Feral Girl KICKED OUT Who Wants Brian KlLLED Like Charlie Kirk?! Feminism DEBATE! | Dating Talk #264

Date: 2025-10-13
Duration: 7h 59m

Identified Speakers

SPEAKER_02Ailia Purr(guest)
SPEAKER_03V (Van/April)(guest)
SPEAKER_04Claire(guest)
SPEAKER_05Felicity(guest)
SPEAKER_07Brian Atlas(host)
SPEAKER_08Olivia (VA)(guest)
SPEAKER_10Rachel (Yoga)(guest)
SPEAKER_11Tina(guest)
SPEAKER_13Lindsay (Med Device)(guest)
SPEAKER_14Janette(guest)

Key Moments

00:05:02
IntroAll guests introduce themselves
00:09:46
ControversyAilia admits to porn at 16 with fake ID
02:23:45
ControversyAilia red-carded: wouldn't be surprised if Brian got shot like Charlie Kirk
03:18:00
Key MomentBrian vs V: extended feminism definition debate (~80 min)
06:43:00
Key MomentRachel: married guitarist, divorced, married lead singer of same band
07:42:00
Key MomentV's ectopic pregnancy at 19 in drug rehab

Topics Discussed

00:05:02
Guest Introductions

9 guests. Ailia admits to porn at 16 with fake ID.

02:23:45
Ailia Ejection

Red-carded after Charlie Kirk death threat comment and underage porn admission.

02:31:48
Pasty George iPhone Gift

$2,000 donation for iPhone 17 Pro, unboxed on stream.

03:18:00
Feminism Definition Debate

Brian vs V: ~80 min debate on feminism, advocacy vs equality.

07:42:00
V Ectopic Pregnancy Story

Pregnant at 19 in rehab. Ex threatened to block her if she didn't abort.

