Andrew Wilson CLASHES With Boss Babe Conservative Feminist Girls?! HEATED Debate! | Dating Talk #238
Date: 2025-04-14
Duration: 8h 02m
Guests
Identified Speakers
SPEAKER_02Abigail (Married)(guest)
SPEAKER_03Ryder(guest)
SPEAKER_06Andrew Wilson(guest)
SPEAKER_08Brian Atlas(host)
SPEAKER_14Natalie (Seattle)(guest)
Key Moments
00:04:20
IntroAll 8 guests introduced
01:04:00
Key MomentAndrew Wilson defends male authority/headship in marriage. Significant pushback.
03:28:00
Key Moment$999 champagne pop from Ogle
05:01:07
Key MomentRyder's TikToks: nice guy ex and abusive ex-husband
05:17:24
ControversyLydia's abortion clinic confrontation video — most contentious segment
Topics Discussed
00:04:20
Guest Introductions
8 guests: Ryder (abusive ex), Maddie (LDS), Lydia (pro-life), Natalie, Lauren (brothel), Haley (dairy), Caitlyn (virgin), Abigail (married at 19).
00:32:27
Ashley St. Clair / Elon Musk Baby
Panel reacts to Ashley discussing having Elon Musk baby.
01:04:00
Andrew Wilson Authority in Marriage
Andrew defends Orthodox Christian male headship. Significant pushback.
05:01:07
Ryder TikToks
Nice guy ex and abusive ex-husband TikToks. Ethical debate on posting about exes.
05:17:24
Lydia Abortion Clinic Video
Most contentious segment. Confrontational interaction with clinic staff.
05:43:04
IVF Burning Building Hypothetical
Save 5-year-old or 1,000 embryos? Tests embryo personhood beliefs.
Transcript
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03:53:07
Brian Atlasright. Um, so, okay. Men should think that, too. I think there's a difference, though. Uh, and here's why.
03:53:18
Brian AtlasSo, as men, we get rejected instantaneously. If I step to a girl that's outside my league, I'm not getting anything. I'm not getting a conversation. I'm not getting her phone number. I mean, look, maybe she gives the phone number, but it's a fake
03:53:30
Brian Atlasnumber. Whatever. I don't get anything. I don't get a date. I don't get uh I don't get I don't get sex. You don't get anything as a man if you step to somebody outside
03:53:42
Brian Atlasyour league. The same can't be said for women. Women, if you step to men outside your league, men will be like, "Oh, okay, cool. I'll have sex with her." And
03:53:53
Brian Atlasthey might have sex with you once, twice, three times. They might have keep you in a friends with benefit situation. They might even keep keep you around for three, six, nine months. But in the back of their head, you're never getting
03:54:06
Brian Atlascommitment from that guy because they they're just keeping you around for sex. And maybe you have a pleasant personality and you do things for him. You, you know, chores, whatever. You help him or you're doing all the things that you, you know,
03:54:19
Brian Atlasmake your yourself more appealing to men. But on the sole basis of your physical appearance, he's already put you in a category of just on the basis of her looks alone, I don't want a
03:54:31
Brian Atlasrelationship with her. Now, I'm not saying that this is right. I'm I'm talking descriptive, but it happens. Yeah. I'm talking descriptively about what happens. This is what where you hear women complaining about men not committing. When you hear men uh women
03:54:43
Brian Atlascomplaining about situationships, women have access to men that are and you might not think it's the case, but if you're not getting commitment from the guy, it's the case
03:54:56
Brian Atlasmost likely. Although, look, there's guys who are you could be dealing in your genuine league and they just they're playing the field, right? So, you could be in the dude's league and he's just playing the field. you're not going to get commitment even if you're
03:55:08
Brian Atlason his level, right? But there's a lot of women, y'all have sexual access to men that are outside of your league. That's why an average 20-year-old girl
03:55:16
Brian Atlascan deal with a famous musician, actor, athlete, but it doesn't really work the way like there's not uh there's not like 20-year-old college guys that can slide
03:55:27
Brian Atlasinto like a famous female musician's DMs and she's going to fly him out and [ __ ] him. Like, it doesn't happen. But the reverse happens all the time. So you women and it doesn't even have to be a famous guy. It could just be like he's
03:55:39
Brian Atlasreally good-looking or whatever it is, right? You can get sexual access to him. You can't and you can't get a relationship out of him, right? And this is why, for
03:55:50
Brian Atlasexample, if I can sleep with a girl, I have a very high confidence level. I can get her into a relationship. Extremely high confidence level. If I not all the look, doesn't happen all the time, but very confident I can get into a relationship. But I'd like the women
03:56:03
Brian Atlashere to think about this. And I know some of you aren't particularly sexually active. Some of you are virgins, but maybe you specifically, have you ever been able to sleep with a
03:56:13
Ryderguy, but you weren't able to get him into a relationship? I don't sleep with just I guess any Look, I'm not saying not me myself, but I have heard
03:56:25
Ryderabout those situations like through friends and everything. Yeah, I do get it. But then I don't want to be like the shitty friend, but I tell my friends like, "Why are you sleeping with people that don't want to commit to you?" Like once you push that and you're like, "Why
03:56:39
Rydercan't you commit to me?" And they give you the blunt answer of, "I'm just not ready." Or, "I just don't want it. Why are you still sleeping with him?" That's your self-worth that you're putting under. And you're literally like, "Well, he doesn't want a commitment, but I
03:56:50
Brian Atlasguess I'll still get my coutique." Like, no. Like, sure. So, so um I mean, but the guy already got sex. He got he already got what he wanted. You didn't get what you want, which is the
03:57:02
Brian Atlascommitment. But you shouldn't sleep with a guy for just commitment. I mean, that's what women a lot of women do. Not all women, but but let me ask you this here. I I'll paint a different picture.
03:57:12
Brian AtlasLet me ask you guys this. Let's say a man, he could sleep with beautiful women, like women who were out of his league and just let's say uh every single day he could sleep with a new
03:57:25
Brian Atlaswoman that was beautiful, like really attractive, but those women never wanted to be in a relationship with him. They just kind of, you know, maybe they kept him around this average guy or maybe
03:57:35
Brian Atlasslightly above average. They just kept him around for, you know, occasion. What the? I said, "Are you giving me like a Good Luck Chuck type of situation?" Like they like, "Have you
03:57:47
Ryderseen the movie Good Luck Chuck?" Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. I haven't seen. Okay. Good luck, Chuck. The I don't know what actor it is, but Chuck is the guy and someone put like a curse on him a long time ago
03:57:59
Ryderand basically was like, "You're never going to find commitment, but women are always going to use you to sleep with you, and once they sleep with you, they're going to get married right after." So then in the movie, all these girls were like lining up to sleep with him because they were like, "I need to
03:58:12
Ryderget married. I need to get married." Obviously, you know. Yeah. Yeah. I mean, you have to have seen it. His name Dave. I I don't know what his name, but like he's like this weird dentist and like his homie that is his best friend is
03:58:23
Brian Atlaslike a breast augmentation doctor and Yeah. Yeah. It's like a 2008 Ronchi movie, you know, and uh I mean I haven't seen the movie, but sure, whatever.
