3x RAGE QUIT! She Did 100 Men In 1 DAY?! 1,000 NEXT?! Lily Phillips! Eva Lovia! | Dating Talk #227

Date: 2025-02-12
Duration: 7h 37m

Identified Speakers

SPEAKER_00TTS/Donations(audience)
SPEAKER_01Brian Atlas(host)
SPEAKER_03Carly(guest)
SPEAKER_04Danielle(guest)
SPEAKER_05Aya(guest)
SPEAKER_06Candace Horbach (Eva Lovia)(guest)
SPEAKER_07Patrice O'Neal (clip)(audience)
SPEAKER_08TTS/Donations(audience)
SPEAKER_09Andrew Wilson(guest)
SPEAKER_11Katrina(guest)
SPEAKER_12Becca Slider(guest)
SPEAKER_13Lily Phillips(guest)
SPEAKER_14Upgrade(guest)

Key Moments

00:04:49
IntroAya introduces herself: 32yo, from Idaho (homeschooled, Calvinist), lives in SF. Researcher who also does escorting. Was top OnlyFans creator. Charges $4K/hr for escorting.

all right I am Aya uh I'm 32 years old M uh my location is here but I originally came from Idaho and now I live in SF

00:05:20
QuoteAya describes her escorting work: charges $4K/hr, met a client at her hotel the night before the show.

I Char 4K for the first hour and then a th each additional hour okay how many did he just do the one or was he like a baller

00:06:50
IntroCandace Horbach (Eva Lovia) introduces herself: 35yo, adult industry 2001-2017, now podcaster, based in NC/Austin. Graduated from Coastal Carolina University. Stage name Eva Lovia.

my name is Candace horbach I'm 35 I was in the adult industry from about 2001 to 2017 um I left I started a podcast

00:09:15
IntroLily Phillips introduces herself: 23yo from Darbyshire, England. Adult star. Discusses her 101-man-in-a-day challenge (October 2024) and plans to do 1000+ to break the world record (currently 1057 by Bonnie Blue).

I'm Lily Phillips I am 23 I'm from darbishire in England I live in London um adult star

00:09:57
QuoteLily Phillips announces her goal to break the world record for most men in a day (the current record is ~1057 by Bonnie Blue). Plans a "conveyor belt" setup.

yeah H yeah so you're going to do a thousand in a in a day yes I was watching Australian check already do that

00:14:29
QuoteLily describes upcoming skydiving sex scene project.

at the end of this month I'm doing a Skydive where I suck a guys Park skydiving sex scene yeah somebody's done that I haven't seen anyone do it

00:15:03
IntroBecca Slider introduces herself: 43yo confidence coach, speaker, podcaster, top 1% OnlyFans. Was ordained pastor for 10 years. Deconstructed faith ~5-6 years ago.

I'm Becca slider I'm a confidence coach and a speaker and I host a podcast and then I'm also a 1% Creator on only fans

00:17:44
IntroCarly introduces herself: 21yo, originally from Santa Barbara, lives in LA, studies marketing, part-time fashion model.

hi yeah I'm Carly I'm 21 and I'm originally from Santa Barbara actually but I live in LA right now um and I go to college and I also model part-time

00:18:07
IntroKatrina introduces herself: 35yo bartender from Ottawa, Ontario, high school education.

my name's Katrina from Ottawa Ontario Canada I'm a bartender since I was 17 I have a high school education

00:18:29
IntroDanielle introduces herself: 30yo from Elmont, Ontario. Studied addiction and justice studies. Worked for the Government of Canada.

hi my name is Danielle I am 30 I am from Elmont Ontario uh very small town uh I went to school for addiction um along with Justice studies and police foundations

00:19:14
IntroUpgrade (returning guest) introduces herself: 22yo singer-songwriter, here for her third song. Sings Etta James "At Last" a cappella.

hello I'm upgrade this is my second time on the whatever podcast I'm 22 and and I am a singer songwriter

00:20:46
IntroAndrew Wilson introduces himself: host of The Crucible, political analyst/satirist, engages in debates worldwide. Declines to sing.

I'm not going to sing a song no sh no my name is now you have now I'm the host of The Crucible to popular entertainment Channel on YouTube I'm a political analyst

00:24:01
QuoteAya reveals she showers only ~37 times per year (record low 14-17 in 2019) and her 2022 stats spreadsheet tracking all activities.

showered 37 what uh lowest amount of times you've ever showered in a year uh I think it was like 14 17 I think 17

00:43:22
QuoteBecca admits to pity sex with her husband while pregnant with third child — "wildly insatiable" during pregnancy.

yeah yeah when I was pregnant shit you know uh yeah I mean pity but it because when I that sounds really bad when I was pregnant with my third I wanted sex every day it was it was insane

03:56:27
ControversyAndrew Wilson debates Katrina vigorously about her role "running" a prostitute friend, arguing that acting as a pimp is "unadulterated evil" and parasitical. Katrina defends her intentions as trying to help.

pimp is so parasitical a literal parasite on society almost as bad as a prostitute herself

04:18:38
QuoteCandace formally apologizes to Brian for making a video misrepresenting him without doing due diligence, then bows to him (rated B-minus by Brian).

I'm so sorry that I didn't do my due diligence and I just took the gossip train and then made a video that got a lot of views and misrepresented you and your show

04:19:43
QuoteBrian shows "bow video" of ex-girlfriend bowing 45 degrees and doing his laundry, cooking dinner after he came home at 1am from a podcast.

this is a video I took of my ex-girlfriend I came home it was late 1:00 a.m. after a podcast boom huge do you see the bow deep bow that was a 45 degree angle

05:06:51
ControversyAndrew challenges Lily on the "unconditional parental love" debate — argues that cutting off contact for a child doing porn is not abandonment but maintaining behavioral standards. Goes in circles extensively.

how about this what if I mean wait that makes wait wait a second that makes no sense so if it is the case they don't want you to do only fans

05:31:15
QuoteKatrina's notable quote about body count: "if you give sex away for free you might as well get paid for it, ain't nothing worse than a broke ass hoe."

if you give sex away for free you might as well get paid for it ain't nothing worse than a broke ass hoe in my opinion

05:55:46
QuoteLily Phillips says her body count is between 500-1000 when asked.

range what was it last time can't remember what I said last time cuz last time I I still didn't count last time um I'm going to go right now probably between 500 to 1,000

05:56:18
QuoteAya reveals precise body count breakdown: ~109 unpaid, ~450 paid clients, total ~550.

uh probably low 500s and 109 free wait 109 free like unpaid unpaid okay how many do you think paid or uh well I have a CRM

06:21:52
ControversyAndrew challenges Aya and Candace on scientific methodology (controls, sample size) during body count/study discussion. Goes on for over 20 minutes before Brian cuts it.

studies are all shit you haven't read my studies dude listen yes I have dove into your studies which is how I knew that teenagers were over sampled

07:09:26
ControversyAndrew tells Candace to use a "sing-song voice" if she wants him to treat her with respect, sarcastically mocking her complaint about his tone being disrespectful. This pushes Candace to her limit.

from now on when you talk to me I need you to use a sing song voice The singest sest Voice you can possibly think of because otherwise I feel disrespected

07:12:03
OtherRAGE QUIT #1: Candace Horbach rage quits. Brian confirms "she rage quit." Andrew had pushed her too far with tone/condescension complaints. She said she was going to check on her husband, then left.

