ALL RAGE QUIT & KICKED OUT?! HATER Came To DESTROY Brian?! HØE PHASE = GOOD?! | Dating Talk 287
Date: 2026-03-23
Duration: 9h 38m
Guests
Brian AtlasIdentified Speakers
SPEAKER_02Julia(guest)
SPEAKER_04Lindsey(guest)
SPEAKER_05Brian Atlas(host)
SPEAKER_07Laetitia(guest)
SPEAKER_08Chris Love(guest)
SPEAKER_09Maria(guest)
SPEAKER_10Lexi(guest)
SPEAKER_11Veronica(guest)
SPEAKER_12Brooklyn(guest)
Key Moments
00:00:11
IntroAll guests introduce themselves. Lexi reveals findom operation with male manager.
01:35:00
Key MomentBrian: do sex workers deserve chivalry? Sparks central debate.
02:14:00
QuoteBrian: 'Women do jack s---. YOU DON'T DO ANYTHING.' on what women bring to dating.
03:17:40
Key MomentMaria drove across states to cheat, turned around at 'Don't commit adultery' billboard
03:43:00
ControversyBrian tells Maria's boyfriend Luke he should dump her
06:47:00
ControversyVeronica cries and rage quits during weight rejection debate
06:51:00
ControversyLindsey confronts Brian and is kicked off - second rage quit
07:08:00
Key MomentJulia's toxic ex: flew out another girl, got her Korean name tattooed on his ribs
08:16:00
Key MomentLaetitia discusses sex addiction history and 3-year celibacy journey
08:47:00
OtherChris Love can't name Canada, continents, or what a nickel is worth in trivia
Topics Discussed
00:00:11
Guest Introductions and Findom
Lexi (18) does findom with male manager making $10K/mo. Brian questions whether it constitutes fraud/sex work.
00:48:40
Relationship Status Round
Chris Love has 12-13 man roster, 5 dates/week, fake boyfriend arrangement. Maria 12 years with Luke. Laetitia divorced, celibate.
01:35:00
Chivalry for Non-Traditional Women
Brian argues sex workers don't deserve chivalry. Women can't articulate what they uniquely bring to dating.
03:15:00
Maria's Heroin Addiction
10-year heroin addiction. Nearly cheated driving across states. Turned around at 'Don't commit adultery' billboard.
04:04:00
Self-Ratings and Looks
Several rate themselves 10. Brian gives 4-6.5 ratings.
04:16:00
Julia's Racial Dating Preferences
Julia (Korean-American) not attracted to Asian men, prefers white men.
05:13:00
Minimum Income Requirements
Lexi $120K. Chris Love $400K-$20M. Maria $50K. Lindsey 'I don't know.'
06:35:00
Weight Rejection Debate / Rage Quits
Veronica cries and rage quits. Lindsey confronts Brian and also rage quits/kicked off. Two walkoffs.
07:08:00
Julia's Toxic Ex Story
Ex flew out another girl day Julia moved in. Got other girl's Korean name tattooed on his ribs.
07:14:00
Hoe Phase Debate
Julia argues hoe phase can be empowering. Laetitia says her promiscuous past wasn't actually empowering.
08:16:00
Laetitia's Self-Improvement Journey
Former sex addict, celibate years working on herself. 'Married herself' 3 years ago.
08:47:00
Rapid Fire Trivia
Chris Love can't name Canada as country north of US. Brooklyn excels.
Transcript
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07:54:41
MariaLike fit. All right, I'm not gay for you anymore, I guess. >> [laughter] >> Uh what do you want? Oh Well, I kind of have it a little bit. Muscles. Uh someone who's like perceptive of
07:54:54
Mariathings, like intelligent. >> Posture check. There you go. Sorry. You're good. I'm looking out for you. Perceptive [clears throat] of things. >> [laughter] >> Intelligent, whatever. Yeah, what about
07:55:05
Laetitiayou? Um I would say hot as well, confident, sense of humor. Um ambitious and adventurous. And what do you want?
07:55:17
JuliaUh someone who is kind, someone who is affectionate. Someone who is uh loyal and trustworthy.
07:55:25
Brian AtlasAnd um someone who is passionate about most things in life. Okay. Uh I The only other note I have for you,
07:55:37
Brian AtlasLexi, you do the findom stuff. You're kind of a sex worker. You're You've been 18 for 6 months. Uh I'll just reiterate, I guess.
07:55:47
Brian AtlasI think you should seriously consider stopping the road you're going down. Uh I think you'll regret it when you're older. Your husband will not appreciate his
07:55:57
Brian Atlaswife and your kids will not appreciate their mother doing that kind of thing. I disagree. I think that the right guy won't care. You don't agree? I don't agree. Like I don't think she's going to
07:56:11
Brooklynregret it because I like know her situation and she was able >> What's her situation? Well, I'm not going to get into like my whole life, but I'm just saying it was like good for her to get out and like make money on her own and there wasn't many ways ethically at her age.
07:56:24
Brian AtlasI mean there's jobs. I had a job. I've had a job since I've been 14. If I want to go to school before you're even 18. Look, I understand that you make good money and I understand that you know,
07:56:36
Brian Atlasfinancially in order to move through the world in a comfortable way, money is important. I understand that, but at what cost? I don't think this cost is like that bad.
07:56:49
LexiIf it was like You don't think it's that I don't think it's that bad. It's more like It's like a funny little troll. Yeah, it could be worse. And it's like I got out and you know,
07:57:01
Brian AtlasI'm doing my other stuff. Who said ethically? Somebody said that Was that you? >> that. >> It's ethical? No, I said no. No, I said there's not >> Who's really at fault though, the men >> Yeah, they're well
07:57:13
BrooklynOkay, I have criticisms of the men, too. I wasn't saying that though. I was saying there's not too many jobs like that young that or too many ways to make that much money ethically at this young.
07:57:24
Brian AtlasYeah. So, be a drug dealer. No, I'm saying Go be on Findom instead of being a drug dealer. No, but I'm not I'm not suggesting to be a drug dealer, but you're suggesting
07:57:36
Brian Atlasto be a drug dealer. No, that's not what we said. If it If the If the money is worth it, it's worth doing. No, I think drug dealing's worse. >> It is different. It is different. Uh
07:57:48
LexiBut I don't think you can say it's completely clean, either. I never said that. Right. So, I think that's the Do you But like Yeah, why would I regret it? My life is
07:58:01
Brian Atlasso much better now. What What if I were to tell you Like do you want to date a guy who's virtuous? What's like the definition of that? >> I'll I'll Google it. I'll always If somebody wants the definition, I'll always Google it. Okay, virtue.
07:58:14
Brian AtlasUh is a habitual and firm disposition to do good acting as a moral excellence or strength of character that aligns with ethical behavior.
07:58:25
Brian AtlasUm I mean, I don't really >> Behavior showing high moral standards. I don't really care. >> Look, if you want to date a guy who's a scammer and you guys are fine with that, I guess, but
07:58:37
Lexium I do think Like do you think your kids would appreciate it? If I told them my situation, I don't think they would care.
07:58:50
LexiShe's really not doing anything crazy. >> be fine if your mom started being a sex worker? Uh is she? >> No. No. No, I'm just say I just know I just know someone like who's mom did it, too. Was he bullied or she bullied?
