Men INSECURE About Body Count?! NYC Gold Digger Has Roster Of SIMPS?! | Dating Talk #187

Date: 2024-08-14
Duration: 8h 20m

Identified Speakers

SPEAKER_02Maddie(guest)
SPEAKER_03(guest)
SPEAKER_05Isis Hong(guest)
SPEAKER_08(audience)
SPEAKER_10Lauren Kofi(guest)
SPEAKER_11Shane Smith(guest)
SPEAKER_12Brian Atlas(host)
SPEAKER_14Tamara(guest)

Key Moments

00:03:16
IntroJaspachy introduces herself: 25yo Las Vegas content creator/OnlyFans

Hi guys I'm just pachy I'm 25 I currently live in Las Vegas Nevada and I'm a full-time content creator streamer and I do only fan.

00:04:54
IntroIsis Hong introduces herself: 27yo NYC software engineer/TikToker, born China, Korean parents

Hi my name is Isis ... I'm 27 ... I do TikTok my username is Isis Hong ... I'm also a software engineer. I got a degree in Biochemistry and computer science. Born in China (Korean parents), moved to Seattle at 15, college at 16.

00:06:27
IntroTamara introduces herself: Dutch Jessica Rabbit, 28, Netherlands, content creator/student

Hi my name is Tamara better known as the Dutch Jessica Rabbit I'm from the Netherlands ... I'm 28 I'm an adult industry content creator and I'm also a student studying legal administration.

00:14:55
IntroLauren Kofi introduces herself: 30yo singer-songwriter/model/actress, Nottingham/London, Blue Therapy

I'm Lauren Kofi I'm a singer songwriter model and actress ... from Nottingham but I live in London age 30. Was on Blue Therapy.

00:15:48
IntroShane Smith introduces himself: 37yo Utah comedian, ex-motorcycle club member

I'm Shane Smith I'm 37 I'm from Utah and I'm a comedian. Grew up with stepfather in motorcycle club, got full sleeves and neck tattoos at 18. I am out.

00:17:54
Key MomentJaspachy reveals she married at 18, divorced Marine husband after 5 years; he cheated with her best friend

I am single ... my longest relationship was 5 years ... I got married at 18 out of high school. He said he didn't love me while we were married ... there was infidelity ... he cheated with my best friend.

00:39:12
Key MomentTamara reveals she had labiaplasty; describes them as extremely large, painful, and brought photos

I got [labiaplasty] ... they were dead big they removed on each side ... it looks like a dick when I wore a bikini that is how big they were ... I have pictures.

00:53:12
Key MomentIsis argues Brian is selfish for not wanting marriage since he can get all benefits without it

If you're selfish and can't convince you to do something unless there's a value I'm providing ... fundamentally if you're selfish you can't be convinced... the only way is if she's a billionaire.

00:53:24
QuoteBrian states the only scenario where he'd get married: if she's a billionaire

Yeah that's the scenario in which I'll get married ... if she's a billionaire I will marry her.

02:41:40
Key MomentSelf-rating round: guests rate looks 1-10 (no 7s). Isis: 6. Jaspachy: 10. Lauren: 8-10. Dominica: 5. Maddie: 5. Brian: 5.

Starting with Isis what... six. [SPEAKER_03]: five in the US two in European countries... six. [Lauren/SPEAKER_10]: in Texas I'm an eight but in California a six... I'm a 10 sometimes as a model. Brian: five.

03:40:00
Key MomentIsis reveals she asked a man for a $2,500 Tiffany bracelet as condition for second date; he complied; later had threesome with him and his girlfriend

He said what designer do you like I said I like Tiffany but I don't like silver ... Buy me something ... about $2,500 ... and that was my first and only threesome — with him and his girlfriend, on my birthday.

03:42:00
ControversyBrian calls Isis a "certified gold digger" after learning about bracelet demand and roster behavior

She is a certified gold digger. She grabs dude's dicks within minutes of meeting them but she claims to have a low body count. It doesn't really add up.

04:54:00
Key MomentBody count round: Jaspachy ~30-40; Isis claims <10 (Brian disputes); SPEAKER_03 mix: 3 and <10; Shane declines (>11)

Jaspachy: probably like 30ish which is very low for somebody in that ... does porn ... four of those are from this week. Isis: less than 10. [SPEAKER_03]: less than 10 / three. Shane: 11 ... I won't be saying [exact number] at all.

07:00:00
Key MomentIsis reveals she measured men's penis size on first dates; had 9-inch experience; doesn't need men for orgasms

I always know [the size] because I measure it ... I don't want men to fool me. He was 9 [inches] ... for someone so handsome he's really not good at sex. If he can't get me off I have my vibrator.

08:13:09
QuoteIsis TikTok video read aloud: viral "if you wanted to you would" video about staying with wrong partners

It's not that if he wanted to he would, it's that if you wanted to you would. If you wanted to find a man that treats you the way you want to be treated you would. The problem was never them, it has always been you.

08:13:12
QuoteShane says he'd like to return for a deeper conversation about the porn industry

I'd love to. I'd like to... I would love to talk more about the porn industry like in a fair question that I'm always doing.

Topics Discussed

00:00:00
Show intro and announcements

Brian Atlas opens the show, standard platform announcements: Streamlabs, Twitch, merch, Discord, TTS triggers, BLM (Big Labia Matter) nonprofit joke.

00:03:16
Guest introductions (round 1) — name, age, location, occupation

All guests introduce themselves in order: Jaspachy (25, Las Vegas, content creator/OnlyFans), Isis Hong (27, NYC, software engineer/TikToker), Tamara (28, Netherlands, content creator/student), Vivian (18, Orinda CA, music intern), Lucy (19, LA, student), Alexa (21, Baltimore, OnlyFans/student), Maddie (27, Dallas, deaf thrift store), Lauren Kofi (30, London, singer/model/actress), Shane Smith (37, Utah, comedian), Dominica (22, LA, cosmetology student). Extended discussion of Tamara's Netherlands background, red light district school trips, labiaplasty.

