WILDEST SHOW EVER?! HEATED Debate With SUPER Woke Liberal Feminist LA Girls?! | Dating Talk #213
Date: 2024-11-18
Duration: 10h 19m
Guests
Brian AtlasIdentified Speakers
SPEAKER_00TTS Reader(audience)
SPEAKER_02Toni J(guest)
SPEAKER_03Andrea Johnson(guest)
SPEAKER_05Mary Grace(guest)
SPEAKER_06Eric Hutchins(guest)
SPEAKER_07Andrew Wilson(guest)
SPEAKER_08Sinead Barrett(guest)
SPEAKER_10Brian Atlas(host)
SPEAKER_12Unknown Female(guest)
SPEAKER_13Tira Hos / Hannah Recard(guest)
SPEAKER_14Kayla Hardy(guest)
Key Moments
00:00:09
QuoteBrian Atlas opening announcement.
“welcome to the whatever dating Talk podcast”
00:04:11
IntroTira Hos intro: 23, Ohio, mental health advocate/waitress.
“hi I am Tira hos 23 years old from Ohio mental health Advocate on TikTok also a waitress”
00:04:21
IntroHannah Recard intro: actress/model, LA, declines to give age per agent advice.
“hi my name is Hannah recard I am an actor by occupation I prefer not to answer my age”
00:06:21
IntroAndrea Johnson intro: 34, Southern California, marketing director.
“my name is Andrea Johnson I am 34 from Southern California I am a marketing director”
00:06:33
IntroMary Grace Langhorn intro: 23, Santa Barbara, surgical assistant.
“I am Mary Grace Langhorn 23 from Santa Barbara California surgical assistant”
00:07:04
IntroKayla Hardy intro: 25, Malibu, fashion model.
“I am Kayla Hardy 25 in Malibu fashion model”
00:07:15
IntroToni J intro: 26, LA, singer-songwriter and actress.
“my name is Toni J 26 singer songwriter and actress from LA”
00:07:26
IntroSinead Barrett intro: 25, Ohio, waitress/barista, nutrition student.
“my name is Sinead Barrett waitress and barista two jobs also studying for bachelor in Nutrition”
00:07:49
IntroEric Hutchins (ilosophical) intro: 39, Newark NJ/Charlotte NC, construction mgr and content creator.
“my name is Eric Hutchins AKA ilosophical YouTube Instagram social commentary full-time construction project manager”
00:08:30
IntroAndrew Wilson intro: host of The Crucible, political analyst and satirist.
“my name is Andrew Wilson host of The Crucible entertainment Channel YouTube political analyst”
00:26:04
QuoteMary Grace describes her last relationship ending due to boyfriend violating criminal restraining order; his mother is threatening to sue her for rent.
“she had an active restraining order against him so that was a threat and I didnt know this until I moved so she ended up reporting it to his probation officer”
00:30:58
QuoteToni J reveals she is a widow; husband passed away around 2021; first date since widowhood was the day before this episode.
“he actually passed away you are a widow then correct yes okay were you married I was”
01:34:24
QuoteKayla reads Reddit post about girlfriend who slept with a Tinder hookup while telling the poster she wanted to take it slow.
“recently Jess and I ran into a guy... I thought you should know that Jess and I hooked up right after Christmas”
02:30:25
ControversySelf-rating round. Panel rates looks 1-10. Andrea insists everyone is a 10. Brian rates himself 10 sarcastically. Approximate ratings: 7 (Tira), 8 (Sinead), 10 (someone), 5 (Brian joke), 9 (Toni), 9 (someone), 7 (someone), 5-6 (Kayla), 8 (Eric?), 5 (Andrew), 10 (Brian sarcastic).
“ask everyone to rate their own looks on the scale of one to 10 seven eight ten five nine nine seven five or a six strong eight give myself a five”
03:10:12
ControversyMan vs. bear debate. Most women initially chose bear over a random spawned man in the forest. Reasons: fear of assault/rape. Brian and Andrew challenge the statistics.
“I said man but I changed my answer to Bear I say pick bear because humans sometimes are unpredictable”
03:12:30
QuoteHannah says a man could take away her dignity AND kill her; a bear would only kill her. Justifies picking bear.
“a man could potentially take away my dignity and then kill me whereas bear will just kill me”
04:34:00
ControversyBrian presents top-20 most dangerous US jobs infographic (94-99.9% male). Argues societal collapse if all men vanished. Hannah argues women are increasingly entering these fields.
“top 20 most dangerous us occupations logging workers 95 percent male fishing workers 99.9 percent”
09:27:00
ControversyTransgender debate: Hannah says she would allow puberty blockers for child after 2-year consistent request plus doctor recommendation. Brian and Eric argue this is effectively irreversible and parents should just say no.
“I would start them if after 2 years still felt the same exact way I would allow them to take a low dose of something”
10:17:06
OtherBrian wraps show calling it one of the best panels in a long time. WoW raid outro to streamer ampy.
“this is one of the wildest panels it was good really interesting conversation one of the best panels we had in a very long time”
Topics Discussed
00:00:07
Announcements & Introductions
Brian announcements (WoW Classic Fresh guild, merch, Discord, Twitch, donations). Guest introductions: name, age, location, occupation. Educational background round. Relationship status round.
00:28:00
React: Eric's Viral Clip (Women & Assertive Men)
Panel reacts to Eric Hutchins' viral clip about women claiming to want assertive men but choosing passive men. Debate on women dressing provocatively vs. modestly. Traditional values vs. modern liberation. Eric argues women's behavior is contradictory to stated preferences.
01:34:24
Reddit: Girlfriend Slept With Tinder Date While "Taking It Slow"
Kayla reads Reddit post: man's girlfriend hooked up with Tinder guy while telling him she wanted to "take it slow" physically. Panel debates pre-exclusivity obligations, moral duty to disclose, and whether the woman's behavior was valid. Andrew argues STD-disclosure analogy; Eric says the man was "green" and naive.
02:30:25
Self-Rating Round (1-10 Looks)
Viewer question asks panel to rate their own looks 1-10. Ratings given (order approximate due to diarization): 7, 8, 10, 5, 9, 9, 7, 5-6, 8, 5 (Andrew), 10 (Brian, sarcastic). Spirals into debate over whether everyone is a 10 (Andrea's position) and rating dictators/celebrities for attraction.
03:10:12
Man vs. Bear Debate
Classic internet debate: if you were alone in a forest, would you rather encounter a random man or a random bear? Most female panelists initially picked bear; reasoning cited: men's unpredictability, fear of assault. Brian and Andrew challenge the statistical reality (% of men who would actually assault). Hannah estimated 40% of men; others 15-20% or 2%. Mary Grace switched to man.
03:40:00
Body Count, Purity, and Double Standards
Extended debate on body count standards for men vs. women. Whether high body count changes a woman psychologically. Double standard discussion: why is male promiscuity more accepted? Debate on women wanting a "redemption arc" at 30 after years of casual sex. Eric argues prior relationships reveal what a woman defines as manhood.
04:34:00
Men in Critical Infrastructure / "What If All Men Disappeared"
Brian pulls up infographic of top 20 most dangerous US occupations (logging 95% male, mining 99.9% male, etc.). Argues society would collapse within weeks if all men disappeared due to male concentration in critical infrastructure. Panel pushes back. Eric and Andrew support the argument. Hannah argues women are increasingly entering these fields.