07:59:03
LexiBullied? No. You don't think kids get bullied if the 12-year-olds find out that mommy over there is a online prostitute? It's not online prostitution. Okay, fine. A sex worker.
07:59:15
BrooklynIt's not even a sex worker, really. If she does OnlyFans, she's a sex worker. Yeah, but I'm not That's OnlyFans. I'm talking about Findom. >> Your Instagram could still sexually please men.
07:59:26
Lexi>> Yeah, like guys could know I see girls' [laughter] Instagram. Yeah, but like bikini pictures on Instagram does that make you a sex worker? No, it doesn't. But why? So, if I'm
07:59:37
Lexiposting What if it's all just bikinis? There's feet pictures on X. Does that make me a sex worker? If the men are being uh If you are providing the feet pictures
07:59:50
Brian Atlasin exchange for money and you know the men are like jacking off to your feet pictures, that is a form of sex work. >> But then okay, if you're Let's say you're streaming, you're doing a stream >> Mhm. and your feet are on it and people are like paying you money. Does that
08:00:03
Brian Atlasmake you a sex worker? >> intentionally So, there's an intent behind it? There There is Well, if if you're like provocatively putting your feet like in the
08:00:15
Brian Atlasuh the the like it's in front of the camera in a certain way and it's like kind of obvious what you're doing. But if you like you happen to catch a female streamer's foot, that's not sex work. I don't think I don't know. But if you're
08:00:28
Brian Atlasa cam girl who's like showing off her feet and like the guys are in the chat like jerking it, like that's different. Yeah, then that's like kind of sex work. If you were offered like I don't know how much you're making right now, but if you were offered like
08:00:40
Brian Atlas50 grand a month for your feet, you wouldn't you wouldn't do that? I mean, I don't want to I'm doing I'll just say I'm doing better than that, but uh >> Okay, if you were like really broke
08:00:52
Brian Atlasthough. Would I do it? That's a good question. Be hard to turn it down. First of all, I don't think I don't think there's a $50,000 a month demand
08:01:03
Brian Atlasfor men's feet pictures. Yeah, but I'm just hypothetically. And you're saying in this hypothetical I'm broke or something? >> Yeah. Hm, that's interesting.
08:01:14
LexiIt's feet. It's not like your penis. It's very different. Huh? Probably not because it's kind of embarrassing. I mean, yeah, but people do embarrassing stuff all the time. This
08:01:26
Brian Atlascould be considered being embarrassing. Yeah, look, I mean some men might do it. Um some men might do it, but uh my instinct here is to say no, I
08:01:37
Brian Atlaswouldn't do it. It's like easy money. Sure. Yeah. But I think that what I I think that there's a higher
08:01:48
Lexicalling beyond just this gets me a lot of money. Yeah. But if I was like dating someone, they were like, "Hey, can you please stop doing this?" I'd be like, "Yeah, sure." I'm not trying to normalize anything.
08:02:01
JuliaI'm just saying I don't think she's going to regret it like knowing her. Yeah, I mean if I had rich a rich family, I would not be doing this. Okay. Okay. Yeah. If a guy today asked you, like you fell in love with this guy and he's like, "I
08:02:14
JuliaYou need to stop doing this in order for us to be together." Are you in a position that you If he can also like make sure I'm not going to be like cuz I'll still work and everything, but I still have rent to pay. Like
08:02:30
Lexifun. It's like yay. I love bullying men. So fun. Or like the guy, you know, someone else bullying them.
08:02:39
Brian AtlasUh okay. Uh Veronica Oh, she dipped. Um I don't Okay. Uh Chris Love. Uh
08:02:52
Brian AtlasWhat's the most You're Okay, so you are an exotic dancer. That's one of the things you do. I'm curious about the money that sometimes these people make. Um What's the most you've ever made in one night?
08:03:04
Brian AtlasOkay. What's the least in one night? Move closer to the mic. Closer to the mic. Mic. Mic. Oh, the microphone? Yeah. Probably like 900. Those were like
08:03:16
Chris LoveIt was still good, I guess, right? That's That's not a good to me cuz Well, compared to like other jobs, I guess, but Yeah. Most from one tip. I'm not talking about penis, by the way.
08:03:27
Brian AtlasI don't What? What? I don't I don't do that. No, the biggest tip. Not penis. Oh, the biggest tip? Yeah. It'd probably be three grand. He was an old white man.
08:03:40
Brian AtlasJust a tip. Just for a second. Just to see how big it Uh Okay. Money-wise, not stuff like that. Uh You said Los Angeles has been wild. You've had a guy try to move into your
08:03:52
Brian Atlasapartment after meeting you once. Men trying to be pretend to be wealthy and even fake sugar daddies offering money. You'd love to talk about how people present a completely different lifestyle
08:04:04
Brian Atlasonline versus who they really are in real life. Instagram versus reality. Yeah. People like to flex and they can't back it up. >> Does Does makeup Does that count for makeup, too?
08:04:17
Chris LoveNo. Cuz women don't actually look like that. Yeah, some do cuz they're enhancing their natural beauty. It's not like drag. Like drag queens. That's a totally different transformation.
08:04:29
Chris Love>> Can we pull up your Instagram? Yeah, but I did do some Photoshop, >> [laughter] >> but everyone does it. >> You did what? Photoshop. >> [cough and clears throat] >> And whatever. The people can assume. The
08:04:41
Brian Atlaspeople can assume. Uh okay. You wrote that uh you think it would be interesting to discuss financial honesty in dating. What about that?
08:04:53
Chris LoveUm For me, I think it should be like like if a girl is expecting a guy you know, if he wants her to quit
08:05:03
Brian Atlaseverything, he she should expect him to pay for everything like a lot. Mhm. That's why I date women who work at Chick-fil-A. It's like you know, it's Like if you want me to
08:05:15
Chris Lovegive up everything, you're going to have to like go way above and beyond. How much? Whatever my lifestyle funding at that
08:05:27
Brian Atlastime. Is it 400k? I mean, he can make that. Is that enough though to get you to quit? To give it to give to me? >> No,
08:05:38
Brian Atlashe makes 400k a year. Is that enough for you to quit your job and say you guys are together? Yeah, that's fine. No, okay. Uh modern gender expectations. What do you mean? You wanted to talk about that as a topic? What do you mean?
08:05:51
Brian AtlasI don't remember that. Oh, I'll just skip it then. Um uh You said disagreement some dating conversations blame women for having high standards when in reality a lot of people just want basic stability honesty and
08:06:04
Brian Atlasconsistency. You're open to debating that because you think standards and boundaries are often misunderstood Monge in modern dating. So high standards. Yeah. And you wrote
08:06:15
Brian Atlasbut they really just want basic stability honesty and consistency. Don't you think you have high standards? Yeah, I do and that's fine. But it could also be >> But basic stability for $100,000. Like couldn't you have basic stability
08:06:27
Brian Atlasfinancially speaking dating a guy in you're in Vegas, right? Mhm. I don't think it's too crazy out there in terms of like prices. Like 100k isn't that wouldn't that be
08:06:40
Brian Atlasgood? In Vegas? Not when I say good I mean like you can have house, food, basic stability. For Vegas not really.
