For The PERFECT Man, She WILL NOT Take His Last Name/Quit Her Job?! Jay Dyer! JB! | Dating Talk #242
Date: 2025-05-12
Duration: 7h 50m
Guests
Identified Speakers
SPEAKER_03Kelly Vargas(guest)
SPEAKER_04Charlie Campbell(guest)
SPEAKER_06Kyla Turner(guest)
SPEAKER_07Hyasin(guest)
SPEAKER_08Sophia (OF LA)(guest)
SPEAKER_09Brian Atlas(host)
SPEAKER_10Jay Dyer(guest)
SPEAKER_12Jim Bob(guest)
SPEAKER_14Lexi (Baker)(guest)
Key Moments
00:04:03
IntroAll 8 guests introduced
00:38:19
Key MomentSophia: ex con-artist stole SSN, spent $20K+, faked stalking emails
00:47:54
Key MomentJay Dyer vs Kyla Turner erupts: 32 interruptions vs 7. Brian asks them to say one nice thing.
01:44:51
ControversyKelly refuses to take man's last name even for trillionaire. Extended double-standard debate.
02:06:24
Key MomentJay challenges Kyla to name philosophy books; she can't recall titles but discusses content of 5 Plato dialogues
Topics Discussed
00:04:03
Guest Introductions
Hyasin, Kyla Turner, Lexi, Sophia, Charlie, Kelly, Jim Bob, Jay Dyer.
00:38:19
Sophia Con-Artist Ex
Ex sent fake stalking emails, stole SSN, spent $20K+, hacked socials.
00:47:54
Jay Dyer vs Kyla Turner Philosophy Debate
Extended debate spanning 2 episodes: feminism, patriarchy, relativism, Agrippa's Trilemma, Kant, Plato, Nietzsche. Chat counts Jay 32 interruptions vs Kyla 7.
01:44:51
Last Name Debate
Kelly refuses to take husband's name even for perfect trillionaire. Central double-standard flashpoint.
03:26:02
Body Count Round
Charlie: 13 (7M, 6W). Other guests decline.
05:46:35
Bear vs Man
Sophia and Hyasin choose bear citing SA experiences.
Transcript
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07:42:10
SPEAKER_01Quiet. These 304s arguing against showing shoulders and bras, but yet want to play victims while showing off
07:42:18
SPEAKER_01shoulders and wear no bras. Make it make sense. Get that [ __ ] Thank you. I can't say your name. Castle donated $30.
07:42:29
Charlie CampbellChef five, don't use the you didn't serve BS on Brian. You're a pog and anyone would do a bo. A pog is basically like in military sense. It's like when they're like, "Oh, you're just like HR.
07:42:41
Charlie CampbellYou're not a real soldier." But it's like a lot of people will say that to even jobs like mine where like I've fired cannons. And it's like, okay. Like like they basically say that to anybody
07:42:52
SPEAKER_01that's not infantry. It's like whatever. Sure. Desert Joe donated $30. Wow. You are so hung up about about tank tops for 12y olds
07:43:04
SPEAKER_01spending 30 minutes arguing school dress codes. Dot. This convo proves women are not oppressed in the US. Stop victimizing
07:43:13
SPEAKER_01yourselves. Bloody boy donated $30. N I've never heard anyone who talks as much as you but really says nothing. Your words hold no weight. We know
07:43:23
Kyla Turneryou're not bulking. You're just a hippo. WJ, what the [ __ ] WJB, that's crazy. Thank you, bloody boy. You know you're really smart when you go for lowhanging fruit. Are you saying you're low hanging
07:43:34
SPEAKER_01fruit? I'm saying making fat jokes about me since I'm saying fat jokes are obviously low hanging right against fetus any prego could cause fatality
07:43:45
Brian Atlasconstitutional right second amendment buried arms right against thank you Jesse matter donated $29.99 matter what the [ __ ] Brian I'm getting a
07:43:56
SPEAKER_01group session together and seeing if you want to join so you need a score of at least seven have a decent ppm and Send your achievements for the mythic aid. Demon Slayer, I cannot pull up your
07:44:08
Brian Atlasmessage, but um I can't pull up your message, bro. But it has I can't I shouldn't even say. Okay, sorry. Demon Slayer, I can't pull
07:44:19
SPEAKER_01it up. I'm sorry. YouTube toss Jason Castle donated $30 share five POG personnel other than the job of a Pog is to support the infantry, the war
07:44:29
Kyla Turnerfighters, which are You're right. Artillery so not important for war. Jason Cassel artillery.
