01:52:03Jakethe person I'd say so you wouldn't data laer a swim wadle because she to that God no I'm touching with the 10ft pole no too much too much attention no what's
01:52:14Jakeinsecure about it that you can't handle the woman getting attention for her work no I just wouldn't want my my wife putting her body online forever else to see because that should be within the sanctity of my home well what if that's
01:52:26Jakeher job to wear stuff like that that draws I wouldn't go towards somebody who has a job where they have to show their body off all the time simple and what's the reason for that because that's mine to see it's not the world's to see okay
01:52:38Brena/Paula/Alexisyeah what's insecure about that respect thing I think I think it's all preference but why is it insecure you called it insecure maybe it's not insecure for you but I think there's a
01:52:49Brian Atlaslot of guys who feel insecure from woman having that job why is it insecure wait wouldn't it actually be super wouldn't
01:52:57Brian Atlasit be so you said bikini lingerie model yeah so a guy who's willing to pass up a woman who on paper is so attractive that
01:53:08Brian Atlasshe's able to do lerie modeling swimsuit modeling he's willing to pass up such an attractive woman wouldn't that actually be really secure he's not willing to
01:53:18Brena/Paula/Alexisdate her despite her beauty because of the work she does well what's your name again Jake I think Jake's values are in the right place so
01:53:27Brena/Paula/AlexisI don't see it as insecure but I think they're are a lot of men out there who want that type of woman and can't handle it when they actually date this kind of
01:53:40Jakewoman and I don't really understand the exactly you think that it's maybe something that's intrinsic within men that when we when we have our woman it's our woman and we don't want anybody else
01:53:50Jakeseeing her body and then there's something that even if you're sort of like a guy who says that he's completely fine with it there's going to be something that GRS on you about that because you've got all of these guys who are seeing your body and that's that's
01:54:03Jakethat's what marriage is you know you get walked down the aisle in in your white dress and you you're father hopefully gives you away to the guy and then you become one and that's the sanctity of marriage is is being able to engage in
01:54:15Jakethat sort of relationship with each other where nobody else gets to gets to see well I think they get to see you in one way where like in a sexual way with your partner but when that's what that's what
01:54:28Brena/Paula/Alexisthe modeling is I don't think modeling needs to be sexualized just cuz a woman isn't isn't wearing like a full coverage outfit doesn't mean she's trying to
01:54:38Jakeallude to sex I think there's advertising for lingerie which I guess you wear lingerie but the reason why you you advertise for leres because it's a sexual thing and you need to sexualize
01:54:50Jakethe lingerie to in order to sell it but yes swim swim where it might be a little bit different but I I still wouldn't do it because just for the mere fact that I wouldn't want everybody seeing my my wife's body yeah in that way but lerie
01:55:03Jakeis a little bit different cuz lerie is is it's it's a sexual thing it's it's sort of meant to spice up the bedroom I understand there's a market for it and I think it would be a healthy thing for couples to engage in that if they want to but in terms of the modeling side of
01:55:15Lindsayit it would just be too much of a it would just be something that I I wouldn't personally go for myself is that a broad stage statement over like like people that model like lingerie and
01:55:27Lindsaystuff are you saying that like or you sorry are you saying that as an overall thing of other people doing it or yourself cuz you don't you post like fully naked pictures online no no I
01:55:39Brena/Paula/Alexisdon't post that kind of stuff online no I'm just saying if I think if you were posting like full nudes which I don't really know if people can post that on Instagram I guess some people get away
01:55:49Brena/Paula/Alexiswith it I think that's being uh attention seeking and you're trying to gain attention from that well like only fans like if you're a porn star or doing only fans that was kind of where I was
01:56:02Lindsaygoing with and what's the question about it um when you were talking about him or men being insecure mhm of being a model like you said modeling isn't sexual but what about only fans whereit sexual
01:56:15Brena/Paula/Alexisdifferent different story completely I just mean like campaigns advertisements that you walk into a mall and see you wouldn't date a Victoria model because oh she's showing off her body yeah but that's in accordance with with my values
01:56:27JakeI understand there would be guys who would take the sexual side of things and they'd be more more willing to have somebody who's really hot and sexy and less about the the the values that I would hold more dear but uh yeah for me
01:56:39Brena/Paula/Alexisit would that the value of sanctity is much more important for me than sexuality so if uh like if a man is comfortable knowing that like millions
01:56:50Brena/Paula/Alexisof other men are lusting and looking at his girl in like a sexual way than that but I think that it's like natural for
01:56:59Brena/Paula/Alexisguys to also be possessive yeah and then guys know it's natural to also lust so I think a lot of guys would be not like that because they're possessive of the
01:57:10Brena/Paula/Alexisperson that they're with I don't think that's wrong I mean I think it's attractive if somebody has that in them like they want to be the only person to see their woman that way so would you quit your work then if somebody that of
01:57:22Jakeyou no I'm a lingerie designer what if he provided for you and you didn't have to I have passion behind my work I would never but what about if you could do the design part and you could do the marketing part but you didn't have to do
01:57:34Jakethe modeling part would that be a compromise that you would do you'd take down the only fans and the Instagram photos and everything private little Instagram just you and your friends and you just do purely the business side of
01:57:45JakeInstagram there's nothing I haven't hypothetical question if would you would you do that because you said you've got only fans yes so shut down anything in terms of public nudity in any regards I'd shut down my only fans for sure and
01:57:57Brena/Paula/Alexisthe only reason I'm doing only fans is to sell fund my lingerie business we launch next February so we are startup and it's very expensive to manufacture do you go by a different name on only
01:58:08Brian Atlasfans I I have you you have your main only fans and then you have another one Renee Renee Renee Richards yeah yeah is that yours that's mine um so you what
01:58:21Brian Atlaskind of content do you post on there lingerie you don't post anything nude no I do have nudity on my account you literally she was asking you and I'm pretty sure you said you don't do nudity
