Feminist WANTS Traditional Man?! SHAMES "Cheap" Men Who DO NOT Pay For Dates?! | Dating Talk #190

Date: 2024-08-26

Duration: 7h 16m

Guests

Brian Atlas

PPayton (pay_irl)>

MMadison (SBCC)>

Identified Speakers

SPEAKER_00(audience)

SPEAKER_02Liz(guest)

SPEAKER_04Madison(guest)

SPEAKER_05Payton(guest)

SPEAKER_06Jordan(guest)

SPEAKER_07Brian Atlas(host)

SPEAKER_11Sarah(guest)

SPEAKER_12Stacy(guest)

SPEAKER_13Pearl(guest)

SPEAKER_14Ava(guest)

Key Moments

OtherPearl Bots sings "At Last" live on the show; studied opera (coloratura soprano).

“Brian asks Pearl to sing. She performs "At Last" (Etta James). Brian then requests Queen of the Night (Magic Flute). Pearl declines without extra compensation.”

OtherPearl's viral TikTok demonstrated live: "I use this hack to shame cheap men who split the bill."

“Brian pulls up NY Post article covering Pearl's viral TikTok (millions of views). Pearl performs the bit: when man wants to split, she says "Oh I didn't know this was a friend date." Pearl clarifies she didn't intend it as an actionable hack, just content.”

ControversyBrian argues Pearl cherry-picks leadership: wants man to lead on dates but rejects leadership when inconvenient.

“Brian points out Pearl appreciates a man who initiates, plans, and pays for dates, but resists deferring on the bikini-at-party issue. "You only want a leader when it benefits you." Pearl responds with a yin-yang model of leadership in relationships.”

ControversyExtended role-play debate: Pearl demands Brian explain WHY he doesn't want her at the party.

“Brian role-plays as Pearl's boyfriend saying "no" to her attending a party. Pearl keeps asking for more explanation. Brian argues "no" is a sufficient sentence from a leader. Pearl argues good leadership communicates reasoning. Brian accuses her of only wanting leadership when it benefits her.”

OtherPearl refuses to give a numeric self-rating, arguing women should think of themselves as tens.

“Brian asks guests to rate themselves 1-10. Pearl refuses to give a number, arguing women should operate with a "10 mindset" for confidence. Extended debate with Brian and Jordan about whether this is healthy vs delusional.”

OtherPearl announces she is a feminist; Brian and Payton push back given her preference for men to pay.

“Pearl calls herself a feminist (soft/equity definition). Payton says she is anti-feminist. Brian says Pearl's feminism is inconsistent with wanting men to pay for dates. "Just be a feminist you're a focus" — Brian says she can't have it both ways.”

OtherBody count round: Pearl 7, Jordan 7, Sarah 3; others decline.

“Viewer TTS prompts body count discussion. Jordan body count: 7 (from TTS readback). Pearl: 7. Sarah: 3. Stacy, Liz, Ava, and Madison decline to answer.”

OtherBrian reads live a text he sent to a girlfriend about vaginal odor; Madison helped write it.

“Brian recounts texting an ex about personal hygiene (vaginal odor). He reads the text verbatim. Madison helped craft it. Woman he texted broke off contact after receiving the message.”

Topics Discussed

Show intro and guest introductions

Brian opens show with standard announcements. Guests introduce name, age, location, occupation. Pearl sings "At Last" (Etta James) at Brian's request; also studied opera. Jordan, Payton, Stacy, Liz, Sarah, Madison, Ava each introduce themselves.

Relationship status round

Pearl: dating exclusively ~2 months (not official). Jordan: married 6 years. Payton: single 7 years, celibate 4 years (Catholic; returning guest, discussed before). Stacy: married 21.5 years. Liz: newly single ~3 weeks (broke up with Navy man stationed in Japan after visiting). Sarah: single; has 2 sons from an on-off relationship. Madison: in ~2-year relationship. Ava: in 5-year relationship.

Bikini/party debate: should girlfriends go to parties in bikinis?

Discussion triggered by viewer donation about girlfriend going to pool party in bikini against his wishes. Brian argues commitment-minded men reasonably limit girlfriends' attendance at singles-oriented social events. Pearl pushes back on "no" without explanation being sufficient leadership communication. Jordan and Stacy agree women should defer to partner's preferences. Role play between Brian and Pearl on the communication of a "no" in a relationship. Debate on whether women's indirect flirting (posting, going out) is analogous to men approaching.

Self-ratings round (1-10 scale)

Viewer "Stiffler" requests self-ratings. Pearl: refuses numeric, says she considers herself a 10 philosophically. Payton: delusional 10, realistic 5. Stacy: no numeric (all women are 10s framing via Sarah). Viewer TTS: Jordan body count [?], Pearl body count 7. Debate on whether women should think of themselves as 10s for confidence vs delusion.

Aging and female attractiveness

Are guests better looking now than 10 years ago? Will they be better looking in 10 years? Pearl (32): thinks she'll still be a 10 at 52. Jordan (26): thinks she looks better now. Stacy (47): confirmed better looking in youth. Brian argues biology causes female attractiveness to peak and decline.

Age gap relationships

Discussion of what constitutes an age gap (5+ years per consensus). Payton mentions older men who date younger women may be seeking someone to fund their college. Brian distinguishes comfort/guidance attraction from exploitation.

Pearl's viral TikTok: shaming men who want to split the bill

Brian pulls up NY Post article about Pearl's viral TikTok (millions of views): "I use this hack to shame cheap men who want to split the bill." Pearl demonstrates the TikTok bit: "Oh I didn't know you wanted to just be friends." Discussion of who should pay on a first date. All panelists: man should pay if he asked her out. Pearl: expects first date to be paid for, does not recommend the hack per se. Brian asks Pearl to reconcile feminist self-identification with wanting men to pay.

