FAKE VlRGlN CONFRONTED?! Liar Claims She DOES NOT Have A BBL?! ( ° °) | Dating Talk #154

Date: 2024-04-22
Duration: 5h 55m

Identified Speakers

SPEAKER_02Jessica (project manager)(guest)
SPEAKER_03Brian Atlas(host)
SPEAKER_04Jake(guest)
SPEAKER_05Alexa Morgan(guest)
SPEAKER_06Bri(guest)
SPEAKER_07KJ(guest)
SPEAKER_08Ryan Abie(guest)
SPEAKER_09Jessica P(guest)
SPEAKER_10Jess(guest)

Key Moments

00:00:18
IntroShow intro. Brian Atlas welcomes viewers to the Whatever Dating Talk Podcast.

welcome to the whatever dating Talk podcast where we try to make sense of the modern dating

00:03:41
IntroBri introduces herself: from Miami, Panamanian, 'changing the world' by teaching men. Jake immediately challenges her philosophy.

Miami and um my occupation is changing the world

00:09:58
ControversyBri claims 'virginity is a mindset' — after Alaska epiphany she can choose to be a trans virgin. Brian coins the term. Jake challenges her biblically.

and my new revelation I had in Alaska virginity is a mindset okay

00:13:35
IntroGuest introductions: Jess (20, server/student, San Diego), KJ (24, sales, Texas), Ryan Abie (24, Texas, traditional), Jessica (28, project manager, Silicon Valley), Jessica P (21, pro-life activist, South Carolina), Jake (28, Australia, YouTuber).

I'm Jess I'm 20 and um I'm a server

00:23:06
IntroAlexa Morgan (35, virgin, oncology nurse) introduced. Brian is visibly shocked she's a virgin. 'That's the face she made — shocked the first time she ever met a real virgin'

are you a virgin I am yes oh perfect make that face again

00:23:06
Key MomentAlexa Morgan — 35yo virgin deep dive: explains her position, standards, faith. Brian asks: would she die a virgin? Alexa: 'If I can't find somebody then I will probably die a virgin and I'm okay with that.'

I think if I can't find somebody then I will probably die a virgin and I'm okay with that

01:02:00
Key MomentWho would you rather date? audience poll — Bri vs Alexa. Alexa wins 86% to 14% on YouTube; 80% to 20% on Twitch. Brian: 'Even though Alexa is 6 years older, she wins easily.'

86% 86% so Alexa won 86% to Bri and then over there on YouTube 8020

01:11:41
Key MomentBBL confrontation: Brian shows Bri's Instagram profile and old photos. Video shown appears to demonstrate pre/post body change. Audience poll: ~50% say she has a BBL. Bri: 'I never got a BBL. I got my boobs and my teeth done and my hair done.' Brian and Jake push back; Bri maintains denial throughout.

asked you I think if you had any lipo and if you had a BBL nope give me a break

01:15:22
QuoteBri: 'I got my boobs done I'll tell you that. I got my veneers done in Miami. I got my teeth done in Miami and I got hair extensions. But I didn't get BBL.'

boobs and my teeth done and then I would lie about having my butt done

07:19:11
ControversyBri's OnlyFans link found in her Instagram story less than 24 hours before taping — exposed as lying about quitting. Brian reads it out. Bri says she's 'quitting starting today.' Jake: 'Your grift has been exposed.' Brian calls her a 'pathological liar.' Bri argues she didn't ask them to pull up her Instagram.

link dude on your Instagram well I didn't say when I quit I quit now so so you're a you're a liar

07:29:21
QuoteJake calls out Bri's hypocrisy: 'You've come in here one side of your mouth saying you want to help men while on the other side you have that only fans still going. That's not only dishonest — that's actually malicious.'

you've come in here and you said I'm like a manifesting virgin or whatever

07:53:53
Key MomentBri put in the corner as show punishment. Brian: 'There you go. Think about what you've done.'

get in the corner there you go think about what you've done Bri okay

08:03:56
Key MomentJessica P debates Bri on abortion: life begins at conception; right to life precedes all other rights. Bri: anti-death penalty. Jessica P presses inconsistency: if you're anti-death penalty for guilty people, how can you be pro-choice for an innocent fetus?

human life biologically begins a conception so I think the right to life precedes any other right

Topics Discussed

00:00:07
Show intro and announcements

Brian's standard intro: support via streamlabs, TTS donations, memberships, merch, non-profit mention, disclaimer.

00:03:41
Bri's intro and philosophy

Bri introduces herself: from Panama, 'changing the world' by teaching men, formerly tried to be a teacher. Jake immediately challenges her on what her course teaches. Bri describes 3 pillars: spirituality (manifestation/prayer), physical, financial.

00:09:58
Bri's trans virgin claim / virginity is a mindset

Brian asks about prior virgin claim. Bri reveals Alaska epiphany: 'virginity is a mindset' — you can choose to be a virgin. Jake challenges biblically. Bri says sex = creation therefore non-sex = virginity. Brian coins 'trans virgin' framing.

00:13:35
Guest introductions round

All guests introduce: Jess (20, server/student, SD), KJ (24, sales, TX), Jessica (28, project manager, Silicon Valley), Jessica P (21, pro-life activist, SC), Jake (28, Australian YouTuber), Ryan Abie (24, TX, traditional).

00:15:32
Relationship status round

All guests describe current relationship status and longest relationship. Brian probes each. KJ almost got engaged at 19-20; Ryan single 6 months; Jess in talking stage 2 weeks; Jessica P longest relationship 2 months; Alexa never had a boyfriend.

00:23:06
Alexa Morgan: 35yo virgin deep dive

Brian discovers Alexa is 35 and a virgin — shocked reaction (makes 'face'). Extended discussion of why: Christian upbringing, waiting for right person, standards discussion. Jake joins on Christian perspective. Alexa's work as oncology nurse contextualized. Would die a virgin if right person never comes.

00:46:16
Dating app review segment

Brian reviews female dating app profiles with panel. Discussed which profiles they'd swipe on, what makes good/bad profiles, quirky self-descriptions as icks.

01:02:00
Who would you rather date? Bri vs Alexa poll

Audience poll: would you rather date Bri or Alexa? Alexa wins 86% on YouTube, 80% on Twitch. Brian notes Alexa is 6 years older than Bri but still wins easily.

01:11:41
BBL confrontation — Bri's surgical history

Brian pulls up Bri's Instagram profile on stream. Photos shown. Brian accuses Bri of having BBL. Bri denies: 'I never got a BBL.' Admits to boob job, veneers, hair extensions. Video shown appears to show pre/post change. Audience poll ~50% say BBL. Bri: 'Why would I lie about having my butt done when I'm honest about the boobs?'

01:32:12
Chivalry and traditional gender roles debate

Brian asks what women bring to first dates if they expect traditional treatment from men. Ryan defends chivalry as attractive. Panel debates whether 'looking nice' is specifically traditional. Jake argues women with liberal views still expect traditional male behavior.

