04:45:44Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)that's the first UNF faithful love all those four characteristic your standard for compassion for you to accept my message you're here to make sure that I speak the way that you think I should
04:45:56Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)speak you know I have a husband and I have a priest right and if they think that the way I'm talking is not correct they will correct me technically we're no but technically we are supposed to be
04:46:08Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)part of the same family like Sisters in Christ and all and what we need is women who will boldly speak the truth and not mince words and not be subject to the HR Management
04:46:19Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)Department who are going to and be at home and be quiet but now we need the truth when I'm at home sweetheart I am quiet and I am submissive to my husband
04:46:30Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)but I'm here a panel full of feminists and a panel full of modern women and so I'm here to tell you all that you're full of [ __ ] and that I don't care what you think about my delivery
04:46:41Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)argue my arguments defeat my arguments don't tone police me and say well you're right Rachel I just don't like the way you delivered it because I don't care you know um I don't your tone doesn't bother me at all like I agree with like
04:46:54Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)a lot of what you say um I just think you're ineffective I think you're ineffective well tell that to the Amazon bestseller list which disagrees okay but you you've sold a lot of books that you change anything I do wait say your point and then I'll move oh no I was just
04:47:07Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)going to say like selling books doesn't mean you've changed anything hundreds of messages letters and DMS from women around the world saying that they've decided to not go to work stay home with their kids you don't believe
04:47:19Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)it I don't believe I will share them with you on my I think it's a shame because you obviously have a big platform and I think it's unfortunate she feels bad for me it's a sh it's not that I feel bad for you I literally
04:47:30Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)think it's I I I you talk about how you don't we always saying I feel I said I think it's a shame because you have a large platform and you're representing Christianity and unfortunately I don't think you're repres representing true
04:47:42Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)Christian values very well sure and I'm not saying I I did not do a perfect Pentecostal heretic what do I care what you think all right we're back to the Schism all right guys I'm going to move it on I'm going to move on let's do a
04:47:54Brian Atlaslittle something light actually never mind let's not do something I will do something light soon that will get you all involved I've got two things so before actually before we
04:48:03Brian Atlasget to your notes um I have a I have a heart out at 10 yeah don't uh you mean 10 10: p.m. Hawaiian Time okay it's anyways so do you have any final things
04:48:17Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)you want me to say before I you want to drop the end bomb before I go prefer preferably can you tell us about any problematic groups that require Flash how about you flash the camera
04:48:27Brian Atlasproblematic groups no no no no where do you want me to start we need stay for uh we'll have you stay for for two segments how's that sound what what is two segments I don't know what you got hard
04:48:37Leonardo/Julia (mixed)out hard out to your hotel room first of all tell tell I have I have I have a masculine man who is picking me up and he said 10: p.m. sharp now he knows I'm a lady and I'm going to be late and I
04:48:48Brian Atlashave to respect his time so before anybody starts with me I'm being a good woman not a she submit to the Patriot I'm countering you don't have that he he in the hierarchy of things he's higher
04:49:01Leonardo/Julia (mixed)te than you so you would be submissive to him and I'm sorry about and I know he's higher te cuz he's lost more hair than you so let's LOL watch no I got a heart out you got a heart out I do I have a heart out we
04:49:13Leonardo/Julia (mixed)have a 10:00 I think I think you have a a Hawaiian listen Hawaiian whatever I have is fine what what what's what's the question what's the question is this the guy wait you said you were hold on I'm
04:49:26Leonardo/Julia (mixed)in a Rel four month guy yes four month guy he came he came with you from New York no he lives in La what's happening here oh wait do you live in LA no I'm here visiting him that's why I could do your podcast Oh I thought you lived in La
04:49:40Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)he's l Brian well I live in D you're not going to be able to compete first of all uh I don't have sex outside of marriage oh I forgot I'm sorry just
04:49:51Leonardo/Julia (mixed)kidding you a [ __ ] liar a [ __ ] liar what do you want from me what's the last thing you want from me what do you want what do you what do you what do you want over here Tony give me what you
04:50:02Brian Atlaswant I'll give it to you quick and straight I don't like that kind of talk okay we need you okay so your tone is we'll do the man bear oh wait but she's
04:50:13Leonardo/Julia (mixed)gone God damn it the man bear you go with the man unless you know he's an illegal immigrant then you go with the bear wait there was the Reddit thing we were going to do we can just do that
04:50:25Brian Atlasreally quick a little we'll do the light thing and then she can go uh scroll it up big okay so this is what is the worst thing someone has said to you during sex
04:50:34Brian Atlasgrandma too big uh scroll down and before you give your answers uh I'm I'm going to have you read okay so go
04:50:43Brian Atlasahead wait scroll up next so scroll up up up up no no no no no no no no right yeah the small the short sentence go ahead the short sentence
04:50:54Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)right right there no no okay the yellow highlighted part okay not me but an old friend of mine really quiet softspoken polite guy a total gentleman and a
04:51:05Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)graduate student in the liberal arts also pretty inexperienced tented wait tentative tentative and vanilla sexually he's dating this really cool girl for
04:51:16Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)maybe two months she is much kinkier in bed she floats the idea of dirty talk and apparently likes to be objectified from time to time he's hesitant but
