Did She CHEAT?! Men Make ZERO Effort?! They DEMAND Trad Men BUT Are THEY Trad?! | Dating Talk #217
Date: 2024-12-02
Duration: 9h 44m
Guests
Brian AtlasIdentified Speakers
SPEAKER_04TTS Voice(audience)
SPEAKER_06Andrew Wilson(guest)
SPEAKER_09Madison(guest)
SPEAKER_12Alexis(guest)
SPEAKER_13Female Panel (mixed)(guest)
SPEAKER_14Brian Atlas(host)
Key Moments
00:05:03
QuoteMadison says she hooks up with Rogue's polyamorous boyfriend: 'I play with Madison's husband all the time and it's different than when I play with my own partner'
“I play with Madison's husband all the time”
00:23:59
QuoteSienna/Rogue defends OnlyFans economics: 'You could get so much for $200 on OnlyFans' (in response to $200 TTS saying 'delete your OF accounts')
“you donated $200 just to say that and like you could get so much for $200 on off”
00:39:43
ControversyAndrew Wilson cites 2011 study: gonorrhea rates among adult performers are 64x higher than general population and 18x higher than LA County residents aged 18-29
“just as of 2011 just to just to tell you um the studies found that goria rates alone were 64 times higher than the general population and 18 18 times higher than Los Angeles County”
01:14:17
Key MomentBrian presents the 'McDonald's vs five-star restaurant' analogy for sex: men who just want casual sex from women take them to five-star restaurants, while men who truly like a woman go 50/50, paralleling women making relationship men wait while sleeping quickly with hookups
“all the exes all the the guy all his exes uh got five star meals but uh and no change in financial status uh she gets McDonald's”
01:45:59
QuoteAndrew Wilson: 'You can't unsuck a dick' — on the irreversibility of high body count and its effect on male attraction
“there's an old proverb um you can't unsuck a dick right”
01:52:09
QuoteBrian Atlas: 'Men are not vending machines in a similar way where you put sex tokens into and you get a relationship out of them'
“men are not vending machines in a similar way where you put sex tokens into and you get a relationship out of them”
02:28:03
OtherSelf-ratings round: Rogue 7-8, Maya 9, Sienna 3.5 (very candid about weight), Kiki 7, Melissa 10 (banter about non-corrective glasses), Madison 8 (7.5-8), Giana 9, Andrew 10
02:28:37
QuoteSienna rates herself 3.5: 'I truly believe I am a 3.5 and I have had um sexual relations with someone that was um more attractive and that doesn't inflate my ego'
“I believe I am a 3.5 and I have had um sexual relations with with someone that was um you know I guess what would you say out of do they say out of your league”
03:26:03
Key MomentBrian pulls up his ex-girlfriend's bow video — she greets him with food and performs a deep bow. Extended panel reaction; Brian explains he trained her to bow deeper over time.
“this was after a long I took this video was after a long day at the podcast Studio my expectation is like she has to hit a bow”
03:42:50
ControversyAndrew Wilson presents the chivalry-virtue exchange argument: 'If you expect the code of chivalry — why in the hell should any man ever extend that if there's no chastity and virtue in exchange?'
“if there's not the Chastity and the Purity and The Virtue aspect for women why in the hell should any man ever ever in a million years extend the code of chivalry”
04:13:51
QuoteBrian on the office clip analogy: 'Lead me — lead me when I'm in the mood to be led' — describing women wanting leadership from men but only conditionally
“Lead Me lead me when I'm in the mood to be led”
04:52:27
Key MomentBrian shows video of his ex-girlfriend bowing to him when he comes home — 'bow boom, huge bow'
“bow boom huge bow you see that look at the bow look at the depth”
06:35:00
ControversyRacism/white privilege debate: Andrew argues that systems which say minority groups can't be racist toward white people create their own systemic problem. Cites Barbary slave trade of Europeans, Irish oppression, Italian oppression.
07:56:23
QuoteBrian reveals his BLM (Big Labia Matter) Instagram post was mistaken for Black Lives Matter by a girl he was about to date — she cancelled the date thinking he hadn't posted a black square
“she thought it was black Liv matter but it was the big laia thing”
08:21:45
QuoteBrian reveals his father was born in Algeria, North Africa — making him 'technically African-American.' Extended banter with panel about this.
“my dad was born in North Africa in uh Algeria technically I'm African-American”
09:39:53
OtherGiana performs a spider/backbend contortion move on the floor at the end of the show — panel is amazed. She is a trained contortionist (mother is gymnastics teacher).
“okay okay make sure you can or you want me to move this huh go okay you're good wait you're doing it”
Topics Discussed
00:02:23
Guest Introductions
Brian introduces panel and each guest states their name, age, location, occupation, and relationship status in turn. Rogue (32, Reno, OnlyFans/pole/radiology), Maya (24, CA/Michigan, OnlyFans), Sienna (21, Torrance, student), Kiki (20, LA, digital marketing student), Melissa (23, LA, social media), Madison (35, SF, married/OnlyFans/Pilates), Alexis (23, LA, flight attendant/bartender), Giana (18, LA, model).
00:06:20
Relationship Status Round
Panel discusses current and past relationships. Rogue is polyamorous with 4-year boyfriend. Maya single 2 years. Sienna single 3 weeks (just ended 2.5yr relationship with fentanyl addict). Kiki in new 1-month relationship from LA Fashion Week. Melissa single 1 month. Madison married 17 years (high school sweethearts, swingers). Alexis single 1 month (4yr relationship ended). Giana single 3 years.
00:25:00
OnlyFans and Sex Work Debate
Extended debate between Andrew Wilson and Madison/Rogue about whether OnlyFans/sex work is harmful to society. Andrew argues it's harmful based on STD rates, trafficking, degradation of marriage values. Madison and Rogue defend it. Discussion of STD testing in the industry vs. general population, sampling bias in studies. Andrew cites 2011 gonorrhea study showing 64x higher rates among performers.
00:51:40
Domestic Violence and Divorce History
Panel discusses whether low historical divorce rates masked higher domestic violence. Andrew argues battery was always illegal. Madison argues many women were trapped and unreported. Debate over falsifiability of 'it was just underreported' arguments.
00:58:20
When Women Have Sex: Fast vs. Slow
Long discussion about women having sex quickly with casual hookups but making 'relationship material' men wait. Brian presents the analogy of men paying more for dates for casual encounters but less (going 50/50) for women they actually like. Panel largely acknowledges the pattern. Andrew draws parallel to make Brian's point. Madison defends her first-night hookup that led to 17 years.
01:14:10
Vasodepression/Oxytocin and Hookup Science
Discussion of oxytocin (bonding hormone in women after sex) and vasodepression in men (buildup creating chase drive, release causing post-nut clarity). Guest argues this explains why making men wait can increase their interest.
01:56:40
Body Count and Virgin Preference
Long debate about whether high body count decreases women's relationship prospects. Andrew argues it limits the pool of quality men. Rogue argues polyamorous Chad wouldn't care. Discussion of whether men prefer virgins, loyalty threshold theory, and whether women are sabotaging themselves by advocating for promiscuity.
02:48:20
Self-Ratings Round
Guests rate their physical appearance 1-10. Rogue: 7-8. Maya: 9. Sienna: 3.5 (very honest, says she needs to lose weight). Kiki: 7 (17 is her favorite number). Melissa: 10 (causes extended banter; Brian removes her non-corrective glasses). Madison: 8 (7.5-8). Giana: 9 (gave 9 last time too). Andrew: 10. Brian teases everyone.
