' She also argues from 'Why Men Love Bitches' that overly submissive women bore men and men cheat. Andrew disagrees strongly.
“I think men should pay okay um I think I don't think they have to but they usually do”
01:31:20
Key MomentDebate: Zuckerberg (Facebook/Instagram) vs Tim Stokely (OnlyFans) — who caused more harm? Andrew: definitely OnlyFans, produces nothing good, creates parasocial relationships with lonely men. Alyssa and Cena defend OnlyFans. Most guests say Facebook.
“definitely only fans has done more damage”
01:51:40
QuotePa on having a party where she invited all 7 men she'd slept with and made them all wear pink to identify them — without them knowing.
“I only invited seven wait so seven dude was there an orgy afterwards”
02:00:00
ControversyChloe claims she witnessed two friends get shot by police in Jennings, MO at age 13 during Fight Club roughhousing. Andrew challenges the story vigorously, offers $500 for proof, says it would have been national news. Brian says Jennings is rough and takes her word.
“I have seen probably two people with my own eyes but then I have seen in passing as in like heard from everyone”
02:33:20
Key MomentPa's 7-year situationship guy confessed 'I think I'm in love with you' while they were together (he was drunk). She said 'ask me sober' — he hasn't. He then dropped off a book for her the morning of the show.
“he literally just whispered I think I like he said I think I'm in love with you”
03:04:50
Key MomentSelf-ratings round. Guests rate themselves 1-10. Gianna: 9. Cena: 8. Lexi: 7.5. Pa: 6.9-7.2. Chloe: 8. Ellen: 7. Anka: refused. Alyssa: 8.5. Tiffany: 8. Andrew: 10 (non-objective confidence). Discord sends AI-aged forward photos of each guest.
“go ahead I would say a decent 8.7 nine maybe I'll say nine”
03:37:42
Key MomentRachel Wilson (Andrew's wife) joins via Discord. Delivers detailed argument for homeschooling, stay-at-home motherhood, and birth rate concerns. Asks guests if women fighting to work was good; all said yes. Then asks if staying home is a privilege; all said yes. Rachel points out the contradiction. Asks who would choose babies over career if humanity died out otherwise.
“hello ladies hey Brian thanks for having me on”
04:11:10
QuoteAnka's most quotable moment: 'if Humanity ceases to exist but I get what I want, it's a fair trade-off.' (Later partially walked back.)
“so if it was like the man's going to me... I'd rather choose being mauled”
04:31:40
Key MomentBow video segment: Brian plays video of ex-girlfriend bowing and cooking dinner. Goes around table asking who would bow for their man. Only Tiffany semi-concedes. Brian argues bow takes 3 seconds vs man working 5 hours for a $100 date.
“boom huge bow huge bow and then you know she scampers to get the laundry done after”
05:09:00
ControversyAnka says 'if Humanity ceases to exist but I get what I want, that's a fair trade-off' during Rachel's career-vs-babies hypothetical. Chat erupts. Ogle donates saying she's 'disqualified herself from any future partner live on air.' Anka later clarifies she was partly trolling/rage-baiting.
“if it was like oh whatever I do says you know then Humanity's off but like I mean I'm doing what I want to do”
05:17:20
ControversyAnka estimates 50% of men in a forest and 40% of men alone in a room would assault her. Brian challenges the math (66 million American men). Andrew asks if she'd choose assured death over a random man in the forest — she says yes. Extended bear vs man vs velociraptor vs T-rex debate.
“I would say like in the forest if we're talking about just in the forest it's a 50/50”
06:02:21
Key MomentTrans debate: is it straight for a man to date a trans woman? Gianna, Anka say yes (straight regardless of surgery). Andrew and Brian argue two males having sex is homosexual by definition. Chloe nuanced (depends on surgery/genuine attraction). Brian sarcastically asks guests to 'affirm his identity' as being correct.
“so just to be clear uh would you guys agree that uh homosexual means same sex”
08:00:00
ControversyAt end of show, Chloe admits she was partly rage-baiting during the show after realizing it was political/debate-oriented rather than a light dating show. Says roughly half her extreme positions were genuine and half were trolling.
“I made a decision when I was going to come on here that if this is one of those rage bait more so political ones then I was just going to act just as rage baity”
Topics Discussed
00:03:20
Introductions & Relationship Status
Guests introduce themselves (name, age, location, occupation). Round of relationship statuses including Chloe's Korea story, Pa's 7-year situationship, Alyssa's abusive ex and child, Tiffany's long-distance relationship. Also covers Pa's ankle injury (sexual stunt).
00:51:00
Sex-Related Injuries & Health Stories
Pa's ankle fracture from upside-down-69 stunt. Chloe's ovarian cyst from sex (Ehlers-Danlos syndrome). Discussion of EDS symptoms.
00:56:10
Men Losing Weight / Loose Skin
TTS question about a man who lost 360lbs with loose skin — would guests date him? Mixed answers; Chloe says she wouldn't due to fear of them regaining weight.
00:59:55
Chloe's Korea Life & Family Background
Chloe discusses living in South Korea, her unusual family (mom on 5th husband, 23 siblings), why she can't date white men, debate with Andrew about sibship/dating logic.
01:13:20
Feminist Identity & Core Values
Do guests identify as feminist? Andrew's definition (egalitarianism). What are guests' core values? What do they bring to the table? Discussion of ideal man attributes.
01:24:20
OnlyFans vs Facebook — Societal Harm
TTS question: has Mark Zuckerberg or Tim Stokely (OnlyFans founder) done more harm? Andrew argues OnlyFans produces nothing good; Cena defends OnlyFans as helping lonely men.
02:43:00
Democracy vs Abortion & Political Questions
Would you support a bill tying abortion rights to military draft eligibility? Who's pro-life vs pro-choice? Would you choose democracy or abortion rights? Most chose democracy. Chloe says she doesn't like the US democracy.
03:04:50
Self-Ratings & Aging Attractiveness
Guests rate their own looks 1-10. Discussion of whether they'll be more attractive in 10/20/30 years. AI aging forward images shown. Self-ratings: Gianna 9, Cena 8, Lexi 7.5, Alyssa 8.5, Tiffany 8, Pa 6.9-7.2, Chloe 8, Andrew 10 (joke), Ellen 7.
03:37:42
Rachel Wilson on Homeschooling & Feminism
Andrew's wife Rachel Wilson calls in. Advocates homeschooling as superior (Tucker Carlson appearance). Argues feminism has led to birth rate collapse. Asks guests if women fighting to work was good, and if staying home is privilege. Heated exchange with Anka about career vs motherhood duty. Rachel argues society is unsustainable if women don't have children.
