FERAL INSANE DEGEN PANEL?! Goth MlLF?! Lazy Eye Dating?! College Girls! E-GIRLS?! | Dating Talk 280
Date: 2026-02-02
Duration: 9h 07m
Guests
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SPEAKER_02Brooklyn(guest)
SPEAKER_03Briana(guest)
SPEAKER_05Kitty(guest)
SPEAKER_06Brian Atlas(host)
SPEAKER_08Charlotte Gates(guest)
SPEAKER_09Olivia(guest)
SPEAKER_11Alex (comedian)(guest)
SPEAKER_12Levvenia Roberts(guest)
SPEAKER_13Faith(guest)
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Oliviaas one as one entity, as one front. Um, I will respect his, you know, image and everything and be protective of that. So, of course, >> that's that's part of what it is. And um
03:56:42
Oliviaand it's also just yeah comes down to kind of having integrity and respecting the the intimacy of your relationship. And unfortunately there's there's a lot of drama when it comes to
03:56:54
Oliviato having sex online. Like it's it's not really fair for a majority of dudes unless they're the rare ones that are into it or they are willing to accept it
03:57:04
Oliviabecause of the other benefits that they may get. um they don't want a bunch of other men having seen their woman's bits. Like that's just that's not good
03:57:15
Oliviafor a man. So I think it's it's just more be about being realistic in what your expectations are. And if you're saying that you want a um traditional man, you want a strong
03:57:28
Oliviaman, you want a more a more dominant man, um but you want to make the money and you want him to have no problem with how you make the money, that's you're you want a [ __ ] Like you don't want an actual real man. You want a [ __ ]
03:57:42
Brian Atlas>> I completely disagree. >> I don't think they're [ __ ] at all. >> You got to say that cuz they pay you. [laughter] You you bully you bully men and uh you uh stomp on them or whatever. Like you do you stomp on their balls or
03:57:55
Brian Atlassomething? >> Yeah. Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. I mean they're definitely your [ __ ] but um definitely your [ __ ] But wait, did was that your boyfriend? I don't know if you when you went back there, did you text your boyfriend or No. >> Oh, I went to the bathroom. I didn't even
03:58:08
Brian Atlas>> Oh, you didn't check your phone. Okay. Cuz there's another one that came through, but I think it's a troll. >> I think so. >> And it's a little intense. Um, do I play it? >> Really?
03:58:21
Brian Atlas>> This is this podcast. I think this is the best podcast to play that in. >> Uh, >> maybe. >> I don't know if I can. It might be. Yo, Reese, I'm very sorry. This your I think
03:58:33
Brian Atlasyour message is to I think it's probably maybe somebody posing. I don't know. Whatever. It doesn't. >> Um, >> I don't I really don't >> I don't think your boyfriend's given hundreds of dollars to >> But that's his last name. They don't know his how do they know his last name?
03:58:46
Olivia>> Unless there's someone that knows your boyfriend and knows you and is trolling the both of you guys, which especially with how hard he's going. If that's not behavior that he usually exhibits, I doubt that this would be the time he decides to display it. >> Okay, then if it's Can you read it like
03:58:58
Brian Atlasbut bleep it? >> Yeah. So Reese, I'm not going to pull it up. I'm just going to read it and I'm going to have to like omit the parts. But he says, "My turn."
03:59:08
Brian Atlas>> Uh, he'll come out and flame the [ __ ] out of y'all. Chair three. Uh, you ain't getting any mercy. >> Okay.
03:59:18
Olivia>> You guys are all trumpets. And I'm so glad my girl ain't one of y'all. >> Yo, Cher is sick as hell. She's real. She's honest. She knows what's up. She's intelligent.
03:59:32
Charlotte Gates>> She's I mean, she's at least straightforward. You're not faking [ __ ] >> I hate to say it. I really don't give a [ __ ] I am chopped as [ __ ] I get paid probably more than you, Reese. I can probably take you out to dinner, babe. [laughter] >> By all means. I mean,
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Brian Atlas>> oh [ __ ] >> I really don't care. I'll be I'll be 100% open, though. So, yeah. [ __ ] over. >> There it is. Uh, okay. Um, you know what? Before we do the looks rating segment, Mary, um,
03:59:58
Brian Atlas>> let's show them the Brian's list notepad. So, these are this is a list of just some of my positions. We're not going to cover everything, but if there's anything that you guys want to bite on, oh, really quick, who here
04:00:08
Alex (comedian)would date an ICE officer, like uh immigration enforcement officer? >> Well, actually, no, >> it honestly probably not. >> I think they worked for like
04:00:21
Alex (comedian)>> not want my boyfriend job where he might die. >> Ice or like police. >> I don't want to have a risky job like that. >> I think that's it goes the same thing with police and >> I want to date a guymy. I just don't want to date. >> No firefighter. Why?
04:00:34
Brian Atlas>> No firefighter. >> I would date a man in uniform. >> Yeah, but you can go ahead. You can just die driving down the road. >> All right, these are my prompts. Uh, I'll read a few. Women can't be
04:00:45
Brian Atlasinvoluntarily incel. They can't be involuntarily celibate. Dating is harder for men. Women's career money status doesn't attract men. Oh, what the [ __ ] happened with the example thing? Oh, it's probably when you're pressing the
04:00:58
Brian Atlasbuttons. I don't know. That's weird. Not a big deal. Uh, okay. Well, we were talking about eight non-traditional women do not deserve chivalry. Uh, marriage is a bad deal for
04:01:08
Brian Atlasmen. Uh, let's see. Uh, natural body better than plastic surgery.
04:01:18
Brian AtlasUh, [laughter] scroll down. Mary Brian's preferences. Oh boy. Man should fully provide. Uh, scroll down. Scroll down. Women should do laundry here. Women Women should bow. Women should do laundry. First time in house. Women
04:01:31
Brian Atlasshould simp. No other men from the jump. Undivided attention. We already talked about some of these. Separate beds, bedrooms, submissive cook. Okay, scroll down. Feminism is cancer. Women should be drafted. Women have equal rights to
04:01:42
Brian Atlasmen, arguably more. Men have duties. Women have none. Women have become more radical, not men. Women are more privileged in totality. Women are not oppressed in the USA. Men are more oppressed than women. People of color can be racist towards white people.
04:01:55
Brian AtlasWomen can be sexist towards men. Men are physically stronger than women. Men are the primary victims of war, not women. Women who pick bear over men are dumb and sexist. No forced child support where abortion is legal. Circumcision
04:02:06
Levvenia Robertsshould be banned. Gun ownership 100% fine. Illegal immigration bad. >> Anything? Going back to when you said Charlotte and sitting here being fake. Was that a jab at >> Are we just ignoring? Are we just going to ignore them? >> Sorry. I was think I was thinking about
04:02:20
Oliviait. >> You're just >> And is that because like I don't fit the stereotype of a sex worker? >> Why? No. I was just saying that she is being her real authentic self. I appreciate her honesty. She's been super honest throughout this whole like
04:02:33
Oliviaperiod. >> Oh, but so you couldn't even tell us your age. >> I feel so I'm not being honest is what you >> Why do you think that it's about you? Why am I I'm talking to some I didn't make eye contact with you. I didn't look at you. I just tone. It was your tone.
