She HIDES Being TRÂNS?! Single Mom DEMANDS Men Pay For Babysitter?! MlSANDRlST?! | Dating Talk 274

Date: 2025-12-22

Duration: 9h 27m

Guests

Brian Atlas

LLauren (Healer)>

Identified Speakers

SPEAKER_02Taran (Deadly P)(guest)

SPEAKER_03Isabella(guest)

SPEAKER_05Lauren (29, healer)(guest)

SPEAKER_07Brian Atlas(host)

SPEAKER_10Latrice(guest)

SPEAKER_11Nyx(guest)

SPEAKER_12Lauren (24)(guest)

SPEAKER_13Miriam(guest)

Key Moments

IntroAll 8 guests introduced including trans woman and Saudi magician

Key MomentMiriam performs close-up card trick - first female magician on Whatever

Key MomentBrian reveals Taran is trans. Panel reacts.

Key MomentTaran's viral boat kiss + lie detector clip played

ControversyLauren-29 requires men pay babysitter ($60-150) for first date

Key MomentLauren's relationship price list displayed on screen

QuoteTaran says 'Country Texas' when asked to name a country

Topics Discussed

Guest Introductions

8 guests including Taran (trans woman) and Miriam (Saudi magician).

Taran Trans Reveal + Viral Videos

Brian reveals Taran is trans. Boat kiss video and lie detector played.

Lauren Single Mom Babysitter Requirement

Lauren requires men pay babysitter for first dates. Extended debate.

Lauren Price List

$50 per like on another girl, $100 per DM, $2000 for texting ex.

Self-Ratings

Lauren-29 rates herself 10. Miriam rates herself ~2.

Man vs Bear

Most choose bear. Brian draws racism parallel.

Bow Video

Brian shows ex bowing. Most debate submission.

Taran: 'Country Texas'

Taran says 'Country Texas' when asked to name a country.

Transcript

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Brian AtlasWelcome to the Whatever Dating Talk podcast where we try to make sense of the modern dating hellscape. I'm your host, Brian Atlas. Before we get into some quick announcements, I'm just going

Lauren (29, healer)to go ahead and have the guests introduce themselves. So, go ahead. Um, I'm Lauren. I'm from California. Um, I'm a business owner. And what else? >> Uh, age >> 29.

Brian Atlas>> 29. Business owner. And, uh, you're from >> California. >> What part? >> Palmdale. >> Palmdale. Like grew up there, born there. >> Yeah. >> Okay. And, uh, college? Any education?

IsabellaCollege education? >> I dropped out of business college to pursue business and I did. >> All right. Gotcha. What about you? My name is Isabella. I am 19 and am going to college studying biology. I

Isabellawork landscaping and pay piggies come my way. >> Sorry, what? >> Piggies come my way. >> Pay pays. >> Come your way. >> Yes. If you're in the comments, come my way. >> Oh, >> don't you have a boyfriend?

Isabella>> Yes. >> He's okay with that? >> Yeah. >> The the pay piggies. Okay. The landscaping isn't cutting it. >> Mm- It's not cutting it. What do you do for landscaping?

Isabella>> Like pull weeds and like mulch ground and soil and stuff. I'm like >> you work for a company or >> Yeah. >> Okay. >> I know you're

Isabella>> like is it your is it your like friend's company or your dad's company or something? >> Uh I became friends with a teacher and then she helped me get the job. >> Okay. Landscaping. That's interesting.

Brian Atlas>> I know. I know. >> All right. Do you have to take your nose ring out? I mean, no. I'm just pouring. >> Aren't you worried like the lawn mower is gonna like >> Oh, yeah. Just magnet like magnetize to the ground. >> Not magnetized. I don't know. one of the

Brian Atlaslandscaping I feel like when when you're doing that kind of work. >> Yeah. >> Not not even landscaping necessarily, but certain physical labor jobs, you want to avoid wearing certain accessories, like I'm trying to think um

Brian Atlasmaybe there's people in the in the chat who might know, but I think for people who work in certain trades, they recommend not wearing like a wedding ring for example, because you can delve,

Brian Atlasby the way, don't Google that. Uh, you can delve the skin from your finger because your ring could get trapped. >> Oh, wow. >> In something moving and then

Brian Atlas>> so I was curious if you have to remove the [ __ ] septum piercing. >> No, but I'll take notes. >> You You might consider it because I'll consider your whole no You never know in some of these, you know, labor jobs. >> It's going to get caught in the lawn mower and spew in my eyes.

Brian Atlas>> Something's going to get caught. Your [ __ ] nose is going to get [ __ ] destroyed. And uh you got a good nose, so you don't wanna, you know, you don't want to [ __ ] the nose up. >> You're right. You're right. Yeah, I gotta keep that in mind.

Isabella>> Um and you're from where? >> Los Angeles County. >> Los Angeles. All right. What What part? >> Uh near Six Flags, Magic Mountain. >> Not really. >> Anaheim or what? >> Los Angeles. >> No, Valencia. San Franando. Valencia.

Taran (Deadly P)Yeah. >> What about you? >> My name is Deadly. Um I'm a model, actor, singer, songwriter, dancer. Um, I go to school for business at Capella

Taran (Deadly P)University. >> Um, I was born in San Diego but raised in Germany. So that was fun. >> You speak German? >> No, I was on base.

Brian Atlas>> Okay. Um, and school >> Kapala a what's it called? >> Capella University. >> Yeah. What are you studying there again? >> Business. >> Oh, business. Okay. Age? >> 21.

Brian Atlas>> 21. All right. And uh are you comfortable sharing your real first name? >> It's it's out there. >> It's out there. Yeah. It's Taran.

Taran (Deadly P)>> Taran. And so you go by deadly what? P. >> Deadly P. What's the P stand for? >> It can stand for precious. Deadly. Well, it's mainly for precious. Deadly precious. >> Deadly. Precious. Precious.

Brian Atlas>> Precious. >> Okay. I have what's it called? >> Speech impediment. >> Speech imp. No. What's the one you uh >> stutter? Dyslexia. >> Something. I don't know. One of those things. >> Dixles. >> Is that your natural eye color?

Brian Atlas>> No. >> You You're wearing color contacts. Okay. Um I actually think Terran, you should go by Taran. >> That's a badass name. >> That's my artist name.

Brian Atlas>> Taran's kind of a badass name. So deadly deadly precious. Okay. Deadly pee. I was I thought that was like deadly [ __ ] or something. I don't know. [laughter]

Brian Atlas>> I like that one. What? Just curious. What would like what is deadly [ __ ] >> Like is it really good [ __ ] or is it really >> I mean yeah you got them down for the count. They're coming back. Keep coming.

Brian Atlas>> Okay, there you go. Um in any case that's not what the P stands for. Um all right. And did you said you're from where again? Sorry I missed that part. >> I was born in San Diego raised in Germany. >> San Diego. You know who Okay. You know

Brian Atlaswho you look like? At least with the color contacts. You look like Stacy Dash. I don't know if you know who that is. Have you seen Clueless, the black girl? >> You look a little like her. >> Oh, thank you. >> That's a I think that's a compliment.

