Psycho Troll ASSAULTS Nick?! KICKED OUT! Single Mom Went On 30 Dates In 30 Days?! | Dating Talk #159

Date: 2024-05-08
Duration: 6h 59m

Identified Speakers

SPEAKER_04Natalia(guest)
SPEAKER_05Blasie(guest)
SPEAKER_06Macy(guest)
SPEAKER_09Brian Atlas(host)
SPEAKER_10Mason(guest)
SPEAKER_11Missy(guest)
SPEAKER_12Alexy(guest)
SPEAKER_13Diana(guest)
SPEAKER_14Alissa(guest)

Key Moments

00:19:29
QuoteDiana reveals she was married at 17 for 14 years with 5 children: "I got married at 17, I was married for 14 years, I have five kids." Gives context for her intentional dating approach and 30-dates story.
00:23:54
QuoteDiana reveals she went on ~30 first dates in one month: "you went on 30 dates in a one month period" confirmed by Diana. Brian probes: how with 5 kids? Diana: coffee/lunch dates, controlled schedule as entrepreneur.
00:54:45
QuoteMason reveals he is a Christian virgin waiting for marriage. Brian acts as "legal counsel." Mason: "I'm a really devout Christian so that's really important to me." Partner requirements: Christian, virgin preferred, body count <5. June 25 AF ship date.
01:50:30
QuoteMissy accepts Brian's 4.5 rating with equanimity: "I rated myself the same thing so it doesn't hurt my feelings." Discussed her lost weight and ongoing body improvement since sobriety.
02:45:32
OtherGUEST REMOVED: Blasie removed from show after repeated sunglasses violation and trolling. During removal she grabbed camera operator Nick's phone, appeared to attempt a punch, and broke his necklace. Mason called out: "keep your hands off him!" Brian: "take take your seat — that was nuts." Nick confirmed he was okay.
02:45:32
ControversyBrian tells Blasie to leave calmly: "kindly just leave, all right — didn't really want to stay here for that long." Blasie calls all guests liars for denying the pre-show sunglasses agreement. All other guests confirm the agreement.
06:15:22
QuoteMissy's body count of ~60 disclosed: Brian reads from pre-show notes "you said around 60." Missy confirms "around 60, I don't know exact number." Clarifies: 95% were 1-2x encounters and 95% of sex outside relationships occurred under the influence of alcohol. Two partners in last 6 years since getting sober.

Topics Discussed

00:00:12
Guest introductions

Brian introduces panel of 8 guests. Each states name, age, location, occupation. Alissa: 18, UCSB psychology. Missy: 36, Kingston Ontario, critical care. Diana: 35, St. Pete FL, healthcare entrepreneur, turning 36 Thursday. Blasie: 22, South Side Chicago, NEET, Twitter personality, flew private. Macy: 19, UCSB film/media, Bay Area. Natalia: 18, UCSB sociology, San Diego. Alexy: 25, destination wedding videographer, ~70 weddings. Mason: 28, mechanical engineer, Air Force.

00:09:48
Relationship statuses round

Brian asks each guest for relationship status, time single, and longest relationship. Alissa: single 1.5yr. Missy: single 8yr, sobriety/addiction backstory. Diana: new 2mo relationship (no title), single 5yr before, married 14yr, 5 kids. Blasie: "complicated" then admits pilot boyfriend. Macy: never had relationship, 4mo talking stage. Natalia: never had relationship. Alexy: 1.5yr relationship (longest). Mason: single, virgin, AF prep.

00:23:54
Diana: 30 dates in 30 days disclosure

Diana reveals she went on ~30 first dates in one month. Brian probes logistics (5 kids, entrepreneur). Coffee/lunch dates, sometimes Dutch, sometimes man paid. Dating 2-3 men simultaneously until becoming exclusive. "Fail fast" approach to filtering matches.

00:28:00
Makeup and authenticity debate

Brian challenges whether women wearing makeup is deceptive. Comparison to bald men wearing hats. Missy admits filters on photos. Diana: post some authentic photos alongside best-self. Mason compares it to lying about profession on dating apps.

00:54:45
Mason virginity and partner requirements

Mason reveals he is a devout Christian virgin waiting for marriage. Brian acts as "legal counsel." Requirements: Christian, prefers virgin but <5 body count acceptable. Biblical family order (Christ/husband/wife/children). Air Force Special Warfare ship date June 25. Gets many DMs from women; Brian jokes about vetting them.

01:05:00
Housewife vs. career debate

Brian asks: would you prefer to be college educated and work, or be a housewife? Alissa: finish education, would consider housewife if husband provides. Extended debate on dependency, planning for divorce, student loans, and finishing degrees before starting a family.

01:20:00
Police vs. critical care nursing danger comparison

Diana defends critical care nursing as dangerous. Mason argues police face more lethal-force scenarios. Debate on whether the jobs are comparable in risk. Missy as ICU nurse joins discussion.

01:48:22
Self-ratings round (1-10 scale)

Brian asks each guest to rate own looks 1-10 (no 7 rule was not enforced). Ratings: Alissa 6, Missy 5 (Brian: 4.5), Blasie 6, Macy 7, Alexy 7-7.5, Mason 5, Natalia declined. Extended discussion on honest self-assessment, social media overinflation, Missy's body image recovery through sobriety.

02:16:40
Beauty standards / body fat image comparison

Brian shows superhero and athlete photos comparing male and female body ideals and typical body fat standards. Debate on which gender faces harder-to-attain physical standards. Tim Chalamet referenced as example of thin male ideal.

02:45:32
Blasie removal and assault on Nick

Brian asks Blasie to leave after repeated sunglasses violation and trolling throughout episode. Nick begins recording per show policy. Blasie grabs Nick's phone, appears to attempt punch, breaks his necklace in struggle. Mason and Missy react loudly. Blasie removed. Nick is uninjured. Brian replaces necklace (~$20). Madison joins table as replacement.

02:52:00
Post-removal debrief and Madison joins

Brian describes what happened for viewers. Nick confirms he is okay. Panel reflects on Blasie trolling pattern. Brian plays pre-show video showing Nick's earlier sunglasses negotiation. Madison takes Blasie's seat.

02:59:00
Feminism discussion

Brian asks each guest if they identify as feminist. Missy: no longer (shifted via Jordan Peterson). Diana: traditional/first-wave feminist (equity vs. equality distinction). Alexy: gender roles, traditional submission in partnership. Natalia, Alissa, Macy: qualified agreement with equality, skeptical of modern feminism's direction.

03:12:25
Bumble swiping segment

Missy's Bumble profile reviewed on air. Panel swipes on male profiles. Discussion of age ranges, photo quality, and swipe selectivity.

