She Is 6ft10?! She Gets BORED & Dumps Men?! Single BUT Unavailable? 3 VlRGlNS? | Dating Talk #181
Date: 2024-07-24
Duration: 7h 24m
Guests
Identified Speakers
SPEAKER_02Natalie(guest)
SPEAKER_03Panel (mixed)(guest)
SPEAKER_08Brian Atlas(host)
SPEAKER_11Andrew Wilson(guest)
SPEAKER_13Sophia (UCSB)(guest)
Key Moments
00:03:13
IntroGuest panel introductions round
“have the guests introduce themselves please tell us your name age location and occupation”
00:08:39
QuoteSophia Nevada reveals she is Miss Nevada United World, competing for international title Labor Day 2024
“I'm also currently your Miss Nevada United World I will be competing for the international title this Labor Day weekend”
00:19:56
QuoteSophia UCSB reveals she gets bored and dumps men every ~3 months; the "3-month rule"
“I get bored with a person... do you know the 3 month rule you're always excited to see this person and you just want to hang out with them all the time and then like that feeling just slowly fades away”
00:23:02
QuoteSophia (UCSB) wants to see boyfriend only once every 2 weeks - described as wanting extreme independence
“I want a long-distance relationship maybe see each other once every two weeks”
00:40:52
QuoteKaani reveals she is "single but not available" - still loves Muslim ex, waiting to heal
“I am single but not available... I'm single but I'm not interested or looking for anyone... my heart is still for him”
01:16:46
QuoteVirgin hat trick reveal - Sophia UCSB, Victoria, and one other guest all confirmed virgins
“wait are you also a virgin okay any other virgins any virgins virgins at the table no way there's no way”
01:50:58
QuoteBear vs man scenario introduced - asking panel who they would rather be dropped in forest with
“you get randomly dropped into a forest you can choose for a random man or a random bear to also be randomly dropped in a forest with you”
02:01:55
QuoteSophia UCSB claims 60% of men would murder or assault a woman - Brian challenges the figure
“more than 50%... 60%... 60% would do what murder you either murder me or try to like essay you”
03:04:55
QuoteHaley shares story of 3yr situationship with man who withheld all relationship privileges "not until you're my wife"
“anytime someone tells you they won't do certain things for you unless you are their wife run”
03:14:20
QuoteHaley confronts that ex gave new girlfriend everything within 1 month that he withheld from her for 3 years
“literally a month later and did everything post within one month... shared my location with her and I just didn't feel like I needed to unshare it”
Topics Discussed
00:03:13
Guest introductions
Each guest introduces themselves: name, age, location, occupation. Brian follows up with relationship status for each.
00:09:40
Dating app profile review
Panel reviews a submitted dating app (Hinge) profile from a Princeton student. Discusses what "spontaneous adventure" means in dating profiles.
01:01:40
Roster / dating multiple people
Discussion of whether guests have had a "roster" of multiple dating partners simultaneously. Sophia admits to breaking up due to boredom (3-month rule).
01:10:00
Macy - height, world record, dating, OnlyFans
Extended discussion with Macy about her 6'10" height, Guinness World Record for longest female legs, dating challenges, OnlyFans content (dick ratings), Marfan syndrome.
01:21:40
Sticky note / body count and traditional values
Kaani presents sticky note analogy: women lose "stickiness" with high body count if seeking traditional men. Panel debates.
01:33:20
Virgins reveal / virgin hat trick
Sophia (UCSB), Victoria (implied), and a third guest revealed as virgins. Discussion of waiting for right person vs marriage.
01:50:58
Bear vs man in forest
Classic bear/man thought experiment. Panel split: Macy, Sophia (UCSB), Natalie pick bear; others pick man. Discussion of fear of men, random threat probability.
02:00:00
Sexual assault statistics / UCSB study
Sophia (UCSB) cites orientation study claiming 7/10 UCSB women experienced "essay" (broadly defined). Brian challenges definition including catcalling.
03:05:00
Haley - 3yr situationship / withheld commitment
Haley shares story of man who refused to post her/share location/"until you are my wife" for 3 years, then gave new girlfriend everything within 1 month.
03:06:00
Why men move on faster (or do women?)
Discussion of which gender moves on faster post-breakup. Haley argues women move on faster; evolutionary explanation from Brian (men dying in war).
03:15:00
50/50 relationships and who pays
Panel debate on 50/50 relationship dynamics, who pays on first date, and who should ask whom out.
04:26:40
Age gap debate
Discussion on age gaps in relationships. Brian asks whether healthy 20yr/33yr relationship is better than jaded same-age dating.
06:36:40
Andrew Wilson call-in: trans identity debate
Andrew Wilson calls in. Extended debate on transgender identity, ontological sex categories, trans disclosure in dating, gender and patriarchy.
07:01:40
Men not caring about women's careers
Brian argues men do not find women more attractive due to academic/career achievements. Panel debates, Sophia Nevada agrees from personal experience.
07:20:00
Outro / raid
Brian wraps up, does Twitch raid of Aladar (World of Warcraft). Andrew Wilson raid mentioned.
