TRIGGERED Girl WALKS OFF The Show?! 4 Kids 4 Fathers?! HEATED DEBATE On Chivalry! | Dating Talk #232
Date: 2025-03-03
Duration: 8h 58m
Guests
Brian AtlasIdentified Speakers
SPEAKER_02Multiple Guests (02)(guest)
SPEAKER_03Dalia(guest)
SPEAKER_04Natalie Tasha Thompson(guest)
SPEAKER_06Brian Atlas(host)
SPEAKER_07TTS Reader / Brian(host)
SPEAKER_09Andrew Wilson(guest)
SPEAKER_11Paula(guest)
SPEAKER_12Joy(guest)
SPEAKER_13Andrea(guest)
SPEAKER_14Tessa(guest)
Key Moments
00:05:30
QuoteCourtney introduces herself as 'ageless' then reluctantly admits 28
“I'm ageless I will let that up to the viewers to decide”
00:17:23
QuoteNatalie explains: mother named her Natalie Tasha because 'Natasha' contains 'Satan' backwards
“my mom liked the name Natasha until she realized that it was a Satan backwards so she decided to make kindergarten hard”
00:25:30
RelationshipElizabeth reveals she has 4 kids with 4 different fathers, 3 have autism - largest family situation on this episode
“four kids four kids all the same father or different fathers different fathers for all four”
00:31:36
OtherKayia/Jade explains her 'civilian celibacy' - does adult film for work but stays celibate with civilians to protect her work
“the problem is like um civilians like jeopardize you know when you're when you're just interacting with people who are also tested”
02:03:00
OtherAbby's situationship drama: her situationship and her date were both at the same baseball game/bar - they all played pool together
“they both invited me to the same baseball game so I kind of like pre-warned him... we all ended up at the same bar and then we all played pool together”
03:00:00
ControversyPaula challenges Brian: if you want a submissive woman and traditional values, why won't you pay for dates?
“if that's your traditional mindset then why are you not traditional in the sense that you're not willing to even pay for a date”
03:10:00
ControversyAndrew argues women can't have it both ways: if they vote to send men to war but aren't drafted themselves, that's privilege not equality
“if all the women voted for that person all the men voted against that person they could send men off to war yes and they themselves would not have to fight that war”
04:27:12
OtherLiberty reveals she once had a date offer her lean while he was on house arrest with an ankle monitor
“he came to my restaurant... he was telling me about like oh I'm on house arrest and I was like how the hell did I get myself... he had a little lean”
06:13:00
ControversyAndrea confronts Andrew Wilson over immigration joke, calls him racist, eventually refuses to answer more questions - nearly a walkoff
“you Trump loving she clapping man... why are you guys going after Latinos... you guys literally have low IQs”
06:19:00
OtherAndrea announces she will stop answering questions due to disrespect - closest thing to a walkoff in this episode
“I'm just going to stop talking because I don't want to hold on so just to be clear you can be abrasive towards that I'm just going to literally stop answering questions”
06:48:00
Key MomentTessa reveals her Vanderbilt mechanical engineering degree while working as a bowling alley server because it pays more
“I make more money as a server than I do as an engineer”
07:00:00
ControversyAndrea argues that men who want to be chased rather than chase women might be gay
“maybe like maybe they are gay but they don't want to admit it and so like they're going after these women”
07:46:00
OtherNicole shares story: date seared her hand with a heated butter knife on a candle - still has the triangular scar
“he had a butter knife that he was laying on top of a candle and out of nowhere he like reached to grab my hand and he just seared my hand”
07:55:30
QuoteBrian delivers memorable line: 'You take the bullet, you pay for the first date' - encapsulating the chivalry debate
“you guys have rejected the social contract you take the bullet you take the bullet you pay for the first date”
08:06:00
RelationshipBody count round: Kayia estimates 100-110 as adult performer; various other guests share or decline to share counts
“probably like I'd say by now I'd estimate like 100 to 110”
08:12:00
ControversyExtended Courtney vs. Brian debate on sidewalk rule - she wants chivalry but also full independence; Brian calls out the contradiction
“you said you're a big believer in Old School values if a guy doesn't know basic etiquette like the sidewalk rule... you want a guy to die for you but you can't even change your shirt”
08:24:00
OtherNatalie shares she previously dated a ~50yo man when she was 19 in college (needed money)
“he was probably like 50 so going back to the conversation of like 50 with a 19-year-old yeah I think that's kind of kind of weird looking at it now obviously I know that I was an adult”
08:27:24
QuoteCourtney reveals she cannot carry children and needs a surrogate
“jokes on you though cuz I actually can't carry my own kids so I actually get to decide when I have a kid because I have to get a surate”
10:00:54
OtherPatrice O'Neal 'no vagina' clip played - guests answer how they'd keep their man without it
“if you didn't have a vagina like say it was a terrible train accident right how would you keep your man”
Topics Discussed
00:05:04
Guest Introductions
Brian introduces the largest-ever panel (14 guests). Each guest gives name, age, location, occupation, education. Guests include Courtney (songwriter), Jade/Kayia (adult performer), Abby (aesthetician), Elizabeth (4 kids, 4 fathers), Liberty (furniture admin), Tessa (engineer/server), Andrea (medical assistant), Joy (business manager), Dalia (actress/student), Nicole (coordinator/makeup), Ashley (automotive GM), Natalie Tasha Thompson (nonprofit director), Paula (salsa teacher). Andrew Wilson also introduces himself.
00:21:00
Relationship Status Round
Brian goes around the table asking about relationship status, how long single, longest relationship, who broke up with who. Notable: Elizabeth's 4 kids with 4 different fathers revealed, with detailed discussion. Kayia's return to adult industry after relationship. Abby's 5-month casual situationship. Various single/casually dating statuses revealed.
01:34:30
Going to Clubs / Bars in Relationships
Debate about whether partners should be allowed to go to clubs while in relationships. Brian argues men and women face different environments (men seek, women are pursued), so it's asymmetrical. Andrew uses the 'avoid impropriety' argument. Multiple guests debate trust vs. mate-guarding. One guest (Liberty) was in a situationship where she was caught on a date at the same baseball game as her situationship guy.
03:00:00
Chivalry and Traditional Values Debate
Heated multi-hour debate on chivalry: the sidewalk rule, men paying for dates, submission in relationships, traditional gender roles. Paula and others argue for traditional chivalry. Brian challenges the pick-and-choose approach to traditionalism. Courtney's position particularly debated - she wants chivalry (sidewalk rule, door-opening) but also full independence. Andrew argues chivalry was historically tied to female virtue. Debate extends into feminism, equality, who should vote, military service.
