HEATED Debate With Woke Feminist?! Boss Babe Picks Career Over PERFECT Man?! | Dating Talk #229

Date: 2025-02-19

Duration: 8h 15m

Guests

Brian Atlas

AAndrew Wilson >

Identified Speakers

SPEAKER_01Alina(guest)

SPEAKER_02Kelly/Other(guest)

SPEAKER_03Patrice/Ivy/Kelly (mixed)(guest)

SPEAKER_04Brenda(guest)

SPEAKER_06TTS Reader(audience)

SPEAKER_08Brian Atlas(host)

SPEAKER_11Andrew Wilson(guest)

SPEAKER_13Mary Grace(guest)

SPEAKER_14Steph/Kelly/Bailey (mixed)(guest)

Key Moments

IntroGuest introductions — all 8 women introduce themselves

“Brian: 'without further ado we're going to have the guests introduce themselves. Please tell us your name, age, location, occupation and education.'”

QuoteBrenda says she'd pick her business over a husband and kids if forced to choose

“Brian: 'husband children or Rave podcast and your business... which do you pick if you have to pick one?' / Brenda: 'it would [keep what I'm doing]' / Brian: 'the entailment of that is that you die single and alone' / Brenda: 'I love myself so I will be okay with that.'”

TopicMary Grace reveals she found her current boyfriend through the Whatever podcast

“Mary Grace: 'I am in a relationship thanks to you [Brian]' — she's dating a CFO (35) who watched her previous appearance, slid into her DMs, and they've been together 2 months. Brian: 'I'm invited to the wedding?'”

ControversyBrenda reveals she was 5150'd after domestic fight with ex on her birthday

“Brenda describes a domestic physical altercation with her ex on her birthday that led to her being handcuffed by police, taken to jail, then 5150'd at a hospital. She bit chunks of his arm while being choked. No charges filed. Ex had called 911. Story includes an OnlyFans subscription to her best friend.”

IntroAndrew Wilson joins remotely — just back from Debate Con

“Brian: 'oh look who it is hey Andrew good to see you man' / Andrew: 'oh do we have sorry I'm late... I was on a trip all weekend'”

QuoteBrenda reveals she had an OnlyFans that she paused when in relationship

“Andrew: 'if you're doing OnlyFans then you can't really have any moral problems with him if he's watching other OF girls' / Brenda admits ex subscribed to her best friend's OF page during arguments.”

Key MomentSelf-ratings round — guests rate their own looks 1-10

“Brenda: 8, Patrice: 8 (originally tried 7), Kelly: 6.9, Ivy: 6, Brian: 5. Andrew: 'I'm probably 4.' Discussion of whether anyone on the panel can be a 10. Debate over Megan Fox comparisons with Brenda.”

ControversyViral breakup TikTok reaction — woman mourning ex who dumped her after she moved

“Panel watches viral video of woman set to sad music detailing how she gave up career/improv troop/savings to move for boyfriend who then dumped her. Patrice most resonant — just lived something similar in Australia. Andrew makes sardonic comments about 'finding himself.' Brian: 'men are not relationship vending machines.'”

ControversyAndrew's argument: women's primary conflict tool is emotional manipulation/slander because they lack access to force

“Andrew: 'men always have an option women don't which is force... what they do instead is their kind of ways of fighting back are either through emotional manipulations or through the idea of slander.' Extended philosophical debate with panel. Brenda concedes women plot and scheme more.”

ControversyWoke feminist debate — Ivy argues women cannot be sexist toward men (requires power)

“Ivy presents academic 'prejudice + power = ism' framework. Andrew and Brian systematically challenge with examples (nurse killing men, woman serial killer, reverse Harvard quota). Ivy eventually concedes on racism against Asian people. Chat: 'the whole idea that sexism is Prejudice plus power is only held by people with room temperature IQ.'”

ControversyWould you send 100 innocent men to prison to prevent 1 rapist from walking free? — Brenda says yes

“Brenda says she would send 100 innocent men to prison for 3 years. Bailey says no. Brian invokes Blackstone's ratio. Andrew calls Brenda a fascist (via chat read by Alina).”

ControversyPatrice reveals her ex forced himself on her on 3 separate occasions

“Brian asks about Patrice's previous disclosure. She reveals her first boyfriend forced himself on her multiple times. She stayed because it was her first relationship and she grew up adopted in rural Pennsylvania, never feeling wanted. Says she eventually understood when she returned from Australia. Emotional moment — panel offers support.”

QuoteAlina: 'I do anything he says, he would never hear the word no' — train accident Patrice bit

“Brian plays Patrice O'Neal comedy clip about keeping your man after losing vagina in train accident. Alina: 'I do anything he says, he would never hear the word no come out of my mouth.' Brian has her repeat it for the audience.”

Topics Discussed

Introductions & Relationship Statuses

Brian introduces all guests. Each introduces themselves with name, age, location, occupation, education. Then each shares relationship status, single duration, longest relationship, and who broke up with whom.

Types & Dating Preferences

Brian goes around the table asking everyone's type in a partner. Kelly describes wanting a 6'0-6'2" half-Black half-white athletic man. Brenda discusses her preference for light-skinned Latino men. Discussion of Rave culture and whether Brenda would quit raving for a relationship. Career vs. relationship trade-offs. Boss Babe mentality — Brenda admits she'd pick her business over a husband/kids right now.

Ivy's Late Introduction & Single Life

Ivy joins late and introduces herself. Discussion of her 2-year travels, breaking celibacy in October, her current crush (Korean-American, 37). NYC vs. LA dating comparisons. Rosters and situationships. Brenda explains her dating approach — roster of 4 potential lovers, sleeping with only 1.

Brenda's 5150 & Domestic Incident Story

Brian reads Brenda's pre-show notes about a past relationship involving a domestic physical altercation on her birthday. She was arrested, taken to jail, then 5150'd at hospital. Ex called 911, she bit chunks of his arm in self-defense while blacking out from alcohol. She made public statements about it online. They briefly reconciled after she demanded $3k rent from him.

Andrew Wilson Joins — Dating & Relationship Discussion

Andrew Wilson joins remotely. Discussion of red flags in women. Brenda's OnlyFans history and ex subscribing to her best friend's page. Ivy's story of Korean ex buying a dog together and stealing it + $3,000. Discussion of Color Guard and red flags.

