Psycho Troll ASSAULTS Nick?! KICKED OUT! Single Mom Went On 30 Dates In 30 Days?! | Dating Talk #159

Date: 2024-05-08

Duration: 6h 59m

Guests

Brian Atlas

AAlissa (DT159)>

MMissy (DT159)>

DDiana (DT159)>

BBlasie (DT159)>

NNatalia (DT159)>

AAlexy (DT159)>

MMason Gregoire >

MMadison (DT164)>

Identified Speakers

SPEAKER_04Natalia(guest)

SPEAKER_05Blasie(guest)

SPEAKER_06Macy(guest)

SPEAKER_09Brian Atlas(host)

SPEAKER_10Mason(guest)

SPEAKER_11Missy(guest)

SPEAKER_12Alexy(guest)

SPEAKER_13Diana(guest)

SPEAKER_14Alissa(guest)

Key Moments

QuoteDiana reveals she was married at 17 for 14 years with 5 children: "I got married at 17, I was married for 14 years, I have five kids." Gives context for her intentional dating approach and 30-dates story.

QuoteDiana reveals she went on ~30 first dates in one month: "you went on 30 dates in a one month period" confirmed by Diana. Brian probes: how with 5 kids? Diana: coffee/lunch dates, controlled schedule as entrepreneur.

QuoteMason reveals he is a Christian virgin waiting for marriage. Brian acts as "legal counsel." Mason: "I'm a really devout Christian so that's really important to me." Partner requirements: Christian, virgin preferred, body count <5. June 25 AF ship date.

QuoteMissy accepts Brian's 4.5 rating with equanimity: "I rated myself the same thing so it doesn't hurt my feelings." Discussed her lost weight and ongoing body improvement since sobriety.

OtherGUEST REMOVED: Blasie removed from show after repeated sunglasses violation and trolling. During removal she grabbed camera operator Nick's phone, appeared to attempt a punch, and broke his necklace. Mason called out: "keep your hands off him!" Brian: "take take your seat — that was nuts." Nick confirmed he was okay.

ControversyBrian tells Blasie to leave calmly: "kindly just leave, all right — didn't really want to stay here for that long." Blasie calls all guests liars for denying the pre-show sunglasses agreement. All other guests confirm the agreement.

QuoteMissy's body count of ~60 disclosed: Brian reads from pre-show notes "you said around 60." Missy confirms "around 60, I don't know exact number." Clarifies: 95% were 1-2x encounters and 95% of sex outside relationships occurred under the influence of alcohol. Two partners in last 6 years since getting sober.

Topics Discussed

Guest introductions

Brian introduces panel of 8 guests. Each states name, age, location, occupation. Alissa: 18, UCSB psychology. Missy: 36, Kingston Ontario, critical care. Diana: 35, St. Pete FL, healthcare entrepreneur, turning 36 Thursday. Blasie: 22, South Side Chicago, NEET, Twitter personality, flew private. Macy: 19, UCSB film/media, Bay Area. Natalia: 18, UCSB sociology, San Diego. Alexy: 25, destination wedding videographer, ~70 weddings. Mason: 28, mechanical engineer, Air Force.

Relationship statuses round

Brian asks each guest for relationship status, time single, and longest relationship. Alissa: single 1.5yr. Missy: single 8yr, sobriety/addiction backstory. Diana: new 2mo relationship (no title), single 5yr before, married 14yr, 5 kids. Blasie: "complicated" then admits pilot boyfriend. Macy: never had relationship, 4mo talking stage. Natalia: never had relationship. Alexy: 1.5yr relationship (longest). Mason: single, virgin, AF prep.

Diana: 30 dates in 30 days disclosure

Diana reveals she went on ~30 first dates in one month. Brian probes logistics (5 kids, entrepreneur). Coffee/lunch dates, sometimes Dutch, sometimes man paid. Dating 2-3 men simultaneously until becoming exclusive. "Fail fast" approach to filtering matches.

Makeup and authenticity debate

Brian challenges whether women wearing makeup is deceptive. Comparison to bald men wearing hats. Missy admits filters on photos. Diana: post some authentic photos alongside best-self. Mason compares it to lying about profession on dating apps.

Mason virginity and partner requirements

Mason reveals he is a devout Christian virgin waiting for marriage. Brian acts as "legal counsel." Requirements: Christian, prefers virgin but <5 body count acceptable. Biblical family order (Christ/husband/wife/children). Air Force Special Warfare ship date June 25. Gets many DMs from women; Brian jokes about vetting them.

Housewife vs. career debate

Brian asks: would you prefer to be college educated and work, or be a housewife? Alissa: finish education, would consider housewife if husband provides. Extended debate on dependency, planning for divorce, student loans, and finishing degrees before starting a family.

Police vs. critical care nursing danger comparison

Diana defends critical care nursing as dangerous. Mason argues police face more lethal-force scenarios. Debate on whether the jobs are comparable in risk. Missy as ICU nurse joins discussion.

Self-ratings round (1-10 scale)

Brian asks each guest to rate own looks 1-10 (no 7 rule was not enforced). Ratings: Alissa 6, Missy 5 (Brian: 4.5), Blasie 6, Macy 7, Alexy 7-7.5, Mason 5, Natalia declined. Extended discussion on honest self-assessment, social media overinflation, Missy's body image recovery through sobriety.

Beauty standards / body fat image comparison

Brian shows superhero and athlete photos comparing male and female body ideals and typical body fat standards. Debate on which gender faces harder-to-attain physical standards. Tim Chalamet referenced as example of thin male ideal.

Blasie removal and assault on Nick

Brian asks Blasie to leave after repeated sunglasses violation and trolling throughout episode. Nick begins recording per show policy. Blasie grabs Nick's phone, appears to attempt punch, breaks his necklace in struggle. Mason and Missy react loudly. Blasie removed. Nick is uninjured. Brian replaces necklace (~$20). Madison joins table as replacement.

Post-removal debrief and Madison joins

Brian describes what happened for viewers. Nick confirms he is okay. Panel reflects on Blasie trolling pattern. Brian plays pre-show video showing Nick's earlier sunglasses negotiation. Madison takes Blasie's seat.