04:33:30
Gender Swap AI Photos
Brian shows AI-generated gender-swapped versions of the guests. Guests react to seeing themselves as the opposite gender. Some self-deprecating comments, some surprise. Natalie says her male version looks better; Joy's bondage Instagram photos referenced.
04:59:30
Age Gap Relationships Debate
Discussion about age gap relationships, particularly older men dating younger women. Paula objects to large age gaps (20+ years). Andrew and Brian defend men's ability to date younger women. Discussion of when it's appropriate vs. predatory. Debate about women's prime, fertility, and relationship stability.
05:34:00
Minimum Income and Height Requirements
Brian asks all guests their minimum income and height requirements for a husband. Results vary widely: one guest wants 200k+, most want 80-150k, some don't care. Heights range from no preference to 5'10+. Andrew highlights the privilege asymmetry - men have no income requirements for women while women have high requirements for men. Brian says he has zero income requirement for a woman.
05:56:30
Women Dressing Revealing / Modesty Debate
Extended debate on whether women in relationships should dress modestly at a partner's request. Andrea strongly against restrictions - approaches men knowing how she dresses. Joy argues modesty preaching in church is harmful. Natalie and Nicole more traditional. Brian challenges the double standard of wanting chivalry but refusing to defer on clothing. Joy's revealing Instagram photos shown on screen.
06:13:00
Andrea vs. Andrew: Immigration/Politics Confrontation
Heated confrontation between Andrea (23, Oakland) and Andrew Wilson over an immigration joke Andrew made about deporting families. Andrea calls it racist and not funny. Andrew defends it as a joke. Andrea eventually says she'll stop answering questions because the conversation is too disrespectful. Multiple guests try to mediate. Discussion about whether you can be racist towards white people.
07:59:00
Body Count Round
Brian asks all guests their body count. Notable answers: Kayia/Jade ~100-110 (as adult performer), one guest 11, one guest 25-30, one guest 8, Paula refused (not over 100), Joy refused (under 100, not counting same-sex with husband), Natalie 20-25, several private/refused. Followed by discussion on whether men caring about body count means they're insecure. Nicole discusses why focus on body count is hypocritical without also addressing male porn addiction.
08:06:00
Chivalry Final Showdown / Patrice O'Neal Video
Continued chivalry debate culminating in Brian playing Patrice O'Neal's 'what if you didn't have a vagina' video to illustrate female value beyond sex. Guests respond to how they'd keep a man. Paula argues men are protectors by God's design. Brian: 'You take the bullet, you pay for the first date.' Final discussion of traditional vs. modern expectations.
08:12:00
Sidewalk Rule Deep Dive - Courtney
Extended one-on-one between Brian and Courtney about the sidewalk rule and what 'old school values' really means. Brian challenges Courtney's cherry-picking of traditional expectations. Courtney maintains her position on independence while wanting gentleman behaviors. Argument goes in circles until both sides acknowledge different people want different things.
Transcript
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Multiple Guests (02)Courtney Paige Nelson I'm ageless I will let that up to the viewers to decide oh boy here just tell us your age come on come on 28 okay uh viewers because she
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Multiple Guests (02)asked what were you going to guess her ages um where you from San Francisco but I live in LA okay occupation uh content creator which I'm sure a lot of people say and then I'm a
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Multiple Guests (02)songwriter and an artist and I write top lines for DJs sorry top top lines so it's like when you listen to an EDM song and you hear vocals and writing that's
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Multiple Guests (02)what I do yeah education any school or anything like that uh I went to a Music Academy for one year called Lamp in 2022 and other than that
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Brian Atlasdidn't graduate high school oh do you have your GED or anything like that okay and um you have your certificate from the lamp school though yeah I have my diploma what were you studying there
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Multiple Guests (02)specifically like music production or uh they do music production and songwriting so it's it's a program where it's it's like a music intensive so they have mentors that come in and you get to talk
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Multiple Guests (02)to like record record label exacts and yeah okay you sing are you a singer rapper what do you do oh no I'm not a rapper I mean I could rap to like my cats like when I'm feeding them I'll
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Brian Atlaslike you know spit a little but no all right what what's uh do you have a musician name it's just my name oh just your name yeah say your name Courtney
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Multiple Guests (02)paig Nelson what genre uh my stuff is EDM electropop but I write for other artists so I write all genres what's your hit do you have a hit or a single
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Multiple Guests (02)or anything like that um I had my third label cut come out in November on universal records rock and roll Berlin very cool all right called happy awesome
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Multiple Guests (02)thanks be sure check it out guys if you're interested what about you I am 22 my name is kayia Caldwell and I am from
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Brian AtlasCalgary Alberta Canada okay you're Canadian correct do they speak French there or is that the English speaking part um I'm from the English speaking
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Multiple Guests (02)part I've never spoke French before I see yeah and uh uh occupation I'm a an adult star a dancer and a content
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Multiple Guests (02)creator okay education uh college or anything like that no no okay what about you I'm Abby anger I'm 22 I'm from Salt Lake City Utah I work as a master
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Brian Atlasaesthetician and I also teach Aesthetics yeah and I also do photography and you said 22 Yeah right uh College University just trade school trade school okay what
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Brian Atlastrade school uh skin science skin skin science science oh you're Master aesthetician do you focus on anything in particular um lashes skincare medical skincare so do you do like makeup are
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Multiple Guests (02)you a mua or whatever or whatever called I'm a pmu so like I do permanent makeup as well like is that tattooing or what is that just on the face like lips brows freckles do you have any um I did my
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Brian Atlaslips once and that was not fun but that was like 3 years ago so kind faded and you said you're from Utah yeah like born and raised we're up there okay uh you Pro this probably annoys you are you
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Multiple Guests (02)Mormon nope no okay never have been religious ever okay Salt Lake City though right yeah there are a lot of Mormons though uh yeah a lot everywhere it all right what about you my name is
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Multiple Guests (02)Elizabeth I am 27 um I am a full-time mom a dancer and a o Creator okay um and I'm from Phoenix all right from Phoenix
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Multiple Guests (02)Ariza okay got it okay what about you I'm Liberty I'm 23 and I'm from Utah and I'm a regional administrator for like a Furniture
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Brian AtlasCompany any college or university nope any college or university for you okay all right and you're a full-time what again for regional administrator for what for a Furniture Company Furniture
