05:44:16Millennial Millieokay French I want bag I want croissants okay no croissants cakes Just Cakes P okay just
05:44:27Millennial Milliecakes okay so so we have this okay come on now go ahead go ahead we have this okay at the bakery there's a case full of beautiful cakes pristine gorgeous in
05:44:37Millennial Millietheir own way right and then you have a line of men line want to buy a cake right now the guy at the front of the line decides the guy okay stop interrupting it's kind of rude the guy
05:44:50Millennial Millieat the front of the line decides he's going to go and stick his finger in each cake cuz he wants to try it before he wants to buy it okay yep so is he is he
05:45:02Millennial Millieuh being disrespectful more so to the men behind him that want to buy the cake or is he you know essentially being more disrespectful to the cake itself I just one point of clarification he's sticking
05:45:14Millennial Milliehis finger or his penis in the cake well you could say whatever but essentially he wants to taste it before he buys it right they covered this in americ besides oh I'm going to Great film great film by the way American let me finish my
05:45:27Millennial Millieanalogy we're actually going to have a discussion here right or is this a clown show okay so the the cakes essentially um are you know he decides he's going to
05:45:39Millennial Milliebuy the cake that you know he wants for himself but now the next man behind him comes and every single cake he sees has a fingerprint in it and then he decides to take a finger and then by the by the
05:45:50Millennial Milliethe time the guy at the end of the line here gets to it you have all these cakes that have been just just you know battered and it's not in its original condition not the original so what's
05:46:02Millennial Milliehappening here is I don't understand why men in society aren't mad at the guys who are going and sticking their fingers in all the C I'm pissed off well I'm
05:46:13Andrew Wilsonknow why why all women be virgins what about what about all those [ __ ] cakes opening their legs though to like put your finger in
05:46:24Millennial Milliehere they have a Runway going right towards the finger insert I hear it but but I don't see any accountability on the men's part and I don't see any IR towards it sounds like you're only
05:46:35Millennial Milliegiving accountability to the men well I say obviously I said I'm against premarital sex are leaders except when it comes to sex right then women are The Gatekeepers
05:46:46Millennial Millieof bottoms but men usually make the first move on most occasions okay now here's the thing okay but they G us the most actually it's the parents a lot of times they'll say you know women have
05:46:57Millennial Milliesex to have relationships men have relationships to have sex okay so this is what I'm getting at yeah you have to have to realize that men should also hold other men accountable for going up
05:47:08Millennial Milliethere and tarnishing all of the cakes because what's happening is you're actually disrespecting by having if you're dating a woman and you're sleeping with her and you have no
05:47:18Millennial Millieintention of marrying her you are actually tarnishing her for her future husband and you're disrespecting her future husband so you have to
05:47:29Millennial Millierealize be she would be but where's the accountability on the part of the men as well in respect to other men go ahead should men respect other men I I don't
05:47:40Reneedisagree with your general like idea definitely like say it Renee say it I don't know men shouldn't be sticking their fingers in the cakes like
05:47:51Reneecrazy like that they should want to wipe them up but wait what but however yeah this is a fallacious analogy because you can't tell from cake like you wouldn't
05:48:03Reneebe able if you walk can't look at my cake you you wouldn't know the damn difference look at me and tell me how many bodies I have that wouldn't be a
05:48:11Reneefous analogy will demonstrate no you you would never know would never know it's called emotional when but they would never know listen man wouldn't
05:48:23Andrew Wilsonknow no and even if Li he might know he might not know the precise number do you know what a Continuum fallacy is actually what you just hang on what you just did is called a Continuum fallacy
05:48:35TTS/Donation Voiceit's where one thing is not another the woman posts a bunch of pictures on the internet for men to see what her Bakery has to offer what if I leave a good review dumb
05:48:48Reneeanalogy you'd have to put the finger like in the bottom where no one can see it wait Millie can you answer this one okay he didn't really what did he say
05:48:56Reneewho's held responsible did you catch that okay wa you get the you can't see when you walk by a woman you cannot see how many men she's that's but that's not
05:49:08Brian Atlastrue like no it is true Rene Rene Rene listen there's something called check this [ __ ] out the Thousand [ __ ] stare okay and sometimes
05:49:18Brian Atlasyou can look a girl in the eyes and you know we're looking at Ur I'm joking there's like a thousand [ __ ] stare
05:49:27Alicialook some women have it do I have it a little bit not going to lie just kidding it's like a 200 no I'm joking I'm joking so in the analogy why do men
05:49:39Millennial Millieget to remain like men and then the women become the in aminate objects no well here's what I the reason why I give this analogy for the men in in general right here is because I I want them to
05:49:50Millennial Milliebe able to think about um should men be disrespecting other men it's not as much about the women the the real analog the real Point here is when the man is doing
05:50:00Millennial Milliethat to the men behind they're disrespecting the men do you understand it's actually question I'll give you my I'll give you my disrespecting other men well I don't think it's I don't think it's really men
05:50:13Brian Atlasdisrespecting other men uh one I think women are The Gatekeepers of sex as Andrew says uh women are The Gatekeepers also from my point of view I don't advocate for male promiscuity I'm against male promiscuity now I don't
05:50:26Brian Atlasknow if I take it as far I certainly don't take it as far as you do uh I'm I don't object to premarital sex but I also object to like hookup culture um object to here's my here's my
05:50:38Brian Atlasperspective if I want to sleep with a girl I want there to be continuity I want to continue seeing her I want to pursue a long-term relationship with her that doesn't always necessarily lead to
05:50:50Brian Atlasmarriage for example in my case um so I'm probably not as far along as you like me but I'm not uh as far back as there's these guys who just want to [ __ ] a girl once and never talk to her again
05:51:01Brian AtlasI'm against that uh if me personally if I if I want to sleep with a girl I want continue seeing her I want to pursue a long-term relationship are you ready for marriage right now in your life well here's the other thing I don't want to
05:51:12Daliahget married okay so then AR you going around damaging women then just going around making more per you're making more he can still have a longterm
05:51:22Kisharelation no but you're contributing to body you're contributing to whoredom and destruction one of the cake stickers yeah you're the finger Dipper and then like oh you're such a 304 you should
05:51:33Millennial Milliehave let me dip my finger and it's like but you promised a long life with me then you don't have room to judge you don't have room to judge the women Rel you don't have room to judge the cakes that have had their fingers stick
