HEATED DEBATE With California Boss Babe Feminists?! Andrew Wilson! Goth Dating?! | Dating Talk #215
Date: 2024-11-25
Duration: 9h 08m
Guests
Brian AtlasIdentified Speakers
SPEAKER_00Brian Atlas(host)
SPEAKER_01TTS Reader(audience)
SPEAKER_02Lexi(guest)
SPEAKER_03Anka(guest)
SPEAKER_04Tiffany(guest)
SPEAKER_05Ellen(guest)
SPEAKER_06Gianna(guest)
SPEAKER_07Brian Atlas(host)
SPEAKER_08Andrew Wilson(guest)
SPEAKER_09Rachel Wilson(guest)
SPEAKER_10Alyssa(guest)
SPEAKER_12Pa(guest)
SPEAKER_13Chloe(guest)
SPEAKER_14Cena(guest)
Key Moments
00:00:14
IntroBrian Atlas opens the show with announcements: BLM (Big Labia Matter) nonprofit, WoW guild on Nightslayer realm, Molten Core raid Dec 12.
“welcome to the whatever dating Talk podcast where we try to make sense of the modern dating hellscape I'm your host Brian Atlas”
00:03:20
IntroGianna introduces herself: 18, LA, model, studying psychology online at City College.
“hi I'm gaana I'm from Los Angeles I'm 18 and I'm a model”
00:03:51
IntroCena introduces herself: 18, Canada (Montreal), does OnlyFans, studying engineering. Brian notes she's a returning guest.
“hi I'm Cena I'm 18 my occupation I do only fan and I'm in school for engineering”
00:09:09
IntroChloe introduces herself: 20, lives in South Korea (only here temporarily), model and dancer, studied psychology in university.
“my name is yoa I'm 20 years old I live down in Korea so I actually I'm only here temporarily”
00:13:13
IntroAndrew Wilson introduces himself as host of The Crucible, political analyst.
“my name is uh Andrew Wilson I'm the host of the Cru Crucible it's a popular entertainment Channel on YouTube I'm political analyst”
00:32:00
RelationshipAlyssa reveals she's never officially been in a relationship, has a graveyard in her phone (changes exes to tombstones). Reveals her 4-year non-relationship was toxic/abusive. He cheated with her best friend while she was pregnant. She put water in his gas tank. Has a 3-year-old son.
“I have like a graveyard in my phone I don't know if anyone's seen that like once you're gone like you get three tombstones”
00:41:00
RelationshipAlyssa reveals she has had 2 abortions, was supposed to get a third but the ex never took her to the appointment (Missouri, abortion was illegal). Son's father told her if something happened to their son (who had a heart murmur) it was 'on my watch.' No child support, no contact.
“I wasn't supposed to I was supposed to get an abortion um oh and it didn't happen so”
00:51:00
Key MomentPa reveals her ankle injury: occurred during an upside-down 69 position (standing 69 → straddle handstand) with her 7-year situationship guy. Tripped over nightstand. Tells her boss a different story (tripped over a curb).
“he was just grabbing me me off from the bed um and because of I guess the like amount of drinks that we've had”
00:54:42
Key MomentChloe reveals she has Ehlers-Danlos syndrome, is blind in her left eye, went to hospital after sex ruptured an ovarian cyst. Graduated high school at 14.
“I'm tiny and um I'm like barely 53 and I have a genetic disorder”
01:09:00
QuoteTiffany on men liking submissive women: 'I don't think they have to but they usually do — men like to provide.' She also argues from 'Why Men Love Bitches' that overly submissive women bore men and men cheat. Andrew disagrees strongly.
“I think men should pay okay um I think I don't think they have to but they usually do”
01:31:20
Key MomentDebate: Zuckerberg (Facebook/Instagram) vs Tim Stokely (OnlyFans) — who caused more harm? Andrew: definitely OnlyFans, produces nothing good, creates parasocial relationships with lonely men. Alyssa and Cena defend OnlyFans. Most guests say Facebook.
“definitely only fans has done more damage”
01:51:40
QuotePa on having a party where she invited all 7 men she'd slept with and made them all wear pink to identify them — without them knowing.
“I only invited seven wait so seven dude was there an orgy afterwards”
02:00:00
ControversyChloe claims she witnessed two friends get shot by police in Jennings, MO at age 13 during Fight Club roughhousing. Andrew challenges the story vigorously, offers $500 for proof, says it would have been national news. Brian says Jennings is rough and takes her word.
“I have seen probably two people with my own eyes but then I have seen in passing as in like heard from everyone”
02:33:20
Key MomentPa's 7-year situationship guy confessed 'I think I'm in love with you' while they were together (he was drunk). She said 'ask me sober' — he hasn't. He then dropped off a book for her the morning of the show.
“he literally just whispered I think I like he said I think I'm in love with you”
03:04:50
Key MomentSelf-ratings round. Guests rate themselves 1-10. Gianna: 9. Cena: 8. Lexi: 7.5. Pa: 6.9-7.2. Chloe: 8. Ellen: 7. Anka: refused. Alyssa: 8.5. Tiffany: 8. Andrew: 10 (non-objective confidence). Discord sends AI-aged forward photos of each guest.
“go ahead I would say a decent 8.7 nine maybe I'll say nine”
03:37:42
Key MomentRachel Wilson (Andrew's wife) joins via Discord. Delivers detailed argument for homeschooling, stay-at-home motherhood, and birth rate concerns. Asks guests if women fighting to work was good; all said yes. Then asks if staying home is a privilege; all said yes. Rachel points out the contradiction. Asks who would choose babies over career if humanity died out otherwise.
“hello ladies hey Brian thanks for having me on”
04:11:10
QuoteAnka's most quotable moment: 'if Humanity ceases to exist but I get what I want, it's a fair trade-off.' (Later partially walked back.)
“so if it was like the man's going to me... I'd rather choose being mauled”
04:31:40
Key MomentBow video segment: Brian plays video of ex-girlfriend bowing and cooking dinner. Goes around table asking who would bow for their man. Only Tiffany semi-concedes. Brian argues bow takes 3 seconds vs man working 5 hours for a $100 date.
“boom huge bow huge bow and then you know she scampers to get the laundry done after”
05:09:00
ControversyAnka says 'if Humanity ceases to exist but I get what I want, that's a fair trade-off' during Rachel's career-vs-babies hypothetical. Chat erupts. Ogle donates saying she's 'disqualified herself from any future partner live on air.' Anka later clarifies she was partly trolling/rage-baiting.
