08:30:11Brian Atlasthe relationship is over but you want him to die for you no I did not say that I would have a convers no no no no
08:30:21Brian Atlasyou said the sidewalk rule you it's a rule the guy has to walk closer to the street it's implied in the example you provided yeah if I'm looking for a life partner
08:30:33Brian Atlasabsolutely are you not looking for that I thought you don't do like one night stand so obviously you're looking for a relationship I mean currently I'm not but so you'd be so what I mean I don't
08:30:44Multiple Guests (02)know what you're saying like you would date a guy for three months who wouldn't do that I would not date somebody who
08:30:52Brian Atlasever prevented me from progressing in in my career I work in music and you maybe men should have the attitude of I
08:31:02Brian Atlaswouldn't date a girl who would only date me if I had to [ __ ] die for her that's okay then we're not compatible and that's totally fine I hope they find you hold the expectation I'm trying to
08:31:14Multiple Guests (02)see if there's like you don't what I bring to the table so for you to say that like what what do you mean you don't know how I am in a relationship you
08:31:25Brian Atlasdon't know what I provide I feel like it's very reasonable for me to say hey do you mind opening the door for me like that's not crazy why why but why do you want you say you believe in Old School uh tradition or what what was it I don't
08:31:38Brian Atlaswant to misquote you you said you're a big believer in Old School values guys who don't know basic etiquette like the sidewalk rule doesn't open the door for you that's that's chivalry yeah and I think that's a trait that a lot of men
08:31:50Multiple Guests (02)should have I think it's okay so should women be submissive I think a woman should do whatever she feels is right for her then should men do whatever they feel is
08:31:59Brian Atlasright for them which would entail not having to do all these arbitrary traditional gender roles let me revoke what I just said revoke what I think
08:32:10Multiple Guests (02)okay go ahead every person should do what is right for them it's not male or female it's whatever is right for you whatever is right for your relationship whatever
08:32:21Multiple Guests (02)is right for your marriage whatever works for you works for you and I know what works for me I that's just it's not a deal breaker I'm not
08:32:33Multiple Guests (02)going to be like like if I meet an amazing man I'm not going to be like [ __ ] you you don't walk on the outside of the sidewalk that's insane I mean but isn't that one of the
08:32:44Brian Atlasthings that you're looking for I can look for something and still not be an [ __ ] so you'd be totally cool like this this guy but you're saying he has to make up for it
08:32:54Brian Atlasbasically said that that's putting words in my mouth but you you okay you said well he's this like really [ __ ] amazing guy but he doesn't do the sidewalk rule
08:33:04Brian Atlasthing I never said he would have to make up for it you just put what's in okay so you would date a guy who doesn't follow the sidewalk rule if he wait no no no that totally contradicts what you said earlier you said if it's a guy I'm
08:33:17Multiple Guests (02)looking for marriage for yeah he has to do it that I look for gentlemen behaviors absolutely like opening the door for me but it's not a deal breaker and you're not a piece of [ __ ] if you didn't grow up or have that instilled in
08:33:30Multiple Guests (02)you okay so would you have a conversation with him like okay yeah earlier I said everything is a conversation and everything is communication in a relationship friendship and a marriage but what I mean by that is let's say he didn't do
08:33:42Brian Atlasit on the first date would you then have a a conversation with him trying to uh assert your standards onto him or would you be would you be totally okay with
08:33:54Multiple Guests (02)for the entire duration of the the relationship he did not adhere to the sidewalk rule so I dated a guy once who didn't grow up with those like you know initiatives and
08:34:06Multiple Guests (02)I literally had a conversation with him and I said hey like I know this is dumb but for me like I really value when a guy opens the door for me would you mind
08:34:17Brian Atlastrying to do that and that's that's beautiful now the guy comes to you and has a conversation with you saying hey listen uh I'm trying to remember
08:34:28Brian Atlasprecisely what the words you used I really value when a woman respects when I ask her to not dress a certain way MH he could have the same exact