03:10:00
Age Photo Reaction
Brian pulls up old photos of panel members and has guests react/rate them. Extended banter about looking different without glasses.
03:19:00
MGK Fan Groping Video
Panel reacts to viral video of a married woman groping Machine Gun Kelly at a meet-and-greet while her husband watches. Debate about whether the husband was a 'cuck,' whether the hug was inappropriate, and whether she would sleep with MGK if given a pass. Panel is largely critical of the woman's behavior.
03:48:20
Courting Standards and Chivalry
Kiki raises topic of men not wanting to put in effort (not picking girls up, not planning dates). Extended debate about whether chivalry is dead and why. Andrew argues chivalry was tied to female chastity/virtue — if women aren't virtuous, why should men be chivalrous? Discussion of whether women should take husband's last name, who should pay on first date, submissiveness in relationships, traditional gender roles.
04:08:20
Traditional Gender Roles and Submission Debate
Extended debate spanning multiple hours about whether women should be submissive in relationships, whether traditional roles are valid, and hypocrisy of wanting traditional male behavior without reciprocal female behavior. Andrew presents argument that virtue is non-transactional. Brian creates 'The Office' clip analogy about wanting to be led only when in the mood.
04:41:40
DEI and Women in the Workforce
Debate about whether DEI initiatives are justified, whether women were historically oppressed in education, and whether women gravitate toward the same occupations as 200 years ago. Andrew cites Nordic Nations and Jordan Peterson on gender roles. Discussion of female architects designing more functional houses.
04:58:20
Dating Apps vs Meeting in Person
Sienna asks where to meet high-quality men outside of apps. Brian advises approaching in person (campus, activities). Discussion of social anxiety and how being fit helps. Sienna is candid about being overweight and needing to work on herself first.
06:15:00
Can You Be Racist Toward White People
Extended debate about the definition of racism. Alexis argues you cannot be racist toward white people (racism = prejudice + power). Brian presents Barack Obama hypothetical and Obama refusing to hire white janitor. Andrew challenges 'prejudice + power' definition using various examples including the Barbary slave trade. Various guests weigh in.
06:35:00
White Privilege and Systemic Racism
Continuation of racism debate. White privilege discussion — whether it's universal or only applicable to specific white groups (Irish, Italians, etc. weren't considered 'white'). Sienna (half Middle Eastern/El Salvadorian) discusses her perspective. Andrew argues that systems which say certain groups can't be racist create a systemic problem themselves.
08:06:40
Roast Session and Wrap-Up
Chat TTS donations come in roasting the panel. Discussion of Amber Heard's mathematical beauty, Elon Musk as potential date, McKenzie Scott. Brian admits his dad is from Algeria (North Africa) making him technically 'African-American.' Giana performs contortion backbend demo. Final TTS reads and show wrap-up.
Transcript
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05:43:34
Brian Atlasif if you want to have a baby and the dad does not want to be a dad he should be able to opt out yeah but they can't and you as a woman can take away his bodily autonomy by going to the state by going to the court or going to like some
05:43:46
Brian Atlasgovernment agency and saying I want child support and then he has to labor for 18 years or sometimes beyond that depending on the state and then you can force
05:43:57
Brian Atlashim otherwise they take not only can you compel him to labor you can also uh the state can then put him in prison if he fails to pay child support I mean I'm
05:44:10
Female Panel (mixed)not saying there's bad sorry oh no go ahead I'm not saying there's bad situations where like also women don't just like get Knocked Up on purpose for reason like obviously that does happen but I feel like I just see it where it's like it's just so common for there to be like I I feel like I can't speak on this
05:44:23
Female Panel (mixed)like I don't have any kids and also like I don't have a single mother but I just thought it was like I don't know I feel like that's like a reoccurring pattern I see it's also the same men that are talking about women bowing to them and women being submissive yet they don't show up for their kids isn't your whole
05:44:35
Brian Atlasrole to like you know where are you drawing these like totally am I is that a crazy comparison have you ever first off you said oh it's these men who like demand women to Bow have you ever heard a guy wanting a
05:44:47
Female Panel (mixed)girl to Bow until you met me tonight no but I'm talking about yeah you've never so why are you saying like oh all these men who want like women to Bow no but like not just like in a literal bow sense but like in a mental sense in a mental sense I feel like that's not a crazy comparison you want to be dominant
05:45:00
Female Panel (mixed)and all that stuff but then the second it involves like you know you want to be the leader of the household but the second you actually have to lead people that you opt out what yeah yes listen the second you have to lead you
05:45:13
Female Panel (mixed)know not just your woman whatever but like children be the leader of the household that's that's when you draw the line I'll be the leader of like that [ __ ] but like I'm not going to like actually lead the household I this I don't even think this
05:45:25
Brian Atlasis particularly compelling you'd have to actually provide some sort of evidence that it's the case that men who are just to be clear so is your position men who are more traditional are less likely
05:45:38
Brian Atlasthan liberal Progressive no that's not what I said at all that is not what I said at all you're you're doing like a uh you're making a compare and contrast so do you think uh traditional men are
05:45:50
Female Panel (mixed)more or less likely to step up in the event of like a pregnancy more okay so what's your argument I'm just kind of talking about themes that I've seen I literally once again throwing topics out there but I've
05:46:02
Brian Atlasseen that theme a lot going back to this so you're saying well dead be dads like terrible terrible um you would have to also just say that uh abortion is bad too then
05:46:12
Female Panel (mixed)right I I don't think it's a good or bad thing I'm pro-choice but I don't think it's like a glorified thing I don't think anybody does it's a sad choice that has to be made sometimes the majority of abortions are not like for
05:46:25
Brian Atlasthe life of the mother they're not for like saay they're not for um like incest typically most of these women are just irresponsible when uh an accident happens like most abortions
05:46:35
Female Panel (mixed)occur for I think it's a really sad situation I think that's why you know like birth control should be super accessible I'm fine with that yeah but the reality is when it comes to abortion most of these women are just
05:46:47
Brian Atlasgetting abortions just they got knocked up like there was no essay there's no incest there's no like there's no risk to her life they well that's also like another they just want these women just
05:46:57
Female Panel (mixed)want to escape responsibility just like men are trying to escape responsibility well maybe it's just kind of like you know just like a sad situation that's happening like all around I'm not saying it's like bad to
05:47:10
Female Panel (mixed)get an abortion at all like things happen but I'm just saying like I don't know I the same way you're talking about like people being more traditional and such it's like well maybe there is like truth to like you know being a little bit more intentional
05:47:24
Female Panel (mixed)with what you do and like me also like correcting my past mistakes and such like I don't know so if you're saying okay so if we
05:47:34
Female Panel (mixed)take out the if we take out the essay because obviously with everyone here we know that that's not you know right and that's it's disgusting and then if we
05:47:43
Female Panel (mixed)take out the incest and take out that if the person say is like oh my good go raw oh my good cuz and but she doesn't have any birth control or anything and then they're not using like I believe that
05:47:56
Female Panel (mixed)that shouldn't be encouraged I believe that both people should know the consequence that most likely also there's pre-come as well so like you know I think that at least one of them
05:48:08
Female Panel (mixed)if they're not if they don't want to have a baby at that time and they're not expecting it and they just want to have fun I think that at least one of them should have protection if not two sure I
05:48:18
Brian Atlastotally agree but I guess the point I'm trying to make here is that as a woman when it comes to uh I guess bodily autonomy and control here so I guess
