She DIVORCED Him For BAD $3X?! Dating A FEEDER?! Husband CHEATED With Men?! | Dating Talk #147

Date: 2024-03-27
Duration: 7h 42m

Identified Speakers

SPEAKER_01TTS Donation Reader(audience)
SPEAKER_02Emmy (+ Taylor/Kira bleed)(guest)
SPEAKER_03Naomi(guest)
SPEAKER_06Mari(guest)
SPEAKER_07Kiki(guest)
SPEAKER_08Brian Atlas(host)
SPEAKER_10Jamill (+ Kira bleed)(guest)
SPEAKER_11Bri(guest)
SPEAKER_12Katie(guest)
SPEAKER_13Kira(guest)
SPEAKER_14Natalie Winters(guest)

Key Moments

00:03:08
IntroGuest introductions round. Nine guests introduce themselves. Notable: Natalie Winters (War Room co-host, returning), Naomi (OnlyFans, returning ~1 month), Jamill (39yo RN, divorced after 18yr marriage). Show title references three key stories: bad sex divorce, feeder fetish, husband cheating with men.

"we're going to have the guests introduce themselves so please tell us your name age location"

00:09:03
Key MomentJamill reveals her 18-year marriage ended after husband disclosed Craigslist affairs with men and desire to swing with both men and women. She refused and initiated divorce ~2 years ago. Led to extended dead bedroom. Has 2 kids. Now in a 1-month FWB. This is the "Husband CHEATED With Men" title reference.

"one of the first things being that he started seeing some people some guys from Craigslist"

00:22:43
Key MomentBri reveals her 5-year ex had a secret feeder/weight-gain fetish. Discovered 400+ messages on his drunk phone at a friend's wedding showing him telling overweight women to gain weight and monitoring their food intake. He had been taking Bri to all-you-can-eat sushi multiple times per week. This is the "Dating A FEEDER" title reference.

"it was like a feeding fetish chubby chaser it wasn't even just chubby chasing feeder"

01:22:52
QuoteBri describes discovering her feeder ex had been taking her to all-you-can-eat sushi multiple times per week during COVID as part of his feeding behavior. "I thought going out to all you can eat sushi multiple times a week was normal — it's not."

"going out to all you can eat sushi multiple times a week was normal it's not"

01:33:20
ControversyNatalie Winters (War Room co-host) debates OnlyFans creators Naomi and Mari on ethics and societal impact of sex work. Argues it destroys nuclear family, is anti-intellectual, and predatory on lonely men. Naomi/Mari defend with companionship and autonomy arguments. Extended debate touches on Christianity, porn addiction, feminist theory.

"I just think what you guys do is considerably considerably worse for the country for society"

01:50:28
QuoteMari defends OnlyFans using reincarnation theology: her physical body will not carry to the next life so her current physical choices are irrelevant from a spiritual standpoint.

"I believe in reincarnation so my body right now this body isn't going to come with me to the next life"

02:06:56
QuoteNatalie Winters reveals she has been sanctioned by the Chinese Communist Party for investigative reporting and has been cited by Congress.

"I'm sanctioned by the Chinese Communist party because of my investigative reporting I'm cited by Congress"

02:44:03
OtherSelf-ratings round. Most women rate themselves 10. Mari: 10 (mood-dependent). Emmy: 10. Naomi: 10. Katie: 6. Bri: 8. Brian: 5. Brian declines to validate the 10 self-ratings. Viewer TTS donor assigns ratings by clothing description.

"ask everyone to rate their looks on a scale of 1 to 10 starting with you"

06:05:45
ControversyMari suggests men who prefer virgins are "predatory" (pedo-adjacent). Unable to defend argument when Brian challenges with 25-year-old virgin scenario. Says it "just gives the ick." Cannot name 10 books supporting her witchcraft beliefs. Calls Christianity a cult based on a missionary's explanation of grace. Double standard noted: will not make same claim about Islam.

"it just gives you the ick potentially pword potentially"

06:20:00
QuoteBody count round: Naomi states body count is "less than 20" and declines exact number. Mari states 5, Brian applies ×3 rule of thumb. Jamill's count of 29 referenced in group.

"uh five five mhm I'm 22 years old multiply by three and that's the real number"

06:25:49
QuoteKatie argues people can grow beyond a high body count or promiscuous past. "There's always a lid to every pot" — even someone with an egregious past can find someone who accepts them for who they are now.

"there's always a lid to every pot so even if you do egregious things when you're younger"

07:30:00
OtherEnd of show. Brian wraps up around 7:42 AM (running very late). Raids Twitch streamer. Crew signs off.

"it is quite literally past my bedtime"

Topics Discussed

00:03:08
Guest introductions and relationship status

Nine guests introduce themselves: Mari (22, Orlando, event promoter/OnlyFans), Emmy (22, Bay Area, UCSB sociology), Naomi (26, Phoenix, OnlyFans, returning), Taylor (25, Bay Area, RBT), Kira (24, Bay Area, SBCC comm), Jamill (39, RN/standup comedian, divorced 18yr marriage), Katie (41, OC, optical, single 7yr), Bri (26, Santa Clarita, public health student), Natalie Winters (23, Palm Beach, War Room co-host, returning). Relationship status round: three guests are returning (Naomi, Natalie Winters, and Kira per context). Notable: Jamill recently divorced after husband revealed interest in men and swinging.

00:09:03
Jamill: husband cheated with men / divorce story

Jamill (SPEAKER_10) describes her 18-year marriage ending: husband confessed around year 14-15 that he had been seeing men from Craigslist, then disclosed he wanted to swing with other men and women. She refused and initiated divorce ~2 years ago. Preceded by an extended dead bedroom. She was married 2005. Two kids.

00:22:43
Bri: ex-boyfriend feeder fetish story

Bri (SPEAKER_11) reveals her 5-year ex-boyfriend had a secret feeder/weight-gain fetish. Discovered 400+ messages on his drunk phone at a friend's wedding. Messages showed him monitoring women's food intake pre/post meals, telling them they weren't worthy unless they gained. He had taken Bri to all-you-can-eat sushi multiple times per week. She had gained weight during COVID; he encouraged it. After breakup: had brief revenge sex with 2 men.

01:33:20
OnlyFans debate: ethics, value, and societal impact

Extended debate between Natalie Winters (SPEAKER_14, anti-OnlyFans), Naomi (SPEAKER_03, does OnlyFans), and Mari (SPEAKER_06, does OnlyFans). Natalie argues OnlyFans normalizes commodification of women's bodies and destroys nuclear family. Naomi and Mari argue it provides companionship, is no different from Twitch, and is her choice. Religion debate embedded: Bri (SPEAKER_11, Christian) engages Natalie on Christianity vs. Mari's reincarnation/spiritual worldview. Natalie's credentials: War Room co-host, sanctioned by CCP, cited by Congress. Naomi defends: she was in corporate tech before, does OnlyFans by choice, parents are supportive. Porn addiction debate: Naomi disputes it's scientifically proven; Brian cites Adams et al. 1999.