NyxAll right. What about you? >> Uh, my name is Nyx. I'm 19. I work as a retail cashier, but I'm also a cinematic arts major at Cal State Long Beach, and I'm from Valencia, California. >> All right. And uh trying to think if

Lauren (29, healer)there's anything else. No, I think that's it. All right. What about you? >> Um, my name is Kameha. I'm 21 and I live in LA. I was born in Hawaii but um grew up in Inland Empire and yeah. Oh,

Brian Atlashighest highest level of education is high school. >> Okay. >> I don't go to college. >> And then uh >> Oh, I'm a content creator. >> Content creator. What? What kind of content? >> Um >> not not only fans, right? >> No, not only fans.

Brian Atlas>> Okay. But you do streaming? >> Yeah, streaming. Um yeah, just like I don't [laughter] >> Sorry, what? >> Um yeah, just like content relatable. >> Okay. And uh you said you're from Hawaii. Which island?

Brian Atlas>> Aahu. >> Oahu. How long were you living there? >> Till I was like eight and then I moved to California. >> Can you do like a Hawaiian accent for the whole show? >> Like pigeon? >> Is that [laughter] what it's called? >> Yeah. >> Can Can we get a demonstration for the people? >> It's like Oh, no. You won't. I don't

Lauren (29, healer)know. >> No. Give us a two sentences at least. >> Um, honestly, like it's not that good. My mom could do it better, but Okay. >> I don't want to. >> Maybe later. Maybe later. What about you?

Lauren (24)>> Um, my name is Lauren. I'm 24. Um, I'm from Ventura County. Um, right now I work in food service. Um, and I have my BA from Cal State Northridge in English creative writing.

Latrice>> All right, cool. What about you? >> Hi, my name is Latrice. Uh, I'm 37 years old. I am currently a stay-at-home mom, wife, and I am a content creator as

Latricewell. What I do is I commentate on the unfairness of of what men go through in the dating market and also hold women accountable. >> All right. What about you?

Miriam>> My name is Miriam or Miriam, however you want to call me. Uh I live in the Bay Area. I am 40 years old and uh I'm a magician and I work in tech. >> All right. And uh are you going to show

Miriamus a magic trick? >> Maybe. >> Right now. Right now. You got you got you got [laughter] cards on you? What you got? Right. Um, >> little card card flourish or something. >> Not card flourish. Um, let me let me grab the the cards. >> All right.

Brian Atlas>> Sorry. >> Um, can you Latrice, can you do me a favor? You see that or uh green thing behind you? Can you push it like uh three inches that way? More.

Brian Atlas>> Yeah, that's good. All right. So, she got some card tricks. >> I got some cards. Yeah. >> Well, the I think the camera should be able to see. So, how long have you been doing magic, by the way? >> I've been doing magic for 16 years. Um, >> and stage stage magic, up close magic. What do you do?

Miriam>> I do close-up magic. I >> Yeah. Um, I do close-up magic. I do uh what we call string magic. So, like if you have a party or whatever and you, you know, have people scattered around

Miriamand you just want them to walk, I walk up to the groups and do magic for them. >> Like you'll do wedding kinseras. >> Yes. >> Bar mitzvah. >> Yes.

Miriam>> Okay. Yeah, but I also have my my shows. I literally just did a birthday party last night. Um, >> birthday parties. Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Okay. Let's see something. Let's >> Yeah, absolutely. Um, so, uh, let me see if this space is f I cannot move this,

Miriamright? >> I can I can move a little. Yeah, I can move a little bit. >> Thank you. I just need this area so it's uh visible, I guess. >> Okay. >> All right. Um, usually when I ask people to pick a card, you know what card they go with? >> Um, >> the ace of spades.

Miriam>> Ace of spades. Okay. [laughter] >> Yeah. >> Yeah. So I made it hard I made it easier for myself. So I started to just collect the aces of spades. That way I don't have to, you know, go through the selection part. >> Yeah. >> Yeah.

Miriam>> Um so I have the cards here. I'm going to place them at the table. One face down, one face up, face down, face out. Here. Um the idea is very simple. When I

Miriamhave the cards um face up, you can see all the cards are face up. Yeah. >> Mhm. However, if I place a card face down, you know what happens? >> It's no longer an ace of spades.

Miriam>> All the cards flip face down. You got it. Okay. All the cards flip face down. If I place a face up card, you know what happens? >> It's face up. >> Are they all face up? You are right. Are they all flip face up?

Miriam>> Oh. >> Um, if I place a card, this situation's not [laughter] okay. If I place a card face down, all the cards flip one more time face down. face up card.

Miriam>> Okay, >> you say the magic word. >> Uh, abracadabra. >> Oh, you got it. [laughter] And all the cards flip uh face up. Now, even in the same pile, if I flip If

MiriamI flip one card face down, you can see all the cards flip face down. >> I'm not You can also say the magic word and have one card flips flip face up in

Miriamthe middle. the the magic word. >> Yeah. Again, >> abracadabra. >> Kelly Clarkson. [laughter] >> One card flip face up in the middle of the day. Oh, I put this in the wrong.

Miriam>> I'm not blinking. >> Oh, here's the thing. Here's the thing. >> What you did not realize that while I was doing all of that, I was actually switching the cards. As you can see here, they all came from

Miriamdifferent piles from different decks. >> Wait, I'm so tripped out. No, no, no, no. This is in a, you know, in a poker game.

Latrice>> Having the four kings. >> Um, no. It's a royal flush. >> What? >> Why are they different color? What is happening? >> They were all aces when you started. >> Oh my goodness. >> Can I Can I look at the cards?

Brian Atlas>> Yeah. >> Can I touch this one? >> I'm confused. >> I didn't like I I made sure not to blink. >> Look at that. And it's it changed. >> Gravity changed. They were all gold and

Brian Atlasand now they're That's cool. All right. Sweet. Maybe maybe we'll get some more later. We'll get some more tricks later. Well, thank you for showing us that. Appreciate it. First time ever on the Whatever [laughter] podcast having a female magician. >> Oh, thank you. Do you have a male

Brian Atlasmagician there? >> By the way, you were very magical. You've been very magical this entire time. Um, you know, before the show. But, um, >> what is that [laughter] supposed to mean? >> Don't worry about it. Don't worry about

Brian Atlasit. Um uh you know uh so question you have an accent though. Where are you from? >> I'm from Saudi Arabia. >> Saudi Arabia. Okay. Um and when did you move to the United States?

Miriam>> Uh well back in 2013 back in 2013. Okay. >> I came in to get my master's degree and I've never left. >> What were you studying? >> Uh I got my master's degree in economics

Brian Atlasfrom Cal State Eastbay. >> Okay. Economics. And then uh have you become a naturalized citizen or what what's your do you have a green card or what's your uh citizen's status?