01:58:32Lindsaylike just on Instagram no I said oh on Instagram I said on only fans but maybe it got communicated okay so you do do nudity implied nudity yes well I'm
01:58:43Brian Atlasseeing uh I've pulled up your only fans here and it says uh my VIP Club allows you to get exclusive content weekly in-depth conversations with me
01:58:52Brian Atlasaccess to my [ __ ] and naughtiest content Customs private lives VIP
01:59:01Brian Atlasum access to your [ __ ] subscribe to find find out you want to walk back uh some of the things you've been saying a little bit
01:59:14Brian Atlashere no so why didn't why did so I mean maybe so so Jake here was saying saying he does he wants his woman to be his he doesn't want to see other people to see
01:59:26Brian Atlasit so he doesn't want other people to have access to his woman's [ __ ] which you essentially called insecure is that insecure no that's that's taking it
01:59:36Brian Atlaspretty far I was just speaking of the terms of modeling and the modeling side of the things I'm doing right but you were like the the the frame here was like you're kind of talking about yourself to some
01:59:47Lindsaydegree yeah I was talking about my modeling right but you weren't letting on the full scope SC of your online content creation oh we weren't on that topic well that's why I was confused I asked you if it was like a broad thing
01:59:57Lindsayof like women or like more specifically you cuz if you're talking about lre like that's one thing like with other women but I thought with you you meant I got confused on that this do you
02:00:10Jakethink that it would a guy would be insecure if he saw that and said that he doesn't want to date you yeah why oh do I think I think that would make him insecure and he wouldn't want to date me no do you think that if if you were dating ay went on a first date and you
02:00:23Jakesaid I've got this only fans he looked it up and saw that and he said oh sorry I don't want to date you do you think that that would be an insecurity I don't know I think it's just like a personal preference like I
02:00:33Brena/Paula/Alexiscan't say whether the guy is insecure or not what do you think I don't think it has so much to do with insecurity it's more like just what are your values like what do you prefer do you think that cuz
02:00:45Jakethe way that I see it is that if a guy sees that and he does engage with dating a girl like that I would see him as actually very insecure because he's just allowing that to be all over the Internet and I'd say that a secure man
02:00:58Jakehas very firm boundaries and the boundaries would be no you cannot get naked and talk about your [ __ ] on the internet that's mine I'm the only one who gets to see that so I'd say that that's actually very secure and someone
02:01:08Jakewho's firm in their boundaries would you agree I agree yeah point with that in mind we call those beta males with with that in mind though in terms of your own dating
02:01:19Brena/Paula/Alexisprospects why would you why would would you do that if you are looking to engage in something serious in the future because I have a business that I'm starting and I make a lot of money
02:01:30Jakethrough my only fans and I want to sell Fun my business so do you think that your business is more important than potentially having a family and yes 100% so you think that that's a good
02:01:42Brena/Paula/Alexistrade-off is money over you'd you'd be happy to be single for the rest of your life as long as you have your launder business as long as I have my lunder business I I don't care about meeting anybody are having that's my number one
02:01:53Brena/Paula/Alexispriority in life do you think that will fulfill you long term yes how so I love it and uh I'm very close with my family my mom is my business partner what about when your mom dies that would suck I
02:02:06Brena/Paula/Alexiscan't even imagine wait your mom is your business partner yeah and she is and she's so she's aware of the only fans access to your [ __ ] thing we're we're very close she knows every single thing
02:02:17Brena/Paula/Alexisabout my life does she shoot for you shoot my content yeah no it's self shot everything on my o is shot by have an o no wait what does your mom think about
02:02:27Brian Atlasthe whole prostitution thing prostitution yeah you mean my only fans well it is a form of prostitution if you're you're I'm not saying you're street walker but I'm you're saying my
02:02:39Brena/Paula/Alexisonly fans is prostitution sex work sex work yeah that's not prostitution selling your body selling your body and getting money is 100%
02:02:48Brian Atlasprostitution okay for lack of respect um I mean I don't know if it's and you're saying does my mom know about it yeah yeah she knows about my only fans
02:02:59Brena/Paula/Alexisshe in favor of it against it what does she think um she I mean she knows the kind of content I post and sometimes like I'll send her the sets because I'm really
02:03:12Brena/Paula/Alexisproud of like the type of photos that I'm creating for there um so yeah I mean she doesn't have anything negative to say I which you rather me not have an
02:03:22Brena/Paula/Alexisonly fans I'm sure but we're business partners together and um I'm funding the business so I don't really know like what else I could do besides would the
02:03:34Brena/Paula/Alexisbusiness run without the only fans would it run would it would it operate at a profit or at a profit or at a loss we haven't launched yet so I I'm not sure but when we do launch I'm sure that will be the case and that is the plan also
02:03:48Brian Atlasjust to clarify on the prostitution thing so just the definition the practice or occupation of engaging in sexual activity with someone for payment so but you're not engaging it's like online you said
02:04:00Lindsyconversation so you're like are you anyone who's been engaging in your photos and your videos or whatever I mean that is a two stre a physical thing but and then you did say you're like well that's like the disrespectful way
02:04:13Brena/Paula/Alexiswhat would be the respectful way to describe who do only fans are prostitutes I think that's a huge stretch I mean is cardi b a prostitute because she has an only fan was she was but I don't think all these celebrities
02:04:25Brena/Paula/Alexiswho are on there are she's a terrible example as well those a bad example but there's other celebrities on there singers and a bunch of other types of uh entertainers who aren't prostitutes
02:04:39Lindsaydon't you think that's a little bit of an insecurity thing though like being called something like a prostitute like if you're passionate and you're like self-confident with your job and everything like wouldn't that be
02:04:49Brena/Paula/Alexisinsecure where you got like offended being prostitute I am offended by that and I am insecure about having an only fans I hate that I have to have one it really sucks I wish I was just a trust fund baby to where I could have a bunch
