She HIDES Being TRÂNS?! Single Mom DEMANDS Men Pay For Babysitter?! MlSANDRlST?! | Dating Talk 274

Date: 2025-12-22
Duration: 9h 27m

Identified Speakers

SPEAKER_02Taran (Deadly P)(guest)
SPEAKER_03Isabella(guest)
SPEAKER_05Lauren (29, healer)(guest)
SPEAKER_07Brian Atlas(host)
SPEAKER_10Latrice(guest)
SPEAKER_11Nyx(guest)
SPEAKER_12Lauren (24)(guest)
SPEAKER_13Miriam(guest)

Key Moments

00:00:24
IntroAll 8 guests introduced including trans woman and Saudi magician
00:07:47
Key MomentMiriam performs close-up card trick - first female magician on Whatever
00:45:08
Key MomentBrian reveals Taran is trans. Panel reacts.
01:41:49
Key MomentTaran's viral boat kiss + lie detector clip played
01:55:19
ControversyLauren-29 requires men pay babysitter ($60-150) for first date
02:00:47
Key MomentLauren's relationship price list displayed on screen
08:47:09
QuoteTaran says 'Country Texas' when asked to name a country

Topics Discussed

00:00:24
Guest Introductions

8 guests including Taran (trans woman) and Miriam (Saudi magician).

00:45:08
Taran Trans Reveal + Viral Videos

Brian reveals Taran is trans. Boat kiss video and lie detector played.

01:55:19
Lauren Single Mom Babysitter Requirement

Lauren requires men pay babysitter for first dates. Extended debate.

02:00:47
Lauren Price List

$50 per like on another girl, $100 per DM, $2000 for texting ex.

03:01:06
Self-Ratings

Lauren-29 rates herself 10. Miriam rates herself ~2.

04:20:18
Man vs Bear

Most choose bear. Brian draws racism parallel.

05:53:59
Bow Video

Brian shows ex bowing. Most debate submission.

08:47:09
Taran: 'Country Texas'

Taran says 'Country Texas' when asked to name a country.

