She HIDES Being TRÂNS?! Single Mom DEMANDS Men Pay For Babysitter?! MlSANDRlST?! | Dating Talk 274

Date: 2025-12-22

Duration: 9h 27m

Guests

Brian Atlas

LLauren (Healer)>

Identified Speakers

SPEAKER_02Taran (Deadly P)(guest)

SPEAKER_03Isabella(guest)

SPEAKER_05Lauren (29, healer)(guest)

SPEAKER_07Brian Atlas(host)

SPEAKER_10Latrice(guest)

SPEAKER_11Nyx(guest)

SPEAKER_12Lauren (24)(guest)

SPEAKER_13Miriam(guest)

Key Moments

IntroAll 8 guests introduced including trans woman and Saudi magician

Key MomentMiriam performs close-up card trick - first female magician on Whatever

Key MomentBrian reveals Taran is trans. Panel reacts.

Key MomentTaran's viral boat kiss + lie detector clip played

ControversyLauren-29 requires men pay babysitter ($60-150) for first date

Key MomentLauren's relationship price list displayed on screen

QuoteTaran says 'Country Texas' when asked to name a country

Topics Discussed

Guest Introductions

8 guests including Taran (trans woman) and Miriam (Saudi magician).

Taran Trans Reveal + Viral Videos

Brian reveals Taran is trans. Boat kiss video and lie detector played.

Lauren Single Mom Babysitter Requirement

Lauren requires men pay babysitter for first dates. Extended debate.

Lauren Price List

$50 per like on another girl, $100 per DM, $2000 for texting ex.

Self-Ratings

Lauren-29 rates herself 10. Miriam rates herself ~2.

Man vs Bear

Most choose bear. Brian draws racism parallel.

Bow Video

Brian shows ex bowing. Most debate submission.

Taran: 'Country Texas'

Taran says 'Country Texas' when asked to name a country.

Transcript

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Brian Atlas>> Later. >> I love how Can I get water? >> It's not making it like excuse. >> Yeah. Just >> Oh, there's uh lower the lower the audio. We can play the audio though. >> Oh, you want the audio?

Brian Atlas>> Sure, why not? Just lower it. >> Yes. [laughter] >> You hurt doing it over. >> Okay. Yeah.

SPEAKER_04>> What?

Brian Atlas>> Oh jeez. >> This is what I need. This is I need this. >> What?

Brian AtlasI'm scared. >> Look at the scampering. Look at the scampering. My dinner's ready. >> Wait, was that there before? [laughter] >> Is she going to feed you?

Brian Atlas>> So, um [laughter] I >> That is definitely a kink. I'm not going to lie. Peep and Bop is actually really good. >> I want No, I like that. I mean, she didn't do a bow, though. It's the only thing that's missing. But otherwise, it was good. It was good. That kind of

Brian Atlasattentiveness is what as a man I I'm looking for. And I think y'all women, y'all gotta stop step up. >> All right. [laughter] So, do do you like Asian women? >> Because I think

Brian Atlas>> I like Asian women. Uh I like I like white women, Asian women, Latino women. Uh I I haven't Santa Barbara. There's not a lot of black women, but I would date a black woman. But um >> I would say generally like white, Asian,

MiriamLatino. >> Okay. The reason I'm asking is because >> you can throw in Native American too. I'm >> for for Asians the bow has different meaning than you know other cultures for example. So like >> if you if you were to ask maybe an

MiriamAmerican woman to bow for you that wouldn't be like acceptable. But like in a culture where >> I deem it to be if I deem it to be acceptable, it's acceptable. >> Well, she's saying there's different meanings. Like when we come and greet

Brian Atlaseach other, we shake hands. That's just our American culture. But in the Asian [snorts] culture, they'll bow to each other to greet each other. >> Yeah. But I mean, this transcends this transcends culture. I I can have a [ __ ] southern white woman. I'm going

Miriamto get a white the whitest woman ever and she's going to hit a bow. >> Well, well, okay. So, >> it would have a different meaning because like it means >> I don't know. It's it's kind of

Brian Atlashumiliating to like ask a woman to bow for you if it's not like the culture that we she's you know >> about I'm Look, if you want to call it cultural appropriation, I am co-opting.

Brian AtlasNo, that's not what I'm calling it. By the way, bowing has existed in Western cultures, in white cultures, in modernity. Sure. It's more the case. You see it more in Asian cultures. Sure.

Brian AtlasHowever, it's not about the cultural aspect of the bow. The bow is a is a symbol for her willingness to do

Brian Atlassomething that is basically effortless in a completely effortless, easy, quick way to simply please and acquies to me. >> So So she prepped the food for you. She did like everything for you before you get home.

Miriam>> Yeah. >> Uh but she didn't bow. when you're still upset saying that woman was like running like she's like on a treadmill like trying to please to please you and even then you're like oh she didn't bow

Brian Atlas>> she's attentive well no look what she's doing is great and uh the the thing with the bow is it's her willingness to do it if she doesn't do it if she's willing to

Miriamdo it that's and if she look all the better if she does it but it's the willingness >> so so she can just say hey I'm willing to do it for you but she ever does it. That would be still like

Brian Atlas>> well okay so if if I'm desirous of having a subi like having my partner be submissive in a relationship what better test than to ask her to do something in

Brian Atlasfrom my perspective completely benign completely effortless it doesn't cost her money it takes 3 seconds she can do it it costs nothing I'm looking simply

Brian Atlasto see is she willing to acquies to this even small thing and if she's not I have to wonder what about in instances in

Brian Atlasrelationships where there is something important will she acquies to me there >> will no I don't there's not I don't believe there's symmetry in relationships no I would not bow to a

Brian Atlaswoman the only scenario however I would bow to a woman I've explained this before is if she's a billionaire and >> oh my god >> like okay Brian uh [snorts] you would you bow to be with a woman

Brian Atlaswho's a billionaire yeah cuz then I I don't have to work. So you sure I'll do it. [laughter] >> But like she's a billionaire but you still have to work. >> That that's [ __ ] >> And if you're both working,

Brian Atlas>> why would why would what why would a billionaire expect their do you know? Do you understand how much a billion is? >> Yeah. Yeah. >> A billionaire does not need their significant other to work. >> Well, I mean you would be the

Miriambillionaire. >> Girlfriends all work. >> Huh? Elon Musk, >> all of her all of his girlfriends work. Like, they don't quit their jobs or whatever just because they were dating

Brian Atlashim and having his babies. >> I mean, he's not making them work. >> Well, that's that's what I'm saying. Like, you're Wait, hold on.

Brian Atlas>> I'm sure if if he's got like [ __ ] seven baby mamas or some [ __ ] >> If Elon Musk's one of one of the parents was like, "Hey, look, uh, I don't want

Brian Atlasto work He pays them plenty of money to the point where they don't have to work. Um, but I'm sure he'd be fine with it and he'd pay them to be like if they didn't have enough money or whatever, he'd pay them more to not work and just

Taran (Deadly P)take care of the kids. >> So, what you're saying is if you're the bread winner making the most money, you want them to bow. But if the woman is making the most money, >> well, I mean, in terms of how I would le like realistically speaking, even if I

Brian Atlaswas dating a woman who earned more than me, I would still want the leadership position in the relationship. I'd still want her be submissive.

Brian Atlas>> So, wait, even if she's a >> So, okay. Oh, you have a private jet. When we're on the jet, it's my jet.