Women in the military / draft debate

Should women be drafted? Payton: yes (equality argument), but anti-feminist overall. Sarah: yes, drafted equally. Jordan: believes women have important role at home (especially mothers). Stacy: nuanced — both parents shouldn't be drafted from same family. Brian: supports drafting women as equality issue.

Makeup: deception or self-care?

Is wearing makeup deceptive to men? Brian argues full-face makeup is more deceptive than minimal makeup. Push-up bras mentioned similarly. Jordan: there's a difference between natural and full-beat glam. Some guests willing to remove makeup on camera; Brian says he already rated them with it on.

Man vs bear debate

Would you rather be alone with a random man or a random bear in the forest? Most guests choose bear, citing the viral TikTok. Liz says she'd pick bear but acknowledges she was influenced by the video. Ava (podcast staff) chooses man. Brian and panel discuss what percentage of men would actually harm a woman.

Feminist identity debate: Pearl vs panel

Brian challenges Pearl on calling herself a feminist while wanting men to pay for dates. Pearl clarifies she is a soft/equity feminist, not an equality-of-outcome feminist. Payton declares herself anti-feminist (does not believe in modern feminism). Brian argues Pearl cherry-picks leadership benefits without accepting leadership constraints.

Body count discussion

Does body count matter? Jordan: body count 7 (stated via TTS readback). Pearl: body count 7. Sarah: 3. Stacy and Ava: no comment. Madison declined to answer. Majority of panel said body count matters in some degree.

Telling a partner uncomfortable truths

Brian shares a text he sent to a girlfriend about vaginal odor — reads it live. Madison helped him write it. Panel discusses how to tell a friend or partner uncomfortable truths about weight, hygiene, etc. Payton: would tell a friend directly if they were gaining too much weight. WW1 trivia round closes the show.

Transcript

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Brian Atlasguest do not necessarily reflect the views of the whatever Channel with that said without further Ado we're going to have the guests introduce themselves so please tell us your name age location

Pearland occupation go ahead my name is Pearl Bots I'm from Los Angeles I'm 32 and I'm a singer and content creator are we going to get a little demo of the uh

Brian Atlassinging or sure if you want it let's do it go ahead right now right now you just want me to sing anything uh what what

Jordanshould she sing panel what do you guys think uh what's that song um At Last At Last you know James you had another girl

Madisonsing that here huh that's the only song I know I don't listen we talking about star's born we were we were are you please please please at last James

SPEAKER_08busted out I do yes sing your own song what okay at last wait I'm kind of nervous right now I

SPEAKER_08last my Love Has Come Along my lonely days are over and life is like a song that's that

Brian Atlaswas good that was good thank you thank you uh now we need you to do the uh do you do any Opera I studied Opera but I don't really do it anymore so there's uh

Brian Atlaswhat is it The Magic Flute do you know what I'm talk about flu the Knight the Queen of the Night yeah wait the Queen of the Night

Brian Atlasyeah it is Arya is that what it's called wait hold on Queen of the Night are you sung by Queen of the Night okay go ahead Magic Flute not start I was a color of tourus

Pearlsoprano but that's a little bit more effort so oh come on this is easy that's easy work oh is it is it the que of the night we just opened the show we just opened the show can you try how about

Brian AtlasMaria give it give it the old College triy no I'm good for Queen of the Night give it give it the give it the shop are you going to pay me another some more for that I'll pay you I'll give you a $2

Pearlbill a $2 nah n n that's a good deal I spent a lot of money on op on training for Opera so that's like for special subscribers you can subscribe to my

JordanYouTube channel if you want to hear that bummer okay what about you okay uh Jordan 26 uh from Riverside California and I'm a co-owner to a gym in Riverside

Paytonand a personal trainer all right welcome I'm pay IRL or Payton

PaytonI am 27 from Massachusetts I work full-time with um farmers and I'm also a streamer full you work full-time with

Paytonwith Farmers like I help them decide which kind of feed they need which kind kind of like chicken coup how many chickens they're going to be getting things like that do

Stacyyou ever milk cows or goats or anything like no I take care of baby chicks though I see okay cool what about you hi

StacyI'm Stacy I'm from uh Riverside County I'm 47 and I work in the Aerospace industry what's your uh job

Liztitle that's a good question um well I'm quality assurance I'm in training and development okay all right what about you I'm Liz I am 25 and I own a car

Lizwrapping business business all right you want to shout it out in case somebody wants their car WRA going be a horrible business owner I'm um it's called cause motive and we're

Sarahlocated in Ventura County however we extend all the way to LA County as well all right if you guys need your car wrapped uh go to

Sarahher I'm Sarah um I'm 28 and I'm a digital creator for Beauty Brands so like skincare and some other Beauty Brands and then some other like

Madisonfreelance stuff all right cool Madison I'm 19 years old I'm a full-time student and I work for the whatever

Avapodcast I'm Ava I'm 24 I'm from Santa Barbara I Bart attend and I also work for the whatever podcast all right welcome everybody Welcome everybody so

Brian Atlaswe're going to go around the table once more what is everybody's current relationship status so are you single talking stage situationship Friends with Benefits relationship married polyu sex cult terum whatever it may be if you're

Brian Atlassingle how long have you been single what's the longest relationship you've ever been in starting with you go ahead I I'm dating right now dating somebody and longest relationship year and a half

Brian Atlashow long have you uh been dating this new guy uh a little over two months two months are you guys boyfriend girlfriend or not yet no so talking stage yeah

