01:52:59Michaelanow no no um I guess the there was one uh episode that you guys did of it was like a girl who I think it was like um she said they were like pay pigs or
01:53:12Michaelasomething and then she would just get paid to ask for money for them and then you set a statement of Life on easy and I was just curious if that if you still
01:53:22Brian Atlashave that perspective towards like exotic dancers and stuff like that oh actually I see in your notes here so you wrote The Life on easy mode topic pertaining to wait is this this is
01:53:32Brian Atlasdirected at me correct yeah okay I agree you said that you agree that it is easy to just go on Tinder and get a sugar daddy but I'm curious on your stance on only fans and exotic dancers do you consider still consider that easy mode
01:53:45Brian Atlasso I mean I've made two statements on this um I've I've said that a lot of women have life on easy mode and I've also said that women have dating on easy mode so I can certainly start on the
01:53:56Brian Atlasdating on easy mode is that did you object to that one too dating on easy mode you agree that women have dating on easy mode I believe so does anybody disagree with that I bet she does but she got up to the
01:54:09Brian Atlasbathroom so you guys have dating on easy mode you can seeed yeah yeah just going to let me bulldoze over you you're just going to concede that women have dating on easy modl depends person no sometimes
01:54:20EsmeI feel like people will just like you know Brian I will disagree I will disagree okay no but don't now don't let me bulldoze you got clown makeup on dating is not an easy mode for you girl I do think that it it depends on the
01:54:33Brian Atlasperson that you're talking to what do you mean it depends any woman any woman even she any woman can be a let's start there yeah any woman can be a not every guy I tend to frame it
01:54:46Brian Atlaslike not every guy can be a stud but let's just say not every guy can be a very few men can be a in fact yeah yeah so you can at least get to the point of while meeting the person having sex with them that's getting a lot
01:54:58Esmefurther along in the dating process than a lot of men can even get if you consider that to be important in the dating ASP well it's like your foot in the
01:55:08Esmedoor okay so if you're if you don't partake in hookup culture for example for me you have the capacity to is the difference I feel like everyone has the capacity to do do women have more
01:55:20Brian Atlaspotential to do so yes no but here's my position so the vast majority of men don't even have the capacity to participate in hookup culture but that's
01:55:29Malikonly because they are picky if they absolutely want to be there are women you Cal bottom of the barrel whatever that they could be hooking up with they just choose not to but for the sake of argument if women date up
01:55:41Brian Atlasthey're not going for those men yeah I would argue that women who are say average looking can be and they could exclusively choose men that are more attractive than they
01:55:52Brian Atlasare yes I agree I agree with that so you're saying so again I mean it even even if I were to concede that while men can be so long as they date like
01:56:01Brian Atlasthree four five points below them in looks and even then I would argue still not really but yeah um yeah women still have the capacity to like procure sex
01:56:14Malikfrom men who are way more attractive than they are I I agree with that completely I think women have it on easy mode when it comes to hookups or maybe likes on a dating app or WR swipes whatever you want to call it but as far as actually finding a long-term
01:56:26Malikrelationship I think it's equally hard for men disagree totally disagree why no because I think a lot of men just want to hook up with women and they're not interested in long-term commitment okay let me ask you guys a question do you
01:56:38Malikguys currently have any guys in the friend zone do you have any guys in the friend zone would you be prepared to be in a relationship with you uh well most of my friendzone guys are in
01:56:48Andrew Wilsonrelationships what like what about friends own them prior to the relationship yeah but okay so and they're now in relationships could at the time but Malik he's asking if
01:56:59Andrew Wilsonthere's any men you know of who have a romantic interest in you that you do not reciprocate who are your friends yes okay so most men don't just have a
01:57:10Brian Atlashandful or even dozens of men in the pocket that oh hm Becky I okay I could be in a relationship with most men never have women in the pocket like that whereas most women will have at least
01:57:22Michaelaone dude who they could get into a relationship with at any given time cuz usually those women have moved on too like if they're in your back pocket usually when you come back to them
01:57:33Malikthey've probably moved on well I think the reason for that is men typically to the argument of men and women can't be friends I think women are more than capable of being friends with
01:57:44Malikmen with no romantic interest but I don't think men are really capable of being friends with women uh that they don't find attractive or see a benefit in the friendship in the future so that's why a lot of men will have a lot
01:57:58Malikof wom friends and maybe sometimes they do end up in the friend zone but women generally will be friends with multiple people regardless of if they see romantic potential I
01:58:07Malikagree okay yeah and and that's why men don't have a backpocket of friend-zoned woman because they're not even going to be talking to a woman in the first place
01:58:18Brian Atlasif they don't see a romantic don't really pursue men to the same degree to the same degreee you think you think women hitting on men disagree M that
01:58:30Andrew Wilsonridiculous men are the ones out there pursuing the women for the most part come on do you really disagree do you think that hold on no do you think that
01:58:38Brian Atlaswomen are approaching men and dming men at the same uh frequency that men okay Checkmate that's
01:58:48Maliknot ridiculous Mal ridiculous a you said women half clown makeup women do pursue men not at the rate that men pursue women though tilt
01:59:01Maliktilt your mic down a little bit right but okay are they pursuing them for like sexual advances or like for relationships both men and women pursue each other men just pursue women at a significantly higher rate well I'm I'm
01:59:12Maliktalking about that initial initiative any guy that I've talked with uh ever it's let I've been the one to initiate it okay yeah but but you're the
01:59:24Andrew Wilsonexception and you know that like you know you know that you're in the twitch okay you're in the twitch space I know you're in the twitch space you know how this sh Works
01:59:36TTS/Donations$1100 I wouldn't be able to keep my stable of side chicks if it wasn't for women like this cosigning the lies that I tell them you are helping us High net worth men pump and dump these girls on