05:51:44Brian Atlasthere's no commit you're doing the sticking actually find new C guys one one [ __ ] thing at a time I can only respond to one person in a Time traditionally men when they slept with
05:51:55Kishawomen they were removing they were defiling their status and yeah fathers would hunt men down and beat The Living Daylights out of them or shoot them sometimes yeah
05:52:07Kishaif you slept with their daughter and they lost status or something because challeng that's not the point it is the point no what they would have to do is
05:52:20Andrew Wilsonthey would have to pay restitution you didn't let mebe but still the fact is you are causing damage and it's a disrespect to a family also causing damage to the male and virginity being
05:52:31Andrew Wilsonintact was also something which was considered to be um you know inside of society is something that which need to be held intact it damages everyone that's the point it's a disrespect to everyone including yourself and if
05:52:44Kishayou're going to go around continually just sleeping with people without marriage and then saying oh well women have to stop being 304s you're contributing to the problem you're literally quite literally you hear anything I just said but you said you want a long term but not marriage and if
05:52:57Brian Atlasit doesn't work out then yeah but there's do you do you acknowledge there's a difference between these guys who will [ __ ] like multiple new women a week and never talk to them again versus a guy who's actually genuinely interested in pursuing
05:53:13Millennial Millielongm no intent to Mar if you're being up front if you're being UPF front with them exactly I'm literally saying I'm saying it on the podcast mean like you're being I never said you're being
05:53:24Andrew Wilsondis you're causing harm the only the overarching point you're making is fine I agree like I literally agree with you I I've agreed with most of what you said
05:53:34Andrew Wilsonwhen it comes to this but but here's the thing thing I don't really in this sense I don't understand why you're negating the responsibility of women whose sexual
05:53:46Kishavirtue is really important for biblically I didn't I didn't her responsibility I didn't say she was inept mentally and she count like I'm actually speaking more like from man to
05:53:57Millennial Millieman brother to brother yeah I'm disrespecting other men yeah know but I'm talking specifically what's up Nick everything okay Nick yeah oh okay thought I heard something so are you thinking it's a more compelling argument cuz men respect other men so if they
05:54:10Kishathink they're causing harm to other men then it might make them they are causing harm to other men they are because on you wouldn't want someone doing that to your daughter or your sister or your mother son or your no but the someone coming a man coming along saying I want
05:54:24Kishato have a long-term relationship with you I'm not going to marry you but I do expect you to sleep with me and do all the roles of a wife what type of woman the roles of a wife a father would not want that for his that's removing autonomy from a woman that's the only
05:54:35Andrew Wilsonproblem arum can do my laundry so why would you expect that full commitment from a woman without giving that full commitment with her why is she giving it her choice at the end that's the argument back why is she giving it well if if she doesn't want that why is she
05:54:48Kishagiving the the argument of who's giving it or who's receiving argument is why are you doing it why do you want to participate in that when you're you're complaining about that being a part of the problem why are you participating in
05:55:00Kishathe problem why is she you are complaining about the problem she's doing care I'm not conceding I'm not saying that it's wrong it's not wrong I'm saying
05:55:11Kishait's wrong on both ends but he's saying that it's okay why is it okay to contribute to all of this and say it's a problem but then continue to contribute to the problem if you want to have sex
05:55:24Andrew Wilsonwith women before marriage I answer the question so if Chastity is important to a woman great if important to again he should react and make his morals based the argument before you cut me off in 5
05:55:35Andrew Wilsonseconds relax I'm just Rel so here's the I'm sorry so here's the so here's theuse so here's the argument back right you're right that men and women should keep their
05:55:46Andrew WilsonChastity intact 100% they both have a responsibility to do that women even more so than men because of how valuable it is and they are The Gatekeepers of sex we know this because based on
05:55:57Andrew WilsonAncestry we can see that men have twice as many female ancestors as they do male ancestors okay you're a man in the relationship so hang on let me finish
05:56:08Andrew Wilsonalmost done so because of this we know that women get keep sex that's as it should be and yes it is absolutely biblical and yes there's nothing wrong with that and Men also are supposed to
05:56:18Andrew Wilsonmaintain their Chastity my only my only contention with your entire argument here is that if a [ __ ] dgen Brian and another D no I'm kidding I'm joking but
05:56:29Andrew Wilsonrelax calm down but anyway and and a d gen woman a little bit right they're both hooking up together I don't see where you can delineate and say that that's purely the
05:56:40Millennial Millieresponsibility of the man it clearly isn't and the same thing the but that's her argument right okay it's not my argument I didn't say only the responsibility of a man don't put that in my mouth that word well but who's
05:56:53Andrew Wilsonleaving the finger on the cake this implies that the cake itself was perfect until this finger hit it said the cake has no autonomy right the can't choose if you stick your finger what I said I
05:57:05Millennial Milliesaid hold on this was my analogy so I want to address this because you're you're you're actually saying that I said something and what I'm what I'm saying here is the reason I gave the analogy was to pose the question of if
05:57:18Millennial Millieyou think it's okay as a man to be disrespecting other men by essentially tampering with causing causing damage such
05:57:28Andrew Wilsondevaluation to another man's future the answer is damage the answer is no damage is the answer and the answer to the other side no damage occuring it's also not okay for her doing the same behavior
05:57:40Andrew Wilsonyou don't so so men don't think that they have to respect other men I do want to add something real quick I literally just said I agree with you they should respect the man they shouldn't be
05:57:51Andrew Wilsonpulling the ladder up behind him right what I'm saying to you though is it's as much in this in this case the I guess inanimate object of cake which is like a dunderhead woman uh also would have the
05:58:03Andrew Wilsonthe same responsibility and is also cheapening sex and chiefing Chastity which is way more valuable to women than it even is to men for all of women they they're kind of [ __ ] the whole Sisterhood you know what I mean the whole Sisterhood which
05:58:16Brian Atlascould keep the Chasity together so that's my problem with women allow I didn't have a question for you are you are you a virin it does make sense are you are you I
05:58:27Kishatold you that I was she was married married before even was like not to address what you're saying because I agree with you on thata were you marry me stop he now what the
