ALL RAGE QUIT & KICKED OUT?! HATER Came To DESTROY Brian?! HØE PHASE = GOOD?! | Dating Talk 287
Date: 2026-03-23
Duration: 9h 38m
Guests
Brian AtlasIdentified Speakers
SPEAKER_02Julia(guest)
SPEAKER_04Lindsey(guest)
SPEAKER_05Brian Atlas(host)
SPEAKER_07Laetitia(guest)
SPEAKER_08Chris Love(guest)
SPEAKER_09Maria(guest)
SPEAKER_10Lexi(guest)
SPEAKER_11Veronica(guest)
SPEAKER_12Brooklyn(guest)
Key Moments
00:00:11
IntroAll guests introduce themselves. Lexi reveals findom operation with male manager.
01:35:00
Key MomentBrian: do sex workers deserve chivalry? Sparks central debate.
02:14:00
QuoteBrian: 'Women do jack s---. YOU DON'T DO ANYTHING.' on what women bring to dating.
03:17:40
Key MomentMaria drove across states to cheat, turned around at 'Don't commit adultery' billboard
03:43:00
ControversyBrian tells Maria's boyfriend Luke he should dump her
06:47:00
ControversyVeronica cries and rage quits during weight rejection debate
06:51:00
ControversyLindsey confronts Brian and is kicked off - second rage quit
07:08:00
Key MomentJulia's toxic ex: flew out another girl, got her Korean name tattooed on his ribs
08:16:00
Key MomentLaetitia discusses sex addiction history and 3-year celibacy journey
08:47:00
OtherChris Love can't name Canada, continents, or what a nickel is worth in trivia
Topics Discussed
00:00:11
Guest Introductions and Findom
Lexi (18) does findom with male manager making $10K/mo. Brian questions whether it constitutes fraud/sex work.
00:48:40
Relationship Status Round
Chris Love has 12-13 man roster, 5 dates/week, fake boyfriend arrangement. Maria 12 years with Luke. Laetitia divorced, celibate.
01:35:00
Chivalry for Non-Traditional Women
Brian argues sex workers don't deserve chivalry. Women can't articulate what they uniquely bring to dating.
03:15:00
Maria's Heroin Addiction
10-year heroin addiction. Nearly cheated driving across states. Turned around at 'Don't commit adultery' billboard.
04:04:00
Self-Ratings and Looks
Several rate themselves 10. Brian gives 4-6.5 ratings.
04:16:00
Julia's Racial Dating Preferences
Julia (Korean-American) not attracted to Asian men, prefers white men.
05:13:00
Minimum Income Requirements
Lexi $120K. Chris Love $400K-$20M. Maria $50K. Lindsey 'I don't know.'
06:35:00
Weight Rejection Debate / Rage Quits
Veronica cries and rage quits. Lindsey confronts Brian and also rage quits/kicked off. Two walkoffs.
07:08:00
Julia's Toxic Ex Story
Ex flew out another girl day Julia moved in. Got other girl's Korean name tattooed on his ribs.
07:14:00
Hoe Phase Debate
Julia argues hoe phase can be empowering. Laetitia says her promiscuous past wasn't actually empowering.
08:16:00
Laetitia's Self-Improvement Journey
Former sex addict, celibate years working on herself. 'Married herself' 3 years ago.
08:47:00
Rapid Fire Trivia
Chris Love can't name Canada as country north of US. Brooklyn excels.
Transcript
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00:00:11
Brian AtlasWelcome to the Whatever Dating Talk Podcast, where we try to make sense of the modern dating hellscape. I'm your host Brian Atlas. Sorry that we're a little late, guys. A lot of people running late, no-shows, so forth. Uh we're just going to since we are
00:00:23
Brian Atlaslate, we're going to just dive right in. I guess the fade wasn't on. Um okay, go ahead. Okay. Um my name's Lexi. Um I'm 18 years old. I'm originally from
00:00:35
LexiLA and I moved to Miami. And I am a server. And I am in college. And what's the other thing you do? Um it's called findom. What's that mean?
00:00:48
LexiFinancial domination. So what what do you do with that? Um you kind of just bully men. And they give you money.
00:00:58
Brian AtlasEssentially. Okay, so you are uh How are you finding your clients, Al? Tiffany, you got to switch. They find >> to switch when when uh okay, go ahead.
00:01:09
LexiThey pretty much find me. Like through X. Okay. How long you been doing that? Since
00:01:20
Brian AtlasOctober of last year. Since October, okay. Um when did you turn 18? October. So prior to turning 18, did you have a
00:01:31
Lexiplan to start doing this? No, I did not. So okay, you turn 18 in October. What day? 27th. When did you start doing findom? Um I
00:01:41
Lexidon't know the exact day, but it was it was sometime in October. It was Was it before you turned 18? Possibly. So you were doing sex work before 18? Uh I don't it was like maybe a few days.
00:01:55
LexiAnd I don't really consider it I don't really consider it sex work. Um Are the men being sexually gratified? I mean, that could be considered like at any I don't know, like if you're on the
00:02:08
Brian Atlassubway and like some guy's jerking off to you, like that Is that sex work? No, that would be a crime, but um you're engaging in a consensual engagement with
00:02:19
Brian Atlasthe person transactionally for money. So work, what do you typically get when you work? Money. Right. And so the way you make money is
00:02:29
Lexiby indulging men in uh their sexual gratification. But it's not like it's just like weird. Like it's not like >> It is weird. You're right about that. It's not like I'm
00:02:41
Lexiyou know, nude or like in lingerie and stuff like that. It's it's none of that. It's like I don't know, they just like being bullied. Well, do any of them disclose that they
00:02:54
Brian Atlasare uh like masturbating while you do it or >> I don't really run it. So >> What do you mean you don't run it? >> Like I have someone. That's how I found out about it. Just like through a random on Snapchat.
00:03:06
Brian AtlasSo you don't Who bullies the men then? >> He does. So I don't really do anything. >> So [snorts] you have a male manager. >> Yes. Who who bullies the men? Yes. So
00:03:16
Lexiyou are what then? The face? >> Yeah. So you're useless. Pretty much. So like literally an AI could do it. >> Yeah, that's what you know, there's a lot of AI only fans models tell too, you know.
00:03:31
Brian AtlasUh okay, so you don't ever participate in the uh the bullying. Not really. >> You're not sending the messages, you're not degrading them. No.
00:03:43
LexiHe I just communicate through him. >> your manager? What? Oh, he's like I think he's like 20. I don't even know. So he started uh pimping you out before the age of 18? >> pimping.
