01:54:31Brian Atlasand married at age 19 correct okay and you said uh that was Psycho of you I
01:54:40KJyes I do think that okay um I mean I kind of touched on it earlier I think that the school that I was at was just so into like ring by Spring Looking Back
01:54:52KJNow now that I've gone through college and I've gone through post colle life I think that it is pretty psycho of me that I would do that um not against other people who have done that I think
01:55:04KJthat people found their person and that's who it was but I went in from a high school relationship that was not super awesome and it got to a point where I was dating him
01:55:16KJfor so long it was hard to get out of it and I felt pretty trapped in it so um yeah I just like looking back now and living what I have and like the
01:55:28KJexperiences that I've had now I'm very happy that I didn't do that is what I mean by like that psycho of me okay and you said also every time I get
01:55:40Brian Atlasinto relationships the guys end up getting crazy clingy and I think it's because I maybe act more like a guy in regards to be super distant but I legit can't get away from it yeah I mean that
01:55:51KJin like a humble way that sounds like super like snotty of me I promise that that's not the case but like no like most of the times that I'm in a relationship I guys just get like really
01:56:03KJclingy really obsessive they move like really really fast um and yeah I just really can't I have a hard time you mean like um like physically like tactile or is it more of like texting you all the
01:56:14KJtime and stuff both yeah and they'll like yeah they'll like get me big gifts and like try to take me on trips and stuff like really early on I said that I think that that might be the case
01:56:26KJbecause I think that it's nice that you might be doing something right well but I don't want that it kind of turns me away honestly it's really bad to me I really don't like it at all it's just so
01:56:37Jakeearly on not so early she likes the chase um yeah uh I think that there would be an element of liking the chase as well girls don't like to be do I
01:56:47Jakelike um I like for me I like to be if a girl was to do that and buy me gifts it wouldn't be a red flag at all it would be massive green flag you love it simp simp guys don't get that often that
01:56:59KJlittle different yeah that's why I was like I looking him it's because I'm more distant maybe in the beginning like I feel like I see all these Tik toks that are girls telling other girls and
01:57:11KJthey're like everybody just like take it slow calm down like you don't need to be texting him all the time it'll work whatever no don't take that advice that's bad advice but like that's what I
01:57:21Jakefeel like it is because I not that I am trying to do that but I feel like guys go they are like you have any brothers
01:57:31Jakeyeah I have one one older or younger he's older he's he's 36 okay I'd probably take his advice if anything don't take girls advice on Tik Tok terrible ADV I've seen a lot of these videos floating well girls are just all
01:57:43Jakeover the place on Tik Tok it's hard to take advice yeah reach out to your brother he'll probably know a thing or too but um yeah these videos I see a shocking advice I saw I saw one one girl' been on here and she was saying like all of these things that are a red
01:57:56Jakeflag about guys and it was so like just so condescending and um yeah I'd stay away from those videos even even the popular ones yeah unless they're married with like five kids and you know they
01:58:09Alexa Morganshould be on the internet but you have heard of Love bombing right where yeah we've heard of it and that's considered a red flat correct what what do you mean by that when they like in the beginning just show so much emotion and and they
01:58:22Jakegive so many if it's coming across in an insecure way then yeah well most of the time I think a lot of it no it's not no it's not if a girl is reasonably like um like she hasn't slept around a lot and
01:58:35Jakeit means a lot to her you can really tell but if you're with a girl and you and it doesn't really mean a lot after you guys sleep together for example that's a massive red flag because it means kind of nothing to her if she's using it as like some sort of like a way to get off huge red flag but if it means
01:58:48Jakea lot and if she SS on you a lot after it and you can tell that she's like trying to get really close to you that that's AED that's a massive green flag because it means that she takes more pride in it so yeah love bombing in
01:58:59Alexa Morganterms of like dumping your insecurities on me or whatever like stay away but if she's texting all the time it's also insecure when you like are dumping like all your like love like texting multiple times a day making sure that's fine I
01:59:11Jakethink that's just insecurity you're not you're not in a man's position though so like from from from your position that would be an insecurity but from my position if I have a girl texting me multip multiple times a day and I'm into her that's a good thing absolutely but
01:59:23Jakefrom you though mean it would mean that he's desperate yeah he he shouldn't be texting you multiple times a day right but if I've got got a girl who texts me every day I like that that's really nice yeah if she's not texting me it's it's
01:59:35Alexa Morganan ick but I was wondering if that's what you were experiencing when you were a lot of it yeah it would be that yes yeah that's fair enough from a girl's perspective you wanted to talk about
01:59:45KJhookup culture um come on Mama come on Mama um I mean that's just like such a broad
01:59:56KJthing can we like ask more I'll switch it to something else you said girls having to make the first move okay yes I am not a girly who makes the first move
02:00:08KJI I'm kind of on the same boat with Ryan where it's like I take a really traditional approach to things like that I like when guys are shus I like when guys are going to be making the first
02:00:18KJmove like I don't go on Bumble nothing thing against bubble obviously um but just because like I don't like making the first move I think in the past
02:00:28KJthat's kind of how it has been men take the lead on that they um start the dates they take you out on the dates they kind of take that dominant role and that's what I like and have you experienced
02:00:40KJlike there's a lack of men taking initiative and like have you tried have you made the first move and you don't like it or what uh I don't often do the first move move I mean
02:00:52KJmaybe if I'm like absolutely hammered at a bar and then I'm feeling super confident maybe I'll do something there um but for the most part no I I just i'
02:01:03Brian Atlasstay away from that okay SL on the ass and Mama's into yeah Mom's into it okay you said that guys are too scared to commit because they have thousands of
02:01:13KJoptions huh that's interesting that's interesting uh I think it goes both ways I will say that but uh I would argue when women have far more options than
02:01:23Brian Atlasmen typically now perhaps there is a differential here women tend to hyperfocus on the top Echelon of men those men have an abundance of options
02:01:35Brian Atlasbut the average man does not have an abundance of options whereas even average women have an abundance of options MH okay I would agree with that okay so but you're saying guys are too scared to