Transcript
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05:35:20
Brian Atlasbetter to be alive H those were some new arguments by the way Andrew those were very good um now I think there's a bit of
05:35:32
Brian Atlasconfusion here also though because we we're trying to compare the degrees of of suffering it's not really the question though it's who is the primary victim of
05:35:43
Brian Atlaswar men or women um I just find that interesting uh in any case though uh Natalie at least in the Ukraine example you have not been
05:35:57
Brian Atlasconvinced that men are the primary victims of
05:36:04
Panel (mixed)war well yeah I see your point and I think think it makes sense but I I don't know not much I wouldn't say
05:36:15
Panel (mixed)it's much more of a victim but yeah probably a little bit more uh what about you I believe that men have it
05:36:25
Brian Atlasworse men's lives are harder why is it so hard for some women to acknowledge like you can acknowledge like women have it worse in this way this way this way this way this way this way this way this
05:36:35
Brian Atlasway but even in the one that appears so obvious you can't even Grant to men one grievance one one way in which they can
05:36:46
Brian Atlasbecome can be considered a victim I find that really
05:36:54
Brian Atlasinteresting men are still the victim just a lot of people are the victim if there is war but I mean if we're doing a comparison so feminism the Genesis of feminism is a comparison between men and
05:37:05
Brian Atlaswomen men have it better in x-way men have this right women get mistreated in this way but it's interesting you can't even in this situation I think there's no
05:37:16
Brian Atlasdoubts that men are more like if you look at death rates for example throughout all of human history uh you look at World War I you
05:37:26
Brian Atlaslook at World War II there's tens of millions of male only military deaths and someh I think we can tie it up uh
05:37:36
Andrew Wilsonpretty easy with with this idea if I were to ask you this question do men or women suffer more during childbirth wom women to you want everybody or just
05:37:49
Andrew Wilsonthe people who said just the people who said war do do men or women suffer more during child birth women yeah probably wait women what about my Trauma from seeing my poor woman going through all
05:38:01
Andrew Wilsonthat Agony and pain and I can't do anything about it and then I have to live with that with the fact that she was in wait why would she be the primary victim what
05:38:12
Andrew Wilsonabout my trauma what about my suffering from having to see that oh my God you also have trauma then you're also a victim yeah I'm a total I'm total in
05:38:21
Andrew Wilsonfact wouldn't you say that I'm an equal victim if you want to be yeah okay well then I I guess I guess I want so over to the one who's not trolling doesn't have
05:38:32
Andrew Wilsonthe stupid coke bottle glasses can you answer my question are men or women the primary victim of pregnancy pain and child
05:38:41
Andrew Wilsonbirth well woman but I also think it's wait why why are women the primary victims of that because their body
05:38:50
Panel (mixed)suffers oh and whose body suffers in the war okay
05:38:57
Panel (mixed)but oh oops oops oops no no oops but the no oops no oops wait go ahead continue go ahead for the uh for the war the um
05:39:10
Andrew Wilsonlike the man just stands there in a hospital and like has to help the woman a little bit but for war the no no no no it's the trauma don't you understand it's the trauma it's the fact that I have to live with the fact that I
05:39:21
Andrew Wilsoncouldn't do anything while she was going through all that pain and Agony and it's it's haunted me forever how am I not at the same scale of victim as she is even
05:39:33
Andrew Wilsonthough it's her body that's being ripped aunder can you explain that to me
05:39:40
Andrew WilsonI just don't think child birth is that traumatizing oh yeah I well I just you know I just don't think that you not getting blown up is As traumatizing as getting blown up either but you know what do I know it is traumatizing to
05:39:53
Andrew Wilsongetting blowing up yes is it more traumatizing for the loved one to get blown up or for you to get blown up probably for you to get blown up yeah probably for you to get
05:40:04
Andrew Wilsonblown up so then therefore the primary victims of war would have to be men y yeah men yeah I'm proud of you you got
05:40:14
Brian Atlasit oh boy okay let me read some chats we have a few more questions we have L paladins I'm curious if she even knows she is brainwashed she literally quoted
05:40:24
Brian AtlasHillary Clinton word for word 1998 does she even know that she just did that yeah I mean this actually question originates in Hillary Clinton she said
05:40:33
Brian Atlasthat uh women women have always been the primary victims for uh that's probably not precisely verbatim but essentially uh gr Gracie Bri in and out is doing
05:40:45
Brian Atlaswonders for your cup size thank you man D rocking the dad bod God lose weight working on it boys working on it to the boring disinterested panel what would you what would make you more engaging a shots B lines c talk more about yourself
05:40:57
Unknownor D shiny things shots yes yeah like injections
05:41:12
Brian Atlasno um thank you Gracie good to see you in the chat we have epis thank you man uh would the girls would the girls next to Brian ever consider a man making 500k
05:41:23
Brian Atlasa year what what so I guess this is you and Morgan and Natalie would you
05:41:32
Panel (mixed)consider a man who makes 500,000 a year excuse me for the hypothetical we're
05:41:39
Brian Atlasgoing to pretend that I'm not taken okay yeah this is like asking a guy would you consider dating a girl with big tits and
05:41:50
Brian Atlasa fat ass yeah what what bro come on that's crazy bro would you ladies would you consider
05:42:02
Brian Atlasdating a billionaire would you I guess oh wait no I think he's shooting his shot epis are you shooting your shot would you date him that's all you
05:42:13
Brian Atlasknow he makes 500k a year that's all you know made it very clear I'm taken and not interested 500k a year oh snap okay good for you man congrats come congrats epis
05:42:25
Brian Atlasappreciate it okay uh can we pull up Andrew's pH really quick I'm missing it I need it pull it up really quick oh my God Natalia thank you for the gifted 20 memberships appreciate it oh that was
05:42:37
Brian Atlasit that's all I get okay rude damn look at this jawline right yo me me and Andrew were joining Weight Watchers all right but do we have proof
05:42:48
Brian Atlasthat's him that is what do you mean that looks just like wait Andrew what's your body count uh I I would never like the host
05:43:00
Andrew Wilsonof the show it's privileged information it's true it's true it would wouldn't be nearly as fun to um when there's trolls and I'm
05:43:10
Andrew Wilsontrolling back if I revealed just how much of a stud I truly am not uh that would make the trolls not nearly as fun right that would make it wouldn't make
05:43:21
Brian Atlasit as fun going around on this are men or women uh who's physically stronger men or women men men wait anybody think woman I got guns but she's got guns no I
05:43:33
Panel (mixed)think men are stronger like naturally men men women who are majoring in biology like isn't the muscle fiber of a man actually more dense than that of a woman yes just naturally men are
05:43:45
Panel (mixed)stronger there's no way of going wom some women are stronger I know stronger than a lot of men right but I'm saying like the actual yes the makeup of a man is anatomically
05:43:56
Brian Atlasyes men are stronger uh so next question uh can you be sexist towards men yeah wait starting we'll just get
05:44:07
Panel (mixed)answers from everybody yeah yes yeah of course yes definitely yes of course oh okay all right can you be racist towards white
05:44:20
Panel (mixed)people go ahead Macy can I not answer you got to answer Macy you got to answer yes you can we weren't supposed to ask kind of you this is fine this is fair
05:44:31