I'm going to go check on her I'll be right back I okay that's fine uh all right she Rage Quit

07:13:11
OtherRAGE QUIT #3: Becca Slider and others (Aya, possibly others) also leave at same time as Candace. Brian attempts to get Becca back, saying "is Becca coming back?"

we we got we're wrapping up I'll you Candace we're Candace Candace I think we're done it's so pass for anyway

07:14:19
OtherRAGE QUIT #2: Andrew Wilson voluntarily departs, citing 3am and the show being almost done. Acknowledges his presence was offensive, says his job is to challenge worldviews.

I'll I can see that my presence has been very offensive it's 3 o'clock in the morning anyway that's my dip time yeah it was very very nice to meet all of you

07:31:30
QuotePatrice O'Neal clip played: "If you didn't have a vagina, how would you keep your man?" Guests answer with mouth, hands, other holes, cooking. Brian plays the reveal where Patrice says "you just classified yourself as a series of holes."

ladies if you didn't have a vagina like say it was a terrible train accident right and the doctor was like we have to remove your pussy right away or you're going to die how how would you keep your man

Topics Discussed

00:04:49
Guest Introductions & Background

All 9 guests introduce themselves: name, age, location, occupation, education. Includes Aya (researcher/escort from Idaho), Candace Horbach/Eva Lovia (adult film actress/podcaster), Lily Phillips (viral 101-man adult star), Becca Slider (ex-pastor/confidence coach), Carly (model/student), Katrina (bartender, Ottawa), Danielle (Ontario, addiction studies), Upgrade (singer-songwriter), Andrew Wilson (political analyst remote).

00:22:44
Relationship Status Round

Each guest shares their relationship status, longest relationship, and context. Highlights: Aya (polyamorous 4yr open relationship), Candace (married 15 years, open during her career), Lily (single 3-4 years), Becca (divorced after 21 years, ethically non-monogamous), Carly (5mo single after 5yr relationship ended by cheating), Katrina (8mo relationship), Danielle (2yr relationship), Upgrade (2yr relationship with 41yo man).

00:46:06
Aya Pre-Show Notes: Homeschooling, Sex Work, Data & Polyamory

Brian goes through Aya's pre-show notes: evangelical Calvinist upbringing in Idaho, homeschooled, escaped factory work via adult content. Aya discusses her annual stats spreadsheet, shower frequency (37/year), LSD addiction, Lex Fridman interview, and polyamorous relationship. Debate over subordination of women morphs into semantic debate with Andrew.

00:47:52
Should Men Lead in Relationships? / Subordination Debate

Brian asks whether men should lead/be the "head" in relationships and who should get final say in a marriage impasse. Andrew frames it as a "threshold breaker" question. Most guests say it is circumstantial; Candace and Upgrade favor traditional male leadership. Aya goes full semantic on meaning of "should." Andrew clashes with Aya over philosophical definitions.

01:36:00
Eva Lovia / Candace Pre-Show Notes & OnlyFans Fraud Discussion

Candace discusses her career as Eva Lovia, her disclaimer on OnlyFans (entertainment only, no AI/chatters, to protect against delusional fans). Brian raises concerns about fraud by OnlyFans creators who use chatters/AI while claiming personal interaction. Aya reveals she tried a chatter and income skyrocketed but it made her sad. Discussion of body count stats and body count survey data from Aya's research.

03:11:37
Bear vs. Man Debate

Brian asks the classic "bear or man in the woods" question. Most guests pick bear. Andrew and Brian argue the position is logically equivalent to a racist position if applied to a demographic group, making it sexist. Upgrade says picking bear is sexist but may come from personal experience.

03:20:27
Becca Slider: Ex-Pastor to OnlyFans, "Pussy-Based Confidence"

Becca explains her journey from 10-year ordained evangelical pastor to confidence coach and OnlyFans creator. She discusses "pussy-based confidence" (sexual creative life force), Christian deconstruction, the role of fear in Christianity's foundations, bisexuality since age 16, swinging then open marriage, and her coaching philosophy. Andrew challenges her framework as a form of dogma/programming.

03:43:28
Katrina: Running a Prostitute, Drug World, Show Notes

Brian reads Katrina's pre-show notes: she has two moms, "ran" a prostitute friend (did makeup/calls/driving) as an attempt to help. Andrew debates the ethics of pimping vigorously with Katrina. Katrina describes discovering her "gangster" boyfriend having sex with a male friend (traumatizing experience). She says ain't nothing worse than a broke hoe.

04:15:00
Candace Apology & Bow to Brian

After Brian reveals Candace had made a video misrepresenting him (based on unverified secondhand Special Forces claim), Andrew pushes her to apologize. She eventually does, apologizing for not doing due diligence. Brian then asks her to bow — she does (rated B-minus). Discussion of the "bow video" Brian made of his ex-girlfriend.

04:22:54
Self-Rating Round (1-10, no 7)

Brian asks each guest to rate their own appearance 1-10 (cannot pick 7). Aya: 4.6; Candace: declined/no number; Lily: 8; Becca: 8; Carly: 6; Katrina: 8 (with makeup)/4 (without); Danielle: 6; Upgrade: 6; Andrew: 4-5. Andrew lectures about women lying about their self-assessments in social groups vs. men who call each other out. Long debate with Aya over semantics of "judging."

04:55:46
Lily Phillips Parenting / Sex Work & Unconditional Love Debate

Brian asks Lily whether she would have done OnlyFans if her parents gave an ultimatum. Debate spirals into Andrew challenging whether parents cutting off contact for sex work is "abandoning" the child (Lily's view) vs. maintaining behavioral standards (Andrew's view). Most guests feel unconditional parental love means maintaining contact. Andrew says love can coexist with behavioral standards.

05:14:37
AI Age Progression & Gender Swap Photos

Brian shows AI-generated aged versions of all guests (10+ years older) and gender-swapped versions. Comedic segment; Lily's aged version prompts "crypt keeper" jokes. Guests react to their gender-swapped versions and whether they would date/sleep with the male version of themselves.

05:44:00
Body Count Round & Discussion

Brian asks each guest their body count. Lily: 500-1000; Aya: ~550 (109 unpaid, ~450 paid); Candace: 9 personal + ~12-20 work scenes; Carly: 23-28; Danielle: 8; Katrina: under 35 (excluded coerced encounters); Upgrade: single digit; Andrew: did not give number. Discussion of whether body count matters (Lily: makes you better in bed; Becca: patterns matter more; Candace: 9 personal; most say circumstantial). Aya's survey data shows median ~5, raising to 10 by age 40. Andrew and Candace debate sample size and scientific controls.

06:43:07
All Day Foreplay / Viral Clip Discussion (Candace)

Candace describes her viral Twitter clip about "all-day foreplay" — the idea that women's arousal has more on/off switches (stressors = brakes), and that men following through on commitments reduces stress and improves intimacy. Andrew challenges this, arguing data shows women are most attracted to men who DON'T do chores (traditional masculine non-domestic behavior), that what she's really describing is feminist relationship dynamics. Extended debate about whether follow-through is masculine or if asking men to do chores is attraction-killing.

07:12:03
Rage Quit #1 — Candace & Others Leave

Andrew's confrontational tone throughout the show reaches a breaking point. Candace's husband texts. After hours of debate, Candace says "I'm going to go check on her [wife]" and leaves. Aya stays to wait for roast. Brian says "she rage quit." Carly, Becca and others also start to leave. Brian pleads for them to stay.

07:14:19
Andrew Wilson Rage Quit / Departure

Andrew acknowledges his presence has been offensive and says "it's 3 o'clock in the morning anyway, that's my dip time." Insists he wasn't trying to insult anyone — his job is to challenge worldviews. Lily tells him they're not getting into this anymore. Andrew says goodnight and leaves.