05:58:38Brian Atlasheck um traditional men approach fathers first so in courtship is he watching the show right now stop it what's his name um that's crazy yo um check this out uh
05:58:51KishaI don't know I'm going to make up a name for your dad no his name is Dale Richardson don't disrespect him oh that no I was trying call him random I was trying to respect him by not you know no that's that's okay you know saying his
05:59:01Brian Atlasname just you know no but he's I mean he's all over my Dale Richardson Dr can I call him Dr yo what's up Dr I wish to good job Dale she's got good values I wish to make a
05:59:13Faithproposal okay sorry this is cringe as [ __ ] my bad I do want to add something real quick so about the the cakes and everything so um oh my God she convinced me qua convinced me I had propos this is
05:59:26Millennial Milliea really degenerate Bakery we're in right now well let's say let's say the the the the chef of the bakery is like the dad and the chef Chef should be also watching over and saying what if the dad
05:59:39Brian Atlasaway from my so I did get aard and I was never that's not even that's not I'm going to sometimes like I mean the chef tastes sometimes the chef will sample I'm just saying sometimes the chef he
05:59:50Brian Atlaswants to make sure the food is came out right he sometimes samples disgusting that's disgusting that's absolutely disgusting that's absolutely that's not even funny I want to hear what she had
05:59:58Kishato say I thought that was a bit okay I mean the p word no that's not in incest yeah no no that's not funny go ahead okay thank you
06:00:10Faith[Music] um my bad okay so um my husband and I one time we were talking about this really cool study and I'm joking OB West
06:00:21FaithVirginia I don't know I don't know the exact source of it um off the top of my head but it was talking about how the more people that um someone sleeps with
06:00:32Faithparticularly this yeah particular yes particularly this situation women um the less emotional capacity she has to get attached and everything and so I think like you were saying with the with the
06:00:43Faithcakes and whatnot eventually if enough men dip their finger in the cake there might not be any cake left and it's not that necessarily there's like no value she's horrible whatever it is just it's
06:00:54Faithit's it's a like a a mental and emotional depletion over time that takes away from from the quality of relationship with with a man or you know
06:01:04Kishawhoever so cake just stops tting good when too many fingers get in it yeah but that's not that's not even I don't think
06:01:14Kishadisagree I mean please tell me like get super from you're right I would love to know guys thought no one no one is sign
06:01:25Kishame up no one is saying that what like I agree with you faith I don't think anyone's disagree with milk I drink it up I'm sorry I never play that I had to
06:01:37Brian Atlasplay it because food wait hold on let's I I do want to move things along because we're getting stuck here for too long really quick okay so your position is this is the real cake game this is um so you said you wanted to criminalize it correct premarital sex I said yeah I
06:01:51Millennial Milliethink that it should be a there are if you weigh the pros and the cons um which I really have a hard time finding a single con which maybe you guys could see if you think of a con but the pros
06:02:02Millennial Millieof what it could do for society would be it would drastically cut down on STDs and especially super STDs y it would um
06:02:11Millennial Milliedecrease unwanted pregnancies it would um it would essentially do away with this hookup date culture where they treat sex like a handshake it would it
06:02:22Millennial Milliewould and by decreasing unwanted pregnancies you would be able to have this a stronger nuclear family unit and um by essentially encouraging that more
06:02:35Millennial Milliemen and women are are virgins going into a marriage statistically they're going to have a better outcome for uh essentially staying together and not getting divorced which is going to
06:02:45Andrew Wilsonaffect the children in a better way right because we know divorce damages children um so I that's just a couple sounds like sh right isn't that what you're no it's
06:02:58Millennial Millieactually holding men and women accountable that want to act irresponsibly by punishing their choices would both men and women be held like both of them held criminally liable
06:03:11Millennial Millieright both men and women or would it fall more both men and women it's not only men it would be both men and women is it a fine I'm actually would it be cheaper than taking a woman on a date I am no I'm thinking
06:03:22Brian Atlasit it would be be like I'll just pay the 300 bucks [ __ ] it dang well a fine and maybe a misdemeanor and wait you know felony should no I didn't say death penalty what about you could go to jail
06:03:33Millennial Milliefor a mdem Mee right repeat offender maybe if a guy's like going around and he's got seven baby mamas all on child support don't you think the guy should probably be going to jail for some of that I mean he's causing a damage well
06:03:45Millennial Milliehold on he's causing injury to the public because now the American taxpayers are having to pay she caused all the damage too though no not necessarily fisel if the if this guy is going around impregnating deportation
06:03:58Aliciashould should we Deport people we're going to have more welfare Queens you know if should we Deport people for premarital sex Deport people anyone should be deported couldn't that just be achieved through like stigma or returning to stigma rather than
06:04:09Andrew Wilsoncriminalizing yeah way better way better strategy Lu get me a criminal good there used to be a much was not crime if was not a crime in the 40s it
06:04:22Andrew Wilsonwas just highly stigmatized and that kept Society together through shame which works well all right that's that was an interesting here's my thing can you think of any
06:04:32Millennial Milliecons criminalizing anything so wait I'm not you're not criminalizing children going to jail that's not criminalizing children no it's it's
06:04:44Millennial Millieactually preventing going to be encouraging children to be born in all we're not going to here we it was this was no actually I really want to know what are the cons can you actually
06:04:55Unknown/Backgroundunconstitutional does it say in the Constitution right we have a right to have sex we have a right are saying that in the constition no do we have it's a
06:05:06Millennial Milliegod-given right a lot of our do you have a right to drink and drive no because you have the potential of injuring the public I can uh it's listen listen you do not have a right to drink and drive
06:05:18Millennial Millieokay that yes that is impeding your free will whatever you want to you know try to say but you are potentially going to injure the public therefore they have made it illegal to drink and drive if you are engaging in a reckless sexual
06:05:30Brian Atlaslifestyle you have a high potentiality of injury but as naville societal Sol work but I'm fine with it look as a as just a quip that's kind of humorous to talk about I
06:05:44Brian Atlasthink yes but like realistically speaking do you think that this will ever occur no so like let's well how do you know it's never going to happen well do you think that it will ever not with women voting it won't happen do you