01:32:18
Ryan Abie's dating app review

Ryan's dating app profile reviewed: she was drunk when friends made it; turned off after 1 week. Prompts: 'chivalrous' and 'TSA' (co-worker Tyler made those). Brian pushes on what she brings to dating relationship.

01:40:00
KJ's dating app review

KJ's dating app profile reviewed: 'first round is on me, guess my real name', 'key to my heart is fat margarita on the rocks', calls herself Mama. Jake says don't put jokes on profile. Brian asks KJ about commitment and marriage beliefs.

02:15:41
Body count reveals and double standard debate

Ryan states body count 5. Jess states body count 5. KJ disagrees with Brian's position that men can have high body counts while preferring low body counts in women. Extended philosophical debate about biological reasons, evolutionary logic, hypocrisy argument. Bri argues biology explains male higher body counts; Jake and Brian argue women's promiscuity is more damaging.

02:25:00
Pre-show notes discussion: Jess on feminist label

Brian confronts Jess who wrote 'feminist' in pre-show notes but walks it back. She doesn't want to debate feminism. Brian presses her; she refuses to engage. Brian warns he'll stop trying to engage her if she keeps stonewalling.

03:21:57
Men scared of commitment debate

Panel round: are men scared of commitment? Various answers. KJ says guys her age are scared. Brian presents divorce statistics (80% female-initiated). Panel says women mostly end their own relationships. Brian asks: could men's commitment hesitancy be justified by women predominantly ending things?

04:15:56
Marriage debate — KJ vs Brian

KJ disagrees with Brian's anti-marriage position. Argues marriage is a daily choice, love is a choice. Brian argues marriage doesn't bind women to stay, creates financial risk for men. KJ says if going in thinking of divorce you're with wrong person. Jess adds: strong love doesn't need a piece of paper (either way). Jessica (PM) adds legal argument: gay uncle's partner lost everything without marriage.

05:21:55
Intelligence self-rating round

Chat question: rate your intelligence 0-200 (200 = Einstein). Jessica P: 40-50. Jessica (PM): 120-130. Jake: 'we're all tens.' Brian: 5. Bri: declined.

05:24:08
Dating advice for men

Panel gives dating advice for men. Ryan and Jessica P: just have confidence / fake it til you make it. KJ: shoot your shot. Jessica (PM): find strong male role models; find someone who vibes with you in person. Jake: accomplishment breeds competence.

05:27:20
Dangerous jobs / wage gap discussion

Video shown: helicopter cell tower stacking. Brian and Jake argue male-dominated dangerous jobs disprove the wage gap narrative. Bri argues her truck driver father makes six figures. Jake says most men can't become 'top 1%' — Bri disagrees from Panama immigrant story.

05:49:08
Show outro and Twitch raid

Brian wraps up. Mentions $2,000 scam by David Spearman Stevens (Dubai). Bri promotes her Snap (123). Jake mentions Reality Based Podcast. Brian raids 82yo woman (Grandma) playing World of Warcraft on Twitch.

06:48:38
Makeup and deception debate

Before/after makeup transformation photos shown on-stream (women transforming dramatically with heavy makeup). Panel debates: is this deception? Jake draws parallel to man flashing borrowed Rolex. Brian argues makeup is like lying about your career. Bri says deception. Jessica P argues men's visual stimulation makes this understandable.

06:56:00
Bri's OnlyFans and course — Jake confrontation

Jake challenges Bri: she's taking money from lonely men via OnlyFans while simultaneously claiming she wants to help men for free. Bri: I don't post anymore. Brian: it's still up. Jake: your worldview is counterintuitive and sinister. Extended back-and-forth.

07:19:11
Bri's OnlyFans exposed — Instagram story confrontation

Viewer sends Brian Bri's Instagram story with OnlyFans link from <24 hours ago. Brian reads it out. Bri says she's quitting 'starting today.' Jake: 'Your grift has been exposed.' Bri: 'I didn't ask you to pull up my Instagram.' Extended confrontation. Brian: 'You're a pathological liar.' Bri put in corner briefly.

07:53:53
Bri put in corner

Brian asks Bri to stand in the corner and 'think about what you've done.' Show punishment for repeated disruption and dishonesty.

08:03:56
Abortion / pro-life debate

Jessica P debates Bri on abortion. Jessica P: life begins at conception, right to life precedes all other rights. Bri: anti-death penalty. Jessica P presses Bri on inconsistency. Jess (SPEAKER_10): pro-choice up to first trimester. Jake: pro-life position is intellectually indefensible to challenge because all biologists agree life starts at conception.

