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00:02:58Brian Atlason Ates uh but yeah so we're going to do we it's not 100% yet but we're going to see the viewer interest in joining a guild so um
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00:03:59Brian Atlaswhatever ch with that said without further Ado we're going to have the guests introduce themselves so please tell us your name age location and occupation go ahead hi I'm Tira hos um I'm 23 years old I'm from Ohio and I'm a
00:04:11Tira Hos / Hannah Recardmental health Advocate on Tik Tok and Instagram but I'm also a waitress on the side all right welcome what about you hi my name sorry hi my name is Hannah
00:04:21Tira Hos / Hannah Recardrecard I am an actor by occupation I'd prefer not to answer the number of my age because it could potentially out me
00:04:28Brian Atlasfor other roles so um and I live in Los Angeles okay um and explain the we've had this before explain the like
00:04:38Tira Hos / Hannah Recardrefusing to share the age thing so when you're trying to act to be a younger age in a production they want you to be within a certain age R age range even if
00:04:50Tira Hos / Hannah Recardyou look like you belong in that age range if you don't like biologically belong they might not cast you so it's important not to disclose your I don't really get it though like it
00:05:02Brian Atlasdoesn't make sense to me like you look how you look yeah you know my mother agent told me to do it I don't know I just follow what I'm supposed to do but why do you and um have you uh had any
00:05:13Tira Hos / Hannah Recardroles in like any films or TV shows or I do right now a lot of vertical like soap operas they're like on Instagram people get ads for them sometimes but I do a lot of those I've done student films
00:05:25Tira Hos / Hannah Recardshort films stuff like that and like you have a agent with like a T you have a talent agent or I'm in the process of getting a acting talent agent but I do have a modeling talent agent because I've done that since I was about 10 so
00:05:38Tira Hos / Hannah RecardI've been in the entertainment industry for and they tell you that for both modeling and modeling especially you're never supposed to disclude as age okay yeah huh I could see it a l it seems
00:05:49Brian Atlaslike a bit more plausible for modeling than acting but yeah I don't know um I don't what I don't understand though if this was the case why do do we know like the exact
00:06:00Tira Hos / Hannah Recarddate of birth of like the most famous models and actresses so a lot of models will lie about their age until they get to start them and then it doesn't really matter because they won't get out of bed
00:06:12Andrea Johnsonfor less than a million so it's it really just depends on how big you are okay what about you my name
00:06:21Andrea Johnsonis Andrea Johnson I am 34 and I am from Southern California and my occupation I am a marketing director okay all right
00:06:33Mary Gracewhat about you I am Mary Grace Langhorn I'm 23 I'm from Santa Barbara California
00:06:40Mary Graceand I'm a surgical assistant okay cool what kind of uh like you work with a specific surgeon or I
00:06:51Mary Gracework in a pain management practice so typically we have like five surgeons okay we know them pretty well and they're the same surgeries over oric surgeries kind of like spinal cord
00:07:04Kayla Hardystimulators okay but you're not like doing like gastrointestinal no no it's like spine spine only I see okay cool what about you hi I'm Kayla Hardy I'm 25 and I'm in
00:07:15Toni JMalibu and I'm a fashion model all right welcome what about you hi my name is ton J I'm 26 and I'm a singer songwriter and an actress and I'm from La all right
00:07:26Sinead Barrettwhat about you hi my name is sin Barrett um I am a waitress in a barista I work two jobs um I also go to school for um my bachelor's in science
00:07:39Brian AtlasNutrition all right did you and uh where you from did you say where you from I'm from Ohio okay and did you sorry I miss this age I'm 25 25 all right what about
00:07:49Eric Hutchinsyou what's going on my name is Eric Hutchins AKA IL AKA ilos sophical um you can find me on YouTube and Instagram I do social commentary I'm a full-time
00:08:00Eric Hutchinsproject management quality construction manager um I work with uh fiber optics but on the side I also do content um Peace to everybody in the chat all right
00:08:11Brian Atlasuh age 39 39 39 and where you from originally from nework New Jersey by way of Charlotte North Carolina all right
00:08:19Brian Atlaswelcome everybody uh oh Brian Brian Alice 35 owner host whatever podcast over the hill washed up has been YouTuber
00:08:30Andrew Wilsonuh Andrew what about you yeah my name is Andrew Wilson I'm the host of The Crucible it's a popular entertainment Channel on YouTube I'm a political analyst political saturnist
00:08:41Brian Atlasand occasionally like to get into conversations and debates with people all right welcome everybody so we're going to go around the actually wait before we get into relationship status
00:08:51Brian Atlasuh educational background so College I went to college but I dropped out during Co okay yeah all right so and so you did some undergrad yeah I went
00:09:01Tira Hos / Hannah Recardfor social work okay yeah what about you um I did like a conservatory program through naifa but no like real college okay what about you I have my Master's in Business Administration okay and what
00:09:13Mary Graceabout bachelor's uh bachelor's and psychology in Psychology okay all right what about you I have an AA a bachelor's and a and a vocational degree foral what
00:09:24Mary Gracewere they in AA was in music vocal performance and then bachelor in biomedical science all right what about you I have a bachelor's in journalism and an Associates in theater okay cool I
00:09:36Toni Jhave a master's in marketing and a bachelor's in computer science cyber security oh interesting okay um I graduate in six months with my bachelor's in science Nutrition okay
00:09:48Eric Hutchinsvery cool and then any school for you or uh I didn't go to college um I got certified in HVAC and I work in like uh I work with children I have a p professional as well but um no I didn't
00:10:00Brian Atlasattend college to the to the field all right cool and uh a couple of you are singers who's a singer singer you sing do that's it you
00:10:12Andrea Johnsondon't want me to sing I was say you don't want sing like you don't want let's hear you're singer right let's hear something okay um let me see you're
00:10:21Toni Jso on the spot okay you played around and this is not the time