“if it was like oh whatever I do says you know then Humanity's off but like I mean I'm doing what I want to do”
05:17:20
ControversyAnka estimates 50% of men in a forest and 40% of men alone in a room would assault her. Brian challenges the math (66 million American men). Andrew asks if she'd choose assured death over a random man in the forest — she says yes. Extended bear vs man vs velociraptor vs T-rex debate.
“I would say like in the forest if we're talking about just in the forest it's a 50/50”
06:02:21
Key MomentTrans debate: is it straight for a man to date a trans woman? Gianna, Anka say yes (straight regardless of surgery). Andrew and Brian argue two males having sex is homosexual by definition. Chloe nuanced (depends on surgery/genuine attraction). Brian sarcastically asks guests to 'affirm his identity' as being correct.
“so just to be clear uh would you guys agree that uh homosexual means same sex”
08:00:00
ControversyAt end of show, Chloe admits she was partly rage-baiting during the show after realizing it was political/debate-oriented rather than a light dating show. Says roughly half her extreme positions were genuine and half were trolling.
“I made a decision when I was going to come on here that if this is one of those rage bait more so political ones then I was just going to act just as rage baity”
Topics Discussed
00:03:20
Introductions & Relationship Status
Guests introduce themselves (name, age, location, occupation). Round of relationship statuses including Chloe's Korea story, Pa's 7-year situationship, Alyssa's abusive ex and child, Tiffany's long-distance relationship. Also covers Pa's ankle injury (sexual stunt).
00:51:00
Sex-Related Injuries & Health Stories
Pa's ankle fracture from upside-down-69 stunt. Chloe's ovarian cyst from sex (Ehlers-Danlos syndrome). Discussion of EDS symptoms.
00:56:10
Men Losing Weight / Loose Skin
TTS question about a man who lost 360lbs with loose skin — would guests date him? Mixed answers; Chloe says she wouldn't due to fear of them regaining weight.
00:59:55
Chloe's Korea Life & Family Background
Chloe discusses living in South Korea, her unusual family (mom on 5th husband, 23 siblings), why she can't date white men, debate with Andrew about sibship/dating logic.
01:13:20
Feminist Identity & Core Values
Do guests identify as feminist? Andrew's definition (egalitarianism). What are guests' core values? What do they bring to the table? Discussion of ideal man attributes.
01:24:20
OnlyFans vs Facebook — Societal Harm
TTS question: has Mark Zuckerberg or Tim Stokely (OnlyFans founder) done more harm? Andrew argues OnlyFans produces nothing good; Cena defends OnlyFans as helping lonely men.
02:43:00
Democracy vs Abortion & Political Questions
Would you support a bill tying abortion rights to military draft eligibility? Who's pro-life vs pro-choice? Would you choose democracy or abortion rights? Most chose democracy. Chloe says she doesn't like the US democracy.
03:04:50
Self-Ratings & Aging Attractiveness
Guests rate their own looks 1-10. Discussion of whether they'll be more attractive in 10/20/30 years. AI aging forward images shown. Self-ratings: Gianna 9, Cena 8, Lexi 7.5, Alyssa 8.5, Tiffany 8, Pa 6.9-7.2, Chloe 8, Andrew 10 (joke), Ellen 7.
03:37:42
Rachel Wilson on Homeschooling & Feminism
Andrew's wife Rachel Wilson calls in. Advocates homeschooling as superior (Tucker Carlson appearance). Argues feminism has led to birth rate collapse. Asks guests if women fighting to work was good, and if staying home is privilege. Heated exchange with Anka about career vs motherhood duty. Rachel argues society is unsustainable if women don't have children.
04:22:00
Who Should Pay on the First Date / Bow Video
Brian plays bow video of ex-girlfriend. Would guests bow for their man? None (except Tiffany conditionally). Debate about first-date paying norms — most expect men to pay. Brian's argument: bowing takes 3 seconds vs man working 5 hours for a $100 date.
05:09:00
Abortion, Women's Rights, Child Support
Do women have equal rights to men? Anka argues abortion is the one area of inequity. Brian points out men have zero reproductive rights. Debate: can a man legally avoid child support? Should taxpayers pay? Andrew's body-our-choice vs responsibility argument. Extended back-and-forth.
05:17:20
Man vs Bear Question
Would you rather encounter a random man or random bear alone in a forest? Chloe, Ellen, Alyssa, Anka chose bear. Gianna, Cena, Lexi, Pa, Tiffany chose man. Anka estimates 40% of men would assault her. Extended Velociraptor/T-Rex variants. Debate about whether bear-preference is sexist.
06:02:21
Trans Identity Debate
Is it straight for a man to date a trans woman? Most guests say yes (pre-op too). Brian and Andrew argue biologically two males having sex is homosexual. Chloe most nuanced; says depends on surgery and genuine attraction. Guests define "what is a woman." Extended philosophical debate with Andrew about self-ID logic.
07:59:00
Body Count Discussion
Is it hypocritical for a high-body-count man to require a low-body-count woman? Chloe says yes. Brian disagrees — asymmetrical attraction is not hypocrisy. Body count round: Gianna 0-5, Cena 3, Lexi 2, Pa 50-60, Chloe under 5, Ellen very low (0-3), Alyssa 100+ (stopped counting), Tiffany 0 (virgin), Anka declined.
08:00:00
Roast Session & Wrap-Up
TTS roast session at $20 threshold. Roasts directed at each chair. Chloe admits she was rage-baiting some answers when she realized the show was political. Final body count round. Brian thanks panelists. Wrap-up and raid.