Feminism discussion

Brian asks each guest if they identify as feminist. Missy: no longer (shifted via Jordan Peterson). Diana: traditional/first-wave feminist (equity vs. equality distinction). Alexy: gender roles, traditional submission in partnership. Natalia, Alissa, Macy: qualified agreement with equality, skeptical of modern feminism's direction.

Bumble swiping segment

Missy's Bumble profile reviewed on air. Panel swipes on male profiles. Discussion of age ranges, photo quality, and swipe selectivity.

Body count round

Brian asks each guest their body count. Missy: ~60 (confirmed from pre-show notes; 95% under alcohol, 2 people in last 6 years). Alissa: not above double digits. Diana: declines. Macy: ~2. Others decline. Discussion on whether men should care.

Chaos/TTS segment and show close

TTS at $20 threshold. Audience reacts to body count. Final thoughts. Mason congratulated. Brian cannot address all pre-show notes for Missy/Diana. Show ends with Twitch raid.

Transcript

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Masonhe is my Council we would never we would never ruin this with whatever you're insinuating we're also both heterosexuals sure but this is all this

Alissais all this can all be you know you're taking care of him that's that's that's a nice thing I have a question are you asking her on the first date because if

Alissayou are how would you find out if there is like compensation what is compensation yeah what are we in like freaking Tanzania where there's a bride price like she like the perfect girl

Alissalike how are you even going to find that she perfect in every way wa find find what out that she's like the perfect girl like you know what I mean a good match she's Herman is intact how would you find out if she's a good match if

Brian Atlasyou're like dropping her after finding out she's not a virgin you know well look there's other factors that are involved you know obviously he wants he's look at this physical specimen here if she's a physical specimen that would

Brian Atlasbe helpful obviously her Christian values and ethics and morals very important you know her willing willingness to be uh cooperative and submissive because in the Christian

Brian Atlasfaith you have you have Christ husband wife children yes that's the sort of biblical order and then what else what else do we have oh let's let's

TTS/Donationskeep let's keep going what does her BMI have to be I want to know I grew up you might be a bit okay wait what's that I have a question for Mason hold on grid

TTS/DonationsOne Motorsports donated $200 I have a plane does that make me cool my wife is awesome and neither of us settled do not buy into this woman

TTS/Donationsprattle there is a reason they are single ladies how may the patriarchy help you today yo grid one good to see what kind of plane do you have

Brian Atlasyell yeah don't I'll tell you if that makes you cool or not okay I mean I like I like the wait let's get back to this yo grid one thank you for the for

Brian Atlasthe message she is curious what kind of plan you have sure so are you interested in Grid one not really not at all he has wife wife he's noted he's got a wife

Brian Atlashe's just he's just showing off his plane yeah there you go okay so I had a question for wait hold on you had a question first I think and then we'll get to you what was your question again

Blasieoh um are you asking on the first day asking what like if she's a virgin wait can I ask you what if her what if her hman was broken in a a

Brian Atlasbicycle on a bicycle wait hold on hold on hold on you got to scoot the microphone that way just once I place it just leave it where it is scoot it that way no scoot it towards you towards you

Brian Atlasyep and then scoot it to your left there you go okay don't touch it don't touch it don't move it anymore okay how about so yeah he would he would ask how about

Brian Atlasif her himman was broken uh riding a bicycle or a horse yes they're using if they're using tampons or if they're horse riders some women don't even without those things don't necessarily

Brian Atlashave a highman you could just hope that they're honest individuals and they just tell you the truth I know that's a difficult concept for you to grasp why is that a difficult concept for me to grasp well you seem to like playing a game I mean there has

Brian Atlasbeen evidence to the I think we and which is it well your Omission when I asked you your relationship status you weren't just upfront and you just didn't well can I can I ask you something out of all the

Blasiewomen that have been on the show what what how many have you bagged you know because I this is my first time that I've been to Santa Barbara this is the one of the most beautiful places I've ever been in my entire life I see how

Blasiethis is relevant I I I'm going to make it relevant this is one of the most most beautiful places I've ever been to in my entire life it's seriously gorgeous and you are in a den taking uh women to places where it looks like they've

Blasiegotten caught like shoplifting and how many how many no I kind of get that this looks like a place where where you go after

Blasieyou get caught shoplifting at CVS and they and the security takes you and but but this is this is such a wonderful place come on don't act like you don't know what I mean and this is this is the

Blasieplace that you you have them and and you're neing them and so what what's the what's the deal why aren't you bagging these women why aren't you taking them to bed that's my question I don't think you understand what's happening here

Missywait I don't no she doesn't well it's a total nonse with her yes well maybe because you're Canadian I you may not you may not understand Canadian I don't understand anything cuz I'm sorry guys

Missyit's my Canadian sorry you know sorry a boot like you know the whole thing like it's like a it's a different culture all I'm going to say is you're I think you're trolling this whole show and like derailing the

Brian Atlasconversation trolling this whole show I'm asking honest question you really are I'm sorry so we I'm not going to address your non Secor because we were in the midst of a conversation about

Brian AtlasMason perhaps later on in the show I'll engage with you there but that's right yeah so to answer your question yeah he would probably yeah we we' ask we are you are you on the DAT will

Brian Atlasyou be accompanying every day so okay it's a it's a bit you don't have a you don't have a good answer to the question stop interrupting it's a bit uh if girls are interested in Mason they're dming

Brian Atlashim Mason do you get a lot of DMS from from girls I get DMS from females he gets a lot of DMS from from ladies and so through the DMS he can negotiate however he wants uh as his uh his

Brian Atlasacquaintance his friend he's certainly welcome to ask me for advice on anything and I think I have a pretty good eye for uh you know who could potentially be a good match or not but uh you know this

Brian Atlasis mostly just a bit for the show but I mean I certainly advise Mason that given that he's a virgin I it would it would make sense to me that he can find a girl

Brian Atlaswho's a virgin he's an attractive guy he's got good ethics and morals and values all that so I don't suspect he'll have any trouble if that's what he desires I don't think he'll have any trouble finding a virgin but it's not I don't think it's clear to me that that's

Brian Atlas100% a deal breaker for you like if you meet a fantastic woman who's had a previous 1 2 3 Partners doesn't sound what's the limit on the body count uh limit I I I would definitely

Masonwant it below five uh statistically five or above you like only a 20% chance of successful marriage you've had virgins contact you

Missycorrect yeah yeah I definitely have oh I'm sure how old are you 28 okay I have a little question though because you were saying about like the dating apps now I imagine that looking the way you