Transcript

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00:59:52
Brian Atlas>> No. >> Okay. Um h so your your boyfriend though, would he tell you he has an issue with it?
01:00:05
Brian Atlas>> Um yeah. >> Because this seems like a pattern of behavior. Correct me if I'm wrong. What do you mean? A pattern of behavior with me? >> Like you would, it wasn't just a one-time thing. You would frequently hang out with this guy.
01:00:16
Brian Atlas>> Oh, yeah. >> Okay. So, he told you he didn't like it. >> Yeah. >> Correct. >> Mhm. >> And then you kept doing it anyway. >> Yeah. >> So, I'm just curious. You've been dating a guy for four years. How long were you
01:00:28
Brian Atlasat this job for? >> Uh, like since the beginning of this year. So, >> Okay. So, you'd already been dating the dude for three years. you get a new job and then
01:00:40
Brian Atlasyou're kicking it with some random work husband or [clears throat] whatever. Um, >> are you dating him now? The work guy? No. Okay,
01:00:50
Brian Atlas>> good question. I guess my my further question on this is um, knowing that it made your boyfriend of three years uncomfortable and he
01:01:00
Lauren (24)expressed this to you, why did you continue doing it? I think it was very much the way he went about it and because he has so much like issues with things I had done in the past that he such as didn't like well like for
01:01:13
Lauren (24)instance going to Six Flags or going like anywhere by myself really it just >> well by yourself is different than but >> yeah no I understand >> how was the way he went about it >> like he was just very um disrespectful
01:01:25
Brian Atlasspecifically to this person. >> Wait disrespectful to you or to the guy? >> To the guy. >> Well, hold on. When you say he was disrespectful to the guy,
01:01:36
Brian Atlashe when you would be talking to your boyfriend oneon-one and would he talk be talking [ __ ] about the other guy or are you saying he met the dude?
01:01:49
Brian Atlas>> Hello. You can answer the question. >> No, he met the dude. But like >> he would be disrespectful. Are you saying he would be disrespectful to the dude to his face? >> No. >> Okay. So when it's just you and him, you're a boyfriend of four, three years
01:02:01
Brian Atlasor whatever at the time, four years, whatever, >> he would be like, "Hey, [ __ ] that guy. I don't like that guy." >> Not like, "Okay, so you help me out here. I'm a little frustrated." >> No, he was just like,
01:02:13
Brian Atlas>> "How was your boyfriend being disrespectful to your work husband?" >> It wasn't my work husband. >> Whatever. Whatever. >> He was just very rude. I mean, like he >> How so? Okay. How?
01:02:25
Brian Atlas>> Like making fun of him like as if you were disabled even though he wasn't. Um >> Okay. Like calling him a [ __ ] or something. >> Yeah, kind of. Um >> W sounds like a W to me. Um Okay. What
01:02:37
Lauren (24)else? How was he disrespectful? >> It was just the way that I felt like he was not trusting me and feeling like um like he wanted to be very controlling. Like he wanted to know like where I was
01:02:50
Brian Atlasall the time. And in the last few months he got like very sec insecure and like >> wait wait wait but hold on. So how soon Okay, you got this job like a year ago. >> Yeah. >> How and the the coworker he was there too at from the beginning, right?
01:03:04
Brian Atlas>> No. >> Okay. He got a job at what point? >> Like a few months ago, like over the summer. >> Okay. So new guy starts working there and then you start hanging out with with another man.
01:03:16
Brian Atlas>> Mhm. >> Okay. And then your boyfriend brings it up. How like cuz he knows he sees you with him. What? What? >> No, cuz like I would tell him that I would like hang out with him and he
01:03:30
Brian Atlaswould >> And the Okay, so the first time you told him >> Mhm. >> Hey, I'm hanging out with my male coworker at 9:00 p.m. at night. Um what what was his reaction?
01:03:43
Lauren (24)>> He was just kind of like, "Oh, haha." Like that's cool. Like he really didn't care at first. >> At first. Yeah. >> But okay, so you kept hanging out with him and then he at some point he had an issue with it. >> Mhm.
01:03:54
Brian Atlas>> Okay. And so the first time he raises the issue is a couple weeks in, >> probably like a month or so. >> A month or so in. Okay. Does he go about it politely then?
01:04:08
Brian Atlas>> No. >> Okay. So, putting aside that he's doesn't like the guy cuz the guy I I was the guy single, the coworker. >> Yeah.
01:04:19
Brian Atlas>> Okay. He doesn't like the guy. He thinks the guy's trying to move in on his girlfriend of three, four years, whatever. Um, >> he you say he's dis he's talking disrespectfully about the other guy, by
01:04:31
Brian Atlasthe way, the guy who's not your boyfriend. Um, how are how's he being disrespectful or rude to you? Like how is he approaching it that you feel was not the right cuz you said he didn't go about it the right way. How
01:04:44
Brian Atlasso? >> Like I said, he was just being rude and not trusting me. >> But but what when you say he wasn't rude in and of it cuz he obviously look let's just go ahead and grant he was insecure.
01:04:56
Brian Atlas>> He didn't he didn't like your hanging out with this guy. Let's grant it. But when you was it just in and of itself him being rude that he didn't want you to hang out with a guy or like are you his tone wasn't good? >> Yeah, his tone.
01:05:08
Lauren (24)>> Okay. How was his tone? Demonstrate it. >> Like angry like he would yell at me and I just >> the first time he brought it up. >> No, not the first time. Like later. But I just feel like >> but but but the first time he was like, "Hey, I'm not comfortable with this." Can you The first time
01:05:22
Lauren (24)>> Oh, the first time he was >> the first time. No, no, no. The first time he he raised the issue. Mhm. >> Tell me the the dynamic there. >> He was angry about it. He was like yelling at me and he was belittling me.
01:05:34
Brian AtlasUm and >> but so but I guess my confusion here is he was initially cool with it and then just light switch he he flipped or was this a thing progressively he became concerned with?
01:05:47
Brian Atlas>> If it was a thing that progressively he became concerned with he never brought it up to me. So it was like to me a light of >> Okay. Can you can you demonstrate his tone or voice? You can you can raise your voice. That's fine.
01:06:00
Brian Atlas>> No. I mean, he just like >> No. Okay. >> Well, I'm not going to raise my voice. Like, I I don't yell at He was just like yelling at me. >> I understand that's not something you would do, but to demonstrate for us
01:06:10
Brian Atlas>> so we can get an understanding of, you know, the dynamic. [snorts] >> So, what you remember earlier in the show where I was like, "My faux fo makes like when I was raising." Was it like that? >> I don't do that. No.
01:06:23
Brian Atlas>> Was it that crazy? >> I mean, kind of. Yeah. >> Okay. So, your boyfriend of three and a half years says you're kicking it at 9, 10, 11. What was
01:06:35
Brian Atlasthe latest you typically hang out with a guy? Cuz you said you got off at 8 9:00 p.m. >> Yeah. >> So, you guys could kick it. Were you guys living together? >> Who? Me and my boyfriend. >> Well, I don't know. You could be asking about the guy.
01:06:48
Lauren (24)>> Who else you living with? >> Well, you could be asking about the >> with the coworker you living with. I don't know. You just >> Were you living with your boyfriend? >> No. >> Okay. So, you would be um
01:07:00
Brian Atlaskicking it with the guy until midnight. >> Yeah. Sometimes >> 1:00 a.m. >> No. >> Okay. Around midnight. That's [ __ ] hours. That's [ __ ]
01:07:10
Brian Atlashours. Um that's not We're just platonic friend hours. That's I'm [ __ ] your girlfriend hours. Um, so anyway, but okay, I'm
01:07:21
Brian Atlasconfused though. Was the relationship up until co-worker situation otherwise? Look, people have arguments and disagreements in relationships. There's rocky patches,
01:07:32
Brian Atlaswhatever. Was the relationship otherwise good up until the coworker stuff? >> I wouldn't say so. >> Okay. So, there was other issues.
01:07:42
Lauren (24)>> Yeah. Was it related to jealousy >> on his part or were there other issues? >> Yeah, I guess no, I wouldn't say jealousy really.
01:07:53
Brian Atlas>> Okay. Um, was the relationship good at any point? >> Oh, yeah. >> Okay. If he had asked you not to hang out with this, assuming the relationship had been as good as it was earlier on in
01:08:07
Brian Atlasthe relationship, and he asked you not to hang out with this coworker guy, would you have done it? M no. >> Okay. So, even if you're in the most amazing relationship you've ever been in and the guy's perfect and amazing and
01:08:19
Brian Atlasthis could be the one. If he simply asks you not to hang out with a male coworker at midnight, you would tell him no. >> Well, it depends on how he would say it. >> Who car? Well, hold on. Whoa. Who cares
01:08:32