Jordantalking are you guys exclusive mhm you guys have had that conversation yeah okay all right and I'm married and this

Paytonis my longest relationship how long 6 years all right cool I told you guys last time I am

Paytonrunning a sex cult currently no I'm just kidding I'm single I've been single um my longest relationship was 7 years and it was 7 years

Brian Atlasago um wait your longest relationship was 7 years mhm and it was 7 years ago yes happy anniversary and you're 27 right so it

Brian Atlasended when you were 20 yeah okay so you dated from 13 to 17 yeah no 13 to 20 yeah yeah um 13 to 20 I meant to say uh and you've had no long-term

Brian Atlasrelationships since you were 20 correct what's the longest period of time you've dated somebody since then just like a date here or there nothing that turned

Brian Atlasinto anything more a month even no two weeks no a fortnite no two weeks just First Dates just First Dates hookups one night stands no you've been celibate for

Brian Atlasseven years no I we talked about this before but I was I've been celibate for four years okay just for the remainder of the show though I don't think it's worth for any returning guests on the

Brian Atlaspanel I don't think it's worth mentioning I talked about it on the last show just say just if you repeat it there's new viewers new panelists they

Brian Atlashaven't heard it so um so you've been celibate for 4 years yes okay for religious reasons or just are

Paytonyou religious I'm I'm Catholic okay but it's more because I want to find a long-term relationship before I have sex with anyone mhm but you go on dates then right yeah how often did you go on dates

PaytonI've been going on dates more often now um you know if I go out and I meet someone I I've also been turned down a lot though so I try to go on a date with someone I'll ask someone out and they

Brian Atlassay no but I'm trying mhm oh so you've asked somebody out and you've been rejected yes more than once more than once how what's what's your pickup line

Paytonwhat's your go-to I just walk up to them and tell them that I think they're attractive and that if they would like to have a drink together or go out

Brian Atlassometime I see I see okay all right um and do you think a component of this do you think you're too

Stacypicky no I like I I ask men out often okay all right we'll get into that what about you

Brian AtlasI am married for 21 and a half years and this is my longest relationship all

Brian Atlasright and so you guys met uh like 21 22 I was 24 years old 24 okay yeah got it

Stacytogether 21 correct yes okay married well no married 21 and a half so we've been we were together for 22 I see okay so you got married like one to two years

Stacyinto the relationship or we met February got married or I'm sorry we got engaged in July and married that next February mhm

Brian Atlasso okay pretty quick newly single oh really okay right uh La you were just on the show I think

Brian Atlastwo or three weeks ago right I know wasn't that crazy and um so okay jump start the memory here uh newly single

Lizhow long have you been single yesterday no we broke up like so I said on the last one that I I went to

LizJapan to go see him military guy right yeah yeah yeah and then I broke up with him the day I came back did did not go well in no no it was

Brian Atlasgreat you you were on the show like 3 weeks ago and then you went to Japan and then I went to Japan I came back came back a week and a half later but that's a little harsh it was a

Lizmutual understanding it was a mutual understanding so things did not go well in Japan they were great like there was nothing wrong with the relationship at all it was just the fact that he's in Japan and I'm out here and the distance

Lizjust wasn't working for us so we were like you know what maybe you know wherever God leads our past in the future it is what it is but right now it's like your work needs to

Brian Atlascome first his work yeah uh he's in the military right yeah what branch Navy Navy okay and so you when was this a

Lizweek ago no this was like almost 3 weeks ago that you broke up with him yeah okay how long is he stationed out there till

LizDecember but then he gets rested in Florida so it's going to be long distance no matter what cuz my business is out here so you said it was kind of mutual but who initiated this

Lizconversation sounded like it was you I initiated the conversation because I felt like something was going on on his end I was fine with the distance it was a little rough on him though so for his

Lizsake I was like I think that for you it would be best if we just like stayed platonic and he agreed did he not trust you oh no no we did there was no like

Liztrust issue or anything like that it was just not in God's timing so did you meet him online or you knew him from no I was friends with him for a while beforehand and then he left UND deployment a few

Lizmonths ago and we were never in a relationship while he was out here so I think because we started dating while he was gone kind of like put the wedge in already cuz we didn't we weren't boyfriend and girlfriend ever in person

Stacyso it was just like okay that's really hard cuz 11 months a whole year of my marriage my husband was employed in uh Cuba for an entire year of my marriage so that's puts a lot of things into

Stacyperspective for sure Guantanamo yeah that's a while good times he could he couldn't go off he couldn't go off base or anything but yeah wait so and how long were you guys dating for not long

Brian Atlasum like barely two months two months so it it was easy peasy longest relationship 4 years four years yeah so you were fine with the

Brian Atlasdistance when you went to go and visit him was there conversations about this is difficult or

Lizum it was just really hard to for him to focus on work and the relationship since we could barely talk anyway since like it's it's it's like day over there and then

Liznight over here night over here day over there so it's just completely opposite time zones and you said you guys were together for two months yeah how long of the 2 months was he the whole 2 months

Lizwe were never like physically dating when we were here together we started dating while he was already deployed oh so you guys were like kind of friend you were friends and then you guys were communicating yeah while he was there

Lizand then and then we were like well should we just date and then I think we just were like yeah let's do it and kind of rushed into it without thinking long term and then when I came out when I went out there it kind of like all hit

Brian Atlasus wait okay hold on more details are being revealed here so uh and you guys had never had anything romantic previously no we did oh you guys had

Brian Atlasdated before yo Robert Tanner thank you for the gift to 20 memberships F good to see you in the chat thank you so much man uh you guys had dated before wait is this the guy you were previously in a relationship with no you know the guy

