MEGA BLACK PlLL?! Fake VlRGlN Sarah?! Mormon Girl Tried To Sell Her VlRGlNlTY?! | Dating Talk 281

Date: 2026-02-09
Duration: 9h 27m

Identified Speakers

SPEAKER_02Erica(guest)
SPEAKER_03Indie(guest)
SPEAKER_05Maddie(guest)
SPEAKER_06Kal Pit(guest)
SPEAKER_07Brian Atlas(host)
SPEAKER_08Meline(guest)
SPEAKER_09Lola Gold(guest)
SPEAKER_10Mahi(guest)
SPEAKER_12Julia(guest)
SPEAKER_13Vicki Sun(guest)
SPEAKER_14Amelia (Phlebotomist)(guest)

Key Moments

00:00:09
IntroAll guests introduce themselves
01:38:25
Key MomentLola Gold vs Meline: OnlyFans ethics debate
02:10:00
ControversyKal Pit: women should have 3/5 of a vote
03:55:00
ControversyVicki Sun would side with China over USA
04:32:00
QuoteJulia listed virginity for sale at $500K-$1M on Cinderella Escorts
07:50:00
ControversyKal Pit's hot take: re-legalize hitting wives. Near universal condemnation.

Topics Discussed

00:00:09
Guest Introductions

All guests introduce themselves.

01:38:25
OnlyFans/Sex Work Debate

Lola Gold defends OF. Meline/Julia push back.

02:10:00
Women's Voting Rights

Kal Pit: women should have 3/5 of a vote.

03:55:00
China vs USA Allegiance

Vicki Sun sides with China.

04:15:00
Sarah Stock Controversy

Conservative Catholic influencer who faked virginity while cheating.

04:32:00
Julia's Virginity Sale

Listed virginity on Cinderella Escorts for $500K-$1M.

04:53:20
Body Count Reveals

Range from 0 (Julia) to 12 (Lola).

06:20:00
Self-Ratings and Brian Rates

Most rated 5-6.5 by Brian.

07:50:00
Kal Pit's Hot Take

Bring back legalizing hitting your wife. Major controversy.

08:11:03
ICE/Immigration Debate

Mahi defends pro-immigration position.