00:17:50
Relationship status round

Brian asks each guest current relationship status, longest relationship, how long single. Jaspachy: single 2.5yr, divorced Marine husband (cheated with best friend), now celibate. Isis: casually seeing someone ~2-3 months, not yet had sex with him. Tamara: single (brief 2-month thing earlier); does not do one-night stands. Vivian: single ~9 months, on-and-off guy for 7 months. Lucy: single. Alexa: single ~1.5yr (ex had Grindr + another girlfriend). Maddie: relationship 1yr 2mo. Lauren: single 1+ year. Shane: married October prior. Dominica: single ~4 months.

00:40:00
Tamara's labiaplasty and OnlyFans discussion

Tamara shares she had a labiaplasty (labia were extremely large, caused pain). Brought photos. Brian's BLM (Big Labia Matter) nonprofit discussed. Shane defends all body types. Discussion of Tamara continuing OnlyFans until financially stable; Shane challenges whether she will find traditional man while doing adult content.

01:00:00
Marriage debate — should men get married?

Extended panel discussion on whether men should get married. Brian lays out financial/legal risks (prenup limitations, community property, divorce attorney costs). Guests attempt to convince Brian. Isis argues Brian is selfish; Brian says he would marry a female billionaire. Tamara argues marriage is about love and commitment, not fear of cheating. Jaspachy argues risks go both ways; references her military marriage experience. Discussion of taking husband's last name — split opinions.

02:33:20
Feminist/patriarchy questions

Quick round: who considers themselves a feminist? (none raised hands). Brief discussion of patriarchy in context of marriage traditions.

02:41:40
Self-rating round (looks 1-10, no 7s)

Brian asks each guest to rate their looks 1-10 (no 7s allowed), starting with Isis. Isis: 6. Jaspachy: rated herself 10 (oscillating). Lauren: 8-10 (model). Dominica: 5 in US, 2 in Europe. Maddie: 5. Others in SPEAKER_03 mix: 5-6. Brian: 5. Extended tangent on Jaspachy's 10 self-rating and whether she's the most attractive at table.

03:00:00
Will you look better in 10 years?

Brian asks each guest if they'll be more attractive in 10 years. Isis: yes to all ages until death. Tamara: yes at 38, maybe 48, no after 58. Lauren: same/slightly better for a few years then decline. Dominica: better at 32, then plateau. Brian gave himself 5/10; Shane says he was better looking when younger.

03:15:00
Musical chairs / panel reshuffle

Brief segment: chairs rearranged when Isis moves or leaves briefly. Show notes section begins.

03:17:00
Height preferences

Brian asks each guest: how tall are you and minimum height for a partner? Isis: 5'3", used to require 6ft but now dating shorter man. Tamara: wears heels, doesn't judge height if he has dominant energy. Multiple guests: 5'2-5'3" heights, minimum ~4'11 to 5'6". Shane: doesn't care about height in a partner. Brian: 5'7".

03:29:40
Pre-show notes: Isis Hong deep-dive

Brian reviews Isis's Instagram and TikToks. Isis's request for $2,500 Tiffany bracelet as condition of second date — she got it, and later had a threesome with him and his girlfriend (her only threesome). Panel debates whether this is sex work. Discussion of Isis's roster period (a first date every day for 2+ months). Brian calls her a certified gold digger; Isis defends authenticity. Isis outed her brother as gay on show (name: Tony). She mentions $200k/year income requirement for men.

03:38:00
Tiffany bracelet / gold-digger / sex-work debate

Panel debates whether Isis getting a $2,500 bracelet from a date constitutes sex work. Tamara says world is transactional. Isis denies it was sex work (sex came much later). Shane argues it's similar to sex work by analogy. Discussion of women having easy mode dating vs men's difficulty.

04:30:00
Body count discussion — does it matter?

Extended panel discussion on body count. Does it matter for relationships? Brian says men prefer lower body count. Shane: high body count affects how people want to date you (not inherent worth). Female guests push back — shame vs double standard. Body counts revealed: Jaspachy ~30-40; Isis claims <10 (Brian disputed); Others in SPEAKER_03 mix: "less than 10" and "3." Shane: declined, >11.

04:50:00
Insecurity about body count — men's perspective

Brian argues it's not insecurity to prefer low body count partners. Jaspachy accuses Brian of shaming women. Shane notes no man has ever wished his girlfriend had more partners. Discussion of hookup culture and whether it benefits women. Alexa discussion of ex-boyfriend (bisexual, had another girlfriend).

05:10:00
Adult content industry and relationships

Panel discusses whether women who do OnlyFans can be in monogamous relationships. Jaspachy says filming is professional, not intimate — boyfriend is consensual. Shane challenges what "commitment" means if partner films with others. Tamara adds perspective from her experience in adult content. Brian: girlfriend who does porn = she's cheating on him if he can't also see others.

05:10:00
Child support, abortion rights, and bodily autonomy

Brian frames asymmetry: women can get abortions, men always pay child support. Should men have legal paternal surrender (opt out of child support)? Extended back-and-forth with SPEAKER_03 guests. Tamara: Netherlands requires both men and women to register for potential draft. Isis argues forced military conscription is worse than abortion bans. Panel mostly agrees women should be drafted if they want equality.

07:16:00
TikTok reaction: Isis Show Season 1 and 2

Brian plays and reacts to Isis's TikTok videos. Videos about orgasms/followers, rotation-era sadness, men not getting her off, going to the mall hoping to see her ex, heartbreak vulnerability. Tamara and panel comment on authenticity vs performing for content. Isis defends truth-telling approach. Panel reaches rare consensus on one of her videos about staying with wrong partners.

