Feral Girl KICKED OUT Who Wants Brian KlLLED Like Charlie Kirk?! Feminism DEBATE! | Dating Talk #264

Date: 2025-10-13
Duration: 7h 59m

Identified Speakers

SPEAKER_02Ailia Purr(guest)
SPEAKER_03V (Van/April)(guest)
SPEAKER_04Claire(guest)
SPEAKER_05Felicity(guest)
SPEAKER_07Brian Atlas(host)
SPEAKER_08Olivia (VA)(guest)
SPEAKER_10Rachel (Yoga)(guest)
SPEAKER_11Tina(guest)
SPEAKER_13Lindsay (Med Device)(guest)
SPEAKER_14Janette(guest)

Key Moments

00:05:02
IntroAll guests introduce themselves
00:09:46
ControversyAilia admits to porn at 16 with fake ID
02:23:45
ControversyAilia red-carded: wouldn't be surprised if Brian got shot like Charlie Kirk
03:18:00
Key MomentBrian vs V: extended feminism definition debate (~80 min)
06:43:00
Key MomentRachel: married guitarist, divorced, married lead singer of same band
07:42:00
Key MomentV's ectopic pregnancy at 19 in drug rehab

Topics Discussed

00:05:02
Guest Introductions

9 guests. Ailia admits to porn at 16 with fake ID.

02:23:45
Ailia Ejection

Red-carded after Charlie Kirk death threat comment and underage porn admission.

02:31:48
Pasty George iPhone Gift

$2,000 donation for iPhone 17 Pro, unboxed on stream.

03:18:00
Feminism Definition Debate

Brian vs V: ~80 min debate on feminism, advocacy vs equality.

07:42:00
V Ectopic Pregnancy Story

Pregnant at 19 in rehab. Ex threatened to block her if she didn't abort.

