02:49:16TTS/Donationsyour Instagram third pick I can see your V pull it up Brian you wearing shorts where if you stood up we can see the camel hanging quit lying you ain't
02:49:27TTS/DonationsChristian damn no no once again another judger that's a fan the legendary trash I think he's not shorts big uncore
02:49:36TTS/Donationscheesy cheese 69 donated $69 let's be real here $5 million a year buys a lot of McDoubles okay also nalo
02:49:46TTS/Donationsif you have changed your life why do you still dress like an only fans girl do you think God approves of those shorts oh why cuz it's hot in here bro I wish you could feel how freaking hot it is in
02:49:58Brian Atlashere dude it's like 85 literally burning over here oh maybe open the get a little air flow gone all right uh let's see here we have this sorry guys we're
02:50:09TTS/Donationsgetting a bunch of these Josh donated $69 I will say that you are correct Andrew that the church is a place for repentance did repentance is not owed to
02:50:19Brian Atlasanyone in the church it's only owed to God being self-righteous is a thing too hold on guys did we do this one I'm
02:50:29Brian Atlasgoing to let this one come through we got a lot guys uh guys we're going to I think we're all cut up
02:50:39TTS/Donationshere what the hell sorry guys there there's a couple coming through Lucas donated $69 and yes when you like to get click it is pathological lying be precise in
02:50:51TTS/Donationsyour auditory comprehension second divesting of your ill gotten pecuniary gain is a vital component of righteous Penance okay thank you Lucas so much man
02:51:02TTS/Donationsreally appreciate the message we have trash Panda coming again oh my God the legendary trash Panda
02:51:10TTS/Donationsdonated $69 did we do it 7g shut TF up even this Kum no no we was a new one yeah Dam bro now I got now I got to
02:51:21Brian Atlasre-trigger it okay may we shut him up rude uh while we're waiting on that Ray bovis Nala Andrew simply trying to shake you into having some accountability
02:51:29TTS/Donationsinstead of coddling you thank you Ray the legendary trash Panda donated
02:51:36TTS/Donations$69 J 7 OMG shut TF up even this Kuma D Geno's foundational Doctrine identifies Christ as God I don't think any of y'
02:51:48TTS/Donationsare ch questions there are things to argue about but godhood is not word word okay thank you do you have a response oh too late sorry Ryan
02:51:59TTS/DonationsCallaway donated $69 thank you Ryan appreciate genuinely happy for you that you found the Lord Nala and that you're using your platform to glorify him
02:52:09TTS/DonationsAndrew isn't the enemy though and he's made some valid points stay humble resp honestly I'm open to anything
02:52:20Nala Rayfor I'm honestly I'm honestly open to anything you has to say but without judgment in his heart that's the issue that I'm having is that whatever he is saying comes out of pure like it just feels
02:52:33Nala Raydark it doesn't feel like something coming from God and then swearing at us is like
02:52:43TTS/Donationsm69 protestantism was founded by Martin Lucifer at it finest wake up and smell the coffee Repent Jesus Is God look up the
02:52:55Andrew Wilsonearly church teachings looks nothing like Protestant can you explain to me there's some coming in will how chip
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02:53:15TTS/Donationssome Orthodoxy is the older denomination with a direct and uninterrupted Apostolic succession thank you Lucas appreciate the there's three more coming
02:53:26TTS/Donationsin guys about three more one sec guys we're going to get through all these not dulu unlike you donated $69 Andrew I believe in logic facts
02:53:38TTS/Donationsdon't care about your feelings also Andrew there is a giant man in the sky whom I have a personal relationship with even though there's no evidence quick response Andrew if you're if
02:53:50TTS/Donationsyou're saying that I can't logically back up God you're wrong okay we have a I don't know where you came up with that very epy Greek
02:54:01TTS/DonationsOrthodox donated $111 just to clarify what true Apostolic Orthodox theology is God is triun three
02:54:10Nala Raypersons in one Essence and Christ is true God and perfect man I never said they weren't at all I don't know what Andrew is even talking about at this point the fact that I said part versus
02:54:21Nala Raypersons that's what he's mad about and literally smoking his freaking 50th cigarette when he's like telling me that I had 50 dicks in my mouth which is also a lie so now you're lying how many dick it wasn't $59 would
02:54:34Brian Atlasyou guys pref during the only F time I slept with three people uh Ogle would you guys prefer to date Wes Watson or Andrew don't even know who that is
02:54:45Brian Atlasnobody knows who that is I'm sorry Ole they don't know who that is umle tell us here I'll I'll paint a I'll paint a word picture so that's Andrew
02:54:56Brian AtlasWilson and then Wes Watson is he's very ripped he's bald though and he used to be he he was in prison and he has a lot of
02:55:06Brian Atlastattoos and he's Rich sounds like a guy I met in the psycho so which one I don't know I feel like that's a
02:55:18Brian Atlasokay um all right guys we're going to bump the TTS back up to if there's any more that like trickle through within the next minute or two for the next 3 minutes I'll let them come through but the TTS has been will be bumped back up
02:55:30Brian Atlasso I appreciate everybody who sent some in I'm going to read this here Nala Christianity is not to be used as a shield against righteous judgment or criticism for terrible Behavior your response Nala oh my gosh in so many
02:55:41Nala Raypodcasts I've told everyone what I did was completely wrong and that I regret it so in no way shape or form am I shielding myself or shielding what I did as as a form of like being like Oh I know what I did was wrong but it was
02:55:52Nala Rayokay cuz I wasn't saved no way shape or form did I ever say that if you actually watch what I post or actually listen to what I'm saying I did say it was wrong and I apologize openly to the men who
02:56:05Nala Rayactually absorb the content that I put out because it's causing them to stumble so you can believe what you'd like but I'm not using my Christianity as a shield I'm defending God because I believe in him also I guess this came