Self-Ratings Round (Looks 1-10)

Brian asks everyone to rate their looks 1-10 (can't pick 7). Brenda: 8. Patrice: 8 (tried 7). Kelly: 6.9. Ivy: 6. Brian: 5. Mary Grace declined. Alina passed. Andrew debated whether to push back. Discussion of aging, plastic surgery, Megan Fox comparisons, and whether anyone on the panel could ever be a 10.

Viral Breakup TikTok Reaction

Brian plays a viral video of a woman mourning her ex who broke up with her after she moved for him. Panel reacts — Patrice most resonant (just went through something similar in Australia). Andrew makes jokes. Discussion of whether he owes her money legally, common law marriage, women's tears on social media, and Socrates/Aristotle quotes on female nature.

Women's Manipulation vs. Men's Force — Andrew's Philosophical Debate

Andrew makes argument that women's primary conflict tools are slander/emotional manipulation because they lack access to physical force. Debate about whether men should open up emotionally to women (gives them ammunition). Discussion of women narrating their own behavior, men cataloging vulnerabilities. Ivy and Patrice push back from lived experience.

Traditional vs. Modern Relationship Values

Should women take husband's last name? Show of hands on various traditional/modern preferences: men paying for dates, leading, taking initiative. Brian argues men's romantic leadership practice translates to corporate success, explaining the 'gender pay gap.' Discussion of women wanting traditional relationship benefits while also wanting career independence.

Transgender Disclosure & Identity Debate

Do transgender individuals have a duty to disclose? Kelly says no. Ivy says it's straight to date a trans woman if she's had surgery. Andrew debates what constitutes sex vs. gender. Discussion of brain scan studies on gender dysphoria, vampire identity analogy. Andrew leaves the show at ~6:29.

Woke Feminist Debate — Sexism, Racism, Power Dynamics

Ivy's position: women can't be sexist toward men because sexism requires power. Andrew and Brian systematically challenge this with examples. Discussion of whether Asian people can be racist, the Latasha Harlins shooting, property rights and self-defense. Ivy concedes on several points. Brian argues men are primary war victims. Ivy fired from teaching job — disputes whether it was racism.

Would You Send 100 Innocent Men to Prison?

Brian poses hypothetical: would you send 100 innocent men to prison for 3 years to prevent 1 rapist from walking free? Brenda says she would (for 100, hesitates at 1000). Bailey says no. Discussion of Blackstone's ratio foundation of Western justice.

Gender Pay Gap & Women's Oppression Discussion

Are women oppressed in the US? Ivy says yes (de facto). Can people be racist against white people? Discussion of Harvard's Asian quota case. Brian connects women's romantic preferences (wanting men who lead, provide, pay) to why men occupy executive positions — men practice leadership traits in dating.

Patrice's Assault Disclosure

Brian attempts to get clarity on Patrice's previous disclosure about her ex-boyfriend. She reveals he forced himself on her on 3 separate occasions. She stayed because it was her first relationship and she grew up adopted in rural central Pennsylvania without feeling wanted. Emotional and sensitive moment. Panel offers support.

Patrice Honest Comedy Clip & End of Show

Brian plays a classic Patrice O'Neal comedy bit about what women would do to keep a man if they lost their vagina in a train accident. Panel reacts and answers. Makeup removal segment. Show ends with raid on Twitch streamer Grayson.

Transcript

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Brian Atlasguests do not necessarily reflect the views of the whatever Channel and I do believe Andrew will be joining us a little bit later on in the show with that said without further Ado we're going to have the guest introduce themselves so please tell us your name

Brendaage location so where you're from occupation and education go ahead my name is Brenda I am 24 I am from Los Angeles and I am a digital artist in

Brendaelectronic music dancing and um I create content all right any like School College anything like that no no associates degree or yeah Associates yeah but yeah I what did you get uh

BrendaBachelor or Bachelors I'm sorry uh or like what was the major so I went in pred and then I changed to nutrition and

Brendathen just general education got it okay and you said you do Rave content yeah content I am a raver yeah we should have had you come in Rave gear you should have told me I I would I would have brought some I would have brought some

Brendastuff I would have yeah right over my head didn't even all right it's okay uh next time uh that's cool and how often did you go to Raves and stuff um so I work in the scene so it's pretty often but uh recently I took a break and now I

Patrice/Ivy/Kelly (mixed)just go like once a month or whenever I have to work then I go for work got it okay cool what about you my name is Patrice I just turned 26 years old I'm

Patrice/Ivy/Kelly (mixed)from New Jersey busy for a while I was for the last year I was a stay-at-home fiance but currently I'm going back to my right after this trip I'm going back

Patrice/Ivy/Kelly (mixed)home to my job as a waitress bartender um I have a little bit of schooling I've changed my I've changed my life path so many times but I started as pre-law and political science that didn't work out

Patrice/Ivy/Kelly (mixed)so then I spent like a year and a half studying health and nutrition doing bodybuilding competitions I did some macro Fitness work personal training it's a side job for a while and currently my I have like a lot of things

Patrice/Ivy/Kelly (mixed)that I'm thinking of doing but I was thinking of going back to school to work in air traffic control especially with every all the planes crashing and everything happening it's a consideration so we need it we need

Brian Atlasthose ATC uh people and uh so you're from Jersey you said yes okay and any education any school I don't have any official degree no I have some qualifications but did you go to college

Patrice/Ivy/Kelly (mixed)or I did yes University I went to Coastal Carolina for a year and then I did Community College for a year gotcha Damian did we recently have someone on who also went to that I could have

Patrice/Ivy/Kelly (mixed)somebody went to that school recently who was it was it was it last show someone who went yeah okay well cool welcome what

Patrice/Ivy/Kelly (mixed)about you hi I'm Kelly like a California and I'm from South Korea okay and I moved out here about this October going

Patrice/Ivy/Kelly (mixed)to be seven years and I used to Fashion Stylist in Korea for K-pop either and any other fashion

Patrice/Ivy/Kelly (mixed)brand after graduated um university school with the fashion major so working for 5 years

Patrice/Ivy/Kelly (mixed)then when I was 27 I just decided to move out here to explore and any entertainment Thing music industry any

Brian Atlasother art industry for yes so right now is I just to turn 33 you're 33 got it and I see you have some gems

Patrice/Ivy/Kelly (mixed)in your teeth uh what what do you call that what is that it's a tooth gem it's a tooth gems uhhuh so since I think

Patrice/Ivy/Kelly (mixed)2019 like was started that moment and then I got this certificate about 5 years ago go in La yeah so I'm a two

Brian Atlasstem technician technician yeah okay cool cool uh and uh you you offer this though