04:02:47
Olivia>> Dude, she was talking to me. >> Dude, it's literally not about you at all. It felt like a little a little jab. >> She made a comment about my tone. >> Yeah. A stereotypical sex worker.
04:02:59
Olivia>> Uh, main street. >> They don't crochet. >> Oh, that was a jab. >> Jabbed. >> All right. Yeah. >> Okay. >> Girls girl. >> No. Continue.
04:03:15
Olivia>> Do you do you have a view of like what a sex worker should look like? >> No. I didn't wasn't commenting on her like >> literally didn't say >> image at all. People kept coming at her about her image and I said that, hey,
04:03:27
Olivia>> she is honest. She clearly has some character and she's being super real and being appreciate, but it was literally just kind of a >> me just trying to show support for >> another girl. >> Thank you.
04:03:41
Olivia>> Yeah, >> it felt a little passive aggressive and maybe that's though because like we I'm very direct. I promise you. I do feel like you've been doing a character this whole time. if you want me to be like fully upfront. I wasn't going to like
04:03:52
Oliviacall it out just because you seem like you can't handle too much confrontation. >> Okay. >> Um, which has nothing to do with you being a sex worker. I just think that you are a
04:04:03
Olivialittle performative. Um, but that's fine. That's your prerogative, I guess. But >> I'm naturally performative. >> Okay. >> Do you fake your orgasms, too?
04:04:15
Brian Atlas>> I don't know where that came from. sometimes. [laughter] >> I I think >> is that a crime? Is that a crime? >> Cuz no one else here fakes an orgasm. >> Straight to jail. Um I think it's bad to
04:04:27
Brian Atlasdo that in a relationship. >> I agree. >> Cuz then it's like you're misleading the guy and then you're not being satisfied. I don't know. >> But also like I'm a giver and sometimes >> I'm a that's Yeah. >> Yeah. sometimes, you know, like
04:04:41
Levvenia Roberts>> you're not >> I can't reach the orgasm level, but I don't want my partner to feel like maybe that's because of him. >> Does that make sense? >> Yeah, sort of. >> There's nothing wrong with being performative, by the way. I was in
04:04:53
Brian Atlastheater. I'm an influencer. >> Either she really comes or hey, better luck next time. >> Still hit though. >> Still hit. Better luck next time, you
04:05:04
Brian Atlasknow. There's always round two or next time, you know, or never, I guess. Yeah. What are we talking about? I don't even know. >> We were going through your list of your stances. >> Yeah. I don't think anybody didn't look
04:05:16
Alex (comedian)like anyone wanted to bite on any of that stuff, though. >> Can you pull up to the beginning of the list again? >> Sure, we can do that. Um, >> wait, >> I feel like I missed something really important. >> Yeah.
04:05:29
Brian Atlas>> Oh, >> it got a little tense there. There's a little tense moment. Uh, but uh, yeah. >> Nice. Damn it, Paner. >> Of course I missed it. Why wouldn't I?
04:05:41
Brian Atlas>> Oh, can you scoot scoot your chair in a little bit? >> Um, >> I'm sorry. >> The list. Mary, do you want to pull that
04:05:50
Brian Atlaspull that up? Uh, so yeah. Small lips better than fake lips. Small boobs better than fake boobs. Small butt better than fake butt.
04:06:02
Brian AtlasI'd argue on number seven and number nine. >> Okay. Uh let's do nine and then we'll do
04:06:10
Oliviaseven. Okay. Go ahead. >> Um I feel like the way that marriage was intended to be and I usually view more
04:06:21
Oliviatraditional or lean more traditional. Um it's it's an equal partnership. Um I know that both partners give different things. Um, but just like my man will
04:06:33
Oliviaprotect me, there's also nothing that I wouldn't do for him. I would drop my career, I originally wanted to, you know, we've talked about life stuff. I thought about opening my own business
04:06:44
Oliviaand I have the education to do so, but he has a solid business idea, so I am absolutely fine with using my skills to
04:06:52
Oliviasupport his. Um, I if wherever we need to move, I'll move. Um, I don't know. I just feel like in in a good relationship, it's solid. If you're
04:07:04
Oliviamarrying the wrong people or if you're not approaching marriage with the with the reverence and with the the value that it it deserves, then yeah, it can be a bad deal. >> I have a question for you. >> Yeah.
04:07:15
Olivia>> How do you know that you want to marry somebody over 4 months? >> It was crazy. It was actually the second date >> that >> I know it sounds like a trip. I never
04:07:25
Oliviathought that I would be in that position. Um, I was actually a pretty liberal feminist for a lot of my life, like full like neon green buzzcut type
04:07:36
Oliviabeat. Um, and had kind of like stepped away for a while, but there's there's something for a lot of people I feel like truly
04:07:49
Oliviasupernatural. Um, one of the main things that made me realize that I could spend the rest of my life with this person is he is
04:08:00
Oliviathe most morally upright and just good per like truly good and trustworthy person that I've I've ever met. And I can look into his eyes and and know that
04:08:11
Oliviahe will do what is right always. Um, we align on just about everything to the point where it was absolutely uncanny. Um, we will just share different opinions or just be
04:08:24
Oliviashooting the [ __ ] and we are just in sync. Um, so I mean some people it might take longer for that time to develop. For me it was just kind of literally after the first date. The second date we
04:08:36
Oliviawent on was 24 hours after our first and he came over to help me cook uh steak and potatoes for my mom and my sisters. >> Do you think you truly know this guy
04:08:45
Oliviaafter 4 months? I do cuz so we um we're actually waiting for for marriage to have sex and one of the things that when you are not having sex is you have a lot of time to talk and the other thing is
04:08:57
Oliviais that we don't just hang out to go on cute dates or go to fancy restaurants or talk about this or that we have had indepth deep conversations where I know
04:09:07
Oliviahow he feels about everything or most not everything because that's hyperbolic but I know how he feels on the important things. He knows how I feel on the important things and not just a quick
04:09:18
Oliviaquestion and answer like an indepth hourslong conversation. Um, so and that used to be part of what courting was is that you have those kinds of conversations and you iron that stuff
04:09:29
Oliviaout. Now people just kind of find someone that they find agreeable and that they can have fun with and then they keep having fun and then eventually they're like, "Well, what the hell? Let's get married." And then they get married and that's why relationships
04:09:42
Oliviadon't grow or progress. And that's why I feel like divorce, right? One of the reasons I feel like divorce rates are high um because you don't actually work towards something together. So, we're working towards things. We have a
04:09:54
Oliviafinancial plan. We know what we want to do with our lives. Um it all aligns and um yeah, have have those conversations and it'll shed a lot of light. They're tough conversations. They're awkward. Um
04:10:07
Oliviathey can be difficult, but it's it's important. Um and you should be working towards growth together. Have you like like what if you're like since you guys haven't had >> I'm sorry I have to move off of that but
04:10:19
Brian Atlasuh does anybody here want pizza? I was going to order some food >> on pizza. >> Uh nobody has like dietary restrictions like >> no >> can't Okay. >> Uh okay. Just going to order something.