00:03:57
Brian AtlasIt's not pimping out. >> Well, you're not prostituting yourself >> Yeah, it's not like that. >> in a more literal sense, but He just runs like >> It is a little questionable though that you
00:04:08
Brian Atlasstarted engaging this when you were a minor. I don't know the exact day. Well, you this is not like I'm ask I'm not asking you to be uh recalling
00:04:20
Brian Atlassomething from 10 years ago. This is 6 months ago in October. >> month, but I don't know the exact day of the month. Well, I mean, you said your birthday's October 20 27th. If you started posting
00:04:32
Brian Atlason Twitter prior to October 27th offering this service,
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Lexithen you would have been engaging in sex work when you were a minor.
00:04:46
LexiOkay, so you've been doing it for And so you met this guy prior to Was this your boyfriend? >> I've actually never met him. It's just like How did you How did you find him?
00:04:58
Brian Atlas>> know. He just texted me and I I first I thought it was like weird, but um Wait, wait, so a 20-year-old man is texting a minor trying to induce her to start sex work.
00:05:09
Brian Atlas>> minor. You literally were a minor. Not after October 27th. But did he text you prior to your birthday? >> let's just say October 27th. >> Well, let's I mean >> [laughter] >> I mean, there's only 3 or 4 days left in the month of October.
00:05:21
Brian Atlas>> Yeah, so there's there's a chance it could have been those 3 or 4 days. >> That's a bit of a yikes uh if you ask me, but um okay, so uh and I assume you plan to maybe start
00:05:33
Lexian OnlyFans, too? No. I mean, that's that's the pipeline. No, but I'm I live in Miami. I'm around it all the time. If I wanted to do it, I would have done that already. I still have self-respect.
00:05:47
Brian AtlasIt's not >> What What Wait, so hold on. You you make a judgment of OnlyFans girls and you're here with your virtue in your ivory tower uh degrading men. Well, not even you're
00:05:58
Brian AtlasI mean, you're the you have an agent degrading men on your behalf via proxy, I guess. Um W- What did What was the word you used? You have What did she say? You still have standards or what was it
00:06:12
Lexiyou said? >> self-respect. >> You still have self-respect. >> Yeah. So what What is it about OnlyFans that is lacking in self-respect that you possess? >> Honestly, I think it's not like I think
00:06:23
Lexiit depends if what kind of OnlyFans, cuz I know that some OnlyFans girls don't post anything crazy. Like they'll literally post like their feet and make money. Still
00:06:34
Lexidegenerate, but >> But I think there gets to a certain level. I mean, you could still have self-respect. It's just online self-respect versus like in-person self-respect.
00:06:47
Brian AtlasMhm. Um okay. Has your manager or whatever, has he attempted to uh convince you or persuade you to start an OnlyFans? No, he hasn't.
00:07:01
Brian AtlasSo he's fine doing this degradation thing, but not exploring other avenues of monetization. I mean, he has a lot of different girls. >> Does he manage OnlyFans girls?
00:07:12
Lexi>> No, he just does this, cuz it's a smaller niche. Like it's not as widespread, I would say. So he just does the Twitter findom degrading men thing. >> Yeah, it's honestly like it's a good um it's a good way to make money as a man,
00:07:26
Brian AtlasI guess. >> Well, maybe he makes good money. I don't know if I would categorize it as a good way. Yeah, maybe not a good way, but you know, an easy way. Well, that might certainly be true. Um
00:07:38
Lexiokay, what's the typical I guess Can you share how much money you make? Um about a month, but I also serve. Um do you want me to put both of them together? Uh just the findom by itself.
00:07:49
Brian Atlas>> around like $10,000 a month. From findom and you're 18. Yes. Okay. Um Mhm. It varies though, you know, month
00:08:01
Brian Atlasby month. What are some of the things when he it I'm surprised you actually admitted that it's not you who sent the messages. Cuz I don't Don't you think your clientele would be disappointed to learn
00:08:14
Brian Atlasthat it's It's like >> they're like basically being fraudulent fraudulently induced to homo sexual sexting. I mean, honestly, if they if like a small percentage sees this,
00:08:25
Brian Atlasthat's fine. Oh, yeah, I mean, I'm sure you're not uh pushing it out there too much like crazy, but uh Okay, so what are the some of the things he would send a guy? Um he'd be like
00:08:38
LexiThey like to like I don't know, like they like tasks, so he'll tell them to like go lick their toilet seat or like throw themselves in a trash can. That's [ __ ] disgusting.
00:08:54
BrooklynExcuse me? >> Yeah.
00:08:58
LexiUh licking Does Does Do the men They'll send him They'll send him videos, yeah. He'll like share some of it with me just so like so I can see. Mhm.
00:09:11
Brian AtlasAnd I'm like, wow. What's his cut? He gets 25%. 25%. Okay. >> [sighs] >> All right. Um I mean, you're going down the pipeline. I wouldn't be surprised
00:09:23
Brian Atlaswith if when within a year or two you >> I Why would I do that? Why would I do that? I It's so below you. It's not below me. I'm just saying why would I We're about to do the uh your intro. I feel like I'm going to
00:09:36
Brian Atlaspass out or something. I'm sorry. Uh okay. Do you need to take a breather or Yeah. Okay, how long do you think you need to take? I'm not sure. I guess I have a really bad headache. We have
00:09:50
Brian Atlas>> [snorts] >> We have ibuprofen. We have Tylenol. Tiffany, can you help her with You want to swa-
00:10:07
Brian AtlasDo you want to at least do the intro as we're cuz we're about to do the intro? Can you introduce yourself and then take the break?
00:10:18
Brian AtlasAll right. Um you're from Miami, you said. >> No, I'm from Los or like Ventura County. Oh, you live in Ventura? No, I moved to Miami. Okay. So, but you're from Ventura and
00:10:29
Brian Atlasthen you moved to Miami. Okay. And then college? Yeah. I'm just community college. In Miami? Yes.
00:10:38
Chris LoveUh are you uh what are you studying? Marketing. Is it your freshman year? Yes. Okay. Introduce yourself, please. Hi, I'm
00:10:50
Chris LoveChris Love. I'm 28 years old. I am a licensed hairdresser, model, and >> Sorry, can you repeat yourself? What? Oh. Just start from the beginning. >> Okay, my name is Chris Love. I'm 28
00:11:01
Chris Loveyears old. I'm from Haiti. I'm a licensed hairdresser, Playboy model, and a stripper. Okay. Um What do they speak in Haiti? French.
00:11:12
Brian Atlas>> French. Tu parles français? Ooh. Poquito. C'est bien ça. [laughter] Uh okay. Um where And sorry, [laughter] you're from Haiti, but where do you live currently? Oh, Las
00:11:23
Brian AtlasVegas. Vegas, okay. >> And uh college? Yeah, I graduated. From where, with what? Associate's degree. With what uh what?