01:59:47Andrew Wilsonbirth control well dang damn roasted okay uh Andrew you were making a point about twitch yeah I was saying I saying like Malik knows she knows for sure that
02:00:00Andrew Wilsonit's men are overwhelmingly pursuing these women I mean yes she's in all these Discord spaces she talks she knows like you know this is true that that's the case right I didn't say I did not
02:00:10Maliksay it wasn't he said that women do not pursue men generally speaking generally I of course there are women who will shoot the shot in fact I generally
02:00:20Malikimplies that there's a way low like that lower huh I generally implies that there's a very like only the outlier women pursue men yeah it's super low
02:00:33Brian Atlasit's super low I don't see that nowadays here here's an example here's an example if I let's say for a hundred nights in a row I go to a bar and I just sit at the
02:00:44Brian Atlasbar alone there might be a really good chance that I never get approached by a woman aund for those hundred nights 100 nights
02:00:55Brian Atlasokay a woman okay maybe I should frame it like who's more likely but a woman goes to a bar sits alone who do you think's going to more likely to get approached I'm going to
02:01:07Maliksay that that depends entirely on that's the most ever it doesn't depend on anything I get the pass if you hold on if if you if you have an attractive
02:01:17Malikguy if you have an attractive guy go to a bar that guy is way more likely to get approached by woman than an average woman really I would argue even a 10 a
02:01:29Malik10 out of 10 dude is not going to get approached as much as like a averagely attractive woman Brian I don't know why we're arguing we both agreed that men are way more likely to approach women
02:01:41EsmeI'm just saying women also approach men it's super rare I'll say maybe 15% okay going around the table uh have you guys ever approached a man in in public yes God oh these are agreeable women but
02:01:54Esmelike honestly nowadays who's going to be meeting people question everyone meets each other on the internet let me ask a different question I have you been approached more by men than you have
02:02:06Brian Atlasapproached men throughout your entire life Checkmate no it's not Checkmate because we already agreed on that I think here Malik you're going to pretend to be a man and you're going to pick up
02:02:17Esmeour good friend here go ahead you're in a Trader Joe's go ahead Trad Joe no this is quick you got to be quick you just sorry this has got to be quick
02:02:28Malikknow the cloud makeup yeah go go go hi can I ask your name I really like your dress thanks why is he wearing a dress nice to meet you Madison my name is mik nice to meet you are you from the area
02:02:40Unknownyeah I go to school here oh that's cool what you studying business that's cool do you enjoy the program uh it's not my favorite I'm thinking of leaving thinking of leaving do you know what you would do if you
02:02:52Brian Atlasleft no um do you like to have fun in the area and go out a lot I don't really like to go out I don't either do you play video games what the is going on wait hold on keep going keep going keep going keep going okay that was not
02:03:06Unknownbad that was good keep going keep going keep going you going to close I don't like to play what do you like to do for fun then if you don't like going out um I just like to sit at home and watch movies would you want to watch a movie
02:03:18TTS/Donationswith me sometime the Earl optimiz donated $100 Brian kick JoJo off the show she does not have the intellectual capability to answer Andrew's clear
02:03:29Brian Atlasquestions walking red flag put some clown paint on her too and send her to the streets wait so JoJo you have to put that on for the next five minutes okay
02:03:39Brian AtlasI'm getting PTSD from JoJo circus you heard JoJo circus is PSD right now there you go I think next time I send somebody to the corner and time out they have to wear that so your head's too big stop
02:03:52Celeste/Madisondon't talking about I think you have to adjust you got to adjust the little thing in the back wait continue on with the the roleplay go ahead wait she asked if I wanted to watch a movie with her and I said no but it's also just hard to I was like short I make a conversation
02:04:04Celeste/Madisonwhen you're not actually attracted to the person cuz if I really was attracted to you it would go elsewhere so if if I was a hot guy and we had the same exact conversation I said the same stuff how
02:04:15Brian Atlaswould have it ended up probably in yes but that what if she's an average what if she's an average girl though and it's not a hot guy it's also an average guy approaching her okay she probably still
02:04:26Maliksay she'd probably say no people gen don't approach people that they're not attracted to the whole point of approaching someone is you're attracted to them no but if you're an average dude you're going to shoot your shot with average looking chicks
02:04:38Malikyeah sometimes of chicks will still say no a lot of guys are intimidated by women that are on their level or more attractive so a lot of guys talk to women below them and they still get
02:04:50Malikrejected by women who are arguably less attractive because women get approached significantly more as we've both agreed on so it women are often annoyed by get
02:05:00Celeste/Madisondating on easy mode Checkmate I said it is we didn't disagree oh okay cool I good talk good talk the guy doesn't even have to be hot though woman just feel
02:05:10Brian Atlasthat validation no matter what and like hold that your name wait so okay you're and then there was life on easy mode yes okay yeah I mean so we've had women who come on the show who will just not even
02:05:23Michaelameet up with a dude and dudes will just send them thousands of dollars so that that I disagree with it was more of like I guess only fans in a sense or exotic dancers of
02:05:35Malikorely if I may I think she's asking the difference where you've said o or being in online horror is easy mode do you consider exotic dancing easy mode because there's a lot of physical strength and a lot more work that goes
02:05:47Brian Atlasinto that than just posting selfies of yourself naked online well I think it's I mean the amount if you can if you can procure for example a sugar daddy from the strip club and that sugar sugar
02:05:58Brian Atlasdaddy is in turn paying for your bills and your groceries without any sort of romantic or sexual reciprocation I would argue that that's life on easy mode but I mean it's harder to scale like when you're on o you can scale the amount of
02:06:11Celeste/Madisonmoney you can make whereas in a strip club it's kind of limited a little bit uh Maddie can you read this one really quick only action I and bars this gay gu shoving their thumb up my beep sometimes that's the highlight of my week at least
02:06:23Celeste/MadisonI was hot enough for a guy would that make your week ladies now up my make my year I don't think he's actually shoving the thumb up the okay thank you Nickelodeon appreciate it also think