01:33:30
Christianity vs. OnlyFans / religion and sexuality debate

Embedded in OnlyFans debate: Mari and Naomi defend their work using reincarnation and "it's going to happen anyway" arguments. Bri and Natalie push back from Christian perspective. Mari: "I believe in reincarnation — this body doesn't come with me to the next life." Bri: discusses exit plan from sex work and Christian accountability. Natalie: argues promiscuity has more societal cost for women than men (pair bonding argument). Reference to Michael Knowles's 10-year partying period vs. now being traditional.

02:01:56
Relationship status and single panel details

Brian goes around table examining single women's dating situations. Taylor: 3 years single, 8-month situationship; hookups that didn't become relationships. Kira: 1 year single, not looking (moving). Mari: 1.5-2 years single. Emmy: 6-7 months, not looking (moving). Jamill: FWB 1 month, most serious since divorce. Naomi: 2+ years single. Katie: single 7 years, briefly dated in summer. Bri: just out of 5-year relationship (a few weeks). Natalie: has a man "a little in the picture."

02:05:16
Roster / dating multiple people simultaneously

Brian asks who has dated or slept with multiple people simultaneously. Bri (SPEAKER_11): yes, 2 men after 5-year breakup (revenge sex). Someone (likely Taylor/Emmy, SPEAKER_02): 3-4 people casually in past. Others: mixed; most say no roster or just casual overlap. Mari: relationship girl; doesn't maintain a roster. Natalie: "never had a roster."

02:09:10
Partner preferences round

Brian asks each guest desired partner income and number of kids. Mari: min $50k; 3 kids. Emmy: just financially stable; ~2 kids (unsure). Naomi: depends on lifestyle; 3-5 kids. Taylor: stable; 2 kids max. Kira: not specified clearly. Jamill: enough for kids to live comfortably. Katie: at least $75-80k; one child (done; IUD). Bri: stability; stay-at-home mom early on; 2 kids. Natalie: more than her father (infectious disease doctor); 2-3+ kids (above replacement). Brian: would marry if she's rich and has large labia (joke/tangent).

02:44:03
Self-ratings round (1-10 looks)

Viewer (Stiffler) asks panel to rate looks 1-10. Order (going around table): Mari: 10 (mood-dependent; sometimes 1). Emmy: 10. Naomi: 10. Someone (Taylor or Kira): 7. Someone: 6. Someone (Jamill): 7 approx. Katie: 6. Bri: 8. Natalie: did not explicitly state (donor rated her ~6.8). Brian: 5. Brian declines to assign ratings to guests ("you guys are not tens — no offense"). Donor TTS: "natal 6.8 Raven hair 7 used baggage 3 mamas San 2 obes blond 2 bimbo 4 a cup bimbo 3 deep voice C four goth thard."

03:07:04
League theory / men sleeping outside their league

Brian explains theory: women get rejected on the back end, men on the front end. Men will sleep with women below their league but not commit; this creates situationships when women overestimate their league. "Your league is who you can get commitment from, not who you can sleep with." Debate over whether women who self-rate high are delusional. Extended discussion with Emmy (SPEAKER_02) who says rating is subjective/pointless. "Will you be more attractive in 10-20 years?" round: Most guests say yes; Brian calls it delusional for those over 22. Exception: Bri (26) says no, youthfulness peaks earlier.

04:20:17
Would you date a World of Warcraft player

Brian asks if guests would date a WoW player (7-14 hrs/day). Emmy: 7 hours is a lot but if he's making money streaming, ok. Bri: no (it's too much time). Mari: if he's a Twitch streamer making money, maybe. Katie: her ex/baby daddy played Dungeons & Dragons. Brian discusses Season of Discovery Phase 3, raid composition, guild leader responsibilities, split-raiding for loot. Twitch raid from "Stay Safe" mid-show.

04:27:29
Plastic surgery / cosmetic procedures debate

Brian reconfirms natural body supremacist position. Prefers: flat chest over implants, natural labia over labiaplasty, natural lips over filler, natural belly over lipo, natural ass over BBL. Naomi reveals she got a labiaplasty during her year of celibacy (2022). Brian: "that's a dagger to my heart." Katie: former esthetician; left beauty industry over values conflicts. Discussion of who is to blame for unrealistic beauty standards: majority say "a little bit of both" (men and women). Brian: biological male preferences (large butts, big breasts) drive some of it, but not blame per se. Natalie: cosmetics companies and social media are primary drivers.

04:33:04
Abortion debate

Brief abortion discussion triggered by chat TTS. Emmy (SPEAKER_02): abortion acceptable for emergency situations; not a simple issue. Bri (SPEAKER_11): values life; stricter position. Brian: returns to topic briefly then moves on.

04:57:58
Who should pay on dates

Brian asks who should pay on a first date. Mari and Naomi: whoever asks should pay. Emmy: man should pay to show he's courting. Bri: traditional — man should pay. Katie: split down the middle (first couple dates); once in relationship, alternating. Natalie: man pays as provider expression. Brian: suboptimal to pay for women who made prior men wait but now won't make you wait.

05:00:00
Last name debate: would you take husband's name

Brian asks if women would take husband's last name. Most say yes or probably yes. Bri: yes (traditional). Natalie: yes. Mari: probably yes but depends on last name. Katie and others: probably/open to it.

06:05:45
Virgin preference / "pedo" debate

Mari (SPEAKER_06) suggests men who prefer virgin women may be "predatory" (pedo adjacent). Brian challenges: is a 25-year-old virgin woman's male admirer a pedo? Mari cannot explain her argument; says it "gives the ick." Brian: are Christian and Muslim men who prefer virgins PWs? Mari says yes for Christians, avoids comment on Muslims. Bri (SPEAKER_11) and Natalie (SPEAKER_14) push back as Christians. Mari calls Christianity a "cult" due to her interpretation of grace/salvation doctrine. Bri explains Christian theology on free will and grace. Brian notes double standard: Mari criticizes Christianity but not Islam.

06:18:00
Body count round

Brian asks guests for body counts. Mari (SPEAKER_06): 5 (Brian applied ×3 skepticism). Naomi (SPEAKER_03): declined ("less than 20"). Group count round: "Angel nine, 29" called out — Jamill stated 29. Bri (SPEAKER_11): less than 10 (only within relationships). Natalie Winters (SPEAKER_14): declined to disclose. Brian: declined ("personal rule not to disclose"). Extended debate: does body count define a person? Katie (SPEAKER_12): disagrees — people can change and grow. Natalie: there is a meaningful difference between men's and women's promiscuity impacts.