06:11:00
Body count round

Brian asks each guest their body count. Missy: ~60 (confirmed from pre-show notes; 95% under alcohol, 2 people in last 6 years). Alissa: not above double digits. Diana: declines. Macy: ~2. Others decline. Discussion on whether men should care.

06:20:00
Chaos/TTS segment and show close

TTS at $20 threshold. Audience reacts to body count. Final thoughts. Mason congratulated. Brian cannot address all pre-show notes for Missy/Diana. Show ends with Twitch raid.

Transcript

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02:51:11
Brian Atlascan keep it simple referring to Western feminism not Eastern Yo Joe Murphy um mute audio we we'll get to that mute the audio for
02:51:20
Brian Atlasjust a second ni it's muted um Spencer just uh take the keys and then just go to the bottom of the stairs make sure the door's closed all that and uh sweet
02:51:31
Brian Atlasthank you Spencer you got the keys Nick I got it what's that told me you should take the pepper spray do you guys actually have that yeah you're good you're good okay guys
02:51:43
Production Staffum interesting fun in the studio I I feel bad I feel like we're not all that surprised though none of us were surprised by that I'm not I mean I was trying to give her passes with the
02:51:55
Brian Atlastrolling and hoping it would get better but but now we have the lovely Madison at the table so big up niest thing you've ever said about me just kidding is it yeah no I you just
02:52:07
Brian Atlascalled me lovely a lovely Madison I appreciate it uh yeah we have Madison at the table so I think we've just that was a major upgrade major upgrade um and uh anyways she was
02:52:19
Missykind of funny she was funny she was funny at times yes it's very random just to give you guys the man also just to give you guys some context oh we could actually re-recording so we could even
02:52:31
Brian Atlasplay the video oh yeah just to show you guys so like before the show Nick had to talk with her CU we don't want people wearing sunglasses it's maybe happened a couple times before but like part of the thing is is like part of communication you want to be able to see people's eyes
02:52:44
Brian Atlasright and so Nick politely just had a convo with her and she's like hey can you take the glass is off uh if you're hiding your your eyes you can't really like it's part of communication about body language and
02:52:56
Brian Atlasthen uh she was putting up a fight with Nick and then I had a conversation with her polite I was just like hey you can't wear the sunglasses she's and then she she agreed to not put the sunglasses on and then she put the sunglasses on she was trolling the whole
02:53:08
Brian Atlasshow I mean I saw it coming so no big deal anyways we're going to move on uh we did have that Super Chat that came through Nick is your is your uh you have like did you have a a adrenaline dump
02:53:19
Brian Atlaslike fight or flight yeah I mean that's what H that's what happens when somebody like gets in your face like that but um shout out to Nick man he's a he's a
02:53:30
Missytrooper he's a trooper um you're good though right she didn't like actually like injure you I don't think she could have if she wanted to like he's so much she drunk like that's what
02:53:42
MasonI'm wondering she was seemed under the influence of something she kind of sound like she was sling she was she was trolling for sure act she was trolling but she's outside the door just oh yeah
02:53:53
Brian Atlaswait hold on M it mute it really quick uh like trying to get back in or you think she's probably watching the stream why doesn't someone why doesn't someone if you're watching you deserve
02:54:05
Production Staffto be kicked off this is the last thing that police are going to care about in this town it's not like she got physical just keep a keep an eye on it okay um yeah I don't want to get jumped yeah you guys
02:54:18
Production Stafftry to make sure she's not like recording this outside or like taking pictures of it or anything thecon lasting the yeah I mean
02:54:28
Brian Atlasinfo on there and I mean what it's it's fine yeah um hasht whatever yeah whatever there it is all right uh
02:54:43
TTS/Donationsokay we're going to re Joe Murphy donated $200 who on the panel identifies as a feminist based on your answers can you clearly describe your definition of
02:54:54
TTS/Donationsfeminism as a whole we can keep it simple referring to Western feminism not Eastern uh so we'll go around the table on that if you guys want to answer the
02:55:04
Missyquestion I don't identify as a feminist you don't no no yeah okay uh I I would say I used to identify as a feminist uh I no longer do because I used to think
02:55:16
Missyfeminism is asking I don't know the difference between the Western and Eastern feminism but I used to believe that feminism was about equality between the Sexes and now I realize there there
02:55:27
Missywill never be equality because we are not the same um we can certainly have you know equal opportunities in certain areas but yeah so I think feminism has become like Way Beyond equality and now
02:55:38
Missyit's about like building a matriarchy so I don't I don't support that yeah well at what point did that shift occur honestly over the last couple years it's funny like this one guy I was seeing um
02:55:51
MissyI freaked out on him when I was still very far-left and feminist and man-hating and because he told me he listened to Jordan Peterson and I'd only heard little bits of Jordan Peterson and I was like you I went on I was
02:56:03
Missydrunk I went on a tiid for 3 hours uh just shouting at him and I don't know why he listen but anyway then one day I was like I'm going to listen to Jordan Peterson just see what he's saying I started listening to more right-wing
02:56:14
Missypeople and I started listening to like different voices than what I'd heard for so long and I was like dang I actually agree with them on some things and over time it just sort of shifted and I really opened my eyes up so I just listened to different perspectives than
02:56:27
Masonwhat I yeah was fed for long I think that's extremely important I think you did you did the thing that most people will not do whether you're on the right or the left it's listening to opposing opinions and then reasoning through that
02:56:40
MissyI think most people don't do that well like I lived in a like a what do you call it you know it just everything was coming back to me it was only what I wanted to hear you know you live in your own bubble in my
02:56:51
Missyown bubble and and so it just every idea I had was reinforced by that worldview and when I finally stepped outside that worldview I was like oh dang it there's different opinions that maybe are right on some things and maybe I'm doing
02:57:04
Missythings because certainly my relationships weren't working out so it just re-evaluated everything and even listening to this podcast like it's just been growing since then so yeah yeah I think yeah it's it's important to listen
02:57:14
Masonto people you don't one don't know I think it's a phen with Jordan Peterson in particular he he even says he doesn't think he's right-wing he's he's just
02:57:24
Masonkind of an intellectual he critic thinking he's critical thinker hates communism loves the free market stuff like that yeah uh I don't know about free market but he loves like freedom in
02:57:36
Masongeneral over uh security well I've been listening to like Michael noes bencho like all that stuff just different voices I I definitely don't agree with all of those so but I guess coming back to the topic of feminism
02:57:48
Masonit's uh trying to take a critical evaluation of all sides of people who are pro feminism anti-feminism what is the reasoning behind it and thinking about that yes do I see what are the
02:58:00
Masonnegatives I see uh play out in our society that generally has kind of swung towards the hey let's push feminism and see what happens yes well I felt for a long time like I had to think like a man