Missydo you probably have a lot of women who just come to to you but you say like you know the dating apps we should all get off the dating apps and social media and I do agree I'd love to be off the dating

Missyapps but how would you advise meeting people when like outside of the dating apps because so I I found it kind of

TTS/Donationsinteresting as uh I don't know sorry grid One Motorsports donated $200 have a few the coolest is a long easy not a Cessna unemployed molet girl

TTS/Donationsis completely bad faith and useless she should plant a tree for the oxygen she wastes daily Frank Castle this is Sparta if you if you can tell me how to plant a

Blasietree if you can tell me how to plant a tree then i' then I'd be glad to do it what is he say have a few the coolest is the Long Easy not a Cessna all right first of all a Cessna is great if you

Blasiehave a little plane to yourself that you can fly around the um don't have plane to yourself you have someone else you have one I'm sorry you're talking like you're toing a Boeing 47 you know 747 you know what I mean know about

Dianaunfortunately not all of us are materialistic and I'm just letting you know and maybe that's why you're single because I don't chase materialis it doesn't even make a lick of sense maybe maybe if you maybe if you maybe if you were you you should cool your jets

Blasieand try and learn from other women that have gone cool your jets cool my Jets I'm already cooling my Jets I'm in assess 4 I I F I flew here how much did you have to drink

Missytoday because you're screaming and you're trolling and you're being ridiculous no offense I'm sorry I'm pretty yeah of course you're sorry cuz you're Canadian but listen no because I'm a kind have you ever read have you

Blasieever read the book why men love have you ever read it no because I have a bra I don't there you go fake new no no no you haven't read it because it's

Blasietrue we got to the back no I'm serious why men love you got to read it well actually you you'd be better off reading like Freudian psycho analysis old that's how old are you I'm I'm going

Missyto be 37 in July so you should shut your mouth a little bit because I know a bit more than you why is that because I was born7 no I don't it's my choice it's by

Blasiechoice I'm waiting for it choice is it really by choice yes no it's because you're too argumentative and you're and you're and you're pretending to because and

Missybecause because you're pretending I'm trying to get the conversation back on track cuz we all came here to have a discussion about relationships and you're derailing everything and I the f word that's not that's not very

Missynice I can do whatever the hell I damn well please oh my gosh and she said the H and the d word my God goodness I'm about ready is she even from Canada am I even from Canada someone please my

Missyfamily friends who are watching please voucher me Canadian Sumi God all right jeez I'm sorry I just can't handle the like the Ridiculousness we're here to have a conversation please stop

Blasiescreaming please let everybody have a conversation without all the insanity we're all having a conversation no you're having a monologue that's very different right well is it is it so bad

Blasieif I have a mon because you're in my ear having a mon this all right well you can move you can no I can't I was assigned here I don't that your tone and it wasn't I doing it's that's literally

Blasieyou're doing nobody can was doing to that where the place you are anyway I'm sorry that you guys don't have husbands I'm sorry that I might have one in a year I'm sorry about that I can

Missyguarantee you whatever I'm Sor for your husband H paid to take is not going to work out because you're a lunatic you're a raging lunatic

BlasieI well I may be a lunatic some people like that get you got to read the book the bad people God Almighty save me I'm sorry uh

BlasieGod you're sorry all right we get it you you don't have to be disrespectful yeah you are so disrespectful no because you start no you first leave leave the floor to everybody else for a little bit like can you just like you first it started

Blasiewith them not letting me put on my sunglasses I mean I'm blasy for Christ's sake that's what I do I have theine put I'm I'm not reading anything I'm having people read it for me okay oh my good

BlasieGod and see David tracc some Polish man donated at $10 he's having a great time come on people we're having a great time having this you're having a great time by yourself

Brian Atlaswhy aren't you because you're in my ear having them M you are what is making women look bad stop I've never met one girl stop we're not going to please God take control so we don't have to keep doing

Brian Atlasthis well I'm just I mean you're big girls I'm I'm just letting you I I've never met one girl who didn't take can I ask a question that's the MC's job yes please somebody read it I'd love to see what he says play one

Brian Atlasthing woo I didn't think I fight while here I'm going to read a couple chats we have Dylan Loi ladies would you prefer to be college educated and work or be a housewife please explain your answer

Brian Atlasgustava spoke English last pod I feel betrayed uh so we're going to start with you would you prefer to be college educated and work or be a housewife and explain your answer please I definitely want to go like

Alissafinish college and get an education and get a job but if I were to meet a guy who could like support me and my family that I would potentially have and he told me that it was like okay to like

Alissajust be a housewife then I would be okay with quitting my job but I don't want to have to depend on him and not be able to just leave him if I needed to so that's why I want to

Brian Atlascontinue like with my educ let's assume he was like a good you know it wasn't going to devolve into some like abusive situation like he's just going to be a good husband but you know he's well off and he's like babe you don't need to

Brian Atlaswork I want you to just take care of the kids take care of the household uh you do that I'll take care of everything else well I would carry out with my education I'm not going to not like finish it sure so but you you'd finish

Brian Atlasthat by the time you're what 21 yeah no I actually want to go like get a master's get a masters let me ask you a question what if you met a guy in your

Brian Atlasjunior year mhm he's is maybe a couple years older than you and he maybe's already working already successful and you could tell like okay this guy's

Brian Atlasgoing to be able to provide for Me Maybe I don't have to work and he's like hey I want to take care of you let's start a family let's do it now don't go get your Masters in what what did you say you

Alissawere studying uh psychology psychology yeah forget that uh just get your gradu or your uh your bachelor's degree that would hon hly make me question his

Alissacharacter to like not support my goals and my ambitions because I want to do that like I want to be able to have an education and a career like I don't see why he would want me to depend on

Brian Atlashim well for in further in do you want you want to get married one day yeah have kids yeah okay how do you know how many kids you want um two what if he

Alissawants seven seven sons seven sons seven sons you guys can control the gender well you just keep go until you have S so I don't think I don't think we would get along well then

Brian AtlasI don't think it would be a good match she doesn't align with that person obviously I don't think it would work out so he could say you never have to work another day in your life I will take care of everything but you would still want to

Brian Atlasdo you would you when you say your career what would your career be um I want to be a psychologist eventually like a do Clinical Psychology like see patients yeah so just to be clear uh and