Transcript

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02:49:01
Brian Atlassome degre might 10 it might be shorter than me the whole rating thing I just don't agree with I don't think does anybody agree with her that you disagree with the rating thing you think it's
02:49:10
Brian Atlaswrong I disag to judge to rate people on their physical appearance I haven't done that since like Middle School hold on we'll go around the table on this is it wrong to to rate people on their
02:49:21
Mariphysical appearance you're putting a category of woman of 1 to 10 and everyone has different like opinions onong it's wrong yes wrong is it wrong
02:49:31
Emmy (+ Taylor/Kira bleed)maybe in your head it's not wrong but someone's face wait what do you mean no is it wrong in general no it's wrong to say to some okay all right no I'm saying it's not wrong yeah what's the actual
02:49:43
Emmy (+ Taylor/Kira bleed)question cuz now I'm confused no is it wrong to to toate rate yourself for rap people no I said it's not wrong no you said it was wrong right I'm saying it's wrong to make us rate ourselves and make us give you an answer and then tell us
02:49:56
Brian Atlaswe're wrong about how we see ourselves cuz we can't be wrong about how we see ourselves if that Mak it you're right about how you see you could be delusional and if somebody corrects you and says well that's actually not your opinion though like
02:50:09
Brian Atlasthat's your opinion that you think there's some degree of objectivity when it comes to Beauty like for example like a number right yes some people will rate you differently others but I mean can we
02:50:21
Brian Atlasall agree that we could take two people and let's say one is like a model and the other is a basement
02:50:31
Brian Atlasdwelling obese person a lot of models are funky looking okay whatever you know you know what I you know what I mean I'm just saying
02:50:41
Brian Atlaslet's compare okay um I'm trying to think of a guy who's like exceptionally attractive uh Timothy sham I was just about say find Timothy
02:50:52
Naomish no but Dune 2 the way he stepped it up a little bit the first one I was like second one I was like Kye baby I get it he's a very con conventionally
02:51:02
Brian Atlasattractive man I so is it wrong to to judge people based off their physical appearance I guess that's the question it's not wrong everyone does it naturally that's not what I was say but
02:51:14
Brian Atlaslike your objection to this question so I judge people right I'm sure you you make certain distinctions in terms of who you'd want to date based off their physical appearance correct like you'll
02:51:25
Brian Atlasjust date anybody doesn't care in terms of their physical appearance you have no preferences I didn't say that at all okay so you could for example like if if there were a hundred guys for if you
02:51:37
Brian Atlaswere doing this as an assessment would you not be able to like rank order them from like most attractive to least attractive do you think you'd be able to do that for me it's hard I'm very much a
02:51:48
Brian Atlasperson ality person and that to do with it are you on a dating app yeah and it's really hard what's the determination when you swipe on somebody is it their personality or how funny or they said something funny to what I said I don't think they can say something before
02:52:01
Brian Atlasunless you're looking at their bios read their like bios and stuff do you read their bios when you're swiping on guys on dating apps really absolutely 100% I I mean most of these da it depends what dating app but if you're
02:52:13
Brian Atlaslike Tinder most people are not like going into the bio maybe hinge you're like doing a little more but I think that's what we're saying so you're saying if we had a hundred guys of varying uh who looked differently you
02:52:26
Emmy (+ Taylor/Kira bleed)wouldn't be able to rank order them in terms of like most attractive to least I think that would be hard I think I could pick a few out and be like oh they're cute but like I feel like comparing people is just weird yeah for me that's how I feel everyone else can just I
02:52:39
Naomidon't know where your argument going because like if we did that every single one of us would probably rank them differently like the whole point is that I would actually argue that there might be differences but you would actually
02:52:51
Brian Atlasprobably if this is like a a mixed bag of people in terms people no I'm not saying you'd all rank them the exact same but there could be you might start
02:53:01
Brian Atlasseing patterns in terms of how you would end up ranking them but so it's just you you take such an objection to this one to 10 scale but women care a whole lot
02:53:13
Brian Atlasabout literal numerical measurements let's talk height women care deeply about a man's height that's literally a numerical measurement didn't we all pick
02:53:24
Brian Atlasthe second option for that question though yeah I picked the first yeah but it was like this guy's terrible but he's physically attractive right so that kind of goes against exactly what you just
02:53:36
Brian Atlassaid how because you're saying physical traits outweigh the person no that's not what I said I wom care no I said women care about physical
02:53:47
Brian Atlasappearance like there's other things that I agree there are other things that are important besides physical appearance but don't sit here and tell me that you girls don't care at all about physical appearance that would be
02:54:00
Brian Atlasridiculous and absurd I don't think anyone said that I don't think anyone said that okay I think he's skitso you think I'm skitso that thank you for your contribution to the whatever podcast that was
02:54:11
Brian Atlasgreat that was that was great I would suspect most of you here do prefer men who are tall that's literally a numerical measurement Not
02:54:22
Brian AtlasToo Tall though okay all right fine you don't want to date a guy who's 7et I get it 11 but when it comes to physical appearance you guys make all kinds of a
02:54:34
Brian Atlasactually you know what Nick pull up the mean don't men and woman both that yes absolutely okay absolutely Nick pull up the Tik toks what what Tik
02:54:46
Brian Atlasto Nick ahead play it didn't you show this last time don't even do you think now do you guys think this is like would this you
02:54:58
Brian Atlasfeel like misled that's catfishing would you feel play it one more time really quick just so they see the beginning would you feel misled mhm I disagree no
02:55:08
Naomihe's like the same concept as like hair extensions and in makeup I had would you would you feel misled no no really gen I had 24 in extensions Cho my hair off
02:55:19
Emmy (+ Taylor/Kira bleed)like same concept you you wouldn't feel misled a little bit um not necessarily if it's going to stay that way he's going to get he's going to keep it he's going to up it oh so he has to keep it
02:55:30
Brian Atlasthat way speak if he keeps it that way yeah what about what about you I don't really get the qu if I'm going to feel tricked would you feel like a bit misled with because of
02:55:40
Emmy (+ Taylor/Kira bleed)that I not really I mean if I compare it to all the things we do I don't know to me it didn't seem like a huge difference yeah personally I was anybody would feel a bit misled oh 100% so you're telling
02:55:53
Brian Atlasme that none of the girls here have a preference for men with a full head of hair you're just fine with men who are balding that would that would not be part of your Calculus a full head of
02:56:04
Emmy (+ Taylor/Kira bleed)hair like hair I'd like hair I'd like a thank you for being honest I'm not not being honest I don't but it's like okay what I said some guys look good ball some guys do right but you don't have a
02:56:16
Naomipreference you don't have a preference for guys who have a full head of hair if I liked that dude and I was dating him and he's like I'm balding would that change anything that's happened to me before where my ex Nick play the other one play the other
02:56:29
Marione all right go ahead oh there he is okay bald he's kind of hot I'm not going to
02:56:37
Marilie so he's got like a a toue basically look like he's insecure he's got a Tay his face so I mean would you guys
02:56:46
Naominot feel uh he was if like I saw him with no hair I would I would date him I think that's so shallow though like for real I do I think because like hair does not define you as a person if you like
02:56:58
Brian Atlasthat person like mhm but are you denying that people just totally disregard physical appearance when making an assessment of who they want to date no I never said that but you're saying like
02:57:10
