00:57:21Jessica (project manager)to me and I recognize that and and when you are dating someone and you date someone that has he was former military he did two tours to Afghanistan I dealt with [ __ ] I will tell you that in a relationship and I loved him through all of that and he was
00:57:34Jessica (project manager)someone that wasn't willing to admit or go through it with someone else and I even had family members of his say hey you know what he might not be a good guy and I said that is something I take into consideration and I'm going to be honest
00:57:46Jessica (project manager)and like I said the way I date is I say if I this is someone that I can date seriously and if I had a son who was like him and I can be proud of him I will stay in this relationship I got to the point where I said I'm afraid if I
00:57:57Jessica (project manager)had a son just like him I would be afraid of my son so I said I need to leave and the fact that I happened to catch him cheating at the same time I I had a a suspicion Every Woman Every Woman feels it at some point and you
00:58:10Jessica (project manager)think you go crazy when you feel it and I even told him the week prior to catching them cheating I said if there's someone else if you want to be in a different relationship that's totally fine tell me now cuz I was 24 at the time and I said you're not going to take
00:58:22Jessica (project manager)my best years I was like real talk I'm going to give you 3 years and if there's not a certain rock on a certain fingerer I'm going to walk out not cuz I don't think you're a great guy but because I'm not going to commit to someone who's not willing to commit to me especially I
00:58:34Jessica (project manager)agree when you're younger this is your Prime make the most of it don't [ __ ] it up yeah I was going to say he kind of took your best years cuz you're like 2 I was 24 I went to the next relationship 24 is still young I went to the next
00:58:47Jakerelationship it was a great relationship he got deported I can't control immigration that's that's not in my business do you want to get married as well do you want to have kids you don't no it's not in the plans
00:59:00Briat all do you think that that's because you're young and the things that you're doing at the moment on on um well besides like the whole three husbands thing like I just don't want a relationship I don't believe in monogamy either what do you want to do with your
00:59:12Jakelife what what looks good for you in 20 years time when you're sitting there 43 years old or however old you'll be where do you hope to be I'm going to be
00:59:22Jessica (project manager)manifest helping people just helping people as much as I can can I ask you one question I'm just curious what think what makes you think you have the credentials or the knowledge and superiority to give anyone else advice
00:59:35Briso I really don't but I know a lot of people and also living in Miami like you're con very well connected so so you know other people that know knowledge I know experts and I have the resources to
00:59:47Bribring so you don't know anything is what you're saying I know what I know I know my knowledge but I can't have all the answers and that's just the truth nobody has all the answers I can't sit here and say no I have all the answers the dating
00:59:58Jessica (project manager)and I'm going to save your life like I have to bring in help you know what do you know you specifically not your friends not your connections what do you
01:00:06Briknow I know that you need to find that confidence within yourself first and believe that you are truly worth it to
01:00:17Bribefore you ever even look at anyone else I agree so you shouldn't be looking at someone else like maybe they'll save me maybe they'll make me better maybe I'll be happier if I'm with them you can't
01:00:28Jessica (project manager)get any of that unless you do that yourself I 100% agree so if I went on so if I went on 50 dates and I knew my worth and I knew that just because someone was interested in me that I didn't want to settle for that what what
01:00:40Briis different than what you're advising um I don't think you should even wasted your time on those dates then how would you know you've never met these people well you're not with them now like what what value did they bring
01:00:53Jessica (project manager)it was a quick date it was efficient it was it was I respected their time I didn't spend several weeks with them talking on an app I said hey would you like to meet for a coffee they said yeah let's go spend an hour of my time if an
01:01:04Jakehour of our time went really well and we 50 hours yeah you work that in a week if you actually work a real job to invest in a relationship from a guy's perspective it can be slightly red flag if they go on heaps of dates but the
01:01:16Jakefact that you're like not leading them on is is a good thing if you go on a date and you say hey I'm not so interested you can deal with that for sure but if you lead them on and you're dating the same 14 guys and none of them know that that you're not interested then that's bad but if you tell them at