Transcript

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04:47:09
Jakethat's what I'm saying God help imagine trying to have a a an argument with her imagine trying to jamic someone pressing the button honestly that's that's soothing
04:47:20
Bricompared to you is so I could fall asleep to that after hearing you no that is so
04:47:33
Brichildish do you know the way this is why the [ __ ] is falling off this is content for you this is content for honestly this is the most fun I've had ever this is not content a great
04:47:45
Brian Atlasthing but then once again I come on here I got one question for you Bri I got one question you ready are you ready for the question you sure you're ready for the question hold on it's not going to be
04:47:55
Bribad are you my Caucasian Bri are you my Caucasian I'm Hispanic you can be like white hispanic
04:48:05
Brian AtlasI'm Hispanic 100% Panamanian but you're like are you white Panamanian no you're not white no like your skin color is white though like your what there's like
04:48:16
Brian Atlasethnicity and then there's race hold on I'm like I know I I don't know I
04:48:25
Brian Atlasdon't want to like I'm Tasty Bri are you my Caucasian are you my Caucasian like Jake is my Caucasian Alexa is my
04:48:35
Brian AtlasCaucasian Jessica's my Caucasian I'm Hispanic you're half my Caucasian KJ is my Caucasian I can't believe I remember these people's names
04:48:47
Brian Atlaswait Jeet is your name also I don't know who C Jess is my Caucasian Gustavo is my Caucasian he's got a Latin name she's definitely my Caucasian right
04:48:59
Brian Atlashere godamn look at this girl right here okay she's my Caucasian are you my Caucasian I'm Hispanic Bri I'm P are you my Caucasian I'm Panamanian are you my Caucasian I'm Panamanian
04:49:12
Briare you my Caucasian um I'm Hispanic but are you my Caucasian um I'm not white are you my Caucasian answer the question are you my Caucasian I'm Hispanic are you my
04:49:24
BriCaucasian what does that mean yeah like like my Caucasian am I yours I'm not yours no bro what no not like that Bri well you just
04:49:35
Briasked am I yours well I'm not yours and I'm not white like you oh wait hold on never mind oh I was gonna
04:49:45
Brisay she doesn't get it she just doesn't get it I'm Hispanic well Panamanian
04:49:54
Brilike I've said is anybody here Latina just can you ask her if she's your Latina are you my Latina it would be can you ask me in
04:50:05
Brian AtlasSpanish Latina I don't know like you might Rel it still doesn't make sense this this [ __ ] has gone off the rails answer her question though are you her
04:50:15
BriLatina am I her Latina um if you want me to be
04:50:23
Brian Atlasyours okay I need to listen I was I was having a conversation I was trying to have a conversation with Jessica over here we've been waiting all night to get to her Dope Show info Bri we've given
04:50:36
Brian Atlasyou a lot of attention I'm GNA ask you to just you know you know just I was quiet for most of this time I've been sit Jessica out I've been sitt let's hear Jessica out for a little bit and every time I talk like stop didn't you
04:50:48
Brian Atlaswant to debate her some questions for me yeah didn't you want to debate her on pro-choice pro life oh yeah okay you guys can go for for like 3 minutes I'm just going to get up all right you guys
04:50:59
Jessica Pdebate for a few minutes I'll do that okay what your AR yeah human life biologically begins a conception this is a scientific fact and I think that it's the bare minimum to say that human being should not be killed against their will
04:51:12
Jessica Pso I think the right to life precedes any other right you can't have the right to bodily autonomy if you're not alive and you don't have a life so I think the right to life um needs to prede any
04:51:22
Jessica Pother human right are you just talking about babies or everybody human beings that that whose Life Starts at conception when the sperm and egg meet and then cease to exist and create a new
04:51:34
Briwhat about the death sentence I'm I'm I'm against the death penalty death penalty mhm what about like if they do something like really really really bad I'm still
04:51:46
Briagainst the death penalty cuz that's a human being no I I don't believe in killing human beings bring back organized crime and we should be getting rid of the people I need to be getting rid of so I am pro-choice in
04:51:59
Brithat sense not because of the babies but I just think we need to get rid of about when it comes to abortion or are you Pro
04:52:08
Briabortion I think
04:52:13
Jessica Pactually I don't believe that an innocent person should be murdered but if they deserve it 100% mhm get rid of them yeah so innocent babies in the womb
04:52:25
Jessica Pshould not be killed against their will is that what you're arguing because they are innocent and they haven't committed any they haven't done anything mhm so you do think that's a baby in the
04:52:35
Briwomb well duh what else is it going to be yeah do you guys agree with that not great yeah it's a baby what do you think jez when it comes out what is it it's a
04:52:46
Jessbaby so in there is a baby yeah I agree I'm I'm in between cuz I feel like pro-life and pro-choice you can't it's it's such a loaded question to ask
04:52:56
Jesssomeone if they are either um so I have very different opinions about both sides um yeah it goes into so much mhm do you believe in any limitations on abortion
04:53:08
Jessor do you think it should be banned at any point I think past the first trimester yes mhm and why is that um just because it's more developed
04:53:18
Jessthat's all I I don't think that um abortions should be used as a birth control like lots of people do and I think that there's certain situations that women should be allowed to have
04:53:31
Jessabortions but obviously you know we can't really legally say like oh what is well maybe like ask like what is your reasoning um yeah I don't know I don't really like
04:53:42
Jessica Pdebating pro-life Pro Choice yeah yeah so in the first trimester do you think that that's not a child but in the later trimesters it becomes a child is there like a definitive point of when human life begins um I'm
04:53:56
Jessica Pnot like I why would you choose that point to limit it instead of earlier on in the pregnancy like maybe when a baby has a heartbeat 3 weeks after conception
04:54:06
Jessdo you think that they deserve any protection once they have a heartbeat it's hard because I feel for both the mother and the child so honestly I am
04:54:22
Jessjust it's it's hard to say it's it's a really hard decision do you think you'd be willing to have your mind changed if you heard a convincing enough
04:54:32
Jakeargument maybe I find that often times with these debates despite the fact that in my opinion abortion um the pro-choice side I mean sorry the yeah the
04:54:43
Jakepro-choice side the pro-abortion side is indefensible in my opinion if you engage in an intellectual debate about it it's indefensible because the scientific facts of the matter is that every single
04:54:55
Jakebiologist in the world will tell you that human life starts at conception when the sperm meets the egg so after that then you have to give me an excuse as to why it's okay to take a life and
04:55:05
Jakefor my for me there's no excuse as to why you can take a life
04:55:13
Jakeif if if you were to see the data that all biologists believe that life starts at conception would you be willing to open to change your mind can you repeat that if you could see the data that says that all biologists worth their salt say
04:55:25
Jakethat life begins at conception would you be open to changing your mind on your position um I don't have my mind made up on either position so you would be open to
04:55:34
Jessit to being prif yeah to being 100% from conception I still don't think so because I think I'm too empathetic about both do you think that it's a matter of empathy
04:55:47
Jakethough because if you're if you're establishing that it's a life in there I'm sorry not empathy sympathy okay but would you have sympathy for the life I would have sympathy for both the baby and the mother but you'd have sympathy for the baby and you'd kill it
04:56:00
JessYou' want it to be killed I never said that oh but but if you take that position then you're you're I never said I want babies to be killed and I never said that I want
04:56:10
Jakeum women to have to give birth to but if you take but this is a philosophical debate so we're we're operating in hypotheticals and if you take the position that you
04:56:22
Jakeare pro-choice with the forn knowledge that life begins a conception you're then arguing to take a life so if you say you have sympathy I don't think having sympathy is necessarily a good argument
04:56:34
Jakeas to why that's okay okay I like I said I never this is this is where often with young females like yourself no offense or anything but you're very boneheaded about this because it's such a heavy political
04:56:46
Jessissue and girls March in the street and put their pink [ __ ] hats on and just let's kill our kids kill our kids that's the thing is I'm not like huge on this topic like I don't I don't debate for
04:57:00
Jessthese kind of things lots of things I don't really tend to debate on um I came on this P podcast because of like dating dating top I appreciate you engaging in it yeah but I I'm just not a protester I don't
04:57:12
Jessum I don't are you an atheist um I'm open to I'm learning about religions right now okay which ones um it was I took a
04:57:23
Jessclass two years ago when I first started college um I can't remember like half of the religions I learned about but I I'm open to Christianity and Buddhism right
04:57:35