07:45:00
Age Gap Relationships
Prompted by Kayla's disclosure that her boyfriend is 15 years older. Panel debates whether large age gaps are acceptable. Kayla defends her 3-year relationship with a 40yo (she is 25). Brian challenges the dynamic at ~7:54 ("vulnerable college girl").
08:07:00
Women's Rights Equal to Men?
Panel survey question: do women have equal rights to men? Andrea and Hannah disagreed. Both clarified they meant globally, not specifically USA. Brian challenges them to name a specific US right men have that women don't — neither could name one clearly. Brian raises toplessness in public as a minor asymmetry.
09:27:00
Transgender / Puberty Blockers Debate
Debate on whether trans-identifying children should receive puberty blockers. Hannah says she would allow her 14-year-old to start blockers after 2 years of consistent request + doctor recommendation. Brian and Eric argue blockers are not reversible in meaningful ways and compares to getting a tattoo. Hannah takes back the tattoo comparison. Eric and Brian argue parents should use authority ("because I said so").
Transcript
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04:44:41
Mary Gracewe we value they men are an asset to the function of society that us majority of women want need and I would hate to say
04:44:53
Eric Hutchinsbecause you're not you don't want I don't this is a power thing with them it's not about logic it's about we don't need you it's a it's a power play it has nothing to do with logic it's just they want to see men fall at the behest of women some women they won't never I
04:45:07
Andrea Johnsondon't think that to be I don't think that to be true me that's my opinion never said that men were not an asset or that they're not important but what we
04:45:17
Andrea Johnsonwere saying sorry I don't mean to speak for you what I was saying was that men weren't necessary in in your your whatever you just
04:45:28
Unknown Femalesaid there was a point broughten up it was stupidity was I know I know there was a point broughten up to sit like cuz I would hate as a woman to hear this to say like oh the only thing we need you to do reproduce that would make me see
04:45:40
Unknown Femaleright if a man say that so to say that to a man is crazy in my opinion to say that you're only here to reproduce you know talking a talking women ever again
04:45:51
Unknown Femalewe were talking in a hypothetical situation I know but if the hypothetical was because men we only need men to reproduce is actually a crazy thought because were they say women were for though that's
04:46:02
Eric Hutchinsliterally but the thing is that never left his mouth we just said you're not physically incapable of doing what we doing but I said I said when I said we need you and I also said men can't some things men can't even do that other men
04:46:14
Eric Hutchinscan do so I acest to both of those things and I'm not into a power struggle I'm into logic what make sense women can't do everything that men do and men can't do everything women do here let's pull up the the infographic can you pull that up
04:46:26
Brian AtlasDamian all right oh can here open up can you do right click open the new tab on the image we're going to get that going here in just a sec guys we have a uh quick infographic we're going to pull up guys
04:46:39
Brian Atlaslike the video if you're enjoying the stream like the video and uh you got it okay make it bigger please all right top 20 most dangerous
04:46:49
Brian Atlasus occupations in percentage male logging workers 95% male fishing workers 99.9% aircraft Pilots 94 roofers 98 refu
04:47:00
Brian Atlasso garbage collectors uh 91 truck drivers 94 ironn Steel Workers 98 farmers and ranchers this is where you get your food 75 agricultural workers uh
04:47:11
Brian Atlas79% recy recy recy oh my God I can't speak English recy recyclable materials workers 91 mining includes oil and gas 99.9% Landscaping 95 construction
04:47:23
Brian Atlasworkers 97 cement and concrete make me smaller please cement and concrete manufacturing 97 no I just
04:47:32
Brian Atlasthe our faces are in the way we're blocked so make us smaller on the right small right small yeah then you got okay uh did I say
04:47:44
Brian Atlascement and concrete manufacturing electrical power line workers 99 police police 85 maintenance and repair workers 97 uh taxi drivers whatever uh oh great I'm going to get cancelled by the taxi
04:47:56
Brian AtlasAssociation uh support activities for mining 99% mining except except oil and gas 99% uh so okay like these are critical infrastructure jobs majority
04:48:07
Brian Atlasmen like it would be to Total societal collapse if all men disappeared um World War II happened how how's that relevant all of the men went to war and who picked up
04:48:18
Tira Hos / Hannah Recardthe slacked who worked in the steel there were still men doing the jobs women picked up all the slack that that is yeah but okay there are some women who are but
04:48:29
Brian Atlasokay the the scenario that I'm kind of thinking about in my head here is that like you snap your fingers so women don't have the requisite amount of time to like do the preparation and get the women in these fields in order to be
04:48:41
Brian Atlaslike representative and have enough there to actually enter them so because these fields are currently predominated by men if you snapped your fingers and
04:48:50
Brian Atlaswomen didn't have the time to like you had 20 years to prepare for all men disappearing if it just happened like instantly you would you guys would be
04:49:01
Andrea Johnson[ __ ] it would be difficult no but we would have to count on that one catastrophic but it would be impossible what he was saying is that we would not
04:49:13
Brian Atlassurvive look stop stop stop hold on let me let me give a couple clarifying things here so in either scenario let's say all men die all women die either scenario it's the end of the human species eventually both both scenarios
04:49:26
Brian Atlasif all men survive all the women are gone it's the end of the species all the men disappear women are still there end of the species for either one however I
04:49:39
Brian Atlasthink there's a differential here just it's it's not to like dunk on women it's just like the the sheer re undisputable incontrovertible incontrovertible in is that the word
04:49:50
Brian Atlasincontrovertible we it's something like that it's okay reality of just the fact that men are so in meshed in like critical infrastructure jobs that uphold
04:50:01
Brian Atlaslike the the society at large women are not represented in these jobs in significant amount of numbers where if there was some like scenario where all men disappeared there
04:50:13
Brian Atlaswouldn't be enough women to fill it and like the the cascading and domino effect of just the catastrophe that would happen if you had all men disappear who are making sure every single hour every single day that there isn't some like
04:50:26
Brian Atlasmassive [ __ ] hits the fan situation everything would just start collapsing water sewage electricity gas fuel refinement garbage collection telecommunications it infrastructure road maintenance all these things truck and delivery drivers your food's gone
04:50:39
Brian Atlasyour water's gone your electricity is Gone without these things people are going to starve there's going to be fires there's going to be all kinds of probably criminal crimes occurring that's kind of to the side though uh
04:50:49
Brian Atlasyeah it's going to be like it's going to suck for men it's they'll live to old age the women you I'd say like 50% of women are dead within 3 weeks um I'm not
04:51:02
Tira Hos / Hannah Recardsaying that's like dunk on the women it's just the reality of the no the representation in we're talking about is like these job fields that are predominantly men but what we are seeing is that a lot of
04:51:13
Tira Hos / Hannah Recardwomen who you know regardless of whether or not some of us like that or dislike that were in a more masculine era a lot more women are open to being
04:51:26
Tira Hos / Hannah Recardin these job fields and wanting to be in these job fields and so maybe right now that is a high potential that we would fail but maybe in 10 20 years time that's not going to be the same situation cuz they're going to evolve
04:51:38
Tira Hos / Hannah Recardand become like super men women no I think that more women will go into workforces that are predominantly men because now there's more space because
04:51:47
Eric Hutchinsit's a necessity not a choice men give us Choice thank you I got aen they took Choice away that's life isn't I mean I know women that do that type of work and