04:22:00
Who Should Pay on the First Date / Bow Video
Brian plays bow video of ex-girlfriend. Would guests bow for their man? None (except Tiffany conditionally). Debate about first-date paying norms — most expect men to pay. Brian's argument: bowing takes 3 seconds vs man working 5 hours for a $100 date.
05:09:00
Abortion, Women's Rights, Child Support
Do women have equal rights to men? Anka argues abortion is the one area of inequity. Brian points out men have zero reproductive rights. Debate: can a man legally avoid child support? Should taxpayers pay? Andrew's body-our-choice vs responsibility argument. Extended back-and-forth.
05:17:20
Man vs Bear Question
Would you rather encounter a random man or random bear alone in a forest? Chloe, Ellen, Alyssa, Anka chose bear. Gianna, Cena, Lexi, Pa, Tiffany chose man. Anka estimates 40% of men would assault her. Extended Velociraptor/T-Rex variants. Debate about whether bear-preference is sexist.
06:02:21
Trans Identity Debate
Is it straight for a man to date a trans woman? Most guests say yes (pre-op too). Brian and Andrew argue biologically two males having sex is homosexual. Chloe most nuanced; says depends on surgery and genuine attraction. Guests define "what is a woman." Extended philosophical debate with Andrew about self-ID logic.
07:59:00
Body Count Discussion
Is it hypocritical for a high-body-count man to require a low-body-count woman? Chloe says yes. Brian disagrees — asymmetrical attraction is not hypocrisy. Body count round: Gianna 0-5, Cena 3, Lexi 2, Pa 50-60, Chloe under 5, Ellen very low (0-3), Alyssa 100+ (stopped counting), Tiffany 0 (virgin), Anka declined.
08:00:00
Roast Session & Wrap-Up
TTS roast session at $20 threshold. Roasts directed at each chair. Chloe admits she was rage-baiting some answers when she realized the show was political. Final body count round. Brian thanks panelists. Wrap-up and raid.
Transcript
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00:55:08
Chloethink it's nice cuz we have soft skin but it's cuz our skin is very very thin so any cut looks 10 times worse any bruise looks 10 times worse yeah dang
00:55:18
Brian Atlasgood times okay and oh we got a chat here from uh on this topic Ogle oh that's weird shout out to those with EDS it sucks I have it too and I can tell
00:55:29
Brian Atlasyou as you get older you're going to get really effing achy Vision issues get worse Etc yes I'm not sure why it didn't come in as a TTS o go my apologies off
00:55:40
Andrew Wilsonto check on that what what would any of that have to do with I mean isn't EDS erectile disorder is that what that is what is it no that's
00:55:50
ChloeEDS what's that Ed is a rectile dysfunction EDS is 'san syndrome yeah different uh yeah there's an extra letter there if you want to read that all right we have cole here again
00:56:03
Brian Atlassorry guys I don't know why these just came in but I don't know why the TTS isn't triggering I'll have to check on that yo Brian check your DMs I've lost 360 PBS no surgery no drugs just hard work and dedication I sent you some
00:56:14
Brian Atlasrecent before and after pictures ask the girls how they feel about all the loose skin okay I guess going around the table would you date a guy who is currently
00:56:24
Brian Atlasfit but he used to be a big dude and he's got some loose skin but he's fit he's fit he's not fat but he's got loose
00:56:32
Giannaskin of course I mean personality is what matters not sure go ahead B you what do you mean by like loose skin but he's fit like have you ever seen
00:56:43
Brian Atlassomebody who used to be like obese and then they lost all the weight and their body fat percentage is normal now but because they were so big the skin is super loose just like hangs I can't can't pull
00:56:56
Lexiup a picture but Robert Tanner thank you for the gifted 20 memberships man appreciate it yes okay what about you I think it depends but um overall that's really great mhm I think it would also
00:57:09
Brian Atlasdepend like how much like flab are we talking about you know uh well he was 360 lbs so that's fairly obese so there's probably going to be surg get
00:57:20
Chloeit okay like tummy tuck stuff yeah similar yeah um I don't think I would and it's not necessarily because of the loose skin it's more so about like them
00:57:31
Chloehaving been big before I would be scared that they would get big again and I I I I can't I I won't uh it's not really about the fact that they are obese it's
00:57:43
Chloethat I live a very active lifestyle and if you are as active as me you are not going to be that heavy set so I want someone who suits My Lifestyle I would um like I mean just
00:57:56
Ellenlike you said like personality is what matters the most and I really appreciate like the dedication the person has for you know working on themselves and working out and trying to balance out
00:58:06
Alyssatheir health yeah I would I would um I think it just depends though like you said how much loose skin
00:58:15
Tiffanyis there I I would not because I mean I'm all about making yourself better but if you've been that size that means you have the fat Gene and I want my kids to be skinny
00:58:28
Pathat's a genetic thing it it can be you can be naturally imagine yourself being 360 lbs no it's a genetic
00:58:38
Chloething okay that's not just like how maybe you were like raised yeah it can be multiple factors but some people are naturally prone to being very heavy set
00:58:50
Chloethat's why you see a lot of families being all big there's lots of families that everyone in the family is very big and it's not necessarily even because they eat a lot I know plenty of people who are very big who don't really eat a
00:59:02
Chloelot and they do exercise but they're just naturally heavy are you is it like because of a slow metabolism um thyroid issues sometimes is a big issue with it
00:59:12
Brian Atlasyeah did we get everybody's answer for the mhm loose skin one okay all right and let's see here we were okay PA you had your whole boot
00:59:24
Brian Atlasthing uh let's see um oh really quick for you you so you've been living in you were in Korea right yes how long were you live or how long
00:59:33
Chloehave you lived there total um I visited there as a kid but I didn't live there as a kid so 4 months in total of actually living there not just visiting
00:59:43
Chloeokay uh do you speak Korean I'm still learning um I can understand it's spoken to me for the most part but I can't speak it myself cuz I get too nervous okay so we could we can't can't get like
00:59:56
Brian Atlasa demo right now or maybe you and Tiffany can exchange a couple no okay all right what's your favorite
01:00:08
Chloepart of Korea um so I live down in umong and um but I'd have to say my favorite part is wait where is that um
01:00:19
Chloejust upwards of hung like I think 35 40 minutes upwards uh pretty close to sinon uhhuh and it's a very more like rural area most of the people are a lot older
01:00:31
Chloeit's right next to this historical um like traditional Village yeah so it's really pretty I'd have to say that where I live is my favorite place mhm all right I'm going to get through everybody's pre-show notes here and then
01:00:44
Brian Atlaswe're going to get into some of the uh questionnaire stuff so let's see um Tiffany actually I guess related to the Korean thing Tiffany previous on previous shows you said that you should
01:00:55
Brian Atlasdate with within your culture and nationality given that uh Khloe over there is uh dating uh somebody in Korea do you have any objections to her not dating within her nationality and