02:56:17Brian Atlasoff but there was a message from Stiffler that asked I mean it's not here so we'll just do the this one but uh ask everyone to rate their looks on the scale of 1 to 10 starting with you my
02:56:31Alanislooks yeah oh well I was actually prepared for this question so um I would rate myself myself not you myself as a 10 because I
02:56:43Alanishave self-confidence but you could probably rate me as a three and I don't care oh okay so so 10 okay what about you I'd
02:56:51Nataliesay I'm like an eight okay 10 10 I give myself like a five or six okay five okay six or seven I've never thought about
02:57:03Nataliethis in my life cuz I don't like the scale I would say a five and a half I would also say five so 10 and 10
02:57:12Brian Atlasbig time um everyone is a 10 what the yeah everyone's a 10 yeah wait so let me have a bit of back and forth here everyone's a tent yes into the mic if
02:57:22Norayou can yes all women are tens yeah all men are tens yeah why wouldn't you date some men
02:57:32Brian Atlasthen but 10 okay Define the scale the scale of like appear okay so here I'll give you I I I'll give you a bit of a guideline here so one butt ugly two
02:57:43Brian Atlasunattractive three frumpy plain four below average five aage average six above average seven pretty eight
02:57:51Brian Atlasbeautiful nine gorgeous 10 perfect or absolutely stunning head
02:58:00Noraturner are you still not every guy is a 10 though oh but all all women are tens yeah all women are tens because we carry everything you what we carry the the the
02:58:11Norapain of this world but that doesn't really mean so wait so hold on what what does that mean just we bring
02:58:22Norathe the be the babies to this world we get our period like we suffer so much that we what does that have to do with your looks everybody everybody should be
02:58:34Brian Atlasconfident to say so the more you suffer the more physically attractive you are what's the logic yeah okay that's no that doesn't make sense yeah it doesn't just just the woman the woman deserve
02:58:45Videserve what to be 10 whatever wasn't nice to you wait Can you personality well she's beautiful but
02:58:55Norashe's mean to you what what would you rate her not a 10 anymore so that means women are not women to not be a 10 yeah if they prove
02:59:05Brian Atlasme wrong then no wait so you not all men are tens but all women are tens do you agree with this are all women tens I
02:59:14Alanishonestly I said myself as a t cuz I like am self-confident in myself um I believe that personality has a big role when it comes to dropping the rate I feel like
02:59:25Alaniseveryone is a 10 um everyone men and women alike I feel like if your personality sucks then your attractiveness sucks cuz you could be the most attractive man or woman in the world yeah but it's a question about
02:59:37Alanislooks no but I'm saying I'm saying everyone I believe look f is tent because they're made in their own image and likeness but um I feel like that can change on a person point of view because
02:59:49Brian Atlasof their you have a dating app right you're on Tinder and hinge well well actually or it was just Tinder and chespa oh okay Tinder and that other one yeah yeah so you're on the dating apps
02:59:59Brian Atlasright um which we'll pull up later but um if you don't care about like so you don't care about appearance then no cuz well everyone's just a 10 right uh do you swipe right on every single man on
03:00:10Alanisthe dating app um I look at their profile and what they write and I look at what they're looking for and that's how I go so You' you've never just seen the first photo and just swiped no you always like investigate further I
03:00:25Alanismean I mean it just depends like it with swiping it also depends on like what I'm looking for I feel like everyone is a 10 in their own way in their image and
03:00:36Alanislikeness but like it's just disregard continue um yeah I have SW swiped right on a lot of different people I mean my
03:00:47Alanisattractiveness is different but I feel like Filly like everyone is a 10 I feel like everyone is beautiful and stunning in their own way so I have a question for you you said you wanted to be a plastic surgeon
03:00:58Mandycorrect so if everyone is a perfect 10 appearance-wise why would you need to give people plastic surgery is that
03:01:05Alanisfantastic that's fantastic question uh I run it as um when I want to go into plastic surgery I want it to make it a
03:01:16Alanisbig deal and a lot of plastic surgeons um when you do major surgeries you have to go and see a psychologist and have some meetings with them to make sure
03:01:25Alanisyou're not changing because of you do yeah I don't is it I've never heard of that you have to see you're talking about like trans stuff no like major
03:01:37Alanischange like face changes and stuff like that I feel like requisite is to see a psychologist first I trans I mean I don't I'm not talking about plastic surgeons here um
03:01:49Alaniswhere cuzz a lot of people get their body done out of the country well we're talking about in this country in this country yes colia can you restate your question sorry cuz we so if everyone's a
03:02:00Mandyperfect 10 everyone in the world is a perfect 10 why do you need to give people plastic surgery like why is that the field that you want to go into if everyone's a perfect tent already so
03:02:11Alanisthat's my view on everyone but I go to the field of plastic surgery because I feel like a lot of people don't feel like that like that themselves and I want them to feel their way that's your business if
03:02:22Alanisyou want to change um if you want to look a specific way if you want bigger boobs and stuff cuz all of us have our own self-c concerns of like oh I don't look that great I don't look this like
03:02:32Alaniscuz like they said like physical looks are important but that's my perspective but if that's not your perspective I respect that and you want to wouldn't you be to add on to your point really
03:02:44Brian Atlasquick wouldn't you be better suited uh in into if if it's actually your value set that people are tens just however they look instead of intervening through
03:02:57Mandyplastic surgery why not intervene through like being a therapist or psychologist like like you said people need to see a psychologist beforehand but this like you getting into plastic
03:03:07Brian Atlassurgery does seem to somewhat to her Point yeah contradict your own view wouldn't you be better suited convincing people through words instead of through the scal scalpel