04:10:30
Brian Atlas>> And they say Chevrolet is dead. >> Hey, see [laughter] >> that was good. That was a good one. >> Oh man. >> Well done. She's she's a comedian after
04:10:40
Brian Atlasall. She's a comedian. Uh, all right. That should be here momentarily. Uh, my response though to the marriage thing, I think that, um, hold on. Let me just
04:10:53
Levvenia Roberts>> All right. >> Scoot back here for a sec. >> I have a question. You don't have to answer if it is not you're not comfortable with it. Do you guys do other things? >> We
04:11:04
Oliviahave slept next to each other. Um, and we snuggle, but we have legit like held pretty tight. >> I do. You don't have to answer too, but if he had a small wiener, would you
04:11:16
Oliviastill like him? >> I don't know. Luckily, I don't really have to worry about that. >> But you've seen the package. >> Yeah. >> Oh, >> yeah. >> But, but no, >> tom foolery.
04:11:31
Olivia>> Nope. >> Okay. >> Are are you a virgin or no? >> No. No. So, it was a case where I hadn't waited, never really thought it was important. Um, he didn't wait. Never
04:11:41
Oliviareally thought it was important. We we met each other and decided just because we were so crazy about each other so quickly, we wanted to kind of take it slow. And then um as time went on, we
04:11:53
Oliviarealized like this was something that we felt [clears throat] called to and wanted to commit to. Um, one for religious reasons and two because we we
04:12:04
Oliviawere talking about like getting married and thought about our wedding night and I I never cared about having had sex previously before, but then I thought
04:12:15
Oliviaabout like my wedding night and that like if we had sex now, there just wouldn't be anything special, dude. Like there's there's a lot to be said about
04:12:25
Oliviaself-restraint, about discipline, about, you know, working towards something together and and creating a a system where our relationship progresses um
04:12:37
Oliviawith us in that way. I don't know. It's it's been a new experience for me and one of one of the most valuable as difficult as it has been >> which I agree on because once you build
04:12:49
Brianaa certain dynamic with a person it's not necessarily having sex it's more so making love. >> Yeah. >> Um so I I totally agree that it would make that wedding day a lot more special
04:13:01
Brian Atlasif you thought about it in that sense. >> Yeah. >> Uh okay. So, I might actually revisit the two things from the list that you wanted to talk about, which is the
04:13:14
Brian Atlasmarriage and the age gap convo. I'm going to just write down a note that uh maybe to come back to it a little bit later because there is something else I want to get on, but I do have it down. Uh question though, let's see. We have
04:13:27
Brian Atlasan article. Did we finish all the tweets? >> All the tweets. >> Okay. Uh let's see here. I there's a segment we do called Big
04:13:37
Brian AtlasBrother Brian. So, because I am capable of being honest with you guys about any topics, if you guys have a question for me, maybe you've wanted to ask a guy
04:13:48
Brian Atlaswho'll just give you an unfiltered uh uncensored opinion or advice on something. So, if there's any like either dating advice or question you've always wanted to ask a guy, but maybe
04:14:00
Brian Atlasyou know you didn't want to ask a guy friend, I will I will be your big bro and I will give you some game. I'll give you some advice. Any any takers? >> How do I give head? >> Huh?
04:14:13
Brian Atlas>> A good question. >> How do you um do you even do that as the dom? >> Not really. So, you should teach >> why she's asking. Yeah. Um, okay. How do you What the [ __ ]
04:14:26
Brian Atlas>> Oh, man. [sighs] >> I mean, I'm not gonna get into like a descriptive like technique-based instructional here, but uh
04:14:36
Brian Atlasuh I'll give some general guidelines. Nobody wants a begrudging [ __ ] So, you got to be enthusiastic with it. You got to have an enthusi like it's not
04:14:47
Brian Atlasjust like you you want to approach it even if you're kind of feigning it a little bit. you're putting on a bit of a performance.
04:14:56
Brian AtlasYou got to act like you need the dick. Not just, oh, okay, we're going through the motions. I guess I'll give you head. No, it's like you need like you need the
04:15:06
Brian Atlasdick. You need you have to you need that. You need it. So, that's how I'm not going to give you like technical instructions on how to perform a BJ, but
04:15:17
Brian Atlaslike that would be some advice. How give an enthusiastic BJ, you know?
04:15:25
Brian Atlaslike enthusiastic. >> Enthusiastic. I have a question. >> Go ahead. >> Does it float in the bathtub? >> What? What? >> I always wanted to know that. >> I >> Your guy >> only shower. I don't take baths.
04:15:39
Brooklyn>> So, >> what about it? Probably does float though. >> You're a hot tub. >> Mhm. >> Does it like float up? >> I'm h I'll get back to you on that. I'll test it out and let you know how it
04:15:52
Faithgoes. Yeah. What's up? >> Why is it so like it's a lot less common for men to get therapy or mental health help?
04:16:03
Brian Atlas>> Are you in Well, question. Are you in favor of men getting therapy or >> Oh, yeah. >> Why? So, why is it less common? >> Mhm. Pride. >> So, I think it's a couple things. I
04:16:13
Brian Atlasthink that there still remains a bit to a degree uh some stigma whether you're a man or a woman. That stigma is greater
04:16:22
Brian Atlasuh in men. But I think the other thing is modern psychology is not geared towards the male experience or the male perspective. The majority of uh people
04:16:34
Brian Atlasin the psychology field are women. the majority of therapists, uh, counselors, psych, it's women and a
04:16:44
Brian Atlaslot of them, it skews highly, highly liberal. And so it's like, imagine, take a really masculine man and he's going to go to some [ __ ] blue-haired
04:16:55
Brian Atlasliberal therapist. That's not going to work. Um, I think the other component here is that it depends what the therapy
04:17:04
Brian Atlasis for, but I think that men and women [clears throat] address their issues in different ways. Um, and I I I I don't
04:17:16
Brian Atlasknow if women, female clinicians or female psychologists have the tool set to actually be able to
04:17:26
Brian Atlasengage with male problems or even if the even if that does exist for some female therapists, I don't think a lot of them even have the skill
04:17:37
Brian Atlasor the ability to do it. Also on a general level, uh, a lot of these therapists are in therapy themselves.