02:01:46Brian Atlascommit well I would like to talk about commitment really quick so you going around the table uh do you guys think that men are scared of commitment
02:01:57Jessica Pno um some yes some no yeah same answer some definitely depends on the man but I think a lot of men in this Society are afraid of commitment can you scoot your mic that way this way here uh sorry
02:02:07KJwrong way other way yeah there you go thank you um men scared I don't think all of them are so I would agree with all of those things but a lot of them
02:02:19Jessica (project manager)would you say majority of men are scared of commitment I would give like a 6040 okay what about you um men no guys yes oh okay Alexa yeah I would say a majority of men that are ready for
02:02:32Brian Atlasrelationship no they're not afraid of commitment okay so I have another question for the whole panel um of all the guys you've dated and this could be short-term longterm uh so a guy you saw for one two
02:02:44Brian Atlasthree dates or even guys you've dated for months or longer boyfriends whatever of all the times that you've had to
02:02:53Brian Atlasto of all the times that you've had to sorry guys got distracted more often than not who is ending things of your relationships that you've had however
02:03:04Brilong or short they are are you ending it or is the guy starting with you go ahead me or always always ending yeah how many relationships have you had like I said I
02:03:16Bridon't like to consider them but if whatever you consider them serious is probably like four or five and you ended all of them yeah um it was mostly the
02:03:29Jessmen how many relationships have you been in um I've been in well you said Counting dates and like talking and stuff um I've been in two serious
02:03:38Brian Atlasrelationships I I think let me actually change it to just relationships let's do that so of the two relationships you've been in who ended it then it was half
02:03:49Ryan Abieand half okay one in one what about you half and half uh give us a number um I've two serious relationships one we broke up and that was me and then the other one he cheated
02:04:00Jessica Pbut then I broke up so that's right what about you yeah in some of my past talking stages I think I had commitment issues so I would be the one kind of ending that prematurely because I just wasn't sure what I was looking for but
02:04:13Jessica Pwith my past boyfriend I ended that because I knew exactly what I was looking for because he was a pursuer and he was a really good man and he showed me what my standard should be so more often than not of all your it's usually
02:04:25Brian Atlasme for one reason or another okay what about you I've ended both of your relationships um well I haven't been in the relationship the guy you were dating
02:04:35Brian Atlasfor one month who ended that uh it was Mutual Lexa what about you it's split I left the guy who cheated on and then
02:04:44Brian Atlasokay well so it seems like from your guys's answers here uh it's either split or y'all are ending the relationships so
02:04:57Brian Atlasis it really men that are scared of commitment or is it women because because when you guys do and also if I can give a divorce statistic women overwhelmingly initiate
02:05:07Brian Atlasdivorces 80% of divorces are initiated by women so it's interesting to me you guys really want commitment but when you get it you overwhelmingly end
02:05:20Brian Atlasit so could there I don't necessarily think men are using the word scared of commitment but it could certainly be they could be I would say could that
02:05:30Brian Atlascould could men being scared actually be justified given the greater incidence of women ending relationships and marriages I definitely get like the insecurities
02:05:41KJand them being scared like not why that why is that insecure I like I mean like if they're insecure about a girl ending
02:05:48KJlike they're scared of it um okay I get it um I would say that she was right
02:05:56KJabout guys versus men so I would say I'm 24 years old I think a lot of the guys that I see and that I know and that I meet I think a lot of them are scared of
02:06:08KJcommitment I don't think all of them are and I think once you mature more you are going to be more open to that commitment but I think maturity is taking a while
02:06:20Brian Atlasfor a lot of sure I I guess I'm always thinking like I I hear these criticisms of men of how they're as you said scared to commit but
02:06:30Brian AtlasI mean could there be justification for this perception because men's experiences their own self experiences
02:06:39Brian Atlasis that women overwhelmingly seem to end relationships and initiate divorces so then perhaps that explains men's hesitation to get married and to
02:06:51Jakeenter into committed relationships any thoughts there perhaps I'd also say that modern dating can be a bit of like a it's it's tough for young guys because like we said they're they're scared of commitment but also
02:07:04Jakethere's a lot of young guys that just don't get noticed they're just totally invisible and all of the stats bear this out in terms of if you look at I think it's 33% of young men below the age of like 21 or something have had zero sex
02:07:15Jakein the last year and yeah a lot of guys are just totally invisible to girls and this is why you see a guys who will settle for a girl who's like promiscuous or treats him like [ __ ] or it's because a lot of them want to commit to
02:07:28Jakesomething they want love they want attention but a lot of the girls have got their eyes aiming up like we said at the top sort of 10% of guys and this is why you'll find that a lot of the guys that maybe you are looking looking at don't want to commit there's a lot of
02:07:40Briguys that' be looking at you that uh that would want it but you just wouldn't be looking at them why don't you become the top percent of guys you think every guy should become top perent of
02:07:51Brishe can teach you that's what I'm teaching so so what I'm teaching the answer is not to ask girls to not look at the top perent of guys the answer is
02:08:01Brito become the top perent of guys so you can get the girls that do doesn't negate what I said because what I said course it does do you think you have everything it takes to be a husband truly and honestly right now do you think you have
02:08:14Jakeeverything it takes to be a husband I know I do then why are you married because that's not where I'm at in life I've got a very busy work and career life and guys can wait a little bit longer to get to settle down I don't
02:08:25Brihave to but you you said the goal is you are open to if you found the right girl right now you would be open to being in a relationship sure definitely so it's
02:08:36Jakenot about your time and your traveling and all that it's really about you well yes it is no it's about you just said you'd be open to talking to aou I'm open to it but it hasn't happened I'm not I'm not that fast about it why I don't care
02:08:49Jakethat much I'm I'm more in a building phase of my career career yeah but I'm not saying didn't you just say that guys should work to become the top percent of male how do you think they do that by dating girls every 2 seconds no I'm saying they shut themselves off from dating and then they they aim at a goal