03:58:34
Brian AtlasYeah. Um, so you have this guy who all these women who are more attractive than him want to sleep with him or are down to sleep with him and he does sleep with them but he never gets commitment from
03:58:46
Brian Atlasthem. Meanwhile, you got a girl on his level and she wants to be in a relationship with him but he's like wait and he's he'll sleep with them once, twice, three times. Maybe he can some of these girls will be do situationship
03:58:59
Brian Atlaswith him. Maybe some of these girls will, you know, friends with benefits couple weeks, couple months, whatever. You think that guy who's able to sleep with a beautiful a different
03:59:11
Brian Atlasbeautiful woman every night of the week is going to look at like an average girl who's willing to commit to him and be like, "Oh, okay. Now I want to deal with her." No, but that's a personal problem. Like if you're if you're longing for a
03:59:24
Brian Atlasrelationship and all these beautiful women are not giving it to you, maybe you're looking in the wrong place. But so what I'm what I'm trying to say is that doesn't happen to men. That does not happen to men where there's like average dudes who can like sleep with
03:59:37
Brian Atlasgirls who are one, two, three points more attractive than them. That happens to women all the time where women can like be average or below average and get
03:59:48
Brian Atlasa steady flow of men who are interested in them strictly for sexual access. And these men are I'm Look, I'm not saying it's good for these men to be doing this, but it is what it is. That's
04:00:00
Brian Atlaswhat's happening. And so that scenario I just painted, that's what's happening to women. y'all have access short term to these
04:00:12
Brian Atlasmen who are outside of your league, right? And then what happens? It's a couple things. So, you have one, if you look at the girl's Instagram, you look at all the comments, it's all her friends gassing her up. Oh my god, you're so beautiful. Blah blah blah blah
04:00:24
Brian Atlasblah. That's one. Uh two, you're using makeup and you're using filters and plastic surgery and all these I know not all women do plastic surgery but all these things to artificially elevate
04:00:36
Brian Atlastheir physical appearance and their own self-perception of how they look. Uh so women will be like women will assess female attractiveness of themselves or other women really generously and then
04:00:48
Brian Atlasthey assess male attractiveness super harshly. For example, women will say, "Uh, Lizo is beautiful." If I called any of you girls here, "Oh my god, you look like Lizo." I
04:00:59
Brian Atlasdon't think you would take that as a compliment, but you'll say, "She's beautiful." Uh, and then um and then the other thing is you have sexual access to men who are outside of your league. And
04:01:12
Brian Atlasso because of all those factors combined, you think y'all think you're more attractive than you're actually you actually are. meaning, okay, I'm this
04:01:21
Brian Atlasattractive. I deserve this caliber of guy. Then you're going to continuously chase these men who they're like, I don't think this is a match, but I'll
04:01:32
Brian Atlashave sex with her. She wants to have sex with me. And then you look at the guys who are actually on your level, and you're like, nope, not attracted to him. Even though he's on your level, not
04:01:43
Brian Atlasattracted to him. And then some women do this throughout their whole 20s, bouncing from dude to dude to dude to dude. And then maybe they settle finally in their
04:01:56
Brian Atlaslate 20s, 30s. And then she resents the dude because he's not as attractive as like the 10, 20, 30 other guys she's been with. But then like why' she settle?
04:02:07
RyderWell, it's not settling, but in her mind it's settling. But still, it's just like a moral thing. Like why am why is she going from D to D to D to D? Why is she going from D to D to D? If we're not think okay if we're not thinking about
04:02:19
Brian Atlaslike family and kids if you take like the average male in the United States who's 18 19 20 21 and you say and he's
04:02:28
Brian Atlasaverage looking and you're like okay you can [ __ ] girls who are better looking than you every single night of the week and get romantic and sexual attention from them. You don't get
04:02:40
Brian Atlascommitment though, but you get that. They're going to be like, and then they have that experience and then they finally, okay, in their late 20s and 30s, they're like, you know what, I want
04:02:51
Brian Atlasto have kids and settle down. And then all of a sudden, they can't be uh they're not sexually aroused by their actually equivalent girlfriend. They're not attracted to their looks equivalent
04:03:04
Brian Atlasgirlfriend because they've been [ __ ] supermodels for a decade. Can I add something? Now, I know this is kind of an extreme example, but like that's kind of what's happening with women. Go ahead. Yeah. Um, yeah, the
04:03:16
Abigail (Married)situation you just described does not happen. Um, but it happens in the reverse, like you were saying, uh, with the roles, the gender reversed. And I would say it's because men will see a
04:03:28
Abigail (Married)woman who's attractive and use her for, you know, recreational use. Not saying it's not saying I agree with that, but um, he doesn't want that woman caring for his household. So, he's not going to
04:03:39
Abigail (Married)commit to her. Now, in the reverse, women sleep with men who they because there's always the chance that she could get impregnated. And it's subconscious. It's biological. She'll pick a man to
04:03:51
Abigail (Married)sleep with who she's okay with him impregnating her. Once she's impregnated, she becomes very v vulnerable. And she needs a man to stick around. So, if she's sleeping with him, it's because she wants to be with him.
04:04:04
Abigail (Married)Now, not every time he wants to be with her too, too, because she might only have her looks and body to offer and he might not want her caring for the household. So, it's strictly like
04:04:16
Abigail (Married)biological is the reason that that happens to women where men will sleep with her but not commit to her, but it doesn't happen in the reverse. Yeah, true. True. So, how does this
04:04:29
Brian Atlasrelate to rating your looks on a scale of 1 to 10? If you have hubris and you have an ego and as a woman like cuz as a
04:04:38
Brian Atlasguy I could think I'm a 10. It doesn't matter. I could I could think I deserve this caliber of woman as a guy because y'all will reject instantly because
04:04:49
Brian Atlasyou're not going to for women it's the reverse, right? As men, if we're just looking for casual sex, we're going to dep prioritize looks. We rep prioritize or over prioritize looks when it comes
04:05:01
Brian Atlasto relationship, right? But if we're just like trying to have sex with a girl, eh, whatever. Like looks not a big deal. So they do when the So they over prioritize looks when the relationship happens. Not
04:05:13
Brian Atlasokay. Hold on. Just to be clear, men care about other things besides looks. But what I'm saying is when it comes to short-term casual sex, men are going to like they're going to sleep with a woman
04:05:24
Brian Atlaswho is clearly less attractive than if look, if a guy can, he'll sleep with a girl who's more attractive. Mhm. Or he'll sleep with he'll try to get the most attractive girl he can get. Yeah.