04:17:48
Brian AtlasThey can't even address their own issues in their own life. They're in therapy. They have mental health issues. I don't know. It's kind of like,
04:18:00
Brian Atlashow are you going to give me advice when you're all [ __ ] up yourself? Kind of that. So, there's that. And I think also, I'm not saying that therapy is completely inappropriate in all
04:18:10
Brian Atlasinstances, but I do think that therapy does not properly address the male perspective. And uh
04:18:22
Brianaalso, I think it's kind of in some ways [ __ ] some ways a waste of time. And I don't know, >> and I agree with everything that you just said and understand your
04:18:33
Brianaperspective. Um, to add on, this is just my personal view. I feel like a lot of men are scared of vulnerability. Would you agree in some way, shape, or form >> or scared to be vulnerable in some
04:18:47
Brian Atlassense? >> Uh, it's certainly possible, but as it relates to therapy, I just um I don't think therapy is even all that effective. Okay. So, I honestly think
04:18:59
Brian Atlaseven if you're inclined to getting that sort of thing, I think chat GPT would do a better job than the therapist. I'm being so honest. Like I actually
04:19:10
Brian Atlasthink if you talk to chat, not that I do this, but like I've had I've asked Chat GPT about like historical [ __ ] and I'm like damn like chat GPT is smart as
04:19:19
Brian Atlas[ __ ] And uh I actually think AI like talking to AI would probably be better than therapy I guess. But uh somebody's going to be upset by that.
04:19:30
Brian AtlasBut I look of the people you know that go to therapy, have they resolved their [ __ ] Uh most
04:19:38
Brian Atlasof them no. So is therapy effective? Maybe it acts as a it it um pacifies you maybe a little bit. Uh, but I think a
04:19:49
Brian Atlaslot of therapy is [ __ ] I think like and there's certain therapies where like marriage therapy, bro, you're gonna get a [ __ ] female therapist and she's going to side with the woman and it's
04:20:00
Brian Atlasjust going to be you go to marriage therapy, relationship counseling. She's going to side with the woman. It's going to be [ __ ] lame, woke nonsense. That's going to be [ __ ] Um, so I
04:20:12
Brian Atlasdon't think it a lot of people it helps them even even if they've been in therapy for a long time. >> Didn't it help you? >> Uhhuh. >> Didn't it help you? >> Well, that was for something really specific. >> Yeah.
04:20:23
Brian Atlas>> But like the people that are in therapy uh sort of aimlessly doing a talk therapy, they're vaguely unhappy. Uh or you know there for treating depression
04:20:35
Brian Atlasfor example. Uh maybe it's effective, maybe it isn't. But I think if you're vaguely unhappy or you're vaguely depressed or maybe
04:20:45
Brian Atlasseverely depressed, I think a better approach would be let's not put you on medication. Let's not have you talk to a [ __ ] uh we're going to trans the kids person. Let's have you how can we
04:20:57
Brian Atlasimprove your life and if you're still depressed after you've tried to improve your life or you have improved your life, then we can perhaps explore that. But it's like, wow, okay, your your uh
04:21:09
Brian Atlasyour money's all [ __ ] up. Your relationships are all [ __ ] up. You you're not living a healthy life. You're eating poorly. All these factors, correct for those things first, and then if you're still depressed after that,
04:21:21
Levvenia Robertslike, how about this? Uh get a six-pack and get rich. And if you're still depressed after that, then go to the therapy. >> Well, usually that's what therapy does, though. Like, it helps point people in the right direction. And like, oh, you're feeling this way. Your therapist
04:21:34
Levvenia Robertswill maybe say try to work out or try to improve this relationship. >> Why would you need to go to a therapist to receive that information? >> I'm not paying thousand GBT could tell you. >> Yeah. >> Well, I wouldn't it almost be common
04:21:45
Brian Atlassense? But I therapy should definitely be more than if therapy is effective. It should definitely be more than just, well, I think you should try to get your sleep right. You should get your you should get your diet right. You should
04:21:56
Brian Atlasget your uh you know, maybe you got to do some blood work, see what's going on. Maybe like >> it's more complex than that, but that's how It's trying to resolve some
04:22:05
Brian Atlassomething going on mentally in your mind. And uh I don't know. I think that um
04:22:13
Brian AtlasI I think that um my perspective is I don't know also this idea of like lingering
04:22:23
Brian Atlasthen it's your story. Now I am a depressed person. I identify as being depressed. uh self-fulfilling prophecy. Honestly, I think when with issues,
04:22:34
Brian Atlasthings that bother you, uh I've always at least my experience, and I maybe this isn't yours experience as as women or even the experience for other men, when I've had uh like when I was growing up
04:22:45
Brian Atlasand I was dealing with something, you know, uh frustrating or I was upset, my parents would be like, "Oh, do you want to talk about it?" And when I what I found was when I talked about it, it's
04:22:57
Brian Atlaslike relive, relive, relive. Now I'm more upset. Now I'm I'm I'm hanging on to the bad thing. And then I had other instances where they're like, "Do you want to talk about it?" I'm like, "I'm
04:23:08
Brian Atlasupset, but no, I'll be good. I'll well, I didn't say this, but uh no, I don't really want to talk about it." I feel like it makes it worse. And so I actually find that sometimes the [ __ ] that bothered you on Tuesday,
04:23:21
Levvenia Robertsby [ __ ] Friday, >> you're fine. You're you're over it. >> I think it's more so why did it bother you and like figuring that out. At least that's how I use therapy as a tool. It's
04:23:33
Brian Atlasnot, oh, this sucked. This is what happened in my life. This is what sucked. It's why >> how to fix that moving forward. Look, I'm I'm not saying you can't learn lessons or there aren't some positives
04:23:45
Brian Atlasin therapy. It's going to be very therapy therapist dependent. Obviously, there are better therapists than others. I also have an issue with just
04:23:55
Brian Atlasconceptually with this idea that there seems to be like a degree of affirmation in therapy, gender affirmation. Okay. uh you go to a
04:24:05
Brian Atlastherapist and you you send your [ __ ] 10-year-old kid to a therapist and uh the the your kid is confused and they're like, "Well, uh you know, uh I I I have
04:24:18
Brian Atlasmaybe some more feminine interest and you have a son. Great. Now your [ __ ] therapist is going to put them on a [ __ ] railroad track to affirming this [ __ ] nonsense and they're going to
04:24:29
Brian Atlastrans your [ __ ] kid." So, it's like this idea that I don't know. I feel like therapists are going to be like, "You're so right. Oh my, you're so valid. Everything you're saying is valid." I don't know if therapists can actually
04:24:41
Brian Atlasstand up to their clients and be like, "Nah, you're a [ __ ] crazy [ __ ] You're doing some dumb [ __ ] You're wrong. You're mistreating your boyfriend. Uh, no. The therapist is
04:24:51
Brian Atlasgoing to be like, "Oh my god, your your boyfriend, he he might be abusive. You should break up with him." It definitely depends on the therapist for sure, but >> oh my god, your your boyfriend is slightly conservative. You should
04:25:03
Brian Atlasprobably dump him. >> Usually, I feel like they're able to >> You go to a liberal therapist and you tell your therapist, "My boyfriend is based and conservative.