04:51:27Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)wants to please her and doesn't dismiss the idea outright changes the subject and figures that they'll revisit the idea another time anyway um they have
04:51:38Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)sex a few oh my God what they have sex a few days later I'm going have to lock in um for the first time since the conversation really going at it doggy style and she tells him to talk dirty to
04:51:51Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)her he says that he can't think of anything to say so he says nothing and she then repeats the request but the second time she is not [ __ ]
04:52:00Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)requesting but demanding it he comes up with yeah you like that you [ __ ] r word you can say it I'm okay okay uh
04:52:09Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)he's [ __ ] that's what he said he's never struck me as one for embellishment so I believe him he
04:52:20Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)said that he was he said that was it for sex that night although they are together for two years on now okay I read that part wrong fine so that
04:52:30Brian Atlasdoesn't seem that that's not that crazy why is that crazy funny it's funny so what's the what what was the uh what is the worst thing someone has said to you during worst thing funniest thing
04:52:41McKenziestarting with you go ahead can you start on that side um what why I don't know it's kind of hard to can you start on this side I'm like I have to what's the
04:52:51Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)crazy I have to think I really like worst thing
04:52:59Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)mhm I don't know I don't know I don't think I've had anyone say anything like crazy weird or bad personally
04:53:10Brian AtlasI'll I'll I'll think about it uh so the question is what is the worst or funniest thing that someone has said to you during sex
04:53:21McKenzieuh I I actually don't know I don't think anything
04:53:28Carlylike I don't like talking at all like any anything anyone says makes me I I don't like talking at all just mute okay
04:53:38Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)respect um probably like did you did you
04:53:48Brian Atlasfinish did you do the dishes during okay yeah um I don't have any I'm a virgin shut the [ __ ] up you're full of [ __ ] I'm
04:53:59Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)serious you're full of [ __ ] serious no I'm serious [ __ ] she's also a saint who runs a charity C out wait so hold on this is new that's my time guys all right thank
04:54:12Brian Atlasyou for having me very nice seeing all youate we'll have you back we'll have you back thank you so much for coming nice to meet uh so okay here's what we're going to do actually I think we
04:54:22Brian Atlascan maybe like uh I think we have you uh you scoot that way I think let me I'm just going to rearrange
04:54:33Brian Atlasthings God I take my double boost right did you not anything and then you'll just don't here you'll scoot down okay so hold on you're say you're virgin there's no I'm
04:54:44Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)sorry there's no way you mean there's no way the high value man isn't expecting anything he's just with you because he likes to hear you [ __ ] chatter you
04:54:56Brian Atlashave't only fans you have fake boobs it doesn't add up I'm a virgin and nobody for real St the cat
04:55:06TTS/Chat readershe's a virgin only fans girl who lets her boyfriend [ __ ] other women Panda donated $200 is the blonde chick next to Brian
04:55:16TTS/Chat readerAndrew's twin sister or something they have the same emotionally immature aggressive and arrogant communication style exact same Vibes a they even look
04:55:27Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)the same WTH it's so sweet of you there's no one I'd rather be compared to little Cersei Jamie Lannister action
04:55:38Brian Atlasyeah you get that ref spr mhm I'm still stuck on this virgin thing I don't believe I'm actually serious I'm not kidding I'm like really
04:55:48Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)like I'm being like 100% is that why you let him let him what chick sleep with other girls I'll have intercourse with him
04:55:57Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)when we're married so are you giving BJs or you giving handies giv
04:56:06Brian AtlasBJs cuz high value men don't date I believe her I 100% believe you for sure okay so here's the here's the deal
04:56:15Brian Atlaswe're going to make I'm if anybody who's watching the show right now knows you I invite them to absolutely spill any
04:56:25Riley May Lewisdetails about you fine that's fine if you're going to like that I that's fine nobody's going to have any details she's being I I can tell she's
04:56:36Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)being honest yeah I that's why is that part of the reason why you
04:56:43Brian Atlasno he he gets it with other girls and as soon as you get married let's go keep going into the mic the mic some [ __ ] what tell us how you feel 400 huh tell
04:56:56Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)us how you feel how I feel tell us how you feel why she's just a [ __ ] troll she's a [ __ ] liar like this whole time she's been trolling she's been lying like it's just I don't know like I
04:57:06Brian Atlasdon't I don't believe a word she [ __ ] says at this point like doesn't make any sense true wait can you two switch seats um wait actually before you do any funny
04:57:17Gaanafunny worst thing you've heard during sex no probably just him calling me a different like a guy calling me a different name be or some [ __ ] yeah like
04:57:26Raikaa different girl's name oh um it wasn't like when we were [ __ ] but when we were like intimate he asked me if I could cut him if you could cut him cut him yeah like with a
04:57:39Raikaknife what yeah I did what see you got stories you got to share this [ __ ] hold on wait like I'm sorry I didn't have time to send y'all
04:57:49Raikastuff before I wait so you cut you cut him yeah cut cut him with like was it a stab or a slice it
04:57:59Raikawas a slice like I cut him with on his wrist yikes and like we're still friends now and like every once in a while he'll like pull his wrist up and be like I
04:58:10Brian Atlasremember what you did to me and I'm like damn that is pretty bad holy [ __ ] he's a freak he was like super freak switch seats what about you um not applicable oh are you are you a virgin you're
04:58:21Brian Atlaswaiting till marriage or real I believe real virgin I believe it fake virgin real virgin fake
04:58:31Brian Atlasvirgin on the ring doesn't even fit you that ring look at that look at that look at that [ __ ] Gap that [ __ ] could here just put your hand like that it'll just down okay well she's holding it up kind