Transcript

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06:52:08
Brian Atlasconservative women have the standard. Maybe it's like 50% of even liberal, progressive, feminist, equality women still want men to pay for first dates. It's the nice thing to do. It's gentlemanly treatment. Uh blah blah
06:52:21
Brian Atlasblah. If he doesn't pay for the first date, there's not going to be a second. So ultimately, if a woman makes money, I don't benefit from it. Why should I care
06:52:32
Vicki Sunabout it? >> Well, if you want to provide for her, you Yeah. You shouldn't care about it, right? Like what? Wait, what are you trying to say? >> Okay. If the conversation, the
06:52:42
Brian Atlasfoundation of the conversation is about my position is men don't care or there it doesn't make a woman more attractive if uh for for because of her career or
06:52:53
Brian Atlashow much money she makes. It doesn't make a woman more attractive. uh there seems to be some push back on this and I was saying well even if men did care about it there wouldn't perhaps even one
06:53:04
Brian Atlasof the reasons they don't care is they know even if I date a woman who makes six figures she's not like what I would the the ma
06:53:15
Brian Atlasthe male paradigm is if I made six figures I would do xyz for her I would buy her this I would pay for dates I'd do d even when a woman makes that much money she's not doing that [ __ ] so it's
06:53:26
Ericalike Why should we care? >> I would I don't know. I just feel a lot of what you're saying. I'm just >> I'm speaking in I'm speaking in generality. >> You want our opinion? >> I agree with >> I don't give opinions on anything. I'm You agree with him?
06:53:39
Kal Pit>> I agree with him. Yeah. I kind of get what he's saying. He's saying at the end of the day, why does it matter how much money a woman makes? Because a guy's not going to really benefit from what she's what she has. I I get what he's saying.
06:53:50
Brian AtlasI'll say this, a guy, look, a guy will pick the beautiful barista who makes $18 an hour >> over the high-powered female attorney
06:54:02
Brian Atlaswho's like cute, >> who makes six figures. The guy's going to, but I think a lot of women uh I think a lot of women go in the other direction. >> They take the like above a, you know,
06:54:14
Kal Pithe's a bit above average, but he's like an attorney or he's a doctor. They pick him over the guy who is a barista making $18 an hour. >> I agree with you on that. >> Yeah, because the man like I think they're trying to pick a mate that they
06:54:27
Brian Atlasknow is going to provide for their kids. They're making that financially sound decision, >> right? And there's an evolutionary basis for this. Hold on. We have a chat here. Sorry, don't hate me. I apologize for >> XD donated $100.
06:54:39
SPEAKER_00The reason they get upset is simple. Their world view is material in nature. So, they value themselves based on nothing other than looks. They don't understand that this isn't about
06:54:51
Brian Atlasontological value. >> Yo, Lizzy, thank you for the 10 gifted subs. Chaw, sorry for the delay. Thank you for the TTS. Really appreciate it. All right, we're going to blast through our uh notes here as quick as we can. Uh
06:55:04
Brian Atlaswhy don't we just do the questionnaire starting here. What is the minimum yearly income to be your future husband? >> I don't have one. Okay. So, you'll when you're 30 and you do you want to have kids? >> I I don't know if I want to have kids
06:55:16
Indieyet. I could go either way, but I base my I base my uh view based on human connection, not based on money. >> All right. But there you do acknowledge that say when you're in your mid20, >> he has to have drive and he has to have
06:55:29
Brian Atlasa job that he likes to do. >> Okay. But you do acknowledge when you're in your mid20s to early 30s and if you do eventually end up inclined to have
06:55:38
Brian Atlaschildren, there is just going to be a financial and economic reality that uh it does take money to have kids. >> Personally, I want to be a therapist so I can like go through pregnancy and have
06:55:51
Brian Atlaskids and still work. >> Uh what about you? >> Um I'd say 100K. >> 100K. Okay. What about you? Um, I don't have a >> whatever you just just just for the sake of time. I'm just trying to blast
06:56:05
Amelia (Phlebotomist)through this. >> I think I wrote down like minimum like 40 to like it doesn't matter cuz >> you said 60 to 100K. What about you? It's not important to me. >> Okay. >> At all.
06:56:18
Brian Atlas>> 500K. >> 500K. Even the liberal progressive woman demands a man make $500,000. Uh, why 500k? I'll be making pretty good money, too. So,
06:56:30
Brian Atlas>> what are you going to do? >> Get a PhD in clinical psychology. >> Oh, what? >> PhD in clinical psychology. >> You're going to be a psychiatrist? >> Psychiatrist or a clinical psychologist? >> They make I don't think they make
06:56:44
Brian Atlas$500,000. >> Well, no, they make But if you play your cards right, you can make like 200 to 300K. >> Well, why? Okay. Well, I mean, look, regardless of how much you make, you can still desire
06:56:55
Brian Atlas$500,000. But I thought the $500,000 was because you anticipate making this much. But it doesn't. >> No, but I make like not like I'll make like
06:57:05
Brian Atlas>> the guy needs to 2x 3x your earnings. Okay. That you do that's like the top 1% by the way. So you've closed your dating pool to 99% of men. Are you okay with
06:57:15
Brian Atlasthat? And he also he also has to agree with you politically. He has to be share values. You have to be attracted to him. Um all the other traits you care about. The path that my boyfriend's going on, he'll probably make that. >> Probably the path that my boyfriend's
06:57:29
Brian Atlasgoing on, he'll probably make that money. >> What is he going into? Finance or something? >> Yeah, med school. >> What kind of Is he wants to be a surgeon or I feel like most doctors, huh? >> Orthopedic surgery. >> What's
06:57:42
Brian Atlas>> Okay. I don't I'm not sure about how much orthopedic surgeons make. Surgeons can do pretty good. So, it's I think it's probably >> 600k. What about you? >> It's pretty high. Told my man this a couple weeks ago when we were talking about it. 50k.
06:57:55
Maddie>> Okay. What about you? >> I said it doesn't matter. I didn't put a number. >> Okay. >> I said 85,000. >> What about you? >> Um, it doesn't matter to me as long as you can take care of us and our family.
06:58:06
MelineAnd so like 40,000. >> Okay. What about you? >> I think I didn't put anything either cuz same as her. It's whatever it takes to support our family. Did I put something? >> I don't think so. >> No. But I mean, you guys must have some
06:58:20
Melinesense of >> I mean, if we're in California, it's expensive to live here. I don't think we need to live in California, though. So, if we move to a different state, that would it would change. And then >> I'd be working as well probably until I
06:58:32
Brian Atlasgot >> pregnant. So, I don't know, maybe around 100,000 here. >> Okay. I mean, yeah, there's ways you can come. For those of you who are like unsure, you can definitely come to determinations like, okay, do you want
06:58:44
Brian Atlasto stay in you want to live in Southern California or do you want to live in Idaho? Do you how big of a house do you want? Do you want to have two cars? Do you want luxury cars? Do you want to go on vacations? If we get a sense of your
06:58:56
Brian Atlaslifestyle, then we can probably come to your desired lifestyle, we can probably come to a determination as to what the minimum income needs to be for the household. Uh, how tall are you and what's the minimum minimum height of a
06:59:07
Indieman you would date. >> Um, I'm 5'10 and the minimum height of a man that I would date would be probably like 5'4. >> Okay. 54. Okay. What about you? I'm 5'7
06:59:18
Brian Atlasand a minimum height ad date is six feet >> or if they're >> or sometimes I for like 5'11 >> 5'11 if they're a great person. You're 5'7 6 foot minimum. Okay. What about
06:59:30
Brian Atlasyou? >> I'm 53 and a minimum is six. >> Sorry. Where where were you looking at? You're just Sorry, my bad. >> Um I'm sorry. I'm tired. >> Yeah. Yeah, I get it. Sorry. Repeat
06:59:41
Lola Goldthat. I apologize. 53. >> 53. And I would date minimum six feet. >> Okay. 5'5 and as long as you're my height that's cool, but if you are 6 foot then that's also fun cuz I like to
06:59:53
Brian Atlasbe thrown around. >> Um I'm 5'5 and I said minimum is 5'8. >> I'm 5'7 as long as you can reach five minimum. >> Wait is So you'll date a five foot guy?
07:00:07
Kal Pit>> Yes. >> Oh, okay. What about you? >> I'm 5'4 and I really do not care. >> Don't care. Okay. I'm 5'5 and I said I would date 5'8 and plus.
07:00:17
Meline>> I'm 5'4 and I said 5'5. Doesn't matter. >> I'm 5 feet and I think I said 5'9, but if they checked other boxes I would I wouldn't care. I go lower.
07:00:29
Brian Atlas>> All right. Uh we're going to skip the bare one. Any disagreements here? Uh Amelia, you have a disagreement about tattoos, filler, and age gaps. We'll
07:00:41
Lola Goldjust blast through those super quick. tattoos. >> Um, Brian, um, I'm really sorry. I'm going to wrap here because I've had a great time and it is way past my bedtime. Thank you for having me. >> Um,