Transcript

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Brian Atlasalso can be used for all races. Uh anyways, without further ado, we're going to have the guests introduce themselves. So,
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V (Van/April)please tell us your name, age, occupation, where you're from in education. Go ahead. >> I'm April, but my friends call me V or
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V (Van/April)Van. And I'm originally from Pennsylvania, but I moved to LA 4 years ago to study audio engineering. And I'm
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V (Van/April)a stripper right now, but I also do music and audio engineer. >> Age. Oh, I said I think I 22. >> Okay. Any other kind of sex work besides
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V (Van/April)stripping? >> Uh, I mean I have an Only Fans, but like I don't really like I don't like promo. >> Wait, what was that?
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Brian Atlas>> What was that? What was that? >> Oh, wow. >> Okay. Um, took, you know, whatever. All right. Where? And sorry, you said you're
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Clairefrom Pennsylvania? >> Yeah. >> Philadelphia? >> No, no. State College where Penn State is. >> Okay, gotcha. What about you? >> Um, my name is Claire. I'm 18. I'm
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Clairecurrently a student at UC Santa Barbara. So, I'm a student and I also um am a barista, I guess. I'm from Orange County. >> From OC. All right. Uh, what are you studying at UCSB?
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Claire>> Um, preolysi right now, but I'm thinking of switching. I don't know yet. Why? Why are you thinking of switching? >> Any reason? All right. >> I just don't know what I want to do yet.
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Brian Atlas>> Okay. Uh what what makes you I guess what made you choose polyai or pre- polyai, I guess? >> Well, cuz I'm hoping to do like pre-law and go to law school after this. So, yeah. >> So, you want to become a lawyer? >> Yeah.
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Brian Atlas>> Okay. Do you have a sense of what kind of area of law you'd like to practice or? >> Not really. No. Just anything. What would you if you were to change your major, what do you
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Brian Atlasthink you would change it to? >> Um, I was thinking like communications. >> Yeah. >> Okay. Um, but still do law. Okay.
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Rachel (Yoga)Gotcha. All right. What about you? >> U, my name is Rachel. I'm 37.
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Rachel (Yoga)I am from Utah, so drove out. Um, I own a yoga studio and I'm also a yoga instructor on a campus. I went to college for a year, then dropped out,
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Rachel (Yoga)then went to beauty school, then quit that, then went to yoga. So, >> did you get a degree at all from college or No. >> And so, you you're from where again? >> Utah. >> Utah. Like born and raised or
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Brian Atlas>> No, I was born in England. >> Oh, in England. When did you move to the US? >> When I was two. >> When you were two. Okay. Uh, do you have dual citizenship? >> I did, but I did not >> till I was 18. >> What's that?
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Rachel (Yoga)>> Till I was 18. >> Okay. They It was revoked or >> I If I'm honest, I don't know how it works. My parents said I had dual citizenship. >> Oh, okay. >> But I don't know how dual citizenship
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Rachel (Yoga)works. >> Is one of your parents there? >> My dad was in the military, but we were not on a military base. We were just like out. >> Okay. >> Yeah. Uh, and you're from Utah.
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Brian Atlas>> How long have you been in Utah? >> 20 six years. >> Are you LDS? >> I grew up LDS. But >> your family's Mormon? >> Some.
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Brian Atlas>> Some. Okay. >> There's seven of us. So, some are and some are not. >> Were they uh because there's like two sects, I guess, of LDS church. There's
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Brian Atlasthe fundamentalist Mormons and then like the mainstream >> they are mainstream. >> Yeah. >> Okay. >> Um are you Mormon or No. >> Are you Christian? >> No.
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Rachel (Yoga)>> Okay. Atheist, agnostic? >> I don't know. I just live yoga lifestyle. Just love everyone. >> Spiritual. >> Yeah. >> I don't know if I'm spiritual either. >> Okay. Well, you're >> I just like to love people. So
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Ailia Purr>> Okay. All right. What about you? >> Hi, I'm Ailia Purr. I'm a professional porn star and an online [ __ ] I am 20 years old and I moved to LA about four
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Brian Atlasyears ago to be a greater [ __ ] So, >> wait, you're how old again? >> 20. >> You're 20? >> Yeah. >> You moved to LA at 16 to be a [ __ ] >> I Well, fake ID. >> Yeah. >> Hold on.
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Ailia Purr>> What? >> Yeah. >> Hold on. >> I got a fake ID at 16. >> Why did you use the fake ID for? because you can't do porn until you're 18. So, I had a friend and we both got fake IDs
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Ailia Purrand then we got into porn and it kind of just went from there. So, like there's definitely an underage footprint of me somewhere, but the daddies are jerking off too. >> That's actually not funny at all. It's
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Ailia Purrdisgusting. >> I kind of love it. >> Hold on. Um, you're 20. >> Mhm. Oh, I'm from Albuquerque, New Mexico. Okay,
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Brian Atlas>> maybe that makes sense. >> Drug use there. >> Um, and you said you moved to LA to become a [ __ ] >> Yeah,
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Janette>> life goals. >> Do they run ads for that on Craigslist or? >> Yeah, it was they were recruiting and I was >> I mean, were you also >> I needed a job. >> A So, you were shooting porn at 16?
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Ailia Purr>> Well, it was more like 17. Um, okay. >> That I'm not like the only girl that's ever done that. Like a few of my friends just like teamed up and we were like, "We're down. >> The guys were hot."
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Brian Atlas>> That's a I think that's a first that I've heard. Um >> Oh dear. Well, I'm definitely not going to heaven. >> Uh, were you doing like any escorting underage?
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Ailia Purr>> No. >> Were you using it to like Were you on dating apps at this time? Well, I was on Tinder creating like fake profiles and then they all got banned, so I needed to
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Ailia Purrlike actually get some real money. And then like this porn guy was like, "Hey, like he actually found us at a mall and he was like he was like, "Hey, like I do porn. You guys are cute." We were like
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Ailia Purrmaking Tik Toks and then he kind of just like recruited us into the porn military. >> The porn military? >> Yeah, I kind of heard of that. >> Um,
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Ailia Purr>> yeah. Were you like hooking up with men? >> Yeah. >> And you were lying about your age to them? >> Yeah. But I don't think they really cared if I was underage or not. >> Then why would you lie?
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Brian Atlas>> I didn't. I just was like, "Whatever you want, daddy. I'm down." But that was Yeah. >> Well, I mean, I don't think in terms of any sort of civil or criminal liability that would mostly fall on the men in
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Brian Atlasthat situation. Yeah. >> However, willingly and knowingly producing child porn and