Transcript

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05:50:04
Brian Atlasgave her the smallest slices possible. >> Um, >> so okay. So you kind of used it's >> but to be fair pieces of
05:50:16
Claire>> Mine's smaller. I don't have a big Leia now. >> But to be fair, I did ask like who wants to like go and like get like buy us stuff like karaoke and like whatever. So >> it's okay. You finessed. You used the guy. Well, not okay, but um
05:50:29
Brian Atlas>> maybe you just made my friends. >> Have you done that? H Have you ever done that other times or was that the only time? >> No, that was the only time. >> Okay. Poor Korean guy. RIP in the chat
05:50:39
Brian Atlasfor >> Korean NYC man. Uh you said that you don't think dating is a necessity. >> Just pass. >> We're just passing it down. >> Oh, okay. >> Sorry.
05:50:53
Brian Atlas>> Oh, no you. >> It's okay. Um you don't think dating is a necessity. Uh, you said you you've always seen love around you and wanted to be in love and be loved so badly, but you think focusing solely on romantic
05:51:05
Brian Atlaslove distracts you from feeling and appreciating other kinds of love, especially love you receive from family and friends. >> Yeah, I I agree with that. I stand by that. I think that it's not like >> overshot
05:51:16
Claire>> necessity. What? >> No, talking to her. >> Go ahead. Keep going. >> Oh, uh, I don't know. I agree with what I said. By the way, I like did this all in the span of like five minutes, so
05:51:27
Brian Atlaslike I don't know how well it's written. >> No, it's I know it was last minute. Um, so when you say you don't think dating is a necessity, what do you mean? Like are you fine just having more like situationship, casual things or
05:51:40
Claire>> Well, I just meant dating or like having any kind of relationship in general like >> it's not a priority. It's not a priority. Yeah, exactly. >> Um, >> and it shouldn't be the number one thing that you think about. >> What should be the number one thing? I
05:51:52
Clairethink just like your future like maybe your job or like you know where you what you want to do in your life and like >> should it ever be a priority at like certain stages of life? >> I think so. Yeah. >> Okay. When do you think it'll be a
05:52:03
Clairepriority for you? >> I think when the time comes like I'm not actively looking for it but like I would like to meet someone or >> like not at 40, right? >> No, not at 40. Maybe maybe younger. Yeah,
05:52:15
Brian Atlas>> maybe mid20s. >> But I'm not I'm not opposed to waiting. Like it's not like I need to rush and get into something. >> You said your general thoughts on modern dating is that people take it way too seriously, especially when you watch
05:52:27
Brian Atlasshows from the '9s and early 2000s, Sex in the City. >> You said you see how differently people view dating as more casual. >> So you're saying like if you look at certain media like Sex in the City,
05:52:39
Clairedating was way more >> casual. >> Yeah. It's like you date somebody not to marry specifically, but just like, you know, to see what you like, what your likes and dislikes are in a relationship. But I feel like >> and the girls would be dating multiple
05:52:52
Claireguys. >> Yeah. And they would the guys would be dating multiple girls until they established, hey, like I really like this person and I want to make it exclusive with them. >> Yeah. Well, I mean, Sex in the City, um I I
05:53:07
Brian Atlasit's obviously fictional Hollywood production. Well, I mean, it's produced in New York, but uh and it's probably somewhat close
05:53:19
Claireto like how dating was. Oh, you know, the thing is though, >> feels like back then there weren't like situationships and like talking stages and like I I can't call like I can't
05:53:29
Brian Atlasdate this person because >> I think we've moved while there's always been people who were like, you know, kind of dating around or whatever. Um, I think we've
05:53:39
Brian Atlasmoved more towards the direction of uh people not like I think it was more common in the 90s and early 2000s for
05:53:50
Brian Atlaspeople to not be dating multiple people. I think that that's more common now than it was in the '9s and 2000s. I think it was not to say it didn't happen, but I
05:54:00
Brian Atlasthink it's it was more common to be like you meet somebody and you see where it goes and sometimes it goes nowhere. then you go date somebody else. Uh but I do think >> accessible.
05:54:12
Janette>> It's more accessible >> now. Yeah. In the 90s you couldn't just go like on your Instagram. There was no Instagram. You couldn't go like hit up 20 chicks and be like what are you doing? >> You had to meet organically. You had to meet organically.
05:54:22
Brian Atlas>> Hit me up on the pager MySpace. >> Yeah. MySpace. Facebook. >> Yeah. >> Well, that wasn't even in the 90s. MySpace is in the 2000s. >> Oh yeah. MySpace like late 2000. Mid
05:54:34
Lindsay (Med Device)late 2000s. maybe a senior in high school when MySpace was really cool. >> I was a lot older than that.
05:54:42
Brian Atlas>> Um, okay. And wait, question for you, Claire, cuz maybe I um or wait, hold on. Actually, here I'm going to do a panel
05:54:55
Brian Atlasquestion. >> Uh, a woman's past should not matter. To which you agree, Claire, you agree. This is related to body count. Uh, the Oh, let's get rid of her. The
05:55:07
Brian Atlas[ __ ] girl who wants me on the lives. Um, Janette, >> me. >> Agree.
05:55:17
Brian Atlas>> Okay. Uh, and then Christina, Tina, you agree. Uh, why is that? Why should a woman's past not matter? Why is that? You're eating. That's fine. Anybody want to weigh in here?
05:55:29
Lindsay (Med Device)>> I'll speak for her. Just kidding. >> Get it, Lindsay. >> Anybody? anybody a woman's >> I mean I think it should matter in certain I don't even know what it are you a murderer I don't think you circled
05:55:40
Lindsay (Med Device)that way I mean I think it matters because I think it's a really good understanding of how someone is but also it matters if you know you've got a certain moral compass and
05:55:53
V (Van/April)>> Mhm. you know, >> I mean, >> by piece, I'm going to wash my hands. >> I guess I just wouldn't hold against a guy >> his body count, so I'd expect him to not
05:56:04
V (Van/April)if we've both grown and changed as people over time, you know, like people grow and people change and >> you know. >> Okay. Uh, by the way, is there more pizza?
05:56:15
Brian Atlas>> Yeah, a little bit. >> How much How many slices?
05:56:22
Brian AtlasAnybody want more? We might just want to feed feed the guests. >> I don't think anybody It's fine. >> Oh, okay. All right. Well, if anybody
05:56:33
Brian Atlaswants more later, we can we can give you food. Um Okay. Well, you know, uh if a woman's past should not matter, I have to I'm
05:56:42
Brian Atlasgoing to wait until everybody's back at the table for this. Um h Okay. Um >> Unless she has STDs. [ __ ] that would [ __ ] suck.
05:56:54
Brian Atlas>> Oh. Uh, here really quick. I'm gonna dive in to this. Uh, women are just as physically strong as men. Claire, you circled that you agree with that statement. Olivia, >> what?
05:57:08
Olivia (VA)>> That's you. >> Yeah. >> You said women are just as physically strong as men. >> I think generally no. I do think like I said like the like being in the fitness space, I definitely know there's like
05:57:20
Brian Atlas>> Have you seen her? Yeah, she's fit >> here. Double buy. Let's see. Double bite. She's not on the camera. Sturdy. >> See, I wouldn't mind watching this like an arm wrestle right now.
05:57:32
Olivia (VA)>> You mostly train legs, right? >> Um I train. >> You want to stand on the chair and do quad flex? >> Um I do have No, >> you know that Jay Cutler where he like >> the Olympia just happened too. So,
05:57:44
Olivia (VA)>> but you know that Jay Cutler Cutler clip where he like >> Yeah. like shakes the leg and no he like he like stomps down. Can you do that?
05:57:56
Olivia (VA)>> I mean you can but it's not going to have the same effect as he has quad is the size of your full body. >> I like seems Well, Chris Bomb's dead. His Yeah, >> I can go on for that. But yeah, I think
