TRIGGERED Girl WALKS OFF The Show?! 4 Kids 4 Fathers?! HEATED DEBATE On Chivalry! | Dating Talk #232
Date: 2025-03-03
Duration: 8h 58m
Guests
Brian AtlasIdentified Speakers
SPEAKER_02Multiple Guests (02)(guest)
SPEAKER_03Dalia(guest)
SPEAKER_04Natalie Tasha Thompson(guest)
SPEAKER_06Brian Atlas(host)
SPEAKER_07TTS Reader / Brian(host)
SPEAKER_09Andrew Wilson(guest)
SPEAKER_11Paula(guest)
SPEAKER_12Joy(guest)
SPEAKER_13Andrea(guest)
SPEAKER_14Tessa(guest)
Key Moments
00:05:30
QuoteCourtney introduces herself as 'ageless' then reluctantly admits 28
“I'm ageless I will let that up to the viewers to decide”
00:17:23
QuoteNatalie explains: mother named her Natalie Tasha because 'Natasha' contains 'Satan' backwards
“my mom liked the name Natasha until she realized that it was a Satan backwards so she decided to make kindergarten hard”
00:25:30
RelationshipElizabeth reveals she has 4 kids with 4 different fathers, 3 have autism - largest family situation on this episode
“four kids four kids all the same father or different fathers different fathers for all four”
00:31:36
OtherKayia/Jade explains her 'civilian celibacy' - does adult film for work but stays celibate with civilians to protect her work
“the problem is like um civilians like jeopardize you know when you're when you're just interacting with people who are also tested”
02:03:00
OtherAbby's situationship drama: her situationship and her date were both at the same baseball game/bar - they all played pool together
“they both invited me to the same baseball game so I kind of like pre-warned him... we all ended up at the same bar and then we all played pool together”
03:00:00
ControversyPaula challenges Brian: if you want a submissive woman and traditional values, why won't you pay for dates?
“if that's your traditional mindset then why are you not traditional in the sense that you're not willing to even pay for a date”
03:10:00
ControversyAndrew argues women can't have it both ways: if they vote to send men to war but aren't drafted themselves, that's privilege not equality
“if all the women voted for that person all the men voted against that person they could send men off to war yes and they themselves would not have to fight that war”
04:27:12
OtherLiberty reveals she once had a date offer her lean while he was on house arrest with an ankle monitor
“he came to my restaurant... he was telling me about like oh I'm on house arrest and I was like how the hell did I get myself... he had a little lean”
06:13:00
ControversyAndrea confronts Andrew Wilson over immigration joke, calls him racist, eventually refuses to answer more questions - nearly a walkoff
“you Trump loving she clapping man... why are you guys going after Latinos... you guys literally have low IQs”
06:19:00
OtherAndrea announces she will stop answering questions due to disrespect - closest thing to a walkoff in this episode
“I'm just going to stop talking because I don't want to hold on so just to be clear you can be abrasive towards that I'm just going to literally stop answering questions”
06:48:00
Key MomentTessa reveals her Vanderbilt mechanical engineering degree while working as a bowling alley server because it pays more
“I make more money as a server than I do as an engineer”
07:00:00
ControversyAndrea argues that men who want to be chased rather than chase women might be gay
“maybe like maybe they are gay but they don't want to admit it and so like they're going after these women”
07:46:00
OtherNicole shares story: date seared her hand with a heated butter knife on a candle - still has the triangular scar
“he had a butter knife that he was laying on top of a candle and out of nowhere he like reached to grab my hand and he just seared my hand”
07:55:30
QuoteBrian delivers memorable line: 'You take the bullet, you pay for the first date' - encapsulating the chivalry debate
“you guys have rejected the social contract you take the bullet you take the bullet you pay for the first date”
08:06:00
RelationshipBody count round: Kayia estimates 100-110 as adult performer; various other guests share or decline to share counts
“probably like I'd say by now I'd estimate like 100 to 110”
08:12:00
ControversyExtended Courtney vs. Brian debate on sidewalk rule - she wants chivalry but also full independence; Brian calls out the contradiction
“you said you're a big believer in Old School values if a guy doesn't know basic etiquette like the sidewalk rule... you want a guy to die for you but you can't even change your shirt”
08:24:00
OtherNatalie shares she previously dated a ~50yo man when she was 19 in college (needed money)
“he was probably like 50 so going back to the conversation of like 50 with a 19-year-old yeah I think that's kind of kind of weird looking at it now obviously I know that I was an adult”
08:27:24
QuoteCourtney reveals she cannot carry children and needs a surrogate
“jokes on you though cuz I actually can't carry my own kids so I actually get to decide when I have a kid because I have to get a surate”
10:00:54
OtherPatrice O'Neal 'no vagina' clip played - guests answer how they'd keep their man without it
“if you didn't have a vagina like say it was a terrible train accident right how would you keep your man”
Topics Discussed
00:05:04
Guest Introductions
Brian introduces the largest-ever panel (14 guests). Each guest gives name, age, location, occupation, education. Guests include Courtney (songwriter), Jade/Kayia (adult performer), Abby (aesthetician), Elizabeth (4 kids, 4 fathers), Liberty (furniture admin), Tessa (engineer/server), Andrea (medical assistant), Joy (business manager), Dalia (actress/student), Nicole (coordinator/makeup), Ashley (automotive GM), Natalie Tasha Thompson (nonprofit director), Paula (salsa teacher). Andrew Wilson also introduces himself.
00:21:00
Relationship Status Round
Brian goes around the table asking about relationship status, how long single, longest relationship, who broke up with who. Notable: Elizabeth's 4 kids with 4 different fathers revealed, with detailed discussion. Kayia's return to adult industry after relationship. Abby's 5-month casual situationship. Various single/casually dating statuses revealed.
01:34:30
Going to Clubs / Bars in Relationships
Debate about whether partners should be allowed to go to clubs while in relationships. Brian argues men and women face different environments (men seek, women are pursued), so it's asymmetrical. Andrew uses the 'avoid impropriety' argument. Multiple guests debate trust vs. mate-guarding. One guest (Liberty) was in a situationship where she was caught on a date at the same baseball game as her situationship guy.
03:00:00
Chivalry and Traditional Values Debate
Heated multi-hour debate on chivalry: the sidewalk rule, men paying for dates, submission in relationships, traditional gender roles. Paula and others argue for traditional chivalry. Brian challenges the pick-and-choose approach to traditionalism. Courtney's position particularly debated - she wants chivalry (sidewalk rule, door-opening) but also full independence. Andrew argues chivalry was historically tied to female virtue. Debate extends into feminism, equality, who should vote, military service.