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Brian Atlasyou you were willingly engaged in it. I mean, you you've just admitted to distributing child porn. No, >> technically
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Ailia Purryou were doing it. That's not a technically you were there. disturbing >> cuz like technically like >> and you're proud of it. >> Well, >> or she's lying about her age and this is all [ __ ]
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Ailia Purr>> No. How could you lie about that? >> You lied about all the time though. But that happens all the time. Like there's a lot of people that fall victim to you should be >> But you're not a victim if you're bragging about it.
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Tina>> I wasn't bragging about it. He asked me >> No, you just bragged about it. Actually, you just did. And being a mother myself to LA to be a [ __ ] >> which just makes LA look bad. Period.
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TinaBecause it just makes it seem like >> bad. I mean, it is, but >> that just like that's crazy. >> Good. I best to you. I really do. I hope
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Brian Atlasthe best for you. >> It's like I mean people even have qualms about people starting at 18, you know, but it's like >> you just >> we have these laws in place for a reason. Like couldn't you have just
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Ailia Purrwaited like a year or something? >> Well, I was like 3 months away from being 18, but like rent was due, so like I had to do what I had to do. Like God forgives, >> but you said you were 16. >> You did you did start with you were 16,
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Janettebut I think it was >> 16 like that's so >> trying to troll what you have to do. >> So if a man checks her ID and believes
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Brian Atlasthe ID to be true, is he legally liable? Uh yeah, there's I think it's called strict liability. >> So even if you've been as the man you
00:13:49
Brian Atlasgenuinely thought she was like 21, she she showed you an ID, she showed you a birth certificate, but she uh what's the term when people like fake something?
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Brian AtlasThere's a term for it. >> Nobody. We have nine brains here. Nobody knows the term. >> I'm just saying >> when you like for forgery forgery, you forge a document. Um,
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Brian Atlas>> a >> technically, yeah, you would, you know, you would be found, you would be, it would be statutory rape. >> Acon got in trouble for that because he like he made, I think he made a song about it, too, but like there was
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Tinasomebody that came into the club that was under the age and it's a 21 and over club, but she was like, >> he assumed because she was in the building. Okay. >> So, he got in trouble because she was
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Lindsay (Med Device)under the age of 18. Just like businesses that serve liquor, if somebody comes in under the age and they get caught, they still potentially can lose their liquor license.
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Brian Atlas>> Now, I personally think if you've genuinely been duped >> and you like this is just a predatory woman or whatever >> that should I think that should be some sort of defense
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Ailia Purr>> if like she's presented you a fake ID. >> Agree. >> Like >> I mean Bonnie Blue does it all the time and nobody seems to have a problem. She's like a hero. >> Does what? She sleeps with barely 17.
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Ailia PurrNo, but like she sleeps with barely legals and they're 16 17. Like is that okay that she does that? >> No, >> we're not talking. >> I thought we were supposed to like all introduce ourselves. I don't think we finished introducing
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Ailia Purr>> I think this is too juicy to skip over. >> Lead off. >> Yeah, we lead off that you were 16 years old >> producing >> porn. Porn. >> That happens all the time though. Like that's why I feel like
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Lindsay (Med Device)>> but that doesn't make it right. >> It doesn't make it right at all. That's like so disturbing, you know, >> and to use the word [ __ ] in the same
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Tinasentence of talking about being 16 and >> you're young and beautiful and I don't want you to feel like we're all attacking you because it might seem like
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Tinathat, but you should just want better for yourself than to just say, "I'm a [ __ ] I came in at 16. and I'm a [ __ ] and I can do it. Want better for yourself because I guarantee when you're 30, you're not going to be feeling the
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V (Van/April)same way that you are when you're 20. >> That's why you don't because you said that. >> It's something to not romanticize. Like we don't want to romanticize that. >> I was just like
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Tina>> addicted. They're very proud of the fact that you are a 20-year-old porn star, which is great. Like more power to you. Do what you want to do with your body, your life. But you really should just want better for yourself and shouldn't
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Tinabe so proud to just be going out and saying, "Oh, I started at 16 and I was tricking these people into thinking that I'm 18 and doing porn." That's not okay. And just because other people do it, I
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Tinadon't even know who Bonnie Blue is because I don't pay into that [ __ ] So don't don't compare one thing to another and say, "Well, so and so is going out and stealing, so how come I can't do it?" That doesn't mean that it's not
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Brian Atlasright. That's all we're trying to get a point across. >> Okay, I'll take that into consideration. >> Yeah, you're a [ __ ] liar. In your pre-show notes, in your pre-show notes,
00:17:04
Brian Atlasyou wrote when we asked your age, I knew you were [ __ ] lying. We asked your age, you said you're 23 and now you're sitting on the podcast saying you're 20.
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Lindsay (Med Device)>> Ew. Are you going to be annoying the whole show and make up who you are? Cuz I don't have time for it, girlfriend. Uh, >> that's a yellow card. >> That's pretty early. >> That's a yellow card. You get a red card. >> Admitting to child porn isn't a red card
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Ailia Purrright away. >> Yeah, admitting to child porn. >> Definitely be >> It is 100% rage. >> No, I I actually I don't consent of child porn. That's honestly [ __ ] >> So, did you tell the truth for the last 10 minutes?
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Lindsay (Med Device)>> Let's explore this though. Let's actually get an admission from you that you just lied about your age. >> Yeah. Is she even 21? Or do we want to double check her ID to make sure she's legal to
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Lindsay (Med Device)be on the podcast at this point? >> Does it matter what you see in person? >> What does that yellow card mean? >> You're in trouble. >> Have you seen like sports like soccer? >> Probably not. >> There's a yellow card. >> No. >> You get the red card, you're off the
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Lindsay (Med Device)field permanently. >> It's a [ __ ] demotion. >> What's the punishment? There's a >> make checker ID. That sounds like a good punishment. >> All right. You get to wear the dunce hat for 10 minutes.
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Brian Atlas>> I cannot. >> Um, and then uh let me have you spin the helicopter on top. >> All right, spin it. >> Spin it. Keep going. >> Yep. There you go. Nice. Good. Good