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Multiple Guests (02)Company specialize in anything or just everything um I do a lot of paperwork I can you know set someone on a mean financing plan but okay I me I meant more so like the company oh like the
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Brian Atlasactual Furniture chairs sofas or just everything it's everything but it's European lines European lines MH so it's like Norwegian did something pop off
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Tessayeah I accidentally snagged my foot on the cord uh yeah there's a mic clip you can just put it you should be able to see yeah okay what about you hi my name's Tessa I'm from Alabama I'm 25 um
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TessaI work as an engineer and waitress at a bowling alley um and I have an engineering math degree uh Bachelor's of science art Bachelor of mechanical
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Andrew Wilsonengineering but I do software now okay and um what sort of engineering do you that's a that's a kind of a bizarre combo right you're an engineer plus you work at a bowling alley yeah I work as a
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Andrew Wilsonserver at a bowling alley I make more money as a server than I do as an engineer so what what sort of engineering do you do software software engineering okay but you have a degree in mechanical
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Tessaengineering you do software engineering yeah so I studied mechanical engineering and math and then I got a software job after college so that's just what I've been doing in
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TessaIndustry uh what sort of software is it controls um no right now it's just like data engineering I I code in a lot of java um just like story data so so
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Brian Atlasactual computer software then yeah okay gotcha thank you got it and uh what university did you go to I went to Vanderbilt on scholarship in Nashville
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Brian Atlasvanderbild is that an Ivy League or no it's in the wrong area it's yeah cu the Ivy Leagues are all up there and it's a southern the IVs are like East Coast
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Brian Atlasyeah okay but it's a it's a fairly prestigious University isn't it it's okay yeah and so remind me you got your degree in it was mechanical engineering
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Brian Atlasokay and you also uh you also have a gambling and a smoking addiction is that
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Brian AtlasI was waiting for you to I was waiting for you to offer that up Tessa uh so do you do you or is it just like I know you do the content stuff but is it actually
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Tessauh are you actually a gambling addict I'm working I I'm I I just I feel like I could win the lottery okay you do scratch cards and you do what is it the
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TessaI do scratch cards I'll do like slot machines I'll do like casino Blackjack and I'll buy lottery tickets sometimes okay and you do smoke cigarettes I'm working on are you going to beon are you going to be jonesing during the show or
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Brian AtlasI don't know what that means jonesing it's like when you you're you have an urge basically yeah but I'll be okay cuz I think it's banned is it are you allowed to smoke cigarettes in
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Unknown BackgroundCalifornia uh not Indo I just don't see people doing it here what what's your go-to I do it there I do it there all the time okay
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Multiple Guests (02)take his advice Andrew light up a cigarette for our esteemed Vanderbilt guest here with her uh can I ask something is it sure I guess what why don't you just get a job at a casino
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Tessabecause if you like cigarettes and gambling that's perfect I like the variety there's a lot of nuance to me yeah you knew both what what's your go-to cigarette brand it's been camel
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Tessacrushes but I'm trying to switch to Marboro Reds cuz camel crushes are very addictive and they're banned Here Andrew what's your go-to cigarette oh there you go look at that I
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Brian Atlashave the same pack in my purse right now oh [ __ ] there you go you guys got something in common already okay cool and you said you're from Alabama yes sir but uh and you still live there no I
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Brian Atlaslive in Denver now you live in Denver now okay got it and oh uh one request I saw a Tik Tok you were on a date with a guy you did a weird hand gesture I was really hoping you would you would do that during your introduction but can we
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Brian Atlasget a little are you talking about when I did like this like what are you talking about there was you had a Tik Tok where uh you did some weird I know what you're talking about you on a date and the guy was like what's wrong with you yeah yeah yeah
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Tessaokay okay okay CU cuz I was like I didn't know what I was going to drink and so I was like I don't know what I'm going to drink right now and if you get it you get it if you don't you don't it didn't land it didn't land it was
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Andreahighrisk high reward I'm a gambler all right cool for the entire show you have to do interesting hand gestures while you're speaking um what about you um I'm
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Andrea23 I'm from oako okay here in California and um I work as like a medical assistant at a liver
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Brian Atlasclinic and um yeah uh name Andrea Andrea and education yeah I got my BA in psychology BA in psychology all right cool what about you hi my name is Joy
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JoyI'm 42 and I'm from Houston Texas and um business manager for a doctor and real estate investing part-time and um
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Daliaeducation GED okay all right what about you hi my name is Dalia I am currently in college for accounting and I am an actress and
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Brian Atlasmodel uh age 23 where you from Los Angeles and I live in Los Angeles all right and sorry did you say like education or anything did you oh yeah I said I'm in college for account you're
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Multiple Guests (02)you're currently in college are you a junior or senior junior junior all right one more year or I guess well year and a half maybe what you uh my name is Nicole I'm from Vancouver BC I am a project
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Multiple Guests (02)coordinator in the electrical industry I'm also freelance makeup artist and a mother of two age 36 36 uh any college University I have a diploma in freelance
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Multiple Guests (02)makeup and a certificate in Business Administration got it okay all right and sorry from Vancouver like 30 minutes outside of Vancouver and for cam would
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Multiple Guests (02)be precise location sleep beautiful all right what about you uh hello my name is Ashley I am 21 years old and I'm from Pennsylvania uh I am a general manager
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Multiple Guests (02)for an automotive business we do all kinds of cool race cars and stuff um and I study business administration okay and wait were you in the military no no boyfriend okay I might have got my wires