04:33:30
Gender Swap AI Photos
Brian shows AI-generated gender-swapped versions of the guests. Guests react to seeing themselves as the opposite gender. Some self-deprecating comments, some surprise. Natalie says her male version looks better; Joy's bondage Instagram photos referenced.
04:59:30
Age Gap Relationships Debate
Discussion about age gap relationships, particularly older men dating younger women. Paula objects to large age gaps (20+ years). Andrew and Brian defend men's ability to date younger women. Discussion of when it's appropriate vs. predatory. Debate about women's prime, fertility, and relationship stability.
05:34:00
Minimum Income and Height Requirements
Brian asks all guests their minimum income and height requirements for a husband. Results vary widely: one guest wants 200k+, most want 80-150k, some don't care. Heights range from no preference to 5'10+. Andrew highlights the privilege asymmetry - men have no income requirements for women while women have high requirements for men. Brian says he has zero income requirement for a woman.
05:56:30
Women Dressing Revealing / Modesty Debate
Extended debate on whether women in relationships should dress modestly at a partner's request. Andrea strongly against restrictions - approaches men knowing how she dresses. Joy argues modesty preaching in church is harmful. Natalie and Nicole more traditional. Brian challenges the double standard of wanting chivalry but refusing to defer on clothing. Joy's revealing Instagram photos shown on screen.
06:13:00
Andrea vs. Andrew: Immigration/Politics Confrontation
Heated confrontation between Andrea (23, Oakland) and Andrew Wilson over an immigration joke Andrew made about deporting families. Andrea calls it racist and not funny. Andrew defends it as a joke. Andrea eventually says she'll stop answering questions because the conversation is too disrespectful. Multiple guests try to mediate. Discussion about whether you can be racist towards white people.
07:59:00
Body Count Round
Brian asks all guests their body count. Notable answers: Kayia/Jade ~100-110 (as adult performer), one guest 11, one guest 25-30, one guest 8, Paula refused (not over 100), Joy refused (under 100, not counting same-sex with husband), Natalie 20-25, several private/refused. Followed by discussion on whether men caring about body count means they're insecure. Nicole discusses why focus on body count is hypocritical without also addressing male porn addiction.
08:06:00
Chivalry Final Showdown / Patrice O'Neal Video
Continued chivalry debate culminating in Brian playing Patrice O'Neal's 'what if you didn't have a vagina' video to illustrate female value beyond sex. Guests respond to how they'd keep a man. Paula argues men are protectors by God's design. Brian: 'You take the bullet, you pay for the first date.' Final discussion of traditional vs. modern expectations.
08:12:00
Sidewalk Rule Deep Dive - Courtney
Extended one-on-one between Brian and Courtney about the sidewalk rule and what 'old school values' really means. Brian challenges Courtney's cherry-picking of traditional expectations. Courtney maintains her position on independence while wanting gentleman behaviors. Argument goes in circles until both sides acknowledge different people want different things.
Transcript
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07:33:52
Paulashe's a supporting role she's a supporting role yeah she's emotionally there for you she comforts you if you have a long day and you're sad you go to her I mean I don't understand why that's not enough she's there for you emotionally like okay I'm there for her
07:34:05
Paulaemotionally too though are you though cuz most men are not most men in relationships are not tionally available who cries more men or women women yeah okay so we're more emotionally there for you cuz are you though cuz most men are
07:34:17
Paulanot really comfortable with a woman's emotions so they usually don't know what to do with that usually they shut down so I don't know like you should be there for your wife emotionally I'm not sure that most men are
07:34:30
Brian Atlasyou're not sure that most men are I don't think so i' I barely ever meet it's interesting to me though because here look you say men should do all these things XYZ men should lead men should be providers men should be
07:34:41
Paulaprotectors yeah that that's a I feel like a much higher burden than whatever you're CLA you're talking about hierarchy right he's the leader he's in charge so I think he would have more responsibilities what is the female
07:34:53
Brian Atlascomponent what does the woman have to do because women will talk endlessly about this is what men should do this is is how men should act this is how men should treat
07:35:02
Brian Atlaswomen have you ever thought have you ever stopped and thought about what do I need to do as the woman she or do you just not think about it you just telling
07:35:13
Paulayou what we do what do you do I'm waiting for you to actually articulate something well it depends where you are any other woman can jump in if you're in a marriage women do
07:35:25
Brian Atlaseverything they take keep your man sexually satisfied cool the guy is doing the exact same thing and y'all are the ones who can have multiple orgasms and have your legs twitching and [ __ ] I hear
07:35:35
Brian Atlasthe sex is better for y'all anyways doubtful doubtful we just have a bunch of women at the table I'm sorry but y'all are the ones who can come multiple times these
07:35:48
Brian Atlaslegs are [ __ ] twitching and [ __ ] been like a solid maybe five times you're lucky if the woman even finishes usually the men are out in it for themselves so I don't who here is multi-orgasmic any ladies at the table here okay boom right
07:36:00
Brian Atlasthere bam she be coming 20 times in a row the guy's done after one it's over it's a wrap for the dude she's still got she's going she's going for an hour 100 orgasms that seems like a better deal
07:36:13
Multiple Guests (02)for her yeah she's lucky not going to lie it is a good deal it's a lot harder for it is a good deal what's your record my record of orgas I counted probably like four oh rookie numbers pump God I'm
07:36:25
Multiple Guests (02)not doing marathons I'm just saying y'all it's crazy man that's crazy so you ask this on every every podcast what do you men want us to bring to the table
07:36:38
Brian Atlaswhat do we want you to bring to the table that is a good question I have a list that I'm going to pull up here in just a moment are you going to pull up the video again the bow yeah the bow
07:36:49
TTS Reader / Brianyeah one second Devon Jackson donated $100 these women show me every week they have no idea what insecurity or modesty mean this is a 40-year-old old married
07:37:00
TTS Reader / Brianwoman making arguments like an ass 18-year-old girl avoid attention Seekers excuse me
07:37:11
Brian AtlasH I got the list you want to know you want to know what men want I got the list yeah go ahead tell us tell hey hey yeah hold on wait I got something for
07:37:22
Brian Atlasyou we have to think on the spot I appreciate it that I don't like that kind of talk
07:37:30
Brian Atlasokay uh let's see do I even want to go okay hold on he said Peace okay peace we don't want a nagging quarreling wife patient and agreeable Proverbs 21:19
07:37:43
Brian Atlasbetter to live in the desert than with a coral quaring or nagging wife uh I mean we want femininity we want submissiveness and we want a lack of conflict so peace we don't want to deal
07:37:55
Brian Atlaswith a girl who's nagging or quarreling honestly if a as a woman if if you're just chill and you don't correl and nag and you're at like good-looking you
07:38:06
Pauladon't even have to be goodlooking just don't annoy us that's it that's all you got to be what the [ __ ] that came out ofing though huh so everything I listed basically like is not enough for you but what are you listing that she's actually
07:38:19
Pauladoing just don't be annoying so what is she doing that sitting there like you're not giving any actual like good characteristics of what you're La of
07:38:27
Brian Atlasnegative things is a thing so like you're you can go into the positive like you can be partner yeah you should be positive you should be pleasant but like
07:38:39
Brian Atlasa lot of men we don't want to deal with nagging and quarreling a lot of women I'm not saying all women but a lot of women don't bring peace to their man and a lot of dudes if you're dealing with a
07:38:51
Brian Atlasa guy of a certain caliber his life is difficult his life is difficult maybe you're dealing with a guy who's running his own business whatever it is he's already contending with the world he doesn't want to go home where his peace
07:39:03
Brian Atlasshould be and dealing with a quarreling nagging woman just be his peace that's it be his peace be feminine be submissive and be attractive enough that's it you
07:39:15
Pauladidn't really listen to anything like substantial differently than what I said that's because I said we're supportive we can help you make more money we that don't care about that okay you just want her to sit there and look pretty and do
07:39:28