08:06:53
Chris LoveWhat's the typical Uh well maybe as a tourist right but like the rent out there I don't think it's too too bad. Yeah but if you want like a good property in a good area and not like on the strip which is like shooting
08:07:06
Chris Loveand like ghetto you then have to pay [clears throat] a lot for a house. Okay. >> But it's definitely less than California. Okay.
08:07:16
Brian AtlasUh but what if a woman genuinely has unrealistic high standards?
08:07:23
Brian AtlasI don't know. Okay. >> [laughter] >> Um Were there any specific disagreements though about blaming women for having high standards? Yeah, I think a lot of men don't get it. Don't get it. Do I not get it? >> Yeah, I don't.
08:07:37
Chris Love>> What do I not get? >> I feel like you think some woman should live Tiffany can you properly >> a bad life and they should keep that but some women want to do better in life and better themselves. Tiffany can you push
08:07:49
Chris Lovethe door open all the way? >> I think it's pretty good. It's it could be a good goal. So what if a woman's standard is uh she'll only date a guy who makes $10
08:08:01
Chris Lovemillion a year. Is that realistic or unrealistic? I mean it it depends where she is. There's like some cities. What? It [laughter] really depends. Sometimes.
08:08:17
Brian AtlasTell me which city Like Miami, LA, New York. >> need to make $10 million a year? >> $10 million a year. I'm just saying it's not like to find those type No so I okay I I sort of see what you're
08:08:28
Brian Atlassaying. You're saying in certain cities there's going there's a higher chance that you're going to encounter very wealthy men. Yes. Like Miami, like LA, like Vegas perhaps.
08:08:41
Brian AtlasUm but even then New York City even then don't you wouldn't you still say that a woman who want who will like let's say she will not date a guy who makes less
08:08:53
Chris Lovethan 10 mil wouldn't you say that that's still unrealistic high standards? I mean if she if that's if that's how she thinks then that's how she thinks and that's her money. >> fat?
08:09:08
Brian AtlasAnd ugly and a [ __ ] >> going to ask a fat girl. She's a [ __ ] and she's fat and she's ugly. Do you think she's going to get the 10 mil a
08:09:16
Brian Atlasyear man? If there's some guys who um fetishize fat girls so maybe. The Venn diagram the Venn the Venn
08:09:26
Brian Atlasdiagram of man who makes $10 million a year and man who like who likes fat women is uh very very small. >> I know it is slim but there is a lot of
08:09:40
Brian Atlasissues out there. >> no pun intended [laughter] very it is slim. It is slim. Brooklyn do you have like IBS or something? Are you sick? Are you oh >> that's why I said no I don't know like I woke up today
08:09:53
Lexiwith like a really sore throat and a cough. What about you Lexi? >> I've just had my voice gone. No but I I haven't had any I haven't had like symptoms. I just know I just I could not
08:10:06
Brian AtlasGuys I literally my voice has just been gone. I don't feel sick. Okay. Let's see. Uh What else is there from uh
08:10:18
Brian AtlasHold on. Uh you said Wait. Crazy dating story you have is when the guy approached you saying he wanted to be your sugar daddy and he actually sent you money before
08:10:30
Brian Atlasyou even met. How much? He sent 2,000. Uh so you thought okay maybe he's serious. Wait whoa whoa whoa wait wait. 2,000? Did you [ __ ]
08:10:43
Chris LoveHe really really like black girls for some reason. >> White guy? Yeah. >> Old white guy? >> Yeah. 60? [laughter] He's like 54 55. How'd you know that? My
08:10:54
Brian AtlasMy wisdom has been colored. My My My wisdom and knowledge has been colored by my many varied conversations with women. I have an intuition for
08:11:05
Brian Atlasthese things, you know? So was it Bill Maher? Who's Bill Maher? >> know Bill Maher? He likes black women. >> Bill Maher doesn't like Bill Maher? No Bill Maher the He has a show on HBO called Real Time
08:11:18
Brian Atlaswith Bill Maher. Okay. Um 2,000 just to go on a date? I don't what I don't understand about that. Hold on I'll let you finish the story. But well actually let me say it.
08:11:32
Brian AtlasYou could just get a prostitute for that much money. So I don't understand the sugar daddy guys who are like I'm going to give her money
08:11:42
Brian Atlasin the hopes that she's not going to play me which is like 99% of the time with these girls who want money for dates. Yeah but they know what they're getting into like But I
08:11:55
Brian AtlasI genuinely don't understand a guy who would just send a money to a woman $2,000. That's like chump change to them sometimes. Like they don't care it's like spending money on like a soda or
08:12:07
Brian Atlaslike I don't know. I don't know. Uh I think that's um How how rich do you have to be for 2,000
08:12:19
Brian Atlasto just give somebody like to for that to be nothing?
08:12:25
Brian AtlasLike I make good money. Maybe I'm [ __ ] maybe I'm [ __ ] cheap. I don't know. >> [laughter] >> I make good money. I don't even want to give somebody 20 bucks, you know? I wouldn't give a girl 20 bucks for I
08:12:37
Brian Atlasmean I don't like that that uh vibe to begin with but I wouldn't give a girl 20 bucks to go on a date. The [ __ ] would I pay a girl for? She should be paying me if any if anything. She should pay me Brooklyn get your
08:12:50
Brian Atlas[ __ ] wallet. Just kidding. >> about being with a black girl and that stuff. >> Like I told you he was >> Okay he has a fetish for black women and all right so um I just don't understand it's like if you're going to trick if you're going
08:13:02
Brian Atlasto trick if you're going to spend money on a woman at that level you would agree like you could get a prostitute in Vegas for 2K, right? No those prostitutes are like
08:13:12
Brian Atlas$60. Oh it's cheaper, [laughter] right? Yeah you could get a cheap you could get a cheap ho. Cheap.
08:13:22
Chris Love>> Well yeah. But you do agree that there's like there's higher tier escorts, right? I mean it's not really escorting if you're not doing anything. If a man wants to send you money and he likes you. >> No I'm not saying you're escorting but you would say like yeah there's cheap
08:13:35
Brian Atlasprostitutes but there's also like expensive prostitutes that are higher quality whatever the [ __ ] that means. They're still a ho but I guess they're hotter maybe or they
08:13:46
Brian Atlasdon't [ __ ] as much. I just know a lot of the girls down here in Vegas are very very cheap. Anyways okay but when you finally went on a date and afterward you jokingly
08:14:00
Brian Atlasyou jokingly told him you expected a $10,000 gift if he wanted to keep seeing you. He ghosted you. Yeah. You overplayed your hand. You overplayed you you played too much.