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Natalie Tasha Thompsoncrossed on that but and you you you're in the automotive industry yes yeah heavily okay very cool what about you hi I'm Natalie Tasha Thompson um I'm 26 I'm
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Natalie Tasha Thompsonoriginally from Los Angeles but I now live in Dallas um and I am the creative director at a marriage and relationship Health nonprofit called EXO um so we're
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Natalie Tasha Thompsonbasically just on mission to help increase the marriage rate and decrease the divorce rate and increase two parent households um and then education I went to Chapman University for um a
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Paulabachelor's degree in public relations and advertising all right welcome what about you uh my name is Paula I'm from New Jersey I just turned 40 um and I teach salsa classes and host salsa
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Paulanights at the Jersey Shore at the Jersey Shore okay uh any education uh Stockton University um Bachelor of Visual Communications graphic design got it
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Andrew Wilsonokay all right uh well before you dive in can I just make a very quick observation that women who have three
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Andrew Wilsonnames they say their name as three names I always find them nefarious and untrustworthy for no particularly good reason that I can put my finger on and there's several women at the table it's
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Andrew Wilsonjust who have said who have said their name instead of the first and last as three names just saying it's just that is my first name though Natalie Tasha Natalie Tasha yeah my mom liked
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Natalie Tasha Thompsonthe name that's worse that's worse okay listen listen listen Andrew my mom liked the name Natasha until she realized that it was a Satan back backwards so she
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Natalie Tasha Thompsondecided to make hard instead well what write out write out Natasha and it's ass Satan backwards so she decided to extend it and make kindergarten hard so here I
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Multiple Guests (02)am so she tricked the devil with your name correct I just use my full name because it's easier for Google search in my career and plus there's a porn star named Courtney Nelson and I don't want
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Multiple Guests (02)to get confused so you know Fair can I add in something sure um I actually do go by J Jack that is what I go by I just wanted to interject that you wanted to
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Multiple Guests (02)join the three name no um just because I said I said the incorrect name when I introduced myself oh I forgot what did you say Kia oh okay yeah so wait Jade is
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TTS Reader / Brianmy middle name and what I go by so you prefer Jade in the industry yes word okay we have a chat coming through Amelia Eve has donated $200 they
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TTS Reader / Brianalready had it Brian we all want to know how fishy what the [ __ ] in the room also to chair one a lady sat in your chair recently that had sex more than she
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Brian Atlaswould shower anyway I'm sure it's clean maybe oh he's referring to uh Aya don't worry uh we we actually burned the chair that
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Andrew Wilsonshe was sitting in so you're good we we burned it and then we had Emer unfortunately the smoke did get in the atmosphere yeah that's true it's true is
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Andrew Wilsonthat what I'm smelling in probably probably um all right uh oh Andrew you want to intro yourself my CAU asan go ahead yeah my name is Andrew Wilson not
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Andrew Wilsonno three C no three names right my name is Andrew Wilson I'm the host of The Crucible it's popular entertainment Channel on YouTube I also run another Channel called not one step back with Jake rattlesnake which recently
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Andrew Wilsonpremiered hope to see everybody over there I'm a political analyst a political saturnist and I have convers ations like this with people all over the world when it comes to everything from the political to dating to everything in between and I'm happy all
00:20:05
Brian Atlasof you are here tonight we can have this conversation all right welcome except for those of you with three three names except the three names except the three names come on you have a middle name there's no way you
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Andrew Wilsondon't um well I mean yeah that's true I do but here I'll give you I give you some good Andrew Wilson lore none of my kids do wait none of your kids have middle
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Brian Atlasnames yeah neither does my dad so I wanted to keep that tradition Alive by not giving my kids middle names either wow nice so we're going to go around the table once more what is your current
00:20:39
Multiple Guests (02)relationship status if you're single how long have you been single and what's the longest relationship you've ever been in go ahead okay uh relationship status is
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Multiple Guests (02)non-existent I feel like I am on Pluto and all the men are on earth um I've been single and celibate for a year and
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Multiple Guests (02)7 months and my longest relationship is over 2 years okay so you've been how did you describe it super single or what did you
00:21:11
Multiple Guests (02)say non-existent or non-existent yeah okay nonexist like I haven't been on a date I haven't given anybody I just I'm so focused on my career and me and building my life that I don't want
00:21:24
Multiple Guests (02)anything to like penetrate that and infiltrate like P I realized what I said uh hence the celibate part I'm kidding longest relationship again you said it was three no a little over two oh two
00:21:37
Multiple Guests (02)years okay all right and you've been single for a year and seven months well you've been Cel for a year and seven months and single for a year and seven months actually celibate though 100%
00:21:48
Brian Atlaslike not even third Pace not even kissing not no kissing wow I know I know it's weird I know are what's your orientation straight by uh straight
00:21:57
Daliastraight okay for dated women not dated sneaky link sneaky link maybe I don't know I don't what is sneaky link a on the deal
00:22:10
Multiple Guests (02)like I've kissed girls like a situationship you know I've kissed girls it's a it's a thing on the down low you know oh the DL got it the DL the DL um
00:22:21
Multiple Guests (02)no I'm I'm just I'm just here I you just here okay I'm just here what about you I'm am very single um very single okay I just got out of my relationship in
00:22:33
Brian AtlasDecember so what 3 months two no two months yeah like two and a half or so mhm longest relationship 3 years is that the one that ended in December no that one was a year okay uh who broke up with
00:22:46
Brian Atlaswho in the most recent relationship I did who broke up with who in the three-year relationship I did okay and you've been single for two two and a half months yeah correct uh have you had
00:22:56
Brian Atlasa rebound oh absolutely oh Absolut okay I was waiting for the not but okay so absolutely are you currently involved with a guy right now
00:23:07
Multiple Guests (02)um not involved no I don't have any interest um in pursuing any romantic relationships anytime soon what about sexual relationships yeah I'm I'm an adult star so that's kind of in do
00:23:19
Brian Atlastraditional traditional adult content or yeah I do o and mainstream mainstream stuff okay um and so you do BG content for both
00:23:28