Jessnow um okay what about Buddhism um what about it sort of interest you picks your interest just the spirituality of it I I'm still learning I didn't learn much from the class that I took but I'm
04:57:46
Jaketrying to learn more about it now they're two very different religions because Christianity has a very super Supernatural element whereas Buddhism is kind of like a way of life I have no
04:57:58
Jessidea what I believe in right now because I'm more of a I'm more of a scientific person and it's hard to just believe that there is
04:58:09
Jessica Pum a gateway wait waiting for me um you know when I'm done with my lifetime I think there's a lot of evidence that Jesus is God and that his claims are true and the things he says
04:58:20
Jessica Pabout himself are true because just looking at the Bible um there are 73 books that were written over the course of 1500 years um in three different continents by over 40 authors who um
04:58:32
Jessica Psome of them lived in different generations and didn't have any contact with each other whatsoever yet they came together to form this one C congruent
04:58:40
Jessica Pstory um and Jesus has fulfilled over 300 Old Testament Messianic prophecies and the probability since you said you're uh into science and more
04:58:51
Jessica Pscientifically minded the probability of somebody fulfilling even eight Messianic prophecies um is 1 in 10 to the 17th power which is one with 17 zeros behind it if you were able to fill up coins on
04:59:04
Jessica Pthe ground you would fill up the state of Texas um 2 feet deep if you filled up um that that that's the probability of somebody fulfilling eight Messianic
04:59:14
Jessica Pprophecies but Jesus fulfilled over 300 um the pro the probability of somebody fulfilling 48 prophecies is um 1 in 10
04:59:23
Jessica Pto the 157th power um so if you lined up electrons it would take you 19 million years to count all of those electrons it
04:59:33
Jessica Pbasically to say it's humanly impossible statistically impossible for anybody to fulfill his propes yet Jesus did that was some impressive
04:59:44
Brian Atlasmemorization I do have to bring it back to dating here but just to get back into some of your notes you said that you got into a total lost car wreck on your first date with your now X I think who
04:59:56
Brian Atlasyou mentioned earlier on you said who ended up being my first official boyfriend yeah uh even though you uh you cried to him for hours told him to find someone better and after the car wreck I
05:00:08
Jessica Pdated him for whopping 8 hours before you broke up with him yeah so it's kind of a crazy story but um basically on our first date I wrecked my car and he was
05:00:20
Jessica Pmy passenger and we were just going across the street to get something from his house so I I mean it's awful it was a car accident it was horrible um and it was a total loss but I wasn't really concerned with the car accident or the
05:00:32
Jessica Pfact that I lost my car I was more concerned with the fact that I just humiliated myself in front of him um and and he so I told him like this is kind of the way my life is looking right now
05:00:44
Jessica PI think maybe you should find somebody else and I'm so sorry I almost killed you and he so that's why I was crying for so long after the car accident um and he told me that he still wanted to
05:00:56
Jessica Ppursue me and he initially chose me because we have a lot of similar values and um so he still wanted to continue going out with me and I'm like you're
05:01:05
Jessica Pkind of insane for that but I I so yeah then I officially dated him for eight hours after that as boyfriend girlfriend before I got way too much anxiety and told him like this is not
05:01:17
Jessica Pgoing to work out and then a couple months later um when I started talking to somebody else I went on like two dates with this guy went to lunch with
05:01:27
Jessica Phim one morning went to mass with him um went to a movie and then he tells me that he still has feelings for me um and and he said you probably don't feel the
05:01:40
Jessica Psame because you're the one who said it wasn't going to work out but at the time like I was having these weird dreams about him all of a sudden I'm like this is going to be hanging over my head for the rest of my life if I decide not to
05:01:52
Jessica Pkind of pursue this and see if there's anything worth it here um and it kind of just boiled down to the fact that we weren't compatible and that's why we
05:02:00
Jessica Pended up breaking up um but we also decided not to kiss until marriage like the first first month in which was an
05:02:11
Jessica Pextreme decision and something that I never saw myself doing but it needed to happen because we had a lot of problems underlying issues and we would kiss and
05:02:21
Jessica Pmake up and everything was fine and so because of that um we didn't actually get to the bottom of why we weren't compatible so when we decided to wait for marriage until we became intimate in
05:02:34
Jessica Pany way whatsoever then a lot of those problems were able to surface and um and then so you guys had kissed but then you decided to not stop mhm just kissing
05:02:45
Jessica Pand it was very helpful to actually stick hard for you or him to do that I think it was probably harder for him you weren't that attracted to him were you I was yeah were you yeah well you're waiting was it was it hard for you it it
05:02:58
Jakewas hard for me it was probably just hard I find that like with with past relationships myself like you kind of need that intimacy when you're trying to solve problems because as a guy if you can't
05:03:09
Jakehold her if you can't like you know do that then it's very hard to have a like just a logical conversation just logic no touching nothing like that yeah I definitely see that but I think there's
05:03:20
Jessica Pso much more in relationships than just the physical aspect and for us that was really helpful um because there were a lot of things we weren't talking about
05:03:29
Jessica Pbecause we would um just kiss and makeup and everything with fiss makeup don't you think that's like kind of healthy sometimes though sometimes it is it was more of a mask over the problems that
05:03:40
Brian Atlasneeded to be resolved and looked at and so are you waiting until marriage when it comes to uh sex absolutely yeah okay um wa and has that always been your
05:03:51
Jessica Pstandard yes oh okay so wait are you also virgin wa yes oh and I'm just blessed that the Lord has put me in a position to be able to stick to that are you are you a manifesting virgin or a real one I'm a real one real one yes yes
05:04:04
Brian Atlasabut say these days you can sort of just you know claim what you want transfer transfer I think that's Co on whatever podcast trans you can transmit it but I
05:04:14
Jessica Pgive all the credit to the Lord for just helping me hold myself to that standard um because the spirit is so willing but the flesh is weak and so I um know that
05:04:26
Jessica Pthe Lord wants what is best for me and he created me and he knows what is best for me and um so that is my ultimate goal is just to serve him and love him
05:04:36
Jessica Pin every way that I can and I've seen how waiting even waiting till marriage to kiss I've seen how even that has benefited my relationships so good for
05:04:46
Brian Atlasyou hold on uh just a couple uh one question so the car wreck uh that you said you were driving yes I was uh so like woman what happened there did
05:04:57
Jessica Puh i t owned a truck that's what happened a truck yeah you know how truck drivers are like semiu or like a it was actually crazy because the the guy he
05:05:10
Jessica Pwas yelling at me at first and I told him like I'll pay for it it's going to be okay um and he had every right to be upset about it obviously but towards the end he prayed for me and he forgave me
05:05:22
Jessica Pand it was just like this God moment right there because I didn't see that coming whatsoever and we just like prayed with each other okay love wholesome that's so
05:05:32
Brian Atlassweet uh were you both okay like we were both fine okay but the car got to only my pride was hurt and I shouldn't have had Pride anyway so it worked out do you think it would have worked out with a guy had you not been in the car crash I
05:05:44
Jessica Pdon't think that really played much of a role in it except it made me realize how much he did want to pursue me because in my eyes that was a valid reason to just leave me off the bat um so I think it
05:05:56
Brian Atlasmade our relationship stronger if anything got it you also said that uh uh well actually a couple so you said couples should wait till marriage to become sexually active um beside and I I
05:06:09
Brian Atlasdon't think that's the case for you although you are a virgin um is anybody here else here waiting till marriage to have carnal knowledge oh
05:06:19
Brian Atlasmy oh my God this girl okay I should have seen that coming uh anybody else anybody else a virgin at the table or is it well not oh my God so it's just it's
05:06:31
Brian Atlasjust you two just you two mhm okay uh you also said that dump your Li dump I liked this one dump your liberal boyfriend the B respectfully yes I agree
05:06:42
Jessica Pwith you so tell us like why why should women not date liberal men well I think they're generally feminists in a way that's what they want
05:06:54
Jessica Pto call themselves so like he said they are beta males they um are not fully living into what it means to be a man which is to be a provider and a protector and a lot of them are very
05:07:07
Jessica Ppro-abortion so they want sex without responsib ability they want to enter a relationship and leave it as they will and kind of use a woman's body to get off um and they don't value women the way that women should be valued okay so