00:11:36
Brian AtlasHairdressing. Oh, in hairdressing. >> Yeah. Okay. And then um
00:11:47
Chris LoveWhat was the other thing? I feel I Are we >> University? Yeah, university or I I did, but I got a scholarship and I injured my
00:11:58
Chris Lovefoot, so I kind of like dropped out and then did hairdressing school. Which >> Can you return for your intro, please?
00:12:16
Brian AtlasOkay. Can you tell us your name, your age, your location, your occupation, education? Um Hello, my name is Brooklyn. I'm 19
00:12:27
Brooklynyears old. Um my occupation right now is just like part-time at a retail store. And right now I'm in community college, just doing the 2 years and then next year I hope to transfer
00:12:39
Brooklynto a 4-year college. What are you studying? Film and media arts. And where do you live? Where are you from? Um I live in Ventura.
00:12:49
Brian AtlasThat's where I'm from, born and raised. And you're friends with uh Lexi here. Yes. Has she Have you done any sort of uh
00:12:59
Brooklynsimilar work to her with the findom thing? I don't have my own account, but I've done like a few posts with her and then gotten like a portion of that money.
00:13:11
Brian AtlasHave you done anything else like selling feet pics, having a sugar daddy, anything like that? >> It was like a few feet pics on her page, but no, I don't have a sugar daddy. Okay. Yeah. All right. And how long have
00:13:23
Brian Atlasyou been sort of working with her on the findom stuff? >> Um whenever she started. So >> 6 months? >> Yeah. Okay. Uh
00:13:35
Brooklyninteresting. How much money have you made? Um like $1,000.
00:13:47
Brian AtlasYou know, I think the thing >> [sighs and gasps] >> the thing with sex work uh I mean, on one hand what's the point of half-assing it, I
00:13:58
Brian Atlasguess? Cuz I mean, you've already what's the term? You've already bit the bullet, you've already pulled the trigger. So, it's like if you're if you're going
00:14:08
Brian Atlasto do it, I feel like you either need to make a [ __ ] ton of money or not do it. Cuz like then you just have the you have like the digital footprint. But are you comparing Sorry. Are you comparing like
00:14:21
Brian Atlasfeet pics to like porn? Like >> Well, so I uh continue. Like What do you mean by like go all the way? Like what >> No, so when I when I say go all the way, even if you're just taking like
00:14:32
Brian Atlasnon-nude lingerie photos, if you're just going to be like you don't want to be half a gangster. You're either a full gangster >> [laughter] >> or you don't become a gangster. Now, just to be clear, I'm not
00:14:44
Brian Atlasadvocating that people should be doing sex work or whatever, but I feel like if you're going to dabble, you've already bit the bullet. Like I feel like I'm not articulating
00:14:56
Brian AtlasI'm not advocating that people do sex work, period. But it seems like if you're going to put out the digital footprint of by the way, I'm a sex worker,
00:15:07
Brian Atlaslike that's that's that you've you've passed the event horizon. You've passed the point of uh [ __ ] what's the term? The uh the point of no return. I don't know. I
00:15:21
Brian Atlasdon't know. >> There's worse things you can do in sex work. Like you could be a Bonnie Blue. You could that that could be the maybe the worst thing. You could be in the traditional porn industry. But it's like is it worth it just to
00:15:33
Lexilike perma >> for me it's worth it cuz it's like I got out of my household and I'm still I'm living What? >> got out of your house old? >> Yeah, my household. Oh, household. Okay.
00:15:44
Lexi>> I lost my voice, so I don't know. But I'm just saying like for me it was worth it cuz I could work as many hours as I could, you know, working my serving job here, but that's not going to make me enough money for rent nowadays.
00:15:57
Brian Atlas>> Well, so you're making 10K, but I I my criticism is perhaps directed more towards your friend, where she's been doing this sort of casually for 6 months and she's made $1,000
00:16:09
Brian Atlasand >> But she doesn't like do it, you know? Well, she now has like a perma footprint of like she's always going to have the sex worker label.
00:16:20
Brian AtlasFor for $1,000, it's Look, again, you shouldn't do it, period. But it's like for $1,000, it's not worth it. Like for example, if you're going to rob banks
00:16:32
Brian Atlasand all you're going to get is like a roll of quarters, uh like just to be clear, you should never rob a bank. But if all you're going to get is like 25 bucks, you're a [ __ ] [ __ ]
00:16:44
Brian AtlasIf you're going to rob a bank, make sure it's like six figures. Now again, you shouldn't [ __ ] rob a bank, but if you're dumb enough to do it, it should at least be
00:16:55
Brian Atlasuh it's never worth it, but it should be worth it. In this case, perma sex worker label for a thousand bucks, I don't know if that's great. Now, I'm not trying to beat up on you too much. What I would say to you is,
00:17:09
Brian Atlasboth of you, I guess, you're both 18, you're both or you're 19. You're both young. You haven't dived too far. I would highly encourage both of you
00:17:21
Brian Atlasto reconsider. Cuz you're not too far gone. I mean, you don't have [ __ ] pictures of you getting bukkake'd and gangbanged yet, as far as
00:17:32
Brian AtlasI know. You've done some [ __ ] weird findom degrading men [ __ ] You've sold feet pics or whatever. You've posted some You're not too far gone. But you keep going.
00:17:45
Brian AtlasSo, there's a point here where you can make a given your age, you're 18, 19, you can make like an affirmative decision. I'm just going to extract myself entirely from this. Yeah, the money's good. You could also be a hitman, you
00:17:58
Brian Atlascould do assassinations for money. You could sell drugs for money, you could sell heroin and uh meth to 13-year-olds, that would get you a lot of money, I suppose. Um or even adults. Um that'll get you good
00:18:11
Brian Atlasmoney. You could do all sorts of things that are uh potentially long the the long the long-term ramifications. Uh So, given your age, I would strongly encourage both of you Well, I'm not
00:18:24
Lexi>> to stop while you're ahead. >> I'm not planning on doing this like lifelong. That's what they all say. No, but like >> a server. I Yeah, and I'm in college. You're currently a server. You make 10,000 a month doing the findom thing.
00:18:39
LexiHow much do you make a month being a server? It's more for like the people aspect, but um You do it You do the findom for the vibes? >> No, not for No, I'm saying serving to make connections, like meet new people. You're a waitress for the
00:18:52
Lexinetworking? >> Yes. And it's like good have a routine, you know? Like you I'm not going to I'm not going to like fully depend on the the findom stuff.
00:19:02
Brian AtlasUm So, you're a Do you Are you like at a really fancy restaurant or something? >> I'm in Brickell. It's not like super fancy, but it's like there, you know, all the famous people go there.