02:58:12
Missyand behave like a man especially in regard to relationships or else I wouldn't succeed if I just didn't put my feelings first if I just tried to like have fun and fool around and then I
02:58:23
Missyfound oh I don't operate like a man because I'm not a man and it's actually doing me a disservice to try to be a man and that's why like my whole attitude has changed because I've realized like
02:58:33
Missyeverything I did for so long was not working for me and it was all colored by this worldview and I was very angry when I was farle super feminist I could not listen to man I could not listen to
02:58:44
Masonanybody other than myself we'll we'll definitely get into that let's let's move on to the yeah move on to the next person and then we'll yeah we'll definitely dive more into that no it's okay it's okay it's okay so I don't know
02:58:57
Dianathe difference between eastern and western feminism honestly I don't really but I do identify with a traditional feminist versus a modern feminist first
02:59:07
Dianawave um yeah I believe in like Equity you know I believe that you know women do you know should have rights they shouldn't be property they should have the right to vote things like that not
02:59:18
DianaEquity yeah not equality equality and Equity are different so Equity is more of like you know we're we're contributing but we also contribute in
02:59:30
Dianadifferent ways so for example if I'm the second income of the household but I'm also a mom you know and a homem maker that's also contributing so I shouldn't
02:59:39
Dianabe expected to pay 50% of the bills for example but I can contribute if needed right that's Equity versus equality equality is like 50/50 down the middle
02:59:50
Masonwell I think equality classically defined by most people who talk about this is uh equal opportunity versus equal outcome equality being equal
03:00:02
Masonopportunity and then Equity being equal outcome so uh when two people are in a game uh equality means they have the same starting line so uh it's
03:00:12
Masondeterminant upon the effort that the person puts in to where they end up versus is uh equity which is we are going to try to analyze each person individually set them at different
03:00:24
Dianastarting lines so that they end in the same place so I've heard it um talked about differently and the way that I contributed it but my bottom line of it
03:00:36
Dianais um I want all of my children to live in a world where the woman and the man alike are you know respected in their own right for their contribution to
03:00:46
Dianasociet ex exactly like we all bring something to the table and then at the end of the day you know all jobs exist and all like finances and structure in
03:00:57
Dianathe world exist for the one greatest job right which is the woman to to you know be able to Bear children and rear them and contribute to society yeah I think the two most important jobs that there
03:01:09
Masonare are being a father and being a mother um yeah I think when a society puts the emphasis off of those two things saying hey a career is more important than raising your own family
03:01:21
Masonnot saying that it it can't be something you consider but it takes priority over I think you see issues and I think uh traditional feminists so like first W
03:01:32
Masonfeminists would 100% get down with uh historically they would be totally down with saying that men and women have equal value but they are definitely not
03:01:44
Masonequal yeah they're different they contribute different to societ I think that's what I would identify with yeah their different contributions are what makes Society Thrive I think when you
03:01:55
Production Stafftry to suppress that you get a whole lot of issues in their natural roles that they naturally gravitate to yeah yeah okay um I would not consider myself a feminist I think I just concede on your
03:02:07
Production Staffdefinition of what feminism is uh just the equality of men and women but obviously it's transpired into different things um I think men and women are equally important when it comes to cont
03:02:20
Macycontributing to society and like we just talked about and value but they're we're not actually equal yeah yeah I definitely agree to like a certain extent I believe that men and women
03:02:31
Macyshould be equal and I I think more so even like going Beyond like I think that in today's day and age um feminism has definitely changed into like pushing like almost like in the workforce at
03:02:42
Macyleast for example like trying to hire more women to like equal it which does like sorry this is going to like make no sense but that makes sense but I think
03:02:51
Macythat um yeah so to make it you sorry that was just word jle but I believe that they should be equal I don't necessarily think that we should try and
03:03:02
Macylike push getting women more jobs cuz I feel like that then doesn't make it equal anymore I think that if everyone's looking at it at a Level Playing Field eventually it would like level out to be
03:03:13
Macyjust who um has the qualifications to get that job in the form of like marriage um my at least for my family example my mom works and so does my dad and they both um they're more feminist
03:03:26
Macyin the form that they both like contribute to the bills and whatever it is um like with what they can and like my mom doesn't make as much as my dad so she can't maybe like help as much in
03:03:36
Macythat form I know that um yeah so yeah that made sense yeah okay so you don't consider yourself feminist I do in the form that I believe that in like having
03:03:47
Nataliait and I think that and women should both you're kind of yes like earlier way feminist yeah like not so much today though yeah yeah I am I'm a traditional feminist but I feel like some people
03:03:58
Nataliahave pushed it a little too far out and like just started a bunch of controversy and just like dragged it out but I am yeah equal equal opportunity okay do you think women wait who here is a
03:04:10
Brian Atlasfeminist traditional traditional feminist traditional feminist what about you I'm not a feminist not a feminist really cool question for those of you who are feminist uh what do you guys
03:04:20
Brian Atlasthink about the current inequality when it comes to draft registration between men and women so being a feminist you said you believe in what was it equ equality right equal opportunity do you
03:04:32
Dianabelieve in equality though yeah do you believe in equality yeah equality believe in equity and you missed our conversation about the difference between traditional and modern feminism well let me ask you guys a
03:04:45
Brian Atlasquestion then and perhaps you can weigh in too given this that you believe in equality wouldn't the equal thing be to equalize uh military conscription so
03:04:55
Macyshould do you think women should be subject to the draft yeah okay yeah I'd agree if you're going to ask for in other aspects of life you have take that's fair what about you I disagree
03:05:06
TTS/Donationswith that well how can you be a feminist and believe in equity and equality like I said you grid One Motorsports donated $200
03:05:18
TTS/Donationsfeminism has failed all women egalitarianism is a crack addict's pipe dream men and women are not equal the patriarchy values women for being women
03:05:29
Brian Atlasand stands ready to assist her return to reality okay philosopher so you believe in equity I'm not really sure what so I explained it
03:05:39
Dianacuz you were gone so I was dealing with some traditional feminism to me means you know the suffrage women should vote and contribute to societ right and all
03:05:48
Dianajobs pretty much exist to support the traditional feminist role which means having children raising a family that's not a feminist yeah a modern feminist is
03:06:00
Dianavery different it's more of like a hate men stance and posture I mean it's always been that way but no it hasn't the original feminists that fought for you know voters rights and for women to