Brian Atlasnothing that's literally didn't say that no you need to Bow and do my laundry and take care of the household we do all those I agree that women should do those things but like when they're married or living with a man oh if you're living
07:39:39
Paulawith a man in his home or whatever you're living together I think the women should be in the feminine role and I think she should be taking care of the household cooking cleaning especially if he's providing oh so men need to do the
07:39:51
Brian Atlasproviding and protecting upfront on the first date but a woman gets to wait until marriage she a woman has to is it really considered providing just cuz you paid
07:40:01
Paulafor a dinner I mean I think of providing I think of like providing for a family I mean paying for dinner again is just chivalry I don't think that's necessarily providing relationships have to start somewhere of course they do so
07:40:14
Paulathat's where it's going to start I'm not in their house on the first date doing their laundry audition for the RO wife I'm okay I think first date we should do a laundry date that's really I think we get to that point I don't think a woman needs to like audition for the role of
07:40:26
Brian Atlaswife on the first date okay then men shouldn't have to audition for the role of husband you don't get any providing until you're married well it's not a date if you're if you're just splitting it like friends it's not a date yes okay he still here would this still be I
07:40:40
Pauladisagree I think if you're in your masculine that you pay for the date cuz you're a shist gent and if you're in your femin I don't agree with the 50 thing and I'm not changing my mind if you're in your feminine then you do the laundry you do the dishes you clean his
07:40:51
Paulaspot his house on the first date though fine you can do it on the second date doesn't make sense I don't go to their house on the second or the third date maybe I sto in you're not [ __ ] I might no you don't [ __ ] AB not that
07:41:03
Brian Atlasearly you don't [ __ ] when you [ __ ] when did you [ __ ] when did you [ __ ] you don't [ __ ] I wait you wait mhm I have to date somebody for over a month yeah a couple
07:41:14
Paulamonths I think maybe two it depends you can I know it's hard to believe I know but um third date is way too soon to be doing that I don't if I go to their house is cuz I'm going to
07:41:26
Paulatheir house because I work nearby and I'm parking my car and he's driving from there so I might go in really quick but I am not doing cleaning their house and auditioning you you should prob second or third you know what though look I'm
07:41:39
Brian Atlasjust saying let me try maybe try that [ __ ] out because you're you know you're 40 you're 40 I'm just saying give it a shot maybe try it maybe try it and you might find yourself a husband you might
07:41:50
Brian Atlasfind yourself a boy this girl over here maybe you know wear a turtleneck and do his laundry you might you might get a boyfriend I'm just saying I'm trying don't shoot the messenger I'm just trying to help out I'm trying to give I'm going to put you on some game son
07:42:02
Paulaokay I'm put you on game one of the ladies over here said whenever she went above and beyond for a guy that he was turned off so usually when women go and give and give and give they get turned off so I I don't believe I mean when a
07:42:14
Brian Atlaswoman S I love wom men don't like that oh I love it first date laundry uh bath she's needy she's coming on too strong and I love it they don't like great I
07:42:25
Brian Atlaslike you you like mey well I wish more like that I would give oh you're great see she's a keeper over there she wants to do all that [ __ ] immediately for I would say I would say that the reason you're doing that and the men are
07:42:37
Natalie Tasha Thompsonrunning away is because they're afraid of commitment I think that has a lot more to say on the men than it really does to say about you I think what you are doing is probably a good thing to show that you want to be able to help the man where you can support him where
07:42:50
Natalie Tasha Thompsonyou can but a lot of men these days are terrified of the idea of commitment so when you're showing them that love I would say so I think women are scared of commitment body's afid of you remember when you're were going around the table
07:43:01
Brian Atlasand I asked okay who broke like who broke up with who of your long-term relationships almost all the girls said I ended it with him so when you do get commitment you overwhelmingly end it
07:43:11
Multiple Guests (02)same with uh marriage and divorce 80% of divorces are initiated by women I mean can I ask the pel a question ask question how many of us ended it with
07:43:22
Brian Atlascheating cheating and abuse physical verbal because of you guys cheated and abused your boyf wow he did you oh sorry I got he's in prison I got my wires crossed that's I
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TTS Reader / Brianleft his cuz he's in prison hold on I'm going let some roast donated $19.99 it's always the women that are old ugly and quarl that have the problem
07:43:46
TTS Reader / Brianwith age Gap relationships and calls adult women kids just to shame opposite of young beautiful and beautiful jelly at
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TTS Reader / Brian40 thank man Sons of Liberty donated $19 99 ice can be reached at
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TTS Reader / Brianracist toast donated $20 bad argument about women keeping bloodline going due to still needing men's genetic material to do that any
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TTS Reader / Brianways thank you toast appreciate it we got another one coming in toast donated $20 anybody else noticed blue shirt said she had a
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TTS Reader / Brianproblem with 20-year age Gap and it Sicky but was in 12E age Gap no problem but Brian proposes a 10year age Gap in hypothetical and that's problem they weren't listening I didn't say there was a problem with 10 year age Gap Thor
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TTS Reader / Briandonated $20 everyone is allowed to act stupid once in a while but a lot of you really abusing the privilege I smack you all
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TTS Reader / Briandamn but once again I said under 2 come with a warning label when dating only when it's under 24 I don't say problem donated $20 this is a dumbass Point
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TTS Reader / BrianBrian men provide resources and women provide and look after kids SL sexual needs at a very fundamental level there is nothing else I'm not sure what more
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TTS Reader / Brianyou want them to say base Thor donated $20 what do these women on the panel guest have in common with an airplane they all got a cockpit
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TTS Reader / Brianexcept chair 67th someone do the good old aund D check and whatever it identifies tell I to deport it damn son okay I got some more coming through uh
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TTS Reader / Brianhold on there's more oh boy Michael Jones donated $20 thank you chair one is a bad Harley Quinn impersonator chair six is cooked give up chair seven I'm
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TTS Reader / Brianlooking for a third in rocket League bro chair eight looks like some substances ran through her already what the [ __ ] you're crazy big SAS energy donated $20
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TTS Reader / Brianmulti-millionaire and 41 I'm currently dating a bombshell 32y old the only thing I want her to bring is peace and happiness she's a ray of sunshine she
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TTS Reader / Briancan provide nothing else I don't have reap what you so donated $20 words of wisdom provided by Tom Hardy being alone for a while dangerous it's
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TTS Reader / Brianaddicting once you see how peaceful it is you don't want to deal with people anymore amen fact Michael Jones donated $20 chair two change your ways first and
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TTS Reader / Brianlooking like ala keys with no T TS and chair for earned a casting role in my dreams as more to see Adams wow brixon got to get celebrity look alikes next
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TTS Reader / Briantime thank you thank you radness Sons of Liberty donated $19.99 I voted for Trump three times and
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TTS Reader / Brianhope to vote for him a fourth time Trump 2028 uhoh America first thank you Sons of Liberty appreciate it Liberty blazian ninja donated
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TTS Reader / Brian$19.99 men love being simp on by the one they want to be with same as women so if they left you when you were simpling it's because they didn't like you not
07:47:42
Brian Atlasbecause you were a s Brian was giving game I'm giving game I look if you're if you're dealing with the right guy who's interested in you you giving all this
07:47:54
