Brian CONFRONTS Woke Misandrist College Girl?! HEATED DEBATE! Based Girl RETURNS! | Dating Talk #269

Date: 2025-11-17

Duration: 8h 20m

Guests

Brian Atlas

SSeline (Cosmetology)>

GGrace (Zoology)>

NNatalie/Morena Chinga >

LLauren (Buddhist)>

EErica (Married 264)>

Identified Speakers

SPEAKER_01Brian Atlas(host)

SPEAKER_03Seline(guest)

SPEAKER_04Lauren (Buddhist)(guest)

SPEAKER_06Selena(guest)

SPEAKER_09Natalie/Morena(guest)

SPEAKER_10Grace (Zoology)(guest)

SPEAKER_11Essie(guest)

SPEAKER_12Samra(guest)

SPEAKER_13Erica (Married)(guest)

Key Moments

IntroAll 8 guests introduce themselves

ControversySelena wants red pill men 'eradicated'

Key MomentBrian presents selective service as systemic male oppression. 40-min debate.

QuoteSelena: 'I think men suck. 60-70% of men suck.'

ControversyGrace prefers world without men. Selena cannot say no to snapping men away.

Key MomentLauren: Buddhist nun, FBI investigated for Jan 6

ControversySelena: 'white people invented racism'

OtherSelena leaves. Brian calls her most argumentative guest ever.

Topics Discussed

Guest Introductions

8 guests including Selena (Georgetown/TikTok), Lauren (Buddhist nun/Jan 6).

Red Pill Eradication

Selena wants red pill men 'eradicated.' Brian challenges.

Selective Service Debate

40-minute debate on draft as male systemic oppression.

65% of Men Suck

Selena: 65% of men suck. Brian: that's sexist.

Stolen Land / Immigration

Selena: 'no one is illegal on stolen land.' Native American debate.

Snap All Men Away

Grace and Selena cannot say no to removing all men. Brian shocked.

Colombia / Palestine Allegiance

Natalie sides with Mexico/Palestine. Selena refuses to answer.

Lauren Jan 6

FBI investigated but did not arrest Lauren for Jan 6 attendance.

Body Count

Lauren: 5M/2W. Natalie: 100+. Essie: 12-13.

Bow Video

Brian shows ex bowing video. Selena uses it as grounds to leave.

Transcript

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Brian Atlasokay. You're a 10. I'm a four. If if we were dating, of course, we never would. Um, >> never. >> Sorry. Just >> Yeah. >> Um, >> you >> I wish. >> He said no first. [laughter]

Brian Atlas>> Girl, it's a no over here. >> I mean, like, you know, look, I I like Latino women, but, you know, my my wheelhouse is white and Asian women. So anyways, [laughter] um >> what people can have a type, whatever.

Brian Atlas>> Goodness. >> Thank goodness. [laughter] >> So anyways, um >> you're really on the valley girl stuff tonight. I love it. >> You would be like severely settling for me. >> Okay, just

Erica (Married)>> it's a hard It's hard out there, boys. It's hard out there. Um I guess my question is I don't know. I'm not saying every woman here is average. Can I point Can I point out how humble this absolutely drop deadad gorgeous woman was while we're

Erica (Married)all going around and having to listen to other people call themselves tens. Like, oh my god, that is amazing. >> I'm going to have to kiss you. [laughter] >> You guys should all think you guys are tens coming soon to >> I think that you can be I think that you

Erica (Married)can be like self-aware and acknowledge your flaws and also think that you're, you know, a good person and [clears throat] that you deserve good things. But I think that's giving yourself grace, not being realistic. >> I like I said, please listen. I said I

Erica (Married)think that's you're talking. You're not listening and talking at the same time. I'm saying you just need to give yourself grace. That's not saying be delusional and call yourself, you know, perfect because nobody's perfect. >> I think you can feel like you're

Brian Atlasperfect. If you don't feel like you're perfect, that's >> if you tell yourself that you're perfect, you will never want to grow, change, or be better. And that's a problem. >> Why can't Look, here's my question. Um, why can't average women just be like,

Selineyou know what, I'm average looking? Why can't averagel looking just be like, you know what, I'm average looking. Why is there always >> I see I see men online being like, I'm so hideous. I So like honestly, why

Brian Atlascan't we do it too? >> Sad boys be confident and happy. >> Well, I think but I would think at least my position would be I think it's more

Essieconfident to just be like I'm a five. I'm a six >> and I don't I don't feel bad. if you feel like you're a fine. >> Do you think anybody didn't rate themselves correctly according to your rating of them at this table? Is that

Brian Atlas>> I'm not going to rate I'm not going to rate anybody unless they like insist I do, but um yeah, there were some uh elevated ratings at the table

Brian Atlas>> if you want to. >> Why does that matter to you though? >> What's that? >> Why does it matter to you? >> I don't think it matters to him. >> Well, >> well, we wouldn't have to be having this conversation if it didn't matter. >> Well, it matters. I guess it matters in the following way. So one of the

Brian Atlasproblems I see dating podcast as it relates to dating well one is obviously truth kind of matters and being I think humbleness is a virtue, modesty is a

Brian Atlasvirtue and it seems like there's this sort of pride and ego. I as it relates to confidence, I think it's just as if not more confident. Instead of saying

Brian Atlasyou're a 10, just saying I'm a six and I'm 100% fine with that. I don't have like negative self-image, but like just there are certain things like that, you

Brian Atlasknow, look, beauty is subjective, but not in like the strict philosophical sense. I think that there are objective components to beauty in the same way that like why do we see certain patterns

Brian Atlaslike facial symmetry um skin health like these sorts of things like overwhelmingly there are certain like repeated universal things that people will deem to be physically attractive and it's like okay why do some people

Brian Atlasget modeling contracts and others don't if beauty is strictly subjective. Um, although there's a bunch of Well, that's besides the point, but sorry, I'm your question again was I'm sorry. What was it? >> So much. >> Yeah. Why do

Brian Atlas>> you care? >> Oh, why do I care? Okay. As it relates to dating. So, I think and I think men can fall into this too, but I do see this as a more frequent pattern with with women. But I'll start with the

Brian Atlascriticism of men first to hopefully, I guess, make it make more sense. Do you guys know any guys who think they're like hot [ __ ] but they're not? >> Yes. Yes. >> Like maybe they are cocky, maybe they

Brian Atlashave an ego, maybe. Look, sometimes it's not even about their looks, right? But sometimes these guys are cocky for a variety of reasons. And they do think that they're like hot [ __ ] or good-looking, right? >> I think they call it big D energy,

Brian Atlas[laughter] >> maybe. But um and I think that that's prideful. I think that that's wrong in men. Um, and I think these men, if they have this like

Brian Atlasunrealistic self assessment of themselves, I think what they're going to do is they're going to be like, "I deserve a 10 out of 10 Victoria Secret model [ __ ] baddy." Nah, dude. you don't deserve like if

Brian Atlasyou're [ __ ] overweight and you're living in your mom's basement and you're Well, I don't want to introduce like factors that aren't related to looks, but if you're

Brian Atlasnot a good-looking guy, uh, and you're just like unremarkable in other ways, too, but you think you're hot [ __ ] is it are you going to ever get into a like are you going to ever

Brian Atlasdate the woman you think you deserve? Probably not. Like if if you're some like neck beard playing video games and you're overweight and you're smoking weed all day and you're in your mother's basement, whatever, you're doing all

Brian Atlasthis [ __ ] and you're not that good-looking. I'm sorry, you're not getting the [ __ ] 10 out of 10 baddy. It's not happening. And in that same vein, I think if women think that

Brian Atlasthey're more attractive than they otherwise are, I think the manifestation of that is going to be you're going to be aiming for a certain caliber of guy >> that >> it's out of your league.