07:15:41
Roast Session

Final roast session with remaining guests (Carly, Lily, Katrina, Danielle, Upgrade). $30 TTS messages come in roasting all guests. Highlights: "Lily Phillips father" donates for her chair; OJ Simpson character asks Carly about a skin tag; Thor says "make low body count great again." Brian offers Lily $20/hour to stop sex work. Patrice O'Neal clip played about "how would you keep your man if you had a train accident."

07:17:07
Makeup Removal Challenge

Brian brings out makeup wipes (Neutrogena brand, debated). Carly and others try to remove makeup on camera. Light segment after emotional episode.

Transcript

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06:41:36
Andrew Wilsondog fur because you're not asking about dog fur because you have an unchanging standard
06:41:45
Brian Atlasit's a control look um you got if you guys want to have the 1 V one you can I let this go on for like 15 minutes um this podcast doesn't exist in vacuum
06:41:56
Brian Atlasthere's other guests I have to be considerate no problem I'm happy to move on um so uh I it's a frequent criticism I get like that I move things on but like a lot of people aren't in the room
06:42:09
Brian Atlaslike there's other people that want to talk I have to be considerate of like other guests on the podcast it's totally Reas zero I have zero issues with this yeah no I'm not I'm not directing this
06:42:20
Brian Atlasat you Andrew it's just like a lot of the commenters get uh and I'll even Grant sometimes I do cut conversation short um but sometimes we do have to
06:42:32
Brian Atlasmove it on and look if you got I'll happily host the 1 V one I'll be I can moderate it I'll scold him if he calls you a Spur
06:42:44
Brian Atlashow dare you Andrew how dare I sent him a text never mind well I am probably a spurg oh okay all right me too we have something in common that's cool um all right here let me get through everything
06:42:55
Brian Atlashere um there's only a few more notes we'll do the row session then we got WRA all right uh so Candice you oh the viral clip we have to do the viral clip we have a couple tweets to
06:43:07
Brian Atlasreact to and then that's it um you did say that you think the entry of age for porn should be raised to 25 uh that seems like a decent Baseline you said modern dating has ruined men and women
06:43:17
Brian Atlaswomen want six feet no six six figure six feet six inches okay and men are getting blackpilled and quitting the
06:43:25
Brian Atlasgame altogether uh you had a viral clip on Twitter about all day foreplay um I don't know if we need to pull up the clip you can probably just restate the position uh do you want to like explain
06:43:37
Candace Horbach (Eva Lovia)that I guess yeah I was actually really surprised that um it had the response that it did because I didn't think I said anything controversial at all and I actually sent it to a couple counselors I know and they're like no this is
06:43:48
Candace Horbach (Eva Lovia)really marriage 101 but it's the idea that um men and wom women are different our arousal is different and then our our breaks and what um leads to pleasure
06:43:58
Candace Horbach (Eva Lovia)is different and every man if they're being honest has been with a woman and it's going great and then the garbage truck pulls up or like something will happen and she can get into her head out of the moment you have to start all over
06:44:11
Candace Horbach (Eva Lovia)again you're like what is happening so the clip was saying that we as women tend to see um everything as a threat when we're over stimulated over stressed
06:44:22
Candace Horbach (Eva Lovia)and ways to help mitigate that would be especially as the man if you're going to be the leaders to have follow-through so if you say I'm going to take out the trash take out the trash pick up your own um socks right like all of the these little things add up as stressors and
06:44:34
Candace Horbach (Eva Lovia)are hitting the breaks of her arousal and um it was I think the thing that got people mad was equating trash to like a tiger but most like psychologists or neuroscientists will say it's absolutely
06:44:47
Candace Horbach (Eva Lovia)the same effect if you're getting chased by a tiger or if you're experienc chronic or if you're experiencing stress chronic or acute it's very very similar um so how can you help your woman achieve more pleasure it's just like follow through because if you're not
06:45:01
Candace Horbach (Eva Lovia)following through if you make these promises is that you're going to help contribute help out around the house um help with the kids whatever it is and you don't do that that's now seen as unreliable and then in her subconscious I'm not even saying it's active she's
06:45:12
Candace Horbach (Eva Lovia)like oh is he going to be a good leader is he going to be able to protect is he going to be able to provide because if you're not doing these things that you say you are and I think that that's um that is like the sign of being a healthy mature masculine right is being a man of
06:45:25
Candace Horbach (Eva Lovia)your word if you're not doing those things she and her body are saying unreliable and shutting down and that was it it wasn't like a dunk on it's not saying women should have the right to nag and like people were saying that too I don't think women should nag or
06:45:37
Candace Horbach (Eva Lovia)emasculate like there was a lot of uh straw man arguments being brought into the clips and then I fell into the Trap of trying to defend it I'm like just watch what I said cuz I didn't say half
06:45:46
Brian Atlasof the stuff that everyone's accusing me of okay mhm um so so so like how does that look like though from the guys like what's the guy
06:45:59
Candace Horbach (Eva Lovia)going to do it's going to be different in every relationship so there's kind of and this is going to be really like rudimentary but um in a lot of the relationship books that I've been reading recently and this is um it's going to be dependent on what school of thought you
06:46:12
Candace Horbach (Eva Lovia)go to there's like three different stages of relationships that people tend to fall in one is going to be more traditional and you have like very strict um assigned roles and this will be like the man is the provider he does everything out of the house the woman is
06:46:25
Candace Horbach (Eva Lovia)more domestic everything inside is her domain and no one should really expect the other one to pick up the other one slack like real clear division the other one is more feminist and that's where
06:46:34
Candace Horbach (Eva Lovia)you get into like partnership 50/50 um unclear boundaries and unclear um leadership unclear assignment of tasks and that's where you get into a lot of trouble especially when it comes to
06:46:46
Candace Horbach (Eva Lovia)intimacy and sexual relationships wait so is it like the guy kind of like helping take care of the house and stuff and um trash well no cuz that can actually go into the third one too so the first one like the man's not expected to do that right like clear
06:46:59
Candace Horbach (Eva Lovia)defined roles he's not touching the trash that's her her job unless it's like or something right and I'm sure every man would conceded that the second one is like there it's like this weird place that no one wants to establish
06:47:11
Candace Horbach (Eva Lovia)dominance because they automatically think that that's bad so no one is the leader no one is in charge it's a perfect 50-50 relationship and that's where like most like modern feminist relationships are right now so even though um let's say both partners are
06:47:23
Candace Horbach (Eva Lovia)working and this is where it gets more complicated cuz the comment section was acting like uh the W the wife was automatically stay at home well that's not true for the majority of women so typically both people are working but then when the mom gets home she also has
06:47:36
Candace Horbach (Eva Lovia)most of the tasks when it comes to like domestic chores the kids cooking Etc so now she's getting mad at husband because she feels over stimulated overworked overstressed and then she takes that out
06:47:48
Candace Horbach (Eva Lovia)by nagging emasculating and that comes down to a fault of not having clear defined roles but again it's like it's the issue of the 50/50 the third one is what you would call Intimate communion
06:47:58
Candace Horbach (Eva Lovia)and that is um there's still clear leadership in that but it's more of like my needs are your needs in a way like I'm happy to make you happy right and most men especially if like you're
06:48:11
Candace Horbach (Eva Lovia)Mar and this again was like for married couples I'm not expecting some Chad from the bar to go take out the trash like this conversation for like long-term married couples if you're married you want to do things that make your wife happy she wants to make you happy that's
06:48:24
Candace Horbach (Eva Lovia)a healthy relationship but if you see her needs as um like a chore that was another thing people were saying is chore play or if she's talking down to him like that's not healthy that's not intimate communion so it's like more of
06:48:36
Andrew Wilsona merging as like the last most elevated stage but still clear defined um roles and responsibilities can you help me out with something here sure because the the
06:48:47
Andrew Wilsoncounter Clan here uh which seems quite which seems quite relevant is that as soon as Men start doing all of the chores and they start um participating in this and this kind of thing that
06:48:59
Andrew Wilsonwomen get very upset with them that they seem to be less attractive to them and that when women are asked about attraction levels towards men who act in the capacity as a breadwinner in the not doing the chores portion uh they seem to
06:49:11
Andrew Wilsonbe have a higher attraction rate towards those men why would that be well I never said all I'm not asking about all I'm just asking about you said if a man if
06:49:21
Andrew Wilsonhe's doing half so so seemingly uh women uh often are sleeping with the type of men that you're talking about and opining about their traditional lack of
06:49:33