Miriam>> Uh well I applied for asylum back in 2017 and unfortunately the USCIS had not processed my application for over eight years. Um so this year I applied for what's called mandemas which is

Miriambasically you're going after them threatening them of suing them if they don't move your case. >> Okay. um essentially um it's it's a risky move because uh they could either

Miriamum say okay fine here's your appointment or they initiate your deportation process. So I see. Okay. >> Uh we get the appointment and we get approved. >> Okay. Gotcha. Uh before we get into

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Brian Atlas[ __ ] With our [ __ ] no chafed nipples. [ __ ] that [ __ ] So, anyways, follow us on Instagram at whatever. Any women who want to be on the show, you can DM us there. Twitter.com whatever. Follow me on Instagram, Brian Atlasx. Twitter,

Brian AtlasBrian Atlas. I guess my cat, you can also follow my cat. Uh, >> oh, she's so cute. >> Really? Okay, so hold on. Uh, before you

Brian Atlaspull it up, Nick, in in just a sec here, >> you know, the shirt, whatever. You know, I'm the founder and of of the nonprofit

Brian Atlasand grassroots movement, Big Leia Matter or BLM for short. Uh, because all labia can't matter until

Brian Atlasbig labia matter. Pull it up, Nick. Pull it up. Um, so I that's my uh movement if you want to follow it. Um, but I just want to say um this is what I want to say. I want to say

Brian Atlasum [ __ ] Kanye. [ __ ] Matt Refe and tap through those. [ __ ] plastic surgeons,

Brian Atlasthe surgery staff and as a [ __ ] crew. And if you want to be down with labia shaming, [ __ ] you, too. Howard Stern, [ __ ] you, too. All you [ __ ] [ __ ] you, too. All of

Brian Atlasy'all [ __ ] [ __ ] you. Die slow, [ __ ] My foe, make sure all y'all kids don't grow. You [ __ ] can't be us or see us. We [ __ ] thug life riders west side till we die

SPEAKER_08out here in California, bro. We warn y'all. We'll bomb on you [ __ ] We do our job. You think you mob, bro? We the [ __ ] mob. >> Damn right. >> But uh yeah. So, um, none of this like,

Brian Atlaslook, none of this wizard sleeve beef curtains, roast beef, roasty Arby's talk. Get that out of here, okay? As someone who only dates women with large labia, like this is important for me.

Brian AtlasLike, it hurts. Sometimes I cry thinking about it. All the women

Brian Atlaschopping their [ __ ] lips off or just feeling insecure. I don't like it one bit. >> What kind of woman? >> There's 10 There's 10,000 laboplasties a

Isabellayear in the USA alone and it's really the pressing issue of our time. What do you guys think? Just curious. What do you guys think about my movement? >> It's a good movement strong that women

Brian Atlasare ashamed of themselves. Shouldn't be. >> Yeah. Has anybody here faced shaming in that department from culture, society, a guy?

Brian Atlas>> No. >> Nobody Nobody ever feels insecure about, >> you know, some like look, guys can also be insecure down there, you know. It's >> Are you?

Brian Atlas>> No, I'm I'm pretty good. I' I've accepted my average lot in life. >> Yeah. >> I'm proud. >> Yeah. I I I accept. Yeah. You know, so

Lauren (29, healer)uh Yeah. All right. Good talk. [laughter] >> Is it a primarily male audience? >> No, it's actually only women who watch the show. >> No. No.

Brian Atlas>> No. >> It's, you know, hold on. That's crazy. That's crazy. Yo, >> there's a few, very few. >> Yo, you know, to the women watching, we're going to do this segment a little later, but [ __ ] it. I'll just do it right now. Hold on.

Brian Atlas>> Raise your hand. My fair woman. Send its >> to the women in the chat. A couple things. Ladies in the chat. First off, let yourself be known in the chat. Let yourself be known in the chat. But what the [ __ ] Where's all the [ __ ] notes

Brian Atlason? >> Hold on. Let me find the goddamn notes. One sec, guys. Oh my god. I have too many notes. It's crazy. Um, >> where did they go? You're starting to sound Italian. >> They disappear.

Brian Atlas>> It's crazy. >> It's [ __ ] crazy here. What? What the f Oh, of course that's why I I see. Okay. Listen, ladies. I don't know if you remember last show I I had a come

Brian Atlasup. I I uh had some women give me money on the podcast. >> Wow. >> Yeah. Yeah. They just handed me cash. >> That is [laughter] You saw that? You saw that?

Lauren (29, healer)>> I'm glad I didn't come to that one. >> Wait, did you ask the woman to give you cash? >> Look, I'm a starving college student, you know. It's It's Iving. >> I was repulsed. I was like, "Wait, maybe

Brian Atlaslet me." >> But listen to the women watching these girls, they're doubting. They're they're doubting that you're out there. So, this You know what? I I'm going to skip ahead a little bit, at least for the for the

Brian Atlasviewers. Uh there are women who watch the show and um here's what I need you guys to do. It's time for your tribute. I demand the tribute from the women. Just the men, you can kick it. You can

Brian Atlaschill. The women watching, we need I need to see the tribute. the super chat, the Venmo, the Cash App, the the Streamlabs. I need to set I need to see it. So, um, >> don't do it. >> So, do do it. Don't listen to Don't listen to her.

Brian Atlas>> Pan handling. Don't do it. >> So, uh, yeah. Listen, these girls, they they doubt that the women are out there, but trust me, some of the women are my most loyal, ruthless. They're [ __ ] ruthless. >> Not ready. They're not pickmies. I'm

Brian Atlasjust saying >> like one day they got my back. The women, Jess, Mara, >> they got my back. That's just to name two. Trust me, these girls, >> are those are actual names or you just naming names? >> Oh, those are some some women who watch the show. Trust me, they watch

Brian AtlasKatherine. Katherine, the girl who does my tamp time stamps tampon. What the [ __ ] The girl who does my tampon timestamps. Catherine, she will she she uh she'll shank a [ __ ]

Brian Atlas>> Oh, >> is that somebody's? >> Um, so anyways, I don't know. I'm all over the place right now. But uh okay, so somebody uh forgot to take their >> I hope so

Brian Atlas>> their lithium medication or something. >> Xanax 7 p.m. >> It's 5 5:30. >> Okay. You're eager. >> Let's see here. All right. Uh I'll finish up the intro, though. That was a

Miriamlittle interesting. But did you know that most women don't create an actual YouTube account, but they watch? >> Men are more likely to create accounts to leave comments because they they want

Miriamto leave comments. Women more likely watch unless if they want to like actually post on on YouTube uh content creators or they already have a Gmail account. Okay.

Brian Atlas>> Um other than that, they don't create an account to leave comments. Men do that. >> All right, cool. Uh, so anyways, uh, okay, finishing. Oh, if you guys if you can't catch the full shows, we have a

Brian Atlasclips channel links in the description. Discord, we have a discord.gg whatever. Uh, we post our stream schedule, behind the scenes, hate mail, research, studies, a bunch of other stuff. If you're my Caucasian, you will

Brian Atlasjoin the Discord. Uh, we post behind the scenes, etc., etc. Uh, let's see here. Oh, a final few things here for this intro. If anybody has an iMac G3,

Brian AtlasDM me on Instagram. If anybody has an iBook G3, DM me on in. These those are like the old school clamshell laptops from Apple from like 99. The iMac G3 is

Brian Atlasthe desktop computer. Also, I think 98 99. I'm looking to get whatever. DM me if you have one. Also, I'm hiring for two positions. You need to either live or be able to

Brian Atlasmake it to Santa Barbara every Sunday. Position one, a new helmet girl sidekick. You just need to be good-looking. That's pretty much it. Um, you could be a high school dropout. You

Brian Atlascould have dropped out of kindergarten. I don't care. >> Kindergarten. You don't need a [ __ ] resume. I don't care. Uh, and uh, if you look, if you're good on camera, that helps, too. But, uh, not required. I can

Brian AtlasI can train you. If you're like an introverted autist, I can probably get you somewhat up to speed. Position two.