Lizwho like the the first time you were on the show you were dating guy yeah that that was a different guy okay so you had dated this guy before this guy we weren't dating we just liked each other never pursued it and then when he left it was like wait I actually have

Lizfeelings for you let's try to pursue it and then it just didn't work out wait so you did date before no you like was it casual like a we were only

Lizfriends we never expressed anything fling no no fling no we were so it was just like little hookup no hook up I don't do that no hookup in Japan I don't

Lizdo uh well when yeah no it happens it happens best um but yeah so just didn't work out that's okay okay um do you want to be with him in the future like do you

Lizthink that's possible if it's in God's timing I guess I mean I haven't really given it a thought what if it's in Satan's timing well then I would say that it's not meant to be would you move to Japan if

Lizhe was like fully stationed out there and you want her business is here she's got her business I do I do have my business here and I I love working and everything like that she could have a

LizJapanese car wrapping business it's true every time you're Vietnamese right half Vietnamese half Vietnamese yeah have you been to Vietnam no it was like

SPEAKER_00a 2hour flight and I was this close to like Bu from japan9 let me translate smashed once but

Brian Atlasthe sex was lame was it no it's it's okay it wasn't but he all right thank you whatever whatever

Brian Atlasman um what was I had a follow I had a question on this uh okay he's oh who um did you pay to go out there or did he pay like no he paid for everything he paid for the two months that we were

Liztogether like it was great he did everything right we both were very invested again it was just like the distance we were like you know what it probably be best to just kind of stay as friends how often would you guys talk we

Lizwould talk every day but it would be for like it would be for like a 5 10 minute time yeah we wouldn't get yeah on the

Lizphone phone yeah okay they didn't invest like that much time being in a serious relationship for there to be a lot of damage it yeah it would be different different if we were together for like a long period of time two years two months

Lizlike I was like yeah like all right it just didn't work out

Brian Atlaswhat's TTS is echoing uh TTS is echoing huh I'll have to look at that um so he flew you

Brian Atlasout you guys talked almost every day on the phone y I don't know who here has done long distance showan any longdistance

Brian Atlaspeople see I can't I can't talk every day even if she lives in my even if she lives 5 minutes away I need like 72 hours just go leave me alone hour leave

Brian Atlasme alone for 72 hours no I'm kidding um well how much can div9

SPEAKER_00AIO there day and says till death to us part what does that actually mean Enlighten your future did that fix it chat did

Brian Atlasthat fix it and then Nick can you let me just check if it's muted in the other fixed fixed is that is the chat saying it was fixed that's not sure why that was happening

Brian Atlasbut okay there so there chat was there there was an echo before but now it's good okay all right were was that played with I might have played with it or were you guys

Brian Atlasplaying with that we didn't play with that hm that's strange maybe it just sorry guys our OBS must have just OBS you know anyways um okay so are you back on the dating apps Christian

LizMingle what's up no no no no no Christian Mingle nothing I I'm not into the whole like dating up thing it's just I I live my life B respectfully mhm Ryan

SPEAKER_00Eric donated $69 had a GF of 2.5 years was living in my house tried going to a friends in bikini without me got in fight your

SPEAKER_00debates helped me stop her BS kicked her out she tried taking my stuff Ty Andrew brixon yo Ryan Ryan Eric glad the

Brian Atlaspodcast was of assistance uh wow okay the bikini uh I'm sure we don't know all the details there but

Brian Atlasum was she gonna go in a pool it makes sense if she was going to go swimming or something yeah I'm not sure why going

Brian Atlasto we need to respond to the other TTS sorry guys we're fixing the Audio I think that's valid if you don't if you're dating a

Brian Atlasguy and if you're not going to pool parties in a bini you get dumped wait [Music]

Paytonwhat any any ladies here have a burini what's a burini can you can you Google burini for me I was going to ask what it's a burka burkini it's a very modest type of very modest maybe you you saw it

Brian Atlasat the Olympics some of the women will wear burkinis I think oh w a one piece me personally it's fully covered I think it's a bit too

Brian Atlasrevealing I think we need to go full hazmat suit that's J no like none of us this is actually

Brian Atlasone of the first gifts I get cuz we you know I'm a nice guy we live in Southern California you know the girl's going to want to go to the pool or to the beach I will buy a

Brian Atlasgirl sometimes I'll try to go 5050 on it I will buy her a b bini excuse me and insist that she wear it even when I'm not around and when I'm

Brian Atlasaround and when you're around yeah that's not real you actually do that yeah you want to see my Amazon order history uh no I the amount of bis I've

Brian Atlasbought so if I am single-handedly actually go in on then she doesn't have to wear it what's that if you don't go in on it I mean if you don't buy in it

Brian Atlasgo in on huh you talk what are you talking about go in on it what do go in I don't do that first off I don't do that half I don't do that okay if you don't pay half I don't do that then she

Brian Atlasdoesn't have to oh then she doesn't have to wear that she can wear whatever she wants if she's a feminist I pay half but if she's tra then I'll pay the whole

Brian Atlasthing that's a very nice gesture yes the feminist liberal women tend to love the bini that's more modest than like regular

Sarahclothes the bini yeah yeah definitely covers more than what she'd probably wear out in the sun yeah but it like accentuates it accentuates like the

Jordanshape of her body so yeah it does kind of does it kind of attractive it's tight I thought I saw one with like a

Brian Atlasskirt over and I'm like I feel like that's more modest than yeah you know yeah yeah there's by the way there's walk anywhere in

Jordanherard protect from the Sun yeah seen me neither it's the first time hearing uh wait let's get we'll we'll go back to the TTS that came through uh

Sarahrelationship status I'm single right single now um longest relationship I'd say about 2.5 to 3