01:01:07
Chloeculture I mean it's not preferable but you can do what you want I think Korea should be maintain Korea at the same time Korean and Korea has the lowest
01:01:19
Chloebirth rate ever also and so Koreans aren't being with Koreans also um also I have over 10 siblings I have 11 biological siblings 23 siblings in total
01:01:32
Chloeand they're all by different white guys I have every breed of white guy in my family every white person for the most part looks like one of my siblings I cannot do it you wait you can't do what I can't date someone who looks like one
01:01:44
Chloeof my siblings so you don't want to date anyone who's white what there are exceptions but almost every white guy I meet looks like one of my siblings yes wait I've heard this from Asia women
01:01:56
Tiffanythey're like oh I couldn't date an Asian guy because he looks like my brother for all but I don't understand I don't has 23 siblings though it's she's an exception
01:02:07
Brian Atlasno it's not an exception she has 23 siblings I I just don't um I don't get that but okay so wait you can't date a white guy because your siblings are
01:02:17
Chloewhite I could with very few exceptions if they did not look like one of my siblings the odds though of me finding one that does not look at all like any of my siblings is very slim because
01:02:30
Brian Atlasthey're all with different I don't get I don't get this phenomenon because like okay if you think of throughout like the vast sex hold on let me finish if you're
01:02:39
Brian Atlasif you look at like the vast uh the vast history of humanity um you're like if you had an unwillingness to procreate with your own race your genes would just
01:02:50
Brian Atlasbe wiped out because historically most people did not get exposed to other races like all your dating prospects everybody looks like your brother like wherever you lived like most people
01:03:01
Brian Atlasprobably didn't go further than like five miles from wherever the [ __ ] they lived this is like a you know modern travel is fairly a recent thing but so I don't that's just look it's I get I well
01:03:14
ChloeI don't get it but like when I hear Asian women say I couldn't dat an Asian guy it's like and what do you mean uh that you have did you say 23 siblings yes my mom gave birth to 11 of them but
01:03:25
Andrew Wilsonbecause of all the marriages I have lots of Step siblings as well yeah but at your age even if she had been married five times these step siblings couldn't have been in your life for very long they're still my siblings though yeah
01:03:38
Andrew Wilsonbut they I mean you go to school with people who are white for instance right you probably have more of an interpersonal relationship with many of them than you did with your stepsiblings if you had such a limited time frame
01:03:48
Chloeright where I lived as a kid and grew up at the area was mostly African-American um so my family was one of like three or four families in the
01:03:57
Chloearea that were white um what area was this uh we live down in Jennings Missouri um so it's that area is
01:04:08
Chloepredominantly African-American and the school was mostly that as well so that doesn't really apply in this
01:04:17
Andrew Wilsoncase yeah I mean it would still apply right so the the idea here is even if uh predominantly the cultures dominating by uh you know black people instead of white people you still have tons and
01:04:29
Andrew Wilsontons of interaction with white people right but the idea that you formed interpersonal Bonds in such a limited amount of time with step siblings seems kind of silly right I mean the whole
01:04:40
Chloegist of it is at the end of the day they are your siblings whether they're blood related or not I think because I even grew up with adopted siblings too blood to me is not really a factor as soon as
01:04:52
Chloesomeone is in my family they are in my family and it's they have always been my sibling that is my sibling so by this logic if you have this many siblings and
01:05:03
Andrew Wilsonthey let's say uh marry black people and Asian people and every different race in between and they all start having children this mean that you won't date at all because some of your people who
01:05:14
Chloeyou're genetically related to happen to be the very race that you would be then Force to date that is also in the future I would already be with my partner I'm one of
01:05:26
Chloethe oldest of my siblings so the likelihood of the three-year-old getting married and having a child before me is probably not likely well you can't be wait you can't be the oldest of 11 if
01:05:38
Chloethe the next one line is three hang on if the next in the line is three the oldest of the ones that I am related to
01:05:46
Chloeis 24 the oldest of all of them in total is I believe 27 so no then if you have a 24y old old they could easily uh you
01:05:58
Andrew Wilsonknow marry off or and and create relations with I mean by the in other words by the time you're of marriageable age multiple of your siblings could date outside of the race have children then you'd have nieces and nephews who were A different race then you just wouldn't
01:06:10
Chloedate then because you would consider them to be genetically related my older siblings um there's only three or four of them I don't even
01:06:21
Chloeknow what one of them looks like to be honest um never met them in my life
01:06:27
Chloeum the one guy is already married to this other white girl uh my older sister is not being with anytime anytime soon
01:06:40
Chloeshe has the mental capacity of someone much younger than her age um and then my older brother has no interest in anything like that so yeah but there
01:06:51
Chloewasn't that I mean don't you have like nine more to go right after that everyone after that is still like 13 no no that that would be a
01:07:03
Andrew Wilsonmathematical impossibility that everybody after that was like 13 right no because they're step siblings too yes I understand but even then it
01:07:14
Andrew Wilsonwould still be mathematically impossible that all of them were like 13 I just want to let you know you may not be aware of this but if you were pregnant 11 times that would require 11 years of
01:07:24
Andrew Wilsonyour life therefore for you can't have like you know 11 kids or nine kids or eight kids or seven kids who are like 13 that makes like have you forgot about
01:07:34
Andrew Wilsonmultiples as in Twins and triplets oh so wait so now you have a ton of twins and and triplets in I said siblings I didn't specify whether they
01:07:44
Andrew Wilsonwere all born at the same time or not and some of them are adopted so get so how many twins and triplets do you have two sets of two so that would be
01:07:55
Andrew Wilsonfour out of the 11 yes yeah so they still couldn't all be like you know 13 right that still wouldn't make any sense if there are four if there are four people older than
01:08:07
Chloeme that's four yeah and then there is my one brother who is my age um well not my age
01:08:18
Chloea year younger than me he is married to this white girl um he's just turned 19
01:08:25
Chloeum the one after that um he is
01:08:31
Chloe14 so Aiden Logan's 14 then Cassidy is 13 um and then um there's Avery he's
01:08:41
Chloeeven younger there's why am i counting like that there's um Karina Connell Avalon
01:08:52
ChloeCordelia um and then Kieran I don't know how any of that is um but I and then there's some that I haven't even met