03:06:12
Diananot be treated as property did not come from an angle of we hate men came from an angle of I am human too just like you know black people when they were in slavery right and things like that I mean I I don't think there's a
03:06:25
Dianadifference there women didn't women couldn't even sign a lease on their own with their own credit for like over what 50 years ago or 100 okay fake news so it's not fake news because it's F new
03:06:38
Brian Atlasit's legal it's in it's in our history books it's La what if I told you do you know the NWO the national or sorry not the NWO that's something else the National Organization for Women now
03:06:50
Brian Atlasyou familiar with it so this is one of like the early leading feminist organizations uh feminism does have uh feminism has always been against the nuclear family breaking up families it's
03:07:03
Brian Atlasactually one of the stated goals of feminism this idea that traditional feminism was all for women being like having families no feminism has always been at least one of its attempts has been to destroy the family and it's been
03:07:16
Dianaquite successful at it I think I think that's a blanket statement again and I think that we have like a mix of the population of what traditional feminism started as it may have been a few small
03:07:27
Dianaa small few of leaders that had different ideas and ideologies but the Grand in the grand scheme of thing of things the women that did mobilize and fight for rights came from a very
03:07:40
Dianadifferent place of I don't want my daughter to live in a world where she feels oppressed and she doesn't get paid equally but might work twice as hard in the workforce or things like that like
03:07:51
Dianaif we're going to ask women to bring a second income in the household or something shouldn't they be compensated for the you know the same amount of work that they're doing too and and the fact that they have other responsibilities at home as well you know but back to my
03:08:05
Dianapoint traditional feminism became came to fruition as a movement of like we don't want our daughters to be property we want our daughters to be daughters in God's eyes
03:08:16
Macythere is no woman there is no man in God's eyes that's what the Bible says I think the wom women were property back in the day like yeah they were in 1800
03:08:26
Brian Atlasthey were 1800s women were property okay you don't know that women were lit legally property so you could buy a woman no not that sense but we can talk about slavery that's something else you
03:08:39
Macycould buy a man you could buy a woman a woman could not go and do anything without permission from her husband if she was married back in the day every sorry it's okay no if she was married back in the day any money that she would earn would belong to her husband and her
03:08:51
Macychildren would belong to her husband so if she were to try and get divorce from him they would be his property that like they'd be his kids she that wouldn't make a woman the property of the husband even if that is true it wouldn't make
03:09:05
TTS/Donationshim them the property I feel like it wouldn't every grid One Motorsports donated $200 you have been lied to women could
03:09:14
TTS/Donationsalways own property a woman was elected there in 1877 you need to read a book and learn the real history return to the patriarchy we will Enlighten you oh God
03:09:26
Masonyeah so I yeah I kind of I I agree with grid Juan um the history of women uh would heavily disagree with uh what feminists
03:09:37
Masonpush right now feminists love to push this idea that women have suffered throughout history where in fact when the feminist agenda was being pushed the
03:09:48
Masonvast majority of women pushed fanatically against it and the people that were actually pushing this feminist agenda were large corporations and
03:09:57
Masonlobbyists because hey if I can give equality to women as well as men now and they have a vote they can get in the
03:10:07
Masonworkforce all of a sudden I have twice as many people I can start taxing twice as many people I can start getting all of their money from it is never been an
03:10:18
Masonaltruistic hey this is just better for the world that's what they pedal that's what they said that's what they promoted but secretly that's never been the ideal of feminism and most women had pushed
03:10:30
Masonagainst it at the time but most women didn't have the voice that major corporations and major people in government did but I think I think the whole push for it was that at some point
03:10:41
Missylike especially later in feminism it's because like women lost um the trust that they should have had in the men around them to provide and protect for them like a lot of people talk about now
03:10:53
Missylike I don't want to rely on a man for um for our income for our family like if he leaves me then what am I going to do I'll have no education and nothing to rely on but I think like that what you're saying about how feminism like
03:11:06
Missyhas tried to destroy the nuclear family is true because essentially you would have a man who would be a provider and protector and who would protect that woman she wouldn't have to feel the need to fight against that for her own
03:11:19
Missyfreedom because she would have faith in her husband to care for that her properly and care for her family properly and provide for them well just historically speaking it's not accurate
03:11:29
Masonlike like I said feminists love to paint a history where women were dumb they were property they were traded it's just not true women were overwhelmingly happy
03:11:40
Dianawith the arrangement they were also extreme I would that's a stretch that's a bit strally accurate because women at 14 years old were being sent off to
03:11:50
Dianamarry men that were much older than them even as children so let's not like talk about like how happy women were if you like I come from a very very conservative background very traditional
03:12:03
Dianabackground okay there's a lot of religious indoctrination a lot of cultural conditioning a lot of stuff that happens out in the world it's not just like in America America is a very free society and yes I understand
03:12:15
Masonfeminism gets thrown around everywhere World card like I'm I'm not ignorant to what's happened around the world or what happens around the world actually women in other countries are generally way
03:12:26
Masonmore happy in their marriages than women in the US I lived in a foreign country for Mo for all of high school I've met people like that I've met people who hey it was an arranged marriage at first I
03:12:38
Masondidn't know this person but because the constraints on marriage are so tight in most other countries you're forced to be
03:12:47
Masonin that uh the uh the Hot Pot where you have to work on things because there is no there you cannot break this it is that Covenant but eventually you come
03:12:58
Masonout the other side and those two people love each other and generally speaking that's what happens and generally speaking it is because the man will provide for the family and it frees up
03:13:09
Masonthe woman to do what she wants to do which is raise teach because women generally speaking in in history were
03:13:18
Masonvery intelligent taught their children cuz most uh I think it's uh uh the
03:13:25
Masoneducation of colonial Day Children was probably equivalent to college right now probably to a master's degree their vocabulary but that's also the literature that was being put out the
03:13:38
Dianathings that people were reading the way people were talking you got to like take the whole like picture with it they had tutors they had a lot of different things in a society that was run by
03:13:48
Dianamen yeah but operated by women too like that's the that's the whole dialogue we need to be we need enjoy didn't just do everything yes they provided opportunity