Multiple Guests (02)like of and mainstream stuff mainstream Productions girl girl okay BG Etc okay how long youve been involved in the industry um about two and a half years
00:23:40
Multiple Guests (02)overall I started off first and I just got into mainstream about a year ago but my previous relationship had interrupted that so I kind of disappeared for a
00:23:50
Brian Atlaslittle while and now I'm back to it uh and you so you started o in when you were 19 correct 19 that's it's windy out there um okay got it and uh do you have
00:24:02
Brian Atlasa roster currently of like are you dating cuz like you're shooting scenes right but I mean are you when it comes to outside of work are you seeing
00:24:14
Brian Atlassomebody no not really outside of work okay so you're civilian you're you're celibate
00:24:24
Brian Atlasin a civilian capacity basically but you're [ __ ] in on camera for for money basically okay got it okay okay you're
00:24:33
Multiple Guests (02)half money well the the problem is like um civilians like jeopardize you know when you're when you're just interacting with people who are also tested and 100% clean then there's
00:24:46
Multiple Guests (02)no chance that like it messes with anything for me cuz it can jeopardize my work okay what about you I'm single for a year my longest relationship was about 4 years years and
00:24:58
Brian Atlasthat happened about a year ago okay so you've been single for a year your longest relationship you said was four years yeah about four years four years is that the sorry was that the one that
00:25:09
Multiple Guests (02)ended a year ago yeah okay and who broke up with who I broke up with him okay why um I would like to say we fell out of love um we lived together for a
00:25:21
Multiple Guests (02)couple years so I feel like you kind of really get to know somebody and I think I didn't like who I was with him and he didn't like who he was with me was he in the military he was yeah okay what
00:25:30
Multiple Guests (02)branch Army Reserves Army Army Reserve okay when you say you didn't like who you became when you were with him what did you dislike about you I feel like I
00:25:41
Multiple Guests (02)wasn't being really nice to him towards the end I think he kind of made me like angry because I didn't feel loved and I was angry about it and so was he not
00:25:52
Brian Atlasnice to you also yeah not really in times okay so but you ended the relation relationship yeah was he was he like oh okay I saw it coming or was he upset it
00:26:05
Multiple Guests (02)was like Mutual at first and then I went back for a couple days and then I realized I still didn't want to do it and I wish it could have ended civil but he to my best words I can put it is he did kind of go a little manic on me was
00:26:18
Brian Atlashe bipolar his father was but I don't know I maybe in ways sure now you've been single for one year um have you had
00:26:28
Multiple Guests (02)rebounds yeah tell us about that oh um I think when I first was single I've never really like had enough time to like date a lot of people so I kind of Serial
00:26:40
Brian Atlasdated mhm and went on probably like three dat a week three days three dates a week yeah for how long probably a couple months couple months yeah cuz I think in your pre-show notes you said something about like you were dating 30
00:26:51
Multiple Guests (02)guys at the same time not like at the same time but it was like if you think like three a week and then I maybe see them I only saw most of them like once and I was like okay that was fun
00:27:02
Multiple Guests (02)experience but bye damn I can't even get one did you have a spreadsheet no really quick with it I work with so you know I'm really good at
00:27:12
Multiple Guests (02)booking she you she had you a software analytical software but you know I will say I told all of them I wasn't really looking for something serious it was kind of more for fun sure are you
00:27:22
Brian Atlascurrently involved with somebody no nobody sneaky link maybe sneaky link but was yeah I guess when I say involved I don't necessarily mean like relationship more so like somebody who you could be
00:27:33
Brian Atlascasually seeing yeah I say casually is there more than one you like you have a roster uh just one just one yeah okay how long you been not seeing or seeing
00:27:45
Multiple Guests (02)this one guy um I don't know like maybe two months two months okay yeah does he want a relationship no you don't want and you don't want it either correct I mean I'm not against it but I can tell
00:27:57
Multiple Guests (02)he doesn't want one okay so you're just keeping it casual for now yeah okay what about you I am single the longest relationship I have had was 5
00:28:07
Brian Atlasyears how long have you been single s um going on like 9 10 months was that the 5-year relationship that ended 10 months ago no okay how long was or how long was
00:28:19
Brian Atlasthe most recent relationship um two years who broke up with who I did and then the 5-year relationship who broke up with who I did okay and you have one kid two kids how many kids do you have
00:28:31
Multiple Guests (02)four kids four kids all the same father or different fathers different fathers for all four yes what is that like hard to manage at
00:28:41
Multiple Guests (02)times like do you do you find that difficult um so the okay it's embarrassing so the first one um we don't really communicate he's not really
00:28:52
Multiple Guests (02)around um and then the third one there is absolutely no contact UM my daughter's D is super involved we co-parent great and then the last relationship uh we co-parent great too
00:29:04
Brian Atlasso I honestly only have to deal with two of them so two of the fathers are not really in the picture uh two two are yeah and can you break it down like the
00:29:15
Multiple Guests (02)oldest second third fourth like so who's in the picture who's not so my 8-year-old's dad is not and then my 5-year-old daughters her dad is and then my 2-year-old is not and then my
00:29:26
Multiple Guests (02)one-year-old is okay do you want more kids or no my tubes are tied tubes are tied yeah I was supposed to have them tied after my daughter ah okay how uh how old did you say you were I'm
00:29:41
Brian Atlas27 so you had your first kid at like 18 yeah okay got it huh
00:29:51
Multiple Guests (02)um so how's that been been good I mean yeah um I'm a single mom four three of my kids have autism three three of them have autism
00:30:02
Multiple Guests (02)um diagnosed and then my daughter has like medical issues on top of that sorry to hear that um so and I like homeschool and homeschool okay it's a
00:30:11
Multiple Guests (02)lot yeah um but you're doing it I'm trying she's she's doing it do they uh May I'm sorry go ahead oh no were you going to ask about child support Andrew
00:30:23
Multiple Guests (02)no I was actually just going to just clarify and you pay your bills with of and uh stripping essentially yeah was uh o I'm not as active on o as I should be um
00:30:34
Multiple Guests (02)financially like I should be um I just recently started dancing which has been paying my bills um one of the kids' dad the oldest he's on child support when he
00:30:44
Multiple Guests (02)chooses to be um and then the baby's dad helps me a lot so wait are all of them paying child support no just one of them yeah only one of them are on child support I haven't put the rest of them
00:30:57
Brian Atlason it if my thing is like if you're active in the kids' life then yeah there's no need for it okay got it okay um I'm curious about some of your tattoos unless Andrew
00:31:10
Brian Atlasdid you have another question on on anything or no go ahead oh okay uh what is this tattoo on your arm cry baby98 yeah uh so my birth year and then
00:31:19
Brian Atlascrybaby is little peep little What Lil peep the rapper little Lil peep yeah oh I know who that is yeah okay cool um and I noticed you have a face tattoo here is
00:31:31
Brian Atlasthat a cross yeah I have three oh the spiderweb and then was is that a heart that was a heart I had a dermal inside the heart I see anybody else have any face tattoos that I should
00:31:42
Brian Atlasbe aware of no but I got a Harry Potter tattoo oh wow we got we got a lot of tattoos here at the table um some interesting ones uh maybe I need to