Brian Atlas>> Is out of your league >> in the same way that men can do that. >> Like I think people got to be realistic about their prospects. Like it is the case. Like not every guy is gonna get,

Brian Atlasyou know, a 10 out of 10 like stunner smoke show model. Like it's just it's just not I've never had a Victoria supermodel slide into my DMs. What the [ __ ] And it's like

Brian Atlas>> but I don't expect it. I don't have an expectation. And I think expectation can be where people get into trouble. But one difference that exists, it's bad for men and women, but one difference that

Brian Atlasexists is if I slide into um like a really beautiful girl's DMs, like a a a supermodel or something, I'm not getting anything. >> Mhm.

Brian Atlas>> Like if or if I see a beautiful girl in like a real like just clearly she's beautiful and she's out of my league. Like you think, right, for example, um you say you see a lot of beautiful girls

Brian Atlaswith like less attractive guys, right? So, like if I step to a really beautiful girl and it's just look, I'm she's out of my league. She's way more be she's more more attractive than

Brian AtlasI am, right? I'm not I'm probably not getting a conversation. I'm not getting a number. I'm not getting a kiss. I'm not getting a date. I'm definitely not getting sex.

Brian AtlasThis is where men and women, I think, differ a little bit. Um, men and I'm men are wrong for what I'm about to describe because at least my perspective is I think if you're going to choose to have sex with somebody, I think you should

Brian Atlashave sometimes it doesn't work out. I get that. You should have a baseline level of I want to pursue something with this person. >> That's my I I think that if you have sex

Brian Atlaswith somebody, there should be at least some inclination towards I'm not just using them for sex. I'm not using them for XYZ. I want to see where this goes. Sometimes, hey, you you sleep with somebody, you date them for a while, it

Brian Atlasdoesn't work out. I get that. That happens. But I think where the difference is where women get into trouble is women do have limited sexual access to men

Brian Atlasoutside of their league. And I think look, I'm going to say it's pro it's wrong, but men will without any intention of ever

Brian Atlaswanting you for a relationship will sleep with women that on the sole basis of their looks alone, like maybe the girl's great,

Brian Atlas>> but uh on the looks basis, he's like, I would never be in a relationship with her. So even if she he that girl meets all like the personality criteria, the

Brian Atlasman will never give that girl a relationship just because her looks aren't there. But what what men will do like if a woman offers up let's say like a a let's just say for the sake of

Brian Atlasconversation a woman who is less attractive than than a guy offers up some [ __ ] on a silver platter. Here's some [ __ ] sir. The guy's going to take the [ __ ]

Brian Atlas>> Well, thank you. If I step to if I step to like a girl who's one, two, or well, we could go two, three, four points above me in terms of looks and I'm like, "Here's some dick. Easy

Brian Atlasdick." And I'm, you know, we'll get along and I'll make some jokes and you'll have a good time. Here's some dick, miss. Would [laughter] you like some dick? >> I'm not She's not taking the dick. She

SPEAKER_07doesn't take the dick. I don't get anything. Like I step to a model, I don't get anything. You want to double it and pass it on. >> But women, but women, [laughter] y'all

Brian Atlascan step like women who >> y'all can step to a NFL player. You can step or he can step to you, but he doesn't want more than just sex. Y'all

Brian Atlascan step to a like a guy outside your league and you're offering [ __ ] He'll he'll take the [ __ ] Thank you for the [ __ ] miss. [laughter]

Brian AtlasAnd and by the way, he might and look, I'm not saying it's right, but and I think some women are actually, you know, they're probably okay with it sort of.

Brian AtlasThey're like like you think a woman uh who's like trying to like sleep with like some famous rapper or Chris Brown, are they thinking, you know, he's going to >> he's going to hit >> if I give him some [ __ ] is he going to be my husband?

Brian Atlas>> He's going to hit and dip, right? >> No. So, I think some women get the game, but I think the danger is is that again, guys can't really be offering like easy dick to women outside their league and

Brian Atlaslike fall that that's not going to she's going to be like, "No, I'm good." No. Whereas men will will dick down. Dick

Brian Atlasdown. Not that's like a double entandra. So, like a you can step to a guy. I'm telling you, you step to a guy. >> I don't know. I'm kind of repeating myself agree.

Lauren (Buddhist)>> How How does it hurt your chances as like a single parent in the dating field from a It's just I'm I don't know. >> Oh. Um >> different uh subject. >> So, I mean, I think for both men and

Brian Atlaswomen, maybe men care about this a bit more. I do think if you're a a you already have kids, >> right? whether you're man or woman, although I think men probably fare a little bit better if they're a single

Brian Atlasfather or whatever. >> I think it's probably most people's preferences um to like date somebody who's not and I'm not using I'm not trying to use this in a rude way, who's

Brian Atlasnot encumbered with a child. And look, I don't want to frame it as like it's a bad thing encumbered, but I think like a woman who doesn't have a kid, probably she has a preference towards not dating

Brian Atlassingle fathers. That preference is probably stronger in men not wanting to date single mothers. But yes, I think if you have a child, I think it does complicate dating for for both for both.

Brian Atlas>> Um, does that I don't know that what I just explained though with the like why does the looks thing matter? Does that kind of make any sense or not really? >> Wait, I just still don't understand why it's harmful for like people to have confidence and think that they're

Brian Atlasbeautiful. >> Well, I guess what I was trying to get at with the like men will sleep down or whatever. Women will have sexual access to men outside their league. >> And I think what ends up happening is some women will get perpetually uh

Brian Atlasthey'll be they'll >> like their egos will be inflated incorrectly. Is that what you're trying? >> It's part of that. And also, so either they either they think, you know what, I know these guys don't want a

Brian Atlasrelationship, but I really really enjoy like having sex with like really attractive men and I know they're [ __ ] boys and whatever, but then I think in the same way that porn brain [ __ ] over

Brian Atlasmen, I think you can have like [ __ ] a guy who's really attractive but will never give me commitment brain

Brian Atlasfor women. So to the point where like for example, let's say if we reverse it, let's say I could just like run through chicks that were hotter than me. Don't you think I would feel less

Brian Atlasincentivized, but none of them will give me a relationship? >> Yeah. >> Like none of these girls would ever give but they're just using me for sex or whatever. Or I I think most men would be

Brian Atlashardpressed to be like, well, why would I ever like get into a relationship when I just have access to sex with women who are more attractive than the women who

Brian Atlaslike have an expectation of monogamy. So, I know it's not a perfect comparison, but I guess as it relates to the looks thing and being realistic, I

