02:51:17Alissadeal for him for him yeah he doesn't have to work that's right but it's also good so hang on so it's a better deal for you cuz you don't have to work why don't want to do I think the point is that it's equally
02:51:29Alissabeneficial and that it's not equally beneficial I think it is and I think that the whoever the stay-at-home partner is who's investing in the kids often goes underappreciated which I think is her point and that's what she's trying to bring I don't think they're
02:51:41Andrew Wilsonunderappreciated I think that there's an overemphasis put on them over the working father and that the truth is the working father is the one who enables all this to begin with and is giving the greatest gift in the world to a mother
02:51:54Andrew Wilsonwhich is those first 5 years you know they're not coming back you never get them again you already miss your three-year-old you miss when they were one and you're already thinking about all the [ __ ] that they did at one that you miss oh I miss when they did that I
02:52:07Andrew Wilsonmiss when they did this now they're getting so big you had the great gift of being there for that entire spread of time yes and it's like what does he get nothing to save money he get no well not
02:52:19Andrew Wilsonreally by the way by the way if he is under if he's under a certain threshold right you get all sorts of subsidies for daycare too no no no listen I am a single mom and I don't get [ __ ] well you could be over the income threshold and
02:52:31Alissait could be I am literally not you do realize that this is based around where you live as well okay so but then you can't make a generalized statement when it that the benefits that people think exist are not there for single moms or single parents in general or even come
02:52:44Alissaon you get EBT you get Wick you get all kinds of [ __ ] iing got denied for Wick I got denied for for TF cuz you were over the the income threshold I don't know why the hell I was denied cuz there I'm
02:52:55Andrew Wilsonnot okay but anyway but you weren't supposed to be is the point so it's like look subsidies there's you're subsidized to all get out okay if you're single and
02:53:06Andrew Wilsonyou have kids you get all sorts of subsidies the man is again giving you gift allowing you to stay at home no one is disputing that Andrew no I'm not in this in this room is anybody
02:53:19AlissaI think at this table we you're saying there needs to be more of an emphasis put on her no I think I think that well sure men should be appreciated for working more and I and honestly especially and I can even admit this with my marriage um I didn't always have
02:53:31Alissaa great appreciation or even understanding for how much work my my ex-husband was putting in bet you do now yeah no I definitely do and I can own that however I think both parties should be
02:53:44Andrew Wilsonappreciated and maybe neither are but we can talk about both and we don't have to deny one to appreciate the other there's no denial okay yeah you did no it's not a denial listen it's not a denial of
02:53:56Andrew Wilsonthere's value here in fact I made specifically sure to clarify and say I didn't say it's not valuable I said it's not as valuable I feel like in the I guess
02:54:07Andrew Wilsonthat's subjective yeah I don't I don't think it's subjective I think that if let me just ask you this let me just let me just ask you this then right if if you
02:54:18Andrew Wilsonhad the luxury of being able to stay at home cuz you you haven't been able to right with your kids right right would you yeah in a second yes would you do anything you could possibly do to have that luxury I don't know within reason like I'm not going to settle for someone
02:54:32Andrew WilsonI don't want for that so you wouldn't sacrifice for it but there's I think I think that there are people uh women and I think most women actually would because because you can't get that you got to work right but I'm not going to
02:54:45Alissalive inauthentically and I don't want to set an example to my kids that they have to live a lie either but yeah I'm sure they'll thank you for outsourcing their care when they're older I'll well they're they're great right now I'm just stressed the [ __ ] out but I'll will tell
02:54:57Alissayou this if I ever am in a position to be a state well I did it the first time though but and I but some women don't do this it's crazy I will see some stay-at home moms that don't even clean the
02:55:07Alissa[ __ ] house which is wild so I do think if you're in that position like you should appreciate it it is a blessing and you know rub his feet but they don't I know yeah and I don't think
02:55:20Andrew Wilsonthat's right and so again highly underappreciated and yes I think there is an overemphasis even by feminists who say oh no we should value start valuing stay-at-home moms again it's like okay great uh but never hear any emphasis on
02:55:32Hedyworking fathers and that it's actually a gift they're giving these women to allow them to stay at home with the children I feel like in this economy right now too I know U many of my friends um are their
02:55:44Hedyhusbands are requiring them to work at least working from home while they have kids single so I'm just curious how that would play in CU for financial stability just because it's so difficult right now on one income they're requiring a small
02:55:56Andrew Wilsonpart-time job while they're still at home so what no no full-time but from home full-time from home M well that's a different story then now now you have a different requirement we're not the
02:56:07Andrew Wilsonthing is though is we're not discussing whether or not um you have a like a working wife at home who's working full-time from home and that that wouldn't create Dynamics which are
02:56:17Andrew Wilsondifferent we'd all concede that that's true talking right now on a woman who's staying at home and is given the gift of being able to take care of her kids should she submit to her husband or not