02:06:35Celeste/Madisonthough like back to our other conversation if it wasn't easy doing that do you think a lot of girls would do that job I agree that I think it's easy to
02:06:46Michaelaobtain but maybe not maintain cuz like I mean going into like that field or that environment when as you say that you kind of alienate yourself from almost everyone else I feel like a
02:06:58Michaelalot of other people wouldn't really agree with your career choice or um how you spend your time because obviously that's your job so would it be but that
02:07:09Michaelalike not as in it's easy or I'm sorry not that it's harder than someone going to school and getting a job but what did you say that's hard too and I kind of want to say something about your point
02:07:21Bellabecause like you know being in a city like Vegas and I do know I would say quite a few people that work in especially exotic dancing industry um there's a lot of guys that do come in
02:07:33Bellalike you said that are kind of that sugar daddy material that'll try to be like oh I'll I'll give you such and such amount of money and I'll take you out of the club y y whatever um and I've noticed a lot of those girls don't necessarily have it easy because a lot
02:07:45Bellaof the times they kind of get coed into becoming some sort of sugar baby whatever but it's never enough for what they're looking for like to actually get out of the club so based off of like
02:07:58Bellafriends that I know from what they make in the club there's sugar daddies that'll go in there and say oh I'll give you this amount of money and I'll make these promises but they're really not keeping up with that so the amount of money they're making in the club doesn't
02:08:08Andrew Wilsonit it makes more than what some dude would come in the club and offer but can I can I ask you something since you have friends who've worked in that environment I know quite a few people
02:08:19Andrew Wilsonwho have worked uh as Security in those places or have managed them or various people I've talked to from all over the country and they claim that most of these strip clubs are Rife with
02:08:30Andrew Wilsonprostitution that uh probably most of the strippers engage in different in various forms of prostitution and get paid extremely handsomely for that wouldn't you agree that that's true it
02:08:42Bellais to a certain extent so in the city and Clark County and well Las Vegas in general it's actually a legal prostitution is illegal um but if you go that's because it's regulated right yeah
02:08:53Bellaso but you can go to NY County which is only about a 4 40-minute drive which is prump essentially um and it's legal but they kind of separate those so you do have like Bunny Ranch for example is in
02:09:05TTS/Donationsprump um that's a brothel it's not necessarily exotic dancing it's oh go ahead the ear optimiz donated $100 women have dating on easy mode
02:09:16TTS/Donationslet's be real here though women control access to sex but men control access to relationships and marriage only simps marry
02:09:26Malia304s the rest star cat ladies can I can I say something I think that it's easy mode because you have the choice to do that if you have a man who's like doesn't know what to do for money he can't just go on only fans and make a
02:09:39Malialot of money it's a choice that you made that men don't have that choice that's why it's easy mode is it hard yeah but it's your choice well even I mean even removing only fans and stripping from the thing
02:09:51Brian Atlaswe've had even just normal college girls come on the show and they're like oh yeah I'm getting offers to like dudes will just DM them oh I'm getting offers to be flown out
02:10:01Brian Atlasthey're sending feet picks for 300 bucks they they can go on seeking and find some sort of arrangement there so whereas that there's no corresponding
02:10:12Brian Atlaslike basically just getting almost free money from women there's no corresponding thing for men like have you have any of you what maybe certainly you didn't accept it have any of you
02:10:24Brian Atlasreceived offers from men to money for pictures even non-non pictures show me your feet do some stupid activity degrade me look these dudes are I don't know why these men do it and if
02:10:36Malikyou're watching the are you guys doing what the did you say received money or received offers offers either both I I receive offers almost on a daily basis I've never received money
02:10:46Brian Atlasfrom I've never received any anything from a woman no and I'm out there in the public for a decade even just no women are like oh Brian uh can you call me a 304 send a voice
02:10:58Malikmemo I'll give you a hundred bucks they ain't doing it I I believe actually when when Andrew and I first met I blame men though I blame the men for this one one
02:11:07Malikpoint I debated was that um no matter how old you are no matter how attractive you are as a woman you always have the backup plan of finding a man who's going
02:11:19Malikto be able to take care of you and never working a day in your life but as a man you do not have that option unless in very rare scenarios you meet a sugar mama who's going to take care of you but
02:11:29Brian Atlas99% of the time any woman can find a man to fully sustain them if they choose not to work question going around the table have you received an offer to be like a
02:11:40Brian Atlassugar baby or to be paid just a guy to send you money to I don't know not yeah let's just do sugar du sugar baby have you had like a sugar daddy sugar baby offer I haven't I have had
02:11:52Esmethe offers yes thoughts how many do you think in like just total your whole life oh my gosh uh over 100 yeah probably yes
02:12:01Michaelaover yeah in general yeah what about you yeah over 100 yeah over 100 probably like two two okay that's still you know yeah like a handful handful same thing
02:12:13Celeste/Madisonhandful into the mic if you can uh same thing handful Madison a lot now but even like even when I was in like high school like I would still get offers like that it's like
02:12:24Brian Atlasyikes uh yeah I would say that uh I've had zero zero offers and most men most most
02:12:35Malikmen ain't getting uh I agree and not even one their whole life and if it is if if it is men offering that it's usually gay men offering to take care of men it's almost never the woman it's
02:12:47Bellastill a man offering the money yeah I exactly I will say though I feel like it also is dependent on like location and like the situation because I I I know a couple of guys who have been approached
02:12:59Bellaby older wealthy women in my area and they're like hey I think you're really you know just a cute little stud why don't you let me take you out and we'll
02:13:09Andrew Wilsonfigure something out and it's usually not never equated to what sure but again this is the exception proving the rule yeah right so you're pointing to the exception and the re the reason that
02:13:21Brian Atlasit's an exception is because there is a rule yeah so the exception proves the rule here I don't and I'm not saying it doesn't happen like I've heard of it happening I believe you that there's