04:58:41Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)of okay all right uh wow okay I don't buy that for wait we should ask the chat because of the band I I did um on like I guess my friend's behalf like one of my best friends is there a feather on top
04:58:53Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)of the microphone can we get a pluck that [ __ ] off pluck it off there we go thank you sorry your friend what about your friend on my friend's behalf I do remember them telling me like they had a
04:59:03Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)guy who they dated that had a fart Kink and so anytime they'd be [ __ ] he would prefer for her to be on her stomach and he'd spread her ass and he'd say fart for
04:59:15Brian AtlasDaddy oh God fart for Daddy and she'd be like I can't and he'd be like try harder you see you just said on YouTube I'm sorry to the world please don't
04:59:26Brian Atlaslisten to sorry sorry 12 gagee it's crazy all right cool let's do here let me read this chat we have desert Joe actually can you read it please Rachel Mo oh Rachel mopping the
04:59:37Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)floor with these Heretics Heretics thank you and feminists this has been a great panel ladies pay attention to what she's saying not how she's saying it so some
04:59:48Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)emotional in there didn't like how you said it so much truth that will make life better cool thank you man uh let's
04:59:56Brian Atlasdo really quick uh hold on wait oh my okay would you rather come across a random man or a random bear in the woods starting with
05:00:08Brian Atlasyou go ahead what type of bear that's a good question that's a good question yeah let's say okay so in the same way that it's a random man it's a random bear that you would find in North
05:00:20Brian AtlasAmerica a Grizzly a black bear it could it could be a black bear could be a brown bear grizzly size adult reg adult size and adult adult Bear Yes
05:00:36McKenzieum [ __ ] I'd probably choose the bear I'm not going to lie I choose the bear what about you I would say based off my life experience yeah I would say probably bear based off your life experience just based off some situations yeah I would
05:00:49TTS/Chat readersay bear you mean situations you've had with men yeah have you had any situations with bears cable donated $200 Panda and the rest of the panel I'd
05:01:00TTS/Chat readerjust like to say from all of us here at The Crucible continue to see and cope because Bas Rachel just destroyed you not one step
05:01:10Brian Atlasback okay Crucible cre thank you cable appreciate it okay what about you which do you pick definitely a man I don't I would be so scared if I saw a bear in the man yeah definitely a man a bear is
05:01:23Riley May Lewislike a death sentence I don't know I don't know what you guys are thinking yeah a man a man mhm a
05:01:30Brian Atlasbear a man a man wait so it was bear I think you said man right man man
05:01:40Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)so bear bear bear beats Bears battar Galactic okay you guys are lying have you ever heard this saying online like well a bear wouldn't take off your pants and Essay
05:01:52Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)oh my God yeah yeah it'll eat you alive yeah like the worst how many men do you guys think just randomly SAA a lot well when you say when you say a lot so why
05:02:03Brian Atlaswe let's let's look into that so well have What proportion so when it when I say random man would just essentially be plucking any man out of the whole US
05:02:13Brian Atlaspopulation so what percentage of men in the US do you think if presented with some opportunity to commit this crime do
05:02:22McKenzieyou think would 40% oh my God I think 40% what do you think I honestly don't know I do think it's a lot lower but I don't know
05:02:33McKenzielike I'm trying to be like unbiased um I don't like I I want to say like only like five I'm hoping 5% what about what
05:02:40Gaanado you think like around I'd say probably like 5 to 10% or between that okay interesting there's no feminist
05:02:51Brian Atlaspropaganda though it's all a lie so if you I here's another here's another question uh if if you were in a bathroom would you
05:03:02Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)rather a man or a bear wanders in well a bear can't [ __ ] undo the door really so like am I in a bathroom like is there a lock on the door like
05:03:12Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)let me know the logistics one of high ceiling bathroom is there a window in this bathroom cuz I'll leave the window and I'll I'll keep the Bear in there like it's a high
05:03:23Brian Atlasceiling bathroom yes and American bathrooms are [ __ ] terrible so a high ceiling high ceiling which means that the the divider doesn't go all the way to the top so you the bear could climb
05:03:35Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)over the is there like paneling on the CE cling on to okay which one do you prefer I'd still probably choose the [ __ ] bear the bear honestly I don't
05:03:47Carlyknow I don't know I guess I guess a man a man yeah a man a man in that situation okay do you think this is like a city girl problem is the man also crawling over the stall because in that case I would change my answer to a bear I'm not
05:03:59Brian Atlassaying the bear might not do that but it could in the same way the man might not do that so it might just be a man accidentally wandering into the bathroom he's not he's not like following me into the bathroom cuz
05:04:10Carlyin that case I pick the bear because the bear could be just why don't the bear and the man yeah have the same like but if a man's following you the bathroom it's kind of like a red flag and no not following you into bath you're already
05:04:22Carlyin a bathroom a man wanders in a bear wanders in it's like a gender neutral bathroom and he's just in there chilling no not gender it's the woman's bathroom it's a woman's bathroom in a red
05:04:34CarlyState I might pick the bear then cuz the man probably is up to some nefarious what if it's a transgender woman well in that case she probably just wants to go to the bathroom I'd pick the transgender woman yes what but it it's still they're
05:04:46Riley May Lewisboth males more likely that that person is going to beer because they're going into the bathroom because it is a fetish like it literally is a fetish no if what do you
05:04:59Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)hold on okay you're like generalizing all trans saying that it's a fetish well they're all mentally ill and mentally ill people are more likely to uh you know I'm mentally ill not going to not going to linger too long on the bear
05:05:11Brian Atlasthing but I do want to ask a question for those of you who answered bear if we replace man with black person does this question become