Brian Atlaswould you want to work fulltime I'm not sure up and so would you be treating people who have is there like a specialty you want to pursue I don't just like talk therapy probably

Brian Atlascounseling yeah okay what do you think would be a better use of your time talking to to The Strangers for money that you just hear them complain

Brian Atlasall day and then you hear perhaps their trauma which could have some impact on you uh hearing people tell you their terrible stories day in day out having to put all your empathy

Brian Atlasand nurturing into total strangers in exchange for money or you don't have to work a day in your life you don't have to deal with any stress uh at least that's related from work you take care of the household you take care of your

Brian Atlashusband you take care of your children do you still prefer having the career over if if your husband's successful enough to provide you with uh you not having to ever work a day in

Alissayour life which do you prefer the only thing that I'd be scared of is that one day I wouldn't want to be with him anymore and now I can't leave him because I have no way of providing for myself well if you're married let's say you were

Brian Atlasmarried to him and there was no for example there's no prenuptual well even if there was a prenuptual agreement you would still be entitled to uh the money that was earned during the relationship um certain entitlements

Brian Atlaswhen it perhaps even came to alimony child support Etc so even if that did happen you wouldn't be totally out on the streets and I assume you'd have a family support system even if it did happen let's assume it didn't though

Brian Atlasum are you concerned that you would leave him despite him being for example let's say there's no abuse in the relationship yeah maybe you just you fall out of love but he's still he's a wonderful father wonderful husband

Brian Atlastreats you well supportive provider no alcohol no no drug abuse No gambling nothing great guy but maybe you just you get bored you fall out of love would

Dianathat be the scenario that you're worried about hypothetically are you also saying that he's never going to get into any kind of accident become a paraplegic or quadriplegic and actually need for her

Dianato go and support the whole family including the kids that's true cuz if he's a bowling ball then I don't know if I want him anymore a bowling pin yikes okay um no but that that's the reality cuz this is you know this actually hits

Dianaclose to home with me I have a nonprofit for domestic violence survivors fleeing with children and many many women you think that's a majority of women's experiences or just the majority of people that go through the this

Dianaorganization you're talking about so let me allow me to explain what happens wait actually hold on I did ask before you do I did ask you a question so assuming all those things are true that I listed out yeah would you still

Alissawant to pursue your career over your family Ambitions I want to have like at least like the education I don't have to started like my career well okay what if your

Brian Atlashusband and he listens to you but he says well uh would you look to your potential husband to help you finance your career or your your cuz it's is it

Alissapretty expensive to get a master's degree yeah okay um what what are your plans for that currently how you how are you going to finance your master's degree student not sure yet maybe student how are you financing your current education my

Alissaparents your parents are paying for it okay master's degree are they going to pay for it too or what are you thinking we haven't discussed it yet but they know that that's like the route I want to take possibly student loans cuz I do have siblings that want to go to college

Brian Atlasas well how many siblings do you have I have two okay and are they in college yet or are you the oldest I am the oldest okay so they're not in college yet but they will be soon yeah and they're Pro I assume they're also going to want to go to university get an

Brian Atlaseducation okay uh so let's say you had to take out student loans to do this okay yeah but your

Brian Atlasfiance let's say he's proposed to you says well I think we should save that money and put it towards our future family so the question is

Alissalike would I be okay with that and just stopping school after my bachelor's and just starting a family yes um I would be okay with that yeah okay

TTS/Donationscool did you have you had something right yeah I think oh hold on oh there's two coms back to back donated $200 planning ahead for a divorce is Ultimate

TTS/Donationscringe women submit to thear husbands who leads the family the lack of faith in your ability to choose a good man or keep a good man is terrible be better all right sounds like a basement dweller

Alissano I think that he's actually correct because planning for a divorce I think it's being realistic at the end of the day you don't know what's going on through someone's head but the point is if you have like the right goals for a

TTS/Donationsfamily Dylan LLY donated $200 stop it brickson they get no education fully dependent or fully inde I'm going to pull up the original one you're right so the original one was

Brian Atlasthank you Dylan was would you prefer to be college educated and work or be a housewife and then explain your answer so I guess it's like so you I'm assuming you mean hey

Brian Atlasdrop out of college either or either or either or okay I'm not but does so does this uh scenario does it mean that

Masonhm so they can't wait or would be a housewife okay so it's college educated and work or be a housewife so you so

Masonthere's no like there's no like hey uh maybe after I get my education then we have a family maybe I'll work or like we're not blending the two it's either

Masonyou work and have a college education or you're a housewife there's no like in between yeah so like gun to your head you got to

Brian Atlasmake a decision yeah which one are you picking um oh so so you're college educated but you never end up having a family basically basically I think that's so I think that's what it is your

Brian Atlasyou get to do your uh College be college educated never get to have a family or you never get college educated never have a career but you are a have kids family but in a relationship they say like that's what it alludes to I don't I

Masondon't think it's necessarily you can't have a family it's you can have a family but like if you're working if both of you are working then hey we're going to have to pay for child care we're going to have to let the state raise our

Brian Atlaschildren things like that yeah Dylan do you want to just clarify really quick Dylan so is it they get to pursue a career be college educated but never have a family or never have a career

Brian Atlasnever be college educated and but have a you know family kids husband is that is that what you're getting at we'll come back to that really quick we'll go around the table on that one last thing on the Virgin virginity thing I think

Alexyyou guys over here had a qu did you have a question for this did you yes yeah I yeah my question was have you had those conversations how did they go like on the first date you ask your girl if

Masonshe's a virgin is like I don't know yes I do I do ask I do ask the question um it usually comes in the form of like have you been with any guys

Masonbefore or have you dated guys before if she says yes I've dated or faith conversation maybe what are your Bel exactly yeah yeah so I'm doing a lot of digging and then naturally that is going

Masonto come up yeah so I'm cuz I can I can understand where they're coming from are they somebody who puts thems out there in that way I can usually gauge that

Masonjust by talking with somebody who like also who their friends are like how they live their life that's right um yeah wait is anybody just uh is anyone else

Brian Atlashere a virgin I was when got married no yeah but is anybody ever anybody else a

Missyvirgin show I mean I'm largely celibate but certainly not a virgin not a you're you're a virgin yeah I was just kidding yeah