04:51:59
Eric Hutchinsshe don't want to do it she does it out of necessity because she has a younger child so women are get into these fields because they're having children they don't have a and they don't have a man there so it's not what they want to to do cuz right now with all that stuff you
04:52:12
Eric Hutchinsknow guess what you're doing you're a model you're not out there saving Smokey to Beed so even with all those skills you got you don't want to do that [ __ ] so it sounds good to win an argument but we love to win these arguments but
04:52:24
Eric Hutchinspeople are really listening to us so let's ask this question what would be more advantageous for a woman to listen to what you're talking about or to try to find her place into what we're talking about in reality it may feel good it may feel good and sound good on
04:52:36
Eric HutchinsThe View and all that type of [ __ ] but real women who try to do that is going to fail cuz that's not what they want to do women want to be pretty they want to be soft and that's dope ain't nothing wrong with it there's a power in being feminine but feminism have told you that
04:52:48
Eric Hutchinsthe power is in mimicking men so they need to just change the word and stop calling it feminism because ain't nothing feminine about it all they want to do is compete with men that [ __ ] is stupid okay feminism is about Choice
04:52:59
Tira Hos / Hannah Recardsome of us men some of us choose to have a more soft approach and some of us choose to have a more masculine approach because men have afforded you ability to do that most women don't want to do sh
04:53:11
Tira Hos / Hannah Recarddo are you going to cut everything I'm sorry go ahead or thank you um what I was saying is that feminism is
04:53:21
Tira Hos / Hannah Recardthe opportunity to choose it's to choose what you want for yourself and that life if you want to be a stay-at-home mom that is your choice and that's a valid
04:53:32
Tira Hos / Hannah Recardchoice and all the power to you girl like I I love that for you I do but that has to be your choice it can't be someone forcing you you into that position if you want to be a stay-at-home mom that is your choice and
04:53:44
Tira Hos / Hannah Recardthat should be your choice not someone forcing you or financially manipulating you or whatever it is into that decision and feminism real feminism supports
04:53:55
Tira Hos / Hannah Recardevery woman's choice not just the harder more masculine what I'm talking about in a lot of these things that we were these topics that we were talking about is my
04:54:05
Tira Hos / Hannah Recardpersonal experience I think I have a pretty balanced a pretty balanced mix of feminine and soft energ I mean feminine and hard energy based off of all of my life experiences combined it that's
04:54:18
Tira Hos / Hannah Recardgoing to be different for every woman I'm not trying to push my choices for what I want onto some other woman but what I'm saying is my choices and my opinions are valid for my experience and
04:54:28
Unknownfor my life and I respect that but we have but unfortunately me Man donated $200 I'll have you response this is the dumbest dumb to have ever dumbed men and women are complimentary so may maybe
04:54:40
Brian Atlascompliment each other instead of acting like opponents but choosing a bear over a man is dumb too yo Birdman thank you for the $200 TTS we also have another one coming in
04:54:52
Brian Atlashere in just a sec from sorry for the delay on that Birdman we have a bit of a moderation delay but thank you so much for the TTS man really appreciate it we have just just Gerald here thank you just Gerald donated
04:55:04
Unknown$200 not one woman at this table could last a month working construction in the death grip of an Alaska winter or survive for a month without electricity or last a week on the oil fields yo
04:55:17
Brian Atlasthank you man Gerald really appreciate it somebody in my DM sent me he works in uh infrastructure and he said uh he said in the better part of a decade working in critical infrastructure you know how
04:55:27
Brian Atlasmany women I've encountered who deal with major out excuse me major outages at 2 a.m. zero every engineer manager vendor other experts and boots on the
04:55:38
Brian Atlasground dealing with a huge problem at stupid a clock all men which is why we get paid more money than working 9 to5 job that's what he wrote what do you guys get from being so
04:55:50
Mary Gracedefensive about acknowledging that men and women are are supposed to be complimentary in in society and there is a a necessity for
04:56:01
Andrea Johnsonthem why you guys get so what what do you gain from it for me I'm not saying that men and women aren't complimentary
04:56:10
Andrea Johnsonor that you know that men and women don't need each other I was you just fought against that yes because he was
04:56:19
Andrea Johnsonsaying in in his little speech that women cannot survive without men and I was trying to point out that there is a possibility that we can survive
04:56:31
Tira Hos / Hannah Recardwithout men there's a possibility that I could fly there Sur that what what is the benefit for men wanting to point all of this out to and if if we're GNA flip
04:56:41
Tira Hos / Hannah Recardall of this just being factual well these a lot of a lot of these facts and a lot I'll just I'll just say this right
04:56:51
Tira Hos / Hannah Recardnow when I was DM uh regarding this opportunity I was anticipating that it was going to be a dating podcast and honestly it's related honestly all of
04:57:03
Tira Hos / Hannah Recardthese questions have been very targeted so for I think I'm not going to speak on your part but on me what I was told this was going to be is very different from
04:57:13
Tira Hos / Hannah Recardwhat it is I mean feminism is like massive Parts about but there's there's a million other things that are going on in the dating World especially what I
04:57:25
Tira Hos / Hannah Recardwas referred to was the dating World here in LA and this is nothing really is we're talking about is exclusive to LA or exclusive to La dating culture like a
04:57:35
Tira Hos / Hannah Recardlot of the things that is what I was interpreting this was going to be about kind of seems like it's all from the male's perspective and the male's perspective on dating so that's seven
04:57:46
Tira Hos / Hannah Recardwomen at the table but the answers out your perspectives I'm I'm a I'm aware but it's all of the questions that you're asking and that have been asked so far it's like the man and the Bear
04:57:57
Tira Hos / Hannah Recardall the viral things that have gone on that have gotten men and women into arguments we're not talking I feel like uh these questions are made to get some
04:58:08
Mary Graceaggressive feeling and it's not necessarily like oh we're having fun I think it highlights a huge issue
04:58:18
Mary Gracein the dating Society is people that are so aggressive as females say I changed my answer and their role in it can go the other way too men are hyper
04:58:28
Brian Atlasfeminine way too but also I I mean like didn't mean to cut you off there but I I do think a big part of like one of the big things when it comes to dating is like do we have the same values and
04:58:39
Brian Atlasthere's like I I think that's pretty important mhm so I I don't think these things are totally Beyond The Pale in terms of I feel like it's more you have
04:58:50
Unknown Femaletangents because if you flip this and put women in front of men now we would have a problem with it we genuinely would we can't say that we couldn't cuz me if I heard it I'd be like you're being sexist if we're doing the same thing we're being sexist like we are and
04:59:02
Eric Hutchinspeople need to hear this because like I said we got to stop speaking speaking from just our personal perspective like like me that brother who was talking about what he went through in the woman with with
04:59:14
Eric Hutchinsthe girl I wouldn't have did that but he's not like me so I would rather give information that's more digestible by the average person the average woman doesn't want to do these survival
04:59:25
Eric Hutchinsscenarios so just to pretend to say it's possible just to get a point for the woman team is a power play more so than something beneficial for women cuz women are hiem minded that are like even men
04:59:37
Eric Hutchinsdoing these podcasts you'll be surprised how many people will watch this and say that's what it is and it's not what it is so why not speak from the general consensus and not just speak from these