03:03:18AlanisI mean I don't want to be a psychologist um I actually like growing up really like the idea of plastic surgery and I enjoy watching the surgeries which is
03:03:30Alanisvery morbid like I enjoy the whole process of it that's why I go into it but like I said that's my view cuz I can cuz Nala can come to me and be like hey I want a facelift like I think I look
03:03:42Alanislike really bad and I could be like oh no you I can't tell you because as a nurse I can't tell you how or as a doctor I can't tell you how I my opinion
03:03:51Alanishow I feel because that's against the whole idea of the of that career so she can come with me and say oh I want a facelift because I look ugly and I wanted to look a certain way and I want
03:04:02Alanisa foxye and all this stuff and I could be like in my head like I don't think she needs it but if she wants it and she's very committed like I don't feel good this is what's going to make me
03:04:13Mandyprettier this is this then that's when you say okay and that's how it goes by did you have a followup question well I was going to say well generally it's um like the reason people have those
03:04:24Mandyinsecurities is because of like outside perspectives say they got bullied like for example I got bullied for having a flat chest I'm very insecure about my flat chest um so why not go into like a
03:04:36Mandydifferent kind of surgery like I don't know brain surgery or like you said you apparently did the brain perfectly when you were like doing the practice or whatever I think I was just like cutting through like
03:04:48Alanisthe school I don't it's not if I don't go into Plastics I think I would really like to go into um maternity and peeds because I did work at a hospital but that was like something that I enjoyed I
03:05:00Alanisenjoyed the whole technique of it the technique is so artistic and since I have an artistic background that's where it comes from but if let's say like I don't choose that I would go into Peds
03:05:12Mandyand into cuz I love kids and in maternity cuz I love but would it would it be better in your mind to just be able to like hype someone up and just make them feel better about their body like for example for me like I said like
03:05:24MandyI had the whole flat chest thing like if I came to you and said I need double DET tits right now and you're like you do not need those like wouldn't it be
03:05:35Alanisbetter to just like hype me up than to like give me those double d tits you know does that make sense no I I it seems like it makes sense there's also times where a lot of plastic surgeons
03:05:47Alanishave said have denied the patient and been like hey I'm not going to take you because I feel like oh I don't know if you guys know who Barbie Ken is it's the the Brazilian guy who has the
03:05:59Alaniscrazy when and he got like all these surgeries I think there's a point where you have to be like hey no like this this wouldn't be good and they'll go to the other one because a lot of these people too as plastic surgeons they don't only go for for the money they
03:06:12Brian Atlasalso go cuz there are people who need who like feel that change and feel like I really need to be fixed I do have to move it away from the plastic surgery here a couple questions to the 10 here
03:06:22Brian Atlasuh so when it comes to your looks do you think that you are on par with the most beautiful women in the world um no I feel like I'm beautiful in my own way
03:06:34Alanisand they're beautiful their own way I feel like if I was like skinnier and how I was like 2 years ago um I've been told a lot that I should go into modeling and
03:06:44Alanisthat I would really be a good model and it was actually kind of an aspiration of like hobby of mine that I would model I also do model for a couple hair salons
03:06:54Alanisand I do a makeup um shout out to Raina um back in Pake but um I wouldn't say that I'm like on par with them but I
03:07:04Alaniswould say that I'm I'm think I'm really beautiful that's my perspective on it mm cuz like 10 so 10 is perfect by World standards by but like
03:07:17Nala Rayif in the Bible like God says like you were beautifully and wonderfully created like so in God's standards you are good like you are a 10 because he created you
03:07:27Brian Atlasyeah so why does I mean but you you would you reject pretty privilege as in what explain it well do think that being physically attractive
03:07:37Brian Atlasconfers certain benefits yes I do absolutely so some people on this sliding scale of what is physically attractive we can agree that some people are more attractive than others yes they are I'm not I'm not saying that we're
03:07:50Nala Rayall equally the same we're absolutely not but in her eyes she's beautiful because you know God made her that way a secularist would also just entirely reject this component of this argument
03:08:00Alaniswhen it comes to looks would they yeah because faith and religion would have no nothing to do with it no bearing I mean like I said I think I'm
03:08:12Alanispretty beautiful I think I've always been told by my parents that I'm beautiful I think I'm beautiful I went through years of thinking that I was really ugly and I went through years of
03:08:23Alanisbullying and most of those guys wanted to end up being in my so so here I'll I'll and then actually here I'll just get into it so yeah people don't like
03:08:34Brian Atlasthis question a lot of women don't like the question what do you write yourself on a scale of 1 to 10 and what I always say is if you have an over elevated sense of your own physical
03:08:46Brian Atlasattractiveness or or your general attractiveness that could extend beyond just physical appearance it could have to do with your personality perhaps you think you're charismatic but you're actually dull whatever it may be I'm not
03:08:58Brian Atlasspeaking about you specifically but uh you know you think you have these really you have an attractive whatever it is uh but if you have an
03:09:08Brian Atlasinaccurate self assessment you're going to want to be commanding uh a certain kind of partner uh and I'm not trying to be rude
03:09:17Brian Atlasto you but I mean you just go you kind of fit you fit like the perfect whenever I've explained this is that a lot of women have an inaccurate self assessment
03:09:30Brian Atlasof their own attractive attractiveness in the dating Marketplace and they're going to either be trying to date a certain caliber of guy that you're either a going to get rejected or B they're going to keep you around for sex