03:13:59
Masonand did a lot of the Brute Force work but then women also executed saying that women did nothing I didn't I didn't say women did nothing they were very traditionally they were extremely happy
03:14:10
Masonwith the role that they were given where they were the housewife the stay-at-home mom the teacher uh the one who nurtured all the children they were intelligent they had to be
03:14:21
Masonbecause they had to teach their children whereas nowadays women can just Pawn off their children to the government and say hey please teach our my child and how can a woman teach their children though
03:14:33
Masonif they don't have an education which is kind of like the conversation we were having which I wanted to have a little you know well education nowadays holds very little weight I know specifically
03:14:44
Masonin the corporate world when I was an engineer mhm like most of the uh having a degree as an engineer is important but
03:14:54
Dianafor most other jobs experience is King they do not care if you have a degree but you're talking about women teaching and child rearing and educating children don't they need an education themselves
03:15:05
Dianaas well so they education how are you going to learn if you don't get the educ formal education see this is another this is another thing that the Govern hom schooled all five of my kids until
03:15:16
Dianathis year like I if anybody understands what it means to actually homeschool kids and have an education versus not have an education it's I'm probably the most qualified one at the table final thoughts from the both of you on this no
03:15:28
Masonyeah this is just it's it's it's debatable I think but it's not debatable because no our our modern education is
03:15:37
Masonvastly vastly inferior compared to what we had in the past when we didn't have government supplied education people were way more intelligent it's almost
03:15:50
Missyit's almost like people in power want people under them to be Dumber so they can't be challenged the literacy rate alone is like horrific and uh and it's just getting worse so you don't need a
03:16:02
Missyformal education in in a school in the public school system or a college degree my sister is I think a formal education is way way overrated it is and what kids are being taught in school these days
03:16:13
Missyhas very little to do with a proper education and C certainly they don't have the life skills that they should have to function in society you know how to manage their money how to you know how to cook or like sew something like
03:16:26
Masonthese skills that you could use or how to work on a car like those tangible skills it's logic it's all of those things that were that used to be taught to Children yes but are no longer anymore because it's not expedient I saw
03:16:38
Missya video of this little farmer boy and he he was like spreading seed and he knew all about the tractors and he was so well educated like that education and he's he was so young but he knew so much
03:16:50
Missyabout farming more than I could ever hope to learn and that education comes from his parents and that's what I'm saying like you can provide a good education this is this is the point
03:16:59
Masonwe're at right now with uh education with uh the state of the nuclear family all of these things have had a have been
03:17:11
Masonaffected dramatically by the input of feminist agenda in our society yes not saying it's the only thing but a major contri contributing factor is pulling
03:17:22
Masonwomen out of the house yes and saying okay now women don't have this job anymore all of a sudden someone needs to take care of those children let's send them off the Caesar and we wonder why
03:17:33
Masonthey come back looking like Romans MH yeah I I yeah I I mean obviously you guys can probably tell I'm not a feminist really yeah I know very
03:17:44
Masonsurprising to tell but yeah I I think if you do your own research into uh the history of just Humanity in general yeah
03:17:54
Masonthere are men are stronger than women and therefore probably have a uh uh a more possibility to uh commit atrocities
03:18:05
Masonbut generally speaking men in the past valued women they valued their job immensely and they fought died and provided so that their women could have
03:18:16
Masonthat job because men were built to do that they love doing that that's patriarchy and patriarchy in his purest form protects those women that are under
03:18:27
Dianatheir care just like there's a fine line between being uh a woman empowerment traditional feminist as I like to call it versus a modern feminist there's also a fine line between being a you know
03:18:40
Dianapart of the patriarch and and founding fathers and protecting women and children and the vulnerable population versus like misogyny there's like just a fine line that people are Towing now in
03:18:50
Masonour modern society day in and day out like men and women and throughout history those misogynists those people who abused that system were far littler
03:19:01
Masonand it didn't it uh then we see with the feminist agenda infecting the women in our society and men in our society I don't know if it's far little I think
03:19:12
Masonmaybe that's debatable too but well I I think just historic Al accurate cuz I mean you see when feminism has been injected into our society all of these negative things have have come about
03:19:24
Masonwhether you want to say that that first wave feminism was a great thing it has led us to where we are right now yes so we can't discount that feminism when it was introduced has led us to where we
03:19:37
Missyare right now well feminism is all about women seeking independence from men to have agency and control over their own lives that does not do well to contribute to the nuclear family right like as soon as you have that you
03:19:48
Missyhave a woman who not being submissive to her husband not trting him Toad and it's funny like for years my brother would say I know this nice guy I know that and it's was like I don't want a nice guy and I realized like I was seeking
03:20:00
Missysomebody that could lead somebody I could submit to I just didn't know how to put it but uh yeah I agree I think and I think there's a purpose to attacking the nuclear family and I think there's a purpose to like trying to make
03:20:12
Brian Atlasus all dumber and it's so we're easier to control all right moving things along we're going to get into the dating app segment of this so the first thing we're going to do we're going to actually do the not the reaction to her profile
03:20:25
Brian Atlasfirst we're going to do the Bumble segment okay Nick if you can pull up uh Bumble and then so what we're going to do is we're going to go on Bumble and
03:20:35
Brian Atlasyou're going to swipe on guys you get 20 swipes 20 swipes each so just a yes or no and uh that's pretty much it put us on the other side do we have to keep track of our
03:20:49
Brian Atlasyeah okay all right so starting with you
03:20:56
Production Staffno is he single they're just they're just a and a man uh yeah just yes or no on these go ahead wait did you say no uh which one
03:21:09
Brian Atlasis it the previous I don't even know which I didn't even hear anything yeah I didn't say anything cuz we don't know which one they are these are all just put these as automatic NOS I guess or skip you can you not scroll down yeah no
03:21:20
Alissawe're just going to do like first impression no no
03:21:30
Alissano no uh yeah no
03:21:40
Alissano no no no that's a I'd say are you yeah I would
03:21:48
Alissahave said yes a couple of them personal prence personal personal preference 18 matter yeah there a big part you have like five more swipes okay no that's
03:22:02
Alissalike good looking that would be a yes to me like that's oh he's they're just like they look old they look really old well what's old she's 18 right what's the oldest you would date um I'm
03:22:14
Alissa18 so probably 20 and that's like pushing it because I what's the oldest guy you've ever dated like 18 they're