Nataliaunsurprising okay why is that not surprising huh okay anyway no I mean you said it so I had a question for you with your virginity I like what phase in your life of like your religion did you say

NataliaI'm I'm going to be a virgin till marriage so because you went through your 20s and like 20s like you know you drink you do this or I don't know if you do but so I

Masonthink this all just kind of goes back to how I was raised I give my parents I I they are my heroes my dad is the greatest man I have ever known and my

Masonmom is the greatest woman I've ever known they gave me incredible examples they when they were growing up in their 20s they definitely weren't like me they

Masonwere parters they were crazy sleeping around like but I mean the Lord does incredible things and they totally changed their lives around the Lord

Masonchanged them completely so give so much credit to them so I think they I guess pulled maturity out of me from a very young age so when I was in high school

MasonI'm already thinking through these things they're helping me think through these things what's important to you uh let's turn to God's word what does it say so what do we think about God's word

Masonif it is commandment not just because hey do this because I say so but do this I know it doesn't feel in the moment like it's great but it's for your

Masonultimate good it was kind of instilling that into me at an early age so when I got to my 20s I was already somewhat a mature man of course I'm going to mess

Masonaround and uh I guess depends what you mean about mess around but I'm going to mess up make mistakes but uh I'm usually miles that's really cool though that's

Brian Atlasamazing yeah prop too I'm going to read it actually um for these hundred ones uh what What's your name again Alyssa Alyssa I'm going to have you read the hundred ones this one right

Alissahere oh sorry it says my disability insurance is so far beyond what I need any disability and my salary doesn't change Wife and Kids set me a vegetable a all right Matt thank you for the Super

Brian AtlasChat man appreciate it thank you very much and then we we will get back to Dylan's comment here he did add a clarifying thing we have just Gerald and

Alissathen Alyssa let me have you read this one this one up here yeah you don't need to go into it now what was so bad in the marriage that it couldn't be worked on

Dianawhat was going on that justified breaking the family and giving your kids probable abandonment issues you want to give a quick response that absolutely um as a a domestic violent Survivor who

Dianaleft with five kids the youngest one being 2 years old I realized pretty quickly when my 8-year-old said um while we were doing homeschooling living abroad um he looked down at his paper

Dianaafter his dad had finished you know having a very loud altercation with me and said I'm so glad I wasn't born a girl so at some point you have to leave for your kids even though you want to

Dianastay for your kids and I don't think anyone that gets married actually gets married with the intention of getting a divorce but I do think those are conversations that need to be had on the Forefront so that everyone

Dianaunderstands what you're getting into what kind of ramifications happen with these kids and then as they stay in a even a confusingly like hostile marriage how much trauma bonding happens and how

Dianathat impacts them in their adult lives and how much you have to like go backwards and rewire and unlearn certain things such as like yelling at your spouse or following your spouse around

Dianain the house to yell at them which is called domestic terrorism things like that so breaking up a family is a lot you know that's a much more loaded topic than just like what we're making it out

Brian Atlasto be a convenience so to go back to uh Dylan Lo's scenario here it was uh would you rather be uh get College

Brian Atlaseducated or be a housewife and he provided some clarification he says they do not get to have a family they do have their dream career so it's you get your

Alissadream career or be a housewife to a loving man so we'll start here again if you want to reans it um I in that scenario

MissyI'd rather be a housewife I don't want to not have a family MH well um like my grandma always told me um um because she did that and she told me to go out and build a life for myself and then find

Missysomeone but I can tell you as a single 36-year-old woman my time is running out to have a family and um that's something you can't get back I can't get my 20s back I wish more young woman under

Missyunderstood that you can have a career whenever the heck you want there's 80-year-olds that I've seen in college you can build whatever you want you can build it even better if you've got somebody by your side who's a partner to

Missyyou and I fully regret not not doing that and uh I know there's still a little time but I would 100% choose the housewife plus I love to bake and cook and knit and sew so like I I'm down

Dianagardening all that love it what about you well as a woman that's done both um you know my intention when I first got married was just housewife I got pushed

Dianafrom every single corner to finish my education to have a career and did Thrive and you know I finished my associate degree in nursing um while

Dianahaving our first child returned back after a week had my bachelor you know finished while I was getting induced with our second child helped my ex-husband finish his education while

Dianahaving our third child all while working um had a fourth and fifth child in Washington state while having a full-blown Critical Care career starting up our first you know medical facility

Dianaso you know I don't think you know if I were to choose and there were a man that actually would have which was the intention yes I don't I don't think any woman that has like

Dianathat traditional biological clock ticking desire to like be the mother maybe that you never got to see or or um have the household so just answer the

Dianaquestion from your frame of view right now I'm grateful that I have a career but I would have chosen with a good man to be a housewife and a homemaker

Brian Atlasbecause that's a career in itself but but that's tense let's talk currently right now if you were presented right now with the option of your dream career

Blasieor being a housewife to a loving husband 1,00% housewife I love being at home with the kids I would like to just chill I think

Blasiethat if I if I if I had a bunch of kids I think I would probably drown them and so that's not oh that's not that's what I'm that's that's my answer I mean that's a pretty um

Blasieyeah you're just trolling it yeah I don't I think it's unproductive but I would I would like I like I would like to chill and I would like I would like not to have a career and I would like to

Missyjust hang out you know I'm just going to say I'm not religious but I will pray for you because I think something is going on with you that is very iay a lot I actually went to the mission yesterday in Santa Barbara and I knelt and I

Missyprayed and it was great although they were close well God needs a touch your soul I'll tell you that saying you're going to drown your children that's we should move on yeah yeah that's uh pretty dark it is

Blasiedark um yeah are you going to actually like answer the question in good faith though the I answered the question and in good faith it was it was I I would rather I

Missythink I would just like I would just hang out there's no hanging out you're either a mom and what would your dream career be hanging out well that's not a career

Macyoption so I'm sorry to tell you that you're sorry but it's true it is okay okay can I ask a question like on the question sure um so you're not allowed

Macyto or to pick one or the other if you choose a career would you still be able to like have a family like just with no no I mean like just like with a husband or a boyfriend does that consist like the family or is it with

Brian Atlaskids I think the context is kids like housewise kids family husband or dream career yeah no kids no family no husband oh no