Transcript
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Brian Atlassaid and without further Ado we're going to have the guests introduced themselves so please tell us your name age location and occupation go ahead hi I'm gaana I'm
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Giannafrom Los Angeles I'm 18 and I'm a model all right uh any school you go to school at all or I study psychology at uh a
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Brian AtlasUniversity City College online right now okay all right what about you hang model um I do
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Cenarunway yes hi I'm Cena I'm 18 my occupation I do only fan and I'm in school for
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Brian Atlasengineering all right welcome back and you're from where again Canada Canada what province or whatever Montreal or
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LexiOntario do they speak speak French there or you're Tau French yeah okay got it what about you um my name is Lexi I'm from California and I'm a student at
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Brian AtlasUCSB and I'm 18 all right what are you studying at UCSB bio bio you want to be a doctor
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PaPA physician assistant okay got it what about you hi um I am P I am 21 I currently work at a dental office not
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Pataking courses in school at the moment but I will be back next semester what were you studying um I was studying math and architectural
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Brian Atlasengineering very different we're getting audio issues I don't hear anything sorry guys oh how long has the audio issues been bad
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Brian Atlasman you gotta I just saw this you gotta be keeping an eye on that you would have guys has it been bad since the uh has the audio been bad since the
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Brian Atlasbeginning right side oh I know what's going on okay hold on guys give me just a sec uh Tiffany why don't you like uh do a dance or some [ __ ] is it
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Brian Atlasonly it's only that one camera I'll get it fixed Tiffany do like a a dance or like a a Irish jig or something while
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Andrew WilsonI'm do you like disco I know do the moar writing on right now Tiffany counting on you keep the show
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Pagoing Brian fixes his problem we can start a worm that might be mine sorry
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Andrew Wilsonguys somebody forgot to silence their phone too good job okay wait
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Brian Atlaswait we're not doing the dance ask thisle what angle ask the audience if
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Tiffanyit's this angle is this is this the angle I I don't see the chat so
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Unknownwait that's considered right side this is left I think so I don't know I still have to do like the whole left view
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Andrew Wilsonperspective you're on the right and table be the left side it's this that should be fixed all
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Brian Atlasright uh okay doing a quick test was it on this angle here so chat was this the uh was this the issue and and is apparently Andrew still echoing
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Brian Atlasuh testing there's an echo is there an echo for Andrew I'm trying to think what that could be H I think I know what it is I will be
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Paright back okay keep dancing or whatever the [ __ ] I'm not going to dance you're terrible s do you want to sing instead does anyone else want to
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Padance I me can we get some music I think obby's a pretty good dancer
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Andrew Wilsonactually no uh I I I think there's no dancing happening here he left it to you guys to carry the
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Andrew Wilsonshow Andrew how about you dance yeah fail I don't know how to dance well you can start by learning everyone starts somewhere yeah
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Andrew Wilsonbut shouldn't I learn how to do it before I try to do it no not necessarily Jump Right In yeah oh well I mean I'll tell you what that sounds like a good idea how about you go ahead and show me and then I'll
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Brian Atlasknow okay all right guys is it better is it better one in the one in the chat if
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Brian Atlasit's better it should be um do we need to redo the uh entire introduction or like were you chat were you guys able
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Brian Atlasto hear the intros yes if you were able to hear the intros or two one in the chat uh that's not going to make any sense uh
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Brian Atlasno redo redo intros do we have to redo the intro
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Chloedon't redo okay uh okay what about you uh my name my name is yoa I'm 20 years old I live down in Korea so I actually I'm
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Chloeonly here temporarily um and then I'm a model and dancer but I studied psychology when I was in university you studied dancing you said
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ChloeI studied psychology in uni okay and you're you like grew up in Korea uh no I kind of moved like every couple years
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Andrew Wilsonlike South Korea yeah yeah yeah no way what other Korea would she have I she Korea you're one of your parents a soldier or missionaries um no for to put
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Chloeit politely my mom had lovers so we moved a lot wait your mom had what many lovers many many uh
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Chloeokay like what about Vietnam or like Cambodia Al any other like Asian countries or um uh not not Asia no I
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Chloechose to move to Korea of my own accord um said you're from Korea right no I live down in Korea it's my home now you live there currently yes when didd you
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Brian Atlasmove there um the second time around about four months ago okay but like where did uh I guess when
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Chloeyou grew up were was it like California or um no um I grew up partially between Missouri and then um the Czech Republic
00:10:42
Brian Atlasokay and you said your mom uh dated a lot or can you clarify what you mean by that um she is 42 and is on her fifth husband and that is basically what that
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Brian Atlasare they all Korean um no they're all white oh so she meets white guys in Korea she lives in Florida oh you're really stuck on this Korean thing yeah
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ChloeCU I'm I'm Korean oh okay Florida then if she's in Florida how'd you end up in Korea though um I moved out of my family's home when I was
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Chloeabout 14 cuz I graduated high school at the age of 14 and went to University yeah but how did you end up in Korea though I wanted to move there so I got up and I moved there what made
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Chloeyou want to move there um I've always been fascinated with the culture um my grandpa was stationed there for a while when he was in the military and he always told me stories
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Brian Atlasso I really liked it and uh you said she had five husbands I think she's on her fifth husband now on the fifth husband yeah and then in