Brian Atlas>> It's your jet. It's your jet, but it's my jet. [snorts] >> I feel like I'm just too dominant for that. [laughter] >> Do you have a private jet? >> If I did, it would be my jet. You can get

Brian Atlas>> What do you mean you're What do you mean you're too dominant for what? Like, if you earn more money than the guy, you wouldn't be submissive or you You're not submissive. >> I'm not submissive at all. >> Oh, okay. Well, hey, that's fine. >> Yeah.

Brian Atlas>> Find yourself a guy who will let you peg him. Find yourself a little soy boy. >> I didn't say I need to peg him. I'm >> Whoa. Hold on. You You prefer black guys, right? >> I never said that. I prefer personality.

Taran (Deadly P)>> But you have a preference at all. >> No, not really. >> Cuz I feel like you could get away with this with a white guy. >> I don't know if a black guy is going to get on board with >> every guy with Asian, black, Native

Taran (Deadly P)American, >> Mexican, and white have accepted it. And if you can't accept it, you can walk your ass right out the door. >> Yeah, that's fine. Obviously, you're going to have to deal with a guy who's going to agree to your terms. Everybody does

Brian Atlasthat. >> It's not terms. It's just how I am. I'm just a dominant person. Like, >> okay, good for you. And you know what? That's fine. But most men don't want that. >> I mean, hey, do you want girls to clean

Taran (Deadly P)the house for you? [ __ ] I mean, I clean the house as long as you cleaning the house cuz I'm still going to be working and you going to be working. Like, I most definitely be working more hours. >> Question for all the women at the panel. What? Where's that Where's the uh little

Brian AtlasFilipina girl? Where is she? >> Bathroom. >> Hey. [laughter] Hey. >> I'm gonna >> I'm gonna talk some [ __ ] in Tagalog or whatever. >> Doesn't phase me. I don't know it. >> Okay. >> What's that?

Brian Atlas>> Bow. >> Oh, yeah. >> We don't bow in the Philippines. >> Well, you're bowing on stage. You cheer for me. I guess um >> Oh, going around the table. Who here has like a I get, you know, this is a bit

Brian Atlasmore of a feminist panel or whatever. Um, for the perfect man, picture it now in your mind's eye. Perfect man,

Brian Atlasperfect looks, perfect height, perfect personality, perfect money, perfect treatment, perfect loyalty, everything across the board. Perfect. Whatever

Brian Atlasperfect is to you, for the perfect man, do you give up your career? No.

Brian Atlas>> What's your career? >> No. Um, my career is working with people with trauma, the EFT tapping. >> Okay. So, you come across your perfect man and he's a billionaire. He's like, "Look,

Brian Atlas>> I want to take care of you. I'm going to take care of your kid. >> You'll never have to work another day in your life. You can spend as much time with me with with your kid as you want." >> Mhm.

Brian Atlas>> Everything you want paid for. everything. You get the best house, etc., etc., etc. The one thing you have to do is give up that. Do you give it up? >> No. Brian,

Latrice>> I want to add no prenup. >> What? I already said no. >> Even with no prenup involved. >> Wait, what? >> Well, the perfect man, the entailment here. >> Yeah. >> He would never leave her. >> No.

Brian Atlas>> The perfect man will never leave you. >> Yeah. Yeah. >> You don't give up your career. >> No. Cuz it has a greater meaning to it. But but think about the benefit to your child.

Brian Atlas>> The benefit to my child >> of aligning. So now you have the perfect father figure in your child's life and the perfect provider. >> Well, when once they start school, then what am I going to do? You know what I mean? >> You hold on. School. Public school.

Lauren (29, healer)>> Public school. You can hire >> My perfect relationship. My perfect relationship would be Yes. When they're little, I'm home with them. And like I was home with my son. So yes, >> you're going to pump out more kids. >> Yeah. Probably. Yeah, maybe >> you meet the perfect guy, you going to

Brian Atlaspump out more kids? >> Yeah, I know about public school. I'm actually thinking about homeschooling. >> Home school's better. >> But okay, but >> okay. You don't give it up for the perfect guy. >> No. >> Really? The perfect guy? Have [laughter]

Brian Atlasyou ever met a perfect guy? >> No. Because if I did, I would be married. >> Question. If if we think of perfect as a spectrum. >> Mhm. >> Perfect over here.

Brian AtlasThe worst human I don't know. Uh Stalin plus Hitler plus >> okay >> carrot top.

Brian Atlas>> What's the furthest to perfect on the spectrum that you've encountered in a man? Okay. Ready? I'm going to move the bar. What? Okay. Wait. Here. This hand. Right hand. My right hand. This side.

Brian AtlasPerfect man. This side. >> Worst man. Evil man. Terrible man. >> Okay. >> Tell me when to stop. The >> the best man. No. No. Tell >> it's like here. >> Tell me when to stop. Okay. You ready?

Brian Atlas>> In terms of the best man you've ever dealt with. >> Okay.

Lauren (29, healer)>> Okay. Stop. >> Okay. That's kind of close, I guess. >> Yeah. Yeah. There was someone that was close. >> Okay. Didn't work out, though. >> Yeah. >> Didn't work out. >> Yeah. We had different Yeah. Different opinions on important things. >> You're 29. You've been dating for a

Brian Atlaswhile, right? >> I'm 36. I've been dating for a while. >> Mhm. We can probably agree it's hard out there, right? There's not a lot of good people out. It's not that they're not good people, but maybe they're a good person, but it's you're different. You

Brian Atlasdon't connect. You don't find them attractive. They don't think you're attractive. The person that you like, they don't like you. The person that likes you, you don't like them. It's a complicated thing, right? >> You've been out there in the dating field. You've dealt with a bad guy, too, by the way.

Brian Atlas>> Yeah. >> If I can instantly deliver to you the perfect man, you don't take [clears throat] it. >> No. Because >> let me ask you a different question. >> Get the man out of the picture. >> Okay.

Brian Atlas>> In my hand, >> Mhm. >> I could give you $10 billion. All you have to do in order to have the 10 billion. >> Is you have to quit your job and you

Brian Atlascannot work one more day. Do you take the 10 billion? >> No. No. Because >> bro, do you know how much 10 billion is? But >> generational

Lauren (29, healer)>> because >> thousandyear dynasty actual >> like even you won't even be able to run that money out even after you're long gone. >> I understanding what you're saying. I think that I love what I do and the work

Brian Atlasthat I do with women. >> You you love what you do more than 10 billion dollars. >> Yeah. Yeah. >> She said her childhood and career first move I'm going to move on. I'm uh for the perfect man. Do you give up your

Brian Atlascareer? Like assume you're in college, right? What do you want to be when you grow up? >> Optometrist. >> Okay. >> Um the perfect man comes along. >> Yeah.

Brian Atlas>> And well, I know you're in a relationship, so I'm trying to think how I can frame it like in >> if I was I can do a hypothetical. >> Sure. Sure. Okay. Thank you. Uh you the perfect man comes along, but in order

Brian Atlasfor you to be with him, and it's not him imposing something, it's a magic genie. So he's not being like a [ __ ] The magic genie says, "I will give you the perfect man, but you have to drop out of college and you have to you can't pursue

Isabellacareer." >> Yeah. >> Do you take the do you take the trade? >> Yeah. I'd like to be a doctor, but my goal is to travel. I would take the trade easily. >> For the perfect perfect man, do you take the trade? >> No. >> Really? Billion. So when the

Taran (Deadly P)>> No man is going to fulfill me like singing fulfills me like being on that stage like >> Oh my god. I rather I'm not even going to have a kid until I'm where I'm at, where I want to be. Like, you don't even

Taran (Deadly P)understand how addicting and how just amazing you feel when you do that. Like, my singing is my everything and it will always be my everything. >> You can sing in private. >> No, >> you can still sing. >> No, that's not what I want to do. >> You can sing in the shower. Sing in the shower.