02:05:02Brena/Paula/Alexisof money to start my business but I am a lingerie model so I have a great platform to start something like an only fans how many Instagram followers do you have a million3 so why why would you need a uh an only fans if you've got
02:05:14Jakesuch a big platform on Instagram couldn't you just start small and just work work your way up work with influencers get a digital marketing agent that's why people do pre-orders and
02:05:26Jakestuff I've got my own business in terms of my channel and the content we do we started from the bottom and we've just had to grind and it's a slow process Brian has the same thing I'm sure other people at table as well but the bus
02:05:38Jakemodel doesn't work like that fast money comes with fast consequences as well dirty money comes with dirty consequences and that sort of thing going into that to then sort of elevate yourself in the future we'll have like negative ramifications what would the
02:05:50Jakenegative ramifications you won't be able to like a guy that you will want to be with won't want to be with you because of that because of that past you're your husbands your husband
02:06:02Brian Atlasand future children will not appreciate naked photos and videos of you being out there on the internet well that's not the person I would choose I wouldn't choose a person who had a problem with that well you can't choose your children they just pick for you I can choose my
02:06:14Brena/Paula/Alexislover and I wouldn't choose somebody who had wait do you do you want children now I I would love to be a stepmom um and if somebody wants to have
02:06:24Brena/Paula/Alexischildren with me I'm definitely open to it did you say that you said you don't like it but that it brings Hills of Beverly donated $200
02:06:36TTS Readerthank you Hills ladies a chunk of you seem confused what do you actually want what are you looking for we'll come to that in the SE so you have your question for her then we'll get to the TTS yeah
02:06:48Brena/Paula/Alexisso like you said you don't like it right but it's just bringing you my for your lerie business right okay so like I have a past and basically when I was in
02:06:58Brena/Paula/Alexiscertain things that I felt were demoralizing to a sense but maybe financially profitable like I started coming up with this analogy um of how I
02:07:10Brena/Paula/Alexisfelt and I felt like every transactional every transactional thing that I was doing that um brought me money externally was like morally bankrupt
02:07:21Brena/Paula/Alexiscorupting myself that's just like I got to that I understand what you're saying I don't feel um what was the word you use like morally bankrupt morally bankrupt I
02:07:33Brena/Paula/Alexisdon't feel morally bankrupt about having an only fans at all I feel very judged for it but I'm very proud of the content I put out so if everybody was fine with it then you would be fine with it too
02:07:45Brena/Paula/Alexisyeah of course cuz I'm really proud of like the photo sets I put out I think they're they're very sexy they're very um would you do it for free yes cuz I love content creation I'm a creative director
02:07:57Jakeso I really like so if you if you had it didn't earn you any money whatsoever and you still had all the shame and the social stigma that you feel you would do it still for free well I think that's what Instagram is but it's not putting
02:08:09Brena/Paula/Alexisnaked photos of yourself on Instagram oh no but I would take photos for free but I'm talking specifically about the only fan stuff would you would you do that for free well I mean I kind of do the same thing on my Instagram as I do on my only
02:08:20Chrisfans I think it's a little bit different I from what we just not that different like we all heard you sorry to call youis but we all heard you say that Instagram is totally different from only
02:08:32Lindsyfans but the the process of it taking photos that's not what he's getting he's getting at the quote [ __ ] oh the [ __ ] thing on there like yeah I think that's the big part like full access to your
02:08:44Brian Atlaswould you show it for free because you're passionate about it and you enjoy doing it well uh I do want to move on a little bit porn bad um so going to the
02:08:55Brian AtlasTTS Hills of Beverly he asks what do you actually want what are you looking for go ahead um that's a big
02:09:04Brian Atlasquestion um I would like to be loved mhm that's what I'm looking for somebody that's like actually loving well I'm sure there's plenty of guys that be prepared to love you I suppose but they
02:09:16Brian Atlaswould perhaps like have you ever rejected a guy yeah mhm but even even though he was prepared to love you right so I'm I'm sure there's more criteria than just he a willingness to love you
02:09:29Brian Atlasum somebody that I'm like interested in I don't know M so what are some maybe you can give us just maybe some physical metrics that you look for personality
02:09:38Evametrics um taller than me and interested in something like okay how tall are you five six or seven okay and taller than you so 5'8 that's fine I have dat
02:09:51Brian Atlassomebody that was the same height as me too okay um is the I know you're young but money is that a component at all um like you would you date a guy who works
02:10:02Evaat McDonald's they make a lot of money they make like 20 an hour right well compared to me I mean I don't have a job I'm just go to school so okay so but you would date somebody who works at
02:10:15EvaMcDonald's sure yeah if I like them if they were nice sure uh any other personality tra that you care about um I would like for them to share the same
02:10:26Evahumor as me which is what I don't know how to describe my humor like dry kind of dry sarcastic I don't like when when I make like a sarcastic comment and a guy's like oh
02:10:38Brian Atlasdid I do something wrong did I offend you and I was just joking okay it kind of turns me away what about you what do you want and what are you looking
02:10:49Brena/Paula/Alexisfor I'd like somebody like Andrew Tate um somebody with somebody with like similar values
02:11:01Brena/Paula/Alexisto you or a Charlie Kirk or Candace Owens like I I really love those values it sucks that it doesn't align in some ways so Andrew Tate and Charlie cook
02:11:13Jakethey're pretty different well I guess like a good combo Tate made sense because Tate's more like he has wives different wives he's a Muslim like kids with the different wives and that sort
02:11:24Jakeof thing and he's happy to to not be so directly engaged with the woman and I don't think that your lifestyle would would bother him that much but with Charlie Kirk that sort of character
02:11:36Brian Atlasthey're going to be looking for somebody who's very Christian and uh actually and really abides by that that way of life we we'll go around the table on this but on on what you're saying Jake in your