05:05:23Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)racist well why why does it have to be oh my God like a like what why does it have to be a man versus a bear does the question become
05:05:33Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)racist it's just a question I mean I would I would still choose the bear because a man man either way you know so but I said black
05:05:44Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)person is it racist black person like meaning like female or male like sure okay then I would choose them instead you don't get to choose he's asking if changing the
05:05:57Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)proposition of the question makes the question the race of the person like if it's racist if you okay let let me just ask this how would you feel if you didn't have breakfast this morning I didn't so I'm feeling it right now
05:06:09Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)intelligent no I actually had a Alpha Brain for breakfast isn't that some type of IQ test it's just it it kind of tests your ability to entertain a hypothetical
05:06:21Nicolesituation but in that case it's not a hypothetical situation cuz she didn't have I didn't so this is how I am Jesus no but how would you feel if you didn't have breakfast
05:06:32Brian Atlaslighter there all right wait so okay here's the qu so if the question is would you rather come across a random
05:06:39Brian Atlasperson or random bear in the woods if you answer bear is your answer racist what I'm just if you no no no if
05:06:50McKenzieyou answer bear is your answer racist no no so okay I mean so what's your answer to to that question then still the bear I mean so you said it's like it could be a man or a woman or
05:07:03McKenziedoesn't matter honestly okay if I'm in the woods and a random person comes up to me it's going to scare me regardless so actually no no no no okay but it's your I know the original question is would you ra
05:07:14Brian Atlasyou're you're going to come across either a random man or a random bear but I'm asking if we like change it for to race does it then become a racist if
05:07:24Brian Atlasyou're if you answer bear is it a racist answer I wouldn't think so I don't think so I don't now what if the same
05:07:34Brian Atlasjustifications that you used for picking a bear over a man the risk of sa you use those same exact justification and pretext for picking the
05:07:44Brian Atlasbear i' I'd rather pick a bear because this racial group he's checking for consistency with okay fair enough would it be racist
05:07:56Brian Atlaswould would it be racist what here let me ask you the question which would you pick the bear or the they really don't like this one okay well I mean I think it it doesn't make
05:08:10Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)sense because if you were if you were to say if you were to change it to like a a black man but if you're saying if it was like a black person in general like a a woman or like a black child like I'm pretty I would choose I would choose
05:08:20Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)them but if you're saying men in general whether it's black Asian whatever man I would choose the bear like I just I'm just saying like well there's a 50%
05:08:33Brian Atlaschance you get a man a 50% chance you get a woman
05:08:40Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)is there a 50 perent like I get a bear and a 50% into the mic into the mic so I get either a good bear or a bad bear or like a man or a woman you get a random
05:08:51Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)bear it's not you don't hope it's not a polar bear and you can make and I'm just like and I'm just flipping a coin on whether I get a man or a woman walking through the door I'm
05:09:02Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)like my go I guess I guess yeah no I would still choose the man or the woman cuz I guess at least I have the probability of it being a woman okay the point I'm trying to make
05:09:13Brian Atlashere if the original if the question of if you change it to like a race-based question if it's racist then it must it must of course then be sexist to choose a bear over a man I think it would be
05:09:25Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)racist if you were to say were you if you were to choose a a a man or a bear and someone chose um man and if you were to change it to black man and they chose
05:09:36Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)the bear then it would be racist I think so I think like I think the reason this question is causing so much Kur fuffle online is because it kind of shows how
05:09:47Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)much women think men are inherently abusive violent risky dangerous when in actuality this is super rational to choose the bear over the man and so it shows that women are easily
05:09:59Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)propagandized emotional in their decision making and that they're not going to accurately assess risk they're going to go based off of like emotional impulse to do with experience experience I said life experience for me because
05:10:11McKenzielike I my first relationship my only relationship was the worst thing I've ever been through my entire life so for me what I've been through like Mr Bull $200 communicate from the grand
05:10:23TTS/Chat readerInquisitor the grand Inquisitor and the Inquisition patriarchy supports Mrs Rachel and enjoyed the roasting of the Pentecostal heretic breakfast well done
05:10:33Brian AtlasMrs Rachel I disagree you disagree I was not roasted I am not a turkey all right thank you and then we do have one chat here really quick from uh thank you bul ble Mr
05:10:46Brian Atlasble Mr uh has any guy called you more than one girl's name during sex has this happened to anybody ever been called a
05:10:54McKenziedifferent girl's name during [ __ ] just me just you just me just you okay uh so going back you were saying yeah so like obviously like why I said I wanted to like try to be unbiased in my answers
05:11:06McKenziecuz obviously I know my experience was not the experience of every person like have a great relationship and you've also had bad ones and obviously you can't base every man off of one bad one right but to an extent I I I don't think my like answer is necessarily emotional
05:11:18Riley May Lewisbut it's more just like I've just happen to had really bad experiences with a lot of men so in my situation I'm just like confused though because it bears like instant death like you're saying you'd rather just choose death than to be put in the same room as a man it's not
05:11:31Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)instant death well yes it is not necessary it is unless you've never had interactions with Wildlife if you've ever had interactions with wildli CH are not good without this explains