Taran (Deadly P)>> You can sing to your husband. How about that? >> I want to sing to everybody. I want to share my art >> while >> That's not being on stage. That's not getting cheered for >> raining down. Okay. Uh, for the perfect for the perfect man, you give up your

Nyxcareer. >> Do you mean that I'm not allowed to do what I want for a career at all? >> Which is what? Tell us what that is. >> Like working in film, but like >> film. >> Yeah. Like a film producer, a director like

Brian Atlas>> with Harvey Weinstein. Okay. >> But I mean like am I not allowed to >> um >> because I mean Perfect Man. Perfect Man, billionaire hot. >> Yeah, whatever. I get the question or some [ __ ] I don't

Brian Atlas>> But like am I not allowed to do it period? Like I am I able to do it but with no income? >> That is a profession. So like if you want to sit at the computer and like edit YouTube videos >> but like could I do it but without an

Nyxincome? >> My concern is that I feel like I just wouldn't feel fulfilled. I wouldn't have like any ambition. You know what I mean? >> Well like I need something to do. >> Travel. You have your partner. You can have >> but that's only so much like I need something to do. Like I want to do stuff

Nyxthat I enjoy but if I can't >> What is up with >> She's rich. >> What is up with people? I'm just saying >> this is not even true. This is not even true. >> She drove a Tesla. I bought my >> This is not even true. >> We live in two different worlds. >> She's a she's a trust fund kid or whatever.

Nyx>> No, [clears throat] I'm not. >> Her parents aren't dier. >> I'm broke and I drive a Tesla. >> Why are women so obsessed with the rat race? Like >> because it's like it's genuinely just like mental wellness. Like what what the [ __ ] am I going to do? >> What do you mean by the rat race? Cuz

Taran (Deadly P)like I don't really >> work. The rat race. What? >> I don't care for work. I just care for singing and sharing my art. Like if I don't get paid for it, I don't get paid for it. >> Are your parents rich? Oh, okay.

Brian Atlas>> But so right now, right now, >> you do a job besides singing, right? >> Yeah. >> Like, do you would you have a Are you a waitress? Cuz a lot of people in Hollywood, a lot of people in the

Brian Atlasentertainment industry, >> they're [ __ ] waiters. >> Um, I'm training to be a caregiver, but before that, just school and acting and all that stuff. >> You're going to wash old people's backs.

Brian AtlasGreat. while you're pursuing your music career. >> Yeah, I think that's an honorable job because >> that's I'm not making a criticism of that job.

Brian Atlas>> Yes. Taking care of people, being a in a healthcare. Yes. What I'm saying though, if presented with the opportunity >> to not only have the perfect person, but

Brian Atlasan entailment of that is I I would think the perfect person is obscenely rich and I'm saying he's he's a multi multi-billionaire. You never have to work. Everything is

Brian Atlastaken care of. That level of benefit to you. You don't give up. Like most people work to make money. Here's all the money you could ever need in the world. No, I'd rather work 50

Nyxyears. >> I never said that. >> I'd rather work 50 years. >> I'm going to tell you this right now. >> Look at a computer screen. [ __ ] what are you going to do? Editing or some [ __ ] What are you going to do, >> dude? Did you even listen to what I was saying? I said yes. This is exact. I

Nyxwould take it but my concern is my mental wellness because then what the [ __ ] I misunderstood my question was just can I still do it but like without income like can I still pursue what I like as long that counts as like a career >> you can't do it

Nyx>> then I worry about my mental wellness in that situation and it's like fulfillment better than like you know how they say money can't buy happiness >> what do you want to do tell me what you want to do >> I want to be a film producer >> film producer

Brian Atlas>> yes >> not a film producer so you like not a director like you're not actually >> I could do either I don't know exactly what >> producers aren't typically involved in like the creative aspects of >> Yeah. >> It I I said I don't know what I want to

Nyxdo. >> Are producers like the finance? >> They do finances, legal stuff, paperwork. >> So, you're going to be like in an office basically? >> It depends what kind of producer you are, but like I said, I don't know what I want to do. >> What do film produc? They just sit in an office and

Brian Atlas>> it depends what kind of producer you are. >> There's line producers, there's like certain There's like publication producers. If you can't work on Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles 5, you're going to

Nyxhave mental health issues. >> If you can't work on Iron Man 7, you're going to have mental health issues. >> I mean, >> what am I going to do if I have like nothing to do? >> I don't know why women say whatever the

Brian Atlashell you say. >> Billionaire girlfriend, would you stop this podcast? >> Instantly. Instantly. [laughter] >> I didn't hear that. >> Oh my god, she's [ __ ] saved me. Yes. Instantly. I don't think you guys

Brian Atlasunderstand this idea. I don't I don't think if if you come into an obscene amount of wealth, whether through you win the lottery or you date like a super rich person who's super generous,

Brian Atlas>> that doesn't shrink your life, that expands your life. And so this idea that what would I do with my time? >> You have all the freedom in the world. >> Oh, it's wonderful. >> But what I'm saying is I would be doing

Brian Atlasthe same exact thing with what I'm already doing with my time, you know? >> Yeah. >> All right. Well, >> what's up with all these therapists need have seeing a therapist? >> Seeing a >> Well, you do like therapy adjacent [ __ ]

Brian AtlasI guess. I don't know. Like, all these therapists be seeing a therapist. >> You >> Why the [ __ ] what? >> You're giving me advice and >> can't your therapist yourself? >> You're giving me advice and y'all [ __ ]

Lauren (29, healer)up, too? >> A therapist is someone who makes sure that you're grounded. So, you have to be grounded to give people. >> Anyways, um do you take the trade? Perfect man. >> What do you want to do with your life?

Lauren (29, healer)You wanna >> um I just conjugate. >> You want to just like >> But yes, he's coming home to a warm meal and a warm mouth every night. >> Do you take the trade? >> You're a headstrong [snorts] independent woman.

Lauren (24)>> Well, with my day job, I would take the trade, but with what I'm like pursuing like for my future career, I don't know. Because I feel like it's kind of similar to like the film thing. Like I'm a

Lauren (24)writer. So if I couldn't like even if I wasn't making money off of what my writing, but if I just like couldn't do it period, even in the hobby, then I don't know. >> By the way, AI is coming for [ __ ] everything. AI did an essay on this.