04:05:34
Brian AtlasBut men are willing for short-term sex. They will date they will have short-term sex with a girl who's less attractive. Whereas for women, it's the complete
04:05:44
Brian Atlasreverse. If a woman is, and not all women are interested in like this, but if a woman is inclined towards a casual hookup, friends with benefits, she goes the reverse way. So, she's not going to
04:05:57
Brian Atlaslike, oh, I'm just going to have casual sex. I'm going to like lower my look standards. It actually has to be like the guy has to be really attractive for her to want to have a casual sexual encounter. Like, if he's really
04:06:08
Brian Atlasattractive, women start breaking their rules when it comes to m I want to wait 3 months. M I want I want commitment. Oh, okay. I'm not saying all women do this, but the more he has to be for a woman to be more willing to a casual
04:06:21
Brian Atlassexual encounter, the guy has to be more he has to be like really attractive. Like a girl's like, "Well, if I'm going to have casual sex, he better be damn good-looking." But if a guy's like, "I want but that's also because of like society norms and everything like men
04:06:34
Rydercould sleep with anything like obviously." And like when a woman does it, it's like so I feel like just because also like women aren't supposed to be having casual sex. So I feel like that's when like the woman tries to do
04:06:46
Ryderthat to make themselves better. Well, I mean, so not my opinion is the point. But it's like for the short term to be like, "Yeah, I know I had casual sex, but you know, he was a 10 out of 10 and blah blah blah." just because it would
04:06:59
Rydernot make you feel bad about having casual sex because I hate to say it but like men will always be like you know PSP like and they do it they they'll they'll do it with anybody. So that's the point. But like with a woman and you
04:07:11
Ryderhave casual sex, it's the point of being like, "Oh man, I'm kind of embarrassed." But the fact that now I'm having casual sex, it's the fact that he's a [ __ ] supermodel for whatever the [ __ ] You
04:07:22
Abigail (Married)know, I agree. I think it's like an energy thing. Yeah. I think, correct me if I'm wrong, the point you're trying to make is that if all women are deluding themselves into thinking that they're tense, they are less likely to actually
04:07:33
Brian Atlasfind a man who's willing to commit to them. Mhm. Yes. So that's kind of I know it takes me forever to land a plane here, but essentially essentially what I'm saying is is if women aren't
04:07:45
Brian Atlasrealistic about like if you're delusional about it, if you're and you're not going to like that, but if as a woman you're like, I'm this good-looking, I'm a 10, I deserve this caliber of man because I'm a 10 and I'm
04:07:58
Brian Atlasa, you know, yeah, probably not going to find a man to settle down. Then, but then you're like, "Okay, well, if that's it's leagues, right? If you think you're outside of Yeah. But you're not going to
04:08:10
Brian Atlasbe everybody's cup of tea." Just like how she was saying, it's even people in your own league. But the thing is is that uh y'all and here's here's where it gets dangerous is y'all you will chase
04:08:22
Brian Atlasmen outside of your league and you won't get commitment. And then, but if you're dealing with these men romantically or sexually for a short-term period of time, a phenomenon starts to happen. So, what's going to happen is, and I kind of
04:08:35
Brian Atlasexplained it, but it's like, man, okay, have you ever
04:08:42
Brian Atlasuh I'm trying to think. Okay, imagine you lived in like a l like luxurious mansion. Mhm. You live there. It's going
04:08:54
Brian Atlasto hurt. It's going to sting a bit if you start living in a dorm room with three roommates again, right? Like that's going to suck. And you're sharing a bathroom. Have you ever shared a
04:09:04
Brian Atlasbathroom? I got my own bathroom. You shared Have you shared a bathroom? So it's like, okay, as a woman, once you've dealt with a certain caliber of
04:09:15
Brian Atlasdude, because you have access to it, and the same doesn't apply to men. Once you've had access to a certain caliber of guy of attractiveness, they'll [ __ ] you and then you're going to be like
04:09:26
Brian Atlaslooking at these other guys and you're you're going to be like not attract cuz you think, "Oh man, I'm settling." But you're not. Yeah. Yeah. So that's the danger. I Oh, you first. You first. Go.
04:09:38
SPEAKER_04I Wait, who wants pizza? Yeah. Everybody, you want pizza? Pizza. Pizza. Is it pineapple? It's pepperoni. Okay. Thank God. Sorry, Andrew. Uh, okay. So,
04:09:48
Brian Atlasno pizza. Pizza. Good. Pizza. Three. Pizza. Pizza. Wait. Four. Five. Wait. One. Two. Three. Four. Okay. There
04:09:59
Abigail (Married)we go. Okay. Okay. I would like to offer this perspective for you. Instead of encouraging people to delude themselves into thinking that they're tense and there's no room for growth. I would say
04:10:09
Abigail (Married)my personal mindset is even though I can be objective about the way that I look, it's not everything to me. I still you can be happy with or indifferent to your
04:10:21
Abigail (Married)appearance even though you're objectively not a 10. You can also recognize that there are more important things than appearance. For example, I do want to be attractive to my husband.
04:10:31
Abigail (Married)So I go to the gym. I eat healthy so that I am. But there's more than just my attraction that I have to offer to my husband. Yeah. No, definitely. And then there's also more important things. For example, doing things for the Lord is
04:10:43
Abigail (Married)much more important than the way you look. So instead of deluding yourself into thinking you're a 10, you can recognize that your looks aren't that important and you can also recognize your uh that there's room for
04:10:56
Abigail (Married)improvement. Yeah, I said there was. Okay. So, do you agree that that's a better mindset to have instead of deluding yourself into believing? I guess. But also like the you should just like yourself enough that you think
04:11:08
Abigail (Married)Yeah. Yeah. Now, I said that I'm not a 10. I in fact said I was a six. However, no, I like myself. Yeah. So, you believe you are beautiful,
04:11:18
Ryderright? I not the most beautifulest in the world, I guess. But you believe you are beautiful. In the eyes of God, you are a 10, right? Yeah. Yeah. Everybody
04:11:29
Abigail (Married)thinks that looks are the same thing. No, definitely not. Objective all the time. Objectively, I'm not a 10. And that is okay with me. there's room for growth and I will do
04:11:40
Abigail (Married)things to grow even with my appearance and my appearance is not the most important thing. I would argue that that is a much better much healthier mindset than just deliluding yourself into believing you're a 10. I'm happy with
04:11:53
Ryderthe way I look. I'm not a 10. Does that make sense? Yeah. So, have I changed your opinion? No. Okay. Yeah. I'm like, but I respect your opinion. Yeah. Yeah.
04:12:04
RyderFair enough. Yeah. Is that good pizza? This is actually my first meal of the day. Oh, so yeah. Girl, girl, stop. Stop. I tried to do one of those fast diets for the show. So, really? Okay.
04:12:15
RyderWell, I think honestly too because uh I'm like used to like fasting. So, like I try to fast like just because me internally, I have like gut problems. So, like I try to fast and I need to
04:12:28
Ryderdrink like certain things before I get an appetite. So like it's not like I'm doing it for looks or for like appearances. I'm doing it cuz I will throw up my food before I eat. Like if I
04:12:39
Rydereat at a certain time Brian come back and she asked me she asked me this. Sorry. You're the host. Come on. Give me a question.
04:12:49
Abigail (Married)I have uh I'll be right back. Well, thank you. Now you said you said that it was a better healthier mindset than deluding yourself into believing you're in 10. And then you went back and said,
04:12:59
Brian Atlas"I have not changed your That's okay. If you want to change the subject, wait, did I miscalculate the pizza?" Okay. Uh,
04:13:10
Abigail (Married)wait. So, one question for you. Oh, she's getting up. Okay. No, the 10 the 10 the 10 out of 10 beauty.
04:13:19
Abigail (Married)I'm kind of curious to hear Andrew's opinion on all of this. Well, one one question before we do that. Um, can you tell me a woman who
04:13:30
Ryderlike another woman who you think is a 10? Sahayek, but we're in 10 in different leagues. She's like in a thousand. What? Wait. So, but I don't get it. The math isn't math. And so,
04:13:41
Ryderit's personal preference. So, Samahayek. Yeah. But I'm not her 10. Huh? I'm not her 10. I'm a 10 in my own head. Cuz to my beauty standard, I'm like, okay, I am beautiful. So, that's what I'm saying. I
04:13:53
Brian Atlasagree with her, but at the end of the day, yeah, Salah's bad. Uh Mary, can you um open up another tab? Google uh Google images, search Salahayek. Let's see. And she never
04:14:06
Ryderwears makeup. Yeah. All right. It does not work. I mean, but I mean,
04:14:15
RyderI'm uh control mouse wheel up. So, make it bigger. Yeah. All right. This is Yeah, she's in her 50s, right? Um, yeah, she looks good. Yeah, but but are you
04:14:26
Brian Atlassaying young Samahayek? Like No, I'm saying in general any era. Okay, young. Type in young Samahayek. She was from Death Till Dawn. I used to think Jesse
04:14:36
Brian AtlasJane in Pirates. Jess, did you Yeah, y'all. I thought she was so hot. Sahayek. Okay, so but like I'm saying,
04:14:47
Brian Atlasshe's not bad looking. Personal preference. She looks good. So, mom's helping my page. Mhm. Just just want to be sure we're on the same page here. Scroll
04:15:05
Ryderdown. Keep keep going. Keep going. Actually, show 1997 someh You don't have to look it up.