Patrice/Ivy/Kelly (mixed)as a service yes I do my location is Downtown LA and there plus I do the

Brian Atlasteeth whitening nails and pedicure and grills and grills yes grills okay and your uh when did you move from South

Brian AtlasKorea about seven did you say s years ago 2018 okay got it okay 2018 and uh I looked at your Instagram like you have

Brian Atlasuh a lot of posts on there like it's over a thousand oh yeah it is I went to the very bottom by the way yes I don't know if that's uh if

Brian Atlasyou're like kind of frightened by that like whoa he knows what I looks like like 10 years ago oh yeah but you honestly you've had more hairstyles more

Brian Atlashair colors I think in the history of ever um you've single-handedly propped up the hair dye industry so I want to

Steph/Kelly/Bailey (mixed)congratulate you oh thank you so it's I never tried The Bard hair but I want to try someday I don't know one

Patrice/Ivy/Kelly (mixed)day yeah um sorry guys I'm getting some [ __ ] bullshit's going on um okay cool welcome what about uh what about you oh I'm Bailey I'm 23 and I'm my bsba from

Steph/Kelly/Bailey (mixed)Philadelphia in marketing and international business all right welcome back what about you hi I'm Steph I'm 24 I'm from Houston and I'm currently going to UHD and I work at a makeup store and

Brian AtlasI'm a sub you're uh sorry I'm sorry Age Again 24 and you work in a makeup store and am

Patrice/Ivy/Kelly (mixed)a sub missive substitute teacher Oh I thought to same like period girl no I understand

Brian Atlasokay and uh all right any school or anything like that I go to UHD all right what are you studying I'm studying to be a teacher teacher okay all right what

Mary Graceabout you um my name's Mary Grace I'm from Santa Barbara I have a AA in music and then a bachelor's in science and I work in medical

Alinasupervision okay um um what about you my name is Alina I'm 20 years old I'm originally from Russia I currently live in Philadelphia and I'm a student studying business and

Brian Atlasinformation systems all right welcome everybody sorry Mary you're you're Age Again 23 all right sorry audience for them having to repeat it we uh little

Brian Atlaslittle BS going on um a lot of flakes today eight six six flakes people running late so I had to turn some people away um all right so we're going to go around the table once

Brian Atlasmore what what is everybody's current relationship status and then if you're single how long have you been single and what's the longest relationship you've ever been in go ahead I am single okay

Patrice/Ivy/Kelly (mixed)and I have been in a threeyear relationship that was off and on and then a 2-year relationship that was also off and on okay how long have you been

Patrice/Ivy/Kelly (mixed)single for H since like May so however long that is last year 8 months seven months okay and the relationship that

Brendaended eight months ago was that the 2E the threee one was the two year the twoy Year and both of them were on again off again oh no I'm so sorry it was a year yeah Sor it was a year ago no no no like the relationship was a little bit over a year it wasn't even two years like a

Brendayear the most recent one yes the most recent one yeah yeah yeah okay so you had a one year and a threeyear yes and a two-year or there was no two no no sorry it's just we spent so much time together it it felt like a long time but both

Brian Atlasthem were on again off again you said towards the end yes towards the end how many times for the for the longest one the three-year one how many times was it off and on oh so many times I I I can't

Brendaover 10 probably 20 not I don't think that much 10 to 20 15 I don't I don't know this is 10 this is 10 okay uh who

Brendawould be ending it putting it in the off oh I was so bad I I I would uh end it and but deep down I wanted it so that's why I

Patrice/Ivy/Kelly (mixed)would always like end up going back and he obviously he's for it cuz he want me he's for it no he was for it like he was for like he want he was a he would apologize and then I would be like no

Brendalike I don't want your apology and then wait so he would end things with you no no no I would end things with him okay and then he would apologize and then I would like ghost and then I would

Brian Atlascome back oh okay yeah uh does that not make sense yeah no no I'm sorry [ __ ] um so uh and then what

Brian Atlasabout the other one that was also on again off again yeah okay and uh that one was twice on again off again who so for both these relationships I guess the final breakup who ended things in each

Patrice/Ivy/Kelly (mixed)of them was it you for both it was Mutual Mutual okay all right what about you so my longest relationship I ever had was four and a half years we had a

Patrice/Ivy/Kelly (mixed)great four years and a terrible half a year and I'm recently single for the last 2 weeks not from that relationship from another relationship I was engaged

Brian Atlasand we were together about a year and a half okay uh so you've been single sorry for how long like two weeks oh two weeks yeah I landed in California single so

Patrice/Ivy/Kelly (mixed)eight months is that your longest relationship my longest relationship was four and a half years no the fiance was not my longest relationship okay uh four and a half years who broke

Patrice/Ivy/Kelly (mixed)up with who in the longest one o so he broke up with me at the end so we were we were together consistently living together for almost four years and then the last 6 months it was we had

Patrice/Ivy/Kelly (mixed)had one break up at the 2-year Mark but it wasn't serious it was like 3 days I went and stayed at my mom's house and then we were back together lived I moved in after like date one night one and we spent four years four years were great

Patrice/Ivy/Kelly (mixed)and then we spent 6 months together where it was on again off again on again off again so I he I broke up with him he broke up with me I broke up with him he broke up with me he cheated on

Brian Atlasme okay that was kind of the final strw the most is that the four and a half year one that's the four and a half year one yes okay and then this most recent one you're dating uh a red pill guy as

Brian Atlasyou called it yes we were engaged okay um but you my understanding you don't want to share your name no and uh so and you were where were you I guess when

Patrice/Ivy/Kelly (mixed)this all went down Australia okay uh so you moved to Australia I've Mo so we spent a year pretty consistently traveling where we were in Europe we were in the United States we were all around the United

Patrice/Ivy/Kelly (mixed)States back in Europe Australia Europe So It ultimately ended in Australia 12 hours after I got there yes after I was I mean this was the final push like I was going to have to go back home and get my pets and move them over but

Patrice/Ivy/Kelly (mixed)besides that like I shipped we shipped stuff to Australia uh yeah this was supposed to be like we're picking a a place to rent while we built a home and as soon like 12 hours after landing jet lagged tired yeah we ended up yeah he

Patrice/Ivy/Kelly (mixed)left I was I spent two weeks in Australia alone uh what was there a reason given um I like I think there's always a straw that breaks the camels back and the communication and the relationship

Patrice/Ivy/Kelly (mixed)really lacked and it was really bad uh and then I would do like this Push Pull thing where I would just like beg for like the communication and any red pill guy is going to find that annoying but if you lack the ability to communicate there's no relationship so I think you know there was just a straw that broke a