Brian Atlas>> Not for magic. Not yet. >> It's coming for magic. >> It's coming for magic. Nope. >> It's probably coming for this podcast [ __ ] >> Yeah. >> It's not doing anything for the [ __ ] gender swaps. Like >> honestly, I I do actually think within

Brian Atlaslike it's probably less, but within 3 years, you could upload every single episode, the whatever podcast, and it will pump out >> Yeah. >> like a randomized

Brian AtlasRNG, like a new episode, and it'll be super convincing. And I'll be here [ __ ] raging out, losing my [ __ ] [ __ ] losing my mind. >> You still can't do it in the bathroom. >> I'll be [snorts] [ __ ] pissed off. Hey, Nick, you [ __ ] [laughter]

Brian AtlasUm, >> still in our identity. >> Well, you're married. I get to live that life together. Like I'm living that life. >> Do you work? You have a job? >> Uh, yes. I do have two jobs. >> Do you give up magic? Do you give up

Miriammagic for perfect man? >> I would not give up magic. Hold on. Hold on. Hold on. I would give up Hold on. I would give up my day job. >> I would not give up magic, but if if you

Miriamwouldn't allow me to generate income from it, I'm fine with that. I can just do magic for hospitals. You have to give up magic. >> You see these cards here? You see the

Brian Atlas[ __ ] >> You see [laughter] the [ __ ]

Brian Atlas>> He's trying to figure it out. [laughter] It's done. >> No, you can't. No fake thumbs. No [ __ ] pulling strings out of your butthole or whatever the [ __ ] >> No rabbits out of your vagina. >> What kind of magic are you watching? >> Oh, no. It was some crazy [ __ ]

Miriam[laughter] >> You did not trust me earlier. Uh, go ahead and >> I just saw it change. These are these are different. >> Oh my god. >> You guys [laughter] amaze very easily. These are different cards. But thank you.

Miriam>> I swear. Where are the other cards? >> I swear you just had Okay, >> these are totally different. This is not the trick. >> But thank you. [laughter]

Brian Atlas>> Would you give up magic if I just handed you 10 billion right now?

Miriam>> I don't think people have a >> I think I understand. Wait, let me I don't think people have a full appreciation for how much even $1 billion is. >> It wouldn't make you >> because you're thinking you're thinking in ter of

Miriam>> you're thinking of in term of money only. But then >> we're not cuz you're a man. >> So [laughter] >> what? >> Wait a minute. >> Women have to pay for women to pay for [ __ ] too,

Miriam>> right? That's why I'm working. >> You got to buy tan and [ __ ] >> That's why I'm working, man. >> Makeup products and [ __ ] I don't know what the [ __ ] y'all buy. >> Well, that's why I'm working. and Kim Kardashian. >> Have you heard about the success story? >> Huh? >> So

Brian Atlas>> the what? >> I said that's why I'm >> $10 million. You got to quit magic. Do you take the deal? >> But I I I will get bored. My brain thought of the wrong magic. [laughter]

Miriam>> I'm a nerd. I'm sorry. >> I'm a nerd. >> I mean, look, I mean, we're >> all right. Well, uh, >> you don't have any hobbies or anything? >> Uh, [sighs] >> do you do you read books? Do you?

Brian Atlas>> Well, I mean I already The biggest one is my job. Yes. I would give a woman uh perfect woman. >> Honestly, I'd give up my job. I'd give up my job

Brian Atlasuh for the perfect woman and she could we could be like kind of financially struggling a little bit. I'd give up my job for the perfect woman and she makes uh well, I guess I can't work because I have to give up my job in this

Miriamhypothetical. I don't know. She makes 50k. Whatever. We'll struggle. She's the perfect woman though. I'll do it. Okay. So, y'all won't do it for the That's not what I'm asking. That's not what I'm asking, though, because I told you I told you I will give up my job, but I'm

Miriamnot going to give up something that I'm Do you have any obsessions? Anything Anything you like in life to do? Like, do you do >> Would I give up? What What uh what is something you obsessia

Brian Atlas>> for the perfect woman? She's perfect, but >> she has like the >> That's not the What the [ __ ] is this girl doing? Did Did you want to show me by the way? >> Are you actually

Brian Atlas>> #ne That hashtag need >> Are you actually for like for real? >> Let's go. >> She's [ __ ] C. All right, [ __ ] it. >> Bro, I've been I want to go like >> All right. In in the in the in the bathroom,

Miriam>> I'm I'm not going to go like close the door behind me. >> If you >> Hey, what? Hey, what are you doing? Stay. Hey, go over [laughter] there. Brian. Brian. Brian. If you if you if you do that, you're not

Taran (Deadly P)>> He's gay, guys. >> He's so gay. >> They've been knowing he's gay. >> I'm gonna stand in the hallway. >> Wow. >> Girls, I do have a question for y'all. So, have y'all heard about the success stories where they be like, "Oh, I'm

Miriamrich and famous, but now I'm not happy because I'm rich and famous." >> Eve's dropping. Wait, >> go ahead. >> Oh my god, I'm so embarrassed. >> Come on. Go ahead. >> That is insane. No,

Miriam>> don't do it. Don't do it. Oh my god. Are we with Nissan essay right now? >> Come on. >> She's all pressuring her, bro. Coercing her. >> You're pressuring her.

SPEAKER_08>> Oh my >> No. Brian, now >> she's pressuring her. >> Hey, she's a chick. >> Oh my god. >> Hey.

Miriam[laughter] >> Hey. Yo, she wouldn't do it. cuz she didn't know you would actually follow through. Alexi, >> hey, >> I'm [ __ ] insane. Why [laughter] not? >> Oh, we know. We know. We know. Yes.

Brian Atlas>> Uh, you said you had a question. >> Um, but yo, Chad, she she was like she was like

Miriamshe I didn't see anything. She didn't show me anything. She She She didn't She She didn't show >> She wasn't like Cuz every >> Yeah, she she actually did go like this. [laughter] >> Yeah, because she did go like this. Yes. >> Good on her. Yes.

Brian Atlas>> Every time you get up or sit down, you all have to comment. So, like she offered. >> Hey, it's just a little banter, you know, a little banter. All right, let me let's get through the question right

Brian Atlashere. Uh, okay. Lauren, to your you say women are oppressed in the USA. Uh, Isabella, you agree? >> Why do you think? >> Well, hey. Oh. Oh, you want to be the

Brian Atlashost? Okay, go ahead. Go ahead. I'm telling you after me. [ __ ] If I did, you know what? If if you and me were to date, I'm putting you I'm putting you in a burka or something. [laughter] >> What did you just say?

Brian Atlas>> Well, she's from Saudi Arabia. So, we we need to return to the roots. Oh my goodness. >> This girl on your teeth. You're crazy. >> Thank you. So, anyways, um Okay. Do [sighs] you want to you want to host?

Brian Atlas>> No. >> Okay. >> Do you want me to? Actually, I can do that. >> No, I just want you to >> What was the question? >> Okay. No, don't worry about it. Uh, women are oppressed. Lauren agrees. Isabella agrees. Taran agrees.

MiriamNicks nothing. >> Wait. So to prove to me that women are not oppressed in the US, you wanted to oppress me. But that's not my >> Oh, yeah. I will oppress the [ __ ] out of you. [laughter] So anyways, >> here.

Lauren (29, healer)>> Uh, how are women oppressed in the USA? So, the way that I look at it as I feel like our experiences are usually mocked,

Brian Atlaswhich is like why there's more dolls. >> Oh, dolls. >> Let me finish >> the dolls. >> Let me finish. Our experiences >> really quick on the doll thing. And >> I'm still feeling the way that I feel about dolls. >> Really quick on the dolls.