03:22:26
Alissain keep it here Nick can you get that Maddie oh yeah go ahead keep going the oldest guy I've ever dated was like a year older than me at the time I sorry
03:22:37
MasonMason what okay I got you got yes no oh no no last one
03:22:47
Brian Atlasno all right next dang all right so how many that was like that was like 8% NOS yeah I said two yes she all right they're picky all right what about 0% oh
03:22:57
Missywait was I supposed to be counting along with her no okay no it's my turn okay maybe no I don't know a no no what
03:23:09
MissyI I I just don't find that appealing all right okay I you don't believe me but all right yes if it's right it's the guy
03:23:19
Dianaon the right yes uh I don't know which guy but probably no
03:23:28
Missyno and Crocs I can't even see the say no oh no sorry he was handsome
03:23:39
Missyno it's the pictures it's not even the guys it's the freaking pictur I can't see them so I'm going to say yes yes say yes to that yes to this
03:23:50
Missyguy uh yes to one of them maybe I really can't see his face with the sunglasses and this guy looks
03:23:58
Missylike he's seven8 feet long but uh I going to say yes I talk to him yeah no he looks like and yes to this
03:24:09
Brian Atlasguy so I don't know how many that was I didn't count but um wait actually before we move on we're going to do a review of your oh great Bumble profile great thank you thank you for that so Nick if you
03:24:23
Missyget that and then we'll have everybody else do their swiping all right so this is your Bumble profile oh you ate there that's cute what you say you ate it's cute oh thank you thank you that's apparently my most
03:24:36
Missypopular photo I've tried to change it but Bumble keeps putting it up there so all right next can you read this for us I'm in Santa Barbara for a few days I'd love to hang out with someone to explore
03:24:47
MissySanta Barbara together I'm a happy healthy sober but fun Canadian lady ATI hookup culture but make up for a great connection and making friends I'm five' four active do you want me to read all
03:24:59
Missythat oh you're open to kids yeah open to kids kids like I'd like to have kids but if I don't at this age I mean I've dealt with it all right looking for a long-term relationship yeah we'll just
03:25:10
Brian Atlasgo through all of it next I love baking as you can see okay next yeah next having the same values and goals knowing each other's boundaries mutual
03:25:21
Brian Atlasrespect and defined roles okay yep next actually working that's no filter there you go well no there's no filter there still wearing well full makeup makeup yes yes
03:25:33
Missyall right is that is that I put a no makeup one up just for you um I think there's one more but it has a filter some of those have filters some of those don't go back to uh go back to the first
03:25:44
Brian Atlasone and then are you going do side by side shot of what I what I don't look like I just want to make a note here so okay there's the SB thing and then there's also go
03:25:55
Brian Atlasnext one next next yeah next hold on uh wait next having the same values and goals
03:26:06
Missyknowing each other's boundaries when you say defined roles what do you mean I prefer traditional gender roles I that doesn't necessarily mean like a guy is um being the s provider because honestly
03:26:18
MissyI'm not 20 I don't expect a man to do all of that for someone who's 36 but um I certainly prefer a man who takes on a more leadership masculine role in the relationship I'm very feminine nurturing
03:26:30
Production Staffcaring that sort of thing why does that matter with age oh sorry um so on your profile you said you were looking for a long-term relationship given that you do live in Canada correct and you said that
03:26:42
Missyyou're in Santa Barbara what were your intentions behind so my in my conv were just that I don't know the area I was coming here for 4 days I was hoping that someone would just be like willing to go
03:26:53
Missyout and make friends and I did find someone and we just went out and had fun out like nothing romantic completely platonic that's all I was looking for and I was really clear about it on the dating apps um I made it clear I'm here
03:27:06
Missyfor just a few days I really just want to explore the area with someone you still could meet the one like a longdistance relationship am I open I've I've done lots of longdistance relationships I've dated
03:27:16
Missypeople in many well not many states but like Oklahoma North Carolina Los Angeles so I've done it um I'd prefer local relationship but yeah if I met the right person of course maybe there's another
03:27:27
MissyCanadian here yeah you never know you never know but uh yeah I also did try on the bumblebe F to meet women locally who would like go out and do fun things and I could not find one volunteer so I
03:27:41
Missytried so I just really wanted to go out and have fun for the few days that I'm here so yeah okay I know it's a red flag CU she probably think oh she looking for somebody to hook up with but no I didn't and I wasn't well I mean if like you're
03:27:54
Brian Atlaslooking for a long-term relationship the pro if you live in Canada like what do you expect out of meeting a guy here like any girl who's like wants a long-term relationship but
03:28:05
Brian Atlasshe's like traveling and she's like I'm in town for the weekend that to me is like well there is no long-term potential at all so you either just want
03:28:15
Dianato no I think that's your opinion I I I would like for what other reason then I would support hers because we're in our 30s it's very different we're not in our 20s like for us finding a life
03:28:27
Missypartner is very different than like in your when you're exp open to meeting the right person for me wherever on Earth he is it doesn't matter to me and I'm not saying that it's going to happen in this
03:28:38
Missyfew days but I don't perception though I do not know how else to go out and meet somebody that I can like go out with with in a city I don't know like I walked around in sketchy ass areas
03:28:50
Missypassing drug deals and like really scary things cuz I did not know where I was going I researched but it would have been really nice to have you know somebody with me to make sure I'm not getting into that and just like go to a
03:29:03
Dianarestaurant with me you know whatever and I understand most people will not read it that way but I was pretty clear well and I I grew up in a small town in Arkansas like you know your neighbors
03:29:14
Dianait's a small town you know whenever you go travel you know sometimes you are like let me just meet someone they're in this city you never know where there's a spark there's a Kindle you get to know each other even if it's friend zoned or
03:29:26
Missywhatnot and you get to know each other and then at some point it doesn't have to be sexual you know just you're just meeting someone and uh I think it's putting yourself out there yeah putting yourself out there and like I never do
03:29:37
Missyit I never travel and uh I will say in Kingston Ontario I am not finding my person so that's why I'm open to anyone anywhere not any one but like the one I don't want to make it sound like yeah
03:29:49
Brian Atlasyeah wherever he is all right we're going to continue on with the Bumble thing we'll have you do it uh Nick if you can pull that back
03:29:59
Brian Atlasup it's tough we I feel like uh the the age thing like we'd have to adjust the age range the filter cuz you're you're going to get like 20year old guys here if I didn't know his age though I'd
03:30:11
Brian Atlasstill be like attracted to him like he's an attractive guy if you guys just just so we don't have to Tinker with it too much maybe next time on a different panel we'll do it um
03:30:22
Dianajust like Envision him like either either make them younger or older like just cover the age honestly if he moves the picture a little bit more like our video then we won't even see the age
