MEGA BLACK PlLL?! Fake VlRGlN Sarah?! Mormon Girl Tried To Sell Her VlRGlNlTY?! | Dating Talk 281

Date: 2026-02-09
Duration: 9h 27m

Identified Speakers

SPEAKER_02Erica(guest)
SPEAKER_03Indie(guest)
SPEAKER_05Maddie(guest)
SPEAKER_06Kal Pit(guest)
SPEAKER_07Brian Atlas(host)
SPEAKER_08Meline(guest)
SPEAKER_09Lola Gold(guest)
SPEAKER_10Mahi(guest)
SPEAKER_12Julia(guest)
SPEAKER_13Vicki Sun(guest)
SPEAKER_14Amelia (Phlebotomist)(guest)

Key Moments

00:00:09
IntroAll guests introduce themselves
01:38:25
Key MomentLola Gold vs Meline: OnlyFans ethics debate
02:10:00
ControversyKal Pit: women should have 3/5 of a vote
03:55:00
ControversyVicki Sun would side with China over USA
04:32:00
QuoteJulia listed virginity for sale at $500K-$1M on Cinderella Escorts
07:50:00
ControversyKal Pit's hot take: re-legalize hitting wives. Near universal condemnation.

Topics Discussed

00:00:09
Guest Introductions

All guests introduce themselves.

01:38:25
OnlyFans/Sex Work Debate

Lola Gold defends OF. Meline/Julia push back.

02:10:00
Women's Voting Rights

Kal Pit: women should have 3/5 of a vote.

03:55:00
China vs USA Allegiance

Vicki Sun sides with China.

04:15:00
Sarah Stock Controversy

Conservative Catholic influencer who faked virginity while cheating.

04:32:00
Julia's Virginity Sale

Listed virginity on Cinderella Escorts for $500K-$1M.

04:53:20
Body Count Reveals

Range from 0 (Julia) to 12 (Lola).

06:20:00
Self-Ratings and Brian Rates

Most rated 5-6.5 by Brian.

07:50:00
Kal Pit's Hot Take

Bring back legalizing hitting your wife. Major controversy.

08:11:03
ICE/Immigration Debate

Mahi defends pro-immigration position.