02:11:47Evapre-show notes you said that you're a conservative and God-fearing only fans Creator yes I'm a kinky Christian that's blasphemous that has to
02:11:59Brian Atlasbe Blasphemous that's probably Blasphemous um you're conservative yes
02:12:09Brena/Paula/Alexisokay I'm an open I'm an open-minded person and I don't judge people for and you're God-fearing yes so if if God you said kinky Christian though I think God
02:12:20Athenafears you you can be kinky and not be putting it you can be kinky within your relationship with your husband or your wife and not be putting oh you can be kinky with your husband or wife but not
02:12:32Brian Atlasbe putting it on yeah you know the internet so wait you're God-fearing but so I mean by producing be by being involved in sex work by
02:12:42Brian Atlasproducing pornographic content by doing only fans uh this is probably uh a bit of a contradiction you're Christian correct yes which which
02:12:53Brian Atlasdenomination non- denominational but I was raised Methodist mhm so I mean wouldn't this kind of contradict the Christian Faith by being involved in
02:13:03Brena/Paula/Alexissex work I don't think so I think my relationship with God is personal and do you do you think uh God wants you to be
02:13:12Brian Atlasdoing only fans I don't think God judges do you well uh have you hold on hold on hold on only God could do you think God wants you to be doing
02:13:23Jakeonly fans no I think he wants me to have a successful lerie company but you're doing only fans yes okay so do you agree that one of the seven deadly sins is
02:13:34Jakelost do I agree it is yeah so would you say that you feeding men's lust and sort of feeding uh into that industry is
02:13:45Jakesomething that would be contradictory to the Chris world not my fault if you have those emotions if men are lasting over you and you're providing that willingly would you say that you're a part of the process where
02:13:57Athenayou're literally contributing to it it's called being a stumbling block a stumbling block yeah the Bible specifically says not to be a stumbling block for others and how am I a stumbling block because you're putting
02:14:09Athenayourself out there for guys on the ground and women are supposed to be modest it talks about modesty in the Bible and you're putting yourself out there so that men can come and pay for
02:14:21Brena/Paula/Alexisit enabling the behavior wait did you say God can't judge you no I I said I don't think God judges me for having an only fans that's like the whole point of the Bible I think uh to follow certain
02:14:33Brena/Paula/Alexismorals and beliefs do you believe in the Bible what course yes have you read the Bible yes how much of the Bible have you read um like scriptures here and there
02:14:44Athenaor covered every night my mom sends me a Bible verse before I go to bed and that's been ever since the day I've left the house can I share something that I learned cuz I used to read scriptures here and there and I started reading the
02:14:56AthenaBible cover to cover and my understanding of the Bible and God oh sorry so I'm sorry my
02:15:08Athenabad it's very different now when you read it cover to cover because God absolutely does Judge he tells us to leave our sin and I I have my own sin
02:15:19Athenaright I don't make it excuses for my sin and I don't say that it's Justified or God is not judging me I know that he is and I try to do
02:15:30Lindsaybetter I'm not ashamed of what I'm doing though so she sends you Bible verses and you send her your nudes to look over before you post them they're not nudes
02:15:40Jakeor lingerie pics yes okay I think she's making a good point though about uh about the nature of sin though because we all fall short like we all sin I lust all the time whenever I
02:15:52Jakesee a beautiful girl you wouldn't want to know what I'm thinking but I think that there's something key in that to know that it's wrong and to know that what you're doing is something that you need to try and fight against and that's actually the devil playing with you and
02:16:05Jakeactually tempting you I know you don't feel that way but you definitely should about it it's Pride tell me how I should feel well I think we're going to have a conversation and this is how I feel and I'm telling you how I think you should
02:16:16Jakefeel so it's my opinion and your opinion you're welcome to your opinion of course but you are sort of when you're doing only fans you're definitely feeding into the industry of
02:16:27Brian Atlaslust this this is this is absolutely Paving the way for the am miseration of of men who consume this content does your uh does your uh religious
02:16:37Brian Atlasconvictions does it supersede everything what does that mean would you say your uh relationship with God or your religious views would do you say
02:16:48Brian Atlasthese things your faith is the one of the most important or if not the most important thing in your life it's not the most important what's
02:16:57Brian Atlasmore important than your faith my family okay so is it Family Faith Family Faith career career okay so your your
02:17:08Brena/Paula/Alexisfaith supersedes your career yes okay before you said the career is the most important thing and you don't care if you're single forever so I did say besides my family like building you're
02:17:21Brian Atlastalking in terms of what I value having a career over finding love you said you were God-fearing right so again do you think God wants you to be doing porn no he doesn't want you to be doing porn
02:17:33Brena/Paula/Alexiscourse not so what you Contin what what do you think Satan wants you to be doing okay um what do I think Satan wants me to I don't really think about what Satan
02:17:42Brian Atlaswants me to do okay so if you're God-fearing and God doesn't want you to do porn how do you uh reconcile these two kind of
02:17:55Brena/Paula/Alexisconflicting I don't consider myself doing porn but I know everybody has different definition so I don't want to debate that fine so you okay fine God doesn't want you to be posting nude or near nude photographs on your only fans
02:18:07Brena/Paula/Alexishow about that okay and let's say do you consider it sex work no but it's okay like for for the sake of conversation we don't have to debate it okay I I I won't even use the term
02:18:19Brian Atlasthat you don't agree with do you think God wants you posting nude or near nude photographs on your only
02:18:27Athenafans I don't think God cares about that can I ask a question go ahead um I've heard you talk about your mom a lot but what about your father we're very
02:18:38Lindsyclose to you're very close to does he know you do only fans and he knows that you have the p word in your profile I don't think he's read my profile okay but if he if he read that I I don't
02:18:51Brena/Paula/Alexisthink he would care cuz my parents I'm very close with them they know me very well and are your parents still together no I have a stepdad too we're also very close and how does your stepdad feel
02:19:03Brena/Paula/Alexisabout it he supports me 100% cuz they know I'm building a lingerie business so only fans isn't my career I'm using my
