FERAL INSANE DEGEN PANEL?! Goth MlLF?! Lazy Eye Dating?! College Girls! E-GIRLS?! | Dating Talk 280
Date: 2026-02-02
Duration: 9h 07m
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SPEAKER_02Brooklyn(guest)
SPEAKER_03Briana(guest)
SPEAKER_05Kitty(guest)
SPEAKER_06Brian Atlas(host)
SPEAKER_08Charlotte Gates(guest)
SPEAKER_09Olivia(guest)
SPEAKER_11Alex (comedian)(guest)
SPEAKER_12Levvenia Roberts(guest)
SPEAKER_13Faith(guest)
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00:59:26
Brian Atlasyou know. It's really important because Oh, I should have worn the other hoodie. Maybe I'll change into it. We'll see. Uh, anyways, if you if you guys can't catch the full shows, we have a clip channel links in the description. We
00:59:37
Brian Atlashave a Discord discord.gg whatever. Post our stream, excuse me, stream schedule, behind the scenes, hate mail. Bro, this [ __ ] thing. [laughter] >> It's not a mosquito. It's like one of those >> crane fly. >> It's a mayfly. Yeah.
00:59:49
Brian Atlas>> I need a [ __ ] Hold on. Let me see if I >> It's harassing. >> Roll up. Roll up the paper. Roll up the paper. >> Pretty good at killing bugs. You want me to try? >> Yeah. Can you give it a Give it a crack? Just >> give it a crack. >> Give it a crack. Uh discord.gg/what
01:00:02
Brian Atlaswhatever. Just watch out for the >> the the cameras and [ __ ] >> Oh, there it is. All right. Chase that [ __ ] down. All right. She's She's our [ __ ] >> mission.
01:00:12
Brian Atlas>> She She's Yep. That [ __ ] mommy vibes. >> [ __ ] that [ __ ] up. Oh sh Wait, did you get it? >> She clapped it in her hand. >> She clapped it in her hand. >> Let's [ __ ] go, boys. >> Oh, first. >> Hey, add that to the cookies.
01:00:25
Brian Atlas>> Add that to the cookies. >> We will both mash you. What? >> She just [ __ ] that bug up. Okay, cool. So, uh, continuing on. Uh, I'm hiring for three positions.
01:00:37
Brian AtlasNew helmet girl sidekick, new soldier sidekick, and then we need a second uh assistant, producer, production assistant, however you want to produ
01:00:48
Brian Atlasassistant to the producer, production of >> I don't know. Uh you you need to be able you need to already be living in Santa Barbara to if you want to do it though. Okay. Uh that I think that's it, right?
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SPEAKER_00Is that it? That's it. Okay, we have a TTS coming through. Thank you for doing that, by the way. Appreciate it, >> Mr. underscore. Nobody donated $100. Consent governs private BDSM and
01:01:12
SPEAKER_00discretion governs public space. When both are respected, there's no legal or ethical conflict, just adults exercising autonomy responsibly. With that said, I'm down.
01:01:24
Brian Atlas>> Uh, >> you got some freaks in this chat. >> Oh, yeah. [laughter] >> There's no ethical conflict. >> You better just ask Kitty. Well, there
01:01:34
Brian Atlasso there's not a there's not a legal I agree with you that legally, yeah, you can walk someone on a leash in public. That's not it's not illegal. It's not a crime, >> but there is an ethical I do actually
01:01:46
Brian Atlasthink that there is an ethical component to it. Um I mean the BDSM community itself uh would typically
01:01:56
Brian AtlasI think typically is not in favor of uh like public displays of that sort. So, by the way, full moon. No, >> disagree. >> Full moon. You guys see it right over there. Full moon.
01:02:08
Charlotte Gates>> That's why >> it can be it can be 50/50 for sure. >> Like, it depends on who you're asking cuz like I feel like there's definitely two kinds of BDSM community. Like, there's, you know, the BBC cuckold
01:02:20
Brian Atlascommunity that's BDSM as well, and they are definitely down to do [ __ ] in public. Uh, >> well, I mean, obviously I don't think
01:02:30
Charlotte Gatesthere's one centralized governing body of what is or isn't acceptable. >> No, I get it. BDSM like I personally like I've been infinom in my past. Like I used to be a cut culturist. That's
01:02:41
Charlotte Gatesdefinitely in the past. But um I don't I don't do it in public. I genuinely think it's morally wrong in my opinion because if you have other people that don't want to see that around you, how do you know if they don't want to see that? You
01:02:52
Brian Atlasdon't. So just keep it in your room. In my opinion, Precisely. In the dungeon in the dungeon. Keep them in the chains in the dog cage. >> All right, guys. We got a full moon. It's going to be that that I don't know if that's a good sign or a bad sign for
01:03:05
Brian Atlastonight. The what what do they say when it's a full moon? It's uh the >> periods. >> Freaks. >> Oh, >> come out. >> Freaks come out >> or it >> has an impact on people. [laughter] I don't know.
01:03:18
Brian Atlas>> Werewolves. >> We are going We have something to react to here. Um, actually, you know what? We'll save some of the reacts for later. Uh, let's see. What's the first thing I
01:03:30
Brian Atlaswanted to get into? Uh, why don't we do let's just dive into disagreements? Uh, some of you have some disagreements with me. Some of you have
01:03:40
Brian Atlasseen the show before. Uh, so anybody want to jump in on a disagreement or should I prompt you?
01:03:51
Charlotte Gates>> I don't like big labas. [laughter] Oh, the [ __ ] Like, you're joking. She has one. I don't know why she's saying >> that's not true. That just means they're probably on testosterone. That girl working out a little bit. >> Are you uh bisexual or
01:04:04
Alex (comedian)>> No, I'm just saying not. >> Oh, you just you don't >> you have an aversion to them on principle. >> Yeah. I I feel like a lot of people with big labas are probably on testosterone.
01:04:16
Alex (comedian)>> Hey, I'm just saying. >> I have some big labas. I'm not on testosterone. Allegedly, [laughter] >> you got papers for that. >> It It depends. How big are we talking?
01:04:27
Charlotte GatesWe talking like [ __ ] enlargement. >> He means the lips on the lips. Yeah, the flaps that he's not He don't mean your [ __ ] He means the lips. Have an impact on the [ __ ] typically. >> Oh, okay. I thought we were talking
01:04:39
Brian Atlasabout like testosterone coochie. >> I mean, I think it can have an impact on the lips, too, but it's >> more so the [ __ ] It grows the [ __ ] >> It does. If the the women are, >> you got to watch out with what you say.
01:04:52
Alex (comedian)You know, big labia, you you know, you might be messing around with something you might not want to get into. >> Big [ __ ] I'm okay with big [ __ ] >> It sounds like you're trying to say that you're attracted to men and that's okay. >> Me?
01:05:06
Alex (comedian)>> Yes. >> Obviously, I'm attracted to men. I'm just saying. I'm just trying to prove his point of he might be attracted to men with a big [ __ ] >> cuz they're on testosterone. >> Like you can suck the
01:05:18
Alex (comedian)quick, you know, and then instead of going like I knew that was coming. >> Yeah. You're like sucking the you know that. [laughter] >> It's an interesting theory there. >> I don't know. You know, I'm just I'm just trying to gauge where we're at.
01:05:31
Brian Atlas>> Yeah, I get it. I get it. >> Why are you getting so red and nervous all of a sudden? >> Am I I'm just red in general, I think. I think I've just got >> You just blushed a little bit. >> Am I? I think I have to pee. That's probably [laughter] I'm holding that
01:05:44
Brian Atlas[ __ ] I got to pee in the moment. >> Just cuz we're talking about big old He likes the big labas. >> Bashful. I'm just very bashful over here. So, anytime the >> big labas matter. >> BLM.