02:13:33Brian Atlasguys but it's so rare and I would also argue that the women that are doing that probably aren't going to be nearly as generous they almost might even do it
02:13:45Brian Atlasbegrudgingly like there's probably something back there where it's like not at the sort of willing level that men are going to be doing it as and like I
02:13:57Malikit it's different it's got to be different somehow you may disagree with me but from what I've seen in the very few instances where I know younger men who have gone to who are sugar babies to
02:14:08Maliksugar mamas it's usually older women mils whatever you want to call them who have a lot of money are single kind of desperate so they're like I'll just offer to pay a hot guy because I'm never going to get that any other way to a certain extent I mean from like the
02:14:20Bellapeople that I know that have been in those scenarios it's usually some hotter yeah hotter divorced mil I'll say and she's just kind of like the it's that get back so yeah I will say there's always that like hidden agenda in the
02:14:33Bellabackground so I do agree with you on that but um it's usually that hotter mil that's like you know what screw my ex-husband I'm going to go grab me a stud and I'm just going to walk around with my little arm candy and I'll I'll
02:14:43Bellapay his bills for the next however long but they usually don't last it's like a temporary thing in most cases as well from what I've seen yeah I I've had a couple that have lasted like there there
02:14:54Bellawas a guy you from high school that ended up getting with as crazy as it sounds somebody's in our school's mom but uh it lasted for a good while
02:15:05Bellafrom what we all saw and we all lasted past tense yes the only reason it ended was because she what we had heard was she was just getting put in a rut
02:15:16Brian Atlasbecause of getting laid off because the co so that was like why it ended but let's uh we have something that we're going to react to here that's maybe a
02:15:26Brian Atlaslittle bit related to Andrew and you're back and forth on our last show uh Nick can you pull up the uh I think it the first thing is the news article there's
02:15:37Brian Atlastwo of them o all right so we have Jane Fonda you're going to have to move us to the uh Jane Fonda claimed
02:15:47Brian Atlasshe's only interested in young lovers because she doesn't like old skin 85-year-old also revealed she has okay that doesn't
02:15:58Brian Atlasnext and then this is from the New York Post why ashamed Jane fond to 85 with only data 20-year-old Lover now we have the clip Nick if you can uh pull up the the next
02:16:08Brian Atlasone and then full screen all right oh wait Nick there's something up there in the corner X out of that okay go ahead you have to click block sometimes that's fine I'm ashamed
02:16:21Unknownto say this but if I were to take a lover he'd have to be 20 really yeah wait she ashamed to say start start from the beginning video tab please excuse
02:16:36Unknownme I'm ashamed to say this but if I were to take a lover he'd have to be 20 really oh yeah now why specifically because I don't like old skin
02:16:49Brian AtlasI don't I'm right there with you I'm doing everything I can to keep it fresh but yeah old skin that's it so going around the table
02:16:58Brian Atlason this she 85y old woman she says she's only down to date 20 year olds adult men right uh any objection do you guys
02:17:07JoJoobject any objections that's crazy um object I think your reaction OB think that's weird that she seeks that
02:17:16JoJoout that she's like that that's the go ahead yeah that's the only like men that she is finds acceptable like she doesn't like old skin 20 isn't like
02:17:27Esmethat's way young like there's lot of Ages you can get I think it's kind of weird but in my brain it doesn't seem as wrong but then I think about it and I put her if if it was like a man saying
02:17:38Esmeit I'd be like way more taken back I don't know why you said it doesn't it doesn't seem as wrong as what as like for example since she's a woman she's saying it and she's saying that she'd
02:17:50Esmeonly take like a 20-year-old because of their youthful skin or whatever in my brain I don't know why in my brain it's like okay you know work it or whatever
02:18:00Esmebut then I in my brain put a man saying that and it was just like ew I don't know why there's that so it's not as bad as if it was a man saying I think I
02:18:11Brian Atlasthink it is equally as bad but in my brain I don't I don't know why I don't like well when you inter ual it perhaps you can like think about it and then
02:18:21Brian Atlasit's as bad but your initial like kneejerk reaction is not as bad as if it was the reverse yeah yeah see it's you go girl right you go girl right yeah
02:18:33Maliawhat what about you go ahead um I think that it's totally okay to have preferences it's not really something that I could see myself being into but it's it's legal and it's a
02:18:42Malikpreference go ahead okay so I want to start by saying referencing my previous debate with Andrew um according to his logic there's nothing wrong with that that's fine it's legal let them be happy
02:18:54Malikdo whatever makes them happy um but I personally uh well the only reason a 20-year-old would get with an 85-year-old regardless of who's which gender is older or not is for money like
02:19:08Malikthey're get married they're going to die get their inheritance whatever maybe but um I personally think it's weird as if an 85-year-old woman or man only
02:19:19Malikwants to date 20-year-olds because of tight skin and I mean God yes I find that extremely icky morally I guess there's nothing wrong with it it's if
02:19:30Malikit's legal but I do not think in any scenario any person what is that more than four times someone's age should be wanting to have sexual relations with someone I think your math checks out
02:19:43Michaelathere that's good all right we'll come back to that what about you um I kind of agree with uh Esme of like um it would definitely be a lot I feel like I would cringe if it was a guy saying it with a
02:19:54Michaelayounger girl but it's it's definitely it's still weird it's a 60-year like all for dating up which no matter what the gender but it's definitely a weird Gap if you don't think about it's like I
02:20:04Bellathink I think it's kind of like up to preference which I'm sure you know few of you have said but personally I feel like it's just robbing the cradle
02:20:14Bellaand I think it's kind of gross and icky like it just that word I hate that word so much it it it just it
02:20:24Bellaseems like just nasty there's no reason to it and yeah it's legal but it's what's the point you're kind of just taking away from somebody's life for
02:20:33Bellayour own personal gain your own personal you know lust so that's my opinion on that okay uh what about you uh I think
02:20:46Celestethat the age differ difference like the age Gap is pretty extreme do you want me to repeat myself no you're good go okay yeah I think it's pretty extreme uh that's like your grandparents age when