Brian Atlasthink one thing that uniquely impacts women is at least being somewhat realistic with your dating prospects. Because just because a guy will dick you down doesn't mean he'll wipe you up,

Brian Atlasright? >> And I think I think women are more like I think women operate differently. And frankly, to your guys's credit, you're women are more selective. They're more

Brian Atlaspicky. That's not a bad thing. I think that's a good thing. But like I think for a for a woman to have sex with a guy, and this isn't universal, like there's probably some things you could

Brian Atlasyou this one girl, she whatever. I think for a woman to have sex with a guy, the guy has to be at least attractive enough for her to be in a relationship with

Brian Atlashim. Now, his personality might be like I wouldn't date him based off his personality, but I think on that front his he has to to have sex with a guy, he has to be at least attractive enough that you would be in a relationship with

Brian Atlashim. >> Like his looks cuz you could maybe say that there's like some guys in terms of their physical appearance, like maybe they're really wonderful guys, but you're just not attracted to them. So, you wouldn't even like

Brian Atlasuh you you wouldn't be in a relationship with them despite their really good character, but they just the physical attraction isn't there. Is that fair to say? >> Yeah, I would say I wouldn't have sex with a guy that I'm not attracted to, period.

Brian Atlas>> Right. But men will have sex with women >> that they aren't um >> attracted to. >> Like attracted to. >> Yeah. Because it's like more of like a

Brian Atlasphysical just like release thing. >> Yeah. Exactly. Yeah. Yeah. Spot on. Spot on. And so, but that's where some women could get into trouble where it's like,

Brian Atlas>> okay, I'm used to this caliber of guy. >> Is that like potentially like am I going to be dissatisfied? Like, oh, but here, okay, here's the

Brian Atlasbucket of men who are willing to commit to me >> and it's not overlapping with like the same hotness, the level of hotness. >> Yeah. Exactly. So, like here's the bucket of men who will commit to me and like their attractiveness, maybe it's a

Brian Atlasrange or whatever, but like their attractiveness kind of levels out at here. But the men who are willing to just like have sex with me, their attractiveness might be in this other bucket.

Brian Atlas>> They'll never give you commitment, never give you relationship, but they'll have sex with you. >> Those men might, and it might not even just be looks. It could be like >> it could be you could have an experience with a guy with massive amounts of status.

Brian Atlas>> Yeah. So, it's like how do you how do you go from like uh you know, you're you're a good-looking college girl. I don't know if like any I don't know if you're really out there on social media, but

Brian Atlaslike there's college girls who are like dealing with like like major athletes, NFL players. I don't know if you have any sority girls who you've heard stories from or whatever or just girlfriends who are in sororities. I'm not trying to like talk [ __ ] about

Brian Atlassority girls or anything, but like these women will have access. So, like, how do you go from like dealing with some NFL NBA player and you're like an sophomore

Brian Atlasin college and then you're going to go deal with some dudes who share a bedroom and have a share a

Brian Atlasbathroom with like three other people. So, it's like I think once you get a taste of the good life, like I guess the way I would frame it is >> um do you did you live in the dorms?

Brian Atlas>> Yeah, I did. >> And you like did you have like a communal bathroom or was there a bathroom in your dorm? >> It was like over 50 girls sharing like one bathroom. >> 50 girls sharing one bathroom. And did you have like three girls in your room?

Grace (Zoology)You had a triple, right? >> So, it's like then do you currently have your own bedroom? >> Yeah. Now I'm in like a massive double with like one of a double. So double. So it's so much better. >> Double's a bit better. But then I mean maybe growing up you had your own bedroom.

Brian Atlas>> Yeah. >> That's superior to like having a double or a triple, right? >> Yeah. >> And have did you have your own bathroom growing up? >> Uh no. >> Okay. But like so in terms of like in the future you're probably going to be

Brian Atlassuccessful. you're going to have like your snazzy apartment and maybe you'll have like housemates maybe or you have your own like really nice onebedroom and you can like you know play music and

Brian Atlaswalk around naked or I don't know do whatever you want to do and you have your own bathroom and you know your refrigerator can be exactly how you want it. >> Once you have that experience I feel like it's hard to go back >> to the dorms

Brian Atlas>> to like once you've lived off Yeah. to go back to living in like a dorm room and you're sharing a bathroom and you live with other people. In that same vein, I think there is a component where

Brian Atlasyou get a taste of the good life, but you get a taste of like a caliber of man. And it's like the but that's not the guy who's going to give you commitment.

Selena>> So that's why I think that I guess I don't know if that makes any sense or what. >> Yeah. No, that makes sense. I I like I don't know. I feel like I could I don't even know what to say to that. I I agree with I I see the logic. >> That was actually a really good point

Brian Atlasthat you made. >> I'm kind of impressed. >> I'm like kind of like shocked, I guess. >> Like does it does it um I didn't mean to interrupt you there, but does it like

Selenamap on to experiences that either your female friends have had or that you've had? I think for sure like I've definitely heard that but I think okay what I want to say though on one point

Selenathat you made >> I think it is not as clear a lot of times these guys what they will do to get to their end goal which is sex

Selena>> is a lot a lot of these guys know even like the the successful guys they know that no women woman that women in general just aren't going to go sleep with them and so they give them a taste

SelenaI you could call it of what it would be like to be in a relationship with them. And that is where that disparity comes in where some women believe, okay, no, I

Selenacan, you know, like bag this NFL player or I can bag this successful guy because >> this one guy wanted a relationship with me. It just didn't work out, right? So,

Selenathat is that nuance. It's these men aren't going into it with, oh, I just want to sleep with you. They're try they're going to take you out. They're going to give you a taste, sleep with you, and then whatever.

Brian Atlas>> Yeah. So, I mean, uh I actually completely agree with you. It it is a strategy of men. Uh and I I don't agree with it, but it is a strategy of men to in an in an effort

Brian Atlas>> to get the [ __ ] in an effort to get laid because maybe the girl's like, "Look, I don't I'm not interested in casual sex. I just >> Yeah. >> And so the guy in furtherance of trying to get laid >> is going to lie or misrepresent his

Brian Atlaslong-term intentions. >> So yeah, the guy's like And I think that that's wrong. >> Whoa. >> I think it's completely wrong. >> Wait, we're agreeing. >> Yeah, there you go. We have an agreement.

Brian Atlas>> But I I I [laughter] do think um like it's not a crime, but it's it's definitely wrong to misrepresent your like long-term intentions to a woman.