Brian Atlas>> I can make a counterargument to this. So, the fact that it's two female dolls equals representation. I actually think maybe men's rights advocates could say, "Excuse me, Brian. There's two female dolls. Why isn't

Brian Atlasthere a male doll that's lacking in representation? DEI initiative, the whatever podcast is failing at DEI. That's really lacking in representation." I think

Brian Atlas>> here I am sitting here as a feminist. I zero zero male dolls. I have two female dolls. >> Mhm. >> That's crazy. So, and then also because

Lauren (29, healer)only 97, no it's only I think only 3% of rapists are actually charged because women's experiences are not you know >> okay

Lauren (29, healer)>> and that's why so I feel like women our experiences are usually mocked. I feel like our experiences are usually not taken seriously and I feel that's just my experience.

Brian Atlas>> Okay. Um, but when I think of oppression, I [snorts] >> there's no dispute that this happens where women aren't taken seriously. I'm not going to even dispute that. Uh, bad things happen to women. Not going to

Brian Atlasdispute that. >> How I don't know if that's necessarily evidence of oppression. >> Mhm. I think so because it's like our experiences don't matter. >> In what context though, so if a woman goes to a police officer and reports a

Brian Atlasrape, >> you can only report it after 24 hours. Usually you don't you don't Yeah. Well, that's completely Hold on. That's completely ridiculous. There were people being prosecuted. >> We only have actual evidence. >> Hold on. Hold on. Hold on. Donald Trump,

Isabellathe president of the United States >> from 30, 40, what was it? 40 years back. >> I'm going to decline if we're talking about Trump. >> I don't know. As a minor, I was almost killed and their felony is going to be revoked when they're 18. I I don't know. >> Like, it's just kind of

Isabella>> what what was it? >> As a minor, I was almost killed in a relationship. >> How? Yet, their felony is revoked when they're 18. Well, that's juvenile court. There is there is well,

Brian AtlasI don't know. I'm not an expert in the the punishments that juveniles face, but it is the case that typically if you're a juvenile, when you commit a crime, there's um less severe consequences, I

Brian Atlasguess. I mean, something super severe like if you're 16 and you murder somebody, you're probably still [ __ ] Um I'm sorry to hear that happen, though. But >> uh I I do think it's the case that if a

Brian Atlaswoman goes to a police like Do you think it's the case if a woman goes to a police officer and reports that she was raped that the police officer is like eh [ __ ] you? I think that they I think that

Brian Atlasthey do the process. I think the process >> I think the process starts >> on this and that's how they act. So >> Okay. I But you said women only have 24

Lauren (29, healer)hours. That's not true. What I meant was 24 hours is when you can get actual evidence after an assault. But usually usually, yes, but usually women don't realize because

Lauren (29, healer)there's different types of essay. It's not the type that's in an alley. It's not the type that most SA happens in relationships or in dating or at clubs

Lauren (29, healer)if a woman's drink is spiked. So, usually women don't realize they have been essayed. and more women have been essayed, but they don't realize it until it's too late to report. Or if they do

Brian Atlasreport because there's no evidence, their experiences aren't taken seriously. >> Well, clearly spiking somebody's drink, >> that's clearly >> that's clearly essay. >> My question to you though, you mentioned

Brian Atlaslike if there's a alcohol component. So, if I have what I would consider to be consensual sex with a woman >> and >> I'm I've had three drinks and she's sober, was I essay?

Lauren (29, healer)>> I think you know I think it depends on I I think I think so.

Brian AtlasI think so because >> so if I had three beers and by the way I am a lightweight like I will get [ __ ] up off of three beers. Really? Yeah. >> I don't drink alcohol. So I'm a lightweight. >> Um and I

Lauren (29, healer)>> I think essay happens at the point of blackout you know or like if a woman's incoherent. So I think it depends on the drunk state. So, if you're a lightweight and a woman did that, then I think that is essay and women essay.

Brian Atlas>> I I would be drunk, but I don't think I would be incapacitated. >> Sober and like see like how that's like not okay. >> Well, again, I did say I'm a lightweight, but three beers wouldn't like I would be pretty drunk, but I

Brian Atlaswouldn't be over the edge. Like I wouldn't be >> I would be like it's messy because there needs to be a level of coherence and consent. >> Sure. But from my perspective, I definitely don't think that in that

Brian Atlassituation I have been essayed. >> Okay. Do you think >> Wait, one quick clarifying question. Let's reverse the rules. >> The woman had three drinks.

Brian Atlas>> Um, going into the date, she definitely wanted to [ __ ] the guy, >> but she was trying to loosen up or whatever. She wanted to >> um maybe even unbeknownst to to him,

Brian Atlas>> maybe they're just out to dinner and she's so nervous. Some women, some people calm their nerves with alcohol. >> Yeah. >> She goes to the bathroom, takes [ __ ] three shots. She's She loves this guy.

Brian AtlasShe's enamored, but she's like, "Oh man, >> I'm really nervous with this guy. I'm super nervous. I really, really like him." >> And she resorts to alcohol. He doesn't even know.

Brian Atlas>> He doesn't even know. And she's not she doesn't pass out or anything, but >> she's, you know, she's a bit drunk. >> Mhm. >> But she's she's there. She's co I guess co. I don't know. >> Yeah. They then have sex. >> Yeah.

Lauren (29, healer)>> What she has said and he said >> she was coherent. You just said she was coherent, >> right? But I mean like to what when you're drunk it's like a bit of a >> I feel like I feel like my relationships moving forward there needs to be like a verbal consent.

Brian Atlas>> Verbal consent >> from my personal experience. Yes. >> Okay. I mean, I'm fine with people doing that, but do you think >> absent verbal like a affirmative consent, verbal consent threshold, if

Brian Atlasthere if that doesn't occur, do you think an essay occurred? >> Again, it's all about coherence and that's what makes a mess. >> No, but assuming No, no. Let's say both people are sober are sober. There's no alcohol involved. >> Well, if both people are sober, then

Lauren (29, healer)there's no like power dynamic. But if one person is not sober and the other person is, see how there's an imbalance like >> depends how drunk they are. >> And Exactly. That's why I said it goes back to coherent.

Brian Atlas>> Like if I had two white claws and I have sex with a girl, I don't think I was essayed. >> Okay. >> And I'm sure probably a woman >> coherent. >> Well, no, but I would say women would probably feel that way too if they're

Lauren (29, healer)like they like the guy and they have two Y claws. >> 1,000%. And I'm not saying every situation like that. Yeah. >> But you you said that there has to be verbal consent >> for my personal relationship

Lauren (29, healer)>> even in sober situations if >> Yes. No, not sober cuz I think like nonverbal like a >> cuz I think people frequently have sex without there being like a clear affirmative.

Lauren (29, healer)>> I am giving you consent to stick your penis inside me. Like I think there's like the vibe, you know? You don't >> No. Yeah. No. Yeah. But that's what I'm saying to like prevent [clears throat] future experiences like that happening.

Lauren (29, healer)I think that if there is an imbalance in the alcohol, there should be more consent because of the coherence. >> What if both people are super tanked? Like they're both equally messy.