Brian AtlasPosition two. Uh, I need a new soldier sidekick. So, think Gustavo, old school. You wear the soldier uniform.

Brian AtlasProbably be the easiest and funnest job of your life. >> How much are you paying? >> Well, that will be to to be determined, to be negotiated. You know, I got to see the, you know, I got to see the skill

Brian Atlasset. >> Are you paying the man and the woman? >> Don't worry, the job's not [laughter] open. I don't think any Yeah. So, anyways, um you can DM me on Instagram if you're interested in that. Oh, and oh my sorry,

Brian Atlasthis intro is I [laughter] need to reduce this. Uh if there's any rich people watching, I see Pacy George in the chat. Uh you know what? If you want a change of pace in your life, if you're just wondering what to do, you want

Brian Atlasinstant clout clout, you want instant influence, I'll just sell you whatever. My negotiating range is in the eight figures. Anyways, without further ado, we're going to have the Oh my, they

Brian Atlasalready did that. We're going to do relationship status. Excuse me. Uh, if you're single, can you tell us how you how long you've been single? So, well, first your relationship status. If you're in a relationship, uh, longest

Brian Atlasrelationship, >> the year or the yearly recap? >> Uh, no, no. So, just your current single. >> So, your current relationship status, how long you've been single, and the longest relationship you've ever been

Brian Atlasin. Uh, the longest relationship I've been in is three and a half years. Um, I'm recently single of two weeks. >> Two. Two weeks. >> Yeah. >> Okay. Two weeks. >> 3.5 years. Longest relationship. The one

Lauren (29, healer)that ended 2 weeks ago. How long was that? >> Very short. >> A month. >> Yeah. Like I if that. Yeah. >> Were you boyfriend girlfriend or was it just like a situationship? >> Um, I don't know. It's complicated. But

Brian Atlasyeah, it was like boyfriend girlfriend for like a week and then >> Well, what's your orientation? Because you're not >> I'm pansexual. >> You're you're pan. Okay. It was a guy though >> this time. Yeah. >> Okay. You've dated women though.

Lauren (29, healer)>> Yeah. >> Okay. Uh and then you have one kid. >> Yes. >> From the 3.5 year relationship? >> No. >> Oh, okay. Which one? >> Um I was like and I I was engaged a

Lauren (29, healer)couple years back and it was like on and off for a couple years but on and off for like 5 years. >> Okay. Gotcha. Uh engaged but never married. Is that correct? >> Yeah. >> All right, Nick, leave the super chats

Brian Atlasthere for just a sec. I just need to make one adjustment. >> Uh, okay. >> Okay, we're good. Um, >> I already pulled them up. >> Oh, these. Okay. Yeah. Thank you guys

Isabellafor the for the supers. All right. Uh, so one kid. How old's your kid? >> He's four. >> Four. Okay. All right. What about you? >> Uh, I'm taken. Longest relationship a

Isabellayear and 11 months. Current relationship 1 year and 11 months. Okay. Uh, what about you?

Brian Atlas>> Haven't been. I'm going to say >> you. >> Sorry. What? >> Uh, lower the audio. I think it's >> have been. >> What's your What's your current relationship status? Single. >> Single. Yeah. >> Okay. How long?

Brian Atlas>> Forever. >> Yeah. >> You're 21. Uh, so, okay. You haven't been in a relationship. What's the longest period

Taran (Deadly P)of time that you've seen a guy? >> Uh, not long for a guy. Um, for a girl I would say >> four months.

Taran (Deadly P)>> Four months. >> Four months. Four months. >> Four. So, four months. Longest. >> Yes. >> With a girl? >> Okay. Longest for a guy? >> Are you Are you by or >> I am by? Guys just be weird.

Brian Atlas>> Okay. So, you just have sex with men? >> No. You can try, but no. >> What do you mean? >> I'm not down for that. >> To have sex or to have sex with men? >> To have sex. >> Period.

Brian Atlas>> Oh, so you're you're asexual. >> Are you a virgin? >> No. >> But are you so are you asexual or >> um if we get in a relationship? Yeah.

LatriceBut yeah. No. >> Oh, so you're demisexual. >> You can DM me pasty. Um >> what is that? Demisexual will mean that you know you won't really get involved in any sexual relationship unless you actually find a interpersonal connection with that person.

Brian Atlas>> Yeah. >> Okay. And that's what it is. >> Okay. I see. >> It's strange. >> Have you Have you been with a man biblically speaking? >> Yeah.

Brian Atlas>> Okay. But it's not your preference. >> No. >> You prefer women? >> Yes. >> But sometimes a guy. >> Yes.

Brian Atlas>> Okay. Uh, so [laughter] you've never said I love you to somebody because you said single your whole life. So never boyfriend, girlfriend or girlfriend, girlfriend or

Brian Atlas>> uh I've been close to >> friend. How do like uh like non-binary people? Is it your girlfriend or is it they friend? >> They said they said partner >> like are you they friend? >> I just made that up by the way. That was pretty

Brian Atlas>> pretty sharp. >> I think in 2020 they used to say >> more impressed than you are just to just being honest. What? >> In 2020 they used to say joy friend. >> Wow. That is sad. >> That's new for me. I've never heard. >> Wait, what?

Nyx>> Kind of want to jump off the building right now. [laughter] Uh >> Joy Friend. Wow. >> Yeah, that was like from the depths of Discord, though. I don't know if that was real or like just like Twitter. I don't know. >> Okay. >> Yeah. >> You've really put yourself together since the last time you were on.

Brian Atlas>> And what the hell does that mean? >> Huh? That's a compliment. Chill out, Nick. >> No, bro. What does that mean? >> That's a That's a compliment. >> What do you mean by that? >> I I don't know. Sometimes I just say things because of the autism. >> Yeah. So

Brian Atlas>> good execute. [laughter] >> Yeah. So anyways, um have you said I love you to anybody? >> Like >> romantic love? Not I love you as a

Taran (Deadly P)friend, you know, or I love you as a sugar daddy or I love you as a >> I've been close to it. >> You've been close? >> Yes.

Brian Atlas>> Well, okay. You've never said it, but have you been in love? >> Yes. >> Was it with an inanimate object? >> No. >> Cuz one time we had a girl on the show who like she dated trees.