Brian Atlasum in an effort to get [ __ ] in an effort to get to get sex because it's uh it's a bit misleading. Now, however, I

Brian Atlasdo think a bit more nuance here. I do think sometimes it's also fair like just because a guy has had has had sex with

Brian Atlasyou, I don't think, and this goes in both directions. I don't think just because you had sex that that guarantees

Brian Atlascontinuity. Yeah. Like for example, um let's say the guy does have long-term intentions, but I don't know after >> I'm not when I say after sex, it could

Brian Atlasbe like days, weeks later, like you just end up being a horrible person. >> Yeah. >> Then it's like, but some women will be like, "Oh my god, God, he's such a jerk. He lied to me and he dumped me after

Brian Atlaslike a couple days or a week. And it's like guys, just to be clear, guys absolutely lie about their intentions and they like going in they had no intention of like they were just going to like sleep with you once or a few

Brian Atlastimes and then like discard you. >> But I do think there are sometimes instances where the guy did have good intentions. You guys did hook up once, twice, three times and then like and

Brian Atlasmaybe maybe it's not a fit for the girl. like the girl hooked up the guy. Yeah. >> And she's like, "Ah, it's not the right fit." You know? >> Yeah. No, that that makes complete sense. I'm just saying like >> when we're having the conversation of,

Selena"Oh, so these women are thinking that they can, you know, like bag a certain type of guy." >> Yeah. >> It's because the guys are letting them think that or I guess that's the

Brian Atlasintention. >> Yeah. I think Well, I do think there are guys who lie or misrepresent about their long-term intentions. So if if if you're dating these guys who are giving you that and then they're like, "Oh, you

Brian Atlasknow, I guess it didn't work out. I guess whatever it makes sense why a lot of women would feel that way."

Brian AtlasI guess my my thinking is is that because women do have access to like these

Brian Atlasmore attractive men that they then they overlook guys who are like actually would be genuinely interested in long-term relationships and treat

Brian Atlasthem well and not be [ __ ] boys and not be jerks or whatever. Um >> yeah, true. And and I but I also think there's a component of when they the

Brian Atlaswomen do some women will be like will get into relationship with guys who are on their level but I think there will be this sometimes there will be this like pining

Brian Atlasfor that guy like that's the guy I really wanted. I had and the sex like the sex was better and like because look

Brian AtlasI mean if you're really [ __ ] crushing on a guy just like if he's really attractive like that's going to have an impact on like your arousal and your sexual attraction to a guy. I think it's not

Brian Atlasstrictly looks. I think there's other components too, but I think that that can in the same way that men are pornrained and they're looking at all these hot chicks with giant tits and

Brian Atlas[ __ ] porno whatever all this [ __ ] and that's going to warp like okay I'm here with like average Mary or you know whatever it is. I'm a I'm an average

Brian Atlasguy. I'm dating average. Yeah. Mary Sue >> and they're have access to like like [ __ ] insane 10 out of 10 baddy porn [clears throat] girls or whatever.

Brian AtlasHow that could have an impact on like the sex. >> I think it can have that same impact can also go impact women too. like you in

Brian Atlassome ways it could be worse because like porn is like there's a separation but when you've had like a taste it's like you can reach out and touch it not like >> phys I'm using that like metaphorically

Brian AtlasI mean >> like it's it's within your grasp so it's like there's there's a stronger >> uh there's a stronger like achievability

Brian Atlaslike maybe just the next guy the next guy whereas like I bet a bunch of dudes who are like jerking it to like [ __ ] hotties in porn or whatever. Like that has negative impacts on relationships,

Brian Atlasbut I don't think those guys genuinely believe like some dude in [ __ ] Idaho is like jerking it to I don't know who's a hot porn chick, Essie. >> They're jerking it to Essie. I don't know. [laughter] >> Are you sure

Brian Atlasgirl? And they're like, "Bro, they're not like I think most of them realize like I don't ever have a chance with with Essie or like, you know, one of these." >> Oh, man. Who was that beautiful girl that you had here last week? >> Uh,

Erica (Married)>> red hair. >> Yeah, I think so. Yeah. Yeah, she's gorgeous. Gorgeous. >> She's She's cool. >> I do think that, you know, women and men look at beauty differently just because like we're kind of raised to think that

Brian Atlaslike all women are beautiful and men kind of have more realistic standards on that. [clears throat] >> Sure. Um, here I'm going to blast through this a little bit. Um, I want to get into some of the pre-show notes that

Brian Atlassome of you sent me. I'm going to try to move through them quickly. Going to you, Seline. Hold on. Let me pull this up. Seline. Seline. Uh,

Brian Atlasgive me one sec here while I get the notes pulled up. Ill-fated. Okay. Yeah. Yeah. Um, super minor. I'm just curious. So you're you're Blazian? >> Yes. >> Is your dad black?

Brian Atlas>> Yes. >> Okay. Is he like full? >> Yes. >> So he's he's full and your mom >> he immigrated from Haiti. >> Your mom is she like Chinese, Vietnamese, Filipina?

Brian Atlas>> Chinese and then like a weird mix of different Pacific Islanders. >> Okay. Gotcha. Uh you said you've been in therapy for a long time and you feel like you're a pretty stable person with relatively simple desires and goals in

Selinerelationship. How long have you been in therapy? Um, I've honestly been going like throughout different periods of my life. >> How young were you when you first >> When I was first, I was about like 12.

Brian Atlas>> Okay. And was it like for anxiety, depression? >> Um, I always had like a a bit of a hard time in school. >> So, it stemmed from that. >> Gotcha. Um, okay. Uh, in terms of your

Brian Atlasdisagreements, you disagree with most of what is said on the podcast, >> although you seem you haven't seemed super competitive. It's not >> I was being a little facitious. Um >> Oh, okay. Um well, you said that like

Selineother participants or me, I I guess twist words, >> black and white statements. We try to rage bait or whatever. >> I will say I I honestly haven't gotten that from you at all today. I've seen it before.

Seline>> Okay. [laughter] >> Well, I think you were somebody was saying earlier sometimes you play devil's advocate just >> Yes. >> But I I do understand that a part of it is you're the host. It's kind of your job. Yeah. Although I would say most

Brian Atlaslike sometimes I'll be like a bit hyperbolic or whatever, but like >> almost everything I say I believe in. >> Like I'm not just like taking the contrarian position.

Brian AtlasLike almost everything I say I believe in. So um >> uh we already talked we played your video where you talked about the dumb [ __ ] bimbos. >> I don't like by the way >> I really like that.

Seline>> I don't like that characterization. Again, it was a little over the top, you know, extremist. Um, I definitely don't think that every single woman on this podcast has been like, "Oh, stupid bimbo."

Brian Atlas>> Uh, you said also I mean, you said you'd never s subject one of your friends to >> Oh, never. Never. Never. >> What about tonight though? If they were on tonight, would it have been that bad? >> I think tonight would have been manageable. >> Yeah.

Seline>> But my friends are a little bit more sensitive. >> Hm. >> Aren't you in a Are you in a band? >> I'm not. >> Oh, no. Sorry. thinking about somebody else. >> I wish I look like you could be. Sign me. >> Uh, let's see. Morina, did I say your

Essiename right? >> Morena. >> Morena. [laughter] >> Come on, French boy. >> Brian can't use his tongue like that. >> Wow. >> Oh, jeez. >> What? He doesn't eat [ __ ] He said it like 7,000 times. >> Oh, no.

Grace (Zoology)>> But be true. >> What if it was a massive labia? [laughter]

Brian AtlasIs she I feel there's other cons [laughter] so there's other considerations there. >> Okay. It was I don't >> but okay like she's clean right [laughter] >> obviously >> and she's loy and she's not like cheating or some [ __ ] >> Yeah. >> In the hypothetical.

Essie>> Yeah. >> I want to add she's a billionaire. >> Is she the perfect? Yeah. She a billionaire. Okay. If she's a billionaire and she's like clean or whatever. >> I do that trade. >> I take the trade.