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Jessica PI think you should your Lial boyfriend I have I actually have a shirt that says that wait really yeah I should have worn it today is it on your Instagram we can pull it up um it should be somewhere on
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Brian Atlasmy Instagram maybe okay I don't know uh you also said that uh and this was something I agreed with you on if a guy can't let you go gracefully I think this applies to both men and women but if a
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Brian Atlasguy can't let you go gracefully he's a walking red flag and someone you want to avoid so does that mean if like you're in the process of breaking up with him like loses his [ __ ] like just can't take no for an answer that kind of thing yeah
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Jessica Pyeah I've had so many guys who have just freaked out at me because after one or two dates I said that I wasn't interested in pursuing anything more and that made me realize that my decision
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Jessica Pwas a very valid decision because I would never want to be with a man who can't handle the truth and even if it's not what he wants for himself uh who can't work through that with me and
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Brian Atlasrealize that it's my decision to make as well yeah I I agree with you I think uh this for both men and women someone's like breaking up with you or isn't interested just move on if it's like a
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Brian Atlasgenuine breakup though cuz sometimes and this is kind of toxic uh men both men and women will do this but they might like be they want you to change a behavior Behavior but they'll like I'm
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Jessica Pgoing to break up with you but they really just want you to change something you're doing MH um and version of you in their head of what they want you to be and you usually don't fit that version
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Brian Atlasbut like if you've made your decision 100% and you don't want this person and then they're like it's getting to like almost like bro this is scary territory yeah that's not a good look like it's better and who knows you know maybe
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Jessica Pthings in the future it's a very sounds like a very liberal thing to do for a guy yes yes being controlled by his emotions like that and that's honestly been one of the hardest parts with
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Jessica Pdating for me um and I feel like if a a guy is not he he he just seems to put too many expectations on you from the get-go um so I sometimes I'm afraid to go into a different relationship because
05:09:27
Jessica PI'm like what if he has all of these expectations so I think what kind of expectations um just kind of entitlement to you and uh in a way that he needs to
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Jessica Pearn and he expects it right off the bat and he expects that when you show interest right in the beginning that um you will continue to show interest what do you mean by like entitlement what kind of things are we talking
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Jakeabout um sometimes cuz I think I would definitely be very entitled in at the start at the beginning phases of like I would be entitled to your exclusivity that's for sure and to your attention
05:10:03
Jessica Pand to you giving me like compliments telling me I'm strong and stuff I think dating just needs to be more well defined because I do date for marriage but I think the first couple of dates before you make it official it is to see
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Jessica Pwhether or not you're compatible with that person and it's completely valid before marriage at any time to say I don't think this relationship is going to work and I don't want to enter into a lifelong Covenant with you yeah absolutely absolutely so I think you
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Jakeshouldn't have those expectations as if one date is you now have all committing to marriage yeah I agree with that yeah how long into the dating process would you say that the submission to the
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Jessica Pwill of the man begins if if you do believe in that I definitely believe that a woman and a man should submit to each other in a marriage and
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Jessica Pspecifically the woman should submit if the man is worth submitting to so if he is living out the word of God and a Biblical Christian and um submits to God
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Jakeif he submits to God then you can submit to him and I think maybe 2 months into the official dating relationship is what are some things that you would say would be red flags where you would withdraw your
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Jessica Psubmission um I think your best indicator is just knowing the word of God and if he is living um in a way that is not in
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Jessica Paccordance with the word of God then that's a big red FL human being on Earth not like if you're repentant of it that's one thing um but as long if as as long as you hold that to your standard
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Jakeyeah so if he if he if he holds it to a standard but he falls short and he repents then that's still a man that's worth submitting to yeah I just think over the over the course of a
05:11:51
Jakerelationship if your submission is conditional then that can be an issue and that can be something that will probably inevitably lead to divorce because people go through R conditional while you're getting to know him but
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Jakewhen you realize that you love him and he is worthy of your submission then that should not be conditional yeah yeah but I do think that there is something too that the old saying that the uh we're talking about it before actually
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Jakethat the the neck turns the head were we talking about that yeah you have the head then you have the neck someone brought it up yeah the neck turns the head I think there is something to that there is something to that yeah by the way quick announcement
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Brian Atlaswhat so $69 for TTS for the rest of the stream get it in boys uh if you have anything uh let's see here so let me
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Brian Atlasyou've talked the did and you've talked but no um let's see here hold on we have let me just check everything Brian what about you what is your
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Jessica Popinion on abortion are you pro-life because there's a lot of debate about that there's a lot of debate about what whether or not you're Pro lifee who's who's debating whether or not I'm me and my friends you and your friends it's
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Jessica Phappening it it's happening behind the scenes you might not see it but it's happening you know truthfully and this is my truthful answer I'm undecided okay what circumstance is it okay to kill
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Brian Atlassomeone don't do it Jake got him there um um I think there's there's very compelling arguments very compelling
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Brian Atlasarguments that are made um when it comes to the prif side absolutely compelling
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Brian Atlasum yeah that's all I have to say it's very compelling it's very compelling uh I suppose the uh yeah I don't know what is the most compelling pro-abortion
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Brian Atlasargument that you've heard proor oh I don't hear compelling Pro abortion argum you haven't heard any I only hear compelling pro-life arguments I think that's enough reason to be pro-life
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Brian Atlasyeah well that's just my opinion though he's dancing around the circle of life right it's look it's uh it's very compelling it's very compelling come in
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Brian Atlasthe I I suppose one argument right is not everything that is uh let's let let's just say that abortion is wrong right not everything that's wrong ought
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Jessica Pto be illegal right I'm not saying that's even my position but um yeah but if it's wrong it's wrong because it's murder and don't you think
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Brian Atlasthat murder should be illegal in all cases no it's listen it's a compelling argument it's a compelling argument it's very hard to debate from the other side unless you're like unless you're
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Brian Atlassomebody who's linguistically very can't I I I genuinely don't think like they the the uh pro-life position is uh like Trent horn came on
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Jakehere and absolutely spanked Destiny on this show with that but Trent horn you can't he's he's a he's a beast so mhm yeah I mean uh I I guess uh I kind of
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Jessica Pjust don't like to reveal my position on it but I mean like I'm pretty much is there a line that you would draw that you would be I'm pretty much pro life but yeah I thought so I just don't like