04:15:15
Andrew WilsonOkay. That's all right. Um here. Okay. Everybody knows the only time that Selma Hayak was at her most attractive was in From Dust Till Dawn. That was it. What
04:15:25
Andrew Wilsonabout Jesse Jane? That is Jessie Jane. From Dustill Dawn. I have no idea.
04:15:34
Brian AtlasNo. Wait, but you seem to object. I know you're you're looking at your friend over there. No, I know you girls think that that's some secret [ __ ] that guys don't know. When girls make eye contact, when girls do, they're like, "Yeah, we know when you're doing their shit." I was saying grown-ups. She looks pretty
04:15:47
Abigail (Married)good in girls. I know. Y'all been looking at each other all night. Like, oh my god, that was like 2010. I can't believe we asked to come on this podcast. I also have another question for you. If you're a 10, 10 meaning no room for improvement, and makeup is
04:15:59
Rydermeant to enhance and improve your looks. If you're a 10, why are you wearing makeup? Because I feel like it. Because I feel like if you want to wear makeup, then
04:16:09
Ryderyou can. I mean, I'm also not wearing foundation cuz your skin's going to break out regardlessly. It's part of life. Like I'm not gonna be like, "Oh my god, I need a thousand." I mean, even if I wanted to wear a thousand layers, I
04:16:21
Abigail (Married)would still think I'm a 10 then. I'm a 10. No, I'm not objecting to your wearing makeup. But if you are a 10, 10 means no room for improvement. Then you would have no need for makeup. Would it
04:16:32
Abigail (Married)make you feel better if I said I'm a nine? So then I could all cuz I never said I never said there was no room for improvement. Nope. 10. You said you were a 10. 10 means you're at the don't feel
04:16:44
Abigail (Married)good. There is no room for improvement. You are at the top of the list. One out of 10. There's no going above 10. So you're at you're always rate me. I would give you a good seven points. But you
04:16:56
Rydershould think he's a 10. But in your head. Yeah. But in your head, if you think you're a 10, I'd be like, "Power to you. Good job. Thank you." Like, but also that's what I'm saying. It doesn't
04:17:08
Ryderbother me what other people think they are. Like if like how Li how you said Lizo if Lizo thinks that she's a 10, I'm not gonna go up to her and be like, "Oh my god, you're not thinking about this. I'm not a seven." I wouldn't care. Like
04:17:21
SPEAKER_04I would I mean you're still settling for me, but like you're still settling for me, but can I ask something? Yeah. So just random question. So you wear what you want to wear because you want to wear it, right? Yeah. And stuff. So
04:17:33
Ryderwould you wear that outfit at home instead of um just you're wearing this girl? You should see what I go to the grocery store. Okay. Yeah. Curious. I personally I personally believe you should wear whatever you want and you should feel comfortable in whatever you
04:17:46
Ryderwant. And I was gonna I could have came in like sweats, but it's the fact that they were like, "Hey, wear wear." No. In the message in the message it was like wear this if you would wear it on your And I would This is a going out. Yeah. Like a wear something you'd wear to
04:17:59
Andrew Wilsonfirst. There's a difference between a going out outfit and a staying in outfit is what you're saying. Well, I mean, not really because I would go out in sweats, too. Andrew, what's your question? Yeah. Help me out here. Um I'm I'm just just
04:18:11
Andrew Wilsonreally curious. So uh if you're not a 10, you're a nine. Got it. Right. So are most of the guys that you're going out with then you're dating down? No, I think that they think that they're tens
04:18:23
Rydertoo. So then Okay. So it's just based on them thinking it. Yeah. I would But that's what I'm saying. I would assume that they would think that they're Let me ask
04:18:33
Andrew Wilsonyou a different question. Let us pretend hypothetically that you were at a rating seminar where there was going to be a hundred men but I wouldn't and all
04:18:44
Andrew Wilsonhundred men hang on all hundred men were going to rate you from their own subjective experience. Okay. And then we were just going to average what all of them said to come up with an average.
04:18:57
RyderWhat do you think the average for you would be based on how all hundred men voted? Okay. So that could have been the question that Stifler asked. Well, that it was the question. He just No, he said
04:19:09
Ryderask what you think you what you are, not what other people would think you are. Hang on, hang on, hang on, hang on. Without commentary, can you answer that question, please? No, I can't. Honestly, you can't answer it because I wouldn't
04:19:20
Ryderknow that their personal preference. If I went into that subjectively, it could be people that like Asian women. It could be people that like white women. It could be people that like women that are 6 feet. It could be So, that's what I'm saying. It's a personal preference.
04:19:33
Abigail (Married)Okay, we'll make it easy. We'll make it easy. It's a 100red white mechanics between the ages of 20 and 40. Well, I don't know their preference. That's what I'm saying. I Let me ask you this. If you had to put money on the fact that
04:19:44
Andrew Wilsonthey would either rate you all rate you a 10 or they wouldn't. Hang on. I wasn't done. I wasn't done. Hang on. Let us finish the exchange. She's actually right though. I was actually going to bring this up. Let's say that you had to
04:19:56
Andrew Wilsonput a million dollars on. You would win a million dollars if you guessed right. You would win $1 million if you guessed right.
04:20:08
RyderRight. It's like a game show. What would Yeah. What would you guess? So I would say like a seven, but I couldn't say seven cuz Tiffler didn't say seven. He said I couldn't say seven. So So if they can't say seven, hang on. So that's part
04:20:20
Ryderof the game show. Then I put myself at an eight. Seven. None of the men can say seven. You think would Okay. But do all 100 men have the same preference? They have roughly the same preferences.
04:20:32
Andrew WilsonYeah. Doesn't matter about roughly because at the end of the day have the same preferences. No. Like we'll quibble we'll quibble over which women which woman is more uh beautiful than another woman but we
04:20:43
Ryderdon't usually quibble over which women are [ __ ] ugly. Yeah. Cuz that's rude. But it's true. We just But it's rude. But it's still your own personal thought that you should not share. You and your
04:20:54
Andrew Wilsonfriends. You and your friends also may quibble about which women are more pretty than other women, but I doubt you and your friends quibble very much about whi which women are [ __ ] ugly. I doubt you quibble very much about it. Do
04:21:07
Andrew Wilsondon't Isn't that the truth? Isn't it true that you don't really quibble about which ones are ugly? Only which ones are more beautiful than other beautiful women. Isn't that the case? You'd be surprised. Yeah. There's Oh, yeah. Let her tell the truth. Yeah. No, cuz
04:21:20
Ryderthere's I'm not even going to lie. My friend is kind of mean. Sisterhood always hasn't. No, no, no. My friend's kind of mean because like we'll go out of the bar and something and she'll be like, "Oh, that [ __ ] is so [ __ ] ugly." And I'll be like, "Damn, you shouldn't have said that." Like, but
04:21:33
Ryderthat's what I'm saying. I don't have the same mindset that she has. I don't have the same You shouldn't have said that. Yeah, maybe you That's exactly like I'm saying. It's a thought you keep to yourself. Maybe it was mean. Hang on. Hang on. Maybe it was mean. But was she
04:21:43
Ryderwrong, though? Uh, most of the time, yeah, because I'll look at them and I'm like, "What the [ __ ] are you talking about?" Like, you're just drunk. Yeah. Yeah, but that's what I'm saying. Full of [ __ ] Eating that [ __ ] eating grin
04:21:55
Ryderright now. I swear to God. Oh my god. I swear I I will never be like, "Oh my gosh, he's so [ __ ] ugly, blah." For no reason. Because it's not my preference. It is not my preference. Hang on. Hang on. Listen. I'm not
04:22:07
Andrew Wilsontalking about no reason. I'm saying that when you and your friends assess the valuiness of attractiveness, you do you don't you probably argue quite a bit about which women have better hair and
04:22:19
Andrew Wilsonwhich one's prettier than another one and this type of thing. That's fair enough, right? But do you really quibble that much on an objectively ugly woman or don't you all just go, "Oh [ __ ] I Yeah, she's uh she's not the most attractive."