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Ellenbetween the husbands she was like dating a lot I guess so okay all right what about you my name is is Ellen I'm
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Brian Atlas18 years old and I'm a student at UCSB all right where you from I'm from La La and uh what are you studying at UC psych and brain psych and brain all right what
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Ankaabout you my name is aanka I'm 23 I live in LA and I'm a nursing student all right did you do uh undergrad somewhere
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Ankaor mhm what did you study um I just did PRX for nursing I guess nursing is my
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Brian Atlasmain degree yeah so you got a Bachelor's in um Healthcare Healthcare okay and uh okay and you're from LA 23 all right
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Alyssawhat about you um my name's Alissa I live in San Diego I model um do only fans and Playboy so all right age I am 26 all right
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Brian Atlaswelcome what kind of uh stuff do you do on o is it BG content solo content both both okay have you done any work in the traditional adult entertainment industry um I have a
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Brian AtlasPornHub account but I don't upload anything on it so okay but have you shot for any of like I guess any of the big production companies or anything like that no I haven't okay all right Tiffany
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Tiffanywhat about you hi I'm Tiffany I'm 19 I go to UCSB and I'm double majoring in poai and econ all right welcome everybody uh Andrew with about
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Andrew Wilsonyou yeah my name is uh Andrew Wilson I'm the host of the Cru Crucible it's a popular entertainment Channel on YouTube I'm political analyst political sist and I enjoy doing conversations and uh debates of all types across the internet and uh welcome all of you to the
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Brian Atlaswhatever Studio looking forward to the conversation yeah welcome everybody going around the table once more what is everybody's current relationship status if you're single how long have you been single and what's the longest
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Giannarelationship you've ever been in go ahead currently single um I've been single for few years I would say um um
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Brian Atlasand longest relationship was four years longest relationship four years you've been single for uh how old were you when I mean so you were like 14 when
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Brian Atlasyou guys broke up yeah so you've been single since no no no like 14 till like 18 you just said you've been single for
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Giannaa few years yeah you're 18 yeah I mean like it was my longest but I've been single for that long you get what I'm saying like when when did the
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Brian Atlasrelationship ship ends when I was 18 but you're 18 currently yes and you said you've been single for a few years make make it make sense for me
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Giannaokay um I guess I'm more so saying that I was single and then that but that was my relationship prior I guess I'm trying to explain more so how
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Brian Atlaslong have you been single for then I guess we could say a few months then I feel oh okay for you been so the relationship that ended
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Brian Atlasa few months ago then that was your four-year relationship yes hello can we I'm just curious who can somebody just say whose phone was that I think it
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Brian Atlasmight be mine um okay so you've been single for a few months the four-year relationship ended a few months ago yes
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Brian Atlaswho broke up with who it was Mutual it was Mutual okay uh so you guys met at like 14 then yeah and then like baby was it was it on
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Brian Atlasagain off again no okay so it was consistent for the four-year period it ended a few months ago so three months what is a few months mean three months
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Giannaago yeah I would say few five maybe okay all right and it was a mutual breakup yes for what reasons was it uh did the
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Brian Atlasbreakup occur um he moved away so long distance okay all right have you been dating at all
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Brian Atlassince uh the end of the relationship no I like single I prefer it okay um so there's been no guys there hasn't been a rebound there's nothing you
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Cenahaven't even hung out with somebody at all no nothing okay no all right what about you um my longest was a
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Brian Atlasyear and a half I've been single since high
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Brian Atlasschool so a year okay all right what about you um I've been single for about
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Lexia month or two now and my longest relationship was 2 years was that the one that ended two months ago no that relationship was almost a year okay uh
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Brian Atlasso the one that uh most recently ended who broke up with who um I kind of more so broke up with him okay and then the two-year relationship
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Lexiwho broke up with who I also broke up with him why uh bad calms for both of them I'd
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Lexisay bad calms bad communication okay uh in what way were you a bad Communicator I don't know just things weren't my 2-year relationship was a while ago but
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Lexithe more recent one it was um he is still in high school and we just got into long distance and so yeah it just made things
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Brian Atlashard he's he's still in high school yeah and you're in college currently yes okay all right and I'm trying to think here uh you've been single for two months any
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Lexiother prospects in the picture I mean I've made friends what does that mean like I've made friends and I hang out with people but nothing super serious
00:18:01
Lexilike sneaky link uh I wouldn't say that just like oh do you want to go here and like like going to parties and stuff and just hanging out
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Lexiokay but is there uh a romantic interest an underlying romantic interest in any of these people you just hang out with or I'd say there could be but I'm still
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Brian Atlaspretty fresh off a breakup so not okay right now all right okay P what about you what's the update I was going to say that's so sweet because you meant like genuine friends I was like
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Pafriends are you do mean like Friends with Benefits yeah what do you mean yeah like Friends with Benefits it's okay you know no you've not hooked up with any of them no
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Paokay um I mean I've been dating my longest relationship was 2 years um I've never been broken up with that ended because we got to the point where he
00:18:57
Brian Atlaswanted an open relationship but it was just like one-sided mhm so I don't know no go for me it's 50/50 if we're doing that yeah and so you were kind of uh
00:19:09
Brian Atlaslast time you were on the show you were talking about how you were uh like in this sort of long-term complicated situationship with a [ __ ] boy seven-year
00:19:22