04:59:47
Eric HutchinsNuance perspective we just showed you a chart with damn near 99 not 94 99% of most those jobs were taken by men what's the argument there is no argument and
05:00:00
Eric Hutchinsit's okay it doesn't mean men are better than women but why can't we be honest and say hey I know how to do a lot of stuff with my hands but the average woman doesn't want to do that that doesn't mean you're weak means you're strong cuz admitting vulnerability is a
05:00:12
Sinead Barrettstrength it's not a weakness what say that you can improve that you can do these hard jobs like what is what is the end goal of you proving that you can do
05:00:23
Tira Hos / Hannah Recardall of these hard tasks that men can do that we are talking in this entire podcast we've been talking about hypothetical situations right and that's
05:00:35
Tira Hos / Hannah Recardwhat we're talking on and then the moment that I say my opinion of a hypothetic situation it's oh well you hate men we're not I'm not talking about all men and I'm not talking about you
05:00:46
Brian Atlasknow it whether or not I value men in the work field okay yeah I'm not I'm not saying anything I'm not saying anything about that but can I jump in really quick so you said Not all men but you
05:00:58
Tira Hos / Hannah Recardsaid even if the chance is 1% I'm willing to throw 99% of men under the bus for the bear for for for that in that situation cuz the only person I'm hurting is is myself in that I don't go
05:01:10
Tira Hos / Hannah Recardaround my daily life insulting men or being mean to men but if I had the situation that was a hypothetical I would choose that situation for myself
05:01:21
Tira Hos / Hannah Recardand that's perfectly valid for me to choose that for myself sure that being said I don't go around my daily life and de
05:01:30
Tira Hos / Hannah Recardmasculine you know what whatever it is that that is this kind of narrative amongst feminists that we hate men
05:01:40
Tira Hos / Hannah RecardI love men okay I have no problem with men that being said do I do I don't think I have so many male friends that being said a random guy who I can't vet
05:01:52
Sinead Barrettwho I don't know anything about is very different from a friend and I want to say something real fast um like just because like you just pointed fingers at them they just pointed fingers at you is
05:02:03
Sinead Barrettwhat you thought like it is we it's hard to explain but we're just sitting here pointing fingers at each other and trying to literally just claim the power like that's good that women can do these
05:02:14
Sinead Barretthard jobs but like why why is there such a big movement of all of the women doing all of the hard jobs and all of the women being able to do the masculine things like what is the movement what is
05:02:26
Sinead Barrettlike the behind like motive of it no one's trying to claim any power we were just trying to answer a hypothetical question yeah well she was saying that they were saying that they were saying
05:02:36
Toni Jthat you hate men and you literally just said that they they practically hated women right I don't think anyone said we hated men or I don't think you hate women I don't think very like kind of
05:02:48
Toni Jseeming to be like a little one-sided I do agree with her these topics are very like one-sided like at a point where I'm just like you know what you got it you
05:02:59
Toni Jgot it be great we we at this point I'm just sitting back because it's like it's very oneid like have we even revers roles to have us do
05:03:12
Kayla Hardyit it's getting late at this and everybody's a littley how she feels about like not choosing like choosing the man bear or the man is how you feel about woman wearing provocative clothing
05:03:23
Toni Jand not choosing them that's what she's opinion you have a valid opinion no but I'm saying but I'm saying you have a valid opinion and that's your opinion
05:03:34
Tira Hos / Hannah Recardthat's her opinion based off of youri you have asked a question though multiple times and that to me and the question is what is there to gain or
05:03:44
Tira Hos / Hannah Recardwhat is the end goal of women being able to do masculine jobs and what I would say is the fact that women previously were not allowed in spaces to do those jobs meant that they didn't have the
05:03:56
Tira Hos / Hannah Recardoption wait they have the option now though luckily yes but now you have the option so that that is the end goal is feel we might but we have the option the option they're not picking it wait so you're saying women were like it's a
05:04:09
Brian Atlaspower play you you're saying like women because of male sexism they were barred from underwater welding is is that your argument no what I'm saying is it first
05:04:19
Tira Hos / Hannah Recardof all in some Fields women were not allowed to yes but in some Fields it was just there was so many men and also it was not socially acceptable and we are seeing an uptick in women wanting to
05:04:32
Tira Hos / Hannah Recardpick up those jobs and I don't think that there should be this shouldn't be like a politicized or like crazy thing it's just but no matter what sex why are you attributing it to some like like
05:04:44
Brian Atlasvague nebula sexism on behalf of men like when it comes to a lot of these jobs it has nothing to do with vague nebulous sexism women are just not physically capable of doing a lot of these jobs do you disagree I feel like
05:04:57
Mary Gracemajority of women don't want to do J I want to say I don't want to be a coal miner like I'm not they don't want to do the job biologically too have you taken anatomy
05:05:07
Mary Graceand physiology or okay yeah I have a degree in it and I work in it and there is a
05:05:17
Mary Gracephysiological fundamental difference in biological men and biological women just for the sake of this argument how we
05:05:28
Mary Graceregulate protein synthesis how our literal bodies our musculature our physiology our psychology there is a natural adaptive advantage through
05:05:38
Mary Graceevolution to serve the the the proof that we we they are better suited for a lot are differ that's why they separate them in
05:05:49
Mary Grace[ __ ] Sports for the Olympics I mean there is there is you why women sports go ahead you can answer to her go no I agree that that we are I I agree with
05:06:00
Tira Hos / Hannah Recardthat statement that being said just because someone might be better suited because they're six six and have more muscle on them doesn't mean that a woman can't also be capable all of these
05:06:13
Brian Atlashypotheticals was whether or not someone was capable what I was speaking there are just not so yes can some women do these jobs
05:06:23
Brian Atlassure but there are just some jobs that like might be physically available to say I don't know 50% of men right there's some men that can't do the jobs either right like I couldn't do Roofing
05:06:34
Brian AtlasI'd probably like give up after a day right but if like let's say only 50% of men can do it well that's still 50% of men whereas like what if it's only like 0 1% of women have the actual physical
05:06:46
Tira Hos / Hannah Recardcapability of doing it and if it's that the point of bring it up argum because we were talking about hypotheticals and the situation of whether or not it was if women were
05:06:57
Tira Hos / Hannah Recardcapable to do those things it's not that I'm saying more women that I'm disagreeing with your your your statement that more men do these fields or that they're predominantly male Fields yes what I was saying is that
05:07:09
Tira Hos / Hannah Recardwomen are still capable of doing that and I don't understand why that is such a hot take it's not we think women are capable of doing it doing it well or just doing it but
05:07:22
Toni Jnot a lot of us but that does not mean the problem the ARG never said we wanted to do it that's not what you guys initially said initially you were saying it wasn't about being capable it was
05:07:32
Toni Jabout men can do this this is what what men are doing women cannot do that and they don't want to do it that was the argument I'm listening I'm back listening no I'm
05:07:43
Brian Atlasobserving to do but that wasn't the argument you said that women were capable but there are some women yes but most women are not physically capable of
05:07:53
Brian Atlasdoing it and even if you add to the women who can do it they don't want to do it and I agree with that but that was not the original argument Damen pull up the the Cockroach manhole video pull it
05:08:05