08:14:14
Brian AtlasOverplayed. Yeah but I don't want to So if he was like I'll pay you another 2K you wouldn't have taken it. I mean
08:14:23
Brian AtlasI think you should give me 2K right now. I think reverse simp the reversed reverse you know. You don't understand these guy I don't understand these guys. >> to fetish and want to keep talking to me
08:14:36
Chris Loveit's going to be at least 5K. I'm not going to waste my time talking to men every day without it. I just don't understand these dudes who trick like that like why give women so much money in the
08:14:48
Brian Atlashopes of bedding them when you can just get a prostitute for just as much or less? Like aren't they like a couple hundred bucks these prostitutes? I don't know. I
08:14:58
Brian Atlaswouldn't know. I don't know. I [laughter] don't know. Um Uh let's see. Uh Yes. Um You said your hot take on dating
08:15:10
Brian AtlasYour hot take on modern dating is that a lot of relationships are transactional. Some people exchange time attention or emotional support for lifestyle or stability. Sugar dating just makes those
08:15:21
Brian Atlasexpectations more up front. I don't think I could even do that. I couldn't do that. The woman has to just have genuine desire. Otherwise it's just
08:15:33
Chris Loveit's tricking. It's tricking. I mean not if you're not not if you're looking for love. If you're just like just to do that you're just doing that. There's no problem with it. You mean if the guy
08:15:46
Brian Atlasit's more acceptable for the guy to trick if he's just trying to hit. Yeah. Well I'm not interested in just hitting. So. That's what I'm saying. If you're in a relationship, I I don't expect a guy
08:15:59
Brian Atlasto like be laying with me every time and stuff. >> Uh okay. We have Laetitia. Laetitia Laetitia? Laetitia? >> Laetitia. Laetitia? Yeah.
08:16:20
Brian AtlasYou say that you're more mature more mature than you can imagine. What do you mean? I'm more mature than him. You wrote that. You're more mature more mature than you can imagine. Is that out of context? But yeah, I can
08:16:33
Laetitia>> It might It's probably out of context, but you did write that. >> probably I'm probably out of context. Okay. Um but I'm definitely more mature than I was and Okay. I keep growing. You You
08:16:46
Brian Atlaswrote that you have a very interesting view on dating and always argue even the nature of it, especially as a French. By the way, I was born in France. Yeah. You know You know that? I know that. You
08:16:58
Brian AtlasFrench people are giving us a bad rap. I know. Yeah. Because you American don't know what the [ __ ] you're talking about. >> No, the French Oh my god. I feel like the French Look, there's good French
08:17:09
Brian Atlaswomen, there's good French men. I mean my my dad's French, but um like >> [sighs] >> Just I don't know what At the origin of
08:17:22
Brian Atlasit, there is no translation to say dating.
08:17:30
Brian Atlascheat a lot. I think it is known.
08:17:39
Brian AtlasHow do you say cheat in French?
08:17:44
Brian AtlasUh what the [ __ ] is that?
08:17:49
Brian AtlasI feel like these French women kind of be a little more infidelity-ous. Is that a [ __ ] word? I just made that [ __ ] up. infidelity
08:18:01
Laetitiain- infidel infidel [ __ ] infidels I don't think I'm just going to speak English here because I think our audience >> better English. Vitesse vitesse But I just think that
08:18:13
Laetitiaour First of all, dating doesn't have a translation. So it's like every time I have been asking people since I am in America what is dating, I never had the same answer. So I'm like, "Okay, this is
08:18:24
Laetitiavery confusing." You can date for before you even kiss and then you can date for 40 years and get married and be married. So it's like what that doesn't make any
08:18:33
Laetitiasense. And then as far as cheating go, I think we have a very more open mind as far as that goes. But to say that French women are cheating
08:18:46
Brian Atlasmore than American women, I would be way far from that. That's fair. Look, I don't know the statistics, but it seems like the the approach to romance in France in France
08:18:57
Brian Atlasseems a little bit different. It seems like women are French women can be a bit more assertive. They're a little more bossy. >> passionate French women It's passion and desire, dude.
08:19:08
Brian Atlas>> French women are a little more I get the impression French women are much more feminist than their other European counterparts or their American counterparts, I guess. They're more bossy. French women are
08:19:21
Laetitiabossier. They're a bit more dominant, I think is a good word. But um We are intense and fiery and yeah, explosive. Yes, we can be. I'm not Ah, the language
08:19:32
Brian Atlasof love and romance. That's true. You wrote that you used to love flirting abusing your woman power. Yeah. What is abusing your woman power?
08:19:44
Brian AtlasThe [ __ ] power? You abuse the [ __ ] power? Yeah. You abuse the [ __ ] power? Yeah. Did you Who's Who here has abused the [ __ ] power? What does that mean? You abuse the [ __ ] power on your boyfriend?
08:19:57
MariaYou're like >> Maybe before, yeah. Have you abused the [ __ ] power? Brooklyn? No. You abuse the [ __ ] power? I don't know what that means. You abuse the [ __ ] Lexington? Did you abuse the [ __ ]
08:20:09
Laetitiapower? No. Okay. In my opinion, it's like I got out of situations that if I would have been a man, I would have not get out of. Or
08:20:18
Laetitialike, yeah, like I was very seduct- seductive. How do you say Like a privilege. But you feel like you abused that privilege? >> It's not a privilege Like I feel like I
08:20:30
Laetitiahave been in situation where I could have been forgiven better because I was a woman. I got sometimes pulled over and if I would have been a man, I would have had my fine. Like I also was more way
08:20:43
Laetitiamore seductive and be dangerous and called dangerous because I But like in that situation, let's say you get pulled over. Are you like starting to cry even though you're not actually scared? No, and I am the opposite of that. I am like
08:20:55
Laetitiasuper authentic and vulnerable and it's just because I am like So you're just saying you're aware that there is like a There literally is. Yeah, when you go out of your car I used to live in a van and when I come out of
08:21:06
Laetitiamy van and the cop is like checking me out from top to bottom three times, I'm like Oh my god. Who the hell cares? Tiffany, really? >> [laughter] >> Why would you press that, Tiffany? She's
08:21:18
Brian Atlasin the middle of her [ __ ] story, Tiffany. That's so rude, Tiffany. That's even ruder to blame someone else for [clears throat] your own >> [laughter] >> I didn't do anything. That was Tiffany. I don't trust that. She's She's the misogynist.
08:21:30
Brian Atlas>> At least I won't eat Brian. I did not do anything. Whatever. Um yeah, exactly. Yeah. Uh you wrote You wrote I don't know what abusing the woman power is, but I kind
08:21:42
Brian Atlasof get it. Um you said after your last long relationship, you did a huge work on yourself and now you have switched 360. Yeah. >> [clears throat] >> 360?
08:21:52
LaetitiaYeah. So you 360 means that you're back to the same It's the same. No, because I think it's like a complete like overview like it's not exactly
08:22:04
LaetitiaYeah, it's full circle. Like in many ways it's full circle. It's like I'm on the I like I'm opening a new circle even. Like it's not even 360. It's like I am I think it's 180.
08:22:14
LaetitiaI do think it's 180 Because it's not an opposite. It's a complete different point of view. It's a complete like I wouldn't even have thought about what I am right now
08:22:25
Brian Atlasbefore. You said your views and attitudes towards men Yeah. 360 180 360 whatever you You realized how addicted to men and sex you were and now you're building yourself to look
08:22:37
Brian Atlaslike the one you are waiting for and believe in your little girl's dream again and do everything to make it happen. Yeah. [snorts] Okay. >> What do you want to know about it? When you say you're addicted to men and sex,
08:22:48
Laetitiawhen you're sex addict? Yeah. I mean when you can't stop having it and when you can't stop like spend time without it. >> one guy or with multiple men?