Patrice/Ivy/Kelly (mixed)camel's back there was an argument that escalated one day and that was just that was it like there was no communication so it was things piling on top of things on top of things on top of things and

Brian Atlasthen one day it was just done okay wow good times good times yeah fun fun times fun times fun times uh all right um what about you

Patrice/Ivy/Kelly (mixed)um so are how long have you are you single yes single okay how long have you been single uh about this year going to

Kelly/Otherbe 3 years this year 3 years okay longest relationship M always the longest

Kelly/Otherlike one two years almost two years yeah two years how many twoe relationships have you been in um like one to two

Steph/Kelly/Bailey (mixed)let's say one to two yeah how many of those how many

Steph/Kelly/Bailey (mixed)four times four times four times and of those four one to two year relationships who would break up with who uh usually I

Steph/Kelly/Bailey (mixed)said the broke let's break up I mean like you do the break up yes okay all right what about you um I'm single I have been for a year and a half my longest relationship was a

Brian Atlasone year been single for a year and a half longest one year all right what about you I'm currently in a relationship and my longest one has been a year wow is that the current

Brian Atlasrelationship no how long has your current relationship been uh I'd say about 10 months now 10 months all right in your oneye relationship who broke up

Brian Atlaswith who I did okay your 10-month relationship how did you guys meet uh through church through church okay what denomination Catholic Catholic all right

Mary Gracewhat about you I am in a relationship thanks to you that's right and my longest ever relationship is not the current

Mary Gracerelationship that I'm in what that my longest relationship is not not the current one um but 3 years was the longest how long have you been dating this new guy I have been dating this new

Brian Atlasguy for two months two months best two months of my life I owe it all to you all right nice and um let's see here uh so he's a he watches the show he watches

Mary Gracethe show is he watching right now I think he is you know what how how old is the guy 35 is he doing pretty well what's he do for work he he is a

Brian Atlasfinancial officer oh a wait a chief finan chief finf a CFO correct oh uh well and he's watching right now he like he knows you're coming on he knows I'm coming on and he wished me good luck and

Brian Atlashe said don't worry you're going to do great so he saw your previous appearance slid into the DMS and now you're dating one of my viewers

Brian Atlasyes you're invited to the wedding I I'm I'm invited to the wedding I'm this is a matchmaking show okay it all these girls come on I'm I'm I'm not actually

Brian Atlasexaggerating there's been probably we've had over something like 2,000 guests I think like a hundred of them have dm'd

Brian Atlasme and said hey I'm dating one of your viewers uh so that's pretty wild um a lot of people find love I mean we had

Brian Atlasour show on Sunday uh the boyfriend and the girlfriend came on uh Mason and Alexa they actually they were both they were both guests on the show and they kind of met through that so it's the uh hold on let me play something

Brian Atlas[Music] here you're welcome you're welcome thank you you know what though because uh because of my

Brian Atlasassistance because I helped my my viewer find love I think a champagne pop is in order and you know what I think it should be the crystal pull up the

Brian Atlascrystal Daman does he do does he do does he do crypto does he he's a crypto guy look my ethereum wallet my ethereum wallet is in the description you have to

Brian Atlassend in the Super Chat too if you want to indicate that you're going to do the the crystal ethereum pop one ethereum it's it's low right now [ __ ] crypto's in the trash who lost money on the Trump

Brian Atlas[ __ ] Coin by the way oh that was rough um everything else the Pepe [ __ ] um but uh I think a little atherion pop I

Brian Atlasmean you know what I mean you're making me sweat little we need a little champagne pop so uh let's see here um that's cool though uh and what about you

AlinaI'm in a relationship for four years it is my longest and only longest and only sweet and um how often do you nag

Brian Atlashim never you never nag him never have you ever slashed his tires no have you ever burned any of his clothes no have you ever beat him with a belt no have you ever why did you pause

Brian Atlaswhy did you have to pause to think about that it's been four years it's a long time so I had to think about it have you ever hit him with a frying pan no have you ever [ __ ] up his

Brian Atlasdinner I've only made him the best dinners of his life you know you didn't [ __ ] it up once you know I could never do that burnt the turkey

Brian Atlasor chicken or something Have you ever yelled at him in

Brian AtlasRussian no comment that's does he speak Russian no white guy yes okay all right all right guys that's everybody's

Brian Atlasrelationship status uh we have a chat coming through here in just a sec thank you guys Sim thing for the tier one Rebel than for the prime appreciate it uh let's see here we we have oh here we

TTS Readergo okay here's an interesting one coming in Peter Griffin donated $200 chat would you rather get a massage

TTS Readerfrom a gay man or surgery from a female doctor serious surgery so basically would you rather get a massage or die

Kelly/Otherladies what decade was World War I it's 1914 to 1918 yeah period we did this on Sunday

Brian Atlasoh a little bit all right it

Patrice/Ivy/Kelly (mixed)my did you guys answer the question no what was the question as for the first question I think I'd rather get a massage instead of dying yeah the question is would you rather get a massage from a gay man or serious

Patrice/Ivy/Kelly (mixed)surgery from a female doctor also what decade was World War I well that that one's not to you guys it's to the chat that's what I'm talking um what decade was World War I was

Brian Atlas194 yeah you said it oh who said it totally ruined it good job Mary fail all right uh let's see how about you

Brian Atlasknow what uh what what what was the primary decade oh of World War 2 I wouldn't be able to answer

Brian Atlasthat guess guess 50s 50s okay 1940s

Steph/Kelly/Bailey (mixed)okay oh my God just guess just guess um n um 1990

Alina1990 all right um 40s 50s it was 39 to 45 so primarily 40s yes 1935 to

Patrice/Ivy/Kelly (mixed)1945 o there you go when was the Korean War I'm sorry 1945 sorry I didn't get the word that

Patrice/Ivy/Kelly (mixed)you know the word I'm still learning English guys sorry about that so yeah 1945 yeah 1950 so horny me love you long

Patrice/Ivy/Kelly (mixed)time what the [ __ ] why was that played that's crazy um when was the Korean War 1940 1945 five don't don't touch the go ahead

Steph/Kelly/Bailey (mixed)no when was it 625 June 25th wait what I actually don't even

Brian Atlasknow 1945 it was like the 50s it was the 50s right wait Korean War it's a year it's a 1945 19 it was I didn't know the exact years but I know the50s yeah 19 I