06:05:55Millennial Milliethink it will ever occur that women won't be able to vote Yes no it won't because the women would have to vote to think I don't think I don't think that
06:06:04Andrew Wilsonwe would suprem cour it's actually more likely only need apreme cour outw there's women on the Supreme Court nowadays women on the Supreme Court who outlawed abortion too let me read some
06:06:16Andrew Wilsonchats boys boys let me read some chats Brian it's way easier to convince nine people than it is to convince 70 million Brian is why our democra that's why democracy sucks when
06:06:28Brian Atlasyou when you have cardal knowledge stop stop stop stop stop Brian when you have Cardinal knowledge with Eve you become flesh even without marriage you are impacting your temple and creating soul
06:06:39Brian Atlasties cool man thanks thank you bro cool story bro thank you Rose appreciate it um yeah sorry I'm GNA you just called 403 guys I'm going to continue is it 304 I'm going to continue uh I'm not trying
06:06:52Brian Atlasto like you know run through a bunch of chicks but yeah I'm probably not going to stop premarital sex sorry stop the degeneracy I'm a d I'm a d but you would get
06:07:02Aliciamarried got out of it right you would get married if the state got out of the equation right I'd get married under the current terms if she was rich would you
06:07:13Millennial Millieget married sign up would you get married if the state outlawed premarital sex if the state made it illegal to have premarital sex would you get married can
06:07:23Brian AtlasI have multiple wives no I'm just kidding uh would that change it for you well yes I would be more inclined to get married have I would be more inclined to get married if I could not if it was illegal to have premarital sex yeah so
06:07:36Millennial Millieyou do realize though like drugs are illegal and people still do drugs though right no I do realize that but at the same time it would probably drastically cut down on the hookup culture that we're seeing today where you
06:07:49Brian Atlashave this is this would be enforcement question like this would be such an infringement on like the the police state necessary well you would know it by if there's a unintended pregnancy out
06:08:01Millennial Millieof weather though but but wouldn't you have to get rid of contraception for this plan work not necessarily if pull knows could yeah because you could not
06:08:13Millennial Milliebe able to tell there no way for you to do yeah do anything about it if there both parties were consenting yeah and if at at no point in time did either party you know go astray and and decide well I
06:08:26Andrew Wilsonmean couldn't one of the parties also not want to like report SAS because if they did they would feel like um they potentially could be guilty of an alternative crime wait [Music] what guys this is great look let's move
06:08:39Reneeon all right one of the smartest things to said all night uh hold on Mr trol nothing I say wait Rene can you read this one for me uh undercover blonde feminist and glasses are complete loons not actually guys sorry completely
06:08:50Reneetaking accountability away from woman now they want to criminalize consensual sex they women choose who to have sex with
06:09:01Kishadummies um can I actually so I I mean I can respond I think I actually take accountability every single time that I say I actually have to listen to my father's advice when he tells me to do what's best for
06:09:13Kishame and I choose to listen it means I'm protecting myself from doing bad mistakes I'm taking accountability for myself and doing what is right for me so
06:09:23Kishais a [ __ ] Legend yes he is he's the OG engineer That's What I Call he did he did good he understand though CU we're not disputing that point I'm all I'm saying no but him the the the the sir whoever said that I'm just saying that when a woman puts herself under the
06:09:37Kishasubmission of her father she's taking accountability for herself in her life understanding that that's what's best for her like I'm not saying that women should not do that if more women listen to their fathers they'd be in less problems wait I have a question for you
06:09:48Kishaif you were married I assume your father would still have some degree of influence right I mean if I'm married I'm listening to my husband but would you listen to your husband over your father yes yeah yes I mean if if my if my husband told me to do something that
06:10:01Brian Atlaswas harmful to me then I can't listen to him biblically like what does that mean harmful like if he if he told me like if he told me to like shoot Millie I don't know like cuz like if we were married
06:10:12Brian Atlasand like you know I should have ultimate Authority and then your dad sounds kind of [ __ ] based I know like how can I ever live up how can I ever live up your dad and your your husband feel like
06:10:24Kishawould over me if your dad and your husband were in a dispute over your future and they both had your best intentions she was listen to your hus the thing is so all the PE so I'll give an example so the people I've dated in the past like gen dated um they've gone
06:10:37Kishato my dad and asked okay I'm interested in your daughter how are men talk to each other I don't know I like her whatever can I date her whatever I don't know and then that goes that way I date or whatever if there's a problem that they feel like my they need my dad's
06:10:49Kishaopinion on since he knows me better they have called him and reached out to him like Hey I would like to understand how to approach your daughter better in this situation and he will talk to him and he's had a close relationship with them so I've never been put in the position
06:11:01Kishawhere I had to listen to one or the other because they've been in it came were to call my dad if I that them off what's WR with your daughter why doing this my dad's like I get it
06:11:13Andrew Wilsonshe's been doing this to me too like this is how you fix it I don't know we have AB Che hey dude AB Che thank you man I appreciate it make slute shaming great again okay that is UL it's ultimately a better solution to move towards shame if you want to see that
06:11:26Andrew Wilsontype of movement in think you can shame women into into like being better though but you can and I can tell you how the same reason you got them to smoke because women are highly susceptible to
06:11:37Andrew Wilsonpropaganda far more than far more than the alternative sex the same thing exists I was trying to bring this up earlier but if you look at that same program Jones talks about a bunch MK
06:11:46Andrew WilsonUltra you find what they found kind of studying this is it's like 15% on the front end and the back end are open to suggestion meaning
06:11:55Andrew Wilson15% you can't [ __ ] brainwash for [ __ ] okay bottom 15% of society totally susceptible to it women are far more
06:12:05Andrew Wilsonsuggest suggestible to propaganda though than men are overwhelmingly and they conform to social norms far more than men do so if you utilize propaganda even
06:12:16Andrew WilsonState propaganda works great for this by the way women tend to enforce State propaganda more than any more than any man does and yes you can move through propaganda for shame and if even just
06:12:28Millennial Milliehaving a switch and Hollywood towards alternative propaganda would do wonders for shame all I say is you should carry that same energ to the men who are being told you it's really hard for to
06:12:39Andrew Wilsonpropagandize men it's really easy to propagande not necessarily you don't have the evidence behind that I just gave it to you it's called MK Ultra I literally just said it you weren't even paying