02:56:29Andrew Wilsonand the idea here basically is like if she wants to but because there are so many women in those way see from my perspective though right and we'll get to this just a second I promise I just want to finish this combo um from my
02:56:42Andrew Wilsonperspective it's like well then why would he want to get married to you have you stay home with a kid like why would they do it it just seems so stupid to me like that's why these secularists are like look Andrew give me the great reason to get married I'm like I can't because you're going to get married to a
02:56:55Andrew Wilsonchick and she's going to be like I'm dread and I love you and I'm going to submit I'm going to obey and blah blah blah blah blah and then he's going to go work right and she's not going to obey [ __ ] she's going to divorce him she's going to take half his [ __ ] and she's
02:57:06Andrew Wilsongoing to leave him uh you know kind of up [ __ ] creek without a paddle so I'm just like well you could do that or you could just kind of well I don't know check out both check out of the secular
02:57:16Alissawell not really not if I look example of how that does not always play out um again you can't point to every outlier I know but I don't think it's as big of a thing as you think it is these days and maybe it's just a Texas thing and I'll admit that because I don't know
02:57:30Alissahow that in Texas they don't want stay-at-home moms who obey okay tell me another no no in well first of all there's like objective stats that men benefit from Marriage more than women do when it comes to their health when it
02:57:41Andrew Wilsoncomes to their financial stability erroneous look it up erroneous yes no no no these this is this is all true but their social stat you have some you have some pretty major flaws with it though
02:57:52Andrew Wilsonand yeah let me start with the first one which is um who oh men make they earn more money when they're married yeah cuz they have to right okay so what they end up having to do is work longer hours right instead of shorter hours and
02:58:05Andrew Wilsonbecause they work longer hours they're at work more so they do less high-risk Behavior than when they work shorter hours and they're having a ton of fun so if you were to ask the benefit though yeah but I'm not sure what's the benefit
02:58:17Andrew Wilsonhere that they have long they have better hang on that men take slightly more risk because they work Less hours and are having way more fun or they can't afford to take slightly more risk because they have to pick up way more
02:58:29Alissahours at work to take care of other people who aren't them you tell me it's not the only variable but I think having a long life and better health and more money and maybe we can argue the money part well first of all and by the way you're not including the religious stats
02:58:41Andrew Wilsonhere and that the number one correlate between happiness and marriage is religion and how religious you are when you're talking about secular marriages all of these other correlates that you're talking about which do increase
02:58:53Andrew Wilsonthey increase much much less and it seems to me again that oh that you can take less risk you can take less risk uh and work way more hours so that you can support the family or you could work way
02:59:05Alissaless and take more risk but in any given scenario we can add a million variables to go off course the point is there are benefits to marriage there objective benefits to marriage for men that out
02:59:15Alissathose some groups out some group it's just well documented I'm giv you the well documented Parts cuz I picked these studies apart so there's those benefits it's also a benefit to not have to do
02:59:28Andrew Wilsonthe cooking to not have to do the cleaning to not have to worry about running all the errands you get a [ __ ] maid what are you talking about you pay for it you know how cheap it is to have a maid versus stay-at-home mom not really because I'm a residential
02:59:39Alissacleaner and I I cost a lot of money how much do you cost 200 bucks a week no what to come into one house and clean one is way different than that no I never charge less than like 40 bucks an hour and okay so how long does it take
02:59:52Alissayou to do your cleaning 4 hours it depends on what kind of cleaning it is but it but we're not just talking about cleaning we're talking about errands we're talking about child we're talking cooking we're talking back up back up great meal planning you can get all of your meals online planned and literally
03:00:06Andrew Wilsonshipped to you now that's one how many people do that tons especially bodybuilders but the second thing is is like it's not really [ __ ] hard to cook super easy especially if you're just cooking for you especially if
03:00:17Andrew Wilsonyou're just cooking the third thing is is like no mids are not expensive to come in and clean your house I'm sorry I have I have one professionally come in and clean my house once a month it's not very much money not very much money takes them
03:00:29Andrew Wilsonfour hours they're out and they do a really good job so it's like n it's not very expensive so hold on hold on hold on you have a wife does she work uh well yeah she does now okay yeah
03:00:42Andrew Wilsonslightly did you have a maid when she didn't no of course not okay the only reason I have a maid is because they do a deep clean deep deep detail clean okay what does your wife do I'm just curious
03:00:53Hedyuh she's an author oh okay yeah well I'm curious though um hearkening back to earlier when you were talking about um obedience when you have a husband that in this economy is requiring his wife to
03:01:06Hedyalso work full-time from home how would that play into you know how how much say she should have in in their children and in just household in general hang on repeat that cuz I want to make sure I