00:10:30Toni Jto take my heart and TOS it on the ground you said you stop
00:10:37Unknownokay what you got what you got not that I do not got that okay got um okay
00:10:49Unknownfine and I wish you the best for the
00:10:53Unknownrest of my life felt sorry for you when I thought you a lie it wasn't [Music]
00:11:08Brian Atlasyou all right there you go for sure very cool very cool all right uh so going around the table what's everybody's current relationship
00:11:19Brian Atlasstatus so are you single talking stage situationship married friends with whatever it is uh if you're single how long have you been single and what's the longest relationship you've ever been in starting with you um currently single I don't know if I'm talking to someone if
00:11:32Unknown Femalethat makes sense just we're in the middle of that but um my longest relationship was 3 years and I have been single for almost two years now okay year and a
00:11:44Tira Hos / Hannah Recardhalf two years yeah all right what about you um I am currently in a committed relationship and my longest relationship was 7 years all right is that the current relationship that the current
00:11:55Brian Atlasrelationship I see okay all right going back to you really quick uh you've been single for 2 years mhm but in that 2-year period like what's the longest period of time you were dating a
00:12:06Unknown Femaleguy maybe a month one month yeah maybe all right I'm quick to like if I don't if you're not up to my standard now out of here not up to your standard okay
00:12:17Unknown Femaleyeah I don't even ask for a lot in my opinion but what do you ask for to have a job job to have a car car an apartment apartment can you meet your needs I'm not meeting their needs okay if I'm
00:12:28Brian Atlasmeeting my own needs you got to meet your needs all right and uh so when's the last time you went on a date or probably like two weeks ago two
00:12:40Brian Atlasweeks ago yeah was it the first date yeah second second date yeah yeah is there going to be a third date I think
00:12:52Unknown Femaleso but we're doing this thing where he asked me to hang out and it was like a 4-Hour period And I was like well I'm not going to be rushed like I'm just going to to go another day cuz I live kind of far from him and then he asked me this week but I was coming here and like just tried to squeeze me in and
00:13:05Unknown Femalethen he's texting me while I've been here but I just I'm like okay we'll see what happens I guess all right okay what about you I am
00:13:14Andrea Johnsoncurrently single uh but I am talking to someone and my longest relationship was sevenish years and uh how long are you did you
00:13:25Brian Atlassay how long you've been single uh no sorry I've been single for for a year and a half so the seven-year relationship is that the one that ended a year and a half ago no okay
00:13:37Brian Atlasum in the seven-year relationship who broke up with who uh I broke up with my ex yeah okay and how long was the relationship that was a year and a half
00:13:48Brian Atlasago a month a month okay who broke up with who I broke up with them okay and you said you're currently talking to someone yes how long have you been talking to said
00:14:00Andrea Johnsonindividual uh off and on for a year off what do you mean off and on for a year uh we started talking last year we met on tender and then fell off and started talking again what um and if I recall
00:14:12Andrea Johnsonfrom your notes you're bisexual is that correct orientation I I consider myself a lesbian but i' I've dated men are you currently dating no I'm dating or talking to a
00:14:23Brian Atlaswoman talking to a woman your seven-year relationship was that a man or a woman a man okay when did that end 2019 18 okay were you a lesbian during
00:14:36Andrea Johnsonthe course of your relationship with a male he knew that I liked women I was attracted to women but I wasn't out yet okay I see
00:14:46Andrea Johnsonum so you're is there a possibility you'll ever date a guy again or is that a hard no there is a possibility but they have to be my standards are so much
00:14:58Brian Atlashigher for men than there are women interesting well we'll go into that but um so did your seven-year relationship did you turn you into a lesbian no I've always been attracted to
00:15:10Andrea Johnsonwom okay well maybe you were by before but the relationship was so bad I don't think swearing off man swearing them off
00:15:18Brian Atlashe was great he was great just okay all right didn't work okay um huh so you said your standards are higher for men
00:15:30Brian Atlasyes versus women and you I mean now you only dating women but uh so what's the difference women just have to
00:15:40Andrea Johnsonexist me to dat unfortunately men they need to buy me flowers they have to be courteous they have to take
00:15:51Andrea Johnsonme on nice dates but I'll treat the woman like no standards sadly okay what else does the guy have to do what
00:16:01Andrea Johnsonelse uh he has to be kind he has to be funny he has to keep me entertained I don't I don't know just and women don't have to do that like women can be like
00:16:13Brian Atlasboring as [ __ ] possibly so kind of like how men have to act basically wait what do you mean well you're saying like you're like the
00:16:25Brian Atlasexpectations that you have on women kind of mirror that expectations that straight men have when it comes to women o maybe right well you said the guy has
00:16:36Brian Atlasto do XYZ it's got to be interesting and entertaining but a girl I even anticipate when I'm dating a girl she's going to be boring as [ __ ] is that what you're saying no no no I don't anticipate them to be boring no or well
00:16:48Andrea Johnsonbut you said like the guy has to be entertaining or whatever yeah it's just that like the quality of of I'm going to sound horrible the quality of guy has to
00:16:57Brian Atlasjust be like a here versus the woman like they're just beautiful like look at all these ladies okay they just have to exist they just have to exist which girl
00:17:08Brian Atlasat the table here would you like most oh no I'm talking to someone so I'm not going to answer that question you said you're single yes you said single bro it's on it's it's on it's off
00:17:21Andrea Johnsonum when's the last time you hung out with this individual um actually they live in a different country so oh it's long distance yes
00:17:29Brian Atlaswhich country Colombia columia you like those Latin American women huh yes okay
00:17:38Andrea Johnsonshe is she a fiery Latina or what uh I wouldn't consider her fiery oh okay she's like a mellow yeah she's she's she's like kind of like me she's