07:44:40
SPEAKER_01I don't know. Good talk. Um, we have Lulu. Lulu donated $30. Thank you, Lulu. We all watched Chair to derail the conversation with a random question when nobody was talking to her. Now she's
07:44:51
Brian Atlasjust refusing to admit she did it long. Why are your glasses on? Jay, I've got a question for you. What's your favorite movie? Favorite film?
07:45:01
Jay DyerThe Godfather. Godfather. Okay. Trilogy. Got it. What's your top three movies? Yeah. Yeah. Uh Godfather, Lord
07:45:11
Brian Atlasof the Rings, and probably the original Star Wars. Original Star Wars only. Got it. Oh, we got chat here from Zman. Guys, last call. We're going to get this wrapped. Last call if you want to get one in.
07:45:25
Kyla TurnerLike you know the least bit about fruit. Fruit. Good one. I've never seen an apple in my life. You spent $30 to say that. Wait, related to
07:45:35
Brian Atlasfruits? Has anybody here not had like kind of basic fruits? Like, have has anybody
07:45:43
Brian Atlashere never had a strawberry or a a pineapple, peach, mango. I've encountered in the recent years, I've encountered some women that haven't had
07:45:56
Brian Atlascertain fruits and there I get this warm feeling inside and I'm like, I want to introduce you. I want to be your gateway to some [ __ ] bomb mango. Like that just makes
07:46:08
Brian Atlasme happy if a girl's never had It's not that I'm happy that she hasn't had it, but it makes me happy that I can hook her up. Like I'll put her on some game. Oh, you've never had strawberries
07:46:20
Brian Atlasbefore? Check this [ __ ] out. That strawberry game. I It's like makes me feel happy to like That's very wholesome. Get it is kind of just a little wholesome thing here at the end of the show. I have encountered recently
07:46:33
Brian Atlasthough some women who's like I'm like you've never had a strawberry son? What? You've never had a peach? Really? Do you know what you've been
07:46:44
SPEAKER_13missing out on? And I'm like, I can assist you on this chimob. Wait, wait. I How many people have you met that haven't
07:46:55
Brian Atlashad a basic fruit? I've met two girls uh who have not had like certain No mango. Hasn't had like the stone fruit. So like apricot, peach, nectarine. Hasn't had
07:47:08
Brian Atlasany of those. Never had a watermelon. Huh. I looked I was like, never had a watermelon. Wow. That's crazy. Um, so I hooked that [ __ ] up. Whoa, voice car. I
07:47:18
Brian Atlashooked it up. I [ __ ] hooked it up. I was like, I bombarded them with They put you in the friend zone right after that. No, I bombarded them with fruit. Wow. It was crazy, son. I'm like, you're only
07:47:30
Brian Atlaseating fruits and here's a [ __ ] smoothie. How about them apples? And they're like, I've never tried an apple before. I think they've all had apples. Oh, that's like the apples are
07:47:41
SPEAKER_01norm basic. That's some basic [ __ ] Jason Castle donated $30. Not so bright. Why do you feel the need to comment on everything even when no one is talking
07:47:50
Brian Atlasto you? Do the world a favor and STF you sometimes. You might like it. I know we all will. All right, there it is, folks. Any final thoughts from any of the panelists before we wrap? Final thought.
07:48:03
Brian AtlasHold speak now forever. Hold your peace. Mary, can you crack the door? It's a little getting a little stuffy in here. Crack the door. Okay. I'd like to end the show by saying if we can't use
07:48:13
Brian Atlasthis moment as an opportunity to give you Sophia a call to action. Would you
07:48:21
Brian Atlasconsider stopping sex work entirely tonight right now on the whatever podcast
07:48:32
Brian Atlasor what? Your soul. No. Okay, I tried. So, all right. Uh, GG. GG. Well played. Hold on. Well played. Well played. Last call. Hit the like button, please. On
07:48:43
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07:49:08
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07:49:20
Brian AtlasAppreciate that, guys. Like the video, please, on your way out here. And let me just double check. I do want to thank you guys for tuning in tonight. You could have been anywhere in the world, but you're here with me. I appreciate that. Thank you to
07:49:32
Brian Atlaseveryone who so generously supports the show by super chatting, donates, etc. We will be live again. Got Andrew Wilson in town. So, we're going to be doing some debates. I believe that starts
07:49:44
Brian AtlasThursday. Got we got them lined up. So, I believe Thursday, Friday, Saturday. Sunday is the next dating talk. 5:00 p.m. Pacific. Any girls who want to be on show, DM, whatever on Instagram if
07:49:53
Brian Atlasyou can make it to Santa Barbara. Uh '07's in the chat. 07's in the chat. And uh I'm trying to think if there's anything we're forgetting. No, I think that's pretty much it. Uh let me just make sure no
07:50:06
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07:50:16
Brian Atlasnight, guys, and we will see you guys next time. Good night.
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