01:09:03
Andrew Wilsonso yeah I mean if you haven't met those people then why would it Poison the Well for your dating preferences if you haven't even met them they're still my siblings yeah but but how do you even
01:09:14
Chloeknow what they look like to draw a comparison I guess the simplest way to sum it up is imagine you are having sex with someone and you look at them and you see your sibling that's weird that's uncomfortable like
01:09:27
Andrew WilsonI don't know anyone who would find that an enjoyable experience yeah but but if they're if if your extended family were to marry out including your step siblings to other races then wouldn't you see then like your nieces and
01:09:40
Chloenephews in the faces of those people you were dating I think the only way this works is because I'm not close with most of my family so I'm not going to get to meet their kids I'm not going to get to
01:09:51
Chloeknow that um not close to him but for some reason they inform your dating preferences that's super weird I mean many people have toxic relationships with their family and they don't talk to their family anymore but that's made
01:10:03
Andrew Wilsonthem who they are so a lot of who they are is based off of them yeah but this is this is literally the first time I've ever heard somebody say that their dating preferences are informed by the fact that they might see
01:10:15
Andrew Wilsona Brother's face they have never met in the face of the person they're dating that's bizarre I hear it all the time so I don't really know okay
01:10:32
Brian Atlasall good all right okay uh we were going were we going around on the question there or I think so no did you date did you date Asian
01:10:44
Brian Atlasguys yes Asian guys the guy you're seeing is he Asian guy or white asan okay Tiffany I would get an Asian guy but my boyfriend's not Asian current boyfriend's white yeah okay got it uh
01:10:56
Brian Atlaslet's get into the rest of the notes Here I think we were talking about what were we on before we got into that well we do have ogul once again let me see if this works there we go that should be fine Ogle donated $200 tell me if the
01:11:08
TTS Readeraudio is okay guys we're related by ours so I have 1% lenience but my sister you must stop the cap was there echo on that or was that
01:11:19
Brian Atlasokay chat chat was there echo or no Echo um thank you ogul uh response to ogul I
01:11:27
Chloeguess there was a lot that was said so what part is the cap I mean I feel like there was too much said that was you can just State an overall blanket statement
01:11:40
Brian Atlasrock and roll all right we're going to get back into the pre-show notes while we go to Lexi here Lexi you've been in two long-term relationships um you were being with two you say being with two different guys for that long I feel like you have a
01:11:53
Brian Atlasgood idea on how guys view relationships and and get comfortable during long term uh with that also the tactics or things that they say to keep you there which
01:12:02
Lexiare what um I just feel like if there's multiple points in a relationship where things get kind of Rocky and stuff um not necessarily guilt tripping but
01:12:14
Lexialways just reflecting back on the memories and kind of just like oh but like we've made it this far and if like we're supposed to be together then we have to
01:12:23
Lexiget through this too and and like in the moment in the time it it makes sense and you're like yeah if I do like if you are my future then I am going to have to we're going to have to understand each
01:12:35
Lexiother here but then again it's you can only understand and understand so much until you just have to realize really quick Robert it is below the threshold
01:12:46
Brian Atlasbut I will just uh just a reminder it's 100 for Reed uh really quick just by show hands though um does anybody he have a mental health
01:12:58
Brian Atlasdiagnosis from Robert Tanner show of hands any mental health diagnosis Cena what you got Gina gaana excuse me my bad what you got Gian um no
01:13:10
Brian AtlasI haven't I haven't I have insomnia insomnia like asle Cena what you got I didn't raise my
01:13:16
Brian Atlasskito Lexi BPD bipolar what you got P what you got nothing sex uh What uh you sex addiction you've been diagnosed as a
01:13:28
Brian Atlassex addict okay Chloe what about you ADHD ADHD Ellen um psychopath I feel like right I have asthma asthma that's
01:13:38
Brian Atlasvalid she's got asthma don't um you have an inhaler I do have an inhaler can you take a hit right now of your inhaler I don't it's exercise induced asthma what happens if you take a hit of an inhaler
01:13:50
Ellenwhen you're not actually having an asthma attack you can cause problems is it it's it's not good for I don't know why you would do that but I only took it like I used to be a competitive swimmer so I I would only
01:14:02
Palike backstroke or I was a breast stroker breast breast stroker it's like the frog one the frog one yeah do you think anybody's ever abused an inhaler I was asked if I wanted to hit
01:14:14
Pasomeone's inhaler when it was actually like two nights ago what it's not psychoactive right I don't know an inhaler I think it was like a joke because he like offered
01:14:25
Pame um his vape and then he offered me his pen and then he offered me his inhaler this guy Vapes and has Asma yeah
01:14:34
Brian Atlasseems like a bad combination do you vape Ellen no I don't are you Vapor no okay um Can does it can you abuse an inhaler though I don't know yeah for sure of
01:14:46
Chloecourse you can but like does it get you I it doesn't get you high it doesn't get you high no I don't know maybe it was Placebo I used to steal I used to steal
01:14:55
Chloemy brother's inhaler when we were kids um because I don't know I us steal inhalers no I didn't steal inhalers I would like sneak my brother's inhaler
01:15:06
Chloewhen we were children because I thought I was doing something I don't know okay um mental health diagnosis just ADHD
01:15:16
Brian AtlasADHD what about you anything over here mental health BPD BPD borderline borderline personality disorder all right Tiffany what about you no nothing
01:15:28
Brian Atlasbesides that one thing um nothing okay all right uh let's see thank you Robert Tanner for that really appreciate it man thank you thank you uh we have techno Trooper one sec guys
01:15:40
TTS Readergetting this pulled up sorry for the delay here uh he says techn Trooper donated $200 ladies who is the oldest you would
01:15:51
Brian Atlasmarry for an age Gap okay can I answer first yeah tell us uh just remind us your age and then the oldest I guess you would date or marry go ahead that I would date or that like I think is a
01:16:02
Giannagood in general uh that you would date okay I'm 18 um my parents are 10 years apart so I already think 10 years is
01:16:11
Giannapretty normal um and I would date up to like 40 or
01:16:19
Brian Atlas50 40 or 50 yeah okay so that's like m what is that like 30 years age capap about yeah because you're 18 so
01:16:30
Lexiyeah okay all right Cena what about you 10 years 10 years okay all right what about you right now I would say four or five but if I'm in my 30s and like
01:16:41
Lexithere's a bigger age Gap like TW my grandparents are 19 years apart but I mean what the what's the plan Lexie I
01:16:49
Padon't know okay uh P what about you age capap uh well I'm 21 um I think Max
01:16:58