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Brian Atlasto reveal my position on it because then it okay that's fair but uh you did well
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Brian Atlasyeah Brian's boost but no it's I just uh I sometimes I'd rather not share my position on all as the host I try I I tend to like want
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Brian Atlasto be able to come across like a little more neutral so fair enough uh but she pressured me on it so I got Pure
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Brian Atlaspressured uh but I will say that uh in states or in countries where abortion is legal I'm in favor of leg something
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Brian Atlascalled Legal paternal surrender where which would to some degree as best as possible legalize uh men's Reproductive Rights to some degree MH so if women can murder
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Jaketheir children men should at least be able to uh relinquish relinquish parental responsibility yeah I I would I would say that would be an absolute disaster if you were to do that then there'd be
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Jakeso many more kids growing up in single mother homes and we know what happens in sing We were talking about dogs before dogs shouldn't be in single mother homes because mother don't how to discipline them when it comes to children they end up in prison women end up feminists but
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Brian Atlasyou could actually make the argument that the position that I hold on this where if abortion is legal then men shouldn't have a financial Duty a parental Duty
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Brian Atlasyou could actually argue that that's a pro-life position because it's a logical position yeah well because uh they would probably
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Brian Atlasuh it would if that was the case you might see a greater push for making abortion illegal well I mean
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JakeI think a lot a lot does that make sense but two wrongs don't make a right and old if if a yeah yeah but if a woman still has access to abortion I'm five hours in on the podcast I'm not making sense anymore
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Jakeyeah yeah if there was a way that it would you want to ask me about Israel Iran too let's talk about it
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Brian Atlasum but uh no I mean it occurs to me like hey if women can get abortion then men should be able to uh have a corresponding right to not be subject to child
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Brian Atlassupport yeah do you want children uh I don't know we'll see how my life goes I guess I'd love to see a little Brian Three Little Brian running around yeah who uh I feel like I have
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Brian Atlasenough problems in my life so I don't know got n little Bri 81 I don't know if I can do that but uh yeah I don't know what would you call in Bri X Brian with a Y you can do little variations of how
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Jakepeople spell your name wait what where imagine if we had Little Brian with the hat on in the corner just sitting there you have new staff little baby Brian's free label theisel did I actually change did I
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Brian Atlasactually save it hold on let me make sure I saved this uh oops one sec guys I'm making sure that we did actually change it so the TTS has come through properly uh one sec guys uh any any
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Brian Atlasother uh dating related topics anybody on the panel wants to speak about holy [ __ ] I didn't save it I'm so sorry guys hold
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Brian AtlasWI wink fizzle thank you Telly for really appreciate it man oh my God there's a lot coming in now uh let's see hold on we got a couple coming in they're coming
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TTSone sec boys much donated $69 shouldn't it be more along the lines of if the mother has the right to abort the child then the father should have to
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Brian Atlasalso sign off on it before it takes place I agree uh well I don't think like any society that's pro-abortion would this this
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Jakewould be like a pro-life thing you have to get a Pity test and everything can you get pity test in the room yeah so the I don't I don't know if this is the J Andy donated
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Jessica (project manager)are you rying the um yeah are reptilian descent I'm reptile are you a reptile could you tell you illuminatio that you Illuminati or what no probably something
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Brian Atlaslike that all right thank you guys really appreciate all those and uh let me see uh oh so any uh any other dating topics anyone else on the panel wants to hit on speak now forever hold your
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TTSGustavo has a girlfriend panel rate your intelligence on a scale 0 to 200 okay we'll do that starting with you go ahead I don't rate
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Brian Atlasokay I guess you I'm sorry what was it what would you rate your IQ as well no it's not IQ um I don't think he's asking for your
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Brian AtlasIQ he's just saying rate your intelligence on a scale of zero to 200 200 being like Einstein yes like the smartest person ever I guess like
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Jessica P8090 okay I would not go that high 4050 we're talking Einstein yeah that's like a huge scale I I would also say
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Jessica (project manager)4050 I would probably similar 50 something 80 above that 100 at least I mean I if I was going reading I would
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Jessica (project manager)say like 120 I'd say about 130 yeah okay all right there you go to 200 guys ju donated
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TTS$69 what dating advice do the girls have for men skip Bri we're tired of hearing from her please what did advice do you have for men I'm going to go
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TTSum I would say just have confidence that's about it I think that's I think that's the
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TTS$69 Alexa been all over Jake all night Jake you going to shoot your shot also B
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Brian Atlastrash nice for good good wait is this Bri are you rage quitting or are you just standing up I'm hitting my vape oh she's hitting her Vape okay
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Brian Atlasshe heard it though she heard it 696 what you say uh don't worry about it don't worry about it it was it was compliment for sure uh going back to the last one what dating advice do you have
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Ryan Abiefor men I answered oh sorry yeah I would repeat that I would just say confidence and I know that you mentioned it's a little bit hard for a lot of guys to have confidence literally just fake it
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Jessica Ptill you make it yeah just step out in boldness and talk to women and learn what it means to be a man and your role with my
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KJcourse be quiet um similar to what they said just shoot your shot there's only one way to find out if a girl's going to go for you yeah get off the dating appps
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Jessica (project manager)real girls are not on there anymore that's good okay number one I would say find someone that you view as a strong role model I think going back to like what's going on
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Jessica (project manager)in society a lot of men don't have strong role models for themselves have a good core strong men group that you can confide in confidence is not enough confidence is usually considered creepy
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TTSif the guy doesn't your desire Greg bird donated $7 defit Jake three questions are you Christian where you from in a
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Jakewhat is your 1rm bench um yes I'm a Christian I'm from Brisbane Australia bris Vegas or the Sunshine Coast to be just north of Brisbane to be more precise and then 1
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JakeRM at the moment it's probably only about 95 kg or so but in the past it's been about 110 I'm not I'm not that strong unfortunately wish I was Stronger oh W okay girl on very right
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TTSdonated $69 the girl on the very right in the black I only paid this amount so I could get your hash or snap mine's chew dog
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Bri123 yes I made it when I was 10 going to get some dick pick T not Bellas with two eyes and three S's
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Brian Atlasthat's it is that your manager that's my snap no I mean the guy who sent that in oh I don't know uh any other disagreements from anybody anyone want to disagree and argue for the last 10