02:20:57Celeste/Madisonyou're 20 if not even my grand she belong oh sorry sorry okay accidental click um what about you I don't oppose to age Gap relationships
02:21:08Celeste/Madisonso I mean I preferably would not myself but I have no opposition to anyone who prefers to be in a agap relationship can I press you on that a little bit
02:21:17Maliksure so you're 19 years old yes so if there were 85-year-old men saying they only wanted to have sexual relations with people in your age group
02:21:28Celeste/Madisonhow would you view those men would you view them as weird this 85-year-old woman only wanting a 20-year-old man it's just preference what if a woman is like I only want a data provider that's preference it's a preference like like I
02:21:42Maliksaid in I don't think it makes a difference if it's a man or woman honestly past 70 you're your brain is is like that of a a younger person anyway oh so it's like a full circle kind of
02:21:54Brian Atlaslike no no no no no I didn't say it's still weird as to date someone a quarter your age cuz I think previously you I don't know if you were making this argument on this I don't know if you were making this argument but you're
02:22:05Brian Atlassaying something along the lines of well the the the prefrontal cortex is not fully developed until you're 25 but like couldn't you then make the argument well does it equal out
02:22:17Brian Atlasdoes it equal out if they have Alzheimer's like if they're dating somebody with alzheimer's is it now a little more like equal playing field you know you know what I'm I'm going to I'm
02:22:28Brian Atlasgoing to say sure sure okay so it's like no go between like 30 to like 70 but after 70 there's probably enough mental decline where it's like it's probably
02:22:40Brian AtlasFair hon honestly you're going to call me dumb for this but I think the 20-year-olds would actually be in the wrong trying to take advantage say that's a thing you'll have these young
02:22:51Brian Atlaswomen who will like go after these people who are like incompetent basically they'll actually try to like it's actually I think a crime it's like elder abuse and they'll try to like
02:23:02Maliksiphon money basically so czy so I'll say and I'm just throwing random numbers out okay but I'll say between 40 and 69 if you're looking for younger women
02:23:13Malikyou're a bit weird but if you're 70 plus and you're hooking up with with younger women like you're scile the younger women or younger men are the ones in the wrong because they taking advantage of older women can I make a point they
02:23:24Maliacould be of course go ahead thank um your point is also really silly to be like oh the prefrontal cortex isn't developed till 25 it also starts going back at 40 so they're equal they're
02:23:35Malikequal oh but I I use that in addition to life experience I said that um I think maybe the minimum age of consent should be raised after certain age GS like I don't think someone fresh out of high
02:23:48Malikschool who's 18 who has no life experience whatsoever whose brain is not fully developed um should be in a relationship with 40 50 year olds yeah so let me ask a a question if you don't
02:24:00Andrew Wilsonmind for all the women on the panel if you don't mind raising your hands for this question how many of you can say with confidence that this scenario gives you the ick just raise your hands if it
02:24:12Malikgives you the ick okay we got basically everybody it doesn't give you the ick I mean that's your whole thing yeah I thought that was it does but it's not that bad it's it's
02:24:24Andrew Wilsonit would be so much worse with J with Hanoi Jane here in a 20-year-old does it give you the does it give you the ick I'll say sure that was all of you raised your hands basically right okay
02:24:35Bellathere we go all of you raise your hands we have to look at I'll take doesn't give you the it but we also have to look at what the situation was it wasn't about dating it was about lovers so hang on hang on I got a second
02:24:47Andrew Wilsonquestion right for all of you who did raise your hands right even though it gives you the ick do any of you have a moral objection to it raise your hand if
02:24:55Andrew Wilsonyou have that my my ick was not about the age you have a moral objection to it no no no not you um sorry gal in the black shirt you have a moral objection I
02:25:07Bellado I just feel like it's it's like cuz in this sit in this scenario it's not about dating it's about like it's about lust it's about
02:25:17Bellaabout sex so it's not I I just feel like in that sense you're like I said you're robbing the cradle you're you're you how do you know it's about lust though if they get married and they fall in love
02:25:30Andrew Wilsonbut she's not talking about married she's talking about a lover yeah yeah well I mean in that case I'll concede that moral argument right if you just could a love her but but I would concede that regardless of the age and I'll
02:25:42Andrew Wilsonagree with you in the sense of so then so then in the sense of just age itself do you have any moral argument against in that no well my sister's dated or
02:25:50Bellashe's 32 and she's married to a 69-year-old so oh yeah so but no moral objection yeah so in that case I I have no moral objection to that because they're married and they have a baby
02:26:01Bellatogether and they're they're happy and they're in love but in the sense of it's coming for just sex just lust I do have a moral objection to that yeah yeah I do too I so I'll concede to that point any
02:26:13Andrew Wilsonof you any of the rest of you who raised your hands do you have a single moral objection to this an actual moral objection I don't know if this is moral and I'm not saying her specifically
02:26:25Malikbut like I said the only case where I would see it wrong is if the person is scile and cannot capably make mental decisions for themselves and younger people are taking advantage especially
02:26:36Andrew Wilsonknowing they have money um yeah but that makes no sense because 20year old dating donated
02:26:44TTS/Donations$100 my wife is 11 years is younger than I am we started dating when she was 23 I strongly urge young men don't marry until 30 plus and established and to
02:26:55Andrew Wilsondate in the mid late 20s range for success and happy life good for you gri I agree anyway back to that Malik um it it would be the same regardless of the age Gap in that situation anybody dating
02:27:07Malikanybody else who was you would have a moral objection with right Andrew I do not give a how old someone is if they're having sex I'm against casual sex and hookup culture in general so I don't give a how old they are as
02:27:19Maliklong as they're legal age our argument last time which we're piggy backing off of was the fact that older men specifically only want to marry and be in relationships with women Fresh Out
02:27:31Andrew Wilsonhigh school but we don't need to get into that that yet or did you ever figure out a moral argument for that or no are we still not there we we can move on from that we can move on from that