Transcript

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04:53:22
Erica>> people have a past and >> some people are liars. That's just a risk you take. I mean, the other option is Yeah. The other option just not date.
04:53:35
Brian Atlas>> Like I would do that. >> I guess here's what I'm trying to say. >> If if the choice was between in a hypothetical where I don't know the
04:53:45
Brian Atlasoutcome until later on of dating an Only Fans girl who's honest with me about her past >> versus dating a girl who lies to me about being a virgin and she wants to wait.
04:53:59
Brian Atlas>> But >> that's completely too different. for but actually done had [ __ ] trains ran on her at the frat house and [ __ ] a bunch of dudes. I almost would prefer and
04:54:10
Brian Atlasappreciate the honesty. >> Mhm. Mhm. Do you want an honest person? >> Important. >> Like I if I had to choose I know that sounds it's like look it's bad either
04:54:19
Brian Atlasway. Those are both shitty options. But I'd almost have an appreciation for like at least I know what I'm getting. I'm not being deceived. It's honesty, you know? I don't know if the chat disagrees. >> I promise you'd be having a good time.
04:54:33
Brian Atlas>> Huh? >> You'd be having a good time. >> It'd be fun. >> What the [ __ ] >> Your sex life would be fun. That's all I'm saying. >> Well, what? Why? You're You're saying that women who are not
04:54:44
Brian Atlas>> No, no, no, no, no, no. I'm just saying, >> bro. The shy chicks are the best in bed. That little nerdy That nerdy girl in the in the library with the glasses, >> she [ __ ] >> Yeah.
04:54:54
Brian Atlas>> Like she she knows. She Yeah, that's you, Bro. It's the What are you talking about? What are you talking about? You don't know what you're talking about. >> He's saying we're fun, >> bro. It's that nerdy chick that you
04:55:06
Ericanever suspect that's going to >> give you a good time. Just saying. >> Yeah. No, I bet. >> Just saying. >> So, you said >> I don't know. Maybe I'm black pill. I don't know.
04:55:18
Erica>> You said on Only Fans. What if a girl is posting things on in Is it just the Only Fans thing because they're having people pay or Instagram too? Like if a girl like I have a bikini shot on my Instagram. Is that a problem for you?
04:55:31
Brian Atlas>> Uh I mean it's I'd have to see it. I'd have to see what else is being posted on the Instagram. I mean look my general preference is towards uh more uh public
04:55:42
Brian Atlasfacing modesty. Uh I definitely prefer that. Um I personally prefer a girl who has as minimal social media presence or
04:55:51
Brian Atlaseven none. So, she has a [ __ ] private Instagram with like totally everything archived or a couple posts. Like, that's the ideal. And women can want that, too.
04:56:04
Brian AtlasI've heard a lot of women say, "Oh, I want a guy who has no social media." >> Yeah. But >> I want a guy who doesn't post on Instagram. I want a guy who doesn't follow 300 girls. I want a guy who doesn't have a thousand followers. Like,
04:56:13
Kal Pitso women can want this, too. Um, but uh, >> but women that say they want loser boyfriends, they say that because they want to feel like they're above him somehow. Like they want to feel like secure in the relationship. Like, oh,
04:56:26
Kal Pithe'll never leave me. He's a loser socially. That's what like what a lot of those girls say. Like, I want a guy with no social media. >> One scenario. >> I I think like a a bikini photo, some
04:56:36
Brian Atlasguys have an issue with it. I think it's a pretty minor thing. Would it be my preference overall for it to for it to be leaning more on the modest
04:56:47
Brian Atlasside? Yes. I don't think it's a dealbreaker. Um, but I'd prefer a girl not super active on social media like that. So, >> why is that your preference? >> Uh, Instagram's a dating app, especially for women.
04:57:00
Brian Atlas>> You think so? I've never used it for dating like ever. >> Yeah. Well, it's also just an appearance thing. Like I So, I'm very private with, you know, I've been doing the show for
04:57:09
Brian Atlasfour years. very private with uh the women I've dated, my relationships. Uh I also uh in terms of an appearances thing, uh
04:57:21
Brian Atlaswell, this is sort of a different dynamic. I I mean, I'd want to insulate my girlfriend from like my what I do is
04:57:29
Brian Atlascontroversial. What I do brings heat on me. And if I was public with my uh let's say previous girlfriends I've had uh
04:57:39
Brian Atlasduring the course of the show uh and like people knew their Instagram and like could find them and [ __ ] That would be a level of attention I would not want to inflict and inflict is
04:57:51
Brian Atlascertainly the right word uh on my girlfriend. Like these [ __ ] going to be harassing the [ __ ] out of her. How big is his dick? Does he come too quick? Is he a premature ejaculator
04:58:03
Brian Atlassending death threat? They'd send death threats to her. Oh my god, how could you date such a toxic man? >> Yeah, I can't not. So, any girl I'm seeing, that shit's going to always be private. But even then, I'd still not
04:58:14
Brian Atlaswant her really posting uh I' I wouldn't want her posting [ __ ] on Instagram like the bikini pics. Ideally, >> if you're having the beach in the archive,
04:58:26
Brian Atlas>> it's a hot day and you're in a bikini. >> What? Take a picture. I'm having a good time. >> Yeah, but is it one of these where it's like, >> what's wrong? >> Look at my ass. Do you see my ass? I'm
04:58:37
Brian Atlasturning around for this picture and I'm looking over my shoulder like this. >> There's trap. Let's not >> like, you know, in a bikini.
04:58:50
Brian Atlas>> What What's the word for a picture? If it's a candid photo of her in a bikini, okay, whatever. I You could still archive it. By the way, I preferred submissive uh submissive dynamic in my
04:58:59
Brian Atlasrelationships. So, if I tell you to do something, you should do it. >> Reason, right? >> Within reason. >> Within within reason. >> Well, yeah. If I
04:59:12
Brian Atlassubmission is not, if I tell my girlfriend to jump off a bridge, she should rightfully say no. [ __ ] you. Well, she shouldn't say [ __ ] you even if I tell her jump off a bridge, but she
04:59:22
Brian Atlasshould say no. Like that's beyond the scope of what a submissive dynamic would be. But if I say, "Hey, listen. >> Um, I want you to bunker down your
04:59:33
Brian Atlassocial media. I I this is not good for appearances. I want you to be like, "Yes, sir." >> I disagree with that. >> I think >> Why is that? >> I think that sir, >> everyone's entitled.
04:59:47
Indie>> Master works, too. >> Everyone's entitled to be exactly who they are in whatever in whatever form. If you don't like someone's social media pre presence or you don't like the way they are expressing themsel and you don't have to be with them,
05:00:00
Indie>> right? But I think what's most important is staying true to yourself like and being like you know platitude but okay >> and doing your thing you know like obviously okay obviously like have >> I've seen your Instagram >> have respect for your partner.
05:00:13
Brian Atlas>> Oh [ __ ] half your shit's gone. If we were d I have the [ __ ] [ __ ] archive private archive. You're dancing around with Is it a BB gun or actual gun? >> Oh, it's like a prop gun. >> It's not a real gun. Yeah, that shit's got to go.
05:00:26
Indie>> That sounds amazing. >> In your underwear and [ __ ] Yeah, that shit's got to go. >> Okay. I am confident in who I am and I'm confident in my artwork. My Instagram is artwork and I'm confident. >> It is. It is stuff that I have created. >> Art.
05:00:38
Indie>> Yes, it is art. It is photography. It is artwork. Everyone has a different >> No, no, no. You can have a different opinion. And I like I respect your opinion. I respect other everyone else's opinions on my Instagram, too, because it's really not for everyone. It's like
05:00:51
Indiebut it's stuff that no one has done before, you know? It's like original creations. And at least I mean that's me being true to myself and if my partner
05:00:59
Indie>> you could do your art in a burka. >> I I you don't need to be >> right. But like I get I guess it gets into like different themes of like you
05:01:11
Indieknow freedom of body. Like there's a lot of different things that I'm expressing through my art on my Instagram and it's not it's not trying to look for attention or to be sexual, but you can have a different way. >> Yeah, maybe that's the case. But I think
05:01:24
Indieif you're in a relationship with somebody and something you're doing is making them uncomfortable, >> right? And I I would consider it and take it into account for sure. But then at the end of the day, like if you if
05:01:36
Brian Atlasyou don't agree with how I'm expressing myself or me being myself, you don't have to be with me. >> Mhm. >> Right. So then it would just become a negotiation. But I mean,
05:01:45
Brian Atlas>> so so but if the if on the outset or I guess onset of a relationship is I'm disclosing to a woman, hi, I prefer a submissive dynamic. >> I want you to defer to my
05:01:58
Brian Atlasdecision-making. I want you to defer to my leadership. uh what I say ought to go, >> then I would be like, "Okay, that's not fair." >> Now, if she's then agreed to enter into that dynamic with me,
05:02:08
Brian Atlas>> right, >> then yeah, she's going to well, she can obviously do whatever she wants, but if the the continuity of the relationship is at >> I understand that. And also, I want to
05:02:19
Indieadd on to that by saying that like if I was with a guy that I really cared about and really liked and he came to me and was like, "Hey, I'm uncomfortable with one of your posts. Like, this post makes, you know, I'm uncomfortable. I