05:11:43Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)how women this is a difference between men and women that's very fundamental women personalize everything and you can tell this right by if you go if you make a generalization you say women tend to
05:11:55Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)women tend to be shorter than men on average there will always be some woman that pipes up and goes but I'm actually 5'1 so that doesn't apply to me so like women tend to personalize I I mean I'm going to be honest I probably 100% did
05:12:06Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)that like just subconsciously how many guys like let's say you've had interactions with a thousand random men over your lifetime how do you think it would go for you if you had interactions with a thousand random Bears over your
05:12:19Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)lifetime okay actually I've never had that se before so fair so like you're picking the bear because you don't have experience with bears and probably you grew up watching Disney movies where bears were cute and cuddly and they sang songs so like the the reason this
05:12:32Nicolequestion is important is because it just demonstrates all of the biases that women have in decision making yeah I actually completely agree you know Brian you said something in a previous show that I really liked you
05:12:43Nicolesaid that women say um be because it's um social signaling yeah um and I think it is social signaling but again most of the time whenever women social signal
05:12:54Nicolelike that there's a reason for it so I do think women are afraid of men and I don't know if that's it's probably it's unfounded but um I don't know I guess there should just be a push for more um
05:13:07Nicolemoral men I don't know how there could be because I know there's a big issue with essay like a lot of people know people that have been ESS and it's just
05:13:16Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)it seems like it's a huge thing that happens so depends on the definition of saay because there's a lot of women who think that when they regret an an encounter the next day that that counts
05:13:28Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)uh that a smack on the bum might count or when I was with this guy and I loved him it wasn't essay but now that I broke up with him and he's a jerk now it is essay it's all emotional and it's all the statistics are based on self-report
05:13:42Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)which is really important we're not going based off of convictions we're not going based off of cases with evidence it's really hard to convict people of is and I will grant that there's very little evidence in I will grant that we can totally grant that and it doesn't
05:13:54Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)change my argument that the statistics of like when you hear this one in three women have been essayed that is based off of self-report and the woman's perception of what happened and we just saw with the be question that women's
05:14:06Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)perceptions of reality are personalized and biased and filtered through a bunch of emotion and things like that well I mean so like 30% of your sample size cuz you asked how many of us 2 four 6 eight
05:14:18Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)so you asked eight of us and three of them answered bare so of your sample so it's it's that's a bit of a generalization to say women say this you could say that well no that it's pretty
05:14:28Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)consistent with the statistics right because if one out of every three women would say they've been sa then three out of the nine of us saying bear you know
05:14:39Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)and I'm not saying kind of doesn't counter your argument no I'm saying my whole point was just to say that it's not necessarily objective when women say these things it's based off of an a
05:14:51Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)perception emotional filters and all these other things that if you ask a guy they don't necessarily they just don't view things that way they don't do everything based off of pure like emotional personal
05:15:02Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)experience anecdote they don't start sentences with I feel like as often as women do I'm not not even saying this is bad I'm just saying we're different and this is why having men in leadership positions and stuff makes more sense I
05:15:15Nicolethink that's why it's more effective to communicate with women sorry I I won't go back to it but that's I I understand that women are different so that's why I think it's more effective to here let's
05:15:24Brian Atlasuh get into uh the notes Here for Julia Julia you were recently dating a 24y old there's a six-year age Gap there because you
05:15:35Brian Atlasare oh you wrote six whatever uh you said but looks like these young men are lacking their older women uh see not below about men dating
05:15:44Brian Atlasyounger okay uh so how long were you dating him for just two months two
05:15:50Brian Atlasmonths okay and let's see oh wait hold on it's all right um wait hold on your most recent relationship was with a guy
05:16:02Brian Atlassix years younger than me which developed while I was doing a 70-day singleness fast yeah what is that so I
05:16:11Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)deleted all the apps I stopped like anyone that I was talking to I ended uh the
05:16:20Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)communication and devoted myself to like focusing on my faith prayer that
05:16:27Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)sort of thing for 70 days mhm how soon into the 70 days did and no like
05:16:35Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)anything no uh self like everything that could be relational or sexual cut right but okay you said
05:16:45Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)how soon into your 70 days singleness fast 40 uh did you 32 no no no sorry
05:16:52Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)sorry 42 days in 52 42 days in 42 days in So yeah so so we kind of like started wait tilt your mic down a little bit
05:17:04Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)please we started kind of the spark happened and then the PQ the P the
05:17:15Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)PQ uh definitely and um and I realized it it works both ways technically mhm um and and so but I told him I said I'd have to
05:17:26Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)wait I said you have to wait a month until I'm until this fast is over and so he was like I guess I have something to look forward to so uh he asked me out and I said you have to wait a month and