03:09:43Brian Atlasand never give you commitment or keep you around from some other extraneous reason and you'll still never get commitment uh so that's why it's really important but I mean here you are so I
03:09:54Brian Atlasmean I I suppose this delusion as it relates to your demands of wanting to date a man who makes $5 million a year starts to make a bit more sense because
03:10:04Brian Atlasyou consider yourself a 10 out of 10 in the dating Marketplace air go you deserve a z less than a 0.01% I never said that I literally said when I
03:10:16Alanisanswered you probably think I'm a three but I think I'm a 10 I'm not saying sidence that's my self-confidence but I'm not being like Oh yeah I'm a 10 and
03:10:26AlanisI can get every guy in the world no I'm probably not your cup of tea I'm probably not what you like what you want and that's fine okay but so I agree with
03:10:37Brian Atlasyou that you can acknowledge that people in the outside world will be able to make a determination that they don't think you're a 10 and you're fine with
03:10:47Brian Atlasthem making that determination the issue is is that it's irrelevant because you still consider yourself to be a 10 and you said I won't settle for I mean you moved it down you shifted the gold poost
03:10:58Brian Atlasin any case Desiring a man who makes $1 million a year is still uh crazy even for a really attractive girl that's a
03:11:07Brian Atlasbig ask because on top of like there's a lot of beautiful women don't you live in Los Angeles no or sorry you live in Jersey uh-huh okay well that makes I mean what do you
03:11:20Brian Atlashave against CL New York City what do you have against Jersey no nothing but I mean I the New Jersey 7 uh Los Angeles uh anyways um okay so
03:11:31Alanislook but it's like you think you're a 10 you want a guy who makes $5 million a year I never I said like that's you did you did say
03:11:41Alanisokay I said I reting myself I said that's what I want but I don't know what's going to happen in the future that's like a want I don't okay but you
03:11:51Brian Atlasyou come across a guy who's making $50,000 a year you're going to turn him down right it just like it really depends on
03:12:02Brian Atlaswhat so okay in order for you to accept a guy who makes $50,000 a year he has to exceed in another metric then so he's got to be really good looking he's got to have Charisma he's got to be it's the
03:12:14AlanisCharisma it's the wanting to get better I think it has to be that Charisma of I want to work not play COD for 5 6 hours in the day and sleep all day and not go to work and not have a job get kicked
03:12:26Brian Atlasout of their own apartment that's what but why you don't need a $5 million guy to have a guy who's like Works a 9 to5 and he makes 60k a year look I said I was flexible I said that's like based
03:12:39Brian Atlasyeah you brought it down to a million that's still crazy that's still less than 1% of men girl
03:12:48Brian Atlasdreamon you so I'm 35 I want to date a 19-year-old virgin who's a Victorious Secret model you think I you think I can get her you can dream like a girl can
03:13:00Brian AtlasDre tell me what do you think I can get her I mean if you can pull her I don't know if they're all virgins but no no she has to be a virgin I don't and she has to look she has to be a 10 out of 10 Victoria Secret model she has to be
03:13:12Brian Atlassuper submissive super feminine 10 out of 10 giant actually I'm I'm on the small titty committee so whatever she can have small boobs she can have big boobs whatever still a 10 whatever nice
03:13:23Brian Atlasbutt hubs whatever large labia what I only date women I only date women with large lebia what's up like oh and she has to be willing to put her
03:13:35Brian Atlascareer not just in the back seat in the trash can I'm going to take care of everything seven sons that's right seven seven sons she ain't gon to have that shape after that
03:13:48Natalieshe Ain going to have that body after that so I have seven sons that's a [ __ ] Army whatever girl still love her she's my [ __ ] she what if she gives you daughters only
03:14:01Natalieseven daughters in we keep going until we get at least a couple s would you adopt would you adopt or would just be like through her through her oh if it's a girl AB eventually eventually we'll
03:14:13Mandyhave eventually we'll have a couple Sons why why are you shaking your head no just what she said I don't know what did you I said if it's a girl abort
03:14:24Nala Rayit I feel like that's the wrong panel to say that it's a joke it Jing was joking joking she's joking I was going to say as a trump supporter say that wait really quick
03:14:35Vijust who's pro life oh yeah wait really you yeah pro life wait are you iffy on no I no not iffy at all pro-choice mhm pro pro do you know what this is I
03:14:48JY / Jessica / Natalie (merged)know I know in Germany it's the abortion issue so are you Pro a woman being able to make a choice about their make the choice yeah that's what pro-choice is or life is
03:15:00Brian Atlaswhere you think no that's not acceptable well so wait no then I think I'm pro-choice what oh my God words have meaning dude wait so okay prif life pro
03:15:12Mandylife pro-choice Catholic by the way um pro- life pro life I think it's more of a complex issue I can't just say I'm pro- lifee or pro-choice but technically
03:15:22Brian Atlasyou could say pro-choice yes pro-choice pro life okay wait so Andrew was actually kind of spot on with the picking and choosing when it comes to
03:15:33Alanisthe Catholic faith here no I my personal okay so yeah I had a baby and I went through a situation where at one side of my family said I had to abort and the other side of the family said to keep
03:15:44Alanisthe baby and it was a miracle and I had a conversation with God and God showed me my punishment if I was going to abort my child that is the reason why I had my child because no one knows how they're
03:15:56Alanisgoing to feel in that situation I was in the middle of Colombia doing something that could really bring my career up as an artist and basically I was either leave everything and have this child or
03:16:08Alanisnot and I get emotional about this because it was the best decision I made no you made the right choice so if like a woman wants to abort that's their problem but that's not mine if they want