04:22:32
RyderNot the most attractive. Yeah, but that's to you. Yeah, exactly. Exactly. That's why But that's what I'm saying. Like I really don't care enough. Exactly. Yeah. But that's what I'm saying. I don't care enough about
04:22:43
Ryderanother person that I really have no relation to. Like never met them in my Do you think I'm going to care? Like that girl that my friend called ugly. I would literally tell her don't give a
04:22:55
Ryder[ __ ] about what she says because you don't know her. Like I'm not going to show right. Like I'm not going to be like, "Oh my god." Like because at the end of the day, I don't care about the people that are not close to me. I don't
04:23:06
Andrew Wilsoncare about the people's opinions that are aren't my parents, that aren't my So bullying wouldn't affect you. It would have um Okay, just I just want to point this out that you don't care about your own contradiction. Here's your
04:23:18
Andrew Wilsoncontradiction, right? If you're 10, you're 10 cuz you feel like a 10. Do you and your friends even quibble about who's ugly? No. It's like, so you're Yeah, because I think you I think everybody should think you're a 10. I
04:23:31
Brian Atlasjust believe that you should like yourself here. Just to move things on. Just to move things on. Uh and I want hopefully some quick answers on this. Do you think you'll be better looking better looking in 10 years time?
04:23:43
RyderDepends what I do. Depends if I take care of my health. You're 25. Depends if I take care of my health because I mean health is a big thing. Like how she was saying, health is a big thing. Like if I just right now all things being equal,
04:23:54
Brian Atlaslet's just do I I usually I've stopped doing the standard all things being equal. Do you think you'll be better looking in 10 years time if I take the time and effort to do so then? Yeah.
04:24:06
RyderYeah. Cuz Okay. 20 years time, uh, 45. Yeah. Same thing. 30 years time, 55. 55. I I mean, obviously, I'll start showing age, but that's normal. Like, and I I
04:24:17
Brian Atlasbelieve that just because you're older, you shouldn't think you're ugly. And that's the problem with society. You can't be mad. Not even making that argument. I think people can be attractive at like there was a whole movie the substance about that you can
04:24:30
Brian Atlasbe attractive at 30 40 50 whatever. Uh the question is though compared to 25 will you be more attractive at 55? I guess to myself I mean I have to love
04:24:41
Rydermyself but it's nobody's personal preference is damn that 55year-old cougar. I mean to I mean to young men that love cougars I guess. I guess okay how about this? I'll make it super simple. You're in a club and the average
04:24:54
Brian Atlasage of the men in the club is 35, right? So 10 years older than you. Uh you're in the club at 25. Your 55 year old version is also in the club. There's 100 men in there. Do they prefer the 25-year-old you or the 55-year-old you? They're
04:25:07
Brian Atlasgoing to prefer the 25-year-old me because men like women that are younger. Cool. Most of the time. Uh but to you though, I'm just going to move it on. Uh you're 22, better looking in 10 years time at 32 right now. Okay. You're 22,
04:25:19
Brian Atlasbetter looking in 10 years time at uh 32. Uh uh into the mic if you can. Uh sorry. 20 years time at 42? No. Okay. Uh you're 22 better looking in 10 years time at
04:25:31
SPEAKER_0432? No. Okay. You're 32 better looking in 10 years time at 42? I don't think so, but I'm going to gun for it. I'm going to chop my hair off really short and and have it black and then have a I already have a look planned for 10 to 20
04:25:44
Brian Atlasyears out from now and I want short hair with black and I just Hey. All right. Uh, and then going back 10, it's fine. Going back 10 years, were you better looking at 22 or now at 32?
04:25:57
Brian AtlasI'm now better looking now. Than you were at 22. Okay. Uh, you're 21, better looking in 10 years time at 31. Uh, no. I think these next five years are going to be my peak. Okay. Uh, you're 21, better looking in 10 years time at 31?
04:26:08
Brian AtlasUm, I don't think I'll look better in 10 years, but I think I'll hopefully look better in five. Okay. Uh, you're 21, better looking in 10 years time at 31. No, of course not. Okay. All right. I mean, pretty reasonable there. Uh, you know what? Here's what we're going to
04:26:20
Brian Atlasdo. We're going to do the We have the AI age advancement. So, we're going to go through that. We have put all of you through AI. We're going to see how you
04:26:30
Brian Atlasguys look older. Uh, because reasons. So, uh, let's go ahead and pull the first one up. Wow.
04:26:42
RyderI'll pull that up again. Shout out Botox. Shout out Botox. What are these ages? Yeah. What are the ages? I want to know. Like 90. Uh, that's a good question. I don't know. Yeah, that is not 10 years from now.
04:26:54
RyderYeah. Yeah. And I won't have my bangers in 10 years, but like I want to know like ages wise. Like that's not I don't know. That's probably 5 years from now. Oh my goodness. Depends on how But
04:27:05
Brian Atlasthat's like if I keep smoking and I decide to do drugs and I do Exactly. Uh Yeah. Okay. Uh next.
04:27:14
SPEAKER_04You look nice. Okay. The middle one's not bad. What the Okay. Uh, she's a milk. She's
04:27:23
SPEAKER_04going to live. All right. I like the gray. Okay. Next. Oh, no. Oh my gosh. I'm scared for my guys. I'm scared. Oh, that's terrible.
04:27:35
SPEAKER_04Oh, wait. No. That's That's also cute. The middle. I don't think it's That's This is what your future holds. Really? But is she 90 in the last one? Wait, why are your eyes all [ __ ] up? And then
04:27:48
Natalie (Seattle)what happened to the eyebrow? Going two different directions, though. [ __ ] Okay. Oh my god, I'm scared. Okay, wait. Hold on. Next. Oh my god. Is that That's not bad. No,
04:28:00
SPEAKER_04that's not bad. [ __ ] I've seen worse. I've seen worse. You picked Okay. Wait. I wouldn't wear that Madarka makeup at that age. No, I would have long gray hair and be a hippie chick. I'd be a
04:28:10
SPEAKER_04hippie chick with with Lululemon. Okay. Long gray hair to my butt. Oh no. Next. Okay. Oh. Oh, I kind of look like my
04:28:19
SPEAKER_04grandma. Huh? Okay. Let's see how bad this is. Next. Oh gosh.
04:28:30
SPEAKER_04I'm apparently transitioning soon, guys. I don't know. Cute. You look so sweet. You are going to be the sweetest grandma. Yours looks good. I'm going to be giving credit. No, literally, you're going to be the best.