Panel (mixed)game don't worry about it this is fair game I feel like racism can go like any way so yes okay so yes you can okay uh what
05:44:40
Brian Atlasabout you oh you're for real I'm I'm for real for real for real for
05:44:48
Panel (mixed)real when keeping it real goes wrong I'mma keep it real I'm keeping it real sh I don't know very mixed on this
05:44:59
Panel (mixed)question like people have asked me and I never know how to answer tell us how you really feel dude I literally mask off tell us how you really feel like I can't tell us like like I
05:45:11
Panel (mixed)understand both ends of the stick like I I like I can't outweigh one more than the other it's a really mixed can Mongolian people be racist towards
05:45:23
Panel (mixed)white people dude like that's the same question can you be racist to white people yeah yeah yeah exactly you just rephrase the question I'm trying to help you out bro I'm trying to give you help me I can't outweigh it so should we just
05:45:36
Brian Atlasassume that your answer is no you can't be racist towards white people no can't you make inferences Andrew can't you like by virtue of someone refusing to answer a question
05:45:47
Andrew Wilsoncan you not make inferences about their position or is that yeah you can make inferences but that doesn't mean that they're that doesn't mean that they're going to be rational I'm inferring I'm
05:45:57
Brian Atlasmaking an inference regardless of the rationality of it I've inferred I have inferred I've made an inference how do you feel about that that I've inferred
05:46:08
Brian Atlasdo you infer do you like to infer I I concur that you infer and I concur that you concur can you be R what about you um yeah okay
05:46:20
Panel (mixed)what about you think yeah I think so MH 100% yes yes definitely yeah yeah I actually wrote a paper about this in college and I failed the class because
05:46:31
Brian Atlasof it oh my god did you say yes and you failed there's there's the T oh my God that's crazy wait you failed the class because why like uh paper what was what was your position in the paper um I was
05:46:43
Panel (mixed)talking about Reverse Racism against whites and the professor just disagreed with me um gave me a failing grade on the paper even though it met all the requirements of the paper it was well
05:46:55
Andrew Wilsonwritten yeah what ethnicity was the professor oh aren't she supposed to just lie in college you're conservative isn't the doctrine you just lie and just tell them what they want to hear m
05:47:07
Panel (mixed)isn't that what you're supposed to do what you're supposed to do in college yeah college is supposed to brainwash you but I refuse okay well anyways moving on um do we live in the
05:47:20
Brian Atlaspatriarchy aming starting with you we go that way no we got we got to start over here
05:47:31
Panel (mixed)we got to start over here tallest to shortest that's how it work okay the shortest so the actually I feel like currently no previously yes okay previously yes
05:47:43
Brian Atlasyeah I would say closer to no closer to no yeah I'd agree closer to no mhm closer to no yeah I think we're closer to no there's when you say no like yes
05:47:54
Brian Atlasbut we're inching towards a no well okay so there's there there there's still a patriarchy like there's obviously progression it's not as it's not as bad Bingo thank you yeah I think I would agree with you
05:48:07
Panel (mixed)I don't even think we live in a patriarchy anymore me neither uh it depends what does that mean well patriarchy has different definitions different definition just
05:48:18
Panel (mixed)means that um men are basically in charge of that's it that chat huh nothing um I'd say
05:48:33
Panel (mixed)51% did you see the chat what did it say said Brian has your crush on you anyways let's let's stay focused here uh patriarchy believe in patriarch yeah
05:48:44
Brian Atlasbelieve in the patriarchy yeah it's a little bit there even when Angela Merkel was running the German government for a long ass time was it the patriarchy then America never had a girl president yeah
05:48:57
Panel (mixed)what about Germany though yeah but we're in America right now okay all right um coming down this way I don't think we are
05:49:08
Brian Atlasthrough yeah I think the patriarchy has been ruined patriarchy is ruined you're in favor of the patriarchy I'm in favor she's in favor of the patriarchy uh do you guys okay so I've heard this like under the patriarchy women are oppressed
05:49:21
Brian Atlasdo you agree like do you think women are oppressed in the US no absolutely not no well let's let's just let people answer uh they can't be but like no they
05:49:31
Panel (mixed)can be but no yeah but that's like with everything so I interest to know okay I I think to a certain extent both men and women
05:49:40
Panel (mixed)are no no is that your genuine answer
05:49:47
Panel (mixed)yes I don't know earlier she tried to make the argument that women have less rights than men though so it's a contradiction I said what I said she
05:49:58
Andrew Wilsonsaid what she said wait I have a question what do you guys believe in gender equality no me neither first of all I don't believe in
05:50:11
Andrew Wilsongender at all I don't even think gender exists it's just nonsense nonsensical madeup word there's only sex that's all there's ever been and people make a conflation they say gender they actually mean sex and so what happens in the Commons is when people say gender they
05:50:24
Andrew Wilsonactually mean sex they actually mean male female not gender gender gender is just nonsense made up essentially that's my that's my world
05:50:32
Andrew Wilsonviiew on it I believe in gender equity ah Equity I love Equity what is uh what is okay can I give an example this is
05:50:43
Andrew Wilsonhow I think of it um are you going to give me the Box example the standing over the fence yeah you're going to give me the Box example yeah did you did you just learn this in feminist 101 the other day the Box example you stand up on the box and the person next to you
05:50:56
Andrew Wilsonhas a shorter box you got to give them a bigger box so they can stand over the fence too no I didn't explain that see they don't even know it I don't know go ahead go ahead explain the Box explain
05:51:06
Panel (mixed)Point Theory the box go ahead okay fine um basically the equality is everyone has the same box but not everyone can see over the fence and then Equity is
05:51:18
Panel (mixed)everyone gets the Box according to their height so that everyone can see the exact same over the
05:51:26
Andrew Wilsonfence don't you think that the why does everybody deserve to have the same box size right correct why does everybody deserve to have the
05:51:38
Andrew Wilsonsame box size I don't think they do right so then you don't believe in equity why well how if you if so what
05:51:50
Andrew Wilsonyou're saying they all have different box all of us have a box yeah right that's equality correct but the boxes are different sizes and so you have to increase some box sizes so that they get bigger so
05:52:03
Andrew Wilsonthat you can then look over the fence right right why do people deserve to have this the larger boxes why do you actually deserve to have that maybe we
05:52:13
Panel (mixed)don't deserve it but just so everyone can see the same well should they be given the ability to work to get that box right definitely
05:52:24
Panel (mixed)okay do you think people don't have that opportunity mhm well I think everyone has the opportunity to work it's just what you do with your time like I see people on the road begging for money
05:52:36
Panel (mixed)with the same time and I get that people have disabilities and everything but that same time sorry go ahead go ahead that same time that you're spending out there you could literally be trying to get a job more productive as your why
05:52:48
Andrew Wilsonwould you want to try to get a job those bums are making $60,000 a year panhandling on the street they don't give a about a job plus they never report any of the income so due to people who love Equity like yourself
05:53:01