05:48:30
Brian Atlasthings are changing a little bit just because what state you're in but you can always go to like a state where abortion is legal so as a woman I'm sure you would all agree like you'd totally be fine with perhaps abortion doesn't even
05:48:42
Brian Atlasneed a reason but for example would you say that abortion would be acceptable if the woman isn't ready acceptable I mean I think it would like rip me apart on the inside emotionally for sure but acceptable acceptable reason to get an
05:48:55
Female Panel (mixed)abortion yes I also think there's an added thing of pregnancy rather than just taking care of the child for 18 years and paying for
05:49:05
Brian Atlasthe child whatever yeah as if that's not a big deal but um will we both do that though I'll come well I'll come to that in just a moment but okay so what about he the guy's not financially ready or
05:49:18
Female Panel (mixed)sorry excuse me the woman's not financially ready to have a child is that pretext for getting an abortion is that right so we're talking about like they didn't protect
05:49:27
Brian Atlasthemselves either way then she's she's abortion she's not ready in my opinion she's not financially ready okay yeah that's so those sorts of decisions are
05:49:39
Brian Atlasonly decisions the woman has once the woman's pregnant the man has no like he can't escape from his uh he can't escape because like if a guy were to tell you
05:49:51
Brian Atlasoh I'm not financially ready I'm just not emotionally ready I'm not ready to be a father tough luck 18-year-old kid you're going to be on the hook for
05:50:01
Brian Atlaschild support for 18 years that's going to entail your losing your bodily autonomy because then you're going to have to work you're going to be siphoning part of your income to the The Woman by the way there's absolutely no
05:50:14
Brian Atlaschecks and balances when it comes to what the woman can spend child support on she can spend it on things that are not related at all to child support in addition to this if you don't pay the child support or you're late or you're just you hit a financial straight she
05:50:26
Brian Atlascan then go to the court or the court will just on it on its own behest can put this man in prison or jail for failing to pay child support taking away his body aomy
05:50:40
Brian Atlasso that's true that that's actually a a law yeah as a woman you get pregnant no I know I'm saying that the people can be put in prison for not paying support yes so when it comes to this uh oh the the
05:50:52
Brian Atlasman has no say the woman can go to the court can go to a government agency hey I'm pregnant or I have a kid I want child support I'm owed child support I deserve Child Support I'm going to get
05:51:05
Brian Atlaschild support she's going to get it the man can't say I don't want to pay nope you have to pay and then if he if he fails to pay he's going to start having to pay interest on what he's owed if
05:51:15
Brian Atlashe's unable to pay it then there's uh then he can it doesn't happen immediately but if he starts getting far enough behind not only is there going to be interest applied they're going to throw them in jail for failing to pay
05:51:26
Brian Atlaschild support it's a crime in fact we've done away we've recognized as a society that uh you can't it's bad to put people in jail when it comes to debts we've
05:51:36
Brian Atlasdone away with deor prisons except for one child support and and this is like 99% of people when it comes to child support it's the man paying to the woman and
05:51:49
Female Panel (mixed)when it comes to getting thrown in in jail it's like 99% men I mean I it's a really difficult situation I know someone who didn't pay their child support for a while and they
05:52:00
Female Panel (mixed)never got thrown in jail is there like what's how long is it how long is the dur happens from tangential things so okay suspend your license um I know he
05:52:11
Female Panel (mixed)could leave the country sorry well well I mean if he if he lives out of the country then how would he be jailed no no I I meant he I know he could not leave the country that yeah there's all sorts of there's all
05:52:22
Andrew Wilsonsorts of penalties which are imposed on you for the lack of payment and so if you picked up on any of these these things like you're just driving down the street and your license has been revoked going to jail so like it's it's stuff
05:52:34
Brian Atlaslike that oh I didn't know yeah I mean it depends on the Juris jurisdiction excuse me depends on like geographical there's different laws in
05:52:44
Brian Atlasdifferent uh States different cities Etc but I mean ultimately um and also like if a woman's not like really making much complainant uh you know then it's
05:52:55
Brian Atlasperhaps less likely sometimes but I mean if she's like actually actively pursuing it in the court system and the court system my understanding is they get some sort of cut from the child support so it's also in the the agencies or the
05:53:08
Brian AtlasCourt's interest and actually like making sure they collect like as a woman you don't really have to like Chase down the dude like the court and these government agencies are really good at like chasing dudes down they're going to
05:53:20
Andrew Wilsongarnish your wages they're going to do all as much as they can so that they get the money and then yeah and if they have a show cause for why you haven't paid and you don't show up it's a contempt of court so there's like there's all sorts
05:53:33
Andrew Wilsonof of different things which are associative to support the thing is is that the system itself yes there are uh dead be dads there's no doubt who refuse to pay support because they don't want
05:53:45
Andrew Wilsonanything to do with their kids that's that's true right and that burden shouldn't shift on to the taxpayer but by that same metric if a woman decides that she wants to have a child it's her
05:53:55
Andrew Wilsonbody her choice and so she goes off and has the child and the man doesn't want it then how he can be stuck on the hook uh is beyond me that seems like an additional privilege a woman gets to
05:54:07
Andrew Wilsonmake that choice but a man has to pay for that choice and that's that's where the fundamental unfairness comes in right I do have to move it on but we have a chat here from L palins can you read
05:54:19
Female Panel (mixed)this liberal Progressive men are more likely to have leaked homosexual tapes good conservative men are literally just blocked and filtered out of dating apps
05:54:31
Female Panel (mixed)before they even get to meet you I don't know wasn't like uh grinder um the uh grinder website like crashed when there was conservative groups going
05:54:42
Brian Atlasinto like cities wasn't that like a thing or am I wrong I'm going to move it on though um uh okay getting into the questionnaires would you rather cross paths with a man or bear I have to wait until I have to wait until she's back
05:54:56
Brian AtlasI'm going to get into the different notes Here let me see what we have um okay hold on uh do we have a Sienna that's you okay um let's see
05:55:08
Brian Atlashere um uh hold on I'll go to someone else really
05:55:17
Brian Atlasquick uh oh Alyssa that's you right who's Alysa oh oh that's
05:55:25
Female Panel (mixed)you uh your ex did what sent what to what oh Lord chat this is a good story time okay so I was with the guy for 2
05:55:35
Female Panel (mixed)years years this is not my most recent ex um in the first year we were dating he had accident accidentally sent a dick pick to my eldest sister on
05:55:48
Female Panel (mixed)Snapchat yeah it was an accident quote unquote so you know we were all cool um they had a streak that's this is back when Snapchat was cool so we all had streaks um and is this fentanyl no no no
05:56:01
Brian Atlasthis is not him this is somebody else okay was it like meth X or do you have no no any of your other ex's like drug addicts or okay just checking it was just the one yeah of course um so yeah
05:56:13
Female Panel (mixed)he said he accidentally sent a dickpic to my sister on Snapchat he was just in the mirror it wasn't like a full like penis in hand it was like a mirror pick when he had his towel wrapped around him
05:56:25
Female Panel (mixed)allegedly and it was just a little peen like sticking out in the picture you so she told me obviously that this had happened and
05:56:36
Female Panel (mixed)we had a little conversation about it he said it was an accident so you know we laughed it off like never let this [ __ ] happen again um and then that was that a year later now I live with him out of
05:56:47
Female Panel (mixed)state and my other sister calls me and says your man is weirding me out mind you she had not known about the first situation it was embarrassing enough already I didn't want the whole family I have two two sisters I didn't want the
05:56:59