02:27:41Malikokay okay fair enough no I I did but I I don't want to I know last time we argued about that for almost 2 hours so I don't want to reopen that c all right all right fair enough wait do you have that
02:27:52Unknownsame position in this scenario like no because this is about casual sex I said if anything the 85-year-old is the victim okay okay but I think I think this I don't think it matters you said I
02:28:04Malikthought you said this one was less icky for some reason it is because they're scile and they're just looking for sex because they're about to die within the next I don't know how many years and that's really up to say but it's
02:28:15Maliktrue they're living not her specifically but 85 year-olds are living out the last years in their life if their last wishes before they die are to hook up with younger people let them live their life and what if the 40-year-old doesn't know
02:28:28Malikwhen he's going to die and he wants to have sex with a 20-year-old then he can do it okay so I I just I I don't think 40e oldold should obsess for specifically woman fresh out of high school that that was my argument last
02:28:39Andrew Wilsontime come on Malik you wouldn't give the poor guy a single Hail Mary you know or like it's the end of his life it's what he wants want more than anything else you wouldn't just cut him a there's plenty of Poes who would I'm not one of
02:28:50Malikthem though no you wouldn't give them any slack at all no no I would date up to 10 years older than me but I'm I'm
02:29:00Andrew Wilsonalso almost 25 like I'm not a child fresh out of high school mhm no I I get it I mean I I agree with you broadly that we agree on a lot Andrew you just
02:29:11Andrew Wilsonlike AR promiscuous sex is bad I'm just saying you know at 85 years old if a dude who has tons of cash is like oh I want to do you can at least understand
02:29:21Malikit right if Hano Jane can say it I'll I'll hand him off to to someone I know I I'll meet someone I I'll I'll wingman for him okay if an 85-year-old man is dying wishes to have sex with a younger
02:29:33Andrew Wilsonwoman I will wingman for him but that will never be me well no I didn't say you had to do it what the hell Malik it didn't say you
02:29:43Malikspecifically had just say at least understand guy might want to at 85 right yes I did I I just brought up that point you're just rephrasing my point and trying to use it against me yeah so
02:29:55Celeste/Madisonconcede it since it's your point okay sure sure I want to know what everyone's age ranges like how far they would date up that's a good
02:30:05JoJoquestion we'll start with you uh I it just depends on what like ah everyone's going to hate this answer
02:30:16Malikjust give a straight answer person depends on what's in here what's the youngest what's the oldest on the heart I guess the oldest would probably be like
02:30:27Celeste/Madison40s wow but what about what's in their heart 20ish years older than you yeah 15
02:30:34JoJoto 20 would you date younger yeah uh not how mucher like 21 probably the youngest would you date someone your mom's age see that's why I said like 40s range so
02:30:46JoJothey have to be younger than your mom and they're good uh I I think I I I think anyone of that age would freak my parents out if they were around their
02:30:56Esmeage like if I dated them so okay I say seven years seven years now band down up no not down I don't think I would be I don't think I'd be willing to date somebody younger than
02:31:07Maliame like 22 to 42 whatever you wouldn't date down no I'm 27 so 22 they just got to be able to like illegal
02:31:18Malikdrinking age yeah would be fun yeah so I was born in 99 so my age range is the '90s so minimum one year younger and
02:31:28Malikmaximum like 9 10 years older I guess the most I'd push it is maybe like 12 13 years but I don't want to date someone who's in their mid-30s or later so like 32 33 would be the most i''s say like
02:31:41Bellawithin I wouldn't date younger than me but probably like up to 10 years older than me me yeah I'd say about 27 to 30 range and then I don't
02:31:53Belladate younger than me just cuz I feel like it's too close to 18 makes me feel creepy so I'm like 21 and up for sure and then my cutof is like I'd say
02:32:04Celeste30 I think my Max would probably be uh older like eight years older and as far as younger maybe like Max 3
02:32:13Celeste/Madisonyears younger than I I don't think I would date younger I think I like older men cuz they're little more mature I mean yeah but just like yeah yeah like
02:32:26Malikeven if I was older I don't think I would dat younger either yeah but it's just because women mature and are ready to sell down at a much younger age than men especially with like fertility and
02:32:36Malikstuff women want to by Nature be having children between like 18 and 28 and men don't usually want to sell down until they're in their 30s and having established
02:32:47Malikcareer wait what we're talking about like we're talking about AGS men generally prefer to settle down when they're older past 25 when by Nature
02:32:58Brian Atlasideally women are most fertile when they're younger than 25 I'm super around that age I do want to say like so just on the age Gap thing before you criticize older men for
02:33:09Brian Atlasliking younger women remember that younger women like older men I didn't criticize it true and also what ends up H you got like okay so 23y old man let's
02:33:21Brian Atlassay he can't get a 23y old woman but when he turns 33 maybe he can so is it the could it also be the case that women start this cycle by
02:33:31Malikrejecting men their own age when they're in their 20s oh 100% all of us just said we're almost entire panel stated you keep agreeing with me and then saying
02:33:43Brian AtlasCheckmate it's not Checkmate if we agreed from the beginning well okay how about this would it is it weird is does it give you the ick if a I hate that word but go ahead okay so I'm 34 would it give you let's let's
02:33:56Brian Atlasmake this personal I'm 34 would it give you the ick if I was dating a 19-year-old I I would I think that's yes
02:34:06Malikbut I would only no I would say no but if you specifically were going into environments that you knew only 18 to 20 year olds were and specifically looking
02:34:17Malikfor someone of that age range I would find that to be PR she reached out to me I think that's F and I said this last time to you I think it's fine if people naturally meet if they're both of consensual age and they naturally meet
02:34:29Malikthat's fine but older men who specifically Target which is a small percentage but older men who specifically Target and prey on younger women I think that's I don't know about this whole
02:34:41Andrew Wilsonpre it's pretty loaded M it's very loaded it is load very load in the same way that you say well these high school guy with arthritis was um was a
02:34:52Andrew Wilsonpredator because he had arthritis on this very I'm not kidding she really said that Malik what's a predator here a predator is someone who prays on the
02:35:03Malikmore innocent the more naive the more unintelligent what does it mean to pray so if he justun pull the definition pull up the definition of pray if you