02:19:13Brian Atlassocial media fans to make an income do you make where uh of the money that you do make what percentage comes from only fans the
02:19:25Brian Atlasmajority this is like the biggest cope ever like well I'm currently a drug dealer selling methamphetamine to 12-year-olds but it's in furtherance of
02:19:34Brian Atlasme starting a swimsuit company down the line so it's Justified because I'm trying to start a legitimate business with my not so legitimate do you plan on
02:19:46Lindsaystopping only fans if your lingerie business takes off even if only fans makes more money than your lingerie business yes do you know where it says in the
02:19:56Brena/Paula/AlexisBible to like do what you want as long as it doesn't hurt anybody else yeah where I don't feel like I'm hurting anybody else if that's what you're kiding at that doesn't say that in the Bible that says that in the book of
02:20:08Brena/Paula/AlexisSatan just so you know it's do what thou Wilt but in the Bible there's very
02:20:14Lindsystrong that was a mic drop did you have something on this or I kind of um you well you never said that having children
02:20:26Lindsywas the most important thing to you you said stepchildren you would be down for that having children but you're open to it so if that was a futuristic goal which it sounds like the only futuristic
02:20:37Lindsygoal you have is for your business um my whole thing is is you know what you put out there it doesn't go away so you meet the love of your life and they have a
02:20:50Lindsychild or you guys have a child whatever it may be and they come across these pictures I don't care if it's on only fans or not other people are going to see it it's going to happen people screenshot people
02:21:01Lindsyyou know record I mean now we all make mistakes I make mistakes I am not a huge I have
02:21:10Lindsyspirituality I am a non-denominational Christian but I am not I don't harp the Bible every single you know every single
02:21:21Lindsymoment I can and I make mistakes just like anyone else in most cases but don't you like is there anything in you like what what would happen what would my children think not
02:21:33Brena/Paula/Alexiswell you wouldn't be able to say what your children would think but like is that something that like you think about none of my content is vulgar so I'm I really am not ashamed [ __ ] on your on
02:21:45Lindsyyour profile saying the word [ __ ] and the content you put out are two different access to your [ __ ] that's V access and I hate even saying that word
02:21:57Brena/Paula/Alexisloud personally so you're baiting them and then you're saying you're posting like vanilla tame stuff but I mean you're baiting men to think that they can have access yeah that's how the platform Works yes I feel like you're
02:22:09Lindsyjust so pretty and you seem like you I mean you're very well spoken I just feel like there's so many other things about yourself you could utilize to make money where you're not doing a form of sex work because yes it is I don't mean to
02:22:22Brena/Paula/Alexissay that to disrespect you I say that because it's truthful that's a compliment thank you so much do you do you have some recommend of other things that I could do uh well for one if
02:22:32Lindsyyou're interested in doing your you have a platform of how many 1.4 million there's your bread and butter right there do some do some how many of the followers did you buy I didn't buy
02:22:43Jakeany of my followers organic followers following since I was 10 years old so if you've got an organic platform on Instagram of 1.1 followers and you can't
02:22:51Lindsaythink of something to do that's not sex work well I also I I do that as well do business and stuff I could tell you a million things you could do to promote your business you have a million
02:23:02Lindsayfollowers you could pre-sell your stuff and that's people pre- buying your stuff so then you can do but it you're asking for you still have to pay to get to get something if you want to pre-order something so where do you get the money
02:23:15Lindsyto get it made because you you can take pre-orders or you can also go along line I've owned a couple businesses myself um when it comes to getting your sourcing obviously you need to have a dollar
02:23:26TTS Readeramount ha and well met L Paladin donated $200 and2 she's just here to advertise for more simps to her of I think she was lying about gay man to not scare away
02:23:38TTS ReaderSubs she isn't interested in relationships too bad I can't afford the coin for the kick uh yo l l paladins good to see you
02:23:49Brian Atlasman is uh wait really quick uh God-fearing what's your favorite Bible verse I don't know when's the last time you went to
02:23:59Brian Atlaschurch few months ago which chur which church was it it was a church in The Woodlands which denomination Methodist Methodist
02:24:10Brian Atlasokay I think it's all cap honestly I think it's just like can I ask when's the last time you prayed every day every day yeah okay I'm pretty sure it's all a cap but okay
02:24:22Chrisum so let's just move on I have one question though you say that you're listen I'm not I'm not here to to pile on but I'm just confused about one thing
02:24:32Chrisyou said that you are a uh Christian King so you mentioned like the first guy you mentioned that you wanted your ideal is Andrew Tate Andrew Tate is is Muslim
02:24:44Jakeand he's already got I don't know how many wives you know I mean um how how does that work like you would have to convert to Islam to be I don't think Andrew Tate's worried about just having
02:24:55ChrisMuslim Wes I think Andrew Tate's got a real yeah I'm not I'm not worried about him I'm just saying that if she's as convicted as but I don't think she was meaning Andrew Tate specifically she
02:25:08Brena/Paula/Alexisjust give me an example not all things about him there's just like a few qualities like people get the the whole like image of a very manly man I mean let me give a way better example Joe
02:25:19Brena/Paula/AlexisRogan somebody who's open-minded uh very let's say conservative but also um socially
02:25:31Brian Atlasliberal a socially liberal person which that's how I see myself is Joe Rogan conservative think he's not I don't think i' say if anything Jo would be a
02:25:41Brian AtlasLiberal Liberal yeah he's pretty that's what's maybe a maybe a Tony henchcliffe he's gay isn't he no a is he by he said wait what do you mean when you say socially liberal was that
02:25:54Brena/Paula/Alexisthe word you used socially liberal how are you socially liberal well I have an only fans sure besides that though that's pretty liberal um
02:26:05Brian Atlaspro-choice um no I'm not pro-choice okay um you're fine with like the kids
02:26:15TTS Readergetting the killer cial donated $200 can't turn a ho into a house tool no Christian says God doesn't judge put
02:26:25TTS Readerthat slogan on your lury and breed a new generation of degenerate feminist boss bapes who also like to show pee definitely not a