08:34:38Multiple Guests (02)conversation about that and you would say no right I would say totally understand that's your boundary but this relationship is over
08:34:50Multiple Guests (02)how do we get past this and communicate to where I don't feel like I'm being suppressed and you also feel respected it's a conversation it's
08:35:02Multiple Guests (02)communication so are you saying it's my way or the highway I didn't say that do you believe in like going out of the way for your partner like my boyfriend and me are always trying to go above and
08:35:11Multiple Guests (02)beyond for absolutely I for my like an important part of my biggest love language is gift giving and acts of
08:35:21Multiple Guests (02)service I like I love cooking for my partners I will do laundry I that is something that like I love cleaning
08:35:30Multiple Guests (02)like I have gotten an X I took them to Hawaii like all expenses paid like I don't you know what I mean like I like to go above and beyond of course I want
08:35:42Multiple Guests (02)that in return right just feels like there's boundaries on like there's limits on on everything it just depends on the the topic in the relationship for sure I think every
08:35:52Multiple Guests (02)relationship is different and everything you know everybody has their own idea of what fits for them yeah I agree okay so what would be like just jumping to the
08:36:03Brian Atlasconclusion you have the conversation with him what would be the compromise for
08:36:12Multiple Guests (02)you I think like going through okay well what what makes you comfortable like what do you think we can agree on like hey I'm going to wear this or like hey
08:36:22Multiple Guests (02)do you want to go with me no he doesn't want to go with you you see I why doesn't he want to go with me what's the compromise though just cutting to the chase what's the compromise having a conversation no I know the
08:36:35Multiple Guests (02)conversation's being had what's the compromise the compromise is coming to an agreement on something that doesn't make him uncomfortable and doesn't make me feel
08:36:46Multiple Guests (02)like I'm suppressing who I am so would you change your clothing at all maybe sure maybe I don't dress revealing first of all no but the
08:36:57Brian Atlashypothetical the hypothetical is establishing that in this specific instance you were going to dress revealing and he had an issue with it and you said well I wouldn't dat a guy who tried to uh this is totally
08:37:10Multiple Guests (02)hypothetical cuz I would never date a guy that ever tries to tell me where I should travel how long I should be gone for I just that's not who I am and why are would why should a guy date you
08:37:21Brian Atlasdon't you think relationships are give and take yeah but so why should a guy date you when you tell him where he needs to walk on the side of the road did I not say that that like isn't
08:37:34Brian Atlassomething that like if he was a great guy I wouldn't just be like [ __ ] you you don't know the sidewalk rule that I would have a conversation about and you would but you would eventually want him
08:37:44Multiple Guests (02)to arrive to agree with you I think that if you value your partner then you value the things that make them feel good and if opening the door for your partner
08:37:57Brian Atlasmakes them feel good whether you think it's stupid or not you're going to want to do it why doesn't that apply to it makes the guy feel good that you don't go and you listen to him and you respect
08:38:07Brian Atlashim and you don't go to that Rave dressed in a a way that he objects to he can go with me we can have a conversation about what I'm going to wear like it's
08:38:18Multiple Guests (02)not relationships are give and take 100% and again okay I don't date people that don't understand what industry I work in because it won't work let me a 9 to5 will not
08:38:32Brian Atlaswork okay uh well I mean we can at this point we're kind of just going back and forth I'm going to let a couple of rast come in I have like one or two final things on that
08:38:41TTS Reader / Brianbut spicy we9 donated $20 so where is
08:38:46TTS Reader / Briandark L you at tonight she's she is um I don't know to be honest thank you though thank you Endeavor 40 donated
08:39:01TTS Reader / Brian$19.99 to the question earlier what can a woman bring respect is our love language remove materialism and bring yourself we will deliver more to the
08:39:11TTS Reader / Brianunexpected submissiveness makes you more powerful big SAS energy donated $20 never heard of sidewalk rule got roasted
08:39:22TTS Reader / Brianby The Girl I'm dating about it after our first date open doors otherwise very shiv I called her Tik Tok you stole that