Brian Atlas>> They're both [laughter] equally incoherent. Did they rape each other? >> That's just messy. I Yeah. >> But like you do acknowledge like for example and I agree with you that there's definitely cases where I mean it

Lauren (29, healer)could go either way, right? But like the only way too far gone. The only cases that I consider that I've been in with essay is I was not coherent. >> Well, that's yeah, of course with somebody

Brian Atlas>> and and was coherent, then I don't consider that essay, >> right? But I I'm thinking about a situation where like you would agree I don't know if you went to like a party school, but at least here in uh Santa Barbara,

Brian Atlas>> very very heavy party scene. And like both men and women >> drink way too much and they'll drink a lot. And I think you'll have situations

Brian Atlaswhere like a really really drunk woman will get with a really really drunk guy and I'm in that situation where did they rape each other? Was the woman raped? Was the man raped? And it's like

Brian Atlas>> I I don't know if the purely just if you've consumed alcohol if that's enough of a threshold there. >> Yeah. cuz I mean honestly um I know

Brian Atlasthere's things are shifting in this realm but I think one I think especially when you're young people are like really nervous. I think a lot of young people are uncomfortable. I

Brian Atlassome people are uncomfortable with sober sex. Like some people cannot have sex sober, which is kind of sad, but >> um so people also like alcohol is a social lubricant. So people will drink

Brian Atlasto feel more comfortable. I think especially for somebody who's maybe sexually inexperienced, although I wish they felt more comfortable with engaging in sex. Mhm. >> I think that a lot of people will resort

Brian Atlasto alcohol, both men and women, to sort of, I mean, literally socially lubricate themselves to being more comfortable. Some people can be uncomfortable being naked from whatever it is, right? >> And so I wonder though, like if the

Brian Atlasstandard is, okay, you've just been drunk and you have sex. >> I mean, people have been getting [ __ ] shitfaced and they [ __ ] for a long time.

Brian AtlasMen get [ __ ] too trashed. Women get too trashed. They hook up with each other. Maybe one's more drunk than the other. The man's more drunk, the woman's more drunk, whatever it is. >> I do agree with you that there's

Brian Atlasdefinitely a point of intoxication that's like she def >> there's no consent there. Like >> definitely too far gone. >> And that's what I that's what I mean. And that's wrong

Brian Atlas>> when it's incoherent when someone [laughter] But if it's two drunk people doing whatever they're doing, that's fine. >> But like I I think so many people do hook up when they're drunk. It's like what is the standard? It's like >> But see, I'm talking about times like

Lauren (29, healer)drinks have been spiked. That's what I'm talking about. I'm not talking about too despicable trying to be >> chill and relaxed. That's fine. There's nothing wrong. I kind of wanted to touch on something real quick because you were

Latricesaying that women are oppressed based on essay of of those kinds. Um would you also say that men also are oppressed? >> Good question. >> Um and actually and actually a little bit because I feel like

Lauren (29, healer)>> Yeah. So >> and a little bit because I feel like men um also have a harder time opening up emotionally cuz they're shamed for it. So I I even especially talking about

Latriceessay, I'm sure that the statistics aren't even right with what men experienced. >> I mean, it's not just the emotional aspect of them not opening up, but it's also false allegations that happen

Latricehappening in schools with teachers, you know, ddling boys as well as grown women that are trying to have sexual relationships with small children. As >> I'm going to move off of this topic, but

Brian AtlasI guess like one quick final thought here. Um, you say that that uh it's under reportported because some women don't go to the police. >> Yeah. Yeah.

Brian Atlas>> I think that and that definitely happened like 100% sure. >> I actually think >> if it's the case that women under report >> Mhm. >> then it h I actually think men under

Brian Atlasreport. >> Yeah. Even a lot more and agree to that. But moving on, you say men are more privileged in society or well there were some other women who said women are oppressed. Uh Isabella women are

Brian Atlasoppressed in the USA. Why is that? >> Um can can you please define oppression for me? >> Uh un typically at least from my perspective like severe unjust treatment.

Isabella>> Okay. Um historically they have been oppressed. I kind of read it. I didn't read the wording are oppressed. I was thinking prefer a different definition, but >> uh she meant the question itself. Um >> well, she asked

Brian Atlas>> No, no, she's right. I wanted another >> prolonged cruel or unjust treatment or control. >> I mean, there's control over abortion, but I mean, >> yeah, >> I I was thinking historically. >> What do you think? Why?

Taran (Deadly P)>> Um I was going to touch up on the abortion part. Like that's our body. We should be able to do what we want with it. Like >> Okay. Uh, >> and then all right, >> there's just like a lot of stuff like not getting the same type of jobs

Brian Atlas[clears throat] just because you are a woman or like you don't get picked for it because you're a woman. But I don't just think that it's women that are oppressed in America. >> Um, I could have some arguments there, but just for the sake of time, I'll move

Brian Atlasit on to the next thing. Uh, women can't be sexist towards men. Lauren, you agree with that? Why is that? >> Oh, no. I said no. I said they can >> into the mic. >> Oh, no. No, I said women can be circled. I must have circled.

Lauren (29, healer)>> Oh, okay. That's fine. Then I'll skip that. Uh Lauren, do you believe that there's a patriarchy? >> Yes, I do. Because when you divide the world's wealth, men are still leading in wealth. >> Well, I mean, depending on certain

Lauren (29, healer)metrics, for example, there are more women uh single women who own households >> who own homes in the United States. >> So, worldwide? >> Oh, well, I'm talking about the USA. >> Okay. Well, my statistics were from worldwide, but I think

Lauren (29, healer)>> Yeah, just in the USA is there a big I think in the USA we're kind of like setting that forward. So of course we're more forward- but I feel like if women

Lauren (29, healer)um in general I feel like because men still hold that primary you know 75% to 25% I think that it does

Brian Atlaswe're still under a patriarchy >> but typically uh wealthy men typically have wives they have families. Mhm.

Brian Atlas>> So, and women, isn't it the case uh women are like 80% of the consumer base. >> Women make 80% of consumer decisions. Women hold the majority of debt. Yeah.

Brian Atlas>> So, it's like >> I think when a woman is married, she has actually quite a bit. Yes. Technically, the money is like would be viewed as the man's money, but women actually wield

Brian Atlasquite a bit of economic influence in their marriages. Some a lot of women run their households >> and they wear the pants and they peg their boyfriends/husbands. That shit's crazy. >> Whoa.

Brian Atlas>> She knows what I'm talking about. Nyx, she pegs men for a living. >> Just kidding. I >> made that up. By the way, you're Welcome back to the table. We You're like, "Hey, Brian, let me show you my schlong in the

Brian Atlasbathroom." And then we get there. Cold little cold feet. What happened? Um, I don't know >> what happened. You didn't want to show

Brian Atlasthe penis, the non-existent penis. >> Latrice, do you think it's a Do you think she's a man or a woman? >> I don't know. What questions that?

Isabella>> And then she'll give you >> in 10 minutes. In 10 minutes. >> She showed the Adams apple. Did you not see it? >> Yeah. I even confirmed you guys. Let's close this conversation. >> Fake news. Okay.

Brian Atlas>> You just want to see it. [laughter] >> You're You got me. >> I'm just I'm trying to see some I'm trying to see some she dick. >> You're right. >> You were like begging [laughter] in there, bro.

Brian Atlas>> I'm trying to see her feminine penis. That's you. >> Need that. >> What the [ __ ] is that? >> For the babysitter. Sure. Okay. >> Uh let's see here. Um adult age gap

Brian AtlasIsabella. Adult age gap relationships are wrong. Exampling. >> Y >> Hey chat, uh looks like we had a little blip. You might have to refresh if you guys are watching. We had a little blip in our stream quality. Uh so you might

Brian Atlasjust have to refresh. Uh >> keep going. >> Where were we? I forgot. [snorts] >> I got lost. >> Age gap. Uh yeah. >> Who hears does anybody else object to age gap relationships?