Andrew Wilsontraditional uh marriage or lack of traditional men or lack of masculine men but masculinity in this Society of course is appropriated by non-feminine Behavior some of which is going to
06:49:43
Candace Horbach (Eva Lovia)include housework and uh busy work like this yeah I don't know that houseworks necessarily um entirely feminine I would argue that like something like keeping
06:49:54
Candace Horbach (Eva Lovia)the fire lit is more of the man's job that is housework I would say I would I would say trash is mostly um a man's work as well just because of weight hm
06:50:03
Andrew Wilsonhave you ever heard of he death he death no yeah so it used to actually be a common phenomenon back when people had to use fire for heating instead of natural gas things like this women would
06:50:16
Andrew Wilsonbecome emulated because they wore garments which would catch on fire and so their he would kill them this was not a phenomenon which was associated with men it was associated with women maybe
06:50:28
Andrew Wilsonmen were better atending women were the ones who kept the he going mhm because they did the cooking on what the hear they did all of the preparation for meals on the he they did the literally
06:50:40
Andrew Wilsonthis is feminine and it's always traditionally been feminine that women actually are the ones who keep the fires going uh and this type of thing which is why we have the phenomenon of you know H
06:50:53
Candace Horbach (Eva Lovia)death but you don't think that we can redefine um like rules i' I've not not entirely but specifically with fire like men and especially if you have boys or little boys they love fire like there's
06:51:05
Candace Horbach (Eva Lovia)they go through a phase where they love nothing more than fire and I do think that fire in general is like more of like a masculine Essence so I wouldn't say like seeing a guy light a fire and be like oh he's a [ __ ] like no it's
06:51:17
Candace Horbach (Eva Lovia)actually really sexul masculine because it's it's like powerful it's deadly right it's something that is supposed to be like yeah but but look at this so we're not
06:51:28
Andrew Wilsontalking about fire a who loads who puts the logs in and keeps the fire burning in the he well that's going to be associative with cooking and who's Associated well not
06:51:40
Candace Horbach (Eva Lovia)anymore it's not so that's what I'm saying like maybe that's redefined cuz I know a lot and then grills now grilling is entirely the man's domain and that's the more direct flame usually yeah but
06:51:52
Andrew Wilsonwhen you're talking about traditional Norms that people are adhering to meaning the attractiveness of a traditional man seems to be higher than the attractiveness of a modern man
06:52:03
Andrew Wilsonthat's the case we're talking about tradition we're not talking about the subjective interpretation of gender Norms changing over time otherwise we would be destroying what traditional
06:52:14
Andrew Wilsonmeans so the idea here that men going and doing the [ __ ] laundry uh you know and uh sweeping the floor and doing all these things because by your own metric you're actually at the mercy of
06:52:25
Andrew Wilsonyour own metric in another way which is that who the [ __ ] is going around the uh the fireplace now for heat almost no it's not for the purpose of he it's the aesthetic yeah so even if that's the
06:52:37
Andrew Wilsoncase even if that's the case here that now this is masculine that you stoke the fire almost nobody's sitting around their hearth for warmth anymore that's not the way it works anymore we have natural gas and propane and electricity the argument was that it's just not
06:52:50
Candace Horbach (Eva Lovia)feminine I don't think that lighting a fire is inherently feminine I don't think any single woman is going to see a man light a fire and be like he is a [ __ ] I no longer want to have sex with him and zero zero women sure it could be
06:53:01
TTS/Donationsneutral but Michael Jones donated $200 there are only three reasons to debate one the outcome of the debate directly affects people's lives two you
06:53:14
Andrew Wilsonthink you can change the mind of your opponent three there's an audience Jesus is Lord Michael Jones than kind of agree with a lot of that but yeah so the the
06:53:25
Andrew Wilsonpoint here is like whether or not even if I were just to kind of grant that that fire itself is more masculine that's not a [ __ ] chore like when when people are referencing chores or
06:53:36
Andrew Wilsonnot referencing oh my God I have to load the fireplace and light it in mity like it has nothing to do with anything we're talking about laundry washing socks sweeping the floors vacuuming uh
06:53:47
Candace Horbach (Eva Lovia)scrubbing dishes [ __ ] like that we're not talking about uh putting logs in a fire and lighting them I was talking about taking things off of her plate to help reduce her stress or or over stimulus and if both people are working
06:53:59
Andrew Wilsonhow do you how do you assign roles within the house because most women are working a this is great so we came to this question earlier when I was saying that you have a feminist stake so now we
06:54:10
Andrew Wilsoncome full circle which is great so the I gave this same hypothetical back which is who ultimately is going to be in the position of authority so if you have a deal breaker threshold breaker something
06:54:22
Andrew Wilsonlike this who ends up in Authority you you said well it's equal right so there's going to be sometimes a man has Authority sometimes a woman has Authority depending on what their tasks are that they do when it comes to
06:54:33
Andrew Wilsonchoring though right most men they they seem to be fine with women doing the choring right and the thing is is like you could say well most women aren't fine with doing the choring the problem
06:54:45
Andrew Wilsonis is that why do they find it so attractive when men won't do the [ __ ] choring so your idea here that well uh in this is your summary of your argument that I wrote down women are into men who
06:54:57
Andrew Wilsondo chores so that they are less stressed but I can't actually find anything to back this up at all in fact I I find data that is contrary that they're looking for masculine men who provide
06:55:10
Candace Horbach (Eva Lovia)and don't do any chores so it has nothing to do with mate selection that wasn't the conversation at all it's once you're already in an established relationship and then those Dynamics and what is required for a woman to have arousal or pleasure is going to be completely different than in the
06:55:22
Candace Horbach (Eva Lovia)beginning of a relationship you build up resentment contentment there's stress the relationship is entirely different my point of it wasn't to to like have your guy do chores it's having him want to unburden her with things that are
06:55:35
Candace Horbach (Eva Lovia)stressing her out it's to help contribute and it's if you say something to do something it was like go do all of these chores and be like my little pet it's like if you said you were going to do something the follow through is the thing that's important the follow
06:55:47
Candace Horbach (Eva Lovia)through or the lack thereof is the thing that is creating the issue between her and her ability to have arousal or intimacy with you so was it necessar attracted to men who don't do any of
06:55:57
Andrew Wilsonthis [ __ ] who follow through no who follow with them but if the with them then they expect to change in Behavior to do chores no to follow through the
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Candace Horbach (Eva Lovia)chores was one example so it doesn't have to be taking out the trash or doing the dishes or any of that especially if that's not what's agreed upon in the relationship it's doing what you said you're going to do like one example in a lot of relationship books it's like this
06:56:20
Candace Horbach (Eva Lovia)guy comes home and um he just like made a killing like he just got a huge promotion or just like made a u like made a massive deal and he goes to his wife and he's like I just landed this deal and he's so excited and the very
06:56:32
Candace Horbach (Eva Lovia)first thing that she says is will you forgot the milk right cuz like and that has probably happened to so many men it's like an immediate nag how do I take away his win and bring him down a level that's an overstressed woman and what
06:56:45
Candace Horbach (Eva Lovia)I'm seeing in that it's not necessarily true is a pattern of behavior pattern of um of lack of follow-through so it's like she doesn't care what you just did that you see as a success and she would if you were actually being a man of we
06:56:57
Candace Horbach (Eva Lovia)word and following through with all of these things it's she she's pointing out how she sees you as safe or unreliable because she doesn't see you doing the things that you're going to say even if it's as Tiny as getting the milk so it has nothing to do with chores it's more
06:57:09
Andrew Wilsonof just like this has to be final word it has to be final word I well I actually understand the position really well I'll just steal man it very quickly because it's about follow through right this this has nothing to do chores were
06:57:21
Andrew Wilsonan example that you were making and only an example which comes to the follow through and the reason that kind of the breakdown happens is specifically because they're not seeing the type of follow through that they would want
06:57:33
Andrew Wilsonyeah okay but don't you understand that there's an inference here that's kind of funny when you think about it this would mean that if men said I'm not ever going to do any [ __ ] chores ever and I'm
06:57:44
Andrew Wilsongoing to uh B essentially not do X Y and Z that if they compromised on that for the relationship they would be showing a lack of follow through like so basically if they set the parameters I'm going to
06:57:57
Andrew Wilsonremain in a gigachad for the rest of my life and not do [ __ ] and [ __ ] you're going to [ __ ] clean the house and do the dishes and that's the thing they're attracted to that if men never backed off on that that would actually show
06:58:09