Brian Atlasit's a seven-year situationship uh and he recently post show asked you to be his girlfriend friend yeah was it cuz you watched the show that's what I'm thinking I'm kind
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Paof like suspicious about that I've had a lot of people that I know watched my last one um including my dad so if you're seeing this hi Dad shout out
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PaDad yeah W dad M was really close with him but um yeah no um I hung out with him a little bit ago and um I was just
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Palike on on top of him and he just was staring at me and I was like what yeah wait oh okay not even like in a sexual way but I was just like on top of him and um he was just like staring at me I
00:20:06
Paasked him like what's up and he literally just whispered I think I like he said I think I'm in love with you and
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Pathen went on and on about how he was thinking about um like wanting to you know be my boyfriend and stuff asked me out and all of this J I froze I didn't
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Pasay anything for maybe five minutes what all of this J I don't know wait all of this what is that just like like I just meant like um all of whatever he was
00:20:39
Brian Atlassaying all of no but what was like the conversation yeah what was the word jiz is that like a new term are people saying that it's a saying new
00:20:49
Brian Atlasjizz bro that's [ __ ] up okay all right um the [ __ ] uh okay so um
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Brian Atlasno I said no um even though I've wanted it for so long wait if I recall weren't you guys like done done like done last time you were on the show uh probably but you know we come back oh you said it
00:21:13
Brian Atlaswas like over phito and you were on top of him yeah and there was
00:21:22
Ellenjizz not literal figurative literal figurative jizz maybe later but wait is this a word is she just is she pulling my it's my first time ever hearing it this is like Z ter like I
00:21:35
Ellenfeel like it's like my first time hearing it but it makes so much sense yeah I say it all the time I don't know what you're talking I think it's like kind of like old school kind of like no I think it is it means oh
00:21:47
Andrew Wilsonmy like the ne what's the next term going to be like all that queef like man all that queef just being yeah the the old term is all that jazz
00:21:57
Andrew Wilsonnot all that J youan Jazz I think she meant jazz the old term the old term is all that jazz definitely definitely not all that jizz there are very different meanings
00:22:09
Brian Atlasthere similar no not similar okay that's crazy um all right well okay so um all right you guys got back together or whatever
00:22:20
Brian Atlasfor the 50th time um yeah probably the most committ and all that you know Brian and all that jizz and all that jizz yeah and all that you said in your notes here
00:22:29
Brian Atlasyou said you said no to him yeah ask me again When You're Sober has not happened
00:22:37
Paso he was drunk or on drugs yeah or both yeah um no he didn't like what was he on
00:22:47
Pajust alcohol we had like two bottles of wine just a casual two bottles of how much does he weigh I don't know he's
00:22:56
Brian Atlaslike pretty beefy though like two bottles like what you like you're less than 100 lb right yeah yeah you're okay yeah okay anyway um
00:23:10
Brian Atlasso he was drunk he was like I think I love you mhm but then you're like no you're drunk Ask Me When You're Sober and he hasn't asked you since is that the last time
00:23:20
Payou saw him no I actually he dropped off a book this morning for me so I saw him earlier today just a book just literally just a book yeah before he went to work
00:23:31
Brian Atlasokay and um you were recently actually we'll come back to your ankle your sexual ankle injury we'll come back to that um was it
00:23:43
Pawith him or different different guy um no I was definitely with him I feel like he's watching this I haven't told him I gave him like a whole different story because I didn't want to embarrass him
00:23:54
Chloeoh okay well we'll get into that in a bit but um relationship status um I am taken I'm in a relationship um but my longest relationship was about 3 years
00:24:04
Brian Atlasgive or take maybe 2 and a half how long is your current um it's about a month now and is he in Korea or yes okay is he
00:24:14
ChloeKorean yes okay uh and your three-year relationship who broke up with who um we kind of just stopped seeing each other I don't think anyone said like I'm
00:24:25
Ellenbreaking up or I'm breaking up we just kind of went no contact so all right what about you um I'm currently single but wait this is like
00:24:35
Ellenlowkey embarrassing I my longest relationship was only for 3 months 3 months okay yeah and you've been single for how long for probably a couple years then yeah so that was like maybe you
00:24:48
Brian Atlaswere 15 or 16 3-month one so you've been single for three years you said or I just had a couple years maybe several years at that
00:24:57
Brian Atlaspoint so you've been single for a couple years yeah okay uh longest any anything was 3 months is that correct or have you had like
00:25:06
Brian Atlassituationships complicated for longer I had like a situationship for how long um since like
00:25:16
EllenDecember 2023 yeah is that ongoing sort of okay that's in La yeah we just go to different schools
00:25:25
Ellenso we were like M we weren't quite sure okay so when's the last time you saw him um I saw him right before I came here to school so
00:25:37
Brian AtlasSeptember okay and are you guys I mean holidays are coming up maybe you're going back to LA you guys going to link up or yeah I think we're going to meet sometime this week okay and are you
00:25:49
Ellenwanting more from this does he want more what's the status I just feel like we need to like see where we are because you know college is like a big adjustment so MH I don't want to get
00:26:01
Brian Atlasinto something if I'm not fully ready and I think likewise for him okay while you've been here since you've been here since September maybe you've been here for about two months now uh have you been seeing anybody here no I haven't no
00:26:14
Ellenfirst date um I went on one date I don't know if it was actually a date but it was like okay we just went to like we just
00:26:25
Brian Atlaswent to grab food so okay maybe you hung out with him subsequently or was it just that one time no it's just that one time has he been wanting to hang out with you
00:26:34
Brian Atlasagain I I think I like cut it off after the first time yeah all right and um are you an sority or anything like that no I'm not anybody here in any Greek life
00:26:45
Brian Atlasor anything like that sority okay and what about any like casual things any sneaky links not nothing nothing right now you
00:26:57
Brian Atlasyou only got eyes for the guy in La I guess um okay and you said that's been going on for a year yeah but so you
00:27:08
Brian Atlaswere in the same city for a period of 8 months 10 month 10 months yeah how often would you guys hang out like every day every day like nearly well we lived really close together did you guys go
00:27:21
Brian Atlasdown like high school together or yeah we went to high school together okay and you guys would hang out every single day pretty much or like we'd hang out yeah like pretty much and even during the summertime yeah I think it was just like
00:27:33
Brian Atlasproximity like he just lived really close leading up to you coming to school here back in September like for the month before you coming here were you hanging out with him every single day
00:27:44
Brian Atlaslike nearly nearly almost every single day okay um I mean so you guys hung out almost every single day for like 10-month period uh you but you said your
00:27:55
Brian Atlaslongest boyfriend girlfriend you were boyfriend girlfriend for 3 months is that correct but this was in like high school early like high school yeah okay but the situationship you did not
00:28:05
Brian Atlasconsider him boyfriend yeah I don't think he's like my boyfriend because we you guys out every single day for but we didn't like make it official uh did you want it to be