Brian Atlaseffort it's going to make him like you more like but if you're dealing with a guy that just wants you for sex or is Just Not That Into You it doesn't matter how much you do it's just and the same
07:48:06
Brian Atlaswith women if the girl's just She's Not That Into You but you're doing doing all this [ __ ] it doesn't matter like it just doesn't matter and then but a lot of women will get this confused and think okay I got to play hard to get to get
07:48:18
Brian Atlasthe guy and the reality is like those guys would have behaved the same way regardless whether you were all over him or you were kind of more when I say all over him just like you're putting in effort right
07:48:29
Brian Atlaswhen it comes to playing hard to get if you play hard to get you quickly become hard to want most men don't want to deal with that like they don't want to deal with a girl that's playing games playing hard to get if you like the guy and he
07:48:41
Brian Atlaslikes you it should be simple it shouldn't I don't know why relationships are so complicated I like you you like me let's be together let's keep it simple let's make it easy all these games all the situationship it's crazy
07:48:53
Multiple Guests (02)what's up um I also think that if you're a giver speak to the mic sorry I also think think that on both sides sometimes when you're a giver in the relationship like you like you know buying gifts
07:49:04
Multiple Guests (02)taking your partner on dates whatever I think sometimes when you give give give your partner can become comfortable with that and kind of like pull back on
07:49:13
Brian Atlaseither meeting you there or appreciating it okay uh we're going to get a little bit more into the notes Let the rest of the chats come through let me just blast through really quick for you you think
07:49:24
Paulamen should take the bullet for the woman yes on the first date I mean this is extremely rare so I mean but should they if they have to men
07:49:36
Brian Atlasshould take the bullet I don't think the woman should take the bullet for a man okay should women do you and do you think women should be submissive yes okay so let's say you've been dating a
07:49:47
Brian Atlasguy for I don't know it's date number five and he invites you over in my water you're going to do his laundry form him date five uhe five no are you going
07:49:57
Paulato have have when would you have sex with him no I don't it depends on how I feel and how it's going and if we're getting near commitment the last guy you dealt with that you dated or whatever how what was the date number that you
07:50:11
Brian Atlasguys hooked up I don't know it was a month in it was a month a month yeah I waited a month a month okay so how many dates is that I don't remember would you
07:50:21
Paulahave done his laundry a month then uh well I didn't but um but would you have maybe if I was like staying over there a lot I would do it like he's
07:50:32
Paulaat work would you clean his bathroom um yeah because I was kind of like like sometimes I sleep over so if I was excessively sleeping over and stuff I would definitely like toilet sometimes I would clean not just sink yeah no yeah
07:50:45
Paulayeah yeah scrub the toilet actually sometimes I was still there when he was at work and I would like clean up clean up the kitchen and counter clean the no just tidy it up for him deep clean not not just I would tidy it up oh there's a
07:50:57
Brian Atlaslittle stain on the no you got do the floors you got to you know what I mean I think if I lived with him I would do that I just to me it's kind of crazy you know
07:51:07
Brian Atlaslike you'll let a man inside you but you won't like cook him make him a sandwich or cook him dinner oh or clean or do his laundry like women will let a dude hit
07:51:18
Paulaon the first night let the dude blast on her face let I won't let them big old blast on the face I don't move that quickly Brian with the cleaning and like moving in and stuff I don't move all the
07:51:28
Brian Atlasthings saying I don't move that quickly I just of what's crazy to me is of women you'll let a man come inside you or blast on your face a lot of women do that but you're not going to be
07:51:38
Brian Atlassubmissive like you won't do like oh I'm not going to I won't cook for man because that's misogynistic that's not blast in my face that's crazy son
07:51:50
Paulathat's some people's stance is not mine so you're talking to the wrong person that's not my stance at all come they get BJs in New Jersey bro what they give
07:51:59
Brian AtlasBJs in New Jersey son they do BJs blow okay blow never heard of that sing the D I haven't done that a while sounds all right here I'm going to let these chats
07:52:10
TTS Reader / Briancome through them a lot of assumptions being made these nuts donated $20 chair six for sure smash dudes on first date stop the dam cap chair eight looks like
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TTS Reader / Brianbeen Finding Nemo making generalization don't have the cards you're gambling with world War 3 they just can't believe
07:52:30
TTS Reader / Brianit donated $20k you man fun show tonight would love for you to actually bring up the original chivalric code sometime I don't think women understand that most
07:52:42
TTS Reader / Brianof it was duty to God and had rules for ladies as well M chore 3core simp donated
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TTS Reader / Brian$20 chair you're beautiful I love your tattoos your hair looks so good your eyes are deep and full of love you're
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TTS Reader / Brianperfect let's watch the sunset on my boat Tyler runs you 9 donated $20 seat number three looks like a good girl but
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TTS Reader / Brianshe's sitting in between two kitten Stars that's sad damn that wait what sitting in between two kitten Stars big SAS energy
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TTS Reader / Briandonated $20 41 years battling slaying dragons Building Wealth and status yep I would never settle with a woman that I had to come home to and continue the
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TTS Reader / Brianbattle with bring peace and love bring feminity peace femininity energy donated $20 41 years battling slaying dragons
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TTS Reader / Brianbuilding we status I would never say yeah that's weird that came in that's weird guys $20 TTS I'm going to do actually there's one other coming through hold on frantic donated $20 her
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TTS Reader / Brianargument was the man protects because he is built to do so what if that bullet was 100% un alive in the person it touches should the man take it instead of the woman are women lives worth more
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Paulawhy do you think the woman should take it instead of the man is the man's life worth more but he's asking you because you say yes the man should take the bullet because I believe men are men are the
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Paulaprotectors and the providers that's just in man's inherit trait and that's how God intended them to be that's why that's why God intended women to remain
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Brian Atlaschased and be virgins until marriage completely agree with you you guys have rejected the social contract you take the bullet you take the bullet you pay for the first
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TTS Reader / Briandate okay good talk good talk guys that was yes well Devon Jackson donated $20 joyful Zim you soft [ __ ] are why women have the H
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Brian Atlasthey have nowaday simps simps are ruining simps are ruining everything okay Nicole who's Nicole I'm Nicole you're Nicole okay sorry my too many people here uh Nicole yes once you went on a date with a guy he seared your hand
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Brian Atlaswith a butter knife and he was burning it on top of a candle what did he also you still have the scar show us the scar oh [ __ ] wait to the camera to the camera up damn I don't know if they can see it
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Multiple Guests (02)but it's just like a little triangle right there oh yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah that's F oh do you you pretty much describe the story in a nutshell I was uh I was working out at a gym and the
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Multiple Guests (02)guy worked at the gym and he asked to take me out for dinner and we went out for dinner and it was a nice restaurant and everything was going pretty well he was giving me the mysterious vibe that some women seek but uh I didn't realize
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Multiple Guests (02)that he had a butter knife that he was laying on top of a candle and out of nowhere he like reached to grab my hand I thought this is kind of cute and he grabbed my hand he pinned down my wrist
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Multiple Guests (02)and he just seared my hand and for weeks I had this flap of skin that was just I would for sure Jeffrey activity I