05:02:30
Brian Atlasdon't like it being up. Like, I would take his opinion into consideration. >> Would you do it for the perfect guy? Not just into consideration, just instantly, >> oh my god, yes, you're right. I'm going to take it down. Would you ever do that?
05:02:42
Indie>> It depends on the circumstance. Like if if I'm like married to a guy or something and and he's like, >> "Yeah, like this one post that you posted like I don't want other people
05:02:53
Indieseeing like your body in this way or something." I would be like, "Okay, you know what? that I can get behind that. I can understand why you feel that way and I'll take it down to make you feel better. >> Sure.
05:03:04
Indie>> But if he's like, I don't want you doing Instagram. I don't want you doing photography. I don't want you making art. I think that like I think that's just weird. I think it's like not cool. Okay. Well, then don't follow me. Like >> don't make >> I was just going to say what she pretty
05:03:17
Vicki Sunmuch just said. I think like there's like >> a boundary for like what you can control. like not even control, but like there's some things that's just like there's no reason why you should be making your partner take this off their social media. It's just
05:03:29
Vicki Sun>> what if there is no reason? What if it's just my preference? >> Well, then I think that's kind of like an issue on your behalf. Like you shouldn't like yeah, you want a submissive person, but like are you in a relationship? Can I ask you that or are
05:03:43
Brian Atlasyou single right now too? >> I can't disclose my current. >> Okay. >> Well, I said we we have to >> I mean I can engage with your question. I can engage with your question regardless, >> but okay. Well, that makes it a little
05:03:55
Vicki Sunhard to continue, but um >> well, just go continue as if I was in a relationship then. >> As if Well, that was not the answer I was expecting. So, I would just >> or Oh, you were expecting I saying I was single or >> Yeah, pretty much.
05:04:09
Vicki Sun>> Okay. Sure. For the sake of the question I'm saying. Well, I just think that like well one I'd say there's a reason to that probably because you want to >> Well, I wouldn't say you're controlling.
05:04:20
Vicki SunLike you don't seem like that type of person, but like you see you sure >> maybe I'm just trying to glaze, but >> the way he dictates his >> Yeah. I just think like the right person like the perfect person would not tell me what to do, would not tell me what I
05:04:32
Vicki Suncan and can't post. And like I think like if you're doing that to your partner, it stems from insecurity in a sense where like >> why should it matter what they're putting out there if like you're with them at the end of the day. >> I don't think it's insecure to like not
05:04:45
Kal Pitwant your girl to not post thirst traps in a relationship. I think it's just a matter of respect because you have to be really honest. You have to be really honest with yourself. Like what is your intentions when you're posting those things? Like when you're posting an ass
05:04:57
Indieshot, you want guys to slide in your DMs and tell you that your ass looks flat. >> Not necessarily. Then what are you doing it for? Freedom of body. Like it's a way to expressed freedom of body is a theme
05:05:07
Indiein photography and it's a way to express like the artwork of body. Like you ever go into an art museum and you see a sculpture of a naked lady or a naked man, it's freedom of body. >> Or like if you go to a gym and like let's say you have gains and stuff.
05:05:21
Vicki SunYeah. You might want to post that and like I'd respect it. It's not >> gains is different than a ass shot. >> But I mean if you're going to the gym, you'll be if you're building your butt, you're going to want to post your butt, right? Like >> why why do you have to post your butt? >> Well, you don't have to, but that's just
05:05:34
Brian Atlaslike how >> like women have been able to >> it's like how guys will put your biceps as topless pics and not get banned. I mean, you shouldn't do that. I'm a bit shy at the moment, but other people
05:05:45
Brian Atlashave had happy lives prior to Instagram. Like this idea that uh publicizing all aspects of your otherwise unremarkable
05:05:55
Brian Atlaslife are necessity to fulfillment and happiness seems a little bit shallow. But um I just look by the way to be fair. I'm a bit older.
05:06:06
Brian AtlasIf I didn't do this I wouldn't even have an Instagram. I don't follow people on Instagram. I just don't give a [ __ ] I don't I don't care what you ate. I don't care where you traveled to. I don't follow anybody. I I don't know. People
05:06:18
Vicki Sunare just a little too self-obsessed with themselves when it comes to social media, >> but like teach their own, do your thing, right? >> Maybe we're just from a different time. Like I didn't like you don't use social media, but I'm sure like the people your age that are like your friends probably
05:06:32
Brian Atlasalso don't use social media, but like in our day now like social media Gen Z that barely >> post. There's strong adoption of social media among millennials, but uh I mean
05:06:42
Brian Atlaswe were the first ones in fact to use it. But uh I mean I almost wonder if I was on Facebook before some of you guys were born, but that's another conversation to be had. Uh
05:06:53
Brian Atlasno, but I think I I mean I would point out that there's probably 18, 19, 20, 21 year old men who they don't want their girlfriend posting revealing photos on Instagram. But let me ask you a question. Uh are you guys cool if you're
05:07:06
Brian Atlasdating a guy and he's liking another girl's uh Instagram post? >> 10,000%. >> You're you're fine with it? Okay. I've heard a lot of women who are not okay with everything. >> I'm okay with it. Well, it depends on what the post is.
05:07:16
Brian Atlas>> Uh the the spec the content that we're exactly talking about. So, a booty a booty shot at the gym. >> I don't that's Well, I wouldn't be okay with it, but also that's never really been >> that seems really insecure and controlling of you.
05:07:30
Indie>> Really? >> Yeah. By the way, what you call insecurity, I call uh boundaries and standards. Yes, >> I would be totally okay with it in the context of it being I mean any context, but first of all, like look at my
05:07:42
IndieInstagram. I'm posting it from an art perspective. I'm posting it from right a creative perspective. So if he's liking another model's post of like her, I don't know, say it's her ass or
05:07:54
Indiewhatever, but it's like done in like a way where she's like like clearly being creative and just expressing herself. I'd be like he's admiring like this work of art. We've we've really trampled on the grave of the term art. But
05:08:07
Brian Atlas>> um but so wait, you said you would have an issue if uh the guy was liking other girls Instagram posts or like following a bunch of like IG thoughts. >> Well, I'd have an issue not with the
05:08:19
Brian Atlasgirl, but with the guy >> with with your boyfriend or whoever you're seeing. >> But I'm not going to be like, "No, I'm not going to DM the girl and be like, "You should take this down. My boyfriend's in the legs." Like, that's out of line. You know what I you you should probably have not an issue with the girl, but you'd have an issue with
05:08:32
Brian Atlasyour your guy. >> But these are sort of two sides of the same. >> I'd probably just break up with him at that point. It's just like >> but these are two sides of the same coin. So if and I think it's totally okay for women to have an issue with
05:08:44
Brian Atlasyour boyfriend liking other women's posts, following a bunch of IG models, whatever. Um, but the trade-off I think should be, if I agree with you there, I think the trade-off needs to be you as
05:08:56
Brian Atlasthe woman in the relationship, you shouldn't be putting that content out there. >> Mhm. >> Like, you shouldn't be posting kind of revealing photos, uh, whether it's in a bikini,
05:09:09
Brian Atlas>> I I don't have a major issue with it. >> Why? >> Why? Uh well, I think generally relationshipminded men tend to have a
05:09:17
Indieleaning towards uh not wanting their woman to be advertising. >> People are going to put you in a box regardless. People are going to like have thoughts about you and put you into
05:09:30
Indiedifferent stereotypes, different like, you know, people might look at my Instagram and be like, "Oh, she's a slut." Or, "Oh, whatever." Like, I don't care. >> But you don't need to make it easier for them to do that. carry yourself with humility. I know
05:09:41
Melinewhat I'm posting is for me and I know that it's me being true to myself and expressing myself in a way that feels authentic to myself. >> And I'm not saying you can't do that, but like if you were like cuz one thing you were saying is what if I'm artistically doing it? Well, I'm still
05:09:54
Melinegoing to be mad at I don't care what your intention in posting this is. Is my husband, boyfriend, whatever, he can't like it no matter what the girl's intention was. So like and I don't think that's insecure but I mean to each their
05:10:08
Melineown. Yeah. >> Everyone has different boundaries, right? >> Yeah. And and >> my boundaries might be different. >> But I don't think it's a it's someone like I don't think you can call someone insecure for not agreeing. >> I wouldn't say anyone was insecure.
05:10:18
Meline>> Okay. Even so even if you are artistically showing whatever you're showing >> and you communicate this to the person that your partner and he's telling you I'm actually I'm not okay with this. >> Yes. Do you think >> and he's like and he's like well it