Andrew Wilsonwhat ends up happening is the state comes in and gives them tons of cash sets them up with tons of social program they go get food stamp cards that are loaded with $2,000 of EBT spending cash because they're homeless they get a free
05:53:13
Andrew Wilsonliterally free healthare because they get put on Medicaid and then on top of that they get put in low income housing so their rent is only one tenth of what a normal person's rent is and they have
05:53:22
Andrew Wilsonjust as nice of a place how the is that Equitable how is that Equity you know what that sounds like to me it sounds like what happens is you take my
05:53:31
Andrew Wilsonbox and you shrink it to make your box bigger good way to put
05:53:39
Brian Atlasit well I don't think you can break down the uh something as nuanced as economy or gender inter uh gender Dynamics or um
05:53:52
Brian AtlasI I don't think you can break that down to this box example there's way more like complexity and Nuance to it I don't think I mean in that specific
05:54:04
Brian Atlasexample it makes sense but I don't know that maps on to applying it to like economics or like gender stuff okay
05:54:16
Andrew Wilsonokay okay all right um yeah but that's um but I mean speaking to equity Equity is every bit as impossible as equality because it's just the same principle
05:54:28
Andrew Wilsonit's the same exact principle applied you still want everybody to have an equally sized box so that they can see over the fence so our equality standard now is just everybody has to be here right it's still the same exact
05:54:40
Andrew Wilsonprinciple same principle applied it's just now we have to move the gpost so everybody can see over the fence the same way and this kind of idea of sameness and um uh interchange of that
05:54:52
Andrew Wilsonhuman beings are interchangeable widgets right so I think that there's a lot of people don't deserve to see over the fence them as the pro proverbial saying goes right them a lot of people absolutely do everything in their life to make damn sure that they'll
05:55:04
Andrew Wilsonnever see over the fence and why should they be able to while good working people are busting their ass so that they can so that they can build that bu that's what I never understood about the equity
05:55:16
Andrew Wilsonargument I just never really understood it doesn't make it just sounds like it's egalitarianism just framed in a different
05:55:23
Brian Atlasway word um hold on guys one sec uh oh let's see oh any um those of you who like have seen the show before any um any disagreements either that you have
05:55:35
Brian Atlaswith me or and that haven't already been addressed throughout the
05:55:41
Panel (mixed)show going once yeah actually I think I wrote it in the prenotes thing and I was kind of talking about Nala re cuz like she's changed do you believe a woman can
05:55:52
Andrew Wilsonchange as when she like a reborn again virgin no you can't become a born again right you can't be a virgin you can't be a no that's Pro that's Protestant prattle okay they're taking they're
05:56:04
Andrew Wilsonconflating two different ideas MH idea one is that if you are a Christian you convert to
05:56:16
Andrew WilsonChristianity sorry I didn't I didn't know if you were saying something no the chat no I was oh my bad um so yeah yeah so if you convert to Christianity yes
05:56:27
Andrew Wilsonyour sins are washed away this is what is then conflated with born again virgin uh no your virginity is gone and the amount of sex that you had doesn't go
05:56:37
Andrew Wilsonaway right that's not that's still that still happened right your sins don't go away either they're just forgiven they're forgiven that's this is the principle and the point right so the
05:56:50
Andrew Wilsonthing is is that the idea of Born Again virginity is basically a bunch of uh feminist cope right there's a lot of feminists who move towards Christianity specifically as a shield from criticism
05:57:01
Andrew Wilsonrather than as a way to Salvation And so um they you know that's why we end up with these female ministers who preach these crazy ass gospels that make no sense at all I
05:57:13
Brian Atlasagree with that okay anything else uh TTS is now 69 $69 TTS and then
05:57:25
Brian Atlasback to the notes here so we have uh let's see sorry I lost my place in the notes Here uh going around the
05:57:34
Panel (mixed)table are your parents still together yes no yes yes no they have been divorced three times and are on their
05:57:44
Panel (mixed)now third marriage well divorced twice on their third marriage okay yes no yes no
05:57:52
Nick (producer)no all right and one sec where did my sorry guys I lost my place in my notes Here John unorth donated
05:58:03
Nick (producer)$69 where does big red stand in the Box analogy she don't need a box cuz she's perfect period
05:58:13
Andrew Wilsonokay she's seeing over the fence yeah uh oh question is a man less of a by all of you can't see over the fence unless we get you a bigger box right I
05:58:26
Brian Atlasdon't need to isn't that the point how could you ever be Equitable I don't know I don't watch baseball that stupid box it's a baseball game who the gives a about a box to a
05:58:37
Brian Atlasbaseball game what the get out of here with your 1930s Pastime that okay oh I watch
05:58:47
Brian Atlasbaseball what when was that even a thing in the the' 40s Babe Ruth who gives a I like baseball I just got like 10 I got like 100
05:58:57
Andrew Wilsonunsubscribed right there like but Brian what about A League of Their Own where doy could catch the ball with her bare hand Brian what about that yeah I don't know how many baseball games are there in a season God
05:59:10
Brian Atlasdamn it's like 200 goddamn games I can't follow this get out of here with your 500 games okay anyways oh is a man less of a man if he can't change a flat
05:59:22
Brian Atlastire oh gosh yo AB Che thank for the gifted memberships yeah yes less of a man if you can't change flat tire but no no no
05:59:32
Panel (mixed)no I don't think so no but I would want my man to know how to change tire so he's less of a man
05:59:41
Panel (mixed)then you to date the guy Own It Girl own it on it I
05:59:47
Brian Atlasguess okay no yeah yeah oh oh okay yes can't change a can't change
05:59:56
Brian Atlasa Volkswagen you just find it on YouTube Just a done deal okay um yes I said yes so then for those of you who said yes is a woman of a woman if she can't cook a
06:00:07
Panel (mixed)meal I was literally about to ask the exact same question yeah no no oh yes no I'm going to say no I'm going to say
06:00:20
Panel (mixed)yes unless your man likes to cook and you don't know how to cook so okay me no y y no weener
06:00:31
Panel (mixed)schit absolutely yes if a woman doesn't know how to cook she needs to learn how to cook and ladies the like biggest thing that I could ever urge you to purchase off Amazon it's called the SUV
06:00:42
Panel (mixed)s o u s v d e you will make the perfect steak every single time and you will win over 100% of the men that you make a steak for hey Ryan can you change a tire for myself I don't believe you I absolutely do not believe that this book
06:00:55
Panel (mixed)will ever teach women how toook it's not a book it's an instrument to which you Brian can you change a tire no but I can pay somebody who does
06:01:06
Nataliethere you go and he's got [Laughter]
06:01:16
Andrew Wilsonmoney okay uh let's see where wait you really can't change a tire BR I got AAA what are you talking
06:01:25
Brian Atlasabout I got AAA they can take care of it there you go triaa takes care of it okay I know how to jump start a car is that does that count for anything
06:01:37
Andrew Wilsonthat's can jump start a car H I don't know what you girls are laughing about anytime you see a woman woman try to jump start a car when it Sparks she goes ah oh my God it sparked they think they're going to electrocute themselves
06:01:50
Panel (mixed)that's true go ahead tell me I'm lying you not proba do that say going this past winter I had to put chains on the car by myself in the middle of a
06:02:01
Panel (mixed)snowstorm in the middle of the night that was horrendous oh my gosh I made a video and I said everybody needs to thank a man today it's um it's rough out there you
06:02:12