00:19:13
Brian AtlasBut like is it a I don't know. What's a popular expensive restaurant like Nobu or something? I don't know. >> Um Yeah, I don't really like fine dining, though. You You don't like fine dining. >> fine dining. I like more like, I don't
00:19:26
Lexiknow, family style places to work at. Okay. Um hm.
00:19:35
BrooklynGood times, I guess. Uh okay, any thoughts from you? I guess I never like considered what I
00:19:44
Brooklynwas doing as sex work, just because it was like feet and then that was it. Um Yeah, that's basically it. But I'm not going to do this life long either. I
00:19:56
Brian Atlasmean, I'm still in college. I want to get my degree. The thing is though is it's it's like you start off selling feet pics. Yeah, I get that. >> Next thing you know, hold on. But you don't think
00:20:08
Brian Atlas>> I'm about to do a slippery slope fallacy, but [ __ ] it, who cares? Uh one day you're selling feet pics, the next you're sucking dicks behind a 7-Eleven for $50 a pop trying to, you
00:20:19
Lexiknow, feed your heroin addiction. Yeah. Well Or meth addiction. Or make up a addiction. >> would have already been there by now. I would have I live in I live in Miami,
00:20:31
Brian Atlaslike the only fans capital of the world. You don't know how many times I'm I've been offered like how much money I could have made. You know? >> Mhm. So Sophie Rain hits you up and is like or whoever still working at the Bob house or whatever if it's even a thing
00:20:43
Brian Atlasanymore. She's like, "Hey, look, come work with us. We'll make you six figures a month." Yeah, I don't I don't I know. I'm happy I'm satisfied with how I live right now. We'll see. Uh
00:20:55
Mariayou're in school? Yes. What are you studying? Film and media arts. Okay. All right. What about you? Hey, I'm Maria. I'm from North Carolina.
00:21:06
MariaI'm 34. Um I work in a warehouse and Oh, I dropped out of college my junior year. What were you studying? Social work. Social work, okay.
00:21:19
Brian AtlasUh did you get your associates or not? No. Okay. Uh and you're from where again? Sorry, my >> North Carolina. North Carolina, okay. All right.
00:21:31
LindseyUm what about you? Oh, I'm Lindsey. I'm 26 years old. I'm from Maryland. I live in Beverly Hills now and I am mostly a writer and a supermodel as well. Uh before I have people finish their intro,
00:21:43
Brian AtlasI do apologize. Uh I had some TTS come in. Desert Jorge, normally we don't get them so soon, so I apologize for the delay. Thank uh sorry.
00:21:53
SPEAKER_00>> Desert Jorge donated $200. Chair one does not know the meaning of self-respect. She's also admitting to
00:22:01
SPEAKER_00fraud. It's behavior like hers that creates misogynists from nice guys. Do you want to respond to Desert Jorge? Um yeah, like what do you mean like fraud cuz it's a different guy? I mean,
00:22:14
Brian Atlasthere's scams all the time. But it's not like an actual scam, like I don't know. >> It's actually a good point. Uh Jorge, there actually is fraud. It is a scam. Yeah, but is that like
00:22:26
Brian Atlaslike legal, like legally or I don't know. Uh well how about this? And Adzils, I see your TTS. I'll get to it in just a moment. Uh how how about we frame it like this? Uh
00:22:39
Brian AtlasWell, tell why do you think he's calling it fraud or scam? Because the guys obviously think that they're talking to me. But isn't that what OnlyFans is, too? Which
00:22:50
Brian Atlasis also fraud and scamming. But it's a It's like a job. It's like a legal job, right? Well They pay taxes and stuff. Well, yeah, but
00:23:01
Brian Atlasmafia bosses pay drug dealers pay taxes. Criminals pay taxes. Well, sometimes they hide it, sometimes they launder the money. Um
00:23:12
Brian Atlasbut just because you pay taxes doesn't mean that you aren't Like for example, even corporations, you'd acknowledge that corporations engage in criminal acts and fraud and this sort of thing.
00:23:23
Brian AtlasMoney embezzlement. Uh and they pay taxes. So just because you pay taxes doesn't mean that what you're actually doing is uh legitimate in this other sense. Yeah,
00:23:36
Brian AtlasI mean, I thought we both agreed that it was like I mean, not ideal. Well, there's two components. There's the the actual thing you're doing, which is the the degradation, which people could
00:23:48
Brian Atlascould criticize that you're engaging in sex work. You're kind of bullying men for money, which is uh you know, a little little shady. But then there's
00:23:59
Brian Atlasthe misrepresentation. So it's like you're talking to me or I'm talking to you. It's Lexi. That's her name, right, Lexi? Lexi is the one that's bullying these men as
00:24:11
Brian Atlassimpish and degenerate as they might be. You're the one you're advertising it's you. But the fraud is it's some dude. It's not you. Like for example,
00:24:23
Brian Atlasdo you think um who's someone really famous right now? Do you think if Timoth- Timothy Chalamet opened up not an OnlyFans, but let's say he opened up a membership website. It wasn't nudity or anything, but he was
00:24:35
Brian Atlaslike, "Hey, you guys join this uh membership website. We'll charge $20 an hour and or excuse me, not $20 an hour. Uh $20 a month and per message you have to
00:24:47
Brian Atlaspay a dollar or some [ __ ] like that." And it what and you get to talk to me. That's the representation. You get to talk to me, famous movie A-list movie actor Timothy Chalamet.
00:24:58
Brian AtlasBut it actually wasn't him. It was some minimum wage assistant. That would be fraud. People would bring lawsuits against him. I mean, I don't know. I don't really feel bad for them. What do you mean you don't feel bad for
00:25:12
Brian Atlasthem? >> Like they're getting what they want, I guess. Uh uh okay. >> Not really. Well, in any case, that that doesn't
00:25:22
Brian Atlasthat doesn't refute that you are engaging in a fraudulent act. Okay, yeah, it is fraud, I guess. Okay, I guess you can admit it. Um but it is
00:25:38
SPEAKER_00Yeah, it is a bit, you know. Okay. Uh thank you, Desert Jorge, for that. We have Adzils here. Thank you, man. Appreciate it. >> Adzils donated $200.
00:25:49
SPEAKER_00E O'Brien Thank you, man. >> British back. Love for accepting my FR on Discord. As a good observer, the innocence of chair three is there to
00:25:58
Brian Atlassee, just silly. Chair one, market in a bad friend. #michaelisking. Uh thank you, man. Thank you, Adzils. Yeah, we can fix her. I'm about her. She's too far gone, but I think we can
00:26:10
Lindseyfix we can fix her. We we can get her on the right path. Uh >> [laughter] >> All right. Uh you were about to introduce yourself. Yes. Or you did sort of your 26.