Brian Atlashow he says it? >> Because why do I have to like make decisions based on what he wants for me? >> Why would you have to make decisions? relationship. >> Repeat that [ __ ] please. >> Repeat that [ __ ] for me.
01:08:45
Brian Atlas>> Going back. The reason >> No, no, wait, wait. Before you go back, just repeat. >> Why would I have to make decisions based on >> the person who you love? Okay. Right. >> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Why would you have to
01:08:56
Brian Atlasever, you know, compromise in a relationship? Why would you That's what I'm saying. you know, try to please >> that was the big issue for me in our relationship was that he wasn't like
01:09:08
Brian Atlascompromising for >> compromising to allow you >> No, not for >> compromising to let you continue hanging out with your male coworker at midnight. >> No, not that. There are other issues.
01:09:19
Brian Atlas>> Okay. So, it was t for tat then. If you won't do this for me, I won't do this for you. >> No. >> Okay. So, I I'm Okay. I think this is the the problem that we're seeing in a lot of
01:09:32
Latricerelationships nowadays is that people are not establishing conversations to letting each other know what exactly they want. >> No, I think I was really clear with him several times what I wanted and I kept giving him chances and that was my mistake. >> Can I ask you something?
01:09:47
Miriam>> Yeah. >> Will it be I mean I guess if you were still in the relationship, will it be okay with you if he hangs out with a female coworker until midnight? >> Yeah, I don't care. And I told him that.
01:10:01
Lauren (29, healer)>> Yeah. I'm not so sure about that. People are sneaky. >> Yep. >> Girl TV, you were dead wrong for that. I'm sorry. >> Different boundaries, you know, in relationship. >> But so so in a in a
01:10:13
Brian Atlasif you were seeing a guy, are you saying that if he politely, you know, he was like, "Hey, look, I'm not comfortable uh with you hanging out with your coworker."
01:10:23
Brian AtlasWould you would you stop seeing the coworker then assuming he went about it he asked you politely? >> Honestly, yeah. Like probably.
01:10:33
Brian Atlas>> Okay. So, I think there's two issues here. I think with your boyfriend or girlfriend, this applies to both men or women. You should attempt to resolve
01:10:43
Brian Atlasthings in a measured, you know, you you should try to avoid, you know, screaming matches and yelling. That's bad. you you and look I understand also though sometimes hey something sometimes things
01:10:55
Brian Atlascan be really upsetting and sometimes you're emotional and sometimes you might raise your voice a bit I understand that too but I generally think yes it is best to try to you know communicate in a calm
01:11:07
Brian Atlasmeasured way without you know name calling or yelling or you know insults or anything like that but with a caveat that sometimes people we got to give people grace people
01:11:19
Brian Atlasaren't perfect sometimes people can be upset upset by things and they can, you know, say things or raise their voice when, you know, maybe in retrospect they wish they didn't.
01:11:29
Brian AtlasThere's two issues here, though. [sighs] I don't think you get to do this thing where like
01:11:37
Brian Atlasif if you cheat on your partner and they yell at you, that doesn't then give you some perfect get out of jailfree justification. Well, you raised your
01:11:51
Brian Atlasvoice at me and you yelled at me, so I'm going to continue the behavior that you dislike. In this case, I think we can acknowledge two wrongs. He shouldn't have raised his voice at you. However, he was correct on this particular issue.
01:12:03
Brian AtlasI think he has perfect justification for his 3 and 1/2 year girlfriend to not be hanging out with her male coworker at midnight. And if even though he didn't
01:12:12
Brian Atlasgo about it the right way, you then snipered in, narrowed in on, oh well, now that your tone was inappropriate, I'm going to use that as permanent
01:12:23
Brian Atlasjustification to continue doing this behavior that you dislike. Two things can be wrong at the same time. In this case, you should have had a separate conversation with him. Hey, I don't like
01:12:35
Brian Atlashow you're talking to me, but also I understand that this is upsetting to you. I care about you. We've been dating for three and a half years. If this really bothers you, I won't hang out
01:12:47
Brian Atlaswith him. But do you think it's inappropriate for somebody in a relationship to not want their significant other hanging out with uh somebody of the opposite sex late at
01:13:00
Lauren (24)night? >> I mean, no. Like I feel like that's not unreasonable, but like I don't know. Like I said, like if he had a female co coworker like that he was hanging out with, like I wouldn't have a problem
01:13:12
Brian Atlaswith it. >> Well, I understand that you wouldn't have an issue with it, but there's not perfect symmetry all the time in respective boundaries in a relationship. What might be okay
01:13:24
Brian Atlasfor one person might not be okay for the other. Um, >> it's like it's like an unspoken rule when it comes down to relationships. >> I mean, maybe we can ask the panelists
01:13:35
Brian Atlashere. Uh, and look, some people are more okay with certain things in their relationship, friends with the opposite sex, that sort of stuff. Those of you who've been listening to what she's describing here, would you be okay with
01:13:46
Brian Atlasyour boyfriend of three and a half years going to hang out with a female co-orker at midnight regularly a after the shift? >> No. >> No. >> I'd feel a little weird about it. I'd want to have tabs. Yeah. >> No,
01:14:00
Nyx>> absolutely not. >> Wouldn't be cool with it. >> This would be a talk. Like I wouldn't just let it slide. >> That would be a whole conversation. >> Okay. >> Yeah. And I have to say like I was in a similar situation where like I was in your shoes and guess what I did? I set
01:14:11
Nyxboundaries and I stopped talking to the guy.
01:14:17
Brian Atlas>> Wait, sorry. Hold. Um Nick, did we do the I just want We got We can't have a flash. Dick. I got >> Oh, man. Um, >> no. I didn't do a painting check. [laughter] >> Are you wearing You are wearing um
01:14:31
Brian Atlasunderwear. >> Yeah, I have boy shorts on. >> Okay, good, good, good, good, good. Sorry. We We were about to get a >> either either a [ __ ] slip or a dick slip. I don't even know. I don't even know what could have what could have
01:14:41
Brian Atlashappened. Okay, so um Okay, so in a future relationship, just curious though, if you were dating this guy and he said, "Hey, I'm not comfortable with this." would what what would happen
01:14:55
Lauren (24)>> in a future >> obviously not talk to him? >> No, I'm sorry. >> In a future relationship, >> I mean, if there weren't like the pre-existing issues that we had, then I would probably be more okay with it.
01:15:07
Lauren (24)>> I mean, y'all should have probably broken up at 3 years, 2 years. >> I'm saying and that's why I said I've tried to break up with him in the past and like I just couldn't do it. But >> when you say you couldn't do it
01:15:18
Brian Atlas>> like >> cuz I've had this experience with women and maybe y'all have had like and it's kind of scary, not going to lie. Maybe it's probably scarier for women a little bit. I think
01:15:31
Brian Atlaswhere like you try to end things with somebody and they don't really take like they're little the they they don't take no for an answer. >> Yeah. Like I've done try to break up
01:15:41
Brian Atlaswith chicks and it's like stalker situation like >> you know and or or you know they're
01:15:51
Brian Atlasthey're they're persistent. I've also had the p not like scary stalker but like they're they don't no they they keep no can we get back together? Can we come back? You know, >> so when you say you tried to break up
01:16:04
Brian Atlaswith him, >> like you like you you said, "Hey, I'm sorry, Bill. I can't. It's over." Or you you wanted to break up, but you didn't have the courage.
01:16:17
Lauren (24)>> Oh, no. There were a couple times when I said like, "We need to break up." And like >> And then what happened? >> And then I just like kept going back to him because I don't know. Part of me was like the I guess safety and comfort of
01:16:28
Brian Atlasbeing in a relationship for so long. So you would you guys would do the the sort of a breakup >> and when you say you would go back to him like how many times did the breakup things happen? >> Oh like two or three times.
01:16:40
Lauren (24)>> Two three times. And you you would go back to him? >> Yeah. Like >> I mean he would reach out to me. He would he'd be like sending me like long text messages being like oh like come on we can work this out or whatever. And
01:16:51
Lauren (24)like I would like >> give in. Okay. All right. All right. Um, >> and I'd like to also say I'm not justifying like I'm not trying to say like I'm right or whatever. I'm just
01:17:02
Lauren (24)like a very independent like kind of like headstrong person and like I'm going to hang out with who I want to hang out with. And if I'm in a relationship, yes, I can like respect
01:17:12
