She HIDES Being TRÂNS?! Single Mom DEMANDS Men Pay For Babysitter?! MlSANDRlST?! | Dating Talk 274
Date: 2025-12-22
Duration: 9h 27m
Identified Speakers
SPEAKER_02Taran (Deadly P)(guest)
SPEAKER_03Isabella(guest)
SPEAKER_05Lauren (29, healer)(guest)
SPEAKER_07Brian Atlas(host)
SPEAKER_10Latrice(guest)
SPEAKER_11Nyx(guest)
SPEAKER_12Lauren (24)(guest)
SPEAKER_13Miriam(guest)
Key Moments
00:00:24
IntroAll 8 guests introduced including trans woman and Saudi magician
00:07:47
Key MomentMiriam performs close-up card trick - first female magician on Whatever
00:45:08
Key MomentBrian reveals Taran is trans. Panel reacts.
01:41:49
Key MomentTaran's viral boat kiss + lie detector clip played
01:55:19
ControversyLauren-29 requires men pay babysitter ($60-150) for first date
02:00:47
Key MomentLauren's relationship price list displayed on screen
08:47:09
QuoteTaran says 'Country Texas' when asked to name a country
Topics Discussed
00:00:24
Guest Introductions
8 guests including Taran (trans woman) and Miriam (Saudi magician).
00:45:08
Taran Trans Reveal + Viral Videos
Brian reveals Taran is trans. Boat kiss video and lie detector played.
01:55:19
Lauren Single Mom Babysitter Requirement
Lauren requires men pay babysitter for first dates. Extended debate.
02:00:47
Lauren Price List
$50 per like on another girl, $100 per DM, $2000 for texting ex.
03:01:06
Self-Ratings
Lauren-29 rates herself 10. Miriam rates herself ~2.
04:20:18
Man vs Bear
Most choose bear. Brian draws racism parallel.
05:53:59
Bow Video
Brian shows ex bowing. Most debate submission.
08:47:09
Taran: 'Country Texas'
Taran says 'Country Texas' when asked to name a country.
Transcript
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04:56:05
Brian Atlasused to people disagreeing with me. I'm I'm used to people having different perspective and and world views. This is nearly episode 300. Uh if you think I'm a misogynist, I'm not going to be I disagree with you. I'm not going to be
04:56:18
Lauren (29, healer)offended. >> Mhm. No, I I obviously you're not going to be offended because your show, but um what that was my first impression obviously, but what you obviously
04:56:30
Lauren (29, healer)>> Sorry, >> you've obviously built something that is still >> my bad. I was >> something and then that we've been here, we've had meaningful conversations. So,
04:56:40
Brian Atlas>> that is an answer. Okay. Um let's see here. I guess we'll move moving along from that unless you did you have other quarrels or disagreements or whatever.
04:56:53
Brian Atlas>> Yeah, we'll do those. Um, but Lauren, you said that uh yeah, in an email you sent you said the conversations feel exploitative or >> dismiss because that that was me like literally after I deep like saw those
04:57:06
Brian Atlasclips, you know. >> Okay. Um Okay. Uh, [sighs and gasps] also you asked us [laughter] you asked us to pay for your babysitter. I'm not your I'm not your
04:57:18
Brian Atlasdate, Lauren. I'm not your date. I'm your potential person you're doing business with. >> I can't answer this question. Don't >> Don't we get paid? >> It's an interview. You don't get paid
04:57:31
Brian Atlasfor it, >> boy. Okay. So, anyways, moving on. Lauren, >> uh, I read on your Instagram. There's so much on your Instagram. I don't even think we'll have time tonight, but >> yeah, I know. >> But you describe yourself as a modern
04:57:44
Brian Atlashealer rooted in native ancestry. >> Yes. >> I do womb healing. So I do >> womb healing. >> Sexual healing with women who've dealt with trauma. >> Oh, okay. You Okay. You do EFT tapping? What's that?
04:57:57
Lauren (29, healer)>> Yeah. So, >> can you do it on her? >> Um, I can, but it I have to ask like person. Um, but >> Well, just can you do it on yourself then? >> Yeah. So like EFT tapping is like so for
04:58:08
Lauren (29, healer)example if you had difficulties with like confidence or something like that then if I had a a client with confidence issues >> I love how every time she says confidence she looks at me. Okay, keep going.
04:58:22
Lauren (29, healer)>> No, >> just let her. >> Sorry. >> Oh my god. >> Sorry. >> So we would just do like um we would rewire. You're essentially rewiring the brain, right? >> Show show us though. Show us the EFT tapping. You would just say something
04:58:34
Brian Atlaslike, "I'm powerful." And you would just keep doing that over your life. >> Can you do it like this? But >> no, but that's not your meridian. >> Oh, okay. The meridian. >> Is this scientific or is this more like spiritual?
04:58:45
Lauren (29, healer)>> No, there's actually science behind it that actual therapists do use with people who have extreme trauma. So, I want to do more cuz like I've had clients like we have breakthroughs in our sessions. So, I want to like also
04:58:57
Miriamget more certified before I do it more widespread. >> Genuine question. Is part of this like a placebo or is this like dead ass fullon scientific? >> No actual scientific law of attraction. >> How do you get certified for it? >> Erroneous. >> How do you get certified for it?
04:59:10
Brian Atlas>> Yeah, that's what I'm saying cuz it >> lady, hold on. I'm sorry. >> It's not material to the conversation. >> Mhm. >> You want to know the certification
04:59:19
Miriamprocess of EFT? >> No. Like I I was I was wondering.
04:59:28
Lauren (29, healer)>> Okay. Did you have to go to school for it? >> Um, no. But I I'm going back to school so that I can be more >> because I I think it's really important to respect that type of space with people. So like therapists like do >> So you took like an online class for the
04:59:42
Lauren (29, healer)EFT? >> Yes. >> But it has actual like data behind it that it helps people and I mean I've had personal experience with people that had breakthroughs
04:59:52
Lauren (29, healer)with um some like hard things that they go through. You also something about chakras. >> Yes. Well, part of your >> So what's that chakras? >> So if you're dealing with um SA
05:00:04
Lauren (29, healer)>> um then usually your root chakra is blocked which is the one that keeps you grounded. So women who deal with that we tend to start there with our root chakra and we do I'm safe. I'm grounded so that
05:00:17
Brian Atlasthey can attract like safe like relationships in their life. >> Okay. You also write that even though you identify as a feminist, you're comfortable dating traditional men and enjoy balance between your independence
05:00:29
Brian Atlasand partnership. You think social media sometimes overcomplicates these dynamics? >> Yeah. 1000. >> Okay. So, you identify as a feminist? >> Yes. >> As a feminist, do you believe in equality?
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Lauren (29, healer)>> What do you mean by that? >> What What do I mean by equality? >> As equality? Yeah. Yeah. I think every men and women are equal. >> I feel like every relationship should be equal and how you guys divide it is
05:00:54
Lauren (29, healer)individualistic. >> But you said you're comfortable dating traditional men and you enjoy a balance between your independence and partnership. >> Yes. So like if I'm going to have like a
05:01:05
Lauren (29, healer)baby then yes. Like like I said earlier like he needs to like provide the home so I can have a baby safely. But if I were to get in a relationship where I don't have a baby, then things would probably change a little bit because
05:01:18
Lauren (29, healer)it's just more of like when I'm vulnerable and in that type of position. Again, >> I guess my my question mark on this is
05:01:28
Brian Atlasfeminism >> and tradition are at odds. >> Feminism is modernity, tradition is tradition. >> And I think these two things are incompatible.