Unknown Femaleup go ahead ohome that sounds an interesting video I think that's crazy all right play it make it bigger
05:08:15
Brian Atlasplease yeah I'm not doing that all right look most women could have a little hose and start from the beginning please just let it let play
05:08:26
Brian Atlasthrough oh come on like there's more men like a lot of women could get down into a manhole and do this yeah it so it's not even just about
05:08:39
Brian Atlascapability it's about like like willingness to do those jobs most women are not willing to do like the sort of uh gross this these sorts of jobs yeah men are what I was saying in these
05:08:51
Tira Hos / Hannah Recardhypothetical situations was that if the world ended that we would be able to do that not that we want to do that not that I want to crawl into a manhole with a bunch of cockroaches but I could
05:09:02
Sinead Barrettpotentially do that if my life depended on it if CI civilization depended on it this world wouldn't be here if One race was there and the other one wasn't so like I just still don't understand the
05:09:13
Tira Hos / Hannah Recardin we understand that it was just a hypothetical question we were trying to answer do it yes there was no winning think bashing yeah there is no winning in the circumstance in the situation
05:09:25
Eric Hutchinswe're strictly talking about hypotheticals and the fact of how these questions are worded to make it seem a little perhaps biased I mean it's hypothetical to bring out actual logic
05:09:38
Eric Hutchinsso hypothetically is a scenario but the logic is really applied in real life and it doesn't make sense so with take hypotheticals removed away from it would y'all do women you know would want to do that I say the statistics were pulled up
05:09:50
Eric Hutchinsit was like 90% of men did the men J so what's the point besides us because I've heard responding to your hyp question so take away that what's the cuz someone bring that up you do HVAC right I have
05:10:02
Eric HutchinsI'm certified for it but I don't I just do management now I do fop management but it's a it's a dirty job that women are some women are doing some women are doing that some women are doing that but they're doing it most that I see are
05:10:14
Eric Hutchinswomen as I'm not trying to be racist but a lot of Mexican women are doing it with their husband so they have like a group business so they're actually doing it with their man the women that I know that doing it on their own is because they have to and they need money to take
05:10:27
Eric Hutchinscare of their children cuz they're single mothers they have to but they don't want to and it's and and sometimes when women take on those jobs they take on those jobs at the expense of their femininity they become a lot more
05:10:40
Eric Hutchinsaggressive they become a lot more masculine so yeah they're able to make money but it's slowly declining their uh relatability to men so it's like yeah they're doing it but what's the end goal
05:10:51
Eric Hutchinswhat do they acquire from doing this outside of taking care of their s economically they're not happy they're lonely a lot of them are miserable but they're they're just doing men's job so even though women can do it if it's such
05:11:03
Andrea Johnsona small percentage of women doing it to bring it up is irrelevant outside of just winning an argument in this hypothetical situation there were no men so why do we need to be feminine
05:11:15
Brian Atlasyeah why we have to be femin guys I I do want to move things on we've we've been stuck this I'll bring it back to a dating question I do have one chat here meet the Kaiser chair one
05:11:26
Brian Atlasmy ex was the same also a waitress had BPD we lived together for three years then split very similar she never listened to her therapist just chatted is therapy helpful what do we think quick answer on this therapy is helpful if you want it to be helpful but if you
05:11:39
Brian Atlasdon't want help you can't get help to be honest now uh going around the table bringing it back to dating so in this my new thing I'm doing here uh the question is what would you want the minimum
05:11:51
Brian Atlasyearly income to be for your future husband if you guys can just repeat whatever you wrote in here uh starting with you go ahead um I said money doesn't really matter as long as needs are met cuz I mean like I'm not if I really like a person I don't like them
05:12:04
Unknown Femalefor their things I like them for them so like if needs are met roofs overhead food on the table what really more can you ask for I guess okay um you said you don't care I said I
05:12:14
Tira Hos / Hannah Recarddon't care um with my 7even year long relationship there has been points in which he got laid off and wasn't working there's points where I was not working
05:12:27
Tira Hos / Hannah Recardand we support each other it's a equal partnership what we have so it does not matter what What If he if he came to you and he said you want kids one day right um I want to I want to eventually adopt
05:12:39
Tira Hos / Hannah RecardI think adopt but you you don't want biological children um no just it's it's not something that's in the cards for me have you just curious have you talked to your uh boyfriend seven-year boyfriend
05:12:49
Tira Hos / Hannah Recardabout this yes um and he's he's he's with you adoption he yeah he understands I can't have children pretty much uh even if I really wanted to and the other
05:13:01
Tira Hos / Hannah Recardthing is I am a carrier for um my whole family is genetically pretty much [ __ ] so I have Lupus my whole family has
05:13:09
Tira Hos / Hannah Recardum autoimune diseases think it be respons for me to those gen along to child okay fair enough um in any case uh
05:13:21
Brian Atlasso if your um if your boyfriend if he like when you do want adopt though one one kid two kids um probably two two two or um if he was like Hey I want to be a stay-at-home
05:13:33
Tira Hos / Hannah Recardfather for our adopted children you'd be okay with that oh that's already the plan like that is that's the plan that is the plan like he's he'll be a p Dad he'll be everything our dog sure all kind all kinds of different Arrangements
05:13:44
Brian Atlaspeople have uh what about you uh minimum yearly income I guess for your future wife then I suppose okay uh unless you want a husband no okay I said none because it was referring to men uh
05:13:57
Brian Atlasdoesn't matter income doesn't matter okay if it was a man would it matter yeah you did say you did say earlier like well I have higher standards for men he would be
05:14:07
Andrea Johnsonable he would have to be able ble to not not afford uh how do I word this to afford my lifestyle not because I want him to take care of me but for example
05:14:18
Brian Atlasuh if I like to travel I want him to also be able to afford to travel if there a number income income number just give me a number I don't have a number wait I have
05:14:29
Brian Atlasa question cuz you said earlier like the guy has to like for you to date a guy he has to meet much higher standards than when it comes to you dating a woman so like would you say in terms of the
05:14:40
Andrea Johnsonincome thing you'd be straight for pay instead of gay for pay you'd be straight for pay no like a mill like would you be straight straight for pay like like would I be with a man would you go
05:14:50
Eric Hutchinsstraight for billionaire no like that's some like your life is good if you're with so you you you would discard a a male billionaire who loves you as opposed to a woman with nothing who's just
05:15:02
Brian Atlasbeautiful who loves you yeah oh great it's for the love it's for the love you know it's for love uh what did you say for minimum yearly income um what I said
05:15:13
Mary Gracewas I think like a median average an average median salary for um like the area I choose to be in you said more than median salary for area more than
05:15:24
Mary Graceyeah and I feel like more could mean like it's honestly pretty subjective to me a number does not matter I think what matters is realistically for me I want
05:15:34
Mary Graceto be able to comfortably assume a lifestyle that includes not living in poverty or lower lower class um I I
05:15:44
Mary Gracedon't want food stamps I'm sorry I don't judge I I've I accept people like that romantically but for me personally I want to live above the average median salary of the demographic of where I
05:15:56
Brian Atlaschoose to be where where do you live I live here oh you're in Santa Bara I'm in Santa Barbara um but I was living medium here let's look up let's look it up all right uh median hold on median salary