Brian Atlasput change on a tire I did it though but I would prefer a man to do it most impressive do you guys know how to change your blinker fluid no such thing there definitely is I don't know
06:02:25
Andrew Wilsonwhat you guys are talking about okay um I'm trying to think wait who said there was no such thing as blinker fluid rude what
06:02:38
Panel (mixed)you think there's no such thing as blinker fluid really there is you don't really believe that do you but your blinker is a light bulb they're powered by electricity
06:02:48
Andrew Wilsonyeah not that your car is also powered by electricity which is generated by the gas to see if you're GL
06:02:58
Andrew Wilsonthan stand by myself a damn it I thought I could gas light you see I told so close got my back here so
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Panel (mixed)close can can we pull up uh young Andrew oh my gosh guys I will show you sorry I'm done a video oh she's melting over here she's getting a hot at 22 flexing
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Brian Atlasin a 4 480p webcam for champagne pop just saying just saying uh okay twitch.tv/ whatever guys go to twitch.tv whatever drop us a
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Brian Atlasfollow in the prime sub if you have one uh guys it's been 14 minutes since we last got the prime I'm pretty sure it's bugged can you help help louder more
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Nick (producer)help sweet cheeks donated $69 I am enjoying a delicious spoke Bowl whilst riding bicycles maybe later a
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Nick (producer)bagel or Cozy Coffee with a semi wash it down with a sixpack a keg or a bottle a small stroll around the plaza four times sounds like a plan what did you
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Brian Atlasjust say anyway so moving on yeah mov moving on so uh any dating related topics you guys want to hit
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Andrew Wilsonon no I think I you guys hit it on the nail for me in my situations I have one more question to ask that's dating related that so I'm going to just start asking all panels this question because
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Panel (mixed)I actually want to know the answer to this why can't women ever decide where they want to eat honest question is it always well at least for
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Panel (mixed)me it really just it depends on my mood yeah but I want a man to decide for me I just want to turn my brain off and let him take the lead so when he says
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Panel (mixed)let's go to Subway let's go to Subway you're down let's go you're never going to have a problem with it unless I'm not feeling Subway but I'm going to always go with whatever he whatever he wants I
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Andrew Wilsonwant honestly well this leads me to my second very quick question which is you have heard that there are people out there who do not have an internal
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Andrew Wilsondialogue right oh meaning that yeah when they think in their head they don't actually they don't actually do that that's not a thing that they do uh is there anybody here who does not and
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Andrew Wilsonthere's no shame in this right I it's just something that is is is there anybody here who does not have an internal dialogue raise your hand if you
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Andrew Wilsondon't no everyone here has an internal dialogue I don't know you you you look like you I don't know you look like maybe you don't have an internal dialogue going on right
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Andrew Wilsonnow you you look yeah yeah you look a little baffled by the qu yeah you were like wellit a question I'm just still kind of shook that like some people don't have that oh yeah that's fair yeah
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Panel (mixed)all right I feel like that's like maybe um I have an ex-boyfriend who said that he didn't have an internal dialogue and I think that explains a lot of things
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Panel (mixed)yeah yeah I was going to say it sounds like not necessarily the best game to have going on you talked to him and it was like
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Andrew Wilsoncrickets I'm just being mean sorry I have the dad thing going where I I talk to myself all day and I I do it out loud constantly and have
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Andrew Wilsonarguments with myself and um yeah I think that this is a just a typical typical old man dad thing that we all do I got it from my phone that lose
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Andrew Wilsonwhatever tool we're using right in front of us we do that a lot too yeah it's tough crowd no sense of humor nothing you know these are real
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Nick (producer)winners I think they're scared of I think they're scared 200 dap pyrus 29 donated $200 Andrew doesn't know what he's doing and I wouldn't trust him in the
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Nick (producer)NorthShore on the fun Flint Trail plus he's slowly killing himself from toes smokes I love Andrew but he need to look with it
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Andrew Wilsonoh man okay okay well I I looked within and um I'm doing okay ma'am I'll consider it me and my
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Brian Atlasinternal dialogue have come to the conclusion that um I'm doing fine I think we need more arguing from her in the corner over
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Brian Atlasthere huh we need more arguing we need to hear your hot takes and your disagreements on what
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Brian Atlasfeminism n ask you a fun one ask me a fun one F all right I'll just throw out a really hot take there see if you bite uh men have been more pressed than
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Panel (mixed)women yes yes you're just going to agree why do you say that because men have been why
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Andrew Wilsonwhy I have way hotter take women can't troll where the that's a that I got I think that's the the really the the more hot take women suck at trolling they're terrible at it I agree I agree
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Nick (producer)with yeah I agree I agree with your agreement ules the Pagan donated $69 a meritless based society will inevitably Decay there would be no
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Nick (producer)desire to Aspire and to create what you are describing is socialism it never works Why th only only five socialist Nation out of 190 hey Pagan thank you for the TTS man
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Brian Atlasappreciate it thank you oh the bow video well I want to see if I can get somebody to bite on something um do you just not want to engage
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Brian Atlasbecause Andrew is such like a masterclass magnific magn MAG magnific magag mag magnan magnanimous amazing magnificent
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Panel (mixed)debater I'm just really hungry right now you guys smell weed yeah I'm smelling it I've been smelling weed and cigarettes crazy smell it that that's crazy down
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Panel (mixed)there and be sming all the Karen downstairs yeah she's probably liting one up yeah so uh anything you want to you want to talk about why you pointing at me you can't
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Andrew Wilsonsmell my cigarettes through the screen like you realize that that's physical impossibility right what you got for give us something
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Unknownask what you got you got a question what you got kill me