Female Panel (mixed)whole family to know oh my God he sent a dickpic to my eldest sister so sister second sister calls me and and says your man is weirding me out and I say why at this point I'm staring him in
05:57:10
Female Panel (mixed)the eye like why why is she telling me this right now and she said she woke up she was checking Snapchat as usual and she a dick just popped up another one
05:57:20
Female Panel (mixed)another dick another dick yeah well same dick but picture same dick and and he says that this was an accident and swears up and down it was an accident
05:57:30
Female Panel (mixed)maybe he was I don't think that's something you can do twice I don't think so either unless he's just going on the are you a middle child are you middle child yeah I saw that uh and so you have
05:57:43
Brian Atlasone younger sister one older no no I have two older sisters and two younger brothers oh okay I thought you were in between the two sisters okay um parents still together no okay wait so do you
05:57:55
Female Panel (mixed)have steps yes my two older sisters are half sisters I'm the eldest of my two youngest Brothers we have the so you're bi you're full bio with the Bro with the Bros yeah full biological okay okay all right uh
05:58:09
Brian Atlasso did after you guys broke up did he try to [ __ ] your sisters no oh no he just just accidentally sent it you don't accident you don't accidentally sent down the row there's no way you're just
05:58:21
Female Panel (mixed)clicking and send was an accident then he was still doing it to multip he was saying that he should be more careful when he was going to click it instead of being quick snap and scent and I'm like
05:58:31
Female Panel (mixed)why is he snapping your sisters anyway so we were all cool we all had Snapchat snap Snapchat streaks does this infer by the way that he often sent you dick pics no and that's the thing didn't
05:58:44
Female Panel (mixed)even get them I I well the dick was always with me so I didn't really rude that's fair the dick the dick was already she already had dick there had the dick I still want to see it I miss it sometimes give it to me who did he
05:58:56
Female Panel (mixed)say he was accident I know he said he's accidentally sending him but who was he claiming they were met for fair question that's the thing I asked the same thing I was like okay so if you weren't sending my sister's dickpics who were
05:59:07
Female Panel (mixed)you sending dickpics to but it was genuinely he didn't mean to put his penis in the photo is what didn't mean to so is what he what is you really didn't mean to aim it down and be like
05:59:20
Female Panel (mixed)this is what he said to me this that was what that was his claim I left the only reason somebody would have that claim if it was Madison's husband that's the only reason that would be valid and that would make sense kind of large and
05:59:31
Female Panel (mixed)always why did he just be honest I don't know that's really wow oh my God I'm sorry it's okay did you really like
05:59:42
Female Panel (mixed)him I mean when I was in it yes but like after you send my sister's dick God that's so weird is crazy my um my mom has a twin and my dad went on a date
05:59:52
Female Panel (mixed)with my mom's twin first whoa I know oh I thought like on accident there's a picture there's a picture of my dad holding my mom's twin and my mom on a date they went on a double date and my
06:00:05
Andrew Wilsonmom like getting held by some other guy it's not my dad they lit just whoa did I mean the obvious question everybody's wondering right
06:00:14
Andrew Wilsonhe's like did he did he twin no no no oh but that's a big fail no I'm kidding I'm kidding I'm joking I'm joking they
06:00:26
Brian Atlasshould add three that's all the degeneracy I had in me for the evening all right I just thought it was funny okay I thought it was funny so uh we got two chats GI if you want to
06:00:38
Female Panel (mixed)read this one L paladins thank you man it's not just child support women will be threatened threatened with being cut off from welfare like free insurance or
06:00:48
Brian Atlaswiic if she doesn't tell the government who the father is that is good point very good point La paladins um there's kind of incentive there on that
06:00:58
Brian Atlascomponent uh and if she even if she doesn't want child support if she goes and app appes for those programs
06:01:07
Brian Atlaswelfare uh healthare Medicaid or whatever it's called um the government even if she's not trying to get child child support the government's going to
06:01:17
Brian Atlasbe like you got a kid you do okay we're going after child support so um that is another concern thank you and then this one from L Palin ladies get the heck off Snapchat literally the only reason to
06:01:29
Female Panel (mixed)have that up on your phone unless you're trying to cheat literally no one no other reason and don't ever just a man who has Snapchat too is is that the the stigma with Snapchat yeah especially when you're getting when you're out of
06:01:42
Female Panel (mixed)high school it's like at least for me now when I hear if a guy like actively uses it I'm like and then asks me for it first I'm like it's just kind of a turnoff so I'm just like and we're also not having it's childish cuz on I want
06:01:54
Female Panel (mixed)to go on I want to have at least their Instagram so like I can send them memes and get them know get to know their humor we can just have conversation but they just want to instantly just like send photos be like what you look like
06:02:04
Female Panel (mixed)yeah uh Alyssa you said you think women should prioritize individual growth over relationships especially young women yeah I feel like you need to um work on
06:02:15
Female Panel (mixed)yourself love yourself fully before you you can love someone else I agree absolutely I agree okay uh you also perhaps this is going to further establish your how do you know when you
06:02:26
Female Panel (mixed)love yourself though just having a sense of confidence and being firm in who you are and knowing what you can provide for the
06:02:35
Brian Atlasother person person and how you can have a healthy foundation in Partnership okay uh you said dating is exhausting I'm not really looking for someone to provide for me 100% I don't need someone to pay
06:02:46
Brian Atlasall my bills and I personally don't put those expectations on men aside from the first date I guess first uh you're eventually looking for a partnership someone who is motivated and passionate
06:02:58
Brian Atlasabout their own personal growth and how we can come together to create a health healthy Foundation
06:03:07
Brian AtlasFant okay that was poetic when you read it was really awesome yeah you want to read it no um you said it's hard to find people who are actively working on themselves or working towards something to benefit them in the future and a lot
06:03:20
Brian Atlasof people lack emotional intelligence or honestly just intelligence in general I don't need someone to pay uh all my bills oh okay I agree yeah mhm wait
06:03:31
Brian Atlasquestion would you guys um would you prer so you meet a guy who's like great guy whatever um and
06:03:42
Brian Atlashe's really financially well off great paying job he makes enough where you will never have to work would you prefer
06:03:51
Brian Atlasthat over like you boss babing it up and like kind of both of you working at the same time and like putting the kids but he wants you to like stay home take care
06:04:01
Brian Atlasof the kids whatever uh or you boss bab it up and you have kids but you're going to get like daycare or Nanny we'll start with you then I'll open it up to the
06:04:11
Female Panel (mixed)rest I think um initially when I if I have a kid um it would be nice to stay at home for a while and have a little bit of a grace period there but eventually I'm going to want to boss it
06:04:22
Female Panel (mixed)up and do my own thing I don't want to ever have to rely on a man 100% for anything um and you uh how many kids do you want not sure okay but so let's say it's two
06:04:35
Brian Atlasright okay so you said you'd want to initially like how about until they're in kindergarten would you want to stay home for 5 years well that's for one kid I guess um 5 years seems like a lot well
06:04:47
Female Panel (mixed)that's how long before they get into kindergarten I guess that's true maybe I don't know I'm not there yet okay
06:04:56
Female Panel (mixed)um well if you were there like if you were think if you had to think about it it would be nice right to have everything thing provided for you in those 5 years that you get to stay at
06:05:09
Female Panel (mixed)home and focus on your child and their development and their growth in the earliest stages of their life that would be nice um no but he's like look I want you to just stay home till they're adults nah why you guys laugh why why
06:05:21
Brian Atlasyou guys laughing at that like if he's capable he's making a million dollars a year what's the use in having you go out and earn 70k or whatever [ __ ] and then they have to he has to
06:05:32