Brian Atlasdo you feel betrayed or whatever the word you use what's the word you use Bamboozled misled misled like who cares it's hair I like that word you you wouldn't feel okay what about if uh
02:57:23
Naomido you have a height preference at all or don't care I mean I don't really care I've always just naturally dated taller people cuz I was always around taller people how tall are you 5'6 5'6 but you
02:57:34
Brian Atlasdon't care about height but conveniently all the men you've ultimately ended up dating happen to be tall I was it's funny because when we talk about height women say I don't care but then you ask
02:57:45
Emmy (+ Taylor/Kira bleed)them what's the height of all the men you've dated conveniently they all ends up being like six feet I mean I would say if I could say something I will say I do like a taller man because I am
02:57:56
Brian Atlastaller um but all or the two boyfriends that I did have were my height okay I'm not look I'm I'm not saying that women never date men who are shorter whatever I'm not saying that but generally
02:58:09
Brispeaking like are we going to sit here and deny that women don't prefer tall men I think some women do and some women most women prefer tall men yeah I mean I
02:58:21
Bridon't disagree with that but I'm 6 foot and I've been in four relationships and three of those men were shorter than me they were 5'10 and I'm 6 foot and that was okay that didn't bother me I still
02:58:33
Brian Atlaswould bother me either I think that's more of a symptom of you being in the like one percentile of women's height and they're you're
02:58:43
Brian Atlasjust it's going to be harder for you to find men who are taller than you mhm I mean my last boyfriend was 6'4 and oh well okay but the other two guys were 5'10 yeah which is the average male
02:58:56
Mariheight mhm so we're talking a lot about physical like what about mentality
02:59:03
Marilike what about their childhood energy like connecting with them I this this whole objection to the
02:59:14
Brian Atlasone to 10 scale it's just I find it interesting because we all make judgment calls about the people that we're going to date and you can deny it and you can say well I don't care about looks at all but I mean
02:59:25
Brian Atlasthat's cap no one said that men care about looks women care about looks but this objection to like the rating thing is is a bit boggling to me yeah I think the the
02:59:37
Naomiquestion is just stupid because it's subjective it's subjective you're asking me what I rap myself okay so if I showed you I'm trying to think if if I showed
02:59:47
Brian Atlasyou a picture of Brad Pit when he's young and then a picture of Donald Trump now and I asked all the
02:59:57
Brian Atlaswomen in the United States to who do you think is more physically attractive you don't think there would be any objective basis like you don't think that
03:00:07
Brian Atlascomparing Brad Pitt in his youth to Donald Trump now how he looks now you think you think that it's going to be 50/50 no one ever said that but do you think it would be 50 50 I I didn't say
03:00:19
Brian Atlasso we're we are able to make some degree of assessment about somebody's physical attractiveness are we not sure so then how is it a stupid question because you're not asking me to rate you you're
03:00:30
Emmy (+ Taylor/Kira bleed)asking me to rate myself and then tell us that we're wrong yeah but okay there's point I saw it coming I knew when I said 10 you're going to be like you're not okay I have one more question and I'll
03:00:42
Katietell you why I asked this question just you have something go ahead no I also think the flip side can be equally uh the point can equally be made you could meet somebody that's
03:00:53
Katiemarginally attractive and then you get to know them and then they end up being extremely attractive to you so the flip side can also be absolutely I mean look I'm not saying looks are the the only
03:01:05
Brian Atlasthing that matter you can make up for it in a myriad of other ways personality status Etc but uh okay so here's here's another
03:01:16
Brian Atlasquestion Donald Trump is a 10 there you go Donald Trump's never coming on the podcast no I compared him to Brad Pit okay uh all right W Trump all else being
03:01:28
Brian Atlasequal all else being equal do you think you will be more physically attractive in 10 years than you are now go ahead if I'm physically yes yes yes you'll be
03:01:39
Naomimore so you're 22 you'll be more physically attractive at 32 yes no honestly Asian don't raisin my dad glue
03:01:48
Brian Atlasup like as he got older so what about your mom my mom looks good too huh so so my mom just so you'll be more physically attractive at 36 as compared to now at
03:02:00
Naomi26 like looking at myself I feel like I still kind of have a baby face at 26 so I feel like yeah you a badass you straight you good girl you're going to
03:02:09
Brian Atlaslook good till you're 55 I think you're you're you're set so we go around the table we go I heard your answer I heard your answer
03:02:20
Brian AtlasI'll come back to that what about you I think it go either way I'm hoping so I hope I look better you hope what do you think though yes you so you're 25 right you'll be more physically attractive at
03:02:32
Emmy (+ Taylor/Kira bleed)35 than at 25 okay what about you so we're saying like if at 35 I think I would look prettier at 35 you think you'll be more physically attractive at yeah cuz I'm 24 I feel
03:02:43
Brian Atlaslike I'm going to grow 24 24 34 okay yeah you're going to grow I don't know I'm going to like just like grow in my like body more I don't know work on myself more I probably will look better so you're 39 more will you be more
03:02:55
Brian Atlasattractive at 49 or now yes I think so you you'll be more attractive at 49 than you are now I've glow blown up so okay what about you no what about you I think that um
03:03:07
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03:03:30
Briinformation please I need help spart Thank You LP go ahead I think attractiveness um is kind of determined by like youthfulness and not by everyone
03:03:42
Bribut I to me what I think is attractive is youthfulness and glowing skin clear skin long hair um so I think when I'm 36 I'm 26 I think that I'm more beautiful now but people can age gracefully and
03:03:54
Brian Atlaslook beautiful 10 years from now some people look better that's what I was trying to say she to clarify I'm not saying that in 10 years time you're just going to be unattractive that's that's
03:04:06
Brian Atlasnot the question you may very well still be attractive in 10 years that's not the question will you be more attractive in 10 years is the question no I based off
03:04:18
Briof what I just said regarding youthfulness I'm 26 and I don't think that I will be as youthful when I'm 36 that's not to say I won't be attractive But to answer your question 26 is more
03:04:27
Brian Atlasyouthful sure okay so I think youth answered yes you answered yes yes yes yes so you five
03:04:38
Naomiright there um will you be more attractive in 20 years yes I think my 30 or are you just
03:04:48
Naomitrolling no yes yes sorry I feel like in my 30s I'll Peak so no not in 20 years I mean I'll be more attractive
03:04:59
Naomithan you can just see it in her face she's a badass like next question go ahead um I just want my face like slim
03:05:10
Naomidown a little bit face you know what I mean girl get get your perfect no no I feel like when I get old like the like what happened to my dad he like looks
03:05:20
Brian Atlasmore I actually think men prefer don't like that like super slim look no my dad looks good my dad has a six-pack I'm not sure how your dad I'm
03:05:32
Brian Atlasjust saying my genetics I'm saying my genetics like as he got older he looked better say get old you're 26 year olds excuse me 26 years old currently you think you'll be more
03:05:43
Naomiphysically attractive at 46 could be no no no no it's not the question I mean I take care of myself I do get BOTOX I get my face done so I mean yeah I could you
03:05:55
Brian Atlasso you think it's not okay I wear sunscreen so you think you'll be more physically attractive at 46 than at 26 okay yep God bless my husband what about you don't wear sunen you think you'll be more are you guys just like saying this
03:06:07
Brian Atlasjust to be like combative or you genuinely believe you'll be more physically attractive at 45 than at 25 okay what about you I don't know at that point now I'm like kind of a lot older
03:06:18
Brian Atlasso probably not okay I'm going to say no no absolutely not okay you guys already answered so so sad um don't you think it's a little bit delusional to
03:06:30
Brian Atlasthink in 20 years you will be more physically attractive than you are now no how is that not do are you guys just not aware of the effects of