Macyhusband see that that was my clarification okay okay then I'd probably yeah I'd probably go with the housewife then I guess but okay what about you uh 100% educated and with my career you you'd pick the career 100% to

Nataliabe single though for like go without a hband go single I I think you can still like yeah date but I don't think you whatever just Comm I'm I'm fine with kids I personally think like if you didn't go

Nataliato school that's cool you know dope on you but I think it's so cool to like be educated and like it's a flex like if I'm going to UC Santa Barbara like one of the top 10 like best public schools in the nation I'm going to flex it I'm be like I did this I got you where I'm

Missyat you have a family dope on you super cool but you know what I pay for it if I can say something to that I'll say that like okay so I was really sick in my 20s and I'll tell you what was never there

Missywith me was my job and my education it was my family that got me through and when your parents are gone I still have parents when your parents are gone what will you have and you're well yeah I'm

Missysorry but they're there no wrong there's no wrong answer that's what you choose and that's what speak it is what you choose I'm just saying that there may come a day like you're so young right now and I'm just saying there may come a day when you are older when you realize

Missylike this is wonderful and I'm so proud of myself for accomplishing this and for doing this but but you're still home to the same four walls alone every day after your

Brian Atlasfriendsy you'd be so you would pick your dream career over husband family kids okay and just what uh do you have a sense of kind of what career you want to appre um I wanted to kind of like this

Brian Atlasis so like vague but like in the realm of like law enforcement law so you want to be a law enforcement officer I want to get I want to be higher in the field but like what do you mean higher in the field I would you could detective or

Brian Atlasdetective level don't you have to start as a police officer yeah you definitely have to start a police officer just raise my way but her goal her career goal that's cool that's are you comfortable with shooting someone um

Brian Atlasyeah that's cool that was a sign me up exactly ready lock loaded uh okay so one question what if uh she

Brian Atlasdidn't answer Alexa well no we'll we'll get one question for you so let's say you met a very well-off man mhm so I mean there's no there's never going to be concerns over finances let's just say

Brian Atlashe makes like a million a year that's pretty good um with that sort of lifestyle that you provide you you never have to work a day in your life you're the stay-at-home wife take care of the kids have kids have the husband would

Brian Atlasthat be a more appealing trade-off or still even with that sort of lifestyle that a man who's making seven figures a year would you still not take it then no cuz I I can make I can make a lot of money I probably not that much in like

Natalialaw enforcement but I can make some money myself and like my mom can I ask you question she's a housewife and can I ask you a question if I if I could snap

Brian Atlasmy fingers right now and give you $5 million 10 yeah yeah we'll just say hold on wait yeah 5 million right now

Dianauntaxed but you're not allowed to ever pursue a career would you take it no so just to be clear you're going to work but there's a qu there's a there's a reasoning behind it like tell us a little bit about your background right

Natalialike your your mom your dad that Dynamic maybe how many siblings my mom yeah my mom's a housewife and I'm the first one here at college and I'm living my life and I love it and well well college is a different yeah know college is fun and I've done internships in law enforcement

Nataliaand I even loved it even more and I like have connections at our home police station and like if I'm ready to do that I have my foot in the door and I just think it's so dope to like be educated like so to be clear if I could give you

Brian Atlas$5 million right now I would take it you wouldn't take it you'd rather work how how you want to work until you're 60 I work until I'm 60 you could just you

Brian Atlascould retire at you're what almost 19 you could see the world you could retire never have to work a day in your life

Brian Atlasyou can pursue any hobbies you want uh you wouldn't I look I think uh being a police officer is a commendable job but I mean there's certain negative

Brian Atlasyou know you uh have to deal with annoying people it's stressful sometimes you can be in violent situations you can be in life-threatening situations it can be a very stressful job yeah police

Masonofficer is probably I can't think of a harder job than police officer try being a critical care nurse well there different stressful I I would I'm not

Dianasaying critical care nurse is not stressful I'm saying police officers police officers psych patients that are like it depends on how much you want to

Masonshoot people police officers literally deal with the bottom of society every single day they are in their car sitting there every

Masoninteraction they have was probably with somebody that's like could have weapons on them whatever and I bottom of society psych patients are dangerous but the most stressful job in the world I psych

Blasiepatients are very easily sedated you give them a shot context of

Brian Atlaslittle bit of H little bit of Ben little bit stop stop stop stop stop so just to be clear are you saying that your job is like as stressful as a police officer

Dianait's comparable comparable well so you're saying that in the psych what what was it the psych unit no in in the ER or in the critical care unit you're dealing with Lower Level Society

Brian Atlashomeless people drug addicts they have Shanks they have needles dirty needles they probably they I mean perhaps they made contact with police officers first

Masonyeah maybe or theyed in the police officer is like in their eyes the enemy they're the ones who have to grab them be like hey we are taking you you guys like okay they're going to be there but

Dianahey we're going to help you no no that's not how it goes down people are hallucinating people are violent I understand I've had police officers that sit outside of the room while they let us handle the patient but the thing is

Missythat's not the only type of patient you deal with as a critical care nurse so you're talking about like vast majority has have you ever um I'm sure it's happens but it's

Brian Atlasprobably far more rare um in the critical care unit uh how frequently are you having to like dispatch the people

Blasiethat are freaking out like have you ever have to has anyone ever have to like shoot and kill a patient shoot and kill a patient grab them by their

Brian Atlashital they have like they have chemical rest phys an argument here to point out that as a nurse there's we don't have to shoot we do have to restrain people with

Brian Atlasleather restrain usually with a group of other nurses police officers police officers have to encounter people who are armed and have intention to kill

Dianathem yeah and it's usually when they're one onone or like two maybe nurses don't have and the majority of nurses are femal so for us to have men in the industry is

Brian Atlasreally who's more likely to encounter like some uh lethal Force scenario a nurse or a police officer a police officer obviously because they're out in the streets I'm saying it's comparable

Brian Atlasyou guys are turning it into like this like yours is dangerous it is still dangerous let's not minimize let's not minimize the risks that police officers absolutely and I

Masonwasn't the way this conversation went down not comparable we were talking about police officers right here I said yeah that police officer I can't think of a harder more stressful job and then

Masona comment was made by you uh try being a critical careers and I was like okay yeah I'm not saying it's a it's not a stressful job dangerous not just stressful but you said like try being