Lauren (24)what like my partner wants for me and make compromises and stuff, but like there's a I don't know. I just feel like as many things as I kind of like
01:17:24
Lauren (24)not gave up for him but just like had to compromise my time and what things I wanted to do for him like and it wasn't in his case even for like a person like
01:17:34
Lauren (24)I just feel like he could have been a little bit more like respectful and yeah so I'm not saying that I'm right but like I said the last few months like I had been checked out kind of so when he did break up with me I was just kind of
01:17:47
Brian Atlaslike okay >> but him getting mad Maybe this this is going to come across the wrong way, but he was invested in the relationship. >> No, he wasn't. >> You think?
01:17:58
Brian Atlas>> Okay. Well, look, I don't know all the details. I could be wrong, but [sighs] he was My impression would be he's fighting for the relationship. He's like, "Yo, this is a problem. This is a
01:18:11
Brian Atlasproblem." The the whole hanging out with a co-orker guy. And like I mean if it was me like if I was dating a girl and I was like hey listen uh I'm not comfortable with you hanging
01:18:21
Brian Atlasout with this co-worker guy at at you know well at any time but at midnight I'm not comfortable with you hanging out with a co-orker and she gave me any
01:18:30
Brian Atlasattitude about that. It's over. I'm not going to I don't do friction in relationships. I'm not going to do that. Like it's over. Mhm. >> You have any push back against me on
01:18:43
Brian Atlasthat, you want to do that, that's cool. Be single. That's fine. I'm not going to I'm not going to, you know, negotiate with you.
01:18:54
Lauren (24)So, but he was he he was from my perspective. Again, I don't know all the details. He was fighting for the relationship. >> Okay. I mean, but that was also one of my problems is that I felt like he only
01:19:06
Lauren (24)fought for the relationship like when I was literally having to like threaten to break up with him basically. [gasps] >> I don't know. I don't know how you get around the whole hanging out with a co-orker thing at at >> I'm not trying to get around it. Like I said, it's over. It's
01:19:19
Brian Atlas>> you said you're like headstrong. You're independent. >> Yeah. >> Maybe you should just become a nun. Well, >> I don't know if you have the chops for either you got to date like a guy who >> independent and headed strong women can
01:19:31
Lauren (24)still be in like relationships. >> I mean, you just got to be on the same page with the person. >> I mean, I'm not getting into the whole backstory of me and this guy because like there's was much more
01:19:43
Brian AtlasI'm sure there's a lot, but >> I don't know. I I think that uh look if you're sure headstrong
01:19:53
Brian Atlasindependent women I independent and being in a relationship can depending on what you mean by independent is sort of contradictory to a degree. I guess
01:20:05
Lauren (24)>> depends a bit on what you mean by independent. I just mean like I don't I'm not like a codependent or I'm not like relying on a man or like if he can't do something with me like if he can't hang out with me then yeah I'm going to go like Six Flags by myself or
01:20:17
Brian Atlasdo something like that and I don't mind like I'm not going to throw a fit about that. >> I think it's okay to do things alone. I think it's okay to want you know your own I'm in that same way. I I enjoy my
01:20:27
Brian Atlastime alone. I don't I can't be uh hanging out with somebody 24 like I need my own time. I need to decompress. Uh,
01:20:36
Brian Atlasso I guess I understand that, but I I think that it's not uh I don't think it's a crazy ask in a relationship to be like, "Hey, [laughter]
01:20:48
Brian AtlasI I don't think it would be an infringement on your independence or your you being headstrong to acknowledge like I don't know how far do you take it?" Like would it be an
01:20:58
Brian Atlasinfringement of your independence if a boyfriend was like, "Hey, I don't want you to [ __ ] that guy." >> Well, that's different to me. That's different.
01:21:09
Brian Atlas>> And there might be some men and women out there that you can date that um will be okay. Oh, you want to just hang out with an person of opposite sex? Whatever. Don't care. You should date. I
01:21:20
Brian Atlasthink you'll But I think honestly, you ask most people. I think most people will have an issue with the situation as described. >> So people when they're in relationships, they can't hang out with people of the opposite sex.
01:21:33
Latrice>> I mean, >> I think there is a degree of impropriy generally speaking. >> Yeah. Cuz when it when it does come down to that, you have to take consideration of what may happen if you make that decision.
01:21:46
LatriceYou know what I mean? Like when you're involved in a relationship, you have to think to yourself, "This person may not like what I'm doing here. I need to talk to that person first, not just make that decision right off the
01:21:58
Brian Atlasbat." >> Okay, >> I'll move it on though. Just I don't want to beat a dead horse. My You broke up with him, the four-year
01:22:09
Brian Atlasrelationship guy. How long ago? >> Well, like a month and a half ago. And you've been dating this new guy for three weeks. >> Like two two or three weeks.
01:22:19
Brian Atlas>> A few. You said a few weeks. Um >> did you know that? How did you meet this person >> on a on a dating app? >> Okay. So, this is fresh. Like you you did not know this person? >> No. No. >> While you were dating your ex?
01:22:33
Brian Atlas>> No. >> Okay. It's pretty quick rebound. >> Like I said, I was checked out for the last few months, so I was ready to move on. My philosophy is um Wait, he broke up with you or you broke up with him?
01:22:45
Brian Atlas>> He broke up with me. >> Okay. My philosophy is uh typically it can sometimes be a bad look if like you're in a relationship and then you're with somebody new like
01:22:55
Brian Atlassuper quick. The person being broken up with they can do whatever they want. that I think that's like uh in terms of the bad look like if you break up with somebody and you're with
01:23:07
Brian Atlassomebody the next day or the next week that can be hurtful to the other person but if you're doing the breaking up and
01:23:15
Brian Atlasyou got somebody the a week later if you got dumped the other person can't complain. I think that's my perspective.
01:23:25
Brian Atlas>> That's fair. >> So pretty quick. Pretty quick. But hey, you got broken up with, so I think it's fair game. What about you? Relationship status. >> Uh, married and I've been with my husband for 9 years.
01:23:39
Brian Atlas>> Kids? >> Kids? I have two. One 77. >> One's seven. How long have you been How long were you with your uh husband before you were married?
01:23:52
Brian Atlas>> Cuz you were Sorry. You're married for nine years or together for nine years? >> We've been together for nine years. I'm sorry. Married for seven. >> Okay. Okay. So, you have one kid from your husband. >> Yes. >> And then a kid from a previous relationship. >> Yes. >> You're a kid, right? Not like a step
01:24:06
Brian Atlaskid. >> H. So, my my >> bio kid. You're a bio bio kid. >> Yes. >> Okay. Um, so two kids. >> Mhm. >> Okay. Two different fathers, correct? Okay. Uh, the 9-year relationship, is that your longest relationship?
01:24:20
Latrice>> No. >> Which one? How long was your longest relationship? >> Uh, my previous marriage was 10 years. >> You've been married twice? >> Yes. Okay. Uh I >> was married. >> And that was your other kid, correct? >> Yeah, my oldest.
01:24:32
Brian Atlas>> I see. Okay. >> Uh your oldest kid is 17. >> Yes. >> Okay. So you uh teenage pregnancy? >> No. >> Or just the cut off? Well, you're 37, right? >> So I was 20 when I had her. She's going
01:24:44
Brian Atlasto be 17. >> But hold on. >> I was 19 when you got I was pregnant at 19. >> Teenage pregnancy. Teenage pregnancy. But you gave birth.
01:24:55
Brian Atlas>> You gave birth. Uh at 20. Okay. Um [laughter] gotcha. So um >> uh Okay. Who initiated the divorce for the first marriage? >> Um unfortunately I initiated the
01:25:09
Brian Atlasdivorce. >> Okay. Um does he pay you child support? >> No. >> Has he ever paid you child support? >> No, I did not ask for it. >> Do you have split custody? >> I >> or full custody of your first >> It's full on both ends.
01:25:22
Brian Atlas>> We we never initiated that in the courts. So, does he visit or? >> Yeah. >> Okay. Is it Wait, sorry. So, shared custody or >> Yes, I guess I >> Okay. Okay. I thought you said full custody. >> Yeah.
01:25:35
Brian Atlas>> Well, is it shared custody or full custody? >> I I mean, wherever she wants to go, she makes that decision. >> They don't have a court order. >> There's no court involvement. All right. You guys figured it out without the
01:25:48
Brian Atlasinvolvement of the legal system. That's good. Yeah. >> Um, >> hate it. But you you did dissolve the mar uh the marriage, right? You got a divorce. >> Yes. >> Uh does he pay did he pay you alimony?
01:25:59