05:16:07
Brian AtlasSanta Barbara oops one sec uh the median salary the average annual salary this is for marriage by the way not for I can
05:16:17
Brian Atlas75,000 the average annual salary in s oh that's is there a difference between I'm I'm like arler is there a difference between median and average no right it's
05:16:29
Unknown Femaleboth Med am I sorry guys I'm there's I dropped out I want say what I used to find the median in school you take all the numbers and find the aage average it's average whatever average the average 75,000 yeah that I feel like so
05:16:42
Kayla Hardylike 80,000 is what like for for marriage for me to settle down and feel really confident and I'm I met my person that's yeah sure okay uh what about you I know I left it blank but that doesn't mean none um just more than I make
05:16:54
Brian Atlashonestly so I can be provided for how much do you make if um do you make six figures yes so like a would 150k be sufficient
05:17:06
Kayla Hardyfor you I would want more probably honestly I would want him to double it honestly because I want to be able to not work someday wait you'd want to what not work someday oh okay cuz I want to
05:17:17
Brian Atlashave a family yeah so what do you think 250k is that yeah I guess for nowadays that's still a little low though right is that upper middle class year I don't know I mean uh what about you um I
05:17:30
Toni Jsaid 400,000 I know I'm going to get [ __ ] for hold on I I I'm it I should good for you that's right here's why this is why because I was married and
05:17:42
Toni Jthis I can go off my previous experience and then I make 200 so I would expect him to obviously make more than me I mean I don't know that's kind of like wait your prior your previous husband
05:17:54
Toni Jwas making how much 400 he was making what was he doing he um he had he was a CEO of his own company I don't I don't want to okay yeah um but he passed so
05:18:05
Toni Jyeah but um yeah so and I make was it an age Gap relationship mm wait how old were you when you dated you were when I
05:18:15
Toni Jgot married I was like 22 20 like 22 Yeah so he's like was he like 25 or something uh he was actually younger than me he was 20 so we were years 20
05:18:26
Toni Jyears old making $400,000 a year yeah he did he had he did e-commerce he did a lot of different St okay all right um so I just would like to keep that kind of hey what I'm
05:18:39
Toni Jyou know kind of what just a normal kind of what I'm used to nothing like nothing that I'm Chang you guys are married okay yeah I I don't want to change anything that I'm already kind of have the swing of things that I have going on did you
05:18:50
Brian Atlaslike take over his business when he yeah I did yeah but I helped him build it too so it was like yeah sure uh so 400 you want a guy who earns 400,000 bare
05:19:00
Toni Jminimum just off of like I said previous of what I'm kind of used to but I mean have you since your husband's like this guy you went on a date with you yeah it's kind of the same the dating pool is
05:19:13
Sinead Barrettthe same so I'm not doing anything that's sure right normal uh what about you um as long as we're stable and not like on edge of with bills and stuff I'm
05:19:24
Brian Atlascompletely fine and as long as I'm compatible with the person okay uh and then um well that's it for that one um what about you how much would you want your uh girlfriend to make man I don't
05:19:37
Eric Hutchinscare about I don't care about none of that [ __ ] you know what I'm saying long as she can take care of herself without me like if she already got her own place she already got her own car she already got a career obviously she knows what she doing for herself I feel like two heads are better than one I feel like we
05:19:50
Eric Hutchinsput so much value on what somebody earned and then we complain when we get in these weird situations it's like anybody can lose their their job any day I want you to care about me and there's no price on that so as long as she's cuz
05:20:02
Eric HutchinsI feel like if we're both in it we both can contribute because if you go half and I go half not saying it has to be 50/50 but I feel like that gives the woman equity in the situation because a lot of women just want to be taken care
05:20:14
Eric Hutchinsof but if when he breaks up with you he take all that money you can't say [ __ ] cuz you don't have no equity or nothing you don't pay for [ __ ] so I rather a woman who I just take her ass she as long she treats me well cuz these days
05:20:26
Eric Hutchinswe probably can get rich together two heads are better than one a woman can get through a door that I can't get through I can get through a door that she can't get through so why can't we combine oursel together I don't me personally when I'm evaluating a mate I
05:20:37
Eric Hutchinsdon't think about money I think about how she makes me feel because love will inspire you to make money real connection will inspire you to do more for each other so I don't care about
05:20:47
Brian Atlasthat agree uh so I guess moving off of off of that one uh going into my notes Here Hannah right yeah uh Hannah perhaps this ties back into the previous convo I
05:20:59
Brian Atlaspromise we won't Linger on it though okay um you said that and so in this I asked you to Circle what you disagree with so the the question or the statement was men are physically
05:21:10
Brian Atlasstronger than women you disagreed on that is that correct what was the wait so it says men are physically stronger than women and
05:21:21
Tira Hos / Hannah Recardyou circled it which means you disagree I think I got confused with that one okay yeah I I do agree that a lot of times that they're stronger but I do think that there's also women I thought
05:21:34
Brian AtlasI put like a little maybe I put like a dash well there was the one above it you did say I don't know but you maybe it was the one above it which is 20 um
05:21:45
Tira Hos / Hannah Recardin any case if if that was incorrect then I'm happy to move on but I I feel like there are plenty of women that are stronger than some men but there's plenty of men that are stronger than
05:21:56
Tira Hos / Hannah Recardsome wom women it's subjective I think it has more to do with height weight and like muscle capacity I mean would you would you grant that most men are stronger than most women I would say like the average man is stronger than
05:22:09
Tira Hos / Hannah Recardthe average woman which is why I'm scared to be a forest with them alone but there's also you know plenty of beautiful gorgeous tall women that could
05:22:21
Tira Hos / Hannah Recardeasily take down you know a man shorter than me so it's like it it it depends on the situation it depends on body mass yeah be stronger than you too you know right yeah but once again I'd rather
05:22:31
Brian Atlasjust die never existed uh okay um all right uh I mean you I don't know what the actual percentage breakdown is but I
05:22:43
Brian Atlasthink they like they've analyzed grip strength and I think it's like I don't know if we have the stats on it something like 95% of men are strong stronger than all women or something like that I
05:22:56
Tira Hos / Hannah Recarddon't know I don't know I mean grip strength I give really terrible massages so like I don't know maybe that's something I don't strength is uh is reflective of your general strength uh
05:23:06
Tira Hos / Hannah Recardwhat I what I what I know is like I don't think that there's any like hard I think I think it's like very gray things can be very gray I don't think it's like always black and white there's well yeah there are certainly there's women who
05:23:19
Unknown Femaleare there are some women who are stronger than men yeah that's all I'm say yeah I'm not yeah I'm saying it's not 100% I want to say there there is not a single man that I would like be like yeah fight it's a man like I'm not
05:23:30
Tira Hos / Hannah Recardfighting a man you know like I can pick up nearly every single one of my co-stars including my co-stars that are taller than me but if were to be in a fight I don't know I'd be a little scared when a man is actually
05:23:42
Unknown Femalefighting against a woman I think the man is almost going to win almost every time I've been in physical fights with men and yeah it's like about 50/50 sometimes 5050 they going they going ham on you
05:23:55
Tira Hos / Hannah Recarddid they throw punches though yeah yeah slam my head they trying to go here's the thing I grew I grew up with older brothers and like the amount of the amount of fighting that we would do and