00:26:20
Lindsey>> Yes, my name is Lindsey and I'm a writer as well as a supermodel. Oh, and uh Wait, did you hide all those memberships?
00:26:32
Brian AtlasTiffany, what happened there? I I showed them. Okay, that's you can leave them, but you can unstar the these blues here. Sorry, guys. New new producer. My my
00:26:44
Brian Atlasguy's on my new guy other new guy's away. Uh and you're Amish or ex-Amish. >> [laughter] >> Yes, I grew up Quaker and Amish. Right now, mostly just Quaker. So explain what
00:26:56
Lindseyuh explain what Quaker is. Explain what Amish is. And yeah. Well, [laughter] the Amish are usually just people who really believe in simplicity. It's the same with Quakerism, but the main
00:27:07
Lindseydifference is that we still have like connection to technology and the outside world unlike people in the Amish community. So that's basically the main difference. I would also say that Quakerism is extremely diverse. So you
00:27:20
Lindseycould pretty much be it like of any background, have any kind of spiritual or cultural belief and still be considered a Quaker because it's not actually a religion. It's a way of being, so more of like a spirituality.
00:27:32
LindseyAnd there are like certain pillars that if you live by, then you could technically consider yourself a Quaker as well. Wait, so um Quakers don't consider themselves Christian, is that correct?
00:27:44
Lindsey>> No, so basically >> churches? Not really. Like we have They're called meeting houses and basically what it's for is for us to like meet together and just sit in silence. If somebody has like a hard
00:27:56
Lindseytime that they're going through, they can stand up and say something to the rest of the community. Um but basically the whole purpose is that like we're bringing our lights together to make the world shine brighter. So by appreciating
00:28:07
Brian Atlaseach other in silence, we can understand simplicity better. Okay. Good times. And then the when you say you were a um
00:28:19
Brian AtlasAmish What? So did you not have like a phone? Did you not I guess I probably got a >> scope and scale of it? Well, it was mostly just that I lived inside of an
00:28:31
LindseyAmish neighborhood. So like all Amish food, all Amish like communities pretty much. And then I went to all Quaker schools. Okay. Um but so
00:28:42
Brian Atlasyour parents, are they Amish? No, [laughter] not at all. Okay, so are they they Quaker? Yes. But you So you're not Amish then. No.
00:28:55
LindseyBut you said you were Amish. No, no, no. I grew up partially Amish, yes. Like within the Amish community. >> Amish. Yes. And the Amish community That would imply uh I I think there's a difference
00:29:07
Lindseybetween you grew up Amish and you grew up living in an Amish area. Anyways, okay, so you're not Amish. >> because like the way of living is drastically different. So like there are
00:29:19
Lindseyhorses and carriages, for example. So like that's why I'm like, well, I feel like if you grow up in a community like that, it's kind of The only reason we really had a car was because Quaker schools are really far away from like
00:29:30
Lindseythose farming areas. So, you know, all my neighbors though and like the community I was in was mostly Amish. All right. Um
00:29:41
Brian Atlasinteresting. Okay, so not really Amish, but sort of sort of. I guess. All right, interesting. >> More so Quaker. I would definitely stand by yes, yes. [clears throat]
00:29:51
Brian Atlas>> Or Okay. But then and where where where was that? Pennsylvania? No, in Maryland in a really small town in Maryland. Okay. And but how recently did you move You moved to LA? Hollywood?
00:30:04
Lindsey>> Yeah, well Beverly Hills. And I moved here like almost 3 years ago. Oh [ __ ] wait hold on. Let me shout somebody out. I missed it. Sorry Ziko. [music]
00:30:15
Brian AtlasSorry Ziko, we have we have like perma moderation on our alerts. So I don't know if you're still watching Ziko. Thank you for the raid. Hey guys, um Ziko. Who's Who's single here? Really quick,
00:30:27
Brian Atlasjust a show of hands. Who of you want to date a World of Warcraft giga chad top tier mage player streamer? You would do it? What about you? He's Is
00:30:40
Brian Atlashe I just don't know. I would have to like know him. >> [laughter] >> I have to like meet him. He's Is he black? >> I don't know. You didn't give any characteristics. >> Ziko, are you black? [laughter] Hold on. I don't know if He's a black man. He's a handsome black
00:30:55
Brian Atlasman. >> I honestly I've never dated a black guy, so >> He's got good micro. He [ __ ] owns people [laughter] in arena as a mage. He [ __ ] frost bolts the [ __ ] out of people. Hold on, Ziko. Are you in the chat? Sorry, I
00:31:07
Brian Atlasmissed it. Our alerts I wasn't paying attention to the alerts. I totally missed it, man. Ziko, are you in the chat? Let me see. Let me look at the Twitch chat really quick. Thanks for the raid, man. Guys, if you're joining us from Ziko's stream,
00:31:19
Brian Atlasif you even still tuned in. Oh, he is in the chat. I do see Ziko. Let's get Hold on. Let me VIP this man. Hold on. Give me 1 sec. VIP Ziko for the win. Boom.
00:31:32
Brian AtlasGuys, if you're enjoy If you're coming from Ziko's stream, drop us a follow because look, I know it's I know that guy, he only plays World of Warcraft primarily. This is obviously not a gaming stream that we do, but I do
00:31:43
Brian Atlasfrequently talk about World of Warcraft on the show, you know, um Like Oh, whoops. You know, like right now I'm actually um
00:31:54
Brian AtlasI'm kind of like AoE farming. Like there's there's nine eight Wait. Eight girls here. Like this is a mage AoE pull. And it's like you know, I'm like AoE farming basically.
00:32:07
Brian AtlasUm And yeah. And it's like high I'm basically like high warlord and they're basically like 51 greens in Felwood.
00:32:18
Brian AtlasAnd like I've [ __ ] got full world buffs and [ __ ] and they're just like in like dungeon greens. Wow. I'm kidding. I'm kidding. [laughter] It's terrible. I don't I'm trying to be
00:32:29
Brian AtlasI'm trying to relate to the Ziko raid raiders. Hey Ziko, thanks for the raid, man. Appreciate it. Hope you had a good stream, man. I will set you guys up the with with him if you want to. He's He's
00:32:40
Brian Atlasnot as toxic as I am. He's um He's rich. He's a World of Warcraft millionaire and he's really good at the game, too. So Okay, good talk. >> [laughter]
00:32:53
Lindsey>> All right. Well, you didn't give any characteristics. You just said all these random things. He's 6'3. Okay. Does he go to the gym? He does go to the gym. He's got really good micro. Like his
00:33:07
Brian Atlasmicro is really good. >> saying he's good with his hands is what you're saying? Yeah, like the micro. Like micro manage, you know? Like you guys know Command & Conquer: Generals? Yes. You How the [ __ ] do you know Command & Conquer? [laughter] He's got the micro, you know?