08:06:00
Show wrap-up and final thoughts

TTS roast section (10 minutes, $30 threshold). Chat calls Isis "most despicable woman" and "CCP plant." Tamara and Brian banter about going on a date (he declines due to OnlyFans). Shane says he'd love to come back. Isis leaves slightly early. Brian does outro, thanks panel, announces next show Sunday 5pm Pacific.

Transcript

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07:31:08
Shane SmithComfort earlier yes we want you to be our peace and comfort yeah not a burden yeah yeah yeah you know how like if you have a problem and you tell a man he tries to give you the solution and that's annoying right you don't you
07:31:20
Shane Smithdon't you don't want a solution oriented man you want a listening suppor of man men want that but it need it's it's not just in terms of listening a man needs
07:31:30
Shane Smithphysical Space full of that like I want you to proactively love me bring gentleness and kindness into my life I want to be in the space and be so
07:31:41
Shane Smiththankful that you're sharing that space with me because together we have created a place where I feel safe and good because I could do that without you but it's more rewarding with you but only if
07:31:52
Shane Smithyou're playing ball you know and then I'll provide you with security safety possibly money and these sorts of things yeah I would always can you tilt tilt
07:32:04
Isis Hongyour mic down I would always prefer tilt it down like this yeah go ahead I always prefer peace and Harmony over chaos of course I agree with that but so I I'm a little curious by your questioning here
07:32:15
Brian Atlasbecause like do you think are you trying to say that men should have an expectation that women come into relationship like coming
07:32:26
Brian Atlasinto a relationship are going to create chaos no no that's not my expectation or that we should like tolerate your nagging and quarreling no I don't think
07:32:36
Isis Hongthat's the case either but so then why the objection to the claim of men want no I was just more Curious in his personal experience if he
07:32:45
Shane Smithis depending on woman to give her him peace or has he found peace himself like I'm depending on the woman to bring me the the peace that only feminine energy
07:32:57
Shane Smiththe gentleness that only feminine energy can bring me I cannot replicate that and so I need a woman to fill my life with that and the only way to but you have to be proactive in it and a lot of people
07:33:08
Shane Smitharen't so that's what a woman can bring she doesn't need to provide she doesn't need to be sexy she doesn't need to do all these crazy porn star things or
07:33:17
Brian Atlaswhatever she just needs to make me feel safe loved and peaceful I love that all right and then uh I think your last thing here uh or you have two
07:33:30
Brian Atlasthings you think your craziest stories are more parting stories than actual people I dated your senior year I dated guy who purposely drove 100 miles in the porn rain to scare me to death then
07:33:39
Maddiethreaten me with BDS on toys I'm so dead serious yes what yeah like I said bad childhood great adult but uh no senior year I dated a guy that was much much older than me and I was drinking at a
07:33:52
Maddieparty and I called him because I needed to ride out of there because there were people showing up that I didn't want to be around he got so unbelievably mad at me me because he had to come and pick me up and it was down torrential downpour
07:34:03
Maddierain he's driving 100 miles down the road and uh told me when we got to his place that he purposely did that to scare me and then this weirdo puts he goes out he
07:34:17
Maddiegoes into another room comes back and just starts laying out BDSM toys like these are going to be your punishment for needing me to come pick you up that's so I dated that guy for one week and he said he had never loved someone
07:34:28
Maddiemore in his life and he I I broke up with him because of that experience and he shows up at my Mom's apartment door banging on the door because he could not understand why I broke up with him it's kind of sexy how did how does he know
07:34:42
Maddieyour mom's don't I don't know actually I don't remember but I think he might have picked me up from there how old was he and how old the car he was driving 28
07:34:51
Maddiemaybe and how old were you 19 still sexy though it's not it was terrifying you were in the car where he was driving really fast yeah ever since then anytime I'm in a
07:35:02
Maddiecar with a guy and he gets mad and starts driving faster gives me that's PTSD you know just give him a [ __ ] in the car when he's mad he will
07:35:13
Brian Atlasnot be mad anymore great that is that is abuse that is noted though uh we have a message from psycho the fact that you only noticed me spending money and
07:35:24
Tamarasuggested your o might want to commit more to the Christian lifestyle and shut down your o this is to the the lady claiming to be Dutch lol you know I read this before you P it up what is your thing with claiming to be Dutch do you want to see my passport do you want to
07:35:37
Tamarago out and eat strob baffles and crocetta with me it's fine I will take you out and we can have some Dutch food you can come over with me and be a Dutchy with me I'm totally Dutch you can
07:35:48
Tamarastay at my house as well for free you do not have to pay me that's fine what do you want uh the ttch
07:36:00
SPEAKER_03go to twitch.tv/ whatever drop us a follow and a prime sub if you have one uh we haven't had a prime in 12 minutes guys I
07:36:10
Brian Atlasthink it's bugged help all right and then we are going to last things here we have a few Clips to react to from Isis oh no we're reacting
07:36:21
Brian Atlasto some Isis Tik toks finally getting to them um we there's so many but U okay
07:36:28
Tamarayou Pi we highlight reels I was sad so oh oh this is so guys I think I'm going to go actually we're about to W if you a
07:36:39
Isis Hongbit longer oh all right I want to say thank you anyway so all right Isis read this currently I only care about two things orgasms and follower count fa
07:36:50
Isis HongPoint Queen you forgot money no I care more about follow C right this moment
07:37:00
SPEAKER_09okay sorry one second guys the distance between you realize that man is about to kiss you till he
07:37:09
Isis Hongactually kisses you that length dictates how douchy he is all the finance bros before I realize it they already over here and finish kissing me and there
07:37:19
Isis Hongthis one guy he was like very slowly but I I know he's got no game but that makes me feel safe it makes me feel like he's authentic it make me know who he is not
07:37:29
Isis Hongthose Finance girl Bros that just like in and I can't like that's too smooth something is all that's an interesting
07:37:39
Shane Smithchoice I'm a bit confused do you live in Manhattan yeah okay yeah I'm I'mma come Vis like it yeah
07:37:49
Isis Hongthere if you tip under 20% do not go on a date with me okay that's embarrassing for me oh jeez kind that's harsh yeah I tip 20% usually but I think it depends
07:38:02
Isis Hongright like if you're not making a lot of money I don't think first of all I will go on a date with you so there because I I know that I don't want you to spend the money that you don't have so because of my standard I say 20% I just don't
07:38:14
Tamarawant to be embarrassed how much that's the type of person if he would take you out on a picnic that wouldn't cost a thing would you like go yeah of course I love picnics just a guy I have to make for you
07:38:24
Isis Hongto be to go on a date with him yeah I think at least two 200k a year at least how do you find
07:38:32
Isis Hongout I kind of think about their job just contact clues contact clues I ask oh okay you ask how much they make First St before taking you out ask her how tall
07:38:45
Isis Honghow tall does a guy have to be for you today in the past I said 6 F feet but now I said like I'm flexible yeah we got another video I'm going to delete this tomorrow