05:10:32
Indiedepends on what he's asking. If he's like, "You need to delete your entire social media presence." Then I'm going to be like, "Just photo one photo or one video." Oh, then yeah, I would consider it and I would take into account what he's saying and I would like have it would be a
05:10:45
Indieconversation and I would obviously like listen to his point of view. But if he's like, I don't want you doing making this kind of art anymore, like it's not my vibe, then I'd be like, maybe I'm not for you. Well, I think it's fine for I I
05:10:56
Brian Atlasguess your position can be fine, but don't do a thing where when he's liking other girls Instagram posts and following a bunch of IG models. Don't have an issue with it. Don't have an issue with it. >> I don't.
05:11:08
Indie>> Okay. Well, then that's totally fine. I don't there's no contradiction. >> Well, I think first of all, if he's following other Instagram model, he's admiring someone else's beauty. And that in my opinion, I'm fine with that. I don't care. It's
05:11:20
Brian Atlasan issue with it. A lot of women do have an issue with their boyfriend following a bunch of other women, liking their stuff. Um, so I I think fair, what's
05:11:31
Brian Atlasfair is fair would be if the man has to stop following girls and not be, by the way, men shouldn't be doing that [ __ ] Period. To begin with, regardless of if you're in a relationship or not, men shouldn't be doing that [ __ ] It's simp
05:11:43
Brian Atlas[ __ ] It's lame [ __ ] It's borderline pornographic cummeror [ __ ] Men shouldn't be doing it. Depends on the type of stuff you're liking, but >> I mean, >> he's talking about the Gooner stuff. >> I love Sims. >> Well, no. I mean, they're my faves.
05:11:56
Brian Atlas>> Even just like some [ __ ] college girl that you go to college with in bikini pics. Like, I don't think you should be liking that [ __ ] That's [ __ ] lame. Um, but uh so I don't think it has to be
05:12:08
Brian Atlaseven trans transactional. the man shouldn't be doing it to begin with, but I think if you're a relationship-minded man, I think it's uh you should have the woman
05:12:19
Brian AtlasI I want to frame it like this. So, men and women have different sexual strategies. They have different romantic strategies. >> Women typically don't shoot their shot.
05:12:29
Brian AtlasWomen typically uh don't slide into DMs. Sometimes they do, okay? But generally speaking, women don't approach a guy shoot game, run game, whatever. Riz,
05:12:41
Brian Atlasblah, blah, blah. Women will put themselves in a position. They'll they'll go to the event and wait for men to come to them. You'll make yourself put yourself in a position to be approached, but you won't approached.
05:12:53
Brian AtlasMen have a more proactive approach to dating. We shoot our shot. We approach you. Whether that's uh Do you want to grab like a paper towel for that? >> Sorry. >> Men will shoot their shot. women, you
05:13:05
Indieare less you're more passive generally speaking when it comes to dating. Not saying that it never happens. Obviously, sometimes you'll shoot a DM, maybe you'll >> Right. But in today's society, it's more accepted for like men to be the one to go after. >> Well, it's always been more accepted.
05:13:19
Brian Atlas>> That's Yeah, >> it's actually I'd say it's becoming actually more a bit more likely that women shoot their shot today. But >> I know what you're saying, right? But so
05:13:30
Brian Atlasthe ways in which men act when they're single, that [ __ ] gets shut down once a guy's in a relationship. So you would agree that it's cheating if a guy's in a
05:13:40
Indierelationship to shoot a shot or slide >> into a but yeah, I mean for a monogous relationship, >> yeah, 99% of relationships, >> a guy hitting on a girl is definitely cheating.
05:13:52
Brian Atlas>> Uh yeah, sliding into DM definitely cheating. Now, if you're in the tactics and methods that women use to get into a relationship that doesn't get shut down.
05:14:05
Brian AtlasSo, there's an inequality there. >> What do you mean by that? >> Well, so for example, going to the bar, going to the club, going out to parties, um posting. Okay. So, for example, a woman won't slide into a guy's DMs, but she'll
05:14:17
Brian Atlaspost photos on Instagram. She'll post stories, and then guys will like react to the stories or slide into the DMs when she posts. Like if she posts like revealing pictures, women are uh I think
05:14:28
Brian Atlasthe term is >> y'all are women are marketers and men are advertisers. Wait, hold on. Let me think. I totally [ __ ] that up.
05:14:37
Brian AtlasDisregard that. It's just women are more passive. Y'all put yourself in positions to be approached and be pursued, but women don't pursue on that. Some do, but but really you're not pursuing like
05:14:50
Brian Atlasthat. >> Some women Yeah. But Yeah. But some women. But the point I'm trying to make here is that I think when you're in a relationship, both people have to shut
05:15:00
Brian Atlasshut down their edge. So the man's edge is to be the pursu be the pursuer. Women don't shut down. Now there's obviously some scenarios where obviously look, you go to Trader Joe's as a woman, some guy
05:15:12
Brian Atlashits on you. You can't. That's going to happen, right? But the ways in which when you put yourself in specific social situations like going to the bar, going
05:15:21
Brian Atlasto the club, going to a party, these are very specific uh social venues where there's an expectation that you're going to be pursued. You're going to be approached. There's alcohol involved
05:15:33
Brian Atlaswhich has a greater likelihood of leading to cheating or infidelity. And uh the social media, so the dating uh not the there's Instagram, you're posting, you're still posting thirst
05:15:44
Brian Atlastraps in a relationship. I think if men we have to get rid of our edge in a relationship, our tool set in a relationship with uh pursuing and
05:15:54
Brian Atlasapproaching and sliding into DMs, then women have to give up their edge, which is advertising, which is marketing, which is putting yourself out there, posting revealing photos, and going to these environments where you're going to
05:16:06
Kal Pitbe approached, like at the bar, club, or party. >> So, a woman just can't go out. You can go to dinner, you can go to brunch go anywhere environments where it's
05:16:18
Brian Atlasdesigned to pick up chicks and call them. Is that okay? >> Uh well, so my position I mean >> it's a bit different. So, okay, I don't go to the bar. So, me personally, I
05:16:31
Brian Atlasdon't drink. I don't go to bars. I don't go clubs. I don't go to parties. Don't drink. Don't smoke. Don't do any of that [ __ ] I think it's personally I think these I don't know maybe I'm old and jaded.
05:16:43
Brian AtlasWhy the f these Okay, you're going to go you're going to wait in line. A fake line by the way. The [ __ ] club is empty. They're just trying to make themselves look cool. You're going to wait in some line and they're holding people back. You're going to [ __ ] The
05:16:56
Brian Atlasbouncers are [ __ ] You're gonna uh pay [ __ ] $20 for a drink that you could just go to Bevmo and just buy a whole [ __ ] handle of >> That's from a guy's perspective. >> And the the lights the lights and the
05:17:09
Brian Atlassmoke and it's [ __ ] You can't even have a conversation. Why the [ __ ] would you go to a bar or club? >> That's your autism speaking. >> Yeah, but is it wrong? Is it wrong? >> I don't like girls. >> Well, so I don't think men should be going to the clubs and bars to begin
05:17:22
Brian Atlaswith. Like that's >> Wait, so men can't enjoy music? What if it was a rave? Oh, my partner. Oh [ __ ] Spotify. Every single song ever invented is on Spotify. Why the [ __ ] do I have to go to a club to listen to music?
05:17:34
Brian Atlas>> Social and maybe dance. Have you ever >> Maybe you can go to a concert. >> Have you ever Oh, dance. >> Do you dance? >> My god. Dance. What the [ __ ] is dancing? >> Hold on. Let me finish my point.
05:17:44
Brian Atlas>> Uh style dance. The difference is though, if I if I'm a single dude and there's a single woman and she goes to the club and I go to the club and I just have my drink here and I'm just kicking it at the [ __ ] bar or somewhere in
05:17:56
Brian Atlasthe club. I'm just standing there. I'm just, oh, the music. Woohoo. Uh, no women are coming to talk to me. Women don't really do that. I could go to a bar 10 nights in a row and I'll be
05:18:08
Brian Atlas[ __ ] lonely as [ __ ] No women are coming up to guys really. >> Why are you a woman goes to a club? You can almost guarantee some guy's gonna come talk to her maybe one, two, three,
05:18:19
Brian Atlasfour, five, six, multiple times a night. And so it's a different environment. If a woman goes to a club, she's going to be pursued. I go to a club. >> You might get >> Ain't nobody talking to me. No girls trying to buy me a drink. No girls trying to
05:18:32
Meline>> But why are you trying to be around single girls? >> Yeah. >> Wait, I'm not. >> Aren't you famous? Why don't they want you? >> Um, girls. >> Wait, what? >> Wait, I think it was just an example. I I think it's >> No, I was just using an example, but >> but there are some cases where >> they just slide into the DMs,
05:18:45
Meline>> but even Sorry. >> Yeah, it's okay. Um there's some cases where I think like it's still like putting yourself out there, being around single women. If if she's fine with it, then okay, fine. You can go to the bar, you can go go to the
05:18:57