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Multiple Guests (02)never talk to him again but that's like wild BDSM Behavior that's not chill that's not chill I know you should have seared him with a fork been like [ __ ] I was a little caught off guard I didn't
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Multiple Guests (02)know what to think of it cuz I'd only ever been in one relationship wait I have a question sure if you guys had to be
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Brian Atlasseared by a utensil what which one like Fork spoon or knife I will allow Spork
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Brian AtlasSpork you can also get a spork seing okay Spork if I get a can I sear can I get a spork and sear your other hand no you okay never mind uh you said why does
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Multiple Guests (02)the host and his male guest put such an emphasis on high body counts and pasts do you want to elaborate on that well so so some of the some of the the feedback that I got from my family and friends
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Multiple Guests (02)well why would you want to go on that show they're so awful to women and all they care about is body count and reading your looks and all of the things that we touched upon tonight true right
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Multiple Guests (02)um I I I just I think I covered it earlier when I talked about my one of my fundamental Christian beliefs is that you can become new again um in Seeking a
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Multiple Guests (02)relationship with Jesus and I just find that too many women I can't speak for all the women but it seems as though a lot of women leave this show feeling worthless and I would just like to only some of them put an emphasis that you
07:57:39
Multiple Guests (02)are not worthless no matter what your past is um that you can absolutely someone will value you and love you well so I mean like we're just speaking about reality you can't shoot
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Brian Atlasthe messenger so former only fans girls can be saved by Christ men do not need to then disregard their back baggage and
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Multiple Guests (02)marry them these are completely compatible beliefs or do you disagree no I I do agree cuz like and I've heard this analogy before in the on the show
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Multiple Guests (02)where you've asked women would you um date a guy who has beaten several of his ex-girlfriends and that answer is obviously no I would not ever date
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Multiple Guests (02)someone who has the past uh of domestic violence and I do find it on the same caliber as what we're talking about when it comes to body count because there is a lot of baggage and Trauma that comes
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Brian Atlaswith body count sure well speaking of Body Count who here thinks show of hands that men are insecure if they care about a woman's body count show of hands
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Brian Atlasdepends depends depends they're it depends like he's like she has 10 bodies I can't do it that's ridiculous that's
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Brian Atlasjust ridiculous this an outrageous number outage outrageous Preposterous how dare he um Okay show up hands does
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Brian Atlasanybody okay going around the table what is your body count starting with you probably like I'd say by
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Multiple Guests (02)now I'd estimate like 100 to
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Multiple Guests (02)110 100 to around there sure okay 11 11 okay 25 to 30 25 to 30 sure eight eight
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Brian Atlasokay that's private whoa hey hold on all these lovely women before you answered the question that's unfair for you to not not answering it how uh wow wait didn't you wait did I missed that thing
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Paulain your notes you said you've been celibate wait did I go over your notes I have done the celibacy thing twice for two years at a time you think about me I'm the one who's been celibate forell
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Brian Atlaslong two separate times okay I have done it do you want to give us a range how about that like no range
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Brian Atlasno is it over 100 no okay what about you body count I'm not saying that's it's private scoot your mic to the edge of the table it's private R do you want to do range
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Brian Atlasno two what about the women you [ __ ] with your husband or did you not count them I didn't count them okay all right what about you three uh that information is for me and my
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Multiple Guests (02)husband range do you want to do range no but I will say I can count them on my hands hands that's right all right next I would also say that that's private but it is under as many fingers as I have
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Brian Atlaswhat about you I'm also going wait hold on but you you said you were a former slute okay do you want to do a range range yes uh it's 20 to 25 okay that's
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Multiple Guests (02)fair what about you um I'm going to keep keep that private but I have never had a one night stand so it's not very high you could still have a high body
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Brian Atlascount no and never had a one night stand no like I'm like you [ __ ] twice and then you're you dip I'm very I've never had a one night stand I've never had a one night stand I don't have sex with
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Brian Atlassomebody until I'm in a relationship with them so that's touching I love that for you how many relationships have you been uh that's nobody's business oh wow
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Multiple Guests (02)I see you were trying to do the you were trying to do the yeah the math cuz if she's been in this many relation I didn't lose my virginity till I was like 18 so it's not like and most of my
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Brian Atlasrelationships are pretty long so it's not a high number sure uh where were we with the notes here you know what I'm going to let the chats come in while I get caught up on exactly where the notes
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TTS Reader / Brianare we have some chats coming in we have who is it jtk JK JK donated $20 regarding On's gripe about guys lying
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TTS Reader / Brianabout their unit size I've only ever lied about it being small and I never bring it up unless she does and 'll say I may not bot out but I'll scrape the
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Brian Atlassides yeah I don't even get like why it's not you can't lie about it I mean you can but I don't know if it would induce a woman to want to sleep with you
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Brian Atlasbut if she does sleep with you and it's smaller than what you said it is she's going to be disappoint appointed like you got to my my theory on this like you got a
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Brian Atlasdownplay and then when you come in a little bit below average so you have a strategy you got to be like I'm terrible in bed and then when you like just only
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Brian Atlasslightly disappoint them they're going to be like oh okay my my expectations were managed go is Right am I you girls know what I'm talking about like you got to tell the girl you got to tell the
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Brian Atlasgirl it's going to be like 30 seconds but when it lasts 2 minutes she's going to be 31 and you obviously she's going to be so happy she's going to be she's going to be on cloud n oh my God it was
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Brian Atlasthe best two minutes of my life right you guys know what I'm talking about okay like and you got to say like I have a micr penis and then when it's like below average then she's like oh okay
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Multiple Guests (02)you don't have a micr penis I am now moderately unremarkably satisfied are you talking to all the men out there
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Brian Atlaslike this is their straty they got to do okay yes but I think you got to say like you're average in bed or like you're bad in bed and then you come in like right
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Brian Atlaslike she's not disappointed but she was like that that's the sweet spot for [ __ ] chicks okay like that's where