04:28:42
SPEAKER_04Grandma, help you across the road. I would help you help you across the road. Thank you. I need help across the road already. I've total two cars. Oh my goodness. I feel like I at least I would get at least a Fig Newton out of the
04:28:54
Andrew Wilsondeal if I one of those caramel candies purse. You know, I should have brought that for everyone, too. I should You know what else, too? You look like one of those granny's who would have the permanent horror look on their face, you know,
04:29:06
SPEAKER_04where they're just always going to be such a fun grandma. Walker and whatnot. You know what I mean? Those are the ones, you know, are going to give you the I'm going to have the little Chihuahua, too. You know, one
04:29:15
Andrew Wilsonof those granny's. You look Native American all of a sudden. Do a little because her hand is up like that, Brian. No, I didn't get No, just the
04:29:27
SPEAKER_13facial the facial structure is uh you know, as a native. I agree. It is. Yeah. Yeah, she is. Yeah. Native agree. Native American. Yeah, I'm a man, but it's okay. Also, yeah. Yeah, the post. Are
04:29:40
SPEAKER_04you You're Native American. I am Native American. What tribe? Uh the wine dot tribe of Oklahoma. Oh, for that one. Yeah, why not? I don't know about that one. That's cool though. Yes, it's in Oklahoma. Yeah. Oh, dope. Yeah. Hell
04:29:50
Andrew Wilsonyeah. Do they have casinos out there or Yes, they do. They do. Nice. The chew mash here. Ryan, what happened with this uh with this chick earlier anyway? Oh, this has been a great panel. I Why did
04:30:02
SPEAKER_04she Why did she not want to stay on the panel? She got She was nervous. Yeah, she she got I think her hands were kind of shaking a little bit. I saw it over there. I think it was just the setup and I think she wasn't really Maybe the
04:30:13
Andrew Wilsoncameras prepared for the questions that were going to be asked. But I mean, you guys all seem to be having a good time. It doesn't seem particularly hostile in here. This girl, she's not She was also the youngest one that's here. She was
04:30:25
SPEAKER_04Oh, yeah. She was like what, 18? Yeah, she was the youngest. She was scared. Yeah, she heard us all say our ages and I think she was like, "Okay, I'm done." She was looking at the camera because she was like, "I don't want to be here
04:30:37
SPEAKER_04anymore." Anyone want her to vote? Anyone? I do. I do. Just uh Okay, next. Oh, no.
04:30:46
SPEAKER_04I hope you look good. You look good. I Yours is good. It's not bad. Look cute. We're going to be cute little grandma. Hey, leave me alone. I'm not getting a cat. I'm just saying.
04:30:58
Brian AtlasUh, next. Oh, this is the girl who rage quit. Hey, there you go, Chad. She doesn't look bad. Wow. What do you mean? She doesn't look bad.
04:31:12
Brian AtlasShe's going to eat your kids like Wait, go back to the other one. Terrible. Go back to the the girl. Um, you know, it's probably good that she left because if she saw that, if she saw this, I think she would have that. That's this would
04:31:25
Andrew Wilsonhave just destroyed her. You think she would have rage quit after that? Oh yeah, she would have been bound to this one. I don't think we're just walking. That's how that's working for
04:31:37
SPEAKER_04sure. It wasn't a rage quit. That's just like my like deep terminology term terminology. Have you had people that go to the bathroom like I'm going to go to the bathroom and then they just don't come back. Like they didn't want to rage quit. They just say I'm going to go to the bathroom. Yeah, we've had people who
04:31:49
Brian Atlaslike excuse themsel, don't say anything, and then just leave. They just leave. It's not a rage quit, but it's like how else am I quit walk? I don't know. Or they go in the bathroom and do drugs.
04:32:01
Brian AtlasYeah, that gota love that. This happened. Literally just go back. I You know what, Andrew? I need to have uh what's that? Narcan. I need to have Narcan in the studio in case there's
04:32:12
Andrew Wilsonlike residue. That's smart. They sell through your studio with any sort of like blue light or any sort of anything. It's got like that studio of [ __ ] I you know
04:32:24
Brian Atlaswhat, Andrew? Here's some whatever lore that I've never shared. So, there's if I collected these items, the amount of like fake nails that have popped off
04:32:36
Brian Atlaslike under the table. Some girls were like peel that [ __ ] under the table. Oh, for sure. Andrew wall out. There's hair. The amount of [ __ ] hair left in the studio. Oh my god. Ridiculous. I'm
04:32:48
Brian Atlassorry. I shed a wall. Hair balls. There's hair balls in the studio from women. Uh, and then there's fake nails and fake lashes. These are the these are the trophies that the the women leave
04:32:59
Andrew Wilsonme. Trophies. They're trophies. Yeah, I should make a wall of this. I actually Well, makes sense. The greatest challenge of the bearded husband is how they can keep their wife's hair out of
04:33:12
Andrew Wilsontheir beard. Like, that's the greatest challenge. Period. I haven't heard that. How in the world can I ever have a meal again where I where I'm there's not like blonde strands which come out of my
04:33:23
Andrew Wilsonbeard. Yeah, it's true. It's true. My dad lives states away. It's cuz women women are are you know they're short, right? Like my wife's much shorter than me. So always like
04:33:35
Andrew Wilsonwhen I see her in the kitchen, stuff like that, I'll usually uh you know I'll give her a kiss on the neck or kiss on the back of the head or a kiss on the forehead or something like that. Just even in passing, right? I I just like to do that kind of [ __ ] So cute. And it's
04:33:47
Andrew Wilsonjust it's just impossible. It's like it's like velcro, right? Just grabs it and just pull and you don't even know it. You don't even know it. I'll be sitting there. I'll be like playing a video game with my kids. She got a strand of blonde hair just like hanging
04:34:00
SPEAKER_12off and I'm like, "Well, leave it." You know? So after every after every kiss, do you have to go to the bathroom and like check the mirror and be like, "I have to make sure I don't." No, I don't give a [ __ ] I just think it's, you know, I But imagine how hard it is for the women because like I can't wear
04:34:11
Brian Atlasblack anymore. Oh, wait. Why? Andrew, I have a question. Andrew, I I just got a DM from somebody saying I'm spreader like at two hours ago or 1 hour ago saying I'm spreading spread Oh my
04:34:23
Brian Atlasgod, I can't speak. It's the champagne. I'm I'm a lightweight. Uh I'm spreading literal Russian propaganda. What? What did Did we say anything tonight that would about their Ukraine? Because
04:34:36
Andrew WilsonUkraine. Yeah. Oh, you said that the that the Ukrainians are drafting sometimes by force in Ukraine. Now they're saying Yeah. But but who cares? It's Don't you understand that everything a leftist disagrees with is
04:34:47
Andrew WilsonRussian propaganda? Brian doesn't matter what it is. Yeah. Yeah. Like like Brian Brian, are you proTrump? Am I proTrump?
04:34:58
Andrew WilsonYeah. Are you Look, I got criticisms of the guy, but yes. Well, I mean, because you're a [ __ ] Russian sympathizer Putin. Yes, of course. because you don't care
04:35:10
Andrew Wilsonabout the disinfo campaign that happened during his uh first election cycle. Because you don't care that the only reason we didn't have a first woman president to break the glass ceiling, literally rented out a building with a
04:35:22
Andrew Wilsonglass ceiling. Not kidding, for her acceptance speech is because of Putin, Brian. That's why Russian disinformation disinformation campaign. It's ridiculous. It's true. But what's weird
04:35:34
Brian Atlasis uh I mean there there are videos capturing this that are disseminated by Ukrainian citizens. A girlfriend will be walking with her boyfriend. He gets
04:35:45
Brian Atlasabducted by the military police. There's hundreds of these videos of these Ukrainian men being taken for by the military police or whoever it is. So I I
04:35:56
Brian Atlasmean that's just factually true. I don't think that would Whatever you say, comrade. Okay. I need I need like that Russian national anthem music playing right
04:36:06
Brian Atlasnow. Uh so wait, where were we? Oh, we were doing Okay. Uh next. Okay. I mean, you took a old photo of
04:36:16
Brian Atlasme. Sweet. No beard. No beard, but okay. I'll take it. Box. I'll take it next. Oh, look at that. Andrew. Okay. Okay. All right. Andrew looking good. You look
04:36:27
Andrew Wilsonlike a philosopher. Like a philosopher for sure. How popular? I'm going to be in the nursing home one day. Oh. Oh yeah. I don't know how Rachel Especially if I keep Especially if I keep my
04:36:38
Andrew Wilsoncharming sense of humor and work to go with those roguish old man looks. Not going to be able to keep their hands off me. Can I add a weird note? Oh, is it like the STD raid in nursing homes?