00:17:50Brian Atlaschill she's chill okay um so do you think this is I think she might be using you for a green card C like I think she's using you you should probably break up with her I
00:18:04Brian Atlasdon't think so just kidding uh so okay wait so okay um how many times have you guys hung out in person uh once one time in person one
00:18:14Andrea Johnsontime when was this when you met yes like a year she waso was she visiting no I was visiting I I oh columia I stayed
00:18:24Brian Atlasthere for 5 months oh okay so you guys were seeing each other but you only hung out in person one time so you met her before you left basically
00:18:35Brian Atlaslike a a week before you left or some [ __ ] yeah what did you guys
00:18:42Sinead Barrettdo nothing I was good uhhuh sure um are we allowed to ask questions whenever sorry to interrupt yeah you can
00:18:52Sinead Barrettask a question go ahead oh um no I wasn't I was just asking right now if I have a question I did but now it's on
00:19:01Sinead Barrettthe spot what do you mean now just ask the question go ahead um no it's okay I no go for it I don't mind how do you know like she will be worth it um after only seeing her for one time and for
00:19:14Andrea Johnsonthat long you know that you're waiting that long um how do you know if she's like worth it or not you know I mean I guess how do you know anyone is worth it like we talk every day we have great
00:19:25Andrea Johnsonconversations she makes me laugh you guys you talk every day yeah oh okay do you see like a future with her as well yeah I do I think there's a possibility
00:19:37Andrea Johnsonfor a future okay um are there any plans for her to come visit or you to go back or it's harder for her to come here than it
00:19:47Brian Atlasis for me to go there just because of like Visa situations and things like that wa so um so this was like a year ago you last saw her when did you last see her
00:19:59Andrea Johnsonuh like in December 2023 February well it wasn't a full year it was like February of this
00:20:10Andrea Johnsonyear um wait hold on I have I have a couple questions here have you dated anybody else during this time period no okay so you guys are monogamous I I've talked to other people yes because we
00:20:22Andrea Johnsonstopped talking for a while and then oh so there's a break mhm okay why um I thought she was talking to someone else and like seeing someone else and then we
00:20:33Andrea Johnsonjust I don't know I I'm the type of person if I think someone's up to something I'm just like I'm done when was the break uh like in June okay may so you guys are
00:20:45Andrea Johnsonmonogamous I mean I don't know if she is she might be talking to someone else I don't know are you we haven't had a conversation I'm not talking to anyone else okay is this a fulfilling
00:20:55Andrea Johnsonrelationship for you at the moment okay the distance isn't a problem the distance is a problem um but we'll see
00:21:06Brian Atlashow it goes and then uh unrelated to this current woman kind of do you want to get married have kids um I definitely want to get married I don't know if I want kids okay
00:21:20Andrea Johnsonum huh it's complicated interesting it's like met somebody once and and talk every
00:21:31Brian Atlasday but you you should date a prisoner I feel like it's kind of the same no you know there's a lot of like lesbian women in prison I think but she's not a
00:21:42Andrea Johnsoncriminal that I know of you're like well about that part that part okay well uh all right cuz I mean okay I do have some standards they can't be criminals sure
00:21:53Brian Atlasreasonable I'm a little confused though you said you were single right but you're not really single right cuz if like let's say some like hot Mamita approached you or
00:22:05Brian Atlaswhatever that used to be my screen name really hot mam remember remember 420 no it was 09 okay nice like ele so okay
00:22:17Brian Atlassome like you're you're at the Trader Joe's or doing Pilates or some [ __ ] and like some hot mam steps and like what's up I want to
00:22:29Brian Atlasdo things to you that's the go-to pickup line for lesbian relationships obviously uhuh are you going to turn them
00:22:43Brian Atlasdown I don't know you don't know [ __ ] okay all right well wait how did you suspect that she was unfaithful like through long
00:22:53Andrea Johnsondistance uh an Instagram post I mean we weren't together or anything so it's not like she was unfaithful I'm the type of person if like we haven't disclosed that
00:23:03Andrea Johnsonwe're not seeing other people then I can't say that she's was unfaithful we were just in a talking stage so H okay
00:23:12Mary Graceall right uh what about you relationship status I am I'm single okay as of six weeks ago okay six weeks my longest relationship was 3 and 1/2 years is that
00:23:25Brian Atlasthe one that ended 6 weeks ago absolutely not uh the three and a half year relationship who broke up with who my my ex broke up with you he broke up with me yes and then the 6 weeks ago how
00:23:36Mary Gracelong was that relationship a year and a half who broke up with who his mother broke up with me yeah it was hot thank you good good times Amazing uh why did
00:23:47Mary Gracehis mom dump you yeah and why were you also dating his mom you know my sister's a lesbian and she kind of hooked us up should have been my first red flag to
00:23:57Mary Gracenot get wait your sister hooked you up with a guy yes but my sister was trying to get with the
00:24:10Mary Gracemom that's crazy yeah so then I actually befriended the mom because I wanted to get with the son and my sister
00:24:21Mary Gracebefriended the son because she was trying to get with the mom anyway long story short I ended up moving to New York for him because I was totally infatuated because he was a Latin lover
00:24:31Mary Graceand yeah anywh who totally delusional um okay nice good yeah his mom had a restraining order over him to control
00:24:43Mary Gracehim and I didn't know until I moved to New York wait a restraining order yeah it was like super to control him yeah it turns out was that domestic violence
00:24:54Brian Atlasjust dysfunction wait are you sure sure you it was a restraining order 100% the I saw the PO they came so it wasn't to
00:25:04Mary Gracecontrol him right no it was she admitted to it were they living together at some point
00:25:15Brian Atlasyes cuz there's like if he's like mentally incompetent that's my type that no but like it wouldn't be a restraining order unless I'm just misunderstanding