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TTS Reader / Brianyou're always accountable for you past regardless of any repentance a high body count does not go away nor does the accountability for a high body count is
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Brian Atlasa big red flag market value decreased boom multiply by three and that's the real number for the body counts for the body counts okay uh we did Natalie we did oh joy let me see I think we got
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Brian Atlasthrough all your yeah yes Queen wait their girlfriend uh yes we Nicole yes Nicole wait oh hold hold on oh yeah okay the
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Brian Atlasbody count thing you said their levels of hypocrisy when speaking on how worthless women become when they have passed but don't never focus on how little value men bring who are also addicted to porn who have had dozens or hundreds of bodies oh I don't think
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Multiple Guests (02)anybody says women are worthless I've never said that maybe Andrew did just kidding he probably he he didn't say that I mean maybe disposable or dismissed it would be a better way wa she wants a guy to take the bullet for
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Multiple Guests (02)her yeah I disagree with that and you want man to Die For You Bruno said he jump into front of a train you know he right that's all the grenade I think
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Multiple Guests (02)you're talking about no doesn't he say I'll jump he says he cash a grenade and jump in front of a train isn't the song called Grenade yeah but he does of a
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Brian Atlastrain I see okay he's doing it no well I mean really quickly on that I think men and women value different things I think women don't really care all that much about body count or prom
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Brian Atlaspast promiscuity in men I think men care lot a lot more typically it seems like women care about a man's future men care about a woman's past that's just men and women we value different things and but
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Brian AtlasI I don't object like if a woman care doesn't want to date a guy who has a high body count or who is promiscuous that's totally fine like I don't have a double standard there like oh women you have to date high body count men like or
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Brian Atlasthat's no women can have the exact same standard that men have but I think it happens to be the case that women there are more women who care less about body count uh than the reverse do you think
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Multiple Guests (02)that if men had access to sex the way that women have access to sex that men's body counts would be significantly higher uh yeah sure absolutely okay cuz
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Multiple Guests (02)my my my stance is is like I don't think that there's a big difference between a woman who uh has slept with a hundred men versus a guy who's jacked off to thousands or tens of thousands of women
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Multiple Guests (02)behind a screen I think it's just as uh MH awful and just as damaging just as damaging cuz that that man is not going to make a good husband to you I think
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Brian Atlasthey're both damaging like if a man is has porn addiction I don't think I mean me personally like if I'm in a relationship with a girl uh I and we're having sex regularly I'm not watching
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Brian Atlasporn I'm not masturbating I'm saving my I'm saving that for her um and I don't think men should be like liking other chicks Instagram photos I don't think they should be following IG models on
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Brian AtlasInstagram I don't follow anybody on Instagram except my own accounts um but uh I don't know they're different um like you can't get an STD
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Multiple Guests (02)from like masturbating the porn I feel like you can get STD STD on your brain though like I feel like it's just as poisonous it's just because those thoughts are there right you and and I think it's damaging but I don't know if
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Natalie Tasha Thompsonit's and it's creating unrealistic standards in your future relationships so yeah uh sure I guess oh the science shows just the terrible impact that it
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Natalie Tasha Thompsonhas on the brain it's horrible for you not to mention just like when you look at an addiction obviously I know that some people might not necessarily consider it an addiction but when you watch pornography it gives off the same
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Natalie Tasha Thompsondopamine in the brain as a line of cocaine and so if you're doing that time and time and time and time again obviously you would typically build an addiction to cocaine in that sense you would be doing something similar with
08:09:30
Natalie Tasha Thompsonpornography I think it's something really easy for people to kind of write off as not an addiction because it has become so normalized um but when you look at the science behind it it is it's
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Natalie Tasha Thompsontragic what it's doing to people and it's not even a man's issue it's a people issue um and I just kind of feel for anybody who has been trapped in that cycle final notes here for the final
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Brian Atlasperson and then we're going to get this wrapped soon Courtney you said you're your entire dating experience has felt far from Pro positive which is why you've chosen to remain celibate for almost 2 years mhm I'm proud of you
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Brian Atlascongrats congrats thanks guys but of the gender swaps was there any dude who you would
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Brian Atlaslike hit tonight like any girl here like the gender swaps wait no okay never mind um before that you were nearly in a two-year relationship with someone you believe was the one for the first time
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Brian Atlasyou experienced what you thought was that fairy tale love you seen the movies he was amazing but you later discovered after the relationship ended he had been secretly struggling with alcohol addiction yep throughout your time
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Brian Atlastogether you were Mis you were uh mistreated and treated well uh both of those creating a confusing emotional roller coaster wasn't until after the breakup he admitted his alcohol addiction and
08:10:52
Brian Atlasthat's when everything clicked the angry cool cruel moments were a result of the addiction while the kind and loving side the the person you always wish you could have seen more of was the real him yeah
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Brian Atlasgood times uh you said you love being spoiled I do but it's not about expensive gifts for you what truly makes you happy is when a guy surprises you with something he remembers like picking up in an aisle while you're browsing
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Brian Atlastogether or when he plans a suite uh when he wait hold on what the uh when he plans what sound are we going with don't worry about it um he plans he plans a sweet spontaneous date like
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Brian Atlasbowling or hitting up an arcade without you having to ask small gestures like flowers or handwritten notes mean so much to you you're all about sentimental thoughtful gestures because that's your love language you're also Giver of gifts
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Brian Atlasand experiences not just in romantic relationships so when a partner or someone I'm interested in acknowledges outside of me it feels really special and appreciated I don't know man that sounds like a lot of work I got to
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Multiple Guests (02)remember something you picked up in an aisle like 3 mon months ago and I got to go back and like buy the [ __ ] hey my ex did it that's cute um I mean like if I'm walking down an aisle in Target and you like if I've done this for people right
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Multiple Guests (02)like and your partner picks up something and they look at it and you know that they want to buy it and they don't and they put it down like I've gone back and bought it for my partner I just think it's like cute little gestures it
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Multiple Guests (02)doesn't have to be yeah it doesn't have to be expensive I'm like I'm not that's not my both people could do that that's great fair enough I love that I love that Sherry $6