07:00:54
Brian Atlas>> well, bye. >> Let's at least we need to do your notes. We need >> I'm >> okay. >> All right. Uh,
07:01:06
Amelia (Phlebotomist)let's get into it then. >> Yeah. Like I said last time I was here, I think that there is a stereotype that comes with having tattoos that's mostly negative, especially for women, not the same for men. But for me specifically, I
07:01:18
Amelia (Phlebotomist)think it makes me look more attractive. It doesn't make everyone look more attractive. Um, I think depends on the quality of what you get, where you get it. For example, I would never get it on my face anywhere or anything vulgar or
07:01:29
Amelia (Phlebotomist)>> gross. But I think it's a beautiful artistic expression and um it's how I wanted to look. like when I was like a little kid like thinking how I wanted to look I'm you know reaching that point. So >> okay but what's the disagreement
07:01:41
Amelia (Phlebotomist)>> that you don't like tattoos and you think that they're make everyone more unattractive for women correct? >> I mean my position my position on tattoos is this. I think uh for for
07:01:52
Brian Atlasmyself and I think generally for most men uh generally tattoos are going to be appraised as either neutral at best uh or negative >> right for most
07:02:04
Brian Atlas>> for most there are some men who are fine who are I don't know if fine is the right word but yeah I think generally and obviously it depends the design
07:02:15
Brian Atlasdepends of the location depends how much Um, but ultimately I I don't think there's like you have a wrist tattoo for example, like for most men that I don't think most men would be like, "Oh my
07:02:26
Brian Atlasgod, deal breaker." Uh, but I don't I don't think most men are going to be like, "I didn't want to have sex with her, but she has that wrist tattoo. Now I want to have sex with her." I think it so in in that sense, I don't think
07:02:38
Brian Atlastattoos are going to be appraised typically as a positive. It's either neutral where it's like, "I don't care. >> You have a tattoo. Okay, cool. don't care or negative. Like it's going to be neutral or negative. >> You don't think that guys can be like,
07:02:52
Indie"Oh, like that's cool that she has a tattoo." Or like, "Oh, I like that about her." I think >> there's some guys who have like a fetish or a kink for tattoos. >> But not even just a fetish. Just like, "Oh, that's attractive. Like I like her tattoo." >> No, most men >> cuz that's been my experience
07:03:05
Brian Atlaspersonally. >> Yeah, I think that about >> tattoos. >> No, I think that about guys. Like I'll see a guy with a tattoo and I'll be like, "Oh, that's attractive to me." >> I I don't believe there's symmetry on this specific topic. So I think women
07:03:16
Brian Atlaswhen it comes to tattoos on men the the appraisal tends to be positive, neutral or negative. So because I think tattoos can typically can sometimes make a man look more
07:03:28
Brian Atlasmasculine. Tattoos definitely don't make women more feminine. >> I agree with that. So um like a guy so if like a a woman is otherwise inclined towards like a more
07:03:40
Brian Atlasdominant man a guy who's like has like full sleeve >> or uh that can increase his assessment in terms of his masculinity. He can like
07:03:50
Brian Atlaslook he can even look a bit intimidating which uh from like a evolutionary perspective this would almost make sense. Here's this guy who's maybe he's a bit rough around the edges. He's more capable of protecting me. he's a bit
07:04:02
Brian Atlasrough. Uh, that makes sense. And it's more uh it's more masculine, but it's never If men prioritize femininity in women, >> tattoos are not feminine. >> Mhm. >> They're maybe they're neutral. Maybe
07:04:15
Amelia (Phlebotomist)they're neutral, but they're either masculine or neutral. >> I don't think it's masculine, but I don't I think it is neutral. It's definitely not making me more feminine. I will admit that. But that's also not my goal. Um because I think another
07:04:28
Amelia (Phlebotomist)layer that it adds, at least for me, when I see like a fully completely covered tattoo person, that's a lot of pain you had to sit through. That's a lot of like mental, it's like what are you making up for in your life that you have to replace with like sitting for hours of pain or getting something like
07:04:40
Amelia (Phlebotomist)needled into your skin. I know there's like a root cause to that, whether it's male or female. So that adds like another illness. not necessarily mental illness, but um it's it's a certain type
07:04:52
Amelia (Phlebotomist)of person just like statistically that gets tattooed specifically with female. With men, it might not always be the same, but it's like >> it's a lot of pain. It's a lot of process that goes into it. And it's like there an extra step that you took to
07:05:06
Amelia (Phlebotomist)almost like make up for something lacking. And it's like I know it's like for me because it's like this is like an inward expression of the things that I like. And um I just Do you agree with that though? You know what I'm saying? like it's it's a little bit of a red flag and it's viewed even more as a red
07:05:20
Amelia (Phlebotomist)flag in women. >> Well, it seems like you agree with me. >> I do agree with you. >> Oh, I thought we disagreed on the tattoo thing. >> Well, with no with this with this specific thing, but it's like in general for I'm saying for me specifically of my own eyes, I believe it makes me more
07:05:32
Brian Atlasattractive, but to the general population, I know it doesn't. Well, I think it can point to um not always, but I think and it again depends on how much tattoos, the design
07:05:44
Brian Atlasof the tattoo, the location of that the tattoo. I definitely think that it can be >> uh what's going on here. >> Exactly. You know, face tattoos is a huge red flag. No matter what it is,
07:05:56
Amelia (Phlebotomist)that's like I would never ever also shitty tattoos. Tattoos including drugs like like inappropriate paraphernalia. Even I don't like nude tattoos. I think that that like it goes to even deeper red flag. >> Sure.
07:06:08
Amelia (Phlebotomist)>> So, I don't know if it's very situational. Like personally, I spend a lot of money on my tattoos. They look nice so I don't look cheap because I think that it borders into cheap as well. >> Sure. Well, I mean then you can even draw certain things from certain tattoos
07:06:20
Brian Atlaslike girls who have like the finger tattoos or whatever. Uh or if they have like a uh a spiderweb tattoo on their elbow. >> Are we talking like
07:06:32
Brian Atlaswhat what are you talking about? like Germany type spiderweb cuz that was like a old >> that was old. >> No, that's like a typical convict >> tattoo. People who get the people who get the spiderweb tattoo on their elbow,
07:06:45
Brian Atlasit either means drugs or prison. >> True. >> So I see if I see a girl with that tattoo, I'm like she used to be she's a [ __ ] addict or was an addict. And I'm like no
07:06:56
Erica>> really. I almost got an elbow tattoo but just because of hyperpigmentation. So, I never heard talk about the spiderw webs. >> I almost got a spiderweb. I didn't know what it meant.
07:07:08
Amelia (Phlebotomist)>> Now, you know, now I know World War II terms. It's really not good. And there's even worse things in US. So, it's like I I wouldn't have known that unless I did my research, though. >> But, we can't linger too long in the tattoo thing. Um I look, it's not a deal
07:07:20
Brian Atlasbreaker, but you know, it depends on the scale and all this sort of thing. >> That was a good question. And I I do think that uh but look, if you want the you want the honest thing from from me, I do think generally for men, it's
07:07:33
Brian Atlasneutral or negative. >> It's neutral or negative. >> Uh you might have you might be like, "Well, Brian, I have a tattoo." And though one time a guy was like, "Whoa, that's a really nice tattoo." >> Was he trying to [ __ ] you? Because it
07:07:45
Brian Atlaswould never like if I was dating a girl, it wouldn't really go over well if I was like, "Hey, by the way, you're less attractive because of your tattoo." like that's not that's really autistic thing
07:07:56
Brian Atlasto say by the way, but that's not going to be like flattering to the girl and uh yeah, so as a guy you try to there's a
07:08:05
Brian Atlasdegree of flattery that's involved in courting women. Um so uh lip filler. >> Um yeah, I mean that's just I I like my
07:08:16
Brian Atlaslip filler and I know you don't like it. >> Yeah, I just aesthetically I don't really like it. Some men are fine with it, I guess. But, uh, you think my rating scale is a bit harsh, but I think we already talked about that, unless you
07:08:29
Kal Pithad anything to add. >> I mean, yeah. I just think generally other people's scales are like more lenient than yours are. Like to other people, five is average, six is like there's some attractive features, seven is attractive, eight is above
07:08:41
Brian Atlasattractive. Like, you know, like I think that's how people use it, but feel like you were skewing it a little bit. Well, I mean, five average, six cute,
07:08:51
Brian Atlasseven pretty, eight beautiful, nine uh elite tier supermodel. >> Are you saying eight is beautiful? >> Eight is beautiful. Yeah. >> Who Who's like a celebrity that's like a