00:25:25Mary Graceshe stated that her son tried to kill her she later acknowledged that it was false but you can't un say that you
00:25:36Mary Gracecan't unsay that when there's their papers drawn up and what tell what's the story of the attempted murder the attempted murder supposedly
00:25:49Mary Gracehe he thought his mother hated him and supposedly it's very complicated but he claimed you just want me out of your life so what is it going to take write
00:26:02Mary Graceme a check and I will never see you again basically he thought his mother hated him and the mom is screaming my son's trying to kill me and take all my money and she shouted out of the window
00:26:13Mary Gracein Carpenteria which is right near here a super small Beach Town help my son's trying to kill me and they called the
00:26:21Mary Gracecops and yeah yeah yeah and at this time you know he did put his head through a few
00:26:32Mary Gracewalls what wait you're trying to crazy no I didn't know this until I was already involved with him okay yeah wow wow so
00:26:43Mary Gracehe what he didn't actually do that though honestly I think they're both liars open the door Damian they're both liars I think they are both absolutely crazy huh the mom's trying to take me to court right now why is she trying to
00:26:55Mary Gracetake you to court she's saying I owe her $10,000 for taking care of her son what do you mean thank you Louis okay so I moved to New York to go
00:27:07Mary Graceto school and be with him obviously she kind of gave her blessing and she was like I support you I love you for my son and I love your family and we're super
00:27:19Mary Gracedysfunctional and love each other um I end up flying to New York no sooner
00:27:25Mary Gracethan yes I did um there is yeah he ended up seeing his mom text me something having to do with her her
00:27:37Mary Graceother son her stepson his step brother and he got super jealous flipped out and threatened his mom on a email saying I want nothing to do with you you've been
00:27:48Mary Gracewarned I'm done with this toxic relationship with you leave me alone now what I didn't know at the time was she had an active restraining order
00:27:59Mary Graceagainst him so that was a threat and I didn't know this until I moved so she ended up reporting it to his probation officer and then he was in violation of
00:28:11Brian Atlashis probation so then she cut him off and I ended up taking care of him for like a year and a half wait when okay you say I'm going to try to move this forward as quickly as I
00:28:22Brian Atlascan you said you there's a probation officer okay what crime was he convicted of uh domestic domestic violence okay but she later recanted and said that it was false not in court privately oh okay
00:28:35Brian Atlastwo friends all right and part of the restrain uh part of the conviction entails a restraining order correct okay so it's not just a civil restraining order it's a criminal restraining order correct um what does that have to do
00:28:48Mary Gracewith you pertaining to the lawsuit oh I under what legal claim would she sue you for $10,000 she ended up paying for 3 months of of our rent a
00:28:59Mary Graceyear down the line recently because did you have a lease I did not no lease it was but she was paying for the rent she gave our landlord 3 months of rent
00:29:10Brian Atlasbecause she felt really bad that I had been financially supporting her son okay for the past year are there any text messages or contracts between you two that would indicate that you're going to pay her back for this money not a
00:29:21Mary Gracecontract I did text that I wanted to pay her back because I that probably establishes exact yeah liability to some degree yeah yeah you probably shouldn't have said that
00:29:33Mary Graceshe can probably have you been served you know that's why I dyed my hair and moved town so you actually need to be you need to be served and if you don't know where I
00:29:45Brian Atlaslive and you don't know what I look like well so is she threatening to file an action or did she file an action uh she threatened it how long ago 2 weeks ago
00:29:56Brian Atlasit's going to be difficult she's in New York she's in karp actually okay well okay you could be anyways well I'm going to awesome dating podcast not legal podcast but yeah there could be
00:30:09Brian Atlasyou you might be on the hook for some rent but yeah um okay anyways is there going to be a server processor outside your uh studio tonight yeah probably probably she's going to get served right here along with me with my own
00:30:20Kayla Hardylitigation matters uh what about you so I am in a committed relationship and it's been 3 years sure he's 15 years older than me all right and my longest
00:30:31Brian Atlasrelationship is 4 years all right so the one previous 40 and you're 25 yep okay and sorry your previous relationship was four years or four years four years yeah and that was the longest yeah and your
00:30:44Brian Atlascurrent one's three years yeah who broke up with who in the four-year relationship me okay and I was living with him all right was he also also age Gap relationship yeah he was six years older than me yeah all right uh and then
00:30:56Kayla Hardyhow did you meet your current guy um he's a photographer and he hired me as a model for CSL a gig no no not Craigslist wait so you you go do the photography gig and then he's
00:31:08Kayla Hardylike he's an automotive photographer so he hired me as like a host spokes model okay for a car show yeah cool like big name photographer or yeah Porsche is his biggest client all the Billboards in Los
00:31:18Toni JAngeles are his photos yeah very cool what about you um I was single my longest relationship was um 3 years all right um um what was the other question
00:31:29Toni Jhow long you been single for um since 2021 the end of 2021 three years yeah uh and then who broke up through in your three-year relationship um he actually
00:31:38Brian Atlaspassed away oh uh you're w a widow then correct yes okay were you married I was oh you were married okayed was that the relationship that ended well 3 years ago
00:31:49Toni Jyes correct no I'm sorry to hear that sorry to hear that thank you um have you been have you dated since at all or I actually went on to date yesterday or
00:31:58Brian Atlaslast night and I'm going on another one tonight after this wow so so yeah yeah kind of starting uh how long uh or the
00:32:09Toni Jone yesterday was it your first date since really correct all right you're just then you got a second date already okay all right was it it's a different guy so it's a different guy yeah okay