08:22:59
LaetitiaUh men in general. Like I just after my first my husband my ex-husband, I just didn't want because I was in a new town and I didn't want a reputation. I was
08:23:09
Laetitialike, "Let's be cautious about it." And then I quickly realized that I was very I needed it. I wanted it. And so I just tried to limit myself, but I and work on like why is that? What What attachment
08:23:21
Laetitiado I have? What like all of that? And then lately like after my last relation long relationship, I tried to go completely abstinent and after 2 years, I saw that
08:23:32
Laetitiayeah and I told myself I will only be with the men that I will keep for the rest of my life. And then now I met a guy and then he was cute and we had a good time and I had sex with him and I
08:23:44
Laetitiawas like, "God damn it." And I knew he was not the one, so I was like, "This is truly an addiction that shit." Like it's hard and now I'm not going there anymore. Like I really want to be out of it.
08:23:59
LaetitiaIf that makes sense. You're feng shui consultant? Mhm. How's the feng shui of It's really bad, but >> The feng shui is bad in here? Yeah, >> [laughter] >> but you can pay me for that. Uh I can
08:24:11
Laetitiagive you a consultation. But I'm not doing it for free. >> [laughter] >> Yeah. Would you put like plants in here or something? You'd probably do some plants, sir. Maybe. You don't have to. Okay. But don't Yeah, I'm not going to
08:24:25
Brian Atlas>> Well, I don't know. Have you ever feng shui'd a podcast studio? I feel like look, maybe stay in your wheelhouse. Like maybe just stick to that residential. Leave the podcast feng shui to me.
08:24:36
LaetitiaI don't think she offered. Yeah. I'm like, "What are you talking about?" >> [laughter] >> I don't want to work for you, dude, at all. Like no. Like I'm sticking to what I want and like if I want to do business on podcast, like Wait, what?
08:24:51
Julia>> [laughter] >> Give me one principle of feng shui. What do you mean? Like what is How would you What is feng shui? Feng shui means out of placement. Yeah, what does that mean? Maximize energy flowing through this room. So
08:25:04
Laetitiayeah, the whole point is like Hey, these two dolls here is the feng shui good with the two dolls? >> not answering those questions. You need to pay me 150 bucks for a consultation, dude. Hey, if somebody wants to talk to me, I charge them $950 an hour.
08:25:16
Laetitia>> Wait, wait. I already came here for free. So I'm not only also giving up like advice for free. >> be charging y'all. I I should be charging y'all. Yeah. What you going to do? I've been giving you so much dating advice this entire night. This girl
08:25:29
Brian AtlasWait, what? >> My dating advice is the best dating advice. Look, if you guys want to I'm glad I love sarcasm. If you guys want to just keep just going down your path of doom and destruction and ruin-
08:25:41
Brian Atlasruination, ruination, you want to go to damnation, I'm telling you you could you could do what you're doing and follow that path or you can listen to Brian. >> really should be a cult leader. Yeah, I think you should. >> Yeah.
08:25:55
Julia>> [laughter] >> You have one You have one follower here already. Who? Brooklyn? She's What about you, Julia? I think you're in >> Hell what no. Oh no. I have considered starting a sex cult.
08:26:06
Brian Atlas>> What? I'm considering it. It's not surprising. Oh my god. 40-year-old virgin leading a sex cult. Yeah. Yeah. I wonder if I could actually start a cult. >> You probably could. Probably. You
08:26:19
Brian Atlasdefinitely have the aura of a cult leader. Like wouldn't it? I don't know. If there's any women who are down to join my sex cult, you can message me. Wait, what do you do at the cult? Huh? What do you do at the cult?
08:26:31
Brian Atlas>> So, I take care of of people. I take care All your money is mine for me to take care of and um you we're going to pump out so many kids and we're going to
08:26:43
Brian Atlashome school them and we're going to have warrior sons and awesome daughters >> and [laughter] dope [ __ ] daughters and we're going to have a [ __ ] farm
08:26:54
Brian Atlasand [ __ ] and and we're going to be self-sustaining. Self-sustaining, we're going to be [ __ ] off the grid and it's going to be dope and there's going to be uh it's going to be dope. Well, that sounds like a nice life but not a cult.
08:27:08
Brian Atlas>> And and you I will grant I get I enlighten people. Mhm. You will be enlightened. You will find Nirvana. You will find Buddha. You will find Zen. All that [ __ ] Cool.
08:27:20
Brian Atlas>> Yeah. Good talk. Okay. Uh back to your notes though, Laetitia? Laetitia. Laetitia. Uh in Laetitia
08:27:32
Brian Atlasyou said you have some sad death You said you dated Okay. Some happy, some funny, some >> passed away. hidden and secret. What is some hidden and secret? What's this? Some hidden and secret? >> You wrote hidden and secret dating
08:27:45
Brian Atlasstories. Some true love, some random >> Oh yeah. >> casual or public sex. You [ __ ] on a bus or what? >> No. And like that's what I like I'm really happy is that we didn't
08:27:56
Laetitiahave phone but he to start with the first one that you said the hidden and secret is just more like some relationships that shouldn't get exposed.
08:28:07
Laetitia>> Mhm. Okay. Um and yeah, I that's what they were my favorite. Okay. >> I mean not my favorite. I just had no respect. I don't think at that point or like I was lacking self-respect at that
08:28:19
Brian Atlaspoint and my mom was doing the same so in some ways I might have had a representation of it. >> Okay. Um what was the other one? >> What you wrote Hold on, I'll skip those. From devouring you said from devouring
08:28:31
Brian Atlasmen in your 20s and 30s to now every day aligning with the one. What is the one? What do you mean by devouring men in your 20s and 30s? Be quick, please. Um just having a lot of men and like not having like boundaries towards it. Yeah.
08:28:45
Brian AtlasYou said >> Even with like two men in the same night that I didn't know that >> You said that you were a sex and a men addict and now you're being already devoted and committed to a man you don't even know yet? Yeah. What does that
08:28:57
Brian Atlasmean? So, you're you're committed and devoted to a man You Do you know who the man is? >> No. Oh, so it's a random man out there and you're >> It's the man that I like yeah, that I I
08:29:09
Laetitiawant to align with like the man that I am working hard for and like on myself because I'm yeah, finding myself love, myself respect, myself esteem, all of that so I
08:29:20
Brian Atlascan match that because clearly so far I wasn't matching that and I had only Right. So, you're devoted >> not great relationship. >> But so you're already devoted and committed to your future man but you don't know who the specific man is but
08:29:33
Laetitiahe's out there. Yeah, because I just don't want anybody to like I had to stop having sex to understand first of all that I was an addict to it. Now I am like okay, I think I have dealt
08:29:45
Laetitiawith my addiction. I feel better and I don't need it anymore whatsoever. And now it's even more magical to think that I am not like I don't date. I feel I
08:29:57
Laetitiaknow it's going to be organic when we going to meet and I believe in that dream that my 5 years old of my prince charming taking me away except that now he's not going to take me away. I'm just going to Okay. Okay. be alongside with
08:30:09
Laetitiahim. In your 20s you were partying a lot involving alcohol, drugs and sex. Yeah. What drugs? Um I would say cocaine cocaine and ecstasy
08:30:21
Brian Atlasand MDMA you would call that here maybe. >> Uh you were in a long-term relationship from 20 to 23. You cheated on him and hated that feeling so bad. You decided to work on yourself and not do it again.