Chloemaybe like 45 like early 40s okay all right Chloe about you I'm 20 I've always been very firm on the fiveyear rule so
01:17:09
Ellenno one older than five years of me at any given time all right sure uh what about you Alan I'm 18 right now like for dating at this age maybe a couple years older than me but then later in life
01:17:20
Ellenlike Lexi said like my 30s then I'd be more open to like 10 to 15 years older than me so if you're 30 you would date a guy up to 45
01:17:29
Ankayeah okay what about you um I'm 23 so maybe 33 right now but 10 years okay
01:17:37
Alyssasure what about you um I'm 26 um I don't really care honestly like maybe you dat
01:17:44
Tiffany70 yeah like 50 60 70 all right okay Tiffany I'm 19 so maybe 28 and 29 is kind of pushing it all right we have
01:17:55
Brian AtlasVern Tang tangue I had a friend who kept pushing sex I inevitably gave in although I wanted to just be friends can men be essayed if they're on top love the
01:18:07
Brian Atlasshow you had a friend who kept pushing Sex You inevitably gave in although I wanted and you were on
01:18:16
Giannatop huh well uh can I think that's just like pure pressure you get onp how you get on top uh I don't think it's that I don't
01:18:28
Brian Atlasthink that's saay you consented I right did you consent if you consented it's uh even if you maybe regretted it
01:18:40
Brian Atlasthat's not as say but uh uh even if they're on top like but like how would like how would you
01:18:51
Brian Atlasnon-consensually get on top like I could maybe see it like you're you're laying down as the guy and it could happen what if you were like nobody put
01:19:03
Paon the P I don't know well you got all kinds of crazy crazy different angles and [ __ ] but what what what is it like what if um someone just like places you on top how
01:19:14
Brian Atlasstrong is she I don't know like I think we need to like an M fighter and she's like get over here and she [ __ ]
01:19:28
Brian Atlaswe need more detail I think I don't know that's um Vern T tangway thank you for that um she's maybe she has a
01:19:37
Brian Atlasgun oh well [ __ ] get on top [ __ ] some people find that kinky That's crazy dude that's wild I'm sorry to hear ver that Vern
01:19:48
Brian Atlasthat you um sorry to hear man I'm sorry to hear was she was she big how did you get never mind okay that's
01:19:59
Brian Atlascrazy um where were we're talking to Lexi right yeah uh and then a couple things
01:20:09
Lexicame in uh the tactics the men say to keep you there so they've been using some tactics kind of just like things
01:20:17
Lexithat keep coming up you know a lot about like my destiny and like God and stuff fa yeah God meant us to be together all
01:20:29
Brian AtlasI see you have a cross is are you Christian I'm Catholic you're Catholic okay yeah um okay H were they religious yeah okay uh well next thing you said
01:20:42
Brian Atlasrun one rule you're always going to implement from now on is a two strike Rule and that's basically just that you will give a person one more chance if you find out that they lie to you and if they do it again it's an
01:20:53
Lexiautomatic cut off yeah um do you have people in the graveyard like her over here I mean pretty much I guess um I really have a big thing with like lying and
01:21:04
Lexitrust cuz I mean I feel like if you've been lied to once why can't they just do it again and that did happen and then it's just like okay I found this out and then of course forgive and forget and
01:21:16
Brian Atlasthen it just keeps coming up and coming up okay um and then you said uh hold on you there's a rule in your household do
01:21:28
Lexiyou mean like with amongst your friend group or no just like um my mom has always said like no breakup and makeup game she thinks like you know that can lead to a lot of toxicness on and off
01:21:40
Brian Atlasagain yeah yeah so that's always been something that's like yeah if we're like done done done then it's over yeah I I tend to agree with you on this because you can have disagreements and you can
01:21:53
Brian Atlaswork through disagreements stuff but like once even even if a breakup has been teased I think like cuz people will sometimes use that they don't actually they're not actually genuinely breaking
01:22:05
Brian Atlasup with you they're using it as leverage to get you to behave in a certain way I think you can instead of doing that you can just have a conversation about what you want changed in the relationship if there is an ISS issue but when people do
01:22:19
Brian Atlasthis thing like okay we're going to break up yeah it's kind of like okay yeah you want to break up it's over then like there is no yeah it's kind of just like calling bluff like yeah like it's a
01:22:31
Brian Atlasbluff a lot of time it's a bluff and then it's just like well it's just have a conversation about the actual issue instead of just like
01:22:41
Brian Atlasjust doing the breakup you know so um okay uh and then uh you said why you should not tell a girl things she wants to hear and how it sets her up for
01:22:51
Lexidisappointment uh did you want to expand on that Yeah so basically if you have a girlfriend and you just keep telling her everything she wants to hear and
01:23:01
Lexipromises and eventually it it just it it's a bad idea in the end because you just set up these like false expectations and me personally I have
01:23:13
Lexilike I don't know I kind of really really dislike being let down and disappointed so it just keeps happening and happening like be honest if something did happen just be honest
01:23:25
Lexiabout it cuz if I find out you lied about it then it's even worse or if you keep saying you're going to do things and you don't just don't bring it up there's like there's no reason okay all
01:23:37
Brian Atlasright uh we're going to before we we're going to skip ahead to the questionnaire stuff but before we do why don't we go to H who do we go
01:23:48
Brian Atlasto while we go to Chloe here uh you moved away for a man you'd only known for a month
01:23:56
Chloemonth um yes so we met when I was living down in
01:24:04
Andrew WilsonHawaii and um he kind of made it seem like down down where Hawaii Hawaii why the hell are you saying it like that why you saying Hawaii people
01:24:16
Chloein Hawaii you're supposed to pronounce it Hawaii that is true didn't a comedian make a joke about the W in the Hawaiian
01:24:24
Brian Atlaslanguage is a v kind of mhm mhm Kawaii Hawaii oh anybody see that thing in New Zealand with like in the parliament with
01:24:34
Andrew Wilsonthe she does the Haka and they rip up the thing for equality when Obama says Pakistan you know what I mean when Obama would go in Pakistan and I'd be like what the hell just just say it how
01:24:46
Brian Atlaseverybody says it somebody in the chat called me a weeb because I said Kawaii that's literally one of the Hawaiian Islands but whatever
01:24:56
Chloeokay um okay so anyways what's the story um he made it seem like he lived there I even like went over to quote unquote his house turns out it was his friend's
01:25:07
Chloehouse I found that on later on um but when I start seeing someone I get very very attached very very quickly um so in my head I was like well I'm In Too Deep
01:25:19
Chloeonce I realized he was going back to Arkansas um he gave me like a one we notice if even that and so I decided you know I really like this guy I'm not
01:25:31
Chloedoing much here right now I'm always moving around anyway let me move to Arkansas for this dude um only then towards the end of it it was a one-year
01:25:42