07:09:02
Brian AtlasT? Like a female? >> I mean, I don't know. Um, who's an eight celebrity female? I'm You know what? I I
07:09:14
Brian Atlascan't think of anybody at the moment to be honest. Um, I would say maybe it's an 8.5. I'd say Jessica Beiel is eight.
07:09:26
Kal Pit>> Like I'm not attracted to her personally. >> You're also a woman. >> Yeah, I know. But like I can still No, but I can still say if I think a woman's attractive or not. Like I don't think >> So I'm talking Jessica, by the way, she's in her 40s at this point. I'm
07:09:39
Kal Pittalking like Jessica Be when she was in her early 20s. >> She's still not what like I would consider like a You're shaking your head. You don't think Jessica Beal is [ __ ] >> We're not. I just think you're maybe
07:09:50
Brian Atlasinto white girls a little bit more. >> Um, well, you asked me. >> Wait, >> what? Okay, >> can we pull up a picture of her? I don't know what she looks like. >> Uh, Mary, it's actually in the Discord if you want to go in the looks folder. I
07:10:01
Brian Atlashave two pictures of her in the looks. You're going to have to >> in the under resources.
07:10:08
Brian Atlas>> Yeah, resources looks. And uh it's just one up. It's like with Gorlock that batch.
07:10:20
Meline>> Do you have it? >> Oh my gosh.
07:10:26
Brian Atlas>> Uh and then go back. Uh so I mean >> bare minimum eight. I might even argue she's a bit higher, but I' I'd give her
07:10:37
Brian Atlasan eight. Uh well, here why don't we do go use the arrow key. Go ahead. Okay. Adriana Lima. Arrow key.
07:10:49
Brian Atlas>> Lima. >> Adrian Lima. Arrow key. I [ __ ] forgot her name. The girl from Lost. Uh she's pretty good. May I'd say I I think maybe she's more of an eight. Maybe. >> What? >> No. You think she's a she's a [ __ ] six?
07:11:03
Brian Atlas>> Probably. Yes. >> Wait, what did you rate yourself face? Well, I I couldn't rate myself a seven, so I went high. >> Okay. But you Okay. Realistically, you'd give yourself a seven. >> Yeah. >> Okay. So, you mog her.
07:11:16
Kal Pit>> It depends on who you ask. Like, some people aren't into white girls is kind of my point. Like, some people are more attracted to like melanin and things like that. >> Wait, just to be fair, so while I do have my own type, which is typically
07:11:27
Brian Atlaswhite, Asian, or Latina, uh there are definitely black women who are way more attractive than a lot of white women. So, it's not just, yes, I have my own
07:11:37
Brian Atlaspersonal preference, but I can also be like, yes, that's a black woman who's way more attractive than like all these white women. >> But don't you think your standards for black women are a little bit higher than
07:11:48
Brian Atlasyour standards for white women? >> Uh, I I don't know. I don't think so.
07:12:01
Brian Atlas>> Ink. Oh, >> I think my [ __ ] Yeah, you're right. Thank you for pointing that out. My cup, the [ __ ] ink fades. Thank you for I'll I'll just wipe it off in the
07:12:11
Brian Atlasbathroom in the moment. Uh yeah, the the cup the ink kind of if you touch it a lot. I drink a lot. So um was there anything more? >> No. >> I know.
07:12:23
Brian Atlas>> Uh okay. You here? I'm going to go to your notes here really quick just so I can get up for a moment here. Uh did you have any other topics you wanted to you wanted to bro I disagree with you on
07:12:34
Brian Atlasthis. The girls are gonna have very strong opinions on this. You write to I disavow this. I disavow this in advance. You say bring back legalizing hitting your wife. >> Okay. I was okay. I was exaggerating a
07:12:47
Kal Pitbit. I was exaggerating. >> Don't don't walk it back. You believe that? When you >> No, no, no. I was exaggerating. But like I I don't even think it's just wife. I think in general we could legalize slapping as a whole. regardless of
07:12:59
Kal Pitgender. Wait, just hear me out. Like, >> can I slap you in the face right now? >> It depends on what Okay, bro. Just chill out. You need to chill for real. No, like I'm just saying like I think in other countries the way that people deal with conflict sometimes is physically.
07:13:12
Amelia (Phlebotomist)And I feel like >> doesn't make it right though. There's >> I feel like that's how some people learn their lesson though. Can't you argue? Like >> imbecile societies result to violence before talking over an issue.
07:13:25
Indielonger result to that before they're able to talk it out like adults. >> That's just the way it is. >> I think clearly someone who's saying something like that is saying it so that
07:13:37
Kal Pitthe clip will blow up. So wait, no, but so you guys disagree with Will Smith slapping Chris Rock for disrespecting his wife. Like so >> what the [ __ ] is that? >> That Okay, it was like a clip that went viral at the Oscars a few years ago, but
07:13:50
Kal Pitlike some actor slapped another comedian because he made a joke about his wife. I think it should be legal though. Like we shouldn't legalize it. >> Okay. Well, I don't mean like legal. I just meant like not maybe like outlaw it is what I'm trying to say. Like
07:14:03
Kal Pit>> if it's self-defense, like if you're defending yourself, but I can't I >> Yeah. I just I don't even >> Well, I think a slap is different than a punch, right? Like I'm just saying. >> I think it's really insensitive to say something like that. >> I think you don't really believe that yourself because as soon as you read it, you were like, "Well, I was being a
07:14:17
Kal Pitlittle bit >> Wait, so what did you mean to say since you >> I'm telling you what I meant to say. I'm saying like some there's just some instances where like you hear a person talk and it's like wow they've clearly never been slapped before in their life. Like I just feel like if some people
07:14:29
Kal Pit>> speak to you right now, >> bro. I'm just saying if some people are sometimes so disrespectful that like you there's no way to get the point across. Like maybe that's the way they live their life. >> This is rage bae. I don't think you actually >> genuinely. Yeah. I think you're trying to get clipped. I think you're trying to
07:14:42
Melinelike blow up on >> that's what you think. I don't have anything to prove to you. But >> I think if they're that dumb they'll learn their own lessons however they learn that. And if they don't, who cares? I don't think you need to resort
07:14:51
Melineto violence to teach someone a lesson or legalize it at that. I just >> I'm just not going to give that comment another ounce of my attention. >> You should post that on Instagram. She be like, "We should legalize slapping women."
07:15:04
Indie>> I said slapping everyone. >> I said slapping everyone internet. The whole >> Well, actually, bring back legaliz. >> Yeah, I know. I just said stuff for him to like bring up in the pockets. Whatever. I don't think you're really keeping in
07:15:17
Indiemind that like people have had maybe some like really horrible things happen to them, some bad experiences, some trauma, you know, and like saying something like that can make a lot of people feel really invalidated. >> I think it's important.
07:15:30
Vicki Sun>> Did your parents hit you growing up? Just serious question. I actually want to know. >> Yes. >> And you think that's okay. You want to pass that down for like future generations. You're like, I see what my dad's doing. This is right. In the future, we should hit women.
07:15:41
Vicki Sun>> I wouldn't hit my kids though. Like I was hit growing up, too. I have a total different view compared to you. >> Wait, you wouldn't hit your kids, but you you think it's okay for a guy to hit his wife
07:15:52
Kal Pit>> or why do you think it's okay for anyone to put their hands on another person? >> I just think sometimes people cross a line and like they don't realize they crossed a line if you just tell them like there's like words don't always get
07:16:04
Kal Pitthrough to people is kind of my point. >> Well, then you just so you slap them across the face. >> That's a that's a [ __ ] response if you can't talk it out like adults >> genuinely. But some things don't get through to people when you >> Have you ever hit a boyfriend? >> No.
07:16:16
Meline>> Maybe your school's just like hell. >> This was specifically about your wife. So if there's something like you're at an impass and there's something that's just that bad where you feel like you need to lay your hands on your partner, just leave. Like obviously you can't control your emotions.
07:16:29
Indie>> Can I ask you a question? >> Um say you got in a fight with your boyfriend and you know things were getting heated, you both were raising your voice or whatever and he like he hit you. Would you justify that? You
07:16:41
Kal Pitwould think that that was okay and you wouldn't get hurt or upset by that in any way. >> Well, what you're describing sounds more like abuse. Like he's just getting mad at me and taking his anger out on me. >> But isn't that what hitting someone is? >> At what point is Yeah. But in my head
07:16:54
Kal Pitnot abuse no matter the reason. >> Okay. There's never been a time in your life where someone said something so disrespectful that you kind of had the thought like, damn, this person needs to >> Yeah, but I have self control and I know what right from wrong is and I know it's not legal to put my hands on someone. So,