Essie>> Wait. [laughter] This is progress. Look, I I take the trade. >> I love that. >> I will take the trade if she's a billionaire. >> I'll eat [ __ ] >> What about if she's a millionaire?

Brian Atlas>> I don't know. >> Oh, not enough. >> Millionaire doesn't economy. >> Okay. What were you saying before? [laughter] >> Oh, yeah. Um, uh, yeah. What was I saying? >> Don't know. >> Oh, if it's the most giant, [laughter] if it's like the

Brian Atlas>> No, no. In order for me to meet and date the woman with the most giant labia in the world, >> I'd think about it. [laughter] >> I might I might have to do oral, I

Brian Atlasguess. Um, wait, what was the thing? Oh, Marina. [laughter] She was doing like the the tongue thing. >> Yeah. Um, >> do you want me to like try to Wait, hold on.

Brian Atlas>> Yeah, try it. Like, can I I don't know if it's like racially insensitive, but >> because we're rolling the tongue in multiple different languages. >> Oh, no. I was just going to be like a vat. >> Oh my gosh. You did it [laughter] earlier.

Natalie/Morena>> You did it earlier. >> Did stop before.

SPEAKER_07>> Hey, why you talking [ __ ] about my girl? Why you talking [ __ ] >> She Hey Selena, every time she every time you get up, she's been talking [ __ ] >> Don't include me in your like weird. >> Okay. [laughter] All right. She's not

Brian AtlasSelena. Selena is notused. >> Anything for Selena. >> Selena is not amused. Um, okay. Uh, let's see in your notes here. I think we >> Yeah, you >> uh I think we already talked about it. Um, okay. Blue J. Uh

Brian Atlas>> oh, that's me. Hi. >> That's you. Uh, let's see. What about the ice cream thing? >> Ice ice cream. >> Oh, something about the the zipper.

Brian Atlas>> Oh, my husband. >> Oh, my [laughter] freak husband. No. So, so you're So, Oh, you don't want to tell the story? >> I can tell the story. It's fine. He wanted me to tell >> How about I give a quick recap and you tell me if it it's good enough. [laughter]

Selena>> It's okay. So, she's >> her tell it. It's her story. Don't speak for a woman. >> It was my first date with my husband. >> I feel like, you know, just I I want >> Wait, I'm just curious. I just want >> I want to move things quick. >> No, I just like want to hear it from the original experience. >> I can tell it really quick.

Samra>> Okay, tell it really quick. Go ahead. >> Yeah. So, we had our first date um when my family was away and I invited him over and we watched a couple of movies together and then when he went upstairs to meet my guinea pigs cuz that's what he commented on on my um my dating

Samraprofile. He went to the bathroom and his zipper broke and he had like prided himself on telling me that he wouldn't try to like do anything on the first date and then he came out and he's like, "I'm I'm so sorry." He's like, "My

Samrazipper broke and I'm not trying anything." So, it ended up with me trying to fix his zipper on my bed while he sat there in his boxers. And it's [laughter] the funniest first story because he texted um my brother

Selineand my sister-in-law and he was like, "Um, [clears throat] my zipper broke and I'm in my boxers on a bed. I don't know what to do." >> Damn. >> You know what? I think I think he was trying something. >> He really did it. >> You're married now. [laughter] So, he

Brian Atlaswas trying something. >> And uh let's see here. Uh okay. You have like a weird stalker guy. We We're not going to get into that, but a guy you met like before your husband.

Brian AtlasSuper weird. Um let's see. Oh, why do you guys always stereotype women with blue hair and piercings? >> Yeah. Why do you guys always >> I think I normally I go to like green hair or whatever. Well, I think it's like it fates [laughter] to green.

Brian Atlas>> It quacks like a duck. It walks like a duck. It acts like a duck. I don't know. There I think there is like I would I would say that probably like liberal

Brian Atlasleftist women are more likely to color like color their hair than like more conservative women. >> I was liberal before I met my husband. Could you but could you be like a

Brian Atlasconservative women and be like have a you know a more like alt aesthetic or whatever? Absolutely. Um I don't think it's like if you have blue hair you're 100%. I just think it's more common

Brian Atlasamong like people who are more liberal leftist. I actually by the way I don't know I'm like when I'm a bit of a what's the term that you y'all use? Am I ank?

Essie>> You're a chopped enk [clears throat] is what the kids say. chopped on. How old are you? I'm not saying you're chopped. I'm saying kids say chopped unc. >> I don't know. Like back in my day, like

Brian Atlasif I saw a girl with like uh like red hair, purple hair, blue hair, whatever, I didn't think like anything about politics. I was just like, "Oh, she's just alt. >> Like I just thought she was like emo or something." >> There's like the septum ring theory now.

Brian Atlas>> Oh, that's a thing. Yeah. Yeah. I actually kind of aesthetically like I feel like the colored hair has kind of been tainted by like the political uh

Brian Atlas>> ideology >> like the that like but I actually think aesthetically I kind of like like the colored hair >> like I think it kind of looks cool but

Brian Atlasit's almost like 95% of the time like she's probably going to disagree with me on everything. So um let's see here. Um, you said also that women have such high expectations for being the bomb bottom of the barrel.

Samra>> Yes. >> Damn. >> Women expect the world but won't give the world to their man. Do you want to elaborate? >> Not like hugely. I mean, it's quite true with most of the women that you have on

Samrahere. They want they expect so so much of men, but then as soon as it's like tables are turned >> Mhm. They they don't they don't want to abide by anything.

Brian Atlas>> You say that like women expect a bunch from men. It's super crazy. >> Like six figures, handsome, tall, etc., etc. >> Um, okay. I

Samra>> What do you provide for your man? >> Well, I mean, I I was working, but then I had my son, so we're planning on me staying home now. And I actually agree with all of like the traditional values. I love doing all of that stuff. You cook and clean and all of that.

Brian Atlas>> I love doing it >> except for when my child is screaming. >> Do do we have the is do we have the like age? >> Okay, guys. We We have a fun segment now. Uh [laughter] we've put all of you through AI. We've put all of you through

Brian AtlasAI. >> No, just kidding. >> Oh, well, really quick, I have to ask super quick question. If you can give me quick answers, uh do you think you'll be better looking uh as you age? And I'm

Brian Atlasgoing to use 10ear marker. So, you're 21. Will you be better looking at 31? >> Yes. >> And then let's go 20. 41. >> Yes.

Selena>> As compared to now at 21, >> perhaps. But I I feel like as you age, you do get look better both men and women. Like you age into

Brian Atlasyourself. >> Okay. Um 51. >> No. >> Okay. Uh better looking in 10 years time. >> Yes. >> You know what? She is kind of like the She She has Asian and black.

Brian Atlas[clears throat] >> The two best black don't crack. >> Yeah, that's I'm honestly gonna Yeah, agree. >> I feel like that's a good combo. >> There is a limit though. >> That's a good combo. Aging, you know? I feel like it's a good combo. Um,

Essieunfortunately for us white people, >> why'd you look directly at me first? I'm [laughter] so scared. >> I feel like we we don't have a lot of luck in the You know what I mean? >> I Okay. Anyways, [laughter]

Brian Atlasum be uh you're 19, better looking in 10 years time, you think? >> Yeah, I think so. >> Uh 20 years time, 39, >> probably not. >> Okay. Uh 27, better looking at 37? >> I think I like 50 too.