00:18:31
Brian Atlasskills. Look at that. Look at those great. >> All right. Okay. >> There you go. Good job. Investigated.
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Brian AtlasThe [ __ ] Ridiculous. Crime busters here. >> It's nice to meet everyone. >> Oh my god. >> I don't think we met you. >> And we're probably the video's probably demonetized now because she [ __ ]
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Brian Atlas>> All right, I'll I'll probably red card her. I'm going to make a note to just [ __ ] red card her later. >> But once you talk about that [ __ ] on stream, it's just Yeah, it's probably
00:19:06
Brian Atlasdemonetized. Okay. Um, hold on. Let me just let this come through. Uh, actually, we'll do intros or No, no, no. Here, I'll do it. Thank you, Adzills.
00:19:16
SPEAKER_01Adzil's donated $200. Hey Brian, your favorite Brit is back. Love from the UK as always. If chair 4 is 20, then I Michael Jackson
00:19:28
SPEAKER_01reincarnated. A big possibility of being old but having no brain power. Chair 7 based. >> Who's chair 7? You. >> Oh, hi. >> Thanks.
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Brian Atlas>> What? >> So, does he think she's older or younger than Tony? She looks younger to me. >> I think he was implying older. I >> think we need to do an ID check. >> All right, Ben.
00:19:52
Brian Atlas>> Uh, what? Okay, we're the Are there mods in chat? Hello. [Applause]
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Brian Atlas>> Uh, okay. No mods in chat, I guess. Um, uh, okay. What about you? >> My name is Janette. I am 43, born and
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Janetteraised in Coronado, California, and I now reside in Orange County. I am a former adult content creator and I have been a housewife for the last 5 years. >> And you used to do OAF, is that it?
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Janette>> I was a cam model and I was in the early stages of Only Fans. I got out right before COVID started, right before the big boom.
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Olivia (VA)>> Okay, got it. What about you? >> Um, I'm Olivia. Um, I'm 23. Um, I came from Virginia, so I came um kind of
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Olivia (VA)cross country. Um, and then I went to the University of Arizona. Um, I graduated with a bachelor's in veterinary science and then I am now I
00:20:56
Brian Atlasdo fitness coaching and then also I bend do I'm a barista and then I also serve. So, >> okay. Um, and hold on. Um, you said you're from
00:21:09
Brian AtlasVirginia. Virginia. >> Like you grew up there? >> Yep. >> Okay. And I had a question for you, but I'll have to remember it later. What about you?
00:21:18
Lindsay (Med Device)>> My name is Lindsay. I am 37. I live in Orange County, California, and I moved here from Illinois about 14 years ago, and I'm a national director for a
00:21:30
Lindsay (Med Device)cosmetic medical device company. >> All right. Uh any college, university? >> Yeah. Um I did do cosmetology school and then business. You have your >> CLC in uh >> bachelor's
00:21:42
Lindsay (Med Device)>> college of Lake County? No, just business courses. I don't have my bachelor's. >> Uh college for you? >> A University of Arizona. >> What What did you uh get your >> bachelor's of veterinary science.
00:21:54
Tina>> Gotcha. Okay. What about you? >> Um I'm Tina. I'm 30 from originally Arizona. I moved out here like 12 years ago and I live in Oxnard. It's about 45
00:22:04
Tinaminutes to an hour outside of this area. And I am currently a medical assistant. I work for one of the best beriatric surgeons in the entire country and
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Tinaactually world. He goes worldwide and teaches people um other doctors how to do the surgeries he does. And I'm currently working on my bachelor's in nursing. >> All right. And sorry, could you just repeat age? I missed that.
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Brian Atlas>> 30. >> 30. Okay. All right. Welcome everybody. We're going to go around the table once more. What is everybody's relationship status? If you're single, how long have you been single and longest
00:22:39
V (Van/April)relationship? Go ahead. >> Sing I'm single I think I've been single for like six or seven months. I don't really know, but I just got out of like a
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V (Van/April)three-year relationship and that's my longest relationship. >> All right. And sorry, when did you get out of it? >> Like six or seven months ago. >> Okay. Got
00:23:03
V (Van/April)>> any rebounds? >> Um, honestly, not really. Like maybe like a couple. >> Okay. >> But not serious. Like nothing serious.
00:23:15
Claire>> What do they have? >> Um, I'm currently single, too. I haven't really dated that much. Um, my longest relationship was maybe like 6 months. That's it. >> Yeah. >> So, you have had a relationship?
00:23:28
Brian Atlas>> Yeah. >> You guys called each other boyfriend, girlfriend. Okay. Okay. 6 months. Who broke up with who? >> Um, I think it was mutual. >> All right. How long were you uh have you been single?
00:23:40
Claire>> Um, probably like less than a year. Maybe like since like December last year. >> And was that the six-month one? >> Yeah. >> Okay.
00:23:53
Brian AtlasAll right. But in the one year you've been single, you have been dating, having situationships. >> Yeah. >> Okay. What's the long in the past year? What's the longest period of time you've been seeing a guy? A couple weeks.
00:24:06
Brian AtlasCouple months. >> Like 6 months also. I think that's maybe my like >> there's been another six month. >> Yeah. Just like >> But it was a situation. It was situation poke. >> Um are there any guys currently in the picture?
00:24:19
Brian Atlas>> No. >> Nothing. Are you on dating apps? >> No. >> No guys. Zero. Not even texting. You're not texting a guy. Not messaging a guy. not occasionally checking in with an
00:24:32
Claireex-boyfriend, >> ex guy, ex- fling. >> So, you have you been celibate or what? What's going on? >> Well, yeah. I mean, I don't I'm kind of like busy. I have like my own life and
00:24:44
V (Van/April)like school and work. So, >> yeah. >> And is there a guy in the picture for you currently? >> No. No. >> Nothing? >> No. I've been like sober and celibate,
00:24:56
Brian Atlasyou know. You've been >> you've been sober and celibate. >> Yeah. >> Are you currently sober? >> Yeah. Yeah. I'm 4 months. >> This is just how you are. >> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. I know. >> Oh,
00:25:09
V (Van/April)>> but >> is it California sober or >> No. No. Sober. Sober. California. Sober isn't real sober. >> Wait, where are you from again? You're from >> Pennsylvania. >> Oh, >> what's that? >> You sound like Minnesota.
00:25:21
V (Van/April)>> Oh my god. It's we I live by like the Canadian border kind of so I think we like pick up a bit of a Canadian accent, you know. >> I think the piercing too >> I can hear it, you know. It's good. Hey
00:25:34
Brian Atlasyo, Pasty George, where you at, man? Pasty George, I think, is here. He's He's one of our viewers. He's Canadian. Okay. Um, so no guys in the picture. >> No. >> Okay. Uh, relationship status.
00:25:45
Rachel (Yoga)>> I am married. I've been married for eight years. We've been together for 10 years. Uh it's tied for the longest relationship. I've had two tenure relationships. >> Were you married to the previous one? >> I was. >> So two marriages?
00:25:59
Brian Atlas>> Yes. >> Two marriages. Okay. Any kids? >> Two. >> Two kids from current? >> Yes. >> Okay. So just one father. >> Yes.
00:26:08
Rachel (Yoga)>> All right. Two kids. All right. Okay. And it's like a normal It's not like poly marriage or something like that. >> Nope. I would not be. Nope. >> Not open. Okay. >> No, he's Nope.
00:26:22
Ailia Purr>> Got it. >> Mine. >> All right. What about you? >> I'm single. >> Okay. >> Yeah. >> Longest relationship.
00:26:33
Ailia Purr>> Me? Probably like a week. >> I don't really date. I think it's kind of overrated. So, >> all right. >> Yeah. Sorry, guys.