01:05:57
Brian Atlas>> BLM. Yeah. >> It is kind of sad though. You know, I'm liking [ __ ] >> As long as they're born with it. >> They're born with it. >> You know. >> Oh [ __ ] God.
01:06:08
Brian Atlas>> As they're born with it. >> As long as they're born with it. >> [laughter] >> You know, not a fake laper on >> vagina labia. >> You're talking like trans. >> Yeah. She just >> I feel like if you're if you're trans,
01:06:21
Brian Atlasit's not going to be an Audi. >> It's >> I wouldn't [ __ ] know. But [laughter] >> I you know, I wouldn't know either. >> But >> I mean, but that's not even
01:06:31
Alex (comedian)>> I mean, but let's be real for real here. >> That's not [ __ ] [laughter] >> Like whatever that is is not [ __ ] >> But what what if it feels like it? But it's not a [ __ ] >> It's like an inside out dick. Have you seen the surgeries?
01:06:45
Alex (comedian)>> That >> I've watched the surgery of it. It's >> actually what like that's what >> they like vagina. It is an inside out penis inside. >> I think they like tuck it in. >> Yeah. And they tuck it in.
01:06:57
Levvenia Roberts>> No, but like naturally >> like naturally like when you're in the womb and >> it's like dick and ball. It's a dick and bubble shoved inside of your [ __ ] >> like And when you're when you're a baby
01:07:08
Levvenia Robertsand you switch, everyone starts out as female or one of the two and it like literally inverts. >> Yeah. And then >> Yeah. >> So that it's technically what it is. >> Not tech. >> Wait, what? >> Yeah.
01:07:21
Levvenia Roberts>> You're you're saying transgender posttop surgery? >> No. No. Like when you're like in your mother's stomach as a baby. >> Okay. >> I believe we all start out as female or male. I don't know. One of the two. But
01:07:33
Levvenia Robertsthrough the process, it's like I think everyone starts out as female and then it literally grows out and it's like the same. >> I think >> the vaginal opening is the same as like the the penis. >> It's just because it's a urethra there.
01:07:44
Alex (comedian)It's not just because it's a penis or a vagina. It's very very two different things, but the urethra >> goes out the same way. Yes. >> But >> so wait, what are you what are you
01:07:56
Levvenia Robertstrying to say though? >> Well, cuz you guys were like, it's it's the same thing. And I was like, "Yeah, it in a way it is." >> Actually, I believe you said it's not the same thing. >> I said it's not [ __ ] Whatever Whatever the trans people are doing,
01:08:10
Brian Atlas>> that's not [ __ ] >> But if it feels like it, would you? >> Like looks like it. >> It's like [ __ ] a [ __ ] >> Well, it feels like >> it wouldn't feel it wouldn't feel like it because it just it's it's not similar
01:08:21
Brian Atlasin in in any capacity. But no, even if it felt like [ __ ] look like [ __ ] it ain't [ __ ] tastes like piss and who
01:08:31
Kittyknows what else is leaking remedies. >> Would you try it at least? [laughter] >> Absolutely not. Absolutely not. No. >> No. Although I wonder in the future I I
01:08:43
Brian Atlascould see if there's like some crazy transhum human humanism [ __ ] like people could genuinely change uh their entire biology like some
01:08:54
Brian Atlasfuturistic uh scenario. [sighs] Like it's I I suppose it'd be possible in the future with like super advanced technology. >> Uh
01:09:06
Alex (comedian)>> like when they get like a uterus. That's that's the day I'm going to give up. Once this trainy start getting uteruses and they start giving birth, I'm giving up. I'm up. Just call it. Throw in the towel.
01:09:17
Brian Atlas>> I don't know if that that would be possible. Well, currently, like even if you were to transplant a uterus into a man, I don't think >> one day, maybe. Never know. You never know. >> Well, maybe one day there's like
01:09:30
Brian Atlasadvancements or some [ __ ] but >> I don't want to be here for that. >> You're going to have to ask a Jew. >> They might know. >> [ __ ] >> Uh, okay. So, uh, what the [ __ ]
01:09:42
Brian Atlas>> Oh, [ __ ] >> They know stuff. They're scientists, bro. >> Here we go. >> Good talk. Uh so anyways, uh where where were we going? Uh disagreements. You had
01:09:55
Brian Atlassome disagreements. Why don't we start there? Uh you said that you side with sex workers and you don't really like alpha males and you said that's a disagreement. Okay. Um
01:10:07
Brian Atlasso there's two things there. Why don't we just do the alpha male one thing first? You don't really like alpha males. Well, why would that be a disagreement? >> I don't know. I just felt like whenever I watched a podcast like this, I didn't
01:10:18
Brian Atlasreally do my research, but it seems like a lot of guys like your audience would side with like alpha males. I think >> what does that mean though? What does that mean side with alpha male? Like, so I don't First off, I kind of reject the
01:10:30
Brian Atlasalpha beta. I mean, it can be useful in some context, but I don't refer to myself as an alpha male. Some people want to do a straw man and like paint you, oh, it's an alpha bro podcast. Uh, but I never really talk about the alpha
01:10:42
Brian Atlasbeta thing. I don't call I don't It's super cringe to refer to yourself as I'm an alpha male. Super cringe. Guys who do that super cringe. Uh typically you'll you'll have opposition want to use that
01:10:53
Brian Atlasas an effective label so it's easier to try to like uh slap on an identity, slap on a label so they can kind of dismiss you. But yeah, I don't I don't consider
01:11:04
Brian Atlasmyself and also the the study that that's drawn from where they were looking at uh wolves, alpha wolf, beta wolf, it's actually like the study or
01:11:14
Brian Atlassomething was pretty much [ __ ] essentially. So it's flawed in its inception of the idea of what that is. >> So okay, but you don't like alpha male
01:11:27
Kittylike I don't understand the >> I feel like that's a real thing. Yeah, it's basically what you what you explained, but you did kind of clear it up for me that you don't like really refer to yourself as alpha male or something. >> No, I'm sigma male.
01:11:39
Kitty>> [ __ ] sigma grindset, [laughter] whatever the [ __ ] >> Yeah, I only did it based on like the comments and stuff. So, that's what I assumed. I assumed wrong. >> Okay. Uh, so, okay. You don't like alpha
01:11:52
Brian Atlasmale? Okay. So, like who who do you think is an alpha male? Andrew Tate, Donald Trump. Who's an alpha male? probably them or like they'll like >> why do why do you dislike uh alpha males? I guess >> I don't like when they really show off like
01:12:05
Kitty>> how so >> um how do it's not coming to my mind at the moment but they're flexing their cars. >> Yes. Like flexing their materialism. >> They're trying to preach something but even though it's materialism they like to say like oh I'm alpha male because I
01:12:16
Brian Atlashave these cars. I have this money. >> Yeah. It's cringe to be honest. >> Yeah. >> Okay. Well, no disagreement then I guess. Um you side with sex workers. What do you mean? Do you want to
01:12:26
Kittyelaborate? Um, I do. And I I think you don't really side with Only Fans and sex workers. I was I'm assuming all of this. >> Yeah, I have some issues with it. I
01:12:38
Kittydon't I don't hate people who do Only Fans, but yeah, I have issues. >> Okay. Um, I I just side with them and that's it. And I don't like when people really talk a lot of smack about them. >> Okay. Uh,
01:12:49
Kitty>> but I do understand a lot of issues that people have with it. >> Really? What are they? I I can't explain what it is, but I'm sure um like maybe the two of you or three of you could probably say a point and I can it's not
01:13:03
Brian Atlasreally coming to my mind. >> Yeah, let's start with the first one. So, just show of hands uh just to reestablish for the audience. Show of hands. Who here has only fans? >> We got five. That's actually normally we actually only have one, two or three,
01:13:16
Brian Atlasbut uh kind of disproportionate panel tonight, which is fine. Um but okay, so five of you have OAF. Uh, and then who here has done other forms of sex work,
01:13:27
Brian Atlasstripping, sugar daddy? Um, >> straight porn star. >> Porn star. That there you go. >> Uh, you've done what is it called? >> Professional work. Yes. Professional work. >> I've worked with production companies. Yeah.