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Jessica (project manager)minutes of the show anybody anybody I think a man needs more than confidence I'm sorry if you're going up and telling a man that's all he needs there saying that's all they need he's just got to shoot the shot and then
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Ryan Abiethere but how many how many men actually come and shoot their shot with you that you disregard real realistically like truthfully I'll give a guy I do not find attractive a shot if he at least comes
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Jessica (project manager)up to me and tries that is much more likely than yeah in that's really attractive I think it's also like realist like I think it's better that a guy goes up to a girl in person than on
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Jessica (project manager)a dating app I 100% agree with that but I think it's also like both men and women need to be realistic of what the expectations are when you go into this for someone to walk across a room like I make the joke
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Jessica (project manager)all the time I know no man walks over across room to talk to me for my brain he might stay for because of my brain but he's not going to walk over for that and a lot of women I've seen it and I've
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Jessica (project manager)seen women be so mean to really good nice guys that come up and try to say hi and the girl goes e not worth my time you really think you have a chance with
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Jessica (project manager)me women are vicious when it comes to it and I think that it's let them enjoy it yeah and it's it's it actually like breaks my heart cuz like I work in a male dominant field so I see it happen all the time and there's a lot of really
05:27:37
Alexa Morgangood guys that the guy saved himself then from being with somebody who's an absolute but takes it out of you when you get rejected like that you know it imagine imagine the level of Rejection it comes
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Jessica (project manager)to your face like that's it's one thing if someone doesn't swipe right on you on an appp but for someone to like laugh in your face or to go ew I I've watched it out of bar i' I've had that happen to me
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Jakeso many times cuz I I approach girls in person quite a lot and sometimes you'll be at a bar and they'll be with their friends and they'll get so much pleasure out of rejecting you and in front of their friends and it sucks like you move on from it after you do it enough times
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Jakebut it you regret the ask no not at all I don't care but like you know a lot of guys don't want to do it because why would they want to go through that all the time but on the topic of advice though like I know he asked the girls but I heard I think I'm not don't want
05:28:24
Jaketo steal this I think it was Marin from fresh and fit says accomplishments breeds competence which which breeds confidence right accomplishments confidence confidence so confidence you can't fake it like you can't just
05:28:36
Jakepretend to have confidence and conf generally comes from having a foundation as a man of of having accomplishments and being competent so if you have those things as a guy and if you're Mission driven if you know where you're going in
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Jakelife and if you are you know on a on a one-way train there it it's a magnet for for women women love a Purpose Driven man that would be the advice TCH I'm
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Brian AtlasTwitch Madison is going to be streaming on off days over on Twitch so we and we got some special special stream stuff going over there on IRL streams or what well I don't want to
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TTSa23 donated $69 you brother girl in the black I would like to get to know you more showing my genuine interest it's my first time watching whatever Brian great
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Brian AtlasI'll do chew dog all right so Bri chew dog he rescued me from a Bear Once from a bear so you got to DM him back or whatever on Snapchat he rescued you oh you're weak
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Brian Atlasyou going to rescue yourself from the Bear Dam well we were camping and I was like sleeping you know so I would have just been dead if it wasn't for che dog alpha males wouldn't let that yeah they just figh in their sleeps huh if you
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Brian Atlaswere part of don't get maed in their sleep your your program also teaches men how to fend off bear attacks you've got experience in that one I can find I was in Alaska for two
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Briweeks what part of Alaska were you in I was in Anchorage and Fairbanks okay and what did you do while you were there um I went to the forest and saw the Northern Lights did you see the the the
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Brian Atlasbus the mandus bus I was on a train I didn't see a bus no do you do you know what that is have you seen into the wild no Devin super
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Brian Atlas[ __ ] you not does anybody maybe the viewers know what I'm talking about wild great movie the soundtrack is fantastic I mean Eddie veter oh
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Brian Atlasyeah Eddie veret hard son anybody anybody yo one in the chat if anybody knows the song by Eddie veter hard son
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Brian Atlasanybody anybody anybody anybody anybody anybody anybody anybody anybody why don't you play it
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Brian Atlasfor him there one there's two great song great song okay uh what do we disagree on what do what do we uh what are we disagreeing on we got we're going to wrap in like five minutes speak now forever hold your
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Jessica (project manager)piece anything this is your chance you want to say come on this is your chance Jess you got five minutes they can't you said that you disagree with any topic this is your chance you got
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Jessthis Jess um I agree with you all thinking that men should be the ones to go up to women I think both genders can do it I I do
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Jessica Pit I'm that's all I can disagree with right now that makes them a beta I think that can be true in certain circumstances but at least in my
05:32:37
Jessica Pexperience when I'm the one pursuing the man it always fails and I found the best relationships come from or the best friendships even come from the man I'd be really flooded though if a girl if a girl came to me and said I prefer when
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Jakethere's a difference between pursuing though and showing your interest the thing is that I'm not going to pursue you I might I might you though but if you guys busy
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TTS123 donated $69 Brian you're such a g you need a black eye bot it'll help me actually have somewhat of a voice I also know
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TTSthat song what's your favorite R and B song girl in Black first then so on add me on Snap BTW oh my God When I See You
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Jakeby Fantasia When I See You I who who who sings that Fantasia keep it that way excuse me what was that oh my
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Bri[Music] God I want to go they asked everybody he asked and so on what's your favorite R&B song I think it
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Brian Atlaswas just you oh yeah mind girl in Black your girl in Black r b shizel who am I going to rate on Twitch um let me any
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TTSfinal I wonder if I have any final dumb dog s donated $70 to Jake always good to see a fellow Aussie
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TTSmaking it you said you're Christian which denomination also to what extent should men show emotion in front of women never I'm not denominational at the moment I actually put this out on my
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JakeTwitter last week and I was having a bunch of Roman Catholics and Orthodox reaching out to me so I haven't picked a denomination I'm not sure if I will but um yeah I'm not even going to say what I'm leaning towards showing emotion in
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Jakefront of women I mean here's my theory on it I think that you should never show raw emotions in front of your girl you should do that with your with your guy friends with your male friends if you ever really need an out however there
05:34:36
Jakeare little moments when you should do it when you're it's a Sunday morning you're in bed together you're just talking and she wants to briefly get inside your head see what's going on with you you only let her in for a little bit then you get up and go to the gym leave her
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Jakewanting more you know just little bits drip drip feed it you know perfect for my course you think women should show emotion to men absolutely yeah doesn't
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Jakelike if if if but the thing is a man should be able to sort of take that but if if you show like I know girls have told me openly that it full on turned them off guys and made them break up