Chloerelationship um turns out he was cheating on me the entire time even while I was working on moving down there and he looked me in my eyes at the end
01:25:51
Chloeof it and told me that he knew he was letting me ruin my life um there is a distinct message I remember I went through his Snapchat um and he there was a message
01:26:04
Chloefrom I think near the beginning of a relationship he had with this girl um about her asking oh well do you like do you like her like what's going on with your relationship and he said it's not
01:26:14
Chloethat I don't like her but there's just so many more bodies out
01:26:22
Brian Atlasthere yes yes that's
01:26:31
Chloeawesome nice Good times yes so wait you met him in Hawaii yes you flew out there or wait you met him online or I met him
01:26:42
Chloein Hawaii we had a mutual group of friends okay but then you came back yes I moved to Arkansas no no no wait you were you stayed in Hawaii I stayed in
01:26:52
Brian AtlasHawaii for you moved he moved to arkans he went back to AR he was um Honduran okay just checking okay wait he was a Honduran
01:27:04
Chloeliving in Hawaii he wasn't living in Hawaii he made me think he was living in Hawaii but he was in Hawaii he was visiting Hawaii he was visit visiting Hawaii okay that's cool uh and then
01:27:15
Brian AtlasArkansas that's a downgrade yes that's a massive downg I'm never going back to AR yikes okay that's cool and then um you've done that for other men too maybe what about this current Korean man um I
01:27:26
Chloedid not move for anyone else after that I decided I'm never moving for anyone else um I met my current partner in Korea when I was living down there um I actually included it kind of in yeah you
01:27:39
Chloesaid re a pretty funny story tell us the story yeah so I was actually we met at a pub um I was out with this other guy
01:27:48
Chloethough um it wasn't explicitly a date um but more or less it was the date we didn't exclusively call it a date though um but I later found out he he kind of
01:28:00
Chloethought of it as that um anyway we're hanging out we're not really talking at all I guess the guy's like shy or something and my friend's DJing he's
01:28:09
Chloeplaying a Careless Whisper like a DJ remix of it um and I go to talk to my
01:28:17
Chloefriend and he my current boyfriend I guess goes up to the guy who's who um um I was hanging out with that night and starts asking him like if it's okay for
01:28:28
Chloehim to hang out with us if he's dating me or something like that and then he just basically like swoops in and hangs out with us the whole night and kind of
01:28:39
Chloejust it it made my the other person uncomfortable um to be fair but the other person actually wound up texting me throughout the hanging out like oh you guys see the beginning along do you
01:28:48
Chloewant me to just leave yeah oh my God that's that's hilarious but so basically it's just funny cuz I think it's just funny when someone's so
01:29:00
Chloebold to just go up to two people especially like opposite gender they're out together there's no one else and you just what you go up to them and like you're like oh by the way is she taken
01:29:10
Chloecan I basically have a shot at her and he said that or that's the underlying that's the underlying yeah he asked if me and that other guy were dating and if it was okay for him to hang out with us
01:29:22
Brian Atlasum yeah d so just I'll summarize I guess here so you're out with another you but you made it seem like so was it not clear that it
01:29:32
Chloewas a date with the guy the first guy I knew that the guy probably liked me and we were going to hang out it was our first time hanging out that night it was
01:29:45
Chloeour first time meeting how did you guys know each other um we met each other on like Instagram so we had also mutual friends he slid
01:29:56
Chloeinto your dmms um no we were in a group chat okay and then he DMS you privately he says what well I'm just talking about I was going to go out and I go out to
01:30:08
Chloethis one place often and he also goes there often so we just decided we were going to hang out and meet up down there and had you guys hung out in person
01:30:18
Brian Atlasno was was he like hey can I take you to dinner no we just met up at uh at the pub down there
01:30:30
Chloeokay in any case so you he a a totally random dude who you'd never met mhm he comes up to you and hits on you he I actually have left to go talk with my
01:30:42
Chloefriend who's DJing and he comes while I'm gone to talk to the guy I'm hanging out with oh wait he goes up to the guy yes and then you come back yeah and then
01:30:54
Brian Atlashe starts talking to you yes and then does he start like edging out the dude like this is the dude this is you just [ __ ] eding him out like get the [ __ ] out of here kind of we're at this table
01:31:05
Chloethere's me and then there's the other side which the original guy is sitting at he is originally over there and then he just kind of slowly makes his way to sitting on my side of the table and then it winds up being a situation where just
01:31:18
Chloeme and him are talking cuz we're getting along and I wasn't really getting along with the other person so convers just naturally flowed between us and not did he talk to you guys in Korean or English
01:31:28
Chloeum which one were they both Korean they're both Korean the original guy his name his name is Jim and he's my friend
01:31:36
Chloenow um but he doesn't speak much English so it was also harder to communicate
01:31:43
Chloethat was definitely one factor um but my current boyfriend uan he is um oh he's your boyfriend yes
01:31:54
Chloeyou've been dating him for one month yes he um he speaks fluent English um he actually didn't grow up in Korea um he's
01:32:04
Brian Atlasa Korean citizen his parents are from there uh but he grew up in Mongolia and Germany huh interesting okay and then this other guy he was just like shy not
01:32:16
Brian Atlasreally making but you said your korean's pretty poor yes okay um in any case you guys agreed to meet up although it
01:32:26
Brian Atlasdoesn't it sounds like he wasn't super direct about it m but it was clear to you in any case that he was romantically interested and then you spend the rest of the night talking with this other man
01:32:38
Chloewho's more fluent in a language that you both understand it wasn't really about how do I word this it wasn't necessarily about fluency because there's other ways you
01:32:50
Chloecan also try to communicate um like what I've had tons of Hangouts with my friends who don't really speak almost any English down there and we just talk through
01:33:01
Chloepapaco okay um for those who don't know it's like a translation app um oh okay uh H this is an interesting
01:33:13
Brian Atlasphenomenon I mean it's like it was kind of like a vague hangout he was not really like carrying much of a conversation with you he kind of it sounds like invited this to
01:33:26
Brian Atlashappen but that's pretty brutal bro you take a girl out on a date and like on the date essentially she like ends up [ __ ] another dude and like dating him well no one said anything about the
01:33:37
Brian Atlasladder but oh you guys haven't had sex yet now we have oh well you didn't have sex that night but like right the guy who like that's like uh what's that term
01:33:47
Brian Atlasfor it that is a uh Canon What's that term Canon event Canon event that's like a Canon event like out on a date with a girl and some dude like starts talking the girl that you're out on a date with