00:31:52
Andrew WilsonChronicle I'm going to Chronicle all the uh tattoos do you have tattoos no um and is it so just out of uh curiosity in the kind of mixed family that you have do you have children who are interracial
00:32:05
Multiple Guests (02)those who aren't so three of my kids are half Hispanic okay gotcha are you Latina oh
00:32:14
Brian Atlasokay um half hisp half Hispanic okay and the other one is white white okay all right okay um are you uh in terms of
00:32:25
Multiple Guests (02)like dating though are you do you have time to date four kids so when I first so when I moved out um of my ex's house the he would take so my daughter's
00:32:39
Multiple Guests (02)dad would take the older two and then he would take the babies so I didn't have anything to do so I was seeing someone for like a few months kind of um but realistically no like I have zero time
00:32:50
Brian Atlasto even talk to anyone a little closer um okay and uh sweet that's cool all right what about
00:33:02
Multiple Guests (02)you I'm single um how long about well just a little over a year longest relationship almost four years is that the one that ended a year ago yes who broke up with
00:33:14
Multiple Guests (02)who it was kind of mutual it was Mutual mhm so you both texted each other at the same time we need to talk we actually looked each other in the face and screamed for a good five minutes and
00:33:25
Multiple Guests (02)then we were like okay maybe maybe we don't make each other you guys screamed what what were you guys screaming about um God what was that argument about I think maybe like dishes or something stupid
00:33:37
Brian Atlasstupid was that would you describe it as a toxic relationship not always but maybe sometimes sometimes
00:33:45
Brian Atlasokay um and was it a clean break yes okay clean break no going back all right have you been dating in this past year I've dabbled you've dabbled I've dabbled
00:33:57
Multiple Guests (02)around is there a is there a like a Utah based dating app like Mormon mingle swear well there's Christian Mingle but is there there should be a non mingle I swear you'll be like
00:34:09
Brian Atlasengaged in a couple months super quick a flight no I'm kidding and uh are you currently uh is there a guy in the picture in any capacity
00:34:19
Multiple Guests (02)currently well sure a casual one what's the nature of the Casual relationship [Music]
00:34:33
Multiple Guests (02)you guys SC you guys you're banging that's the nature of it no maybe they're just skipping through fields and holding hands yeah I don't know we watch family
00:34:43
Brian Atlasgoty together and we hang out nice it's romantic it's cute all right how long have you been uh I guess involved with
00:34:53
Multiple Guests (02)him actually kind of a while maybe like five months five months okay do you want do you guys say you love each other no you're not boyfriend girlfriend no okay how often do you see each other maybe
00:35:06
Brian Atlaslike every two weeks usually is it long distance kind of or no he lives like 30 minutes away 30 it's like medium distance relationship it's just medium medium distance medium distance that's
00:35:17
Multiple Guests (02)you know yeah convenience is kind of important low maintenance High payoff so you know okay do you want more maybe maybe you know like a couple
00:35:28
Multiple Guests (02)more months I'm being slow are you seeing other people no is he seeing other girls I have no idea somebody ask him but you guys haven't had that conversation right no isn't that so important to like make sure that you're
00:35:40
Multiple Guests (02)like safe can you scoot little SC on the same page yes sexually is a big one so telling you he's not he's not the friend your friend is saying I've told her this
00:35:51
Multiple Guests (02)so many times he is infatuated with her he's oh he's infatuated with her I think so I think he cares about her a lot somebody M her mic in the chat she just won't admit it it's just oh but you said
00:36:03
Brian Atlasyou you say that but you also think he's with other women too no no no I don't think he is oh you don't think he is he's I don't think he is at all okay not to say he can't I just think that he
00:36:13
Multiple Guests (02)does like her and have you guys had a conversation like what is this no I'm a little wishy-washy about having a conversation cuz I'm just so keen on being single and
00:36:25
Brian Atlaslike doing my thing you've been seeing him for 5 months right yeah when you say doing your thing what do you mean well just like I don't know keeping your options open in case something better comes along not that at all you know but
00:36:37
Multiple Guests (02)so what do you mean then I enjoy going out and like dancing or just doing whatnot on the streets um not sexually but what not on the streets what what is it what do you mean what not on the
00:36:49
Multiple Guests (02)streets I don't know like sitting on the CB eating a hot dog at like 2:30 you can find things to do out there what are you doing on the Mean Streets think dancing on the street do you have
00:37:01
Multiple Guests (02)a conversation with this guy about your relationship status or no just the point is I don't want to have to explain to somebody right now what I'm doing that sure sounds like you're
00:37:12
Multiple Guests (02)keeping your options open in case just in case something else I haven't spoken or like even gone on a date with another man since we've been talking I just am not that interested you've been seeing them for 5 months yeah sorry go ahead I didn't mean to interrupt no it's okay
00:37:25
Brian AtlasI'm just not that interested in like expor boring options right now but I like him and I so wait for the 5 months you've been seeing him have there been any other guys in the picture
00:37:36
Multiple Guests (02)mm I swear to God no no she's I'm going to look at her every time you so for real I've honestly not to like talk crap but I've kind of given her [ __ ] I'm like well you haven't had that conversation
00:37:47
Multiple Guests (02)and you're keeping it just to him but she we've had this conversation so many times and I'm like you should live up your single life not like no offense to him I'm just like either have that convers or just keep living your life
00:37:59
Andrew Wilsonhave you been uh dancing with other guys in the streets of Utah no no you just dance by yourself in
00:38:07
Unknown Backgroundthe streets I'm there we eating hotg I'm there okay all right as as one does yeah okay uh well what about you um I'm
00:38:18
Tessasingle I've been single for the last 3 years my longest relationship was a year and a half in college and is that the one that did 3
00:38:27
Tessayears ago yeah yeah okay um who broke up with who I broke up with him why is that I think he just didn't think I was
00:38:38
Tessavery cool and he he asked another girl in a date while we were dating and yeah a year and a half yeah wait he asked her out or did he sleep with her he asked her out
00:38:49
Tessabecause he was in Greek life and I wasn't um and he just didn't feel comfortable putting um I guess it didn't didn't want me to be around his Greek life friends they were all like rich people and I just wasn't and so he asked
00:39:02
Tessaanother girl to go on his like fraternity formable stuff with him instead of me okay so it's was like a specific event yeah like asking her to be his date to the event yeah and you
00:39:14
Tessaguys were dating for a year and a half yeah okay not great uh and but so did he tell you like hey BTW um yeah so he told me I told him I was like I'm really grateful that you've never given me a
00:39:27
Tessareason into like be insecure about anything and I feel so secure in us and then he said well here's something and then he told me and then I broke up with him wait so had he already tooken her on the date when he no he just he told me
00:39:40
Tessathe night before and he had already asked her oh yeah it's fine it'd be like that sometimes I mean at least he told you wait wait wait tooken
00:39:49
Unknown BackgroundBrian on a DAT Brian Brian wait what did I say you said tooken her on a DAT took him had he already tooken her taken taken sounds like a pasta D I
00:40:00