01:13:39
Brian Atlas>> We have a tweet on this. >> I think it's Wait, hold on. Let me look at my notes really quick. This is actually kind of funny. >> Uh, you have a tweet. You sent a tweet to
01:13:51
Charlotte GatesBlacked. We can't show it, but you recall what it said. >> Yeah. >> I I'm going to be so honest. I don't
01:14:02
Charlotte Gatesremember what it said, but it was probably when my ex ran my account and he was reaching out to a lot of um >> Okay. >> Yeah. >> You said that. Here, I'll maybe I can prompt you. I don't even want to repeat most of it. >> Oh [ __ ]
01:14:15
Brian Atlas>> You want >> Oh. to get >> Uhhuh. >> you finished. You re you state the whole thing. Go ahead. I can't say that [ __ ] >> Is it the gang bang one? >> S sort of. But
01:14:27
Brian Atlas>> I I basically wanted a train to get ran on me by a bunch of BBC men. >> Okay. I'll just say you said that you wanted to get you wanted to get filled up by every black man on the blacked roster at the same time.
01:14:39
Charlotte Gates>> Yeah, that would be like the best. I >> that's definitely mainstream. >> So my birthday is coming up in March. I actually am planning like a 25 to 30 man gang bang for that. >> That is 20 to 30 for your birthday.
01:14:51
Brian Atlas>> 25 to 30. Yes, sir. >> You're just nodding your head like that. Sounds like a great birthday. Uh [laughter] >> seems fun. >> It's a typical birthday party for a woman nowadays.
01:15:04
Kitty>> Yeah, 100%. >> Okay, so >> I have somebody setting it up for me. Yeah. >> Was that a sigh of like, oh my goodness, or was it like a dang? I think they're sad. [laughter]
01:15:16
Brian Atlas>> So, okay, but we have five girls here who do Only Fans. Now, uh I imagine even if I ask the following question, you guys aren't going to even give me an honest answer. Who here has a management
01:15:28
Brian Atlascompany? >> Me? Me? >> I just joined one. [laughter] >> Okay. What about you? >> No, they take too much.
01:15:37
Brian Atlas>> They take too much. All right. Um, now you part of the way women make money on Only Fans is through messaging. The guys message you
01:15:48
Brian Atlasand you make money through the messaging back and forth or whatever. Uh, is it you guys? >> I do it. I'm proud. I promise. >> You, Brooklyn, how many how many subs do you have, Brooklyn? >> Um, currently at 6.2
01:16:02
Levvenia Roberts>> thousand. >> Yeah. Um, >> and you're messaging? >> I message I only get to a message probably >> twice a day, if that. Okay. >> You'd be surprised though how many people don't want to talk. >> What do you mean talk? >> Like a lot of people like message you.
01:16:16
Levvenia Roberts>> Yeah. >> Like people get shy >> whereas some people are just like not comfortable and it feels too personal to them. I've found out. >> Well, I'll say this. So, the reason I I asked this question and even if you did have a management company or you had a
01:16:28
Brian Atlastyper or a chatter, maybe you w at least the typer chatter, I don't think you guys would admit to it. even if you did have one. Some of you might admit to having a management
01:16:37
Brian Atlasmanagement company. Um, so I think for example, defense of nude content, I think that uh there can I can make arguments against it, but I think
01:16:49
Brian Atlasthere's also can be strong arguments in favor of producing pornographic content. I'm going to actually go ahead and push that completely to the side because I feel like it's
01:17:00
Alex (comedian)I can make arguments against it, but it's can be defensible in some ways. >> I think I mean if it got banned like tomorrow, I I probably wouldn't give a [ __ ] >> Yeah. >> You know what I mean? Like if I was like
01:17:13
Brian AtlasI don't have to do that. Yeah. Exactly. Now, however, the reason I asked about your typers and chatters, now we're talking about uh something that I don't
01:17:22
Brian Atlasthink anyone can really defend, which would be what what I would categorize, and you might disagree, as fraud. Now, so what a lot of these Only Fans girls
01:17:34
Brian Atlasare doing, and I'm not saying that you guys do it. I don't know if you do it or not. When you're advertising on your Only Fans saying, "Chat chat with me. I'm the only I'm the one running the
01:17:45
Brian Atlasaccount. Uh you're talking to me. Some of you offer the girlfriend experience where there in when you're offering the girlfriend experience, you're perhaps
01:17:56
Brian Atlasoffering the hope of something more developing and then you are uh siphoning money from these men. And I think there's also component there's two
01:18:07
Brian Atlascomponents here. There's a component of uh the girlfriend experience, but under no circumstance, let's be honest, would you ever [ __ ] or date the men who you are offering the girlfriend experience
01:18:19
Brian Atlasto. It's completely performative. Uh but you're doing it because uh once these men build a degree of connection with
01:18:29
Brian Atlasyou, even if it's parasocial, uh you can uh siphon a lot of money once they have become romantically invested in you,
01:18:38
Brian Atlaseven if you have zero romantic interest in them. Uh so that's a degree of fraud and deception which I find objectionable. And then the other thing is just if you have a management company, you have some [ __ ] person. I
01:18:51
Brian Atlasguess now it's probably AI maybe. I don't know. But before like AI kind of came about, these women would just have some dude in [ __ ] Sing maybe not
01:19:00
Brian AtlasSingapore, [ __ ] Vietnam, Thailand typing, chatting for you and pretending to be you. And if asked am I talking to you? They would lie and say yes. So I
01:19:12
Brian Atlasthink that that's fraudulent. um you know if you're advertising it as it's me you're talking to but it's actually some type of chatter or the type of chatter is portraying themselves to be you
01:19:23
Brian Atlasabsent a disclosure. I'm actually surprised there hasn't been lawsuits on this and maybe there are uh I mean the women are they're basically committing
01:19:33
Brian Atlasuh fraud and only fans uh turns a blind eye to it. So that's that's one of my objections. Do you have anybody only fans girls want to
01:19:44
Charlotte Gates>> I actually do check my messages every day. Um I talk to like a lot of people on my messages. But I do see where you're coming from from that standpoint. That's kind of why I didn't want to get a management for the first three years
01:19:56
Charlotte Gatesof it. >> But my my situation's a little different. It's more like our manager kind of helps us, you know, make our comedy reals and stuff like that. And then, you know, my only fans, I still go
01:20:07
Brian Atlaslive on my only fans. It's me usually me chatting. I am chatting. Sometimes it's not though. I will say that. >> Okay. Yeah. And look, I not all Only Fans girls do this. I think probably a lot of them do. And look, even if asked,
01:20:20
Brian AtlasI don't think you guys would admit to it because it it would be contrary to what you're trying to do, which is maximize profit and make as much money as you can. If the guy that you're typing with knows that he's typing with some like 54
01:20:33
Brian AtlasFilipino man or some [ __ ] >> he's like, that's going to break the the dynamic there. Uh, I'm actually surprised. I mean, maybe men are just naive. How could you not know? Like, if
01:20:45
Brian Atlasyou're some of these like top tier Only Fans girls, how do you not like of course it's not them and they're online 24/7. >> It's obvious. >> Like, how do you not know? >> I mean, I think that's less obvious than like the AI models that you see on Instagram that
01:20:59
Levvenia Roberts>> Yeah, they have that, too. >> And people can't even tell that it's AI sometimes. Crazy. >> Well, they Hey, the AI girls are coming for They're [laughter] coming all the time. >> They are. They steal videos. Yeah. So, I
01:21:09
Brian Atlasmean, uh, yeah, I mean, I would argue probably the the AI people who are well, if the AI creators are representing it as a real person, which I think they
01:21:22
Brian Atlasare, then I would I would make the same argument that you're uh, does there need to be a disclosure? I mean, there doesn't need legally need to be a disclosure that it's AI. >> I think there does.