03:30:34
Dianayeah that would be a yes for me okay no no no boy yes yes
03:30:48
Dianano no I can't really see him but I'd say a yes if I could no
03:31:00
Brian Atlasno no guys
03:31:06
Dianano police no not police off comparable you know no okay oh my god oh he no
03:31:18
Dianaoh I don't know which one it is but I'll just air on the side of no Jose Jose yes
03:31:29
Brian Atlasyes no no uh did we just skip Madison just I
03:31:36
Brian Atlasthink you already did it all right uh we so we will go to you uh go ahead Nick no yeah he looks fun
03:31:48
Macyno no no no
03:31:55
Macyyes no oh okay all right yes this one's a yes the other one wasn't ho
03:32:05
Macyno uh no he looks like you're might trouble uh yeah he seems true yeah no
03:32:16
Macyno be nice to Gilbert no no instruments are cool you know
03:32:29
Nataliayeah yeah that was 20 okay what about you uh no
03:32:37
Nataliano no jo no reminder just age them down if you have to no yeah
03:32:48
Nataliano yeah how could you see him no I saw the nature I'm like that's cool okay uh no
03:32:59
Backgroundno uh no yeah yeah no no
03:33:10
Nataliano yeah no she likes Surfers yeah I love cool guy she likes the voice oh my God
03:33:21
Brian Atlasuh yeah see this is a sweet voice not a f that's it that's it okay I want that one too too bad said yes to that one too bad um damn y'all picky okay I'm going to
03:33:33
Brian Atlaspass all of them well just I know you have a boyfriend no I told him I wouldn't do it okay that's fine he didn't tell me to not do it I told him I'm not doing it w girlfriend okay so
03:33:43
Backgroundyou want to take five of hers yeah go uh yes she like uh
03:33:51
Backgroundyeah no what that was scary hly oh cool guys yeah the whole friend
03:34:01
Production Staffgroup yes yes yes that was fine all right damn y'all picky okay really I feel like they were a lot less picky
03:34:12
Brian Atlasthan not as picky as some other people still still a little picky I saw some we should do this for you guys yeah for sure that's actually yeah
03:34:22
Missywe could a great idea you would probably be extremely picky I would think you'd be surprised well in what context like to
03:34:32
Missysleep with or to to date you know it's two different things I don't I don't sleep with girls unless I'm interested in dating them long term okay that's good that's good think you are kind of
03:34:43
Missypigy though but I still think you're Piggy yeah think you're picky and that's not a bad thing like it in certain cont I'm actually not that picky looks
03:34:53
Missywise so much more picky that's what I'm saying I'm actually I don't think I am I like to say selective not necessarily like picky picky has a negative connotation but it's okay to like know
03:35:05
Brian Atlaswhat you want and to look for that and to say if this person is I mean you want it to work out for the Long Haul you've got to be selective to some degree all right guys go to twitch.tv / whatever drop us a follow on the prime sub if you
03:35:17
Brian Atlashave on twitch.tv/ whatever drop us a follow in the prime sub guys we're trying to get to 7 70,000 followers on Twitch and uh yeah so drop a follow if you are watching over there the stream
03:35:29
Brian Atlasquality tends to be a little better over there on Twitch also I got reports that apparently the mute function Nick could you pull up the chat really quick there were a couple times I asked Nick to mute
03:35:39
Brian Atlasit apparently it didn't mute it I don't think we said anything bad but so chat uh yes or no was it was it muted yes
03:35:49
Production Staffmuted no not muted not muted didn't mute they just didn't say anything there was no mute they just wanted to hear what did we say again oh never muted ah okay
03:36:01
Brian Atlaswell we're going to have to wait Nick hit the button really quick the mute testing testing testing testing it's m my headphones okay on OBS it still comes through okay we gotta well Nick the the
03:36:12
Brian Atlasother way you can do it you undo it there um the other way you could do it do you see on the left there there's the sound bar yeah uh there is yeah you can
03:36:23
Brian Atlaswe're going to do a test mute and then you can take it off was it just muted there was it muted there we just just for practice was it
03:36:32
Brian Atlasmuted there I'm assuming it was muted muted muted yeah okay we're good that's it we're we're good we're good boys by
03:36:43
Brian Atlasthe way Nick just just for your own self- knowledge uh I think the the attack on you was visible in this area right here yeah yeah I was thinking
03:36:53
Brian Atlasabout that the reflection it was go back and look at it so it's kind of dark yeah so just letting you like you could see if there's any question if she were to say no he he hit me or you know well we
03:37:05
Brian Atlasall saw we saw we'll all be Witnesses we all saw it all Witnesses and it was here and you were recording it so uh and the chat seems to agree indeed yeah she uh
03:37:17
Brian AtlasNick you trying to press charges I saw her SWAT did anybody check if she still outside no no no no okay stop stop stop okay God bro
03:37:27
Brian Atlasum moving on moving on um let's see here really quick I won't I don't want to linger too long on this but I do want want to go around the table and I'm actually I'm going to start with someone in particular we won't linger Along on
03:37:41
Brian Atlasit because we've already talked about it twice but the previous show when I wanted it to be the main top I of conversation it really didn't go over so well uh have you guys seen The Man vers bear thing man or bear okay oh yeah so
03:37:54
Brian Atlasthe question is would you rather be stuck in the woods with a man or a bear I want you to go first and then we're going to go around the table like this and then we'll Circle back to you so go
03:38:07
Brian Atlasahead go ahead it's a man or a bear would you rather be stuck in the woods with a man or a bear a bear okay what about you yeah bear a man do you want us
03:38:19
Brian Atlasto explain why or not yeah we we'll come back to that back a man probably a man um probably a bear oh okay got the
03:38:30
Brian Atlasfriend group here what about you 100% a man okay so we got man man man bear bear bear okay did you only say that because your two friends over here said bear and
03:38:42
Alissayou feel like I can't go against my friends gr honestly I I just think that I would be able to outrun the bear no no you can't you can't Tak if I
03:38:54
Alissajust like you can't do that the erroneous erroneous I feel like didn't provoke the bear nothing would
03:39:04
Alissahappen but like that's not true that's risky true not necessarily I don't know I feel like men like a scary man is scarier than like oh boy
03:39:15
Nataliabut you didn't say you didn't specify what the intentions of the man was like regular man but the interesting with here here's what's interesting to me with this question no one is assuming
03:39:26
Brian Atlaswait hold on how do I want to frame this um ill intent of the man I'm assuming a baby C everyone seems to assume the man is bad but like no one is assuming the bear is good yeah so how do we not like
03:39:39
Nataliawhat if we just apply let's say they're both have bad intentions mhm I'd rather get alive than up I think I could I'd have better odds fighting off a man than me too 100% you'd have
03:39:53
Alexybetters and if I were to just walk into the woods alone and I came across a bear the fear that would go through me compared to if I came across a man AC I would be a little off put like
03:40:06
Dianaoh there's there's something but if I saw a bear I would like I would freak out I say you can't reason with a bear you can reason with a man
03:40:16
MacyI feel like the argument stems from like the worst a bear can do is like hit you all you like kill you but there's like so much more that a man can do like not all men obviously but like a man with ill intent can do like before he kills