Brian Atlasdon't know it's I'm introducing it into the Lexicon okay I'm hijacking the English language it's now a word uh yeah
00:40:10
Brian Atlasuh by the way women or woman um what were you guys like officially together yeah we've been dating yeah we you had that title yeah like had he asked you to be his girlfriend yeah we've been yeah
00:40:23
Tessawe had been dating for a year and a half we went out for a few months and then we started dating offici ially and then after like a year and a half when we were about to graduate that happened it's fun it be like that yeah have a day
00:40:34
Tessadid you swear off fraternity men after yes so you've been single for 3 years yeah have there been have you had anything shortterm in that time maybe a couple months or nothing yeah I've gone out with guys for a couple months and I
00:40:47
TessaI should go on more dates but I got I have two jobs and I'm a home body and so I don't I should go out more I don't want to die alone so there's always that yeah dying alone
00:40:59
Tessathing uh is there a guy in the picture currently in any capacity no no nothing I want I need to be going on more dates I just don't have that much time so busy
00:41:10
Tessabusy um yeah did you start smoking after the guy no I I still didn't smoke for like two years after that but I started smoking last summer oh okay cuz I was in
00:41:21
TessaWest Virginia and everyone smokes there oh wow so you when in Rome you got to how many P or how many uh cigarettes do you smoke per day typically well I'm trying to quit now and just Che Hubba
00:41:33
TessaBubba instead so I I probably average one a day but when I'm working at the bowling alley I smoke more during my shift CU everyone smokes there it's a it's a communal thing doesn't count it's
00:41:43
Multiple Guests (02)a shared Sig bowling alley there you go when you say Hubba Bubba do you mean into the mic into the mic speak into the mic sorry when you say Hubba Bubba do you mean like the actual gum yeah the bubble gum the tape bubble gum it's
00:41:55
Tessareally good anytime I want to smoke a cig just pull do a line of Hubba Bubba so fair all right there you go what about you no I never was in a relationship
00:42:06
Brian Atlasbefore so you're single yeah okay never been in a relationship no uh have you you've been with a guy maybe dated a guy yeah I've dated before what's the
00:42:16
Andrealongest period of time you've seen a guy maybe like 6 months six months seven months okay did you call him boyfriend or no no were you guys
00:42:29
Andreaexclusive M for a little bit a little bit Yeah and then you cheated on him no I never
00:42:38
Brian Atlascheated okay no so uh you've been when was that the six month thing like four years ago so you were 19 and you're
00:42:48
Andreayou're 23 I was 19 when I met are there any guys in the picture currently no is there a guy in the picture currently no nothing no yeah I don't date I don't
00:42:58
Brian Atlaslike to date you don't date what do you do just mind my business you mind your business you live in Los Angeles though right that yeah yeah and do you are you involved in night life at all like do you go out party club um yeah I'll go
00:43:11
Andreaout with my friends and stuff but I like I don't go to meet guys cuz I don't know I just don't look I don't look for you don't go for that reason but you invariably do meet men right sometimes they don't come up to
00:43:22
Andreayou and flirt ask for your number well I mean like yeah but sometimes they turn them down sure of course I I don't just like talk to every have you ever been on the dating app no never been on the
00:43:32
Brian Atlasdating app will never either no okay uh you're active on social media do men slide into your DMs yeah they do how maybe a couple times a day or um yeah I
00:43:44
Brian Atlasfeel like there's some somebody every day I guess somebody every day okay um when is the last time you hung out with a man in either a romantic or sexual
00:43:53
Andreacontext the last time I don't know like over a week ago a week ago okay it's and was that first date second date third date um hang like I knew
00:44:05
Andreathem from prison where did you meet um I met them I actually met them at the club at the
00:44:14
Andreacler the CL yeah I don't talk any you don't talk why is that I don't know I just I don't want to like talk to someone consistently anymore that or like wait for a text I don't like that
00:44:27
Andreayou don't like to like I have to wait for a text or something I don't know I just don't want to like be waiting so what what time of day would he typically text you like just throughout the day yeah but you'd be
00:44:39
Andreawaiting well like I don't know I just never want to like think about oh like have they texted me yet or something you know like I just I don't know and it's like it's a lot of effort to like really
00:44:49
Andreatext back every day yeah like sometimes I just like want to literally not talk to anybody mhm yeah okay um so never had a boyfriend yeah never
00:45:01
Andreareally had a boyfriend uh do you want a boyfriend or you're just enjoy maybe later you're single later yeah I feel like I don't know I'm young I just want to be single focus on myself yeah okay
00:45:11
Joyyeah all right what about you uh married 23 years all right uh period wow 18 I was 18 when I got married good for you
00:45:22
Joy18 when you got married yeah wow okay H did you date before him or no not really so you guys were high school you were dating in high school and then you got married two years so I was 16 when I met
00:45:34
Joyhim and then married at 18 okay wow you still married yeah love is real and it's actually better it's gotten better as we've gone on I love
00:45:45
Unknown Backgroundawesome that gives me help all right there you go then and uh did you date anybody before him is there an age Gap
00:45:54
Joythere with your husband no just he's Oney old older than me okay he's 43 okay um not really no didn't really date okay before that all right so he's the only
00:46:07
Daliaguy you've been with pretty much yep okay all right what about you so um I mean I just got out of a relationship like an actual relationship I've only had one it was 8 months and I got out of
00:46:17
Brian Atlasit in November um so like four months ago yeah and it was 8 month and that's your longest yeah that's my longest yeah and only relationship relationship who broke up with who I
00:46:29
Daliabroke up with him why is that um so I'm in I do like um acting so like I do like live streams and music videos and stuff like that so he was getting to a point where every time I would go to set like he would kind of think that I'm talking
00:46:42
Daliato somebody else and I would literally give him proof cuz we were long distance so I would like literally send him pictures send him texts of what I'm doing where I'm at what time like I'm going to be there like it was exhausting
00:46:53
Daliaand I felt like there was not enough like trust for him to me but I gave him 100% trust and I feel like that also just came off as an insecurity for him because I found out later that a girl
00:47:04
Daliathat he told me was just his friend he was like literally dating over there so he was like projecting like that I'm doing something over here when he was actually doing something over there that
00:47:14
Brian Atlasmakes sense yeah I see okay and uh you said you do these streams right yeah so you've done stuff with like who are some of the people you've worked with I guess I've worked with um kais black boy Max
00:47:28
Brian Atlasum jco like you know just who the [ __ ] is that guy yeah that's real yeah you said
00:47:35
Brian AtlasSnoop Dogg Z tiger Alicia Keys okay yeah have you did you date kai no I didn't
00:47:45
Daliadate kai no okay no all right that's cool um and are you currently is there a rebound are you currently seeing somebody it wasn't a rebound no I like gave myself like time to heal um I did
00:47:57
Daliameet this uh guy on set um like way later um like I think maybe like 3 months later after I broke up um and him and I like spent Valentine's Day
00:48:08
Brian Atlastogether and then now it's just um I don't know I don't know okay yeah all right what what wait hold on you spent Valentine's together yeah literally two weeks ago have you heard from him since