Lauren (29, healer)>> It depends. >> You okay? I say wait till your friends organizations like wait till you're 25 >> and then and then you can >> but I don't

Brian Atlas>> before that no >> I think I mean my perspective on age gaps I think generally speaking when I defend age gaps it's not I'm not trying to like oh women

Brian Atlasshould date older men that's not the case at all I think generally speaking most younger women you know 20 21 19 whatever it is the vast majority of them prefer dating than their age. Like, so

Brian Atlasit's not like women should. I'm just saying in situations where the woman wants to date the older guy. I think that's fine. I don't I don't see

Brian Atlasan issue. Um or even the reverse, the older woman dating a younger younger guy, although I think that's more rare. Um but I also acknowledge, yeah, most women typically prefer to date men. Most

Brian Atlaswomen prefer to date men their own age. Uh, but I don't like a 30-year-old dating a 20-year-old. Don't care. I think that's fine. I >> mean, I say you could do what you want, but I say it can also be dangerous.

Isabella>> Have you ever dated a guy your age who treated you like [ __ ] >> Yes. >> Well, I mean, dating men your own age. >> No, but like what if you you're following this man, you're doing what this man wants. You don't have to do

Isabellaanything. He's older. He's going to probably provide. You're not going to establish yourself. You're not going to become like who you can be. I feel like you have to grow a little bit >> possibly.

Brian Atlas>> Or you date a or you date an older guy who Okay, you're in college. Cool. >> Do your college thing. >> Mhm. >> I mean, perhaps timelines, maybe he's >> you want to wait seven years to have

Brian Atlaskids. He wants to wait three years. I don't know. >> Um timelines might be off, but >> uh yeah, I'm fine. I mean, I I don't think there's anything morally wrong there. 30-year-old with a 20-year-old.

Brian Atlas>> Okay. >> Lauren, your thoughts? >> Until she's 25. >> Wait till Okay. >> Uh, yeah. I mean, I think ultimately um

Brian Atlaslike I think it's the the one time it can be weird is if the guy like if he's kicking it at college parties and he's 35. Yeah, that's kind of weird. But like if the guy for example like I would I

Nyxwould even date a woman. >> Can I add? >> But do >> you want to ask me out on a date? Okay. >> No, I just I was just gonna say I was 19 dating a 25-year-old so I kind of know what it's like. >> I don't think too crazy but >> that's like six years but that's like I we met when I was 18 remember. And this

Nyxguy lied about his age. >> Okay. Well yeah. Yeah I remember. That's kind of crazy. >> Um I feel like I feel like it is very circumstantial. Like ordinarily I would be against it but then I feel like in this situation I was willing to make an

Brian Atlasexception but generally like it can be really bad. It was just like in this situation it was passable but it was still definitely weird and I just feel like >> what was relating to his age? What was

Brian Atlashe doing wrong like that you can attach to how old he was? >> He lied about his age. Well, but you can lie about like >> like what did he do wrong related?

Isabella>> Can lie. You know, >> this is true. But I just like >> he was hiding her from his family cuz he was ashamed of how young she was. It's just like he felt weirded by it. >> He lied about his my age to his family.

Nyx>> Like he wouldn't >> he wouldn't let me meet them and he wouldn't let me meet any of his friends because I was like so young >> and also like >> Wait, he said that? He said that. Yes. >> Okay. Well, that's weird. >> He was like He was like, "Oh, like I told my friends about you. Like I told

Nyxthem your real age and they were like really into it." And I was like, "I don't like that you're friends with people like that." You know what I mean? >> Wait, they were into it. They were egging him on. They were like, "Oh, yeah, you go, man. Like, get that 18-year-old." >> So, the friends did like it. I guess

Nyx>> the friends did. He said that it made him uncomfortable, but I was like, "Why are you friends with people like that?" You know what I mean? But and it's just like and like I was thinking about it in terms of like he was telling me about how he was like at the hospital with his

Nyxolder sister and she was giving birth and I was like, "Hey, you're getting to that stage of your life, too. Like what about me?" You know what I mean? >> How old are you? 20. >> I'm 19 now. >> 19. I mean, [ __ ] you could you could start pumping. >> I'm like I'm still in college. Like, you

Nyxknow what I mean? Like, we're still we're definitely in very different parts of our lives. So, that's why I feel like it's like it's a little risky, but I don't think it's end all beall. It's always bad, but it's definitely proceed with caution.

Miriam>> Okay. You had something? >> Uh yeah. So, um the the man I got married to um I was I was 18 at that time. Well, not okay. The how how

Miriammarriages work in Saudi Arabia, um they are like arranged marriages. Um and so basically what they do is that after whatever happens and they ask for the

Miriamgirl's hand or whatever and they agree whatever um they actually do like the marriage vows or whatever which is like basically in term of like religion and you know in the eyes of the government

Miriamyou are married but society consider you as engaged until the wedding day. So so we were like in that period for like two years and then we

Miriam>> How old were you and how old was he? So, uh, I was 18. Um, he was, uh, well, he lied about his age, too. Um, so he said he was 28. Um, but

Miriam>> damn, >> his, >> okay, so when he was born back in the day, Saudi Arabia did not like mentality like differences between like that totally different generation

Miriamand me coming from like a newer generation. And it was just like just how we think and like everything's like we're on a totally different level and just like >> but I mean people who are the same age can also have these differences of

Brian Atlasvalues. >> True. >> So like I think you can have a matching up of values and desires and relationship goals with somebody of a different age. >> Correct. That's why I'm saying it depends. So like >> um like

Brian Atlas>> is it perhaps more likely? I think generally speaking sure. I'd be willing to say that, yeah, probably a 30-year-old, 35-year-old guy dating a 20-year-old girl. He's probably a little

Brian Atlastimeline wise, he's probably a bit more assuming both of them are desirous of having a family at some point. He's probably a little closer to wanting that sooner than the the typical 20-year-old woman.

Miriam>> And he's more mature, too. Uh well, assuming hopefully >> not all of them, but yeah. Um >> yeah.

Brian Atlas>> Okay. Um, moving on to the next topic here. Uh, let's see. We have >> Taran deadly pee. A woman should not be

Taran (Deadly P)rejected because of her weight. Why is that? >> Because, like, what does weight have to do with it? >> Into the mic. Into the mic. >> What does weight have to do with it? Like, you're telling me that if I was bigger, you wouldn't want me, but

Brian Atlasbecause I'm skinny, you want me? >> Yeah. >> [ __ ] off. >> Would Can I ask you a question? Would you uh hold on, hold on. Okay, so Taran, in your questionnaire, how tall are you

Brian Atlasand what's the minimum height of a man you would date? You said you're 5'4, the minimum height you would date for a man is 5'9. Wait, how is this any difference than the white thing?

Brian AtlasYou're telling me because a guy is 57, you wouldn't date him? Or 5'5 or 53? Well, you can't change your height, but you can definitely change your weight.

Brian AtlasBut what what is it with the fat girls and like there's always that suppression of it and it's always like >> what's wrong with not women cannot hold on women cannot want to date a fat guy. I'm fine with that. >> Why does it matter?

Brian Atlas>> A little bit. But um uh why does it matter? Because physical people care about physical attraction. And the reality is if you're overweight, you're fat that some people are not attracted to that. Well, not just some.