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Panel (mixed)God no question I have a question for you do you genuinely think that men are more oppressed than women bro he's trying to buy something he's trying to get
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Panel (mixed)something out of you give him what he wants to know yeah no yes what you're really good at giving those answers thank
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Andrew Wilsonyou um I can really hear the Crickets now without the noise either kind of annoying I like I can't like the whole show go back to your uh husband banging your sister again I have some questions
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Andrew Wilsonabout that okay can we can we can we jump back to that real quick okay so because you said that you were in a discussion about this with okay with him
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Andrew Wilsonand that he said that you're better than her yeah I mean he has to he picked her yeah I get I get it okay but I'm just I'm just curious why would he ever tell
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Panel (mixed)the truth though like why would he ever tell you the truth about that I mean he's told me a lot of truths before that I didn't necessarily want to hear oh man
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Panel (mixed)so for example some of some of his exes are a lot prettier than me and he's told me that um so I I believe him when he tells me I mean he's very direct with me so yeah
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Andrew Wilsonbut wouldn't he have literally every incentive on planet Earth to lie about that no to be like no I mean like think about how the conversation would go I'm trying to Envision it in my head where
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Andrew Wilsonif you banged your wife's sister how you could possibly be like well you see dear actually she did this one thing I really like and I wish you would do it right
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Panel (mixed)like would they they just lie it was more of her doing things he didn't like I mean they were 16 right yeah kind of young so they're pretty
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Andrew Wilsoninexperienced okay I mean I guess that changes things but I'm I'm just saying but I don't know I don't know how that would be believable exactly was sa like flirty with you when they were dating no you
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Panel (mixed)had no interest in him when they were dating yeah I met him how long were they together uh they were together for like 2 years oh wow um but she cheated on him the entire time they were together oh W how did
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Panel (mixed)like your mom and dad react to your relationship with him terrible they adore him he's always treated he always treated her really well it was just her they wanted him in the family one way or
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Panel (mixed)another but like how long between when always treated both their daughters well yeah apparently and the mom just Kidd when your sister broke up with him and
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Panel (mixed)like what was the length of time between a six year difference started da him yeah so the family's like welcome back pretty much yeah I mean he's always
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Panel (mixed)stayed uh pretty close with our family too so and yeah how does it feel for you as a wife to hear your husband tell you that other women he's been with are more
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Panel (mixed)attractive than you um it doesn't really bother me I mean we're we were best friends before we became married so we always discussed
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Panel (mixed)these things together did he say that to you prior to marrying you prior him during so who here would lie to their partner
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Andrew Wilsonabout hang I just got a couple of quick clarifying questions because I I didn't catch all of that combo so the first question is were you doing stuff with
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Panel (mixed)this guy while he was dating the sister no no not at all no I best friends with him yeah we're best friends were you best friends with him then when he was when he was dating your
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Panel (mixed)sister yeah we were really good friends okay what a hob knocker what's a what's a hob knocker I
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Panel (mixed)don't know I got it from my Carly when I was in Middle School and I just you're quoting I Carly from middle school and I've always used it I just don't swear
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Andrew Wilsonso I'm proud of you for not swearing thank you that very good it's the fruits mhm I I don't know if quoting Disney is better than swearing
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Panel (mixed)but it's actually it's Nickelodeon though I thought didn't Disney buy all that out I don't know I really don't I don't watch any of that anymore Disney
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Panel (mixed)owns everything at this point mhm if your partner asks like would any of you like lie to them about that to make them feel
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Panel (mixed)better no no no so you would be like oh yeah my past partner was better in bed than you I don't think I would say it like that I would think that I would personally like my interest of who I
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Panel (mixed)liked and went for in high school is a complete 180 from who I'm attracted to now so I think I would just say I was attracted to that person in whatever manner but it's different than how I'm attracted to you and there's just a different bond between that person but
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Panel (mixed)I'm not going to bluntly be like oh yeah he was better in bed he's cuter than you sexier than you he did this he did that but then continue to date the other guy like how your attraction changed so I mean I only had one
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Panel (mixed)boyfriend in high school that was like almost 3 years 2 and a half years and he was just a like um kind of my height little white guy I'm from Franken MTH Michigan so it was just little convenient happy yeah I mean we Liv
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Panel (mixed)there and then and then I started going to college and I really was into like the country gu Franken Booth sucks oh okay it sucks I live very close to Franken Booth it's terrible place oh did
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Panel (mixed)where are you from uh so I live near Grand Rapids no way that's crazy anyways uh he my my type was kind of more the dad
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Panel (mixed)bods the country the whatever because I was into that and now I like you know I'm dabbling more into like the mixed areas what are you attracted to now like
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Panel (mixed)what do you look for in a man right now I am looking for a one that can be honest and respectful with me I'm attracted to a man that can make time and commitment not lie to me not just be straight up don't beat around the bush
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Panel (mixed)and then I think more I went for physical attraction now that just just kind of come in second or third to me and I'm realizing that do you have like a minimum amount of income that he needs to make no cuz my career I'm not going to be making Jack so I mean I'm not
06:16:14
Panel (mixed)really expecting anybody to make as much either but are you looking to get married oh yeah so wouldn't it behoove you to be interested in what this person's Inc I do yes 100% grimn donated