03:16:19Alanisif they want to have an abortion because of like abuse and stuff like that and they or that's their choice I mean when it comes to me if you're getting an abortion because you can't keep you
03:16:30Alaniscan't use any time of contraceptive because you don't want to that's a different thing but there's incest there's all these stuff that happen if you want to get an abort I get it well we can talk about the abortion topic
03:16:41Natalielater but I I do want to bring it back to the conversation about uh you know this whole 10 thing so is it quick yeah I just want to touch on the skill thing because I feel like it's hard to really rate yourself on a skill because everyone's
03:16:54Nataliescale is so different of how they view the world in themselves like I've never thought about myself at all on this scale level or anyone else like if I see attractive guy I'm like o he's attractive I'm not like oh he's an eight or I see a guy I don't I'm not
03:17:07Natalieattracted to but my friend's attracted to and I'm not she's like oh he's a seven I'm like oh he's a two I have never done that because I think everyone's made in the image of God and I also think everyone has a different type of person and different way of how
03:17:19Brian Atlasthey are raised in their values and of the scale itself yeah but I mean there is some degree of like if you show people images of one person and another person and like there's clear
03:17:32Brian Atlasdiscrepancy clear differential in terms of their outward physical appearance then like you
03:17:39Brian Atlasshow you show a thousand women pictures of Two Men and like if there's huge gaps like probably 99% of the women are going to be like yeah that guy's more
03:17:51Brian Atlasattractive so while people have different tastes and differences and so forth like there I think there is some degree of Andrew's got me [ __ ] up on this
03:18:02Brian Atlasbecause maybe I don't know the word object objectively but like I do think there is some degree of objectivity when it comes to physical appearance don't do it Andrew don't
03:18:11Brian Atlas[ __ ] do it Andrew don't you D don't you okay anyways um what okay so look
03:18:21Alanisum it I guess the issue here is is that you want a date guy I don't know how you want this because this keeps coming back
03:18:33Alanisand basically I feel like at this point it's just like trying to get me to look like crap on the internet and I've reated myself a lot of times and I don't want to start getting upset because this
03:18:45Alanisis a podcast and you know it's about people's opinions and Views and you keep going back to me specifically I understand that I'm okay fat right now and that I'm like and I even if you were skinny no offense you wouldn't be I
03:18:57Alanisdon't think it that's your personal opinion like coming to you that that's your personal opinion I have my own opinion some guys think I'm a 10 some guys think I'm a two I don't care like I really don't I want to go past this
03:19:10Alanisquestion I want to go P the the $5 million stuff I'm over it like it's it's done it's gone with I explained myself I don't need to explain myself even more okay I mean you don't have you don't
03:19:22Brian Atlashave to explain yourself but I'll just talk I guess the issue is is that no I want you to skip this like well I mean you're not the host of the podcast so if if I want to talk about this for the next hour I will and there's other women
03:19:34Brian Atlashere who have also answered the question when I'm talking about this it's not necessarily all about you but in any case look what I see happening in the dating Marketplace is there's and this
03:19:46Brian Atlasisn't even directed at you is a lot of women are gassed up by social media by their friends you look at a girl's Instagram oh slay Queen you're [ __ ] gorgeous blah blah blah whereas if you
03:19:58Brian Atlaslook at a dude's Instagram his friends are [ __ ] clowning on him you look like a [ __ ] idiot this kind of thing right y'all like to tell each other comforting lies whereas men want to hear
03:20:10Brian Atlasuncomfortable truths right the thing the difference is is that as me if I step to a step to a girl who outside of my league I get instantly rejected I don't
03:20:20Nala Rayget a I don't get a conversation I don't get a date I don't get anything it's because you're in California what do you mean yeah well like you're talking about girls like like if it was she was a 10 or something but like who here in
03:20:32Brian AtlasCalifornia that's 10 is actually like great to talk to matter no no no it's not about that it doesn't matter where you are the same phenomenon would happen anywhere because this is just the nature of the Dynamics between men and women so
03:20:44Brian Atlasmen get rejected on the front end so if I step to a girl who's out of my league clearly just on a comparison look maybe she has a preference for look I think looks are incredibly important in fact I
03:20:55Brian Atlasthink women care more about looks and are way pickier about looks than men are that's another conversation but if I step to a girl who's outside of my league instant rejection I don't get
03:21:06Brian Atlasconversation I don't get a date I don't get sexual access it's a little different for women as a woman if you step to a guy who's outside of your league and you make your yourself
03:21:17Brian Atlassexually available to him even if you're below him in terms of physical appearance you can still get sexual access to that guy you can still get a
03:21:28Brian Atlasdate he might be like H I'll never commit to this girl but she's offering sex I'll take sex once twice maybe I'll keep her around as a friends of benefits
03:21:40Brian Atlasand so what ends up happening is women get sexual access to men that are outside their league whether this and this could it doesn't even have to be about looks it could be about
03:21:50Brian Atlassocioeconomic status it could be Fame a nobody chick can go [ __ ] a famous rapper a nobody chick can go [ __ ] a famous
03:22:00Brian Atlasathlete a nobody guy can't step to I mean there's some exceptions most nobody dudes can't step to Taylor Swift and get Taylor Swift or some other you know famous woman who has a lot of status and
03:22:13Brian Atlasso what ends up happening you got these girls you get rejected on the back end you won't you'll never get commitment from these men but they welcome the easy access to sex they'll [ __ ] you once