04:36:50
Natalie (Seattle)Yes. It's so weird. What? So weird. Apparently, it's like really crazy. Do you know why that is? You don't want to know why that is. I I I I'm not even going to get into it. appreciate that. Oh, is it like Okay.
04:37:04
Brian AtlasWell, a lot of a lot of it has to do with like elder abuse. Let's put it that way. Wait, really? Mhm. That's
04:37:14
Andrew Wilsonunfortunate with elder abuse. That's really unfortunate. Especially a ethnic popular. I'm not even going to get into
04:37:24
Brian AtlasWow. That's getting wild in there, I guess. Okay. Uh here, let's do the uh I guess the Wait, hold on. Uh oh, we have uh
04:37:35
Rydergender swaps. Let's do gender swaps. Yeah. Would you date yourself? Wait, go back. I'll put back. Would you date yourself as a man? Yeah. Low key. First picture
04:37:48
Ryderor second picture? You prefer? Well, the first picture is me, but I'm sorry. I'm sorry. The second picture or third. I'm going to be so honest. I but that's a personal preference. I
04:38:00
Ryderlove facial hair. So the second picture. Mhm. I love facial hair. Okay. Sexy. All right. She did herself. All right. That's That's good. All right. If you
04:38:07
SPEAKER_04gave me a goatee solo, then maybe I would for sure 10 out of 10. Next. Wow. Dang.
04:38:19
SPEAKER_04Attractive man. Wow. Would you date yourself? No. I meant to be a woman. Oh, but you look good. you. No, but like not
04:38:27
Abigail (Married)yourself. But like if it would you date that guy and there's no birth defects. You look good as both. He's a man of
04:38:37
Brian AtlasGod. Possibly the third, but no. Wait, I thought looks Hold on. I thought looks didn't really matter.
04:38:45
Brian AtlasAll right. Um, next. Oh, okay. Okay. If you were single, I think you look good. If you were single
04:38:54
Brian Atlasand not married, I think you would you date this person? Probably not. I don't know. It depends on their personality.
04:39:06
RyderOh, yeah. No. Nothing. All right. Next. Okay. You look like a DJ. Like an like a Mos type of DJ. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.
04:39:18
Natalie (Seattle)Like a Euro. Yeah. Exactly. Like Sweden or something. Would you date the male version of you? I don't think so. Yes, I would. No, I don't think so. You don't think so? You don't think so? I don't know. Not the first picture. I
04:39:30
Brian Atlasthink it's just a little creepy. What if he's like a really He looks really creepy. He you know he's a god-fearing man. He's a he's also a
04:39:40
Natalie (Seattle)virgin and he he's nice and treats you well. Yeah. You know, I'd give that a go. I'll give it a go. Give it a go. I'll give it a go. Give it a go. Not your first pick though, right? your first. I'll give it a go then. All
04:39:52
SPEAKER_04right. Okay. All right. Next. Oh [ __ ] My bad. Uh, no. I look I don't look like I date I look like I date men right there with the nose piercing and the everything. Like I can't in that
04:40:05
SPEAKER_04picture. I look like I would date like a guy. It's not bad looking. It's not terrible. It's not bad. It's not bad. But I look like I would date a guy cuz the nose piercing. Yeah. So you wouldn't you wouldn't date him though? I wouldn't date him cuz he'd probably date men or I'd Oh, I'm sorry. I wouldn't date him
04:40:18
SPEAKER_04cuz I'd probably date He I probably date men in that situation cuz the nose piercing. He would probably date men. He looks Yeah, I look Yeah, because the piercing and the smile and every just everything. But let's say he's straight. Oh, straight. He did a test.
04:40:31
SPEAKER_04Let me see again. We did a test. There was a test. Um No. No. I I I don't think so. I think No. I think No. Still no. Okay. Super. He's like super straight.
04:40:42
RyderStill no. No. But if I was a guy, maybe I'd date a guy like next. Oh. Oh, that kind of looks like my brother. That's crazy.
04:40:52
Brian AtlasThat's crazy. Um, and not bad looking. He's a decent guy. He looks like that that t Oh, I can't believe I know this. No, that looks like He looks like this
04:41:02
SPEAKER_13Tik Tocker guy who dated Charlie D'Amelio's sister. Oh, I think I know. Do you know who I'm talking about? The What's his name? Noah. Isn't it Noah? Noah. Yeah. Noah Cyrus. I can't believe
04:41:14
Brian AtlasI even know who that is. That was disappointing. That was old TikTok, I think. Yeah. Long. That was like five, six years ago probably or something. Um, yeah, I had that. Would you date him if
04:41:25
SPEAKER_04you were single? If you were single? I He's attractive enough to date. Yes. But he looks like my brother a lot, so I probably wouldn't. But the attractive level is Yes. Yes. Got it. Okay. All
04:41:38
SPEAKER_04right. I'm going to look the exact same as my old lady picture. Oh, okay. Okay. That's not bad. Not bad. Yeah. Would you date? No. I feel like someone that looks He looks like a sweetheart. Yeah. He's
04:41:50
Brian Atlasactually really nice. First of all, the hair the one wisp on the last picture. You got to be a little charitable with the AI. You know, imagine the wisp isn't there. I'm not very fit, but I do want someone that's very fit and that person does not look fit. Wait, wait, hold on.
04:42:03
SPEAKER_04Can you repeat that one more time? I'm not very fit. I'm working on it, but I would want someone who is fit. Preference. It's a It's one thing I'm working on. And I I I know it's a bad
04:42:14
SPEAKER_04thing. I'm working on it. I'm working on it genuinely. It's okay. I'm working on it. I'm not happy. I had severe bow depression and I basically didn't leave my house for 4
04:42:26
SPEAKER_04months at one point and I got fat and lazy and I'm like, "Oh, screw it. I'm getting back to working with horses and animals and going to start working out." So, you want an active lifestyle, so you want someone else with an active like my
04:42:37
SPEAKER_04personal trainer. But get up, you loser. A probably not that. But yeah, probably don't both go to the gym together. It's unrealistic. Just like the bare question. It's unrealistic my answer.
04:42:48
Brian AtlasBut I also I When you say fit, are you talking like Chris Bumstead or what's his name? Bum. I don't know. I don't know who that is. Sebum. He's like bodybuilder. Super ripped. Oh, no. No.