08:30:32
Brian AtlasYep. Uh after a horrible breakup you started a cycle of having sex all the time. Yep. Uh thinking if you give men sex they will be your friends. Uh kind of how you
08:30:42
Brian Atlaswere raised. After a while many girl friends telling you it was [ __ ] you realized it was your mom behavior not yours. Yep. So, was your mom like when
08:30:53
Laetitiayou were growing up were there men coming in in and out of the house? Uh yeah, kind of like they were not That was more my mom going somewhere. She would go out with Yeah. strange men.
08:31:04
Laetitia>> And my mom when I was like about 20 years old we had an experience together and it was pretty traumatic to me. I was like what the [ __ ] Mhm. What? A threesome?
08:31:17
LaetitiaWhat? >> You had a threesome with your mom? No. Actually we had like she was having her own experience and the next day I was like what happened and she said oh I can have sex with a man the same way I would shake their
08:31:30
Laetitiahand. And so that was kind of traumatic to me like not traumatic but just that was her behavior not mine and that's who she was with men and that's
08:31:42
Laetitiawhat that's how I got raised in some way and like no respect, no boundaries, no respect, no like being a like no definition of what
08:31:51
Brian Atlasa woman is, what a woman should be for men etc. etc. Okay, so you ended up dating an another guy down the road. You said it was toxic. Uh you got pregnant
08:32:02
Brian Atlaswith him? My last long-term relationship, yeah. And you you said it was toxic though so you needed to get out. You got out and you lost the baby. So, So basically yeah, we were not in a
08:32:14
Laetitiagood position I and then I got pregnant and I was like oh my god, I can't have like I can't have that relationship anymore. So I broke up with me with him. It was just a huge wake up call and then I went to the doctor and the baby was
08:32:27
Brian Atlasgone already so I didn't have to take a decision. And you said it was a blessing that you had the miscarriage I guess. Okay. Uh you
08:32:38
Brian Atlas>> it just woke me up and I could have the chance to get out of that toxic relationship. >> afterwards you said you like a friend of a friend you had the best love story ever in 10 days. Then he left and you told yourself that you wanted to see the
08:32:50
Brian Atlassame beauty you saw in his eyes in yours. It's been 3 years. So, is is your love that guy or is it somebody else? No, that guy just like chemistry something that we haven't talked at all
08:33:03
Laetitiatonight which was when she was saying it's superficial I kind of agree with Lindsey but it's just yeah, we had such a chemistry that for the first time I
08:33:13
Laetitiarealized what was like a relationship that was easy, loving, caring. Like the whole thing was just absolutely wonderful. Like I lived a dream for 10 days. So, it was good. Oh, that was
08:33:26
Brian Atlasyeah. Okay. >> Like Uh you have plenty of dating stories like the smallest penis on Earth but it [snorts] was good. Yeah. That was my first American in New Zealand.
08:33:36
LaetitiaBut it was It was good sex or whatever. What's that? It was good sex. Yeah. It was im- impressively very very good. I don't say >> hand, show us.
08:33:47
LaetitiaOh my god, poor guy. >> [laughter] >> Like I don't know. What? Is that skinny, too? What? That's skinny, too? I Like how was the girl? >> [laughter]
08:34:00
Laetitia>> Because he was extremely like it's just a matter of like Yeah, you are missing something but he was he was good at everything else. Uh you said
08:34:12
Brian Atlaslike the biggest penis that you had sex with on drugs in front of your friends without knowing it. >> Oh my god. Then [laughter] you were going to have sex again with him a couple years later but you couldn't
08:34:22
Laetitiabecause you didn't want to take drugs anymore because it was too big. Yep. And you had to be on drugs to I mean the first I was like the first night and yes, it was in front of my friend and I heard about it or like at
08:34:36
Laetitialeast I heard >> What? echo about 20 years later. Um >> Okay. Yeah, because it was like a bathroom where you don't have the top of the walls are not finished or like Okay,
08:34:48
Laetitiaso they were they were watching. So they were all watching and then yes, I was on MDMA that night. >> Oh. And then Okay. And then 2 years later when we meet again and invited me over and I was like yeah, why not? It was fun
08:35:01
Brian Atlasthe first time and then he asked me for drugs and I said Uh you said that you understand sex workers and if you had OnlyFans available in your 20s and you're 42
08:35:11
Brian Atlasuh you would be a millionaire. Wow. Uh unfortunately you didn't so you still have your dignity. Yeah. But you would have done it if it existed 20 years ago or whatever. >> I am pretty sure I would have. Yeah. And
08:35:24
Brian Atlasfor like L You would have? Oh no. Okay. I mean I can't be sure but yeah. You said you have Now you have high standards and boundaries. I went you're you went from being a sex addict to
08:35:37
Brian Atlasbeing committed to someone you don't know yet. It feels so powerful and magical to wait to be touched by the one. You If it is the one, are you going to wait to have sex with him or will you just [ __ ] right away? Oh no, I'm going to [ __ ] How long?
08:35:50
LaetitiaI don't know. It's going to depend on the situation. I have no idea. Yeah, but I wouldn't say 6 months. I mean, unless we see each other three times in 6 months, but yeah, I'm going to definitely wait and
08:36:03
Brian Atlasnot I feel like that's a raw deal for a guy. That's what? It's a It's a raw deal for a guy. What does it mean? Like I don't know. Look, people can change and people can change their standards. And
08:36:15
Brian Atlasobviously, just to be clear, like I don't know, sometimes people will try to make an assumption on this. Obviously, like this is within the confines of like consent or whatever. I think it's a
08:36:27
Brian Atlassuper raw deal, like a girl who who like, let's say the like a a month ago she [ __ ] a guy within 2 hours of meeting, and then she meets you and she's like, "Oh my god, I really like you. I think you're the one. You could
08:36:40
Laetitiabe my future boyfriend." And she makes you wait 3 months. That's so [ __ ] That's such [ __ ] You might think that and that's all on your, you know, your entire total of your opinion, but
08:36:51
Laetitiafirst of all, all my period where I had a lot of sex was 20 years ago. Like 20 years ago. Well, what about the guy who the best 10 days ever? Did you [ __ ] him? Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, but no, but like
08:37:03
Brian Atlasthat period where I had no respect, no boundaries, no self-awareness, nothing of that. But but you're saying here's this guy who you say he's going to be your future
08:37:14
Brian Atlasyou're you're waiting for him. And then the guy who is going to be your maybe your husband or your life partner. That [ __ ] he got to wait 3 months to
08:37:25
Brian Atlashit, but all those guys in your 20s who didn't matter, who were just fun, who were [ __ ] boys, who were dicks, who were jerks, who were [ __ ] who treated you poorly, they got to [ __ ] right away.