00:32:20Sinead Barrettyeah just casually see what's out there all right what about you um I'm currently in the talking stage with somebody and and my longest relationship
00:32:30Sinead Barrettis a year I would say little over a year longest relationship a little over a year how long have you been in the talking stage with this new guy um we actually just established that before I
00:32:41Sinead Barrettcame here it's been about a month one month he's is it long distance or same city nope um we actually uh we went to the same school together and then I had
00:32:52Sinead Barrettmoved schools um we actually the person I'm talking to uh he was like my it sounds silly but he was like my first love in like fourth grade and he was in
00:33:03Sinead Barrettsixth grade um and then we kind of just like found each other again and he ended up living only 8 minutes away so then we just kind of started when you say kind of sort of found each other again mhm
00:33:15Sinead Barrettwhat do you mean you slid into his DMS or this is funny um so he actually had
00:33:24Sinead Barrettmessaged me about like once a year up until yeah like recently and then finally this recent time that he had messaged me it was actually about um the
00:33:35Sinead Barretthurricanes in Florida cuz I had family in Florida and he had asked me about how my family was doing um I would say like every year up until then he would message me uh I would either be in a
00:33:45Brian Atlasrelationship he wouldn't say anything like too forward but he would always be there in my DMs yeah but it was just kind of bad timing
00:33:56Sinead Barrettbecause every single time you would have something else going on well it's funny back in like fourth grade I would say fourth fifth grade uh I heard rumors about him and I just never looked his
00:34:08Sinead Barrettway since and I never gave him like more chances after that what was the rumor I honestly forget it was been such a long time ago but um I just remember being at
00:34:19Sinead Barrettlike a fifth grade dance and hearing about it I think he or was it the sixth grade dance it's been like four fourth like childhood Crush SL love like or how
00:34:32Sinead Barrettdid you describe it yeah I guess so on you remember what it is what is it I was in fourth grade he was in sixth grade and then for 2 years we were kind of you know back and forth um so then
00:34:44Sinead Barrettthe last time I think I heard a rumor and I think he was like on the eighth grade DC trip I don't know if you guys know what that is but our high school takes a trip um our eighth grade year to
00:34:55Sinead BarrettDC yeah what's the rumor the rumor was that I I really forget that he talked to somebody else he flirted with somebody else um but I was also in fourth grade and he was in oh no
00:35:08Sinead BarrettI was in sixth grade at the time and he was in eighth grade so it was something along the lines of talking to somebody else yes but it was very looked down
00:35:19Sinead Barrettupon because he was 2 years older um and my parents are very like well my grandparents I was adopted by my grandparents um they had a lot of strict morals and something that comes
00:35:32Sinead Barrettspecifically to my mind on why we stopped talking as well I was kind of forced to stop talking to him so Not only was the rumor the thing but I was also forced by my grandparents to stop
00:35:42Sinead Barretttalking to him because he reposted something on Facebook and it was a cuss word that he had reposted didn't even type it himself but um that's just how strict my grandparents are as
00:35:56Brian Atlaswell is that I I'm so far removed from like Elementary School like I know so is I that is kind of like for an eighth grader is that kind of weird for an
00:36:07Brian Atlaseighth grader to be dating a sixth grader I mean at the time it feels a bit weird a little but like okay sixth grader dating a fourth grade I don't know I wasn't I
00:36:18Sinead Barrettdidn't start dating till like high school see well eth eth and six is still middle school so they're all middle schoolers right yes so I was there's three schools there's like an elementary
00:36:27Sinead Barretta middle school and a high school and um during that time he was in the High School uh yeah he was in the high school
00:36:37Sinead Barrettyou did a an 8th through 12th grade high school yes yeah okay I see yeah that's uh that doesn't sound great yeah they shove the eighth graders
00:36:47Brian Atlasin there it's a pretty small school uh but in any case you guys he was sliding into the DMS every single year you're
00:36:55Brian Atlasfinally single now you guys are in a talking stage yes uh but uh I
00:37:07Brian Atlasmean sorry I lost my CH you're in a talking stage we've been talking for a month yes okay is it you guys you think it's going
00:37:16Brian Atlasto go further or I do I do yeah okay this guy seems like he's super into you why is it has he not like asked you to
00:37:25Sinead Barrettbe his girlfriend um I think he's just kind of waiting on me to say like to date or not with me it kind of takes time to really get to know somebody I feel like in this um modern dating
00:37:38Sinead BarrettSociety you don't really know someone until you start living with them or spending a lot of time with them um yeah I mean you guys known each other for like but we didn't see each other over a decade or something we did not see each
00:37:50Eric Hutchinsother in between fun yeah all right uh what about you relationship status um well I'm single right now um I was my longest relationship was when I was married I got married really young like
00:38:01Eric Hutchins22 23 I was um with her for like six years and then I was with someone about two years after that for about another six years MH and I kind of just been um I went through my little phase where I
00:38:14Eric Hutchinsjust you know focused on work now I'm just you know window shopping I'm not really uh talking to anybody too seriously I'm just you know checking out the the uh the discount rack and see
00:38:26Eric Hutchinswhat's going on you know what I mean you know I'm trying not to what's going on just see what's going on out there I'm not I'm not really involved anybody seriously right now just get to know people this sure I guess you're in the
00:38:36Brian Atlasright place earthquake donated $200 what happened to Madison oh okay uh I mean I already addressed it but um uh like two months ago a month ago she
00:38:48Brian Atlasresigned no bad blood anything like that uh business you know people move on switch jobs circumstances change uh it's good working with her but uh I was too