Brian Atlas>> Oh wow. >> She had an a sexual attraction to trees. Redwoods to be specific. >> What's wrong with having sex? Are you

Brian Atlas[ __ ] Are you a redwood hater? Isabella ball smeller. >> [laughter] >> that. Sorry, >> guys. I'm not I'm not insulting her. That's just her her Instagram is balls smeller. >> Yep.

Brian Atlas>> You got to change that [ __ ] >> Yeah, I probably do. >> You're such a lovely nice like lady. >> A >> Do women appreciate being called lady? I don't know. Um >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Lady. You're a lady. I Okay. I don't

Brian Atlasknow. Um All right. So, relationship status? >> Um single for about 3 months now. >> Single for three months. Um, last time were you on the show, were you in a relationship or were you single? >> It was like a situationship.

Brian Atlas>> But did you say single? >> No. >> Okay. So, you were Okay. So, is that the guy that you were Was it a guy? >> Yeah. >> The guy that you were seeing when you

Brian Atlaswere last on the show, is that the one that ended three months ago? >> Yeah. >> Three months ago. Okay. And uh have you had a rebound? [sighs] It's complicated. It's like a really

Nyxweird situation. >> Are you like unicorning for Isabella? >> Uh [clears throat] [laughter] uh. No. We were just like I don't know. It was just like a really weird falling out. >> She's lesbian now. >> Yep.

Brian Atlas>> She's what? Filipino now? >> Lesbian? >> Oh, I'm I'm Filipino now. >> Oh, she's you're you're dating women or what's the deal? >> Oh, we'll find out, bro. >> Okay. >> Yeah, that's how I'm feeling, too. Don't worry.

Brian Atlas>> Longest relationship? Um, a year and nine months, I believe. >> Nick, could you uh open the door a bit? Um, >> year. It's all good. Nine. Nine months. Okay. Uh, so is there somebody in the

Brian Atlaspicture currently? >> Not in that way. No. >> What do you mean that way? >> I'm not talking to anyone. >> Are you on any dating apps? >> No. I swore. >> There's not even somebody you're texting.

Brian Atlas>> No. >> Communicating with email? Facebook? DMs? >> No. Smoke signals. >> Smoke signals. >> What is that? >> Okay. Uh, >> I got a bad signal in the sky right now.

Brian Atlas>> The most recent relationship. Sorry. Uh, how long are you seeing that person? >> Um, 9 months. >> Nine months. Was it on again, off again? >> Kind of. Yeah. >> Who broke up with who?

Brian Atlas>> He broke up with me. >> What did you do to him? >> It was like really weird. I don't even think he knows why he broke up with me. >> He doesn't know. I know. No, it was >> I know why he broke up with you. He DM'd

Nyxme. Just kidding. >> Oh, yeah. Yeah, but it was just a really weird situation. Bella can confirm. >> What? It was what? >> It was just weird. >> How so? >> Like

Nyx>> I don't know. He >> It was just weird. Like he would like >> What was that mean? What does weird mean? [clears throat] >> I don't know. Adri lie about random [ __ ] So I don't know what he was telling the truth about. He would text me one thing, say something else, act a different way. Like he was

Isabellavery >> He's very bipolar in that way, I guess. I don't know. >> Oh, he was bipolar. >> He was No, he wasn't actually bipolar. He was old and a bum. >> Stop. >> How old? >> Too old and not in college doing nothing with his life. A bum. >> That This is not true. This is not true.

NyxShe deserves better. >> How old? Hello. >> He was He was 25. I was 19. >> It's not He's still a bum. >> That's old. >> He lied about his age when we first met. >> Not doing anything with his life. >> Well, how old he was? >> He said he was 21 and we met when I was

Brian Atlas18. >> Ooh. So that doules the age trying to be malicious. >> What at what point did he reveal his age? >> He didn't. I found out. >> Okay, that's pretty >> cuz you know maybe you know sometimes people do this thing where they like

Brian Atlasalter their age on a dating app and then they'll say in the bio not actually I'm 27. I'm not 24. Whatever. >> I found out he told you. >> No, he did not tell me. Oh, he >> Oh, wait. Well, wait. He didn't tell.

Nyx>> He told me he was 21. I found out that he was 24 at the time. And then >> like when you after you broke up with him or >> Okay, basically we broke up. He broke up with me the first time and then I was

Nyxlike something doesn't feel right. So then I like I did some snooping and then I found out he was lying about his age and then I texted him again and I was like hey what was that about? And then he was like >> you weren't supposed to find out about that.

Nyx>> What? But did you press him on it? What was his explanation? >> He didn't really give me an explanation. He was just like, "Oh my bad." >> Oh my bad. What? >> Yeah. Exactly. Exactly. That's why I'm saying he was weird. It was It was just

Brian Atlasweird. >> So, I mean, I guess what's your diagnosis? Cuz my impression here is he thought if he said he was older that would present like a bit of an age gap dynamic and you might not want to date

Nyxhim. Is that is that fair to say? >> I I guess so. I really don't know what his deal is. Like, I don't want to speak on that, you know? Like, I genuinely don't know what's going on that whole time. How soon? So, you said it was nine

Brian Atlasmonths, >> but it was kind of on again, off again, >> how soon into seeing him did y'all find out the lying about the age? >> 3 months. >> And you dated this dude for another 6

Brian Atlasmonths >> cuz I didn't mind the age gap. >> So, he should have just been upfront. >> Yeah. He should have just told me and I wouldn't have cared. >> It wouldn't have even been an issue. >> Yeah. And then him lying wouldn't have been a thing. But it was a thing because he lied about it. >> Was it the white guy?

Brian Atlas>> No. I swore off white men. >> Oh boy. Um, >> sorry. >> Well, look, I think it's fine for people to have racial dating preferences, but uh like Latino guy.

Nyx>> Yeah, he was Mexican. >> Mexican guy. Okay. >> Huh. >> Interesting. Why did you swear off white guys? >> My first two boyfriends were white and I was just like I No, thank you. I I'm also just like

Nyx>> bad experiences and also I just realized that like I'm more attracted to other races. Like I don't I don't actually swear off white guys. It's just like I don't seek them out. You know what I mean?

Brian Atlas>> Sure. Um [snorts] can I I'm curious though in terms of like the the group the the kinds of people that you move with. Would you say that you're part of

Brian Atlaslike an alt I don't know what the sub not subg genre but like are you alternative? >> Like do you go to punk shows? Like what what what >> like the people I surround myself with.

Brian Atlas>> What's the term for um >> subculture? >> Like a subculture? Yeah. >> Yeah, I would say so. >> Like alt >> like are the guys heavily tatted and depressed? >> Whoa. I mean,

Brian Atlasyeah, I guess so. But that wasn't until like recently. >> Okay. >> Yeah. >> Cuz you said your first two exes and they were white guys, right? >> Yeah. But they weren't No.

Nyx>> Were they also alt or whatever? The second one was like sort of alternative kind of not presenting but like he was alternative in mindset I guess. >> Okay. I'm developing a theory that like

Brian AtlasI mean and I I think it just it's pretty obvious like just certain subcultures probably like people drawn to those subcultures probably like have a higher

Brian Atlasrepresentation of mental illness. >> I mean okay I see what you're trying to get at there. your viewers. >> Oh, my viewers are very mentally healthy. >> Super sane. >> Super sane. >> I've gotten some really nice messages

Brian Atlasfrom you. >> Nobody met you. You are so >> not to be mean. You're very milk toast. And what's that mean? >> Milk toast bland. Like on the show I am. Yes.