05:58:08
Olivia (VA)generally overall >> I think men are definitely stronger than women. >> Um there's always like I always say there's always exceptions to the rule. There always going to be like those one outliers but generally I think men are stronger.
05:58:22
Brian Atlas>> Yeah. I mean I would agree there there are women who are stronger than men. Uh your take though? >> Yeah. I said there they can be stronger than men like certain women but general men are stronger than women.
05:58:33
Brian Atlas>> Yeah. Like phys Yeah. >> Okay. All right. No debate there then. Uh I'm waiting for everybody to return for my next thing here. You know what I think what we'll do while I'm just
05:58:44
Brian Atlaswaiting here? I'll do a little admin. Oh, we needed to do uh Oh, do you think you'll be better looking in 10 years time starting with you? >> I hope so.
05:58:55
V (Van/April)I I get that you hope. But do you think >> uh >> I'll be 32. So maybe not, you know, unless I get a little Botox.
05:59:07
Brian Atlas>> Uh you're 18, better looking in 10 years time at 28? >> Yeah, I think so. >> 38? >> Um I don't know. I'll have to see. What do you think? >> I think yeah,
05:59:21
Clairewhy not? >> Uh 48 better looking than now. >> I don't know. I just know like I already have like good aging genetics, so I would hope so. >> What is it? Asian don't raisin or
05:59:34
Janettesomething like that? >> I have never heard that before. >> It is a thing. >> I've heard I've heard black don't crack but not Asian don't raise. >> Uh okay. What uh when do you think your peak physically will be in terms of
05:59:46
Clairelooks? >> I would hope in my like 20s to 30s, but I just know that like like after a certain age for like Asian women like they kind of turn into like a I don't know if you know what that is. Like they
05:59:59
Claireget the visors and like the >> Yeah. So I think that's that's when I'll know. >> Okay. What about you? >> No. >> Uh oh. Sorry. Better looking in 10
06:00:09
Brian Atlasyears. And then you're 37. better looking at 27. [Applause] >> Sure. I think I peaked at like 29.
06:00:21
Brian Atlas>> Okay. And then uh 18. Better looking at 18 versus 37. >> No. >> Better looking now? >> Yeah. >> At 37? >> Yes.
06:00:29
Brian Atlas>> Okay. Uh oh, she's gone. Uh you're 43. Better looking in 10 years time. 53. >> Definitely not. >> And then you're 43 better looking at 33.
06:00:40
JanetteI peaked at 37 was my absolute peak. That was the height of it all. >> But uh >> I'm sorry. Was I better looking at 33 >> versus 43? Yeah. >> Um I'm sure I would assume most people
06:00:53
Janettewould think I looked better at 33. >> And then 23 versus 43. >> I don't No, I I looked better at 33. >> But 23 versus 43.
06:01:02
Janette>> Oh, I'm sorry. Um [ __ ] I'll take 43 over 23 personally. So, you'll take 23. >> I'll take what I look like at 43 over what I look like at 23.
06:01:15
Brian Atlas>> Really? Okay. >> And uh 23 versus 33. >> Yeah. I looked better in my 30s and 40s, honestly.
06:01:24
Brian Atlas>> All right. Uh what about you? You're 23. Better looking 33. >> Yes. >> 43.
06:01:36
Brian Atlas>> Possibly. Yes. >> 53? No. >> Okay. Uh 37 better looking 47. >> No. >> 37 better looking 27.
06:01:47
Brian Atlas>> Yeah. >> Okay. Better looking uh 18 versus 37. >> No. >> Closer to the mic. >> No. >> Okay. So, better looking at 37. >> I don't. Yeah.
06:02:00
Lindsay (Med Device)>> Versus at 18. What about >> Oh, >> 18 to >> I would take my youth back, I guess. >> Yeah. There you go. Okay. To be >> honest. What about you? >> Um, >> 30, better looking 40? >> No, probably not. White people don't age very well.
06:02:12
Brian Atlas>> Okay. Better looking. Better looking at 20. >> No, I think I'm better looking now. >> Better looking now at 30. Okay. >> Uh, Felicity, what about you? >> No.
06:02:24
Brian Atlas>> All right, guys. We've lowered the TTS to 69. $69 TTS if you want to get it in. >> A message from the government of Canada.
06:02:34
SPEAKER_01>> My lord. Pasty George donated $2004. Is anyone up for coffee or tea? I can do a pop for that. What do you think, Brian?
06:02:47
Brian Atlas>> Should I do a coffee? >> Where is my iPhone air pop? I have dainty man hands. I can't carry this heavy iPhone 17 Pro. I need the iPhone air so I don't get carpal tunnel
06:02:59
Brian Atlassyndrome. This is incredibly rude, Pacy George. But uh does anybody want coffee or tea or something? He wants to do a Yeah, Crystal is not an option. >> Crystal is for an Ethereum
06:03:11
Brian Atlas>> is I don't know if Pasty's a crypto guy to be honest. Otherwise, we could do an Ethereum. I feel like the women you guys would prefer champagne over >> Yeah. >> Well, first off, who would actually drink champagne? >> I think everyone at the table.
06:03:24
Brian Atlas>> Well, she's not. Oh, I'm so sorry. >> But everyone else, we'll get We have sparkling cider, maybe. I don't know. Uh, okay. Well, if you want pasty
06:03:33
Brian AtlasGeorge, you know, the Ethereum option is there >> for the crystalall. Otherwise, you can pop a regular champagne bottle.
06:03:44
Lindsay (Med Device)>> Can you make us an Ethereum just for once? Like, let's do a record thing cuz I don't think it's ever happened, has it? >> No one's ever cryst.
06:03:57
Brian Atlas>> He joins a very No, Ethereum's at like 4,000. It's fluctuated. It's around 4,000. >> 4,000. >> So, um, actually, but wait, I think
06:04:08
Brian Atlas>> he got the club prices in here. >> I go popped the Ethereum >> or popped to the Crystalall. Hold on. >> Well, actually, the Crystal Pop Pop is half an Ethereum. So, to pop crystalall,
06:04:21
Janetteit's about $2,000. >> It's like literally what you'd pay in a nightclub. >> Welcome to the whatever. Yeah. >> Welcome to the >> like 20 years ago.
06:04:32
Brian Atlas>> Um but uh and they're pricey. They're like 500 bucks or something for the Crystal bottles. So um okay. Where oh uh wait, we were going around. Oh, look better. Oh guys, fun segment. Fun
06:04:46
Brian Atlassegment. >> We've put all of you through >> AI. Do we have gender, too, or just >> Oh, is this mean? >> Uh we've put all of you through AI. $69 TTS, boys. Get it in.
06:04:59
Brian Atlas>> $69 TTS. >> Is this like a character? >> What do you mean put me through a >> you? Some of you guys say better looking. Uh, we are Yeah, we'll blast
06:05:09
Brian Atlasthrough this segment quick. >> Okay, go ahead. >> This is like an aging. >> We We've aged all of you cuz some of
06:05:18
Claireyou, you know, better looking. We've all >> Oh, that's mean. to drink some milk. Oh, >> she's good. >> I look really good. You look nice. You
06:05:30
SPEAKER_12look really good, you know. All right. Uh, next. >> I'm already worried. >> Oh, wow. Dirty. >> I'm going to be the worst. >> Hey, you know, look. Aging. Aging. You know. All right.
06:05:43
SPEAKER_12>> God. >> Oh. Oh, >> that's what we saw. The inside of her heart. >> Oh, right. >> You see, you look cute. Hey, you know,
06:05:55
SPEAKER_12>> I think you look cute. >> Don't lie. >> Uh, seriously. >> Into the mics if you can if you're going to speak. Okay. Oh. >> Oh, you little you look like a little chicken nugget. Look at you.
06:06:07
Olivia (VA)>> A wow. I don't know if that's a compliment or cute. >> Watch out. She's got mad she might beat you up. That's fine. >> I think I think it's compliment. I don't I don't I don't think it hurts.
06:06:20
Olivia (VA)>> Hold on. You going to let her call you a little chicken nugget? >> She I don't think these look good in general. So >> you're like a chicken nugget, >> Brian. You're a chicken nugget without the the age advancement. Okay,
06:06:32
Janette>> next. >> Here we go. >> Oh, bud. >> Cool. >> Enzy, you look great. >> Thanks. We love it. >> Okay, next. >> Oh my gosh.
06:06:44
SPEAKER_12>> Oh yeah. >> Next. What is it? >> Did you dirty on this one, Felicity? >> Yeah, why did they do that? [Music]
06:06:56
Felicity>> Holy. She kind of looks like a turtle. >> All right. When's Brian's mine's bad? So [ __ ] mean. >> What? >> She said, "You look like a turtle." >> Yeah. No, turtles are my spirit animal. Thank you. >> Okay.
06:07:10
V (Van/April)>> Oh, wow. >> Oh my god. >> All right. All right. >> Okay, Santa. It's like father time. He looks like Earl down at the liquor store. >> So much worse.