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Nick (producer)$69 Andrew has been fantastic for my marriage my wife makes me lunch for work lays out my clothes for work and meets me at the door with a kiss and a beer
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Andrew Wilsonwhen I get home God bless you Andrew a sounds like Good Wife yeah not lucky bow video wa well no no no no no
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Andrew Wilsonno no no that's not that's not luck having a minimum requirement for the duty of a wife that's just uh you know what should be the expectations not it shouldn't be luck should never be
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Andrew Wilsonassociated with luck that women are held to a minimum standard for Behavior that's that's not luck that's what they all should do that's my opinion I think it's fair to hold men to a same standard
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Andrew Wilsonright a minimum standard for Behavior but we sure as don't do that with women at
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Panel (mixed)all nobody's going to disagree with him you just going to bite your tongue AG yeah really yeah mhm really you not I think men should hold
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Andrew Wilsontheir women to have some standards and make it make it I agree with him I just uh I feel like women isn't that like the least they can do is make your lunch and and
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Andrew Wilsonmeet you at the door with a with a beer it doesn't it's like it seems like it's the easiest job in the world to just not be an insufferable it seems like that would be the easiest thing in the world but it seems to be extremely hard
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Andrew Wilsonfor when they're like well you see due to my Sufism and rampid selfishness I just can't do it for you I just can't it would just something in me wants to be rebellious towards the fact that you
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Panel (mixed)want me to act like a proper wife that's just just something I've noted well I think you brought up earlier it's kind of some days it's 802 I mean you might have a day where you're not feeling your best you're not able to do something so the husband picks up a little bit but
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Panel (mixed)then maybe a week later it's opposite roles is just kind of a a pce system think the well I was going to say what women need to constantly keep in check is
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Panel (mixed)their emotions we're not taught that and Society is actually I think capitalizing on women's emotions and it's making them more emotional agree um there's so many
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Panel (mixed)things that influence uh the way that we react and our hormones are being impacted not just by the food that we eat but the products we put on our bodies as well that's a whole other topic but women need to keep their
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Panel (mixed)emotions in check they're highly emotional and that will lead you to all of the misery you will create in your head I struggle with that and I've sabotaged my relationships because of
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Panel (mixed)that I cannot I can express my emotion very well but many men do not like that and I need to learn to when is the appropriate time to express it and when it's not can you demonstrate a way in which you've expressed your emotions and
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Brian Atlasit had a negative impact on your relationship yeah definitely I get role play go ahead oh I I don't think I can role play I think I say it in the same
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Panel (mixed)tone that you said it to your boyfriend oh man do I need to role play okay um let's see well I like I okay I
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Panel (mixed)just get kind of really upset and I feel like when he's not listening to me I get louder and louder okay
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Panel (mixed)demonstrate okay can you be my ex okay okay you're not listening to me why are you not listening to me like you are just on your phone you're picking up your phone shut up that's what you do
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Panel (mixed)too I'm not even playing yeah but so so your ex was awesome your a is awesome in every we just struggled with our communicating like I mean Lally Andrew Tate too like shut up yeah I mean I knew
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Panel (mixed)what I was doing was not beneficial at all but I needed that hey okay listen I I hear you Haley take a moment take a breather I'm not going to listen you if you're going to yell at me and I'm not going to listen to him if he's clearly acting disinterested into our
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Panel (mixed)conversation attach yourself yeah I just have to that's something I'm learning it's a process is it is it a journey oh it's a journey yeah
06:20:37
Brian Atlasdo to show Andrew Nick that girl from last show your emotional control Journey Andrew you'll get a kick out of this so we uh reacted
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Brian Atlasto this earlier on in the show uh this girl submitted her dating app profile and uh oh I had a comment on her profile I didn't know if we were do you have it
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Panel (mixed)yeah I was okay see my problem is running a race loser has to make all the small loser not Loser yeah well she she goes to Princeton but English is not her
06:21:11
Brian Atlasstrong no way she does next she go that's wild okay so she says dating me is like going on a spontaneous adventure next
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Brian Atlasnext but the most spontaneous thing she's ever done is download this dating app hinge
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Brian Atlasum so if dating her is like a going on a spontaneous adventure but the most spontaneous thing she's ever done is downloading a dating app what do you think Andrew are the
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Andrew Wilsonprospects of it you know being a like worthy Adventure I mean an adventurer to do what exactly to I mean what what is
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Andrew Wilsondownload what is her Adventure the most spontaneous thing that I've ever done is got an app and taken pictures of myself half naked highly spontaneous woman right it sounds like they say Choose
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Andrew WilsonYour Own Adventure meaning that you get her and then you get to take her on your adventures that's what it sounds like to me I don't think I've ever had a girl
06:22:18
Andrew Wilsontake me on an adventure I've taken my ex on an adventure no I don't think I've had a girl like oh let me take you to well okay well what what kind of Adventure did you take your ex on don't
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Panel (mixed)okay so here's the rules though oh man you can't say camping you can't say kaying and he can't say a hike not a no no I just I planned a surprise date and one day and he knew like when the day
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Panel (mixed)was but he didn't know what it was just told him like don't wear sweats and I just took him to a little winery because we were trying to we did wine nights together so we were just trying to figure out a good wine that we both liked and could buy and drink together
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Panel (mixed)and it was a lot of fun that's a day that's not an adventure that's a but that's an adventure for us because we don't really go out and we didn't do a lot like that's an adventure to me