02:09:01Jakethat's why when I asked you do you have everything that it takes to be a husband you said yes I do so why are you married because I don't want to be yet but you would he's got time well when when when you when you get yourself to a certain
02:09:14Jakelevel as a man and you and you cultivate yourself and and you better yourself you can get to the stage where you have options you can as that stly as a guy
02:09:25Briyou don't have to settle down5 or for of recommend that yeah but you just said you would be open right now if you met the right girl to settle down with her yes I would be open to it so the answer
02:09:38Jakeis not that you're not ready for it because you just said you'd be open to it now you're contradicting yourself perhaps I'm slow and I'm not understanding this but I I said that I'm building myself up at the moment in my
02:09:49Jakecareer so you're not ready to be a if you'd be quiet and just not let the words bounce off your forehead for a second if you build yourself up for a little while as a man you can get to a stage where you can eventually have choices and options my choice and my
02:10:02Jakeoption at the moment is to continue to build my career build my company I'm 28 years old I don't need to do anything anytime soon however if something very special did come along I would certainly be open to it that's what I'm saying so
02:10:14Briyou are not ready to be a husband because you just said I'm not going to myself if the girl was right you would but why don't you have that right girl because you're not there yet why don't I
02:10:25Brihave a nice top of ice cream in front of me right now just give I could help you don't why isn't there I could help you I have a community fix you I can help you do you have like a like a community I can join how much would it cost me per month no it's free oh it's free yeah
02:10:39Jakefantastic would I be with all the other guys yeah okay I'm sure I'd get along right with them just poach all her people for yeah you will learn there how to become that guy give me the first module like if when I walk in to school
02:10:51Jakefirst day me and all the boys were just sitting around you come up you're going to give a lecture you've got like a stick that you're going to point at the Whiteboard with sex glasses you tell me what you tell me what you're going to teach um the first segment is just the introduction introducing yourself like
02:11:04Brithe first day of school is syllabus let's skip the introductions okay then the next one is the first pillar of being a good man which is spirituality
02:11:15Jakespirituality Okay cool so you think that if a man's trying to develop and when you say spirituality what do you mean by that the way connection to God manifestation um emotional conne what do you mean what do you mean by manifestation what does what does that
02:11:27Jakemean essentially now we're going back to manifest creation of physical reality so you think that when you manifest something which is a metaphysical activity it's like you think that you're creating physical reality with that
02:11:39Bridon't you think you create physical reality with your hands you create physical real you have to do things yeah what moves your hands your brain brain how do you move your brain by having the
02:11:50Brithought how do you move your praying exactly what by having the thought by having the thought to move your hands you move your hands what did you just do you just manifested so I think that what
02:12:02Jakeyou're talking about is maybe prayer if you are truly spiritual if you're a Christian when you talk about manifestation are you talking about prayer manifestation prayer you could call it what those are different things one of them is like a gnostic term and
02:12:14Brione of them is a actual Christian term something that we actually do ran are you sleepy H are you sleepy just answer his question go no prayer is not
02:12:25Jakenecessarily asking for something manifestation is actually taking the action to do something so it's kind of like there's a there's a really amazing book that we should all read called The Secret have you heard of The Secret no oh really you've never heard of the
02:12:38Brisecret I thought you an expert in this field of manifesting that's why I have the experts I have the connections to The Experts right if you join my community you will see okay all right I'm going to move on I'll I'll join I'll
02:12:49Brian Atlasjoin I'll see what's in there hey Nick can you pull up twitch guys go to twitch.tv/ whatever guys like the video if you're watching on YouTube if you're on Twitch wow we have almost 2,000
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02:14:41Brian Atlassuper chat here from our friend uh Senor Muffin Top thank you brother appreciate the Super Chat thank you thank you I wouldn't say that me men are scared of commitment I take home
02:14:53Brian Atlas160k a year and women in America are a joke okay I got broke up with because I said I did not want four dogs in my house the unre unrealistic standards of women in this country is
02:15:07Brian Atlasunbearable four dogs wait so hold on bro but senior Senor Muffin Top what like what's the story here with the four dogs because like was it your girlfriend and
02:15:19Brian Atlasshe had four dogs or was it like a first date and this chick had four dogs and she was trying to like bring them to your pad I actually do kind of think no offense I love dogs and kind of riffing
02:15:29Brian Atlasoff senior Muffin Top here I I love dogs love dogs but it's kind of I don't know if it's a red flag but it's like
02:15:38Brian Atlasa it's a complication if a girl has pets and a dog again I [ __ ] love dogs here's here's why very often times and this is applies
02:15:51Brian Atlasto both men women but perhaps it might be a little more with women who have dogs the dogs tend to be poorly trained or not trained at all so if you're going to invite if I'm inviting you over and you're like tied to your dog and your
02:16:03Brian Atlasdog can't be left at your house or you don't have anybody who can watch him for a bit uh you typically don't have the discipline for your dog he's going to for example when I had a dog couldn't be
02:16:14Brian Atlason furniture couldn't be on the bed basic rules right discipline a lot of women want and it look it's fine people can if you want your dog dog in your bed
02:16:25Brian AtlasI kind of not for that but hey some whatever me personally I don't though dogs going to be misbehaved sometimes they're not even potty trained they're going to [ __ ] take a dookie in your
02:16:36Brian Atlasliving room and [ __ ] literally um and then it's just like okay it's the same thing with like kids or excuse me with if they're a single mom what's going on Nick oh okay it's
02:16:49Brian Atlascool it's cool okay I thought something was something popped up on my end too so I thought like something was up on the screen I got it okay yeah I thought like we lost internet connection or something
02:16:59Brian Atlasum it's kind of like a single mom like having a child kind of complicates the dating process the pet for example woman who has a pet that's going to be her number one priority and justifiably so
02:17:12Brian Atlassame with single mom your kid's going to be your number one priority justifiably so but it is tends to be a little more easy to make plans with a woman who doesn't have single kid or sorry who's