Miriam>> No, I didn't ask for that either. >> All right. Pretty reasonable. Um okay. And uh what about you? >> Uh well, I don't know. >> Relationship status?
01:26:12
Miriam>> Well, as far as I know, I'm still married despite leaving him for over >> When's the last time you saw >> years now? Uh well back in 2013 when I left Saudi Arabia. >> Okay. >> He is married and he has a child.
01:26:24
Brian Atlas>> Well, you're separated. Fair to say. >> Yes. >> Okay. Um so you're still legally married though? >> As far as I know. >> Okay. Um and you were married in Saudi Arabia. Is that correct?
01:26:38
Miriam>> Yeah. >> Did Where did you live in Saudi Arabia? Was it What's the name of the big city? Riyad. >> No, I It is. Yeah, that's the capital, but I I wasn't there. Yeah, I was in the eastern province.
01:26:50
Brian Atlas>> What's the name of the city? >> Uh, hu. >> Oh, yeah. That's a nice >> That's a That's [laughter] a nice name. I like it. >> Um, so, okay, but you're separated. I
01:27:02
Brian Atlasunderstand. I understand the legal technicality there, but are you dating anybody? >> Uh, no, not right now. >> Okay. So, you're single. Uh, h how long have you been single? >> For like a decade. >> 10 10 years.
01:27:14
Brian Atlas>> Have you been celibate for? >> Uh, for for the most part. Yeah, >> you've been celibate for >> 10 10 years. Like, was Obama still president the last time you [laughter] had sex?
01:27:26
Miriam>> Really, Brian? >> All right. You know, [ __ ] >> So, there there are questions. I I prefer to keep them, you know. >> Sure. That's okay. All right. We get the idea. We get the idea. >> I'm I'm single. >> Uh you have a kid, correct? >> Correct. Yeah. >> One kid.
01:27:39
Brian Atlas>> Yes. >> Okay. From your marriage? >> Correct. >> Okay. Have you done any dating in America? >> Yes. Okay. Have you ever pulled a rabbit out of your [ __ ] Okay.
01:27:51
Brian AtlasSorry. Sorry. Sorry. I'm sorry. That was so vulg you're a magician. I had I'm sorry. >> So bad. >> You don't have to answer that. >> I don't know. Sexy magician, you know. >> Yeah. >> Sorry. That was >> that >> my a the autism.
01:28:04
Miriam>> It is. >> The autism [ __ ] got me. Um >> Okay. So, um, that would be kind of hot though if you're like >> there is actually a magician who did that >> who does magic.
01:28:16
Miriam>> He he gets a lady supposedly from the audience. Um, he lay her down and then he pulls up a rabbit from between her legs. >> Whoa. Nice. >> That's cool. But
01:28:28
Brian Atlas>> that or maybe not. Maybe that's inappropriate. But um yeah, that would be kind of hot though. Like if you're having sex with a girl and then she just starts doing magic tricks. >> Like that'd be
01:28:41
Miriam>> Oh, I thought you would say she pulls a rabbit out. I was like, "What kind of strange?" >> No, that would be alarming. That would be really alarming. >> I freak out. >> No, she's [laughter] she There's like a fireball or something and >> Yeah.
01:28:54
Latrice>> Again, freak. >> Yeah. I mean, this is [laughter] how >> she's doing like slide of hand. >> Well, I Well, usually >> I can make your dick disappear. I >> have you guys tried the O method
01:29:06
Lauren (29, healer)>> kind of first date. So >> what was that? The O method where you manifest while you >> Yeah, >> I've heard of it. >> What is it? >> Where you manifest while >> it's the idea that when you orgasm it's
01:29:18
Nyxlike that's your like highest vibrational intensity in the universe. So it like attracts [laughter] it's like the power of attraction. >> Yeah. >> Not to say that I necessarily believe in it, but that's what it is. >> I feel like it works.
01:29:29
SPEAKER_00>> Claim donated $200. Hey, Brian. Back in the States, emo bangs. Most of us are high earning good men who enjoy a laugh. Purple shirt. If
01:29:40
SPEAKER_00someone is emotionally invested, you have to respect their wishes. Reciprocate. >> Do you want to respond to that? >> I mean, I was also emotionally invested
01:29:52
Brian Atlasfor so long and I feel like he didn't reciprocate. So, >> okay. Well, uh you know, you know how it is. Uh, sometimes things happen. Uh, but uh, you know what? To be fair, like
01:30:05
Brian AtlasMetalheads, they're pretty chill. >> Those guys are pretty chill. >> Depends. >> They're pretty They're pretty good. They're good people. They're good people. >> Uh, yo, Trisha, thank you for the merch
01:30:15
Isabellapurchase. Um, I'm going to have uh, Isabella, you get to read. >> For the panel, how should a man correct a woman he's with if he asks nicely and she still doesn't change? >> Yelling at her is verbal abuse. Putting
01:30:28
Brian Atlasa hands on her is physical abuse. Ignoring her is emotional abuse. Not paying for a [ __ ] is financial abuse. >> Thank you, Northumberland. Mister, we're going to answer that. Trisha, thank you for the Looks like you bought a hoodie
01:30:40
Brian Atlason the merch store. Thank you, Trisha. Uh, so ladies, uh, for the panel, how should a man correct the the woman he's with? >> Well, he shouldn't be saying correct. Like, what? I think it's related to her
01:30:52
Lauren (29, healer)situation where it's like, >> you know, >> no, but that's where he got it wrong cuz he automatically went to I need to correct her and it's like >> I think that's okay. I'm fine with correct.
01:31:03
Latrice>> Well, I'm not to be fair. Do don't we correct our men when they're having poor behaviors? >> Yes, >> I I would No, >> I would say have a discussion but not correct. >> Oh, we do in fact do it sometimes. I
01:31:14
Latricemean, I'm I'm guilty of that myself sometimes, you know, but that's something that >> I just feel like that's controlling language. >> We shouldn't be correcting our partners. >> We can correct ourselves and our behaviors.
01:31:27
Lauren (29, healer)>> We should be addressing our partners, not correcting them. I think >> Yeah. Like I think it's okay to set boundaries and like have that discussion. But like correct, I think is where it automatically went to like cuz he's talking about well if I do all
01:31:39
Lauren (29, healer)these other things it's abusive. But it's like, well, yeah, cuz you started off correct like we're starting off with control. It's have a conversation. Yes, set boundaries and everyone has different boundaries. Like some people
01:31:50
Latricecare about social media and likes and some people don't and that's where it leads to correct but that would naturally follow this is a very correcting our own behaviors when
01:32:02
Brian Atlaswe are being talked to about certain things that we disagree with. >> Mr. North umberland, thank you for the super chat. I do appreciate it. Thank you. Thank you. Uh, okay. Um, that's
01:32:13
Brian Atlaseverybody's relationship status. I have We have some really interesting things to get into. Oh, we need to do her trans thing. Her her [laughter]
01:32:23
Brian Atlas>> her video the [ __ ] does that mean? Her trans thing. Um, we [snorts] need to uh not just quite yet. I did want to quickly ask um so you're from Saudi
01:32:33
Brian AtlasArabia. Um, is anybody here, anybody else here like born in a different country or have citizenship of from a different country >> or like maybe you're second generation
01:32:44
Brian Atlasimmigrant like your parents came from like uh, you know, Mexico or Peru? Wherever somewhere? >> My mother came from Mexico. >> My mom came from Mexico. >> I'm first generation. Yeah. >> What What's your background? >> Philippines.
01:32:56
Lauren (29, healer)>> Both your parents Philippines. Okay. >> Anybody else? >> Lauren? No. >> No. >> Italian. What do you >> My last name's Italian, but it's from my stepdad. Um I'm Spanish and I'm also um
01:33:09
Brian AtlasNative American. >> Native American. Okay, gotcha. Um so your parents Mexico, your mom, Mexico, Phil, the Philippines, >> uh Mexico for you, and then Saudi Arabia.
01:33:22
Miriam>> I'm sorry about my eye because you keep doing >> Don't worry, [laughter] I have good control. Yes. >> Uh are you on the pathway to citizenship? Um well kind of so when you
01:33:34
Miriamuh when you grant the asylum uh basically you're just allowed to stay here um until you become eligible to apply for a green card. Only if you apply for for a green card is when you
01:33:46
Miriamyou know on the path of citizenship. You don't have to go that route but you can. >> Sure. Uh, okay. Question for you, you I guess you and you.
01:33:58
Brian Atlas>> In a morally neutral, blamefree hypothetical conflict between the United States and your birth country or the or
01:34:09
Brian Atlasoriginating country of your guys's parents, where neither side is right or wrong, to which country is your allegiance? uh with the America. >> Um
01:34:22
Brian Atlas>> so if America went to war with the Philippines, would you have allegiance to the United States or to the Philippines? >> Um I'd have to say like I'd have to like listen to what my family would want. Not that like I would
01:34:33
Nyxjust like automatically like go wherever they go, but like that would it depends on what they would want to do just as like a cultural thing. Like you listen to your family. >> What What do you think your parents would do?