05:17:36Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)so then he I didn't let him text me or talk to me we only saw each other at church or Bible study that sort of thing and it was really
05:17:46Brian Atlassweet you're looking around in space uh no it's just everyone's got up so it's kind of annoying but um okay so
05:17:56Brian Atlasuh and you did them for two months mhm so you did you actually go through with the waiting for yeah we waited and then so the so you guys did have carnal knowledge
05:18:09Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)carinal knowledge carnal knowledge no sex no we didn't no but you said you have to wait to to go on a date with me he had to wait until I was done with my fast to go on a date with me I to go on
05:18:22Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)Dat and to text me and to like hang out like yeah so I would only I said we could only see each other in group set like we we go to the same church so we see each other at church so I was like you can
05:18:32Brian Atlastalk to me then but we can't um and I let him send me a Valentine's Day you let him send God what a s [ __ ] this
05:18:43Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)guy no he was he's amazing no he's lit he's the most manly guy I've ever dated he is the most like he is incredible the internalized feminism is overwhelming
05:18:55Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)right now he cuz no he he respected my fat I I said and he was willing to wait so like I'm I'm like clearly you like we both have the same goal we both want marriage out of a relationship and so he
05:19:07Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)saw enough value in me me after getting to know me for 18 months in a totally non-romantic context that we he was like it's I'm it's worth it to wait okay for this girl I think that takes I think
05:19:19Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)that's incredibly admirable Why didn't it work out um I think personality differences you didn't find him
05:19:30Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)attractive huh no he he ended things with me oh really yeah okay why did he say like yeah what was his he said personality differences I I
05:19:42Brian Atlasdon't know what happened I I but he he quoted personality differences what prompted you to go on a 70-day singleness fast I'm assuming there was some sort of dating related thing that
05:19:52Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)must have precipitated that yeah um okay well the Holy Spirit um as Andrew the Holy Spirit conviction
05:20:05Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)amen praise God thank God for the Holy Spirit um Okay so I shortly after returning from California in October I
05:20:13Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)went on a date with a guy who was um a few years older than me and he lived in
05:20:21Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)Miami and he was really like successful and um handsome and good Charisma and all this
05:20:31Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)stuff um and so he basically offered to uh um he wanted to hang out with me more so so so we hung out while he was
05:20:42Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)in DC and then he went back to Miami and so he was like can I fly you out to Miami and I was his name Walter no okay
05:20:53Brian Atlaswho's Walter he likes uh White Chan women appar not Walter not Walter not Walter not Walter my uh what is his name oh my
05:21:05Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)gosh I'm blanking okay never mind go ahead go ahead um no not Walter not Brian no my my goad go ahead and um my Rene waiting no 18 months I can tell you
05:21:16Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)that right now anyways so I I was like convicted because I was like H if I have friends in Miami so I was like okay I can stay at their houses and stuff it'll
05:21:23Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)be fine but if I go what if I um cross boundaries and I don't want to do that and so I knew I was putting
05:21:33Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)myself in a potentially like tempting situation that could compromise my values and so I was praying and I was like Lord I just need you to
05:21:44Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)intervene um because I'm going to go which is not the right spirit that was a spirit of Disobedience but um I did it and I was just like Lord I Surrender this to you please I I just pray that you'll help me and I literally show up I
05:21:57Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)get to Miami I get he you like he had an Uber pick me up I get there and he says hi and he's been texting me the whole time
05:22:07Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)how excited he is and then literally one minute in to hang out he just like looks at me and his whole face changes and he just like I the best way I can describe it like the look of just total disgust
05:22:19Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)and hatred and I don't know what it was but it was like he just hated me and he was like he started saying things like I can't believe I invited a stranger into my house and like all this stuff and I
05:22:31Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)was just like you invite I was like I have text messages I mean you clearly you paid for the trip um dang well keep going keep going
05:22:40Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)literally so so he's he's so mean to me he he he's he's just like we can't he's like we're we can't go out he's like we're just here I have this stranger in my apartment oh and then guess what in
05:22:53Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)Miami that weekend or it wasn't a week we it was we went during the week it was a monsoon so I literally like couldn't leave the apartment cuz it was so flooded and so it was I was I was just
05:23:05Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)like staying in this apartment with this guy trying to make him feel better because he was so like this is so bad like this I can't believe I invite a stranger you guys meet on Tinder no how
05:23:16Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)okay how did you guys meet hinge so did your profile picture not look the same I'm no no we had we had already met we had already met in DC and hung out and and everything yeah yeah yeah this was not the first time he met me then why
05:23:28Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)would he say you were a stranger dude I know I think it was God I CU I prayed and I was like Lord I need help like I need you to help me to not somehow cross these boundaries even though I'm putting myself in in a totally tempting situation where like I'm obviously going