04:25:15
Brian AtlasYour therapist is going to make you dump your [ __ ] boyfriend. She's going to make you dump your boyfriend." >> I think they'll call you out and be like, "Actually, you can you should consider this perspective." I've been in therapy before. That is not accurate.
04:25:28
Charlotte GatesThey will feed into your [ __ ] every time. >> Maybe your therapist feed you a good multiple therapists. That's what he that's his point is that most therapists
04:25:38
Charlotte Gatesare just going to enable you because you are giving their operation money. You are paying for that session. They are billing your insurance. They're going to keep you sick.
04:25:50
Brian Atlas>> Yeah. >> So, how do we comfort you as a man? bow, do my laundry, cook, clean, give me peace, don't nag me, sex, and that's
04:26:02
Brian Atlaspretty much it. It's really, you know, us men, we're very simple. >> Do you have any like emotional comforts that a woman can provide for you? >> Oh, sure. Like uh like before we go to bed, she should like scratch my back or massage my back.
04:26:14
Briana>> That's not emotional. >> That's physical. >> That I mean >> like an emotional comfort would be for example, like compliments. >> Yes. But like, >> well, yeah, of course, the woman should simply
04:26:26
Briana>> talking about um if something happened at work or something that happened throughout your day that made you upset to have your woman ask you what's wrong and make you feel better and maybe bring up your mood instead of you being
04:26:39
Brian Atlas>> I mean, look, if I'm inclined to talk about it with my girlfriend, um if I want to relay the problem to her, but my at least my experience and I maybe other men operate differently.
04:26:51
Brian AtlasIf I have a bad day at work, I don't want to. So, look, if it's like interesting, I might relay it to my girlfriend. But, uh, generally
04:27:02
Brian Atlasuh, and part I don't know, part of at least I I maybe I draw inspiration from my dad. My dad never [ __ ] complained
04:27:12
Brian Atlasever. Ever. My dad very stoic um and just never complained, just never
04:27:24
Brian Atlasuh would bring uh he never whed. He did his job. He and maybe that, you know, had an influence
04:27:36
Brian Atlason me. But I I could go through some like crazy [ __ ] Like some crazy [ __ ] could have happened. 95% of the time I'm not dumping that on my girl. Not dumping on my Now, look, sometimes I I might ask
04:27:48
Brian Atlasfor her thoughts or if it's like something really interesting, I might be like, "Yo, guess what happened, but generally I'd rather just my process for
04:27:58
Brian Atlasdealing with frustrating things is not let me talk about it and relive it and get frustrated all over again by talking about it." It's [sighs] let me think about something
04:28:10
Brian Atlaselse. Let me focus on something else. Let me be distracted. Let me And then realistically, I'm sure you guys would agree. Wouldn't you agree that 95% of the [ __ ] like, have you ever been pissed
04:28:22
Brian Atlasoff at something? Be honest. A week later, are you even thinking about that that thing that bothered you? It's you've forgotten about it. Now, look, obviously there's things that can be
04:28:33
Brianalong-term ongoing issues, but certain things it's like, eh, I don't I don't need to talk about it. >> But for me, it helps to get over an issue like that specifically by
04:28:45
Brianaexpressing my em my emotions and possibly getting another perspective on the situation. >> I think one of the cool things that you can do um is straight up asking like,
04:28:56
Olivia"Hey, are you okay?" They say, "Nope, some [ __ ] went down at work today." And you can ask, "Do you want to talk about it? Do you want like feedback? Or do you want to just kind of move on right now and like do something else and we don't
04:29:08
Oliviahave to talk about it?" And kind of just ask and give them the opportunity. If they say move on, cool, move on. Yeah. >> Yeah. And it's perfectly fine. And I think like asking is like one of the like ways to um ways to support and then just kind of honoring their request from
04:29:21
Brian Atlasthere. >> Yep. I I also think that >> I mean I can there are some issues that cannot be solved. >> Now you might say well you could go to therapist to figure out how to cope with
04:29:31
Brian Atlasthose things right but like for example for me um like I have various chronic pain issues and so
04:29:42
Brian Atlasuh and that's a that's a frustrating component of my life that's ongoing. But I actually genuinely think if I went to a therapist about it and wallowed in self-pity about my chronic pain issues,
04:29:54
Brian Atlasit would actually probably uh there's a mind there's a what is it? Uh mind body connection. Thinking about these things I think can actually amplify physical
04:30:05
Brian Atlaspain. If you wallow like like if you actually uh think about the pain and you you're upset by the pain and you talk
04:30:15
Brian Atlasabout the pain and you relay to the person about your issues, it it I don't know the right uh analogy here.
04:30:24
Brian AtlasIt makes it more real. I mean it is real but it makes it your identity. And so when it comes to my chronic pain issues, um, like I
04:30:36
Brian AtlasI don't think I think going to a therapist would actually like my pain would actually increase. And then I would be frustrated. I'd be talking to How do you feel about your pain? Well, it [ __ ] sucks. And then I now I'm
04:30:49
Brian Atlaslike, "Oh [ __ ] now I'm thinking about how much it [ __ ] sucks." And I'd be upset and I'd get all frustrated. And then that spikes your cortisol. [laughter] And then you're like, uh, that's going to have an impact on your
04:31:01
Brian Atlaspain. Uh, people have chronic pain issues. If you're stressed, you're chronic, you can have flare-ups and stuff. So, there are just things in life as a man
04:31:09
Brian Atlasor as a w woman, you just you accept what is. Even if that thing is negative, you tolerate it. You deal with it. You cope with it. And I think
04:31:20
Brian Atlasgoing to a therapist, some liberal [ __ ] woman, oh my god, I have chronic pain issues. How do I cope? It's just not they don't what are they going to do. Even if you go to a doctor, doctors
04:31:32
Brian Atlashate chronic pain people because there's not a solution to this thing. There's not a solution unless they pump you full of meds and even then that's a band-aid fix. Doctors
04:31:45
Brian Atlasdo not like chronic pain uh patients because they don't really have an answer to it. So, it's like it's just something you accept and it's something I accept. But if I went to a therapist to talk
04:31:56
Brian Atlasabout it, well, how do you feel about the No, I'll just be upset. It'll be upsetting. So, I move through life with the problem and I accept it. >> Anyways, whatever.