06:12:49Millennial Millieattention just sitting there going is you don't have to use propaganda to carry that same energy yeah you don't have to use propaganda to carry that same energy towards men what how men
06:13:01Andrew Wilsonhold other men accountable is through Force correct you you want us to go and beat the [ __ ] out of them fine that's wonderful but what we could easily do is just move into a shame culture of stigma
06:13:14Andrew Wilsonstigma works better than anything why do you think progressives are always trying to [ __ ] remove stigma as part of their social as part of their social agenda remove stigma from lgbtq remove stigma from you know uh women in the
06:13:26Andrew Wilsonworkforce remove stigma from It's Always a destigmatization campaign because they know how effective stigma is in society that's why they're always moving to remove it okay you had a good point what you were saying about women um with the
06:13:38Kishapropaganda and they do because they're emotional and that's that's true what I'm saying is though when women go into a bad lifestyle that's harmful to them and they're trying to get out of it for example only fans or something say they
06:13:50Kishastart learning about Jesus or they learn about a better way of life and they're like you know what this is terrible I want to stop a lot of society will shame them so bad they'll feel like they have no option but to go back into it because people accept them when they're in it
06:14:02Kishaand they're like oh yes Queen do what you want or that's just her only fans life or whatever but as but they try to like when they come out of it they shame them so bad it's like they can't handle
06:14:12Kishait you can sometimes you can shame to a certain point but you cannot shame an emotional being into positive progression long term it doesn't work
06:14:22Andrew Wilsonyou need to show them you show them how to actually solve the problem yes can you need to actually show them you can replace the ideology after it's broken down most certainly and you should but saying that the stigmatization doesn't
06:14:35Andrew Wilsonwork long term is insane we use stigmatization Works long term all the time for everything for behavior for how you act in class to how you act at home T you act everywhere T you act in a restaurant stigma works everywhere you
06:14:48Andrew Wilsonsee it applied Everywhere You See It applied it works you mean like people are doing things because they're afraid of the stigma as opposed to their actual ideological Bel corre nobody tells you to get you don't get arrested for cutting in movie theater line you just
06:14:59Andrew Wilsondon't do it CU all the social or all the shame of the people looking at you and going get to the back of the [ __ ] line it's the then they could use shame they could use shame in place of laws
06:15:11Andrew Wilsonfor things like drunk driving work when it comes to like people needing to be they give you an additional penalty on top as part of a deterrent however if you had a sufficient amount of social
06:15:23Andrew Wilsonstigma Against Drunk Driving like I don't know you could probably get a law pass like prohibition which was largely pushed by women and it was largely uh to stigmatize alcohol and yes of course it
06:15:35Andrew Wilsonworked and it was only uh push back through kind of countering that stigma where it started to fall apart yes stigmatization works it if you had a social Norm that was so entrenched um that you know people
06:15:49Andrew Wilsonadhere to whatever it is it could be more powerful than a law sometimes social norms can be more powerful than a law you put on the book tradition can be more powerful than a law pic yeah again Traditions can be more powerful than law
06:16:02Andrew Wilsontoo imagine tomorrow for instance there's a law that said you couldn't celebrate Christmas it would be that would be a tall order right the the traditionalism that you know maybe people are rooted in be more powerful than the law itself it would prohibition
06:16:15Andrew Wilsonwas a bad example because that one was also criminalized and it failed what prohibition of alcohol that was my but my point was it was a stigmatization against alcohol but it was also but when
06:16:26Andrew Wilsonwomen were pushing back the other direction then they went ahead and removed the loss and also there was all sorts of other problems with it but there the way that a lot of that stigma happened the way a lot of the men went
06:16:37Andrew Wilsonwith it is because women would hold up signs and [ __ ] and say things like alcohol that have touched our lips you'll never touch our lips now granted they were ugly women but still
06:16:47Andrew Wilsonpropaganda but it fails ultimately Tim it fa policy the policy failed the stigmatization did not fail people still drink Al if you if you could shame women
06:16:58Kishaout of only fans like there' be no 304s you can't shame a girl she has to make that decision a girl can't handle longterm dealing with that kind of emotional like attack
06:17:09Kishawithout having an actual solution to the problem her real time like she needs when it comes to the lgbtq are progressives trying to destigmatize
06:17:21Andrew Wilsonthat what hold on look when it when it comes to certain groups like that group progressives want to destigmatized they don't want any stigma towards that group right you don't have to participate if
06:17:33Andrew Wilsonyou don't want yeah but they don't want want any stigma towards that group right yeah okay why tell me why no you tell me why I asked you I mean I I don't know what
06:17:44Andrew Wilsonyour answer is okay it's yeah but anyway the answer is simple they want to destigmatize these things because when they are stigmatized people push back they literally push back they go no we
06:17:57Andrew Wilsondon't want this we don't want that certain parades [ __ ] like that they will push back as long as stigma is resenting something doesn't I'm sorry got to move on culturally where are the fathers from
06:18:08Brian AtlasBen George uh thank you Ben George not sure if that's an actual question or hypothetical or you know the kids all got
06:18:19Brian Atlasaborted and parental alien there's a lot of alienation going on you know okay uh we have Mr Travolta shut up about your father you have a father we get it you
06:18:30Brian Atlastalk too much for someone that listens to Dad I was talking about criminalizing pre maral sex also my DUI question was for the whole panel I forgot what your DUI question was something about female privilege or white privilege but she
06:18:43Rainaanswered that already I he wanted the whole panel to answer I we could go around really quick I guess a little bit of both do you identify as white yeah I don't know what the question is no I'm
06:18:53Reneenot white oh sorry what is the question I don't I say actually it is female privilege I I think the the piggies do be giving you some slack as a
06:19:03Kishawoman okay quick please oh the question is uh is it is it female privilege or is it it's female I
06:19:13Kishathink or is it both I mean it could be both itend shees identify as white so I would well not for her specifically but I mean like if it was anyone else I mean it could be both depending on the
06:19:23Kishacircumstances but she I don't know for her maybe just female whatever I'm not really sure for this one female
06:19:35Brian Atlasum female privilege female okay all right let me get through my show notes here I would like to try to wrap things up relatively soon so I do need