00:26:43
Ailia Purr>> How long you been single? >> M probably like 5 years. Yeah. >> Are you Is there currently a guy in the picture? >> No, just all my hoes. >> What does that mean?
00:26:55
Ailia Purr>> Like all my hoes are my guys. Like >> So you have a roster? >> Yeah. >> How big is the roster? How many hoes do you have? >> Maybe like over a hundred hoes. >> So I just like rotate them out. I just like rotate them out. So like
00:27:08
Ailia Purrtechnically those are my boyfriends cuz I like I want all the boyfriends, not just one boyfriend. So like could you count that as a relationship? because I have one like individually with each sperm.
00:27:19
Brian Atlas>> How about this? In the past three months, of the hundred hoes that you have, how many of them have you seen? All of them. >> Everyone. >> And you've slept with all of them.
00:27:28
Ailia Purr>> Yeah. Well, like it would be boring if we didn't. >> See, now the problem is with uh >> What are the stats on that per day?
00:27:39
Brian Atlas>> Well, see, you're giving her a butt a bit too much credit here. Uh, she's obviously trolling, right? >> 100% she's trolling. >> Well, when we do porn, we have a lot of
00:27:49
Ailia Purrbodies, so I definitely like do have the hose, you know, that I see outside of porn. >> Yeah. But he asked relationship. >> But those are relationships. >> No, they're not. >> Yes, they are. And this Yes, they are.
00:28:01
Brian Atlas>> See, if you're going to troll, you have to do it like in a semiconvincing way where like somebody can kind of question it, but you've gone so exaggerated with it. It's just so obvious. >> I'm so monotone, though. I'm not >> 20 minutes in.
00:28:15
Brian Atlas>> Like, come on. >> But I'm actually not trolling about the 100 boyfriends. Like, I'm really not. >> All right, that's fine. Um, so in the past like week, how many of them have you slept with?
00:28:25
Ailia Purr>> Well, as of now, they're on time out. So, probably like just like me. >> I'm on my best behavior. >> Do you want me to spin the thing again? >> I was going to ask, >> what does this even mean? This feels like a humiliation ritual.
00:28:38
Brian Atlas>> Yes, dear. >> It's welld deserved. Um, can you take it off for the take it off? Just pass it back here. >> Play some music. >> All right. Thank you. >> Here. Oh, you want music? I got you. Hold on.
00:28:48
Janette[Music] >> It's fitting. >> Is the audio all the way up? >> Is this the theme music from my dating life? I think it is. >> Uh, so, okay. Um,
00:29:02
Ailia Purr>> I can give you some of my hoes. >> I I don't want your host. >> So, do you have a main hoe? >> Yeah. >> Do you have multiple main hoes or just one? No, just one right now. He's kind of growing on me. I'm not going to lie.
00:29:14
Ailia Purr>> How many side hoes do you have? >> M since there's one like 99 is the rest of the side hoes. >> You You have exactly a hundred. >> Exactly. >> Good. Name them all.
00:29:24
Ailia Purr>> Okay. There's Well, they're just like basic like Daddy White names like John Garcia. There's Terry Brad. >> I think it would be not appropriate to say their last names. Uh
00:29:36
Ailia Purr>> well, you said to name them, but but you're right. I actually respect that. I think they rather stay confidential. So, >> but yeah, no kids either. Maybe one day.
00:29:46
Ailia PurrGod, like I do have a breeding kink, so I might be down for that, but as of now, I don't think. >> Uh, okay. And, um, in the past, uh, you said they're on timeout. >> They're on timeout.
00:29:59
Brian Atlas>> What does that mean? >> Because I just want to see my one hoe. >> Okay. When? How long have they been on timeout? >> Like two weeks. >> Okay. Okay. So, two weeks ago in the
00:30:10
Brian Atlaspast week, so I guess two weeks to 3 weeks ago, that time period, uh, how many of the hundred 100 men you're currently dating have you did you sleep with in that week period? just the one
00:30:22
Ailia Purrbecause I'm trying to be like a conservative woman now and just like respect the one guy and >> get to know him and really bond with him and like
00:30:32
Brian Atlas>> and uh I'm trying to think. Have you uh in a 24-hour period? What is the most of men most amount of men that you've slept with in a 24-h hour period? >> Well, I just said one. It's I I've not
00:30:45
Ailia Purrslept with a 100 men. Although that would be fun cuz I have seen girls doing that and I'm not going to lie. They're kind of inspiring. You just said that your roster consisted of 100 men. >> It did consist of 100 men, but right now I'm focusing on the one guy cuz >> But you said you had slept with all of them.
00:30:58
Brian Atlas>> Well, I did sleep with all of them throughout the course of a year. >> So that's a hundred, dear. >> So did in a 24-hour period, did you ever like hook up with two guys in a 24-hour period? >> No, just the one guy.
00:31:10
Brian Atlas>> I feel like you really can't love yourself if you just give yourself to everybody like that. >> Okay. What about the >> But that's what I was born for. I was born to be just full of [ __ ] on everything she's saying. >> Stop. Don't engage her on that. Uh, how
00:31:24
Ailia Purrabout in a week? What's the most amount of men that you've slept with in a week? >> The one. >> If you've slept with a hundred men, >> that was like in the past that was 100 men. But now, like I said, I'm trying to
00:31:36
Brian Atlas>> past I'm not saying the past week. I'm saying in a given week, what is the most amount of men that you slept with? >> Oh, maybe like 20. >> Okay. In a day, what is the most amount
00:31:47
Brian Atlasof men you've slept with? >> Two. >> Okay. In a month, what is the most amount of men you've slept with? >> 100. >> In a month. >> In a month. >> Okay. All right. Um, I'll come back to
00:32:01
Janetteyou in a moment. >> What about you? >> Math works. >> How do I go after that? Um, I am in the middle of a very contentious divorce. So, newly >> new into the single world. I am not on
00:32:14
Janettedating apps. I don't like to be part of the hookup culture. I like monogamy. So, it's a new fun future.
00:32:24
Janette>> Okay. Um, wait, so you're married? >> I'm still currently married in the process of divorce. >> Oh, okay. Gotcha. So, um, how long were you guys together for? >> Five years.
00:32:36
Brian Atlas>> Oh, my longest relationship was six. >> Gotcha. Is this your only marriage? >> I have been married before. >> How many times? >> Twice. >> Twice. Okay. >> Engaged four times. >> All right. Uh, who initiated the divorce?
00:32:49
Brian Atlas>> I did. >> Both times? >> Yes. >> Okay. Uh, can you guys tell me those of you who've been divorced, do you have to when you, you know, file for divorce, you have to put a reason or something, right?
00:33:01
Janette>> In California, it's a no fault state, so you can just say, you know, reconcile. But is that what you cited, too? Okay. >> Uh, and then you've been divorced once, right?
00:33:12
Rachel (Yoga)We were split up for over a year. So, we printed papers, went to the courthouse, and then went out to lunch afterwards. So, we didn't have to write a reason or anything. We just
00:33:24
Brian Atlasweren't together anymore. >> And you initiated the divorce? >> It was mutual. >> Who filed the paperwork? >> Um, he printed it. We went together.
00:33:35
Rachel (Yoga)>> Okay. Was there a reason for why you guys got divorced? Um, he was my high school sweetheart and we were Mormon and young and
00:33:48
Rachel (Yoga)>> so we got married and I think like we just grew apart as we got older but I have only good things to say about him. So >> I wish I was Mormon. >> I wish you were too. >> Me too. Low key. That would be fun. I'd like a Mormon daddy.
00:34:00
Janette>> I I Oh yeah. >> Oh, you walked right into that, sweetie. Uh and then for you, you initiated both divorces. >> Yes. The first one I was the bread winner and um I didn't want to be that.
00:34:13
JanetteI realized that I couldn't maintain that forever and I didn't want to have to support him. >> The second one he was the bread winner. It was my first time uh not having my own income and I would have preferred I