00:38:59Brian Atlasmean to her Andrew was too mean to her yeah uh if she ever wants to come back the door's open and um and look if you guys really want her back you can you can let her know DM or whatever do open
00:39:10Brian Atlasback by popular demand Madison um but yeah so um and then we had one coming through here
00:39:18Unknownuh Duke glavius there donated $200 Brian looking forward to playing World of Warcraft classic fresh with
00:39:28Brian AtlasI sent in my application on the Discord lfg yo thank you glavius I'll take a look guys so discord. whatever if y'all want to come play World of Warcraft with
00:39:38Brian Atlasuh me and Andrew Wilson Andrew You're Gonna Play Mage right uh yeah I think I'm going to do a mage for sure yeah but and it's still it's still not 100% if we're going to do
00:39:51Brian Atlasthis I got to see if I have time there's a lot going on but uh we'll we'll see the interest and the guild and that's what I did years ago it was a horde Mage a troll Mage oh nice there you go you
00:40:03Brian Atlasgot to go Undead though I think I think you got go troll okay all right yeah actually I think like for PVE troll is pro wait for mage I think is
00:40:15Brian Atlasbetter cuz like the like minimally though cuz like the passive racial you get the casting speed increase or whatever okay whatever the haste thing I forgot what it's called
00:40:26Brian Atlasexactly all right so um we're going to uh do three reacts we've been need to get these done uh first we have a video from you then went really viral Damen can you pull that up while he's getting
00:40:39Unknown Femalethat pulled up quick question for you I think I already asked this uh you said you've been single for 2 years your last date though was two weeks ago you said yeah a few weeks ago but a lot of the dates like in between from my last relationship I didn't really take
00:40:51Unknown Femaleseriously cuz I was like you know just not there yet um now I'm like same thing kind of window shopping just seeing what's out there there whatever comes comes sure
00:41:00Brian AtlasDamian all right we're going to play the clip uh there is going to be audio it's the Instagram clip uh make it one bigger if you can so
00:41:12Eric Hutchinsguys watch the clip we're going to get your reaction to this uh this segment go ahead so what did you say I said women don't like dudes who got their own who
00:41:23Eric Hutchinsdon't need them they rather deal with men mhm who are not that intellectually aggressive who going to let them say what they want and do what they want they rather deal with a man like not saying you like that but most women out
00:41:36Eric Hutchinshere don't want to deal with a man who going to say baby n don't wear that n baby don't talk like that they don't really want to deal with that they rather deal with a dude who let them say and do whatever they want to do and they
00:41:45TTS Readerthink if a man be a man he's toxic so my question was do you [ __ ] with a real woman let me answer that question and the reason why I asked is because if you [ __ ] with a real woman she's going to
00:41:59TTS Readeragree with you hey maybe I shouldn't step outside wearing this nasty [ __ ] let me answer that this the problem the real woman is standing too close to the hoes so we don't know the difference until we
00:42:10Eric Hutchinsstart talking to y'all you want me to no no listen listen listen I I met I met a lot of women it don't mean I don't care if they from the hood I don't care if they from they got two parents they interests are the same it's like right
00:42:22Eric Hutchinsnow right if you see 10 Lions coming down the street are you going to try to figure out which lion going to bite you ass or not you going to be like them 10 Lions so unfortunately the real woman
00:42:32Brian Atlasagree with too much [ __ ] that these holes is on so we don't know the [ __ ] difference okay so um I think the key
00:42:41Brian Atlaspoints there just to kind of perhaps help prompt this for the panel is uh you don't want a girl to dress revealing
00:42:51Eric Hutchinsright is that and then what was the other one like going out to bars the ENT of I'm sorry their interests are the same so it's like you know it's not necessarily controlling or having just looking like a certain type of woman
00:43:05Eric Hutchinsit's their interest it's the music they listen to it's their attitudes it's their perspectives it's their you know outlook on life seems to be too similar to women that are not in their league so it's not like cuz people say oh you
00:43:17Eric Hutchinsshould talk to different type of women or deal with women in a different area as if they're not everywhere you can find a a woman I know women that are in Corporate America that's dealing with guys that are criminals I know it doesn't matter their lifestyle they
00:43:30Eric Hutchinsstill seem to deal with the same type of guys they still seem to have the same type of perspectives regardless of their upbringing regardless of their education they still seem to come to the same conclusion with other women and it seems like when a man is more assertive a
00:43:42Eric Hutchinslittle more objective a little more uh protective of their image they seem like he's insecure or he's he's being he's controlling when this he's really protecting you from the world it's not about hey you're mine you can't do
00:43:54Eric Hutchinsanything but why would your man want you to be online with your body exposed what type of man would want that why a lot of women say oh men are they're not traditional they're not courting anymore why would I Court a woman who's already
00:44:06Eric Hutchinsexposed you Court a woman to discover something that's not easily exposed to people so if your body is exposed online why would I court that why would I take out the time to treat you differently when all I got to do is just go on your
00:44:18Eric HutchinsInstagram and I can see your whole body so why would a man traditionally deal with a woman who's not even moving traditionally so that was the perspective of that video okay I did notice that you brought up uh Lions the
00:44:29Andrew Wilson10 Lions thing but that was a hypothetical and I was just wondering if you're aware that hypothetical are hypocritical I just oh um say say that
00:44:39Andrew Wilsonagain are that hypotheticals are hypocritical how so oh I mean I just I heard that on an alpha male podcast I just wondered if you'd ever heard that before no I've never heard that no yeah
00:44:55Brian Atlasokay wait what I don't know oh was that I don't
00:45:05Unknown Femaleknow yes yeah yeah like what are we answering right now okay so we watched the video your