00:28:15
Ellenofficial and he turned you down or was it Mutual um I think it was just like I needed time and I think he gave me that time to kind of think about it wait so
00:28:27
Ellenhe was pushing for a relationship and you turned him down um it wasn't like like that I just feel like we had this understanding that I
00:28:40
Brian Atlasneeded more time how much time well I want to get into college first and adjust and then think about it so you wanted to leave your options open while
00:28:52
Brian Atlasyou went out to you know number one party school UCSB I get it I feel like that's what you would initially think but I just wanted to I think I wanted to
00:29:02
Ellenjust like adjust and like make friends first and then get my grades in check and then think about other things when you say friends do you mean Friends of
00:29:11
Brian Atlasthe opposite sex no just like like girlfriend well why I mean why would why would being involved with him preclude
00:29:18
Ellenyou from making friends um I don't think it necessarily would it's just like I feel like I was kind of like stretch thin and I didn't want to put him on
00:29:31
Ellenlike the back burner and then just like ruin a relationship I just want to come back to it when like I've like adjusted um to school essentially M and then while you've been here would are you
00:29:45
Ellenguys communicating do you guys speak on the phone text yeah we text and like talk how often do you guys speak on the phone um well okay so like in September
00:29:55
EllenI kind of just told him like let's take a little bit of a a break and then just go no contact for a while and then we'll you know we'll see each other in person
00:30:06
Brian Atlasand then we'll kind of pick it up from there you said that yeah and what was his response to that he was okay with that he was like yeah okay yeah there
00:30:15
Brian Atlaswas no push back yeah I think like I don't know I just I just needed a little bit of time were there yeah were there any terms to the break like overt
00:30:26
Ellenconversations like we're going to take a break but we're not going to see other people like were there any terms I think he said that he's not really going to see other people and I
00:30:37
Brian Atlastold him likewise like I wasn't really looking for a relationship when you came here when I came here like you when you say you weren't looking for a relationship you mean with him or like when you came here you weren't going to really be trying to date yeah I wasn't
00:30:50
Brian Atlasthe guys here I wasn't really trying to date the guys here okay but like huh yeah but you want you initiated the break conversation yeah I initiate the break conversation would it upset you I
00:31:02
Brian Atlasmean he he told you he wasn't going to see other girls uh you go to see him in a couple days now I guess for Thanksgiving around that time he tells
00:31:10
Brian Atlasyou I have had sex with half of uh the sgv do you feel upset about this um well that's his choice so San Gabriel Valley
00:31:21
Ellenfor the non Los Angeles people um I think Riverside too half of Riverside also is that sgv that's not sgv but it's in La isn't Riverside like
00:31:32
Ellenso much further away he gets around he has a car right yeah I guess yeah he drives there for UCR girls I mean he's an adult that's his choice that means it
00:31:44
Ellenwouldn't bother you well that just means that we won't I won't like think about like officially starting a relationship then but you guys are on a break yeah but like like have you seen friends
00:31:56
Ellenanybody here seen friends we on the break okay all right Boomer show no I I know the show I just okay I don't I haven't watched it yet okay um um but so
00:32:09
Brian Atlaslike you guys were seeing each other almost every single day for a period of 10 months um it it sounds to me and I maybe the other girls on the panel can weigh in here maybe I've read this wrong
00:32:20
Brian Atlasit seems to me like maybe he was a bit more into her than she was into him is that fair or thoughts seems that way that's a long I
00:32:32
Tiffanydon't know because men are very territorial if they want the girl he's going to make the move and ask you to be his girlfriend no but also could be like he didn't want to push her into a corner
00:32:44
Ellenright he didn't want to force you to say yes right for 10 months though but I feel like he's like very mature in that sense and like he knew that I wanted time and that like I was going to
00:32:56
Brian Atlascollege and we were going different colleges so you know him being respectful of my time and like my decisions I think that was very mature of him did he ask you uh at any point in
00:33:08
Brian Atlasthat 10-month period or whatever or the year or whatever you guys were together um like hey I want things to be more serious and you turned them down
00:33:17
Ellenor we title we kind of discussed it at some point um but it was just like who brought it up um
00:33:29
EllenI honestly don't remember I'm so sorry I'm like on low sleep so um I we talked about at some point yeah that's okay all right that's
00:33:40
Ankamy only input sure uh okay what about you I'm single I think my last relationship was like out of high school it was like maybe six months and then
00:33:51
Brian Atlassince then I've been single I mean so like you're 23 so you've been single for 5 years and then you're longest relationship 6 months and that's the one that ended 5 years ago yeah who broke up
00:34:03
Brian Atlaswith who I did it was just for school I was getting for school okay uh so during this entire time you've been single for and you're you live in LA right mhm and
00:34:14
Brian Atlasyou've been living in La the past 5 years uh yeah with my parents and my sister okay uh what's what's the longest period of time you've seen any guy regardless of the maybe it was
00:34:26
Brian Atlascomplicated situ relationship casual Friends with Benefits what's the longest period of time you've seen somebody in that 5year period it was the same six months it was that samey different guy oh same guy okay that's the longest
00:34:37
Brian Atlasthat's the longest okay um besides him any three months a three- Monon thing in there mm no fortnite two
00:34:46
Ankaweeks no nothing no I don't 30 72 hours I don't do situationships are casual it's either all or nothing so so you've been celibate for 5
00:34:56
Ankayears no well hold on pump the brakes okay uh but I thought hold on I thought you don't too casual I mean like I don't like I guess casual but I don't like go like oh like oh no I don't know it's
00:35:08
Brian Atlaslike a month or two I don't like drag it along so you just have sex once and then ghost them I I mean isn't that casual I I mean
00:35:18
Brian AtlasI guess damn ruthless she's ruthless these guys are dying to put a ring on it she's like get the [ __ ] out of here so okay you you have sex once and then
00:35:28
Ankayou're like be gone I've I've had my my fill right that's what happens I just I feel like I'm someone who just gets like the ick really easily after the sex you
00:35:38
Ankahave the sex then you get the ick yeah I don't know is it because of the sex you get the ick I just I don't know I can't see them in the same light after the sex
00:35:48
Brian Atlasyeah wait you so you see them in a good light and then you have the sex and then you get the ick is that fair I'm it's not not I mean it's not like that I
00:35:59
Ankaguess it's just I don't know are they bad in bed kind of they're bad I just don't see the point of like stringing along further at all stringing them
00:36:09
Ankaalong yeah cuz I mean also like I'm I don't want to do like a relationship cuz I was in school and I I don't know it's just kind of like a onetime thing so
00:36:19
Brian Atlasokay don't want relationship don't want semi casual but you want super casual basically like essentially like you'll hook up once and then that's cut
00:36:30
Ankaoff basically basically is it because it's cuz you get the ick I I don't know sometimes I just feel like I guess since that one relation like I don't know I I'm just like a
00:36:41