07:17:06
Kal Pit>> okay. That's what I'm saying. I'm talking about a hypothetical world where as we live in >> we live in a first world country not a third world society where no one >> I know I have a different perspective obviously cuz I have family from a
07:17:17
Vicki Sundifferent country >> come back to reality what world are you living in >> Wait can you say that in Mandarin >> I don't even know what Mars is in Mandarin >> well the planet >> like are you from outer space cuz genuinely I feel like we're not in the
07:17:32
Brian Atlassame world right now >> can you talk [ __ ] to her >> Mandarin do >> we're here talk [ __ ] to me if you prefer talk [ __ ] to me in Mandarin. Oh boy. >> I I don't have much to say genuinely.
07:17:41
Vicki Sun>> Wait. Do it. Do it. Do it. >> About to spin. All right. Let's go off.
07:18:01
Brian AtlasOkay. What she said. I agree. I What she said. >> I agree. That was good. Oh, wait. There's actually a little bit of room for you guys to scoot over that way a little bit. Scoot your mics. Like just 2 in or
07:18:14
Brian Atlaswhatever. Mary, do you want to just grab that chair and just just to give a bit more space. Uh, a few more thing. I guess a few more things. We're going to just try to blast through here super quick. >> I That's ridiculous. By the way, I'm sorry. You shouldn't You shouldn't put hands You're uh a woman shouldn't put
07:18:27
Brian Atlashands on a man. A man should not put hands on a woman. >> See, even coming from someone who wants a submissive girl, he thinks like >> even that's wrong. Even a toxic >> toxic Brian is like, "No, you should not be [ __ ]
07:18:40
Brian Atlas>> a wife leader." That's >> against the law. Like, >> not for a reason. >> You're saying though, I I can see a situation where somebody has wronged
07:18:50
Brian Atlasyou. So, like where you'd you'd have rage, it would still be wrong, but I could see a situ like that's what ends up when people get physical. They're so enraged that they're basically not controlling themselves. Uh, of course,
07:19:02
Brian Atlasthat's wrong. So, so I can understand like I don't know like what if you're [ __ ] Look, I'll be honest. Oh my god, I'm going to get clipped for this. But like, can we agree that there's some situation where it would be justified to slap somebody? >> Yes, that's what I'm trying to get at.
07:19:15
Brian Atlas>> Let's say let's say your boyfriend like killed your dog or something. I like some crazy [ __ ] Like I'd be like, "Yeah, he deserved a slap." >> Yeah, but the way she worded it was like, "Let's legalize men hitting women." You never said anything about
07:19:27
Kal Pitwomen. But I'm I'm like I feel like whenever him and I agree, like when he says it, you guys are like fine with it. But when I say you guys kind of dog pile on a very >> Look, no, but I'm kind of like that's the point I was trying to get at like
07:19:40
Brian Atlaswhat he said. >> Basically, though ines where people like a slap is deserved. Yeah, that is what I was trying to say. >> No, but I used an extreme example where like your your significant other like cheats on you and simultaneously kills your pets. Like
07:19:54
Brian Atlas>> I would >> I could see a slap being warranted. Like if somebody [ __ ] with my cat, >> where are we right now? >> Somebody kills my cat, they're getting a they're getting a a slap.
07:20:06
Meline>> But that also a little slap. >> The point was like her claim was let's bring back. >> It was legal based your wife at that. Not even just any like
07:20:17
Kal Pit>> I said regardless of gender. I I specified that. >> Not specify that. >> Yeah, I know. I said it here. Are you paying attention to the conversation that's happening? >> Paying attention to the original. >> If he never called that out, would you have thought about that? If he never brought that to the attention of all of
07:20:30
Kal Pitus, would you have kept your statement with, "Oh, let's legalize cuz you're only switching up now cuz we're all coming at you." >> No, I'm saying I exaggerated the DMs like you guys never exaggerated when you text your friends anything like
07:20:42
Kal Pit>> like that if I'm like, "Yeah, God forbid." Yeah. Okay. You're so >> But that's your But you were talking about wife and husband. >> Done this like for hours, bro. Like >> done what? >> What have we done?
07:20:54
Brian Atlas>> Are you the victim here? >> No, I never said all that. >> Are they bully Is Vicki? >> Am I bullying you? >> Is Vicki bullying you? >> Oh, I'm sorry. [ __ ] >> Vicki, do you want to apologize in >> No, we don't. We don't need this.
07:21:06
Brian Atlas>> How do you say sorry in Mandarin? I don't know. >> Oh [ __ ] >> But I don't mean it. I'm just saying it to show you. But I'm not sorry. >> Is do you What's your actual Chinese name?
07:21:23
Vicki SunIt's hard to pronounce it because that's how it's in English, but it's like you have to like roll your R. It's like J. Is there >> like a like a Z sounded like a Z, but it's spelled Ring. >> What does it mean?
07:21:36
Vicki Sun>> It's just like a combination of both my parents' name put together like charact like >> Do you ever go by icky? Vicki. >> Oh my god. >> No. >> Okay. I feel like that'd be a good >> Vicki is actually like a name I made up when I came to the US. Like I called
07:21:49
Vicki Sunmyself Vicki cuz >> you know most people can't pronounce Ding. So I just came up with it. And that's like a lot of other like Chinese kids like Chinese international kids. They tend to come up with their own names like coming into the US. >> Can you scoot your mic that way just a little bit?
07:22:01
Brian Atlas>> Yeah. To make it more like western friendly, I guess. >> Rock and roll. >> Uh okay. Um you know what I want? Actually, never mind. Uh really quick your notes. You said you didn't want to spend your birthday alone in NYC. You
07:22:14
Brian Atlasdownloaded Hinge. The guy got up and left before the food could even arrive and he unmatched you. Actually, that's not interesting. Sorry, Skip. Uh, you say hypergamy is is Okay, hold on. Let me do some of these from the
07:22:25
Brian Atlasquestionnaire. Uh, okay. Vicky. Uh, we're going to skip almost everything on the questionnaire for the sake of time. Okay.
07:22:36
Brian Atlas>> Uh, let's do Lola. Oh, she left. Well, that's unfortunate. Okay. Um, she's gone. So, we'll just put
07:22:45
Brian Atlasthat there. Uh, people of color can't be racist towards white people. Why is that?
07:22:56
Mahi>> It's not systematic racism. >> Okay. Uh, but you acknowledge. So, >> no, I you can be racist. I didn't read it like properly. You can be racist. You can be racist towards white people, but
07:23:08
Brian Atlasit's not systematic racism. But it would be like an individualized racism. So like you would acknowledge that a black person walking up to a white person and murking them because they're white would
07:23:19
Brian Atlasbe a racially racist motivate or racially motivated racist killing. >> Mhm. >> Okay. It wouldn't just be prejuditial. It
07:23:29
Brian Atlaswould actually be racist. Okay. Uh I don't know if anyone else agreed on
07:23:38
Kal Pitthat. Uh, >> you said women are oppressed in the USA. >> Yeah. I mean, it was kind of like with the conversation I was saying earlier, like I just feel like society kind of
07:23:50
Brian Atlasjudges them harsher for things sometimes. Like it was just more in that vein. >> All right. Um, I'm going to almost I'm pretty much just going to skip everything on the questionnaire. Uh, let me just double check and see if there's
07:24:02
Brian Atlasanything else that is of interest. Uh I mean women men are more or wait men are more privileged in society than
07:24:14
Brian Atlaswomen. Uh sake of time I'll skip that. But uh the only I guess the only other one I'll do is uh pass should not matter body count. Uh who going around the table do you guys think do you think it's
07:24:27
Indieinsecure for a man to care about a woman's body count? >> I think some people care about body count and some people don't. Personally, I don't think it matters cuz I think like people can change or whatever. Like someone could like have a phase where
07:24:38
Indiethey like have a lot of sex that's meaningless and then you know they I get values or they realize it's not for them or just like stuff like that. So like I don't know personally it doesn't really matter to me a guy's body count. But
07:24:50
Vicki Sun>> okay, what about you Vicki? >> Um same. I think like the past is in the past like I try to think more positively and like well I mean you can't change anything about it like they had their past. She pretty much summed it up. So, yeah. >> Yeah.
07:25:03
Brian Atlas>> Uh, okay. Actually, just skipping on the head. Um, so what is everyone's body count starting with you? >> Five. >> Okay. >> Two. >> Two. Okay.
07:25:16
Amelia (Phlebotomist)>> Very, very, very, very, very low. >> You want to give a range or a ballpark? >> It's a number you can count on one hand. >> Five. Got it. What about you? >> It's not five. Four. >> Okay. What about you? >> Zero.
07:25:28
Brian Atlas>> Zero. Y. >> Okay. 12. >> 12. Okay. >> Two. >> Two. Okay. >> One. >> Okay. >> I have her answer. >> And it's it's not okay.
07:25:40