02:26:34Brian Atlasfeminist conservative but I'm fiscally conservative oh okay not all right uh let's keep things moving though going back to the question what do you actually want what are you looking
02:26:45Lindsayfor what do I want I want to find someone who matches the same values as me and like she said the same humor which you asked her what her humor is mine is I want to be able to be with
02:26:58Lindsaysomebody where I don't have to really think before I talk all the time I could just spew what's on my mind and they'd understand it or at least like it would start a funny conversation that's kind of what I'm looking for someone I'm
02:27:08Lindsayattracted to someone I write a love ideal list every few months so I'm always changing it due to me changing and I kind of go off of that when I look at anybody what about you um
02:27:20Brena/Paula/Alexisum honestly my brain's mush right now from listening to all that so um I'm h i I'm definitely more traditional so ideally obviously I have children and
02:27:32Brena/Paula/Alexisthat is a opens up a different form of baggage um and not every single man will be okay with it and that's fine everybody has their preferences but um I
02:27:42Brena/Paula/Alexiswould love a man that could take care of me um what do you mean by that I I'm okay with being in a traditional
02:27:53Brena/Paula/Alexisrole I own a business I can financially take care of myself um I love what I do within my business but if I met a man
02:28:02Brena/Paula/Alexisthat was able to financially provide and want and wanted me to stay home um sorry I did not mean to press that go ahead and wanted me to stay home and take on
02:28:12Brena/Paula/Alexisthe traditional role um I would not have a problem with that if I met a man that was okay with me working then I would be okay with that too okay me what do you want what are you
02:28:24Lindsylooking for a man who is safe safe okay and as in you know a leader role uh with morals doesn't
02:28:37Lindsydoesn't like you were saying someone you can go to and you can have a a conversation and have to worry about you know there being a response that could you know having safe conversations is
02:28:49Lindsyreally important for a relationship in my opinion so and then someone who is successful and smart and doesn't make me feel like I have to be a masculine woman
02:28:59Lindsyyou said successful uh how successful successful as in I mean number-wise I I
02:29:10Lindsydon't not somebody who is living you know paycheck to paycheck meaning that they are able to support if if I were to date I'm not dating to just go date around that's a huge reason why I
02:29:21Lindsyhaven't gone on dates I don't have any interest I would date to Mary now I'm not exactly putting myself out there besides right now in the whatever
02:29:29Lindsypodcast um but I I have a I have a son um you don't have well in my case I didn't have a baby with someone to not build a future with them it's really
02:29:41Lindsydisheartening on my own end not having a traditional family cuz it was something that was really important to me um so now we're working with what we got so just making sure
02:29:51Lindsythat for one they like children but also um I would like to I would like to work but not
02:30:01Lindsywork as I think it's important to for a mother to take care of her children um do I know if I'm going to have more children in the future I have no idea I don't know wait you're a did you say
02:30:12Lindsyyou're a hair stylist um so I moved to California for hair um reached some goals with that and I actually no I actually am work in the Cosmetic medical field now okay you used to do hair
02:30:24Lindsythough I think I saw that on your Instagram yes and I um did some sorry cool stuff um you I don't know how you would have oh unless you scrolled like old photos yep um I had goals wrote a
02:30:37Lindsysenior paper wanted to move to California and moved here hit my goals within mhm you know some cool stuff and that was that uh so what do you want
02:30:47Athenawhat are you looking for um for me the most important is a God-fearing man because I think everything else encompasses with that because if he
02:30:57Athenafears the Lord he submits to the Lord if he fears the Lord he wants a traditional relationship he wants to be provider
02:31:05Athenaprotector he wants to lead um I don't really so even though I believe in like traditional gender roles where the man provides I believe that the woman should
02:31:16Athenalive within his means and if she wants something more like her her nails done her hair done her fancy vacation then as long as she's still doing her wely duties she can if he's okay with it go
02:31:28Athenaout and earn some money for the family for their vacation for her hair for her nails and all that I don't think men are supposed to provide those things they're supposed to provide a house over your
02:31:39Chrishead and food on the table sure uh well you're in a relationship but what do you want what are you looking for well um I
02:31:48ChrisI dated my multi- before I landed on the guy who I absolutely love and the thing that I love about him is that he's marriage-minded um he's a natural leader
02:32:01Chrishe is funny uh he lives a a healthy lifestyle I had to write this stuff down um uh someone
02:32:11Chriswho always wants to grow and improve um that keeps things interesting and spicy I think um financially secure is very very important to me and um provides the
02:32:23Chrisstructure for me to be in the fullness of what it means to be feminine so yeah so he builds the the frame That's What I Call masculinity masculinity is the house is the frame and then the
02:32:35Chrisfemininity is what goes inside once she got the drywall the plumbing the lighting she fills it in with the beauty andness yes yes in the
02:32:46Brena/Paula/Alexispaintings I think you put that really well um thank you I just want to be whatever is right for my husband and I to grow and have a successful marriage
02:32:58Jakeand raise kids and whatever that looks like for him Jake what about you what do you want what are you looking for God-fearing is number one then it would I'd say cute
02:33:08Jakeattractive and then uh humble modest genuine burning desire to be a mother and to be a wife over everything would be very important and good habits as well m there's lots of red flags in
02:33:20Brian Atlasterms of habits and you got to like got to watch out for the melee uh I'll try to answer the question briefly I have my whole list here written up but um let's see Natural Body supremacist obviously
02:33:31Brian Atlascare about hygiene grooming but a strong pre preference for no plastic surgery no fake tits no fake lips no BBL no lipo no no labioplasty very important uh minimal or no makeup
02:33:44Brian Atlasum yeah on the plastic surgery front like I'll take I I'd prefer small boobs no boobs over massive fake titties uh a