05:01:41
NyxI think they can come together because I feel like modern feminism is more based on like giving women the choice and like not not so much like it's like less of the expectation that
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Nyxwomen should be traditional like you have the choice to uphold that or to like be more. >> So what do men what choice do men have in this dime? >> Men still have the choice they can like they can look for a traditional woman
05:02:03
Brian Atlasthey can look for a modern woman. Do you think it would go over well with 99% of women if I said I want you to be the bread winner, soul bread winner, and I'm
05:02:15
Brian Atlasnot going to work and I'm going to stay home and take care of the kids. Do you think that that's going to limit my dating pool? 99% of women like I 1% of women might be
05:02:28
Brian Atlasokay with that. >> Sure. And that's why feminism exists to like start that push to make it more. feminism has been around for over 100 years. Uh women have had equal rights for a very long time unless you disagree
05:02:40
Brian Atlaswith that. Um women are participating just as much. If in fact I think there's recent uh studies and data coming out that actually in a you know a lot of fields
05:02:51
Brian Atlaswomen are uh women are out earning men in certain fields. Women are uh in I think in certain STEM fields women are there's higher participation rates. I believe in the legal field. It's I
05:03:03
Brian Atlasbelieve it's equalized. So, it's like, okay, well, all these women though, where where are they? Like, I'm just trying to kick it with the kids. I'll knock you up and I'll I'll take care of the household, but you got to go out and
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Brian Atlaswork. >> 99% of women, even if she's a feminist, it's not happening. Men don't have a choice. Men, at the very least, they got to do 50/50. But women, y'all have at least reserved the right in some
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Nyxinstances to stay at home. >> Well, I don't think that just because it's taken a long time or it doesn't look like there's progress that that like discredits it because I feel like there definitely still is this push and like more growth in that aspect.
05:03:40
Brian Atlas>> Are you a feminist? >> I would say that I'm a feminist. >> Would you be okay with a dynamic where you do the work and the man stays at home? >> If I could genuinely like find a job where I can take care of my man, yes,
05:03:51
Brian Atlas>> you would you would be okay with that dynamic. A man who has no career ambitions be beyond just taking care of the children. You'd be okay with that. >> If I can take care of our family and he can take care of
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Nyx>> the dates, you'll pay for the first date. >> Yes. >> You'll pay for the dates. >> This is not groundbreaking information. Yes. I was speaking about this last podcast, too. >> Okay. Well, I mean, >> it's just generally it would be really hard to believe because of the
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Latrice>> nicks. Well, >> in in Sorry. Sorry. Continue. Continue. No, I I No, I was I was going to let you, but I was I was saying that I find it I find it that is very difficult to believe, especially when modern women
05:04:27
Latriceare still expecting a man to pay on a first date. But hold on, because let's just see. We're seeing how it is right now where even in the times where us women have the choice to be able to
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Latricechoose whatever it is that we want to do with ourselves independently and individually, men still have to uphold the same values and the same traditions that are expected upon them. >> And again, I don't think that just
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Nyxbecause it's taken a long time for us as a society as a whole to come around on that aspect. I don't think that discredits the movement at all. >> I'm going to truly >> I'm going to provide >> Yeah. But
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Latrice>> I mean, sure, and that and that's for you guys, but generally speaking, women are not doing that regardless of it. Women are not doing that. And even if that's going to be the case, in most cases that women are out earning the
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Latriceman, they don't have respect for him. They don't. They just sit there and they look at him that like as though they want to have complete utter control over the relationship. >> A lot of men don't respect their housewife woman. A lot of men don't
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Nyxrespect their housewife woman. But like, okay, again, just because it's taking us a long time to come around on that doesn't discredit it. >> It's never going to happen. >> Realistically, you have to look at it from a general aspect.
05:05:39
Brian Atlas>> Nurture can only go so far. There's certain evolutionary psychology principles. There's biology at play. There's just phys physiological realities.
05:05:50
Brian AtlasI think I think nurture is a component, but you're not going to get rid you're not going to undo nature. >> Sure. And the reality is I I do think it is the case that evolutionarily speaking
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Brian Atlasthere is something in women where they want to be protected. They want to be provided for. I'm not saying it's I'm not saying you're 100 you don't have chains on your wrist where you are 100%
05:06:14
Nyxbeholden. It's not complete biological determinism. But there I don't think we can overlook that also. But then do you think that
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Nyxmen biologically have a need or like a want to protect and that's why women >> okay then sure if that works for us then yeah >> and that's why I say like that's why that's why I believe in feminism it
05:06:37
Taran (Deadly P)gives us a choice to like choose modernity or stay with tradition >> I I suppose but >> isn't the point of it to like break to tradition like wouldn't you be more so a feminist if you believe that you could
05:06:48
Taran (Deadly P)be the bread winner winner and still respect the man and the man the same respect you give a woman cuz if he's doing the same job that a woman is doing but we give them way more respect. It's literally the same job and they should get the same respect.
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Brian Atlas>> Well well also with feminism there are some uh notable feminists who are very much against the family. >> Yeah. >> Like there's some radical elements of feminism that are anti-uclear family. Anti-f family.
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Brian Atlas>> Yeah. >> Like I I don't know if it's Sally Miller Gearhart. I don't know if I'm even thinking the right person. some of these major feminists like and then their works are studied in feminist studies
05:07:26
Brian Atlasclasses or whatever. It's like we need to dismantle the traditional family. It's like your ideology is problematic,
05:07:38
Brian Atlas>> toxic feminine. >> But I mean, Nyx, in your questionnaire, >> and I know exactly where you're going to ask me. >> You circle men should provide, protect. Men should be chivalous. >> Husband should be willing to die
05:07:49
Brian Atlasprotecting me. Take the bullet. >> Uh chivalry, you know, you could say, "Well, I would provide. I would protect." Women aren't chivalous. Women don't do chivalry.
05:08:00
Brian Atlas>> Okay? So if men being chivalous is a traditional gender role, a traditional like shouldn't feminism be about a rejection of holding people to their traditional gender roles.
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Nyx>> Do you want to ask me why I said those answers? >> Because I believe that relationships should should go both ways. I I will take care of my husband. I feel like he should protect me because I will protect him because we're in a relationship and we take care of each other. And that's
05:08:26
Brian Atlaswhat I meant by that. >> Well well two things, right? So, but as it relates to chivalry, >> how do you define chivalry? >> It's certain specific acts. So, for example, I can give you examples of
05:08:36
Brian Atlasthese acts. So, um it could encompass protecting. It could be opening the car door. It could be observing the sidewalk rule so the guy walks closer to where the cars are moving in the in the street
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Brian Atlasor whatever in the sidewalk. Uh paying for dates. Although, to be fair, you didn't circle men should pay for dates >> because I don't believe that that's like a >> Can I ask you a question? How many first dates have you been on in your life? You think >> in my life? [ __ ]
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Brian Atlas>> By the way, some people want to do this thing with the term date. They want to say, "Well, um, well, I guess let's just Yeah, never mind. Disregard." >> Like, we just went out, we hung out, something was >> You got dinner? Yeah. >> Yeah. Something was paid for.
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Nyx>> Yeah. How many of those have you done? First dates, >> I want to say two. >> Okay. And what was the breakdown there? Was it split? Did he pay? >> Um, both times they paid, but I did offer and insist on splitting and they said no.
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Brian Atlas>> Okay. Well, I mean, >> can't get me here, bro. >> Well, a little bit, but the >> Well, if they're insisting and they're being nice about it, >> but you're the woman. You can insist. >> And I did insist and they shut me down. >> You can No. Well, hold on.