Brian Atlasyears okay over the course of 5 years oh so it's on and on on and on yeah you mean a relationship on and off excuse me

SPEAKER_00I'm in an on and on relationship AKA a relationship on and on G One Motorsports donated

SPEAKER_00$69 evening brickson been busy can't always make the show but you and Andrew have been doing excellent thank you very cool you have an all brunette episode

Brian Atlasbut now the blondes will protest you yeah there's a lack of diversity on this you know that the hair color is not very diverse but I think we've got she's a natural blond we need to talk about oh

Brian Atlasare you yeah I'm blonde but I you are culturally appropriating I don't know you're Robert tener thank you for the gift of 20 you are appropriating I'm offended because I'm

Brian Atlasdark hair naturally well I'm very sorry who who have the natural hold on we can't allow this who here who has

Brian Atlasnatural dark hair thinks that this is an Abomination who here's offended she is appropriating your culture our I'm not

Jordansure if it's culture or ethnicity I feel like you are laring as a brunette I am I feel like dare of you thank you yeah well you should first find out who here

Lizhas colored hair currently and then you can say that I mean y'all probably seem like you're natural I mean you might have highlights or low coloring I think yours is colored Mine mine's color I'm

Liznatur I'm naturally your color yeah you a shadow dark yeah it's still dark you know yeah like she's are you sure you're not hold on I'm really blonde it looks

SPEAKER_00more Ginger I just did my roots and it came up wrong color but if you look like down Ryan Eric donated $69 no she insisted going to pool party

SPEAKER_00at strangers house without me after dumping hacked her Google and found messages of her cheating with another guy okay she hated the show and yelled

Brian AtlasTV at Andrew L wait so she was living with you so was she technically I mean she technically might have had the like

Brian Atlasrenters rights or whatever but did she you kicked her out you just she just moved out willingly we'll get into that I'll ask the panel I won't get around the table

Brian Atlasfrom everybody but so the bikini and then uh divorce guy I will come back to your TTS uh the bikini dump thing what

Brian Atlaswere we talking about I forgot me being Bor she's natur BL oh oh the diversity of the panel let's go around the table what are your pronouns and then also what's

Pearlyour ethnicity I think we got a pretty diverse panel here starting with you go ahead my pronouns are she her and I'm half Korean half white Sons of Liberty

SPEAKER_00donated $69 if forced to choose would you rather have democracy or access to abortion I saw that Trump 2024 okay hold on well I I I'll add it

Brian Atlasto the list I just want to get through relationship status really quick uh just ethnicity half Korean half white

SPEAKER_03wasian russian Mexican Swedish and Irish white Vietnamese and white I thought you were part of Italian I'm part of

Brian Atlaseverything but if I started naming it just what about you Cuban Argentinian okay do you speak Spanish see I'm 100% long

Avaum what are you I just took An ancestry test so I I already forgot most of it but uh mostly Italian German Irish

SPEAKER_00French all right oh killo of cereal donated $69 What ethnicity have you dated that you would not date again I might have to

Brian Atlasbump how long we been gone is it 30 okay I'm going to bump okay I'll leave it at 69 for a bit long for three more minutes um so you were saying you longest relationship 2.5

Brian Atlasyears you're currently single when was your last relationship I ended it about a month and a half ago is that the 2.5 year one no how long was the one the

Brian Atlaslast one only 4 and 1/ half months okay and but you said the 2.5 year one it was on again off again yes how many times

Sarahwas it on and off so um I had children with this person so I have two sons but okay so we kind of like just Tred to make things work didn't work we got

Sarahengaged it didn't work so I would say in total we dated about 2 and 1/2 years but it was it was just not working how many times was it on again off

SPEAKER_00again I would say three three times we tried who

SPEAKER_00brought killer of cereal donated $69 W for 3 minutes also while I have it most embarrassing dayt caral knowledge

Brian Atlasstories please thank you kill appreciate it we'll get to all of those um who would end

Sarahit it would just kind of dissolve to be honest like there was no understanding that we were done so much as

Sarahlike um I feel like he would either like leave or I would just leave

Sarahmhm and then who would like try to reach back out to make it to get back together I reached back out well one time that I specifically remember I reached back out

Sarahthat was after we had our first son to try to make it work mhm um but it was always Mutual so okay it was like yeah it was it was pretty Mutual like there was an

Brian Atlasunderstanding that we wanted to make it work but it just continuously did not work sure okay by the way guys TTS is now uh boosted to 200 read 100 and uh

Madisonyeah you said you have two kids yes okay got it uh Maddie what about you I'm currently in a relationship my current one is the longest it's been almost 2 years

Avayears all right um I'm also currently in a relationship it's my longest and it's

Brian Atlasfive years all right cool okay so let's get back into some of the uh notes Here uh and I'll read a couple of the chats so uh TTS just a

Brian Atlasreminder guys TTS was 69 but we've boosted it to 200 the read is 100 uh you can hide that Bravo oh okay grid One Motorsports donated

SPEAKER_00$69 this panel is putting me to sleep just to start some she it I have to ask how important is a man's political

Brian Atlasideals to the ladies I hear it is difficult to find the real man on the left we we'll get to it there's a

Brian Atlasbacklog now you uh so we'll get to it thank you grid one reminder guys I just that's the cut off TTS is uh

Brian Atlasnow 200 and up excuse me all right so let me read this one Bravo Jango actually Maddie can you read it please do a video reaction

Madisonsomeday it's called scariest hell testimony ever and it has a green background there's even studies on ndes because there's so many also touching the afterlife is a YouTube

Madisonchannel full of Hell testimonies I love your videos dude this thing is dog track I don't know why it's not working all right that thing I'll