01:21:35
Levvenia Roberts>> I think there does too. >> Yeah. Does on on OFA or >> OF doesn't allow cuz you need a real identity. You need this like a face thingy. >> Yeah. And even >> Okay. >> Sorry. On Instagram there has to be like a label. You're like legally required to
01:21:48
Brian Atlasdisclose if something's AI, but a lot of people don't cuz there's no way to regulate it. >> Yeah. How do you check? And >> people probably just get away with it. So that I mean that's one that's one of
01:21:56
Brian Atlasmy arguments. Uh I guess my objections to Only Fans. I don't think uh I don't hate or I don't hate Only Fans girls, but I think there are some objections
01:22:09
Kittythere. >> I feel like Sorry, go ahead. >> Oh, nothing. I was just going to say over time maybe I would find something to disagree with. >> To what? >> Something to disagree with like throughout the podcast. >> Yeah.
01:22:21
Levvenia Roberts>> Just to kind of like go off of what you were saying. Um I think that's with anything though. Like people will always abuse something like drinking. It's healthy, you know, or not healthy, sorry, it's okay, right? In small
01:22:34
Levvenia Robertsamounts, but there are some people that abuse alcohol and >> become alcoholics. And the same with drugs and many things and also including
01:22:44
Brian Atlasum any type of porn. >> Okay. Yeah. I guess uh I sure yeah, people can abuse it, I
01:22:56
Brian Atlasguess. But I think my my next argument would be uh STD risk. So that would be for the sex worker themselves. Um if
01:23:07
Kittyyou're doing mainstream content, pretty high risk of STDs. >> You have to get tested before I have Yeah, I have a lot of friends or them and they get tested almost every like what is it? Two weeks, four weeks.
01:23:19
Charlotte Gates>> Yeah. So since I'm a professional model signed with an agency, I actually have to get past certified testing, meaning it is a full panel test. I pay $250 $300 every two weeks. >> But wait, you want to know? >> I think it's less risky if you have to
01:23:32
Brooklynget testing every time. Most guys never get tested. >> STDs are more common with the regular population than they are with sex workers. >> Well, you said full panel. >> Now, let's make sure when we use the
01:23:42
Brian Atlasterm full panel, we're being precise in what we're talking about here. Your full your supposed full panel STD test does a test for herpes and HPV >> and MGEN. Do you know what MGEN is?
01:23:53
Brian Atlas>> That's not my understanding. even mainstream uh porn people, they don't test for herpes. They don't test for HPV. Do you want to show me your most recent test? And I can
01:24:06
Charlotte Gates>> I'm not trying to argue. I'm just trying to think real quick cuz like genuinely I can't remember if it says herpes or not cuz I know it tests for Men and I know >> when I was pregnant it they the full panel they gave me was blood drawn
01:24:18
Brian Atlas>> for your pregnancy. But I took blood. They take my blood, too. >> But for people in the industry, >> they don't test herpes. They don't test HPV. >> I actually do want to check that because like genuinely because
01:24:30
Brian Atlas>> the reason they don't check for herpes and HPV is because if they were testing mainstream people or I maybe even non- mainstream whatever, they're going to
01:24:41
Charlotte Gatesthey're going to hit for herpes. >> They're all going to hit for herpes. They all have it. I I actually do know a few people in the industry who they keep it like non-disclosed but like somehow
01:24:54
Levvenia Roberts>> because there's like a >> Yeah. pill you can take >> Yeah, there is a pill you can take as well. >> Also, herpes is only spread when there's open source and there's a lot of like >> you can be presymptomatic. >> Yeah, you can. >> So, it can be like just the teeniest
01:25:06
Brian Atlaslike right before it's about to have a you have an outbreak. It could uh you know >> like you think it's a pimple and it's not kind of thing. Well, I mean, it could be even like I don't know if
01:25:18
Brian Atlasmicroscopic would be the right term, but I mean, if you think about something developing, it has to start at a really small, >> but it has to have an open sore, >> isn't it? Like one out of five people. >> I mean, I would Would you have sex with Well, I mean, I don't know your herpes
01:25:30
Brian Atlasstatus or whatever, but like would you have sex with somebody who has a nonopen herpes sore? >> No, but that's like >> like you going to take that risk. >> Oh, well, I guess I don't mean non-open, but like if you have any. So, is that
01:25:43
Brian Atlaswhat you're saying? like if you have any presenting. >> Well, I mean there's HSV1, HSV2, and then you would have uh oral herpes, genital herpes. Um,
01:25:55
Charlotte Gatesso yeah. Does anybody here have herpes? >> I have a question. >> Anybody? >> I don't even get laid. >> Oh, well,
01:26:03
Faith>> outside of work, I don't either. So, so, um, I assume it's probably [music] >> Go ahead. I assume it's probably a lot less likely if you're working with a
01:26:14
Faithmanagement company, I think you're calling it. Um, how how common is like how do you >> how often do they get tested?
01:26:24
Faith>> No, like how do you au authenticate these tests? Like can people that aren't working with these companies like produce fraudulent test? Yes, I have like I have definitely not me
01:26:36
Charlotte Gatesexperienced, but I've you know being on Twitter having 100,000 followers, you see other people go through kind of horror stories like that. I've never gone through something like that, but I have heard of people kind of faking
01:26:47
Charlotte Gatestheir tests and they basically put it on chat GPT or whatever and kind of just edit it out. >> Isn't there a QR code? >> Yes. Now, that's what I was about to get to. if you use talent testing services
01:26:59
Charlotte Gatesor clear or there's another one pro 13 um it's all pass certified so usually what that means is like it is a full panel from my understanding it has tested me for herpes in the past but I
01:27:10
Oliviadon't want to say it has and me be wrong so I would have to check but yeah that's so scary like I feel like if you have that knowledge going in but my mind
01:27:21
Charlotte Gatesimmediately went to an 18-year-old who's not super familiar who's working on her own and trying to I've seen it happening. >> I've seen it happen and there's definitely and it is one of those things like like even in the past I've been
01:27:33
Levvenia Robertsasked would you recommend you know this industry for anyone. [ __ ] no. >> I think the HPV is a way bigger deal than HSV. I heard that talent testing doesn't test for HSV because it is so
01:27:45
Levvenia Robertscommon and I don't know. I still don't think that's right. Um but HPV is like like can kill you. >> I think that like ruins like your life. >> Yes. It's I'm pretty sure it's cervical cancer. It's a Yeah, it's a whole thing.
01:27:57
Charlotte GatesYeah, >> literally everything, I would assume. >> But I also go to the gynecologist once a month to stay safe. So that's awesome. >> Yeah, that's good. >> I mean, you kind of have I feel like when you are in the industry and you
01:28:08
Charlotte Gatesknow what you're putting yourself into, you kind of have to like be safe or >> be gross, you know? if you guys had um a job presented to you that was not in
01:28:21
Faiththe porn industry or Only Fans or anything like that um and you were just given a job, >> equal pay, everything, would you still want to be in porn or would you do you feel like you have to do it
01:28:35
Faith>> or both? >> Or would would you just take the job that isn't porn and do a regular job? >> I love my job. >> No, I would definitely move. I mean, you would if you would. >> Well, if I could do just stand up all
01:28:46
Alex (comedian)the time, I would. That'd be sick. But at the same time, I got bills to pay. I want to buy a house. So, I'm like, yeah, it's a little [ __ ] up. Let me just say it. I'm very selfish. >> I'm going to put that on the PL. I am a
01:28:57
Alex (comedian)selfish human being. I like the money. >> Now, will I get out of it eventually? Yeah, of course. But I want to at least get enough money raked up to pay for my son's college cuz I didn't have the opportunity to have my college paid for.