08:37:36
Brian AtlasDoesn't that seem backwards? Shouldn't it be like, nah, the jerks, the bad boys, the [ __ ] don't get [ __ ] and the good guy gets the [ __ ] Shouldn't it be Shouldn't that be
08:37:49
LaetitiaYou know what I mean, Chad? No? They were [ __ ] but I was an [ __ ] too. And I had absolutely no self-respect whatsoever. Today I do, and it's like, well, if you don't feel that it's worth the wait,
08:38:01
Laetitiaget the hell out of my life. You don't deserve to be with me. Like, if you don't want to wait a minute, like if someone would like, I haven't been touched for, you know,
08:38:12
Brian Atlasyears. Years It's going to be years because it's not going to happen tomorrow. So, it's like if you don't want to wait, don't wait. Go ahead, like Well, we have Look, we have Brooklyn's notes and then
08:38:25
Brian Atlaswe're done with the notes and then we have the rapid-fire section. Yeah, wait, are you flying from Santa Barbara? Yeah. You're not going to miss your flight. When's your flight? It's at 4:00. No, it's not. Your
08:38:37
Brian Atlasflight's at Your flight is at uh didn't you send it at like 5:00 or 6:00? P A M, excuse me. You also have to be I have to go back to
08:38:50
Brian Atlasmy hotel. Okay, well, we're going to wrap soon. We have like maybe 20 minutes or some [ __ ] We're almost done. We're almost there. We're at the tail end here. Stick with me, guys. Okay, so finishing this off
08:39:01
Brian Atlassuper quick. Look, really quick on this topic. Imagine if a guy said this.
08:39:13
Brian AtlasAll those girls that I just wanted to use for sex, and I didn't have any intention of being in a long-term relationship with any of those girls. I I want to be in a long-term relationship with you.
08:39:24
Brian AtlasI Those girls I just wanted to [ __ ] and I didn't care about. I bought them gifts. I paid for dates. I took them on vacations. I I I was
08:39:34
Brian Atlaschivalrous. I did all these things. But for you, because I want to hold off on those things. I want to I want to things to be serious first before I do those things.
08:39:47
Brian AtlasYou would look at the guy and be like, "Are you [ __ ] kidding me? You're telling me that I'm the girlfriend material, but I got to go 50/50? I You're not going to take me on trips, but you can afford it with those other
08:39:59
Brian Atlasgirls. You're not going to get me gifts, but you got all those girls who you claim didn't matter and you're going to do all that for them? You women would be like, "That sounds backwards." Doesn't it?
08:40:11
Brian AtlasSo, it's like it sounds backwards to me when women say, "Well, you know, I got banged out at a frat party. I [ __ ] a dude in the bathroom at the nightclub. I'm not saying
08:40:22
Brian Atlasspecifically that's what you did. I [ __ ] multiple men like the first date, the second date, the third date, but the guy who's going I'm going to be with forever and who's going to be my
08:40:33
Laetitiaboyfriend, he can wait for [ __ ] I'm going to make him wait for [ __ ]
08:40:44
LaetitiaLook, you can do it.
08:40:48
Brian AtlasThat's like no, it doesn't seems right to me and I'm like, "How did I do that?" Like I don't want to do that anymore. Like I totally get it. Just because you continue to bad say say you're going to
08:40:59
Brian Atlascategorize that as a bad thing. But I don't know it. I don't know. It's It's like It is a complicated because on one hand it's like, "Okay, well, let's say
08:41:09
Brian Atlassomebody did heroin, right? You did heroin. You've also done party drugs. Because you used to do party drugs or used to do heroin, are you then obliged
08:41:20
Brian Atlasand obligated to keep doing heroin because you used to do it? No, of course not. So, like I understand that. But from the male perspective, it's like I guess it's not fair.
08:41:34
Brian Atlas>> [laughter] >> He's going to be the first like I don't know. There is something so so magical about it. That's fine. But I don't know. It's like And look, if a girl if a girl has waited, let's say she's she's been
08:41:45
Brian Atlascelibate for 4 years and she used to have a past. That's a little different. It's a little different. It's still kind of [ __ ] up. It's still a little bit unfair, but it's a bit different. Now,
08:41:54
Brian Atlasif a girl I find out There is this great Reddit thread where a girl Oh, here's Oh, this is so good. You guys are going to love this. I'll try to I'll try to recap it as best as I can. A
08:42:06
Brian Atlasgirl posted on Reddit that she got dumped by her boyfriend. And here's why. She told her boyfriend that she wanted to wait with him because she wanted it
08:42:17
Brian Atlasto be special. And they had been dating for a couple months. And he finds out I'm trying to remember if she revealed it to him or whatever, but
08:42:28
Brian Atlasshe said she felt guilty because while they were dating and she was waiting and they were waiting to have sex, she had a friends with benefits who she was [ __ ]
08:42:40
Brian AtlasNow, they weren't exclusive though, because she was saying, "Well, we weren't exclusive yet." Um but I was making him wait. All the while she was [ __ ] her
08:42:51
Brian Atlasfriends with benefits. Now, that's kind of where the angle I'm coming from, where it's like you claim to have a standard, but you don't actually, cuz you're If the standard is, in order for you to have sex with me, I need it to be
08:43:03
Brian Atlasa solid relationship, meanwhile you're [ __ ] a guy you're you're having a friends with benefits and you're just [ __ ] him and he's not your boyfriend. It's like that. Or it could be a month ago I say I match with a girl on a dating
08:43:17
Brian Atlasapp. Say I match with a girl on Hinge. And a month ago she tells me, "Oh yeah, I [ __ ] a guy on Hinge like first date." And then she goes on a date with me and she's like, "Oh well, I want to wait 3 months."
08:43:29
Brian AtlasReally? Like Okay. I'm probably I feel like that's a raw deal and I'm probably going to feel a type of way.
08:43:38
Brian AtlasI probably go find a different girl. Anyways, that's my position. Brooklyn, you went on a date date with a guy that had a tattoo initial and you asked him whose initial it was and he said it was
08:43:50
Brooklynhis sister's. Yikes. Ended up finding out it was his girlfriend's. How did you meet him? Dating app? No, my my community college. Oh, he like he approached you after class or
08:44:08
BrooklynWe would just like we hung out quite a few times and then he would like say he wanted me to be his girlfriend and then that one time I realized he had like the tattoo or whatever. His His ex-girlfriend or his current girlfriend? Current girlfriend. So, like that's just
08:44:22
Brooklynthe craziest thing that's happened to me. And then cuz there was like an app T app. Did you Did you smash him? No. Only my ex-boyfriend. Only one. You were on the T app? No, he was on the T app. What? You used to
08:44:34
Brooklyngo And then I saw him and then everyone in the comments were saying he had a girlfriend and then a lot of people were saying they were going on dates with him and then it was this whole thing. But it was just kind of That T app's [ __ ] up. We also tried to tell her, too. She just
08:44:47
Brian Atlasdidn't care. Now, your friend does some sketchy stuff like the findom stuff. Do you do anything like that? No. Okay. All right, that's it for the for that. We have the rapid-fire questions then I'm getting you guys out of here pronto tonto. And then we're going to blast
08:45:00
Brian Atlasthrough these quick. Quick, quick, quick. Okay, [sighs] let's see. Do you guys think I'm a misogynist? Um no.