03:01:18Hedyget it so when you have a situation where the where the wife is being required to work by her husband because it's you know financially more stable in this economy how would that come into
03:01:30Andrew Wilsonbeing more submissive the woman when she's working you know equal hours yeah so the idea here generally well I would think that you'd want the idea to be working around the children right and so this idea is supposed to be temporary I
03:01:43Andrew Wilsonthink if you have temporary work like over in a bind or we need X or whatever that okay you you're making the sacrifice for a year or two but he's still going to be out there working for the whole life right so it's like sure you can make some temporary sacrifices
03:01:56Alissabut I'm not really sure again how that's more valuable than what he's doing I don't think anybody's saying it's more I just think you're saying should be noticed and I don't think that it is very much or like the level of
03:02:09Hedyinput that the woman has in the relationship should maybe increase depending on if how if she's doing equal amount of work yeah no I still don't I still think that it should be stuck under the
03:02:20Andrew Wilsonpatriarch it but here's the thing let me let me create a differential here the first differential is under a secularist form I don't give a [ __ ] right like I literally don't care if you're a secularist I can't even make an argument
03:02:33Andrew Wilsonfor why you should do anything to be honest with you but if you're in a Christian marriage yeah she still has to submit she still has to obey like I'm sorry but that is Christianity you still have to submit you still have to obey even if you're working now if you're a
03:02:46Andrew Wilsonsecularist you want me to give you a secular argument sure be equal be equal with that chick and do equal stuff and give her equal access to your bank account do whatever you want to do but uh yeah that's not going to fly in Christian marriage no I definitely agree
03:03:00Yekabecause most of the time when the woman does have to put in work in a marriage specifically biblical marriage it's usually just temporary it's not a forever thing it's just certain circumstance M we have some chance we
03:03:11Brian Atlashave to get to but first we're going to play the bow video so oh God what is this we're going to play bow video version one and version two uh Andrew doesn't
03:03:22Brian Atlaslike version two at least the second half of it but uh we're going to play that we have a couple chats while he's getting that pulled up realistic C says a wife being submissive is born out of the fact that the highest form of Love
03:03:33Brian AtlasIs A Verb not an emotion a wife being submissive is born out of the fact that the highest form of Love Is A Verb not an emotion by the way she agrees that was in her bio she said that your love
03:03:45Andrew Wilsonlanguage is doing [ __ ] for people right m so sh to your love language being to do [ __ ] for the man I I definitely do yeah I cook I clean I don't say no to
03:03:54Alissaintercourse ever what swear to God not be disobeying if my ex is watching if anybody who's dated me is watching go ahead and message yeah if you're taking care of [ __ ] well that but that's also biblical but the husband's also not
03:04:07Brian Atlassupposed to deny the wife's appetite either so that's correct all right let's play the battle video go ahead all right this is my ex-girlfriend
03:04:17Brian Atlasby the way boom huge huge bow did you see that that was a big bow this is my apartment she's you know the bed's kind of [ __ ] up but you know whatever doing
03:04:27Brian Atlasthe laundry and dinner ready dinner ready all good to go get home from a long podcast Day to my apartment very long podcast day she's got the beer ready the noodles ready the meat ready I
03:04:40Brian Atlasscolded her about the tomatoes that's why would you just have tomatoes like that uh and then you're going to play it once more go ahead just the beginning
03:04:50Alissapart and boom huge bow did you see the bow is that something you make her do like make her what do you mean make I don't know like what's the what is the I don't know the backstory on this forcing her there might be other like viewers
03:05:02Brian Atlaswho don't like is that something that you require no that you know what um that's what I've required for like you know my other girls girl friends that
03:05:12Brian AtlasI've had singular not plural but but you know I do have to say you know the bow that one for that one came naturally
03:05:23Alissabut other [ __ ] yeah you got to instruct got to give a bit of hey this is what I need so you so what you need is for them to bow when you get home indeed that is [ __ ] wild so then
03:05:36AlissaI take back my answer no I would not date I would not date Brian that is just Why why is that that's [ __ ] weird why is that weird it's like degrading you can have you ever sucked a guy's dick on the first date
03:05:48Brian Atlasuhuh yeah we dated for two and a half years after oh only one okay yeah I I really so modern women will they won't cook they won't clean they won't do it
03:05:58Brian AtlasI'll do other stop [ __ ] interrupting holy [ __ ] fine fine they won't cook they won't clean they won't do a totally benign innocent gesture but within 30
03:06:09Brian Atlasminutes of meeting a guy you'll let him Splunk on your face explain to me explain to me how me wanting a woman to Bow is insane but you will let a man
03:06:20Brian Atlasliterally come inside you on the first date okay first of all that's such a drastic okay how is that drastic women [ __ ] men within 30 minutes all the time
03:06:31Brian Atlasyou guys [ __ ] men immediately all the time you let them do all kinds of sexual acts so what are you talking about because you're talking to me not women and you've done it you just admitted