Brian Atlashave to I don't know why it's not working sorry guys I I got this thing that's I forgot the name the specific name of the type of camera it's like P Pez anybody in the chat know what I'm

Brian Atlastalking about Pez camera what are they called uh but obviously I have not figured out how

Brian Atlasto how to work it so uh P PT PTZ excuse me PTZ camera but it's obviously hold on what the and it's moving on its own

Brian Atlasit tracks movement what the dark hold on let me and the the exposure it doesn't

Brian Atlashave what the dude get the out of here okay zo up your nose just my nose I'm going to swap I'm going to swap back to the

Brian Atlasother one uh yo Jango thank you for the Super Chat man I'll look into that um scar T has a green background okay I'll take a look at it man thank you appreciate the uh Super

Brian AtlasChat all right guys so we'll we have a backlog of the the chat so we'll just get through all of those in the order they came came through so divorce Survivor says

Brian Atlasquestion for the ladies on the panel when a woman stands here I'll just pull it up you can hide that hide that please uh uh at the altar on her wedding day and says till death do us part what does that actually mean please inline

Stacyyour future husbands can you scoo to the table a little bit uh what what does that mean anybody any takers on this I'm I'm a little confused as to why that is a

Stacyquestion um it's exactly what it means till death to you part you when you get into marriage you're marrying to be with this person forever you're making a commitment now obviously beliefs and

Stacyreligion come into play when I married my husband it was before God there's only certain reasons that if our marriage was not going to last that it was going to be those reasons but other than that you it's through thick and

Brian Atlasthin or if one of us passes first I think the point perhaps he's trying to make is I think it's a uh is it a hypothetical wait no what's a what's a

Brian Atlasquestion that is not intended to be answered rhetorical rhetorical thank you Ava you're welcome appreciate it I believe it's a rhetorical question question and he's trying to point out

Brian Atlasthat a lot of people they get married they'll say till death do us part one year two year three years later no fault divorce

Brian Atlaslater and I think he's directing it at the women because divorce is initiated typically uh I primarily from women 80 80% of well it's definitely a lack of

Stacycommitment yeah it's it's it's not working out we don't get along and I'm going to go find someone better who gets along better with me

Brian Atlasor yeah true and then while I go get the camera set up I want you guys to discuss this one she insisted going to pool party at strangers house without me uh

Brian Atlasafter dumping you know they he dumped her so pool party he didn't want her to go she insisted on going wore a bikini went to the pool party

Brian Atlasboyfriend didn't want it they were living together uh do you think one is it wrong that he didn't want her to go didn't want her to dress this way and

Jordanthen two break up Justified unjustified discuss so I think it depends like did he did he know who's going to be at this party like if it was just going to be

Jordangirlfriends okay I don't think he'd have an issue with that but if he knew there was going to be girls guys there's going to be alcohol involved there's going to be other things involved then maybe that's when he said hey no this is where

MadisonI draw the boundary well but it comes down to trust well he also said he found out that she cheated on him so she sounds like a I wonder what the tip of the ice

Madisonper was was it her not listening to you her actually going to the party wearing the bikini what was it think it was the a good point when he found out she was

Madisonchea afterwards but from his first message that he sent in it was like she wore a bikini right the issue isn't the bikini it's the it's whatever was going

Stacyon underlying it that's like symp he found out he went to her Google stuff yeah her Google searches and stuff or whatever and I mean honestly she doesn't need his permission to go especially if there is trust there in a relationship

SPEAKER_09she doesn't have to get his permission so but also sorry I think it was more that she was like insisting that he didn't go with her yeah that's what I think is messed up I think she told to

Paytonshe was like oh no I don't want you to come that's shady I think if he was going to go with her and he was comfortable with her wearing the bikini and everything that would have been all fine but it seems like there was more

Paytonbehind why he was already suspicious of her going without him wearing the bikini and then his worries came true when he found out that she was actually cheating on him she had to have given him reasons

Stacyto feel shaky about the trust and the relationship before the whole party thing happened quite honestly that was just really stupid on her part to say I don't want you to go and then keep pushing it pushing it and go it's like how is that going to turn out good in

Pearlany way I feel like if you're letting somebody live in your home for 2 and 1 half years and you don't trust them to wear a bikini then that's kind of on you why are you allowing that woman to like

Pearlbasically mooch off you and all all your money and like your home like as much as up as it is that she did that he also chose that woman when she moved in D State when she moved in it was they

Madisonwere in a relationship or was it yeah see there's so much we don't know but was there behavior that she was you know showing before she actually before you found out she was cheating

Jordandefinitely or was that like the first time CU if there was trust there but yet he just didn't want her to go to the party well now he looks controlling cuz she should be able to go to a party with her friends no big deal maybe in a one piece though well I feel like if she's

Jordanif she's going to wear a one piece if she's going to cheat on him wearing a one piece isn't going to like not going to change the choice of the bikini is on the woman imagine on what kind of suit

Pearlshe wears that's her choice he probably means like are you dressing to uh impress other guys because that makes me feel uncomfortable you know that's like

Pearla more mature way I feel like of saying oh you're wearing a bikini da D it's not about that but that's a valid concern like are you dressing for the attention of other men when I when you're living in my home I feel like that's valid how

Stacydo but he answer that today I'm going to wear an outfit that is going to impress other men so sorry I mean how do you of course she's not going to a woman who

Jordandresses nice doesn't necessarily mean she's doing it for other men true can't really get that answer kind of seems like she might have been though yeah I mean a hot girl is going to look hot with or without a bini that's true

Brian Atlasthat's true then she should wear a bur wear a burkini and she' be exactly exactly all right cool I'm sure you guys