08:39:31TTS Reader / Brianfrom she giggled I walk road side now that's funny chore 3core donated $20 chair 3 you look gorgeous can you please
08:39:43TTS Reader / Brianshow us your arm tattoos also would you date a guy who makes six figures who has a house a pool and a boat into the what
08:39:53TTS Reader / Brianyou so donated $20 not surprised that a woman grasps onto the outliers the men you are talking about experien Temptation you don't desire their
08:40:03TTS Reader / Brianvirginity you desire their self-control that isn't the majority of men that's a good point Michael Jones donated $20 chair one is cooked she wants to have her cake
08:40:15TTS Reader / Brianand Eed too you don't get to Cherry pick what Trad values you believe in you're either tror modern and in your case you're too modern for you
08:40:26TTS Reader / Brianyour XD donated $20 chair one's statement about living life to the fullest is a perfect encapsulation of modern Hedonism and a rejection of Duty
08:40:36TTS Reader / Brianit will be that which destroys our civilization sad stuff sad stuff very SS donated $30 Blondie you pick and choose
08:40:47Brian Atlasso about those eggplants wow uh here while that Mr Jimmy Blondie you aren't traditional you want to live the single girl life and want some simp to worship and die for you to fulfill your need for
08:40:58TTS Reader / Brianattention thank you Mr Jimmy do some of your parents realize their living proof that two don't make a right like were some of you born this dumb or did you have to take lessons reason why divorce
08:41:10TTS Reader / Brianrates are high big SAS energy donated $20 I obliged to sidewalk rule for my girl something I'd never heard before because
08:41:21TTS Reader / Brianshe's a Christian girl who is truly feminine and good I would never have been so willing to oblige to anything else thank you big sass I appreciate I
08:41:31TTS Reader / Briandon't know did that come in twice blazing Dunes donated $20 thank you blazing Brian keep up the hard work apprciate it sh one did you get dropped
08:41:42TTS Reader / Brianas a kid cause your brain is all scrambled honestly probably I have ADHD
08:41:50Brian AtlasH Slay Slay Slay Slay yeah I don't know um I'm I'm just confused as to like the reconciliation
08:42:00Brian Atlashere when it comes to okay here's like you believe in old school values you want a guy to die for you basically no I didn't say that's implication that's the
08:42:12Brian Atlasimplication of the sidewalk rule explain to me the sidewalk rule just explain to me do you not know it okay fine I'll so the sidewalk rule
08:42:22Brian Atlasis the guy walks closer to the road where cars are driving to protect you okay from Cars okay so conceivably if he's closer
08:42:33Brian Atlasto the road and a car is like driving onto the sidewalk or something he could either push you out of the way or he's more likely to be the one that gets hit injured and the thought that counts I
08:42:44Brian Atlasdon't know the thought that counts it's a thought it's just a gentleman thing to do and it's a ladylike thing to do to defer to your boyfriend's uh leadership
08:42:56Brian Atlasin a relationship and if he says babe I don't want you to wear that you say yes sir I respect you that's it and you
08:43:04Multiple Guests (02)don't do it easy yeah cuz I I don't like allow I don't think anybody should ever allow somebody to to what to have a
08:43:19Multiple Guests (02)boundary that's why there's so many different people in the world because you find the people that you align with when it comes to finding your person yeah I agree with you but you have okay
08:43:30Brian Atlasyour expectations of men super super like traditional old school values no so here's the thing my expectation be nice to other people I
08:43:40Multiple Guests (02)pay attention to how you talk to waitresses like do you help other people out when we're out like are you a good person are you a good person are you loyal can you open the door it's not
08:43:54Multiple Guests (02)like I'm sitting here being like like can you buy me a Louis Vuitton bag or take me on a dinner for $500 you can open the door for yourself I don't want to why because I want to see that my partner wants to do that for me and
08:44:06Brian Atlasthat's okay for me to your part wants to see that you won't go to a rave dress like a strumpet a strumpet strumpet yes
08:44:15TTS Reader / Brianstrumpet sounds like a pastry my dude it does they're delicious okay oh okay I don't do that I don't do that all right well uh we're going to just be