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Brian Atlaspickup line and I want the ladies to weigh in so you step to a girl you got to be confident lock the eye contact eye contact very important you look at her deep in her deep in her eyes and you
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Brian Atlasstep you introduce yourself hi I'm and you this is what you say next have you ever been with a premature ejaculator it gets every time bro they
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Multiple Guests (02)love that [ __ ] she knows that's pretty funny that is pretty funny no it's who said anything about being funny it's funny hold on you thought I was joking
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Brian Atlasyou thought you thought I was kidding around you that's a joke I like and appreciate honesty it I'm telling you boys you can't lead like oh I got a big dick girl
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Brian Atlasyou want some dick no you got to say like some some semi embarrassing [ __ ] M premature ejaculator what's up how you doing right it would work right I mean I'd probably laugh and then just be like
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TTS Reader / Brianpoint I disagree Brian women do care about body count the older a man is and remains a virgin they find less attractive it gives off why does no one
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Multiple Guests (02)want him women desire men that other women want true that's interesting agree with that what do you mean you had somebody on your podcast
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Brian Atlasthat was like 27 and he was a virgin and we've had two we've had two studly men on the show but they're like Christian and they're waiting until marriage and they're I think it was
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Brian Atlasreally attractive though yeah but I think like the secular guy who's remaining a virgin yeah I don't know I I agree with you that there can
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TTS Reader / Brianbe like Chads who are virgins but yeah I don't know um we have this one Selena gornes Selena Gores $20
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TTS Reader / Brian304s don't have a problem finding a man who wants them they just can't find the man they want who also wants them our actions and attitudes determine our
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Brian Atlasvalue for both men and women H yeah going back to Courtney you said you're believer in Old School values by the way final uh if you guys want I guess Last
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Brian AtlasCall on the roast if you want uh I mean we'll get them in as they come in through the show but uh you said you're a big believer in Old School values if a guy doesn't know basic etiquette like
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Brian Atlasthe sidewalk rule doesn't open the door for you expects intimacy on the first date that's a major turnoff you're a Die Hard Demi Dem Demi demisexual yeah English is my second language uh so I need to truly connect
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Brian Atlaswith you and have a meaningful intelligent connection we kind of talked about that uh so you're believer in Old School values big
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Multiple Guests (02)believer I pay attention to if a guy opens the door for me and I do kind
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Multiple Guests (02)of sorry um and I do kind of hold him accountable okay for that but that's just if I'm looking for like like I
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Multiple Guests (02)sorry um I I don't just date to date like I date because I see potential in that person like being with me long term so it's
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Brian Atlaslike I'm more particular I guess you think you can be intimate without being sexual yeah just having like a good connection yeah 100% great uh final two
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Brian Atlasparagraphs you said one thing about you is you're going to live on life on your terms so if you decide to pack a bag and move to another country you're going to do it no hesitation you believe no one should hold back for a partner you only get one life and it's meant to be
08:18:35
Brian Atlasexperienced and enjoyed to the fullest if three months of back backpacking through a new country makes someone walk away it just shows they're insecure and can't see the bigger picture you would never hold a partner back from pursuing an adventure or experience in fact
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Brian Atlasthat's one reason you've dated so many amazing guys from different parts of the world like you did an Australian guy South African guy long distance can absolutely work if both people are secure and know how to nurture the
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Brian Atlasconnection mhm H okay this kind of ties in a little bit to like the guy not wanting the girl to go out to like the bar or club or Rave or uh excuse me or whatever it is
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Brian Atlasor I do go to Rave so I would never date somebody that tells me I can't so you okay I'll ask the question so let's say you've been dating a guy for a year you you love him he loves you and he's like hey I'm not really comfortable with you
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Multiple Guests (02)going to a rave would you be like that's no I'm I'm going and that's the end of the relationship or yeah 100% because I work in music and EDM is where my whole thing is so in
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Brian Atlasorder for me to network I have to go to these things well let's say this was purely you were just going for the enjoyment of the experience it wasn't business related like you're just going as a concert goer yeah no I wouldn't I
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Brian Atlaswouldn't because for me that is my concert I don't like going to like watch pop stars I go and watch DJs so no but that's that's what I'm saying like you're not going with the expressed
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Brian Atlasintent of networking you're just going to the Rave like you're just going there as a as a rave goer you're not going there to like Network you're going there
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Multiple Guests (02)to Rave I guess maybe those are one in the same for you I don't know but yeah no I wouldn't date somebody who ever told me that I can't go and do something that I
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Multiple Guests (02)enjoy CU for me that is a concert and I also am sober at those things so it's not I don't put myself into positions where I would jeopardize my relationship
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Brian Atlasby going to something that I enjoy okay but you said you're a big believer in Old School values so I mean the sidewalk rule so like I'm just confused the sidewalk rule pertains to
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Brian Atlasprotection the guy has to die because there's an oncoming car but you won't he's like hey babe don't go to this Rave where you're
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Brian Atlaswearing like I know they the Rave gear is pretty revealing um wouldn't that be old school values
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Multiple Guests (02)for him to be like no you're not going to this I well first of all I think i' just by choice like I dress a little bit more modesty like normally I just wear like an oversized t-shirt and
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Multiple Guests (02)sneakers but you know they dress super revealing at R and I have no problem with that like I've done it as well but I also would not pursue or date somebody
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Multiple Guests (02)who wasn't a part of that Venture as well because we wouldn't align I would never put myself or them in a situation where they would feel like their boundaries are being crossed like I
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Brian Atlaswould know before getting into a relationship if they have a problem with me going to a festival okay what if he was fine with you going to the festival but you wanted
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Brian Atlasto go wearing something more on the r feeling side and he's like don't wear that I would never date a guy that would say that but you will date you want to date a guy who has to walk on the uh
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Brian Atlascloser to the street so then the event that a car is beining it towards you he pushes you out of the way and he has to die okay so you won't not dress a
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Brian Atlascertain way wait just a you want a guy to die for you but you he's like I'm not comfortable with you wearing that end of a relationship there are guys out there