05:09:38
Brian Atlas>> Am I going to stand there at the register for 10 minutes debating with this guy or am I >> as you you decided to come here >> in furtherance? Well, hold on. In
05:09:48
Brian Atlasfurtherance of principle, like insisting is like no, no, no, no, no, no, no. Like I get that they're insisting too and that creates a bit of a stalemate or whatever, but um you should be like bit
05:10:00
Brian Atlasyou should this is how you could actually maneuver it. Listen, I get that you want to be nice or whatever, but I'm a [ __ ] feminist, Brad. [laughter] I'm
05:10:11
Brian Atlasa [ __ ] feminist, Brad. I'll [ __ ] leave this date if I insist we split it. I will not see you again if we don't split it. That's the level you got to go
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Brian Atlasto if you want to see your feminist utopia project actually come to fruition. >> I just feel like that's a that's too aggressive for a first. >> Don't you think it's really aggressive that guys are like, "No, bitch." >> Oh, well, yes, I do think that's
05:10:35
Brian Atlasaggressive. [laughter] >> Well, no. I'm saying that in a joking way. I'm not actually calling you that. No, >> I'm paying for that. That's kind of aggressive, don't you think? >> Well, yes, I do think that's aggressive, but it's not like they said it like that. like one okay on the one first
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Nyxdate >> saying they're calling you a [ __ ] >> when I when I say that like they insisted I literally mean like I was like no I'll pay for it and then he just tapped his card and I was like >> and I guess what can you do there? >> Exactly. That's why I'm like just next time tell the server to split the bill.
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Nyx>> Well >> and okay and I would have done that if I knew that they would have insisted that hard. But also like if they want to pay for the first date, like do I do you need you know like if they want to do a nice gesture, why would I shut that
05:11:16
Brian Atlasdown? You know what I mean? Like I'll pay for the second date or I'll pay for other stuff. >> Can you tell me what women do that that's chivalous? >> Um I feel like chivalry is like very a
05:11:27
Nyxvery masculine connotation, but like I think that chivalry is just like small acts of kindness to just like show someone that you care. So like for guys >> So what do women do? Um, I think that women can do the same thing that men do. Like
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Nyx>> they can, do they? >> Yes, I do. Like my my ex would open the door for me and from inside the car, I would open his car door on his side. >> You would lean over? >> Yeah. >> Okay. I mean,
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Nyx>> I would open his car door for him, >> but generally speaking, do women do that? No. And again, do you think that the slow movement of of a movement discredits it? >> I mean, the polite thing though is to get out of the car and open it like
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Nyxactually He lets me into the car and then I get back out to let him in the car and we're just going in circles >> back and forth in >> and you know what you're right and I should have done that. Oh [ __ ] I'm so stupid. I'm sorry. >> Uh [laughter] I Well, I appreciate you
05:12:17
Brian Atlasapologizing for that. That and acknowledging that. So thank you. Um >> okay. Um let's see here. Uh [sighs] all right. Well, uh let's pull up
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Brian AtlasLauren's Instagram. I wanted to review her Instagram really quick. Uh, just scroll down to the photo part, Nick. There's so much there. Unfortunately, we won't be able to hit everything. You got some hot takes on Instagram, Lauren. I'm
05:12:40
Brian Atlasjust saying. Yep. All right. Uh, oh, do you know how to swap this, Nick? >> Yeah. Well, control Z still work on this.
05:12:49
Brian Atlas>> No, probably not. So, here in the sources, in the sources, double click that and then just put it center. That That should be two, I
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Brian Atlasthink. Yeah. Okay. All right. Uh All right. Go ahead. That's It's fine. It's fine. Whatever. Dominance versus leadership. Can you click on that really quick?
05:13:15
Brian Atlas>> Can you try to put us in the corner like the thing? Do you see how there's like a gap? >> Yeah. >> That's weird. Sorry, guys. We're [ __ ] >> Huh?
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Brian Atlas>> It's I don't know. >> It's fine. Whatever. Um, dominance versus leadership. >> Mhm. >> Oh my. Wait, actually, you know what's
05:13:37
Brian Atlas>> this matters in partnership? Uh, tab through the photo. >> No. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Provoke next.
05:13:48
Brian Atlas>> I'm not going to bite on this one. X out of it. Uh, scroll down. Uh, do immature partners become abusive? Scroll down. Scroll down. You guys probably want to go to my reals for more hot takes.
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Brian Atlas>> Women are actually leading relationships and >> but my real >> scroll down scroll down. >> Uh, reverse the poverty. Why men make terrible leaders. >> Yeah.
05:14:12
Brian Atlas>> Uh, okay. So, you say why men make terrible leaders and why women are choosing life without them. Tell me why men make terrible leaders. Well, see, you have to scroll through my
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Lauren (29, healer)post because obviously I did that. >> You don't get notes. You don't get to read off of your notes on >> but what I'm saying is I did the same thing that you do here. You want to get attention. So, of course, I'm going to put something like that out to go on a
05:14:38
Lauren (29, healer)greater point. Correct. So, when you scroll through it, we're comparing what good leadership looks like and what bad leadership looks like. And the rest of my point is both men and women both need
05:14:49
Lauren (29, healer)to have some sense of understanding what leadership is because even women fall back on dominance in leadership and
05:14:56
Brian Atlasthat's why there's like an imbalance. >> Well, look, I I'm I'm not uh I don't really have a big qual with
05:15:06
Brian Atlaspeople having sensational titles as a as a hook, but the >> Can you pull it back up, Nick? Um, I'm assuming that you believe in the title,
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Lauren (29, healer)which is why men make terrible why men make terrible, >> you know, like then really quick, give me give us the 30 second rundown. Why do men make terrible leaders? >> Well, uh, in some relationships, I think
05:15:30
Lauren (29, healer)that some men fall back on dominance because they are like tend to be stronger and they tend to be the breadwinners and the financial providers. So, in the relationships that I've seen growing up, that's what I've
05:15:41
Lauren (29, healer)saw. So um when men fall back on dominance then it also you know creates that power imbalance in relationships and why men do that as well. But we kind
05:15:53
Brian Atlasof like went into like the psychology like why men fall back on dominance as well. >> Okay. Um next pull it back up. Nick I'm not going to push back on all of these just for the sake of time. >> Go to my reels. They're more interesting.
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Brian Atlas>> Okay. Well, we'll get there. We'll get there. Uh oh. Uh, click on the one with the IV bag. [laughter] Me after. Can you read that? Just the
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Lauren (29, healer)caption. >> Can you read it? >> The me. No, no, no. Me after. >> Wait, what? >> The subtitles. Me after. >> Oh, me after. Okay. Me after talking
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Lauren (29, healer)crap about men on the internet while one sent me an IV drip cuz I fainted yesterday. >> So, someone paid for it. >> Yeah. >> Aren't those like a couple hundred bucks? Yeah. >> Damn. Okay. Whatever. X out of it. >> But he was a guy that I was like seeing
05:16:43
Brian Atlasfor a couple weeks. >> Lame. Don't do that, man. >> Oh, >> don't take care of the girl that you're seeing. >> The only drip you should be sending her is from your >> penis. Okay. Good. >> Wow. That was
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Nyx>> Why would I even want to go? >> That was really good. That was a good one. >> That's what he would say. >> Dude, that was the perfect chance to plug your merch. Like the only drip you should be get. >> And he claims he's not a misogynist. >> Was that what the [ __ ] What the [ __ ]
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Brian AtlasWait, wait, Nick. I scroll back up. I I think we Scroll up. Oh, okay. I see. Uh, scroll down. Uh, >> that's what I'm saying. I have better hot takes on my >> single mother caring. >> I disagree.
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Brian Atlas>> Wait. A single mother caring for a child alone is juggling roughly five to eight full-time job. >> I totally hold on. The math Wait, wait, wait. Pull it back up for a sec. The math isn't math in five to eight
05:17:32
Brian Atlasfull-time jobs. Okay, so you work um a full-time job is typically 40 hours a week. You work from 9 to 5. >> That would uh you like an 8 hour shift.
05:17:42
Brian AtlasYou can there's only technically three 8 hour shifts in a day. 86 24 and you said what was it? Four to seven. What was it? Five to eight. >> 5 to eight. I'm sorry Lauren. Uh the you
05:17:52
Brian Atlasknow look math isn't my thing either. The math isn't math. And Lauren 5 to fulltime jobs. How many hours? Wait, Lauren, I'm going to ask you one of those questions. How many hours in a day? >> How many hours in a day?