06:07:22
Brian Atlas>> No, that's accurate. >> So much worse. That's crazy. Um, okay. >> That was so fun. Thank you. >> Yeah, you're welcome. Thank you for that. Uh, but hold on. Gender swap. >> Great. >> Oh, Lord.
06:07:35
Felicity>> Would you date? >> Wait, why is your nose like >> Would you date >> What is going on with your nose? >> Why is it red? >> Made it bigger. >> Would you date that guy? Would you >> The question is, would you date the male
06:07:47
V (Van/April)version of >> I would not, actually. >> Oh, damn. Okay. >> Would you Would you date the male? >> What did they do to your ear? >> Maybe the one with the beard. The other one.
06:08:00
Brian Atlas>> With the beard. >> Beard. Not bad. >> All right. Uh oh. Question for you on this. Um would do you have like a preference when it comes to dating? Like
06:08:10
Brian Atlaswould you date an Asian guy, white guy, black guy? Yeah, I would date anyone. I feel like if they're hot, they're hot. >> They're hot. They're hot. Cuz we've had a like a couple Asian women who are like
06:08:22
Brian Atlasdon't want to date >> Asian guys. I don't know. So, it's kind of a phenomenon, I guess. Not obviously not all >> Asian. That's right. You're married to my husband >> doesn't want to date an Asian girl because he said it reminds him of his mom. >> Oh.
06:08:35
SPEAKER_12>> Oh, okay. >> Wow. >> All right. Oh, wow. Okay. >> Leave it there. They're being so mean to me. >> That's a good one. >> Um, >> looks like his name is Felipe. >> They look like they extended your
06:08:49
Janette>> original face. >> Bro, what are you guys doing? [ __ ] caricatures here. What the [ __ ] >> Uh, would you date him? >> No. >> No. >> No. Someone said he looks like his ears look real.
06:09:02
JanetteEars look bigger. >> Next. >> Give me a red head. >> Oh, okay. >> Oh, [ __ ] >> Yikes. >> Oh my brother. Uh, actually, yeah, not bad, right?
06:09:14
Brian Atlas>> That's actually not bad. >> Into the mic. Into the mic. >> Oh, yeah. I mean, sure. >> Wait, can I have you scoot your mic that way? >> This way? >> Yeah. Like, scoot it that way? Uh, so yes, you would.
06:09:25
Janette>> Would I bang the male version of myself? It looks like my brother. So, no. >> I guess >> you don't think he's attractive. >> Oh, yeah. He's attractive. My brother's attractive. >> So, you Whoa. Okay. >> Pump the brakes there.
06:09:37
Janette>> Can I I can acknowledge my child's attractive. If I can acknowledge my It doesn't mean sexual. >> Yeah. Yeah. I know. I'm giving you a hard time next. >> Yes. >> Would you date him?
06:09:50
Olivia (VA)>> You're cute. >> You are a really cute boy. >> Would you date them? Into the mic. Closer, please. >> Yeah. Um maybe maybe >> like I'd ask him for help on >> What's wrong with him? Tell me what's
06:10:03
Olivia (VA)wrong. >> That's this one. >> Oh, yeah. Just >> that's that's a no. >> Yeah, that's a no. >> No. No. >> Why not? What's wrong with him? >> Just >> just what? >> He looks so nice.
06:10:16
Olivia (VA)>> Does he look too nice? Yes. Let him speak. Let him speak. >> He He Okay, so this is kind of strange, but like So I am adopted, but he kind of does remind me of my dad. >> So >> wait, >> it's
06:10:28
Brian Atlas>> this is I don't know if >> he doesn't does not look like my dad, but just is like >> I never mind. Never mind. Um,
06:10:41
Brian Atlas>> what? >> Nothing. Um, >> how many don't need a repeat of last time. >> Oh, come on. Relax. >> Uh, so no, you wouldn't date them. Like, do you not date Asian guys or are you
06:10:53
Olivia (VA)not attracted to Asian men? >> There are, I would say, attractive Asian guys, but usually they aren't my type. >> Have you ever dated an Asian guy? I've went on a first date first dates
06:11:05
Brian Atlaswith Asian dudes, but >> But >> no. >> Have you you've never like just a first date? Never more? >> Just a first date? >> Never second date even? >> No. >> Hookup? >> No.
06:11:17
Brian Atlas>> Have you ever dated an Asian guy? >> Um like come close. Yeah. >> Come close. >> So you went on a first date? >> No. Just like just like that's >> like your situ You said you've had a few
06:11:30
Clairesituationships like two or three or something. a lot, I think. Or no, you said a lot. >> I I said a lot, but I only >> um have any of your situationships been an Asian guy? >> Yeah, one of them was like half
06:11:43
Brian AtlasJapanese. I don't know if he's watching right now. >> Likeian. Yeah. Okay. >> Uh but no Asian guys. What's your go-to? White guys, >> black guys. >> Um >> like Italian.
06:11:56
Lindsay (Med Device)>> Italian. So >> white, I guess. Um >> yes. Yeah, they they are. Yeah. Italian guys. >> So maybe I'll be your type. Was she your type? Was her >> both Italian? >> Your type.
06:12:10
Lindsay (Med Device)>> How you doing? >> All right. Uh, next. >> Okay. >> Oh, >> so you would date me? >> Yeah, I would. I would. So she is into Italian. All right.
06:12:24
Lindsay (Med Device)>> Yeah. >> I mean, >> kind of looks like Jim Carrey a little bit. >> No, it doesn't. >> No, I see that. Yes, it does. >> Like a little bit. >> Or what? >> Maroon five guy. >> The eyes.
06:12:36
Lindsay (Med Device)>> But can we take a moment and look at the second picture? >> Uh lipstick is draining down his uh face. >> You're making out >> next. >> He's a [ __ ] >> A You're cute. >> You look very Republican
06:12:51
Tina>> version of you. >> Yeah, you do. You look very Republican. >> Totally. >> Please. >> Uh no, I would not. That's not my type. >> Okay. Uh, that's cool. >> I didn't even see that one. >> Oh, that sucks. You should have been
06:13:04
V (Van/April)paying attention. >> I was clearly
06:13:12
Felicity>> like for a split second. >> Wait, hold on. Uh, here. I'm This one's just going to be a read. Felicity. I need to change those. >> Ryan, it is phenomen phenomenon with Asians in America that don't date their
06:13:24
Brian Atlasown for some reason. Is it mostly Isn't that mostly the case with the women though? Like, isn't it the case that Asian men
06:13:35
Brian Atlasless so than Asian women date outside their race? So, this phenomenon seems to be a little bit gendered, but uh Okay, hold on. Let
06:13:45
Brian Atlasme I need to fix the uh TTS. I technically the read is a little better than the TTS. You get to hear Felicity's >> deep voice.
06:13:57
SPEAKER_01>> Thank you. >> You're welcome. Good talk. >> Tag donated $69. >> Thank you, Tag. >> Can you ask Felicity as a former guest
06:14:08
SPEAKER_01and now an employee to say a few things about what she's learned about women from being on the podcast? >> Keep up the great work, Brian. >> No pressure. I've learned
06:14:19
Felicityto get to the point. There's no point in like adding extra [ __ ] details that nobody cares about. It just makes the show go on longer. >> Good. >> Pasty George donated 74.
06:14:31
SPEAKER_01>> Thank you, Pasty. >> Unfortunately, it doesn't have the last 5 years. >> I suggested coffee and tea for those who don't want or cannot drink champagne. >> So, what will it be?
06:14:44
V (Van/April)>> Well, everybody here wanted champagne. No, no, I'm sober. >> Drink. >> How long you been sober for? >> Four months. >> This is the time. >> No.
06:14:56
V (Van/April)>> What the >> Oh my god, you're so bad. >> What do you mean? >> That's a horrible. >> I'll give you this much champagne. >> You can have some here. Apple juice.
06:15:09
Brian Atlas>> Well, Claire, if we do get a champagne pop, Claire will get some apple cider. We can just give you apple cider. >> Yeah, I'm okay. Yeah. But where's your AI? >> Hm. >> Where's your AI? Your picture. >> Oh, yeah. Thank you, Felicity.
06:15:22
Brian Atlas>> You're welcome. >> You have it? >> Yeah. >> As a chick. >> Oh, >> okay. >> Okay. >> All right. Next. Oh, there we go. This is the good one. >> Oh, she's cute. >> Yep. Definitely would date.
06:15:34
Felicity>> Has anyone noticed Brian's eyes are? >> I did the girl you, not the guy you. >> Did you guys hear me? >> No. Has anyone noticed how
06:15:45
Felicity>> Yeah, repeat it. Repeat it, Felicity. >> How blue Brian's eyes are? Have you noticed? >> Have you guys noticed that? >> No. >> Have you noticed? >> Look him in the eyes for a little bit. >> Or where's the What about when you were younger? Can we see that?