03:06:41
KatieAging well if she does enough spells on herself she could age backwards right I also don't think aging is ugly um and Al yeah exactly and so you're in just to be
03:06:54
Natalie Wintersclear where is my then why don't you draw wrinkles on your face when you're doing your makeup I think she means naturally well wait well what like if
03:07:02
Brian Atlasyou're saying aging like looks great about I'm talking about act aging I have a question those of you who ranked yourselves a TENS over here which I think was you yes you you and you but
03:07:15
Brian Atlasyou're saying you're going to be more physically attractive in 10 years more physically attractive in 20 years how can you possibly be a 10 now if you will be better looking in 10 or 20 years feel
03:07:24
TTS Donation Readerlike a 10 $100 Y El Shel Taylor Hill roren bin Hussein Kylie Jenner Bella Hadid Kendall
03:07:35
TTS Donation ReaderJenner Haley Bieber K Gerber and Jade Weber if you don't look close to them you're not a 10 facts they got a lot of plastic surgery some those I don't know
03:07:47
Brian AtlasI if I agree on that but kill of cereal I I do appreciate it wait so okay 30 years any 30 years more
03:07:57
Naomiattractive than 30 years you don't want to hear from me I'm just going to shut up okay
03:08:06
Brian Atlasso so basically if you guys will be more attractive in 10 years 20 years if I could wave a magic wand that could only Advance your outer appearance to how you
03:08:18
Brian Atlaswill look in 10 or 20 years with no impact on your health would you take it no but I thought you said you'd be more attractive wouldn't you want to be more attractive I don't trust whatever you're taking giving
03:08:31
Brian Atlas[Laughter] me oh yeah I'm down you're you're down to okay my brain hasn't aged like I'm the same 25 healthy you're still healthy just your outward
03:08:43
Brian Atlasphysical appearance brain though I'm saying like brain is brain is the same brain well I want to age with my body like I want to don't you want to be don't you want to advance to your more
03:08:53
Emmy (+ Taylor/Kira bleed)attractive self at 35 and 45 I never said that who wouldn't want to be instant more attractive about myself later when
03:09:04
Brian AtlasI'm Wiser and More Beautiful sounds like a bunch of mental gymnastics but okay what about you what was the question if I could wave a magic wand only Advance your outer appearance to how you will look in 10 or 20 years
03:09:17
Brian Atlasyears because you said you will be more physically attractive in 10 or 20 years with no impact on your health would you take it probably yeah
03:09:27
Brihuh okay then why do you get BOTOX I don't it's not having like wrinkles it's like what he's saying is he want he's saying he would expedite
03:09:37
Brithe aging process 10 years so you would look 10 years older right now oh that's what he's that's what he's saying if you could wave him magic wand to look better cuz your argument is you would look
03:09:49
Naomibetter in 10 years you would look 36 in terms of my face slimming down that was my answer the Warlock but I don't want wrink I'm not going to say like yes give me wrinkles but you can't
03:10:00
Naomicherry pick what that comes with I mean I'm getal no no no I said okay if I'm continuing to get BOTOX how I am right now and my face Slims down I believe I
03:10:11
Brian Atlaswill be more attractive delusion you're you're beautiful I'm just saying that was my answer you're beautiful I'll even I'll even give Grant you this so because just just to be as charitable as
03:10:24
Brian AtlasI can with the question the magic wand question you will advance your age for your outward appearance forward 10 or 20 years and it'll stay that way for 10 or
03:10:36
Brian Atlas20 years so it's not like well I Advance It Forward 10 or 20 years and then I just continually age because perhaps you concede that well in 30 years then I'll be less attractive so we'll we'll sticking in place will stick your
03:10:48
Brian Atlasoutward physical appearance for 10 years 20 years you would take your 40 how you look at 46 and change it for how swap it out understanding
03:11:01
Brian Atlasyour question I got lost there okay because all of you said you all think that you'll be more physically attractive in 10 years or 20 years correct so wouldn't it then be you'd be
03:11:12
Brian Atlasbetter capable of attracting a partner if we just Advanced your outward appearance if we could wave a magic wand 10 or 20 years right so for you you're
03:11:22
Brian Atlas26 right M so we could snap up a finger you look 46 and you'll stay always said 10 years you said you'll look better at in
03:11:33
Brian Atlas20 years also I said maybe I didn't say yes to it that's what you got no okay fine I'll fine we'll do 36 wave of wand we advance your outward appearance
03:11:44
Brian Atlasto how you will look at uh 306 M and it'll stay that way for 10 years so it's not like you're just advancing your outward physical appearance in terms of your aging in terms of your health
03:11:54
Brian Atlasnothing changes do you take it I'm down that's the most you're delusional I'm sorry you're delusional dude don't trust what he gives
03:12:05
Brian Atlasyou you guys are just delusional I don't know what how else to say I thought you were skitso I think that's you you're
03:12:14
Brian Atlasprojecting wait are you projecting okay anyways disregarding that it's all I'll tell you look I'll tell you guys why I
03:12:24
Brian Atlaspush back on this and why I think it's important so I think one of the important things when it comes to dating is knowing what your league is knowing
03:12:36
Brian Atlaswhere you are in the dating Marketplace because I don't know if you guys know do you know any guys who think they're hot but they're not yeah now what if I
03:12:46
Brian Atlastold you that's what you are you think cuz if you think I'm I'm a 10 out of 10 I'm super
03:12:56
Brian Atlashot here's where it gets dangerous for women not like dangerous in terms of violence or anything but here's where it gets dangerous one it's just delusional two
03:13:08
Brian Atlasyou're going to be chasing after a certain caliber of guy if you think that you're oh I'm this is my my league here
03:13:19
Brian Atlaswhat ends up happening is women don't chase after guys they don't but also like a situationship dynamic I'll look you're going to be pursuing men and
03:13:30
Brian Atlasthis is why women are so upset by boys and guys that sleep with you and then that's it they they don't want to give you commitment
03:13:38
Brian Atlasis you can me women can sleep outside of their league men can't we get rejected on the front end so if a guy for example
03:13:48
Brian Atlasme if I try to I can't get anything from a girl who's outside my league I can't get a conversation I can't get a date I certainly can't get sex from a girl who's more attractive than me who's
03:14:00
Brian Atlasoutside my league that just means you're it's 100% true it has nothing to do with insecurity it has to do with reality what's your definition now I'm sure maybe you guys might agree with me though there are men who will gladly
03:14:12
Brian Atlassleep with you who will never give you commitment do you agree with that I they are but like I don't think that's where we started I'm just well I I'll
03:14:23
Brian Atlasexplain it further I'll explain it further I'll explain it further fun no it's truth but you can be quiet while I'm explaining it I got you so as a guy we get rejected on the front
03:14:35
Brian Atlasend women tend to get rejected on the back end so what ends up happening is you'll sleep with a guy now you might have you maybe on your end you just want to keep it casual perhaps that's the case but could also be the case that you
03:14:48
Brian Atlaswant to pursue this man for a long-term relationship here's where you can get into trouble if you have a inaccurate self assessment of your own physical attractiveness you might be trying to
03:14:59
Brian Atlaspursue men that will never ever give you commitment you're going to get stuck in situationships you're going to get stuck in Friends with Benefits you'll never get commitment from the guy because men
03:15:10
Brian Atlaswill gladly sleep with women who are below their league so to speak and so that's why it's dangerous for women to not be able to like accurately assess
03:15:21
Brian Atlaswell is this guy outside of my league because guys like a guy who's just to use the numbers I know you guys don't like the numbers a guy who's a 10
03:15:30
Brian Atlasor nine for example he'll have sex with a girl who's a six or a five maybe even keep her around for friends with benefits she's never going to get commitment now what ends up happening