Brian Atlashad a riveting conversation while I was gone all right we have Sons of Liberty if forced to choose would you rather have

Pearldemocracy or access to abortions starting with pearl go ahead I am pro-choice um but if I had to choose

Pearlbetween those two things I mean is the other option like what an oligarchy or like a queen totalitarian authoritarian but it could be left authoritarian so basically

Pearleverything you want you get no I feel like democracy is good I feel like the push and pull between the left and the right is good extremist left and extremist right I think are not I think

Brian Atlasthey're both unhealthy and toxic so wait question let's say that all the political beliefs you hold whether some are Center left right whatever M uh you

Brian Atlascould have all those things but it wouldn't be a democracy although technically I guess we're not a de democracy we're a rep what is it the

Brian AtlasRepublic uh representative wait what is it something

Brian AtlasRepublic chat help me out what is it chat help me bro what is it

Brian AtlasCon constitutional republic Democrat representative Republic damn y all there's like three different answers

SPEAKER_01in the chat Banana Republic that's that's Latin America just um so would you take

Pearlit I wouldn't because I mean as much as I think that I am like right or whatever like I'm allowed to have my own opinion but I don't my opinions change like I evolve as him and I learn more things

Pearlfrom both sides or whatever and I'm like oh so I think having like I think having different voices allows us to see the truth which is typically in the middle so no I wouldn't be like I

Pearldon't think that my opinion is better than all of the other opinions that exist so definitely I'm pro-choice and I would still pick democracy okay

Jordancool your answer to the question um I'm pro-life and I lean right uh so what what would I rather have I guess democracy I suppose

Lizdemocracy please democracy and pro pro-life mhm democracy and pro-life democracy and pro-life democracy but isn't that just like a given for the

Sarahabortion part like if we live in a democracy we'd probably have access to abortion that's what I was going to say so I didn't really understand the question I think trying to

Brian Atlassay I don't know like I still age with what I said with certainty you can secure the access to abortions but but the government structure would be like a

Brian Atlasauthoritarian totalitarian uh democracy democracy okay word all right

Brian Atlaswe have Killa of Cal what would you choose well would I choose democracy What ethnicity have you dated that you would not uh this one's a

Brian Atlaslittle little spicy getting dangerous little spicy let me think if that's uh I don't want to

Jordanuh if anybody wants to answer it you can otherwise there's no kind way or like safe way to answer this to be honest cuz then people are going to want to know

Brian Atlaswhy and then those people are being outed I just yeah would you kill of cereal I'm going to take an audible here and change your question would you date an

Brian Atlasalien you're that could be that could be an ethnicity would you dat would you date an alien like a hot alien um

Brian Atlasyeah okay what about you oh yeah no shame what about you no no are they an illegal alien normal alien technically extra

Brian Atlasfrom space extraterrestrial alien not illegal immigrant home alien um I would have to get to to know

Sarahthem what are your valid what about you no no no no no even the hot alien no no how are you supposed to like mate with

Brian Atlasthem and and if they could mate what would that child come out to look like but you already got kids right mangled what if it's like six legs what if it's just a stepdad

Sarahalien I mean I want to adopt but I want more children of my own there's no way there's no way I'm not dating an alien maybe the aliens could we could

Stacypotentially reproduce with them hell yeah I mean you might end up dating one and not know what they're they're one true do you think aliens are real

Brian Atlasprobably do any of you yeah definitely I think I don't think we've had contact but I think they're out there somewhere I agree yeah there's like billions and

Avabillions of star systems and galaxies and planets you don't think we agree on something that's crazy that's crazy that's insane was that I said you don't think that we've had contact though I

Jordandon't think we've had contact but I think uh they're out there I don't know if we'll ever there's so much space that we haven't seen and ocean that we

Brian Atlashaven't seen so we don't F Paradox is that what it's called some people think that they're like in the ocean Nick can you Google F me paradogs we don't need

SPEAKER_00this is a dating podcast never mind extraterrestrial life how many galaxies chat chat kilo of cereal donated

SPEAKER_00$200 America yeah democracy is the way yeah yeah would you date an alien if it had a phase five Planet Buster plasma rifle next to its

Brian Atlasbed when it been du home from gorlock N9 gorlock nine I like that well done oh killer cial I need to get you set up with like a custom DTS thing like uh

Brian Atlasgrid and and our boy paladins um thank you man uh I'll just ask so I'm going to also do an audible and I'll just bring

Brian Atlasit back to Earth on that one and we'll do the firearm question but going around the table Madson D and alien no okay hold on actually I think I maybe

Madisonwould if it could do everything a human could do and it looked like a human I probably wouldn't notice if had feelings and an avatar no no like does that change if it was an

Lizavatar would y'all an avatar if he's like not blue maybe he's blue there's people that are actually like and you use like your hair or whatever the interested in like not your not penises and vagina that can be

Brian Atlasdo they not I don't think they have genitals the avatars they make like they collect their little hairs on their tails collect the the hair or no it's the Tails sorry not the hair the Tails no no no the tail does have have like little

Brian Atlasfibers that they can jooin genital fibers you know so much Avatar you've researched this much what she does in her free time wait so Madison you're dating

Brian AtlasFrankie if you found out Frankie was an alien would you dump him no that's why I said yes to an alien if your boyfriend you found out your boyfriend was an alien would you

Avadump him no would you date an alien if he was an alien if you were single theoretic yes theoretically in theory

Brian Atlaswhat about in practice sure okay what if it's like a lizard person no okay Mark zuer okay yeah but lizard's got one Robert Tanner government brine

Brian Atlasgovernment clarification for the panel pure democracy existed in Athens Greece United States is a Federal Constitution Republic the idea that we we exist as democracy fails to understand our