Brian Atlas1950 1953 that's cool that's cool uh uh that's everybody's relationship status so that's awesome we're going to get into some of the pre-show notes here so

Brian Atlaswhy don't we do this uh cie uh you said uh wait hold on uh in most of your time when you've dated someone for the first time they're

Brian Atlastaking you to dinner then trying to I'm going to just read it verbatim taking you to dinner then trying to straight to [ __ ] you after

Brian Atlasdinner uh so I should have surprised that who ain't touch me for first time date in

Patrice/Ivy/Kelly (mixed)la oh yeah yeah oh yeah yeah cuz you know like usually also La culture is

Patrice/Ivy/Kelly (mixed)different so I learn the situationship word when I'm out here and in Korea I I

Patrice/Ivy/Kelly (mixed)had a good relationship with like 101 I prefer 101 I got Asian Korean culture so

Patrice/Ivy/Kelly (mixed)I always like like be ready to be monogamy you know so um when I was young still like making good career and still

Patrice/Ivy/Kelly (mixed)dating with guy but at the same time it's a hard to make it but um so but I made it some long-term relationship though but when I move out here it was a

Steph/Kelly/Bailey (mixed)long-term relationship is just two weeks one month or sometimes on

Patrice/Ivy/Kelly (mixed)and off for two years three years something like this so um I'm 33 I just did turn 33 I'm ready to make my own

Brian Atlasfamily but I'm struggling yes you're struggling with the dating scene yes would you um what was it you

Brian Atlasknow dating in South Korea versus dating in the United States different and do you prefer American men versus South

Patrice/Ivy/Kelly (mixed)Korean men um to St you have a type sexy tall oh you have a type yes okay you're describing okay tall tall sexy sexy athletic do they have to have a grill

Patrice/Ivy/Kelly (mixed)huh do they have to have a grill no hell no no tattoo please no tattoo yeah no no Grill wait so tall sexy have to have what like something athletic something strong yeah something strong strong cuz

Brian Atlasyou work out yes okay you want a guy who works out uh do you erase do you prefer white black uh Native American uh I

Patrice/Ivy/Kelly (mixed)think I mostly prefer like I mean been dating with africanamerican but also mixed it with

Patrice/Ivy/Kelly (mixed)white de oh you want uh half mixed half black half white I think I have a dated with I been

Brian Atlasyou know kind of situationship with black ey yes but mixed with the white when you say mix though do you mean a the man is half or you date some black

Brian Atlasguys and you date some white guys first one first one you like half yeah half of black half of white half white what

Steph/Kelly/Bailey (mixed)about blazian oh half black half asian well I never you know dated with the BL but I don't if it happens it happens

Patrice/Ivy/Kelly (mixed)yeah happen can I ask you said no tattoos but you tattoos why why is that right yeah I know right kind of opport

Patrice/Ivy/Kelly (mixed)type is you know kind of like I'm very lwi but this is kind of just for you know style fun I try to like so I don't mind who got the tattoo but I prefer

Patrice/Ivy/Kelly (mixed)like who got no tattoo or that's more like you know I don't know just the I don't care for the tattoo just what I'm saying is you don't like it too much how

Steph/Kelly/Bailey (mixed)tall does the you said tall right tall how tall 6 to 6 to 62 6' to 6'2 yes please yes please okay

Steph/Kelly/Bailey (mixed)you're so specific wait I have a question to yeah go ahead so if you want a guy that doesn't have a girl but you have gems and he doesn't want a girl that doesn't have gems would you take

Patrice/Ivy/Kelly (mixed)them off for him of course no problem but he he will be understand why why I have actually like some guys doesn't

Patrice/Ivy/Kelly (mixed)like me have this too gem so I tried to remove her but they also respect my you know style for business making so to be

Brian Atlashonest they understand so I don't have to do but when they mention I can consider to remove it's easy to go so okay that is uh cool so okay black 6

Brian Atlasfoot to 6'2 well tall sexy let see uh strong strong do you care about money or not really money we can grind together M

Brian Atlasgood money yeah we can grind together so wait so you moved how old were you when you moved here so that you would been 26 27 27 yeah and so uh but you were and you had pretty much lived in South Korea

Brian Atlasyour whole life up until that point right right were you uh did you date uh South Korean men when you were in South Korea or were you dating foreigners oh

Brian Atlasyeah of course I dated with the South Korean man and also I'm Korean ameran yes okay what city were uh were

Brian Atlasyou in Soul Sol Soul okay and uh okay uh that's some interesting stuff there I do uh before I I want to wait for well uh I guess going around

Brian Atlasthe table what is everybody else's type while we start there starting with uh brend oh so I'm always going to be the first one yeah okay yep my Tye lot of pressure yeah right um You need to be

Brendalike goal oriented you have to have a path in mind you don't have to be there but you have to be just like passionate for yourself and um having a

Brendaroutine of like health is obviously really attractive like if you work out but you don't have to be like fit and muscular as long as like you're consistent um and you're disciplined and

BrendaI think it's really hot when like uh people are are um like they they study and like they learn and they're open to like new ideas even if it's like different from their own perspectives

Patrice/Ivy/Kelly (mixed)and then like in terms of U any like physical traits is there anything there that you're looking for so I don't think so but all my friends tell me I always go for the same type of guy where it's like yeah what's that what what would

Brendayour friends tell us what would they say they say the awkward awkward either white man that's like also Hispanic and mixed um but tall but not too tall yeah

Brian AtlasI don't know but when you say tall what are we talking about here um well not not too tall like 59 5 yeah

Brian Atlasso half white half do you pref do you have a preference on like are they Mexican or Puerto Rican Domin Dominican

Brendathat's Latino right H is Dominican thank you thank you yes I know if I'm was talking to someone a we click or if I know you for a while and then there's just like some type of energetic

Brian Atlasconnection I'm into it so yeah okay and you do um a big thing that you do is raving I almost want that let's just pull up your Instagram pull up her Instagram I just went to a rave this

Brendaweekend I I just went to a rave so there are some recent Rave phot I'm going to send it to you Damian okay in the private chat but I am more tamed the outfits that I used to wear were much worse much so I have a question for you

Brendaon this and this has come up on the show before uh do you do you consider yourself more like traditional um yes and no I'm I'm open to all ideas and perspectives what about like when it comes to relation

Brian Atlasrelationship Dynamics do you prefer more 50/50 do you prefer prefer the guy leads do you prefer uh maybe are you more dominant are you more masculine what what's your preference there um so in