Brian Atlas>> And when I say bland, that's not like as an insult. That's just like you don't really have many fire like crazy hot takes. You're very you're pretty polite. I you've been on two or three times I

Brian Atlasthink. So it's like I can't imagine like people are coming to hate you. I don't know unless you said >> not hate just weird things weird things >> like I got so there's this trans lady

Isabellathat hit me up from your show telling me all about her transition how she had a h like she had a wife and she was like yeah I treated my wife so bad and I'm just trying to come to terms with myself as a trans woman. Then there's another

Isabellaerotic writer hitting me up being like tell me to write 10 pages a day and whip me. I'm like, >> I can confirm this. By the way, >> there's some interesting fans you have. I'd say,

Brian Atlas>> yeah, I mean, I think with any obviously in any sort of grouping of people, there's going to be an element of that grouping that you know is maybe has something going on. You can you can find

Brian Atlasthis anywhere though. You can find this in the church. You can find it >> Yeah, that's my point. Exactly. You can find it everywhere. >> Well, yeah, you can find it on the left. You can find it on the right. But I do think if we're talking about a sort of a

Brian Atlassort of like generalized increase in prevalence, like for example, and I think they've actually done studies on this, like people who identify as uh leftist or liberal, there's a higher

Brian Atlasprevalence of depression amongst this group. Okay, >> that's not an attack. I'm not saying that is an attack on that, but but there there have been studies that indicate that there is a higher prevalence of depression or me uh you know,

Brian Atlaspersonality disorders or whatever. And um maybe you have counter studies that might say well conservatives have ex you know they do this bad thing more right so uh but as it relates to I think some

Brian Atlasof the like when you start getting into like the music scene and you're doing going to these mosh pit things I think that that look I'm not saying all people that go to that [ __ ] there's I know

Brian Atlasgreat people I know people personally I I I have some friends that are in the music scene and they they go to punk concerts and alt concerts and stuff. >> Yeah. But I do think that there's an element when you're drawn to the alt

Brian Atlasstuff a little bit. I'm not saying that it causes it. I'm not saying that all people who are drawn to that are it. But the I think there is a higher prevalence of the people who are drawn to those

Brian Atlaskind of scenes. >> Like for example, somebody who has a face face tattoos, right? >> Full [ __ ] face of face tattoos. >> Yes. You could have logically like you could

Brian Atlasblast your face in face tattoos and be like a really productive member of society and have no mental health issues. I think the prevalence though of people who have full blasted face

Brian Atlastattoos, the prevalence of mental illness in that group, personality disorders is higher than the general population. >> And I'm just saying I love the promiscuous married men scene on your account. >> What the the what

Brian Atlas>> promiscuous married men scene? I could say >> with what? >> Your fans. I love the scene. I'm just saying I love it. >> Wait, hold on. What? So, you're you're you're alleging that my audience is predominated by

Isabella>> promiscuous married >> by like cheating, infidelity. >> Not necessarily cheating, just per like >> per How would they be? How would you know they're promiscuous and married? >> I don't know. There's a counsel follow me with a bunch of married women. Why

Isabellaare you following me? I just feel like it's weird that people follow me off your thing. It's a bunch of married men. How many followers do you even have on >> not that many but Instagram? >> Not many. Like a thousand. >> Okay. But how many followed you from the podcast?

Isabella>> I'd say over a good 20. Especially from the first show I was on. >> Your sample size is 20 followers. >> But still even then all of them are still odd from your account. From your account. Yes. >> Okay. Well, maybe they're drawn to the

Brian AtlasWhat? There's this um >> they want like a goth mommy. >> What's that term? Anybody in the chat can help me. term for frogs that are brightly colored as a warning sign. So,

Brian AtlasI think I I do think there is a thing when you carry yourself with a certain aesthetic, >> you attract people. Yes, >> you are going to attract. So, like they see the hair. >> Yeah.

Brian Atlas>> And they're like, "Oh, this girl's unique. This girl is uh >> I'll just go with unique." And they're

Brian Atlaslike, "Okay, I want to [ __ ] follow her, whatever." And so I think the hair will will kind of attract that in a little bit, you know. >> Okay. Yeah. I've been on social media.

Brian AtlasIt's just odd. Yeah. >> Uh so I don't know. Anyway, but uh how you could So the women are following you and you say that >> it was one woman. The rest was men, but yeah, it was one trans woman that texted. >> No, but you said they were the viewers

Brian Atlasthat were following you were promiscuous or whatever. >> I say so. I just feel like they have ill intentions. How can you demonstrate that the they're promiscuous? >> I can't. But I could look at their account, see their married woman. >> Like, I'm confused. >> I just don't know why they care about my

Latricelife. Why are you wanting to be involved with my life have an Instagram? >> But why do they want to be on mine though? >> I don't know them. >> I mean, I would assume that people just follow people just because. >> Okay. >> But how do you how do you go

Brian Atlas>> I follow people whose content I want to watch. But how do you go from just somebody following you to >> making a determination? >> Well, first off, I got countless messages.

Isabella>> Okay. >> And then the other ones, I guess it is kind of an assumption for the others who didn't message me. It just looks a little weird in my opinion. >> If somebody follows you, it looks weird. >> If it's an older man with a wife on

Isabellatheir bio and you're following a alternative girl from a podcast, I say it's weird. I'm sorry. That's just what I think. >> What content do you make? I don't make any um >> She's a She's a >> I'm just >> landscaper.

Isabella>> Yeah, I'm I'm studying. I'm not making content. I just post myself occasionally. I don't have >> 20 20 followers is a really small sample size. In any case, um relationship status. >> Um single. I never been in a

Lauren (29, healer)relationship to be honest. >> Longest period of time dating somebody >> like talking honestly. Okay. Well, I had a sugar daddy, but I wouldn't even count that cuz like it wasn't >> um Do you date women? >> Uh, no.

Brian Atlas>> Just men? >> Yeah. >> Okay. And uh longest period of time? >> Not long. I don't know. I don't I haven't really talked to anyone for I mean, I'm kind of talking to someone

Brian Atlasright now, but yeah. >> Sorry, that was counter. >> So, you um you've not for example, have you seen a guy for like a month? or not even?

Lauren (29, healer)>> Yes. >> Two months, 3 months. What's the longest? >> I'd say like a month, but I'm not honestly I'm not really like >> Have you ever been in love? >> No, I don't really put myself out there, I guess. >> So, one month is the longest period of

Brian Atlastime you've >> like tried to see someone, but >> Okay. So, you just do casual? >> Mm- Like, I just stay to myself. >> And um we'll get into this once we finish up with everybody else, but you are trans.

Brian Atlas>> Mhm. >> Okay. Um, I don't believe you, but um I think you're trans fishing, but uh >> Oh my god. >> So, >> wasn't that a compliment? >> Yeah, it is. >> So, >> so beautiful.