04:32:09
Kitty>> What if you have a disagreement with your girlfriend? You have to talk it out. Would you like talk it out or let it fester? >> It depends what. So I believe it sort of depends what I think women
04:32:20
Brian Atlashave a duty to because I think sometimes women uh can be more neurotic than men. So this is a sensitivity to negative
04:32:29
Brian Atlasemotion. So I think situations in a relationship that the man doesn't even assess as bad, the woman will assess
04:32:38
Brian Atlassomething whether real or imagined as bad. I do think in some situations women need to regulate their desire to pick a fight and just be like, "Does this
04:32:50
Brian Atlasreally [ __ ] matter?" Probably not. Okay. Eh, let it go. Like sometimes I'll be with a girl and she'll be say something. Now, there's sometimes you have to set a boundary. It depends. So, it's very nuanced. But there are
04:33:02
Brian Atlassometimes like a girl says something [ __ ] stupid. I'm like, "Is this worth picking a fight over?" Probably not. Whatever. Let it slide. So I think you in a relationship whether you're a man or a woman there's a degree of giving
04:33:13
Brian Atlasthe other person grace giving grace right but uh so I do think women h should have a duty to self-regulate and not be [ __ ] nagging annoying uh on
04:33:26
Brian Atlasyour case about certain things but other things yeah I think you should be able to have a conversation about
04:33:35
Kitty>> does that answer your question >> yes well sort I like emotional men, so not really, but that's you. >> So, thanks for sharing >> me. >> Yes,
04:33:48
Brian Atlas>> solid answer. >> Sweet. Uh, Reys sent another one. Reys, I can't pull it up, bro. It's too I'll read it, but I can't show it on on thing. >> Can you do like a code word with your boyfriend? See if it's really him.
04:33:59
Brian Atlas>> He did text you. >> Uh, not a troll. I don't give a [ __ ] >> how much you have. You're still >> I'm going to go check. You're still a Wait, where is it? Still a
04:34:11
Brian Atlas>> Hey, she was a whoa. >> Uh, yeah. >> Uh, y'all OF girls need therapy. Chair three. You're the most beautiful
04:34:21
Brian Atlascreature I've seen in my whole life. >> Damn right. >> You want to go chair? >> I appreciate that. >> You know what we should do? Should we I
04:34:32
Brian Atlas[snorts] I saw I saw this uh video on X. Uh, I don't know if it's Should we It's uh Nick Fuentes. Do you guys know who this is? >> No. >> Wing app. >> Wing app.
04:34:44
Brian Atlas>> Of course we do. >> Uh, I It was kind of interesting. He's talking about dating. >> Uh, so I was thinking maybe we could react to it. >> Uh,
04:34:54
Brian Atlas>> I think I know which one this is, but >> Oh [ __ ] Wait, Mary, can you >> Yeah. Yeah. Can you go down? [ __ ] [ __ ] [ __ ] [ __ ]
04:35:03
Brian Atlas>> Uh, [ __ ] It was super quick. >> Yeah, just go down. Just go down. [ __ ] >> Put on. Yeah. Okay. Go ahead. All right. Pizza's here. That's the good news.
04:35:14
Brian AtlasWell, I guess I'll play the video uh once the pizza's here. >> But, uh, good times. Um, oh, Big Brother Brian. Somebody had advice on something or wanted advice.
04:35:26
Kitty>> I think you gave it for sure. >> Well, for that one, does anybody have something different though? How do I ask a man to be on a leash?
04:35:36
Brian Atlas>> Specifically, Bryant Atlas. >> Uh, you don't. Step one. Step two, um, you delete your Only Fans. Step three,
04:35:47
Brian Atlasyou go to church. Step four, you get your, uh, I don't know what you do, actually. >> I have a leash in my bag. >> Step four, you get your felony expuned. >> It's not a felony. It's a misdemeanor.
04:36:00
Brian Atlas>> Oh, that's right. you pleaded down. That's right. Yeah, my bad. Uh let's see here. Uh let's do we're going to get into some pre-show notes. Um who do we
04:36:11
Brian Atlashave? We have uh Alex. Okay. Tongue split. You showed that. Um you got one kid.
04:36:23
Brian Atlas>> We talked about the not wanting to get married thing. Uh you said you dated a guy from Minnesota that punched you in the face. Oh my god. Yeah, that's so cool. Not cool, but like insane. >> And he left you on the side of the road
04:36:36
Brian Atlasmid January. >> Yeah. You want to hear this crazy stuff? >> He was schizophrenic. >> Yeah, he was. >> And he didn't take his medicine that week. >> That was Was the sex good? >> Oh god. Was it
04:36:47
Brian Atlas>> crazy? The crazy Why is it so It's kind of tragic, right? The crazy people or the >> Oh, it was so good in bed. >> Yeah. >> I once had the opposite experience, though. She was crazy, but the sex was bad. Oh, that's actually terrible.
04:37:00
Alex (comedian)Sorry. >> Like, if you're going to be crazy, you got to make up for >> You got to make up for that [ __ ] >> So, what's the story? Tell us the story. >> Yeah. So, I started dating this guy kind of dating, you know, he was from
04:37:12
Alex (comedian)Minnesota. I'm from Oklahoma. But he made the drive all the way to Oklahoma. So, 11 hours to come and meet me. And that weekend, we had a great time. We went out. We had a great time. So, I was
04:37:23
Alex (comedian)like, "Okay, well, next time I'm going to come and visit you." So about three weeks, a month later, something like that, I take a plane to Minnesota.