Patrice/Ivy/Kelly (mixed)the past I actually sought out relationships where I wanted the man to be more dominant and I was willing to be more submissive but then um kind of like after like my last breakup because it was so messy and I was like all right Brendon we need to pause and we need to

Brendalike just really figure out our values here and um I just came to now this new kind of like way of thinking of doesn't really matter who's um taking care of who as long as like there's value on

Brendaboth ends and it could be 50/50 it could be if he needs help I'll help him out I recently paid for a man's dinner and I have no issue with it you know and um but in the past I would have never

Brendathought about that I would have never wanted to do that so so it just depends I guess on um where I'm at and right now

Brian Atlasit's yeah whatever okay and uh so um how about though like think think to your future husb do you want to get married yeah eventually you want to have

Brendakids yeah okay so you're married you have a husband uh are you going to and so we're going to have our own Empires and own separate Empires we're going to have our own separate Empires and we're

Brendagoing to um help each other and encourage each other by supporting each other and giving each other ideas and if I were to have a kid um with with having my Empire I would not mind putting a

Patrice/Ivy/Kelly (mixed)pause on it because I feel like if I'm making the the decision to have a kid then um I will then prioritize that okay uh Damen pull up the Instagram all right so she's a

Brian Atlasr scroll down scroll down keep SC my right there cyber scroll down scroll down scroll down have a clothing Brown wow scroll down I'm trying to find like a rave photo they're all ra oh H the one where

BrendaI'm wearing the cross no no I'm not a rave and I have a cross on and a rosary and might uh I have pasties on I think that one's epic these are so down now at this point this keep going just go to the very

Brendabottom okay they're getting worse they get worse they get worse oh go no you still got this okay were you squatting in a r out I was

Patrice/Ivy/Kelly (mixed)squatting in a r outfit okay so lot of how many how many Raves have you been to I can't tell you but I one I I I went through an era where I was going to a rave every weekend and

Patrice/Ivy/Kelly (mixed)traveling just to go to the Raves I was getting paid for it of course but like still like it it was uh yeah wait wait wait scroll back up SC back up there you go wait no go down go down go down down

Brendadown down keep down down down keep going keep going oh God uh it just never stops no okay yeah this keeps going well I've

Brian Atlasbeen doing this for about 3 years now this my job I made it my job up up up no down down down just go down I remember seeing one V keep going keep going down down down down there's one video in particular where I was like what is it

Brian Atlaslike describe it I I probably know what it is I don't recall to be honest uh if I see it I'll know it I'll know it when I see it but at this point that's a okay

Brendasome Raves all right cool this is when I first got in sft so now at this point now I'm just an attendee I'm not working here now okay now we're going I'm going attend I'm in College college era

Brian Atlasworking College era so question for you point blank yes you're dating a guy you love him this could be the one you've only been dating for 3 months though but you're like this is the guy and he's

Brian Atlaslike now that you guys are serious now you're in a relationship he's like yo I don't want you going to rves anymore it's over do you say yes or is it the end of the relationship well that that would never happened we would have never

Patrice/Ivy/Kelly (mixed)met what do you mean he could have you could have met in the library what are you talking about we we wouldn't have aligned we wouldn't have connected what do you mean did you go shopping at Trader Joe's he could have hit you up at Trader Joe's no I do uh instacart Uber

Brian AtlasEats I only go out's the instart he's the [ __ ] instacart guy I I I don't know him so I would never connect with him I would never connect with anyone he's so hot he's dropping off your chia seeds from Costco he's dropping up some

Brian Atlas[ __ ] CH seeds I'll FLT he's the one he's the one he's doing instacart he's [ __ ] grinding and then he hit he hits he hits a [ __ ] pump on some crypto and now he's Rich he's like I'm taking

Brendacare of you [ __ ] this Rave [ __ ] [ __ ] this work [ __ ] I got you I I'm holding it down no but you you can't be doing this Rave [ __ ] anymore this is my Empire that I'm building I have two companies

Brian Atlasbecause of it so I would never no he's in the billions [ __ ] that [ __ ] you don't got to work another day in your life I I want to work to get there I he wants to pump out seven kids with you oh I'm good

BrendaI'm good I'm good on that that's a that's a real Dynasty is seven kids not I have two businesses that's a dynasty for me my my Dynasty or just I care

Patrice/Ivy/Kelly (mixed)about my goals and that's where I'm at right now so you could have whatever the [ __ ] you have and I will support you good for you you know but it's like um I I don't chase that I used to I I would I

Patrice/Ivy/Kelly (mixed)would have said yes [ __ ] it I don't want to work a day of my life let's do it but um I just and so your business is it's like Rel Rave related it's well it's for the EDM community so it's like yeah like

Patrice/Ivy/Kelly (mixed)Rave related but so you're this is the love of your life love of your life we would have never met I you could you could meet him some other way I don't think so you meet him some other way how my mind can I ask a question yeah go

Patrice/Ivy/Kelly (mixed)ahead so you said that you wouldn't stop going to Raves for him but what if the same scenario like he's he's fine I never said that I I said we would have never met okay so you meet this guy and

Patrice/Ivy/Kelly (mixed)he's great you meet him at a r and he wonderful fantastic you guys reallyit it off and he says babe I want this Instagram down like I want these posts down like we can still go to Raves together you just can't post photos like

Patrice/Ivy/Kelly (mixed)this I want them deleted if we're going to have a kid together in the future if we're going to have a future and you want me to take you seriously you have to delete these photos would you take them off of Instagram so that's an interesting question and I see where

Patrice/Ivy/Kelly (mixed)your head is at with that question but because this is my job um I don't just go to Raves just to Rave I go to Raves because this is how I'm going to make my living and if I meet someone at the Rave and they decide okay I don't like your

Patrice/Ivy/Kelly (mixed)Instagram I don't like the way that you're posting um and we are um at like a sit at a point of our relationship where I do like them and I do see a

Patrice/Ivy/Kelly (mixed)feature I do see like value on both ends then I will consider changing what I wear I will consider changing what I post but ultimately like if it doesn't

Brendaimpact like the growth of my business then um yeah I'll consider but again um it's not about the raving it's about I enjoy the music I love the culture and I'm grateful for it so you can still go

Patrice/Ivy/Kelly (mixed)and you can post like stories with the Rave in the story and you can post photos from like waste up but he says I want the photos of your ass off of Instagram cool would you take them down yeah of course yeah that was the

Patrice/Ivy/Kelly (mixed)question yeah yeah yeah would you stop raving well no well no because so she had asked if we had met at a rave and then he was like I you could still go to