02:17:23Brian Atlasnot a single mom uh because I I mean I've attempted to do it I've not had a long-term relationship or even a short-term relationship with a woman who had a kid but I've been on one or two
02:17:33Brian Atlasdates frequent rescheduling of plans frequent with women who have kids it's just not it's really just not worth it it's the same with dogs oh my my dog something happened it's just like all right I'll just date a girl who doesn't
02:17:45Brian Atlashave a dog so is it just Dog's brand or well dogs are probably the most high maintenance um normal pet that you can have cats are
02:17:56Jakepretty you can leave them at the house cats cats dogs need walks and attention cats also a lot of the time they're in a single mother household and we know what happens in single mother households the kids are very undisciplined so I've
02:18:08Jakedated a girl with cats before and the cats had no discipline and they weren't able to go outside and I tried to put the cats outside and she like wouldn't like let me and yeah it's hard I think
02:18:18Jakeit's hard to cat [ __ ] cats yeah like dogs you can like train I think can you train cats I don't know if you've noticed it but when whenever women tend to train dogs they always speak to them when they're angry in a loving voice they'll say you can't do
02:18:31Jakethat that just doesn't work with with a with a dog you have to beat it up you got to yeah beat it no he doesn't mean physically he I mean verbally I mean see
02:18:41Alexa MorganI find it attractive when guys have dogs actually because cuz you like dogs I I do like dogs yes I like all animals yeah I don't mind if a Gil has a little puppy you know but like DS you have to train
02:18:53Jessica (project manager)well what and they bark The Barking oh my goodness you just got to find someone who trains their dog that's all yeah but a lot like it it like I I grew up with a Chow Chow you have to train a Chow Chow it's it's on a restricted breed list
02:19:05Brian Atlasagain I love I love dogs dogs are great but it does add a layer of complexity and complication to dating a woman because then oh well I got to bring my
02:19:15Alexa Morgandog with me or I got to get a dog sitter and then it's just uh yeah but I do see your point like I the I I well no I mean like when you go to about dating a woman with kids that's why it's hard for me to
02:19:27Alexa Morganfind a guy without kids because by my age they have children but it is add a layer of complexity to it soes no no I wouldn't oh we have senior
02:19:39Brian AtlasMuffin Top he's back I like dogs I have zero because of my work she had four we were dating for seven months bro it's it's it's hard enough like somebody who has one dog but if they have four dogs I
02:19:51Brian Atlasmean it's a full-time job a lot of dogs uh she you said you were okay with two dogs but four is too much likes to travel she couldn't because of dogs I mean there there's a lot of complications okay let's say you want to
02:20:03Brian Atlasmove in together at least here in Santa Barbara California it's very hard to find cuz I mean the the rental market here it's um it's very uh seller what's
02:20:16Brian Atlasit called what's the term the there's a much more demand and then there is Supply and so landlords can be like a lot of landlords no pets no pets no pets cuz it's trouble for landlords too if it wasn't a trouble for landlords they
02:20:30Brian Atlaswouldn't be charging pet deposits and all this stuff or just not even wanting to rent to uh people who have pets but yo doc thank you very much man thank you for the gifted 20 memberships appreciate
02:20:42Brian Atlasit dude uh yeah Four's a lot though and if she's moving into your place it could have ISS if you have a lease maybe the lease doesn't allow dogs um um and you know what I I mean senior
02:20:53Brian Atlasmuffin toop maybe she would have expected you to start T like okay you need to walk the dogs now now the responsibility starts falling on you so I mean it can definitely be be a burden
02:21:05Brian Atlasso yeah appreciate it man thank you thank you uh bring bringing it back to KJ though awesome yeah so KJ you had two
02:21:14Brian Atlasdisagree uh two disagreements with me uh you will start with the Brian not wanting a woman with a high body count and men can what's so can you um better
02:21:25KJState your disagreement um okay I honestly I just don't really see why it why it matters between different
02:21:37KJgenders to be completely honest well like what's your argument argument as to why men can have higher body I don't think women well I don't think I've
02:21:48Brian Atlasactually argued that is the thing um I think there are differences I think that um here's what I've said right and I'll don't know if
02:22:00Brian Atlasthis is where you have a disagreement with me on I think it's fine for a guy who has a high body count to desire or partner with a woman who has a low body count I don't object to that at all now
02:22:11Brian Atlaswomen are perfectly if women have an objection to dating a man with a high body count that's totally fine I don't have a double standard there in the same way that uh I think it's optimal for men to date women uh with low body counts
02:22:25Brian Atlasokay I well I would agree with those things okay sorry well so often times but often times um my argument and I'm not in favor of
02:22:34Brian Atlasmale promiscuity um but my argument is um because I don't think what something I got push back on is I'll argue even if a
02:22:47Brian Atlasguy has a high count which I'm not advocating for it's always going to be the most optimal choice to date a woman who does not have a promiscuous past
02:22:58Brian Atlasum everybody when it comes to dating wants to get the most uh the best partner they can get and it occurs to me for a lot of valid reasons that a woman
02:23:09Brian Atlaswho doesn't have a pro promiscuous past isn't currently promiscuous has a low body count is at least within that metric uh alone will make for a more optimal partner than a woman who is
02:23:22KJpromiscuous was promiscuous or has a ey body C I would agree with you on most of those thing like I think all of those things um I think just a lot of guys have a problem with girls having a
02:23:34KJhigher body count oh so it's like a hypocrisy thing so you have a high body you can have a high body count but why can't girls that where's the double standard they can but just because
02:23:45Brian Atlasyou're a man I get that it's more ideal though for women to have lower necessarily think it makes you a hypocrite as a man like nobody's obliged to date anybody so I don't think a man
02:23:56Brian Atlaswith a high body count is obliged to they have to only date women with high body counts if he can find a girl with a low body count and she wants to date him and he wants to date her well that's two
02:24:07Brian Atlasconsenting individuals I don't think there's anything wrong with that I yeah no I think it might if he's like there could be some degree of hypocrisy in so far as I think he's told a man with a
02:24:19Brian Atlashigh body count would perfectly entitled to prefer a woman and date a woman with a low body count now if he's like women with high body counts and he's like this