Brian AtlasMost people are probably not attracted to that. >> I mean, like I I don't >> So, why is it wrong for a guy to not want to date a I mean, it could go either way. A woman doesn't want to date

Latricea fat guy. That's fine. I'm fine with that. >> Yeah. Just know that there's like a very small percent. There's like not a large percentage of men that are over six feet tall. So, it's like, you know, there's a lot of women out there that are always

Latricetalking about, I want a guy who's six feet or he's got to have abs and he's got to make six figures, but that's a very small percentage. And, you know, as far as weight goes, it is something that

Latricemost of the times we do have control over, you know, and it's okay to have that preference. You know, if you don't want someone that big, it's okay. If you want someone skinny,

Taran (Deadly P)>> can I give you like a practical answer to this? Like for a fat chick? Like are we talking obese? >> Are we talk Are we talk I'm I'm like I was chubby. So I'm thinking like a like what do you mean? Can I ask you something? >> No, you can't because I'm in the middle

Brian Atlasof my >> Sorry. >> Uh wait, so you used to be chubby is what you're saying? >> My question. >> Yeah, but I mean you do you acknowledge that maybe you got less attention when you were chubby?

Brian Atlas>> Yeah, I got a lot less attention. >> And now you you you got you lost some weight and you're gaining more attention. It's not like I lost it to lose it for attention. >> No, I'm not saying that's the reason, but you acknowledge that that's the reality. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. So, it's like,

Brian Atlas>> but I feel like it shouldn't be the reality. >> Well, I don't know how useful talking about should is because men are attracted to what they're attracted to. Women are attracted to what they're

Brian Atlasattracted to. Let me give you a practical reason now. All right. So, a big girl, a big girl,

Brian Atlaseven let's say she's just thick, like she got thunder thighs and a big fat ass. Don't Sometimes that's nice to look at, you know, but like practically speaking,

Brian Atlassometimes that makes sex complicated, you know, like if she like if her legs are big, like it can be nice to kind of look at, but it can

Taran (Deadly P)complicate the the the procedure. I mean, I wouldn't know cuz it had I have no difficulties when I'm with my thick girls. So, I'm just saying. >> With your girls. >> Yeah. >> Dick girls. Thick. >> Oh, thick girls.

Taran (Deadly P)>> I have no difficulties. And in some Do you have >> They still They still don't have any difficulties. I could >> You could have a dick. You going We should We go to the bathroom, too. You going to whip it out, [laughter] >> [ __ ] I said I I mean, >> wait. Wait. Say it again. Say it again.

Brian AtlasSay it again. >> Oh, I thought you said the N word. Did you call me? Do you want to like be like my >> like am I your

Taran (Deadly P)>> You say it because I can't say it. Am I your >> [ __ ] Am >> yes. Am I am I your say it? >> No. >> Okay. No. Yeah. I'm not. >> No. It's just like we're not homies. We're not like good homies.

Brian Atlas>> Cuz you're my Caucasian. [laughter] >> What? >> So we homies. We good homies. >> We good. Yeah. We're homies. You're my Caucasian. You're my Caucasian. You're my Filipina. >> Yeah. Like if we homies, like I call all my friends

Miriam>> Caucasian transcasian. You're my half Caucasian. >> Or >> I'm your ass government. It is. Yeah.

Brian Atlas>> Yeah. So you y'all my Caucasian. You're my Caucasian. All of y'all my Caucasian. >> W >> Except for the Filipina. [laughter] She She doesn't like white people I met. So I'm like doubly [ __ ] [laughter]

Brian AtlasI'm doubly screwed. She doesn't like white people and men and I'm pale so that I'm screwed. >> I'm screwed with >> no. >> Okay, go ahead. [laughter] >> Come on. Go ahead.

Brian Atlas>> Joshing you. >> I was just giving you some flack. >> Real quick before you start, you have lipstick on your teeth. >> Oh, good call. Wait, really quick before you do your thing. Okay, so sometimes if a girl's th like a thicky icky, look,

Brian AtlasI'm going to be honest. I've got an average penis size and like sometime some positions become difficult if she's you know >> so you're talking about >> she's got a big badon I just

Taran (Deadly P)>> smaller sizes because the sizes I've been with and the three zones >> you don't got a dick you don't know how do you know you don't have a dick show me more than one way to orgasms >> yes a thick woman and a guy >> but you don't know because you don't have a dick

Brian Atlas>> I see it happen >> I'm just saying I'm just saying if she's thick like it her on top becomes a bit more difficult if she's big. Like, well, one, I'm getting crushed a little bit,

Brian Atlasbut two, it's just it's hard to maneuver. Like, it's hard to maneuver a little bit. >> Her? >> No. Like, it's hard to for the dick to find. >> The [laughter] dick's never moving when

Brian Atlasyou on top. The girl's moving. You got to find the grooving. >> Well, I top from the bottom, I guess, or whatever. >> So, it's hard for you to find motion. So, you're talking about yourself personally. >> If I'm on If she's on top, I want to be in control.

Brian AtlasSo, how are we talking about that if she's on top? Okay. I do I have to be graphic? Do I have to be graphic with it? All right. So, here's >> like you holding her waist. >> Hold on. Here's me. And like you think a

Brian Atlasgirl on top is she's like this, right? The girl on top should be like this. And I'm she's she's here. So, we're chest to

Brian Atlaschest and I'm I got her by the hair and I'm like, you know, her ear is right there and I'm I'm I'm talking my [ __ ] and I'm controlling I'm controlling the situation.

Brian Atlas>> Uh-huh. >> Yeah. Yeah. Hey, chill out, Isabella. Okay. All right. >> I'm sorry. >> It seems like you're talking about personal experience from cuz from what I've seen and what I've done. >> I don't like it when the when I'm laying

Taran (Deadly P)down and the girls like this. No. Chest to chest. No, this isn't a thing. But I'm saying I've seen that and and I've like I've seen that and I literally did it when I was bigger. Like I don't understand what what what you talking about. Like

Taran (Deadly P)>> it's I'm just saying >> it sounds like you're talking about people with smaller smaller that means >> it's average. Okay. It's average. Trust me. It's average. I'm just saying some

Brian Atlaspositions is harder. >> If you average it should be fine. >> No, it's still Is she thick? If she's a thick >> Is she dumb thick? I still think the same thing. >> If she's dumb thick, it's like there's

Brian Atlasonly there's not it's the ass is find your maneuver. The ass protecting the [ __ ] The ass is not protecting, but the ass is blocking the [ __ ] >> I mean, [laughter] whatever. >> I totally get what you're saying, but it's still like,

Taran (Deadly P)>> is that really going to be the reason? Cuz like you can figure it out. It's It could be harder for for you to do it with a skinny girl >> anyway. A skinny girl. No, it's the easiest to do with a skinny girl. a bit bony, but yeah.

Brian Atlas>> Well, [laughter] now now I mean, what do we mean by skinny? Anyways, let me get it off the sex talk because [laughter] we got a [ __ ] Isabella here clutching her pearls. Oh my god. >> Yes. I'm scared. [laughter] >> Guys, I'm frightened. Oh my god.

Brian Atlas>> Give her the ear muffs so she we can do ear muffs. >> Too much. Yeah. You want them? >> Wait, how did we get Oh, the the rejecting a a fat. It's wrong. >> Women should not be rejected because of her weight. Well, can a man be rejected

Brian Atlasbecause of his height? I mean, like, yeah, but no. >> Well, what are we talking about? >> I don't think it should. If if women can reject men for their height, men can

Brian Atlasreject women for if they're for their weight. That's fair. And women can reject men for their weight. And men can reject I think it's rare, but men can reject women for their height,

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