Brian Atlas>> Oh my, this girl 50. That's your peak. [snorts] Okay. Uh and then are you better looking now at 27 than you were at 18, 19? >> I look the same. >> Same. Okay. Uh Essie, you're 26, right?

Brian AtlasMhm. >> Uh better looking in 10 years time, 36. >> Naturally aging, probably not. >> Yeah, just natural aging. >> Um and then are do you think you're better looking now or better looking like 189? >> I think I'm better looking now. I've had a lot of cosmetic

Brian Atlas>> stuff. >> Uh didn't you I think you posted something on your Instagram. I saw the transformation. It's it was a transformation. >> Which one? I posted one that was fake.

Brian AtlasThat was a joke. And then I posted a real one. Uh 31, better looking at 41? >> No, I will not look this good at 41. >> Okay. And then were you better looking at 21 >> versus now?

Brian Atlas>> Marginally, probably. Yeah. >> Uh 22 better looking in 10 years time. 32. >> Yeah. >> 42. >> No. >> Okay. 24. Uh 34. >> No. >> Okay. We have put all of you through AI and we've aged all of you. So this is

Selenawhat the future holds. I put myself through it, too. So >> All right. Uh ready to go. >> Me wrong. [laughter] ours. Boom. Wow. >> That is not accurate. >> Oh, wait. Go back.

Selena>> Wait. >> Like, sorry. >> I First of all, I'm not white. I'm not going to age later. >> The first picture is really cute, though. >> The last one's crazy. >> My skin didn't really get any darker or

Selinelighter. Got more red. White. That's how white people age. >> That's more like The last one's more like 8090. >> Thank you. Yeah. >> Yeah. Yeah. >> Wow. [laughter] >> Yeah. Uh, next. >> Wow, >> what a start.

Erica (Married)>> Ready? [laughter] >> I don't think mine's going to be accurate. I >> Oh, >> okay. >> You know what? Not bad. >> You look kind of good. >> That's not bad. >> In the middle there, you look like you could be like some famous actress. >> Like a cigarette mom in the last one. >> You know [laughter] what? I look like my

Erica (Married)mother. I'm okay with that. >> I like how you have the split dye, though. >> That is kind of cute. Yeah. >> All right. Uh, next. >> Beautiful. >> Beautiful. Are you kidding? giving

Erica (Married)mother soft features like even in the AI aging photos like you still have the soft cheeks and soft eyes and I love that for you really bad

Essie>> that's [laughter] you would make cookies or something like that looks sweet you >> okay not bad not bad >> not bad at like 100 too >> yeah that's pretty good I think it's a good photo of you too

SPEAKER_02>> I don't want to see mine when you skip over mine >> next >> all Right. >> Wait, Batty. Also, >> and you know what? [laughter] >> You guys are on my blacklist. >> Oh [ __ ]

Erica (Married)>> I didn't do this. >> Can you make this your uh profile picture on Instagram? >> Oh my goodness. I look like my [laughter] >> Wait, the first one's also >> She looks like she feels like she looks like somebody really familiar in the recogn.

SPEAKER_08>> Oh god. >> Oh man. >> All right. >> Please. >> There you go. Mhm. [laughter] >> You look like a rocker chick. It's good. >> All right. Next. >> Oh god. Oh man. [laughter]

Erica (Married)>> All right. There you go. This is, you know, >> what was that about? >> Next. >> Oh. Oh, man. All right. [laughter] >> Not bad, though. >> I like slowly look more and more like a man.

Brian Atlas>> All right. >> Conspiracy. I may not be smoking hot when I get older, but I look like I'm smoking pot. >> Oh, wow. They >> wait. Beautiful. >> Wait, why is she mugging? >> I really love it.

Essie>> Oh, Felicity's gone. Yeah. Um, >> Felicity's nose is ageless. [laughter] >> Oh, wow. >> Have mercy. Oh my god. >> Red [ __ ] Santa Claus over here. >> Oh, man. >> Why did it make you balding in the last

SPEAKER_08ones? >> Well, it's accurate. It's accurate. >> You know, I probably have a year or two left in >> What was that? >> Santa Claus and St. Nick. >> Yeah. Oh, [laughter]

Brian Atlas>> I get it. Say Nick. >> Nick. >> Yeah, >> like that. Nick. [laughter] >> Oh, yeah. We'll do it for Nick sometime. Um, and then we've gender swapped all of you. >> I I like this. I [laughter] like this.

SelineI'm excited to see all of I love this. I'm a little androgynous. >> Uh, the question is, would you date >> the male version of you? >> I'd be so much uglier as a guy.

Grace (Zoology)[laughter] >> Hey, wait until you see it. Maybe it's a >> It might work in your favor. >> You might be a handsome man. >> I know. I've done the I've done the Snapchat. >> What if your male version like mugs not happening?

Erica (Married)>> A [laughter] >> Oh, wait. You got a >> Selena. Selena the yapper. >> Do you would you date him?

SPEAKER_02>> Like trying to find a reason to say no. >> That's like an eight out of 10 man at least. >> And he's a feminist. I like how facial [laughter] hair and I post money on Instagram is what it's giving. >> I kind of [ __ ] with it. [laughter]

Brian Atlas>> All right. >> Like >> I like the beard one. >> It's kind of bad. >> Okay. Uh let's go next. >> Oh.

Brian Atlas>> Oh, I [ __ ] with him [laughter] >> over the last guy. >> Uh so >> he's kind of cute. >> I don't think this is accurate. [laughter] >> Would you Would you date him? No,

Erica (Married)>> I think the hair was kind of a failing. >> Yeah. Yeah. Something's wrong. >> Why did they give you dandruff as a man? You have such pretty hair. >> You have a brother? [laughter] >> I I have many brothers, actually. >> Oh, wow. >> Oh, your dad was busy.

Seline>> Oh, >> well, [laughter] both of them were busy, actually. >> Both of your mom. >> Two marriages. Two marriages. I'm the only kid that they had together. Okay. >> Oh, okay. I see. I see. >> So, a lot of half siblings. >> Uh, next.

Grace (Zoology)>> OH. OH GOD. I TOLD YOU. >> I told you. >> I don't know. >> I You could compete with some male celebrities for hottest man of the year. >> He probably is, but it's okay. [laughter] >> Just That's like every single man you

Grace (Zoology)see to be right there. >> That's Chad. >> They were for real. >> That's [laughter] Chad. >> Yeah, his name is definitely. >> What if he's a nice What if he's a nice guy though? >> I don't know if >> if he's a nice guy. >> Sure. If he's a nice guy. Yeah. No, [laughter] he's cute. Sure. >> Next.

Erica (Married)>> Sure. >> Dang. >> Wait, they did you dirty with that one? They did do you dirty. >> I don't feel like that one's bad at all. >> It's not. His hair is decent. >> Yeah, he's still got He's still got a nice jawline. Good cheekbones.