02:33:53Brian Atlaslittle belly fat over lipo belly small as or no ass over BBL small upper lip over lip fillers uh you could basically take any woman who's had any of these
02:34:04Brian Atlasprocedures however they were before I would have preferred them as they were let's see what else um uh we talked about tattoos uh she has
02:34:16Brian Atlasto have done at least three years of cello just kidding um let's see um personality wise let's see uh willing willingness to travel because I'm like
02:34:27Brian Atlastrying to bring a girl to like Hawaii you know what's up uh let's see uh I'm trying to move to Hawaii maybe I don't know uh eventually we'll see personality moderate preference for introverted
02:34:38Brian Atlaswomen quiet calm soft spoken slightly endearingly awkward a little bit shy a little bit nerdy uh let's see modesty is huge I don't like big egos super vain Diva [ __ ] brings me peace doesn't
02:34:51Brian Atlasquarrel doesn't party doesn't drink doesn't do drugs doesn't go to bars or clubs low body count uh no current or past promiscuity undivided romantic and sexual attention I know some of you had a quarrel with that so we'll get into
02:35:02Brian Atlasthat uh immediately let's see a girl who helps me in my mission a girl who's attentive back scratches massages that sort of [ __ ] uh supports me in my
02:35:14Lindsaymission that's pretty much it I love that you you love no not like that's it not like everything on there like I don't agree with everything on there I'm just saying like that's what I do I love idea like you're going to find somebody
02:35:26Lindsayone day that checks all those boxes and you'll know that's the one you get that King no like seriously like you're going to find someone to check those boxes and you're not going to settle like once
02:35:36Lindsaythat's written on paper like most likely you're going to just be like walking and looking for someone like that but I don't think any of that was like unreasonable though yeah that's all pretty simple [ __ ] yeah pretty basic I just mean like writing like something
02:35:49Lindsayabout like knowing what you want rather than like I'm just going to Blind blindly walk through the streets and then look uh if I catch this person's eye based on their looks I think that
02:35:59Brian Atlasthat's like something admirable to like have it a love ideal it's kind of what I do word I saw you maybe shaking your head at some of those things possibly no no
02:36:12Brian Atlasoh okay maybe I was wrong then that was great uh yeah I mean it's really simple though I know I listed like a million different things but they're all kind of sort of similar and so far as uh bring
02:36:21Brian Atlasme peace be pleasant don't be a headache super simple you don't need to be like insanely funny or charismatic or any of this [ __ ] don't care about your academic or Ed uh academic educational or career
02:36:34Brian Atlasachievements don't give a [ __ ] does not matter one little bit um just be pleasant bring me peace don't
02:36:43Brian Atlasquarrel be about on par looks wise super simple pretty simple I'd
02:36:51Brian Atlassay and have a giant Leia that's it that's all I need okay awward goodness
02:36:59Brian Atlasawward yo hash big laia matter yeah well y y'all have penis size preference I can't have a labia preference sorry
02:37:11Brian AtlasMom yeah ear muffs ear muffs y'all want a guy with a certain size penis I want woman with certain sibia that's fair right really
02:37:22Brian Atlasgoing for that wizard sleeve AR I like the wizard sleeve oh my God I prefer it serious about that I like the wizard sleep you don't are you a fan Jake no I don't like the meat you've not you've
02:37:32Brena/Paula/Alexisnot encountered a I have and I wasn't I mean don't think women wizard sleep I don't think women have as much
02:37:41Brena/Paula/Alexisof a preference to penis size as men think that we do h i mean yo check thank you for the gift to 20 memberships
02:37:52Brena/Paula/Alexisuh maybe I mean like if we're talking about like microscopic okay I understand but like I don't think most women really like huge sure that's gigantic I don't
02:38:06Brian Atlasobject to that but like you probably have a bit of a preference there's some crazy chick that's going to get lebia plasty the other
02:38:16Brena/Paula/Alexisdirection the largest in the world he won't like that though there are actually chicks who do that they just inject it with fillers ow I don't know if that counts
02:38:26Brian Atlasit's got to be natural it's got to be natural um so anyways uh where were we oh we got a chat here from techno Trooper what are some red flags you're
02:38:37Evawilling to overlook without letting them bother you starting with you these are like really hard one eternity um
02:38:50Evalike maybe it has a girl best friend I know that that's a lot of red flags for people but I think having female friendships is important wait red flag you're willing to overlook like a lot of people say that a
02:39:02Brian Atlasguy having a girl best friend is a red flag but you don't no but you don't think it's a red flag so it doesn't really answer the question well that's a red flag I would Overlook so you think it's a red
02:39:12Brian Atlasflag to some people no you do you think it's a red flag no so it's not really a red flag if you don't think it's a red flag you
02:39:22Brena/Paula/Alexiswouldn't really be overlooking it yeah but like societally a lot of women would see it as a red flag yeah so like it's a red not a red flag for you
02:39:34Brian Atlasbut it's a red flag for most I think the question is you view it as a red flag but you're willing to overlook it can you come back to me maybe okay
02:39:45Brena/Paula/Alexissure what about you I'm not overlooking things that are red flags it's kind of a dumb question all right what about you I think it's a red flag to have like a
02:39:55Lindsayvery colorful pass but I do too so I would look past it because I think I have that red flag like just I feel like I've grown as a person and change but I would look over that seeing how they are
02:40:07Brena/Paula/Alexisnow okay what about you I will never Overlook red flags again so there's not a negotiation for that what if he's really attractive and super buff I don't
02:40:16Brena/Paula/Alexiscare because look are not really huge for me super rich huge peee don't care okay all right okay what about you not I won't look over red flags but I
02:40:28Lindsycan I can give you a yellow flag stop the C okay yellow flag that you would Overlook okay guys are going to think this is weird but if you we are in a quiet room and he is chewing popcorn
02:40:39Lindsywith his mouth open that is a red flag does it give you the ick you don't even understand what oh I can't even go in yeah if SP I need him to be afraid of
02:40:51Lindsyspiders can we get some popcorn so that we just open he not a spider taker career I don't want to know what he's doing with it but if he does not take
02:41:01Lindsycare of the spiders you do well Daddy in Australia you'd like them so I was going to talk to you about that I heard about your