01:29:08
Alex (comedian)And that's the one thing that I'm after is to rake up enough money to have my son's college and private school paid for. And after that, you know, hopefully
01:29:19
Alex (comedian)I can just do stand up full-time or have a a different job. I don't really I'm not really necessarily in the porn community. And I wouldn't categorize myself. I mean, obviously I have an Only Fans, but I don't do collabs. It's just
01:29:31
Alex (comedian)me, myself, and I. And I don't really promote it. Everything that's promoted is a link in a bio. And there you go. So, at the same time, it's like, "Oh, yeah, sure. Here's, you know, cuz it's, you know, there's hardly any work to
01:29:45
Faithdo." >> I like the freedom that comes with it. >> But what if you still had the freedom from just a regular job? Like, if I said, "Here you go. Here's a job, equal pay, and you get all the freedom
01:29:57
Charlotte Gates>> like working from home." >> Honestly, genuinely, like it I have had that before, but it wasn't like if I were wasn't equal. So, I don't know if I actually got presented a job that I wanted. Yeah, cuz this wasn't my first
01:30:10
Levvenia Robertschoice. >> It's like an art form. Sorry, go ahead. It's like an art form. Um, I'm really creative and I I express that in my videos. And I like because a lot of people think that Only Fans is just like
01:30:23
Levvenia Robertsthe porn aspect when it's not. Like, it's content creation and social media. I'd say like 75%. Mh. >> Um, and I really enjoy that and it pays really well. And I also enjoy making the
01:30:36
Levvenia Robertsfilms. Like I was going to school for production. I made like a legit porn production film. I can't release it, but it was gorgeous. >> You can't release it. [clears throat] Why is that? >> Oh god. Um,
01:30:50
Levvenia Roberts>> what did you do? >> I started a business with someone a friend >> and it it failed. >> Boyfriend? >> No, it was a friend. Um, and it was just
01:31:00
Levvenia Robertsa little unfair the way I was treated were a lot unfair. I did all the work. Um, and I said I wanted to step away from the company and it ended very, very
01:31:11
Levvenia Robertsbadly with they wanted to take the film basically and leave me with what was left in our bank account, like our shared bank account, and kind of screw me over. They hired a lawyer, tried to like fight me with it and
01:31:24
SPEAKER_00>> I stole it for myself. >> Got a chat here. Kiwi 8 donated $100. >> Brian, I have the biggest crush on you.
01:31:32
SPEAKER_00Where is your girlfriend application? >> 25 female 51 in 121 lb body count three. No SW. I hope this makes you smile. >> Do you have a big labia?
01:31:45
Brian Atlas>> Big labia. >> Yeah, she forgot the she she omitted the most important thing. I should You're going to have to send another one, Kiwi. Uh Brooklyn, you were saying something,
01:31:57
Brian Atlasright? Brooklyn, >> where's your girlfriend's application? >> I should, you know what' be really interesting? By the way, Kiwi, thank you very much for your TTS. I really appreciate I actually do have a girlfriend application that's like
01:32:09
Brian Atlasreally autistic and I should [ __ ] it it can't be tonight cuz I got to I'd have to review it, but I should actually show it. >> If we all filled one out. I was going to say, >> can we all fill one out?
01:32:19
Brian Atlas>> I want to fill it out now just to >> Can you guys I don't have um Sure. I'll send you I'll send all of you the girlfriend application. [laughter] >> See which one is the cringiest. >> But do we need to have a big labia?
01:32:32
Brian Atlas>> What the heck? Well, hold on. Wait. Hold on. Hold on. Here. >> Only the only fans girls are single at the table. So, it's like that's crazy. >> I don't think we fit the criteria. >> Um, >> I'll quit.
01:32:45
Brian Atlas>> Holy [ __ ] You're show >> I'll quit tonight. >> Alex is [laughter] going to quit for you. Uh, for the for the memes, I'll I'll send all of you the girlfriends application and see where you guys [laughter] >> Okay. If you if you like
01:32:57
Kitty>> stack up, >> imagine you were on a date with us. How would it go? >> Wait, us plural. >> Sorry. Sorry. One >> everyone. All of you. >> Yeah. Everyone [laughter] >> go run the table. >> Like, like, how would it be dating her? How would it be dating me? How would it
01:33:10
Oliviabe dating her? >> What do you mean? >> I'd be I'd be pregnant every year. [laughter] >> You met us like an hour ago. I don't know if you can make that assessment. How would it be? What do you mean? I don't understand the question. >> Like based off of like first impression
01:33:23
Brian Atlaspersonalities, >> like what would you rate that date if you could off of >> the hypothetical imaginary date? >> What would I rate the date that hasn't happened yet? Okay. >> That's what she's trying to ask. Yeah. [sighs and gasps] >> I feel like, okay, if I was on a date
01:33:37
Brian Atlaswith you the entire time, you'd be like, "Can I put you on the leash?" And I'd be like, >> "We're [snorts] in a restaurant. [laughter] What are you doing?" Yeah. It'd be it'd be a bit uh probably a bit strange. Mhm.
01:33:48
Brian Atlas>> Um, >> yeah. Uh, what was the question? [laughter] I don't know. But you said date with all of you. >> No, like individual. I meant like
01:33:59
Brian Atlas>> that would actually Do you think that would fly if like say either gender, >> but let's say it wouldn't fly, but [ __ ] it. I'll ask the question. [laughter] You you set up a date,
01:34:11
Charlotte Gatesmaybe you should tell them ahead of time, and it's a multi-person date. But like it's not a it's not a group date. It's not like five guys and five girls. >> It's like one girl, five guys, one guy,
01:34:24
Brian Atlasfive girls. >> Type thing. >> A what? >> A poly. >> No, just like >> Sister Wise. >> I'm a busy guy. I don't have time to take all five of you on individual dates. Let's just all go on like a
01:34:38
Brian Atlas[ __ ] >> It's like Brian Love Island. >> That'd be a train wreck. >> Can you do a video like that? >> I should actually do a dating >> a dating show. Yes. where I I have the girls and it's actually I'm trying to date them or something.
01:34:49
Brian Atlas>> Dating panel. >> Well, or even just to be a one-on-one like a one-on-one. But I stream it. >> I'm surprised you still have hope to even do that. >> Oh, I'm pretty blackpilled. But to to
01:35:02
Faitheven do what? To date women. >> Yeah. >> As opposed to >> even be willing to the the time the time of day. >> Wait, what do you mean? >> Just you've had so many women come through here on your show. >> Yeah. And
01:35:15
Faith>> I'm just surprised that you're still willing to want to put yourself out there to give them >> a very organized man. You can organize. >> You mean after everything I've heard? >> Yes. >> All the crazy [ __ ] I've heard. >> Yes. Fair enough.
01:35:26
Kitty>> Well, look, I mean, there's good women out there. >> Hey, her man literally traumatized me for like I'm traumatized by your m man. And if you can like forgive him and find
01:35:38
Kittysomeone else, I'm pretty sure Brian can too with >> Yeah. Um, has like the podcast affected your dating life at all? >> Sure. Yeah. >> Do you want to elaborate on it? [laughter]
01:35:50
Brian Atlas>> Uh, well, I guess what are you kind of getting at? Like >> I don't know. I'm just wondering cuz like I mean like my job affects my dating life obviously. >> Oh, I see what you're saying. >> Yeah.