Melineclub. But if she's not okay with it, then there's a reason behind it. Like >> would you honor her opinion for you? I know you don't care to go to clubs or bars anyways and Okay. So then you're
05:19:10
Brian Atlaskind of biased. So it's hard to >> I I guess. But I mean the the experience is completely different. >> A girl goes to a club, she gets hit on. A guy goes to the club, he just >> [ __ ] stands there like a dork all
05:19:23
Melinenight and no girls are like want some [ __ ] >> But you you as a girl go to a club. >> But why put yourself in an environment where girls are like half naked? And that's but I'm saying is the the difference is >> you don't go to the club in lingerie.
05:19:36
Brian Atlas>> The difference is >> it's a different kind of club. The difference is is that women's strategy when it comes to if they're single, they go to the club with the expectation they're not if a woman is trying to get dick. Like let's say a woman's really
05:19:48
Brian Atlastrying to get some dick. Uh she can still reliably go to the nightclub and never shoot her shot and just uh filter of the men who come to her. So women can
05:20:00
Brian Atlashave a strategy of going to the club and being passive and still be on the hunt for some dick. However, as a guy, I can never have the strategy of I'm gonna go to the club and not talk to any women.
05:20:10
Brian AtlasI'm not going to go I can't go to the club and that be my strategy as a man. I'm not going to I'm just going to sit back and let the women come to me because I'm so [ __ ] cool. No, I'm going to never get [ __ ] for the next
05:20:22
Melinedecade if I do that. >> Never. I'll be [ __ ] celibate. >> I don't think your rate of success has anything to do with it though either. >> No, it's related. >> Well, okay. But it's not going to make me as your as a girlfriend feel any more comfortable with it. I still think
05:20:36
Brian Atlassomething's wrong. >> I'm not justifying why go to the club. I'm saying even if I did go to the club and okay, so here's the the equality, I guess. Uh, girl in relationship goes to
05:20:47
Brian Atlasclub, man in relationship goes to the club. Neither can proactively approach the opposite sex. Man talks to zero
05:20:56
Brian Atlas[ __ ] women the entire night. woman talks to uh a handful of men, maybe many men the night because they're pursuing her. >> Okay, >> here's and they're [ __ ] gonna hammer her with [ __ ] drinks and the women
05:21:09
Brian Atlasthe woman's going to get free drinks and let Hey, as a guy, I'm going to I want to protect my girl. You want to go to the club and get [ __ ] roofied? No. Some [ __ ] [ __ ] frat boy is going to try to roof your [ __ ] drink at the
05:21:21
Brian Atlasclub. You're not going to the club. >> That's why there's members only clubs. >> You can still get what the [ __ ] You can still get [ __ ] slipped to something in your drink. >> But in college, if you're like the whole like everyone goes out in college like >> you can get slipped and it doesn't even have to be at a bar. Even at a
05:21:34
Vicki Sunrestaurant, someone can walk by and ro your drink. I feel like your perspective on like oh women shouldn't if you're or your girlfriend at least shouldn't go to clubs. It's more >> McDonald's. >> Okay. Well, focus. But anywhere your girl can get hit on. If she's beautiful,
05:21:46
Vicki Sunshe's going to get hit on anywhere at the club. Like I feel like you saying that she's not allowed to go, it's less about like other people hitting on her. But like I think it comes down to like your girl >> being loyal. Like if she was a loyal person, club or not, she's not going to
05:21:58
Vicki Sunentertain those guys. Pe like honestly, even for me, like being out in public, no matter where you are, guys are going to hit on you. But it's just up to what you do about it. Cuz a loyal girl is going to be loyal not just at home, but everywhere she goes. And if she's not loyal, then I think that's just a skill
05:22:11
Brian Atlasissue and you need a new girl. But >> yeah, but do you believe in temptation? Do you believe in mistakes? >> I believe in temp no temptation. I don't believe I would never cheat on my boyfriend. >> So, wait. Do you think in the history of relationships, a girl has never regretted cheating?
05:22:23
Vicki Sun>> I'm sure there is regret, but I feel like regret does not change reality. Even if you regret it, you be accountable for your actions. Your partner will does not deserve you. I don't >> Here's the scenario. What do you mean? Here's the scenario. Okay.
05:22:35
Brian Atlas>> So, okay. Uh let's say you're fighting with your girl. Let's say you just had a big fight with your girl and she's like, I'm going out. And then she goes out with all her single female friends who
05:22:45
Brian Atlas[ __ ] hate the boyfriend because he done step stolen the girl. The boyfriend stole the girl. And the the single female friends, they want to go do hood ratchet with their single female friend.
05:22:56
Brian AtlasThey want their friend back. You've been you've been hanging out at Roert's house way too much. You haven't been doing some hood ratchet with us. So they're like, "Man, [ __ ] Rupert. That [ __ ] man, he >> Well, maybe they just want to have guns. >> Like his dick ain't even that big. They
05:23:10
Brian Atlasbe talking mad [ __ ] about your boyfriend. They're talking mad [ __ ] about Roert and they're just oh uh Vicki, right? >> Yeah. >> Victoria, here are some shots. And they just [ __ ] give you a bunch of drinks
05:23:23
Brian Atlasand they get you [ __ ] plastered and oh my god. And they're in your ear the entire night. Oh my god, Vicki, he's such a jerk. He's such an [ __ ] Oh my god, you he he's [ __ ] mid. Blah blah blah. You're so beautiful. You deserve
05:23:34
Brian Atlasbetter. Blah blah blah. Oh my god, here's Bartholomew. Uh, you should [ __ ] Oh my god, he's so cool and funny. Haha. And then you're [ __ ] plastered and then uh >> oopsies.
05:23:46
Vicki Sun>> I'm just saying it could happen. >> It could happen. And then like that's I still wouldn't think that's a mistake. Like you cheated regardless. I feel like even then like it comes down to like your mental >> Well, I also I think I mean look, even
05:23:59
Brian Atlasif she's like deathly loyal and would never cheat, uh then it would just come down to uh the the optics of it and then also just the risk of >> I doubt that >> she would never cheat. She would never
05:24:12
Brian Atlascheat, but bad things can happen when people are drinking. Uh maybe maybe it's not even like uh I don't know nothing gets slipped in the drink, but she gets into some [ __ ] cat fight. Her weave gets pulled off. Not that I date women
05:24:24
Brian Atlaswho wear weaves, but I don't know. She gets into a big fight with some chick. And I don't want my girl getting into fights and [ __ ] I don't want her to get hurt. She's supposed to have [ __ ] seven of my children. I can't have her with a [ __ ] up leg or some [ __ ] >> Seven.
05:24:36
Brian Atlas>> Seven children. Yeah. I can't have her with a [ __ ] up leg. And then also she should um Oh [ __ ] Chaw, I s I'm sorry. I'm just seeing your TTS. I'll let it
05:24:47
Brian Atlascome through in just a moment. Sorry, Chaw. I'm very apologetic for the delay. Uh also, it's just uh you know, I
05:24:56
Brian Atlasoptically I think it's a bad look on a guy if some girl's out there dancing and I don't know. >> Well, >> like >> dancing with what? With her friends. I don't think >> with a dude. Like some dude's going to
05:25:08
Brian Atlasstart. That's different. And that's just like an again that's like a skill issue. Like as a girl you shouldn't like >> guys are just going to be grabby and [ __ ] I don't want my girl Look, >> by the way that's completely wrong for men to do but like it look some
05:25:20
Brian Atlassometimes guys are [ __ ] scumbags at these places and I want to insulate my my girlfriend from potentially risky or dangerous situations. And look, I think this is a perfectly reasonable uh
05:25:33
Brian Atlasboundary to have if you're a relationship-minded man and you want to protect the relationship and >> go to the club with her. I've seen so many boyfriends. >> Oh my god, that's even worse. It's even worse because then some dude [ __ ] you
05:25:46
Brian Atlaswalk by and some dude grabs your ass. Then you come to me. Oh my god, that dude grabbed my ass and he's like [ __ ] 6'5 and 300 lb. And you're like, Brian, are you going to do anything? Uh, no. He's your girlfriend now. I guess
05:25:57
Brian AtlasI'm not going to [ __ ] Well, you you want me to go fight some [ __ ] giant dude? I'm not going to No. >> Then you're going to the wrong >> go to the gyms. No, but it's like, by the way, you go out with your girl. I'm telling you,
05:26:09
Brian Atlaslook, I used to go out a little bit, a teeny bit when I was younger, >> like your local bar or something. >> You go out, you go out with your girl. The amount of times I've seen girls get
05:26:21
Brian Atlastheir boyfriends sparked up. You Oh my god. You girls, because I think women, y'all will talk some [ __ ] when you're drunk. As a woman, you will talk some [ __ ] to a man. And if I'm next
05:26:32
Brian Atlasto you, I'm like, >> "Shut the [ __ ] up. You're about to get me [ __ ] sparked, lady." Y'all women will get your boyfriend's [ __ ] little [ __ ] literal brain damage. You You get them sparked up. Some guy says some
05:26:45
Brian Atlasdumb [ __ ] cuz he's drunk. Hey, Tootses, nice [ __ ] ass or whatever. I don't know. Nice tits, sugar tits, whatever. And then I got to be And then you look at me like, "You going to let him talk to me that way? You going to let me?" >> Yeah, exactly. Talk to me that way.
05:26:57