08:44:25TTS Reader / Brianguess rats donated $30 besides Blondie can you stop by [ __ ] the camera literally don't know what you're talking about it's definitely true you've been doing that [ __ ] all night what are you talking
08:44:37TTS Reader / Brianabout it's crazy man that shit's crazy uh let's do the patriated $20 [Music] burrito I'm going to get some food after
08:44:49Brian Atlasthis trust me thank you yeah in fact I'm going have I'm going to randomly pick a girl to clean the bathroom oh you know what you're going to you down to clean my bathroom
08:45:00TTS Reader / Brianin the Blazing D donated $20 you know Brian speaks for most men he has been doing this podcast for years so he has received their opinions yeah oh cuz she
08:45:12Multiple Guests (02)was saying like have you dated men can you only have an like an opin I don't I I I was curious what the point like you asked have you dated because if you haven't dated a man you wouldn't understand how a man is romantically
08:45:25Brian Atlascorrect I am a man that doesn't mean that you understand the dynamic of being in a relationship with one wait I could just reverse this argument to you you're not a man you don't know how men think I am a man I know how men
08:45:35Multiple Guests (02)think no yes I've been in relationships with with women so I can take my own experiences and come to like a but you don't know how it is to have a man treat you correct in a romantic sense I mean
08:45:48Multiple Guests (02)maybe you do I don't know what you do in your private business no I've not dated a guy if that's no okay yeah yeah so so then you don't understand what the dynamic is this is a fallacy have you ever had an
08:46:02Brian Atlasabortion no oh so are you not allowed to have an opinion on abortions because you've never had an abortion I allow everybody to have their own opinion do you have a position on
08:46:13Multiple Guests (02)abortion even though you've never had an abortion my position is everybody should do whatever they want and what makes them happy and if you choice if somebody no if somebody has more concern ative
08:46:25Brian Atlasviews that's great it's not I'm just explaining that you it's a fallacy to say because you haven't had X experience that you can't like form an opinion on
08:46:35Multiple Guests (02)it I don't want to voice my opinion on it because I don't think that's fair to everybody that has differing opinions sometimes it's okay to not voice your opinion but so okay you
08:46:47Brian Atlassaid you asked if I've have ever dated men how does that pertain to me like having opinions on dating how does that pertain to
08:46:59TTS Reader / Brianabortion I'm so sorry I do have that's fine that's fine I'm going to have to go okay that's fine uh yeah I mean we have our last thing here we're going to do a video donated
08:47:08Brian Atlas$20 Brian because you're a psychic give us one psychic prediction oh I actually am a psychic that's why I have these crystals here I'm a clairvoyant so here's my prediction for your future and
08:47:20Brian Atlasany women I'm I'm going to do this one for free cuz I'm hook it up any of you girls here want to ask me for your psychic reading I charge uh I charge $50
08:47:30Brian Atlasokay 50 bucks that's a great price for what second what second psychic reading charge per what per reading time oh okay yeah per I will
08:47:42Brian Atlasgive you your psychic reading okay your psychic reading is as follows great you are going to continue being a musician you're going to start dating a SoundCloud rapper you're going to get Knocked Up you're going to get don't
08:47:55Brian Atlasworry it's going to happen you're going to get Knocked Up and then you're going to get uh you're going to have like multiple baby daddies and then you are going to start a yoga retreat in North
08:48:08Brian AtlasDakota for some reason I don't know I get that from you I'm getting and then yoga and then like some other crazy yoga you're going to start a cult and then you are [ __ ] yeah is there cats and then you're going to live happily ever you're
08:48:22Multiple Guests (02)actually going to live happily ever after minus the like multiple baby daddies that's going to kind of be a problem jokes jokes on you though cuz I actually can't carry my own kids so I actually get to decide when I have a kid
08:48:34Brian Atlasbecause I have to get a surate so that's what I was talking about you were going to get surg obviously oh yeah that's what I meant you were multiple baby
08:48:44TTS Reader / Briandaddies through sery ah so that's how it works okay reasonable chap $20 the assumption is you chose this man you