01:33:58
Brian Atlasand then like oh she's my girlfriend now peace out dude wait how is that a Canon event did that happen to you no that that has not happened to me uh to my
01:34:09
Chloeknowledge if I recall but like that's got to be a Canon vent for that dude like I don't know I think he's the kind of person who just wants a relationship
01:34:21
Chloeand it doesn't matter who with because even though we didn't talk that night like basically at all it was our first time ever meeting he texted me the next day being like I think I'm in love with
01:34:32
Brian Atlasyou and but we had like zero conversation with each other oh it's even worse now he's in love with you but he's not but he said it it he said he was and then you did you go home with
01:34:44
Brian Atlasthat other guy like did you leave the bar with I'm not saying you had sex with him did you leave the bar or whatever with that guy he so he actually left not so the the guy the original guy he
01:34:56
Chloeleft early so he left us to keep hanging out the rest of that night what did he say when he left he was like oh it seems like you guys are getting along he actually lives pretty far away from that exact area so he had to take a taxi back
01:35:08
Brian Atlashome CU he was also kind of how long was taxi I I don't know probably like an hour damn that's like an hourong taxi ride to just contemplate like how some
01:35:19
Brian Atlasother guy just swooped in and Mr steel your girl bro okay that's crazy good times um and then you ended up leaving with the dude yes you went back to his
01:35:29
Chloeplace yeah did you guys no we actually stayed up all night I think and looked each other's eyes and talked about deep feelings and [ __ ] we got back probably
01:35:39
Chloelike maybe 2 a.m. 2 to 3:00 a.m. to his place you guys cuddle we actually stayed up all night just literally talking
01:35:47
Chloeabout life and like stuff like that so it was actually really romantic
01:35:57
Brian Atlaswow that's so terrible for that other guy who's watching this now and been yeah so the next day after that 1hour taxi
01:36:05
Chloecab ride back he texts you I love you yeah damn that's that's a but we had no conversations between each other so
01:36:16
Chloeno you don't he might have liked how I looked but he didn't love me so he was in love he was in love with wanting to be in love is how I would what does that I don't even know what that means but he
01:36:27
Chloejust wants to date somebody it doesn't matter I think he's gay you think so yeah why do you think he's gay Tiffany because men don't like
01:36:38
Tiffanylove they don't love love that that guy you're talking about sounds like he loves love H I guess a way to put it would be men
01:36:49
Tiffanyaren't really into romance and stuff like that women are I don't know I feel like men are too and
01:36:57
Tiffanyhe let that guy steal you from him why it he man up he's shy he's like passive he's an introvert okay well now I have a
01:37:08
Paquestion for Obi because we actually had a similar moment where I tried hooking her up with someone and then I actually ended up dating him so you
01:37:20
Ankastole like which so what happen person I feel this happened multiple times D what the [ __ ] wait she stole multiple dudes from you I mean that that she's like oh
01:37:32
AnkaI think that you should like hang out with this guy and she'll set me up but then but then she [ __ ] him first bro [ __ ] Goblin what the [ __ ] you're you're dude this is your friend
01:37:46
Brian Atlashere no remorse I have no words no regret okay um so how many men has this happened two like maybe three three dudes so she's POS is like wait she's
01:37:58
Ankatrying to set you up with them like she hasn't hooked up with them yet no it's and then she's like oh you should hang out with this dude it no it's more like oh you should hang out and then I mean I don't really live close to her so it
01:38:11
Ankajust nothing ever really ends up happening and then later on she just I don't know hangs out with them that's it it's more like people I've like hooked up with and I'm just like actually I'm
01:38:21
Pajust going to maybe toss you to someone else oh you've already smashed yeah and then you're
01:38:30
Palike had my fun you can have my my sloppy seconds or whatever no it's just like I don't like my friends like third Wheeling while we're like hanging
01:38:42
Paout so I'm always trying to like make the groups even even it's if it's just like not like to date or like even to hook up you know just odd numbers are always like really
01:38:52
Ankaawkward how do do you feel about this I don't mind I mean I feel like whenever anyone sets me up it just I don't like it like it's just kind of puts a pressure on things so I mean I'll talk
01:39:03
Ankato them I'll be friendly but it's not like I'm like oh like she stole them or I have like a weird complex about it h okay we've been like this close to being
01:39:13
Brian Atlaslike Eskimo twins wow interesting okay all right um here I'm going to let a couple chats go through uh techn Trooper who do you think has done more harm to society Mark
01:39:25
Brian AtlasZuckerberg or Tim stokeley and why I don't does anybody here know who Tim stokeley is no all right um who the I Tim
01:39:37
Brian Atlasstokeley British businessman oh they uh he founded only fans he started only fans so okay who's done more damage to society uh Mark Zuckerberg founder of
01:39:50
Brian AtlasFacebook and you know there's Instagram whatever or well he owns Instagram through meta and uh or the creator of only fans the Zuck or of
01:40:02
Giannaguy I'm not sure because I don't know much about Mark Zuckerberg either I don't know much about Facebook Instagram well they bought
01:40:13
Brian AtlasInstagram but okay I guess um okay how about this which one has done more damage to Society Facebook and Instagram
01:40:23
Brian Atlasor only fans only fans okay and not in a bad way just saying wait it made more of an impact me done more harm okay so in a bad way Facebook and Instagram or only
01:40:36
Lexifans [Music] um I don't know pick one I would say only fans maybe okay Facebook okay only
01:40:49
Ankafans I would say Facebook Facebook probably Facebook that en it encompasses Instagram too which one I feel like like
01:41:00
Ankaboth I don't know in different ways okay I'd say Facebook into the mic into the mic into the mic sorry I'd say Facebook and Instagram okay Tiffany probably only fans H Andrew what do you
01:41:15
Andrew Wilsonthink definitely only fans has done more damage H you could say you could have so here's how I would think of it I think that you could make an argument that Facebook has
01:41:28
Andrew Wilsonbeen completely co-opted by the government in order to curtail speech do tracking do Data Mining and all sorts of horrible things but you can also make the argument that a lot of good comes from
01:41:40
Andrew Wilsonit um people can communicate with each other lightning speed especially when it was early on it was kind of a Marketplace for ideas uh only fans doesn't produce anything which is good it basically produces nothing like one
01:41:52
Andrew Wilsonone or 2% of of its content which is not nude related or whatever it is or the small percentage that is not nude nude related it it produces nothing good we have uh two only fans girls here
01:42:04
Alyssaat the table do you guys want to make a counterargument or I'd say yeah so I don't think only fans made like a worst just because