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Lauren (29, healer)>> Yes. >> How many hours in a day? that. Oh, 24. >> Yes. Yeah. Yeah. See, >> well, >> but there's not enough time for five to eight full-time jobs. >> But that means that my jobs aren't as
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Lauren (29, healer)like good as I would want them to be. Like that means like I'm not cooking as many healthy meals as I would like cuz I'm exhausted. I'm not That's my point of that. >> Okay. So, >> I'm not able to, you know, sit down with
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Brian Atlashim more than I would like. >> Do Okay. All right. Well, uh, pull it back up. We got some more. We got some more. Uh, X out of that. Um, scroll down.
05:18:39
Brian AtlasScroll down. Am I a traditional woman or a modern? Okay. Wait, wait. Lauren. >> Lauren. [laughter] >> Women. >> Um,
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Lauren (29, healer)I want Can you say woman? >> Oh, yeah. I always You got to fix it. You got to fix it. >> But you know what? That gives me engagement. >> Oh, because this is true. It's raider
05:19:03
Brian Atlasand purpose. Why men don't value emotional labor. We kind of talked about that earlier. So, we'll skip that. Scroll down. >> I You have to look at my reels, you guys. >> Scroll down. Scroll down. Scroll down.
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Brian AtlasUh, scroll down. Scroll down. Scroll down. I scroll down. Scroll down. A little more. A little more. A little more. >> Uh, click the flower one. I think that was one I wanted to react to.
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Brian Atlas>> How to get men like scroll up. The flower one on the left there. >> No, it wasn't that one. I know which one you're talking about. >> Scroll down a little bit. I I think uh scroll down. Scroll down. >> How to get spoiled in relationships. >> Scroll down. Scroll down. Scroll down.
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Brian AtlasKeep going. Keep going. How to get spoiled in relationships. Oh. Uh wait. Scroll up. Scroll up. Uh the most feminine thing you can do >> is the most feminine feminine thing you can do is to be financial. Okay.
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Brian Atlas>> Yeah. >> Uh X out of that. Scroll up. Click on the pink thing. The core themes. I already hit on these though. the EFT. Okay. So, you teach this [ __ ] >> Yeah. >> Or you do this [ __ ]
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Brian Atlas>> Yeah. >> Okay. Um I think you need to hook up hook up Kamani >> sorry K [clears throat]
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Lauren (29, healer)>> Kamea >> Kameha with some of your like chakra EFT stuff. >> Why? Oh, >> I don't believe in that. >> Oh, okay. I see.
05:20:29
Brian Atlas>> I disagree. I think her chakras her because it's for womb healing also. What the hell? >> Uh, okay. Nick, we can you tell me the reacts we have left. Nick
05:20:43
Brian Atlas>> tweets. >> What are the tweets? Can you remind me what the tweets are? >> It was your tweets and it was >> Oh, the dating wrapped stuff. >> Yes.
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Brian AtlasUh, >> and then we have >> I'll just Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Um, here. Yeah. Go ahead and just show them super quick, the the tweets and then you can exile those as soon as we're done. >> Okay. You want the first one?
05:21:08
Brian Atlas>> Yeah. Just the video and then we'll just tab over to the photos. So, we're going to do a quick dating wrapped segment. A lot of the girls are posting this. So, basically she's saying had 65 dates this
05:21:17
Miriamyear, ghosted 32, fell in love 14. That's crazy. Cried over 19 men. Um, next. >> Holy crap. >> I think some people like confuse liking someone with falling in love with them.
05:21:31
Brian AtlasThere's no way she fell in love. >> Okay, so this girl, uh, 17 first dates, 50 plus dates total, two situationships, uh, four made it past date three, 100 plus Aria matches, zero men under 6
05:21:43
Brian Atlasfeet. Nice. Got to love that. Uh, countless crash out walks, ending 2025 single. Tab over. Uh 16 first dates, 12 second dates, two
05:21:54
Brian Atlassituationships, 10 finance bros. Uh done with dating. Okay. So, really quick going around the table, you can just tell us like how many first dates, third date. If you want to add in anything, you're welcome to. Uh how many first dates have you had in 2025?
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Lauren (29, healer)>> I've been celibate for a year and a half. So, I would say two. >> Two first dates. >> Okay. And did they pay for the babysitter? >> Yes. cuz you make guys pay for the
05:22:21
Lauren (29, healer)babysitter. >> Um, and then did any of them go to second dates? >> Yes. >> Third dates? >> Yes. >> Fourth dates? >> Yes. >> Fifth dates? >> Yes. And no. >> None of them became your boyfriend though.
05:22:33
Lauren (29, healer)>> Um, one and then we broke up two weeks ago. >> Wait, how long were you saying seeing him for? >> Um, in total like a month, but I think that was like my situationship, you
05:22:45
Brian Atlasknow. >> Okay. Um, but you've you said you've been celibate for a year and a half, so you guys did not hook up. >> Yeah, I I haven't been like actively dating now. >> Okay. Uh, you're in a relationship.
05:22:56
Brian AtlasWhat's your dating wrapped 20 25? How many first dates this year? That could include just going over the dude's house and watching Naruto or some [ __ ] [laughter]
05:23:11
Taran (Deadly P)May >> maybe 50. I'm [music] not sure. Five. >> 50. >> 50 first dates. >> Yeah. >> How many second dates? >> Uh,
05:23:22
Brian Atlasnot many. Maybe three. >> So, wow. Okay. Of the 50 first dates, only three made it to second date, how many uh sit you had some situationships or something. >> Mhm.
05:23:34
Taran (Deadly P)>> Okay. Um, 50 first dates, how many with men? How many with women? Most definitely. More with women. I'm not sure. >> You pulled those up, Nick.
05:23:48
Nyx>> Yeah. >> Okay. All right. What about you? >> Um, >> how many? >> One first date, one situationship, and then realized I like girls. >> Oh, >> and not white people or white men? >> No, I knew that before this.
05:24:00
Brian Atlas>> Do you like white girls? >> We'll find out. >> Would you date a trans person? >> Yes. Oh, sorry. She likes
05:24:12
Brian Atlas>> She likes dudes, though. So, >> can you make an exception? >> Yeah. >> Are you guys make out right now [laughter] or something? >> Content. We're content. >> Do you guys want to make out? >> Mhm.
05:24:23
Brian Atlas>> Awkward. Okay. So, uh, only one date. >> #nea. [laughter] >> Only one date. >> Yeah. And then it turned into that situationship from this year. >> So, you've only dealt with one dude this whole year. >> Mhm.
05:24:36
Brian Atlas>> I can I can back up. >> How many chicks? How many chicks? >> None yet. None yet. >> Okay. Um, what about you? >> Um, >> how many dates? First dates? >> Two dates. >> And how many did you kiss and then told them after you were trans?
05:24:49
Brian Atlas[clears throat] >> One. [laughter] >> What's that guy's name? Asd. >> As a >> rest in peace, Ader. Uh, what about you? >> Uh, just one first date. >> One first date and then it's now the guy you're talking to. >> Yes.
05:25:02
Brian Atlas>> Okay. Uh, what about you? Oh, well, you're married. Duh. Uh, and then you and you've you've been celebrate for 10 years. >> Five or Well, I >> Somebody's got cracking 10 years. That's a long time. That's been a decade. No
05:25:14
Brian Atlasdick. I'm sorry. You got to get on that. You got to get on that [ __ ] >> You don't make it because of you or because of them? >> It depends. [laughter] >> I almost want it. Okay.
05:25:27
Miriam>> When's the last time you went on a date? >> Uh, it was it was two weeks. >> Two weeks ago. >> Before No, no. 2 weeks before my last birthday. I remember this. >> What the [ __ ] is that? When the [ __ ] is your birthday? >> I'm going to count. So, it's by the end
05:25:40
Miriamof August. I'm going to I'm going to do the math. >> Oh, okay. I heard something else. I was like, >> not appropriate that the podcast. Uh, so it was by the by the end of August. [clears throat] >> Um,
05:25:52
Miriam>> disgusting. >> I'm sorry. What? Sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. >> We're not supposed to interrupt each other, but okay. >> I know. I'm a terrible hypocrite. um at the end of August.