04:37:33
Alex (comedian)Thursday, Friday, it's all good. And you get to or get around to Saturday and he picks up a bag of Coke and starts doing Coke in the truck. Now, I'm
04:37:44
Alex (comedian)telling you, he's a beautiful tall blonde man with a mullet. Oh, perfect man. Perfect man. But he picks up this bag of Coke and he starts kind of getting like a little
04:37:56
Alex (comedian)little strange on me. I'm like, "Oh god, I didn't know you did drugs. Now you're now you're getting a little strange on me." And he insists I leave my phone at the hotel before we go out. And I'm like, "Oh, that's a little weird, but
04:38:09
Alex (comedian)you know, like if you don't want me to be on my phone, like, no problem. I I'm I'm obsessed with this man." I'm like, "Yeah, if you want me to leave my phone here, you know, whatever." But I didn't. But I left it in the truck when we went
04:38:20
Alex (comedian)inside to eat dinner. Well, while we're eating dinner, mind you, I can't see without my glasses. I can't I could hardly see what the [ __ ] over there. Okay, while we're at dinner, you know, we're, you know, getting drunk, you
04:38:33
Alex (comedian)know, he's off cocaine, you know, we're drinking. And he accuses me of looking at another man and punches me in the face. And I'm like, "Holy [ __ ] I just
04:38:45
Alex (comedian)got punched in the mouth." So I'm like, "Oh, okay. Well, I I couldn't see without my glasses, but now you just punched me in the face." So we go back to the truck and he and he's like, "You're going to call the cops on me?" Like being like skits. So like, "You're
04:38:58
Alex (comedian)going to call the cops on me. Like you're crazy. Like how dare you look at another man?" And I'm I'm sitting there like I can't even see [ __ ] two feet in front of me, dude. Like what the [ __ ] And we're in the truck and the
04:39:10
Alex (comedian)whole time he's like, "You're going to call the police on me?" Da da da da da. Like when we get back to the hotel, like I'm [ __ ] this this and that. I'm like, "Dude, I don't care about the police. Like, I just want to go home. I just take me back to my hotel. You
04:39:22
Alex (comedian)already punched me in the face. That's crazy. Just take me back to the hotel. I don't care." And he insisted that I was going to call the police on him. He He was like, "You need to get out of my truck." Mind you, you were 20 minutes
04:39:33
Alex (comedian)away from the hotel. He drove me all the way out there. I have a dead phone cuz he w he didn't want me to have my phone, probably on purpose. So, my phone's already dead. I'm 20 minutes away from
04:39:44
Alex (comedian)the hotel. He kicks me out of his truck and I'm in Minnesota in January. It's about -5° and I'm walking along the sidewalk like
04:39:55
Alex (comedian)on the highway. I was on the side of the highway with pretty much a busted ass face and I was like, "Holy [ __ ] what what have I done? My what does my life come to? Like this is insane." Like I try to get into another relationship and this [ __ ] happens. I'm like, "All right,
04:40:08
Alex (comedian)fine." So luckily I was dressed decently. you know, I didn't have a hat and I was pretty much [ __ ] frozen to death. And I'm walking side the highway. No one would pick me up. They're like, "This [ __ ] looks crazy. I'm not picking her
04:40:21
Alex (comedian)up." And I'm like, "There's got to be a gas station somewhere." And I'm walking for about 20 minutes and I finally find a gas station. And it's closed, of course. And I'm looking around like, "Fuck me, dude." Like, and I just sat
04:40:33
Alex (comedian)there and I broke down in tears. I was like, "This is what my life is. How dare I do this to myself? What the [ __ ] I'm never doing this [ __ ] again." Well, ends up being uh two drug dealers in a truck and I'm like, "This is my
04:40:46
Alex (comedian)only [ __ ] chance I got. It's the only [ __ ] chance." It was literally like God came down from the heavens and was like, "Dumb [ __ ] here you go." And I'm like, "Holy fuck." Okay, this is my only chance to get back. And I come up to him
04:40:57
Alex (comedian)like, "Please God, help me. I'm from Oklahoma. I'm in the middle of nowhere. I have no phone, nothing. I have nothing." And they're like, "Yeah, hop
04:41:07
Alex (comedian)in." I was like, "Holy [ __ ] no way." And I give them the last $100 of my what was in my wallet. And he takes me back to the hotel and guess who's waiting for me there?
04:41:19
Alex (comedian)Oh yeah, Minnesota man's waiting for me with this bright red pickup truck. I'm like, hell yeah. That's sick. And I don't call the police. I don't do anything. I'm like, "Oh no, this is I'm
04:41:30
Alex (comedian)about to get some [ __ ] revenge." So I go up to the hotel room and it's some reason my key doesn't work. So So I'm knocking on the door. He's like, "Why'd you knock on the door?" I'm like, "Bro, you literally just [ __ ] kicked
04:41:42
Alex (comedian)me out and freezing cold made me walk all the way down the highway for 30 plus minutes only to end up in a stranger's [ __ ] vehicle. Like, do you not understand? Like, you could have [ __ ] got me killed, raped, [ __ ] God knows
04:41:54
Alex (comedian)what would happen." I'm like frantic at this point and he's like, "Well, you're looking at another man." I was like, "What the [ __ ] This is insane." And he stays there. And it took me about
04:42:04
Alex (comedian)two hours to get him out of my hotel room of the banter and like >> back and forth. No, >> they call the cops.
04:42:16
Alex (comedian)>> I My phone was dead. [laughter] >> My phone was dead. Um and finally security had came up there and he kind of like pushes me into the bathroom and I'm like, "Fuck, that was my only
04:42:28
Alex (comedian)chance. I can't get out now." And so I just continue to just argue with him until I'm like, "Hey, you just put my life in danger. I hope you realize what you did to me, and I hope someone's going to forgive you, but it's not me,
04:42:40
Alex (comedian)and I want you to get the [ __ ] out of my hotel room." Yeah. Obviously, that went down for 2 hours. And then after I get him out, he's laughing with the security guard downstairs. And after that, it took like another hour for him to leave. It was pretty insane. Yeah, that's what
04:42:53
Alex (comedian)happened. So, not only did he put someone who's a mother at [ __ ] risk to die, he just left me out in the cold. It's nuts. >> Sorry you experienced that. That's awful. >> I know. It was pretty crazy. But, you
04:43:05
Alex (comedian)know, you live and you learn to, you know, even if you like someone, >> you never know what they might be up to >> later on. We have uh I'm going to go to
04:43:16
Brian Atlasthe questionnaire here. Kitty, you circled women are the primary victims of war, not men. And then somebody else. Uh,
04:43:26
Brian Atlaswomen are affected. I think this is Liv Livana Levvenia. >> We are getting your name wrong. >> Women are affected by war just as much as men
04:43:36
Brian Atlas>> even though we don't fight. >> Uh, okay. I don't think anybody else circled those. So, just what's your position on that with you first? Um, I've read a lot of horror stories about war and that how the women and children
04:43:49
Kittyaren't involved and yet they are involved. Like they've been um I don't know if I can say it. They've been like harassed in front of their family, in front of their kids with multiple men
04:43:59
Kittyand they and then the children too. Like they're being like bummed and you know and I don't think uh >> Yeah, disregard. Go ahead.
04:44:11
Kitty>> Okay. Sorry, I got distracted. And I don't think the children should be involved. I believe they like the women and children should be like escorted out or something and not just in the crossfire or be taken their clothes off
04:44:23
Brian Atlasor >> stuff like that. Yeah. So, I mean the the claim here is not though um at least my claim is not
04:44:34
Brian Atlasthat uh so it's it's obvious in wartime everybody does suffer but the claim is about who's the primary victim.
04:44:44
Brian AtlasSo men suffer, women suffer, children suffer. But it's I don't really see a particularly compelling argument that
04:44:56
Brian Atlaswomen uh suffer more than men. >> I think they suffer just as much. I think it's >> or even just as much. >> Really? >> Yeah. >> Just because here, let me give an
04:45:06
Brian Atlasexample. Let let me give an example. So, you'd agree that often times with war there tends to be um and it can go back
04:45:16
Brian Atlasand forth, but let's let's talk about uh the United States of the wars that the United States has been in perhaps absent
04:45:26
Brian Atlasthe Civil War. Uh typically the United States the United States has not been invaded. [snorts] The United States is going to
04:45:36
Brian Atlasanother country, right? So if we narrow this down to uh military conflict as it relates to the United States of the
04:45:46
Brian AtlasUnited States population, can you explain to me of the hundreds of thousands of US soldiers who died in World War I, World War II, Vietnam, Korea, Afghanistan, Middle East, etc.
04:45:58
Brian Atlascollectively. Can you explain to me how United States women for all those conflicts I just listed have suffered just as much as US male soldiers?