03:15:43
Brian Atlasbecause she can she thinks she can sleep with him she thinks that's her League so then she thinks well he's a nine I must be a nine not really how it works the the way you know what your league is is the guys who you can get commitment from
03:15:55
Katiewho you get marriage from that's your league Brian can I ask a question for the panel um for the women here how many of you myself included have broken up
03:16:06
Katiewith somebody because they feel like they're not getting because you feel like you're not getting what you want or what you feel like you deserve and so you break up with them
03:16:17
KatieI mean everyone like for whatever reason you're just like Brian said it's a it's a situationship it's a Friends with
03:16:28
KatieBenefits it's he doesn't want to put a label on it and you've just been kind of going with the flow but at a certain point you've kind of had it and you got it cut
03:16:38
Katieloose how many of the women here have experienced that yeah most I have a question for Brian
03:16:47
Marisorry is it related to the conversation yeah about the rejection thing okay what is it um so you were saying like you get rejected by a lot of people who
03:16:58
Mariare you know not in your league or whatever or not you but in general guys get sorry in general guys get rejected or whatever
03:17:10
Marium I'm just confused why you think that way like were you did you were you rejected a lot as a kid as a kid yeah because it's starting to
03:17:20
Maricuz like the whatever podcast and the attention needing it's starting to all click it's it's clicking for you yeah it is
03:17:29
Natalie Wintersclicking what what's clicking a lot next are you big on like talk therapy
03:17:40
Natalie Wintershave you done that a lot what sorry have you done a lot of talk therapy like do you think that's a um therapy I've done I've done like I've gone to
03:17:50
Maritherapy but um it's more spirituality rout I was just curious M but also like therapy kind of involved like psychology
03:18:01
Katieinvolved with it Brian but I totally agree with what you said I think men get a lot of rejection on the front half and then women will get into a relationship
03:18:12
Katiethinking okay we got the man we got the bag but then we for whatever reason are disappointed with the direction of the relationship and where it's going
03:18:21
Katieand so we'll be the one to cut the ties and so the men will get well sorry the the women unfortunately will get the back end of the rejection what's your
03:18:34
Katiequestion no it wasn't a question I was just agreeing you said that men get rejection in the in basically in the beginning and women get the rejection at the end of it
03:18:46
Katiebecause we will usually pull out because we're not getting what we want so in a in in a sense we're we're getting rejected that way because our needs are our wants
03:18:56
Brian Atlasaren't being met yeah I mean it's very it's very different uh between men and women but if I can kind of bring it back
03:19:07
Brian Atlasto my point that I was trying to make really quick here is that I would argue for most women in order for you to sleep with guy he needs to be at least
03:19:18
Brian Atlasphysically attractive enough for you to see yourself in a relationship with him like he's at least attractive enough for you to be in a relationship with him
03:19:28
Brian Atlaswhether it gets there or not that's totally separate whereas men will sleep with a girl of a certain physical
03:19:35
Brian Atlasattractiveness that we will We instantly disqualify her from uh a relationship but we'll sleep with her we can be in a relation ship with
03:19:49
Brian Atlasher so I mean I don't know if anybody disagrees if you're if you you ladies are just men that you just their looks alone you would never be in a relationship with them just based off their
03:20:06
Brian Atlaslooks is anybody is there any push back here or you just you guys actually agree with me on this I already gave my my um opinion I agree
03:20:17
Brian Atlaslook here's the difference as guys if we can sleep with the girl there's pretty high likelihood we can get her in a relationship the reverse though isn't doesn't occur to me that that's always
03:20:29
Marithe case just because you can sleep with a guy it's not clear to me if you can get that guy in a relationship 100% that's a crazy mentality how's that a crazy mentality I don't know I think you
03:20:41
Brian Atlascan get whoever you want if you have your mind to it that's the most arler thing I've ever heard okay you can get whoever you want is that the Manifest manifestation thing that you're talking about doesn't matter do your own
03:20:53
Katieresearch at this point there's no such thing as manifestation do your own research I think women try to sleep up that makes sense that's fine but we don't necessar that doesn't necessarily
03:21:05
Brian Atlascorrelate to relationship longevity okay um I don't know what the manifestation stuff is about I mean that's just a do you actually live in real you think you
03:21:17
Marican get anybody you want what's your definition of
03:21:27
Brian Atlasreality exactly yeah you do you think that is that like an own do you think that was a w exactly you're asking me the definition of reality no it's an Al it's an Alan Watts like quote like
03:21:39
Mariwhat's your definition of reality did you get a lot of detentions when you were in high school detentions yeah detentions I only um I got a what's it called when you're in like lunch
03:21:51
Maridetention I got L DET and then I no just once lot of Behavioral issues no I was actually a really good kid what was your home life like um wild was your father
03:22:02
Brian Atlasin the picture yeah my father's still in the picture but he was are your parents married no they're divorced divorced okay um I'm going to go I'm going to go over some of your pre-show notes here
03:22:13
Mariyou said you were arrested for a felony what was that Xanax for what I had it on me you had it on you mhm I was I was
03:22:23
Marivery addicted to Xanax as a kid and I like to spread addiction awareness now because I am 100% like clean I You're Sober yeah that's why I'm not drinking
03:22:33
Mariwhite claws with everybody else um and caffeine is keeping me alive right now um but yeah is everyone drinking white class like I got water I think two or
03:22:45
Marithree of the girls had had one drink before the show yeah um okay you were so you were in possession for distribution what um for
03:22:55
Brian Atlashaving it cuz it was in like a script so yeah have you ever have you ever distributed any drugs M sold any drugs no you said going to school off Molly what does that mean yeah okay like I
03:23:08
Maritold you I was spiraling okay so when I was 17 I started dating a guy who was 6 years older than me so that's that's what started my like addiction issues cuz he was bringing me all these like
03:23:19
Maridrugs and stuff you got addicted yeah exactly and that's when I and then at like 19 I realized okay addiction is a problem like I thought that I'm an addict that's it I'm done with my life
03:23:30
Marilike I I'm going to die but I realized you can actually live past this you can you know and yeah that was a bad time in my life but that's why I'm also here I'm here for the addicts like I
03:23:43
Brian Atlasknow I don't know how you guys feel about addicts but not really conversation ation I'm inclined to have you said you were in a mental hospital
03:23:50
Marido you care to uh explain that yeah so I was with that guy um I got Baker acted um do you know what Baker acted is in
03:24:00
Brian AtlasFlorida if you say you want to die immediately if just if you're going to refer to like just say you wanted to delete yourself or something okay okay sorry okay you got Baker acted so you
03:24:11
Mariwent to a mental hospital yeah okay um have you been do you do have you been diagnosed with anything yeah what um
03:24:19
Marianxiety depression and uh a uh BPD and then uh borderline personality disorder
03:24:28
Brian Atlasokay and then um I think that's it yeah that's it okay uh you said that the guy who you were dating mhm uh the when you
03:24:37
Brian Atlaswere 17 he made you pull up on an old high school friend and you robbed him yeah he robbed him was in the front seat and oh he robbed the gun yeah
03:24:49
Marihe had the gun to his face and I watched the poor kid's eyes like trust me I've paid my karma for that okay um you got in uh there's something about that
03:25:00
Mariyou've been in a lot of car accidents was it because you were driving seven were you driving I was only driving two of them okay one and then the other one was
03:25:12