02:35:13Andrew Wilsondon't know Brian hang on if he just runs in to a woman who is more naive and less intelligent and this and that and they hit it off and they get married you don't give a great let's some live
02:35:23MalikH forever yes I I don't give a yeah okay so then what would make it predatory exactly it does it's not predatory at all it's if they naturally meet but if someone is going into
02:35:35Andrew Wilsonenvironments I personally have known people who uh back when I was Inge hang on hang on let's back up it's not predatory for any of the values that you consider that this guy is looking for
02:35:46Andrew Wilsonwhich makes him a predator to not be predatory as long as he finds them randomly no are you serious Malik Andrew you we both don't differ that much on
02:35:59Andrew Wilsonopinions you're trying to word this in a way deliberately well that's because you're deliberately using the word predatory you got a problem with the word predatory need this fleshed out Andrew
02:36:10Malikyou love examples let me give you an example there is someone who is in your age range okay not targeting you specifically but one of your friends right and he is interested in finding a
02:36:21Maliklong-term partner and when he goes on dating apps he sets his age range to maximum 20 years old on a dating app or he goes to college parties or
02:36:31Andrew Wilsonenvironments where there's only younger girls would you not find that behavior odd predatory though yes I find that predatory as well oh yeah yeah so can we get back to the idea of predatory even
02:36:44Andrew Wilsonif I found it odd you pull up the what would make it what would make it predatory I want to know what it makes it predatory that's my problem here wh why don't you want to pull up
02:36:55Andrew Wilsonthe definition of predatory or prey I mean I can I don't think it's going to help you much I think they're just hung up on actual you want to just pull it up because I I don't think think she's
02:37:05Andrew Wilsontrying to use a loaded word like that out to be I'm using the word correctly it seems that both may not know the definition would you consider will you consider men
02:37:16Andrew Wilsonright shos who prow the streets at night looking for women to SAA they would be predatory wouldn't they yes yes okay so
02:37:28Andrew Wilsonthat's why I have a problem with the you using that word for this because I think you're trying to equate what we think of when we think of the word predatory as dangerous human being who's a predator
02:37:38Andrew Wilsonwho's doing horrible things to this guy who you can't actually make an argument for why they're doing something wrong so you use the word predator in order to make them look bad or give a moral
02:37:49Malikimplication that's why I have a problem I'm not calling them future sex offenders that's King ran please pull up the definition of prey pray you use the word though so shouldn't you know what
02:38:02Brian Atlasthe the definition and I know I'm using the word correctly I pull it up I will pull it up why don't you tell us what the definition is first and we'll counter check it to what I pull up so tell us what if I tell you the
02:38:14Andrew Wilsondefinition then I want you to Alo Tell me the definition before we fact check I didn't use the word but you are telling me I'm using the word incorrectly when I know I'm using it correctly did I say
02:38:23Andrew Wilsonthat okay relating to or Den notating an animal or animals praying naturally on others to seeking to exploit or oppress others I think that number two would be
02:38:35Andrew Wilsonthe thing that you would be going for seeking to exploit or or oppress right yes okay great so why would it be
02:38:44Malikoppressive exploitative to do this between these two people who agree to do this who are adults okay yeah why so you are exploiting the fact that they have
02:38:57Malikno knowledge of the real world and you could easily take advantage of someone who is a lot younger and more naive than yourself if that it's your only age range you should reflect on yourself why don't you want women who are in their
02:39:11Malik20s hang on hang on just the argument just the argument why is it oppressive or exploitative it is I just explained it you can keep playing the song and I I don't want you to ramble I just want the
02:39:23Maliksimple concise argument from you Malik why is it exploitative or oppressive cue the music cue the music I'm sorry you didn't hear the first time I answered but it is
02:39:34Malikexploitive to specifically Target as a dating preference woman who you know may be way more naive and have
02:39:44Andrew Wilsonway more L life experience than you wait so maybe you're using the word maybe that means that they also be getting hang on that also means that they may
02:39:56Andrew Wilsonnot be getting exploited right yeah but there's a high probability that oh there's a high by an older man now why would a younger woman want to date an older man
02:40:07Andrew WilsonAlec to exploit their money usually yeah I said it's wrong both way being hyper predatory towards these old men Malik what a bunch of sick women these these older men I agree hyper
02:40:19MalikPredator aren't they like I said Andrew we could argue about this for two hours maybe we can come back to it I do want Malik please read this one finally a girl that doesn't wear makeup to the
02:40:31TTS/Donationspodcast fourth girl from the right I'm so glad him not dating donated $100 he's hot he's Rich he's morally
02:40:41TTS/Donationsstraight he's perfect he invites you over next next to his bed is biometric safe inside an armorite AR-15 rifle with
02:40:52TTS/Donationsa fully loaded 30rd magazine your reaction you go ahead sure that's fine you date a guy who owned a fire uh
02:41:02Andrew WilsonAR15 um I if there's a good reason for it yeah sure self-defense that is a wild gun for a selfdefense to own wait why is that why yeah why is that why would that
02:41:13JoJobe a wild gun for self-defense it's well I mean it seems a little extreme compared to like a I want to extremely defend myself if I have to well no for like just like you could just get a if
02:41:25Andrew WilsonI'm going to purpose of it hang on if I'm going to defend myself with a gun the purpose of it is determinate the other person correct that's what I'm defending myself for why would I give a if I had too
02:41:37Andrew Wilsonmuch of an advantage why would I care about that don't I want maximum Advantage I think think there there's a
02:41:46JoJopotential for more like more harm that on yourself or the people around
02:41:55Andrew Wilsonyou why would there be more harm for the people around me cuz can I ask 15 is like have you ever shot a gun in your life no okay I thought so well an AR-15
02:42:07Andrew Wilsonis is an assault rifle that's that's a no it's not an assault rifle it's stands for ArmaLite does not okay I don't know anything about guns not only that but just so you
02:42:19Andrew Wilsonunderstand most gun crime in the United States perpetrated by people who use handguns almost nobody is ever killed with a rifle inside of the US more people are killed with hands and feet than they are with rifles including the