05:26:03
Miriam>> Uh so by the end of August uh we only um saw each other five times and then he said uh he doesn't think it's going to work.
05:26:15
Miriam>> Did you guys have carnal knowledge? >> Huh? >> Did you have carnal knowledge? >> Did you have sex with him? >> No. No. No. No. No. No. Nothing. Nothing happened. Um >> was he a magician?
05:26:27
Miriam>> Oh, he actually likes magic. I took him to a magic show. Well, actually, I said I'm going to take him to a magic show for my birthday, but he insisted in pay and then he bought the ticket. So, that was kind of him. >> I I think magic is kind of an
05:26:40
Nyxaphrodesiac. >> Like, I kind of got it when she was showing me that card trick. I was like, "Wow, this is kind of hot." >> Guys, this might be RZ. This is the new >> attention the whole time. >> I just can't. >> Yeah, we're I I told you we're already a
05:26:52
Brian Atlasbickering married couple. Uh, so, okay, that's cool. Um, what was the question I was asking? >> How about the how many Okay, Nick, X out those. What are the next reacts?
05:27:05
Brian Atlas>> By the way, Aar's doing just fine. He know where home at. I love you, baby. >> He know where home. >> I think I still don't think you're I I don't think you're trans. I don't believe you're trans. I still don't believe.
05:27:18
Brian Atlas>> You want me to prove it to you? >> Yeah. I mean, if if you actually not not on the You can't whip it out here, but if you want to step back there, I'll take >> Yeah, I can. >> You've been a lot, >> bro. I will take one for the team. I
05:27:30
Brian Atlaswill take need that. You need that. >> I'll take one for the team. I'll take one for the team. Um, [ __ ] it. But, uh, I'll I'll do it. You will you actually You're going to endor >> huh? [laughter]
05:27:42
Brian Atlas>> What the [ __ ] >> I don't know. Maybe she'll she we'll see what whatever. Um, what was the next react? >> Uh, we have screen more. [snorts] >> Yes, let's do those. We'll we'll get through Lauren's notes. >> Okay. Ready?
05:27:55
Lauren (29, healer)>> Yeah. Uh, can you read that these, Lauren? Read them for us. >> Casually thinking about the one time this guy was 15 minutes late for our coffee date. So, I ignored it, acted
05:28:07
Lauren (29, healer)like my super charming self, and then looked at him straight in the eyes at the end and said, "If he was late again, I'd never see him again." So, he came 15
05:28:16
Brian Atlasminutes early the next day and made sure that I was 15 minutes more late. >> Excuse me. >> Toxic. Toxic. Wow. That's a bit vindictive. A little little petty.
05:28:29
Lauren (29, healer)>> And then after that, he was like in love with me. So, >> don't you think it's a little petty to intentionally be late, you know? >> But it was just to set the tone like that mattered to me. And then after that, then then we were like on time,
05:28:42
Lauren (29, healer)you know? >> Look, I think it's okay to be upset if somebody's >> But I'm a little petty. And he was a little petty, too. He was a Scorpio. So, we were both kind of like petty petty. >> And then, you know, >> what the Scorpio?
05:28:53
Lauren (29, healer)>> We had a good good run. >> Okay. All right. That >> What's your zodiac sign? >> Guess. >> Capricorn. >> Aquarius. >> Capricorn.
05:29:05
Brian Atlas>> That's my guess. >> What do you think over there? >> I don't know zodiacs. >> Okay, cool. Neither do I. Anyways, uh my my sign is the money sign. Um let's see.
05:29:16
Brian Atlas[laughter] >> Uh next. Yeah.
05:29:23
Lauren (29, healer)Can you read it? >> Oh, yes. casually thinking about the one time a guy [laughter] was going to take me on a date, but told me he was going to be late because his pants were drying in the dryer. So, I told him if he doesn't come in wet
05:29:35
Lauren (29, healer)pants, don't come at all. I thought he was cancelling, by the way. So, I thought he was just saying he wasn't coming, but he in fact came in soaking wet pants. [laughter] What the? And we still went on a sushi date and he needed [snorts] to sit on a napkin.
05:29:48
Lauren (29, healer)>> When you say soaking wet, >> I mean soaking wet. How did his >> He actually took them out of the dryer. >> Oh my god. >> And then >> let me >> But like I just said I didn't I thought he was like cancelling. So I was like
05:30:02
Brian Atlasdamp >> like like damp >> like drip. Was it dripping? >> But it was definitely in the dryer. He wasn't lying. >> This would be like it's a little different, but if a woman was on her
05:30:13
Brian Atlasperiod >> and she she started her period and I was like, "Oh my god, >> no. You can't be 15 minutes late. show up with some blood stains on your white pants. That's what you did, bro. >> I just said
05:30:27
Lauren (29, healer)>> That's so rude. >> I just said that. I just I thought he was canceling on >> like you didn't actually mean it. Like you were [ __ ] with him. >> Yeah. And then he did and then I was like, "Oh my gosh." >> Did you feel bad? >> Yeah, I did. I did feel bad. >> Was it cold?
05:30:40
Brian Atlas>> It was. >> Yeah. He was like sitting on it. >> Then I get if you were just like actually just [ __ ] with him. >> Yeah. No, I was not like I didn't actually mean it, but it was funny. Not not related to to that, but because I brought up the whole period thing or whatever.
05:30:53
Brian Atlas>> Oh, that's completely >> I think the most romantic thing a man could ever say to a woman is, you know, let's say you've already you guys been hooking up, whatever, and she's like, "Ah, you know, I'm like on my period,
05:31:04
Lauren (29, healer)and then you look her dead in the eyes and you say, I guess we're going to have to make a [ __ ] mess." >> Yeah. >> That's the most romantic thing. If they decline to a woman, I would be like,
05:31:16
Nyx"You hate me." Like if he declined, I'd be like, "You hate me then." >> But truth be told, we can skip. >> I feel like every guy I've been with has like insisted on it and then I I was the one that said no.
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Nyx>> I said no cuz I was like, >> you're not comfortable with it? >> No, I'm never comfortable with it. But they're like, "Yes, yes, let's go for it." >> Wait, they're more into it or >> No, they're just like still equally as enthusiastic >> and I'm like Thursday.
05:31:42
Brian Atlas>> Yeah. >> Which I don't understand, but whatever. I I think if if you've been dating a girl for a minute, then it can definitely wait. But I don't know if it's like [ __ ]
05:31:53
Brian AtlasI feel like guys, if it's oh [ __ ] it's the first time, but you're on your period, you're going to bite the bullet probably. >> Some people have a kink for it, too.
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Miriam>> Well, that's a bit >> I don't know about that. >> That just seems very stressful. >> Stressful. I worked in child safety and I've seen all the stupid kinks in there.
05:32:17
Miriam>> Wait, okay, hold on. Child safety and all that. Okay, we're talking about >> that's a different that's >> Yeah. Yeah. But like but but the accounts that sell that material, they also sell like material for all the other kinks in the universe.
05:32:30
Lauren (29, healer)>> So, >> uh, next thing there, >> can you read this, Lauren? [laughter] When my family says the reason I'm not
05:32:40
Lauren (29, healer)married is because my opinions and I'm not nice, [laughter] but I get treated like a princess. >> So wait, even the your family, the people who know you, [laughter]
05:32:53
Lauren (29, healer)>> they say >> Yeah. >> Uh they say that uh you're not nice. >> Yeah, cuz they're like doormats to men and I
05:33:04
Brian Atlashate that. And I would never trade my relationship to be with the type of men they're with. >> What do you consider a >> woman? I do think though like women like
05:33:14
Brian Atlasmen will put up with a lot of [ __ ] Like men will whine and dine like a girl who's kind of >> I'm not saying you, but I'm saying like in general like if a girl's kind of rude or [ __ ] or whatever, like I think a lot of men tolerate that.