Brian Atlas>> And you went viral recently. Actually, there were some videos of you because you were like on on a date with a guy and it was a live stream and you guys kissed

Brian Atlas>> and you told him only after that you only after the kiss that you were trans. Is that correct? >> Yeah, that's correct. Okay. Um, [snorts] >> she looked at me like, [laughter] dubious.

Brian Atlas>> No, no, no. Can you do me a favor? Can you just tilt your head back and look up to the ceiling? >> No. Tilt >> I'm not doing [laughter] >> Tilt Tilt your head back. >> He's trying to clock me. He's trying to clock. >> Tilt your head back and look up towards

Taran (Deadly P)the ceiling. >> Ah, she said it. >> What? >> There was a Adam's apple. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. Yeah. >> It's [laughter] fake. Um, so >> it's fake. to [ __ ]

Miriam>> Oh, you like her? >> Oh, what? >> Yeah. You don't want to You don't want to accept that she's trans. >> Why would that imply that I like her? >> Cuz you're saying it's fake.

Brian Atlas>> So, you're what? >> I don't know. >> Okay. The logic is logicing. Um, that How did you arrive there? How What's the connection?

Miriam>> That's for you. I'm asking you for me. >> Yeah. >> No, I'm just saying you you want to accept that she's trans. >> I don't think she can't fake. >> I mean, there are people.

LatriceSo, >> right. But that's what I'm saying. >> Yeah. >> Okay. >> No, but I I actually had a question. >> I mean, some women also do can have a little bit of a >> not like that. me and my sister. Oh, I'm kidding. [laughter]

Latrice>> No, I'm kidding. >> My My question was to you is why why would you wait till after the fact? >> Um, honestly, I didn't see anything with him or like I didn't see it going

Latriceanywhere. Um, it was kind of just like it kind of just happened. Um, >> I know. But don't don't you think that it should be more ideal for you to disclose this information before you encounter like people when it comes to

Lauren (29, healer)the dating world? I guess, but also like if I don't have intentions with sleeping someone, why do I need to like throw my information out there like that? >> Because you don't know if that person might have the intentions of sleeping

Latricewith you. >> Um, I guess does it matter as much if she doesn't have the intention? >> It kind of they're not going to sleep together. >> He does. It really does for a lot of men, you know, when it comes down to it. Cuz how would I feel if I was dating

Lauren (29, healer)somebody and I had no idea whether or not that that person >> dating? I wasn't dating him. >> Yeah. on a date for my date. If it was my way around, I wouldn't care until like I was about to sleep with somebody,

Lauren (29, healer)but that's just my personal preference. >> But I understand like I obviously understand that like if I'm going to sleep with someone. >> Yeah. But see, like I wouldn't care until that, you know. >> So you you disclose your pansexual. That's different. So it's like that's

Latrice>> but just for Yeah. >> Yeah. And that's it's kind of it's actually kind of very important for people who are you know straight >> that you know need to know these kind of

Latricethings though you know like I know it's >> yes it's their personal business their personal life however when it comes down to it >> that like I said that's why I said for example for myself if I was you know I'm

LatriceI'm not in that dating market been out of the dating games for nine years but you know I'm saying that if I was encountering someone that I happen to be attracted to that I would assume is obviously a man, you know, then >> Yeah. You know, it would be important

Latricefor me to know and not find out in the bedroom. >> Yeah. >> You know, >> now you got to say that [ __ ] >> before you even meet in person. >> You got to disclose. >> I don't think there's anything wrong with it. If you're trans, you're trans. That's okay. >> Yeah.

Brian Atlas>> Yeah, that's fine. But you got to disclose that [ __ ] >> before you go I think before you go on a date with the person >> for your own safety as a trans person.

Brian AtlasOops. but also in consideration for the other person too. >> Uh so a couple questions for you though

Brian Atlasreally quick on the the trans thing. Um >> at what um [sighs] what age did you transition? >> 18.

Brian Atlas>> You transitioned at 18. Okay. Um are you uh what procedures have you had done? >> Um I haven't had any procedures. Do you take uh do you take any medications or >> Yeah.

Lauren (29, healer)>> Okay. What are the medications you take? >> Um well, it's testosterone blocker or it's just hormones like >> Yeah. What's the name of the medications? >> Um estradile like I don't estrogen. >> How how many different medications do

Lauren (29, healer)you take? >> Two. >> Okay. But >> you've been taking them for 3 years? >> Yeah. But I had a hormone deficiency. So like I didn't really have a like strong male puberty. like um my testosterone

Brian Atlaswas at like 90 when I got tested for which is like really low for a 18-year-old. Um >> Okay. >> But yeah, I started hormones after that. >> Um Okay. Have you had any you've had sorry surgeries or no surgeries?

Lauren (29, healer)>> Mm-m. >> Okay. So, you have a intact penis? >> Yes. But I was like, it's not like I mean obviously it is but it's not like

Lauren (29, healer)the same like it doesn't work type [ __ ] [laughter] >> cuz like sensory I don't Yeah. >> medication or >> Yeah. Yeah. T blockers.

Lauren (29, healer)>> But honestly, I didn't like I didn't have a strong male puberty like that. Like I was never I never like gooned type [ __ ] >> You never gooned? >> No. Like no. [gasps] >> Okay.

Brian Atlas>> That's just gross. I I don't I have dysphoria with that. >> Okay. Um what does it say on your ID? Does it say male or female? >> Female. >> Female. Okay. Did you had have that changed or? >> Yes. >> Okay. And you transitioned at 18?

Lauren (29, healer)>> Mhm. >> You didn't socially transition before like you did, you know, clothes or anything? >> Um, no. I mean, I kind of just like like I was taking hormones but didn't really like force it. Like I just let it

Lauren (29, healer)naturally come cuz I didn't cuz I don't know. I don't want to force like pronouns down people's throats. like I'll let people call me what they see off the bat. So, I didn't want to like right off the bat just like you know,

Lauren (29, healer)but um I feel like I was at a point where I was like, "All right, but it's time to [laughter] >> W

Brian Atlas>> cuz yo chat, what it are is she trans fishing? I >> They literally >> I want to say I want to call Cap. You're

Nyx>> just too beautiful. >> I want to call Cap on this. I I I mean >> I wish I wish >> this feels like the biggest glaze ever >> cuz dude say claiming like trans fishing

Latriceisn't that like a huge compliment like oh you passed so well I don't believe you. >> But there's a thing because even when on like girls were actually portraying themselves as trans just to make money. >> Oh wow. >> Oh yeah. And some of them weren't. >> Yeah.

Brian Atlas>> Um >> period. So, [laughter] you said you take two medications. >> Yeah. >> Oh, actually three. I forgot. >> What are the name of the medications?