07:38:56
Isis Hongit's the same thing as the story though two things care about right now in my life one is orgasms two is my followers count but
07:39:07
Isis Hongthis is the same as my story but you did not delete this video as this is part of her 2024 uned era sorry for stop dming
07:39:18
Isis Hongme I'm not going to respond to any of you like I'm sorry but with all due respect who do you think you are how do you think you're adding to my life first of all I become a billionaire so if
07:39:31
Isis Hongyou're going to give me money then sure you're adding to my life that's worth maybe 3 seconds of conversation other than that first of all you cannot give me orgasm not as good as the ones I give myself second of all men traumatizes me
07:39:43
Isis Hongwhen I see you right now I want to throw up that doesn't mean I hate you I don't hate you at all I just don't want anything to do with you and if you could you didn't do 5 years of therapy and if
07:39:53
Tamarayou couldn't do all the Hobbies I could do then just shut up I just you're not not worth it I'm sorry make yourself worth more or give me money but if a bill billionaire sleps slides in your DM
07:40:06
Tamarayou would right I will go on a date with him but you say Do not DM me so you scare scared them off a little bit that's okay were they being mean to you is that why you posted that you just getting were you just getting crazy DMS from people being mean oh yeah I was
07:40:19
Isis Honggetting a lot of DMS at the time cuz I was so I had this like incident with Equinox because a lot of men go to Equinox so I was getting a lot of bad DMS from men and also that was a about the time I was blowing up a little so
07:40:30
Isis Hongthere's a lot of opinion from men that is pretty bad but those are not the Tik toks I think are the best representation of my
07:40:42
Brian Atlaslife but I don't think they're the funniest wait okay really quick so what you you keep saying this stuff about the orgasms and that the men they're not pleasing you right but like isn't this
07:40:53
Brian Atlasthe complaint that women have about men that they have porn brain and they can no longer like get erection or like they're not sexually pleased because they're like so demented by all the porn they've watched but like do you watch
07:41:05
Isis Hongporn I do watch porn but not very often I you just focus on my vibrator it's just a vibrator you use yeah dild if I have vibrator or Doo then I don't need porn because they're very
07:41:17
Isis Hongstrong but if I if I'm like for example right now I'm vacationing and I don't I didn't bring my vibrator so like I might want some visual stimulation it's either or you know it depends okay can you do
07:41:28
Isis Hongwithout can you do like months without sexual stimulation like if it depends on the situation if I was in when I was in a long-term relationship when they first broke up it was like if I don't I would
07:41:40
Isis Honghave wet dreams if I don't masturbate but then if there was right now there's long ass time I haven't had sex so now I'm like whatever I how long have you been celebrated yeah I I because I don't
07:41:51
Isis Hongknow because I keep didn't keep track of the month the ear the last time I had sex was earlier this year with my ex
07:41:59
SPEAKER_03N9 months ago did you almost say husband just now year I think she said uh maybe we were kind of serious like x wait so you've been celibate for like so you
07:42:10
Shane Smithdidn't marry him when he brought that ring in the champagne to you and then get a divorce and you're hiding it I didn't get a divorce now oh so
07:42:20
Brian Atlasyou're still married no I'm not married oh okay I'm married you were previously married no you proposed I never married oh okay okay that's not what I said yeah wait so I'm
07:42:31
Brian Atlasjust wait I'm just curious so like all the men that like can't make you come now that you've like masturbated so much is it hard for you to climax no it's not it's easier it's easier because I know what I like I know which angle I like
07:42:44
Isis Hongand I know how to clinch more do you think a men can proper I got better do it for you do you think a man would ever be good enough and bad for you yeah of course I have men that are good for me but like I have to have emotional
07:42:56
Tamaraconnection there's a few more videos I'll get this pulled up MADD take it away take it away Maddie go Maddie go Maddie go MADD take it
07:43:09
Brian Atlasaway more Tik toks from Isis okay I'm pulling it up right
07:43:17
Isis Hongnow I was sad so I tried to use my happy machine but you know obviously all you can think about is
07:43:27
Isis Honghim so wasn't that happy but also the cord was so short and then they just like unplugged right in the middle and I tried to plug it I plugged the wrong
07:43:38
Isis Hongthing I plugged in my charger female orgasm is the only activity that lights up every part of a female brain that's actually funny right now
07:43:50
Tamaracuz I can't go in class this actually is funny it is funny actually we all been there right actually happened been there like you are horny and your toy doesn't work
07:44:02
SPEAKER_03divorce is oh shut up come on feel like I'm on to something here should I read
07:44:12
SPEAKER_03that read the CCP plant is arguably the most despicable woman to ever be on the podcast promotes promiscuity prostitution findom essay against men
07:44:23
SPEAKER_03abortion cuckoldry pornography and shees are worded demon about who is this I feel like you're talking who is this about yeah I think they
07:44:35
Isis Hongare all right don't worry Mama you're a queen speaking of the pen so like he had the largest I've ever ever since like nine because I know it because I always know this is six because I measure it
07:44:48
Isis Hongbecause I don't want men to fool me so every time before I do anything with them I like measure it so I know is 1 2 3 n but you know what for someone who's so handsome and so in doubt he's really
07:45:00
Isis Hongnot good at you know s ex it's just there just it's just you know it's how you use it you know there's such a thing called too
07:45:11
Tamarabig okay you were really in crisis there real ra emo you're already going through it at a moment so you can never attack
07:45:20
Tamarame again for saying oh you measure it before you see it on Tik Tok it's out there yeah why are you always in bed cuz I love my
07:45:32
Isis Hongbed ask me how old I am I met a woman yesterday she asked me how old I am I said 27 almost 28 she was like oh my God so many women are already married at
07:45:43
Isis Hongyour age how come you're still single and I asked her how old are you she said also 20 something and I was like there are so many women who are dead in their
07:45:54
Isis Hong20s why are you still alive I just thought that that was really funny actually play laugh
07:46:03
Isis Hongtrack laugh track all right one more let me tell you about a moment when I wish I was white this is a long one I'm not saying it's
07:46:16
Isis Hongright but I'm saying that's how I felt at the time I had this crush on this person at it doesn't go go away go away it doesn't knew I didn't like him I just
07:46:27
Isis Hongwanted to like a story it's just I invited guys so naturally I hosted
07:46:36
Isis Honga you hosted a whole party just to have a guy over yeah yeah and then he told me and he got drunk he told me that I I know you like me I know you're pretty but you're just not not my type I only
07:46:46
Isis Honglike white girls that was it was a long time ago let me tell you about a moment when I wish I was white I'm not sorry guys it's right but
07:46:58
Isis HongI'm saying at the time I had this crush on this person at work I knew I didn't like him I just wanted him to like me for the validation this is pre therapy so naturally I hosted a party just so that I can invite
07:47:19
Isis Honghim lion cake
07:47:29
Isis Hongso then he said he needed to go to the bathroom I was like I'm coming let me show you the
07:47:43