01:34:45
Brian Atlas>> I have no idea. Are your parents are they first generation immigrants? >> Yeah, like they came here themselves >> from the Philippines. Okay. And have they though become citizens of the United States? Okay. They've naturalized. >> Yes.
01:34:57
Brian Atlas>> Okay. They have naturalized citizenship as far. Do you have any inclination? Uh, I know it's a bit of an interesting hypothetical, but you know, if if you were to ask them this question, hey mom,
01:35:08
Brian Atlashey dad, if United States went to war with the Philippines, would you be would your allegiance be to the United States or to the Philippines? >> I really have no idea what they would say because they don't really talk about that kind of stuff. So, I don't really know.
01:35:21
Brian Atlas>> Okay. >> But like, are you asking about like me personally, how I >> Yeah, because well, you deferred you said uh I would defer to my what my parents wanted. >> Yeah. Let's say your parents were not in
01:35:32
Nyxthe picture as it relates to this decision though. Um, >> would you be more would you have allegiance to the United States or to the Philippines? >> I'd say United States just cuz like I've never been to the Philippines really.
01:35:45
Brian AtlasSo, I wouldn't even like what am I doing there, you know? >> Now, what if your parents um cuz you you were saying, "Well, I'd have to see what my parents think." What if your parents were like, "Shit,
01:35:56
Brian Atlaswe're going back." [sighs] Well, if your parents went back to the Philippines, like if there's a war with the Philippines and they're like, "We're going back." Um, would you go back with them or would you stay here? >> I'd say so. I feel like there's like
01:36:08
Brian Atlasthere's very few things I would like convince me to leave my parents. >> Okay. >> Huh. Okay. >> How about your parents? They stay in the United States, but they say our
01:36:20
Nyxallegiance is to the Philippines. >> I would understand. I would probably agree with them, I think. >> But would your allegiance be to the Philippines? me personally. >> I should have you call them. [laughter]
01:36:32
Brian Atlas>> Boy, my dad doesn't even know I'm here. >> Can you text them? Like text them be like, "Hey, if the United States went to war in a morally neutral, blamefree, hypothetical conflict between the United States and the Philippines, uh, to which country is your allegiance?"
01:36:45
Brian Atlas>> I'd actually Wait, you dead want me, dude. Yeah. Yeah. Slide me a 20. Slide me a 20. >> Why Why the [ __ ] would I have to pay you for that? >> I'm joking. Um, yeah, just text them. Text them >> here to your Instagram. I'll I'll send you I'll actually send you the question
01:36:59
Brian Atlasto text them. >> Just copy and paste. >> Yeah. >> Do you want me to call her or text her? >> No, not call. Just text. Just text. Um I I'm going to send that to you. >> Um it's the It says [ __ ] up. It's like on a sticker. >> For you for if I don't know the United
01:37:12
Brian AtlasStates went to war with Mexico, where would your allegiance be? >> America. >> Okay. >> There's like a Hello Kitty sticker on it. And [clears throat] then uh for you, if the United States went to war with Saudi Arabia, to which country would your
01:37:25
Miriamallegiance be? >> First of all, they both are like good allies. So hypothetical, but >> um >> well, I I currently only have one
01:37:35
Miriamcitizenship, which is to Saudi Arabia. However, um and both countries, I cannot like uh issue a passport from either countries. Um, so I still like
01:37:48
Miriam>> I sent you some rights. Hold on. I I sent you the Instagram message if you want to copy and paste that. Go ahead. >> Um, so, uh, yeah, as I was saying, either countries would u, you know, allow me to issue a passport uh, at this
01:38:00
Miriampoint. Um, however, uh, this country provided me a safe home and my freedom uh, for me and my child. Um, it would suck for my family back home, but
01:38:12
Brian Atlas>> but are you on the pathway to citizenship? A uh well I I have not applied for the green card yet. I just got >> But is your son >> daughter >> or sorry daughter was he born sorry she was she born
01:38:25
Brian Atlas>> she was born in Saudi Arabia. >> Okay. Is has she become a citizen of the United Okay. >> Her her case is linked to mine. >> I see. Okay. Um I mean do you have plans to go back to Saudi Arabia? >> No. >> So you're going to stay here?
01:38:39
Brian Atlas>> Yeah. >> You're going to live here? >> Yeah. >> You're going to work here? >> Yeah. You're going to pay pay taxes here. >> Yeah. Well, I'm paying taxes here. I'm working here. I'm living here. >> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. >> Um so you I think you're about to get to the answer though. So to which country
01:38:53
Miriamis your allegiance? >> I did get to the answer though. >> I said I I Well, this country provided me a safe home and my daughter a safe home and freedom. Uh I would side with
01:39:05
NyxAmerica. >> Okay. All right. Let me know when you get an answer. Okay. >> She said America. >> Your mom said America. Yep. She said, >> "Yo, wilipino [laughter] mommy." >> I think I think it has to do with the
01:39:18
Nyxfact that yes, my parents did come here like from the Philippines, but they came here very young. My dad came here when he was two. My mom was 16. >> Okay. >> So, that has to do with it like definitely we're still like connected to our culture. It's more a matter of like
01:39:30
Brian Atlaswe're here. >> Yeah. Yeah. So, the question isn't like I think [clears throat] you can have allegiance to the United States and that's not a rejection of your culture of origin. It's not a rejection of famil, you know, if you have family that
01:39:43
Brian Atlasstill lives there, it's not like you have to break your bonds with them, but it's simply just like a pol your political allegiance in wartime. Um, so you know what's interesting? I think
01:39:53
Brian Atlasthere's actually something about uh first generation immigrants like who come here. So they basically they were born in a you know different different country. They come here, they're first generation immigrants.
01:40:05
Brian AtlasSecond gen would be like the children of those people. Uh, they tend to have more patriotism to the United States than their children. Just something interesting. I don't
01:40:16
Brian Atlasknow. I thought it was interesting. Um, question. Are you Muslim? >> Uh, well, I'm not religious. >> Not religious. >> But did you have to wear a uh hijab? >> Yeah. Well, not not just the hijab. Like
01:40:29
Miriam>> what do they wear inside? Is it the the nikhab? >> Correct. But where where I grew up? Um when I was a child even the nikab would be like too much too revealing
01:40:40
Miriam>> nikab nikab is the one where the eyes only the eyes are showing >> there there's the burka the >> burka is different then uh the burka is um it's something that traditionally um
01:40:52
Miriamlike wearing in like emirates and stuff like that just it's like a small mask thingy on the face that doesn't even cover the face covers the entire face with the exception of the eyes um that
01:41:03
Miriamwas uh being considered too revealing where I grew up. Uh >> Oh, wow. >> So, uh we were forced to even cover the eyes. >> Damn. >> How do you see? Is it like a mess? >> That's a good question. Uh you don't have to see.
01:41:16
Miriam>> Oh, [clears throat] actually >> W S Saudi [laughter] Arabia. >> No, no. Well, actually, when the fabric is close to your face Oh, see through a little. >> It's kind of see-through, but like still like at night and when it's dark, like it would be tripping and falling and everything. So,
01:41:30
Brian Atlas>> but they don't care. >> Uh let's see. What do we have to get? We're going to do normally we do this a little later on in the show, but we're going to actually do it right now. Um Oh, really? Okay. We'll do the rating,
01:41:41
Brian Atlasthen we'll do But first, we have to do her videos. Uh Nick, let's go ahead and do those. Guys, if you're enjoying the stream, like the video. $100 read, $200 TTS.
01:41:51
Isabella>> Are in the US or Israel? >> Go ahead. Play. [snorts and laughter] [music]
01:42:00
SPEAKER_08>> What the [ __ ] >> [music] >> That's [ __ ] disgusting. Oh, I want to go home. Damn, they use the tongue and [ __ ] [ __ ] >> I'm break. >> Excuse me.
01:42:13
Lauren (29, healer)>> No, but then I got to tell you something. >> What? [music] >> Hi, Key. >> I'm trans.
01:42:23
SPEAKER_04>> I'm trans. >> A You're lying. >> [music]
01:42:32
SPEAKER_09>> [ __ ] >> What do you mean by that? [music]
01:42:41
Miriam>> Imagine though if it was his first kiss and he's like so excited to kiss a girl and then he's like >> what is she not a girl? >> Is that guy contact? >> Is that a color contact or does he actually >> It's not a contact.
01:42:53
Brian Atlas>> So he actually has heterocchromia. >> I think so. >> That's where people two different eye colors. Um, >> yeah. >> So, um, what h So that went kind of
01:43:02