02:24:31Brian Atlasis an open judgment women with high body counts are are [ __ ] trash that would be hypocritical but I don't think it's hypocritical for you to have a high body count and
02:24:46KJrealize that you don't want to date somebody with high body count yeah no I would agree with that preferences or your preferences everybody's entitled to their own thing I just feel like it's more acceptable for guys to have a
02:24:57KJhigher one yeah I age and then expect for women to not at all however women can also I mean most women I feel like would agree with that and know that um
02:25:08KJbut I mean women can also lie about it all the time and how are you going to know you know I feel like women are always lying about their body counts so like how what is the difference really
02:25:20KJwa you could be like like a girl could be like I have a body count of three and really she's had 20 but how are you going to know so what is the matter like why with lying does it matter that much
02:25:32KJI'm not saying you should lie but I'm just saying that's like a lot of what people do cuz people know that it matters sure I think body count matters I think
02:25:41Briwomen clearly just should have lower body counts that's just the biological natural thing and I remember I told you
02:25:52Brian Atlasremember I told you this last time I think men biologically are me oh my okay hold on we've got the we've got the legend po who just did a
02:26:03Brian Atlasraid over on Twitch we'll come back to the body count discussion in just a sec Nick could you lower the volume a little bit yo po I hope you had a very good stream man oh a little too low a little
02:26:14Brian Atlastoo low I think uh maybe just a tad a little little bit lower yo po I hope you had a good stream man let me do a shout out for you overall on our twitch uh thank you so much for the raid man poo
02:26:24Brian Atlashe's a World of Warcraft Giga Chad and uh I really appreciate the raid man thank you hope you had a uh good stream I hope you got some good loot in sunken Temple Sun excuse me sunken Temple I saw
02:26:35Brian Atlasthat you were uh in a raid there I I left you a chat earlier on so really appreciate it man thank you po quick question would you guys date a French
02:26:45Brian AtlasCanadian gigachad World of Warcraft streamer twitch streamer plays World of Warcraft like 50 60 70 hours a week I
02:26:54Brian Atlasthink um he back during like classic he had Thunder fury on two Rogues so that's like quite the accomplishment are we going to pull up his IG or can we actually pull up the
02:27:06Brian Atlaskeyboard [ __ ] let's pull up the keyboard [ __ ] on this guy so ladies would you first off going around the table would you date a gamer yeah uh yes no he sounds really cool though but not my type not your type it
02:27:19Jessica Pdepends on the games that he's playing but I would say generally no if I'm being stereotypical wouldn't dat a gamer okay also generally no wouldn't dat a
02:27:27Brian Atlasgamer okay I would you would I would potentially all right Nick can you pull up his Instagram really quick just so like I think the girls are going to have a change of heart here after they see
02:27:37Brian Atlasthis absolute after they see this absolute Giga Chad shout out po did I do that oh see I don't it's like Po with
02:27:46Brian Atlastwo o w let's do a little shout out so wait ladies like you got it all right so this is
02:27:58Brian Atlasholy [ __ ] wait put us on the other side put put us on the other side would you date this guy he's a he's a he's a he's a sweetheart though uh click that first photo what's going on there po what are
02:28:07Brian Atlasyou doing bro click that first photo oh my God hang over from my 12 hour pagers in the podcast studio um okay nice scroll oh wait bring it back scroll down
02:28:20Brian Atlasscroll [Music] down look at this [ __ ] Legend So ladies like anybody like DTF or what DTR down to raed
02:28:33Brian Atlas[Music] anybody anybody anybody any take what does that mean wait pull get the keyboard photo uh the video do you know what I'm talking about Nick he looks
02:28:44Brian Atlasreally fun what's that oh wait pull up twitch really quick guys if you're coming here from p thank you again for the raid p drop us a follow on Twitch we uh regularly you know we talk about World of Warcraft and its implications
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02:29:08Brian Atlaschat yo thank you po really appreciate the raid um guys we talk about like World of Warcraft and the implications of like you know World of Warcraft when it comes to like dating all that [ __ ] like
02:29:21Brian Atlasbig factor you know what's your guys's favorite loot Council or what's your favorite loot system in World of Warcraft Bri I play
02:29:34Brian AtlasMinecraft mom would be the S Francy guy look I just don't even know what to say that okay all right we do have to move on though thank you man appreciate the PO uh we can't do the we we'll do the keyboard we'll do the keyboard video
02:29:45Brian Atlasnext time he raids us how about that um okay so where were we we were talking about body count body count oh body count right biologically men are meant to
02:29:56Brihave to create as many of their offsprings as possible so it would make sense for them to have a higher body count because a woman can only have one child at a time fism or twins Tech okay
02:30:10Jakehowever you want to say but she can't get pregnant with a bunch 100 kids at of on time but he can get 100 girls pregnant and biolog can he manifest a higher body count or are we talking about like times that you've had
02:30:22Briintercourse is that what we're talking about no like you having sex so that that's what we're talking about with body count yes amount of times that
02:30:31Briyou've had okay yes so when you men are meant to do that men are meant to create as many offspring as possible and just drop their seed as much as possible you can't do that with one woman so it would
02:30:42Brimake sense why you have a higher body count women are meant to take care of kids and nurture kids and take care of household you're supposed to do that biologically so it would make sense why
02:30:55Briwomen are meant to have lower body counts and why men are meant to have higher body counts completely agree with you okay um so wait what was the disagreement though you said not you said Brian not wanting a
02:31:08KJwoman with a high body count and men can't I just think I mean you kind of already hit it just like you can't be hypocritical in my opinion like I there
02:31:17KJJ in there end are end up being hypocrit will cool about it just don't be okay I do think there are differences though like I think promis cuy has a different impact
02:31:29Brian Atlason men and women I think they're similar but it seems to be more pronounced in women than in men like a guy I don't think that the brain damage not the brain damage the uh I'd agree with that
02:31:41TTSthe emotional damage it does is different Nickelodeon donated y thank man appreciate it we talk men in general but women are generally interested in top status men they constantly have
02:31:53TTSwomen throwing themselves at them do you think the same logic applies to him or can he be more picky do you think the same logic applies to him or can he be more picky
02:32:05Brino wait biologically he has achieved what he's supposed to do which is wom themselves create as much as possible so see top percent of