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Jakewith them I I feel for those people yeah that's rough but like there's no there's no joy in it for a guy if you're crying to your to your girl there's no you yeah either your brothers or your friends
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Jessica (project manager)whatever if you really need to you really gone through it but with your girl I mean see I feel like it's different if it's like your girlfriend or like your wife I feel like if it's your life partner it's one of those things like if you have a moment of
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TTSvulnerability with your life partner and you drop the wall I get it for a moment that makes I think it happens but I think it's also as the partner that woman's responsib bless the gr donated
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Jake$69 Christ is King y thank you man appreciate it yeah no it's it's it's true like um but I I do think that a woman has a biological reaction to a man
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Brian Atlascrying where she instantly thinks he can't protect me not me I was going to say it if you cry CU you lost a family member if you cry CU has happened say
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Jessica Pthat say that one more time I think it's sexy when a man cries not when he's like super heartbroken that doesn't like do you think when he's when he's when he's praying or when he's at church or whatever I think that's beautiful but that I can understand that from the
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Jakereligious perspective when they're praying when they're really in he's like crying all the time and emotionally unstable crying because he had he someone said something mean to him today and he comes home and he's like well that's ridiculous for anybody to cry
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Jakeyeah well that's what we mean though but I do if if you don't really like pray then you can't really understand this but I can understand from that persp persective if a guy's really in that state but you know just just crying
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Jakebecause he's had a bad day or did I it's it's unacceptable AB most guys don't really do that anyway yeah good [ __ ] but if you need to let it out go to the boys good they in the
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Brian Atlasshower cry in the shower as far as the initiative conversation though maybe as far as this initiative I think uh definitely it's good if a girl just hits you up first I think that's the best way
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JakeI think a lot of girls I think a lot of girls make a big mistake with these with this particular thing these days because if a guy is the kind of guy that you're attracted to he's going to be pretty busy and he's going to be on his purpose he's not going to be sitting there
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Jakemessaging it's like the last thing I'm thinking about but if she checks in with me every day every two days or whatever that's great and I'm not ignoring you I'm just busy yeah so the last thing I'm thinking about is texting girls I hate texting girls so what is to forward for
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Jakeyou or is there such a thing for a woman to be too forward um I normally I'll actually I'll actually tell a girl straight up because I you know like get girls that message you or whatever and I'll just be like hey look I don't like small talk I don't I'm not interested in talking to you I'll just say that stra
05:37:42
Jakeaway that's good though so they're not wasting their time yeah I just tell them straight away Hey listen appreciate it but I'm not into small talk if we're in the same city or whatever we can hang out but yeah but but if I don't say that
05:37:52
TTSit probably means that I'm interested so there you go yeah you know listen like if they send a DM you know juice donated $69 Bri just yawned and deep throated
05:38:03
TTSthe M please have her leave or have her stand in the corner 3 minutes in silence wait should we do a timeout for Bri for 3 minutes okay uh wait hold on bri before you do that I got to give
05:38:20
Brian Atlasyou all right Bri you got to wear I'm notar Bri put it on bri it would look so cute on you though oh you got okay yeah go into the corner and just face the corner you don't sit just face sit just
05:38:33
Brian Atlasget in the corner there you go think about what you've done think about what you've done Bri okay good
05:38:44
Jessica (project manager)uh I have a question did she actually do that though did she do that did you do it hey hey look into the corner look she's she's listening it's good here you go okay I have a question
05:38:55
Jessica (project manager)for the gentlemen what advice what dating advice do you would you like to give to the ladies after what you've heard tonight oh after what I heard
05:39:06
Jaketonight um um I would say don't be afraid to be a little bit of a s if you like the guy send the text and everything girls often tell them tell it oh don't don't be too
05:39:18
Jakeforward whatever don't do this don't do that no no no if you like him show him you like him go we appreciate that a lot whereas I find a lot of the times when I I've been in the talking stages with a girl even if I like her I'll discard her
05:39:30
Jessbecause she's not forward enough you know so well if she's putting in effort and you like her will you put in the same effort no why because we're not the
05:39:42
Jakesame well because I feel like because if if you don't want really motivating as a man you don't want to be necessarily pursuing a girl we just heard before that you got the ick because guys were
05:39:53
Jaketoo Keen we don't get that same ick but if I'm pursuing you and putting in all of this effort generally it's going to give the girls the ick and also I'm busy I'm not putting in the effort yeah it's just not happening okay so do you expect
05:40:05
Jakea woman to keep putting in the same effort while you're not doing the same you ever heard the song The Tide is High no early 2000 tide is high but I'm holding on I'm gonna be your number one I'm not the kind of girl who just gives
05:40:17
Jakeup just like that one of the most beautiful feminine stu okay so when I said she going to keep holding on one day she'll be my number one I like that attitude you know that's a dream I
05:40:28
Brian Atlasactually have a perfect answer to this Alexa yeah that's your Nick you know what to do pull up the bow video I was about to say this is the Bowing video she has to bow I totally agree she has to Bow let's see it oh hold on we gota
05:40:41
Brian Atlaswatch the video first okay I got questions bow and cook I think I it's is Bri allowed to watch we can cook Bri's watching yeah she she can it's okay I'll
05:40:50
Brian AtlasI'll allow it video I'll allow it okay okay boom huge see that bow great all right I just come home to my penthouse apartment that I'm paying entirely oh my
05:41:01
Brian Atlasuh boom there's the shirt yep that's getting folded immediately or put in the laundry you know okay food's ready dinner's ready just got home from a long podcast get it
05:41:13
Brian Atlasgetting the drink stirring the noodles check this [ __ ] boom attentive attentive submissive good technique happy about it with a small one more time Nick show the
05:41:25
Jessica (project manager)battle one more time oh my God huge yes that's awesome boom yeah that's what a girl should do honestly actually we had she went on the first first date and
05:41:37
Brian Atlasshe just she started the date with bow did she get Bor bro I would [ __ ] marry her right oh my gosh she she hits me first off it would be funny as [ __ ] like if imagine you went on a day with a
05:41:48
Brian Atlasgirl and she gave you a cute little bow instantly like it' be the best I'd be so happy about it no that's what I mean by it's it's simpy
05:41:59
Jakeit's simpy we like simpy [ __ ] like that not work didn't get it we like I'll s I'm actually going to try it just try it but like do it like a little like with small steps and
05:42:09
Brian Atlasthen I think they're like they like wait let's ask the chat let's ask the chat chat would you would you be like would that be cool for you if all else fails
05:42:20
Brian Atlaschat would you be down for that what Nick could you pull up the chat get that would you be down for the bow chat yes for the bow would you be cool with a
05:42:31
Brian Atlasbow are you serious would you be cool with a bow or not cool with a bow see yeah yes or yes or no in the chat yes or no in the chat you're just kidding Nam
05:42:41
Brian Atlasseems like people really like to Bow God it's going so fast wait did did Brie just did a bow she did she did it she did well yeah I did it yeah Oh okay that's cool all right good times uh yeah
05:42:54
Brian AtlasI think just honestly like just hit us with a bow every time we see you that's it that's all you got to do there you go can do that I'm not even joking I think that [ __ ] works we had a girl uh like two shows ago who said like well I watch your podcast asked and I was like I
05:43:08
Jakewasn't sure about the bow thing but I just tried it on I think she was dating a guy and she was like y that [ __ ] works oh my gosh she tried it and it worked also learn to cook as well if you can
05:43:19
Jakeeveryone hear cook can can no one not cook anyone can anyone not cook no yeah I would edible but yeah I'd say I'd say make these things make these things known as well on the first date if you