05:33:28
Lauren (29, healer)>> Yeah. >> Which I disagree with. >> That's why we all have different kinks. >> Kinks. >> I don't know if that's a kink. I just think that I mean maybe they're [ __ ] masochist. >> If I'm a princess in a relationship, some men love a princess. So, it's a
05:33:41
Lauren (29, healer)kink. That's what that's like how I see it. But yeah, do you like your man to be in control of the relationship? Um, in the bedroom >> that is >> No, [laughter] in the relationship. >> Sorry, sorry, sorry.
05:33:54
Lauren (29, healer)>> Oh, >> I don't believe you're trans, but Okay, keep going. [laughter] >> Keep going. Oh, >> yeah. Yeah, keep going. >> I like it. >> Yeah. Yeah. Well, it's like >> like honestly even in their relationship like >> show your Adam's apple.
05:34:06
Lauren (29, healer)>> I don't know. >> No. Oh my god. Stop. Her experience like still counts. >> I'm just [snorts] kidding. >> Um but yeah, control me, slap me. I love that.
05:34:17
Lauren (29, healer)>> Wait, what? [laughter] >> I don't consider that domestic violence. Or like you guys said something. What was it? Or like I don't want my man to correct me. Like I want to be corrected
05:34:29
Nyxlow key. Yeah, see there. That's what I'm saying. There's like kind of a kink to it. >> Not even kinky. Like I don't know. Okay. >> And it's not ridiculous to say that because feminism gives us the choice. [laughter]
05:34:43
Lauren (29, healer)>> Oh boy. Okay. Um, next. Is there next? [laughter] >> Oh, can you read this one? >> Oh. Oh, yeah. That's fair. Men who don't take care of their family, expect to be
05:34:55
Lauren (29, healer)chased, and don't treat girls with prince treatment. just said the type of dynamic I like and yeah and I go in that one I'm like ew gross men who don't take care of their families. >> Who show of hands who here is a princess?
05:35:11
Brian Atlas>> More queen. >> No no no or queen princess. >> I'm a baddie. >> I'm the man of the house. I love it. >> Are [laughter] you a princess? >> Yes. Have you seen me? >> Oh no. I don't like this. I don't like
05:35:23
Lauren (29, healer)the king queen princess [ __ ] >> No cuz it's like it's like the dynamic. Okay. So, like me thinking of this one guy I went on a date with like he just like was very like protective over me. He got mad at this guy from like opening my door for me and like I don't know. I
05:35:36
Lauren (29, healer)just thought that was hot. It was like foreplay, you know? >> Like he was about to fight a stranger. >> Yeah. But he was obviously not going to, you know, but it was like, you know, >> foreplay.
05:35:46
Brian Atlas>> I don't know. As far as this prince, princess, king, queen [ __ ] >> people, look, I I personally think these people saying this [ __ ] at best.
05:35:58
Brian Atlas>> Mhm. >> Are court gesters at best. At [laughter] best. I'm just saying like, let's not bring royalty into this [ __ ] Like, we're just peasants, bro. We're peasants. We're all peasants.
05:36:10
Latrice>> Yeah. No, obvious like I said, my content is to Yeah. >> Here's why I say it, Brian. Because >> you know the way that it works in my household,
05:36:21
Latrice>> it is there is a patriarch >> W patriarch. >> Now, here's also the thing though. The reason I name myself the queen is because the queen is made, but a king is born.
05:36:34
Latrice>> Okay, fine. Good. >> Yeah. The king is a king is made or wait a queen is made but a king is born. A king is born that way, but a queen is
05:36:45
Brian Atlasmade by the king. >> W agreed. Well put. Uh, next react, Nick. >> Going to investigate these [ __ ] cards. There's a double side to them or something. >> No, >> I know. I was really looking at those
05:36:57
Lauren (29, healer)cards like, >> for real, take them all out. >> There's something. You did something. >> Casually magic. >> Casually thinking about the one time a guy said he wasn't ready for a relationship. So I sent him a book link
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SPEAKER_08[laughter] on how to love himself. >> Petty >> and wish I am petty. >> Petty Lauren. >> I kind of like this one though. >> [ __ ] Lauren, what [laughter] the heck? >> Something I would do. You know, >> can't read. >> It's from what?
05:37:23
Brian Atlas>> And he read it. >> H. Sure, sure, sure. We'll pull it. Uh, can you read this really quick? You posted this to your story a couple days ago, I think. >> Oh, yeah. We praise CEOs who manage high
05:37:33
Lauren (29, healer)stakes operations. We applaud executives who juggle logistics and personnel. Mothers carry the same level of responsibility for years without terms, titles, or time off. The difference, one
05:37:44
Miriamgets a bonus and a corner office. The other enjoy it while it lasts. >> So, as a single mom, sorry. >> Yeah, go ahead. Go ahead. >> Um, I I don't think the work I do is as
05:37:55
Miriammuch as the work that Elon Musk does for all of his companies. Like, come on. >> Yes. I look women work hard raising their children,
05:38:06
Brian Atlas>> but I don't think it's like I I think people misunders like CEOs are yes, very highly paid. Some
05:38:14
Brian Atlasmight argue they're paid too much. >> However, these CEOs typically a lot of them >> I don't think they have great work life balance. These guys like people who are
05:38:26
Brian Atlasat the top >> Yeah. They work a [ __ ] ton. >> Yeah. >> And they're handsomely rewarded because they work a lot. If something
05:38:38
Brian Atlassome [ __ ] happens to the company, the CEO is he's kind of he's going to catch flag. He's going to he's going to have some level of responsibility there.
05:38:47
Brian Atlas>> I don't know. Jeff Bezos. Jeff Bezos. Single mom.
05:38:53
Brian Atlas>> Jeff Bezos 67. Jeff Bezos, single mom. Which one is Jeff Bezos? Cuz I feel like there'd be a lot of billionaire women if being a a mom
05:39:06
Brian Atlas>> Mhm. >> Was it mom or single mom? I don't know. Whatever. I think it was just mom. >> Instead of being moms, y'all could just be >> CEOs. If it's harder to be a mom than be
05:39:18
Latricea CEO, just be a CEO and >> make a lot of money. >> Rich as [ __ ] >> I almost think it's harder to be >> [laughter] >> Come on. Give me Give me something to argue against your family. >> They have to risk it all to get to where
05:39:32
Brian Atlasthey had to be. Like it's a lot. >> Is there next? >> I feel like there's one or two more things maybe. Or did we do every all the reacts?
05:39:43
Brian Atlas>> Oh, there are her videos. Oh, boy. There's like three >> three videos. Two videos then. >> Two videos. >> Okay, let's play the first video. I'll be back.