00:33:21
Brian Atlas>> [gasps] >> Like he's just pawning noobs and [ __ ] Like three people know the reference I'm doing. I just assumed you were really into gaming. >> Like he's going to [ __ ] scud storm you guys like within 3 minutes. Oh, totally. >> He's going to load a bunch of technicals
00:33:34
Lindseyup into the [ __ ] What is it [ __ ] called? The what? >> I mean here Yeah, Command & Conquer: Generals like Zero Hour. Yeah. So do you actually play the game or do you just know terms? >> I stopped
00:33:48
Brian Atlas>> [laughter] >> I stopped playing video games like Me, too. 4 or 5 years ago. Anyways, okay, back to back to the intros. Um so you're you're a Quaker? Yes. >> [laughter]
00:34:00
Lindsey>> And you grew up in an Amish neighborhood. So you would see like buggies and [ __ ] >> Yes, yes. Horse-drawn carriage. >> Yes, the whole outfit. Sometimes we'd have to reenact the pilgrimage era. >> Did you
00:34:12
Lindsey>> Which sucked. Did you date >> So um not really, no. Amish guy? [laughter] I didn't really like date for real until probably 17. Maybe older, honestly. Maybe like 18, 19.
00:34:23
Lindsey>> Amish guys are crushed. Like Amish guys have [ __ ] get mad [ __ ] Well, I mean I don't know. I I guess like I feel like our way of dating is like completely alien in
00:34:35
Lindseycomparison to what I see outside of our community. Um but it's not so complicated. [laughter] And usually like you go to school or you're in the community with all the same people, so Yeah. Uh really quick, uh thank you
00:34:48
Brian Atlasagain for the raid. Tiffany, pull up Twitch. Pull up the Twitch. Um Guys, if you're joining us from Ziko drop us a follow over there on Twitch. And if you're watching on YouTube or
00:34:58
Brian Atlasother platforms, kindly drop us a follow over there on Twitch. Twitch Do you have it, Tiffany? Yeah. Ziko, thanks for the raid. And then guys, Ziko followers, I need to see you blast the follows right now. And then if you have a Twitch Prime
00:35:11
Brian Atlasavailable, uh a little Twitch Prime in the chat drop us a little Twitch Prime if you can. Uh Ziko viewers, drop us a follow. Just drop us a follow. Follow us. We talk about World of
00:35:23
Brian AtlasWarcraft, you know? Let me I'll do one more World of Warcraft question after after I see like you guys spamming the follows there. Uh so yeah, drop us a follow, guys, if you're enjoying the stream. Drop us a
00:35:34
JuliaPrime sub. Also, we're over Uh I have a question. Yeah. >> You said you stopped playing video games forever. Isn't World of Warcraft like a PC game? Yeah, that's a video game. PC games are video games.
00:35:46
Brian Atlas>> Would you consider that a video game? Okay. Yeah, absolutely. You're I mean PC games uh I I don't know if you'd consider self I guess Yeah, yeah, cell phone games would be video games.
00:35:59
Brian AtlasUm console, PC, it's all under the umbrella of video games. Uh One question, who here would date a guy uh who was like a hardcore raider?
00:36:11
Brian AtlasRaider? Yeah, in like classic World of Warcraft. So he's got like 360s uh and he's in a hardcore raiding guild. So like they're they're taking all the world bosses.
00:36:23
Brian AtlasThey're fighting for them, anyways. And he's he he's the main tank for his guild. That's a lot of dedication. He's got prio on
00:36:33
Brian Atlasyou know, all the good loot. He's he's gets the first DFT, Drake Fang Talisman. He gets the first DFT. He's going to get Thunderfury. He has dibs on the on Thunderfury.
00:36:43
Brian AtlasUm he he has dibs on the Curia from Ragnaros. He He might also go daggers because daggers is really good for tanking. So he's going to get Perdition's Blade. He's going to get um What's What's the other one they like to
00:36:57
Brian Atlastake? Uh the the one from Um I can't believe I'm blanking on it. From the the boss right before Ragnaros. I'm blanking on it. Uh the the the Core Hound Tooth. He's
00:37:08
Brian Atlasgoing to take Core Hound Tooth and then uh in Naxxramas, he's going to definitely take Aggressol. He's going to take Aggressol. He's going to take uh Yeah, he's going to take Aggressol,
00:37:19
Brian Atlasso Sounds like a different language. >> He's going >> I I understand a little bit. >> Look, would you date a guy who plays 10 hours of video games a day is what I'm trying to say. What does he do for the other 14? What? >> He He sleeps.
00:37:34
Brian Atlas>> [laughter] >> Sleeps and plays video games? Yeah, he pretty much he wakes up, he streams for 10, 12 hours. Um yeah. So he doesn't make money? No, he He's a streamer. He's >> Usually they make like a lot. He's not
00:37:46
Brian AtlasHe doesn't have the the fame that Ziko does. Not everybody can uh you know, ascend to the World of Warcraft streamer
00:37:56
Brian Atlasgod tier list like Ziko, but you know, he gets like 300, 400 viewers a stream like concurrent per stream, you know? Like would you date that guy? I just don't know. I need
00:38:08
Brian Atlasto know who he is. Yo, Ziko, are you in the chat? Okay, Ziko, somebody who's streaming >> know about who he is. Ziko, [laughter] somebody who's World of Warcraft streamer who gets 400 concurrent
00:38:19
Brian Atlasviewers, who streams 10 hours a day, how much money is he making a month? Tell me, Ziko. Tell me, Ziko, in the chat. Uh how many how much money is a
00:38:30
Brian Atlasguy who's making who has 400 viewers streaming uh 50 hours a week, how much is he making? What do you might make like what? 10K, maybe?
00:38:43
Brian AtlasUh Ziko says he I don't want any of them. I'm loyal to Chloe. He's making 8,000 a month. And look, you know, maybe he breaks through, you know? Maybe he gets a collab with Ziko. Maybe he does
00:38:54
Brian Atlassomething with Payo. Maybe he does something with Sodapoppin. Maybe he does something with Ampy. I'm an Ampy I like Ampy. I don't know anything. >> I'm an Ampy fan. That guy's great raid
00:39:04
Brian Atlasleader, great guild leader. I only watched Clavicular. I don't watch anything. Yeah, that guy does not play [laughter] World of Warcraft, that's for certain. All right, Ziko, thank you again. Okay, back to this.