00:45:16Unknown Femalereaction to the I'll go I was going to say I feel like when you say all women you could flip that and say all men like you know what I'm saying like to say
00:45:26Unknown Femalethat Every Woman agrees with every woman is kind of crazy cuz I guarantee that we don't agree on everything like sitting here you know what I'm saying but that's why I said in the video I said it's um
00:45:38Eric Hutchinsnot all so I said a lot you know what I'm saying so it's definitely it's never all it's never all of anybody no one it's that's just ridiculous but a lot of women there's a lot of women that agree with this liberal I can wear what I want
00:45:50Eric Hutchinsto wear and if he has a problem with it it's his problem it's like okay cool but that doesn't work in the real world you know if you want to go out it's like a man if I'm coming outside with money hanging out my pockets jewelry dripping
00:46:01Eric Hutchinsall over me can I really get upset when a woman looks at me for just finances or look at me just as a provider I'm sending mixed messages so it's like if you want the traditional man if you want this protection if you want this
00:46:14Eric Hutchinsleadership what's wrong with coming out with a modest approach now we know it's a new time so women are a lot more liberated than before so you're not going to be Grandma but it's a little extreme these days and to try to figure
00:46:26Eric Hutchinsfigure out which woman is going to be the right woman for you picking from the visuals the interest in music the interest in talking points is a little difficult you know what I'm saying that's why a lot of men are looking elsewhere like like you have Miss like
00:46:40Eric Hutchinsyou you're looking overseas it's like sound like what the passport Bros are doing you know what I'm saying a lot of people guys are looking at other races of women other genders of not genders but other nationalities of women because it seems like in America traditional
00:46:52Eric Hutchinsmanhood I feel like the Modern Woman have been programmed into being incompatible with a man's nature so like a man has to fight his nature just to deal with the woman and that's
00:47:03Unknown Femalejust not realistic I would say women would do the same right now though like we are fighting our own feminine energy and asking acting masculine also in this generation like I basically took care of a man like he just quit his job and I
00:47:16Unknown Femalehad to take care of everything but I a lot of the men and it might be just the men that I'm tracting but a lot of men that I'll like end up talking to they just can't even provide for themselves and I feel like everything is just kind
00:47:27Eric Hutchinsof flipped right now if that makes sense like everything is just flipped I agree but this is the issue that I I realize with a lot of women a lot like I noticed like I have a friend of mine she's talking about how a lot of the women's
00:47:40Eric Hutchinsuh homicides are coming from their mates and it coming from the men that they're with this is the issue with that a lot of men that are dealing with women today are very passive and what they do is
00:47:52Eric Hutchinsthey suppress their Natural Instincts just to deal with the woman and then they snap because they've been fronting for so long and oh yeah baby I'll do that yeah just telling you what you want to hear for so long that one day they
00:48:03Eric Hutchinsjust go crazy because women are avoiding men who are objective from the beginning so they end up with guys that they got to take care of because the guy that you don't have to take care of he going to tell you he not going to tell you what you want to hear so you end up with the guy that will tell you what you want to
00:48:16Brian Atlashear but you also got to take care of him not saying you have I'm saying that happens a lot okay all right uh so any reactions to the original clip from any other panels
00:48:27Tira Hos / Hannah Recardpanelist here I would disagree with the statement um I would say that mostly because my longest healthiest relationship that I'm currently in I do modeling I do acting he's seen
00:48:39Tira Hos / Hannah Recardeverything that that goes online sometimes I do bikini shoots sometimes I have to do lingerie shoots sometimes I'm kissing a guy in a scene sometimes there's a sex scene involved no actual
00:48:49Tira Hos / Hannah Recardsex happens just to be clear it's fake um and he's very secure in our relationship he doesn't feel jealous he
00:48:58Tira Hos / Hannah Recarddoesn't feel any type of way about it and I think that comes down to nurture instead of nature so how he was raised by his mother is very different than I
00:49:10Tira Hos / Hannah Recardthink any other man that I've ever dated and the reason why he turned out the way he did and the why the reason why he's okay with with me pursuing my career and
00:49:22Brian Atlasit doesn't bother his masculinity is because he's secure in our relationship because he had a perfect business model and that's his parents so I one thing really quick um I mean you cited to your
00:49:33Brian Atlascareer I don't know if you give a carve out I mean I think some men would still but you give a carve out like if if she's a model that's that's different but it's like I think you're talk when you when you were in the clip when
00:49:45Eric Hutchinsyou're talking about how they dress it's like they're going out to bars and clubs and like titties out absolutely and what you're doing that's a profession so that comes with the profession you know what I'm saying I'm pretty sure you had that
00:49:57Eric Hutchinsprofession before you met him these I'm talking about women who work at Kmart and she got three two or three children or she's dating someone already and she's just advertising her body just because just to pass the time and get likes you're not getting paid for that
00:50:10Eric Hutchinsthat's that's like Jay-Z his wife is Beyonce so she's going to take some salacious pictures because that comes with her career that's a part of the industry she's in so they have that established I'm talking about the average woman who just wants attention
00:50:21Eric Hutchinsand using her body to just get attention despite the demands or the request of her partner or potential suitors that she would like that is not benefitting her like you're getting paid for that you're getting contracts for that you're
00:50:34Brian Atlasgetting office for what you're doing these women are just showing their body just to show it so my question is really really quick just to allow her a chance to respond so I guess setting aside the uh the career component here do you