03:06:43Alissayou've done it yourself because I did it once when I was like 19 I don't believe this at all but go ahead in the chat if y'all know me get in the chat um you think women don't
03:06:54Alissahave casual sex I think women do I'm talking about me I would casual sex not anytime recently in the last but you had casual sex 10 years of my
03:07:06Brian Atlaslife and also I would do every other part of that huh I would do every other part of that you're like women women okay why not why wouldn't you bow I thought you're submissive who said that didn't you say
03:07:18Andrew Wilsonyou were submissive yes no when did I say did I yeah I but then youas if I said that you're kind of like this you kind of move back and forth you're like yes I'm submissive but also I'm not yes I am be submissive I'm okay with doing the cooking and the cleaning
03:07:32Alissaand taking care of everything so that you don't have to if you're working and stuff but that to me just seems like a degra like a Power Trip degrading thing it doesn't seem respectful do you want a man to proposed to you yeah I've been proposed to and never I've been proposed
03:07:45Alissato you want do you want to get married again yeah yeah so you want a man to get down on one knee to do that [ __ ] and I don't even want to like a wedding or anything I let's go to the courthouse we don't have to do all the dramatic okay a
03:07:56Alissalot of women want that right but we're not talking about them I okay so how's it degrading though to me it would feel degrading why because well because why do you want them to do
03:08:07Brian Atlasit what how is that relevant why why do the motivations have anything to do with whether you feel it's degrading or not the motiv have everything to do with
03:08:18Alissait okay let's assume it was just kind of a quirky thing and he thought it was cute still degrading no but if it's like a I guess if it's a I don't know if it's a requirement then it's not a last episode
03:08:31Alissayou admitted to being into BDSM and sub Dynamics I said I had are you not into Dom sub Dynamics no not in my relationships I said I tried out some dmy [ __ ] when I was
03:08:42Brian Atlasyounger just experimenting and I was The Dawn would you let a guy tie you up during sex yeah during sex you're I'm not going to come home and like you do realize that
03:08:53Brian Atlaswhen it comes to BDSM these Dynamics can go beyond outside just the bedroom exactly I'm not even saying that that's a within the purview of BDSM though sure necessarily well but in regards to that
03:09:05Brian AtlasI don't want like a BDSM Dynamic and outside okay why is it deg grading the motivation I guess like ask question re okay let me uh would you
03:09:17Brian Atlaswant your boyfriend or husband to take a bullet for you no no I would rather die I don't want to have to live with that you'll take you'll take the bullet then yeah so you're checking the noise at
03:09:28Andrew Wilsonnight Yes actually I do actually I have a video of this my house was just BR on when you're with a man yes um oh [ __ ] yes yes I had men listen my
03:09:40Alissamail it's on video I can prove it there's a male neighbor and my male friend who happened to be at the house and I and someone broke in and I'm the one who came out with the strap and they were sitting there like [ __ ] and I'm like oh my God if you want to do
03:09:52Alissasomething you got to do it yourself so yeah I was the one who handled everything did they have I mean did they have straps yes it was I literally yes we're in the same house they could have yes and and actually in the I got stop
03:10:05Andrew Wilsonhanging out with progressives I don't know dude no it's the neighbor and okay but this is not your man I'm talking about when you're there with your man in your home are you checking the noise at night really yes because I wouldn't want
03:10:16Andrew Wilsonhim to die like I I just don't believe that [ __ ] that's like it's like up till now I have believed the things that You' said but I don't think when you have a man at home when the thing breaks downstairs you're the one who gets up
03:10:29Andrew Wilsonand goes and checks it out that's just insane yes I would but only because not I would you do I have I have and it's on I have cameras all in my house it's literally on that's a friend and a neighbor and some [ __ ]
03:10:41AlissaI'm talking about your man okay if we're talking about my man I'd be even more inclined to because when I love somebody like I love them so much I don't want to live after they're dead like that would just be so like
03:10:53Alissagut-wrenchingly grief inducing like very genuinely I would probably rather be the one I mean that deir you go check out
03:11:02Andrew Wilsonthe noises at night yeah okay let and he they they let you they're like okay yeah you know what that that actually does sound like maybe you should let her get a by with the vow because if there's a noise at night you just go oh I'm going back to sleep go check it out I hope you
03:11:14Brian Atlasdon't die so so I think we should check it out the bow and she checks out all noises I think that's a good trade I'll I'll accept the trade I'll accept the trade uh wait okay really quick on that though uh can we pull up the thing that
03:11:26Brian AtlasI sent in the private chat uh oh sorry didn't mean to click off that okay am I the [ __ ] for considering breaking up with me my fiance because he ran away when we were
03:11:36Brian Atlasbeing attacked uh scroll down just a bit so uh my fiance it's a the fiance is 24 male and I am a 24 female have been dating for 6 years he proposed to me a
03:11:48Brian Atlasfew months ago which was the happiest moment of my life we said our wedding day for this December blah blah oh my God prattle okay however after what happened last night I'm seriously considering breaking up with my fiance