08:48:56TTS Reader / Briantrust your judgment if so then wouldn't you assume this man has your best interest in mind do so then trust your judgment and listen to your man wait Dam do you have the Patrice video do you know you got it oh sweet okay let's
08:49:09Brian Atlasblast it and then we're rapping all right okay guys listen here's a question here's serious question CU I'm ask you a question okay
08:49:19TTS/Donationsladies if you didn't have a vagina like say it was a terrible train accident right and the doctor was like we have to remove your [ __ ] right
08:49:30TTS/Donationsaway or you're going to die yep how would you keep your man past you get a TW Monon guilty I can't leave the [ __ ] right away cuz you just lost a [ __ ] of the train
08:49:47TTS/Donationsacent can't just walk right out on
08:49:52Brian Atlashim how would you keep your man P that if you didn't have a vagina pause it pause it pause it pause
08:50:01Multiple Guests (02)it pause it pause it okay uh you you answer how do you keep your men huh if you didn't have a vagina how do you keep your men were you
08:50:10Multiple Guests (02)listening hello yeah I was listening keep fried we've been here for like 27 hours I'm trying to get this out here as soon as you answer this question just go ahead how would I keep my man I mean I
08:50:22Multiple Guests (02)would hope that they would not just value me for a vagina I totally agree but he's asking what would you do to keep your
08:50:34Unknown Backgroundman like do you expect him to just not bust nuts or can you just answer a question I don't know how if you just answered a question oh but what
08:50:46Brian Atlasabout can you just answer the question so I can get this out of here this got to she's not leave answer the question have her answer it first okay I'm what's how do you keep your man throat goat throat goat beautiful yeah there's
08:50:59Brian Atlasmultiple holes multiple holes see how easy that is mouth still work mouth still works Pocket [ __ ] pocket she brings in the Pocket [ __ ] okay yeah you could do things to him you huh say that again you could do things to him you
08:51:10Brian Atlascould do things to him that was really graphic thank you next yeah those things I don't know what things cook for him cook for him okay what do you do to keep your man though yeah just cook for him C
08:51:22Brian Atlasokay cool cook for him you weren't cooking before okay you so you just keep doing the same [ __ ] you're doing okay what about you you don't need a vagina to keep your man sexually happy okay what do you do uh there's your mouth
08:51:34Brian Atlasthere's your hand there's your ass ass yeah belly button who knows ear what about you I would literally give up on life you would if the pussy's gone you
08:51:44Multiple Guests (02)give up [ __ ] how you going to give up wait okay what about you I would continue being a great mother and I bring him peace it's beautiful it's
08:51:54Multiple Guests (02)beautiful I would uh be a good wife and I have I still have a butt so okay what about you be patient and agreeable and use that mouth okay play the rest
08:52:09TTS/Donationscool wow nothing you can talk you can talk armpit suck his dick okay
08:52:22TTS/Donationsmouth [ __ ] okay great do you see what I'm saying now I've been getting [ __ ] beam the whole show right but I give women the opportunity to say I'm going to make myself worth more but
08:52:33TTS/Donationsyou just classified yourself as a series of holes but I'm I'm supposed to treat you special
08:52:43TTS/Donationsbut you just a bunch of holes for yourself keep it playing no one said learn how to play Xbox learn how to play pool tell better stories get another [ __ ] that got [ __ ] to come on
08:52:59TTS Reader / Brianin oh no it's okay all right last chats come through then we're wrapping okay three chats blazing Dunes donated $21 I missed most of today's show so if
08:53:10TTS Reader / Brianyou feel this is about you then enjoy a glow stick has a brighter future than you lasts longer too toast donated $20 it's funny this
08:53:23TTS Reader / Brianchick says she is Demi sexual and attracted to intelligence but has literally no opinions on literally anything and barely understand hypotheticals and can barely handle
08:53:33TTS Reader / Brianconversations thank you toast Enlighten donated $20 chair for the face that launched a th000 ship that is all what
08:53:44Brian Atlaschair I don't know what that means yo Christopher C sent you uh thank you for the 20 on cash app Ashley thank you for the five on venmo second Super Chat came through oh I think it's this I've been playing Warframe almost