Brian Atlashire like a a maid or daycare and spend $70,000 a year on daycare I think well it's important for a kid to be in environments with other
06:05:44
Brian Atlaschildren right yeah I mean if they go to school sure but I mean there's private school there's homeschooling yeah what how about he wants you to homeschool the kid no no I
06:05:56
Brian Atlasdon't think so oh that's not very submissive of you guys the husband says I want my children homeschooled I have the finances to be able to do it I don't think so I I thought you guys I
06:06:09
Brian Atlasthought you guys were supposed to be I thought you guys were submissive I never said that oh you're not going to be submissive so your husband says I want the kids to be homeschooled I make a million dollars a year you're going to stay home and take care of the kids and
06:06:21
Brian Atlashomeschool then you're going to say no I'm going to say no really you'd rather you'd rather date a guy who makes 50k you make 50k and then you guys can be all equal really you prefer that I would be okay with that over just to be clear
06:06:34
Brian Atlasyou'd be You' prefer that over the guy who makes a mli year they both treat you just the same well I guess the treatment's different he wants me to homeschool my kid kid his kid our kid
06:06:44
Brian Atlasour your both your kid his kid is crazy that sounds like a dream in my opinion it's both their kids yeah right I would just you'd rather just to be clear so
06:06:55
Brian Atlasand at this job at this job uh you could like for example you might work wait hold on you're a massage therapist right so at this job you got to lather up your hands with that coconut oil or whatever
06:07:05
Brian Atlasthe [ __ ] you do and then you got to massage some like droopy [ __ ] you know like that's skin man I don't know you got some old clientele maybe maybe maybe you're top tier and you're
06:07:17
Brian Atlasworking like athletes and [ __ ] who knows so you're you know doing the massage what are you Swedish what are you doing iish yeah I can do deep tissue ring you are you a rer no I do um both eastern
06:07:29
Brian Atlasand western modalities of massage that's beautiful um so okay why why got hard there's modalities with there there's modalities there's there are modalities
06:07:39
Female Panel (mixed)yeah the hell you do trigger point therapy um I was taught trigger point that's not that was never my focus I wasn't really into it but I could I know about it stopped
06:07:51
Brian Atlasagain yeah wait I have something for this hold on um a [ __ ] where is it [ __ ] where is the oh it's too oh my God where you missed
06:08:01
Brian Atlasit to make my dick go soft all right Sor was [ __ ] so delayed um wait so hold
06:08:10
Brian Atlason you'd prefer boss babe boss babe you make 50k he makes 50k over dating a guy who makes a Mill and you never have to
06:08:20
Female Panel (mixed)work a day in your life yeah that's just me though all women here are different I'm I prefer I like I like working I like having gold work on the household work with the kids all
06:08:32
Female Panel (mixed)your attention can be on care of it's a partnership the hous will get taken care of by both me and my mostly just you BL you well no because I would want a partner who is also going to be working
06:08:44
Brian Atlasin the home and doing things I millionaire he frees up 45 40 hours a week for you okay that 40 hours can be
06:08:54
Brian Atlasfreed up for you to work 10 hours at home like laundry doesn't take that much cleaning doesn't take that long like bro most girl like most women if you're in a in a house you can get that [ __ ] done in like one or two hours and then you can
06:09:07
Female Panel (mixed)kick it with the kids I don't know put on [ __ ] if you're homeschooling your kids is going to take way more than sure if you're homeschooling I was a nanny for 4 years8 hours a day you want a break from those kids so yeah I'd rather
06:09:19
Female Panel (mixed)work to be honest I love kids I love kids I love to be with them but yeah for8 hours a day no damn that's crazy you want to break from your own kids absolutely and so would you everyone yes
06:09:32
Andrew Wilsonkids are [ __ ] annoying what are you saying y'all crazy man I mean I don't know you want toak your kids also Daddy Daddy Daddy Daddy Daddy I did the opposite I I couldn't
06:09:43
Female Panel (mixed)wait to be able to stay home so I could see my kids more because you don't spend 24 hours a day with them because you're at work I literally do I literally spent 24 hours day with them and it's the
06:09:55
Andrew Wilsongreatest thing ever and I would they're not with you right now I would not trade it for anything it's the greatest thing in the world you know why because by the time they're 18 years old I will have spent 90% of all the the time I'll ever
06:10:05
Andrew Wilsonspend with them in their Liv like the idea the idea here is you that you would essentially prefer to
06:10:15
Andrew WilsonOutsource the caring of your children to other people so that you can go work like that's the idea is that you would rather Outsource the mothering I also don't think that I can teach my kid
06:10:27
Female Panel (mixed)everything like I think other other personalities other people's and stuff is good I think I'd like to spend most of the time with them but like yeah for a few a day I can go work get away from mom come back hey get a few hours a day
06:10:39
Andrew Wilsonanyway right so first of all like think about it objectively okay your kids are going to go to bed especially if they're little kids they're going to go to bed way earlier than you you already have a couple hour break that's one two
06:10:51
Andrew Wilsonnobody's saying you can never go have a night out on the town with a babysitter but there's a distinction there between that and saying okay I I need to have 8 hours a day away from my kids because
06:11:02
Andrew Wilsonwell after all I mean I was a nanny for a while and well you just got to have that break it's like no you would want the opposite you would not want to Outsource the raising of your children
06:11:13
Female Panel (mixed)to people who were not you why would you want to do that totally you would not me okay I'm also not I'm not saying that I would need a break from my children I think it's important for kids Social Development to be in environments like
06:11:25
Female Panel (mixed)schools like you build a lot of character in schools you learn social skills there's so so for so for here's what here here's what all the data shows one k kids who are hes school do far in
06:11:37
Andrew Wilsona way better than kids go to public school they have far they have far less stress and by the way they're plenty socialized and do you know why it's because all those after school curriculum activities uh all those kids
06:11:48
Andrew Wilsoncan go to them why because you the taxpayer pay for those extracurricular activities you do not have to be enrolled in the school to go be on the football team or to go join the wrestling team or anything you don't need to do any of that so any of those
06:12:01
Andrew Wilsonsocialization things that you're talking about and by the way how do you think do you think that people a few hundred years ago when there was no public school and they lived hundreds of miles or not hundreds of miles but 10 15 miles
06:12:13
Andrew Wilsonaway from each other or many cases further than that they just were antisocial no I think you think they were just completely antisocial lunatics the children they they obviously and
06:12:22
Female Panel (mixed)clearly weren't no I think that back then um Community was prioritized in our society back then um and not as much now people are you couldn't walk down the street to go to Tommy's house because
06:12:34
Andrew WilsonTommy lived 5 miles away because people lived in homesteads and farms and things like that they usually saw Little Tommy at uh various events or perhaps at church once a week or something like this I don't see how they were getting
06:12:47
Andrew Wilsonall of this socialization that you're talking about and they clearly were not antisocial people uh human beings are pack animals they learn all their values from their family first but going out amongst the pack you pick up social
06:12:59
Andrew Wilsonskills very quickly I would say that Public School Systems actually are a corrupting Factor one you your kids are getting knowledge you have no direct idea about what they're being taught
06:13:09
Andrew Wilsonzero you can't you can't you can't go in and sit in on all the classes and even if you could you have no idea what they're being taught when you're not there uh as as far as the socialization goes with other students who are there
06:13:22
Andrew Wilsonyou have zero control over who they're hooking up with uh over you know the party scene you have no control over any of that that seems like it's a way worse idea than just homeschooling your kids and by the way when you're homeschool
06:13:33