Patrice/Ivy/Kelly (mixed)Raves together but you have to take your photos down but if if in that hypothetical if we met at a rave why why why would he want to stop raving let's say he this is the first

Brian Atlastime he's ever been to a rave and he's there in an employment context because you're really stuck on I would have never So you you're saying absent you

Brendagoing to Raves you never meet men well so when I um at a festival I am in a mode where um I am

Patrice/Ivy/Kelly (mixed)talking and I am connecting with people and I honestly just spend a lot of time alone or with my friends that I I already have connections with so I I don't really connect with anyone other than when I'm working at these like

Steph/Kelly/Bailey (mixed)public events okay um and uh so I'm going to go ahead and chime in so on your Instagram you have gym post

Patrice/Ivy/Kelly (mixed)you're saying that you don't really go out besides raving but you have gym post let's say a guy comes up to you at the gym hits on you and yall hit it off would you like still keep going to the

Brendagym I mean sorry going question um I mean maybe I'll just keep it like of us working out at the gym if he doesn't like raving and I would I wouldn't further like the relationship with him

Patrice/Ivy/Kelly (mixed)so I'm not familiar with with Raves I've never been to one I just know people like I know people who have been to Raves they're notorious for being

Patrice/Ivy/Kelly (mixed)drug aloh kind of events so when it TR you meet a guy he's great and you guys hit it off and he wants to have a baby with you are you like

Patrice/Ivy/Kelly (mixed)leaving the baby at home with a babysitter to go to a rave and get messed up on like I'm not saying that you do Ecstasy I'm just saying it comes with the territory or any kind of drug are you leaving this baby home with a babysitter to like go raving when you're

Brenda30 35 so I'm currently 24 and I do not plan to um I mean if it happens it happens but I I'm setting it for when I'm like

Brendain 10 years from now and at that time I have a kid there is one thing to say actually that not all ravers say acceptances um oh wait you have a kid no no no no she she gave me a

Brendahypothetical that I have a kid okay yeah yeah um that and I was just like giving some context not all ravers take sentences um a lot of people are there for the music but the culture is big and

Patrice/Ivy/Kelly (mixed)it does exist and um when you do get into raving that is the first thing that you hit because that's just like what raving is known for and I feel like you a lot of people do fall into a cycle and

Brendaa lot of people do end up coming out of it because they generally love the music that being said I am in that phase where I generally just love the music and I don't take anything anymore so if I have

Brendaa kid and my kid is already at an age where they don't need me to be there and me and my significant other want to go

Brendato a show because whatever we're going to go maybe but um it's not to get [ __ ] up or it's not to just like you know it's just to spend time with each other and maybe we haven't gone out for

Patrice/Ivy/Kelly (mixed)about a year we want to go toour do you think you'll still enjoy raving when you're 40 and you're married with children or do you think that cuz you're you're kind like I don't know you so I'm not saying it's your entire personality but you're saying it's your job and that's what you're trying to do with your life is make a career out of Raving

Patrice/Ivy/Kelly (mixed)but do you see yourself at 40 or 50 years old still like doing this no I I no no I don't see myself like um like hardcore raver uh like so then it's not

Brendaa career well I have an entertainment company where we have a podcast in the scene and we have artists that come on to our podcast so no matter what uh we're going to be passing down the reins

Brendaand so the career has nothing to do with actually going to Raves like you said earlier that's just the market the the market that uh that we're in is the EDM Dy and so they're

Brian Atlasravers and I'm a rer I I was a hardcore rer I'll just ask the question again so it's okay I think we're kind of avoiding the question by saying well in this hypothetical scenario I would just never

Brian Atlasmeet this guy in this hypo hypothetical scenario we're going to go ahead and Grant that you did meet this guy he's not in the Rave scene whatever he's the love of your life we have to Grant it he

Patrice/Ivy/Kelly (mixed)says I want you to stop raving do you stop raving well then you would have to Define what you oh what I mean by stop no what do you mean by raving what is your perspective on raving like what

Brian Atlaswhat is it that if I were to go to a rave what am I doing that you want me to see no music festivals no Raves buying a ticket and entering it doesn't matter what your purpose is there can't go to them that's that's what he wants do you

Patrice/Ivy/Kelly (mixed)do it um if if me if in that moment me going to a rave has nothing to do with what

BrendaI'm currently doing for work then I'll consider but if it's going to impact my bank account then I will not consider he makes a million dollars a year so I don't care I want my own money I want

Brian Atlaswhat do you mean your own money I don't understand that I like I want my own money sure sure let me ask um I have a question on this so um do you mind me asking like how much money you make right now yeah I don't want to put that six

Brian Atlasfigures you want to do range I don't want to put that on the internet okay let's say your husband makes double what you make and he'll whatever point in life however much money you would make

Brian Atlasin that point in life he'll be earning double it at at any given point so he makes what you make and then he basically makes what you're making

Brian Atlasanyways he says I want you to stop working you guys are married you're still generating the exact same amount of money that you

Brendawould generate do you stop working well legally I can't do that cuz one company that I have I have it with three other I have I have I I legally because I have a company with three other people so if I just stop then it

Brendawould be a whole chit show so I can't just completely stop what what do you mean what are you talking about so I me and three other people I want buy out my shares problem solved well then then that's just a me problem not wanting to

Brian Atlasdo that I I would what you mean like I just I wouldn't want to I wouldn't do that like that's my baby and I what's your baby what is it what's the business an entertainment company entertain what yeah what is it a podcast what you guys

Patrice/Ivy/Kelly (mixed)do it's a podcast e podcast and it's in this moment I love it and it's it's my my baby so it's hard for me to like think about letting it go okay it might change it might it

Brian Atlasmight change so just to be clear like um let me ask you this between having your podcast and your business and making your own money if like here's the two

Brian Atlastrade-offs husband children or Rave podcast and your business and being a boss babe and making your own money which do you pick if you have to pick one in In This

Patrice/Ivy/Kelly (mixed)Moment In This Moment if it was today and I had to pick one it would but for life for life it's all situational I feel like my that's the I just explained the situation no like my mindset will change

Patrice/Ivy/Kelly (mixed)I can't put i i i this is what I can do I can't put no the situ the situation is right now right oh yeah right now would keep what I'm doing I wouldn't have a kid right now no but so the entailment

Brian Atlasis if you pick right now your here your podcast is going to be insanely successful you're going to have the most popular raving podcast ever you're going

Brian Atlasto be making a million dollars a year doing it but that's it that's your business for life and you're going to be uh single for the rest of it or and and