06:15:58
Brian Atlas>> Oh my gosh. >> Maybe. Maybe later. Maybe later. >> Maybe later. Felicity. Thank you. >> Trying to help him out. Not appreciating it. >> You Thank you for the Thank you. Appreciate it, Felicity.
06:16:10
Brian Atlas>> So blue. Okay, back to the show notes here. Uh, okay. We got to blast through. Hold on one sec, guys. Blasting through. Uh,
06:16:22
Brian Atlas>> oh, we were doing the body count thing. Okay. Woman's passion not matter. >> Uh, oh yeah. So, um, some of y'all said woman's passion not matter. >> If that's the case, what's your body count? >> Like I think it's like 40.
06:16:36
V (Van/April)>> Okay. >> I'm being like >> I'm going over from what I actually think. Sure. What >> can I pass? >> You got to answer. You got to answer. >> I have no idea. >> Um, do I have to
06:16:49
Brian Atlas>> give us a range? >> Range? You want to do range? >> Like, no, it's just two. >> Oh, >> yeah. >> Wait, what? Just curious. Just curious. Um, what was the like hesitation? Do you feel like two is high? Do you think it's
06:17:01
Brian Atlastoo low? What do you think? >> No, it just feels weird like saying that on like a live stream, but >> No, I think it's I don't I don't think that's crazy or anything. Um,
06:17:12
Brian Atlasand uh Okay. What about you? >> Two. >> Two. >> Mhm. >> Yep. >> Two. >> Two. >> Two. >> Two. Okay. >> Yes. >> Two. >> Two. >> 37. >> Two.
06:17:25
Janette>> Damn, bro. You're like double your age. Same body count. [ __ ] >> Two. >> Sorry, Claire. I didn't mean to throw you under the bus there. >> Body count. >> I've been in monogous relationships for
06:17:34
Brian Atlaslike 15 years, so maybe 20. You did you uh when you were doing like the content stuff, were you doing like mainstream porn or >> No, not at all. Like I was by myself. I
06:17:46
Janettewas very I was not promiscuous in any way outside of that. My life didn't match the fact that I was doing that. It it was a whole conundrum. So no. >> Gotcha. >> Yeah.
06:17:56
Brian Atlas>> Body count >> greater than one. >> Range. Do you want to do range? Come on. Everyone's a good sport. But uh range. I'm not going to say.
06:18:09
Olivia (VA)>> Come on. Come on. Be a good sport. >> Is it more than mine? >> No. >> Um. >> Oh, you're good then. >> Oh, no. No. >> 39.
06:18:20
Brian Atlas>> Do you do you want to ballpark it? >> Like if you I don't know. Here. A couple clarifying questions. Have you forgotten what it is? >> No. >> So, you do know what it is? >> Yes. >> Like you haven't lost track or
06:18:34
Brian Atlassomething? >> No. >> Okay. Do you want to do a range this to this? That's fair, right? That's fair. >> Um,
06:18:47
Lindsay (Med Device)it's like 20 21. >> Okay. 20 21. Okay. >> I'm going to give the same answer I gave before. It's between me and my partner. I'm not going to say it. There's nothing you can say.
06:18:59
Lindsay (Med Device)>> Ballpark range. >> Not going to happen. Not even if you ask me a million times in five different ways. private between me and my person. >> How many women have you been with? Can you answer that? >> None. >> Yeah. Okay. All right.
06:19:12
Janette>> What? No way. >> Not after tonight, Lindsay. >> Oh, [ __ ] >> Wow. >> Okay. Have you ever kissed a girl? >> Um, eight. >> Felicity. >> One. >> Okay, there it is.
06:19:25
Felicity>> Uh, really? >> No, it's two. Number >> Brian. Your turn. Barrier Wisdom donated $69.
06:19:35
FelicityI definitely date female Brixen freaking first ID expect a bow from her. Oh, >> she would not do that.
06:19:45
V (Van/April)>> She would be like a boss babe. >> She does look a little feministy though. The male the female version of her. >> No. No. I'd date her. That's why.
06:19:59
Lindsay (Med Device)>> Wow. Go pasty. >> Here you go. Enjoy >> champagne. >> Yes. >> Thanks, Pasty. Come on. You know you want to see drunk Brian.
06:20:12
Brian Atlas>> Wait, does that happen? >> Oh, it's happened. >> Does it? >> Uh, thank you, Pasty, man. Thank you. Sorry, I was a little distracted there. Uh, you're a [ __ ] legend, sir. >> He's a brave and a decent man. He's a
06:20:24
Brian Atlaspioneer. >> You're a legend. Champagne Pap here. >> We should all do it. freaking legendary. And then can you guys get going one of the uh the apple cers for the uh other peeps? And then let's also get some
06:20:37
Brian Atlascups. Poor favore. >> Uh yeah, good times. Thank you guys. Um this is going to take me about a minute to get opened. >> I'm really good at it. >> Oh, wait. Is this one of the
06:20:48
Tina>> the shitty ones? Lovely. >> Uh yeah, I guess we can tap those. Boom. >> Cool cups. Uh, >> can I say something? >> Yeah, go ahead.
06:20:59
Tina>> I mean this very respectfully, but I had a time limit that was given to me and I have to go because he is my ride and my lover. So, >> well, I mean, in the thing it does say
06:21:10
Brian Atlaslike we may have to go later and >> we didn't even get to your notes. Like, should we just at least get to your notes here? How about that? >> We can do that. >> Okay. All right. >> I don't mean to run. >> This is why the wage gap exists, by the
06:21:23
Tinaway. >> No, it does. like women. Oh my god. >> Oh, I've been to bars and nightclubs and stayed out till 3:00 a.m. But oh my god, it's >> Oh, she's been a good sport. >> But it goes to like the respect thing of like what you bring to the table for
06:21:34
Tinayour man. And one of the things >> You live an hour away, right? And he's ride home. >> He's my ride and he gets up at 5:00 a.m. So, >> well, yeah, >> he came to support me. >> All right.
06:21:44
Brian Atlas>> And I don't want to be in trouble later. >> Wait, you do you have like a local hotel or something? I'm just confused. No, I live in um Oxnard. >> Oh, you're local.
06:21:55
Tina>> Yeah, but he it's just he drove me and >> You don't You don't drive? >> Um I do, but he wanted to be supportive of me and bring me and protect and provide.
06:22:06
Brian Atlas>> Yeah, he did. He was worried about me coming out here by myself. >> Oh, >> okay. All right. Uh okay, your notes here.
06:22:17
Brian AtlasHold on. Um, sorry. I'm trying to find it. Christina, right? >> Yeah, that's me. >> Okay. Uh, you said you were in a situationship for 5 years. You broke into his house,
06:22:28
Tina>> caught him cheating. You just >> Wait, wait, why did we start with this? >> I was a retired crash or I am a retired crush out, I guess you could say. Um, we were supposed to hang out. It was late
06:22:40
Tinaat night. He told me to come over and then I got to his house and he's like, "Oh, I have to take my mom to Chew Mash." And uh basically something just instinctively told me to go check the
06:22:52
Tinaback door. And I went into the back door. It was open. I went upstairs and I found a female's purse. >> All the [ __ ]
06:23:02
Tina>> um on the bed and I just tore it open and tore like threw something at his TV that he loved very very much. And I like literally just saw red. There was some
06:23:15
Tinachocolate cake. I spread it all over the bed and then after I destroyed everything. Um he came home and he found me or like I came downstairs, we
06:23:28
Tinaintersected each other and then he's like it was crazy and at some point I made it to the back where he keeps his
06:23:36
Tinaweed and I took an ounce of weed for him from him as like my collateral damage.
06:23:47
Brian AtlasWow. >> Uh, yeah. And he dragged he had to drag you out of the house. >> Yes, he did. >> Because Okay. Did you get was there like did you get in trouble with the law or anything?
06:23:57
Tina>> They called me when I was already home and they asked me, "Oh, were you there? Did you go into the house?" And I pretty much was like, "No, I've been home." >> Mhm. Okay.
06:24:10
Brian Atlas>> So bad. >> Uh, okay. You also you said that the episode you just watched, Brian said that pregnancy wasn't a disability, but you disagree with that and a couple other topics.
06:24:22
Tina>> Uh yes, the pregnancy thing just because you can actually get state disability um if you like have if you're unable to work because of the pregnancy >> um like nausea, severe nausea, you can't