05:24:06
Tira Hos / Hannah Recardyou know I I lots of sparring lots of combat like yeah I I can occasionally take I can I feel like your brother isn't going to try to like knock you out
05:24:16
Brian Atlasno you don't know our you don't know my family um I'm willing to bet I would be willing to bet right now a million dollars and you can distribute it all
05:24:26
Brian Atlasamongst yourselves it could be all seven of you versus ill here right now I he win win he win no at the same time at the same time I win seven of you like
05:24:38
Unknown Femalewhat I would win I want to say if one of us a body part we could actually win seven actually seven seven of us of us I leg can't beat me but seven
05:24:51
Brian Atlasof y'all can survive in the will I I changed my answer we could AB I ask the chat chat who do you pick so who wins who do you place your bet on it's a seven V1 all the all the women you know
05:25:04
Brian Atlaswhat we'll throw in uh uh we're throwing in Ana too 8 V1 uh and she's behind him too she can throw in the choke hold really quick who you who's does the guy win or is it the the eight women eight
05:25:17
Tira Hos / Hannah Recardwomen or the one guy who wins y'all should win with all the inity y'all got and all Li someone else Li yeah no if every
05:25:27
Eric Hutchinsone of us did did some damage on each limb I think we can figure it out yeah eight of us we could do that I don't even like talking like I don't talk someone's got to like trick them or
05:25:39
Eric Hutchinsokay I don't like should we try just to prove a point though are we fing right now should beat me is with as much tracktion y'all gang like you said y'all can do so much y'all should be able to destroy me man what are some of these
05:25:52
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05:26:16
Brian Atlasappreciate it and then uh okay let's get into the let's try to blast through these notes as quickly as I can here okay why don't we just do Hannah's first okay God uh Hannah okay let me get my
05:26:28
Brian Atlasglasses here uh okay and a lot of you also disagreed on this one so dating is easier for women to which you disagreed Andrea
05:26:40
Unknown Femaledisagreed Tiara did I say that Tiara Tiara did I say that right ton I thought it was easier I think I might have answer dating is easier for women you disagree you agree I think it's easier for women okay you didn't follow
05:26:52
Brian Atlasinstructions but it's okay yeah my b um but uh so those of you who Circle dating is easier for women um you think it's easier for men you disagree that it's
05:27:03
Tira Hos / Hannah Recardeasier for women I mean when I when I say that it's easier for for men to to date I guess is because it's not that
05:27:14
Tira Hos / Hannah Recardit's easier for them to get a date a woman can get a date like like I've never never had a shortage of men in my DMs I could get a date if I was single tomorrow I could have 15 dates lined up
05:27:25
Tira Hos / Hannah Recardfor myself that's not what I'm talking about what I'm talking about is in a relationship finding someone who like isn't trying to pull a power trip
05:27:36
Tira Hos / Hannah Recardon you or isn't trying to change you and like this isn't just from my perspective all of my girlfriends struggle with this is like you just want someone who wants you for you and instead they want someone else but they just like the way
05:27:47
Tira Hos / Hannah Recardyou look and so they're trying to change you like it's it's in that aspect harder because I think most of the time at least with my friend group and me we ask
05:27:58
Tira Hos / Hannah Recardfor pretty much the bare minimum just love us be moderately funny be able to take care of yourself
05:28:08
Tira Hos / Hannah Recardlike I don't want to babysit you like at least just take care of yourself MH and have passion for something and just accept me for who I am that's it that's like five things that I feel like those
05:28:20
Tira Hos / Hannah Recardare like basic things but wouldn't it be easier for women to get a date if you just said you could get any date cuz men are lying no no no no like we can get dates but for those dates to turn into
05:28:31
Unknown Femaleboyfriends like turn into dating like multiple dates with one person I feel like it's not that deep though I think he's just ask is it easier for us to get dates and like to like and you kind of said in the beginning that like yeah
05:28:44
Tira Hos / Hannah Recardyeah like to get yeah to get a date absolutely it's easier for women but he said dating so I was kind of thinking of dating not getting a date like I think of dating is just like oh you're going
05:28:56
Tira Hos / Hannah Recardon dates like multiple dates that doesn't really yeah multiple dates like find you're not in a relationship you're just dating I think when I think of dating I think of like getting past the first date stage and going on to a
05:29:07
Tira Hos / Hannah Recardsecond date third date like you're dating a person I don't know finding someone who you want to go on a second date with is really I guess what I was saying is so it's like multiple First
05:29:18
Tira Hos / Hannah RecardDates not going on dates well you're going on dates with other multiple people you're going on dates with with with different people every single time
05:29:28
Unknown Femalebut like what I meant is finding someone who you want to date I suppose so I feel like you're trying to say it's hard to be in harder for women to be in a relationship with men but it's not harder for women to date I think that's
05:29:40
Tira Hos / Hannah Recardwhat you're trying to say I meant finding someone to date I suppose because that's what dating is is you're finding someone who you want to date and it's harder to find someone who you want to date because wait but this doesn't this contradict if you still go on a
05:29:53
Brian Atlasdate with someone you're going on a date whether you like them or not you went on a date saying hold on but just to answer that doesn't that kind of like contradict your previous point so on oneand you're saying women don't really ask for a lot we just be slightly funny
05:30:06
Tira Hos / Hannah Recardall the five the five other things you list but also it's hard to like I'm just confused because like within my experience and like my friend's experiences at least I can't speak for
05:30:19
Tira Hos / Hannah Recardany of the other girlies at the table you go on the first date with someone and you're like oh my gosh he's funny check check you know he's um nice to me check but then he says something like
05:30:30
Tira Hos / Hannah Recardreally effed up about you know other women or like putting other people down you're like okay I got to dockum for this and I don't want to go on a second date with him but you still went on a date with him wait I'm going to give
05:30:42
Tira Hos / Hannah Recardmyself a pass here if he says [ __ ] on the first date is that a deal breaker for me yeah I think that's hilarious okay no green flag for me okay here's the only reason why is because I
05:30:54
Tira Hos / Hannah RecardI have family members who are part of that who are part [ __ ] yeah and that's not the appropriate word disabl you were about to call your family members [ __ ] no I was not um
05:31:07
Tira Hos / Hannah Recardsorry um for me personally that is a deal breaker and it is something that if someone says it you know I will if someone says that and I'm dating them or if I'm you know involved with them I'll
05:31:20
Tira Hos / Hannah Recardbe like hey you can't say that it won't necessarily mean that I won't go on a second date with them depending on how their reaction after that is would you you'd call them out but I will call them out yeah here wait wait can we can we role play super quick I know you
05:31:32
Unknown Femaleprobably hate me but let's role playay I know you're in a relationship just pretend you're single all right um so um I'm trying to think like you're a type of guy I cannot wait to hear give me the now I'm like so excited to hear
05:31:45
Brian Atlaswhat's about to come out all right so you and me we're on a date we're we're at um we're at noou cuz I roll like that or whatever the [ __ ] okay we're at noou and I'm like
05:31:57
Brian Atlasyou know eating the steak are you vegan or anything I mean I don't eat steak but no I'm not I was are you vegetarian I was vegan for S years I don't know why this matters okay I'm eating a steak I'm vegan anymore
05:32:08
Brian Atlasand then like I accidentally spill a spill this cup I spill it it doesn't spill on you but it spills it kind of gets on the on the table it was it was