08:53:56Brian Atlasexclusively for over a decades some guys have been playing wo d and d and other games for even longer we have no problem with commitment it is possible though that you are the problem okay thank you Christopher for the Super Chat appreciate it guys like the video
08:54:08TTS Reader / Briangentlemen oh we have this one coming through me CR rats donated $30 all girls give a kiss to camera before show over I go you can blow a kiss to that camera if
08:54:20Brian Atlasyou guys want lovely okay uh let's see here uh we're going to raid Grayson on Twitch okay Damian uh final question uh who here if the there was a zombie
08:54:33Brian Atlasapocalypse are you going to try to survive or are you just going to like end it like I feel like you would end I cuz you said you said if the [ __ ] was gone you're ending it
08:54:45Brian Atlasif you said you end it there so if the zombie I'm so scared of zombies I what if you have kids though what if you have kids you you do you try to survive or you're like [ __ ] it well how would I have kids who had no p [ __ ] Liv it
08:54:56Brian Atlaswasn't it's a different scenario it's not the same scenario very fair it's not you that that's that would be too tragic you lose the [ __ ] and
08:55:05Brian Atlastheir zombies right you can't you can't lose both you know it's kind of like you you got to pick a battle like if you're like you this is a joke don't be
08:55:15Brian Atlasoffended you can't be like black and gay and trans because you got to pick your it's a oh my God never mind I butchered
08:55:27Brian Atlasthe joke you know what I mean because they're already dealing with one okay there's a better way to say that joke you know what I mean get it get like how
08:55:36Multiple Guests (02)you going to be ugly and all you got to you know damn it's 2 in the morning like I know yeah I love the side so who who
08:55:49Brian Atlasjust ends it if the zombie apocalypse breaks out Abigail you end it or you Survivor I'm a Survivor that's what's up my girl what's up try to survive W surviving there we go surviving
08:56:00Brian Atlassurviving surviving any anybody not surviving I'd rather not you just want to end if if it meant protecting my kids yeah but like that's a deal breaker for me if she's not going to she's not going to ride
08:56:12Brian Atlaswith me in the zombie apocalypse it's over I expect to inherit the Kingdom I want to go I'm going to choose you what if you have kids you got to survive for sure for my kids I would yeah in a
08:56:24Brian Atlashypothetical situation right now I'm single and I have no kids so I would kill myself oh my God anyways um okay Daman we're going to do the raid uh so okay GG oh we didn't do well we don't
08:56:35Brian Atlashave time welled GG well played to the panel last call hit the like button please on your way out Damian if you could pull up the like uh thank you for tuning in tonight guys you could have been any anywhere in the world but you're here with me I appreciate that
08:56:47Brian Atlasthank you to everyone who super chats donates and supports the show your patronage uh we can't do the show without you guys so thank you so much for your patronage we will be live again Sunday at 5:00 p.m. Pacific any girls who want to be on the show you can DM out whatever on Instagram if you can
08:56:59Brian Atlasmake it to Santa Barbara 07s in the chat we're going to do the raid to Grayson he's playing uh pull pull him up pull him up he's about to kill anxia in World of Warcraft he's playing classic I'm going to send the raid thank you guys
08:57:13Brian Atlasfor watching on Twitch guys before I send you over check you check if you have a prime sub drop us a prime sub and drop us a follow if you're watching over there on Twitch all right they're about
08:57:21Brian Atlasto raid anxia guys tell him to dance to tell him whatevers him to dance okay I'm sending the raid over thank you guys for watching on Twitch we're going to send that boom okay that
08:57:33Twitch Raidershould have been sent that should be coming through why not yo is Veil Gonzo Bale yo whatever yo thank you for
08:57:46Twitch Raiderthe raids dog I appreciate it I hope you had a good ass stream do us SL dance oh you want to see the torn dance bro there it is you know what the torn dance to boys oh it's the
08:57:58Brian Atlasbanana this song here these are Bri descriptors of your current there it is all right they're about to kill the slay the dragon they're about to slay anxia they're in
08:58:09Brian Atlasania's later later okay all right you can excile that uh okay 07s in the chat guys I hope you guys have a good night big panel good show thank you guys hope
08:58:19Brian Atlasyou guys have a good night we will see you next time good night guys for