05:39:56
Lauren (29, healer)Okay, this is a long time ago, so I don't remember what I said. Sometimes I wonder if I'm a feminist or traditional woman, but let me just explain to you what I've experienced and what I believe after I've experienced it as a 28-year-old who has lived with a man and
05:40:10
Lauren (29, healer)had a baby. So, I played the whole housewifey role already. If you're like, "Well, you never got married." Yeah, thank God cuz I would have gotten divorced and thank God I never got married. I was the one who didn't want to get married cuz I was like, "There's no way because tell me how this makes
05:40:21
Lauren (29, healer)sense. I grew up in a very traditional household. And so naturally, I wanted a traditional household and I chose a traditional man who also grew up in a traditional household, meaning that the women to the women take care of the kids, cook and clean and take care of
05:40:34
Lauren (29, healer)the house and the men work and I lived it. But we also live in the modern day world. So when I first met my ex, I was 50/50. 50/50 on bills, 50/50 on food, and I cooked and I cleaned. The first couple months living with him, I was
05:40:46
Lauren (29, healer)like, I feel like a slave. I remember doing the dishes every single day and I'm like I literally feel like a slave. Like what the heck? This wasn't the dream that I had in my head about having a household, having a family, living
05:40:57
Lauren (29, healer)with a boyfriend. So then I would work less. I eventually quit my job. And then I remember being shamed like, "Oh, you just want a man to take care of you." And that's some things that people have said to me during that time. Then eventually when I was pregnant, I was
05:41:10
Lauren (29, healer)like, "Since I'm already doing all of this, I actually don't want a man and I'm going to do it by myself." Eventually left that person, did my own thing. Then years later, we came back together and I was like, I am not going to be with you unless you pay all the
05:41:22
Lauren (29, healer)bills if you want a household family together. So then that leads me back to the traditional route. However, I finally decided that yes, women can work and you can go 50/50 on bills, but that
05:41:33
Lauren (29, healer)means that the household chores will go 50/50. When my ex was like, "Hey, um, we need more money." I said, "Hey, [laughter] get another job." And he did. If you're a stay-at-home mother or wife, right,
05:41:45
Lauren (29, healer)and you get home and you tell your man that you are tired, no [ __ ] [ __ ] you're tired. Because I want you to also think about this, too. And this is a common theme that I see with people in
05:41:56
Lauren (29, healer)my life, right? Look up how much it costs to hire a full-time maid. Then I want you to look up how much it costs to hire a full-time cook. Then I want you to look how much it costs to hire a
05:42:06
Lauren (29, healer)full-time nanny. That is three jobs. one, two, three jobs that people make salaries on and living. >> Thank you, daddy. >> on when I've been a working
05:42:17
Brian Atlas[snorts and laughter] single partly why I went back to my ex was because I was like >> we we kind of talked about that where it's like the jobs and the I I stepped away there. But what Latrice, I guess your thoughts on that?
05:42:29
Latrice>> Because I'm wondering why is this why why why are we so focused on being monetized for something that we chose to do? >> I I don't understand. on God. I >> I don't understand. I You choose any job
05:42:42
Latricethat you get paid for. >> No, no, no, no, no. I chose to be a mom, but that doesn't mean that I should be earning some type of income because I chose to bring life onto this planet. >> And I'm just not going to choose a relationship dynamic like that.
05:42:54
Taran (Deadly P)>> But also, you said you feel like a slave doing all those things. Well, what are you going to do if you just you're living alone? You feel like a slave washing your >> I was doing all of [laughter] >> No, for real. No, serious.
05:43:04
Lauren (29, healer)>> I was doing all of his peace. But see, like that when he was working and did like multiple like jobs, like I respected that. That's not why that relationship ended. >> Why didn't you use a dishwasher?
05:43:17
Brian Atlas>> We didn't have one. >> She didn't have a dishwasher. [ __ ] That's crazy. >> Wash dishes. >> Question for the two other moms at the
05:43:26
Brian Atlastable, right? So, you want a guy to pay for a babysitter if he's going to take you on a date? >> Yes. So, that guy who you were recently dating, I think you said it was a month. >> Mhm.
05:43:40
Brian Atlas>> How many dates would you say you went on? Like five or something or >> Yeah. >> Did he pay for the babysitter every single time? >> Like for all the dates? Most of the dates? >> Yeah. I don't want to talk about my last
05:43:51
Brian Atlasrelationship. >> What? I'm just asking. >> No, I just I I genuinely I don't want to talk about that one, but I can talk about any other one. >> I don't need details about the guy. I'm just asking cuz you say, "Well, guys
05:44:03
Lauren (29, healer)should pay for the babysitter. In a normal dynamic, yes, they they do that. Yes. >> Wait, the guy you were just seeing for a month? >> Yes. But I'm saying like in a normal dynamic and any guy that I date, they >> So he didn't >> he didn't what? >> He didn't pay for the babysitter. >> No. Yes, he did.
05:44:17
Brian Atlas>> Oh, >> yes. >> But like >> that was the answer. >> To the w to the women who are mothers here. Should a man
05:44:27
Brian Atlasfor a first date pay for the babysitter? >> No. No. >> No. 100%. Would you ever ask Would you ever ask a man to pay for the babysitter? >> No. >> No. And here's why I wouldn't ask him
05:44:40
Latricebecause >> it's not his responsibility. >> No. And here's the second thing that I want to add to that is because of the fact that if I will >> hold on because if my focus is if my focus was to see if this man is going to
05:44:53
Latricepay for my babysitter, then obviously the focus is is his wallet and not what he is like. >> That's >> it doesn't make any sense. That's your child, not his. So he shouldn't be
05:45:04
Brian Atlascoming out of pocket for your child. >> No, it's a way that I weed out people who are serious about me or not because of my time. >> Can I ask you a question? Let me ask you a question. So I believe, you know,
05:45:16
Brian Atlasbecause I'm a prince, right? That if I go on a date with a girl, >> princess, easy there. >> You asked for money earlier. [clears throat] >> Well, hey, you still haven't gotten your
05:45:26
Brian Atlaswallet, so I think chop chop. But anyways, post taste. Go anybody. What? Going to get >> He's asking for money [laughter] again. >> Oh, you asking I would like some money.
05:45:38
Brian Atlas>> I So, okay. >> Let's say I I'm my my thing. I will only go on a first date with a girl if she gets uh waxed. She get she gets she has to get waxed um before the date. >> Everyone,
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Lauren (29, healer)>> how would you know? >> Well, I mean like lower body and >> I just don't think that that is a an argument because the reason that I do that is for safety for my son and I and my time and my resources. Yes. Not not
05:46:02
Lauren (29, healer)safety in the whole DVD thing. >> But you got money, girl. You got money. >> You're a success resources. How do we go about them? >> And no, because I'm weeding out people who are serious about me or not. And
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Lauren (29, healer)usually >> me, too. If a girl's really down for me, she's going to wax >> preference. And I think you should have that preference. We can argue that would be if if I had a partner and he's like, I prefer women that were wax.
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Lauren (29, healer)>> No, not a partner. First date first. First date, girl. First date. um first date. I'm going back to my same thing. >> Okay, so how about this here? Here's the >> You guys aren't gonna >> You seem lovely. [clears throat] I don't think it would work out. But
05:46:40
Brian Atlashypothetically, just hypothetically, Lauren, just hypothetically, Lauren, >> if I were to agree to take you on a on a first date, >> yes, >> actually, this would be a huge L for me, but whatever. Uh >> I wouldn't even I'm not saying that, but I'm saying
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Brian Atlas>> if I pay for the babysitter, >> I already know. But would you pay would you wax your [ __ ] Would you wax if like as a trade-off? >> A tradeoff? >> I'm confused. >> Yes, girl. Yes, girlfriend.
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Brian Atlas>> No. >> Would you wax her [ __ ] [snorts] >> I'm confused. >> Okay. Can I Can I ask >> Wait, wait, hold on. Let me clarify. Let me clarify. First date. First date. Let's say it's not me. It's some guy you like. And he's like, "Hey babe,
05:47:19
Brian Atlasabsolutely. I will take care of the babysitter, but what I would like for you to do, poor favore, uh, will you wax your [ __ ] for me? He doesn't say
05:47:32
SPEAKER_08like, he says, >> "Well, are we effing?" Cuz that, why else would I be waxing? >> So, if we weren't, and that's his preference. >> Who knows how the night goes? >> One thing leads to another. >> That's his preference.
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Taran (Deadly P)>> But would you do it? >> Yes. >> I have a question. I mean, she's going to wax the pusset. >> What if What if the male had a kid? Would >> that What if that man feel I was
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Taran (Deadly P)>> I want to be serious about somebody. So to be serious, I want you to pay for my kids daycare. The name question. Yes, you're [laughter] [ __ ] genius. You are a genius. >> I've been raising my hand for it.
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Brian Atlas>> Thank you, Deadly Pee. [ __ ] genius. Here's the question. You have one kid >> and I wouldn't. He has to wait. Hold on. Wait, wait, wait. Stop. Stop. Stop. Let me ask the question. You have one kid. He has one kid.