Lauren (29, healer)>> Progesterone. Um, estradile like a shot and then um spiralactin. It like >> spir >> Yeah. That like blocks the even though I

Lauren (29, healer)I don't take it cuz usually people take it every day. I do every other day cuz my I don't really produce a lot of testosterone naturally cuz I have a deficiency. So the doctor was literally like, "Yeah, you either need to start

Brian Atlastestosterone or estrogen cuz your bones are going to be so weak cuz >> my like my hormones were just so low naturally." >> The the thing that is I think at least

Brian Atlasfor me is the voice. The voice is very uh >> feminine, >> convincing, I guess you could say. >> But I can kind of hear it after she said that. >> After she said what?

Brian Atlas>> She was trans. >> Like do you have to modulate your voice? modulated [clears throat] honor or this is how you just free flow naturally. >> Yeah, I didn't My voice is always like this. I didn't really have like a deep >> voice.

Brian Atlas>> Were you getting gay allegations before? >> What do you mean? No. Yeah, I used to People used to think I was a lesbian. Like >> the voice is way too convincing. I'm sorry. That's why I'm I'm on like I'm doubtful because the voice is

Brian Atlas>> I don't know why you trying me to. Shit's so annoying. >> Is very feminine. Like it's a female voice. I don't detect any dude in the voice. There's no [laughter] there's no penis in the

Nyxvoice, you know. >> That's the goal, I think. >> Thanks. >> Would it be inappropriate? [laughter]

Brian AtlasI guess we got to step off camera and you got to show me your dick. No, I'm just kidding. Kidding. I'm kidding. >> Oh, you # >> burritos. Burritos, guys. kid. You guys thought You guys thought Noah >> Unless Unless though. >> Got to see the date. Whip it out. No,

Brian AtlasI'm just kidding. [laughter] >> Uh, all right. Fun times. Good talk. Um, [sighs] >> let uh we'll do the video in a sec. Let me get the rest of the uh relationships ads from everybody. Relationship status.

Lauren (24)>> Um, I recently got out of a long-term relationship. Um, >> so you're single? >> No, I'm dating somebody. Okay. Um,

Brian Atlas>> how long? >> How long? What >> have the new person you've been there? >> Oh, like a couple weeks. >> Okay. Uh, but you recently got out of

Brian AtlasOkay. So, when did you get out of the long relationship, I guess. >> Um, like a month and a half ago. >> Okay. And how long are you dating that person?

Brian Atlas>> Uh, almost four years. So, longest relationship, four years. >> Yes. >> Who broke up with who? >> Um, he broke up with me. >> He broke up with you. >> Yeah. >> Okay. Was it on again, off again, or was there >> No, it was consistent the whole

Lauren (24)>> consistent. Was there a reason why he broke up with you? >> Yes. >> What was the reason? Infidelity? >> No. Um, we had a lot of issues. Like I

Lauren (24)had tried to break up with him before. Um, and I just like couldn't do it. And then I don't know. I think there were like

Lauren (24)some trust issues and he didn't like certain things that I was doing. Um, and I felt kind of like trapped by him. So, but >> what were the things you were doing he didn't like?

Lauren (24)>> Like um just going out places like by myself. Um >> bars? >> No, not bars. Like I went to um I went to Six Flags one day just by myself and

Lauren (24)he thought he got really mad about that. Um, and yeah, I mean I would go out different places to like >> You went You went alone? >> Yeah. >> Not You didn't even go with like girlfriends just alone?

Brian Atlas>> No, I just went by myself. >> Okay, that's kind of dope. Not going to lie. >> Yeah. Right. >> Sometimes you got to do [ __ ] on your own. >> I know. Like I'm not on >> Was he Was he kind of like always needing to be around you? >> No, not at all. >> Oh, so what was it?

Brian Atlas>> He just >> like he was hurt. Like he wanted to stand in line. >> No, I literally wanted to go. >> How was this guy? How old was he? He was older than how old? >> Like in his 40s. >> A [ __ ] 40. I [laughter] I would

Brian Atlasbe I if I was dating a younger chick and she's like begging me to go to all these places with her that I don't give a [ __ ] about, I'd be like, was he is he a Disney one of these Disney adults? >> No, no, no, no, no. >> Then what the [ __ ] is this guy whining

Brian Atlasabout? I would love it if my girlfriend was like, "Hey, Brian, I know you [ __ ] hate amusement parks. I'm [laughter] going just go to Go to the amusement park. Have fun." >> Yeah. I mean,

Lauren (24)>> I don't have to go with you. Perfect. Go by yourself for now. >> Yeah, he never >> Wow. He fumbled. He fumbled. >> Okay, thank you. I've been Yeah. Um, >> but wait, question. Did you like you tell him you were gone?

Brian Atlas>> Yeah, I told him and everyone >> and then he was cool with it but got mad after the fact. >> No, he wasn't cool with it before. >> He was mad. >> Oh, okay. So, you you told him? >> Yeah. >> And he was upset and you went anyway. >> Yeah.

Lauren (24)>> Why was Why? So, what was the reason he gave you that? Did he give you a reason of >> why he's mad? >> Why he didn't want you to go? >> Oh, yeah. It's I mean or to all these things I've gone to alone. It's like a safety thing for him. He thinks I'm not

Lauren (24)safe and he >> Legoland. Where was it? >> Uh six flag. Not safe. >> Yeah. >> I feel like the amusement parks are pretty safe.

Lauren (24)>> It was also like a He had a lot of like trust issues, I think, because he was very insecure. So he always thought anytime I was going somewhere, I was going to like I see >> cheat on him or something.

Brian Atlas>> Okay. So in any case, the would you say the big >> straw that broke the camel's back was the going to uh the amusement park? >> No, that wasn't that wasn't the big

Lauren (24)thing. That was just like one example. Um I had a friend at work that I would like hang out with. >> Guy? >> Yeah. >> Okay. You done [ __ ] up. You [ __ ] up. >> Well, it was your [ __ ] job. What was

Lauren (24)it? The the the job husband. work husband. >> Um, so, okay. >> I mean, to be fair, like a few months before I had kind of tried to break up with him and I was kind of like

Lauren (24)emotionally checked out since then, and I'm not making excuses, but I will say like when he finally broke up with me, I was just kind of like, okay. Like, even after 4 years, which sucks, but I mean,

Lauren (24)I the last few months I was kind of really not into it at all. So, >> damn. Okay. Um.

Brian AtlasUh. Okay. So, you were hanging out outside of work with your male coworker? >> Yes. >> And you were in a four-year relationship with this guy.

Brian Atlas>> When you were hanging out with the male co-orker, would it be like, "Okay, we're going to grab a bite to eat after work." >> Or would it be, "We're not even working today. I'm going to go kick it with

Brian Atlas[ __ ] whatever, isn't it, Justin?" No, we were literally like after work we were just >> But you never on a I mean that's still bad, but on a day where there wasn't work would you guys hang out?

Brian Atlas>> Oh, no, no, no. >> Okay, so after work y'all would go hang out. What time would you get off work? >> Uh like between 8 and 9. >> So, okay, even worse. I could Okay, it's

Brian Atlaswe're getting off at 2 p.m. and we're grabbing a bite to eat. It's daytime, whatever. At night you're kicking it with this guy and then did you ever would he ever come to your place? >> The my friend the guy your friend? >> No. [clears throat] No. >> Did you go to his house?

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