06:24:34
Tinaget out of bed, you're on like a high-risisk pregnancy. Um so in those terms I consider it a disability. Well,
06:24:46
Brian Atlasbut typically like pregnancy most my understanding most women recover from uh their pregnancies there might be
06:24:56
Brian Atlastemporarily temporary uh I mean for example when you have food poisoning arguably you're disabled right you can't
06:25:07
Brian Atlaswork you're vomiting >> you're in a temporary state of disability what do [ __ ] making faces about >> that. But food poisoning, >> speak into the microphone kindly.
06:25:18
V (Van/April)>> Oh, food poisoning versus pregnancy is so different. You're like carrying a whole child. >> It actually maps on pretty well. So
06:25:29
Brian Atlasthere's a period during pregnancies where yeah, you're to some degree not able to operate properly, whether that's morning sickness or you're like a day away, you're having contractions and [ __ ]
06:25:42
Brian Atlas>> Yeah. >> But I wouldn't categorize pregnancy broadly speaking like as a disability. >> I mean, women do work up until they're
06:25:54
Tinalike literally then a pop, >> right? But this wouldn't this bol bolster my position? the state gives you disability. Like if it's just a normal pregnancy, routine pregnancy, and you
06:26:05
Tinaare working, they give you up to I think when you're eight months pregnant, you're at 8 months pregnant, you're allowed to go on to disability because it is a lot on the body to carry a like
06:26:17
Tinamy baby, he was a big baby, you know. So >> I wish I would have known that. But I mean >> when I think of a disability
06:26:27
Brian Atlas>> debilitating can't function >> like I think something that is typically long-term. So I guess it would be a short-term disability in sense
06:26:38
Brian Atlas>> and like there's an there's an expectation and an anticipation that the that it will resol like resolve on its own
06:26:50
Brian Atlasonce after you give birth or like some period after the birth. >> Yes. >> But like I wouldn't characterize pregnancy as a disability
06:27:01
Tinalike in the same vein as a parapolgic. And I would agree with that. Yeah. Yeah. Because it's not the same obviously like >> Yeah. It's different. But so like under this purview,
06:27:13
Brian Atlas>> I guess you could also argue that somebody who has food poisoning is disabled. >> That's a short term, >> right? It'd be But in the same way that a pregnancy I mean, look, sometimes
06:27:26
Brian Atlasthere's like long-term complications of pregnancy or whatever. >> Yeah. >> Well, I'm just agreeing. silently. >> Yeah, but you're giving me weird looks
06:27:36
V (Van/April)like this guy's [ __ ] crazy. >> No, no, no, no, no, no, no. I'm just an expressive person. Okay. >> Okay. >> I just I don't I don't think it's like I
06:27:48
Brian AtlasI acknowledge that there are periods during the pregnancy, especially closer to birth, where women can be incapacitated either from pain or, you know, whatever it is, >> bedridden. Yeah. But like I don't know
06:28:00
Brian Atlasif I at least in my mind I don't know how California or governments will categorize what constitutes like technically legal disability but like
06:28:09
Brian Atlasmost women recover from their pregnancy and they're not disabled after the pregnancy. >> California is pretty generous when it comes to especially moms and their
06:28:21
Brian Atlasdisability. >> So I guess it's just a semantics thing I guess. >> Yeah. >> Okay. You said there were other topics that you disagreed on. >> Um, I honestly don't even think that it was necessarily topics that you had
06:28:34
Tinabrought up or that you had an opinion on. It was I think the other panelists more say. >> Okay. And then Okay. Um, that's pretty much it for your notes then. Uh, okay. Well, thank you. Um,
06:28:47
Brian Atlas>> thank you guys. I appreciate all. >> Py George, thank you for the champagne pop. Uh, let's do a cheers. >> Did we get >> You're Did we get one for Claire? Did you want >> uh I'll have one. >> Why? Hello.
06:28:59
Brian Atlas>> We don't have apple cider. >> Oh, we don't. >> It's too >> Oh, I thought we had apple cider. Okay, whatever. Uh, cheers to the people who uh can. Saloo. Saloo. Thank you, pasty George.
06:29:11
Janette>> Thank you, Pasty. >> Cheers. >> You want a water? >> Sure. >> Oh, we're out the bottle. >> All right. >> Is this some Andre? >> Put one of like the mannequins here.
06:29:28
SPEAKER_01Wait. Oh, that's below the threshold. Uh, Charlie, what the [ __ ] Your username is ridiculous. Charlie, >> you're below the threshold. It's 69. We're not doing 30.
06:29:38
SPEAKER_01>> Barrier Wisdom donated $69. Holy [ __ ] Big W's for Pasty George. Great show today. >> Thank you, man. >> Now I got to sleep for I have class tomorrow. We'll be putting the fear of
06:29:51
Brian AtlasGod to these woke professors and feminists. Good night. Enjoy the clinking glasses emoji. >> Uh yo, Barryo, thank you, man. Thank
06:30:01
Brian Atlasyou, wisdom. Appreciate it, man. Uh let's see here. Um h
06:30:11
Brian Atlaswe've done a lot of these. Uh do you guys think that men are bad communicators? >> Well, that's a loaded question. >> Generally, yes. Are women better
06:30:25
Clairecommunicators? >> Not necessarily. >> Okay. What do you think? >> I think it just depends on the person more than gender. >> But generally, do you see a trend at all in your own experiences?
06:30:37
Claire>> Um, I don't know. I think I'm a bad communicator myself. So, I can't >> I just like bottle things up and like don't tell people what's bothering me until it's like too late >> and it explodes.
06:30:50
Janette>> Yeah. >> Nice. Okay. What about you? I think we're equally poor communicators. >> I think men communicate in black and white and we communicate in all the
06:31:00
Janettecolors of gray. So there it tends to be a lack of understanding. >> I think we're equally as bad communicate. >> What about you?
06:31:11
Lindsay (Med Device)>> I think I'm kind of on the black and white and gray thing. I think I'm right there. >> Okay. Uh show of hands. Who here has faked an orgasm?
06:31:25
Lindsay (Med Device)Con, don't be shy. >> I'm being dead ass. I haven't. I really haven't. >> Dead ass, right? >> I think it's a horrible practice. It's a horrible practice. >> Faking orgasm. I feel like that's pretty bad communication.
06:31:38
Brian Atlas>> Encouraging bad behavior. >> I'm a horrible communicator. >> Oh, okay. >> Uh, let's see here. We have We're gonna blast through these notes. Uh, oh,
06:31:49
Brian AtlasOlivia. Olivia. Oh, wait. There were some Okay. Uh, let's see. You said you have multiple dating stories. One specific one was you got
06:32:01
Brian Atlasflown out by an NFL player. >> Yes. And I'll try to keep it as anonymous as possible. >> Okay. You said he went to the same college. You guys got each other snaps. He kind of went MIA on all social media
06:32:13
Brian Atlasplatforms. >> All of a sudden, he hit you up last year. >> Yeah. >> Wanted you to come out. So, you did. And it was less than a 24-hour trip. >> You ended up finding he has a baby mama and got in some [ __ ] with her.
06:32:26
Olivia (VA)>> Yeah. Yeah. Oh, yeah. That's a great story. >> Uh question though. So, you guys you knew each other in college >> briefly. It we did not really know actually like we >> had you hooked up? >> No.
06:32:40
Olivia (VA)>> Okay. But you guys went to college together. >> Uh he slides into your Snapchat was it? >> Okay. And this also like kind of segus into another question I know you've had before, but yeah, go on.
06:32:53
Olivia (VA)>> Oh, what is that question? >> So, like I know previously like you've asked people like is having or having social media or no social media like a red flag or not? And I think just from
06:33:03
Brian Atlasmy experience having no social media is a red flag. >> I'm so opposite. Yeah, >> I at least from the male perspective, I
06:33:13
Brian Atlasprobably green flag um for women to not have social media. Uh so how uh he flew you out? Like he paid for it? >> Yeah. >> Okay. Less than a 24-hour trip. Did you
06:33:26
Brian Atlasguys hook up? >> Ended up. No. >> H >> no. >> But that was I mean if a guy's flying you out, I mean what what else does he want?