SPEAKER_04viral. Um, did he end up smashing or? >> Um, no. But we're still, um, like talking. >> Did he care? Really?
01:43:15
Brian Atlas>> Um, [laughter] I mean, obviously it was kind of shocking, but >> I feel like you were on a boat. Was that a boat? >> Yeah, it was like an ones. Listen, there's
01:43:27
Brian Atlas>> you can't >> you can't do that [ __ ] on a boat. >> He's trapped. [laughter] >> Or she is trapped. But I was about to say >> it's not even >> because of the implication.
01:43:44
Lauren (29, healer)>> What implication? >> Well, you know, if you bring a woman on a boat because of the implication, >> it was honestly like it just happened so fast. >> What I'm referencing. Okay. Sorry. Go ahead. I don't know. Everything happens so fast.
01:43:56
Brian Atlas>> Always funny and don't get >> Oh, I get you. >> It's a because of the implication. Nobody. [snorts] Okay. They don't watch TV, I guess. Sorry. Um, so what happened so fast? >> Just like everything I did obviously
01:44:09
Brian Atlasdidn't anticipate like Oh my god. I'm going to trick him. >> Wait, can you hold Can you I have small hands, but >> Okay. Wow. Though you uh you do have
01:44:20
Brian Atlaslarge hands. >> Yeah. I mean, >> to be fair, I have very dainty man hands. I don't have, you know,
01:44:31
Lauren (29, healer)>> I have friends that are like same size hands as me. Like, I feel like not every feature is going to be perfect, and that's okay. >> I feel like nails make your hands look bigger, too. >> True. >> Mine's not so tiny if I'm magician. >> Do you have a nose?
01:44:45
SPEAKER_04>> You're not even >> Do you have a nose job? >> You have a nose job? >> Yeah. >> You said you had no surgery. >> I thought you meant like >> That's not gender surgery. Yeah, that's cosmetic. >> But yeah, I meant like any procedures. >> Oh, I thought you meant like that. But
01:44:57
Brian Atlasthat's the only thing. >> Like, but you have boobs, lip filler. >> No. >> Okay. >> Was the nose drop like gentle firming? >> No, it was like >> I just wanted it period. >> Yeah. Her lips look natural. >> You thought I had lip filler period. [laughter]
01:45:10
Brian Atlas>> Oh, >> it's just like lip liner. So, [clears throat]
01:45:19
Latrice[laughter] >> what? >> I mean, come on, Brian. They make these lip glosses now where they actually >> wer in the chat.
01:45:29
Lauren (29, healer)>> So, your Wait, question. You said your stuff doesn't work. Your your equipment doesn't work. >> Yes, it does not. >> It doesn't. >> I have no testosterone.
01:45:41
Lauren (29, healer)>> She explained that earlier. I have no testosterone in my body. So, wait, I'm going to get break or something. Like, it's not going to work. >> They I thought they could still get >> I don't I don't know. I mean, [laughter]
01:45:52
Lauren (29, healer)they like some will take pills. >> What are your pronouns, by the way? >> Are are you the she, her, they, them? What? >> It >> come. [laughter] >> No, I'm playing. Um, >> I mean, obviously she, but I don't like
01:46:05
Lauren (29, healer)force it like >> I don't want to be like my pronoun like, you know, I don't force it and everyone calls me she. It is ma'am. >> Yeah, I don't I'm not going to [laughter] >> It's always the number.
01:46:15
Brian Atlas>> I'm not going to force it. >> Me. Okay. Uh and then do we have video number? >> Oh, wait. Check my >> messages. >> Oh, no. Oh, hell no. Your ass got clipped.
01:46:28
Miriam>> I feel like he didn't answer his question though. Like when you go on a boat with someone like they invite you on a boat, the implications >> I'm so confused. Like genuinely, what's the implication? I don't get it. >> Terrifying. What if this guy would have
01:46:40
Latricedone some Yeah. >> Is this like in the echo park like swan boats? >> Yeah. >> Oh, >> bro. What's the implication? >> Yeah. I was like, she could have encountered someone that definitely
01:46:53
Isabellawould have been violent. Could have been >> [ __ ] detective back there. >> I guess >> he was streaming though, so I don't think he'd want to ruin his streaming reputation in public. >> Have you Have you done any Only fan stuff? >> No, I never will.
01:47:06
Lauren (29, healer)>> Never. >> I don't need to. W. Good for you. >> I don't know. I'm not convinced yet. >> I don't know. >> Well, is that why you're asking? >> Oh, yeah. I feel like a lot of people will like look for signs or like or like
01:47:18
Lauren (29, healer)when I tell them they'll be like, "Let me look for what can give it away." But I feel like all women like not nobody has like 100% feminine features. Like
01:47:30
Lauren (29, healer)some women, you know what I mean? There's really tall women, there's women like >> So, I don't know. Yeah. >> I don't I don't hate my masculine features. Like I like my height. I like
01:47:41
Latriceeverything about >> masculinity is not uh it's not exclusive to either gender. >> Both can have that. >> Uhuh. [laughter]
01:47:51
Lauren (29, healer)Is that like spy or something? >> Can you lift your neck? [laughter] >> No, bro. Stop trying to talk again. >> Stop trying to clock. >> Brian, I confirmed this to you earlier.
01:48:02
Brian Atlas>> I'm not getting cocked no more. I'm not doing this [ __ ] No. >> [laughter] >> wants to tap. >> Okay. All right. I don't know. I don't I'm >> I guess that's got to be a compliment,
01:48:14
Nyxthough, to a trans person if you're if you're questioning if they're actually a chick. >> Yeah, that's what I was saying earlier. Like, this is the biggest glaze ever. I'm like, >> it's not a glaze. I'm just [laughter] >> No, you're like, I do not believe this. Not for two seconds. Let me see it. Drop them.
01:48:26
Brian Atlas>> Because there is a phenomenon online, especially with like certain content creators, called trans fishing, like especially with OF girls. I know you don't do OAF allegedly.
01:48:39
Lauren (29, healer)I believe you. I believe you on the O of stuff where they like pretend to be trans >> and it's like a thing. >> Is trans even like beneficial in OF? Like why >> people fetishize it?
01:48:50
Lauren (29, healer)>> I feel like it would be more. >> I don't know. >> Like I wouldn't up our >> pee standing up or >> sitting down, bro. [clears throat] >> I my whole life I always sat down. My
01:49:01
Lauren (29, healer)dad used to beat me, bro. Oh, >> cuz I was in a lot like he wanted me to stand up. But >> hold on. Your dad beat you. >> Yeah. >> Because you would sit down to pee. >> How would he see? >> Well, he would just spank me. Well, no. Okay.
01:49:15
Lauren (29, healer)>> I'm just kidding. I'm kidding. >> No, when I was little. >> Like potty training. >> Just kidding. >> Yeah. Oh, no. Not potty training, but just like I don't know. >> That's weird. When you needed help going to the bathroom and he'd be in there with you, he'd be like, >> "No, but like >> Sorry, that's intrusive. I'm sorry."
01:49:28
Lauren (29, healer)>> Definitely like early age. like when I was little. But yeah, he would be like, "Uh, yeah." So he would like >> he'd be like, "Boy, stand up. Boy, stand." I'm like, >> "I don't want to sit up. >> Sit down." >> Oh, I see how it is. So like >> I always sit down.
01:49:41
Brian Atlas>> Damn. Okay. >> Like stand up. >> There's like There's other cultures where they actually encourage men to sit while they Yeah. I'm like, "Yeah, they don't." >> I've heard that. >> Uh, next video. Next video we'll do. >> There's There's videos we're going to
01:49:54
Lauren (29, healer)watch. >> Is this This is the next one. >> The same person >> I play. >> Same guy. Have you asked her? >> Quiet. >> Oh, this. >> Oh, you crying. I'm so sorry. >> Max the phone.
01:50:06
SPEAKER_04>> You're really a You really You're really a [ __ ] >> Not anymore. >> What do you mean not anymore? >> Like, I did the work and I'm doing the work.
01:50:16
Lauren (29, healer)>> So, you actually trans? >> Wait, that's a fake contact. Come on. >> Let's face. I'm sorry. Like, you made me want to cry, too. Like, I really didn't
01:50:26
Nyxmean to do that, too. So, I kissed a bigot. >> Sorry. I'm sorry. >> I'm sorry. >> Oh, a whole tear. >> Wait, is he actually crying? >> Yeah. Was he playing with you or was
01:50:40
SPEAKER_08this real? >> Bro, this is rage, bait. I [ __ ] This is [ __ ] >> It's like acting. >> This is rage bait. >> So, you think it's all fake?
01:50:50
Brian Atlas>> I I don't Look, I don't believe I don't know. Maybe you maybe you do have a penis, >> but I think that [ __ ] that you know people people like stage [ __ ] for content more than There's one more clip
01:51:04
Brian Atlasthough. We got one more clip. We got one more clip. >> I think I know which one. Oh, wait. >> Yeah. Play it. >> So, you're taking >> lie detector. >> Oh, lie detector. >> I never seen this clip. >> You were in it.
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SPEAKER_06>> I know, but I never seen it. >> You actually have a penis? >> Yes.
01:51:25
SPEAKER_06>> [laughter] >> No way. You actually had a penis. >> You heard the guy. [ __ ] >> Oh yeah, I'm cooked. >> Next question. >> Oh my god, I'm cooked.
01:51:38
Lauren (29, healer)>> Next question. He's looking at me like, [laughter]