Isis Hongway certain point of the conversation I said to
07:47:50
Isis Honghim know what he said you look pretty but you're just not white verbatim I feel pretty good being Asian right now oh you don't have
07:48:03
Tamarato can I ask a question about why and not white what is like I'm I'm white obviously but in my eyes not racist you
07:48:13
Tamaraare almost the same skin color it's like white features get it I do get feur Isis do you do you date
07:48:23
Isis HongAsian guys yeah I do I did a half half last year here all
07:48:32
Isis Hongright oh dude Tik Tok is [ __ ] cooked range is now my dating age range is now
07:48:41
Brian Atlas18 Till Death cuz trust me if you close your eyes it's all the same that crazy that is crazy all right we got another
07:48:54
Isis Hongone it's not that if he wanted to he would it's that if you you wanted to you would if you wanted to find a man that treats you the way you want to be treated you would oo but you didn't did
07:49:06
Isis Hongyou you're still staying with the same [ __ ] because you want him to change for you you want him to do better be a better man and that's not because you're good woman it's because you're too
07:49:17
Isis Hongscared to be alone so that you put the responsibility to change onto others you see the problem was never them it has
07:49:26
SPEAKER_03always been you why you ashamed right now that's cooking right there that was the one that actually is like a big reason I stayed in my past relationship for so long so kind of why are you
07:49:38
Shane Smithlooking ashamed that you were killing it right there thank you I was going to say that was your most valid video say that great comedic timing said
07:49:48
Tamarasomething profound and correct with you it's actually the first I agree with yes Isis Round of Applause for Isis everybody woo let's go
07:49:59
Isis Hongthank you guys we finally found something said we all agree about I can't he anything so I guess get Victory
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SPEAKER_03what wa wait kind of bad that's so hear us chanting
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SPEAKER_09Isis uh I hope not distance between realize that man is about to kiss you
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Isis HongI came to the mall um this is very shameful for me to admit but consciously yeah I came to the
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Isis Hongmall to buy things but subc oh my is that American dream no why I never been there but I
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Isis Hongknow it's New York I Sur we just have her like tell oh yeah there's an indoor surfing spoted video because it it isn't playing um this is very shameful for me to admit
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Isis Hongbut consciously yeah I came to the mall to buy things but subconsciously I was just why do I keep looking out for him like I don't want to see him but like I
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Isis Hongwant to see him like does that make sense because running into him doesn't mean back to him so at least I can and that's so stupid and I know po this is dangerous because you know I have comments saying oh he must be laughing at you right now seeing all your video first of all he doesn't follow me he
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Isis Hongprobably doesn't he doesn't even know I have this Tik Tok and I hope he doesn't see it but since I want my platform to be built on truth I just want to tell you guys that I'm not doing well all the
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Tamaratime and I do miss him and I do secretly wish that I can run into him but like for what I but that's just how I feel right now so you had a heartbreak or
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Isis Hongsomething or I just like hit him up I do not get it wait so like who who was that was that the guy who did it for a while I dated a guy and I caught him cheating
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Isis Hongwith another woman I ran into them do not say x fiance you're thinking no this is a different one entirely I [Music] hope yeah people are like oh why do you
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Isis Honghave food it's because I already ate cuz I was like I don't have to come anym did he show up eventually I just was like you don't have to come anymore cuz they had he had excuses about work but it was kind of fishy cuz he keep pushing you
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Isis Hongyou have a gut feeling right did he buy you braceland after that because he was guilty no I just didn't see him after that it was the first dat yeah it's the first day and I know him through a
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SPEAKER_13friend too was the food look good I didn't have much he said oh the matter what is say remember that I'll
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Isis Hongalways remember you fondly and I'm like great but I always remember this I'm always going to be traumatized by
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Isis Hongthis while you remember me for all the great things I've done for you well I am left with
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Isis Honghurt well I am been hurting and you remember the good memories my God on yeah actually I was doing mu High
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Isis Hongis this why you traumatize man back because you got hurt it's quite if you do that no I just want to know if other
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Isis Hongpeople feels the same way that I I just had a date they weren great but some sometimes after a date I
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Isis Hongjust feel incredibly sad even if everything went well oh my gosh what's going on
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Tamarastoping that's annoy props to Nick there you go again thank you for the engagement all right but why did you feel bad he didn't send you money he didn't buy you
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Shane Smithanything why did you feel bad it's an intrinsic feeling of emptiness nothing's worse than being close to someone and still feeling alone and she feels alone because definitely shouldn't be dating
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Isis Hongas much as you are a good question or you like thinking about someone else or were you comparing him to someone else no I think after I got home I felt
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Isis Honglonely like during the date I feel like I had a tension and I and I I envisioned the future with this person so I think I
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Isis Hongworried I might lose it and I also worry that by knowing him more well I get disappointed so I think mostly it's fear I don't want it to end no that was
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Isis Hongnot first dat it's someone I've been seeing so you're just really looking for for some of that is is that the person you currently really like yeah okay okay do you have you cried over him since no
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Isis Honghow was your last date with him it was pretty great all right yeah up a little bit and took you out I think so yeah I just um yeah and I he's the type of person that like I said I
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Isis Hongalways had a high requirement and but for somehow for him I we have chemistry and made me realize oh maybe I have been wrong about people weak spot you like him you have a we spot I deeply feel
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Shane Smiththat if we had you back on this podcast a year from now you would be like I all that stuff I said wasn't real I'm in love with this person and like I don't care about any of this you're so calm right now and so sweet who knows