03:11:59TTS Readerand I'm unsure if I'm an [ __ ] my fiance my brother and I were all walking back to our car rap the ri donated $690 number one no no no SF you please
03:12:12Alissaokay thank you Rachel you're too old to be talking [ __ ] stop being to pick me anyway Rachel I know but I see that oh in the super chats oh yeah pull that one up really
03:12:23Brian Atlasquick uh she was a stripper but a polite bow to a man who loves her is degrading LOL we know why she is divorced have you been picked yet in your old age you wait have you been picked yet in your old
03:12:36Brian Atlaslook at her have you been picked yet in your old age no okay oh my God I wish Andrew was here right now this is Andrew's wife oh [ __ ] so I guess she has been picked you you have three different
03:12:47Brian Atlasbaby daddies though right bruh okay well bruh don't you know to be fair aren't you like an ex sex
03:12:56Brian Atlasworker no I was never like outside like did I [ __ ] for money no hand to God ex stripper you dance on and I also only danced on stage like to did you do BG
03:13:09Brian Atlascontent no you didn't do any BG content on your the only content I ever did was with a boyfriend she does but she wasn't a prostitute you were
03:13:20Brian Atlasthe only content that I did was with my boyfriend but mostly just solo posts also even if Rachel was a pick me she got picked by Andrew who's a great guy I've been picked too what the [ __ ] does
03:13:31Brian Atlasme being a stripper have to do with bowing I don't get this whole pick me thing don't you like there's this don't you want to be picked I mean don't doesn't everybody
03:13:43Brian Atlaswant to be picked okay I don't I go back it's not a necessity thank you Rachel rude um yeah it's degrading it is degrading okay so [ __ ] my fiance and my brother and I were all walking back to
03:13:55Brian Atlasour car from dinner at a nice restaurant the car was parked pretty far away as the place was packed so we had to walk quite some distance it was late at night as we were walking a person in a bike uh came to the side of us and stopped us
03:14:08Brian Atlasand demanded we give everything we had my fiance panicked and just ran away but my brother after talking to the man for a couple minutes just the attacked just attacked the man long story short my brother beat him up the man had no
03:14:20Brian Atlasweapon it was just a fake gun uh I called my fiance after that and told him everything was fine and that we would pick him up my fiance still seemed a bit shaken but I explained to him everything was all right and my fiance thanked my brother a lot however I just felt
03:14:33Brian Atlasextremely weird and sort of disappointed that my fiance just ran away I understand it was Natural Instinct but seeing my brother take the attacker down and in comparison to my fiance just running away I just feel like I lost a lot of love for my fiance after last
03:14:45Brian Atlasnight I spoke with my brother this morning to get his opinion he said I should still give my fiance a chance fiance loves me and what happened last night is not a normal occurrence however I told him I just got a massive ick and
03:14:56Brian AtlasI don't think this ick will ever go away scroll down a little bit uh oh well so uh scroll up sorry there's an update you're going to click
03:15:07Brian Atlason the update link to update that one okay oh well okay in any case uh she 2 Days Later calls off the wedding Okay
03:15:16Brian Atlasso this is this is a phenomenon where if women see their men being cowards or not being prepared to defend them a lot of women don't give their men a pass in
03:15:27Alissathat situation and I I agree like I related to the bullet question right I would want my partner to go downstairs but I'm just saying like if if it's like my husband yeah I'm going to I would rather die for him but but yeah I'm also
03:15:40Alissagoing to think he's a [ __ ] if he doesn't get up and go towards it would you did a [ __ ] kind of double stand if we're already married like okay would you would you date a live without your partner would you date a [ __ ] are you attracted to [ __ ] no and that's why I
03:15:52Alissawouldn't date the people at the house however I'm just saying if I'm already married to you I would I would die for you yes but I will say I was at an I don't ever go out but we went out the other night and um there was like a big
03:16:05Alissafight that happened at this bar and like the ex automatically like pushed me behind him and it was so hot so I get it I get it oh my God I'm not saying there's I'm not disputing you should have jumped in front of him and been like why didn't you well you gotten in
03:16:18Alissayour best Irish first of all I didn't know what the [ __ ] was going on it took me a second but and by that time there was like seven people on it so I think it is attractive I think a man should want to but me personally if I'm already in the relationship and I love you like
03:16:30Andrew WilsonI really love you I don't want you to die like yeah we nobody's disputing that part nobody's disputing that you would have a a preference that you continued
03:16:42Andrew Wilsonwith your dude but this is now an impossible standard so the the standard is now uh yeah you know I would prefer to go do it but if I do you're now so demasculate that I'm unattracted to you no no no I
03:16:54Alissawouldn't be de demasculate like at that point I'd be dead in this scenario well first of all Maybe not maybe you maybe you survive the encounter I would no no no if it's like a serious situ like if it's just a fight or something I want them to protect me and I would want them
03:17:07Alissato want to protect me no there's a noise at night you go down you got your strap right you're all strapped up you go down there you handle business I'm not saying he shouldn't come with me I'm just saying if it came down to it and I noticed dude was about to pull a trigger I probably would jump in front of it