01:36:00
Brian Atlas>> Well, I I could answer it in a couple ways. So, I mean um in terms of dating prospects, uh my the way I date has changed a little bit. So, I mean, I I'll
01:36:12
Brian Atlasstill shoot my shot, but um and I have I started the podcast four years ago, but most of the women I've dated, they contact me. So, I
01:36:23
Brian Atlasmy dating situation is completely divorced from the reality of mo like how most men experience dating. Uh I'm basically just sourcing entirely from women who contact me, which is basically
01:36:35
Brian Atlaswhat all women do essentially. even if you're you could have a following of nothing or you could be really super famous, whatever. Uh way better, by the
01:36:45
Brian Atlasway. Way [ __ ] better. Um but uh so that's one way it's changed. Uh the other way is
01:36:55
Brian Atlasyou you you compared it a bit to Only Fans. So I'm not ignorant or oblivious to this. So when you have a controversial show like this and you say [ __ ] [ __ ] like
01:37:08
Brian AtlasI say, yeah, it definitely closes the door for some women. So in the same way that when a criticism of Only Fans girls is when you do this, when you're involved in sex work, uh that will close
01:37:18
Brian Atlasthe door to you to some men, like some men, it's just 100% going to be a dealbreaker. Even if you quit it, they're going to be like not okay with it. I'm not saying that you won't be able to find a boyfriend. Most of the
01:37:29
Brian AtlasOnly Fans girls, well, not I shouldn't say most, but a lot of Mary, close the door, please. Uh, a lot of Only Fans girls who come on the show, they'll say they're single. I'm not I sometimes after the show, I'll
01:37:41
Brian Atlasask questions like, "Off the record, what's Come on." And uh and I would I I always keep it off the record, so I wouldn't actually say who, but a lot of times they'll be like, "Oh, yeah. I've
01:37:52
Brian Atlasbeen I'm like engaged." >> Mhm. but they come on and unfortunately lie and say, "Oh, I've been single for blah blah blah." >> So, um I don't think of girls are
01:38:04
Brian Atlasprevented from finding a boyfriend, but it does close the door for you. So, comparing it to my situation, sometimes we dive into political stuff on the show. Um, obviously, I have
01:38:15
Brian Atlasopinions that are probably not appreciated by a lot of normies. Uh I have I have high expectations.
01:38:25
Brian AtlasUh well I don't know if I I have high expectations but I have >> what's the right word? Unorthodox. >> What are they? >> Expectations of women.
01:38:37
Brian Atlas>> Uh what's the right unique I don't know what's the right word? Something along >> qualifications. Uh >> he does like to get bowed at >> bowed at. That's not I wouldn't frame it exactly like that, but that is Yeah, that is something
01:38:50
Charlotte Gates>> he likes a submissive women. >> Yes. >> Oh, you like the praise kink. Got it. >> What do you mean the praise? >> You like to get praised as a man. >> Well, I mean,
01:39:02
Brian Atlas>> if we're talking about the the five five love languages. >> Yeah, of course. >> Acts of service. >> Yeah, exactly. >> Uh words of affirmation. Sure. >> Physical touch. And then gift giving. >> Quality time.
01:39:15
KittyOh, that's my favorite. >> What? Wait, what is quality time? I'm not totally sure. >> Beside each other, even if you're not doing anything like I completely disagree. >> Is that quality time? >> Wait, I feel like it's like, >> what is quality time to you?
01:39:28
Levvenia Roberts>> Quality time is like doing an activity. Like, let's go ice skating, let's go rock climbing, let's go kaying, let's do something, make memories. But I don't even I don't even consider watching a movie like quality time cuz you're just watching something. You're not even
01:39:41
Brian Atlastalking to each other. >> True. You're just kind of watching the same thing together. >> No, I I think that's quality time. Watching a movie, >> watching a TV show. >> I like it, but there's a lack of
01:39:52
Brianaconnection and I really value connection like with the people I date. >> And I also, sorry if it's >> Go ahead. >> Um, and I also agree in some way, shape, and form because um kind of just laying around together doing nothing doesn't
01:40:04
Brian Atlasreally progress or build a relationship. >> I think I think it does. That's my go-to. >> I mean, not all the time. You want to go on a date? [laughter] I mean, if you can avoid it, I mean, why not? >> You want to spend time with her?
01:40:15
Brian Atlas>> No, spend time with her. But, you know, look, uh, the great Patrice O'Neal, rest in peace, he was a famous comedian, passed away, uh, young, he said something along the lines of, and I'm about to [ __ ] butcher it, so let me
01:40:28
Brian AtlasGoogle what he actually said before I [ __ ] it up more than I already have. Uh, Patrice O'Neal, uh, women around. I'm
01:40:36
KittyWait, what is it? Quote, hold on. while he's looking it up. I like playing like video games with another with another guy. Even if it's different, >> like
01:40:48
Kitty>> somebody in the chat send it. >> I love playing Clash Royale. >> Yeah, that too. >> So fun. >> Or like even if it's like separate like you don't like separate, but if I'm cooking or like someone like he's on the couch. I feel like that's still a little
01:40:59
Charlotte Gatesbit of quality time. I disagree. >> I feel like you shouldn't have to be speaking if you have a real connection. Like I feel like I should just be there. >> Silence. Yeah, >> don't necessarily have to, but it's definitely more engaging in a relationship.
01:41:12
Levvenia Roberts>> Yeah, you don't have to. Like, there doesn't need to always be talk, but I wouldn't consider that quality time. >> Okay, >> I'm still looking for it. [laughter] >> I think it's different for different
01:41:23
Oliviapeople. Like, I am way more of an introvert. Um, as is my boyfriend, and we both have like a million hobbies, a million things we like to do. Um, and we can be doing different tasks or different activities, but in the same
01:41:35
Oliviaroom. And I think the difference is whether or not you are, you know, taking breaks to engage with the other person. So I'll go to his shop, he'll be fixing up his truck, I'll be sitting and crocheting like a little basket for it.
01:41:47
OliviaAnd I'm just adoring him watching him fix up a truck. He's adoring me just kind of sitting and crocheting. And that's Yeah. Then we can like chat about it. And so I don't think you always have to be talking. Um, and I don't think you
01:41:59
Oliviaalways have to be experiencing the same activity as long as >> there's a a difference in your perception of, you know, that when you're together and doing that activity when you're alone.
01:42:11
Briana>> And even the topics of conversation that are shared can also in some way be a shared experience when talking about new things or getting to know each other in some way, shape, or form. So, I'm kind of on both sides of it. >> Yeah. Like if you watch a movie
01:42:23
Oliviatogether, you know, it might be not be considered quality time, but if you sit after and like talk about the movie and like treat it as like a true piece of like media consumption versus just kind of zoning out, then that's when it becomes quality is the the intentionality behind it.
01:42:37
Brian Atlas>> I agree. >> I found the quote, "Men want to be alone, but we don't want to be by ourselves." Mhm. >> So, it's kind of nice like, you know, if the girl's like around the corner, >> like she's there but like in the kitchen
01:42:52
Kittyor something. >> So, you don't like >> in the laundry room. Huh? >> You don't like clingy girls? >> Clingy. >> Clingy. Like attached. >> Clingy. >> Physically like attached and stuff. >> What do you mean? >> Like clingy girls like Yeah. Like she
01:43:04
Oliviaalways wants to hang out with you. Always wants to sit next to you. >> Always missing you. Wanting to be around you. that you have to be engaged every moment that you're together. And when you're not together, she wants you to >> Why aren't you paying attention? >> Engaged. Yeah.