00:34:24
Brian Atlashad chosen someone a little bit more responsible and ready to be a husband. >> Gotcha. Okay. Um, going back to you here, uh, did your husband pay you alimony? >> No. >> No alimony.
00:34:37
Brian Atlas>> Nope. >> And then was there like a distribution of there's I don't know exactly how it works, but >> uh, did he have to pay you anything in the divorce? You guys pretty much went separate. Okay.
00:34:49
Brian Atlas>> Yeah, we just for you. Um, sorry. Kids? >> I have a son. He is 12. >> Is that from your >> No. >> Nope. >> Any of your marriages? >> One of my engagements. one of your
00:35:00
Brian Atlasengagements. Okay. Because engaged four times. Um >> Okay. Does he pay >> really quick on the kid? Does he pay you child support? >> I pay him child support.
00:35:11
Janette>> Okay. Uh custody is it 50/50 or >> It is 50/50. Um when we separated, I was not doing well financially and I I became quite successful after the fact and so then he came to take his piece of that. >> Okay.
00:35:25
Brian Atlas>> Yeah. >> But you pay him uh child support. May May I ask how how much? >> Um, it's fluctuated over the years. You know, as a housewife, the last five >> at its peak. >> At its peak, probably like 7,500 or
00:35:38
Janette$1,700 a month. >> Okay. How do you feel about that? Does it you feel a bit upset or >> I just found it it was crazy because I hadn't asked for child support when I was not doing well financially. I was willing to take care of my side of
00:35:51
Janettethings and it's 50/50. You take care of your side, I'll take care of mine. So, I thought it was pretty equal there. So when he found out I was making so much money, he came after a cut, that was pretty disheartening.
00:36:01
Janette>> Gotcha. Okay. Um, >> this is why we need abortions. >> Do you have sole custody or >> No, it's it's absolutely 50/50. Shared, but in California, whoever's making more money has to pay.
00:36:14
Ailia Purr>> Yeah, I know. >> Uh Huh. Okay. And um >> And you think I should have had an abortion so I don't have to pay my ex child support? I just think in general like the world's overpop populated. So I
00:36:25
Ailia Purrthink like we need abortions to like decrease population of unwanted pregnancies because yeah like why would you ever pay a man >> your money? >> It's actually a lot lower now than it was in the past. I'm just wondering
00:36:39
Tinathere are a lot less people having babies nowadays and the population is actually much lower than what it used to be. >> Yeah. Thank god. Shout out hookup culture.
00:36:51
Brian AtlasWhat? >> So funny. Haha. Um, so okay. Uh, >> I'm trying to think. Oh, uh, alimony
00:37:01
Janettefrom either of your divorces. >> Uh, no. From the first and, um, I am in the process of figuring out what the alimony will be for this second one. >> Mhm. >> Um, it's been a battle.
00:37:15
Janette>> Okay. >> I was a housewife, so I had no income. So, leaving the marriage with no income, you're entitled to a certain amount. And uh >> that's what we're going to find out. >> Gotcha. Okay. What about you?
00:37:26
Olivia (VA)>> Um I'm single. Um my longest relationship was like six, seven months. And then >> how long you been single for?
00:37:36
Brian Atlas>> Let's see. Um probably a year and a half. >> All right. And are there any guys in the picture currently? Even just met texting couple
00:37:48
Brian Atlasdates. >> Yeah, I mean texting. >> Any like a guy you're date like been on dates with or? >> Yeah, I've been on dates. >> And this is You're in Wait, hold on. Virginia, right? >> I'm in Virginia. Yes.
00:38:01
Olivia (VA)>> Are you by DC? >> Um, no. I grew up near DC, but I'm more in central central Virginia. >> Okay. >> So, yeah. >> How long have you been seeing this guy?
00:38:17
Olivia (VA)I would say didn't go on a date until March, maybe March, April, but I met him February. >> So, you've known him for >> Yeah, I I knew him for
00:38:30
Olivia (VA)>> six, seven, eight months. >> No, I So, February I met him and then May I No, March. March or April, I went
00:38:38
Brian Atlason a date with him for the first time. >> How many dates have you guys been on? I don't know. >> How often do you see each other? >> Not often.
00:38:49
Olivia (VA)>> When's the last time you saw him? >> Probably. >> Let's see. July. So >> July,
00:39:01
Olivia (VA)>> we just It's It's kind of It's kind of like because >> he So I'm in central Virginia. He's in like DC area. >> How far is that? >> That's like 2 and 1/2 hours. And then it's just like
00:39:14
Olivia (VA)>> medium distance. >> Yeah, it's a medium distance kind of thing. Yeah. >> Okay. Um, have you guys tried to meet up? >> Yes. >> When's the last time you guys spoke? >> Um, spoke.
00:39:26
Olivia (VA)>> Have you texted today? >> No, not today. >> Yesterday. >> Probably like two days ago. >> Two days ago. Okay. Have you said I love you?
00:39:37
Olivia (VA)>> No. This is a Oh, so just a It's a casual thing. So just sex? >> Not even just sex. It's just like sometimes dating and just going on
00:39:47
Olivia (VA)dates. >> Wait, so no sex? >> There is, but it's not every single time you meet up, >> right? That makes sense. >> Yeah. Okay.
00:39:58
Brian Atlas>> All right. Uh Okay. Are there any other guys in the picture? >> Um not really. No. >> What do you mean not really? I feel like
00:40:09
Brian AtlasI mean I there's there's no one I guess. >> Are you on dating apps? >> Yes. >> Yes, you are. >> Yes. >> Okay. Um when's the last time you went on a date with somebody from a dating
00:40:21
Olivia (VA)app? >> Oh, that's it's probably been a year. >> Okay. But you'll message You'll message them. >> I'll message them >> on dating apps and stuff. Okay. >> It's not like there's nothing really
00:40:32
Brian Atlasthat comes out honestly. There's nothing that really comes out of it. this guy you're currently seeing. Um, how did you guys meet? Dating app? >> No,
00:40:45
Brian AtlasI was at a gym and then we just started talking. >> Okay. You guys went to a gym. All right.
00:40:54
Brian Atlas>> Okay. Um, if you started seeing somebody else, would you cut things off with him? >> Yes. Okay. H
00:41:09
Brian Atlasum are you like emotionally available? >> Like what do you mean by that? >> Well, I don't know if you if you have
00:41:18
Brian Atlasfeelings for this guy. Uh are you like emotionally available or you or are you attached to Mr. Washington DC? Oh, I'm
00:41:29
Brian Atlasnot I'm not Yes, I'm emotionally I'm not attached to him. >> Okay, >> that makes sense. >> You guys just occasionally go on dates. >> Yes. >> All right. Okay. Um
00:41:42
Lindsay (Med Device)All right. What about you? >> I am single. My longest relationship was 3 years. I've been single for just shy
00:41:50
Brian Atlasof two years. And I am not currently dating, seeing, or hooking up with anyone. >> Okay. Uh, you were married, correct? >> No. >> Or Okay. You have a You have a kid,
00:42:04
Brian Atlasthough? >> I Yes, I have a 2 and a halfyear-old son. >> And that is that from your >> My three years. Yeah. >> Okay. Does he pay you child support? >> Well, we weren't we
00:42:16
Lindsay (Med Device)He helps out. >> Is it? We're We don't have anything through um the legal system. >> Yeah. >> Okay. It's just you guys have an understanding. >> Sure. >> Uh does he
00:42:27
Lindsay (Med Device)>> So he doesn't have there's not formal child support, but does he send you money? >> Um he pays half of my son's little school and then when I do ask and need
00:42:38
Tinahelp with other things, he will help and >> support. Yeah. My son lives with me full-time. >> Gotcha. Okay. What about you? Um, I'm currently in a relationship with a
00:42:49
Tinawonderful man. Shout out to you, baby. I think you're watching. Um, we've been together for a little over a year. My longest relationship was a situationship.
00:43:00
TinaUm, and that was like five or six years of my life.
00:43:06
Tina>> Situationship for five to six years. >> Yes. >> Ever married? Any kids? >> Um, I have one kid. It happened after my situationship >> with a different guy. >> Yeah. Just >> not your current. >> No, no, no. Just hookup era or hookup
00:43:20