Dianacritical care why are we having this argument though more dangerous I made a comment h on it but that's fine nobody's been in my shoes and had

Masonto deal with like people in Port whereit drugs are literally I can look at I can look at statistics for police officers self- deltion police officers have the highest rate there are all of the

Masonnegative side effects of having a job police officers will tend to have the most negative effects so I can look at statistics not anecdotal evidence not

Masonsta my experience as a critical care nurse it's really difficult and I'm not saying it's not have you ever looked at statistics for critical care nurses oh my gosh I'm just saying police officers

Masonlead it don't call it anecdotal when there's actually anal research we're not we we are not saying that it's not hard it's not a I'm not saying it's oh it's

Dianaan easy job it's just not the same being a police police officer is harder it is stressful it is more D I claim that it's the same I said it was comparable comparable because it is unless you've

Dianabeen a nurse and you've worked in the ER or the critical care unit something to that I have been in you're trying to shut me down so we're having a disagreement and a dialogue that's what happens in a disagreement two people

Dianahave I'm disagreeing on the fact that you're minimizing and saying it's a stressful job yeah sure but it's not necessarily dangerous it is dangerous saying that but it's just not as dangers being police officer I've been in a

Missypsych word I've been a I've been an alcoholic I've been in homeless sh ERS I've been in recovery I've seen the mental crisis and I'm telling you right now it is not the same let me Define

Brian Atlascomparable or comparable of equivalent quality worthy of comparison so it's not

Brian Atlasclear to me that being a critical care nurse is of equivalent risk or danger as being a police officer that say

Missyequivalent I use the word comparable comparable comparable yes but I just gave you the definition you're saying it's like essentially an equivalent and it's absolutely not and it's not and it's not and it's not saying that your

Missyjob isn't dangerous it's not saying that you don't take risks in your job but you are at less risk than a police officer who usually you are in a hospital setting most of the time or in a clinical setting with many nurses many

Missydoctors around people who can help you and come to your Aid in your rescue I know I work in a healthare situation I totally understand that but I'm saying that I like I've seen the violent

Missypatients I've heard the codes called but I'm telling you it happens less frequently and also not to the degree that police officers get and I'll tell you I used to hate police officers when I was a far-left person but I'm telling

Dianayou their job is one of the most dangerous jobs and and it's not to minimize you but it's not same I didn't even it's not even about me it's about in general but you an ER Nur or a critical care nurse that works in the

Dianasouth side of Chicago for example versus a police officer that works in Beverly Hill comp do you get what say there's like different statistics like we're talking about different variables right how comp

Brian Atlasit can be comparable let's compare a critical care nurse in the south side of Chicago to a police officer in the south side of Chicago right I made a simple comment that it's

Brian Atlascom it can it's comforable yes we realize nursing it's stressful it's difficult you're dealing with like you can be dealing with violent patients we totally get it it's not comparable

Blasieto a police officer I filed a couple police reports in the south side of Chicago I'll tell you one thing nothing was done I'm telling you they're not doing too much down there I am just

Blasiesaying as somebody who's filed at least three of them nobody cares andbody nobody cares so then so so then so then so then how do you how are you going to say that you know what a police

Missyofficer in the south side of Chicago goes through or what they're doing I don't think you're the same conversation as any of us at any point in this entire evening nothing you have I don't think

Brian Atlasso a to I think it's got plenty to do with what we're we're did you answer the qu or no really quick coming back to

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Brian Atlasa uh thank you doc v nablas um hold on so coming back to you really quick so I don't know if you really answered no you did so if I snap my fingers give you $5

Brian Atlasmillion you'd still get a career 50 50 years yeah 50 like you went you know have you been to Hawaii I haven't been to Hawaii oh she

NataliaLiv in San Diego what do you need to go to Hawaii for San Diego San Diego's like beautiful like I said I did an internship the police officers that I've like done ride alongs with or like the

Brian Atlasdetective that um was supervising me he wasn't in the office 24/7 he gave you $5 million take it and so over the course of your career you might not even over

Missy40 50 year career you might not even make that much over the course of the career and if you get and I have a house I'm chilling yeah the thing is especially in this area you will not be able to afford it on your own and this

Missyis another reason why I think people should pair up because fiscally it's freaking it right now do you have a house and no not by myself I have a I have an apartment and I and I barely

Dianathat's kind of crazy that's kind of crazy though that you wouldn't take 5 million I think there's a lot of like family Dynamics and maybe like history like I I'm not going to like say but for me for example seeing my mom I'm also

Brian Atlasfirst generation let's call them your mom right now yo mom this dude on this podcast just offer me stupid take the money offer me 5 mil or I could just go ahead be a housewife you an

Dianaidiot but a strong willed like first generation first college educated like immigrants it's super important to have that autonomy because we saw our parents struggle you don't think $5

Dianamillion I didn't say that but I'm saying she's still young like she's still she's still figuring out life right I'll fix her a deeper sense of purpose Ching that anyways moving on what's your answer to

Alexythe uh question my answer would be housewife I uh got my college education I have my own business and I could have a thousand could have a th% still be doing

Alexywhat I'm doing and having a successful business without going to college um but that being said there are plenty of career paths that you need to do that

Alexymine sure in particular I didn't um but yeah I I think that being a housewife would be great that would th% be my option Mason would you be a housewife

Masonor yeah if I were a woman I would definitely be a housewife there you go yeah guys go to twitch.tv/ whatever drops a follow drops a prime sub if you

Brian Atlashave one twitch.tv whatever in the chat and um guys get us to 70,000 followers if you can guys we're so close we're so close I'm going to read a couple chats here we

Alissahave uh actually Alyssa can I have you read these yeah um Can the blonde please explain domestic terrorism does she know

Dianawho Timothy how do you say that MC m is a quick answer if you can go ahead domestic terrorism is when you are arguing with someone and it's a hostile environment one person it's usually

Dianaintimate partner tries to leave the room or leave the conversation the other person is very hostile and following them around to argue and escalate the

Brian Atlasconversation I do not know Timothy mcy no okay and then we have USMC USMC Tex and hey thank you man appreciate it Alyssa if you can read it

AlissaTeacher Appreciation Week Nurse Appreciation Week female domesticated jobs always say they are in the hardest and reach for the most sympathy where's mechanic Appreciation Week sympathy