02:41:10AthenaJ I know some people what about you um I think like red flags maybe that I have like I can't have a double standard
02:41:21Athenaright like my weight for one I can't be like oh well he's not disciplined he's not fit cuz I mean I have my own stuff so in those things like you said you have a colorful past so you might
02:41:32AthenaOverlook that so things um issues that I have I guess I wouldn't have a double standard mhm okay I have a little bit of
02:41:42Chrisa different take I think that there's too many particularly women who think everything is a red flag like oh he didn't put this toilet seat down oh
02:41:53Chrisforget it or you know just the kind of nitpicky things that we do to try to disqualify um and I've even been guilty of this like I wouldn't be in this
02:42:05Chrisrelationship if I wouldn't have looked at what I thought was a red flag which actually wasn't it was just this person was showing me like who they were you know how first 3 months you're on your
02:42:17Chrisbest behavior you're showing your rep representative okay so it's like and he was just who he was and I was like wait a minute I is this your representative
02:42:26Jakeand you what and it but then got to know him and hey that's legit yeah so I think that I think a lot of women so you're
02:42:37Jakesaying he opened himself up to you early and you you got to see all all of the C to see all the got to see all thing to do a to to open up early it's not really something you want to do and often we we
02:42:48Chrishold back lot and we drip feed because if if you if you show a woman Everything at Once they'll often be repulsed by that well it's not like he was you know showing me his eighth grade diary when
02:43:00Chriswe our first dat but um he definitely was more open and yeah women definitely attracted to mystery have to keep a little bit of that going yeah so I mean it was kind of you know when he wasn't like being showing up as his
02:43:12Chrisrepresentative I was like does it get worse like how no he like that's just him so I would have missed out on a great guy if I would have said no girl go
02:43:24Brena/Paula/Alexiscool um yeah definitely a past drug addiction gambling addiction felonies those are all things that I would Overlook or I have
02:43:34Jakeoverlooked I'd say if they can't cook we can get them cooking glasses that's one that I'd Overlook you that's good we can fix it you too it's okay Jake I'm a really good yeah you can you can you can
02:43:45Brian AtlasF1 it um I'll take the spot us okay perfect just do a quick uh well you got to here hold on she doesn't have to learn how to cook a kangaroo or anything can good protein great protein kangaroo
02:43:58Brian Atlasdid you refresh yeah if they don't kick you in the face before you get to them though no no you just here yeah okay here just minimize OBS really quick are kangaroo like coyotes here like are they like a nuisance they are yeah there's
02:44:10Jakepeople who's fulltime to kill kangaroos I used to work on a winery there guy who was his fulltime job kill kangaroo he drive around the winery and then he'd give us all this kangar me and we were like really broke and young and I was
02:44:22Brian Atlaslike yes so they like in overpopulation yeah they shouldn't make a dog okay star Kar for reason there is a dog food with kangaroo in it I'm
02:44:32Jakepretty sure uh unhiding in sources please no it's a very good meat good good protein crocodile meat as well you can eat crocodile meat crocodile steaks I've heard about that pelagic says she
02:44:44Brian Atlashas one big insecurity I'm not sure oh this is probably directed to you do you want to respond to pelagic he says you're one big insecurity that's rude that's it that's all you got I don't I'm not okay pelagic
02:44:56Brian Atlasyou're rude all right um and then these came through appreciate it guys uh let's see we we got a lot to get through so I'm going to try to do it quick why we just
02:45:07Evago here uh Stiffler go again really quick to answer your question um just saying I love you too soon that's like a red flag I would Overlook oh man how
02:45:17Evasoon did you say I love you to your most recent X or whatever um I think we were like a month in and I think that's pretty soon but like I was being honest so so it's a so you were a red flag then yeah that's what you were saying it's
02:45:31Evasomething that you think is a red flag but you know how like Lindsay said she has from someone else met someone yeah that's what she said who said I love you
02:45:42Evafirst um I think me I put Frank sinatras I love you in a playlist for him oh something stupid that song was it something stupid that
02:45:53Athenasong um yes cute I I agree I think that would can I just have a ramp for a second though like why is it that that young
02:46:05Chrispeople like you guys can't just say what you got to say like why does it have to be you know like tea leaves or songs like in code or SnapChat things that
02:46:17Chrisdisappear like why why why is it so hard for you guys just to say what you want to say what are you afraid of she did though didn't she yeah no she just gave him a song he said it to me and he was
02:46:30Brian Atlaslike does this mean you love me and I was like yeah oh okay so you like beat around the bush kind of just I thought it was like flirty I thought it was cute oh okay I don't think that's all young
02:46:41Lindsypeople either though I think when you're young too though you know love is different in all different stages in the way that you express it and just you know would I do that now in my age no
02:46:53Evabut I don't know what I would have done when I was 20 uh can I have you read this one go ahead get sun get some stay hydrated stay alive keep life in perspective live within your means
02:47:05Evacreate something new strive for selfless devotion progress not Perfection to hearts and Minds night yo Kaleb serial really appreciate the message uh good to see you in the chat actually while um thank you for reminding me most
02:47:17Brian Atlasembarrassing dating story that's what you asked originally we're now finally getting to it I hope you have a good night kill of Serial appreciate your support going around the table really quick if you can most embarrassing dating story go ahead um mine was what
02:47:29Evayou mentioned earlier that he had another girlfriend the whole time and I thought that was pretty embarrassing because we went to the same school and I didn't know okay that he had the same girlfriend what about you I don't have
02:47:40Brena/Paula/Alexisanything embarrassing but I have tragic things like stuff being stolen from my house M and somebody beat beat my dog yeah that's not really embarrassing
02:47:52Lindsayokay what about you I've answered it do you want me to answer again yes uh the same story of the girl was horrible and I had to go to the bathroom
02:48:02Lindsayand lie and drop her off at home because it was unbearable and it was a silent car ride mhm that don't have any embarrassing I don't really have any embarrassing