00:48:21
DaliaI have heard from him but he's been mad at me because of the streams and streams are scripted like a lot of people don't realized they're scripted so he would get mad whenever it would be like cuz like a lot of the streamers that I do uh do videos with like they're his favorite
00:48:34
Daliaso he gets mad that I'm on it with his favorite people that's what I'm guessing Okay that's weird because now it's different now that I'm on them so yeah all right uh what about you uh I am married and my longest relationship is
00:48:47
Multiple Guests (02)my current marriage and we've been together for 10 years and previous to that I was with my high school sweetheart for 10 years as well wow but there was breaks wait I'm sorry how long have you been
00:48:58
Brian Atlasmarried again sorry I missed 10 years well together 10 years married eight together for two before that I see okay together total for 10 okay and that that's your longest relationship right right but my high school sweetheart we
00:49:11
Brian Atlaswere we were together for 10 years as well what was the time in between the two eight months eight months right so you were you dated a guy that you'd met
00:49:22
Brian Atlasin high school for 10 years you break up or you guys break up M and then eight months later you now find your you're now husband that's correct yeah but the the high school sweetheart uh there was lots of breaks in between like oh you
00:49:34
Brian Atlaswere on and off again we were broken up for eight months and uh were you did you see any other guys in that period I did okay all right and then what about the 8mon break when you guys finally broke
00:49:47
Multiple Guests (02)no between between my high school sweetheart and my husband there was no one else he's just just my husband all right cool uh what about you
00:49:57
Multiple Guests (02)um my I am currently taken wait wait one one second just real quick are both of your kids with your husband no so I have a 13-year-old son that is with my uh high school sweetheart and I have a
00:50:10
Multiple Guests (02)2-year-old daughter with my husband so two kids yes okay what about you uh currently in a relationship um we've been together for n almost 10 months now um and he is my longest
00:50:22
Multiple Guests (02)relationship you said 10 months 10 yeah just about and that's your longest it is yeah is it your only relationship or no I've had others before but they were kind of like the typical teenage
00:50:33
Multiple Guests (02)toxic don't really know what love is I think he's my first serious um more serious healthy relationship sure okay what about you um I'm currently in a relationship we've been together on and
00:50:45
Natalie Tasha Thompsonoff for about 2 and a half years um but we just finished premarital counseling um so we're are looking at Rings next weekend so probably engaged here in the next couple of months which is exciting
00:50:57
Natalie Tasha ThompsonCatholic no Christian non- denominational why did you do pre-marriage counseling um it's offered at our church so it's for either couples that are engaged or seriously dating
00:51:08
Natalie Tasha Thompsoncool um so just trying to make sure all of our ducks in are in a row neither him and I have really been in a serious relationship before so um we're also doing this for the first time without
00:51:18
Natalie Tasha Thompsonhaving sex which is crazy so every relationship prior to this has been sexual in nature for both of us um so it for over 2 and a half years so which is
00:51:29
Andrew Wilsonyeah it's very it's very typical for uh pre-marriage counseling for um for Catholics for orthodox don't see that very much for non- denominational so
00:51:40
Natalie Tasha Thompsonthat's I'm in the Bible Belt so I live in Dallas it's kind of a I go to a big uh church out there that offers it so we tried it we liked it so we finished uh our last one is tomorrow I won't be
00:51:52
Natalie Tasha Thompsonthere but he will be so it was 8 weeks which is pretty cool I'm a Christian and I did the same thing with my husband as well it was 8 weeks of premarital counseling and it was actually really beneficial I would recommend it yeah no I'm glad I did it I mean obviously with
00:52:04
Natalie Tasha Thompsonthe divorce rate being what it is today if we can kind of like talk through things that people don't typically talk through before they get engaged or married um I'd much rather have it on this side of marriage than on the other
00:52:15
Brian Atlasside of marriage okay and uh you guys have been together how long now uh on and off for two and a half years two and a half okay got it all right what about you back
00:52:26
Paulaback there uh I'm single uh longest relationship was a year and a half uh last relationship was maybe 3 years ago but it was short maybe 3 months and you said longest relationship
00:52:38
Brian Atlasa year and a half yes and the most recent one was like 3 months three years three years ago yeah who broke up with who I broke up with him the one and a half year relationship who broke up with
00:52:48
Brian Atlaswho I think I think I ended it okay ever married never married no kids no kids M uh long relationship in a year and a half have you had multiple like
00:53:00
Paularelationships around that length like one year no ever after that I this way AIT after that one year and a half relationship that was in my early 20s and then I went after dancing I wanted
00:53:12
Paulato learn how to dance I wanted to live in another state I moved to Florida um came home pursued dancing more in North Jersey I wanted to live in uh North Jersey so I did that so I was just doing
00:53:24
Paulamy thing and um I didn't have any long-term relationships since then mhm So when you say dancing what Salsa Salsa Latin dancing I did ball I started out
00:53:38
Brian Atlaswith Ballroom but I always wanted to learn salsa I see yeah okay and um the 1.5 year relationship was
00:53:46
Paulawhen gosh I was like 22 so I don't know was that 18 years ago mhm and you're 40 now yes okay do you want to get married married I do you want long-term well I imagine you want a long-term
00:54:00
Paularelationship do you want kids um excuse me I'm not hellbent on kids but I think I do want a family one
00:54:08
Brian Atlasor two tops okay and um why I guess uh I mean it sound sounds like you were
00:54:17
Brian Atlasbusy with dancing and other Pursuits um like I still dated though you still dated I still dated and I was still open to find someone I just never found
00:54:28
Paulaanyone even close to being the right person like I just did not come across that at all and I didn't want to be held back I I knew my first two relationships were were a year and then a year and a
00:54:40
Paulahalf after that so it was like back to back and I was only 21 and I just knew they were going to stay in my hometown forever and I didn't want to do that I wanted to leave and live my life and I
00:54:52
Brian Atlasjust knew that they were going to hold me back so do you do you uh feel as if you would have liked to have given more time to
00:55:04
Paulalike finding a relationship when you were younger no I mean I like I said I was always open to it and I was I was dating like I was I was looking for the right
00:55:14
Brian Atlasperson it just didn't happen okay yeah all right we have a message here from Metro mat oh and then we have this metr
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TTS Reader / Brianmat donated $200 thank you metat w marriage W having kids L 304 activity also if you have relations on camera you
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00:55:47
Brian Atlasknow thank you for the TTS yo rra thank you for the gift at 20 Subs appreciate it man thank you thank you thank you all right uh that's everybody's relationship status so you
00:55:59
Brian Atlasdidn't give yours oh oh yeah oh my God bro do not watch the show hello uh I don't I don't share that publicly that's fair oh fair enough I have stalkers and death threats and that kind of [ __ ] but oh okay okay
00:56:13
Brian Atlasyeah I'll I'll do the hosting though if you don't mind um so uh okay let me get into the pre-show notes for everybody so we have a lot of pre-show notes uh we're