Candace Horbach (Eva Lovia)that they have follow through no one no one's dating that guy yeah but that has nothing to do with the point right no no and I think that that's not that's not necessarily a fair analogy either because you can always Elevate grow or
06:58:21
Candace Horbach (Eva Lovia)like do something out of love like right and that was part of the clip too is little touch points of love and showing that I care throughout the day so it's like if I see that you need the slack picked up I'm going to be here to support you so again it's not it's not chores it's how are you showing up to
06:58:34
Andrew Wilsonsupport the person that you decided to like build a life with well these well these are two different arguments so the first one is it shows a lack of follow through and this builds resentment and then the second one is well wait a second no it's really about the uh
06:58:46
Andrew Wilsonconduciveness to the differing needs that the various individual have that change hang on that change over time but here's the thing if one person's needs change over time right and the one man
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Candace Horbach (Eva Lovia)hasn't compromised or done anything he is actually showing follow through right no and your needs absolutely change over time I think in any relationship especially long term you're constantly don't change over time I'm talking about
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Candace Horbach (Eva Lovia)follow through if one man does not change and the woman changes her no follow through is I'm saying I'm going to do something for you and I don't do it changing your mind or changing the Dynamics of a relationship is just
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Candace Horbach (Eva Lovia)Evolution that's growing together or growing apart like those are those are those are two different I totally agree these are two separate arguments right and then you can gr we're talking about follow through though I'm saying that's not follow I have an uncompromising
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Candace Horbach (Eva Lovia)position to this relationship you're doing a false analogy follow it's not those aren't the same thing that's not follow-through you're describing something entirely different and then what you're describing is like everyone when you get into a relationship you decide the
06:59:48
Candace Horbach (Eva Lovia)parameters of the relationship or at least you should if you're an adult right these are the expectations that I have values principles we need to agree on that if we're going to move forward in a serious way now if something happens for whatever reason and one of
06:59:59
Candace Horbach (Eva Lovia)the parties changes their mind so let's use your example is like I'm never [ __ ] touching a dish and like you are so firm and that girl is like that's so hot I want to be a stay-at home and you go work and right that's the agreement something happens she changes her mind
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Candace Horbach (Eva Lovia)she's like I'm overwhelmed I actually really need I want to go work I'm I don't want to stay at home and I expect 50/50 and you don't want to budge because that's you know like your principles haven't changed well now
07:00:24
Andrew Wilsonyou're no longer compatible but that's not it's not a followup through that thing wait you know this would be follow through so this would be the man following through the exactly what he said why he saided it when he saided it
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Andrew Wilsonnot changing a bit she changes right she changes she's actually not following through why is it that she decided to change her mind on all of these things
07:00:45
Brian Atlasthat she agreed to that sounds like she's lacking the follow through follow hold on I've given you guys 15 minutes to discuss this you can each make one final Point keep it short go
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Candace Horbach (Eva Lovia)ahead my my point is men and women are fundamentally different and pretty much every way especially when it comes to arousal pleasure um what we perceive as as threats and um to talk about like
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Candace Horbach (Eva Lovia)values and what we value in a mate those are going to be different things so if we were saying we value follow through in a man you're that's not really valued in wi in women there's like a a category of like top six things follow through is
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Candace Horbach (Eva Lovia)not there a man being Dependable is like top three of what women want so yeah you can't compare what you want from a man from a woman unless you want to date a dude and my my I would I would just say this that the uh the actual position
07:01:34
Andrew Wilsoncontradicts itself almost immediately the second we get into it and also I would further State she is right men and women are different that women often will succumb to social pressure and won't tell the truth based on uh
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Andrew Wilsonexpectations that they have because socially it looks really bad for them so in the case of like well men aren't really following through here and that's what's happening we actually demonstrated the reverse that if the man continues with his exact line that he
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Andrew Wilsonstarted the relationship with she changes her mind it's a lack of follow through on her part right and there's no way around that and so what what ends up happening is but that doesn't sounds
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Andrew Wilsonsocially great to say well the woman here really she changed it up halfway through and he stayed the same so inste she says well the man's just not growing with the woman right this is part of how
07:02:22
Andrew Wilsonwomen tend to lie when it comes to the idea uh socially that wasn't a lie I'm not saying you're lying I'm not saying you're lying I'm saying this is a
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Andrew Wilsona great example of how it is that when there's social pressures and you don't want to say what's true because it sounds bad makes women look bad right then what happens is colorful language like follow through why isn't this man
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Andrew Wilsonfollowing through upon the changes in the mental state the woman has why is he supposed to follow through on her [ __ ] mental States follow through on what your was as a man I have to move it
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Brian Atlason I have to move it on you said you got the text what let's go into that oh for the thing yeah let me see if I got a name I thought we already settled it with the Bowing well I thought you said there was like more info that came
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Brian Atlasthrough yeah it's again just more running around in circles so yeah nothing worth sharing uh and then we need a couple of tweets I guess the only thing left in your notes Candace is that you said you see a tendency to pick
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Brian Atlasgirls for the show to belittle them and show them in an awful light this is from some of your earlier messages on if this is still your position or if it is still your position or um I think that you
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Candace Horbach (Eva Lovia)have in the past and I I mean I can't speak Beyond this panel because the only one I've I've seen and then versus Clips but when I see certain behaviors um coming out from some of the female guests there's no way you didn't know
07:03:50
Candace Horbach (Eva Lovia)that they were going to respond in a certain way or just be like massively underprepared for like the pressure of coming on a Big Show or um like you kind of know what personality and like obviously Andrew knows exactly what
07:04:02
Candace Horbach (Eva Lovia)strings to pull and you can get a reaction out of that and right it's the clip economy so it is what it is but there I mean there absolutely is a a pattern there I mean you can go through
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Candace Horbach (Eva Lovia)completely honest I don't ever know who's going on the show until the day of the show well whoever's in charge of of booking then you know what I mean like but you but you referenc me no I said you're good at pulling strings that's what I was saying yeah sure sure but
07:04:27
Andrew Wilsonthat can't be because I have a preconceived notion of how to do this with the person because not what I said that's not what I said yeah I'm just pointing out that literally until the day of the show Brian does not actually
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Andrew Wilsonshare that information with me I don't think I've ever really asked him to to be fair no one said he doesn't what that no one said that you had the information who was going on the show yeah there's a there is an inference there when you say
07:04:51
Andrew Wilsonwell we're not allowed to infer earlier I when you say I believe that the people who come on the show you're specifically vetting them for the purposes of being able to push their buttons well here I didn't that either now case in point here right I think
07:05:04
Andrew WilsonLily Phillips is on the show today because she's famous because she wants to [ __ ] a thousand guys right and she just had a bunch of viral Clips that's why I think she's here I don't think she that she's here for the nefarious reason of Brian wanting to push her buttons I
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Andrew Wilsondon't think that that's particularly I'm here to debate important issues she pushed my buttons yeah right but you wouldn't be here debating those important issues there wasn't some notoriety which made
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Candace Horbach (Eva Lovia)you worth debating those important issues with yeah but you can't compare her to a lot of the other girls that have like these viral clips that have no social media following that aren't engaging in a conversation that are