02:32:16Brimen create as much as possible have body counts it just makes sense I don't know I will say like a guy who's I think
02:32:27Brian Atlasit's impressive in the sense that any woman has the capacity to be a [ __ ] but very few men have the capacity to be a [ __ ] any woman could be a [ __ ] she could
02:32:40Brian Atlasbe obese she could be extremely unattractive any woman but typically in order for like a woman could be unattractive in a [ __ ] pretty hard for an unattractive guy to
02:32:52Bribe a [ __ ] that's what we're saying that's what I'm saying and that's why there's a difference there top percent of men have higher body counts and that's just natural it's normal it's
02:33:02Brian Atlasjust biologically how things are and how it's always been we'll put it this way it's very easy to be a female [ __ ] it's very hard to be a male
02:33:12Brian Atlas[ __ ] yeah fizzle yeah my Isle all right we have Golden Gopher Golden Gopher 24-year-old never been on a date Works
02:33:22Brian Atlassix days a week making over six figures don't smoke or drink non-practicing Christian what should I do to be noticed slind the one dating apps are no luck
02:33:34Briyou're missing one of the three pillars spiritual physical or financial Financial you got to up your game get more money save more money he's never been on the dating app works six days a
02:33:47Brian Atlasweek making over six figures doesn't smoke doesn't drink you sound shy you got an Instagram bro we'll do an Instagram review on you you know have to be more outgoing probably make the first move which I think like approaching a
02:33:59Alexa Morgangirl actually make him different you know if you go out and actually go up to a girl and ask her on a DAT I think that would make you extremely more attractive than anybody on a dating app to my also matters like if you're conventionally
02:34:11Briattractive you have to make yourself more attractive go to the gym be healthy I agree take care of yourself groom yourself take a shower like if you go up stinky fat no one's going to want you
02:34:22Brian Atlasactually I think perhaps so Golden Gopher your first mistake here I think is is your view your frame here what should I do to be noticed now men can be
02:34:34Brian Atlasnoticed but unless you have some degree of status you're going to have to be the pursuer so there's very it's very rare for like a normal average guy without
02:34:46Brian Atlasstatus to ever be the one who's noticed in other words to be the pursued women typically don't do the pursuing they don't initiate when it comes to dating typically um Sometimes women will be
02:34:58Brian Atlaslike snipers like if there's one guy they will Zero in and off even then they'll still do like token initiative they'll make eye contact with him but um some girls will approach like but it's like a sniper the
02:35:10Brian Atlasguy has to be super attractive you know whatever whatever but uh you're gonna have to make the first move man you're gonna have to take initiative you're gonna have to uh yeah I I think your frame of view here is what should I do
02:35:22Brito be noticed don't think that way just you notice the woman and pursue the women that you notice don't be noticed he's setting you up you notice how about
02:35:34Brithat he's no you up for failure with that one no you want to become not obviously yes so make yourself better so women will start noticing just become
02:35:45Jakethat just become top 1% yes easy bro just saying don't pursue what are you waiting for don't pursue women in reality in animal
02:35:56Brikingdoms the women fight over the men that's how it should be exactly the women should be fighting over it's is so obvious so I mean if you want to do that you have to become that alpha male so
02:36:08Brian Atlasshe's not totally wrong she's not totally wrong but the reality is most men aren't going to come become rock stars they're not going to be movie stars why can't they become alpha males you I don't think you like your I realiz
02:36:19Jakehow difficult it is for men in the modern day even to even get confident this guy says he's 24 years old he's making over 100k what did he say he's like a good look I didn't really read the rest six days a week makes over 60k doesn't drink
02:36:32Jakedoesn't smoke but he's never been on a date yeah so this guy's obviously doing okay I'd imagine he probably works in a male dominated industry doesn't really get to see girls much what I would say is try and get yourself into some circles whether you said you're not practicing Christian try and get
02:36:45Jakeyourself into a church where there's other girls there try and get yourself into some Social Circles doesn't like you have too much of a social life if you try and get yourself into some Social Circles meet people where you live that will really help you because often times on dating apps if you are
02:36:57Jakejust a regular average guy which it's sort of sounds like you would appear on a dating app you're going to get no love whatsoever so it's a jungle out there you got to get get out in person go meet people go to a library and find like a
02:37:10Brisemi nerdy Asian girl got libr are great for it I've done that heaps of times wait where libraries libr libraries are amazing for it just be confident in yourself if you have the confidence be confident no I'm saying if you walk in
02:37:22Brisomewhere thinking I'm the [ __ ] you're going to believe you're the [ __ ] this is the problem though realize thinking oh no girl's looking at me oh no I look like a loser this is why this is why dating these days is like a humiliation
02:37:35Jakeritual for young men and you wouldn't even have the first clue about it cuz like you're a girl and you don't do it but if a guy is not confident enough it's like be that guy be that guy be that 1% guy but then if he comes in the
02:37:45Jakeroom and he's really super confident and cocky everyone's like oh ick this guy they they have to walk that fine line between confident and not too cocky and they want they want all of this but
02:37:57Jakethat's a bit too much you can you have there is a fine line between confidence and cocky you need to know what that fine line so you just need to figure that tight rope out and walk it and how do you think you do that you do that through years and years and years of experience and then girls say oh well
02:38:09Jakewhy does he have a high body count well because in this modern world it's so difficult to date and guys need to have years and years and years of experience with women to be able to Traverse all of the 300 things that you guys want and a
02:38:20Brismart woman will know that a man having a high body count is normal and it's not unnatural and it's actually pretty natural so find I would say I would say it's a big problem because I don't I don't condone people
02:38:34Jakehaving a high body count I wish it weren't that way but I can understand from the secular dating perspective why guys tend to have higher body counts now I don't think that's ideal but I can understand when that's the messaging especially in the red pill space is guys
02:38:47Jakeshould have a higher body can what you're saying what you're saying isn't relevant to most guys because most guys don't rack up big body counts and just plant their seed everywhere what you're talking about is Sultans and Kings from the past gen Khan who's gone out and pillaged