01:01:29Jakethe end of the day hey enjoyed your time not really interested but thank you that's fine like sleeping with the I want to know like it's a practical thing to do first where did you find these
01:01:39Briguys dating naps dating app so you think you're going to find a high value Mana dating app it's a possibility I was trying to she's on Rya so I guess it's
01:01:50Brian Atlasbetter over there I guess um I'm ariia and I could tell you now that you're not going to find a why is there like a little animosity here you know what I almost feel cuz you you seem to be coming for Alexa here a little bit I'm
01:02:02Brinot I'm just saying you asked me for my opinion and this like a c right now but then she got a little defensive I'm trying to say don't get defensive I'm not attacking you I'm not defensive bring it on I'm I'm happy you know what
01:02:13Brian Atlaswe should do we should let the viewers decide we're going to let the viewers decide so cuz you're kind of coming at her you know look she you're making saying things about her age and stuff I
01:02:23Brian Atlasthink we should let the viewers decide we're gonna do a segment called who would you rather date and we're gonna have Bri versus Alexa hat me pull up their Instagrams you're going to pull up
01:02:36Jaketheir Instagrams they kicked me off I'm I'm actually going to do we're going to pull up their Instagrams and I don't for the record Bri I have no animosity towards you okay can I suggest that we have them that them like State their
01:02:49Jessica (project manager)case as why they're not they're making this out of nowhere I'm not trying to attack you I'm just saying like I have no problem with you coming from for me and saying I'm 20 I actually I agree can you do on ttch if I was hooking up with a different person every random day and
01:03:01Jessica (project manager)I was trying to find find love through that yeah absolutely I hope one of my friends would be like girl come on let's be real you're not in your early 20s I didn't even do that in my early 20s though yeah wait Bri is your name is it
01:03:12Briwith an e at the end no or just b r i b r i i two I what are you crazy b r i i e l l a s no I'm just going to do Brie that's
01:03:23Brioh you're just writing my name Bri and then two x's right okay we're going to do a poll we're going to do a poll they literally came me off show last
01:03:34Brian Atlastime so I'm not going to consider this I'm talking about no they may like you a little bit so there's the poll came kicked me off of your last time oo okay that's pretty rough so far hold on don't
01:03:45Brian Atlaspull it up yet and then is it on Twitch I don't know let me see if it's on does anybody have say your okay so here's guys here's what we're going to do you each have a 30C opening stat guys guys guys you each have a 30C
01:03:58Brian Atlasopening statement to make your case why they should date you instead of the other person so go ahead go ahead Bri you start first don't date me I'm not competing just I'm not competing for
01:04:10Brian Atlassome losers on the internet I don't care about them I don't care did you just bro don't don't call them losers bro okay but I don't care about them first off I'll have you know everybody all the 10,000 people who are watching currently
01:04:22Briare all [ __ ] gigachad millionaires huge penis all of them well I'm never going to say why I'm better than another woman because I honestly don't consider myself better than any other woman how do I do
01:04:35Bria PLL on Twitch just just answer do you think that some women are better than other women I feel like some women can be more confident in themselves but that doesn't make them better do you think that you'd rather have a baby with a 24y old woman
01:04:45Jakethan a 34y old woman well a 34y old like she practically can't have a do you think that implies do you think that implies standards that some things are better than other
01:04:56Brium I don't I personally myself I would not sit here and try to say why it's better to date me than date her cuz so you just you just criticized her for being 28 okay that's your opinion fair enough but then you're implying that
01:05:09Brithere's something better if they're younger so that would no I'm not saying that being that if she was younger I'm saying if you want to have a baby you need to hurry up because you have like six years left and I think that that's a that's a good point but all I'm asking
01:05:23Jakeyou is you're saying that you don't think some women are better than women like what are you talking about okay the twitch PLL is going up you have one minute to answer okay no no no no no you're keep going I was just no I was just saying um you you were saying that you don't think that they're standard
01:05:35Briyou're saying that some women are not better than other women oh I'm saying me personally I am not I don't care what anyone else thinks why do you even get out of bed in the morning
01:05:44Briif I am not going to sit here and be like oh you should date me because I am this or I do this like no why not because that is the dumbest thing I I'm