03:17:20Alissaleaving leaving your kids behind with someone that I trust yeah here read this Rachel response for you okay I mean I'll debate anybody and
03:17:31AlissaI'm not afraid to lose but the comment is about stripping and like not wanting to bow to a partner like being a stripper does not make you submissive if anything you're kind of like doming every dude in the room and they're sing
03:17:44Alissafor you and giving you money because you're pretty so it would totally correlate to me not wanting to bow to a man if anything no it's just a form of prostitution it's a form of submission you're accepting monetary gain to give
03:17:57Andrew Wilsonthem whatever it is that they want it's a literally an ultimate form of submission in fact and you'll do it don't you'll do it just for monetary gain I think it's submissive that you want to see titty I have to I have to
03:18:08Brian Atlasallow the rest of the panel in here okay so uh the article that we just read your response to that would what would you do if you're in the woman's situation um I would probably get the I
03:18:21Brian Atlastoo um but I don't know I don't think that's oh okay yo stay safe yo stay safe thank you for the big raid man I hope you had
03:18:32Brian Atlasa good stream really appreciate it by the way stay safe I saw uh that video that you did where you set up this uh Trump rally in World of Warcraft I watched that I think it was either today
03:18:44Brian Atlasor yesterday that was quite funny now I want to see it uh yeah he did he he it was was Alliance or Horde though Alliance yeah well then but but we all know it would be horde who would set up
03:18:54Brian Atlasa trump rally I don't know the I mean Alliance you know I'm just say he does play I age with that I like w yeah it
03:19:05Brian Atlashas to be the word classic or retail retail and classic okay um playing since 08 so both both are good dope um yo stay safe thank
03:19:17Brian Atlasyou very much for the raid once again uh just really quick question for the entire panel uh would you guys date a
03:19:25Brian Atlasman who played a female gnome warlock with pink
03:19:32Brian Atlashair sure I yeah yeah lower the volume yes no no I don't know what any of that means oh it's video game characters video game stuff yo stay safe thank you for the
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03:20:51Bella CakesTTS is 200 uh we were going around the table the reaction to the article I think we you were oh yeah um I would probably get the ick just because I I
03:21:03Jamielike the traditional values and gender rules yes okay I would be so disappointed but with my partner personally I wouldn't
03:21:14Yekaleave him because just chalk it up to wow like was a weak moment mhm what about you uh I would have gotten the ick at the fact that it took him six years to
03:21:28Brian Atlaspropose well that's not really um uh material to the question that I'm asking but and yes also the I appreciate
03:21:38Toria Brookethe extraneous opinion on that um also yes it him running away yes definitely would leave someone like that cuz if they can't defend you then they can't defend your family I mean isn't that
03:21:49Hedykind of a man's place too mhm yeah I agree with what she said I think also marriage is a lifelong commitment so if we were just engaged to that point and I was having second thoughts I would
03:22:00Brian Atlasreconsider and then we do need to go back to the bow video you were giving your reaction you thought it was degrading you saw the bow you saw the bow video would you bow for your man
03:22:13Bella Cakesyour thoughts on um I mean I I mean I would because like I think like that's just like I don't know
03:22:24Bella Cakeslike I I would do it but like I don't think that's a normal thing in a relationship okay all right do you think it's a normal thing in a relationship to
03:22:34Brian Atlashave only fans no not at all oh but you have only fans yeah oh okay just checking what about you would you do a bow for your boyfriend for mine yeah but
03:22:45Brian Atlasnobody else if anybody else asked me to do that I would be completely uh turned off well like so you guys broke up and then you start dating this new guy you guys been together for 3 months is like
03:22:56Brian Atlashit when you down to hit the bow or you wouldn't do it depends on the person what do you mean like depends on if I you're dating them you like them I
03:23:07Brian Atlasassume yeah if I feel like bowing I guess or what what do you mean like but so would you feel like bowing for my man yes for nobody else no okay
03:23:20Brian Atlasso if you broke up with your current guy and you were dating a new guy for three months the answer is yes you would bathroom probably not wait okay one more
03:23:29Brian Atlastime just we missed it probably not no six months a year maybe like a year and a half I don't
03:23:39Brian Atlasknow uh that's a year and a half okay so if the guy if a guy were to do you want a guy to be a provider um yeah okay so if he was like well I'm going to wait a year and a half to
03:23:51Jamieprovide for you and pay for dates are you would you date a guy like that maybe because after a year and a half you start to see people's flaws more you got get you see see more of like the grosser things that they do and
03:24:05JamieI mean can I ask okay so let me ask you a question um do you want a guy to pay a guy ask you out on the first date you want him to pay for the first date that's unrealistic for a guy to pay for the first date I mean if he's going on dates with a bunch of different people
03:24:17Jamiehow many dates is he paying for so I would understand him not paying but I think anybody would want to be uh paid for even like I mean would you want to
03:24:27Jamiebe paid for uh by anybody As a treat you know get a really nice meal