Ankanaturally really anxious person you're naturally anxious yeah and okay I don't like kind of I don't know I don't want to like I just kind of want to prioritize myself and I don't want to I just don't want to be in a relationship
00:36:53
Brian Atlasand sure that's yeah that's been pretty much it yo thank you for the gifted 20 um okay you don't want a relationship what if you just had like a every
00:37:03
Brian Atlasfortnite just you had a casual sexual encounter with the same per is that doable for you or no every two weeks I mean I just like I
00:37:15
Ankadon't I haven't like slept with so many people it's like literally so I don't know wait you sorry repeat you haven't I said I haven't like had like so many to like base like the casual thing out of
00:37:27
Brian Atlasokay okay it's just like once in like a blue moon once in a blue moon and then that's it you're in you said you uh R in
00:37:36
Brian Atlasuh nursing school nursing school are you in RN yet or soon to be like five months in five months um and of the kind of casual encounters you have had any
00:37:47
Brian Atlassurgeons any surgeons in there or do you stick with the the Physicians no or are you you kind of Slum it with the PA is no
00:37:58
Brian Atlasoffense no offense The Physician assistance you know like you can't quite get the doctors and like the surgeons are like Out Of Reach so you're just
00:38:08
Ankalike you're just going for the the Pas no offense I don't really date in the medical field just okay you date farmers are you on Farmers Only I think
00:38:20
Ankayou told us that before the show didn't she got she said far she dates I don't know she uses Farmers Only people my like Mutual circles like the gym or something the gym okay all right wait
00:38:33
Ellensorry could I ask a question by en chant it's back to the PA thing why do you why do you bring them down so much why did I bring down the Physicians because if you think about it a PA has like a work life balance that's like incredible but like
00:38:46
Brian Atlasis that what you want to be a p no I don't want to be did I strike a no it's not even person what do you want to do again I want to um get a doctor in Clinical Psychology in Clinical Psychology yeah
00:38:58
Brian Atlasuh I don't have anything against physicians assistant I'm just uh kind of like a call back they just make money right then surgeons well yeah I
00:39:07
Brian Atlasmean uh even doctors make less money than surgeons but um no I don't I don't have any beef with PA is just a call back humor to PA over there future pa um
00:39:19
Alyssaall right what about you I have thank you Robert Tanner I just completely like my bad I've never been in a relationship I don't claim
00:39:30
Brian Atlasanybody so you've never been in a relationship no you've never uh called somebody boyfriend girlfriend or boyfriend okay I have but in my world I
00:39:41
Brian Atlasno they're gone like they're G wait wait wait what so in your world
00:39:49
Alyssayou Cena yeah go ahead go ahead so I just once we're over or like you're out of my life you no longer really
00:40:00
Alyssaexist so the relationship and all the memories are kind of like gone like gone vanish period erased them yeah um erased yeah never gone wait how old are you
00:40:12
Brian Atlasagain I'm 26 what's the longest period of time you've not had a boyfriend or wait hold on that doesn't make sense my 26 years life yeah but you say like you say you
00:40:25
Alyssakind of like tune them out like like you want to pretend that they didn't exist right oh they don't exist yeah I have like a graveyard in my phone I don't know if anyone's seen that like once you're gone like you get three tomon
00:40:38
Alyssalike you get what three tombstones three tombstones yeah that's what I Chang your name into and you're gone like you do that too no oh okay you're just
00:40:45
Brian Atlasacknowledging okay uh so if we were to like look into your brain what would be the longest not that you're going to
00:40:55
Brian Atlasadmit it you know you what the longest period of time you were involved with a tombstone person or whatever uh four years oh four years okay all right worst
00:41:07
Brian Atlasfour years of my life which is why they don't exist no more all right and when did that end 2022 so you've been single for two years then yep unless there's been
00:41:20
Andrew Wilsonother non-existent but existent relationships um yeah have there been additional tombstones on your phone since no there
00:41:31
Brian Atlashas not okay single for two years who broke up with who in the fouryear non-existent Quasi sort of relationship um it was kind of just I guess Mutual
00:41:43
Alyssalike you said it was a horrible Rel it was horrible yeah it it was was it toxic it was very toxic was it abusive yes it was how did you abuse him tell us no I wasn't the abuser tell us the abuse that
00:41:56
Alyssayou inct wish was would have not had a for so long you slash his tires be honest oh actually I did put water in his tank um that's bad well he was at my best friend's house
00:42:07
Alyssawhile I was pregnant with our son and they were sleeping together so I put water in his tank I took some milk wait you how many kids do you have just one yes okay with him yeah and he was
00:42:18
Brian Atlas[ __ ] another lady friend my best friend your best friend while you were pre how far long were you how far long um
00:42:27
Andrew Wilsonwhich which time cuz it was multiple times so oh when you were you by by chance um were you in the adult film
00:42:37
Alyssaindustry at the time no I was not so you weren't doing any off you weren't doing anything wait no I worked as a debt collector actually at home
00:42:48
Brian Atlasokay oh wait so okay you were you've been you've been pregnant how many times once I have one I wasant wait did I miss you wait you said didn't you say multiple
00:43:00
Brian Atlastimes no he slept with my best friend multiple times Oh I thought you were pregnant mult I asked how far how far oh you've what I've had abortions but
00:43:09
Brian Atlasplural yeah how many two two yeah and uh abortion check any anybody I mean I feel I'm the oldest one here I like anybody else had
00:43:23
Brian Atlasaoran nope anybody PA I just have an i does that count like a ways no like you
00:43:31
Brian Atlashad the procedure though anybody Ellen no no abortions nope Tiffany no okay Tiffany if you say so I I would never
00:43:41
Brian Atlasget an abortion all right um so uh but so okay uh when he cheated on you how far along were you with your current kid it was probably the entire
00:43:52
Tiffanyrelationship so but when did you catch him were you like 6 months pregnant four four months pregnant all right what made you want to keep the kid versus your two other abortions I wasn't
00:44:06
Alyssasupposed to I was supposed to get an abortion um oh and it didn't happen so but my son is my life like I love him to death and if I didn't have him then I
00:44:16
Alyssaprobably wouldn't be here so he saved me for sure everything happen for me but you were going to kill him well it was before he was here um but yes essentially yeah I was going to
00:44:30
Alyssaget an abortion and it didn't happen what made you change your mind I didn't um well I guess later on I was supposed to go and get it and just he never took me and he never like did
00:44:43
Alyssaanything that he was supposed to do for me to get the abortion I lived in Missouri at the time um so abortion is legal I mean illegal there um so yeah I wasn't able to um so he while he did
00:44:55
Andrew Wilsonsome bad things he did save a man's life yeah I did I saved his son's life no no no he sa he saved he saved his son's life right uh no I did how how did you do it you were going to you were going
00:45:07
Andrew Wilsonto kill his son right and then he he didn't take you to do it no it's not he didn't take me to do it he is just his alarm didn't go off and this is why he
00:45:16
Alyssais appointment in the um yeah this is why he's in the graveyard okay wait oh you're so he's in the graveyard and he no longer exists so I don't even know what you guys are talking about I
00:45:27
Brian Atlasthought you killed him I should have the boyfriend he's he is alive though unfortunately yeah damn okay um does he pay you child
00:45:38
Brian Atlassupport no he doesn't do anything have you filed for child support no how old is your kid he's three he'll be four all right uh and so is he in