00:39:17
VeronicaIntroduce yourself, please. Hi, I'm Veronica. I'm 23. I'm originally from Michigan. I live in LA now and I'm an actor and a model. Okay, school or anything like that? I
00:39:30
Brian Atlaswent to a film acting school, yes. >> You got a bachelor's degree? No, it was just like a 6-month program specifically for acting. >> And did you say college? Oh, no, I didn't go to university. No college? Okay, what about you?
00:39:43
LaetitiaIntro for you? So, my name is Laetitia. I am French originally and I live now in the mountains in Mammoth Lakes, California. And um
00:39:54
Laetitiawhat do I do? I am a professional organizer and a feng shui consultant. And [snorts] um I haven't been to school. Age?
00:40:05
Laetitia42. 42. Okay. And you said you did school? You have I did to go to high school and then >> College? No.
00:40:18
Brian AtlasI went to work. And so you're from uh you're born in France? Yes. What what city? Chamonix. Chamonix? Yeah. Ah, c'est bien ça. C'est très bien. [laughter] C'est
00:40:29
Brian Atlastrès bien? C'est très joli. Est-ce que tu as >> [laughter] >> Est-ce que tu as Holy [ __ ] I need to work on my French. Yep.
00:40:42
Brian Atlas>> [laughter] >> Est-ce que tu as I don't know. I'm uh have you been to >> [gasps] >> uh Bordeaux?
00:40:54
JuliaYes, I have been to Bordeaux. Ah, c'est bien ça? Très bien? >> Both. Okay. What about you, Julia? Um my name is Julia, 34 years old from
00:41:05
JuliaDenver, Colorado. Uh I work for a SaaS tech company and I went to school. I did my associate's at the New Mexico Military Institute and then I did the rest of my undergrad at
00:41:17
Juliathe Colorado School of Mines studying petroleum engineering. The New Mexico Military. >> So, were you in the military? No, I was prepping for the Air Force Academy.
00:41:28
Brian AtlasBut then I got accepted into the School of Mines and decided to stay a civilian. Okay, interesting. Interesting. Um >> [sighs] >> All right. Well, that's everybody's uh
00:41:39
Brian Atlasintroduction. There it is, folks. Uh I guess I'll do Oh, we have a TTS here. Thank you guys. Appreciate it. Clayndo donated $200.
00:41:50
SPEAKER_00Can we ask chair five what is the inner light? And for all of them, is height or money more important? Where is Andrew? >> [laughter] >> Uh
00:42:01
Brian Atlaswell, you know what? We have Rachel Wilson coming, Andrew's wife, next week. We have a debate on This is a good time to announce it. We have a debate on Saturday,
00:42:13
Brian Atlasuh the 28th. That'll probably be around 3:30 p.m. And then we're going to have a uh dating talk with Rachel on Sunday, the 29th. So,
00:42:23
Lindseyuh we will have one of the Wilsons one of the Wilsons here. So, uh what is inner light? >> [laughter] >> Well, basically it's like your ability to cultivate joy within yourself. Um
00:42:36
Lindseybasically getting to a place in your life where you can feel fully happy with who you are, what you believe, and the trajectory you have moving forward. And then with that groundedness, you're able to pretty much project a positive light.
00:42:47
LindseySo, the light is just a radiance of positivity that comes from your own internal growth, essentially. All right. I have no idea what you just said, but I love that. That's [laughter] cool. All right, guys, we're going to do
00:43:00
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00:47:09
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00:47:31
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Brian AtlasThere it is, folks. All right. Thank you, guys. Much appreciated. Okay, back to uh the panel here. Okay, uh going around the table, tell me your relationship status, please. Single.
00:48:42
LexiFor how long? Um like almost forever. Almost forever. Well, I had like a I had
00:48:52
Brian Atlaslike a short like 1-month relationship when I was 16 and that's it. So, is is that the longest period of time you've ever seen a guy was 1 month? >> No, I've like talked to Actually, probably.
00:49:04
Brian AtlasWell, let's let's incorporate all talking stages, all um situationships. What's the longest anything you've had? Um
00:49:15
Brian Atlasprobably a month on Actually, maybe like 2 months. Okay. Like January to like March, maybe. >> So, you you've been single how long, I guess? Um like 2 years.
00:49:28
Brian AtlasBut it was only a month you were >> Yeah. Have you Have you ever said I love you to a guy? Yeah. Just him. The high-school relationship? >> Yeah. Okay. Um
00:49:41
Lexihas a guy ever said I love you to you? Yeah, that's why I said it. So, you didn't mean it? Not really. >> [laughter] >> I mean, yeah, you guys were dating for a month. >> It was kind of It just caught me off guard. >> He He said it to I mean, yeah.
00:49:54
Brian AtlasOkay. Uh and you When did you move to Miami? Um the 1st of January, January 1st. So, you've been there for about 3 months.
00:50:06
LexiAlmost two and a half Wait. January, February middle of almost 3 months. Okay. >> no, no, it's almost April. So, like 3 and 1/2.
00:50:17
Brian AtlasRight? Oh, boy. No, less than three. Hold on. Hold your fingers up like me. >> March We're not done with March. We're like in the middle. But, we're not It's like March Isn't it March right now? Yeah.
00:50:31
Lexi>> March. So, is that is that not 3 months? >> And like No, cuz we still have like another week. At the end of March, it would be like like 3 and 1/2 months. Right? No, two and a half. two and a half months.
00:50:43
Brian AtlasAm I being gaslit right now? >> No. No. I wouldn't object if you said 3 months, cuz it's almost 3 months, but it's definitely not 3 months. >> Okay, but it's like [laughter] okay, January around I don't even know how many days are in each
00:50:56
Brian Atlasmonth, but around like 30 for each one, right? 30, 60, 90, and then like 100 something right now. So, it's like 3 You know what? I changed my mind. Maybe sex work
00:51:08
Lindseyis the only option for some. [laughter] Is this any Is this less [ __ ] January I mean Yes. February second month Yeah. third And then we're going through I
00:51:17
Lindseymean Then March It's two and a half week months. Wait, maybe you're right. Yeah. Guys, I'm sorry. It's okay. It's [laughter] all right. Uh
00:51:29
Brian Atlasokay. It's been a long week. Yeah. Um So, okay. Have you been dating any guys in Miami? No.
00:51:39
LexiDo you cook there? You've been celibate? Um yeah. How long you've been celibate for? Um maybe like six six months.
00:51:57
Brian AtlasOkay. All right. >> believe me? Not really. Why? Uh >> [gasps] >> sort of kind of almost sex worker That's not That's not my life.
00:52:09
Brian Atlas>> in Miami. Part Do you party? Yeah. Do you drink? Yeah. Do you do drugs? No. Cocaine? No. Weed? No. How often do you party? Maybe like a few times a week.