01:43:17
Brian Atlas>> Yeah. >> I mean, I [snorts] think it's good for a woman to be obsessed with you, but um she needs that needs to be like an internal thing that she copes with. [laughter]
01:43:29
Brian Atlas>> Like I don't like I don't know. I don't want it to be encroaching on my autonomy and my uh too much of my time. Yeah, she gets jealous. Sorry. Go ahead. [snorts]
01:43:42
Levvenia Roberts>> Like she gets jealous easily but like won't let you know when she's jealous cuz she knows that maybe she shouldn't be jealous at times. >> Or just not be jealous to begin with. >> A little harder said than
01:43:54
Kittythat's got to be like a huge >> cheated on me in my dream. I would be mad. >> Well, that's kind of weird. But I've heard girls say that though. [laughter] They get all upset at you because you cheated in the dream. It's like [ __ ] I
01:44:06
Brianacouldn't What? What was I supposed to do? It feels really real. >> It does. You guys can be mean in dreams. >> And that's what you guys have to apologize for. It still hurt our feelings. >> We have to apologize for the dream cheating. >> Can we over? >> Yeah.
01:44:18
Brian Atlas>> Brian, you cheated on me in my dream. I'm really upset about it. >> Put him in. Put him on a leash. >> This is a role play right now. >> Put him in the dark. >> Like, do you apologize? >> But yeah, quality time. I Yeah, I don't know about quality time to be honest. I don't know what that [laughter] means,
01:44:32
Faiththough. What does that mean? >> Hanging out. I think quality time is just time together that to me it's quality if there's no bad vibes. So it doesn't matter if you're like >> caught up in whatever you're doing. As
01:44:43
Faithlong as like the energy isn't bad, I think that's quality time. >> Yeah. Phone down. Phone down. Just hanging out. >> Mhm. >> We're having some quality time right now. >> Yeah, we're having some quality time right now. >> Oh yeah.
01:44:54
Briana>> I think a more general explanation of it in my personal opinion is just enjoying each other's presence, >> you know. >> Okay. >> Yeah. I guess you wouldn't enjoy it if the vibes were bad. >> Yeah.
01:45:06
Brian Atlas>> But yeah, the other four love languages, physical touch, words of affirmation, gift giving, uh acts of service. Yes to all those. Quality time. Eh, whatever.
01:45:19
Brian AtlasWhat does you know? >> You don't have a top pick. >> Uh acts of service. >> I knew it. >> Acts of service. >> I feel like that's >> if she's doing [ __ ] for me. >> That's a common one for men. >> Mhm.
01:45:29
Brooklyn>> Yeah. if she can if she can make a quilt or something. [laughter] >> Don't men like being like acts of service for women, too? They like feeling like useful and powerful. >> I like to be as useless as possible for a woman.
01:45:43
Brian Atlas>> That's crazy. >> Just at the beginning just to see just to get a little temperature check, you know, make sure No, I'm just kidding. Sort of. But, um, you'd have to ask my ex-girlfriend about that. >> Do you like quilting? I quilt. >> I don't at all. But
01:45:56
Brian Atlas>> Well, you're missing out then. >> I can just buy one on Amazon of Superior. They're made with love. Would you accept one from her? >> Um, you should have honestly brought one with you. I'm kind of upset that you didn't.
01:46:09
Brian Atlas>> I'm sorry. I'll give you my scar. >> The only, by the way, shout out to uh shout out to you. She made cookies. >> She had a ton of cookies. I've already had two and they're very good. >> You already ate one. [laughter]
01:46:19
Olivia>> Is that what you off to do? >> I Yes. I I I also use the bathroom, too. The trick is to uh swap one quarter of your flour with oats and then extra brown sugar, less regular sugar, and
01:46:33
Brian Atlasextra vanilla. >> I should be demanding all the women to come on the show to bring me some sort of food item. >> Some gift like a king. Like we bring Yes. Like Exactly. sourdough bread, you know. I don't know. The women very
01:46:45
Brian Atlasrarely the women will bring a gift and it's very upsetting to me. >> I gave you $3. >> I was pissed off at all of you for [laughter] not bringing a gift. It was upsetting. Uh Wait, what were we talking about? How does it get to the acts of >> your standards? Like what else are your
01:46:58
Brian Atlasstandards of women? >> You were asking me, okay, Brian, with the podcast, has it impacted dating? >> Uh, yeah, definitely. Some women, no go. >> Cuz I lean more conservative. I'm I
01:47:10
Brianawouldn't consider myself a radical, unlike chair one over here. >> But, um, >> but wouldn't that be more beneficial for you because you would like your partner to have the same views as you for them to >> Yeah. No, that's a that's a good point.
01:47:22
Brian AtlasThat is a fair question. I I obviously would want to uh be with somebody where there's an alignment of values, but I
01:47:30
Brian Atlasthink that um obviously I think even for maybe people who it's going to close the door for some people just because they don't want to
01:47:42
Brian Atlasuh what what's the right term? Proxy drama. Like if you're doing online [ __ ] like I get death threats, I get uh hate
01:47:50
Brian Atlasmail. I have [ __ ] major publications. Hey, we're They don't say this. We're We're writing a hit piece on you. Do you care to comment? Like, so then it's like, okay,
01:48:02
Brian Atlasthey're going to do some [ __ ] >> They don't want to be in the splash zone. >> Yeah. Someone did tell me to kill myself in the street today. >> Nice. Good times. >> Nice. >> Yeah. So, I mean, I think um
01:48:14
Brian Atlas>> Nice. I mean, I'm very private with my uh dating life, but uh there's still it can still have some degree of impact and uh
01:48:24
Brian Atlas>> Yeah. No, it's it's closed the door, I'd say, for some people. Yeah. >> Like before, you know, back before I started the podcast, I was and I I actually have become more conser a bit
01:48:36
Brian Atlasmore conservative. Uh I don't I don't think I'm too crazy with it. Depends on who you ask. But before I started the podcast, I considered myself a bit more moderate. And you know, trying to date in Southern
01:48:48
Brian AtlasCalifornia, look, I'll be honest. If you want [ __ ] [clears throat] you got to hide some, you got to hide a little bit of your political leanings.
01:48:58
Brian AtlasYou can't be like, "Listen, listen." Okay? Uh, you know, you got Look, I'm not trying to be [ __ ] celibate here. I can't just f [ __ ] first date. is,
01:49:10
Brian Atlasby the way, um I don't know. Look, I've had some bad dating experiences with some liberal women. I'll tell you that much. Had some bad experiences. You know, one time I brought a bottle, not this one exactly, but
01:49:23
Brian Atlas>> plastic. >> Literally, I'm not even joking. It's not even like I made this up. The girl torpedoed the date because I I brought a plastic water ball to the date. She was like, "That's really environmentally
01:49:36
Brian Atlasuh inappropriate." Or I don't know what the term was. >> Was she vegan? >> I'm not sure, honestly. And then I argued with her for 10 minutes and then yeah, that didn't go well.
01:49:47
Brian Atlas>> And then one time, oh, uh, a girl I was seeing for a brief period, this was the summer of love during the BLM riots. I didn't post a black square.
01:49:58
Brian AtlasAnd uh she she this girl I'd been seeing for it was short, like one or two months. I didn't post the black square. She's like, "You going to post the black square?" I was like, >> "No, I'm good." And then she broke up
01:50:12
Brian Atlaswith me. >> Oh [ __ ] >> I didn't post the black square. >> I think the black square was very performative. >> I agree. >> Yeah. >> Did you post regularly on Instagram? >> No, not really. I wasn't really
01:50:24
Brian Atlas>> That's a green flag, I think. >> Yeah. I don't really >> I agree. If I didn't do content, I probably wouldn't even have an Instagram, to be honest. >> I love Instagram. I gota I have my real fix, you know? >> Yeah. You got some funny [ __ ] on your
01:50:38
Brian AtlasInstagram. >> Thank you. >> You got some funny Can you Can you lay on the accent a little thicker for us? >> I mean, if you want to. I can. >> Let's hear it. >> I That was it. >> Huh? >> How do you want me to What do you want me to say? >> Have you ever wrangled a cow before?