Alissaleverage control yes that's fair okay and then we have woke go broke thank you go ahead Alysa combat war zone infantry or ER nurse

Alissaplease explain also can the blonde oh wait is that the same one no you you can read it is the blonde can the blonde in the red dress please tell me who Timothy MC is I don't think you don't know who Timothy it's orange but I don't know who

BlasieTimothy is probably I feel like he probably killed his entire family yes something I can't remember but so name combat war zone infantry or ER

Brian Atlasnurse which is more stress ful uh combat war zone absolutely okay yeah okay 100% woke go broke that is the question uh hold on let me see where

Brian Atlaswe're at here in our notes we went around on that we got everybody's relationship status oh I wanted to ask um uh I I heard something recently about

Brian Atlashow women who are on birth control it can impact the type of men they're attracted to like women who are on birth control will be attracted to men who display a bit more feminine

Brian Atlascharacteristics whereas women who are not on birth control tend to prioritize uh uh more masculine characteristics in a partner uh so just going around the table like is anybody here on birth

Missycontrol starting with you no I'm not ever ever been no uh I was on birth control for a very long time like I think close to 10 years um I've been off

Dianait for about 2 years I think my mental health improved a lot after I got off it yeah I'm I would agree I've been on birth control and not being on birth

Blasiecontrol is definitely a very different lifestyle better um I've never been on birth control if somebody asks I do lie and I say yes oh great wait what you

Missylied to the men to say that you're on it yes I have so that he could get you pregnant right wow but I thought you said you

Blasiewanted to if yeah you said you wanted to drown your kids right so you know I have oscillating feelings towards these things sometimes I'm hot sometimes I'm cold it depends on what what about you

Macyum I was on it for a little bit and I like never been someone who was like a depressed person but after I got on it like I went through like a spiral of it yeah like definitely so then I stopped never been on it um I was on it in high

Brian Atlasschool early college but I haven't been on it in years all right rocking roll we got everybody's answers here we are going to go around the table Stiffler is asking a question here ask the ladies to

Brian Atlasrate their looks M on a scale of 1 to 10 starting with you go ahead um I would go with six I would say like maybe a five yeah

Blasiesix there's no right answer there's no right answer to this question either people are going to say you're going too low or you're going too high I mean there's just like the same thing with body count there's just no right answer

Blasieto that question it's either it's just it's just isn't so that's all I'll say yeah I'll also just say six I'll say seven yeah I was going to say

Brian Atlasseven uh seven and a half oh it was he only wanted the ladies to answer but we I give myself five five um Brian would you rate US uh oh

Brian Atlasyeah us I know they ask you sometimes I'm curious I'll only rate you on each individually if you are okay with me rating you if you don't want me to rate you I won't do it but if you're like go

Brian Atlasfor it Brian I don't care yeah go for it Bri I think so it'll hurt my feelings but it's okay so I'll just first I'll just ask if you want to just all if you want a rating okay

Blasieor you need if you don't want it you can say no yeah yeah it's fine oh yeah sure fine yes sure have at it yeah Lord I'm cool

Brian Atlasyep okay and just before I go just remind me what you gave yourself what your was oh before or after let's get a sincere answer from you yeah that's true

Brian Atlasyou already you already gave your answers I just forgot all of them we'll tell you it's authentic um okay I think uh let's see starting with you hold on let

Brian Atlasme it should it didn't have to take that long no you got to make an assessment here I should like uh like uh it was

Missylooks I want to say like a solid like 7.5 yeah I I was going to 7.5 uh you it's okay it's okay you're

Missypretty used to be when you're when you're more confident people like you more it's okay I would I think you wanted you asked

Missythis so yeah just be honest yeah okay I'll give you a 4.5 okay thank thank you hey I rated myself the same thing so it doesn't hurt my feelings it's fine I'm trying be cons

Blasiealso you know there's the age yes of course weight all that but don't be so hard on yourself I'm not being

Blasiehonest like 5.5 six uh I disagree with what I disagree with what you say yeah I disagree 4.5

Nataliawhatever you said I disagree and you're welcome to it uh six I didn't need a rating I think she's like I thought you said yes I'm chilling like I'm chill now you don't want it I

Nataliasaid I said I'm chilling like I'm chilling as an chill oh okay myad bad I thought you said she doesn't want your opinion she's you said yes I was fine

Dianaokay you're fine with it and then uh five okay yeah all right let's go guess what we're tens to all the men that I would I would AB say that many people

Missydisagree with the blasty rating I think that's all I'll have to say people who disagree I know there's people who will disagree with me rating myself that they may think I'm lower they may think I'm

Blasiehigher but I'm honest enough to say that I used to be can you go find listen hun don't be so hard on yourself cuz if if you if you if you display a lot of confidence in yourself and and how you

Missylook then then no because you said you're like a four or something like that but no but I'm saying like being confident doesn't mean you rate yourself something way above what you actually

Blasieare being confident means only Who You Are if you say things then people will start to believe them I'm just saying people will start love myself as a five I love

Masonso you you should be able to give yourself an honest assessment of how I look like okay are there things I can do to change that so for me like when I was

Masonin high school junior high I wasn't a very good-look dude so I started getting into the gym and I really invested myself into that cuz I knew I saw guys

Masonwho didn't go to the gym and then they turned 30 and it's like I don't want to look like that and then I look at guys who consistently in the gym like natural guys who you know I'm not going for the

Masoncrazy I'm not I'm not going to shoot up and become a bodybuilder if you do that I guess more power to more power to you but I wouldn't suggest it if I can share

Missyit so for me I was always very very thin I definitely people would have rated me higher I've had people say what happened to you will alcoholism happened to me um

Missyhowever since I've gotten sober I lost like 50 PBS last year it's something I'm currently working on so you know what maybe I'll be a five right now maybe a few months from now I'll be a six a

Missyseven you know who knows but the thing is you can be honest about who you are and where you're at and you should love yourself where you are because the problem is and I agree with the men here and red pill logic

Missywhen they say women are raing themselves way above what they actually are and and shooting for people who are like Way Beyond what they can normally get and and it's causing them to not be realistic in relationships I think

Dianathat's a blanket statement I don't agree with either it's not women I think some women not all women no but but in general in general terms when you're going off the dating apps and social

Missymedia Etc there is a tendency in women to have an overinflated sense of self when they are at their in their Prime and I'll tell you for me social media

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