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Brian Atlasdifferent we don't know what's going to happen yeah true two two more things kind of there's Isis show season
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Tamaraone wait what season the pilot yeah at a new Netflix show about Isis no okay oh this a nice story
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Brian Atlasshould we read it not all of
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Brian Atlasthese beautiful people the first episode of my dating life features a boy know you love me another day another man Gaslight wait what and gatekeep or will this be season
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Brian Atlasfull of authentic love infection only time okay that was inspired by a song Let's see this is episode two your date with a guy named Simon iess you
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Brian Atlasdropping his name uh there's this stuff Netflix are you watching thisan this you on the day with Sebastian is this you living out your bachelorette
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Brian Atlasfantasy kind of yeah like I want to create my own stories but wait you just said you want to be happy alone would have thought a very spicy episode is coming soon okay MH oh this is the guy
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Brian Atlaswho bought you the 2500 Tiffany bracelet or whatever for the three s right that's the
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Brian Atlasthree okay this is you right yeah that's you some guy left flowers but
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Brian Atlasunfortunately he'll be dying alone while I'm once again on the plane IAP s okay
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Brian Atlasum okay oh critiquing hinge profile so there's an interesting thing here
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Brian Atlasthat's coming up uh you say change oh wait don't judge me coming up change my
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Brian Atlasmind about men rude yeah rude uh with you
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Brian Atlasloud I man okay then there's a bunch of like blah blah blah BL blah blah blah I really hold on this was from 26 weeks ago I rarely swipe right on men who say they're 6 feet on hinge mhm because that
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Isis Hongcould mean they're anywhere from here you read it because they could meet anywhere from five 99.5 to 6 and you know what I call men below 6 tall my friends but yeah you
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Isis Hongknow this joke but you know I ate my words now I'm doing some that's cute for you to say yeah you GL the short you over I don't say that
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Tamaranow I'm afraid he's going to hear is I'm not afraid of anything else is it like a betting for you to say that you like him and you love him a little bit it's not math PhD and he told me all about time
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Isis Hongand space and how time is aw it's not interesting I think it's oh my God here we go this is why I don't understand men I
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Isis Hongwas at the spard I've been secretly working on a project okay
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Isis Hongguys tonight turn into a [ __ ] show and I've never this felt so wrong in my life it's because it's about exposing some man and I don't want like everybody to
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Isis Hongknow him it's on your Instagram it's on your public they're going prob Instagram my friends see it but not like a large because this person now they will they will lock up your Instagram and they will if it's public you're going to have
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Isis Hongto delete it after this you oh my God I forgot to tell you I literally stepped on [ __ ] very
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Brian Atlasdisturbing I'll be the biggest St can you read this one day I'll be the biggest star and those of you who are [Laughter] small
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Isis HongSavage am okay still on super good terms with that ex and what you guys don't know was there's
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Isis Hongone time we were rooming together long stories it's not that interesting you should yeah that and
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Isis Hongthis what the [ __ ] wait what another funny thing is every single one of my ex after our breakup just got jacked and they yeah you broke their heart they went to the gym like oh my God something
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Shane Smithwrong with me I need to go to the gym I'm fully in my shallow era life is not that
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Isis Hongdeep you can read this by the way you spend $1,000 a month working on your body what does that mean working out as self trainers Ramen I just wait one more day my cleaner will
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Isis Hongcome $200 a month is it the red dress from theget a Amy saw my oh that's my best
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Brian Atlasfriend why is that good story you have the Communist
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SPEAKER_03Manifesto yeah I my target is crazy oh yeah hey what does that mean are you a fan of markx ma Stalin
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Isis Hongwho you got no I just I I'm a fan of everything I want to learn about it it's not that I'm like supportive of it you know I don't know much about that's fair okay you're not informed if you don't know both
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Brian Atlassides what this bullshitting oh are you good bear back yeah oh oh hor riding hear read that CCP is a four out of 10 the
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SPEAKER_03attention she's gotten on this podcast shows y'all are pathetic she's not attractive most evil and stupidest on the panel how much did Winnie the Poo pay Brian not my words
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Brian Atlaswe have one more one sec we have Isis Show season 2 is it long just a moment boys how are you going to have a reality
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Isis Hongshow if you don't want your business out there like that though me yeah I did my business is literally out there wait Isis read this you sound like a psychotic
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Isis Hongnarcissist no matter how disgusting you are trust me I can be more disgusting okay
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Isis Hongokay how many followers do you have on Instagram I don't have much on Instagram I just mostly post Tik Tok 8,000 or something right yeah I don't I have a very small is
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Isis Hongthis I think it's just her life in general yeah it's just my life I'm sorry you should there's like dating stuff there
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SPEAKER_06wait I'm to be rude but did you write I'm the bravest person I've ever met that's so funny okay it looks like I think it takes a certain type of
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SPEAKER_06narcissism to like record a video of yourself talking watch it back smile and be like
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Isis Hongyeah that's right you tell them Queen yeah so people are like okay I was sad so I tried to use my happy M watch
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Isis Hongcan you ever pause for a second and think how can I just do such cringe okay you see these bruises here think life is
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Isis Hongreally not that deep it's just consist of the things that you do that you know I think truly