00:45:49
AlyssaMissouri and you're now in LA or is that I have no idea where that man is I don't I don't know huh no communication um my son actually had a heart mmur and
00:46:00
Alyssatold him about it and he told me that he didn't care basically if if something happened to him it was on my watch um and so all communication was cut off so
00:46:08
Brian Atlasno I don't know damn yeah that's [ __ ] up okay uh so Tiffany why don't you tell us about uh your I'm steamy relationship and dating
00:46:21
Tiffanylife I'm taken I've been in a relationship for a year that's my longest one it's my first one all right rock and roll and it's long distance correct yeah he lives in Antarctica or
00:46:32
Brian Atlassorry Alaska or something or no um Louisiana Louis Louisiana all right okay that's everybody's relationship status rock and roll
00:46:44
Brian Atlasum uh I'm trying to think what else we had here one sec guys let me see if there's any messages we have no I think we're one sec guys where is
00:46:55
Brian Atlasit are we all good yeah we're all good oh Robert did this come through Robert I don't know if it did my apologies Robert Tanner thank you for the you've gifted this twice now thank you for the 40 gifted memberships really appreciate it
00:47:07
Brian Atlasthank you so much man and then we do have Dena here coming in Dena thank you for encouraging open dialogue and encouraging thinking Dena thank you very much for the uh message much appreciated
00:47:21
Brian Atlasall right that's everybody's relationship status p going back to you tell us you can you show us the ankle can you like put it up on the chair show us the [ __ ] up Ankle I mean you can't
00:47:32
Brian Atlasreally see it it's in the boot we need a boot check I'm sorry this is a fit uh boot damn son wow and you that happened um you can
00:47:44
Brian Atlasgo ahead and scoot back in uh that was with the seven-year situationship dude yeah what um what happened um well
00:47:55
Pahe was just grabbing me me off from the bed um and because of I guess the like amount of drinks that we've had there's like a nightstand like drinks drinks
00:48:08
Payeah ah okay there's like a nightstand like right next to um his bed that we kind of just like tripped over yeah and I guess like when I landed
00:48:20
Paback down I kind of just like I fell but then I um kind of did some like weird like kick back to the floor and my right side is like more dominant so I landed
00:48:30
Brian Atlaswith my left I don't know if that makes sense but but cuz in your notes you said you depending on who as asks you tell a different story so is this the true
00:48:41
Pastory yeah I'm not going to tell my boss that I got an injury from having sex with someone yeah what do you what do you tell him just like oh that I just like tripped over a curb tripped over a
00:48:52
Pacurb okay uh but you said there was a stunt you had were trying to do a stunt yeah no I was just like um in like an upside down like
00:49:02
Pastraddle hold on upside what is upside down straddle like he's picking me up I'm like upside down
00:49:12
Paso this is him you're here yeah like I'm like hugging him but I'm like upside down does that make sense I want to try
00:49:21
Brian Atlasthat like that s sounds fun I've it is fun you have a strong partner so he's standing upright like this yeah
00:49:32
Brian Atlasand so you guys are engaging in oral culation I'm assuming because right so
00:49:42
Panormally it like starts kind of like imagine like a standing up like 69 but then is that it is that what you guys were doing pretty much how does it
00:49:52
Pabecome a straddle how's it become a straddle because um I I have like later like when I come back down like my legs
00:50:00
Palike grab onto his body does that make sense huh you pretty much like doing a handstand like when I come back down a
00:50:11
Brian Atlashandstand and where you to describe it so you guys were like not orals then it was like [ __ ] yeah so it's like what kind of Tai Tai
00:50:23
Brian AtlasChi [ __ ] pilot [ __ ] are you guys doing all right that's cool um in any case so then that goes wrong you bang your ankle against something the night
00:50:34
Pastand yeah something I don't know you broke it or what happened it's um it's just like maybe fractured a little bit kind of UMES did you [ __ ] your Achilles I don't remember the name of the bone
00:50:46
Pabut it's like right above my heel yeah but anyways I made it worse because I refused to wear it the like my boot the first week um and then I went
00:50:56
Pawent to New York walking around for like a little over a weekend and then yeah and I have to wear longer it's
00:51:06
Pakarma and this was you said your dad your dad watches you on here yeah I'm super open with him you know he
00:51:16
Andrew Wilsonthere's not anything he doesn't already know damn I just don't know how I mean you're open enough to talk about your sex Jitsu that led to your broken
00:51:27
Pawhat well okay so it's like I have already like kind of told him like the gist but I haven't given him like details you know so I guess he's getting
00:51:37
Brian Atlasthat today if he's watching us probably is that's that's crazy all right cool um has anybody else here ever had a sex
00:51:47
Chloerelated injury um I have I had to go to the hospital um the same day um
00:51:57
ChloeI'm tiny and um I'm like barely 53 and I have a genetic disorder and so it essentially
00:52:08
Chloein short pushed too deep and it ruptured part of my um what's it called I guess it caused well okay how do I word this a previous a previous experience caused an
00:52:20
Chloeovarian benign cyst and then the later experience popped that cyst and I had to go to the hospital wait so sounds painful one penis caused a cyst no the
00:52:30
Chloesame one the same one same penis mm it was too what too deep yeah what that can cause a cyst um you
00:52:41
Chloecan get aarian Cy for like aora of reasons pH unbalances and just like if you have unprotected sex and then you leave it in there for too long you can
00:52:52
Chloeit it upsets your body so um okay so you went to the hospital and then what happened um essentially they
00:53:02
Chloesaid um we can't do anything about it you po the cyst go back home and rest were you did you have to refrain from
00:53:10
Chloehaving car it was recommended did you follow the doctor's recommendation I mean because the thing is it's going to hurt regardless so like
00:53:23
Chloeit might as well hurt when I'm still enjoying myself in my life you couldn't like take a two week breather I'm young I don't need a break
00:53:32
Chloewe we heal fast what the [ __ ] uh aren aren't o ovarian cyst often caused by STDs um not really they can like I said they can be caused by plethora of
00:53:44
Chloereasons I've always had a bunch of issues since I was young uh my mom actually had ovarian cancer so we get cysts very easily huh so it's genetic
00:53:54
Chloeyes you yeah you said you mentioned you had a what is a gen a genetic disorder um it's called Ellers danow syndrome
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Chloeit's pretty rare I'd say what called ERS D syndrome e h l e r s d a n l o s syndrome oh it's a connective at first
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Chloeit was thought to be a bone disorder or a a joint disorder but it's been rediscovered as and reclassified as a full body genetic disorder um mostly affecting your connective tissue but
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Chloeyour whole body is connective tissue so and what um what are like the symptoms of that um part of it's fun I'm really naturally flexible so I can dislocate my
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Chloebones in and out of place at will for the most part um but we also get injured really easily um I'm actually blind in my left eye and that's because of the
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Brian Atlasdisorder as well and uh I I see here online that your skin can be like stretchy uh or elastic
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Chloestretch our skin kind of like damn that's kind of wild okay um but we also it's cuz we have thin skin also the doctors call it velvet skin some people