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Candace Horbach (Eva Lovia)super emotional or they come here to like I do see a lot of girls coming to pick fights and that has happened more and it has changed my opinion a little bit about the show well like but I'll invite people on who like clearly disagree with me or have negative
07:05:53
Brian Atlasattitudes toward the podcast I mean she said this the podcast is stupid and my response is not to be like well [ __ ] you you're stupid I'm like come on the show Let Me Hear You Out um and I think you maybe in your first
07:06:04
Brian Atlasmessage you had perhaps some negative conations or negative opinions toward the podcast uh my response to criticism and I've had really actually some really nasty initial messages like straight up insulting um you know they'll call me
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Brian Atlasugly whatever I won't even insult them back I'll just be like come on the show and let's have a conversation about it um so I'm actually quite open to hearing contrary uh opinions and positions uh
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Andrew Wilsonbut um also can you make the point very quick that like all of what any of these guests would ever have to do is watch one or two episodes and do their due
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Andrew Wilsondiligence to very quickly ascertain what they would be in for or not in for like didn't you do that didn't all of you guys do that well yeah and then I mean there was also ground rules like be
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Candace Horbach (Eva Lovia)respectful but that's been broken a thousand times and other topics respectful to you I think you've been disrespectful to almost everyone on this panel at some point yeah I know but that's what here's the thing is so funny this is why I call you a feminist right
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Andrew WilsonI literally am not treating you any differently than I would treat any other man who was sitting exactly where you're sitting the problem is is that inside of most women's Brains they pretend that they want to be treated equally or they
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Andrew Wilsonpretend that they want egalitarianism and then the second you give them egalitarianism they get very upset right we haven't actually had any insulting exchanges yes you actually called her dumb very loud and clear I didn't call
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Andrew Wilsonher dumb definitely did it was it was stupid one of the yeah no no no I call chair One D What saying that's what I'm saying yeah but that has nothing to do with her
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Andrew WilsonI haven't been disrespectful you can excuse every insult you make it's incredible I have to give you credit for that it's actually incredible well she's been actually engaging and by the way I haven't insulted you either what did I
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Becca Sliderinsult you with no my point is that you can literally excuse everything you do and make it right because your biggest priority is to be right and I have to give you kudos to that you're good at it yeah but but if your priority is to be
07:08:04
Andrew Wilsonright because you are right what's wrong with that you made my point clear thank you yeah as an example for for example you made my point clear too thank you so anyway back to this real quick for example it's very I don't think you're
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Ayaright all the time go ahead go ahead that's fine and I'm wrong sometimes I'm just been wrong hold on go ahead Aya go ahead just use a very quick example you were like uh oh you've been very disrespectful and then he was like well
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Ayawho have I who's been disrespectful or something no yeah yeah you're like people are very disrespectful here and then he like sort of challenged this and then he said well you have been and then he said well yeah and then I quickly shifted the topic just like as example is like sort of the conversational
07:08:41
Andrew Wilsonstrategy that I think is like regularly at play here I'm happy to engage with the topic I asked her I actually asked her how have I been disrespectful to you and the answer the answer is how well
07:08:53
Andrew Wilsonwhat yeah what what have I done have I because I'm patched in remotely you have several conversational techniques because hang on stop that's disrespectful so because I've had to
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Andrew Wilsoninterject a couple of times cuz I'm in I'm patched in remotely I'm not in the studio like what have I actually said to you that's actually disrespectful except challenge your
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Candace Horbach (Eva Lovia)views not you Aya I'm talking I'm not talking to a no for me it would be the constant Interruption then also the tone like there's a like tone is absolutely respectful or disrespectful and you call
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Candace Horbach (Eva Lovia)me I don't know why that's amusing but I wouldn't want anyone talking to my kid that way or like anyone that I cared about that way the tone your tone your tone has been super condescending I just
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Andrew Wilsondon't comment on it I don't think that's true at all yeah I know you don't think that but you see these subjective metrics of tone give me something I said did I call you a [ __ ] did I call you a [ __ ] did I call you a skank did I say
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Andrew Wilsonyou're [ __ ] horrible did I I didn't say hang on I didn't say any of these things instead I simply challenged the things that you view as being true and gave you challenges to them what did I
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Candace Horbach (Eva Lovia)actually say to you though that was insulting you can be and I said disrespectful and not insulting and you can be disrespectful without blatantly calling some one a [ __ ] if that's like your only metric then of course you're not going to think that you're being
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Andrew Wilsonthen would you say in the future I should just go ahead and call women [ __ ] since I will hang on since I will instead be attacked as being disrespectful regardless no I'm giving you my experience with you and I feel that a lot of people would have my my
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Andrew Wilsonopinion and I know a lot of people are going to have yours I'm telling you that I feel at this conversation has been very disrespectful with you I feel that you have been extraordinarily disrespectful your tone one thing from
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Andrew Wilsonnow on hang on from now on when you talk to me I need you to use a sing song voice The singest sest Voice you can possibly think of because otherwise I feel disrespected now I can't give you
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Andrew Wilsonany particular words that You' said any particular phrases any particular insults because none of that matters what matters is that inside of my brain I perceive
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Candace Horbach (Eva Lovia)your non sing song voice as being [ __ ] disrespectful so that's how you that's okay you would be okay with someone talking to your wife that way say what saying [ __ ] would you be okay with someone talking to your wife
07:11:13
Candace Horbach (Eva Lovia)that way or a man talking to your wife that way right now wait wait getchel there's no wayel Cameo Rachel Cameo you want to talk to the wife no I don't yeah I'll bring her down oh bring her down all
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Candace Horbach (Eva Lovia)right say hi really quick just say hi for just a second love you to talk to me that way in front of my she's already coming she's already down she's already bringing the yeah I would say it in front of your man he wouldn't do
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Unknown[ __ ] voice where's my sing song voice give me my sing song voice oh my goodel Rachel Rachel are you in chat y Rachel are you in chat no it's midnight
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Brian AtlasI'm heading out we're almost done wait wait we're almost done oh you're he's proud of himself for are
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Lily Phillipswe do know no no no we're almost no stay stay stay we we got we're wrapping up I'll you Candace we're Candace Candace I think we're done it's so pass for anyway
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Ayawe're almost done just wait for the roast he's we're almost done just wait I'm going to go check on her I'll be right back I okay that's fine uh all
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Brian Atlasright she Rage Quit a all right come on let's sayit insults just do just get it over with yeah uh there was like some tweets we had to
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Brian Atlasreact to here's what I'm going to do yeah we we got to do it man I know this uh uh one sec guys I'm going to get that all changed I guess any other final thoughts from any of the remaining
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Ayapanelists on the table no I mean it doesn't even matter sorry for the quick exit but I it totally it
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Ayatotally matters Carly really we're almost done I I told her I would come I I want to be with her it's okay Candace uh you guys are lovely can we co her we co her back yeah it was nice to meet you
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Brian AtlasI don't like you very much all right thank thank you I'm going to go oh wait guys stay I'm so TI I'm so hungry I'm sorry oh my God are you guys all we're