06:33:35
Olivia (VA)>> Yeah. Yeah. So, you show up and >> you weren't feeling it. >> I honestly felt off about it. Like I when I got there and I met him. >> Yeah.
06:33:47
Olivia (VA)>> Like you being weird or >> a little bit. Yeah. >> What if you were being weird? >> I mean, I I'll be completely honest. I am kind of strange and awkward. So So
06:33:58
Olivia (VA)like I don't know. Like I I will say usually when I do talk to guys like they >> Yeah. They're just weirded out by >> No, no, no. They're not weirded out. They're not weirded out, but like just I don't know. >> Uh what position did he play? Just
06:34:10
Olivia (VA)curious. >> Um he was al uh he What position? I I don't I I honestly don't don't want to get like >> honestly though
06:34:22
Brian Atlas>> he was not he was not a starter. He was not a starter. >> I feel like you've already provided enough information that somebody could probably figure out who the NFL player is cuz you said he went to your same school. Oh [ __ ]
06:34:37
Brian Atlas>> I think >> so. It means he's probably your same age range. >> So it's like Okay. Wait, did she say where she went to school? >> Yeah. >> Arizona. Arizona. >> Well, you don't have to repeat it.
06:34:49
Brian AtlasFelicity. What the [ __ ] >> Sorry. Yeah, that you can narrow that down to like five players. >> Everybody in the chat is fast. >> Winding. >> Chat is chat is gonna
06:35:02
Brian Atlas>> chat. Who is Who is the guy? >> Well, no, we don't. She doesn't have to add him, but um >> the joke. >> Uh have you been flown out other times? >> No. >> Okay. Anybody here been flown out by a
06:35:12
Janetteguy? Claire. Dubai. Dubai. Anybody? >> You've been flown out? Come on. You've been flown out. >> Um it's part Yeah, I've been flown out before. >> Not to Dubai.
06:35:23
Brian Atlas>> Flew out. >> Not to flew out. >> Um Okay. Um h have you dated any other
06:35:33
Olivia (VA)famous people, athletes, musicians, or is this the only like famous? Well, I don't know if he's >> No. Well, I'll say yes. Yes. Well, I wouldn't even say if he's kind of famous, but
06:35:45
Brian Atlas>> I mean, he plays in the NFL. >> No. No. Other like no. No. The name's kind of like a No. >> Okay. Um and then you want to talk about age gaps.
06:35:56
Brian AtlasOh, did I I don't even remember I don't remember what I was saying, >> bro. Wait, wait. Actually, no. I don't I don't want to like help people figure out who it is, but >> But you do.
06:36:08
Brian Atlas>> No, no, no. I won't do I'm not going to do it. Um, but it's like literally there's >> no no. Okay, so this is age gap. Uh, are you against four age gaps? What's your
06:36:20
Olivia (VA)take? Um I
06:36:26
Olivia (VA)I well I am for age gaps. >> You're four. >> I mean I don't necessarily like think it's a like a like I it has to be but like >> Okay.
06:36:38
Olivia (VA)>> But like >> I can see Well, I I understand like if the age gap thing. >> Okay. >> Yeah. >> So you're fine with that? >> I'm fine with that. Yeah. What's the
06:36:49
Brian Atlasoldest guy you've dated? >> Like oldest age gap? >> Uh, yeah. >> 17. >> 17 years. So, you were what? 21.
06:37:00
Brian Atlas>> Um, I was 22. >> 22 and he was 39.
06:37:10
V (Van/April)Okay. All right. Uh, age gaps for against. >> I'm not usually into it to be honest.
06:37:22
Brian Atlas>> But are uh maybe you personal preference don't like it, but do you think they're icky? Are they weird? Are men creepy? Predators? Blah blah blah. >> It really really depends. Like if a
06:37:34
V (Van/April)18year-old is getting with like a 60year-old man, it's a little predatory. >> Uh, how about 20 30? 20 and 30. Yeah, >> that's not bad. >> Okay. Uh 18 28.
06:37:46
V (Van/April)>> 18 and 28. That's a little weird. >> Uh 20 35. >> 20 and 35. >> Yeah. >> Well, it's just different stages of life. Like in my opinion, >> that is true. That's true.
06:37:57
V (Van/April)>> Like you're freshly 18. You just stopped being a minor. You can't even legally drink. >> I think anything past 21, like if you can legally drink an age
06:38:08
Clairegap's okay. Okay, Claire, what do you think? >> For me, I think it's such a red flag when like a guy is like, "Oh, like that doesn't matter." Like, because I I did meet this one guy and I told him like,
06:38:21
Claire"I just graduated high school." And then he told me he's 28 and then he still asked me to hang out after that and I told him like, "I don't feel comfortable with the age gap cuz like you're like what almost 30 and I told you I just
06:38:33
Clairegraduated high school." And then he sends me this whole paragraph saying how like he's like a trusted godfather to his friends children and like he like all of his like lady friends like trust
06:38:44
Clairehim and stuff like that. And he was like mad that I like said no. And so I feel like that's like that's like kind of like weird for me cuz I didn't even say no in a mean way. I just said >> I don't think I would feel comfortable
06:38:57
Brian Atlaswith that. >> Yeah. Well, I think regardless of his age, that's weird once you've like dispensed with the rejection to be like super pushy with it like that and be like, "Well, you're wrong." And that's
06:39:10
Brian Atlasweird. Like, just take the L as a guy. If you get rejected, take the L, move on. Plenty of fish in the sea. Plenty of other women who would be interested. But I don't know if that's like him being weird like that is really related to his
06:39:21
Claireage. But in any case, you it sounds like you wouldn't date a older guy. Is that correct? >> Yeah. I feel like even like I've talked to guys who are like 20 and like that like the two years have even then like
06:39:32
Clairethey're like very hesitant about it. >> Well, the guys are hesitant. >> Yeah. >> And like >> you know it's just it's just like if if you are 20 and you're saying like I don't feel comfortable at 2ear age gap
06:39:44
Brian Atlasfor me like the 10 year age gap is kind of crazy to be like pushing it. >> I mean a 20 and an 18-year-old. >> I don't think it's that crazy. >> I don't I see no issue there. But I mean I don't know if we can use that as an
06:39:57
Brian Atlasexample um of like because these people over here even these guys who are young wouldn't date
06:40:07
Brian Atlassomebody younger that we can like draw from that infer from that that well of well then it's definitely doubly triply way weirder if it's an older guy. But um
06:40:17
Olivia (VA)>> I do have a question for you. So, like um like in high school if you're I know this happens often like you're 16, let's say you're a woman and you're 16 and then you get in a relationship with
06:40:30
Clairesomeone that's 18 and then they go off to college and you're still in high school. How do you feel about that? I mean, me personally, since my friends are 18, if they were dating a 16-year-old in high school, I would just be a little iffy cuz I I feel like it's
06:40:42
Clairejust such a big transition like from being in high school and like with living sorry, with your parents like living alone and like, you know, doing all those things. It's like a it's a pretty big gap in just like terms of
06:40:54
Brian Atlaslife stages. >> Uh, well, I guess sticking What's the oldest age you would date? >> Like 20. >> You wouldn't go over 20? Maybe 21 oldest.
06:41:05
Claire>> Maybe 21. Okay. And it would be it would be icky if like for example if you saw a 20-year-old dating a 30-year-old. Weird. >> Not as much. I think it's just because I'm 18. Me personally, I wouldn't want
06:41:18
Rachel (Yoga)to date anyone that old, >> right? Uh okay. Yeah. What about you? Thoughts? Age gaps? >> Yeah, I'm pretty cool with it because I'm accustomed to it cuz I'm from Utah where Okay.
06:41:30
Rachel (Yoga)>> everyone gets married. Like >> not everyone. A lot of people get married right out of high school >> to older people. So, >> all right. Your thoughts? >> That's fine. >> Big fan. >> Big fan. >> Big fan.
06:41:42
Janette>> Big big fan. >> Big guy. Huge fan. The biggest fan maybe. >> I've only been with one person younger than myself. >> And uh not who's three years. I was
06:41:54