06:19:45Brian Atlasto get through a lot holy [ __ ] okay uh nalia you are a political correct nalia yeah Raina oopsie sorry it's okay yeah you
06:19:57Brian Atlasprobably should okay it's all good okay um you said the government is ran by Cult leaders and Aliens yeah yes that was just kind of a joke but oh so you don't actually think
06:20:08Rainait's run by aliens um I think it's like um I just think it's like weird I just think it's weird that um our food is poisoned but yeah that's all the food's poisoned yeah the American food
06:20:19Rainasystem big food the FDA just let everything that's where you get you a vegan I'm not a vegan I love meat I like grassed meat though I don't like grass
06:20:30Rainafinished not Grass Grass fin grass finished it's a real thing you're real big food and big Pharma so all of you none of you are vegans right no so there's some someone have say uh Ben George two scared T
06:20:42Brian Atlasculturally where the fathers are why might that be wait so what do you want me to ask I'm a little confused where the fathers are why think maybe he wants to go around like and
06:20:52Brian Atlasfind out Dad okay here let me I'm going to take some uh Liberties here uh going around the table are your parents still
06:20:59Daliahtogether Jes no into the into the mic
06:21:02Brian Atlasplease no yes no no no no yes no yes yes all right Ben George I'm changing up
06:21:14Brian Atlasyour chat here I just don't really know what you want me to to ask them uh going back to you Raina is that sure I don't know I'm just going to call you Gerard
06:21:24Brian Atlasum sure you said you uh got some hot takes on the adult industry uh you were in it for two months you got the [ __ ] end of the stick and exposed to what it's really like and you said you spoke
06:21:36Rainaout against it can you give us a quick plot synopsis uh it's kind of hard to put in a nutshell but um I don't know basically I I don't know my personal
06:21:48Rainaperspective on like pornography and only fans and stuff like that I know people often say it's addictive to watch you know they say they talk about how men struggle with watching it and stuff like that I think um on the other side of
06:22:00Rainathat like a lot of these women are addicted to making it like I really feel like it's like a real genuine like addiction like drugs too you you were living in a in a house Mel House
06:22:12Rainaattention yeah I went to this okay so that was like part of the big part I was talking about so yeah I did go to like this uh model house one time and uh so basically my agent was involved with
06:22:24Rainalike some of the biggest companies in the industry and so like I trusted him initially obviously like don't ever trust anyone in the industry who's a man like they'll just Li your face but yeah
06:22:36RainaI don't know I just remember like he was like you know giving me what I wanted as far as like money and the jobs I wanted and stuff like that but um I I don't know they have something
06:22:48Rainaweird going on I have no idea like apparently my li My agent didn't even have a real license and that he was actually working for some other guy and I don't know when I got to the model house I was getting death threats my
06:22:59Rainafirst time in LA there he said that this guy was after me and that he wanted to hurt me something like that deal with it okay um you let's bring it back to
06:23:10Brian Atlaswe'll bring it to dating you said you dated a uh male adult star who was jealous of you uh what's the story
06:23:20Rainathere um I don't know pretty much he did you know that for like a lot longer than I did um did he smash dudes no he never did anything gay or anything like like
06:23:32Rainawith another guy he he just had like his own stuff like um but I think he yeah he was just I don't I don't know sorry I like no you're fine Mumble a lot here I
06:23:44Brian Atlascan help prompt you so you said that he wanted to impregnate maybe do split nick uh he wanted to impregnate you and insisted on getting married to you but
06:23:55Brian Atlasyou found out he was cheating you said you said he was a psychopathic narcissist who is twice your age yes so you were what like 20 I was 19 when I started in so he was like 40 or
06:24:07Rainasomething he's yeah about 40 and I met him yeah two months into filming and pretty much he just told me that um you know he wanted like the best for me he didn't want me to be involved in any of
06:24:18Brian Atlasthat and I believed him okay but it sounds like he wanted you to quit the industry and did he quit it with you so we were shooting only fans exclusively together and then like
06:24:31RainaI know he he like cheated on me with someone else and like shot a scene with them and then like he cheated on you and you broke up with him yes but then you got back then I got back together you got back with him but this recent time
06:24:43Brian Atlasyou're recently single oh so this is the guy that you uh you said that you been single for three months mhm okay so that's the one this is the relationship the two-year relationship that you're talking about correct yes my longest
06:24:55Brian Atlasrelationship okay um you're single again after looking through his phone history of him searching for of girls yeah to date to work with with um well when I met him I
06:25:06Rainaremember I saw him like looking for this stuff on YouTube and he told me like that his it was from before and that his intention was to work with these girls so when I saw it again I just kind of didn't give him the benefit of the doubt because he's already cheated on me so
06:25:19Brian AtlasI'm assuming his intention was to work with someone else again okay all right and uh you said that he was jealous of you uh you
06:25:31Rainamentioned the impregnation thing what made him a psychopathic narcissist um he's like a huge [ __ ] he's a really big [ __ ] narcissism no he's abuse
06:25:43Rainahe's a Nar he's abusive narcissist how do you know he's a narcissist uh I've been watching like a lot of videos from doctors and stuff I have I've been studying like my own journey and stuff like that do you like do you think if
06:25:56Rainayou watched a bunch of videos from doctors and stuff that you would be able to I don't know diagnose cancer it's not like I was just like oh mental health what is mental health like I dialed in on like what is narcissism and um I
06:26:06Brian Atlasthink it's pretty uh pretty spot on okay we won't linger too long on that uh you did want to talk about that you can turn a hoe into a housewife did anybody else
06:26:17Brian Atlashave that as a thing you wanted to talk about turning a hoe yeah into a housewife did you you put that in your notes not word for word but the essence yes okay that's I didn't by the way
06:26:29Brian Atlaswhat's that you did it too I didn't but I agree oh you agree so would you these are your words but I didn't say ho you said hoe you said you can turn a hoe into a housewife I have to disagree with you here but I'm I'm open think you're
06:26:41Rainawrong Brian well I'm open to hearing you out so what's your position I don't know I just I think I mean I don't know cuz my ex was a hoe too though so like you know like men have to like you know we
06:26:52Rainawere saying a little bit take a little bit of accountability you know um should you turn a hoe into a house five not always um I feel like I have like just sometimes yeah I feel like like you
06:27:03Rainacan't like you okay only a hoe can turn themselves into a housewife really like it hased water yeah but you can't make well she'd have to find a man who's