04:42:59
SPEAKER_04I'm just wanting someone that can pick me up. Okay. Before or after the weight loss? I'm working on the weight loss. Um, before I would prefer he'd be able to pick me up before
04:43:11
SPEAKER_04so he can actually pick me up when I'm pregnant. So you don't Oh, okay. Okay. Could you do it with your bad back? I do have a bad
04:43:22
Brian AtlasI'd pro if she asked me to. I'm good. She passed out right now. You need to carry her. I would probably need to ice my back if I
04:43:31
SPEAKER_04did that. So mean, Ryan. So mean. But I get the pregnant thing. I get wanting to be picked up when you're pregnant. I get that idea. Bales of hay or even like sex against
04:43:43
SPEAKER_04the wall. You can toss bales of hay. I'm living on a farm. I'm going to live on a,000 acres. Okay. I live on 400 acres right now and I want horses. Okay. Oh. So, he's going to have to lead the horses, too, cuz it'd be strong and you know the horses they get. He has to
04:43:55
SPEAKER_04handle a,000 lb animal. I could handle a,000 lb animal. So, he needs to a He needs to handle a what? Thousand lb animal. Oh, you're talking about like
04:44:05
SPEAKER_04the horses. Oh. He thought, "Oh, oh, I was on this great show." The horses, Brian, you should have more
04:44:16
SPEAKER_04self-esteem. Just Well, I'm working on it. I know I can improve because What if he What if he just thinks like, you know, most normal people that horses are [ __ ] and he just Oh, they they are the worst jerks. And I have a massive
04:44:28
SPEAKER_04scar on my arm, hence the long sleeves from when a horse bit me. Wait, it bit you? Oh, it rips chunks of muscle out. I almost I couldn't even get stitches because it was so big. Yeah. Oh, what? Yeah. Yeah. They're bastards and and you
04:44:41
Andrew Wilsoncan be dealing with one who's been docel for years and get kicked. Oh, no. They're just they're total dicks. You have to you have to treat them like a loaded gun basically. Oh, no. They are awesome though. But you have to treat
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Andrew Wilsondogs the same way. Somewhatish. I got bucked off a horse and it it got chased by pit bulls. For instance, I'll give you an example. Beagles are used in medical experimentation because you can do horrible things to them and then
04:45:05
SPEAKER_04they'll come over and lick your hand after a just the nature of the dog. No, I agree. I was speaking specifically about pit pit bulls where you have to be wary about certain things and I don't want to get in the pit bull thing. I'm
04:45:15
SPEAKER_04I'm probably going to ruin my pet store. Oh, I'm with you. I don't like pit bulls. No, they're just they're the rate the numbers just speak and stuff and it was just stupid to continue breeding them and stuff.
04:45:28
Brian AtlasI don't think they're terrible dogs. Before Before the whole pandemic thing, I used to say that pitbull apologists were the antiaxers of the dog community.
04:45:40
Andrew WilsonBut now that being antiax is kind of all the rage. I can't really make that analogy anymore. Wait, wait, Brian, I never asked you this. Did you Did you
04:45:50
Andrew WilsonDid you take the jabby stabby pro? No. No, you didn't do it. No. Okay. Yeah. Smart face, Brian. Face, Brian. Yep. Um,
04:46:03
SPEAKER_04so who on the panel took the jabby stab you? Show of hands. Oh, am I the only one? Oh, I'm allergic. Unfortunately, I was allergic. I did have allergic reaction to it and they had to record it at the CVS and then they had to get the
04:46:14
SPEAKER_04EB pen and put in my leg. Yeah. You shouldn't have taken it then, huh? Which one? Trust the science. I guess I guess not. Sometimes I wonder. Trust the
04:46:26
Brian Atlasscience. Okay. Um, so we're we were talking about horses or animals or horses. Pit. Wait, no, wait. I really quick. I just want to explore this. So, you want a fit guy?
04:46:39
SPEAKER_04I'm working on being fit myself. I actually got a lot of gym equipment. I've lost about 10 pounds in the past year, which I know isn't a lot. I am on medications that make me overweight.
04:46:49
Andrew WilsonSo, I am working on it. I'm bipolar, so I need these medications. Oh, Lord. But then it doesn't matter how fit you are, right? Like the bipolar thing is like
04:47:01
Andrew Wilsonthe worst red flag ever. It's like the one thing I would recommend even if let's say that this chick if you had to take a choice if it
04:47:12
Andrew Wilsonwas like Andrew gun to the head, right? Two beautiful women, one who has literally had sex with 500 men or one that has only had sex with 20 men but is
04:47:23
Brian Atlasbipolar. I would still take the one at 500 bipolar. It's not bad. Wait, what about a ver wait? Worst on earth, it's not bad. Bip virgin but bipolar.
04:47:34
Brian AtlasThat's great. Nope. And she'll be loyal to you, but she's [ __ ] bipolar. She won't want. She'll cling. She'll cling. I'm also watching this one. 100 body count. No bipolar.
04:47:46
Andrew WilsonJust anything that's not by bipolar women like the stories. Most of the stories that I've heard from men, right? talked to thousands of men all over the world just like I do women, right? And listen to their various kind of horror
04:47:58
Andrew Wilsonstories about the opposite sex and this type of thing. Almost every single time a woman has gone like [ __ ] apeshit to try to annihilate a guy's entire life,
04:48:09
Andrew Wilsonshe has been diagnosed with BPD. Okay. I wasn't diagnosed until borderline personality or or what is it's not borderline person or is it it bipolar
04:48:19
Andrew WilsonBPD? BPD is different than bipolar, but both bad. So, I have a question. Well, they can be they can be misdiagnosed even though um they're pointing to the same type of phenomenon. You know what I
04:48:32
SPEAKER_04mean? They're pointing to the same type of thing. Yeah. Well, I was autistic and they just put me on bipolar and they worked W autism. Well, I I feel you, Andrew, cuz right now I'm actually What's really
04:48:44
SPEAKER_04interesting is so when I was younger, like about 21, I think like I was just going through a really weird time. People were really mean to me. I didn't look like I did now. I was going through like a lot of health issues. I had acne
04:48:55
SPEAKER_04all over my body, all over my face. I know you're not a natural beauty. You had the right clothes, the right look, you could be very striking. Well, so okay, I had acne so bad when I talked to people, it would break open as I talked to them. It was that bad.
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SPEAKER_04People would insult me from across the street. I think that I was just put in a weird situation. So, I was diagnosed with bipolar and BPD, but I'm not
04:49:16
SPEAKER_04kidding. I left I know, I know, but hey, hold on. I left where I was and those people, my life got better. Now I'm I
04:49:26
SPEAKER_04left the medical um place that invalidated me for my MS cuz I was diagnosed at another hospital with MS and then this other one refused to and they said, "You need to have another attack at our hospital." So, I said,
04:49:38
SPEAKER_04"You know what? I'm just going to get a full mental health eval re-evaluation because honestly I think it was the people I was surrounded with. I think it was the situ the looking at myself with acne everywhere. Looking at myself not
04:49:49
SPEAKER_04feeling great. I think that had something to do with it. So I I have not had any episodes or nothing and at all. Yes. So I genuinely think it was just my life sucked at that point and now it's better. So I think re-evaluations after
04:50:03
Andrew Wilsonso long. I mean, well, look, I'm not I'm not going to absolutely argue the point. I think they misdiagnosed me. I think that 90% of psychology is [ __ ] [ __ ] I agree. The thing is, hang
04:50:15
Andrew Wilsonon. The thing is like the misdiagnosis, yeah, of of these types of things is over the top, right? Well, yeah, they kept giving me pills. What I'm saying is is that we're pointing to behavioral phenomenon, right? And then trying to
04:50:28
Andrew Wilsongive descriptors to it. BPD, bipolar, this and that. What I'm pointing to is the behavioral phenomenon of women who are like on a dime and just they you
04:50:38
Andrew Wilsonknow they just switch mode of them just switches and it's like those women are the [ __ ] worst ever because they don't act with any empathy in what they'll do this is the craziest part.
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