05:32:16
Tira Hos / Hannah Recardwine too I spill it and I'm like a [ __ ] I'm such I'm so [ __ ] I I would I would in that situation I would say it's
05:32:27
Tira Hos / Hannah Recardokay it's just it's just wine it doesn't really really matter and I was like and then I would address it after and say but as far as that word goes that's not
05:32:36
Brian Atlasokay that's not something that I person want to hear oh I um I'm sorry you feel that way yeah I'm sorry you feel that way
05:32:51
Brian Atlasum does it change anything if I am actually
05:32:58
Tira Hos / Hannah Recard[ __ ] no no no we're still role playing we're still we're
05:33:05
Brian Atlasstill we are still role playing he said well I actually well I thought he was changing the I was diagnosed at a young
05:33:13
Brian Atlasage M with retardation and so I I identify as a [ __ ] are are you making a joke right
05:33:23
Tira Hos / Hannah Recardnow or are you actually actually intellectually disabled I could be not could you be but in the situation we were talking about are we still role playing I think we're still role playing yeah we're still role playing yeah oh
05:33:36
Tira Hos / Hannah Recardwe're still role playing yeah we're we're at right now yeah um are you are you actually or is that a joke wait like in the role play cuz it could be like in the role play I'm
05:33:47
Brian Atlastalking yeah I'm talking to you as if we're but I'm not like okay removing I'm not actually [ __ ] but okay going into the role play yeah yes I went to see a
05:33:57
Tira Hos / Hannah Recardpsychiatrist yes I'm [ __ ] okay in the role play in the role play I'm [ __ ] in the role play you are in the role play then then and you feel like you ident identify like that and that I
05:34:09
Brian Atlasdo I want you to affirm my identity now I want you to call me a [ __ ] I will not I will not why won't you affirm my identity as somebody who's [ __ ] that
05:34:18
Brian Atlasthis is really I'm actually offended how dare you how how dare you not affirm my
05:34:26
Tira Hos / Hannah Recardidentity as somebody who is I [ __ ] I prefer not to use that word you can feel that you is the appropriate word that I feel comfortable
05:34:39
Brian Atlaswith using in fact I'm more offended if you call me like mentally challenged I'm more offended by that I'm not challenged I'm just [ __ ] and also it's because
05:34:47
Brian AtlasI'm French I prefer I I identify more with a it's a it is a French word yeah no that's you
05:34:57
Brian Atlasknow that is totally okay if you call me a [ __ ] or this state's over can can I can I finish I will walk I will walk out of here right now leaving you with this bill
05:35:10
Tira Hos / Hannah Recardthen you can do that if you don't want to continue this state you'll pay for the no B it's expensive it's expensive okay this is an expensive bill that's all right I'm sorry that this day didn't go well for you I really hope you have
05:35:22
Brian Atlasbetter future endeavors it was lovely meeting you really you're going to you're going to discriminate against Me based on my disability that's very ableist of you
05:35:35
Brian AtlasI'm not discriminating I thought you were woken Progressive I'm not discri you date somebody who's [ __ ] no you can you wouldn't wait say wait what you wouldn't date a a r that's not what no
05:35:45
Tira Hos / Hannah Recardthat is really offensive got wa frean slip look okay I almost dropped someone
05:35:52
Tira Hos / Hannah Recardelse's name that's really bad you once stated a RW person no I no I mean actually
05:36:03
Tira Hos / Hannah Recardno no okay no no no no let me let me explain let me explain let me explain um I dated a guy and we this was in high
05:36:14
Tira Hos / Hannah Recardschool I dated a guy he was very sweet um until he got another girl pregnant but um he got into a fight with me actually it was like multiple of us it
05:36:25
Tira Hos / Hannah Recardwas on the news because it got to be such a big thing I got arrested he got arrested everyone got arrested um essentially um we got jumped by the high
05:36:35
Tira Hos / Hannah Recardschool jocks and we were like emo kids and he got so badly pummeled that it caused severe brain damage that would like he never recovered from it he
05:36:46
Tira Hos / Hannah Recardactually became like drug uh got heavy like really drug um dependent because of it and so yeah I guess in that situation like he was not functioning on the level
05:36:57
Brian Atlasof like uh you know normal anymore because of the brain damage because of the brain damage it was severe yeah so like damn that yeah technically speaking
05:37:07
Brian AtlasI don't know um yeah anyway would anybody else here object to the scenario if you pretend put yourself in her position I
05:37:18
Brian Atlasspill the cup so it's not like I'm it's not like I have a hatred towards like people who are rward R worded it's just I self-deprecate and I'm like a [ __ ] I spilled the thing I'm so I'm an idiot
05:37:30
Brian AtlasI'm a [ __ ] I would Refirm I would be like yeah you're you [ __ ] [ __ ] [ __ ] [ __ ] like sometimes women on the on the show spill a cup of water and I call them retards and they should say
05:37:42
Andrea Johnsonthank you for keeping me accountable they like Brian that was so attractive let's go on the date absolutely it happens no I will call my date out I call my friends out I call my mom out on stuff I will call people out you call
05:37:54
Brian Atlasyour mom out yeah all the time let be bro just let her be she's a different generation how old's your mom 60 I can't give that information
05:38:04
Brian Atlasout I chck some milk is she single she always say she's 29 is she is she single huh is she
05:38:12
Brian Atlasavailable uh no she's still with your is she married or no she has a boyfriend how long they've been dating I mean this doesn't sound that serious to be honest
05:38:24
Brian AtlasI don't know if it's that serious you'll have to ask her like it doesn't sound like it's really like I don't know just saying like put the I mean if you're interested I'll give her slide in a good word yeah sure
05:38:35
Andrea Johnsonslide yeah but if you use that if you use that word you can't be my stepdad so oh challenge accepted ah good times okay uh
05:38:47
Brian Atlaswhat any other panelists have a available mother that they can set me up with just checking not not of course I wouldn't do that to you we're
05:39:02
Brian Atlashomies I mean I have friends that are more your age I want to say technically my mom okay good talk okay um I don't know where that came up how did we start talking about oh dating is easier for
05:39:14
Brian Atlaswomen how do we why did you bring up this really offensive conversation me me yeah this was your idea I don't I don't think I don't know how we got here I know like roll it back
05:39:26
Brian Atlasright she brought that [ __ ] up I not bring you were like I really want to talk about our words right now like this is your go-to topic definitely gaset
05:39:35
Brian Atlasokay um right at home uh okay anyways uh your next thing okay a few of you I'll move it on just so we can't Linger on anything for too long uh a woman's
05:39:47
Brian Atlascareer money status does not make her more attractive to men to which I think a couple of you circled
05:39:57
Brian Atlasdisagree who uh I don't remember what I chose Hannah you disagreed Andrea you disagreed uh let's see I disagreed Tara
05:40:08
Tira Hos / Hannah Recardyou disagreed when I thought that we were talking specifically about like LA and and like that kind of dating pool is what I was talking about when I filled that out cuz that's what I thought we
05:40:21
Tira Hos / Hannah Recardwere talking about today but that was my misinterpretation um because in La I think status money and like who you know very much factors in to like who who men
05:40:32
Tira Hos / Hannah Recardfor women uh also for men oh for men also for men yeah I think for both people so but I don't really I don't know if it matters for like regular
05:40:42
Tira Hos / Hannah Recarddating so you're saying in the LA in La it does because most everyone's industry and so it's kind of like I feel like everyone's trying to like you know Network and everyone's like you know I
05:40:52
Brian Atlasdon't think oh well I mean I mean I might be willing to grant that like some like actor who is getting mostly extra jobs like
05:41:04
Brian Atlasworking as an extra and he he mostly works as a server and he like shares a bedroom with three
05:41:12
Brian Atlasother guys and R yeah like he if he if [ __ ] I don't know some I'm trying to