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Multiple Guests (02)that that are like that I've dated them like it's not unheard of for a guy to walk on the outside open the door for you you know like my boyfriend does all those things he's he's a complete
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Multiple Guests (02)gentleman yeah you can be a gentleman like I act like a lady with him you know like it's nice to just like let him lead I very much so act like a lady you said you're a big believer in Old School
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Brian Atlasvalues that is old SCH so should the man be the
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Brian Atlasleader I don't think that's a part of my old school values I think that I can pick and choose which ones I relate to ah this is the this is the the thing when it comes to feminism you want to
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Brian Atlaspick and choose oh here are all the like positive components of like traditionalism and uh like old school values I like it when men pay I like it
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Brian Atlaswhen uh they protect me I didn't say the first or the second one I know I'm not necessarily speaking about you but you want God to protect you you said the sidewalk rule that's literally the guy
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Brian Atlasis willing to walk closer to the road in the event a car is beining towards you he can push you out of the way and protect you at maybe a risk to his own
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Multiple Guests (02)uh life and limb okay that's your standard for somebody that I'm going to look like at as a life partner absolutely on the first date right you expect that on the first dat so I talk
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Multiple Guests (02)to people before I go out on a date I don't just go out on a date if I don't check if we go on this date you're willing to die for me I mean that's wild is that what you do like no but isn't
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Brian Atlasthat the sidewalk rule like if you boil it down when I'm talking to I explain like I really hold like a high value to
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Multiple Guests (02)gentlemen like men that open doors things like that like people when when I'm talking to somebody outside of a friendship you know who I am what I value and what I'm looking for and I would hope that they
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Multiple Guests (02)would do the same and that's how you find people that you align with what do you have do you think you're giving them the same respect back again with like I said earlier you're they're willing to die
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Multiple Guests (02)for you but you can't even change your shirt my shirt babes I wear oversized t-shirts I wear stuff more covered than you in the hypothetical understand that but I would also respect my man if he if
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Multiple Guests (02)I had a man he was like Hey I'm not comfortable with you wearing that I would be respectful enough to be like all right yeah like change oh I'd have a conversation about it like if it I would everything is always open for discussion
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Brian Atlasand conversation wait can I ask you a question though is the is the walking the sidewalk rule is that open to discussion he's like babe before I do
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Brian Atlasthis I want to have a conversation about it and I want you to hear me out I would totally and he's his position is contrary to your position he's like no I
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Multiple Guests (02)want you you to walk on the inside of the sidewalk when you have a partner whether you're married or not you have to hear the other person out that's called communication and understanding
08:25:36
Brian Atlasokay even if I don't agree with it I still have to hear my partner out but so you would hear this guy out who on the first date he's like hey I want to I want you to hear me out I think that
08:25:47
Brian Atlasthis is a rather sexist gender expectation on men and I don't know if you consider yourself more Li Li liberal or Progressive yeah exactly uh maybe you consider yourself more liberal or
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Multiple Guests (02)Progressive maybe you're open to dating like do you prefer to date a guy who's liberal I don't if you're liberal I'm I am just open in general look if I connect with somebody like if it's I
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Brian Atlasdon't I just allow whatever you'll did a trump supporter I don't be honest I you wouldn't you wouldn't the Trump
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Brian Atlassupporter he has a red Mega hat you're you're you're he's most he's walking closer to the road but he's wearing you're dating him if somebody openly
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Multiple Guests (02)wore that no I probably would not um so but that's not to say that I don't respect other people that may or may not vote differently than me I don't think that that's like sure can you just
08:26:46
Brian Atlasrepeat though what you said about you said you like to pick and choose is that what you said of what when you were talking about I look for in apartment abolutely I think everybody pick picks and choose right sure but this is what's confusing
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Brian Atlasto me okay is that women are the most like modern non-traditional women ever but you want to pick and choose like you want a guy to pay for not you but women in general
08:27:13
Brian Atlaswant a guy to pay for the first date want a guy to be protector want a guy to lead want a guy to take initiative want a guy to be all these things that relate specifically to a
08:27:23
Brian Atlasmore traditional gender Dynamic okay but then in the same breath you want to throw away any of the perhaps
08:27:33
Brian Atlastraditional expectations that would fall on you okay so all the traditional components that you stand to benefit from men being protectors men being leaders men being providers paying for
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Multiple Guests (02)dates Etc yes I love those let's keep those uh but do you date men huh do you date men why would that be relevant but no but why would that be relevant it's
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Multiple Guests (02)it's relevant in what I'm about to say I think maybe it's a California thing I don't know I mean a little bit of a
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Multiple Guests (02)Freebird over here but good song I feel like it is very hard to find
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Multiple Guests (02)a man that is willing to be the provider and the protector so I like you saying that like men have to be
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Multiple Guests (02)this and have to be that like show me a man that is like that that lives in La I'm so sorry to interrupt but I do have to go cuz I flew in here so thank you for we're about to rap if you can
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Multiple Guests (02)stay like we're literally about to R less than 10 minutes yeah yeah okay 10:15 all right what traditional things do you bring to a man as a
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Multiple Guests (02)woman traditional can you elaborate like you expect a man to be the protector and provider XYZ what do you bring as a traditional woman did not say that okay so the sidewalk rule what do you if he's
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Multiple Guests (02)going to do that for you what are you going to do for him as a traditional woman what is your definition of traditional woman the man provides protects cuz I'm talking about like things that I look for that are
08:29:11
Multiple Guests (02)like Traditional Values I guess right will you follow a man's
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Brian Atlaslead elaborate I mean the Rave scenario I mean you already rejected this idea that he would not want you to go to the Rave so I granted the scenario
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Brian Atlaswell okay he's letting you go to the Rave but he doesn't want you to dress in this specific way you won't even submit to him on that you're not
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Multiple Guests (02)submissive I'm neutral like I'm I'm not I'm not a submissive I am I am a very independent fully capable okay financially supporting myself woman then
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Brian Atlaswhy does the man need to literally potentially give his life for you you want a guy to be willing to give
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Brian Atlashis life to protect you but he he if he says babe I'm not comfortable with you wearing that to your Rave that's where