03:22:26Brian Atlascouple times keep you around as a Friends with Benefits you'll never get commitment you'll spend your 20s doing this not all women but many will spend their 20s chasing after men who are frankly outside their league and they'll wonder why don't they ever get
03:22:39Brian Atlascommitment from them situationships [ __ ] buddies Etc why are men so scared of commitment actually the men who are interested in commitment you're turning them down you're rejecting them and again I know this
03:22:51Brian Atlasdoesn't apply to all women especially the two women here who are waiting until marriage you kind of avoid this to some degree because uh you're not offering
03:23:01Brian Atlasyourself up in terms of sexual access to men but if you were you could get with men who are outside of your league who will never give you commitment on the
03:23:11Brian Atlassole basis of your looks and the differential here is typically for women in order for you guys to sleep with a guy he has to at least be physically
03:23:22Brian Atlasattractive enough for you to be in a relationship with him and typically when women who are even women who are perhaps uh reluctant to engage in casual sex
03:23:33Brian Atlaswhen they do engage in casual sex they typically will have to uh they'll make the exception for an ex really attractive guy they'll take the opportunity with a really attractive guy
03:23:44Brian Atlaswhen men engage in more casual sex they tend it's the opposite they'll [ __ ] a woman they would never consider even being in a relationship with they'll [ __ ] down so to speak so what ends up
03:23:57Brian Atlashappening though with women who are not chased is y'all end up having sexual access to men who are outside of your league you think that's what you can get but your league
03:24:08Brian Atlasis not the men you can have sex with your league is the man who will give you a ring and give you commitment and so this is why I think it's it's incredibly important for women to have a reasonable selfassessment of
03:24:20Brian Atlastheir physical attractiveness because maybe you can [ __ ] a guy who makes $5 million a year but can you get him to marry you're going to get you're going to get marriage you're going to get commitment
03:24:31Brian Atlaswe had this 37-year-old on the show last week 37-year-old she said I don't know what's going on the past couple weeks she said she wanted the guy had to have
03:24:41Brian Atlasa $7 million house and he had to make at least $1 million a year and it's like ah you're
03:24:51Brian Atlas37 it's G to be tough yeah they might want to [ __ ] you are they are you going to get the commitment though because that's when women
03:25:01Brian Atlaswin cuz win winning as a woman is not oh I can [ __ ] a dude that's your default you can [ __ ] anyone yeah you can [ __ ] anybody so like [ __ ] a guy is not like a metric for
03:25:13Brian Atlassuccess that's not a W for you as a one hooking up with the guy whatever it is that's not a W for you the W is when you get the commitment when you get the
03:25:22Mandyring well there you go you got it so uh anyways that's my take on this if I could add something um I feel like the
03:25:32Mandyreason that that happens where a man will kind of I guess [ __ ] down and women will [ __ ] up I don't know that's the
03:25:42Mandybest way I can describe it but um I think men tend to rate themselves lower because they have lower self-esteem because of like what you said is that like if you go on a girl's Instagram all
03:25:53Mandyher friends are hyping her up if you go on a guy's Instagram all his friends are you know putting him down and that's going to get into your like brain
03:26:03Mandyeventually so when a guy is convinced that he is you know a three or four when maybe he's a seven or an eight he will
03:26:13JY / Jessica / Natalie (merged)settle for a three or a four I disagree I think that the guys who are the seven and the eights you might be right they're being clowned by their
03:26:23JY / Jessica / Natalie (merged)friends when they make those posts um I think the reason why they have sex with women below them is because they can because they just want to they have a they want status no no they just want to
03:26:35JY / Jessica / Natalie (merged)have sex they just they they will have sex with whoever whatever because they can because they want to um and the key for those men the men who are the higher numbers the AG the nines of T is the
03:26:47JY / Jessica / Natalie (merged)ring that's kind of what we're discussing it's like when one of those guys puts a ring on their finger that's how you know that he's with whoever he's matched with and I would say typically it's probably not somebody who's going to be below him it's going to be
03:27:01Brian Atlassomebody who's at his level you know like a Taylor Swift and a Travis Kelce you know that Travis Kelsey's probably had sex with a ton of people let me ask the girls here a question so like at least for my perspective and I'll ask the corresponding question here so at
03:27:13Brian Atlasleast for me if I can sleep with a girl there's a fairly high probability I'm high degree of confidence I can get her in a relationship I don't know if women
03:27:25Brian Atlascan as easily say just because you can sleep with a guy you can get that guy in a relationship oh facts I I don't agree
03:27:33Andrew WilsonI 100% agree is that fair to say so yeah I think so like to uh to Alanis it's Alanis how dare you Andrew it's Alanis
03:27:43Andrew Wilsonhow dare you Andrew did I say that Alan you said a lanus it's a lenus analis oh my God sorry I'm sorry that was sorry uh
03:27:53Alanisearlier in the conversation you said uh to Brian Mara what does that mean oh Mara is like friend it's like a Colombian slang it means two different things it's like a friendly thing cuz I
03:28:06Alaniscall all my what the other what's the other thing it means huh it you said it means two different things what's the second thing it means it means friend we use it as friend wait you said it means two different things what's the second
03:28:18Alanismean it's a it's a it's a bad word and then it means friend but what's the bad word I'm just going to say I called him my friend yeah but what's the bad word oh she was talking [ __ ] I'm not no I was
03:28:30Alanissaying oh my God like what is he saying like that's what I was saying in Spanish I wasn't saying the bad word yeah but what's you're trying to catch me what does the bad word mean I'm not saying it Andrew text it to