Brian Atlas>> He's symmetrical. >> Okay. She's [laughter] She's digging it. She's digging it. >> No. Is that a No. >> Would you date him? >> I don't date me. [laughter] >> All right. Cloner. Cloner. And she can

Brian Atlasdate herself. >> Cloner. >> Next. Ooh, >> you look like a a guy who does cocaine in the bathroom. >> Oh my goodness. If I was a guy that I

Essiewould be that guy. >> Hell yeah. Get it. [laughter] >> Man, I would be chat. Do you see what I I'm seeing here? >> You know what? I would totally hit. >> You make you make a really hot couple. Just saying with yourself. [laughter]

Essie>> Siblings are dating. >> Yeah. No, I would. >> That's my read. >> Very handsome man. Very beautiful woman. Thank you. [laughter] He definitely had a head transplant and I totally would as a man.

SPEAKER_08>> I think they tried to make him a silver fox a little bit too. [laughter] >> Next. >> Oh god. >> Wait. [laughter] Do it again. >> I'm scared.

Erica (Married)>> Oh wow. >> No real estate. You know what? >> Why do you have a purple mustache? >> It could be worse. >> You like him? >> It could be worse. >> He definitely does real estate. >> I just love those. He's so cute. He's just a little He's a little chubby. Look

Erica (Married)at those teeth. The beard's Oh my goodness. >> Yeah. With the beard. That's really hot. >> He [laughter] looks older than >> uh >> I mean that's my type. [laughter]

Seline>> Oh. >> Would you date the male version of you? >> Oh my god. >> It looks like [laughter] It looks like my brother. [gasps] >> No. >> Hey girl. >> Well, [laughter] at least we know it's accurate.

Brian Atlas>> It's my half brothers. Only half. >> Uh yes. Well, I guess you're married, so I don't know. Um, next. [laughter] [snorts] >> Not bad. I looked better last time. >> Honestly,

Brian Atlas>> they did you right. [laughter] >> Wait, you look >> I would still date myself though if I was single. >> Who's that guy who's on trial for murder? >> NO,

Brian Atlas>> WITH THE like joke or the the smile tattoo. Do you know who I'm talking about? >> I don't know his name, but yes. >> Kind of. Eh, whatever. I >> like I get what you It's the hair. >> Something like that. Yeah. Um, next.

Brian Atlas>> Well, thank god I'm not a man cuz then I'd be a criminal, I guess. [laughter] >> Next. >> Actually, this is maybe one of the better ones I've seen them do at Felicity. They change it every week. >> Yeah.

Brian Atlas>> This is for sure one of We got Canary, can you send this to Felicity? Um, >> she's going to love that. >> Uh, here. Take a quick Oh, >> hey, you're so inaccurate.

Selena>> What the [laughter] [ __ ] What the [ __ ] >> They like literally gave you face tune >> and like a facelift. They just colored his lips.

Brian Atlas>> Hold on. All of them get like uh not photoshotss but like the AI cleans up for everybody. >> Nah, something other because I look even better in the other like [laughter] this isn't even

Selenathe same face shape. >> You should have long hair. >> How did I Where did all the fat in your face go? >> That's beard. [laughter] It's covering. >> First off, Selena, they ma So when they

Brian Atlas[clears throat] go from female to male, they masculineize the face. And when you go from male to female, they feminize the face. >> I guess it makes sense making a woman. I don't know about all that. [laughter]

Brian Atlas>> But you do look beautiful in that. >> The AIU is uglier. [snorts] >> Oh, well, thank you. I appreciate that. Wait, do you have the other one, Nick? Like the old one that we use? Just if you scroll up in the uh research, it's

Brian Atlasthere. It's there. >> I think the AI me. >> I think they did. Oh, my bad. They did me dirty. Like I There's a better one. [laughter] >> Set you up. Need to see that. [gasps]

SPEAKER_08>> This is not This is the one I think. >> Oh my god. >> Better. I think I would date that version of you. >> Why you all kind of look >> Brianna is really hot. [laughter]

Brian Atlas>> This is not >> If I was a chick. Oh my god. [laughter] >> You'd get it if you were a chick. >> Would you want to be a girl if you >> I would finess No, I'm just kidding. I wouldn't finesse. I'm just kidding. But [laughter]

Brian Atlas>> I could if I wanted to, though. Okay. >> Would you want to be a girl if you could? >> Uh would I? That's an interesting question. Would I want to be a girl? You

Brian Atlasknow, it's like what is the experience of being like the opposite sex? Um, [snorts] I think uh

Brian AtlasI think all the Sorry, I'm like kind of just thinking this through before I give a response, [laughter] a rushed response. Uh, I I would say that uh

Brian Atlasnot that there's anything wrong with being a woman, but I'm happy being a man. >> Like you I'm sure you feel like I'd fine

Brian Atlaslike you're want to be a woman, right? Yeah, I like being woman. >> Okay. Yeah. >> Okay. [snorts] >> Yeah. >> Cool. >> Would you do the helicopter though if you were a dude? [laughter] >> Yeah.

Brian Atlas>> It's like the first thing women do, >> right? >> Helicopter the the dick. >> Chill out, [laughter] Selena. Bro, what the heck? >> Good night, Pasty George. >> Okay. Uh, Pasty George, thank you for this. You're leaving, Pasty George. What

Brian Atlasthe [ __ ] >> Pasty, we're about to do the roast session. How [ __ ] >> Rose. >> Pasty, we need you for Yeah, we're going to do a roast. We have it started. You come back. >> Uh let's see here. Finishing up. There's a few more notes from some of you. I'm

Brian Atlasgoing to blast through them. Then we're going to do a roast session. Uh Essie, uh it got you've been on the show. It was over two years ago. I think you were on twice, I believe. Once with Candace

Brian AtlasOwens. Um has anything changed related to dating besides the fact that you're dating somebody now? I guess. >> Um no. Well, I don't think anything has

Essienecessarily I think for me I've been able like with my relationship now. Um I've been more of an active listener for like his needs and his wants cuz before I was working on myself a lot and so

Essievery self-centered. So now this is my first relationship where I've opened up to like what the man needs and wants. >> Oh man. >> And not being like I don't care about your needs or what you want. >> I love that for you and I love that for

Erica (Married)your relationship. I mean, it takes a lot from you to be able to be like, "Oh, wow. I'm like, I can be better." Like, you definitely have to put my ego to the side sometimes and be like, "Okay, I'm actively listening and hearing you out." >> Right. It does suck sometimes.

Brian Atlas[laughter] >> Uh, Essie, in previous notes you sent, you write, and I think this is going to draw the eye of some of the women here. You, and maybe you've changed on this,

Grace (Zoology)you pay for first dates. >> Any of the women have thoughts on that. >> That's awesome. I think it's cool. >> Play queen. >> Choice feminist. >> Thank you. >> I like that you're like kind of like taking some of the power. I think Yeah.

Erica (Married)Right. I kind of feel like that's kind of what you're doing, too, is you're like, "No, I'm paying for the first day. I wear the pants." Like, I'm the bread winner. [laughter] >> It's a fun flip. >> It's a power move. >> She does the power move.

Brian Atlas>> And then afterwards, she goes home and pegs the guys. >> Whoa. [laughter] >> That's the super That's the superpower move. What? Marina [laughter] every time.