05:23:41Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)to cross boundaries and I literally show up at this guy's apartment and he is he hates me and that he was texting me for like two weeks leading up to the trip being like I can't wait to see you like you're so gorgeous like all this stuff
05:23:52Brian Atlaslike he and and you know like we wait this doesn't I'm sorry this doesn't make I can show you the text I can show you the text messages like so you step through the door instantly he's like
05:24:03Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)[ __ ] you I I step through the door I have my suitcase he's like welcome I'm like like hi and he's like and we kind of walk into his place he goes and sits on his couch and I'm I'm like no he goes
05:24:15Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)do you need anything and I said I need to find my wallet because I realized that in the Uber that I couldn't I didn't know where my wallet was and I was afraid I left it on the plane so I started like kind of like I open my suitcase and and I'm like I grab my
05:24:27Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)wallet and then I take it and then and then I brought this game which was like called it was a little card game it was like let's date and it's like a card
05:24:37Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)game with a cute little fun like sassy questions and so I sit like I find the wallet I find the cards and so like I go and I sit next to him on the couch and you know he like has his arm around me
05:24:47Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)and is and like is all like obviously interested and then I was like well wait first let's play this little game cuz I was nervous and I didn't you know and so
05:25:00Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)we start playing the card game and then he's like oh my gosh you're going to fall in love with me and then he and then that's when the hatred hatred hat that's how would describe it yeah he literally hated me and I have a text message from him where he said like as
05:25:12Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)soon as I got back to DC he literally was like I can I can read the text he was like I should I like I know I was really mean do you want me to read it should I read the text I can read the text give us maybe just the summary it
05:25:24Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)was basically like hey like I you know I'm honestly like I hope you got back okay I'm I'm really cuz he had been he was like did you get home okay and I didn't respond and then he said something else I didn't respond and then he go I go he goes hey I like I hope you
05:25:37Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)got home okay I just want to say like you know I know I was kind of in a funk while you were here and you know I'm sorry for the way I acted like I realized I was rude to you and that like stuff like that and he was just like I
05:25:49Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)hope like you're good and and all that so it was just literally like something came over him and we were there in this apartment
05:25:58Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)monsooning I don't think he like I don't think he was bipolar he didn't say that he was did you guys hook up what do you mean by hook up carnal
05:26:09Brian Atlasknowledge well like we had made out and we had we had cuddled but that was it uh when you when he was in DC or when he was in DC but nothing in Miami did you guys sleep in separate rooms no we slept
05:26:21Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)in the same bed which was so uncomfortable we were just like I was literally like this I was like like we were just and he was he was did the and that yeah and he was just like I can't believe I let that's when he said it
05:26:32Brian Atlasagain I let a stranger I me sometimes it's best to just kind of Go Your Own Way that that's really awkward to that's weird I know so that at that well that was that first night so then I'd go and
05:26:45Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)i' call up my friend and I'm trying to like see her it's in the meantime it's like it's flooded and so basically I I ended up I changed my flight so that I could leave out the next day um I I have
05:26:56Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)a question and I don't I honestly don't mean to be mean but you're a very chatty lady were you this chatty in the situation like did you come in the house and just go
05:27:08Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)I definitely was nervous so I probably was bubbly but he seeing this as a chatty person myself yeah met though we we met we'd gone on two dates like so he he knew what I was like cuz on a on the
05:27:21Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)first date I was also a little nervous I was that's weird it's strange thought strange so so but but that made me realize that someone that would actually tolerate the way that he treated me I
05:27:33Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)must like have a lot of like self-loathing and so that kind of sent me on this in I was like I need to figure out this like self-loathing because only like a someone that doesn't care about themselves would would allow that because otherwise they'd just be
05:27:45Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)like hey screw you and so then I went to um this Retreat and then I had a like Encounter With Jesus and he we like went
05:27:56Brian Atlasback and he healed me of Three core memories and that's when I started my fast that's what triggered it that's what precipitated your 70-day sing
05:28:07Brian AtlasSingle Ness fast okay uh let's see all right um and then you dated a guy who is 6 years your Junior yeah which is interesting because you've been on the show before almost a year ago and you
05:28:21Brian AtlasPro you provided no I think it's longer than that you provided some maybe nine months you provided pre-show notes previously and you said that why do men seek to date and marry girls way younger than
05:28:33Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)them look for partners your own age I know but you your they want innoc they want innocence they want innocence they want babies they want lower body counts they want less baggage because of pair bonding it's like proven that after
05:28:46Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)a girl sleeps with Five Guys their chance that a happy marriage goes down I think by 80% so so you want to know the best the best line of when I dated this this guy I told I called my mom at some point I tell her and she's like good get