03:28:42Andrew Wilsonit was said in the chat earlier on someone does it mean homosexual no that's what marikon is okay so what is Marika marika's friend that's what I call my family I'm like
03:28:55Alanisyeah but what's the other word what's the other way it's used oh my God that's the other word which is marikon that it comes from marikon and it's called
03:29:06Andrew WilsonMarika yeah okay and you just you just you were you were calling him friend huh yeah okay or this guy there's a lot of
03:29:15Andrew Wilsonlike wait when was she calling me that it was just a few minutes ago said that you would want to see your son with a cut the fourl what was it
03:29:26Andrew Wilsonmean that literally that she was calling you gay basically no I hear whoever on the chat who it means [ __ ] no yeah I I
03:29:37Alanisspeak oh oh it means the f word no wa that's what Marik is that's what someone said in the chat that's what marikon is it's a similar word it's a similar word I'm the one who speaks Spanish I'm the one who goes to
03:29:49Alaniscolia I'm telling you marikon is what that is was the cont what was the context D this was when you were talking about how you would want your uh daughter to be with or your son to be
03:30:00Alaniswith a seven no and then that that had nothing to do with that that had nothing to do with that that had nothing to do with that I was talking about the whole like 5 million that had nothing to do
03:30:10Alaniswith the son okay and it means my guy because I can go to the street in Columbia say Mara what's up my guy because I actually go there is it like similar to like me calling like a friend of like a close
03:30:24TTS/Donationsfriend of mine like a [ __ ] but like I mean it in like a friendly way yeah okay got it Lucas vulgarity in the abstract is not a sin rather it's the men's re/ inent that
03:30:37TTS/Donationsdetermines whether it's sinful do are you literally trying to make a moral equivalency between aciar SL algar y Lucas thank you so much for the message Man there were a couple that
03:30:48Brian Atlascame through um we bump by the way the TTS is back up to 200 but there were a couple 69s that came through I'll let those come in uh and then Ogle here Ogle
03:30:59TTS/Donationsdonated $200 ask big mama what she calls you in Spanish Brian what no no that's me no I know it wasn't you but what what was she
03:31:09Alanissaying I mean she said she said what she said mikon is is like yeah is but I said Mika that's different also don't say the don't say the slur in Spanish either on
03:31:19JY / Jessica / Natalie (merged)YouTube oh don't say in Spanish sorry we can't say it in English but we can say it in Spanish what's this guy like what's he
03:31:29TTS/Donationssaying you know this guy you know I'll let these come in mcore Rocka donated $69.99 could it be you're afraid of what your friends might say if they knew you
03:31:41Brian Atlasbelieve in God above they should realize before they criticize that God is the only way to love Nala people are listening they sure are thank you rocker really appreciate it man thank you so
03:31:52TTS/Donationsmuch uh we have a couple we have like three or four more coming in Oilers fan donated $69 message for chair number two all on
03:32:03TTS/Donationsdry sight aisle with long hair sick dirty dangles bro hope you can carry the depth of the team without McDavid what does that mean what does
03:32:14Brian Atlasthat mean what what uh okay oh we got a we got a spicy one coming in oh boy watch out take a shower you blank guzzling
03:32:26Brian Atlasmole rat you look sticky and like you slept in your makeup for days rates from right to left 4.5 3.5
03:32:35Brian Atlas54 excuse me 53 4.54 Brian 4.5 Andrew 5.5 lose weight plus lift okay thank you uh Nala take a shower please
03:32:47Nala RayI I look did you shower before the show yes I showered last night but not like this morning or the the loofah like a scrubby thing no just a
03:32:58TTS/Donationswashcloth lofas are supposed to like hold bacteria so I don't was did the same thing unless 25 donated $99 Smithers thank you thank you Brian for
03:33:09TTS/Donationsbringing this topic Nala said California as a man not in California it is way harder for a man than a woman no absolutely is I was just
03:33:20Nala Rayspeaking to the fact that women in California tend to be a different breed and like you know they are way harder to speak to and actually befriend even as a
03:33:29Nala Raygirl from here like dude it's hard like girls here are odd like so weird like oh like even the way they speak it's like oh my God and you're just
03:33:40Nala Raylike speak English how long were you in La for uh 3 and a half years yeah that's why s Barbara is not so bad
03:33:49TTS/DonationsI guess no it's nice here Lucas donated $100 beauty is objective with some variability dot based on ratios golden
03:33:59TTS/Donationsratio and symmetry markers of good jeans. with this cope dot I'm 6' 4 in good shape and think of myself as a six average is okay for the sing reality for
03:34:12Brian Atlasthe single woman would you date an average guy yes yeah I'm not single oh yeah I'm not
03:34:22Andrew Wilsonsingle either yeah you date an average guy yeah but $5 million a year is not average yay okay well you can look average too like what what does an average guy look like exactly it's
03:34:35Brian Atlasdifferent for everyone what they think their average is it's like weight height yeah just what's an average like average income Brian yeah I'm pretty average
03:34:57Brian Atlasawkward wait wait I'm just I'm super curious rap me this is mean um I I won't be offended four I I will not be offended wait
03:35:09Alanisfour six okay um you can I won't be offended say you can be honest go
03:35:18Alanisahead I don't like this um go ahead I would say I I don't I would say I'm going to go with the
03:35:30Brian Atlas10 you're nicer than me Brian doesn't believe that stop the [Music] cap uh we TR Andrew too oh I mean I just I mean I wasn't really planning on going
03:35:42TTS/Donationsaround the table it's just for her so whatever um we have uh Ole donated $200 can each panelist say which other
03:35:53Brian Atlaspanelist they think is most beautiful damn wait before we do that uh can you go to Twitch we haven't done twitch
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03:38:01Andrew Wilsonhang on hang on so on the on the prettiest thing the question was yeah uh who the who the girls in the room think is the prettiest girl so here's the experiments okay and nobody's going to like it you're all going to be upset