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Isis Honginspirational men can stop dming me I'm not going to respond any note to my future the distance
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Isis Hongbetween no okay I think you I think he misread the situation I'm sorry those are not about dating what do you mean I those are not about dating I'm sorry the first one the first story
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Isis Hongwas the dating I guess the season one had more dating season two is more about self-discovery just okay now we need a season three about love season 3 is
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Brian Atlaswhere you jump the shark be in love get marri there's like so much more on the Tik Tok that uh did we read these two medicine that came in
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Brian Atlasall right uh if you guys want get your oh wait Frick oh man we for your Tik Tok though yeah thank you uh any final thoughts here before we
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Isis Hongwrap up the show any final thoughts speak now forever hold this is actually a pretty long podcast I just wonder I wonder if like there's a break possible for future guests you know my
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Brian Atlasback kind of hurts this I had to get up and walk around quite a few times uh yeah today's show is a little longer than normal but uh some entertainment well guests can rest of it something like that yeah you know this is a
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Brian Atlasstruggle this is a struggle session and we're here to get to the bottom of all the crazy man we didn't really yeah I mean it's been between like
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Tamaras time is it right now it's like 900 p.m. or something I need to do like aour drive back anybody ever asked why you started doing all this same uh yeah people have
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Brian Atlasasked I'm by the way guys I'll just do we'll do a 5 10 minute row session then we'll wrap the show TTS is 30 TTS is 30 if you guys want I need to update everything in the thing uh Shane what
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Brian Atlasyou got for us you got you got a you used to be I think in your notes you said that you uh you used to have kind of a crazy life but now you're a chrisan a Catholic Catholic man and you're
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Shane Smithtrying to change things up or what's up what were you just asking me generally like what what's going on with my life in general like from being a bad person to a trying to be a good person yeah I
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Shane Smithwas a degenerate idiot and then I did crime when I was young and was in a motorcycle club and you know beat people up for money and robbed people and did all kinds of bad stuff and I decided to stop doing that and uh then I lived like
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Shane Smitha very I don't know like sex positive liberal lifestyle where I was like you know trying to do comedy and go to New York whatever and then that was
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Shane Smithdestroying my life because those values are not conducive to having a fulfilling good life in good relationships with people and I noticed that everyone
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SPEAKER_08around me who did porn Rosetta Stone donated $30 Brian ever notice the general female infatuation with
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Brian Atlasnaog love you as well follow me on Instagram would love that appreciate it man um we got a couple more that are going to be coming through loose [ __ ] energy $0
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Tamarahell you didn't even speak so much oh jeez all right directed toward I think her yeah uh $30 T roast section we'll do 10 minutes then we got to wrap the show
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Brian Atlasguys it's been a long stream 10 minutes uh why yeah cuz people are stupid I don't know Isis wasn't that bad
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Tamarano it was about her right no it was about I thought it was about is doesn't isair number two doesn't have tattoos number two oh maybe he was talking [ __ ]
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Tamaraabout both of you then huh huh exact the correct you didn't so much so how can he be mad yeah yeah this is this is true does he
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Brian Atlaswant to talk about his issues like do you want to talk about your issues Bud do you want to talk about your issues uh $30 TTS guys get them in we going to wrap up the show here in like a few minutes wait is it not coming in no
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Tamarathey're coming in I want to eat pizza later on I'm hungry Jesus guys I'm so hungry what's it in and out it's closed
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SPEAKER_08closed but what is it it's Burgers Curtis leonore donated $30 what the [ __ ] Brian is so fat you have to pack a lunch
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SPEAKER_08to walk around him he's so fat to have sex Lea has to slap his thigh and Ride The Wave in he's so fat his new profile
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Brian Atlas$100 I took out a payday loan to do that typical BLM Behavior free we didn't skip it wait psycho we didn't skip it which one psycho send another one in tell me
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Brian Atlaswhat the message was I'm you only sent in two I'm pretty sure I there was the fact yeah we I'm pretty sure we read it
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Brian Atlasbro but clarifi does the limit change as it goes on cuz now it's 30 yeah oh I just we bumped down at the beginning at the very end for like 10 minutes just so like people want to send the last no not
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Brian Atlasretention just if somebody wants to send in a uh kind of final message before we wrap the show so see yeah I need to honestly I feel like we got to we got to
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Isis Hongdo a deep dive on another episode on your just entire I don't know if I'm mentally ready for this cuz this is your own Netflix show of course do it now it's your chance I don't have any media
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Tamaratraining I need some PR you did great Isis thank you you weren't as bad as desire I want to meet Andrew though the other guy that's always here I want to meet him who Andrew who's
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Brian Atlasdesire Des is crazy what about gorlock The Destroyer oh yeah yeah gorlock coming back no way eventually eventually we we'll have her
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Brian Atlasback uh okay I'm going to start getting the uh raid going for twitch and then if you want you guys last call last call $30 TTS get it in if you want to roast
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Brian Atlasanybody roast Maddie R Shane roast me roast Isis you can do it um you can do it be brave G celebrate the
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SPEAKER_08brave Ro I'm not I'm not going to raate anybody Giovani Jade donated $30 chain gave zero Catholic spitting I'm telling Matt frad blonde girl was
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SPEAKER_08based Isis was worse than desire and finam redhead pink dress is cute but she should quit prostitution
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Shane Smithage well I think you should go e [ __ ] all right I'll be sure to prosta tize harder next time I'm on the silly dating podcast I will watch my fet yeah we should get you back man hey I'd love