Brian Atlaswhatever it's called. Um, >> wait. Question. The five to six year. You said it happened after the five to six year situationship. >> Yeah. He >> So, and when you say it was a situationship, are you talking it was on
00:43:32
Tinaagain, off again a lot? No, it was like I wanted to be in the relationship and I wanted to be monogous and I made that very clear to him and he kind of gaslighted me a lot of the relationship.
00:43:45
TinaAnd >> when you say gaslighted you, how so? um like he would lie to me about certain things that he did or like he would
00:43:54
Tinaportray things to me and like make it seem like we were in a relationship but would also like under his breath be like well we're not together so it doesn't
00:44:05
Brian Atlasmatter what I do. >> My confusion here though is you yourself have characterized it as a situationship. >> No, it was I knew that after question
00:44:16
Brian Atlasthough. Yeah. So during the course of the five to six years you were with him, while you were with him, would you have characterized it as a situationship?
00:44:28
Tina>> I think I didn't really know what a situationship was. So I like I knew that we didn't have a label on it, but I very much wanted to be committed to him and be with him, >> but he didn't obviously want the same in
00:44:42
Brian Atlasreturn. >> And did he make this known to you during the course of the relationship? Yeah, he did. I would say he did. >> Okay. And then at any point during the
00:44:51
Tinarelationship, did he refer to you as his girlfriend? >> Between me and him, he would, but like on the outside, no. He definitely it was
00:45:03
Brian Atlasjust, "Oh, this is my friend." >> So he would at at some points he did overtly refer to you, explicitly refer to you as girlfriend. >> Yes.
00:45:14
Brian Atlas>> Okay. And however, you guys also had explicit overt conversations about like it doesn't sound like he actually
00:45:26
Brian Atlasverbalized that he would be monogous. Is that correct? >> Yeah. >> At no point. >> Yeah. Pretty much. Not pretty much. >> So he was over he was overt in saying he basically wanted it to be
00:45:39
Brian Atlasan open relationship. >> Yes. >> Okay. Were during this course of time were you dating other men during the five to six years? >> No. >> At any point? >> No. >> Even short term? >> No, I was not. >> So you you were loyal to him.
00:45:53
Brian Atlas>> Yes. >> However, he was not loyal to you. Is that correct? >> Yes. >> Okay. My confusion though
00:46:02
Brian Atlasis exactly how he gaslit you because I understand that you wanted commitment and perhaps it's a sucky thing that he
00:46:11
Brian Atlasdidn't want the same. However, up uh frustrating as it may be, it seems like he did tell you what the
00:46:23
Brian Atlasdeal was. He did say, and you might say, "Well, that's wrong, objectionable." But he doesn't sound like he lied. He did say, "I'm not going to commit to you."
00:46:34
Tina>> On the outside, looking at like after the fact, and I'm older now, so I understand it more. And yes, that is true. But when I was actually actively in the situation and going through the
00:46:46
Tinarelationship, I was young and dumb and I thought that I could change a man and make him be faithful and who I wanted him to be. And now I understand that you can't do that. like a man brings to the table what he wants to bring to the
00:47:00
Brian Atlastable. You can't >> force him to be any type of way. >> Okay. And just curious um from what age to what age did you date him? >> Oo 21 22 to >> Okay. >> at 27.
00:47:12
Tina>> Had you had relationships prior? >> Yeah, I did. >> And were you boyfriend girlfriend in those relationships? >> Yeah, we were. Well, you said sorry. 21 to 20.
00:47:23
Brian Atlas>> I would say like 22 to 27 because I have my son at 28. >> Okay. Well, I mean, 22, you're still on the younger side, but it's not exactly
00:47:35
Brian AtlasI don't know if we can defer to na navite entirely here, but um I don't know if I agree with your gaslighting character
00:47:46
Brian Atlascharacterization, um at least the way you've described it. Perhaps it's the case, but as you've explained it thus far, I don't know if I uh >> It's just cuz we would go out and we would do things that you do in a normal
00:47:59
Tinarelationship. Like we would take vacations together, we would go to dinner together. like I've met his son, I've met his mom, and >> maybe not gaslighting, but that's what
00:48:10
Brian Atlasit felt like to me during >> I don't think we can always assume though that just because you engage in certain activities with somebody you're, you know, spending time with that it
00:48:22
Brian Atlaswould necessarily infer that you're in a relationship. I understand how it could potentially be confusing. Um, you know, I've heard this complaint from many women. and they say, "Well, he introduced me to his parent." Okay, maybe the introduction to the parents
00:48:36
Brian Atlasthing. >> I can probably get on board with that. That's like >> I don't know. That's probably like >> can probably lead somebody on a little bit, you know, but I don't know like going out to dinner,
00:48:48
Brian Atlas>> going on vacations. You could do that with somebody who's like >> friends with >> you're it's like more casual. Um but uh Okay, question though. the guy you ended up having a kid with.
00:49:02
Tina>> Yes. >> Uh, how long were you seeing him? >> Uh, we weren't seeing each other. We would just like hook up off and on. Okay. Like before the situationship and then >> the situationship kind of really [ __ ]
00:49:14
Tiname up mentally or messed me up mentally, sorry. Um, and I was just on a drinking bender drinking a lot of Hennessy and one day,
00:49:25
Tina>> yes, it gets you it good ways or bad ways. And one day we just ended up happening. I took a plan B too because I was not trying to be like that. Like I didn't want a kid with him. But God had
00:49:37
Brian Atlasmuch different plans. >> Life finds a way. Um >> so wait. Um >> young dumb and come. >> That was a that was so good.
00:49:49
Brian Atlas>> Good job. You made a funny Aelia. >> Thank you. >> All right. Um, so but how soon into like knowing uh a baby daddy I guess?
00:50:02
Brian Atlas>> How soon into knowing him did you get pregnant? >> Oh, I knew him for like seven years, eight years. >> Well, but you guys hadn't been Wait, hold on. >> Cuz we hooked up. >> Was he friends with your ex?
00:50:14
Tina>> Okay. No, >> but you were Okay. We were just hooking up off and on like just randomly literally before the situationship >> and then after relationship. >> Okay. >> This was a backup guy. >> Um
00:50:28
Brian Atlas>> like a recycler. >> Yeah. >> Wait question. >> You can say that. >> So before the five to six year situationship you had already hooked up with >> baby daddy. >> Yes.
00:50:39
Brian Atlas>> And then but then during the course of situationship he was completely out of the picture. >> Yes. >> Would you guys talk though? Uh, no. >> No, because he had a he had like a girlfriend or whatever other
00:50:51
Brian Atlas>> I see. Gotcha. Um, but so then you got back with him sort of or were hanging out with him. >> How soon into the second time hanging out with him, reconnecting did you get pregnant?
00:51:02
Brian Atlas>> Like two months? >> Two months in. Okay. >> Like that's when you knew you were pregnant or when you think you got pregnant cuz like doesn't it take a couple weeks like six >> six to eight before you start?
00:51:14
Tina>> No. I could count to the to the time that it happened when I got pregnant. Like a a month into it hap or after it happened, I already knew I was pregnant
00:51:25
Brian Atlascuz my I was just so regular and I have an app and stuff like that. So I knew exactly this the day that it happened. >> So and that day that you that you got uh
00:51:37
Brian Atlaspregnant was two months in. >> Yeah. About two months. Yeah. And how soon after the end of the situationship did you reconnect with baby daddy? >> Um right away or
00:51:49
Brian Atlas>> like a month. So yeah, kind of right away. >> Okay. So about 2 to 3 months after the end of five to six year situationship pregnant with uh friends with benefits Kai.
00:52:02