Andrew Wilsonyour kids they don't have to go to an 8 Hour peeeee prison every single day where they're locked literally locked up in these classrooms for hours and hours and hours instead you can say okay two
06:13:45
Andrew Wilsonhours a day three times a week and they get they're far more educated by the time they leave that system than they are going to an 8 hour day peee prison like how much do you even remember from high
06:13:54
Andrew Wilsonschool yeah did you take history when was World War II yeah well no here's here's a really basic one here's a really basic one um really
06:14:06
Andrew Wilsonreally simple the Constitution of the United States was ratified in the year 1776 not you not you good job way to
06:14:17
Andrew Wilson[ __ ] ruin it why why is The Sisterhood just can't help itself can pick another one there's lots of easy
06:14:26
Andrew Wilsonones what I'm saying my point is is that even with easy questions like this most people forget they they forget because it's not pertinent knowledge to their life so almost everything that you
06:14:37
Andrew Wilsonlearned outside of Reading Writing and arithmetic most kids get out of school they and by the way they can't even read in an eighth grade level right so bad they get out of high school can't even read in an eighth grade level so where's
06:14:49
Female Panel (mixed)all these perks to public school I don't know I think that's a separate issue I think there we definitely need to work on our schooling system our education system in general but I don't think the
06:14:59
Brian Atlasidea of sending your kids to schools is inherently bad uh so I mean I guess my confusion here really quick and then we
06:15:07
Brian Atlasgot to move it on uh so what kind of job like what job would you like to get into I guess for the long term um I'm not set
06:15:18
Female Panel (mixed)on anything potentially my own business maybe massaging again maybe something in the holistic service realm I'm not sure how long did you do the massage for
06:15:27
Brian Atlaspreviously um a year yeah did I mean did you ever just like deal like with just annoying clients and [ __ ] like was it ever annoying for you like flaky people they they late to their appointments
06:15:39
Brian Atlasthey cancel their appointments like last minute they noow like any kind of this [ __ ] like this I I can massage really stinky feet so that stinky feet Okay cool so just to be clear like and also massage therapist I some people have
06:15:51
Brian Atlaslike really good uh Dexter I don't know if dexterity is the right word but uh some massage therapists like have to limit how much massage they give otherwise they start like they're they start getting like RSI or carpal tunnel
06:16:02
Brian Atlassyndrome this sort of thing so like I mean um massage therapy is like pretty physically intensive you're standing up all day you're looking over people like doing all this stuff they get like back
06:16:13
Brian Atlasstuff and all this kind of [ __ ] but um you'd rather do massage therapy which is I mean physical labor to some degree over
06:16:23
Female Panel (mixed)just dating a being with a man who makes a million dollars who frees you from your responsibility for of having the work um if it's what I want to do and I love
06:16:36
Female Panel (mixed)massaging if I if I did I don't right now currently but if I did love massaging and you all that passionate about it no offense I'm not at the moment I'm I'll be very honest about that I'm not very passionate about that I like my job where I'm at right now I'm learning a lot about business what are
06:16:48
Brian Atlasyou doing um I do social media coordinating for a press on nail company okay and do you have to like go to an office for this mhm okay and do you is there dress code do you have to dress a
06:16:59
Brian Atlascertain way no dress code not even like business casual or okay and I mean uh do they dictate the hours that you work I work full-time but is it 9:00 to 5 yeah
06:17:11
Brian Atlasand they tell you when you can take lunch and when you can take lunch okay I I choose when I go to lunch so it's weird like final thing on this I guess we'll move it on but what's confusing to
06:17:21
Brian Atlasme is that you guys want to be these boss babes you're so pressed to go work you've essentially traded being submissive to your husband
06:17:34
Brian AtlasHusband by being submissive to an employer well I also said I might want to start my own business so then I would be like does your any of you hear how to boss do you think your boyfriend or husband is going to boss you around the
06:17:47
Brian Atlassame way that like your husband or boyfriend is going to ever talk to you in that way like like be here at this time sit here for this long wear this do this task
06:17:59
Brian Atlasyou're [ __ ] it up do it this way etc etc like you guys have traded I work in an environment like that I think I always just want to have my owny I'm exaggerating here but all that other
06:18:09
Brian Atlas[ __ ] is true show up at this time otherwise you're fired do this task otherwise you're fired take this break from this time otherwise you're fired
06:18:20
Brian Atlasstay too long out at lunch you're fired maybe they they're not going to say that in that same way but that's the underlying like okay if you're late for the job and you're not showing up you're
06:18:30
Brian Atlasgoing to get fired most think your husbands like are like that intense with it you got to do this task for eight hours every single
06:18:43
Brian Atlasday you're submissive to your employer you're asking me to bow on the first day that seems pretty intense I bet I bet if there was a job where you had to work at a restaurant and greet people and be
06:18:54
Brian Atlaslike well how are you like [ __ ] these fast fast food jobs how's your day going and you're [ __ ] working retail having to be a greeter it's the same thing instead you got a deal well actually in
06:19:07
Andrew Wilsonthis case if you're a social media marketer for an nail Press Company and you were to have a contact of a high level businessman who was from like oh I don't know let's say Japan and you were to arrange a meeting between the staff at your company and this Japanese person
06:19:20
Andrew Wilsonare you saying that when you went and met with them you wouldn't bow you know that's a good question I might yeah for out of respect for his
06:19:32
Andrew Wilsonculture you'll bow to a stranger I think that's just Japanese culture though I would do out of point is is that at the behest of of a man you're submitted to in this case your boss if
06:19:44
Andrew Wilsonhe asks you to bow to a complete stranger you'll do it as long as there's money involved but the man taking care of you who also is utilizing said money
06:19:54
Brian Atlashe doesn't get the bow [ __ ] that guy it's just like the same girl who will work a brutal fast food job dealing with a boss barking order cleaning dirty dishes cleaning the bathroom dealing
06:20:07
Brian Atlaswith all the shitty customers and the the all the physical labor that that sort of fast food job would entail standing on your feet maybe you're involved in cleaning whatever it is for
06:20:16
Brian Atlaslike $15 an hour $20 an hour but like if a guy comes into the picture who has the money to support you wants a family wants kids make sure you never have to
06:20:28
Brian Atlaswork a day in your life you don't want to Bow you don't want to cook you don't want to clean
06:20:36
Brian Atlaslaundry it'ses it a you're going be submissive to your boss trust me you're going to be submissive to your
06:20:48
Brian Atlasboss okay so it's just like that's what you're saying y'all traded and I I would argue like your husbands your boyfriends if you pick a good guy most guys are
06:20:57
Brian Atlasgood guys they're going to treat you way better and ask way less of you than your [ __ ] corporation that doesn't give a [ __ ] about you the minute that they make
06:21:08
Female Panel (mixed)a determination that you're not worth it boom they're going to fire you I see what you're saying and at that point if I was in a situation like that where I'm with a company that doesn't respect me [ __ ] yeah pay all my bills absolutely
06:21:19
Female Panel (mixed)I'd rather do that but I personally want to do something where I'm learning I'm growing I'm getting better I'm get kids your kids I think it's nice to have your
06:21:29
Andrew Wilsonown money Point Blank how how good would it feel to raise like okay never mind they go to school 8 hours a day stressed uh huh why well wait I don't understand
06:21:41
Female Panel (mixed)this idea of your own money yep right when you say that so you're you're hedging your bets on failure right no no I mean I think I think 50% I think 50%
06:21:52
Female Panel (mixed)of marriages do end in divorce I would like to if I walk away to not have absolutely nothing no skills know nothing and and you're hedging your bets on you're hedging your bets on failure
06:22:03