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Lauren (29, healer)>> Mhm. >> Uh crosses each other out. Neutral. >> You pay for split the sitter. >> We'd be like, "Hey, >> that's actually a good idea." >> Yeah. I'd be like, "Let's split this."
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Miriam>> Here's the question. >> What if What if she wants to go on a date with a man who has a kid? >> Should she pay for his kid? >> Yeah. No. Because that the reasons why
05:48:45
Lauren (29, healer)that I have a man that pays for a sitter is because if I'm going to have his children, then he is going to provide. >> If I'm going to go into the coal mines and get black lung for this woman,
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Brian Atlas>> but this is what I want. >> I'm going to go I don't give a about what anyone else. >> If it's the 1940s, I'm going to Well, [ __ ] the whatever. If I'm going into the coal mines and I'm gonna get black long or I'm going to do some deep sea diving
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Brian Atlasand get [ __ ] what is it called when you uh go up too quick? the the the when you're >> accelerate >> the the the the bends. You get the bends. I think that is it. >> Oh, >> what's it called? Nick. Nick, come on. You're smart. Nick, you're [ __ ]
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Brian Atlassmart, Nick. Figure this [ __ ] out, Nick. Just let it manifest in your brain. Um the bends. Ben, if if you you go up. I'm a [ __ ] you know these deep sea divers, they [ __ ] these guys die early.
05:49:34
Brian AtlasIt's so stressful on your body to [ __ ] the pressure or whatever [ __ ] I don't know what it I don't even know how to describe it. I'm going [ __ ] deep sea diving on some offshore oil rig. [ __ ] fixing under underwater
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Brian Atlaswelding. >> I'mma die 20 years. >> I don't know. >> I'm telling you, these guys die 20 years earlier than they otherwise would. The stress of being that that [ __ ] pressure or whatever. I don't even know what the cause is, but they die 20 years younger.
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Lauren (29, healer)>> And some of them die on the job and [ __ ] >> You got to pay for my [ __ ] uh babysitter. >> And that's his >> whatever. So that's his baby. He has to
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Lauren (29, healer)pay. >> I don't know. I kind of lost you 5 minutes ago cuz we went down like a whole rabbit hole. >> I'm just saying I'm in a black. >> I think women can have standards and I think men could have standards.
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Brian Atlas>> If I am going to go into the coal mine, if I'm going to if I'm going to go into the coal mine >> Mhm. >> and get black lung, >> the least she can do is like pay for the date. >> No.
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Brian Atlas>> The least the woman can do. >> That's his choice. It's like he wanted to >> It's your choice to get [ __ ] have a kid. >> Yeah. And I'm That's And I'm not actively dating. I chose my life with my son.
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Brian Atlas>> I'm just saying if I got to climb the Burj Khalifa and wash windows, she can pay for the first date. I'm just saying if I got to run into the burning building, >> you want a woman to pay for the first
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Brian Atlasdate and >> if I'm going to have this crazy podcast where all these girls are stressing me out and like I get death threats. Okay. So, someone taking [laughter] birthday. >> That's what he needs right now. He needs
05:51:09
Brian Atlasa little princess treatment and he needs >> In fact, after the show, I'm expecting you. One of you is going to have to take me in and out and buy me a hamburger or some [ __ ] >> Oh, hell. >> I'll take you. [laughter]
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Brian Atlas>> Not a day. I will just There we go. >> There we go. Call me matchmaker. But >> he's getting his princess treatment, guys. Wow. I'm just saying if I got this crazy podcast that's stressful and I you
05:51:32
Brian Atlasknow you asked why I was getting fat earlier. This [ __ ] podcast that's why I got back [ __ ] the stress of this [ __ ] podcast. This is this [ __ ] gig is stressful in ways you probably can't imagine. But
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Brian Atlas>> I would say I would say look I don't know what else. I'm a [ __ ] cop. I'm a cop and uh I don't know. I'm [ __ ] uh these people resisting arrest and
05:51:55
Brian Atlas[ __ ] If I'm a cop and you know what? That day somebody resisted arrest. Yeah, the girl got to pay for the date. How about that? >> I I'm a lumberjack and I got a splinter. She pays for the date.
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Brian Atlas>> Yeah. >> I am a plumber. >> Mhm. >> Well, those guys always dealing with the [ __ ] If you're a plumber, the woman always pays cuz you're dealing with [ __ ] literally all day. >> Like if I'm a plumber,
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Miriam[snorts] she got to pay. What else? What's some other jobs that men, you know, uh, what else is there? >> You know what? If you're doing like a hard job, you're probably getting paid like good money. >> She can still pay for the [ __ ] >> Okay.
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Nyx>> Oil rigs. >> I like it when a woman simplers, electricians. >> But don't you criticize men for sing? >> So, >> so then why do you encourage women to do it?
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Brian Atlas>> Yeah. Wait. Huh? What was that? >> Because it's a role reversal. because this had been the treatment y'all been receiving for generations and I'm over here these men where where's your villain
05:52:59
Brian Atlasgive me some [ __ ] >> I need to know your villain or give me a cookie what started this >> look I'm just saying I I appreciate if a girl sins like she should be all over me she should she should be a little bit obsessed not in a scary way where I'm
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Brian Atlaslike this >> you just said you had women stalking you so >> well I don't like that I like I like a healthy obsession ession, >> but like I'm going have to get a restrain. No, I don't want a restraining order. But like if a girl is kind of
05:53:25
Brian Atlasobsessed, I can get behind that. >> I can get behind that a little bit. >> But not like a creepy like >> I will accept if she has a shrine of me. That's okay.
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Brian Atlas>> Shrine, I'm okay with a shrine if she and you know shrine is okay. Stalker, no. >> Like daddy issues obsessed, not mental issues obsessed.
05:53:48
Brian AtlasYeah, that's about right. Bow segway. >> Yeah, bow. We'll do the bow. I like it when the woman sims. I don't even mind, you know, like if a woman wants to take a bit of initiative, she can make the first move in the like if she slides
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Brian Atlasinto the DMs, I'll take it from there. But hey, that's I I don't mind a woman taking a little bit of initiative. Just slide into the DMs. That's it. >> Careful, Brian. >> But I only date women, so [laughter]
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Brian Atlas>> more Tik Tok. >> Just kidding. It's I'll date women with innies. I'll date women with innies, you know, but uh she has to bow and this is the video that I'm about to play.
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Brian Atlas>> Cor [laughter] is Spanish. He's a Spaniard. Boom. Huge guy. Did you [laughter] see the [ __ ]
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Brian Atlasbow? Even Nick's into it. Look at that. Oh my god. Oh, in the Discord, I think I posted You can keep it playing. I think I posted a new bow video. There's a new
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Brian Atlasbow video. So, Lauren, this is what I think women should I Do. Do you see this, Lauren? Keep watching. Keep watching, Lauren. >> And that's your kink. >> It's not a kink. >> It is a kink. >> No, it's not a kink. >> Yes. Like, you just Would you prefer her to be on her knees like right when you
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Brian Atlascame in? Like mouth open. >> Well, wait for [laughter] it for >> uh play the bow really quick again. Just the bow. >> Boom. >> Do you see the [laughter] boom? >> You see the [ __ ] depth? You see the
05:55:11
Brian Atlassubmissive hand posture. This is what I need. I get home from a long podcast day. My girl has my dinner ready and she drops she drops a yes. Daddy
05:55:22
Brian AtlasI prefer sir or master. I don't like daddy. You [ __ ] up earlier. Okay. That girl [laughter] >> whatever you are called me [ __ ]
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Brian Atlas>> she called me daddy and I don't appreciate that. Nick uh one sec. One sec. Nick, Discord, resources, media. Okay. Media. And it's going to be you're
05:55:44
Brian Atlasgoing to see three things from Matt Refe. It's the It's above it. It's the new bow. Well, there's no bow, but it's the new one. >> I'm going to the bathroom. Do you want to come with me? >> Hold. Just wait. Just wait. >> Just wait. Okay.
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