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Brian Atlasalmost done if you guys can be polite and stay for the rest of the show
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Brian AtlasCarly's a team player she's going to stay Lily I'm on jet I mean Becca you got to stay for the where I'm from where's Becca is Becca coming back it
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Brian Atlasjust keeps going in circles and Becca here just take another seat here Carly take take that seat Cari take that seat Lily take that
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Katrinaseat Becca take that care out there guys like here just take take your seat guys God damn bro
07:14:09
Brian Atlasjust guys we're almost done we're almost done here no Carly Carly Carly you there Lily you there uh in that middle of seat and then is Becca still back there Becca
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Andrew Wilsonjust rejoin the panel here actually I'll I can see that my presence has been very offensive it's 3 o'clock in the morning anyway that's my dip time yeah it was very very nice
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Andrew Wilsonto meet all of you I'm sorry my tone was so upsetting my job is to challenge your worldview right um hang the face you're all equal with me just let me say one
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Andrew Wilsonthing you hang on just I'm just I'm just giving you you don't even have to deal with me in two seconds right she's going to go out [ __ ] a th men you're going to do your thing like we're all going to do
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Andrew Wilsonour thing so I'm just saying my job is literally to be here to challenge your worldview that's what I'm here to do I did it well you guys got super pissed
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Andrew Wilsonoff even though I didn't actually call I'm not Fu off like please leave it's an insult that you're going to go out and [ __ ] a th men that's your thing I'm not insulted that I'm [ __ ]
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Lily Phillipsbut we're not getting into this cuz I can't be us to fight with you right now well you guys have a wonderful evening okay thanks
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Brian Atlasandreww hide it hide it okay um I need to no just don't don't don't
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Brian Atlasum all right guys TTS has been lowered to uh TTS has been lowered to uh what's
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Brian Atlasit called um $30 so um let me see a couple things guys all right the row session $30 TTS
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Katrinaum let's see oh is this where we sit down and get roasted by people H yeah yeah and this will be my favorite talking the show I think everything has
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Brian Atlasbeen changed um everything should be changed is she still is somebody still back there or
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Brian Atlasthey all they all left I think she left and then she left yeah okay um yeah why don't you uh sit down why
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Katrinadon't you take a seat then can you f down yeah all right
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Brian Atlasall right guys uh $30 TTS if you want to get it in $30 TTS if you want to get it in one sec guys let me make sure everything's all set here should be good should be good if you
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Brian Atlaswant to get them in um we'll do a brief row session then we're going to get this wrapped up here in uh a sec all right uh let's see if
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Brian Atlasthere's any other final things here um any other notes no I think that's pretty much it uh [ __ ] what was the oh the
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Brian Atlasmakeup [ __ ] [ __ ] it why not we'll do that uh who here is willing to take off their makeup that brand you down I'm down don't like the Brand This is literally I
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Brian AtlasI'm going to send send that down if you guys want to do it just take a wipe all right we have these are kind of [ __ ] no those are good I need to put my face someone literally here I have
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Lily Phillipsneutr nobody likes it it's such cope [ __ ] lie oh it's the the brand here there's some neutrogenia but this just I feel like makes your skin like into the sorry I feel like that makes you skin
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Brian Atlasto do there's I feel like there's something we're forgetting I don't know there's a bunch of tweets but but at this point we're just not going to do them
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TTS/Donations$30 this panel low with ORS and yikes most definitely ly big yikes W pre Big W Andrew not one step back whatever that means outrage thank you so
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Brian Atlasmuch for really appreciate it not one step back waste of $30 uh let's see here we have uh Aaron Chambers shout out from Tuscaloosa Alabama Brian love your show love tuning
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Brian Atlasin to your viewpoints especially with Andrew it's open to new world for me Alabama whooped Texas ass tonight hash Roll Tide we got that there uh guys
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Brian AtlasFinal Call on the $30 last call last call on the 30 whoops did I mess that up oh I didn't even change it in the pinned chat how common people would pay $30 to
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Brian Atlaslike put a comment I mean they're not they're not even like roasting really guys Carly is dissatisfied with the roast quality step
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Brian Atlasup the roast and direct some at her because dat hly it's like at this point she needs to be she wants to be roasted she needs to be
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Brian Atlasroasted uh she needs it what the calm down bro calm down Lily well that was an interesting show um that was
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TTS/Donationsuh that was very interesting it was a good it was good we have a couple more coming through oh God Michael Jones donated $30 what is better a key that opens any
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TTS/Donationslock or a lock that opens to any key keep Ute legs closed to unworthy men and open your heart to Jesus Brian is the
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Brian Atlasvicount of chance delusional bro oh [ __ ] Michael Jones did you hear that she said you're delusional damn what was the thing you said about the book 3,000 come on man I
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TTS/Donationsstopped believing in religion when I found out that there was more than one oh okay all right I was like what makes my9 donated $30 this is in the roast red tank top is better without makeup all
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Brian Atlasright would you bow would you bow to a man though like would you do a bow like in that video I showed you no why not what the [ __ ] chill
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TTS/Donationsout damn you're getting compliments not roast uh wait hold on this one's crazy wait Lily Lily listen to this one God
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TTS/DonationsLily Phillips father donated $30 Brian how much for the chair Lily sat on today I live in Los Angeles I can pick it up tomorrow uh just come pay me don't pay
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Brian Atlashim oh wow come straight to me so she was sitting in that chair now she's in this one you know what I'm going to eBay both of these chairs put them on eBay
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TTS/Donationswe'll let we'll let the uh the auction to sign wait what the [ __ ] OJ Simpson donated $30 Carly I already know you have a skin tag on your
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Brian Atlasbuet but it meant yeah do you want to respond to that Carly into the mic SC sco can you scoot into the table a little
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Carlybit like what what do you want me to say to that either confirm or deny need to see it to believe
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TTS/Donationsit okay all right thank you OJ Thor donated $30 what the [ __ ] s gun is perfect for sneaking snacks into the movies it'll keep them warm whatever
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TTS/Donationschair six identifies it also chair for poor children you can see her mom look like a dummy online forever what the hell where's your
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Brian Atlaspicture uh Nolan says if you feel there's nothing guys do these through streamlabs if you can uh how come you said there are so many guys out in the world I think you know one poor
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Brian Atlasbastard's got to Mary H yeah okay sweet dope uh guys $30 we got
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TTS/DonationsKoba KOB donated $30 babe get Lily number for Kyle it would be hilarious who that's my
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TTS/Donationsboyfriend that's my boyfriend shout out Eli yeah he's trying to wigman Michael Jones donated $30 if Lily lived in colonial Massachusetts we would
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TTS/Donationshave thrown her in the harbor along with the tea bottle of water gulf of America Bal evils Jesus Christ thank you Michael
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TTS/DonationsJones stochastic Decay stasic where you been Carly sorry like that like like roasts like I like not like good enough like also my spring goes like