02:42:31Andrew WilsonAR-15 just so you know it seems like if you were going to use a gun that might be the safest one to use for self-defense wait so would you be more in favor of someone defending their home or defending
02:42:44Brian Atlasthemselves with a handgun a pistol versus a r AR-15 yeah so let me ask you a question are you against semi-automatic weapons
02:42:57Brian Atlasyeah so you're against pistols and handguns then because a pistol and handgun it was a bit of a trick question but pistols pistols and handguns are
02:43:09Andrew Wilsonsemi-automatic weapons what are we defending let's be maximum charitable maximum charitable to you okay hope so I don't know
02:43:18TTS/Donationsanything anti-un people are so clueless Most states do not even allow the use of 5.55 road for hunting deer that's true it's too small it's uh too small of a
02:43:30Andrew Wilsonround but yeah when when it comes to you're just talking about those guns where you pull the trigger and it goes bang right every single time bang bang bang sure those are the ones you're talking about yeah so I mean that would
02:43:41Malikbe a revolver also just so you know I think with all due respect you just have no gun knowledge and that just sounds scary and that's what based your reaction would you say that's correct and I'm not trying to insult you my my
02:43:53Brian Atlasknowledge of an AR-15 is from like video games that's what I thought in general wait but AR-15s Andrew they're also semi-automatic weapons right you pull the trigger once one bullet comes out well I mean yes generally speaking
02:44:06Andrew Wilsonthat's true though you can get an automatic version of them if you have the right licensing but yes they are self-loading firearms gas operated self-loading so self-loading is semi-automatic that's what that means
02:44:18Andrew Wilsonbut in this particular case yes the AR-15 about the safest gun in the world you can own almost nobody's ever killed with them ever so I mean more people
02:44:28Andrew Wilsonagain are killed but with hands and feet than they are with an AR-15 and hand guns which are much easier to sneak into public than a yeah hand guns hand handguns are where almost all the crime
02:44:40Andrew Wilsonis and it's only specifically with demographics which exist in major Metropolitan areas usually um they're in lower income areas so that's almost all the gun crime in the United States very
02:44:52Andrew Wilsonlittle of it's actually perpetrated by legal gun owners to be honest with you going around the table on this I if you do you remember the prompt yeah if I saw
02:45:03Maliaa AR what would I say I'd probably ask when we can go to the range yeah I know I would hope whoever I'm dating would have a gun really yeah I would also ask
02:45:12Bellato go to the range yeah f safe I've grown up around them so yeah I wouldn't have a problem with it me neither I like
02:45:22Brian Atlasto feel protected this poor this poor girl this poor girl the first one the first one all right let me it's over it's over I've never shot a
02:45:34Celeste/Madisongun and guns make me uncomfortable cuz I'm just not around them so I'll take you ba we could go to the range can you read this mate been dating a long time coming been a fan since last last March
02:45:45Celeste/Madisonmind you I am 5 foot tall and have given up on dating because or because of the woman on your show Girls birth laughter at the thought of men truth bomb donated
02:45:56TTS/Donations$100 the R15 is the civilian version of the M16 which an automatic weapon they both shoot the same round repeal the NFA yeah so truth bomb's awesome he's
02:46:09Andrew Wilsonright they should repeal the NFA it's but uh he's absolutely correct the the AR-15 even though there is still military versions of it it's basically just a civilian model of n16 A1 which was
02:46:21Andrew Wilsondeveloped by Eugene Stoner but anyway yeah yeah yeah he's he's right totally right about that thank you truth Brom so continue on with this one um girls burst into laughter at the thought of my men the thought of men my highight even
02:46:34Malikexisting brutal 31 years old zero chance in life disagree hee I disagree you disagree with his message I will say that the large majority of women woman is looking to
02:46:45Malikdate a a man who's tall or taller than them at least but I think being 5T is not a deal breaker like even for me personally I ideally look for men who
02:46:57Malikare my height or taller if we're talking about completely um materialistic stuff but if I found a man who checked off all my boxes and who would be a good father and take care of me I don't care about
02:47:08Brian Atlasheight and I think a there are not a lot of women who would agree with me but there are women I you agree the thing is though you have to account for there's a
02:47:19Brian Atlascertain percentage of women who will say they don't care about height but and even if like there's something in your subconscious that you're still going to be
02:47:30Malikless like knee-jerk attracted to a guy who's shorter than you it's it's funny because the three of us um Kirby Mal and I actually had this conversation in the
02:47:40Malikcar and it's not that um height matters it's a lot of lot of times shorter guys are just very insecure and not confident and they just carry themselves in a
02:47:50Malikvery just put offish way if shorter men had more confidence I think women would be more attracted to Shorter men well this is kind of a what came first the
02:48:01Brian Atlaschicken or the egg well what if there was just sads of women that didn't want to date them because they were shorter so that helped in their uh development
02:48:12Malikof being insecure about their height and I agree it's it's because of society that they feel insecure but just because Society puts you into a box doesn't mean you have to hate yourself and be unhappy
02:48:23Malikwith your life you if you're short you just need to accept that and just you can be successful in the business world you can work on the gym there are things you can change about yourself but you're never going to be able to change your
02:48:35Brian Atlasheight so you need to just accept it and be confident about it I I mean I certainly agree with you that you ought to accept your circumstances and try to make the best of it as you can but
02:48:46Brian Atlaspractically speaking I would tend to agree with him that uh you know a guy who is 5 foot tall is going to face certain specific struggles when it comes to dating related to his height but he
02:48:58Maliksaid he's given up and I I'm saying I there are I don't think he should give up who who would date I don't know my advice him would just be to accept that you're short and don't don't give a you're going to get rejected a lot more
02:49:10Brian Atlasthan someone who's not short but you just need to keep trying also he lives in communist Canada so maybe he could like try his hand at like I maybe like Asian countries Latin America you know they're shorter over there I mean there