Brian Atlasmy ex's fault same ex one time realized no one put money on a bottle so he just started shooting yep a gun yes Florida people
03:25:24
Brian Atlasokay yeah stay away from Florida guys did he hit anybody probably I don't even know at this point okay um you you
03:25:34
Brian Atlascrashed into a sheriff's house yeah were you driving mhm okay uh you say you're obviously clean now mhm are you though
03:25:45
Brian Atlasyou seemed a little zoned at the beginning of the podcast what is zoned out of it out of it yeah or is that just you I feel like it's just kind of me but
03:25:55
Brian Atlasyeah uh let's see you said your ex did you bite down on someone's lip or was that your ex yeah that was my ex that
03:26:03
Brian Atlaswas the recent he he bit down on your lip yeah okay that's abusive um you said you jumped to beey with jewels yeah
03:26:13
Mariwhich is one of your friends instigating it it was because at the time it was when I first started my only fans at 18 I didn't want anyone in my hometown to find out and then this girl was telling everybody and I got mad like I told you
03:26:27
MariI was what do you mean you jumped her how did you jump her like jumping means like when someone I have a sense of what it means but what did you do specifically okay so she lived in my same apartment complex and she knew I
03:26:38
Mariwas mad at her and she I told her to come over and she knew what type of time I was on but I'm not like that that
03:26:46
Brian Atlasanymore so you guys fought I beat her ass you you beat her ass yeah are you violent with Partners no have you ever
03:26:56
Maribeen violent with a partner um my ex the three-year one he got it out of me I'm not going to lie he did get it out of me who initiated the violence himh but you
03:27:07
Brian Atlasyou said he would would bring it out of you but it was because he was violent yeah okay uh you when you jumped so you jumped a girl
03:27:18
TTS Donation Readerwith your friend yeah so it was a 2v one Joey donated $100 ladies you are in your best years to have the most marital options What
03:27:31
Brispecifically is stopping you from getting married in your Prime anything I guess I'm just waiting for the right partner that shares the same
03:27:41
Brium religious views because all the qualities I look for in a man um if I just extract it and and try to look for that in society It All Leads back to my religious views so it's like um just
03:27:54
Brifinding that partner for me and there's there's no rush at this point because I've done it my way and trying to figure it out and I didn't figure it out my way so all right hold on guys I because some
03:28:05
Brian Atlasof these chats are about to fall off I'm just going to pull them up and then I'll come back to some of my stuff uh but peace starts with the woman she has to consent to it being made or otherwise it never leaves the bedroom therefore women
03:28:17
Brian Atlasneed to be held accountable first before men sorry that I'm getting to some of these now uh they came in a while ago uh P I think this is like talking about the
03:28:28
Brian Atlasadult content women start that I guess uh let me read this one or Natalie could you read these some of these are coming through uh Brian will you accept the marathon challenge you versus me
03:28:40
Natalie Wintersquickest time wins obviously you win you get a bottle of Johnny blue and I stop trolling I win and I come on and debate
03:28:46
Brian Atlasyes or no he keeps asking yeah i' I'm not going to do a race um I'm sorry um I appreciate your uh patronage though and
03:28:58
Natalie Wintersyour messages thank you man thank you the Bron s time for logic if you were all tens you wouldn't even be on this podcast let alone have trouble getting a man to
03:29:08
Brian Atlascommit to you time to come back to reality what's your definition of reality if you're all 10 it's a fair point uh we have this one if
03:29:20
Kirayou can read this disgruntled thank you man jabriel thank you Natalie is only 10 TVH question for the ladies do you watch me anime all right going around the
03:29:30
Emmy (+ Taylor/Kira bleed)table do you watch anime W Natalie um no I don't no
03:29:36
Brian AtlasNaruto no I've only seen Naruto no no no no all right we have
03:29:45
Kirathis one ask the women to raate their Intelligence on a scale of 0 to 200 um I'm really young so I would say
03:29:56
Naomi50 cuz I have a lot to learn I feel like maybe 100 that'd be in between average that's a really broad question um I'm thinking like emotional
03:30:08
Naomiintelligence I'm very high I mean obviously I didn't know the answer to the world war questions we'll put that out there but um I didn't really pay attention that much in history cuz I was
03:30:19
Brian Atlasreally science focused um so I'm sorry I didn't give an answer yet all right you're Meandering you're making your way to the answer I was just clarifying how I'm getting to my answer go ahead go
03:30:29
Emmy (+ Taylor/Kira bleed)ahead I'm going to say 125 okay I think you were saying before like there's so many different ways to be intelligent exactly that's what I was saying too I'd be in the hundreds we all
03:30:40
Brihave more to learn but I would also say 100 I'd say 12 yeah like 120 I'd say 130 I don't want
03:30:50
Kirato get trolled like the girls who said 10 but like one I think you deserve I think you deserve a high number read this one yeah no I care I
03:31:04
Natalie Wintersdidn't mean for you to assume these choices were post Plastics look at them pre- Plastics no one aside from medical intervention should get plastic surgery
03:31:12
Naomiif you're a 10 on panel no makeup please H well put look if you look at those people before their plastic surgery I mean you wouldn't think that they were a 10 on the
03:31:27
Naomistreet does anyone I don't even know like half of the people he listed they just listed a bunch of different like models I mean Kylie Jenner definitely was not would she be a 10 without her plastic surgery I don't think she's a 10
03:31:38
Kirawith it okay so but she say we have the king of DIY if you can read this one ladies you are in your best years to have the most marital options What specifically is stopping you from getting married in your Prime I think he
03:31:51
Brian Atlassent it as a super chat but he also sent it as did anybody else want to answer this one or what's stopping you from getting married I got married in my Prime best years divorce oh okay I don't
03:32:02
Brian Atlasthink I'm in my Prime yet I think yeah your Prime's at 45 is it 65 maybe she's getting there she's getting to her prime she's going to be a mine wine I took
03:32:12
Kirasome mil okay thank you for your answers 75k seems feasible for an established man seeking marriage iron 5x that may I suggest a book I Kissed Dating Goodbye
03:32:23
Natalie Wintersby Joshua Harris if a serious man you love chose to wait for marriage for sex would you wait nice stories okay um if a serious man that
03:32:34
Brian Atlasyou love wanted to wait for marriage to have sex would you wait I let's just say would you wait for marriage to have sex starting with you go ahead
03:32:48
Naomino you got to test a car before you buy it yes okay I agree with that I'm not
03:32:58
Naomireligious so I don't have any like part of me that's that ever really wanted that I love Andrew Tate so you yes you would wait or no no I would not wait I
03:33:10
Emmy (+ Taylor/Kira bleed)mean that ship is sailed I think already but with with a new person like with a new person I could wait okay yeah I think if I'm a new person and I and I
03:33:18
Brian Atlaslove them I'd wait okay no absolutely not no yes I would yes okay thank you Journey life for your question
03:33:28
Brian Atlasappreciate it we're all cut up on our chats here getting back to your criminal history you said you jumped a b with jewels so like you both jumped her and
03:33:41
Marishe was alone no I was an instigator I was there alone and then she just kind of jumped in it was just stupid Jules jumped in or I jump no yeah she jumped in but it was my fault it had nothing to do with her okay I feel like you live
03:33:53
MariEuphoria like in real life unfortunately like je unfortunately baby like the Molly in school yeah I privated that video cuz people were
03:34:05
Brian Atlasmessaging me saying I want to do Molly like and I'm like no please don't you said that you like to degrade men on your s SW platforms yes you like to
03:34:16
Maridegrade men so um I'm not going to promote this platform but this is how I personally talk to men and there's a lot of guys on there who have fetishes like I told you guys um there's a lot of
03:34:28
Marifetishes out there um and they like to be made fun of their beep size so I'll sit there and make fun of them for it
03:34:36