Vicki Sun>> Yeah. I don't want to be put in that position, bro. If I if I got to protect you, >> then what what are you there for? If it's or anything like what do I need you for? What value do you add to a woman's life? >> If I got to protect you, I need authority over you.
05:27:10
Brian Atlas>> If I have to protect you, I need authority. And if in my authoritative decision, I'm like, you going out to nightclubs and getting belligerently drunk sounds like a [ __ ] terrible idea. And you're going to mouth off to somebody and you're going to get in a
05:27:24
Brian Atlasfight with a girl or you're going to mouth off to some guy. And he's not going to punch you in the face. He's going to be like, "Oh, there's the boyfriend. Bow. [ __ ] blast me in the face." And I feel like there's a lot of trauma here. Yeah, there's a lot of trauma here. This is like going into like a specific scenario.
05:27:37
Brian Atlas>> Hey, this [ __ ] happens all the time. The amount of yo, when [ __ ] pops off, it's some girl, bro. It's some girl. I'm not saying it's her fault, but like when
05:27:49
Erica[ __ ] pops off with guys, a lot of times there's a [ __ ] girl involved. >> So, I was saying who started fights at bars. It wasn't me. Like it was him. He was always Yes, that happens too.
05:28:01
Erica>> Starting things and I I'm not a person. A lot of what you're saying I'm feeling like oh like that's not me at all. Like I don't really like going out. >> I'm not saying all women are like this. >> We said you women you women. So
05:28:12
Brian Atlas>> speaking in generalities a little bit. Look I'm just saying it's a bad look. You go you go out drinking with your girlfriend. Look some women they drink they're just quiet. Whatever. Some of y'all are [ __ ] mouthy. Especially
05:28:24
Brian Atlaswhen you've drank alcohol and some guy says something inconsiderate. Next thing you know, I got to [ __ ] defend my woman's honor because he said some drunk guy said some dumb [ __ ] She's drunk. She's all upset. I'd rather just avoid
05:28:37
Brian Atlasthe whole thing. Can't we just watch [ __ ] uh Game of Thrones and [ __ ] her? Like, can't we just have a quiet night in? Do we have to really We have to go out to [ __ ] spend $20 for a drink. I'll go buy some
05:28:49
Brian Atlas[ __ ] Coronas. We're going to watch Game of Thrones. We're going to watch a night of the seven kingdom. >> Well, you can do both. Like some nights you go out, some nights you stay in. >> You just never go out. >> You just never leave. >> You just like chain to the bed in your
05:29:01
Juliahouse. That's basically how it is. >> Is it a normal like man thing to like want to stay inside and like watch a movie and then like [ __ ] is that like a normal man thing? Cuz my man like we went to the bar cuz I wanted to see the fight and I was like well then we can go
05:29:14
Juliahome and like cuddle and stuff, right? And like he did not really like the idea of being at a bar. It was going to be a low-key bar because to get like wings and stuff and he didn't like it. Um, is so is it just a man thing?
05:29:26
Brian Atlas>> Uh, is it just a man thing? >> Depends on It depends on the man. So, I'm more introverted. Maybe your ex-boyfriend or whatever was more introverted. >> He's quite introverted. >> Yeah. I mean,
05:29:37
Brian Atlasuh, me personally, we can watch the UFC here. I I'll watch a UFC match uh with my girl at the house. We don't got to go to the bar. Yeah. But >> like what if she wanted to go? Like wouldn't you want to do it for her?
05:29:51
Brian AtlasSimilar to how like >> No. The woman should acquies to the man. >> Compromise. >> No. If you look, >> you're going to have a hard time finding. >> No. Actually, no. Women love this [ __ ]
05:30:04
EricaBut but uh >> I find it interesting. >> I guess I'm lucky that he went with me then. >> He sucks. >> Raise your hand if you love this [ __ ] >> Love what? >> I agree with everything he just said. >> I I don't like going out. I want to stay home. I don't want to pay. I don't want
05:30:17
Ericato stand in line, use the restroom. I don't like any of that. >> But I mean, if >> stay in the comfort of our house, we can Yeah. >> to have fun that isn't like alcoholic clubbing. >> I find I find it you can play Pokémon Go
05:30:31
Brian Atlasat the park. >> One at a time, please. One at a time. >> I was saying you could play Pokémon Go at the park. Like that's a free activity. That's >> I'll go to the beach with a girl. We can go to the beach together. I know the best time to I know the best beaches in
05:30:43
Brian AtlasSanta Barbara. I know the best time to go. We've had some great weather recently. Yeah. Like that's okay, you know, but I don't the bar. No, I don't really like big crowds. >> There are plenty of places for good dates that don't include the bar. I do
05:30:56
Amelia (Phlebotomist)absolutely agree with you. >> No, but I do look I do think, >> you know, a little >> the woman should acquies to the man. >> This is this is the clip farming segment.
05:31:09
Amelia (Phlebotomist)>> No, it's not. There's no clip farming. >> Money comes from the clips. >> There's no clip form. I think I think women should defer to a man's decisionmaking and if I decide >> that's your opinion >> and you're entitled to that opinion,
05:31:22
Brian Atlas>> right? It is my opinion, right? We respect I agree. >> But okay, do you want to date a guy who when >> Do you want to date a guy when God damn it, [ __ ] dropping [ __ ] Hold on. >> Oh my god.
05:31:36
Brian Atlas>> Exactly. >> Okay, my bad. Uh, do you want to date a guy who you're like, "Okay, uh, what do you want for dinner?" And he's like, "Whatever you want." >> No.
05:31:46
Brian Atlas>> No. >> I know in every single [ __ ] instance, every single meal, I know exactly what I want. >> There's girls like that, too.
05:31:57
Brian Atlas>> I know exactly what dinner you want, babe. No, I've never Those words have never left my mouth. Oh, whatever you want, babe. No, we're getting [ __ ] burritos. No, we're getting
05:32:10
Vicki Sun[ __ ] pizza. No, we're getting >> Oh, she's not cooking. I mean, if you're getting it, if you're paying grocer if if you're cooking, then like >> Why does this relate to what we were talking about before? >> Yeah. >> No. Well, I'll tell her what she's going to cook, too, I guess.
05:32:23
Brian Atlas>> Are you going to buy the groceries? >> Yeah. I cover everything. >> Mhm. >> Everything. Look, I want you guys to understand the frame here. So, okay. Whoever I'm with longterm, she doesn't have to work. Everything's taken care of. She doesn't need a
05:32:37
Brian Atlas>> Everything fin. >> What if she wants to work? Will you let her? Would that make it feel superior? >> It would depend. It would depend on you would feel in superior ladies. >> That's not my preference. Also, we got to pump out seven kids. She's gonna be that's her job. Her job is busy with seven kids.
05:32:50
Indie>> Hold on. Um but >> before you guys have kids, like say she already got a degree in something that she was like passionate about that she went to college for. I'm not saying like she's doing sex work or she's doing >> social media cuz you already expressed that those things aren't something you
05:33:03
Indielook for in a partner. >> But like say she like, you know, she has this thing she's really passionate about doing and she's like put her all into it. She's gone to college for four years or whatever, got a degree, and like
05:33:14
Brian Atlasshe's happy doing work. >> Why? To be fair, I am a bit of individualistic in the sense that I enjoy time alone. I need some time alone. Uh, so I mean, when we don't have
05:33:26
Brian Atlaskids, then yeah, you know, she can preoccupy herself with with her career. And uh but I mean ultimately like if we're living together and we don't have kids yet. Yeah. I mean I'll take some of
05:33:39
Brian Atlasher money and like buy guns or something. But >> Oh, there it is. That's >> But yeah, I mean I don't know if that answers your question. I guess. >> Yeah. Like her money is my money basically.
05:33:52
Brian Atlas>> So is your money her money too? >> No. Wait. Can I uh tilt your mic down? >> Oh, I have a question. >> Her money her money is going to be used to buy firearms. Would you let her own a firearm? >> Sure. >> Okay.
05:34:04
Vicki Sun>> Yeah, she can have guns, I guess. >> Um >> Well, when earlier >> Yeah, her money is my money for firearms. >> Earlier when you said that like when you have if you have a girlfriend long term, um you're going to financially cover everything and like whatever. She just
05:34:17
Vicki Suntakes care of the kids. Like >> I feel like there's Okay, I want to ask a clarifying question. Are you the type to like have her like run through all her purchases with you or like when you say you're pro providing for her financially? Like you mean like your like let's say if she wanted to buy a
05:34:30
Vicki Sunnew bag, does she have to ask you before that or can she just do it? >> A bag probably >> a purse. >> Like a purse >> or like something fun, something that's not like groceries or for the family. If she wanted to use that with your money, would you be okay with a date goes with
05:34:41
Brian Atlasa fashion sense? Let's be honest. >> For real. Just be care. No purse. >> 100% a Trader Joe's bag. >> Hold on. Let me answer the question. >> How about that? I'm going to 100% cover everything.
05:34:53
Brian AtlasHowever, I'm still going to have oversight and authority over specific purchases. Uh Amazon has fantastic handbags available for
05:35:03
Brian Atlas>> Okay. I hope you find your Amazon wife. >> 20 to $50. >> You think you think even if I'm a millionaire, you think she's going to get a [ __ ] what? Louis Vuitton. She's not getting a [ __ ] Birkin.