06:27:13Brian Atlaswilling to do that and my general recommendation to men my prescriptive suggestion is that's not even the Avenue you go
06:27:23Brian Atlasdown that's not even the path you go down if she has a past of doing sex work or past of promiscuity that is a 100% a deal breaker go find yourself a girl and
06:27:34Kishathere's plenty of women out there who aren't promiscuous who haven't done s work mhm go get that girl can you ask for if you're not doing it though like if you're not like if you're if you're
06:27:46Kishasleeping around or have slept with like say you've like say you're a guy say you slept with like 10 women that you tried to have long-term relationships with and it didn't work can you realistically ask for a virgin because a lot of virgin
06:27:58Kishawomen who are like conservative or Christian they want also virgin men who have the same mental fortitude that they did so I'll answer your question I'll answer your question so just to reiterate I'm not in favor of male
06:28:10Brian Atlaspromiscuity however I would say that there is a differential here in terms of the impact that promiscuity or being engaged in sex work for examp let's just keep it the promiscuity has on men and
06:28:23Brian Atlaswomen now I think they're both bad but this seems to be more pronounced there's a more pronounced impact on women and that's there's biological reasons there's other reasons there's just kind
06:28:33Brian Atlasof societal cultural reasons in terms of you know uh the reputational stuff but I actually don't think there's anything wrong with for example a guy who was
06:28:45Brian Atlaspromiscuous making the sort of assessment that well actually the best women to partner up with are women who are not promiscuous we're all chasing after the best we can get both men and
06:28:57Brian Atlaswomen women want the best man they can get men want the best women that they can get that's fair I don't think think there's anything wrong with a guy who has a pass a promiscuity acknowledging
06:29:09Brian Atlasand realizing that if for example if he's desires of long-term relationship that the most Optimum choice for him the most selfish choice and I think self
06:29:20Brian Atlasselfishness to some degrees of virtue um okay I'm not going sorry that's going to derail the conversation uh we're all going to choose what's best for us right sure yeah so yeah I don't object to it
06:29:32Kishaat all well all I'll say is is like of course there's going to be what's optimal um as a Christian in the Bible uh Rahab was a full-on prostitute she uh saved the well I'm just saying that that's
06:29:45Kishacool but let's just talk about secular people no but this is but secular person fine but not everybody okay but not everybody subscribes Rel I subscribe to and the Christians who do will also
06:29:56Kishaagree that Rahab who is a prostitute gave her life to God she saved people from the spies turned away from prostitution and God gave her a family and she had a husband and children Jesus
06:30:07Kishacame from the line the line of Rahab so can you turn a ho to a housewife if they choose to give their life to God and turn away from sin yes they can and we can accept those people and they can
06:30:18Brian Atlashave a part of society they need to have that hope that they can change they can be accepted and be better or there's no incentive okay look women can change and be redeemed but men do not need to then disregard their baggage and marry them
06:30:31Brian Atlasthese are compatible even from a religious and I would say can I say yeah go ahead my one thing is um huh uh sorry no go
06:30:41Aliciaahead go ahead goad goad Sor okay um I have a bit of a Redemption Arc because
06:30:47Aliciaof my alcoholism but I wouldn't tell my son that he should maybe like do some the same thing that maybe his dad did
06:30:58Kishabecause that is suboptimal and yes I made changes but that is is the exemption or exception yeah I'm not saying to go out of your way and look for someone who's a reformed prostitute to marry that's not at all what I'm
06:31:10Kishasaying I'm just saying that those people have just as equal opportunity cuz if God says they have value once they give their life to God and he has gifts for them that he's going to bless them with I have no authority to tell that individual that they have no right to
06:31:23Andrew Wilsonhave a family or no right to have children or no find a guy who's willing to do that but my would you tell your uh would you tell your virgin son to marry a reformed prute I will tell my son to marry whoever God tell to marry yeah but okay
06:31:35Andrew Wilsonso so just to there is obvious hang on hang on hang on hang on relax relax before you start prattling again forever and ever and I can't get a word when we when we move into this okay I just want to know your
06:31:48Andrew Wilsonson comes to you he's 18 years old and he's like Mom Betty's out down the road who did only fans for three years I want to marry her and she's done 250 scenes and sucked a thousand dicks I want to marrier you're going to be like well
06:32:00Kishaokay Junior I would as God called you to do it he goes sure has Mom I would tell him to ask his dad about that his father about it talk to Father what do you think his dad would say whatever his father says that's his father so do you
06:32:13Andrew Wilsondo you do you think that his father would probably say uh no I don't know it might depend if she's given her life to God if she's changed okay well if his dad does say uh no uh then you're going to you know go with that right well why
06:32:26Andrew Wilsonnot like he's not doing anything wrong by telling Junior no don't go and marry this prostitute even if you think God told told you to that's not what I said I said if someone's reformed and they've
06:32:37Kishagiven their life to God they're a new person in Christ and they've changed their ways sure they're just as much as a valuable individual as I have every that so I can't tell somebody not to
06:32:49Kishamarry that person because of their past why not because everybody has a past and Jesus says when you are saved you are washed and cleansed by the blood of the Lamb you're new like that doesn't mean your past is erased it doesn't mean it's
06:33:02Kishaerased but it means I cannot now treat you like you are a Sin you are not a sin you live a life of sin but you yourself as a human being are not a sin got it then let me ask you this last question right let's assume for a second that
06:33:15Andrew Wilsonyou're you found out that your babysitter had been a reformed Christian for 15 years and lived a model life but he had molested 15 children would you leave him at home with your children that's not at all would you leave him at
06:33:27Kishahome with your children he's a new person that's not you have no right to judge his past no that's not at all like the same is consensual the other not the same kill people who do that wait it it wouldn't be your preference to do that
06:33:40Millennial Millieit wouldn't be your preference to leave them there pedophile no because there's would you with your daughter so you're equating a prostitute to a pedo no what I'm equating to is I'm trying to
06:33:51Andrew Wilsonsay that you're comparing cons to try to say that because a person has a p it's insane to say that because a person doesn't has a past you can't make a value judgment because they've been
06:34:02Rainasaved that's L think people can can they can think that and they are you saying that those people can't be reformed whatever they can't I know a situation where so they can't be reformed I know a