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Nyx>> "So I kiss you and you have a penis?" >> Yes. Okay. Um, >> aren't these lie detector tests like unreliable supposedly? >> Yeah. Not. Yeah.
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Brian Atlas>> Yeah. >> Yeah. And apparently there's some that I I think some people say that guys kind of can sometimes be in on it. I don't know. I don't know. Um, >> I will say for my experience like
01:52:12
Brian Atlas>> Hey Nick, do you feel comfortable? >> No.
01:52:22
SPEAKER_14No.
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Taran (Deadly P)>> Comfortable with >> Oh my god. Wait, what are we asking? >> I know. >> He be not finishing sentences. >> Bro, you're the host. You're supposed to be talking. >> I was wondering if you were going to finish it. If you just going to sit there, you know, >> sensitism.
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SPEAKER_04>> Um, anyways. Wow. [laughter] >> You want him to take me to the bathroom and confirm? >> How does all this suspense? I mean, I didn't say that. >> That's an offer.
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Lauren (29, healer)>> But anyways, I will say I will say that like that guy um >> never like he wasn't in on anything. He literally just like I don't know. And he like showed his computer. It would show the heart rate.
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Lauren (29, healer)>> I guess it's just off heart rate, but there is a way to like finesse it. Like I was looking into it after. >> Bro, it's it's the voice.
01:53:12
Brian AtlasIt's like you talk like a girl. Like there's a certain certain but there's a certain way women like talk and either you've got that [ __ ] [ __ ]
01:53:25
Lauren (29, healer)wired. >> I I'm just myself but I did grow up like all sisters and like I never really had trans friends. I was always surrounded by like women like biological women. And >> Wait, you didn't transition until you were 18? >> Yeah. So like
01:53:37
Lauren (29, healer)>> So you went through puberty? >> Yeah. But my testosterone was so low that like it was like it was 90 when I got it. >> Are you interex? >> Winks are
01:53:47
Lauren (29, healer)>> uh her ttox like your testosterone was like the whole thing. Like that's what makes your voice large. >> Yeah, cuz I didn't have testosterone for
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Brian Atlasboo. >> Uh all right. Well, um, if some I would never ask this because I'm a professional, but if someone were
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Brian Atlasto ask you like, "Hey, just to verify, can I see your penis?" Like, would you do it or >> No. >> Cuz I would never ask that because I'm a professional. >> Okay. Okay. >> I'm just asking if somebody if somebody,
01:54:20
Brian Atlasnot me, not my producer, if somebody were to ask that, would you actually do it like as a verification process to see the penis? Um, like who? [laughter] >> Brian, it's giving Who's there? Who am I there for?
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Brian Atlas>> You get to pick. You want You want to pick? Like I mean Nick Nick's a better looking guy than me. >> I'll do whatever. Just kidding. No, >> I'm playing. [laughter] >> Nick, would you be comfortable with that? >> Bro, I'm not showing nobody my [ __ ] >> Yeah, she don't got to do that. >> I'm not showing nobody my [ __ ] at all.
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Brian Atlas[laughter] >> He could just [ __ ] around. We're messing around, guys. We're messing around. So, anyways, >> I wasn't. >> Anyways, uh we got [laughter] some more videos, though. We got some more videos
01:54:56
Brian Atlaswe got to get to um with Lauren, I guess. Nick, let's do that first video from my home girl Lauren here. First
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Brian Atlasfirst video. Um yeah, if you're enjoying the stream, like the video. Read 100. TTS 200 streamlabs.com whatever. >> W's in the chat.
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Brian Atlas>> Yes. >> Oh no. [laughter] >> You might have to lower the audio. >> This is a long video. You're going to play the whole thing. We'll play like a minute. >> Oh, no. >> Wait, Nick, is there >> if you guys >> uh the three the three dots at the top.
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Brian Atlas>> Yeah. >> Uh click it. Put the speed >> click. Uh 1.25. >> Whatever. Probably didn't me having >> like a 4m minutee video.
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Lauren (29, healer)>> All right. Ready? >> Yeah. >> Ever. Okay. Okay, if you guys if you guys ever have a date or a day with a single mom, don't cancel the day of. Okay. And I knew it though. I knew it though. I mentally prepared myself. I guess not enough, but I knew he was
01:55:59
Lauren (29, healer)going to cancel because normally they always check in the day of or the day before and he didn't. So, I was already mentally preparing myself and I gave him till a time frame like maybe he's just not, you know, he's older like maybe I don't know. They they tend to not
01:56:11
Lauren (29, healer)communicate as much over text and he tried calling me twice and I just happened to miss it. So, he actually did call me. Okay. right before that deadline that I made in my head because I'm like I would cuz it's not just my night, okay, that I
01:56:24
Lauren (29, healer)plan for cuz like here's the thing. Here's what everything has to go through. What snacks are going to have, right? What snacks? So, um are they still often enough of snacks so he doesn't choke when he's with the sitter? Do I have the choking machine set up for
01:56:36
Lauren (29, healer)the sitter? Um, then I also bought him toys yesterday to play with the sitter. So, they had like Play-Doh and like fun activities to play together because I'm also worried about the sitter as a sitter gonna like not, you know, [snorts]
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Lauren (29, healer)um, have a good time like like I want to make sure she has a good time with my son because if they don't have anything to do, they just put him in front of the iPad and if I'm paying for you, well, the guy since the guy's paying for you, you better be playing with my son. So, I buy activities so I play anyway. Long
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Lauren (29, healer)story short, got the activities, you know, got a pedicure, okay, cuz I didn't want crusty feet. And then today I went to go look at dresses because I just didn't like the dress that I had. I realized I don't have a [ __ ] purse. And so I'm like walking around and I'm
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Lauren (29, healer)thinking I'm like, but if he cancels it, you know, I can't get this anyway. And honestly, I couldn't even get it. Honestly, I didn't even get myself any like any justice or anything. So it was just like I don't know, you know. And he
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Lauren (29, healer)calls to cancel. And you know what he did? At first I thought it was like really nice, but then I ended up sending it back. And I know you guys are going to think I'm crazy, but he gave me $400
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Lauren (29, healer)because he canled. [clears throat] And at first I was like, well, I was like, I was wanting to see you. And then I was like, cuz I was sad. I cried yesterday cuz I knew he was going to cancel. So I was sad and I was like, well, at least I
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Brian Atlasdidn't get nothing out of this, you know, like. And then I was like, well, that's so sweet. But then >> go ahead and pause it. >> Uh, so we we kind of get the idea a little bit there. Um, one thing really quick before we dive into the reaction
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Brian Atlasto that video. There's a couple couple branched conversation from there. Okay. >> Uh, Nyx, it's 7:05 p.m. Do you want to take your birth control? >> I would love to. There it is, everyone. There it is. There it is.
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Nyx>> It's not a project placement, by the way. She just asked me to remind you. >> No, you want one? You want one? [laughter] I think it has progesterone or what? What? >> Yeah. Has hormones in it. I used to have to take them. >> Um, but I can't remember. She did ask
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Brian Atlasme. She asked me to remind her at 7:00, so I, you know, I got up. >> You're late. I'm going to get pregnant now cuz you >> Wait, [clears throat] what? >> Oh. >> Oh, >> it's supposed to be on the dot, but >> Oh, really?
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Brian Atlas>> Okay, we can uh talk after the show.
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Brian Atlas>> Oh, yeah. I might be. >> All right. [laughter] >> Uh, so anyways, I don't know. I'd rather not get a feminist pregnant. Um, I can fix her, though. So anyways, uh Lauren >> Okay. Okay, guys. Lauren. Okay, moving