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Andrew Wilsonyeah your adventure is going and testing tasting wine at a at a local winery that's an adventure problem with that I mean we both we were both from school at the time we can't go book a weekend
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Andrew Wilsonaway we that's not very good Adventure I have different levels in Adventures I was hoping for some Indiana Jones you know what I mean there was a tank na it was crazy he ducked
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Andrew Wilsonunder a you know a doorway and he grabbed his head you know an event not not I went to a winery sip wine that doesn't that doesn't sound very adventurous
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Panel (mixed)okay feel like I've been on an adventure kind of mhm my girlfriend took me to the woods to try and find mushrooms that we
06:23:50
Brian Atlascould eat that we not hunting all right it was fun okay um I have a topic I want to touch on this will probably be the last we'll do the roast SE roast session
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Brian Atlasthen we'll try to wrap up uh so uh uh show of hands who here's been on the dating app at any
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Brian Atlaspoint never no dating app no dating app dating app uh as a woman if you're on a dating app and you're like using the dating app in
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Brian Atlaslocation you only know that you're going to be in for like one two or three weeks what what would you think hey
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Brian Atlassorry about that what the I'm yelling at my cat right now uh I was like what the okay uh what what do you think like the
06:24:47
Brian Atlasexpectation there would would be like what could a woman possibly want on a dating app if she's like in a different location for one or two weeks and she's using the dating app there very obvious
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Brian Atlasshe's just looking up right I would assume she's like not looking for best friend like yeah you're only here for a short period of time yeah what what other possibility exist between besides
06:25:10
Brian Atlasthe shortterm so shallow she might just want a free meal that's true I didn't even think about that yeah but I I've encountered this like there will be girls who are on dating app they in town
06:25:21
Brian Atlastemporarily long time ago uh but they don't want to hook up and they'll do the thing like I I had one experience I was on a dating app uh she was in town for
06:25:31
Brian Atlasone two weeks and she lived like in a different state or something and uh she we met up and I was under the impression like she would be more inclined to have
06:25:42
Brian Atlasa not a one stand but like a more casual hookup while she was here we'd continue seeing each other have a fling whatever when I say continue seeing each other I mean just we would hang out a couple times and then that would be kind of the
06:25:54
Brian Atlasextent of it unless she came back but then she wanted to keep hanging out but she didn't want to hook up and that was like confusing I was like
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Brian Atlaswhat what do you hope to achieve because you're going back home in a week or two so to me it just seems kind of weird maybe she wanted a relationship yeah but why is she on the dating app in the city
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Panel (mixed)she doesn't live in maybe she maybe she's able to travel she might be able to travel and come back and visit but I mean but she knew who you were bored she knew who you
06:26:28
Brian Atlaswere but she knew that you had like a pretty big following no it no this is prior to your podcast uh yeah well prior to me starting my podcast this was 3 years ago
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Brian Atlasprobably something I don't know the exact timeline here this is weird bro that is weird but it wasn't like a hard like she was like oh I still want to hang out but and I was like maybe she
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Panel (mixed)want a companion yeah attention I your tour guide bro attention I your tour guide yeah she probably wanted attention
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Panel (mixed)yeah did you pay for any meals for her uh I think we just met for a a drink and you bu buy her a drink yeah I got her a drink she's looking for free
06:27:11
Brian Atlasdrinks no girls going on a date like a $10 yeah I don't think that's worth the effort but I just
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Brian Atlasthought it was interesting that is interesting word mhm okay all right any any final thoughts from anybody else on the panel otherwise I'm going to hold on
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Nick (producer)let me just read I had to um hold on I'm going to let these for uncore theore patriarchy donated $69 Miss Nevada instead lies such as of
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Nick (producer)$100 for for the two girls look up junko futa and tell me her male family members are equal victims of suffering as her I dare y all Andrew can't wait for you to
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Brian Atlasrip Destiny a new one okay yo ukulele thank you for the uh T TTS man really appreciate it thank you bro and we have one from Bradford Ron
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Nick (producer)Bradford donated $69 question for the panel how would you react to a NIC looking guy approaching you in a public place while he is with one of his children is that iy oh can I
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Panel (mixed)talk I've actually had that happen at my gym it's a super cute gym but you can like they have a little cafe where you can buy drinks we were sitting in the
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Panel (mixed)hot tub I had seen him in the gym before but she's like she looks like she's at least in like Upper Elementary so I kind of and he looks
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Panel (mixed)younger like he clearly had her when she was a teenager and we talked about this actually but like like I was under the impression that it was maybe like a little sister or something that he was
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Panel (mixed)just bringing with him to the gym cuz he didn't have like a wedding band or anything and no it was not it
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Panel (mixed)wasn't icky but it was definitely just weird mhm cuz then she was like sitting right there and I'm like
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Panel (mixed)you're offering to buy me a drink and trying trying to flirt with me in front of your child it just seems really weird to me did you have previous interactions with him at your gym no that was the first time we had ever talked and he
06:29:44
Panel (mixed)approached you with his daughter uh he didn't approach me with his daughter we had been sitting in the hot tub and we just like everyone in the hot tub ends up striking up a conversation at some point and she came and joined us in the hot tub oh the daughter the daughter
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Andrew Wilsonjoined that's so you guys have a hot time about your gym yeah dude it's such a night we just got a cold plunge um speaking of gym how why is it that you guys think that
06:30:06
Andrew Wilsonuh gyms which only allow women to go uh don't do very well I didn't know that yeah I didn't know that either I didn't even know they made gyms just for women oh yeah I
06:30:19
Andrew Wilsondidn't know that well you see there was such a pandemic of women getting harassed at gyms you see because I guess men just can't seem to control themselves that there was a slew of
06:30:29
Andrew Wilsondifferent entrepreneurs who have tried all female gyms with only female memberships and they did not do very well it turns out that women don't want to go to women only gyms that's really
06:30:41
Andrew Wilsonweird to me if you had to guess why that is what would your guess be attention