Andrew Wilsonwhat if he died husband died just prot I just make sure I got this right from your job you're hedging your bet on I
06:22:12
Andrew Wilsonsaid yes yes but you got to you got to if a man hang on so then if a man were wanting to date you in a serious way and
06:22:23
Andrew Wilsonhe heard that you basically are hedging your bets against the fact that you're pretty pretty convinced that the relationship is going to fail why the [ __ ] would he ever want to get married to you uh then don't I don't know it's
06:22:35
Madisonnot hedging your beds that it's going to fail you're protecting yourself just in case like paying your health insurance premium are you hedging your beds that your health is going to bed like yes that's you might be
06:22:47
Andrew Wilsondumping hell money into that your whole life and rarely use it you're you're getting health insurance the expectation is that you're going to have health problems right you are hedging your best against the fact the likelihood that you
06:22:59
Andrew Wilsonhave health problems at some point is highly highly highly uh likely so yes you're hedging your bet that's exactly what that's what insurance is it's literally the idea of hedging your bet
06:23:10
Brian Atlasagainst catastrophe that's what it is I mean no Alysa so you want to do your massage business business or whatever I mean the these concerns over like what
06:23:21
Brian Atlasif your husband dies what if you get carpal tunnel syndrome what if you get RSI you're [ __ ] then too I'll find a new career sure find something else I love Yeah well then you can just find a new husband then I guess I don't know oh
06:23:34
TTS VoiceI could cool there you go all right all right um a man who wanted AO Bono Smith donated $200 come on gentlemen respectfully
06:23:45
TTS Voicereiterating Jenna has a flight to catch the runway related bookings if she wishes to stay that's her prerogative her scheduled ride is leaving in 10 minutes oh okay that was 14 minutes ago
06:23:56
Brian Atlasso I guess you're [ __ ] GI but uh yeah I don't know you there was no initial iterating so I don't know what you're talking about unless there was like a super chat on Miss there was no initial reiterating that would imply
06:24:08
Brian Atlasthat there was an initial iteration there was no iteration of anything so um all right let me I need to power through the uh questionnaire here uh going around the table would you rather cross paths with a man or a
06:24:19
Brian Atlasbear uh a man I am the bear Ah that's I saw that that's funny what about you beer you prefer the bear okay beer yeah just for the sake of time here
06:24:30
Madisonguys let's maybe not troll okay man okay th% a man all right a bear a bear a
06:24:42
Brian Atlasman uh in your answers to the bear thing you said because I can uh stay in front of a bear and it'll go away eventually I meant like you just stand still and it
06:24:53
Brian Atlasgoes away no have you encountered no I've just seen videos you have you seen the bear waving cuz yeah I was really quick really quick why' you pick bear why don't you pick
06:25:04
Alexisman why do you pick bear why don't you pick man all right I I chose bear because if um I don't know I'd rather just get eaten alive I feel like the bear will eventually go away and then the man will
06:25:18
TTS Voiceprobably like do something to me in the woods or some [ __ ] I'm going to let this chat come in then we'll come back to this Bono Smith donated $200 relay the messages to Janna by
06:25:29
TTS Voicemidnight or legal actions may be necessary if she chooses to stay allow her to State it publicly on air or communicate it with her iPhone do you know is this like some guy who's
06:25:41
Brian Atlastrolling or um do you know a bon Smith am I do have a ride waiting um legal actions may be necessary cool [ __ ] send me The Season's assist all I'm
06:25:52
Brian Atlasready send me send me send me the [ __ ] season's assist she saying that she's being held held against her will yeah she's being held captive here yeah send send me the go ahead get your have
06:26:02
Brian Atlasyour lawyer call me um all right so uh let's see here um where were we uh the bear oh really quick why do you pick the bear why don't you pick the man I
06:26:14
Brian Atlasfeel like a man will do something to me in the woods versus um a bear it'll eventually go away okay so you think like the man will essay you basically is that the thing for you like the men will saay you yeah sure okay what what's the risk like what do you think the risk is
06:26:26
Brian Atlasof a random man doing this literally I don't care about this question like what's the mhm I mean it can happen like what what
06:26:37
Brian Atlaspercentage of men do you think because you're doing a risk assessment like okay I think like 20% of men would do this so like I'm weighing the risks of like man vers
06:26:48
Female Panel (mixed)bear um I'm not really good with numbers but I like it doesn't 20% 30% 40% 50% all right 50 50% men okay what about you I don't like it's probably more likely
06:26:59
Brian Atlasthat the bear I don't know I literally don't care about this question sorry okay um so you think it's 50% see yeah yeah um do you have any brothers I do a
06:27:11
Brian Atlaslittle one you have a father yeah uh male cousins yeah I do okay so 50% of your male family members are um inclined to commit sex crimes I know some who have my brother not my dad no they don't
06:27:23
Brian Atlasdo that stuff but um yeah but your whole family like 50% my whole family no yeah your whole family 50% of the males in your family are essers okay then fine 20 we we'll lower oh okay now that we're throwing your
06:27:34
Brian Atlasfamily under the bus I suppose we no I know or your your family is somehow I guess better than the rest of okay oh no they're not all right uh how tall are
06:27:46
Female Panel (mixed)you and what's the minimum height of a man you would date I'm 5'9 and 6 foot is the minimum I would date mhm 5'8 and 510
06:27:55
Female Panel (mixed)you're 5'8 and 510 okay what about you I'm 5'1 so maybe 53 like is the minimum sure I'm like 5'9 and a halfish I'd say
06:28:06
Female Panel (mixed)like 61 you said 6'2 here minimum well like ideally 62 but how is your boyfriend 63 63 okay uh what about you 53 no
06:28:16
Brian Atlasminimum you don't care no really no you'll did a 411 short King mhm how tall was your last
06:28:24
Brian Atlasboyfriend the fenel guy 56 56 okay um what about the dickpic sender dickpic I
06:28:33
Madisondon't remember sister dick pick I don't know 56 5 56 okay she she is cool with a short King I guess what about you love short Kings how tall is your husband I guess I am 5'10 my husband is 66 which I
06:28:46
Madisonthink is great and desirable and I would certainly prefer a tall guy but I would never like exclude a guy from The Dating pool just because he was below a certain threshold but certainly we all have
06:28:57
Brian Atlaspreferences okay what about you I'm 5'4 and I would prefer 510 okay I'm 5'8 and I would prefer like 6 foot 6 foot above all right uh that's uh interesting for
06:29:09
Female Panel (mixed)all of you guys uh and then what would you want the minimum yearly income to be for your future husband um I mean I would say 100K a year I like the a I was thinking like the
06:29:21
Female Panel (mixed)average I want to be in like the medium bracket you know what I mean like 100k is a lot is it I feel like that's like the average minimum household number is it not
06:29:34
Female Panel (mixed)not like for like a single family okay I said 100K okay what about you 75k 75k what about you 80k 80k okay
06:29:46
Female Panel (mixed)150k minimum minimum because if we have kids because I want them to go to college if they want to oh okay all right um I don't have an exact number they just have to make the same or more
06:29:58
Brian Atlasthan me um preferably you said as much if not more than you mhm okay so like but do you want kids maybe undecided undecided okay I
06:30:11
Madisonmean hey if you don't want to that's totally fine uh minimum income I don't think there's a minimum as long as he's working and not sitting at home playing video games all day with Cheeto dust on
06:30:22
Madisonhis belly like he's working hard like that doesn't matter I make my own money okay um um 60 70 it doesn't matter though okay GI same or more than me yeah
06:30:32
Female Panel (mixed)but so give us a number um maybe 100 100K all right interesting you guys uh all right I didn't really think about that
06:30:43
Female Panel (mixed)question a ton I just compared I'm so I would kind of am I allowed to like take it back in a way where I'm not really sure that if I I haven't looked into it enough or really
06:30:53
Female Panel (mixed)thought about it enough and so can I can I just pass on that or like pass on explaining that or anything please yeah if you want to reach retract it or
06:31:05
Brian Atlaschange it cuz I'm not I I I put it down but I just it's Financial stuff I'm not really not really sure right now uh okay
06:31:15