Brian Atlas>> Well, if you won't share it, I just have to assume the worst, I guess. >> Oh, I'll tell you. >> Multiply by three and that's the real number. >> Still >> on the Bible. >> Still zero technically for you. >> On the Bible. >> Have you You could still technically try
07:25:52
Brian Atlasto sell. >> Can I broker this deal right now, chat? We got a virgin here. She wants to make some money. >> Oh my gosh. Uh, the price is 1 mil. >> Suit me. >> The price is 1 mil.
07:26:03
Julia>> Uh, I get the 20% commission. >> Uh, just be honest. For a mill, would you do it? >> In the past, I would have said yes. The temptation's still there, but I know to choose the right thing even though the
07:26:17
Brian Atlastemptation's still there. >> So, 10 mil. >> I mean, I no offense. I don't think there's going to be any takers, but >> I'm still going to decline. >> 1 billion. >> I'm still going to decline.
07:26:30
Brian Atlas>> Okay. All right. There you go. A woman of >> good for you. >> Virtue, I guess. Um, but you did in the past. >> You would you do it? >> Would I >> lose your virginity for $1 billion? >> For a billion dollars? >> I think he's past that point. >> Well, yeah, but I'm saying if you were a
07:26:44
Brian Atlasvirgin, >> if I reclaimed my virginity, >> if you were a virgin? No. If you were actually a virgin, like >> I don't know. You were like, >> "But I do." Um, if if I could just give you a billion dollars now, would you say yes?
07:26:57
Indie>> To to me, I'm not a virgin. >> No, I'm not. No, no. I'm just >> Oh. Oh, well, yeah. >> It's so It's Yeah, of course. >> Yeah. >> A billion dollars to
07:27:08
Brian AtlasShe could be like the ugliest woman in the world and like really plump like plump. Like I don't even know where the [ __ ] is. Like I gotta move [ __ ] out of
07:27:20
Brian Atlasthe way to find the [ __ ] I'm still doing the a billion. >> I'm still doing that. >> It'll be the It'll be the best five minutes of her life. >> All right. Tough crowd tonight. Um tough
07:27:31
Brian Atlascrowd. All right. Uh okay. I think we're done with [ __ ] this thing. Uh let's see if there's anything else we need to uh touch on. I'm going to blast
07:27:42
Brian Atlasthrough your guys' notes here. Um one moment. One moment. Oh, let's do a little fun segment to light the mood a little bit. Mary, let's do the we made all of you men. So, the question is,
07:27:54
Brian Atlaswould you date the male version of yourself? Would you date the male version of yourself? Little fun segment here. Just a little intermission. >> What's that?
07:28:05
Brian Atlas>> Hey, my Caucasian. Hey, my Caucasian. Come back. >> Are you gonna be my Caucasian or are you gonna be my >> No.
07:28:16
Brian Atlas>> No. The Wait, what? >> What's she saying? Is she saying yes? >> I'll come back. I'll come back. >> All right. See, you're my Caucasian. You're my Caucaser over here. She's a [ __ ] trooper. Hey,
07:28:29
Brian Atlaswe're in the tail end here. We're we're we're getting close. We're getting close. A few more little segments and uh we're getting this uh wrapped up. I feel like we need more pizza though. Who? Anybody hungry? Let me feed you guys. Let me be a gentleman. Let me feed you
07:28:41
Brian Atlasguys. I >> Mahi, are you Do you eat Did you have pizza? You did? >> Mhm. >> Okay. You Okay. Who wants some? I might order some. >> I'd like some pizza. No, I want some. >> Okay. We're gonna get some more. We got some more food. I I'll take care of you
07:28:55
Brian Atlasguys. By the way, did you guys try the cookies? Did you guys try the cookies? They're good. >> No, I really want to try one caramel. You going to get a cookie? Wait, I want to >> get a cookie. Mahi. >> Brian, >> am I saying your name right? By the way, >> you're so much nicer than last time.
07:29:07
Amelia (Phlebotomist)>> Mahi, am I saying what? >> You're so much nicer today than last time. >> Thank you for all the Brian. Brian, listen to me. Last time we were here for 10 hours, you ordered food for yourself and didn't get anything. >> Wait, I did not. >> Wait, >> go back.
07:29:20
Amelia (Phlebotomist)>> I got a burrito. What did I have? What did I eat? >> You were in a bad mood. You were on your deer. You went off a camera. You You ate and you came back. A dick period. >> Oh, I thought it was like dad. I thought it was like dad.
07:29:34
Brian Atlas>> That was a record. That was the record longest show in 2025, by the way. >> Well, you were so you were so amazing. So, I mean that's >> I just think I just Thank you. Thank you for being nice to this this show.
07:29:45
Brian Atlas>> Have I been? I feel like I've been >> What's up? >> Well, you haven't been like >> you. Yeah, you don't. Yeah, just go to the bathroom. You don't have to tell me. I swear
07:29:58
Brian Atlas>> I feel like he's nicer on camera than he is off. >> Wait, really? >> Yes. >> Probably true. Probably true. Look, I'm just, you know, it's very stressful at before the show. It's very stressful.
07:30:10
EricaGot to make sure everything's going, you know. Uh, so, you know. >> Okay. I see. I can see. Cuz in theater, that's how it was, too. Like the director and it be like >> And we're underst staffed at the moment. We're down a a producer
07:30:23
Brian Atlas>> like a guy here or something. >> Yeah. So, we're we're kind of understaffed. So, it's kind of like a little a little >> Oh, you still made it happen. So, good for you. I also think you just didn't like Lola cuz you were really mean to her off camera.
07:30:36
Brian Atlas>> Oh, I did snap. I was a little snappy. >> Yes. specifically, >> bro. Okay, but to be fair, >> let's have a meta conversation about that moment. All right,
07:30:48
Brian Atlas>> the viewers probably know this. Before the show, I'm running around like a chicken with my head to cut off. I'm doing the cameras and making sure everything's set and checking things and oh my god, the this camera is not working. OBS isn't working. The audio is
07:31:00
Brian Atlasnot working. We got to restart this. Uh I'm like multitasking 30 different things before the show. Uh Lola's like, "Um,
07:31:10
Ericain the midst of all of this, are you gonna repost my my story?" >> She said it jokingly, though. She wasn't She was And right after this, she was like, I mean, never now. I know. She was
07:31:22
Brian Atlasjoking. And you were pissed. >> I feel like there's a time and a place. It's like, look, do you see how it's like, look, you see how busy I am, lady? Not you, but Lola. You see how busy I am, Lady? Lola,
07:31:34
Erica>> honestly, you didn't look busy. you just looked really stressed, which could be for any reason. H you could be stressed about past stuff like your girlfriend just broke up with you or you know, >> yeah, I'm just depressed about you.
07:31:46
Brian Atlas>> I'm like, yeah, it's [ __ ] up. It's it's really [ __ ] up. But yeah, um no, it wasn't a big deal, but I you know, if you're already in like kind of a stressed position, then uh I think little things can frustrate you.
07:32:00
Brian Atlas>> She said something else, too. And you were I was like, you don't like her? >> Yeah. Yeah, I'm trying to I don't remember what the other thing was, but she's like, "Are you going to repost my story?" Like, and I'm like, "Chill. We're We'll do it. We're going to do
07:32:11
Kal Pitit." But yeah, I don't know what the other thing was. >> She was when she was trying to grab the helmet when you were showing the Sarah Stock videos. >> I think he got It was something before that. It was something before that. >> That was even me. That was
07:32:24
Brian Atlas>> Yeah, Mary or something. >> Yeah, Mary was either. >> I don't know. Okay, let me order food. Uh, while I'm just semi-distracted doing this, any topics? Oh, here's fun. >> That's we're going to do the male thing. >> What's that?
07:32:37
Brian Atlas>> The male version of Ourel. >> Yeah. Once Mary's Mary had to run to the bathroom, so we'll wait for that. I do a segment called Big Brother Brian >> and it's basically you can ask me for advice about maybe you have a specific
07:32:48
Brian Atlasdating scenario or you have always wanted to ask a guy a question, but maybe you were unsure. you were uncertain if he would even give you an honest answer. I will give you the
07:33:00
Brian Atlasunfiltered honest male perspective, male truth. Uh I'm not a guy who's like trying to date you. I'm not a guy who's trying to sleep with you where the guy's going to [ __ ] lie or whatever or sugarcoat things. I will give you the
07:33:11
Brian Atlashonest truth about anything you want to ask. Dating, relationship, sex, whatever it is, I will answer it. Any takers? >> Yeah. I have a question actually because I hear this a lot. People try and come at me and maybe they're trolling, but a
07:33:23
Kal Pitlot of people love to tell me that Indian women are the least desired in the dating pool. Do you think that's true? >> Uh, she Well, you're you're taking me up on my offer there about being honest.
07:33:34
Brian AtlasUm, so I think they've actually I'll defer to this. I do believe they've done studies on the for both men and women in
07:33:45
Brian Atlasterms of racial preferences and the varying races that they in the United States anyways in terms of who is assessed as most attractive or most
07:33:56
Brian Atlasdesired. And I think in the United States you have something like it's actually I think Asian women at the top, white women, Latino women, and then it's