05:28:57Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)them while they're young they're less polluted so I guess she would I thought that was funny cuz she's like a mom and she was anyways but yeah it was great he was he's been like the my favorite guy
05:29:08Brian Atlasthat I've dated I'm okay here let's do the Bumble segment to get everybody involved in the conversation um Nick can you pull up the Bumble segment yeah I se an age range start we're going to go
05:29:19Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)with you we'll go around the table uh age range of guy you'd like to date into mic
05:29:26Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)please um I'd say minimum uh I prefer someone that's like my age or I'd say Max would be 30 what's your age 22 I'm
05:29:37Brian Atlas22 cool okay so you each get 20 swipes you each get 20 swipes we're going to pull up some uh male profiles on Bumble no
05:29:48Brian Atlasrough hold on but here's the thing here's the thing whoever's turn it is you guys can't give input you got to let them decide on their own go ahead which
05:29:57Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)one is it I guy the middle it's the it's the guy in the middle like I no okay is it your no
05:30:08Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)you get 20 then we go on can you move the camera so we see his age no no no
05:30:19Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)no no no jeez no wow okay
05:30:33Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)no no no no no God no
05:30:44Brian Atlaswait yes it's the L roller is this guy [ __ ] married what the [ __ ] no no
05:30:56Brian Atlasno no so that was one out of 20 I think yeah I just liked his hair we didn't do U we forgot to do with oh no we did do the Stiffler question okay never mind uh
05:31:08Brian Atlasage range for you I would say anywhere from like 25 to like 30 25 to 30 by the way so you that was one of 20 so you said no to 19 out of 20 guys Nick go
05:31:19McKenzieahead switch it for her you said 25 to 30 correct okay uh no these poor guys that are just into
05:31:29Nick/production (partial)the mic please into the mic no no wait
05:31:39Nick/production (partial)yeah like a high value man to me no no no can't even see what he looks like so
05:32:00Nick/production (partial)no no no yeah I can't see so now can't
05:32:15McKenzieyeah choose one of them I guess yeah
05:32:23Brian Atlasno no yeah a damn how many yeses was that two
05:32:32Brian Atlastwo all right uh Claire I can't do this this segment I have a boyfriend I'm not going to am I required to you don't have
05:32:43Brian Atlasto you could be a good sport though okay I'll do you you don't have to do it I'll I'll do it you could just pretend as if
05:32:50Carlyyou were single age range age range um yeah 20 21 to 30 I don't know oh sorry 21 to
05:33:38Brian Atlasno no no no no should do bonus 10 yeah you get a bonus 10 if you say no to everybody I
05:33:50Carlyget a bonus 10 none of them are my boyfriend no no no no
05:34:01Carlyno no no no no do I have to like say yes to one
05:34:10Carlyeventually for it to end no we just so that was all no yeah one of them did kind of actually look like my boyfriend I almost said yes okay my
05:34:21Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)age rage on apps was like 30 to 45 okay 30 to 45 and this is just to go on a to match with them or to go on a
05:34:31Brian Atlasdate uh like age range you'd be willing to date yeah okay willing to go on a first date no he looks fun no
05:34:43Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)no no yes no yes
05:34:54Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)yes yes no no yes
05:35:05Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)no no no no yes
05:35:15Brian Atlasno yes that was what five six that was a decent amount anyone keeping track I don't know uh your age range for guys
05:35:25Raikayou would date probably 19 to 23
05:35:34Background/minorokay no no no no no no
05:35:49Raikano yeah he's in a car yeah I got a car Kink youall know she got a car Kink no is it because he's
05:36:01RaikaRed O uh wait what the [ __ ] like yes but no cuz he's in the m 100% yes what yes because of the wo Jack yeah
05:36:13Background/minorno no no no no no
05:36:25Brian Atlasno no no the curly hair
05:36:34Brian Atlasmaybe that was I think one I think that was one out of 20 okay um 19 through like 21 19 to
05:36:48Brian Atlas21 y guys twitch.tv/ whatever drops a follow drops a prime sub no no
05:37:40Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)no no that's three of 20 y'all just don't like men what's going on a range of guys you would date God
05:37:51Brian AtlasI like I guess um 20 to 30 but I'm going to say no to everyone cuz cuz boyfriend uh we'll do you you want to do it yeah sure what's
05:38:03Nicoleyour uh 19 to 23 but I love my boyfriend so to preface BTW yes um no
05:38:27Nicoleyes yes yes yes I don't know no uh no
05:38:48Brian Atlasyes no no that was 10 of 20 I think she got them right uh wow that was the I think that's the most we've ever had some I
05:39:01Brian Atlaslove my boyf aside from her y'all picky as [ __ ] they just don't like guys I could even see what half of them looked like especially you there were some
05:39:13Gaanagood-looking dudes that you passed on not going to well I still have a boyfriend just I mean like not not liking that way you guys but well no I know but they like they sort of have like features that he has so that's why I particularly like them all right fair
05:39:25Brian Atlasenough I mean you did say three so I mean that's I feel bad for all the men out there on dating apps damn these girls are picky man impossible picky
05:39:34Brian Atlaspicky picky I think it's also when rejecting like 78 and 9 like 78 dudes so anyways uh back to Julia here for a
05:39:47Brian Atlaslittle bit and then we're gonna oh I've totally forgot guys we lowered the if you want we lowered the TTS to 69 if you want to get a TTS in yeah so get them in if you want guys do it uh yeah guys
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05:40:12Brian Atlasdrop a follow in the prime sub if you have one thank you guys appreciate it back to Julia C seor you wanted to I mixed up your notes
05:40:22Brian Atlasfrom last time this time but uh you wanted to talk about if guys want girls to be virtuous then they need to hold themselves to the
05:40:32Brian Atlassame standard and this includes porn news totally includes who porn new but I'm more focused on the beginning part so if guys want girls to be virtuous then they need to hold themselves to the
05:40:43Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)same standard yeah okay you want me to elaborate elaborate briefly if you can elaborate briefly yeah I think that in terms of something
05:40:56Celeste X/Julia/Rachel Wilson (mixed)like celibacy especially in today's day and age there's a reason why you're doing it