00:52:21
Lexi>> on any dating apps? I was. Do you go to house parties? No, it's like clubs there. And you've been celibate for 6 months. Okay. >> Yes. I just like to go to have fun with my girlfriends.
00:52:36
LexiWhat? You don't think you can go to clubs? Ask her, she knows. Yeah. Of course your friend is going to rat on you. >> we we just went out last night, and it's like we just go to have a good time. Well, I'm not saying you [ __ ] every
00:52:47
Lexinight. No, you don't need a Like guys are so gross. Most guys are so gross. What are you? I don't think I'm gross. I think I'm pretty good. >> you were. I was just asking what you
00:52:58
Brian Atlasare. I'm me. I don't know. Can women be gross? Yes. Yeah. Absolutely. >> What does it take for a woman to be gross in the way that
00:53:10
Brian Atlaswhatever you're attributing to the man being gross, maybe it doesn't have to be symmetrical. Maybe it How can women be gross? I mean, I was like talking about how guys mostly
00:53:21
Lexijust want to [ __ ] and a lot of them are ugly. What do you mean a lot of them are ugly? What percent of them are ugly? Probably like to me personally, probably
00:53:34
Brian Atlaslike 90% of guys are ugly to me. Now, are you talking when you're like daytime, or are you talking in the club where it's probably people your age? Um what do you mean during the daytime? Like Well, if you In the If you're going to Trader
00:53:47
Brian AtlasJoe's, you're going to see a 60-year-old dude, and it's like of course I'm not you're not attracted to a 60-year-old. >> Yeah. I mean But the guys in the guys at the club are pro You're going to like under-21 clubs, right?
00:54:00
Brian AtlasOr do you have a fake ID? Of course she has a fake ID. >> [laughter] >> Well, don't they have Of course. Am I allowed to say that? Uh don't they um
00:54:11
Brian Atlasdon't they have like uh not like underage, but 18 and over clubs? >> Yeah, they do. Okay, but you go to the I go to all of them. Okay, so you have a fake. Okay. >> [laughter]
00:54:24
Lexi>> Um Are the 18 and over clubs just like not I don't know. Are they not good? >> there's like one called Space, and it's just like more like EDM music, and it's
00:54:35
Lexinot really my vibe. Well, I guess they can't serve alcohol, right? So >> I I think they do, but they might have like a bar where you can like you have to go buy it. >> [snorts] >> And show your ID
00:54:48
Brian Atlas>> You show your ID there, right? >> Yeah, you need like a wristband. >> Yeah, you have to Probably there's people over 21 who go to the 18+ clubs. >> Yeah. Yeah. They want a younger person, probably.
00:54:58
Chris LoveOkay, so All right. Um what about you? Um I'm single, but technically not really. Wait, hold on. Let me go back to my question. What makes a woman gross?
00:55:10
LexiUm Wait. Cuz you're like The guys are so gross. >> [laughter] >> I mean, girls usually don't use guys for sex. I mean, there definitely is, but it's like guys have a higher sex drive,
00:55:23
Brian Atlasyou know, they're trying to [ __ ] girls more than girls are trying to I mean, girls are trying to [ __ ] >> willing to I'd say generally speaking, I'd be willing to grant that men are more sex-motivated. Of course there are
00:55:35
Brian Atlaswomen who will like [ __ ] a guy once, and they just wanted the one-night stand, and um but uh what do women use men for? Um
00:55:47
LexiI think women most of the time don't use a man for anything. Really? Oh, they do. Definitely do. >> like >> they definitely do. Before I give my thoughts I don't know money, but like yeah. >> [laughter]
00:55:58
Lexi>> that high of a percentage of women using men for money, honestly. What percentage? I don't know the numbers, but I just like the people I know, like they would not use a man for money. Like it's more
00:56:10
Lexifor a genuine connection. The people you know? Yeah, so I know a lot of people like that. I can't even lie. They could [laughter] easily go on, you know, like Seeking Arrangements or something like that, and look for a sugar daddy, and that's using a man, but they would
00:56:21
Lexirather not do that, and find someone they actually like. Right? Anyone could have a sugar daddy if you really wanted it. >> have you ever gone on a yacht? Yeah.
00:56:33
Brian AtlasWas it your yacht? No. >> Did you or your girlfriends charter the yacht? Charter it? Like >> Did you pay for the yacht? >> No. So you've been on a yacht. Have you ever been on a yacht that was
00:56:45
Brian Atlaschartered by a woman? Yeah. 100%. Yes. >> Okay. Uh how many times you've been on a yacht in Miami?
00:56:55
Brian AtlasUm maybe like three three times. Okay, and was it a guy who either owned the yacht or they
00:57:05
Lexiwere throwing a party? Um yeah, definitely like two of them, but one of them was like a streamer yacht, so I don't think it was like I don't know. >> Uh-huh. Okay. >> have been owned by a man or a woman. I'm
00:57:17
Lexijust curious, but you do find them. None of your friends do find them. They do. Okay, so wouldn't that be using men for money? Yeah, I guess. But like I'm saying it
00:57:28
Lexilike in real life. That is real life. No, that's online. I'm saying in person. Uh
00:57:40
Brian AtlasI don't see the dis I don't understand the distinction. >> asking if I'm at the club or like looking for Well, no, I was asking if the ways in which women use men
00:57:50
Brian Atlasthe whether the mechanism is you're like uh finessing men in person versus I I don't care about the distinction there.
00:58:01
Brian Atlas>> why are women gross, or like what makes a woman gross? Sure. Yeah. So, I just Using men for And you you said using men for money, but you're you're doing a carve out. You're saying,
00:58:13
Brian Atlaswell, when women use men for money, but it's online, that doesn't count towards their grossness. That doesn't count. But, they're still using the men for money.
00:58:25
Brian AtlasI guess. I guess. I mean, I would all Do any of the women other women on the panel want to weigh in? What are some of the other ways women use them for money, for
00:58:35
Lindseyvalidation. Probably is number one, validation. Avoiding loneliness, which maybe is the same thing, but I don't know. I just know a lot of women who use men in many different ways. Sex >> Attention.
00:58:47
Lindsey>> too Yeah. You think women use men for Yes. I'm not saying I think, I know they do. I have friends who do it. >> [laughter] >> Yeah, all types of stuff. Yeah, this is
00:58:57
Brian Atlasreal life. Like that does happen. I mean, you did mention validation. Women definitely use men for To feel their own for for attention. Mhm.
00:59:08
Brian AtlasUh hey Tiffany, I need you to close both those doors. Do you know how to close that back one? Hold on, close the back one. Yeah, no, the back one.