00:50:47Tira Hos / Hannah Recardstill have a disagreement with his position I think it's still valid and it's because your his position or your position my position I think is still valid because not every single person
00:50:59Tira Hos / Hannah Recardyou meet on the street you're going to be compatible with and we all have a different moral compass and there's not a wrong or right moral compass that
00:51:09Tira Hos / Hannah Recardbeing said if you want someone who dresses modestly then go for someone who dresses modestly I think the real issue comes in when we're putting each other down for each other's wants and dislikes
00:51:20Tira Hos / Hannah Recardit's not there there's nothing wrong with you wanting something or her wanting something it comes when you want someone because maybe how they look but you want to conform you want them to
00:51:31Eric Hutchinsconform to what you believe you know just find someone compatible for you I I I respect that but what I'm saying is based on the complaints I'm hearing from women in modern society where are the men at why are they not this why are
00:51:43Eric Hutchinsthey not that well this is why so what I'm saying is you can do what you want to do cuz I don't I don't judge my my thing is all about cause and effect results you can
00:51:54Eric Hutchinsdo whatever the hell you want but don't complain when those results don't come back that you want so if you want to be liberated and and show your nipples and show your cleavage and the crack of your bah to total strangers online you are
00:52:06Eric Hutchinsfree to do that but you're not free to complain about the lack of males and the lack of men who are able to provide a certain lifestyle not wanting to deal with you that's my issue you can do what you want to do but don't blame men that
00:52:19Eric Hutchinsdon't want to deal with that at the same time you can't have it all you can't have it both ways in my opinion but you can do what you want to do your thoughts yeah yeah I hear what both of you are saying and I really agree
00:52:31Andrea Johnsonwith what you're saying I also agree with what you just said um but I think at the same time the same thing goes for the men who are complaining about the women who are dressing provocatively
00:52:43Andrea Johnsonlike they need to take into account that there's women who are dressing conservatively so they should just go for those women and you know they shouldn't be complaining when they can't or they're on Instagram and they're
00:52:55Eric Hutchinsseeing the women who have their nipples showing and I I agree with that but that's why I said they standing too close because when I say it's not just about the visuals it's the mindset so
00:53:07Eric Hutchinsfor example I know women that are conservative visually but when they start talking you see what type of people they associate themselves with the music they listen to the perspectives how they deal with other people their character their decorum
00:53:20Eric Hutchinsit's just like a woman who dresses salaciously so I'm what I'm talking about is a a energy a perspective the way you carry yourself not just how you look that's like kind of low hanger fruit I said that because you know people can grab gravitate towards that
00:53:33Eric Hutchinseasily but it's not just how they dress it's just how they move period you know what I'm saying we all know you got a friend that's nothing like you but you you but you hang with her so if you got a chick like me if I'm if I'm hanging
00:53:44Eric Hutchinswith a dude that's a gang member I may not be but can I judge someone who says well hey you seem cool but you with that guy so I don't know I could get in my feelings all I want but like the Bible say not to get religious but man look at
00:53:56Eric Hutchinsthe outward appearance people people's natural instinct is to just judge what they see people are not going to take the time to see through and see well maybe he's not quite like that yeah his friends a murderer but he may people got to survive people going to do what
00:54:09Eric Hutchinsinstinctively to make them have give them a better day tomorrow so they're not going to take the time to try to distinguish are you different from this woman they're going to look at it and they're going to keep it moving especially in today's time where just approaching a woman wrong could change
00:54:20Eric Hutchinsyour life you could you could talk to the wrong woman and say how you doing Miss and she she she'll get you you know restraining on all types of stuff like I know a guy who recently just got a restraining on to put on him to the point where he had to he got far from
00:54:32Eric Hutchinshis job just because he told the woman that she know she's nice looking like we live in these sensitive times so it's like if we're in these sensitive times you think this the time to really come outside looking crazy you really think it's the time to really post on your
00:54:44Toni JInstagram looking super salacious I I just don't think it's the right time for that in my personal opinion I have a daughter you know I think that men say that they want a modest woman but they
00:54:54Toni Jreally don't because you guys you like the the generation now has kind of shifted everyone was wanting that
00:55:03Toni Jkind of modest um kind of old school relationship right now social media is involved people you know do only fans they do women do a lot of different
00:55:14Toni Jthings and you guys pay for that so it's kind of I don't pay for that for that you might but a large amount of men do
00:55:23Toni Jand those guys are simps but so you guys kind of attract and like those things so women have kind of shifted like even like with bbls and different things like that now it's not a thing now people don't like it like men don't
00:55:36Toni Jlike it so women are now getting it removed and different things so we're kind of Shifting with how you guys respond to what we're doing because I don't think that we like women were respected when we were modest like when
00:55:47Toni Jwe were doing you know staying at home cook like you guys didn't respect that so now I feel like everything is changing and now that we just want to be ourselves whatever that what yeah it's kind of a false premise
00:55:58Andrew Wilsonisn't it I don't know about that you think I'm sorry I'm sorry I just want to make sure that we're clear you think that women are respected more now that more of them do sex work than before when they didn't do sex work no I'm not
00:56:09Toni Jsaying that they're they're respected more but I'm saying that men men are men are eating that stuff up right now and and and it it is slowly