Brian Atlaselectoral college system also great talk yo uh Tanner thank you very much for the uh Super Chat man really appreciate it good to see you in the chat thank you for the clarification there appreciate

Madisonit so uh we were talking about aliens was there something else on the aliens thing would I what would you date an alien I think you would actually or

Stacyan avatar I think men men would be more likely to do that have caral there be a lot more Al women than men that's so weird mhm I can see

Brian Atlasthat I can see men doing that once honestly I think women are going to if aliens come and they start dating us and I who do you think is going to

JordanFaire worse men or women I feel like men are going to be more adaptable to like alien yeah that that's right yeah for sure yeah heck yeah men aren't as they they're like you know

Brian Atlaswhat I tried with humans didn't work yeah let try aliens although I feel like the alien women might be like kind of Dom like dmy mommies because they're like we're

Brian AtlasSuperior to you and so like they're going to be like a little dominant may not at the beginning though when they're trying and programed with all the Plastics and in the water like I feel like a bunch of men are going to be by the like in a

Brian Atlashundred years all the men are going to be like soy super soy but we're seeing happen with AI so I'm pretty sure like all the guys are going to welcome like the dammy mommy alien they would love it

Brian AtlasI I think it's coming it's already a lot of movies about some men would just take it take take I mean like they're going toay they're going to sa the aliens the aliens aren't going to come and they're

Jordangoing to take they'll be like well you know like well they'll accept it like yeah I'll date an alien like you know a little bit easier the woman would yeah it's crazy out there they should do an alien dating

Jordanapp they should I don't know what they're going to call that though but um alien dating app

Brian Atlasad alien dating ad I don't know anyways um let's see the other chats here uh oh really quick Let's see we had

Brian Atlaskill of cereal most embarrassing date or or oops did not pull up most embarrassing date or carnal knowledge story going around

Pearlthe table starting with pearl most embarrassing I don't have anything exciting for this answer to be

Jordanhonest I've had mostly regular dates okay what you got I think I told this story on one of the um podcasts it's

Jordanreally not too extensive or that interesting but I dated a guy that um I knew from like middle school and he took me out on a date and his car like broke

Jordandown and he was like super stoned and he was like really SM likeo I don't know if I told the story or not but it was horrible and I was

Jordanjust really trying to like Rush the date and like get home and it was bad okay um I was on a date with a guy and he pooped in his

Paytonpants that's what I'm talking about that's why he's that's why he's the goat the goat he's Legend he said that he went to

Paytona sushi restaurant that was like on the cheaper side M and he told me that it ended up being food poisoning and he just couldn't hold it so he had to excuse himself and go home and had to tell me that he pooped his pants where

Paytonwere you guys we were at a restaurant for dinner he pooped his pants like on the way bathro no we were sitting there and it all of a sudden hit him and he just pooped his pants did you his pants no I had no idea he had to tell me

Brian Atlasthat's why he had to leave he didn't smell it I would have just told the chick I mean if she didn't know just not tell her I don't know was her second date sit through the date no I would

Brian Atlashave left through the I would have left but like he could have just he could have just oh my stomach hurts you can't like tell a girl shat your

Paytonpants was there a second date no cuz of the poop pooping he could have just gone to the restroom and threw his underwear away that's true no he actually also had a really bad personality so that's why sorry that's okay

Paytonhe's like I was going to forgive the the pooping his pants but the personality wasn't good that yeah okay all right what about you I was kind of catfished I met a guy

Brian Atlason a dating app and what he was in person was not what his picture looked like in profile is he an alien no well you know he could have been but I didn't give him the time of day so uh how did

Stacythis picture look and how did he look so I mean nationality wise it was but in person he his shirt was like stained he was Heavy he didn't look like he had

Stacybathed um he had like crumbs on his shirt just disgusting and we met we drove separately to the mall and then he wanted me to pull out cash like we were

Stacygoing to pay separate even though he asked me out and I found every excuse to just quit it I didn't even have it I'm like I got to go okay so Liz um I don't

Sarahhave one all my experiences have been PR good to be honest I don't I can't I've been thinking I can't Eva I've already I've already given a few to this question I'll just I nothing

Brian Atlasnew is coming to mind I'll just repeat that I hooking up with this chick and she had but I stopped the hookup because she had a tattoo and this

Brian Atlastattoo the location of the tattoo and the tattoo itself were objectionable tattoo was located above her and it said

Brian Atlasyolo there's few things that will deter a man from having sexual intercourse with a woman a YOLO tattoo above the pussy's one of them so did not have sex with her could

Brian Atlashave didn't you know what I mean why why why the face do you have a Yol tattoo above the is that what's going on no but I wouldn't tell

Jordanyou if I did but you're shaking your head and you're shaking your head in disapproval no actually I'm with you I'm feeling the

Brian Atlasemotion with you like e that's gross yeah but I guess it could be worse it could be is there any tattoo a a guy could have that you see and then you're

Jordanlike ah second thoughts maybe a swast maybe like something that would maybe like something above his butt like aim here or something yeah or like the picture of

Paytonlike a penis somewhere on their body like a tattoo of a penis like near their butt or something that could do

Lizyeah I'm here all right yeah uh any anything anything or the teardrop tear drop oh my go gosh the cholo uh-uh

Lizfor me it would probably be anything that's like demonic so like if they had like 666 on them or something sne tattoo that's a no no um it depends on what it looks like kind of it depends on what looks like it just

Brian Atlasdepends on what it looks do you have a snake tattoo no I have tattoos just nothing demonic oh let's do tattoo check who's got tats that they want to show what we got Pearl definitely not a

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