04:46:11
Levvenia Roberts>> I don't think narrowing it down just to the United States is a fair example. >> Well, this would apply to other countries, too. So other countries uh
04:46:23
Brian Atlas>> but the qu but >> their female citizenry >> is not >> but you're narrowing it down to fit your perspective. >> Well, I I mean I'm open >> versus in general. >> We can open it up. Can you do that? >> Well, I mean it would it would even
04:46:35
Brian Atlasapply in general though because the United States experience uh that is a to some degree although a bit unique is a microcosm a little bit as to how war
04:46:47
Brian Atlasworks. So uh women are protected. They're they're on the inside. They're they're
04:46:55
Brian Atlasprotected. And uh now of course if the invading country uh you know gets into your territory then yes the women can definitely be victims the children can
04:47:06
Brian Atlasdefinitely become victims. Uh you know if there's bombing campaigns then I mean it depends which conflict we're looking at here but uh civilians can be bombed. This would of inclus of course include
04:47:17
Brian Atlasboys and men who are civilians. So >> so you're like just referring to America. >> Well no I mean I So my argument is when you invade others.
04:47:28
Kitty>> So my argument is coherent in general and in totality and on in individual cases. >> I mean maybe there's stories of men
04:47:38
Kittygetting like booty tickled in war, but I'm mostly saying women. >> Well, so so I acknowledge that women are
04:47:47
Brian Atlasuh essay during wartime. However, um we would have to do a sort of uh comparison of suffering and victimization. So
04:48:01
Brian Atlas>> when >> my question to you is how many men are you willing to let die to prevent one rape?
04:48:10
Brian Atlas>> I don't know if that's like that's not a fair question. >> That's completely fair because it would it's trying to uh categorize the degree
04:48:17
Brian Atlasof suffering. So if it's the case that in we can look at historical examples uh in almost any war that you could point to it's
04:48:30
Brian Atlasthere have always been more men who have been killed than there have been women who have been essay. So if if your argument is, well, women get essay in war, therefore women suffer just as much
04:48:40
Brian Atlasas men, or even some people argue uh they suffer more than men, then essentially you're going to have to put forward uh how many men are you willing to let die to prevent one rape.
04:48:53
Kitty>> Well, I would say it's not only the rape. I would we can say that. Okay, one. >> Sure, it's fine. I mean, you can say essay might be better. >> Okay. Um well then they get like raped in front of their kids even their husbands and then they get shot. But
04:49:05
Brian Atlaswith the guys they don't get like >> well some of the men there's definitely been rape of male wartime but look I'm for the sake of the argument I'm willing to grant that this is something that impacts women way more than men
04:49:19
Alex (comedian)>> [clears throat] >> uh during wartime which would be essay. I don't know the actual statistics but I'm willing to just go ahead and say yeah it's probably the case. >> Yeah. I'd rather get sexually assaulted than watch my older brother die or my
04:49:30
Alex (comedian)little brother die. I' I'd get raped [ __ ] 20 times before I'd watch my one of my brothers or my dad get shot in front of me. >> Yeah, same. Yeah. >> Well, me too. >> I and I don't know if this is a bit
04:49:42
Brian Atlassensitive, but in terms of just yourself, would you rather be killed or would you rather be essayed? >> Sexually assaulted. >> Was the was the question about who suffers more? >> I think who's the primary victim? Yes, I
04:49:55
Brooklynguess you could say. You could argue that any man that gets hurt in war is also going to affect the woman because they have a mom or a grandma or a sister. You know what I mean? Like >> then that's what they're fighting for. >> And steering away from the essay. I mean when men leave to fight and they're
04:50:09
Levvenia Robertsdrafted. >> Yeah. >> When it's >> that makes them the primary victims of war. >> I think they suffer just as much because it's the women's job. >> You're not going to get drafted. >> It's then their job.
04:50:20
Levvenia Roberts>> You guys talk. You keep talking. It's then their job to fill the shoes of the men, work their jobs. Also, a country at war. There's a lot going on. I mean, think of Rosie the Riveter. All those
04:50:32
Oliviawomen stepping up into that position. Women who've never worked jobs before working jobs to support their husbands overseas. >> Yeah, that's great. >> Truly tragic. Um, if you are the offensive country, then you are sending
04:50:45
Oliviaa majority of men to possibly die and risk their life. If you are the defensive country, you are sending a majority of men to almost certainly die and risk their life. Um, if we're
04:50:55
Oliviatalking about the risk to the civilians, that is a blend of both men and women. Um, it's not just that it's any civilian death is automatically a female death. So, mathematically,
04:51:07
Oliviawomen cannot be the primary victims of war. That's not like a logical >> not they're not going to be drafted first. And there are women in the military. >> That doesn't and that doesn't discount
04:51:18
Oliviathe absolute horrors of war. That does not discount the horrors that women may experience having lost a loved one, having lost a son, lost a father. I
04:51:28
Oliviacould not imagine um the hurt of being assaulted. Once again, horrific. Could not imagine. Not
04:51:38
Faithdiscounting, not discrediting, but men are the primary victims. What is your name again? >> Libby. >> Livy. Okay. Um, how I really I'm not
04:51:51
Faithunderstanding. How are you going to say that a women suffer just as much when a man is getting shot at? And while a woman is at home in a warm home with
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Faithfood in the fridge, how are you going to say that that's equivalent? And the cool thing is >> war doesn't just affect the men that fight. War affects everybody. >> I agree. I agree. But how is that equivalent?
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Olivia>> I mean, you can say that like Russia versus Ukraine's women, like Russia's women of course would be like cozy in their homes. >> Ukraine's lost almost all of their men, dude. They're just literally send like war just sends young men to the freaking
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Oliviaslaughter. And once again, if they do survive and if they come home, >> the mental health issues that they have coming home from war, >> insane, dude. Yep.
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Olivia>> They're lucky if they are able to keep themselves alive and not lose their [ __ ] because war is no joke. >> And that affects their family members as well. And I'm not just maybe just with American women. Yeah, you're in your
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Levvenia Robertscozy home and but what if you lose your home because you were relying on your husband's income and now you don't have that anymore? And what about other countries where maybe they don't have cozy homes to live in and they're affected by the war just as much. They
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Levvenia Robertsmight not be fighting or sacrificing their lives. And I totally give that credit. I know that is so I can't even imagine how horrible that is. But they suffer just as much
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Oliviajust in a different way. >> What is worse? Having a bad life or having no life? >> Well, they wouldn't. >> What? What is What is What makes you not suffering? >> If you have no life, then you're
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Alex (comedian)suffering. >> I just don't I mean that >> that's not We're not talking about like victims of like suffering. We're just saying victims. >> Let's just talk about Let's Let's talk about Gaza. Everyone in Gaza right now
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Alex (comedian)doesn't have a home. It's just them. They're waiting for supplies from >> Who wants pizza? >> Me. Me starving. Would you like me to help distribute plates?
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