07:34:07
Brian Atlasum I mean there's obviously women who are uh like Middle Eastern or there's other
07:34:15
Brian Atlasbreakdowns, but uh probably uh yeah, it's probably according to the studies, not me. Do you have a study you could
07:34:27
Juliapull up on this or? >> Um, probably, but I don't think it's worth our time. But look, it is what it is. It is what it is.
07:34:38
Julia>> Is it true if you give men leeway like with like boundaries, physical intimacy, whatever it may be, if you don't set the boundaries, they'll take advantage of what you
07:34:49
Juliagive them. Is that true? Because I've been told that by women. Like they're like, "You have to communicate with men. You have to be firm with what you do or don't want or they will take. >> Uh
07:35:08
Julia>> do you understand the question or do I need an example? >> Yeah, give me an example. >> So a good example is physical intimacy. So if I don't set a boundary for what I'm willing to give, what I'm willing to
07:35:19
Juliado, or what I'm willing to receive, um it'll just be done. So, like if I'm not comfortable giving like a [ __ ] I'll I'll I'll do them if I'm willing to be in a, you know, if I'm in a committed relationship, I'll do them.
07:35:33
Julia>> I know it sounds contradictory. I don't consider oral sex, like sex sex because it's oral. >> Okay. >> And so, I'm willing to do it. >> Um, you said you don't cuz my body count
07:35:43
EricaI count or oral sex. If you can catch a disease from it, it counts as sex. So, I feel like >> I mean, yeah. I mean, it's it's not sex. It's different, but >> it's a sexual
07:35:55
Erica>> It's probably >> you can catch something from it. It's Yeah. So, in my body, >> it's not exactly waiting until marriage. >> Those count even if I only got head like it counts to me. You think it doesn't count?
07:36:07
Kal Pit>> No. I It was never communicated to me that it counts as sex. And I follow like >> oral sex doesn't count as sex. >> For guys, it does. I feel like like whenever I ask guys their body count, they always exaggerate it and say that
07:36:20
Juliahead counts, but women don't. Wait, so what's the related to the boundary though? What what >> Yeah. So So if I like don't communicate with someone that I if I don't like like don't do this, they'll just do it
07:36:30
Juliaanyway. Like hey, don't like like with boobs, if I want them to just only touch over the clothes, you know? Um and and if I don't say that, then they'll just go for going under the clothes. And so I have to tell them,
07:36:43
Juliaright? >> Like they'll do they'll go under the clothes if I don't tell them to not do that. So, okay, you're like making out with a guy. >> Sure. Yeah. >> And
07:36:55
Brian Atlasif you don't explicitly say don't do that, they'll >> they'll do it. >> Uh, okay.
07:37:05
Julia>> And take that take is is that is that all guys? Is that a guy thing? >> Well, this is kind of a a murky
07:37:14
Brian Atlasterritory here. Um so if the burden typically when it comes to moving things forward physically is
07:37:23
Brian Atlason men. Uh and so and I think a lot of escalation when it come sexually is not
07:37:33
Brian Atlaslike if you wanted to be like insanely clinical I think most women will not like this. So technically the guy could be like, "Is it okay if I touch your
07:37:45
Brian Atlasupper chest area but not your breast? Is it okay if I touch your breast over your shirt? Is it okay if I go under the shirt?"
07:37:57
Brian AtlasI mean, I I think most when people hook up, it tends to be a bit more organic and not like at every single instance the guy is going to
07:38:07
Brian Atlas>> ask >> try to get a verbal yes. Now, I think you can obviously tell a lot from uh body language, but I mean, if we're all being realistic
07:38:19
Brian Atlashere, for those of you who've had sex, are you or is the guy asking for permission at every single plausible
07:38:31
Brian Atlasstep of >> And I'm sure we would agree that that's not like an essay that has occurred. That's not. Now, if you say no and he
07:38:42
Brian Atlaspersists or you persist, I guess, then this would be getting into a territory of some crime. But my suggestion to you, if you have these
07:38:53
Brian Atlasboundaries as to how far you want to go, I think those ought to be communicated. And I think in sometimes it's fair for the guy to actually prompt that, too. Um, I think typically though, if we're being
07:39:05
Brian Atlasrealistic, most people when it comes to physical intimacy, it's a bit more organic and there's less verbal communication and it's more making out, making out, making out, next step, next
07:39:17
Brian Atlasstep, next step. If you're on I think if you're uncomfortable, you should voice it and that should be 100% respected. But um
07:39:26
Brian Atlasyeah, if I would strongly advise you if you're uncomfortable with a guy touching here or lower, you I I think you should say that. >> Sure. >> And he should 100% respect it and it
07:39:40
Juliashould stop there. >> Yes. On a separate note, not just with physical intimacy. That was just the easiest example. What about like t spending time with one another or like sleeping schedules like >> Oh, here's a good Oh, two good things
07:39:52
Brian Atlasthat could be interesting. I think uh the woman should sleep in a different bedroom. >> He says the same thing. He told me the same thing. >> Is that your question though? I don't know. >> No, that's not my question. But >> wait, you think that you think that a woman should sleep in a separate bedroom
07:40:05
Brian Atlas>> or Well, I mean, not uniquely to the woman. Like just I think separate bedrooms is can >> why >> uh sleep quality supersedes
07:40:16
Brian Atlas2% extra intimacy. So, like if it's difficult for me to fall asleep with my like somebody sleeping right next to me. Yeah. I mean, it depends on the girl. Like some girls
07:40:26
Brian Atlasare [ __ ] deadly silent. They don't even move. They don't snore. They don't make noise. They don't kick. That's a bit more tenable. But other even if it's
07:40:37
Brian Atlaslike got to get up and use the bathroom, I'd much prefer >> we we spend we spend, you know, we have a great day together, spend the night together, whatever. about when we're like ready to sleep. Let me set you up in the guest room. >> This is like for you personally though, right? You don't think that about
07:40:51
Brian Atlaseveryone should do that? >> Oh, no. I don't think it's probably better. Um, if you're both able to get quality sleep, sleeping in the same bed, it's probably just better. >> If it was affordable, I live in separate homes. >> Separate homes. >> Yeah.
07:41:03
Brian Atlas>> Well, I don't know about that, but that is an option. Uh if if uh I I'm not totally opposed to that, but um I think separate beds, at least for me, that's my preference. Not to say I can't do it,
07:41:16
Brian Atlasespecially if the girls like some some of y'all are whisper silent. Well, wait, that doesn't make sense. You're just silent, >> but others you're [ __ ] flailing and [ __ ] Some girl [ __ ] I think broke my nose. >> Oh,
07:41:29
Brian Atlas>> yeah. This isn't the reason why I still care about sleep quality, but some girl was like sleeping in my bed and like flailed and like hit my nose. Big target. And uh to begin with, but uh
07:41:41
Brian Atlasyeah, I think she broke my nose a second. I've broken my nose before. So, >> your nose was just like already broken. >> It was Yeah. Well, I broke my I did wrestling in high school and I broke my nose in high school wrestling and then she [ __ ] broke it again. It was
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Julia>> Oh, >> yeah. So oral sex is sex like among you. >> Does anybody else want to participate in the big brother Brian >> thing? >> You have a question or no? Okay, I'll
07:42:07
Brian Atlasmove on to the next segment. Then we got a fun segment. Mary Marington, please pull up the uh gender swaps port. Yes, ma'am. >> Oh wow. Doesn't even look like me the first.
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Brian Atlas>> It's like a AI picture. >> Where'd you get this picture? >> Yeah, I would I would date him. Who is Oh my I need a half a word. I need half a word with who? Whoever actually >> Yeah. Where did you guys get that picture, bro? Is it AI? Like >> Yeah, it is.
07:42:33
Brian Atlas>> It's It's AI >> from the video. >> I would date him. Yeah. >> Okay. Next, >> bro. I would not date. >> No. >> What? >> No.
07:42:46
Brian Atlas>> Okay. I think there >> I'm just gonna be honest, you know. See, because >> Yeah, but that's a good photo of me, but not him. >> See, last week I told the person who does this that they were being too generous. >> Oh, >> and now I think they've overcorrected
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Vicki Suninto the other. >> I feel like that looks that still looks I don't know. It just >> No, you mock him. You mock him. I don't think that's fair. >> There's no way that's the guy version of me. Like AI messed up on that. >> No.
07:43:10
Indie>> Why did mine have a fair? >> I don't think that's fair. >> Mine with hair would be so much more attractive. Can we be Can we add hair to mine? Like >> Yeah. Uh, next.