Female Panel (mixed)um let me see here uh uh oh I'd also be willing to like struggle bust it with somebody for sure but I think the goal of like trying to be financially stable means a lot to me like it doesn't like we can struggle
06:31:28
Brian Atlastogether but the goal has to be instilled of like being able to like put the kids through college if that's what they want okay um I'm going to get through the rest of the things here then in the
06:31:38
Brian Atlasquestionnaire uh this is for Maya you disagreed uh the statement is not straight for a man to dat a trans woman you disagreed wait not straight I disagree
06:31:50
Female Panel (mixed)wait I don't think yeah I don't think it's the straightest thing ever I don't I don't think it's like super gay how about this it's uh it would be gay for a man to dat a transwoman agree or disagree I don't think it's the straightest thing but I don't think it's
06:32:02
Female Panel (mixed)like gay if she looks like a woman she has a vagina I don't think that's gay but I don't think it's the straightest thing you
06:32:10
Female Panel (mixed)know you know uh that's my answer so there's nothing more on it so is it straight or not straight I said my
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Female Panel (mixed)answer I don't know you don't know I said my answer oh my God yeah I don't know isn't like no I didn't say I don't know for my answer I said I don't think it's the straightest thing but I don't
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Female Panel (mixed)think it's gay that's that's my answer it's on the saying the answer somewhere in the area that mean it's so so it's kind of gay yeah it's kind of gay a little I don't know I also agree it's like kind of gay I think it's kind
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Female Panel (mixed)of gay I don't think it's super gay though I don't think it's as gay as dating a man I think she looks like a woman she is a woman she has a vagina maybe who knows maybe boobs I don't know I don't think it's 100%
06:32:56
Brian Atlasgay okay what's going just uh what's going on back there she coming she staying or what's the
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Backgroundsituation oh
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Backgroundokay table you should put them on the table um what do you mean I just want to tell yeah yeah but your phone's not back there
06:33:29
Brian Atlasno she should have put it with the other phones you you sure it's not in your purse what color is it oh I didn't see it over there either is
06:33:46
Brian Atlasit you can say it on the podcast they watching you Dez do you have um Morgan's number yeah can you call her all right sorry guys
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Brian Atlas[ __ ] uh anyways um so not straight sure okay cool all right I'll just move it on then uh let's see here we
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Brian Atlashave um uh Alexis you disagree you can be racist towards white people oh H oh my
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Alexisgod um I don't think you can be okay uh can you explain it I guess what's there to be racist to towards like what they just
06:34:32
Alexisthe most you could say is like I'm I'm not even going to say I'm not I'm not but there's really nothing you can be racist to them about like like so what what what could you be
06:34:44
Alexisracist towards a Hispanic person about then um people I mean I can't say the racial slurs but people are racist towards Mexicans well I think there's a difference between slurs and then also
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Female Panel (mixed)like like thinking somebody less because of their race and I think that's kind of what racism is not totally but I think that's yeah mhm if you just look down I mean if you just think that your race is
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Female Panel (mixed)better than their race isn't that racism I guess I you can be Prejudice to white people I don't think you can be racist yeah I don't know why that's okay well let me ask you this let's just
06:35:17
Andrew Wilsongrant that for a second is being Prejudice any more moral than being racist both are wrong oh yeah so then if you if you're prejudiced towards white people then it's just as bad as being
06:35:29
Andrew Wilsonracist towards them right but there isn't a system in place to oppress white people well there's not there's no what what system what
06:35:38
Andrew Wilsonsystem is in place to oppress you um I'm privileged so there's nothing are you white I'm half white yeah okay
06:35:49
Andrew Wilsonso by that metric you'd still be a minority right half yeah technically yeah so what systems in place what system is in place to oppress any
06:35:58
Female Panel (mixed)minority um well we just have racial Injustice in general for one and two this country was built off the backs of slaves almost every country on planet Earth was built on the backs of slaves
06:36:11
Female Panel (mixed)including most of the countries that the minorities come from right this second so what I don't know what that would have to do with racism okay but still we still see racial Injustice because of that in
06:36:23
Female Panel (mixed)today's society where um with lots of things like like well this is a deep conversation I
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Female Panel (mixed)didn't think we were going to get into um feel it doesn't feel that deep he has this conversation every single like twice a week I don't know I've never watched this podcast so I guess I just assume because it's on the paper so I
06:36:48
Female Panel (mixed)assume they have great Arguments for this that they've researched a lot I don't know well there's a reason like Dei exists right
06:36:56
Brian Atlasbecause cuz it's [ __ ] that that's that's a that's a view to have sure um but so I guess going back to you over
06:37:06
Brian Atlashere who did say um so and do you are you also on board with the you can't be racist towards white people or I said that you can be Prejudice towards white white people I don't believe you could
06:37:16
Female Panel (mixed)be racist why not um because um this country was built off of white PE or slaves and white people put
06:37:27
Brian Atlasall these laws in place can white people be be uh racist towards Asian people sure Hispanics sure uh these people were
06:37:37
Brian Atlasnot slaves though so I'm a little confused you said because of slavery you can't be racist towards white people how does what would that have to do with like racism towards like Vietnamese
06:37:47
Brian Atlaspeople for example I think it does affect mostly black and brown communities okay so your definition of racism is uh racism equals Prejudice
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Female Panel (mixed)plus power can you that racism what's your definition of racism then if it can't apply to white people um well racism
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Female Panel (mixed)exists because there is an oppressor white people who white people are the oppressors yeah okay uh and are you talking about just the USA or are you
06:38:24
Brian Atlastalking globally I'm talking about the USA okay so like for example if uh there's a white person in um I'm trying to TR to think of uh I
06:38:35
Brian Atlasdon't know Nigeria would the local Nigerians who are black would they can they be racist towards the white person oo I've heard
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Alexisyeah I've heard yeah I've heard stories okay so yes you agree what about you MH um unsure what do you mean unsure so Nigeria which is like predominantly
06:38:58
Brian Atlasblack they hold the systemic power in the country black people hold the systemic power in Nigeria okay I guess in that case then oh in that using your even I'm talking about in just the United States well I think there's a
06:39:09
Female Panel (mixed)difference between systematic racism and then just like racism no I about yeah I agree with what you're saying about the systematic racism so how about this um what about here's a
06:39:20
Brian Atlashypothetical uh Barack Obama he was president from uh from 2008 to 2016 so he was President for eight years
06:39:34
Brian Atlaslet's say that in this hypothetical scenario Barack Obama he refused or he how about he refused to hire a white janitor because the janitor was white and this white typically people
06:39:46
Brian Atlasare janitors are typically not like within a high strata when it comes to social socioeconomic status so Barack Obama refuses to hire a white janitor because the gender is white is that
06:39:58
Brian Atlasracism I think he has a Prejudice towards that white person but but it so just to be clear okay I'm using your definition which is racism equals
06:40:08
Brian AtlasPrejudice plus power right in this scenario who has more power Barack Obama or the white janitor Barack Obama and it's not just he doesn't just have power he has