05:35:17
Brian Atlas>> And you're getting seven kids. You're a millionaire. She's getting Why? I know you're a fan of materialism, but >> definitely. Yeah. >> But why does she need my my woman is is
05:35:27
Brian Atlasnot going to care about these materialist things? >> Do you need to care about material stuff? >> It's giving. >> Great. Then if if that's what it means
05:35:39
Brian Atlasthat I I'm going to have a basic [ __ ] who doesn't want to waste money from my perspective. Uh look, maybe if I'm like obscenely wise, >> what is wasting money to you? Like what do you think some expenses that like usual girls have?
05:35:50
Brian Atlas>> Yeah. Yeah. So, the actual costs of making a purse, say it's $20, but because a company has a brand and a logo, they're going to charge $5,000 for
05:36:02
Vicki Sunit. >> But if it makes a flex, >> don't you want like don't you think it like looks better for you too if like your girl is like dressed well, blah blah blah. It makes you look >> Well, she's not going to be in rags, but
05:36:14
Brian Atlaslike she's going to have the newest. Wait, she's changed to the kitchen. >> The newest Oh, the newest kitchen. She's changed to the bed. >> Hey, they have some nice stuff stuff at Okay.
05:36:24
Vicki Sun>> No, I'm sure they basic Amazon basics even better. >> Amazon basics for 10ucks. >> Bro, why why do you guys want to spend the check? >> Not like want to, but like let's say it
05:36:36
Brian Atlasmade her happy. Like she really wanted it. Wouldn't you want your wife to be happy? Wouldn't you want to get it for her? Well, I would screen for a woman who is derives happiness from possession of a $5,000 bag over a to the bag is for utility.
05:36:50
Lola Gold>> But you want her to carry around a firearm. Sorry. This [ __ ] just blows my mind. Like firearms have utility. What is this? This firearms have a utility. >> This [ __ ] doesn't happen. >> What if she's really into high fashion? Like that's her hobby and interest.
05:37:03
Brian Atlas>> I don't think he'll get like she said she'll probably he probably won't get >> I want a simple woman. I want a simple woman who doesn't want to [ __ ] what what's this draw to [ __ ]
05:37:16
Vicki Sun>> You want a Birkin bag. What? >> Well, it's like how guys want like I don't know the best skin pack in Fortnite or something. >> That's stupid too. Okay. >> Well, that's like that's like my analogy if that makes sense. Or like a guy wants a nice car, a nice watch. It's the same
05:37:29
Vicki Sunidea. >> Also utility. >> Okay. Well, I have a bag as utility too. I hold stuff in it. know, like your lip gloss, your keys. >> A car doesn't have to be fancy to get you somewhere, you know? It just has to work. >> But it sure does look better if it's nicer, right? Like
05:37:42
Brian Atlas>> Well, I mean, certain luxury cars have actual superior amenities and safety. Like Lexus, for example, has certain like actual utility advantages over
05:37:54
Brian Atlasother, but of course, some of it is uh there's some different components. But like a Lamborghini, I mean, then you're just paying now you're paying for a brand. Ferrari, you're paying for a brand. Now, if I was obscenely wealthy,
05:38:06
Brian Atlasmaybe I would buy a Lamborghini. Look, it depends the level of wealth, right? >> Uh I think >> some people have different thresholds, but I don't know. I don't think I would buy
05:38:20
Brian Atlas10 million liquid before I bought like a Lamborghini. That's my threshold. Other people, they're like, "Oh, well, I'm uh
05:38:31
Brian Atlasthey'll buy a [ __ ] Lambo or Ferrari at 3M." I personally think that that's kind of stupid, but to each their own. >> So, you're just talking about making good and smart investments.
05:38:41
Brian Atlas>> Well, yeah. I also, you know, who knows how what the future holds, but got to pump out a lot of kids. Kids, you know, that's going to cost some money. So,
05:38:50
Brian Atlaswe're going to have to sacrifice our own vain material pursuits for the sake of the children and then also for the sake of like I I want a really nice house.
05:39:01
Brian AtlasLike I think you can maximize I'd rather maximize like nice house >> and uh having like more land or you know it's really modern or I'm trying to think like
05:39:14
Brian Atlas>> with seven kids don't you need like $10 million or like a lot of money in this economy to house that many kids? >> Not 10 million. Uh maybe you know you need uh >> he's driving around five five
05:39:26
Amelia (Phlebotomist)six bedroom sorry >> five six bedrooms and I do think I'm going to have my kids two to a bedroom. >> Oh I find this quite interesting actually. My dad came here when he was
05:39:37
Amelia (Phlebotomist)two from Germany and he got a degree in German literature. Never used it. Wasn't usable. He ended up joining the police force and when I was growing up he was he he was uh retired as a sergeant. He would work Costco. He would work
05:39:51
Amelia (Phlebotomist)Kirkland. And he told me in his life, all he needs is three uh stores, Big Five, Walmart, and Costco. And when I was growing up, I got nothing that I wanted. I had to work for whatever I wanted. If it was like a special I
05:40:04
Amelia (Phlebotomist)really liked video games, so I like saved up to buy my own computer. And now at his age of retirement, he is I can't it's just he's a multi-millionaire. He drove a Civic
05:40:16
Amelia (Phlebotomist)actually his whole life cuz he taught me that like wealth is not displayed. It's like internal. Like do you see like Bill Gates carrying around like a Louis pouch? Like honestly no. Because it's like it's a thing to make you feel
05:40:29
Amelia (Phlebotomist)better. Like honestly the small sacrifices along the way like literally like set my dad up to provide for his children and my children and their children. And it was because we only wore Walmart stuff growing up even
05:40:41
Amelia (Phlebotomist)though we lived in the nicest neighborhood in California. It was it was it's a very fascinating thing because then I see like and now at this point in my life I try to save money. I
05:40:51
Amelia (Phlebotomist)do uh stocks. I try to invest when I can. And I drove around my mom's beat up car for god knows how long. And I actually was able to get a Mustang recently and I felt really great about that because I made such sacrifices for a long time. Not saying that there's
05:41:04
Amelia (Phlebotomist)things I don't splurge on like my hair costs more than my rent, but >> there's certain things where it's like, you know, >> oh my gosh, >> I I work really hard. I like to buy myself nice things, but like nice things in the category of like, okay, my car is
05:41:16
Amelia (Phlebotomist)like going to get me from point A to point B, but it's also like on the nicer end because I sacrificed XYZ for a while. So, I feel like there's a balance in life that my dad really taught me that's like helped me to become successful where like you can enjoy nice things cuz life is worth living. I work
05:41:30
Amelia (Phlebotomist)hard. I like to kind of, you know, reward. So, what are what's your opinion like a middle ground if your wife was like, "Yo, like we both work really hard. I want to change my hair to blonde and she has black hair. That's going to cost just just think hypothetically that
05:41:42
Brian Atlascosts a thousand plus dollars. How would you feel about that? >> Does it really cost $1,000? Wow, what a waste of money. I mean, >> uh, if it my initial knee-jerk reaction, gut
05:41:55
Brian Atlasreaction is that's a total waste of money. You already got me. You don't need to change your appearance. Maybe out of novelty it might be intriguing, but
05:42:07
Brian Atlas>> I I'm leaning towards no probably on the hair. Even if you had the money, why can't you just bleach your dye hair? >> Look, I have the money to buy >> uh Oh, let me do the TTS. But I look, I
05:42:17
Brian AtlasI could buy like Well, hm, I could b buy like a Ferrari, Lamborghini. I could afford it. I could afford it. I could buy it, but it's just
05:42:28
Brian Atlasit doesn't make sense. I still drive a car I bought [ __ ] 12 years ago. Okay. >> I'd rather >> put myself in like a really strong financial position for the future. Uh, let me look at this chatter. I apologize
05:42:40
SPEAKER_00for the delay. My bad, man. >> You're not wearing a lot of clothes dressed as some character or something isn't out. You're not creative. You're not an artist. Stop coping about it and just admit you want attention.
05:42:54
Indie>> Max, >> no one is fooled. >> Mary, can you max the audio? >> He paid $100 for that eco boost. I think and and I want to just say I want to just say that
05:43:06
Indie>> I'm my posts on Instagram are posted for me and me only and it's not going to be everyone's thing. If you're going to say something like that then then don't you know it's not everyone's thing. Don't
05:43:16
SPEAKER_00follow my [ __ ] Don't you know >> it's okay. He paid $100 donated $99. >> Yo, what's up? Your favorite Brit is back. >> Surely you remember the name. Did you
05:43:28
SPEAKER_00watch the Michael trailer? Looks lit. You going to watch it? You've been to Neverland, so you might be in it. # Michael is king. >> Uh yo, thank you. Appreciate it, man. Uh
05:43:39
Brian AtlasI hope you uh moonwalk later tonight. I guess he's a Michael Jackson fan. I don't know. Uh I haven't seen the trailer. I didn't even know there was a Michael who's play some Is there is a biopic or something? I don't know. >> Yeah, it's a biopic. His nephew's
05:43:53
Brian Atlasplaying >> Oh, I saw the poster for it. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. That >> That's all I haven't seen the trailer though. It looks good. Um, thank you, Adzill. Good to see you. Look, you if I if I had a bunch of money, would I buy