01:42:16
Alyssapeople are going to that to like they have to pay to see anything most of the time like so they're wanting to see that on Facebook it's just open like you can open up your Facebook and see
01:42:28
Andrew Wilsonanything you know that you don't want to see it's well no I mean you can't right like you can't see Nudes on Facebook and they have they have mod well they have moderation policies there right where they remove that stuff don't they yeah
01:42:41
Brian Atlasbut you can still see it Andrew let me uh wasn't there a story in like for the 2020 election that Facebook stifled a pretty big story like right before the
01:42:52
Andrew Wilsonelection yeah they were Zuckerberg admitted to the entire scheme and said that they were co-opted by the federal government and that they weren't going to allow it in this next election cycle and that they didn't want to work with
01:43:04
Andrew Wilsonthe feds anymore in policing speech on the platform but it was too little too late but still while I concede that Zuckerberg has done many many bad things with Facebook and that it's been a data
01:43:15
Andrew Wilsonmining kind of uh plethora and lots of bad has come from it I can still at least point to a lot of good having come from it I can't point to any good having come from only fans no good no good comes from that I think there's good
01:43:27
Cenathat comes from only fans because if you think about it the reason why men or women like are subscribing or purchasing those to those only fan girls are
01:43:38
Cenabecause they're probably afraid to approach real girls in real life and or like maybe you know they're embarrassed
01:43:47
Cenaor something something along the lines of that and them subscribing to them us is basically us helping them prepare for that situation oh yeah well thanks
01:44:00
Andrew Wilsonservice fight the public service you go out here we just you're really you're just trying to help Society the benevolence of your own heart has nothing to do with wanting to fill your pockets with lonely men who uh you then
01:44:11
Andrew Wilsoncreate a parasocial relationship with and have a Chinese dude or uh you know some Foreigner uh to chat with him at 3:00 in the morning while you're soundly sleeping on your behalf in order to
01:44:23
Andrew Wilsoncreate and entail this parasocial relationship you're a saint well in fact I mean when can we canonize you you are fantastic what you I know that you're
01:44:32
Andrew Wilsonjust doing this out of the goodness of your heart what was I thinking thank you yeah you were just trying to help those poor 50-year-old men who were just a little lonely and wanted to jerk off to
01:44:44
Andrew Wilsona young girl you know you're just trying to help them in fact I'd go so far as to say you would definitely do this for No Charge whatsoever because that's how benevolent you are right no no I didn't
01:44:55
Brian Atlasthink so sounds like the benevolence goes out the window the second the money goes out the window all right there you have it we have a chat here from oops Robert Tanner I'm concerned especially with
01:45:08
Brian Atlasrelationship part how this panel views a man so far I have heard about abortions random sex acts or absolutely not good men question for the panel what's your
01:45:17
Brian Atlasideal man also if Andrew had an input would love to hear it to help Bridge a gap on this so we'll ask the question to the panel what's your ideal man I
01:45:28
Brian Atlassuppose um perhaps the question could be uh what does a guy have to bring to the table to
01:45:37
Brian Atlasget you actually one quick Preamble preface question on this one uh if you got 80% of everything that you want in
01:45:48
Brian Atlasyour ideal partner would you be happy with that going around the table start with you God no no okay it would be settling it would be what would it be
01:45:58
Giannasettling I think it should be equal I don't think I'd be happy if it was you know 0 80 I think it should be fair either way wait can you repeat the
01:46:09
Brian Atlasquestion back to me just so I make sure you said if I got 80% of the whole relationship you're saying no you got 80 so like let's say you have 10 things you want in a partner you want a guy who's
01:46:20
Brian Atlasfunny you want a guy who makes this much money you want guy who's uh tall you want a guy who charismatic whatever you have a list of 10 things and you get 80%
01:46:31
Brian Atlasof those things so uh you get eight of the 10 things that you want um this list could be longer it could be shorter in any case you get 80% of everything you
01:46:40
Brian Atlaswant in your ideal partner would you be happy with that I would be satisfied okay what about you yeah yeah what I got to be satisfied okay um I think so I
01:46:54
Pathink that'd be good I would be happy you know there's always room for improvements over time oh then no there is no improvement is it
01:47:04
Brian Atlas80 flat or is it 80 working up you get 80 all the things you want in your perfect partner you get 80% I feel
01:47:14
Brian Atlasperfect partner would grow for me yeah yeah but it's not it's not your perfect partner it's 80% of your perfect partner
01:47:25
Lexiso there's no growth so that's 0% if I want my partner to be able to grow and if he's 80% they grow they only grow 80%
01:47:34
Chloethough okay so it's capped at 80 yeah sure no one's perfect I'll still be happy okay well Chloe what about you I think it would depend if we're assuming there's 10 things it would
01:47:46
Ellendepend what of the 10 things they have checked off cuz some things are more important than others yeah I was going to say too yeah I agree with that like core values have to be there like the eight has to be or
01:47:57
Ellenthe core values have to be within the eight but then the other two like I don't know like someone's height or someone's like yeah I don't know okay uh your answer so it was like the same
01:48:08
Brian Atlasthing that she said okay what about you it has to be 10 it has to be 100% has to be everything okay all right what about you that'd be okay with that 80% Tiffany probably not like 90% you need not oh
01:48:21
Brian Atlas90% okay all right so then going around the table the question was uh what I guess what is what's your ideal man what does a guy need to bring to the table to get you you can talk
01:48:32
Giannalooks you can talk personality whatever go ahead um personality comes first I just need somebody to match my type of Lifestyle pretty much because I travel a
01:48:44
Giannalot so that's one of the main reasons why I don't really go out of my way to find somebody right now is because I would like to give my 100% as I would like to receive 100% so number one would
01:48:56
Brian Atlasbe matching my lifestyle and then secondary would come looks so yeah uh can you be a bit more concrete just like
01:49:05
Giannalist out some things um I would say has to be compatible of course um has to be
01:49:14
Giannahas to have good humor okay fun sure funny yeah um and be able to understand
01:49:21
Giannamy like sarcasm in my um like personality because I'm I have a unique personality and I think some
01:49:31
Giannapeople don't understand it but yeah okay that and um I would say confidence I don't confidence okay
01:49:43
Cenawhat about you um they have to be tall how tall at least above five 10 5'11 and how tall are you
01:49:53
Cena52 okay what else um they have to be understanding they like she said follow your lifestyle but willing to like both