03:24:35Brian Atlassure yeah but there are different gender expectations on on men and women um but so my understanding though here
03:24:46Brian Atlasis you're if you went on a date with a guy and he asked for the date and he the waiter comes and he says two two checks no
03:24:55Brian Atlasproblem yeah no no problem I guess there there that's fine because I I do believe that that's your position but a lot of women would have an issue with that they would say for example there wouldn't be a second date if a man didn't pay for
03:25:09Jamiethe first but maybe that's not not every woman has that standard I just want to confirm that that is there's chemistry and you guys can both feel the chemistry right away sometimes people need to take
03:25:20Brian Atlastime you know to get uh feelings for each other but I'm I'm saying like if well let's assume there's I'm assuming even if there was no chemistry whether he paid or didn't
03:25:32Brian Atlaswould be irrelevant right I don't think so I think that if there's chemistry well now we're having a SE now we're having a separate conversation of would you have a second date with a man if there was a
03:25:43Brian Atlaslack of chemistry no so I I wouldn't be I would be fine paying and just leaving you know cuz Okay we're getting a little
03:25:52Brian Atlasoff track but so just to confirm you got chemistry with this guy but he says two checks are you okay with
03:26:04Jamiethat um I guess so yeah but you'd prefer not to why the hesitation I'm confused because I want to be provided for like deep down you know but I also
03:26:15Jamiewant to provide in my own ways like at home for somebody I want to be able to take care of somebody too you know but okay so I'm getting a little of ambiguity here so yeah I'm not sure cuz
03:26:27Brian AtlasI'm not dating right now but well yeah but I'm trying to put you in the hypothetical so if you were dating and the guy said two
03:26:38Brian Atlaschecks would that be a negative mark would it be a total deal breaker no it like if there was chemistry it would not be a deal breaker but if would it be sorry go ahead no wait what no go ahead you're fine go ahead it it wouldn't be a
03:26:50Jamiedeal breaker if there was chemistry but I would I would also be um like I would wonder if he was interested too at the same time or you know I just be he tells you he's
03:27:02Brian Atlasinterested but he's a 50-50 guy 5050 oh 50-50 guy I mean yeah that's why he's asking for two checks I might try a few more dates out and he's going to remain 50/50 for
03:27:13Brian Atlasthe entirety and duration of your relationship not so much yeah not well can you
03:27:21Brian Atlasactually tell us what your answer is or yeah I wouldn't I wouldn't be so um excited probably wouldn't do
03:27:32Brian Atlasit probably not I guess he said I won't be a provider until a year and a half into our relationship and you bow maybe there's other parts of the
03:27:44Jamierelationship that we want to explore though first besides you mean like sex and getting you pregnant within the first week that was different I for him it wasn't the first week yeah I mean um
03:27:55Jamieall of the people I I dated before before then I had waited quite a while like a few months but when you know you know okay uh you're would you do the bow
03:28:07Yekauh if we've been dating for a little while yeah probably if you've been dating for a little while probably wouldn't be like I wouldn't just do it right away okay
03:28:19Brian Atlassomebody I just met okay and then if a guy didn't want to pay for the first date right away is that okay
03:28:28Yekano it's not okay mm so how long after dating would you have to do the bow um I guess once it's if it's once it's been made
03:28:43Toria Brookeexclusive okay after exclusivity okay uh your reaction to the B video would you do it for a
03:28:50Toria Brookeman I would rather split a mortgage than bow you'd rather I'd rather split the cost of a mortgage or a rent than bow I'll get the plates I I'll come back
03:29:04Toria Brookethere and deal with it just a little uh little bit of feminism in there is there it's not feminism to me this is actually just a matter of mutual respect and I don't think that a bow is necessary I think there are other ways of showing
03:29:16Andrew Wilsonrespect and admiration for your partner but you would rather rather go and get a job and split the mortgage
03:29:27Andrew Wilsonrather than give a submissive gesture well I already have a job so yeah well I know you already do but let us assume you didn't you would still rather go get one and get a mortgage rather than show
03:29:39Toria Brookea single submissive gesture well that's not how the question was posed because but that's what could submissive gestures that aren't bowing well what we're not in the 1800s of
03:29:51Toria Brookemedieval times I mean like would you curtsy Everything's Relative to this time would you Cy I'm curtsy curtsy is different than b would you curtsy maybe cuz that's feminine bow is like bow is
03:30:04Andrew Wilsonlike or kneeling is what you do for like the Kings or God like I think there's plenty of women who kneel and they think it's plenty feminine just saying well I think there's a I think that there's a
03:30:16Andrew Wilsonlarge quantity of them I would say in fact I would even go so far as to say that the motion for this particular activity is very um biowish isn't it
03:30:27Andrew Wilsonit's very um well I can just do that very bowing so just saying well I don't understand how you just do that but can't show the submission sign right it's so weird to me but oh my God are
03:30:38Toria Brookeyou really I think there's other forms of submission in responding to questions and no I don't want I want the curtsy I think that's twice as degrading I think
03:30:48Andrew Wilsonit's twice as degrading no no no that's literally that's saying not only that you're feminine but your station is below me the bow is just mutual respect me bow to each other all the time it seems a little Blasphemous to me