Tina>> Yes. >> Okay. Now did he want to have the kid? He didn't. And I actually gave him the option to not to like sign his rights away because I while I do believe in
00:52:13
Tinaabortion, I knew that God gave the baby to me for a reason. You know, I needed love that I didn't have and I never got as a child. So, I wanted to keep it for
00:52:24
Tinamyself. And the whole 9 10 months of pregnancy, even up to actually right after I had birth, I gave him the option, you can sign your rights away. You don't need to do this. I don't want
00:52:36
Tinaanything from you. If you want to be a part of it, be a part of it. >> Okay. Um, so did he sign his rights away or is he in the picture or >> No, he's in the picture. He's an active
00:52:48
Tinafather and he does what he can. >> Does he pay you child support? >> Um, he doesn't pay me. He pays the babysitter. >> Oh, he just pays the babysitter. >> Yeah. >> Okay. >> I'm full-time mom.
00:53:00
Tina>> Okay. Does he There's no courtmandated. >> He pays for child care. Yes. No court mandated. >> No, I don't I don't I don't want to go through the court system. I don't want Especially because I I know I make more money than him and after school I'm
00:53:14
Tinagoing to make more money than him. >> Okay. So, he would just get child support from me then. >> And the process is just so expensive to begin with. What you end up getting in the end doesn't even make it worth it. >> I don't want the government to tell me when I can and can't have my kid. Like,
00:53:25
Brian AtlasI want to make that decision myself. >> Sure. Okay. Um uh and uh you but now you're in a relationship. You've been in a relationship for one year. It's not the
00:53:36
Tinababy daddy. No. >> Uh is he like acting as a stepfather or >> Yes, actually he is a great a great stepdad. Um acts as honestly very present and my son loves him. Loves
00:53:50
Tinahim. >> Okay. Did you find it difficult dating having a kid and being a single mom? Yes, because I was worried about
00:54:01
Tinabringing people into the situation or around my son especially and you don't know people. You don't know how they are. Um but he it just it honestly it worked out. Everything worked out the
00:54:13
Brian Atlasway that it was supposed to. I'm very lucky cuz I know it doesn't happen like that. >> And um the the kid I don't know. I I'm just
00:54:25
Brian Atlascurious the has it presented because I I looked at your Instagram. Uh mixed race baby. >> Yes, he is. >> Has that ever been an issue for any people? Any people?
00:54:38
Brian Atlas>> Honestly, no. >> Any you know. Okay. >> Uh okay. All right. That's everybody's relationship status. We have a chat here from Eperis.
00:54:49
Brian AtlasKick her off, please. Your podcast is way above this. She is pathetic. Thank you, Eperis. Appreciate it. Thank you for that. We'll
00:55:00
Brian Atlassee what the rest of the show holds, but it's probably coming. All right. She already got the She already got the yellow card, so All right. Uh, we're going to just get
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Brian Atlasright into Actually, I need to get up here in just a moment. Uh, Pasty, are you in the chat? Are you in the chat, Pasty? I need to shout Pasty out here. Um,
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Brian Atlaslet me see if he's in the chat. Hey yo, Pasty, are you in the chat? Hey, Pasty George. >> Is this the Canadian? >> I want to see if I'm Yeah, I want to make sure. Oh, he's here. Yo, Pasty, you
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Brian Atlaswant me to do the unbox now or should we save it? >> Just write in the chat, Pasty. Um, >> unbox. >> You want me to unbox now or later? >> Just write in the chat. It's fine. I'm looking at it.
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Brian AtlasUm, oh, >> I want to see that comment. >> Pasty. Pasty George. >> Oh. Oh, we can't see. >> It's up to you. Yo, I'll do it in a little bit. I'll do in a little bit. But Pasty George, I'll just say this, guys.
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Brian AtlasSo, I don't know. Those of you might not know this. Uh, I It's episode three. I just started something called Whatever Wednesday. And then I just It's not as long typically as the dating talks, but
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Brian AtlasI just sit down. It's not a panel. And last week I had Felicity. The week before I had SA Cena Cena SA >> and it's just kind of like reacting to
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Brian Atlas[ __ ] on stream chatting with you guys. It's a little more chill whatever Wednesdays afternoons. Uh Py George though showed a lot of support on Wednesdays. So I he I got a little
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Brian Atlaspresent for myself. Hold on. It was kind of like where is it? One sec. Uh, >> congrats to me, boy.
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Brian Atlas>> Grats me. Grats me. Thank you, Pacy George. Man, you're a legend. All right, let's see here. We're going to get into the some of the pre-show notes here in just a sec. You know what, though? I do need to get up momentarily. So,
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Brian AtlasFelicity, what what I'm going to have you do is um ask this one and then this one, and I should be back. One sec, guys. I'll be right back.
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FelicityHi. >> Hi. >> Where is it? >> It's right there. >> Oh, sorry. >> Right. >> I'm used to it being under. Okay, guys. I have a question. What would you want the minimum yearly income to be for your
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Clairefuture husband starting with you? >> I said 96,000. >> Okay. What about you? >> I said like six figures, like a 100,000. >> Okay. What about you? I put 75,000.
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Ailia Purr>> What about you? >> I put 10 million. >> Oh my god. >> Why? >> Well, because like rich daddy things. Like I don't want no broky absorbing my energy. So I said 10 million. That
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Ailia Purrsounds like a In this generation, 18-year-olds are making 10 million. So I don't see why this dude can't make 10 million. >> How many 18-year-old >> Can you name Can you name at least two >> that are 18 years old >> that you actually know? >> Where do you live? >> Crypto boys.
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Ailia Purr>> Okay. >> Where do I live? I live in Los Angeles. >> Okay. >> In West Hollywood. >> You said crypto men. >> Yeah. The crypto boys. They've been making hella big. >> How old are they? >> Yeah. >> Probably like 18, like 24.
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Ailia Purr>> You're saying probably. Do you know two 18-year-old crypto boys that make $10 million a year? >> Yeah. That one kid, Mumm, he made like what, like 300 million off of crypto? >> Like in a year.
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Felicity>> He did. He made that in like in a year. >> Do you know how? >> Well, he did scam. Well, he did scam. So, he did scam. That's like a really rare really
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Ailia Purr>> anything sky's the limit. >> That's like top 1%. >> You interact with them? >> Yeah, I've seen some of their like little crypto schemes. I don't know if it seems cool.
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Ailia Purr>> Like dated any of them or >> like one of them? Yeah. But like did you date date or did you just like >> we just like casually date it? Like culturally culturally? >> Culturally like hookup culturally date it.
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Ailia Purr>> Okay. So you just like >> had sex with them? >> Yeah. We just like brazed each other. >> Oh my god. Are you guys trying to get married? >> He didn't. >> Me? >> No. No. >> You don't make 10 million.
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Ailia Purr>> No, I do not. Um >> maybe you do. You're just not telling us. I mean, the Bob House girls what? Sophie Rain made like >> I don't even know >> $56 million in like the span of a year. Like,