Brian Atlasand you enjoy it it's like a like an act but you you derive pleasure from degrading no no I'm numb to that
03:34:47
Briyou said it's fun you said it's fun for you no I'm numb to it but do you see a problem with being numb to that um yes and no so yeah you said yes why
03:35:00
Mariwould you allow yourself to do something that you have to numb yourself because I'm numb to the to the buyers I'm numb to the to the view not the viewers but the buyers the only fans people I'm not numb to the people that I genuinely fall
03:35:13
Mariin love with and genuinely find a connection with because I don't date my only fans people I don't date my SP people I don't date none of my buyers like but I guess what my argument is is why would you continue to do something
03:35:24
Brithat isn't fulfilling you that isn't making you happy and joyous and and bringing out the best in you no it is it is I guess it I I did I say it wasn't making me happy no no but it was implied
03:35:36
Briin what you said by being it's making me happy okay so numbness is happiness to you no okay you also said that when you were young you would fill up Walmart carts
03:35:47
Mariwith alcohol and I was like shoplift basically well no I wouldn't do it steal it I wouldn't do it I wouldn't do it my friends would do it they would fill up a cart while you were it was 24
03:35:59
Marihours before Co okay so they fill up the cart with beer and all this and then we'd they'd run out of Walmart and we'd pick them up in the car and zoom
03:36:07
Brian Atlaszoom zoom we out all right that's interesting yeah uh you also said that you hate labels oh that's related to the
03:36:19
Brian Atlasyeah that stuff okay uh you said that you've seen one clip from the podcast your friend explained to you the concept I kind of want to go not knowing the
03:36:28
Brian Atlasvibe yeah that's what I was asking you you said you know he hates on of girls and sex workers so I'm ready for that discussion I mean what's the clip that
03:36:39
Brian Atlasyou saw I don't even know anymore oh okay it was a clip yeah I don't hate on women who do o or sex work but a lot of
03:36:49
Brian Atlaswomen come on disrespectful kind of like yourself so yeah you might see Clips where I'm like checking these people who come on disrespectful I'm actually compared to like some other podcasts and given like the cohort of
03:37:02
Maripeople I deal with I actually think I'm fairly charitable interesting when it comes to conversations I was barely like I didn't know about it until my kick streamers joined and your your Twitch
03:37:14
Maristreamers no kick kick streamers join yeah I know the platform oh sorry okay I'm not seeking an apology I thought you were I thought you accidentally thought it was the old
03:37:25
Brian Atlasone the Kik like CU a lot of people always think that the text messaging one that people used to the messaging app yeah okay so that's what you dis What specifically do you disagree on I mean I
03:37:38
Maridon't think it's a I think it's a suboptimal dating choice to date someone who's involved in off or sex work mhm is that what you disagree with you said you said you don't agree with dating someone
03:37:49
Brian Atlaswho does off or you do I think it's a suboptimal choice for men to make and I suppose women too yeah I wouldn't recommend women go and date men who are porn stars I don't have a double
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Brian Atlasstandard on this but yeah I think it is a suboptimal dating Choice okay and I'm not claiming sitting here saying I'm perfect have you ever dated someone with
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Brian Atlasan o no okay I was just wondering and actually I've even stated that so long as they've not done uh and
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Brian AtlasI'm I mean it's still a sub optimal dating choice but if there was like some girl and she did solo content maybe conceivably maybe but there's other
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Brian Atlasoptions out there too of course but I haven't so yeah I was just wondering but is that your contention what do you mean my contention of
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Brian Atlaswhat that I am I advise men to not date women who are involved in only fans um that's what I thought but I guess not anymore what do you mean that's what you
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Kirahave Central limit theorem can you read this one this panel is wild half of them claim to be tens one claims a 40 IQ not even intellectually functioning another
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Kiraclaims 175 IQ higher than Einstein what the f I wasn't saying 175 IQ I thought they were just going with like an arbitrary scale it wasn't IQ they didn't
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Brian Atlasask IQ they asked that's a fair point I don't think I is that even possible it is a fair point he did not say it was an IQ scale it was from 0 to 200 so although isn't that typically what the
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Brian Atlasrange is for well then we also touched on there's multiple things to consider can you have a zero IQ would you have to be like a vegetable basically NPC a baby
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Brian Atlasno a vegetable NPC yeah like brain dead oh okay baby cool um let's see here thank you for the Roses thank you for the Roses I need to get up here momentarily actually wait before I do
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Kiragot anything for the the ladies oh my gosh uh can we talk about like feminism stuff I think that's a great idea maybe you if you can go around the table are you a
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Brian Atlasfeminist are you feminist or we could go Trump stuff I think feminism feminist yeah no answer you can't okay no no no
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Brian Atlasno no we're not we're not going to do that oh
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Emmy (+ Taylor/Kira bleed)yes um I guess I mean what like what's your definition of it like that they believe women are H what's what would be
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Emmy (+ Taylor/Kira bleed)your definition that women are equal that's how I'm yeah I've say no yes I'm a
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Natalie Wintersfeminist yes yes moderately yeah no I'm not not at all so you guys think being a feminist means you think men and women
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Emmy (+ Taylor/Kira bleed)are equal that's your definition what do you guys think the definition of feminism is no I didn't mean to say that's my definition but there's different levels to it there's extreme feminist and then
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Brimore I was saying that's why I was like yes I am yes I am well I guess so I guess my take on feminism and why I'm not a feminist is because I think that the balance of masculine and femininity
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Briis so beautiful and I can't do a lot of things that a man can do and a man can't do a lot of things that I can do and I think that's a beautiful combination to have a partner that can compliment you
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Brium that's really important to me um and I don't think we should try to compete or or be something we're not meant to be biologically especially would you date a
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Emmy (+ Taylor/Kira bleed)man who didn't identify himself as a feminist yes yes no why not well for me I think feminism is just about us all
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Natalie Wintershaving like the same amount of Rights and what rights do women not have I mean just I mean where do you think there's
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Emmy (+ Taylor/Kira bleed)inequality in society between men and women well I just mean that wom in sports because all the transgender men are coming in Fair Point there Hot Topic well just like I me women in sports in
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Emmy (+ Taylor/Kira bleed)general I think get paid less because there's less viewers for well that's why they get paid less CU there's less viewers right but we also okay I'm just
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Natalie Winterssaying M my definition of it is really broad um I agree with her and if someone didn't think okay wait but back so no one can give an example of where women don't have the same rights as men but that's why you think we should or that's