02:39:00Briplaces and planted his seed everywhere that's not most guys most guys throughout history haven't reproduced only 40% of men have reproduced okay I'm going to ask you why what is stopping you from becoming that King from
02:39:12Jakebecoming that 1% from becoming that man what is stopping you okay so what would be stopping a man from becoming a king okay first of all kings are normally autocracy so that's like a genetic
02:39:23Jakebloodline leral King okay so stop being ridiculous okay like okay you from alpha male what stops you from being that okay so once again genetically most guys are
02:39:33Jakenot 6'5 okay I'm not 6'5 I'm bang on 6 foot some people call me 5 11 and a half they're lying okay 6 foot um you most guys aren't that tall most guys aren't that good-looking most guys don't have an aptitude towards some sort of
02:39:46Jakeintellectual Pursuit okay there's a lot of bi IAL factors most guys aren't born into Rich families okay a lot of guys have tough upbringings and they don't find their feet till later in life it's
02:39:56Jakemore complicated than that and Bes besides that even if like your logic were to apply there can still only be a 1% so regardless of what the 1% looks like or regardless of how much the block
02:40:09Brimoves up as a whole girls are still going to look at that top 1% I'm just saying it is possible to do that I'm this is going to be very quick but I came from a really rough background came from Panama third world country literal
02:40:22Briyou're pretty girl doesn't apply to you shipping I wasn't always pretty I was bullied in middle school and high school for not being pretty a lot of things went where I wasn't supposed to get to
02:40:33Briwhere I'm at I was able to come to America I was able to make my money I I have enough money to take care of myself for a long time I'm good okay I came
02:40:43Brifrom the absolute what you don't expect to get out of I came from the third world country I came from having nothing I came from not being attractive and if I'm able to do that conventionally attractive cuz people are going I don't
02:40:57Jakethink she's that pretty conventionally attractive if I could come out and do that anybody could do that first of all I would say and I'm not trying to berate you but I would say that you're at life where you're at right now congratulations on getting out of Panama but you're still showing your body on
02:41:09Jakethe internet I would say you're not aspirational for young women and when we're talking about men it's a very different thing so you you being being a female have a you live a very different life experience so when you try and tell men that you went to the wood to Arizona
02:41:21Jakeor whatever wherever you you went to Alaska and now you're going to come out and teach everyone how to be a Kang okay it doesn't it doesn't really doesn't really add up because first of all you haven't lived life as a man you haven't
02:41:32Briconquered like the things that men have to conquer I I have 100,000 followers on Instagram I talk to them I DM them I listen to their stories they come to me with their problems they're like bri this girl doesn't like me Bri I don't
02:41:45Briknow what to do I'm such a loser I don't know what I hear all their stories and I'm I'm like there is ways to change this like the problem actually starts within yourself there is ways to change this you calling yourself a loser and thinking that you don't deserve anything
02:41:58Briis the start of why you're a loser and why you think you don't deserve anything if you think hey I am someone who deserves something you're going to start believing that power manifestation that's all I'm saying you can become
02:42:10Jakethat 1% if anyone else could do it then you could do it too that's why we have free will that's why we're on this world and that's why we can do whatever we want look you're you're not wrong that having a positive mentality about yourself and having aspirations is
02:42:22Jakedefinitely something that youal like I said I'm going to talk for a second like you said you're not wrong about having that good mentality and whatever you call manifesting I I wouldn't really use that word but I'd say you want to set
02:42:33Jakegoals as a man but when you set goals as a man it's very very difficult to actually achieve those goals and when we talk about the 1% no matter what we're always going to be talking about the 1% do you understand that the 1% always
02:42:44Briexists yeah so not everyone can cram into that little 1% well you should at least aspired to be that you shouldn't be comfortable I think being comfortable is a man's Worst Enemy being comfortable
02:42:56Briwith where you're at or thinking oh it's okay that I'm not that is your first problem you should at least aspire to be that no not everyone can be the top 1% but you should at least want to do that and the closer you get to that 1% the
02:43:09Jakemore stuff that you're going to get but do you understand that that's largely unattainable for the the vast vast majority of men you do understand that unable if you're 5'4 born in Liberia okay and you're working in a Cobalt mind
02:43:21Briyou think that it's it's pretty possible for you to get to that 1% would you say just manifest it there is a way to get out of anything I'll say that if I could get out what I got out of anybody could get out of anything okay so once again
02:43:33Jakelet me just reiterate to you that the female when I start talking I'm going to finish my point so once again what I'd like to say is that for the female perspective it's very different the what what a man and a woman if you're a
02:43:43Jakepretty young lady in the 21st century living in a western country you're not only the luckiest person to be alive right now you have the best life out of anyone that has ever existed ever if
02:43:54Jakeyou're a pretty young girl that lives in the in a western country you have to do jack [ __ ] you don't realize all of the infrastructure that goes into your into the roads and underneath all of the roads you think that when you flush your toilet it just goes and it's gone you
02:44:07Briturn the light you're talking about something El now you're talking about something else I agree with that being pretty and Living in America and just it kind of all you just put your bom on Instagram and it's just yeah it just
02:44:18Brikind of handed you but I didn't get to that point just by being born at 1 years old and I was already already had everything and I already was given everything no so if I could do it and I
02:44:29Briwas bullied in high school for being ugly so if I could become conventionally attractive not attractive to everybody before the comments go crazy and lose their [ __ ] but wa wait this is like
02:44:41Brian Atlasbreaking news so you said you had it rough in Panama yes dude I have somebody [ __ ] dming me so you know the Panama Canal right yeah like your family owns
02:44:51Brian Atlasthat [ __ ] don't [ __ ] don't lie to me bro this chick is a billionaire like you're an aist dude you know how much money goes through the Panama Canal just to be a [ __ ] boat that goes through that
02:45:02Brian Atlas[ __ ] you got to pay tens of thousands of dollars or some [ __ ] Bro be honest tell the [ __ ] truth your family owns the Panama Canal doesn't it I wouldn't be sitting bro I got like a I got 20