03:38:12Andrew Wilsonabout it but it's actually a pretty good one so here's what I want you to do I want you to take a good look around the room all of you real quick at all the different girls who are sitting there right take a good look okay now all of you close your eyes and squeeze them
03:38:25Andrew Wilsontight and then put your hand like this so that we know you're not peeking all of you okay now point at the grill you thought was the
03:38:36Mandyprettiest wait this is going to that's confusing bro I can't see who I'm pointing at can we just raise our hand say our names I can't see who I'm pointing you do
03:38:47Nataliethat huh should say name that's fine do chair one we raise our hand chair two you raise your hand is that easier are we still doing this wait what it's not working it's really I I mean I mean I
03:38:59Brian Atlasthink it would have worked but it's all right well you can say like chair one can they do they have to cover their eyes vote yeah call point is oh yeah vote on a number of the other they don't
03:39:10Brian Atlasknow who everyone else is pointing at right oh that's easier okay wait or here I guess with the hands you show wait but there's more than they're covering their eyes IDE that's what I'm saying so if we
03:39:21JY / Jessica / Natalie (merged)all close our eyes and then Andrew you want to if you want a roll call each of the chairs chair one and then you raise your hand to whichever chair okay we raising our hands though I'm like if we're pointing out who that think who
03:39:34JY / Jessica / Natalie (merged)you think is the most attractive you just say what chair yeah he's going to say the chair and you're going to have your eyes closed and you raise your hand to whoever you're the chair that you think so they got to commit the chair
03:39:44Brian Atlaschair number to me so 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 okay so get the number in your head close your eyes all of you close
03:39:55Andrew Wilsonyour eyes right cover them don't look around cuz that's cheating okay chair one raise your
03:40:02Andrew Wilsonhand if it's for chair one oh okay if it's for chair two raise your
03:40:10Andrew Wilsonhand chair three raise your hand chair chair four raise your hand okay so for chair five Raise the
03:40:22Andrew Wilsonhands for chair six raise the hands for chair seven raise the hands and for chair eight raise the
03:40:32Andrew Wilsonhands okay you don't know you don't get know always watch it back I'm sure we will all go back and watch I was like
03:40:45Brian Atlasoh wait I have a little I have a little Intel here escar Lata Brian the Michelin Man called you a can't say that word on YouTube and tried to say you are delusional in Spanish also she can't
03:40:57Brian Atlascall a random Colombian that and not get hurt also her Colombian accent is fake and forced what okay cope um I I honestly can you respond to that in
03:41:32JY / Jessica / Natalie (merged)sorry oh my God who the hell cares oh my God I love that good that was good that was beautiful she called me she called
03:41:43Alanisme a uh I should we translate to English uh no what I said was that um I know Spanish really well my family is from botan from to Lia and Colombia um and
03:41:55Alanisthat um my mom taught me Spanish that I sing in Spanish and that I also speak in Portuguese cuz that was my first language and English was my second Lucas
03:42:05TTS/Donationsdonated $100 look at US Census cdc. average guy
03:42:11TTS/Donationsis 5'9 in makes aox 49,000 as I said I'm 6'4 in in shape Law Firm partner make seven figs and I still
03:42:23Andrew Wilsonthink time a six is uh who identified themselves on the panel as a seven or or seven
03:42:33Andrew Wilsonplus what and then was there any tens there was both of us yeah yeah 89 yeah 10 I just wonder right for all the
03:42:45Andrew Wilsonsevens and then eights and nines and tens if I were to tell you that almost every girl on the panel pointed towards one girl on the panel and not at the ones who identified as the seven eights
03:42:56Alanisnines and tens would that surprise you not at all no how come because like I've said my 10 comes from my self confidence it doesn't come from what other people perceive of me and I know that somebody
03:43:09Andrew Wilsonexplain the rationale behind that cuz I don't actually understand it I hear this all the time but the question is just asking about physical characteristics it's not asking about confidence it's not asking about anything for oh was
03:43:21Andrew Wilsonthat described clearly though yeah well like for instance um you don't know anything about a man's confidence and things like this when you swipe right on him right you're just looking at a picture and you can agree with me that you look at pictures of men who you
03:43:34Andrew Wilsonthink are handsome or not handsome you don't know anything about their personality this and that so you can clearly gauge physical characteristics so how come you think that women so often will talk about everything except
03:43:47Alanisphysical characteristics do you think it's because you don't want to offend other women I think it's like a sensitive subject I think I mean yeah I think it's just a
03:44:00Alanissensitive subject I don't know what you think cuz you're like the people who were like seven plus like I don't know what what do you think Nala I honestly think that your your answer really came from like what you
03:44:12Nala Raytruly believe in yourself you described that you were bullied as a K and that you have brought yourself to the place you are now um going through as much as you did and that in your belief you believe you're a 10 because you have
03:44:24Nala Rayworked this hard to get to where you're at right now and you think you know what I'm a 10 it doesn't matter what you think I am but I think I'm a 10 it wasn't the question wasn't what someone else thinks I am well there you go with
03:44:36Andrew Wilsonthe interrupting again I love it go ahead go ahead Andrew I'll Enlighten youal just based on pure physical I'm sorry I haven't I haven't talked here in about an hour I haven't said anything cuz it wasn't about you was I
03:44:47Andrew Wilsoninterrupting your Interruption right so anyway uh N I was just going to ask why is it that you think that she's not a 10 or do you think she is one I never said