Brian Atlas>> Hey, what do you think about that? >> Good for you. Thank you, Queen. >> But like, do you think that that's kind of like an L for the girl to pay for that? >> Whatever she want to do. >> Love that. Thank you. All right, let's

Brian Atlassee who else we have here really quick. Uh, give me one sec here. Oh my goodness, Selena. There's so many notes of yours. We're probably not going to get through everything, but we'll hit some of your

Brian Atlasnotes. And uh if you're down for the round two, we'll run it back. We'll do round two. Oh my goodness. [laughter] >> Come on, Selena. You enjoyed this a little bit. I >> Okay, maybe not.

Brian Atlas>> Okay. >> All right. Uh Okay. We did Essie, we did we did Blue J. We did Morena. We did you.

Brian AtlasOh, Erica. Uh you're you already talked about your age gap, though. Uh >> yeah, we talked about that earlier. Anybody here like have an issue with age gap relationships or

Essie>> I think for me I have an issue when the woman is under the age of like 23. >> Um I just feel like

Erica (Married)women what is it like our frontal lobe develops at 25. >> So your concern is like women being taken advantage of and there being some sort of inequality there. I don't think it's necessarily like

EssieI don't think the intention on either end is to take advantage. I just think it just happens to be the case when a woman is like very young and naive. >> Yeah. >> Um that she just doesn't know any better with certain situations. So I don't think like the man's intent is always to

Erica (Married)be like, "Oh, I'm going to date a younger girl." Right. I do also feel like the argument that everybody kind of matures at a different age is also valid because I feel like a lot of people were really forced to grow up really early and then that does give them a sense of

Erica (Married)you know uh adulthood early on but that can also give like some misinterpretations of responsibility. >> Absolutely. [laughter] >> Oh we do have Okay. So we have Lauren then we have your notes and then uh

Brian Atlasthat's it [clears throat] for the notes. Um, Lauren, you're a, [snorts] you mentioned this at the beginning, you're a Buddhist, a devout Buddhist of 13 years. >> Yes, sir. I ordained as a nun at a temple in San Antonio back in 2018.

Lauren (Buddhist)>> The Buddhist nun, that's a thing. >> That is a thing. That's a female version. >> So, are you like celibate or is that different for Buddhism? >> Uh, you're celibate as long as you're in robe and ordained. You take on like the

Lauren (Buddhist)eight precepts as a woman. So that's no lying, no killing, no stealing, no sexual misconduct, no intoxication of the mind, no beautifification, no sleeping on higher luxurious sleeping

Erica (Married)places, no entertainment. So you do all that and then you focus on your spiritual growth. >> So how would you like initially get into that? I I find Buddhism really really um really compelling and really

Lauren (Buddhist)interesting. I had a friend introduce me back in 2012 and it really resonated with me because it really focuses on the premise of eradicating suffering, human suffering and so

Lauren (Buddhist)>> uh went through a lot of that early on and then uh that really gave me a path to liberation from that. >> Yeah, I love I love Buddhism. I like this idea of like spirituality being in yourself and you being able to like grow

Lauren (Buddhist)that. And the great thing is you can be a Buddhist and a Christian if you so desire because there's nothing in Buddhism that really contradicts >> Christian belief. >> There might be something in Christianity that contradicts your ability to be a

Brian AtlasBuddhist potentially but not vice versa. I'm not an expert on that. But uh were you arrested for at January 6th? >> I got uh investigated by the FBI but thankfully I didn't get arrested.

Brian Atlas[snorts] >> Okay. But you were at Jan 6. I was I got some pretty cool footage from some good times. Um we're going to blast through Selena's gone, but I'm blast through a couple things in the questionnaire. Uh

Selinesome of you put like squiggly lines. Does that mean maybe? >> Yeah, that was a >> a little more of like a not really yes or no question, but if I didn't circle it, then it's probably leaning towards

Brian Atlasno. >> Okay. So, one of them for you, you women are just as physically strong as men. So, you're iffy on that one or >> I think that if we're talking on

Selineaverage, no, >> but I there are plenty of women that are just as strong as men. Like the average man, >> maybe not. >> So, that would be an exception to

Seline>> maybe not like a bodybuilder, but like the average man, I think there are women that can compete with the average man. >> Um, physically. >> Yeah. So there there definitely are

Brian Atlaswomen who are stronger than some men, >> but yeah, if we're talking on average, then no. >> On average, no. The strongest people are

Brian Atlasare men. Not well, not just usually. >> Um, and then also Lauren, you also circled this. So you agree women are just as physically strong as men or was

Brian Atlasthat like a miss circle? >> Oh, yeah. That must have been an accident. >> Okay. All right. Then nothing. similar thought process to me.

Brian Atlas>> All right. Uh here, let's go to since uh let's see. Uh okay, Grace. Um we're not going to go through all of

Brian Atlasthis, but there are a few things here we can touch on briefly. Um [clears throat] Oh, wait. Okay. So, women do have equal rights to men in the USA, but they're still like sexism or whatever.

Brian Atlas>> Yeah. >> Okay. And you say, uh, but sexism is still so prevalent and we live in a very male-centered patriarchal world. >> Okay.

Brian Atlas>> Yes. >> All right. Um, let's see here. So, you say uh you do agree though women are oppressed in the USA >> because of sexism and >> Yeah.

Grace (Zoology)>> the patriarchy. Yes. >> What just what is the patriarchy? Like what's your sense of the patriarchy? um [sighs] just like a male

Grace (Zoology)like just a male-centered way of thinking and >> just prioritizing men. prioritizing men. What are the ways in which men are

Grace (Zoology)prioritized >> just in everything? I feel like in specifically I for a second I wanted to do um like women's healthcare because

Grace (Zoology)in healthcare there's a lot of studies that are just only um taking in like men into >> Oh my god, it's getting so late. My brain is like not working. But there's

Grace (Zoology)like a really large gender gap in um >> science and health for men and like things like Advil like are tested on like male cells and not female cells and male bodies and female bodies are very

Grace (Zoology)different and that's kind of you can >> kind of link like the reason that like a lot more women have like I mean I'm not like saying exactly it's because of this

Grace (Zoology)but like women deal with like >> a lot of headaches and like a lot of like body issues and like the menstrual cycle is like very taxing and like the entire world is kind of organized based

Grace (Zoology)on like the male hormone cycle which is like you have your high like highest level of testosterone in the morning and then it drops onto the night. So like a 9 toive shift would kind of like prioritize men in the way that it you

Grace (Zoology)get up early and then you have energy and then it drops towards the end of the day and then you're off work. But like whereas for women it's like it fluctuates by monthly. So, like when you're ovulating, you have the most testosterone and you have the most

Grace (Zoology)energy and like can do the most and are most active. But like the days before you get your period, you have less energy. And it's not like the um typical work cycle is based on women's hormones,

Brian Atlasit's based on men's. >> So, should we restructure society to have work only be done or when women are ovulating? >> No.

Brian Atlas>> Okay. Um, and I guess my question is, um, you you mentioned like medicines, they're more frequently tested on men, less frequently, >> only test on men a lot of the times.

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