05:44:05
Brian Atlasher a bag? >> Probably not. But she wouldn't want one is the thing. >> Okay. Yeah, that's She's out there somewhere. It's like it's just a >> Why do y'all want the bag? You can buy a
05:44:17
Vicki Sunbag. The same bag basically. >> A bag is an analogy. I'm saying like in general, like if she has a request financially, would you be able to >> cope with that? That's not just like not even just financially. Say she has a
05:44:29
Indierequest where she's like, "Hey, like I don't want you going to the bar with your friends." Like, would you be okay with that? >> I wouldn't go to the I don't go to the bar period. >> But say you say you would go out with your friends to the bar. Like I don't know, just to like have drinks and stuff like nothing like weird, but like say
05:44:42
Indieshe was like I'm not comfortable with that. Would you cater to her like decision? I guess >> probably not >> on that front. >> But you wouldn't allow her to go to the bar or the club. >> So where's the double standard?
05:44:54
Brian Atlas>> Well, women Okay. For example, uh do you go on dates >> sometimes? >> Yeah, only I've been on a date before. Yeah. >> Do you want a guy to pay for first dates? Do you want a guy to pay for the date? >> It would be nice, but I don't care
05:45:07
Brian Atlasreally. Like I would be fine with splitting the check. >> Have you? >> Yeah. Yeah. I've actually paid first date. >> I've actually >> Not some guy. You've been [ __ ] for three years.
05:45:18
Indie>> I uh first date. Have I paid for the food? Yeah, I paid for my own food actually. You pay for his food. >> I've paid for his food, too. >> How many days you been on? >> Not very many. Okay. I don't I'm not on dating apps. Like, I don't really like I
05:45:31
Brian Atlasdon't know. >> Look, I think there's asymmetry in behavior, in treatment, in what men and women want. >> Uh, for example, a woman could say, "I want
05:45:41
Brian Atlasa guy to pay for the first date." Would you you agree that that's true for a lot of women? >> A lot of women. Yeah. >> Okay. Do you think it'd be an effective argumentation from my part to say,
05:45:53
Indie"Well, would you pay for a date?" >> Yeah. >> How would it be effective? It's asymmetry. >> I think Okay. I think asymmetry. >> Well, I think if like if like say I was going on a date with a guy and he was like,
05:46:05
Brian Atlas>> you know, I'm a broke college student. I can't afford like can we split the can we split the check? I don't know you. Yeah. Yeah. Sure. No, but it wouldn't be a defeat. It wouldn't be a defeater to the female position of if the if the
05:46:16
Brian Atlaswoman says, "I want a man to pay for the first date." It's not a defeater to her wanting that by saying, "Well, would you pay for the first date?" >> No. >> Because it's almost baked into the
05:46:27
Brian Atlaspreference of having men pay for first dates. The woman doesn't want to pay for the first date. So there I believe when it comes to men and women there's asymmetry in preferences, boundaries, expectations,
05:46:40
Indiewants, etc., etc. >> 100%. There's always going to be asymmetry in this. >> There's always going to be different expectations. >> I don't go to the bar. I don't go to the club. I'm not liking girls Instagram posts. I'm not following women on Instagram.
05:46:53
Brian Atlas>> So a woman doesn't even have to worry about that really to begin with. But yeah, some friend from out of town, old friend comes and he wants to go get a
05:47:03
Brian Atlasdrink at the bar. Uh, but even then, I might be okay. A girl, my girlfriend, she has a friend coming to town and she wants to go I don't know. >> That's what I'm saying. Restaurant, that's fine.
05:47:16
Indie>> No, no, no. Say she has a friend that comes in from town and her friend wants to take her to a club or a rave or something. >> 100%. >> Okay. Right. Right. So, you'd say no. And that's totally valid and that's like an understandable I see where you're
05:47:27
Indiecoming from. But then it's like the same thing. If your friend from town is like, I want to go to the club or I want to go to the bar, then like you got to respect, right? Cuz it's give or take, right? It's like the same exact thing. Like >> when I think of like going to a bar with
05:47:40
Brian Atlasa male friend, we're going to sit at the bar. We're going to have a beer. >> Uh and it's not I don't know. When women go out, it's a different I don't >> know. >> Yeah. I feel like he's explained this
05:47:51
Kal Pitmultiple times already. Like I feel like we keep circling back. >> Next. >> Next. >> Jeez. >> Uh I'm trying to think if there's
05:48:02
Brian Atlasanything else on that. Probably not. But uh Okay, here. Let's get into uh here. We're going to blast through some of the stuff. Actually, really quick. Twitch, please. Guys, go to twitch.tv/ whatever.
05:48:13
Brian AtlasGuys, I reduced the ads on Twitch. Better viewer experience. It's been oh, five minutes since we last had a prime sub, but I think it's bugged, boys. Guys, I don't do pre-roll ads. We only
05:48:25
Brian Atlasrun per hour three minutes of ads. I make dog [ __ ] on Twitch. Like literally $100, $200 in ad earnings on Twitch per
05:48:35
Brian Atlasstream. It's like $600, $700 a month. [ __ ] nothing. I'm holding this [ __ ] hostage. Three prime subs, boys. I need to see three prime subs. Show some support for the show. If you're a Twitch
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Brian Atlasviewer, support the show because we really don't be running up. We're not running up the ads like these other streamers on Twitch. I run as minimal ads as possible so that you guys don't get pre-roll ads.
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Brian Atlas>> Oh my god, they're on fire. Yo, Ricky Fat Feed, thank for the prime. Rupo, thank you for the prime. Alter, thank for the prime. Roxy, thank for the the subs. Uh, convicted felon. Uh, thank you for the prime. Appreciate it. All right. Thank you guys. Appreciate the support
05:49:11
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05:49:22
Brian Atlasenjoying the stream. Okay, Stiffler ask everyone to rate their looks to so give me say uh wait why is it total face body? It should be face
05:49:32
Brian Atlasbody total whatever uh give me your face rating your body rating total rating scale of 0 to 10. You can't pick seven starting with you. >> So I have to give a different rating for my face and my body and then a total. >> Well it could be the same. It could be
05:49:45
Indieseven. So it could be like this. Uh, seven face, seven body, seven total. >> Okay. I'd give myself 3.5 face, four body, um, four total.
05:49:57
Vicki Sun>> Okay. I think you underrated yourself, but we'll get to that later. >> Sure. >> Uh, go ahead. >> We can't pick seven. >> Can't pick seven. >> Okay. >> Oh, can you scoot your mic to the edge of the table? >> Yeah. First. >> Yeah. Okay. >> Go ahead. >> Um, I'd say face is like a eight out of
05:50:10
Amelia (Phlebotomist)10. And then body is also like a eight out of 10. Total, I'll just say eight out of 10. >> Okay. What about you? Um, I think my face is nine. My body is 10. And I think
05:50:21
Lola Goldall around I'm a 10. >> Wait, you said 9 10. >> Nine face, 10 body. Total 10. >> Okay. What about you?
05:50:31
Lola Gold>> I absolutely agree with your statement and also myself. Um, nine 10 face and 10 body. I spend a lot of time in the gym and me too. >> Yeah. And inside. Yeah. I'm healthy. The
05:50:45
Lola Goldgut health is good. >> The outer health is good. Okay. >> My skin is clear. >> What about you? Uh, can you >> My hair is >> Sorry. Is it just like a seating? There's not space for you. >> Yeah, we are like That's why I brought down your whole set, dude.
05:50:58
Mahi>> Are you able to scoot in or >> could you not have afforded a bigger room? Like honestly, like I >> uh Braden, go ahead. >> Uh, face eight, body nine. So like an 8.5 overall.
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Julia>> Okay. What about you? >> I wrote down on the paper an eight. There's a lot of pretty people here and so without looking at anyone, my body is like a six and um my face is like an eight. Um I don't know. We'll go with eight.
05:51:24
Brian Atlas>> No, another 10. >> Oh, wait. Are these >> uh you wrote eight here? I think >> I did. Yeah. >> So, eight face or >> Yes. >> Okay. What about you?
05:51:36
Brian Atlas>> Why can't we do seven? What's wrong with seven? Uh, seven forces somebody to air closer to six or closer to eight. Too many people just pick seven. I think that's why.
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Erica>> Well, I'll give myself a 7.5. >> No. No fractions. So, either six or eight. How about that? >> Um, gosh, I want to say my face is eight. So, I'll just do six then. Six. Face six, body.
05:51:59
Kal Pit>> Sure. Okay. What about you? >> I'll say face is eight, body is 10. So, total is nine. >> Wait. Um, wait. Sorry. Face eight. Body
05:52:10
Kal Pit>> 10 total nine. You haven't even seen my body. What's with that face? You haven't even looked at my body. What's with your face? >> Nothing. Okay. Uh, what about you? >> Uh, my face is a mic. Closer. Closer.
05:52:23
MaddieCloser. >> Probably a three and a two. Girl, shut up. Stop, honey. To practice self love. >> You're beautiful. >> Thank you so much. >> What about you into the mic?
05:52:33
Brian Atlas>> Um, I'd probably do six for both. >> Six for both. Okay. I give myself 4.5 face, 4.5 body, 4.5 total. Um, okay. So,
05:52:43
Brian Atlaswe have Wow. I have a I have constructed perhaps one of our at least based off self assessment, one of the most