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Shane Smithto I'd like to we could discuss some other stuff but definitely I love that if you're religious people are like why weren't you more religious but if you're more religious people are like why aren't you less yeah I would love to talk more
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Brian Atlasabout the porn industry like in a fair question that I'm always doing I would love to do that like the video good uh Matthew harder hey Ned flounders I don't care how many tantos you get you
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Shane Smithwill never be black apparently what oh no it's because I have the blackout tattoos I damn I like I like the Ned
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Brian AtlasFlanders though that's good that he has a great mustache so that's a compliment actually I see it a little bit thank you I have a I have one question going around the table who do you think is the primary victim of War
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Brian Atlasof who's huh the primary victim of war war can we get an Isis does mean Isis Isis Isis okay all right that was cringe my
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Brian Atlasbad yeah that is a little bad a little cringe uh who's the primary victim of war men or women men
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Brian Atlasnot statistically like men men men yeah it's men uh okay all right that was a
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Brian Atlasinteresting show um I think we'll get things wrapped up here are we going to say our Instagrams again or anything no you're going to delete your only fans is what you're going to do no I'm not I'm
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Tamaranot my only fence is for free at the moment so no I'm not deleting it no you want to find a good mascul traditional man do you want to date me first uh it's probably from
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Tamarabut you got the Leia plasty I'm sorry it's no but I I will take the leas with me on the date you'll take it with you yeah yeah on strong water I will bring
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Brian Atlasopening for us to go on the date you didn't say no I'm sorry I you're you're an attractive girl you're cool but like you do porn I just I can't do GMD gim
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SPEAKER_08donated $30 the whatever podcast dispelling the high Asian IQ myth please never let her on the show again brickson
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SPEAKER_08their capital c without a fight hint Brian is from there 10 years in the USMC
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SPEAKER_08but I never sent in a draft card hahaa psycho donated $30 Dutch lady if you want a traditional man you will
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Shane SmithI know he's saying it in English with a Dutch accent I couldn't that didn't work I thought it was Dutch because Dutch is a very unserious language he watch it
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Tamaraman watch it it sounds like the Swedish Chef from the MU I will fight you like don't do that don't talk about Dodge people like that I'm very proud to be
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Tamarapodcast eventually I will stop but you have to reconsider it's not safely for me to stop yet because if you're making a certain amount of money to live off like you rent and everything and everything is so expensive if I stop
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Tamaraimmediately I cannot pay for things and I do not have a roof above my head I cannot pay for food anymore and I will have a big problem so yeah that's another
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Brian Atlasfriend anything else you want to say about me an honestly yeah uh if you guys want get your last you can get your last one in I'm going to wrap the show here's
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SPEAKER_13the link guys if you want um all right let me do the outro here oh R PSA donated you had a good exchange with
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SPEAKER_13Bri psycho donated saying eventually is a scape goat and deep down you know that you could easily cutch your expenses and
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Tamaralive like millions of people do don't assume you deserve a certain lifestyle that's not very true the rent is the rent and it's cannot go to my landlord and say hey I do not want to
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Brian Atlaspay that high of sum anymore [ __ ] you it's not how it works right indeed indeed uh okay guys before I wrap up last chance any final thoughts yeah that's a no okay I love you guys it's
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Brian Atlasnever too late to change you could be a better person do it follow me on Tik Tok is H yeah follow me on Instagram the dut Jessica Rabbit Netflix give Isis a yeah
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SPEAKER_08I need a one season of a show and then cancel it um that's okay God loves you no matter your past there you go yes
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SPEAKER_08amen amen all right oh newly single D donated $30 30-year-old father of two any advice for moving on after my wife
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SPEAKER_08of seven years cheated on me [ __ ] her mom the [ __ ] her mom go on with your life [Music] glow up psycho donated $30 it's called
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Tamaraending your lease agreement nice try on the where do I live them at your place you're stupid call him a canker call him a what's it called a canker
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Tamaraconquer what what do you want you should we should really go on a date I feel the sexual tension here though I like the angry stuff I like angry man we should
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Brian Atlasexcuse me okay all right uh gg gg well played to the panel last call guys hit the like button on your way out we uh oh thank you guys for tuning
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Brian Atlasin tonight you can been anywhere in the world but you're here with me I appreciate that thank you to everyone who so generously super chats donates and supports the show we will be live again uh Sunday 5:00 P p.m. Pacific with another dating talk any girls who want
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Brian Atlasto be on the show DML whatever on Instagram if you can make it to Santa Barbara big thank you to the panel I know it was a long show guys uh it was a good show good panel appreciate you guys
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SPEAKER_08psycho donated $30 as a Southern Man yes you would live at my place I but only if you deleted your of I knew you would love me I knew it you are not like this
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Tamaraangry man you're just a little frustrated liking redheads with big tits oh my God okay they he me on Instagram there you go all right she's after a green card or something I don't
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Brian Atlasknow okay let me just double check that that's uh everything that came through I think it is I think it is okay guys uh
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Brian Atlaslet me do this sorry guys I'm like managing the stream here too um so good chat good chat you guys were great thank you again all for coming love to have you guys back again for uh another show
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Brian Atlasuh great panel thank you guys again for watching 07s in the chat hope you guys have a uh night thank you guys for watching good night guys e