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Brian Atlas>> I have. >> On a horseback? >> Yeah, actually. Have you ever uh had chewed tobaca? >> Yes. >> Yes. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> You got you got a bucket for that? >> I got a I got a spit bucket right here
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Charlotte Gatesfor you. >> You got a spit bucket right there. [ __ ] >> I use my plastic water bottle. >> Plastic. >> Oh, you do the drip. >> No, you got a I got a handmade one. Someone sent me. >> You got to make sure that you put a napkin in it so it's not all, you know. >> Well, that's good.
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Brian Atlas>> Yeah, >> but I should write that down. >> Writing this down [laughter] right now. I should uh I should Next show, Mary, remind me. I'll uh show my girlfriend application. It's intense. It's like
01:51:31
Brian AtlasI've had I've had some girls DM me and I send that [ __ ] >> Oh [ __ ] >> And they're like I'm good. They changed their minds. I'm like, "Oh, it is what it is." >> Well, like what are the three weirdest
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Brian Atlascriteria from it? >> I'm not sure. I It's really long. >> Well, like I'd name three. >> It's just very um here. Let me see if I
01:51:54
Brian Atlascan pull something up. Let me see if I can give you something. Let's see here. Uh, one sec, guys. I'm pulling up. Uh, >> question for the girls. Do you guys approach the guy or you wait the wait for the guy to approach you?
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Levvenia Roberts>> I'll approach the guy anytime. I don't care if he's if he's got a mustache and blonde hair. Just know I'm on it. >> I usually approach as well. >> I approach the guy. I love approaching the guy. >> I give the signals, but I like to be
01:52:17
Brianaapproached like traditional. I would typically kind of just wait for them to come to me. Honestly, >> I'm picky. I gotta come to them >> because if it's a dude that's coming up
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Charlotte Gatesto me, I'm like >> I like it if a girl makes the first move. >> Depends on the situation. >> I'm really picky. >> I usually like wait and if they don't make a move, then I'll make a movement.
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Olivia>> Yeah. I'm usually willing to initiate more if I feel like there's an attraction there, maybe a hesitancy or a nervousness and like kind of >> sometimes you have to give a more like, you know, straightforward green flag and
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Brianathen they feel more comfortable. But >> but I need some sort of like a signal or something the other person or else I would never >> I'm not a shot in the dark kind of person. Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Now, here's a question that you have to
01:53:03
Brian Atlasask. Uh, one of the the questions I I I asked because when we went around the table, everybody here said they're single or not everybody, but some of you
01:53:12
Brian Atlassaid you're single. Now, what in 2026 does it even mean to be single? Cuz if you ask somebody if they're single 20 years ago, for as an example, uh, that
01:53:24
Brian Atlasmeant like they're single. They're not [ __ ] somebody. They're not talking to 20 other people. >> They're single now. You could ask somebody if they're single
01:53:35
Brian Atlasand they could be having sex with three other people, have a roster, be on a dating app, have 300 matches. So, what does it actually mean in 2026 to be single?
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Brian Atlas>> I'm a jealous girl. You cannot be talking to anybody. >> Yeah, I agree. Well, in reverse. So, I think the question you have to ask, this is what you need to ask. You can't just ask somebody if they're single. And I'll
01:53:59
Brian Atlasread it. Are you currently talking to dating? parenthesis. This would include casual hangouts, seeing, involved with,
01:54:08
Brian Atlasor maintaining contact with any other men in any capacity, whether casually or seriously online or in person, including but not limited to texts, DMs, dating
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Levvenia Robertsapps, or social media, you need to ask that question. >> I agree. >> Me, too. >> Because you ask somebody you think they're single, it's like, >> yeah, >> they got their guts rearranged last night. I'm way too jealous.
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Levvenia Roberts>> What makes me even more mad, too, is like you think that you're going study with someone. >> Steady? Is that why you wore the prairie dress today? >> This is just what I wear. >> Oh, okay. Yeah. >> You don't like my dress?
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Levvenia Roberts>> I I wasn't hating the dress. I was just You said steady. >> Yeah. >> Steady. Okay. Go ahead. >> Um >> [ __ ] 1950s. >> So, like you think you're going steady
01:54:54
Levvenia Robertswith someone and then you find out that they're seeing other people, too. And I feel like that's a common occurrence. And >> yeah, you got to ask right away. Right away.
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Brooklyn>> That happened to me one time when I worked at Taco Bell, but it was my manager. He was like just two years older. And then another girl I worked with and I found out and we were all working together. >> Damn. >> Was messy. >> Nice. >> [ __ ] up. >> Got to watch out for those Taco Bell
01:55:20
Brianamanagers. >> Yeah. early on in high school. Um he wasn't really my boyfriend or anything like that, but I had kind of mentioned this um when questions were sent over.
01:55:32
BrianaUm there was a man that at first was super normal. Um turned out to be very crazy, but to sum it up, he was single. We were
01:55:43
Brianainvolved for I would say like a couple months. Found out he had a girlfriend of over two years. >> Oh [ __ ] And then a couple months later,
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Brianaum, him and my closest friend at the time for like 3 months were >> doing stuff. So, I mean, I totally agree with all of these other questions do
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Oliviadefinitely have to be asked because >> that definitely doesn't >> Yeah, getting single sucks. So, for me personally, I feel like I've never been
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Oliviaable to date or like have interest in more than one person at a time just because I >> a lot of work. >> It's seems like a lot of work and I have difficulty reducing like levels of
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Oliviaintimacy or like balancing different like intimacy in different areas. Um, have any of you guys like had a roster or like experience that balance? is am I the only one that that feels difficult to cuz it seems like a lot of people
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Oliviamake it seem normal >> and to me it like just >> like to have a roster >> to have a roster like having um more than like you know people whether you're talking to whether you're like
01:56:50
Brianadating people um but yeah basically >> I honestly find that quite difficult for my personal perspective I mean besides like at one point in my life texting like multiple people at a time I've
01:57:01
Olivianever personally >> had multiple like physical relationship ships because it just goes against >> Yeah. It just doesn't vibe with you. Yeah. It's difficult. I feel like not
01:57:12
Oliviaonly like with time management, with like energy management, but just to emotionally kind of develop two different relationships simultaneously. Like >> I feel like for for some people maybe
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Oliviathey can make it work. For other people maybe they're trying to pretend that they're making it work. Um but I feel like someone's always missing out. >> I would crack under like I would crack under >> It's hard to get one. Yeah. >> Okay. I What is a roster? I'm sorry. I
01:57:37
Oliviajust don't know what that is. >> Totally. Yeah. So, um roster usually will refer to um a someone having a couple people. Sometimes, you know, some people will boast big rosters. Um some
01:57:50
Oliviapeople might see it as like three where you flirt or engage with with them in a romantic or sexual nature, whether it's talking, whether it's sex itself, whether you just kind of, you know, date
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Oliviaand hang out, whatever. um at the same time and or it can be people that you can go to either for dates, sexual needs, sexual interaction or romantic interaction um over a period of time.
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Alex (comedian)So, >> think of a list. >> Yeah, it's basically I thought it was just like sexual >> in my head a roster is like people you're just having sex with. >> Yeah, I've heard that. I've heard some people where they're like, you know, >> that's what what I think when I hear
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