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Brian Atlasthis and comes back like this WOW yo guys let's put some W's in the chat for stochastic Decay I have not seen this guy in a minute dude good to
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Brian Atlassee you man uh also I do a quick shout out guys if you want to do final contribution venmo cash app they don't take any cut so 100% of your contribution will go towards the
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Brian Atlaswhatever podcast MJ said Brian keep it up King Jesus is Lord uh $50 on
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Brian Atlason uh wait $50 on is this sorry venmo Sharon Pete $20 thank you for venmo guys W's in the chat for MJ W's in the chat for Sharon thank you guys for
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Brian Atlascontributing via venmo and that's that and then we have this one from OJ Simpson OJ Simpson donated $30 dark CIA
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Brian Atlaswhat's up with you you doing okay damn you doing okay it's not you I'm doing fine she's killing she's killing she's killing it all right uh I'd like
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Brian Atlasto take this opportunity here at the end of the show to do a call to action what's this for Lily well no I'd like to see if we can use this as a moment an
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Brian Atlasopportunity would you consider stopping sex work entirely I didn't even tonight no well tonight I will bring you on as a background character I'll pay you $20 an
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Brian Atlashour it's very lucrative but you have to stop your sex work I'm going to politely decline okay I see how it is
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Upgradeum is that how much you guys get paid I'm not talking about it she actually is wait no I shouldn't say that I the best you can finish that no I was going say
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Brian Atlasyou're slave labor I am black you no exactly that's why I didn't say it that's why I didn't say it but I was going not it's not cuz you're a black thing it was just like I was going to say say you're like a you're an intern how about that not
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TTS/Donationsslave lab $2 an hour isn't bad to sit there to be fair to be to be fair I mean to be anyways whatever um let's see big SAS energy yo big sass s donated $30 all
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TTS/Donationsright we got to dowitch do you like grilled cheese sandwiches I only ask because it looks like you have a bit of
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Lily Phillipsdown syndrome what the [ __ ] do you what why would liking girl to sues mean that you have Dan syndrome
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DanielleI've just been s for a while Shane Millis said that about his uncle gred cheese sandwiches I do like grilled cheese sandwiches so if we want to that's dope you're Legend okay let's do twitch shout out guys go to
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Brian Atlastwitch.tv/ whatever drop us a follow in the primes I we have to do the Pat I wanted to do the Patrice clip with the other guest but whatever uh drop us a go to Twitch really quick oh has this venmo
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Brian Atlascash app thing been up for a while wait twitch let's do twitch guys go to twitch.tv/ whatever drop us a follow in the prime sub if you have Amazon Prime you can link it to your Twitch it's quick free easy way to support the show every single month would really
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Brian Atlasappreciate it guys if you could show some support over there on Twitch and then [ __ ] it why we wait hold on uh Andrew Wilson Andrew Wilson donated $30
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TTS/DonationsBrian if your daughter turned out like Lily Phillips would you use 9 mm 45
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TTS/Donations556 76 two or Buckshot birdshot Buckshot Buck Buckshot Buckshot I'm confused if your daughter turned out
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Brian Atlaslike Lily Phillips oh are you shooting me up am I murdering her or am I murdering myself I don't know are you giving me back shots whoa
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Brian Atlasokay my producer likes that one uh okay yeah there you go Lily all right okay uh who let's see here oh let's just [ __ ] it's so late the Patrice clip
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Brian Atlasdo we we Damen does not want to do the Patrice clip [ __ ] it let's just do it really quick [ __ ] it we need we need a little light-hearted thing at the end here okay go ahead let me ask you a question here's a question this is for
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Patrice O'Neal (clip)you guys listen listen listen Okay ladies if you didn't have a vagina like say it was a terrible train accident right and the doctor was like
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Patrice O'Neal (clip)we have to remove your [ __ ] right away or you're going to die how how would you keep your man past you get a TW Monon guilty I can't leave
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Patrice O'Neal (clip)the [ __ ] right away cuz you just lost a [ __ ] in the train
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Patrice O'Neal (clip)action can't just walk right out on
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Carlyhim how would you keep your man past that if you didn't have a vagina pause it Carly starting with you go ahead into the microphone if you can wait like I
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Carlykind of miss missed the last couple words that he said I'm not going to lie you're in a train accident terrible train accident Am track that Am track lose the [ __ ] the pussy's
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Brian Atlasgone your boyfriend can't break up with you for 3 months you get like three months okay what do you do though to
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Brian Atlaskeep your man past that like what do you what do you do I mean still have a mouth mouth okay Lily would my butthole is pretty stretched sh
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Brian Atlasthat oh wait I'm too slow [ __ ] what davia what do you do to keep your man um I got both hands hands what yeah okay what about you I'm going go my mou yeah
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Katrinago ahead what about you um I want to keep my man happy I probably let him date other girls oh okay okay yeah um what do you
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Danielledo to keep your man I mean I'd hope he likes me even without it but I mean yes there are other holes other holes uh
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Upgradewhat about you um I'm pretty good in the kitchen so a uh wow okay play the rest of the clip
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Brian Atlasyou guys you guys are crazy go ahead crazy crazy wow nothing you can talk you can talk
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Patrice O'Neal (clip)suck his dick okay
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Patrice O'Neal (clip)mouth [ __ ] okay great do you see what I'm saying now I've been getting [ __ ] beam the whole show right but I give women the opportunity to say I'm going to make
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Patrice O'Neal (clip)myself worth more but you just classified yourself as a series of holes but but you know I'm I'm supposed to treat you special but you just a bunch of holes to
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Patrice O'Neal (clip)yourself [Applause] no one said learn how to play Xbox learn how to play pool tell better stories get another [ __ ] that got a [ __ ] to come on
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TTS/Donationsin well look whatever whatever whatever all right thank you scrips donated $30 you women are all going into crystals after
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TTS/Donationstonight and never getting out Crystal what color would you like w Crucible see mine it's my purse there you go the crystals okay GG well played well played
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Brian Atlasto the panel last call hit the like button please on your way out thank you for tuning in tonight you could have been anywhere in the world but you're here with me I appreciate that thank you to everyone who super chats donates and supports the show uh can't do it without
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Brian Atlasuh I don't know how many uh White claws did you have by the way oh my this girl had like five dude she was Downing them you were pounding how many how much white closet did you have I have a
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Brian Atlaspretty high tolerance I'm Koreans she's Koreans drink pretty they drink to answer your question I had um four four I would be blackout off of five white
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Brian Atlasfour white claws I don't drink I don't drink she could drink she could drink me off under the table okay he's not even [ __ ] there all right I'm still going to rate him but like whatever we're not
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Brian Atlaseven going to react to it okay guys GG well played hit the like button please GG G G oh is he back he's there but he's like whatever it doesn't it doesn't
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Brian Atlasmatter we don't have to show it okay 07s in the CH what are we forgetting bye bab damn there's [ __ ] whatever we have to end it okay uh thank you guys so much for tuning in tonight uh pretty little
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Brian Atlaschaotic chaotic panel but uh we'll see you guys on Sunday good night guys 07s in the chat byebye