02:45:14Brian Atlaspanamanians in my DM saying yo that chick she's from pan panaman in [ __ ] royalty you going to sit here at bro be honest okay you you had that pampered
02:45:25BriPanama Panama [ __ ] I came from a freaking shipping container in the slums of Panama I had Z at8 at 16 my mom kicked me out if you watch the video that you brought up last time the soft
02:45:37Brian Atlaswhite underbelly video though yeah if you watched it you would know cuz I talked about the whole I got 20 Panamanian Nationals telling me bro your family is involved with the Panama Canal
02:45:49Briyou guys own that [ __ ] you're like you're plugged in bro saying okay forget that say see she doesn't even want to address it she doesn't even want to address it I'm saying is I never had it I not always had this I would kicked out
02:45:59Jakeat 16 all the odds were against me if I was able to pull out of that then anyone can pull out of that look I'm I'm not I'm not diminishing your life experience and I'm sure you've had a tough time and everybody you know has their own things but also there are certain advantages
02:46:12Jakethat you just can't look past in life and being a pretty young lady which you obviously you have some sort of a disposition to be to be reason pretty and you got a few surgeries and now you are sort of what people would look at as somewhat of a fetish online I guess yeah
02:46:24Briyeah so it's it doesn't seem like the most look like that I wasn't 10 years old looking like that when I was starving in Panama so I obviously had to make it out somehow how did that's what
02:46:35JakeI'm saying I was a waitress how did you fly I was a waitress in Panama did you fly from Panama yeah I F from Panama so you didn't have to go across the southern border or anything no I came on
02:46:46Bria tourist visa and then I figured my way of getting into college so I could get a student visa and then now I'm able to
02:46:53Jakeget a green card well congratulations I mean it's a it is a nice story I think there are some objections I've had about I would have about if I if I could do it literally anyone can it's good that
02:47:06Jakeyou're not that you're not in Panama living in poverty anymore if that is if that is your story so I'm just saying I can help men because I have the resources I don't think you can help men I think that that's where that's where
02:47:15Briyou cross a line I can help men help themselves I I can teach them that they are able to get something out of themselves they can't be miserable laying in bed
02:47:27Jakecrying miserable can I can I can I ask you if you if you weren't doing what what work are you doing at the moment um right now yes I don't do only fans anymore okay then what do you do for
02:47:38Brimoney you don't want to disclose that right now what do I do for money well right now I have enough money that I don't have to do anything okay luckily I
02:47:49Brihave gotten to that point but before I've had regular jobs I was a church camp counselor I was a waitress I yeah and if you if you didn't do obviously of
02:48:01Jakewas something that gave you a financial like it picked you up financially able to give you all these things like the surgeries that you've got and you're able to have a bit of cash in your pocket if you weren't doing that what would be the thing that would make you
02:48:12Jakethe aspirational person that you claim to be what would I have done what would be the thing that you would do if it wasn't anything to do with your looks what would you bring to the world that would make you an aspirational person that people would look up to and think I
02:48:24Brishould follow that well that's what I realize now I realized only fans was great to get me out of the situation I was in great but I can't do that forever and it's not something I want to do
02:48:34Jakeforever which is why now I want to help people which it's good to it's good good to realize by the way that that you shouldn't do that forever that's cool but what is the thing that you would do
02:48:45Jakenow that you could I'm going to help people what I said I'm going to help men but you haven't actually been able to outline how you're going to do that though you've kind of just given a bit of like a Tony Robbins typ type talk I just honestly for the sake of the
02:48:58Brian Atlasconversation I'm I have to move things forward um we have let me do two chats we have kill of Cal pick 6'1 180k a year so this is for the ladies you're going
02:49:09Brian Atlasto pick between two men 180k a year fit 8 in PP but has a horrible World Outlook and a negative attitude in general or 4 foot 2 30k year
02:49:21Brian Atlaschubby did I 5 foot2 oh my bad my bad uh he has I'll pull it up 4 in PP but he has a positive outlook and oozes confidence and Swagger
02:49:33Briwhich one do you pick you have to pick one yeah I'm choosing a 52 I can't ever be with someone with a negative attitude it's all about their mind I I could never choose that it's great I would choose the second one I would also
02:49:44Jessica Pchoose the second one I think I would choose the first one because you know I I think men have the potential to have a positive attitude and to grow but you
02:49:55Brian Atlascan't fix the other [ __ ] can yeah yeah you know the short small PE you can that's you can't change it you can't change it all right wait did I'm sorry I didn't mean to interrupt you though did
02:50:07Jessica (project manager)you want to add more that was pretty much yeah what about you I go with the second okay yeah I would go with the second I admittedly go with the first I have a very positive out outlook on life I can make him positive like make up for
02:50:19Jessica (project manager)it in the relationship like you'll balance it out a bit okay I'm I'm the positive one anyway so I need someone who I mean is that the only downside that he has a negative attitude that could be pretty pretty big though right
02:50:30Brian Atlasthat would be miserable horrible World Outlook you know Lally complaining all the time i' be miserable we have a chat here from Golden Gopher all assumptions are spot
02:50:41Brian Atlason Jake oh are we pulling oh we did say we'd pull it up so insta uh Nick if you're able to find that I can if you want I can copy and paste it for you if
02:50:52Brian Atlasthat's easier uh 510 225 are you ripped um family business managing 40 men ages 18 to 55 is a Stanley Steamer
02:51:02Brian Atlasfranchisee I have a twin sister and most girls I know are her friends okay uh Nick I'm going to send that to you in just a sec while we're doing that yo John boy thank you for the uh Prime over
02:51:13Brian Atlasthere I think that was a prime over on Twitch thank you man' appreciate it oh wait hold on bro did I add an extra period in there
02:51:23Brian Atlasah okay I see what I did wait bro Jake hold on before I P I don't want to pull up somebody else's Instagram I like there's a per there's too many underscores and periods in here is the period at the end is there supposed to
02:51:36Brian Atlasbe a period at the end is it just a picture of you you like a dog is that your profile Pro I'm not going to pull up somebody you have to like confirm bro bro DM just DM me on
02:51:47Brian AtlasInstagram DM me on Instagram I'll look in my request folder uh and we'll get that pull up in just a sec okay uh KJ your final thing here for our pre-show notes you also disagree with me not