08:45:11
JuliaNo. But you say misogynistic things to make a point. That is so not true. What did I say Okay, fine. What did I say that was misogynistic? Um
08:45:22
Brian AtlasGosh, I I mean, I can't pull it off the top of my head. Are you One thing. Um I don't [ __ ] know. Um Oh, uh Women should bow. Women should bow. Men
08:45:35
Brian Atlasshould pay for first dates. Does that mean a woman's sexist? No. No. Does it mean she's a misandrist? No. So, wait. If
08:45:46
Brian Atlasyou can say men should pay for first dates, and that's not misandrist, then how can me saying a woman should bow, how would that be misogynistic? I I don't I mean, I I don't believe men should always pay on the first date,
08:46:00
Juliajust so you know. Okay, but you do acknowledge Would you acknowledge that the women who do say it, are they misandrist? I don't think saying that is I'm they're likely misandrist, but that's not a misandrist thing to say. Wait, they're
08:46:12
Brian Atlaslikely misandrist? >> I I mean No. A woman could want a guy to pay for the first date and not hate men. That's true. Right, I want women to bow. I don't hate women.
08:46:24
JuliaOkay, but you say things that would imply you are a misogynist. What? Like what? Like what? Like people would assume you're a misogynist based off of some of the things you said. >> Okay, they might assume it. Are they correct? >> No, I said you're not a misogynist. Oh, okay, but they would assume
08:46:37
Brian Atlas>> say you say things that if somebody >> Yes. Okay, well, I I mean, that might be true. >> to make points, and I get that. Fair enough. Okay. Uh do you believe in male privilege?
08:46:49
Brian AtlasNo. White privilege? Yes. Is there white privilege? Yes. Can black people be racist towards white people? >> Yes, any race can be racist. Um closer to Mike Mike Mike Mike. Any race can be racist towards each other. >> Okay. Uh do you think in terms of looks,
08:47:02
Brian Atlasdo you think you're below average, average, or above average? Above. Above. Above. Average. Average. Above. Do you think you're beautiful?
08:47:12
Brian AtlasThat's what my parents tell me. Yes. I think so. Yeah. Mhm. Yes. Okay. Uh let's see here. Um Uh
08:47:26
Brian AtlasWe hit a lot of these. Okay, rapid fire. Uh going around the table, you can't repeat. Name three countries besides the USA. Zimbabwe.
08:47:38
Brian AtlasChina. France. Perfect. Tiffany, two more water One more water, please. Go ahead.
08:47:50
Brian AtlasChina. China. You Wait, no, you You can't repeat. You can't repeat. She did say She did say China. Oh, I did. >> Thief. I'm so tired. Thank [laughter] you. Okay, um I can name like 50.
08:48:02
Maria>> Peru, Dominican Republic, Haiti. Okay, go ahead. Italy, Greece, Spain. I was going to say two of those. Okay. Uh Brazil. Argentina, Peru.
08:48:13
BrooklynPortugal, Morocco, Egypt. Korea, India, Chile. Going this way, how many continents are there? Um I'm I don't know. Seven. What? >> Oh, sorry. Wait, wait.
08:48:25
Brian AtlasBrooklyn. I'm [laughter] sorry. I'm tired. Uh face the wall. You're You're on the timeout. >> [laughter] >> Face the wall. Think about what you did, Brooklyn.
08:48:35
SPEAKER_01Stand up, Brooklyn. Stand [laughter] up. Face the wall. Okay, there's another punishment. Hold on. Oh, no. Oh, my goodness. >> put this on for 5 minutes. Put the hat [laughter] on. Put that Put that on for
08:48:47
Brian Atlas5 minutes, Brook. Brooklyn. Actually, I'll just I'll let you do it for 30 seconds. Put it on. Okay, but it'll look cute, though. Okay. Uh homegirl, spin spin the helicopter on top.
08:49:00
Brian AtlasOkay. Uh here, just put it on the ground next to you. I got It's [ __ ] up. Yeah. Okay. Uh how many continents are there? You said you don't know. Okay, Brooklyn
08:49:11
Brian Atlassaved you, though. Freaking Brooklyn. Goddamn Brooklyn. Uh Name one continent. Can't repeat. >> Asia. Africa. Australia.
08:49:21
Brian AtlasEurope. To pass. Come on. Come on. Continent. Continent. Zimbabwe. >> [laughter]
08:49:30
Brian Atlas>> That is a country. That's a country. Uh India. No, that's a country.
08:49:40
Chris LoveI was in English class. I didn't really pay attention. No, this is geography. No, I know, but in school I was in English class. You didn't have to take geography? Can you guys just repeat your continents
08:49:51
Brian Atlasagain, so she can have a reference? Asia. Africa. Australia. Europe. So, you have three more possible.
08:50:04
Chris LoveNobody help? Nobody help? I really don't know. Okay. Can Can I give you a hint? Can I give you a hint? What continent are we on? United States of America. >> No.
08:50:18
Brian Atlas>> [laughter] >> Uh that is a country. >> to stop talking cuz everyone's going to think I'm dumb. >> What? No, you are so smart. Uh What
08:50:28
Brian Atlascontinent are we on? What land? The continent. Okay. Maybe this helps. What is the continent below our continent?
08:50:44
Brian AtlasI don't know, the Pacific Ocean? What is >> [laughter] >> What is the continent that Brazil is on? >> [clears throat]
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Brooklyn>> I don't know. I'm Okay. Uh did somebody say the icy one? Iceland? I said that. Oh, you said that one? I wish I had known. I was trying to give her a hint.
08:51:03
Brian AtlasI said Wait, Poland I said thanks, no. Asia. Asia, Africa, Australia. Europe. What's the icy continent?
08:51:13
JuliaWhere the South where the North Pole is. What's the ice continent? Polar bears. The li >> Pole. I don't [ __ ] know. >> [laughter]
08:51:25
Brian Atlas>> Who? Chris Love. >> know. Is that your legal name? Yes, that's my government name. Chris Love. >> with an A. B C Love. Can I call you C Love? C Love. Can I call you Can I call you
08:51:37
Brian AtlasJust call me Barbie. Wait. Did we do Okay. Um >> know. Give us a continent.
08:51:47
Brian AtlasAntarctica. Antarctica. Okay, somebody say the the Brooklyn, what's the other one? North America, South America. No, I didn't I wanted you to leave one. I wanted you to
08:51:59
Brian Atlasleave one for our girl here. South America. Okay. >> [snorts] >> Um Here, for you. I'm going to pick on you, okay? Chris Love.
08:52:12
Brian AtlasWhat two countries border the USA?
08:52:19
Brian AtlasInto Mike. Closer, closer. >> And then Mexico. That's one. Maybe. Do What? It is. And then the other state we hate. I don't know. What's the other country? >> Russia. Yes.
08:52:33
Chris Love>> [laughter] >> Guess Guess one more time. It's not Russia. Ukraine. What continent is Ukraine in? I don't know, but those look like the the countries we have beef with. We
08:52:46
Brian Atlasdon't have beef with Ukraine. >> [laughter] >> Oh, boy. Um okay. Just give me another How about this? Let me give you a hint. Let me give you a hint. It's north. It's the
08:52:58
Chris Lovecountry north of us. Like I said, I didn't learn that in school. I was in English development. >> Wait, how Yeah, yeah. Okay. They love hot >> [laughter] >> Of course, Drake. Yeah. Of course, with
08:53:09
Chris LoveBrooklyn. Uh okay. How many >> [laughter] >> How many states in the USA? 50.
08:53:19
Lexi50. Uh what is the capital of the USA? Washington or DC. Name three US states. You can't repeat. Arizona, um Arkansas,
08:53:30
Chris LoveAlabama. Into Mike Mike Mike Mike Mike. Texas, North Carolina. Um Minnesota.