03:31:01Andrew Wilsonblasphemy yeah it seems a little [ __ ] weird what's Blasphemous about bowing I'm not bowing to anybody but God really amen and and uh just just want to make sure cuz you like that biblical marriage
03:31:13Alissathing right hey I I will marry an atheist so that I just make the arguments based off of because I'm talking to you and I know that you're
03:31:24Alissareligious and I am too but I'm like a new I'm like a baby Christian but so that that doesn't factor into every conversation that I have ever so you don't follow Christian ethics yes okay
03:31:35Andrew Wilsonand what's the entailment of Christian ethics you want me to like list the well I just want to know if you're following if you're following Christian ethics then you're following the teaching of Jesus Christ and his Apostles M and the
03:31:48Alissateachings of the original Church of Jesus right okay is that correct I mean I don't I don't keep the Sabbath on on
03:31:55Background/MorganSaturday you know yeah I do piz Pizza Pizza he about to hit us yeah so I'm just just wondering if
03:32:08Andrew Wilsonyou follow Christian ethics or not but opport because if you do the the idea here is you are supposed to obey ated $20 they have a problem buying but wants men to pull chairs out and hold
03:32:21Andrew Wilsonwhere did you get that yeah yeah I know I'm not getting into the shivalry thing but just on this you're supposed to obey your husband as you would unto the Lord right yeah but he wouldn't be my husband because he he wanted you to
03:32:33AlissaBow also like why do you have to cuss when you're talking to me all the time like you can talk to me like a human C no not you no no the conversation is about Brian in the context of like this all started with the would you dat him
03:32:45Alissaand I said no because of the bow thing but that's reflective of other [ __ ] like the why you bitching about Brian who cares I'm talking this is what all of this is about okay just in general yeah I'm asking you a question okay like would I marry you if you asked me to bow
03:32:58Alissafor you yeah what what's the problem with the bow exactly thank you thank you it's I it's degrading what's the degradation exactly because what it's
03:33:08Alissashowing that you're not equal right what yeah yeah it's a sign of submission right but you you're also
03:33:17Andrew Wilsonlike two parts of one hole in Christianity mhm and you have a head the head they should submissive the body the body submissive to the head
03:33:28Alissayou but why you can be submissive oh thank you you can be submissive without bowing I'm not understanding like what the [ __ ] is the motivation I actually like really want to know is it a kink thing because he wants to see you do it
03:33:40Andrew Wilsonit's a king thing huh why again we're back we're back to this Leadership Model of sure you can lead when I want you to I guess I just wouldn't no no no I guess I just wouldn't be attracted to somebody like that to begin with who wanted you
03:33:50Alissato Bow yeah yeah just I'm glad somebody else [ __ ] not in that context Jesus Christ God well I mean it's just a it's a whole
03:34:01Andrew Wilsoneven maybe do it sexually like I would maybe even roleplay I'm not [ __ ] down every time you come it's just a whole lot of feminism like the whole idea is just any form of submission is so
03:34:11Andrew Wilsonheavily resisted it's just so heavily resisted but it's like like nobody has any good reasons for why it's heavily resisted other than they just don't like it spiral donated $20 bow down before
03:34:24TTS Readerthe one you serve you're going to get what you deserve bow down before the one you serve you're going to get what you deserve sincerely Johnny spiral hi
03:34:33TTS ReaderAndrew hi John D Joe donated $20 imagine refusing to shake someone's
03:34:43Bella Cakeshand that's pretty funny and true was didn't okay this is like off topic but didn't some girl like shake her ass in someone's face on this podcast cuz you didn't shake your hand
03:34:55Andrew Wilsonor something or yeah that's that that's what I was telling you about earlier what mhm wait you as her to shake your hand
03:35:06Andrew WilsonTTS she wanted a high five or something and I refuse so her dress back her ass up to my face very very disgusting
03:35:16Brian Atlasdisrespectful $20 TTS guys while we do the pizza roast intermission $20 TTS if you guys want um and then we'll I know there's some
03:35:28Brian Atlaschats that we're waiting on WE we'll get we'll get those done also guys I I got a hot dog too did you get a burrito no
03:35:38TTS Readerburrito one day Kennedy's convertible donated $20 men are the head in a Christian relationship ship women should submit kneel before
03:35:54AlissaZod so is it a kink thing for you a what is it a kink thing what do you mean or like I don't
03:36:04TTS Readerknow is it to respect b or is it just like a humorous thing is it a bit no bowing but donated
03:36:14TTS Reader$19.99 but we have to address why is sexual submission fine but submission in a regular relationship isn't cuz it's a
03:36:23Alissamoment not the overall Dynamic a bow takes 3 seconds right but it reflects an overall Dynamic like and also like I don't really care about sexually
03:36:34Alissasubmitting that's like if it's a kink thing and we're about to hook up you know whatever I'm experimental but
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03:37:47Brian Atlasfortunately Costco doesn't have pineapple pizza I gotta be respectful to towards Andrew you
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03:40:38TTS Readermessages um I think the cultural relevance matters I'm not Asian I don't live in Asia tiberious donated $20 none of these women are traditional because Andrew was the last one to receive his
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