03:40:29
Missyyou and I think that's what goes through a lot of women's when they choose a bear first see I would feel like if I'm in the woods I'm probably lost so I'm I'm go up to that man and hope he can help me find my way out zero survival skills
03:40:42
Brian Atlasif you're going straight up to a man in the woods well no but I proba great probably great goit we have a chat here would you rather be stuck in the woods with a man or Su glasses and
03:40:53
Brian Atlashandle of Jack feel scared for the imaginary pilot oh dang it I choose the man over that although that would be a lot more ENT
03:41:04
Brian Atlasthe man um Nick does that pull up a photo is it like just the photo or ises it also show the the email I'm pulling up yeah can perfect um one of my viewers
03:41:16
Brian Atlaswanted me to ask this one this is just a fun thing um so this is the man let me know when you get it Nick oh so this guy or he kind of looks like a bear uh this
03:41:29
TTS/Donationsguy orated 200 no way it's no way you just said you can outrun a bear they can climb trees too you ain't escaping a bear I think it's more like if I'm going
03:41:41
Nataliato get killed by a man or a bear I'd rather be killed by the bear what the man can do before he kills me yeah the man can get away with it too well what if the man like a bear
03:41:56
Brian Atlaswould let's say the man doesn't want like cuz it's like the Assumption here is like they're going to essay you or whatever what if they don't want to sa you but they they do have like violent intention they want to kill you but they're going to like they're not going to like torture you or anything they're
03:42:08
TTS/Donationsjust going to like shoot you or something would that be so you know for a fact the man would grid one Motorsport donated $200 for sake you will never know
03:42:19
TTS/Donationsthe man was there he knows you will just be a drain on his resources and and add nothing but woman prattles so will hide and watch the Bear get indigestion bear indigestion i' rather just get shot so
03:42:32
Brian Atlasthe the scenario is like the guy you know the guy will shoot you or this bear is going to try to Maul you you'll know he no he's the Bear's aggressive and wants to attack yeah I would rather just get shot I'd rather get muled by the
03:42:44
Nataliabear wait pull the photo I which guy this guy or the bear I think maybe the I could run faster than i' rather my name make headlines like oh
03:42:57
Masonmauled by a bear rather than killed by a man I want to get taken out by man man is like not in the best shap old Bears also they they don't they're not good killing machines they they're not
03:43:08
Masoneffective so all they do you alive is that well so they will yeah they eat you alive so most most of their diet is fish
03:43:18
Masonum dead carcasses fruits uh it sometimes it will be other animals but they're not very effective killing machines so they will eat you while you're still kicking
03:43:29
Masonand often times people who get mauled by bears if they do die it's very very later and if they survive they're Ultra traumatized exactly it's rough so yeah generally for for this argument or this
03:43:41
Masondiscussion uh it didn't really I don't think it got the point across that it wanted to get across to me uh it just pointed out that a lot of people think with their
03:43:52
Dianafeelings and not with their head yep I think there's also like a bunch of layers of mistrust right we've seen so many negative things happen especially now that we have internet and had heard
03:44:04
Dianaall these stories about think and things like that like it just naturally inclines you towards I I also think that the negative things are the things that come to the surface way more than the positive things I think
03:44:17
Masongenerally speaking that's news in general yeah yeah ex it's just news in general I think men in general would rather protect a woman and bears in general could care less could not care less care what your gender now let me ask you guys a question those of you who
03:44:29
Brian Atlassaid bear let's change the setting from Woods to a 10x10 room does that change anything huh starting with you a 10 x 10 room 10
03:44:40
Nataliax 10 room does that change anything how big is that 10 okay just think of this area this living room oh my God that changes it what's the is it the same man that
03:44:53
Macyyou showed before same man same what no no no it's just it's a it's a random man the man okay yeah I mean it it would probably change it just because in that setting like there's really nowhere for you to go well yeah I guess then yeah it
03:45:06
Brian Atlaswould change well in the forest arguably there would be nowhere for you to go more Forest like because this this hypothetical make you run farther well my understand I mean hypothetical would seem to indicate that you will make
03:45:18
Brian Atlascontact otherwise what if you don't make contact in the hypothetical what would the issue be so in both scenarios you're making contact if it's actually if it's
03:45:28
Brian Atlaslike a man with Mal intent then but it's a random man if it's random man is it random no I'm just Kidd uh yeah it's a random so they could be it could be for
03:45:39
Brian Atlasexample the random man the random man that generates could be your brother or father it could be because it's r or it could be a a good man it's actually very
03:45:52
Brian Atlasit's more likely than not that whichever random man you get is going to be a good man he could be a skinny man oh my God then if he's going to be a good man then
03:46:01
MasonI'll say man no no no no no hold onand there is a possibility it could be a terrible the probability is higher than what about you um I think going into like when you first said the
03:46:15
Alissaquestion I was thinking about which one would I rather be killed by so in like this I guess I would change my answer like even in the woods I would say a man and in the room I would say well even if you pick the bear doesn't necessarily mean that you're going to get attacked
03:46:28
Alissadoesn't necessarily mean you'll be attacked just the probability know I feel like there probably is a higher chance that I would be able to survive okay she's changing it up now okay well just like I had thought about it I was like I don't I would rather be killed by
03:46:39
Alissathe bear but your gut instinct if I was like going to get killed like for sure like I'm getting killed I'm not even sure if you'd want even then if you'd prefer to be I think you're just
03:46:52
Alissamisinformed I don't know I feel like it's like we hear more sorry no I'm sorry oh you go ahead then you go ahead go ahead I feel like we hear more like horror stories about like sexual assault and so that fear is like ingrained in my
03:47:05
Alissahead like I would never want that to happen to me but I don't hear about like getting mauled by a bear much so yes exactly I'm just like not well there aren't too many bears in the city well like it's just not like one of my biggest
03:47:17
MacyFe but okay and then you were going to say kind of piggy Bo off of Alysa it's just kind of like um in the like initial like or on Tik Tok when that question was like circulating it is more like about like the essay and things that
03:47:29
Macylike would happen if it was a man with Mal intent and then what was your decision be but if it's like obviously like you said a random man and it could be good then switch this is like a perfect situ cuz I had no idea what the
03:47:41
Dianareference was to so it was just my inherent response but sounds like you ladies had some backstory to it and that impacted like your actual response yeah well like when I saw it before like on Tik Tok or whatever platform it was on
03:47:55
Masonthat was like what a lot of like the responses was and then that would get me thinking like yeah I've heard all these horror stories or I've had I think this is more of a it's more a negative