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Brian Atlas>> Wow. Good job, Mary. >> You're fired. Just kidding. >> Okay. >> You're fired. >> You're getting 10 lashes. >> I heard >> uh just figure if you can just try to figure out what what happened. Did you
07:43:36
Amelia (Phlebotomist)Did you figure it out? >> Oh, this is you. >> Okay. >> Oh, period. >> Loki. Low key. >> Yeah. Low key, bro. Low key. >> He was cute. >> High key. He looks like my brother the same as last time I was here.
07:43:48
Brian Atlas>> No. >> No. Okay. Next. >> Oh, >> Lola's not here. >> Accurate. >> Next.
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Julia>> Wait, you look like [ __ ] Cash Patel. >> You look like a [ __ ] FBI director. >> What do you mean? >> A little bit, actually. Well, that guy >> He's >> He's handsome. >> He's cute.
07:44:10
Brian Atlas>> He's a little better. He He's a little little better than >> I guess. Okay. Would you date him? >> No. >> You only date white guys? >> No. Okay. Wait. Into the mic. Just say give your answer.
07:44:23
Brian Atlas>> Wait there. There's space now. Scoot scoot in. Scoot in, girl. Come on. Scoot in. Get this girl into the table. All right. What about uh next? >> Who's doing these, bro? They're They're
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Julianot being very I don't know. >> I do not look like that. First of all, >> you know what? I see the I see the vision. >> It's not bad. It's not bad. Okay. >> I see the vision. >> I give him a chance. >> Okay.
07:44:47
Vicki Sun>> Okay. >> All right. Next. >> No. Absolutely not. >> Wait, he's actually kind of cute. >> No, like for real. >> It's like Usher. >> He looks too young, too.
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Erica>> That's cuz you look so youthful, girl. >> And that doesn't look like me either. >> You got the eyebrows. >> Uh, so would you date him? >> No. If he was had a great personality.
07:45:12
Kal Pit>> Okay, next. >> Oh, hell no. E no. I don't like Indian guys anyway. >> Oh, you have a bias, too. >> Yeah. I mean, but for them it's
07:45:24
Kal Pit>> white guys. >> Well, I like Asian, white, and any type of brown that isn't Indian. But like Indian, it's it has more to do with their personality if anything. I just I don't know. It feels like I'm hooking up with my cousin or something. Like they
07:45:34
Brian Atlasjust all look basic to me. I don't understand this like and I've heard this from people uh like like a lot of Asian women. I've heard it from from uh like
07:45:45
Brian Atlasblack women or not so much Latina women but like what's this like brother thing like they share the same race so it's it reminds me of my brother. I don't know. Like I
07:45:56
Brian Atlasjust feel like if I run into one, they just look too basic, like too similar to me, you know? Like, >> you know what's interesting though? Like I I have heard a lot of And to be clear, I'm not saying all Asian women or whatever. I've heard a lot of Asian
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Vicki Sunwomen say, "I wouldn't date an Asian guy cuz it just reminds me of my brother." >> Mhm. >> Oh, >> yeah. Kind of weird, right? >> Yeah. >> I think I kind of said the opposite. Like, I've only I like Asian people and I've only dated Asian people, right?
07:46:21
Brian AtlasRight. So, I'm not saying it's all Asian women, but I have heard it a decent amount from Asian women. And I was like, and I thought about that and I was thinking that's kind of dysfunctional if you think about it in the sense that
07:46:33
Brian Atlaswell in modern day, not really because you have access to people outside of your race in 2026. But historically, if you go back
07:46:42
Brian Atlasuh like a 100 plus years, if you let's say 200 years, just to make it easy, if you
07:46:52
Brian Atlaslived in China, you did not see a white person or a black person probably your entire life. If you lived in Europe, you didn't see
07:47:05
Brian Atlasyou didn't see a black person. You didn't see Asian person. If you lived in Africa, you did not see white people. Or wait, hold on. >> South Africa. >> Let me think about the timeline. Let me
07:47:16
Brian Atlasthink about the timeline here a little bit. Uh let me revise that a little bit. You know what? Maybe we need to go back a little. Anyways, whatever. [ __ ] it. I just think it's like you would basically
07:47:28
Brian Atlasif you were an Asian woman living in the 1500s in China or Japan, Korea, Mongolia, Laos, whatever, Cam Cambodia, Vietnam, Philippines, whatever it is, and you were not attracted to Asian men,
07:47:40
Brian Atlas>> you're cuckooked. >> You're [ __ ] Like, those are the only men you have access to. Yeah. >> You don't got Instagram. You don't got airplanes. >> That's why they did arrange marriages. you you're like basically you you would
07:47:51
Brian Atlasbe it would be an ineffective uh I mean okay never mind whatever I don't know just a thought maybe it's
07:47:58
Brian Atlasridiculous um uh let's see oh wait do next yeah thank you thank you thank you >> wait what do you have it >> oh >> he's not bad
07:48:10
Meline>> would you date the male version of you >> no >> okay what what's that audio is There's something. >> What is that? >> Oh, okay. Just disre >> What the heck?
07:48:24
Brian Atlas>> Who's doing these? You got You overcorrected whoever did them. Overcorrect. He looks >> Whoa. >> Why did they make us aged? Too much. I know. For real. >> Overcorrection. All right. Next.
07:48:36
Brian Atlas>> Oh. >> Oh my god. >> A 4.5 into a six. She's pretty, actually. I can't lie. >> Thank you. Thank you, Icky. Vicki. No, she can get it. She can get it. I
07:48:47
Brian Atlaswould date her. She can definitely get it. Um, what about this? Okay, we had this big debate, I think, last show, the toilet seat dilemma. Should a guy should your boyfriend put down the toilet seat for you?
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Erica>> Yes. >> I think anyone who does not put the lid down completely before they flush the toilet is just out of hand. >> So, I was I was thinking about that. So, I mean, my position was like number two, absolutely you got to put the lid down.
07:49:12
Brian AtlasBut let's say hypothetically there wasn't a a like germ component to like the flush. >> I see. >> Yeah. Okay. Let's say because people say, "Oh, there's like a plume of if you
07:49:25
Brian Atlasleave the the lid open, whether it's number one, number two, plume of grossness." Let's just put that aside. Just from a strictly dating dynamic, should the man put the
07:49:37
Brian Atlastoilet seat down? But the toilet like when they pee is >> Yes, they should pee all over the lid. No, but like uh for your benefit, should the guy put the toilet seat up? Did I say down? Sorry, I
07:49:50
Brian Atlasmight have. So, sorry. Should the guy put the >> No, no. Yes, the man puts the toilet seat down for the woman. Isn't that it? >> So, she could sit on the >> I mean, I think it's a nice thing to do. Yeah, it's quite >> So, should What do you think?
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Vicki Sun>> Well, I think like dating wise, yes. But not even just dating wise. I feel like most toilets you come in just like in general like most toilets you go into the bathroom and the toilet seat, not like the German one, but the actual
07:50:13
Vicki Suntoilet seat is down. I think it's just common sense to just leave things how you found them. Like it's pretty rare to walk into a bathroom and the toilet seat be up. So I think like you just should do it just out of like human decency,
07:50:25
Amelia (Phlebotomist)not even for like a relationship wise. And it's not hard just like put head down. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Um Okay. What What do you think? >> Yeah. I think Yeah. I was just
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Mahicourteous, you know. If I was a guy, I would put it down when I'm done. >> Okay. What do you think? >> Yeah, you should put it down. If you're putting it up, you should put it back down.
07:50:46
Erica>> Put it down. It looks neat and tidy. >> Okay. >> I feel like I'm kind of torn on this one. I don't know. Like, if you go to the bathroom, you're a guy, you left it
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Kal Pitup and you just didn't put it back down. It's not a big deal. I feel like regardless of germs, the the lid should always be closed cuz stuff could always fall in the toilet. Like you could knock over stuff from your counter. So I always out of habit just keep the whole lid closed for that
07:51:12
Kal Pitreason. >> I think he means like right after they pee. What are you talking about? Like the seat where we sit, how guys lift up. >> Yeah. No, I I know what he's saying, but I'm just saying I'm just saying the lid should also be down. >> If a guy pees, >> the lid or the seat? >> So if a guy pees, he he puts the seat
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Amelia (Phlebotomist)up. >> The cover and the seat that we sit on is both up. Well, yeah, obviously >> for guys, right? So, which are you talking about? Both are going down or just the seat. >> I know what he's asking, but I'm just
07:51:36
Amelia (Phlebotomist)adding to the conversation. >> Well, no, I'm just trying to clarify. >> The base level would be that shady here. >> It's not girl shady. >> I was confused. I'm asking a question. I