Brian AtlasI have a clothing brand too okay you're clothing brand is does good to or or and you have to select you have a Crossroads and you can't there's no going back or

Brian Atlashusband children which do you pick in this moment I am picking what I'm currently doing okay so but the entailment of that is that you die single and alone oh okay I see what you

Brian Atlasmean die single and alone well I love myself so that I will be okay with that you'd be okay dying single and alone but I will have friends I still have friends right sure you can okay then that's all

Brian AtlasI need those are relationships too you can have friends that's all I need but they're going to get married and have kids and they're probably by the time they're in their mid-30s they're probably not your well I mean can I

Brian Atlasstill like flirt with people and like yeah you can [ __ ] you can [ __ ] then then but like we're you know what I'm going to liit you I'm limiting you to one person three Monon situationship that's it I'm cool with you get three month

Patrice/Ivy/Kelly (mixed)situationship I'm cool new experiences let's do it they're and then they're gone cool okay new experiences so all right I come from a place of Detachment with love um so I feel like with that in

Brian Atlasmind I I'll be okay with that okay yeah huh and so I guess my question is though

Brendauh do you like working like do you enjoy it now I do if if you weren't making any money though would you would you do it yeah I don't you would still do it okay I was [ __ ] eating [ __ ] I was thinking

Brian Atlasabout this the other day I was thinking about this the other day it's like women when it comes to like if you meet a guy who's capable of saying Hey I want you to stay at home he's a high earner and he's like just stay at home you don't

Brian Atlashave to work take care of the kids take care of me take care of the family and I was thinking like a lot of women would say no to that but then I was thinking

Brian Atlaswhat if an employer came and said I'm going to pay you $100,000 to do exactly what your husband wants you to do in the home my obviously

Brian AtlasM like not sex or anything but like an employer comes and says okay we want you to take care of this household and you're going to be a nanny and you're going to raise these kids and we're going to pay you $100,000 a year and I

Brendawas thinking like it's interesting to me that women would take the $100,000 year job I wouldn't well because that's not that's not what I want to do that's not what fulfills me so I'm not going to go

Patrice/Ivy/Kelly (mixed)do that I'm not going to go clean a house if someone that if that fulfills you then hell yeah go off go off but like that's that's not me um so I wouldn't I would want to make the money

Brian Atlasin in the field that makes me Happ let me ask you this let's say you already have kids and then there's some circumstance

Brian Atlaswhere you need to stop working it's either your kids or your job kids I if I made the decisions that's fair um we have a new guest who just joined us welcome welcome uh here's what I'm going to have you do I'm going

Brian Atlasto have you scoot into the table and if you can scoot your microphone that way okay this what scoot it uh scoot it push it nope uh that way which one forward

Patrice/Ivy/Kelly (mixed)can somebody help her please forward yeah ah yeah uh so tell us your name age occupation location hi my name is Ivy

Patrice/Ivy/Kelly (mixed)I'm 24 is is sorry I'm 24 and I used to be a public school teacher in Oakland and now I'm currently transitioning to

Patrice/Ivy/Kelly (mixed)marketing and social media um so yeah that's my name age occupation all right and uh where are you from I'm from the

Brian Atlas26 or like Sano Valley sgv yeah sgv sgv okay and uh any education College University oh yeah I graduate from UCSD

Patrice/Ivy/Kelly (mixed)oh San Diego okay nice and what was your major I majored in literature and political science d double major oh oh sorry uh literature International

Brian Atlasliterature and then minor and science yeah political science okay and let's see you see San Diego were you in the sority uh no I had no social life no social life you think UCSD is pretty

Patrice/Ivy/Kelly (mixed)good party school I think I've never been to any parties at UCSD you never went to any what's that not really oh it's not yeah it's like called UC socially dead or is it San Diego State I

Brian Atlasthink it's SS San Diego State I mean but they're well whatever um okay cool and uh what's your relationship status uh right now I'm single okay single how long have you

Patrice/Ivy/Kelly (mixed)been single for right now it feels like it's a long time but I think it's just been 2023 so 2 years yeah two years all right so it is a long time and then what's the

Patrice/Ivy/Kelly (mixed)longest relationship that you've been in two years two years and is that the one that ended two years ago no that wasn't yeah okay uh when was the two-year relationship um I've been in like I

Patrice/Ivy/Kelly (mixed)think like three no two two-year relationships okay and so that was a long time ago like right before Co mhm so like High School uh no uh High School

Patrice/Ivy/Kelly (mixed)won and then College when I was at UCSD W uh so those were both two years and then the other ones after that were just one years okay the the one that ended

Patrice/Ivy/Kelly (mixed)two years ago how long was that one um the one that ended a little bit less we knew each other for exactly one year but maybe we dating for like six months six

Patrice/Ivy/Kelly (mixed)months okay and uh of the two twoyear relationships who broke up with who I think uh it was like the first one was me I broke broke up with the first one

Patrice/Ivy/Kelly (mixed)to date the second one and so the second one broke up with me to go to the military yeah cuz he was Korean so he had to go to the military service got it

Brian Atlasokay uh and let's see and the most recent relationship that ended two years ago who broke up with who um he broke up with me okay why uh it was a tough

Patrice/Ivy/Kelly (mixed)decision but maybe it was about I think I'm like a little bit high maintenance when it comes to to relationships and at first he was like really gung-ho about

Brian Atlasit but over time I think I probably exhausted him yeah okay all right rock and roll and uh so everybody here is

Brian Atlassingle except for Alina and Mary and Steph yeah oh and Steph sorry wait oh that's right my R looks like an S

Brian Atlassomehow not sure uh okay so single single single single single um um what does that actually mean though to be single so 8 eight months two weeks three

Brian Atlaswhat was it three years you've been single 3 months I don't know oh 3 years three years you've been uh single for 2 years one and a

Patrice/Ivy/Kelly (mixed)half is there currently a guy in the picture um as of recently yeah yeah but like there he's not like a guy in the picture he's just someone who I had uh the first interest in in a long time and

TTS ReaderI was like [ __ ] it so I asked him out okay before I have you answer I'm going to let a chat come through old man marine donated $200 thank you Brian for helping me get

TTS Readermy balls back after a horrible marriage I have a new girlfriend now and she's expecting conrat the old man daddy soon oh [ __ ] have a great show keep fighting against

Brian Atlasfeminism thank you Marine appreciate it uh congratulations on the uh the kid man that's uh that's awesome that's awesome man

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