06:34:14Andrew Wilsonsituation where so they can't be reformed all right can they be reformed God says to K you want to answer my question God I gave you God's solution in the Bible can so yes or no can they be
06:34:25Millennial Milliereformed I gave you my answer yeah you want to answer the [ __ ] question weak can who be reformed the wom you're calling a woman weak yeah how how the real question the real
06:34:37Reneequestion is can they be forgiven by Jesus no the question is reformed can they be forgiven by Jesus well this is the same question in your Catholic belief do you think that a a pedophile
06:34:48Brian Atlaswho molested 15 kids can be bro guys guys guys don't let's not even I'm hold on hold no no no I'm just changing the entire topic because you guys reason the reason it is brought up is to test the
06:34:58Andrew Wilsonlogic of saying can we judge the past I would say of course put him the sword in a second love to say it but I'm giving you examples but I'm also not saying that a person like that can't be saved not saying that a prostitute can't be
06:35:11Brian Atlassaved but I'm saying we can look at both of their past and go we can make a value judgment on you I can understand that there we can we can judge okay I'm just I'm changing the entire conversation Jud Behavior bed can't abide by the the
06:35:23Brian Atlasguidelines we provided before the show Andrew you are my hero I've been listening to you talk on whatever for a while now and it has made me consider a lot about my role as a female and wife do you want to quick response awesome
06:35:35Brian Atlasglad glad you enjoy the show thank you man to the Medtech we have also Mr Travolta here coming in in just a second respectfully first and last day super chatting dating podcast is off the rails
06:35:46Brian Atlasreligious nuts absent hosts feminist accusing men of looking down tops yeah that was lackluster answers for super chat
06:35:57Andrew Wilsonquestions uh fishizzle um sorry I don't know this was a weird we're show tonight I not but I think it's because it was really contentious and so when so when chats
06:36:09Brian Atlascame in we weren't really focusing as much on those as we were with arguing yeah and sometimes look the questions aren't always the most clear when it comes to some of these chats if you know what I mean often times it's best to uh
06:36:21Brian Atlasyou know make it make it as simple as possible Nigerian scammer Chatters we have Ben George two scare task culturally where the fathers are why might that be and then he clarified culture we live in the Melting Pot of
06:36:33Brian Atlasculture do you know what culture means no I'm mared sorry I don't know what that means uh then he says Ben George there is Asian culture Latin culture black or African-American culture Native
06:36:43Brian AtlasAmerican culture there's also dare I say white culture or European culture why would you why you why dare you say that um so which culture has the fathers present
06:36:59Reneeuh is that I well I couldn't
06:37:06Andrew WilsonIIA on beh uh you don't want to engage with this one oh I don't no
06:37:17Brian Atlascuz is it t I don't know if it's yes that one I would not is it I don't think it's to like to just State a stat about yep
06:37:28Brian Atlasit's t that would stay clear a bit oh hey you know what Andrew he's the adjudicator he's the he's the Arbiter of this so uh you know unfortunately Ben George I think we know what what you're
06:37:40Brian Atlastrying to get at and uh can we say that there's different rates of fatherhood among different R that's I think that's okay there's different
06:37:50Millennial Millierates of father doesn't isn't this like a Ben Shapiro like Ben Shapiro says this [ __ ] all the time hey but you could say whatever you want to say on qux the tech company I
06:38:01Andrew Wilsonco-founded little Shameless plug can can can you go on there can you go on there and be a Nazi you can go on there and say whatever you want to say it's even if you even if you were like
06:38:12Brian Atlaslike Pro HW you could go on there H you can say whatever you want to say on there really yeah all right here let's move this on you know whether you like it or not free speech is Free Speech uh
06:38:22Brian Atlasokay we are we were talking to r r Raina uh we're talking about turning a hoe into a housewife yeah I don't recommend it but look you know it's not for the week
06:38:34Brian Atlaswell you AR for the strong you would yeah you would argue it is for the weak I mean strong men a strong men would not be inclined to deal with that headache that's not always necessarily always
06:38:46Brian Atlastrue no we men we go into the world and combat the difficulties of the world we don't want to come home to a uh if I can quote Proverbs 21:19 better to live in the desert than with a quarrelsome and
06:38:57Brian Atlasnagging wife uh we don't want to contend with our wonder you should just read Proverbs 5 out loud I'm not familiar with you should read it okay well I'll
06:39:08Brian Atlashave to look it up later but um let's see I'm just seeing if there's any other stuff from you um he there was cheating uh you were dating this guy uh
06:39:20Rainawere you uh jealous if he did scenes with other chicks um yeah I think it it did eventually uh get to that point but
06:39:30RainaI think he gave me problems about my first and then that jealousy kind of grew the resentment grew in me because he would do that to me when he said that you know it wasn't fine so yeah I think
06:39:42Rainait became like jealousy over time but not at first I wasn't I was like really cool and just all right uh so okay we're going to move on to faith
06:39:54Faithyes Faith here you said you went through a little party phase yeah I did um so I grew up very very sheltered um I was I
06:40:03Faithwent to to Catholic school did the whole shebang and um and then it I I I went off to my first year of college and um I never I I never really went to a party
06:40:15Faithin high school except for one party my senior year and I stayed for like an hour and so then my freshman year of college when I went off to ASU I just was like oh my gosh this is awesome you
06:40:27Faithknow and um you went to ASU yeah I go I goor party school I heard about that yeah um and I was an idiot uh because I was still a hopeless romantic at heart and I was like hm I really want to find
06:40:40Faithmy husband you know where the perfect places to do that fraternity parties I I feel like you could say something about this too but um but yeah and and so I would go to these fraternity parties and i' would be there
06:40:52Faithfor like 15 minutes and then all of a sudden I would see like the disgusting Behavior going on and I would just sort of have like a dissocia dissociative moment and like start like crying outside being like oh my gosh this is so
06:41:04Faithlike depraved and sad and depressing and I would go home and then I would repeat the cycle again expecting a different outcome because I was just stupid how often were you partying um just just on
06:41:14Andrew Wilsonthe weekends and like maybe on like like Thursdays just occasionally if I finished my homework life is evil you would go to the party for 15 minutes leave and then go to a new party for 15 minutes no no no no so I would I would
06:41:28Faithgo to a party for like 15 minutes I would get all doed up get ready go out to this party for like 15 minutes sometimes 30 if it was like more tolerable and then I would go outside and I would just be super bummed super