Janettemarried to him. Did hated it. Yeah. No, I I actually have always always preferred a large age gap. I just feel more comfortable. >> Sure. Uh, well, it sounds like you're fine with it, Lindsay. Age gap. >> Sure. >> Mike mic gap. Yeah.
06:42:08
Brian Atlas>> Okay. Uh, >> both my husbands are were younger than me. >> Oh, okay. >> Uh, okay. Uh, let's see here. So, that's Olivia's notes. We finished those.
06:42:19
Brian Atlas>> Uh, let's see. We have Claire. I think we Yeah, we did yours. Rachel. >> Oh, no. >> Uh, you're 23. You were in a band. You
06:42:30
Brian Atlasmarried to the guitarist few few Yeah. few years later. Stroking out. >> You divorced him and married the lead singer. >> That same man.
06:42:42
Janette>> Mic drop. Literally >> Utah. Welcome. >> That happened. >> Why did we start with all this stuff?
06:42:52
Brian Atlas>> Busy talking about other [ __ ] I guess. Um, wait. So, um, he's Wait, was he paying you alimony? >> No.
06:43:04
Brian Atlas>> And your two kids are from your current? >> Yes. >> Okay. Okay. >> Yeah. >> So, wait, you're in a band? >> Yes. >> Married to the guitarist? >> Yes. >> Famous band? >> No. Like in my town, the music scene is
06:43:18
Brian Atlaspretty sure >> it's fun. >> Few But few years later, you divorced him and you married the lead singer. Yeah. >> Is the band's broken up? >> Um, it is now, but we stayed together.
06:43:28
Rachel (Yoga)>> Wow. You're [ __ ] Yoko owner. >> You stayed together for a really long time as a band. I >> You were in the band? >> Yeah. Yeah. >> Yeah. Yeah. You own the band. What did you do? I was also a singer. >> Sing.
06:43:43
Rachel (Yoga)>> Yeah. >> Oh, no. I am not a good singer. >> Damn it. >> Was it like a scream band? >> It was like a punky. >> Yeah. Good for you. >> I love this for you. >> This is a good one. You dated the musician when you were 20. >> Yeah.
06:43:56
Rachel (Yoga)>> And you said he was going to to tour with Jack Johnson, which was a lie. >> And you thought he would impress you, but you don't like Jack Johnson. You think he's the worst? >> I hate Jack Johnson. And he was trying
06:44:07
Rachel (Yoga)to take >> I like I like I like Jack Johnson. It's like feelood upbeat music. >> I like banana pancakes. >> My least favorite song ever.
06:44:19
Rachel (Yoga)>> Can't stand it. I've got some Jack Johnson on my phone. >> Play it. >> I'd rather not. >> Oh, >> no. I think he thought it would impress me. He was like, I'm going on tour with Jack Johnson. That would be kind of
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Brian Atlas>> It did. I did end up dating him a little bit. >> Disavow. >> I I like his music, you know? It's a little It's It's like feel good. I don't know. It's feel good music. >> But I was like a punk emo kid.
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SPEAKER_09>> Oh, okay. >> Yeah. He's a little different. He's a Northshore guy. I was a pump kid, too, at one point. >> He actually went to uh UCSB. >> Um, >> I'm a screamer, but they're only >> You're a screamer.
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Brian Atlas>> Great. You guys are having sidebars about music. Great. Um, if I You said if you ever get divorced again, you would stay single AF as [ __ ] >> Yeah, for sure. >> You said dating's crazy. You're scared you'd get serial murdered. >> Wow.
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Brian Atlas>> That's like a me thing cuz I'm scared of everything. >> Uh, you said >> I watch lots of true crime. You said everyone is banging everyone and everyone has an STD. >> No. >> No shame. You just don't want one. >> Yeah.
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Janette>> Um, who here has had an STD? >> Not me. >> Olivia. >> Oh, you're pointing Olivia. >> No. >> Have you had an STD? >> Okay. >> No. Oilia did. Oilia did. That is so
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Brian Atlastrue. >> But she hundred men. >> Yeah. 100 men. >> I still can't believe that happened. I still >> Yo, clip that [ __ ] and ship it, boys.
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Lindsay (Med Device)>> That's crazy. >> Um, >> she literally wanted to unlive you without saying it in that exact form. >> Yep. >> Everybody watching, if you didn't watch
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SPEAKER_12the beginning, everyone needs to rewind once we are done and see >> the Brian's a victim. >> I'm >> literally >> We're all victims. We all It'll be It'll
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Lindsay (Med Device)be on YouTube shorts by >> We should have disinfected that chair. >> I know. I was thinking about that. >> You need to get You need to get checked after this. >> Hang on. >> Is that what that itch is? >> I almost like lost it.
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Rachel (Yoga)>> It's the fast acting. >> I couldn't keep it together because it was just so She's going to start swinging. >> She was being so sweet. >> Oh, she liked me. I don't know if that's She likes Yeah. She goes, "I really like you." >> She didn't like the gals.
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Rachel (Yoga)>> But no, but she was being really sweet. get a picture. I was like, "Sure." And then I said my thing and she said hers and I was like, "Say what?" >> Insane. Um, >> yeah. >> You said generally overall you like Oh,
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Brian Atlaswe talked about the bow already. We already talked about that. I think we mostly covered that. >> I I think I didn't finish my final point on that though >> is just ultimately when it look when it comes to the bow, I think women expect
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Rachel (Yoga)certain things from men. >> I think the bow is pretty benign. Takes no effort. What if I'm like I will do anything else I do not want to bow.
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Brian Atlas>> I mean I would call into question so like my ideal dynamic and I acknowledge that people want different dynamics in their relationship >> would be and by the way it's not even like a sexual thing by the way. A I
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Brian Atlas>> um >> my ideal dynamic would be one where
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Brian Atlas>> my girlfriend whatever she is just she is deferring to me on various things and uh
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Brian AtlasI think if she's unwilling to do this one small thing I have to think what other sort of feminist programming does she have in her mind where she won't do that.
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Brian AtlasSo, I'm maybe I'm wrong. I could be wrong. But you know what? A lot of men, like for example, right, women do this all the time. Oh, if the guy doesn't pay for the first date, then that means he's
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Brian Atlasnot going to be a good provider. Well, like logically that it could be the case, but logically, for example, could it be possible that a man who's a billionaire would want to go 50/50 on the first date? >> Like, it's
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Brian Atlas>> true. >> Maybe it's unlikely. implausible, >> but logically, right, he could like there's nothing stopping a billionaire from being like, you know what, let's go 50/50 on this date, right?
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Janette>> Yeah. >> But so some women would be like, "Well, you know what? He wants to go 50/50. I deal breaker." >> Yeah. If I know you're a billionaire and you made me split it and you're like, I I'm I'm probably going for the second
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Janettedate. Yeah. >> You're going for the second date. >> Yeah. If I know you're a billionaire and you're like, "Hey, let's go 5050." I'm just going to be like, "Okay, I mean, this is a test, >> right?" But Right. But long game. >> Yeah.
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Brian Atlas>> But so women have this like sort of threshold of, "Well, he won't pay for the date." They're saying in their head, it's not so much about the 10, 20, 30, $40 that I