01:05:55Brinot going to compete with a woman like that especially not for men so what else did you compete with women full I don't compete for men first of all cuz like I said I'm not interested in getting married or having kids
01:06:06Jessica (project manager)so just help okay State your case Alexa O Okay so sort of along the lines wait tilt your mic down oh sort of along the lines of what oh that doesn't work
01:06:18Jessica (project manager)it needs to be I tighten it this way yeah perfect oh the sides loose hold on is that good yeah you're good so first of all I will say I don't compete with other women I think it's it's a waste of time because here's the
01:06:31Jessica (project manager)thing my mama said since I was I was raised by a single mom and I will say she's always said there's always going to be someone prettier than you smarter than you taller than you thinner than you all you can work on is being the best that you can be so if you focus on what other women are doing you're always
01:06:43Jessica (project manager)going to be let down Point Blank period that's beautiful for me I will say I don't come up from the most great background and I recognize that so I this is your pitch I'm I'm getting into
01:06:55Jessica (project manager)it I don't know okay all right so it's one of those things like you're a Salesman sorry not a Salesman okay sorry sorry sorry woman my bad but it's one of those things like be I something that differentiates me from other women is I
01:07:08Jessica (project manager)can recognize my flaws and the things that I need to work on and I don't think I'm high in Mighty and above those things so I have worked on those for the past several years of my life how do you know that that separates you from other women because a lot of women aren't willing to admit wrong how did You observe that by competing with other
01:07:21Brian Atlaswomen anyways no by hearing from other people and it's also working in a m do I have private chat pull that up in another tab then we'll have the YouTube chat visible before we see the results of the poll I'm going to read we know
01:07:32Briwhat the result and I don't have a pitch because I'm not going to sit here and tell some people on the internet hey please pick me I I'm the one you want to marry I promise like I'm not going neither of us are pck me that's that's
01:07:44Brian Atlasnot even the wor shut the [ __ ] up hold on stop stop like oh but I recogniz stop the woman prattle hold on that's on me not you stop stop stop stop stop stop hold on let me read
01:07:56Brian Atlasnever said silence okay Nickelodeon how are you going to teach men when you can't form a coherent sentence she just wants to find men with enough time and money to waste a lockdown do you want to respond to
01:08:08BriNickelodeon I have formed plenty of coherent sentences just like the one I just formed one second ago so all right cool and then we have bro why do they always want to kick me
01:08:23Brian Atlasoff thank you man hold on I'm going to up crawl daddyy here hey thank you Jessica has the vibe of a girl I fall in love with right before I get drafted into World War
01:08:33Brian AtlasI and then I carry around a little picture of her in my Bible a that's cute that's such a like compliment I've ever received yeah it's like a very interesting unique compliment all right
01:08:46Brian AtlasNick can you pull up the twitch and then I want uh the Youtube chat visible over there too so pull up the twitch that I sent you in the private chat and you can just pause it go uh
01:08:57Brian Atlashide hide the for you oh my God it's [ __ ] wait there's got to be a better way to do this hold on hold on get okay on the for you side hide that [ __ ] on
01:09:08Brian Atlasthe side okay hide it yeah just hide that you'll have to pull it back up now it's this is going to be and then pull over the YouTube pull over the YouTube this is
01:09:20Brian Atlasgoing to be like Inception Ridiculousness wait is the pole gone holy [ __ ] the top no on Twitch did it disappear on Twitch sorry guys we're [ __ ] amateurs over there on Twitch
01:09:32Brian Atlasall right never mind we're just gonna have to do it based off of the YouTube one I missed the results rip uh those of you watching on Twitch I'm in the chat now can you just tell me who won the poll like what were the
01:09:45Brian Atlasnumbers on the poll over there on what was the results for the poll on Twitch 86 for said what
01:09:52Brian Atlaswas the per does it say a percentage 86% 86% so Alexa won 86% to Bri and then over there on YouTube it looks like it's
01:10:02Brian Atlas8020 yeah 8020 in favor of Alexa so Bri I mean even though you know six years younger I mean Alexa's edging you out here what's going on bri I never said
01:10:13Brithat I was the better option over here and when you asked me to put my pitch I didn't put a pitch cuz I never said I was the better option and they kicked me off last time and they're saying kick
01:10:24BriBri off please right now so I'm not going to take that seriously you don't want to so oh yeah should we do their Instagrams really quick CU Brian I feel
01:10:35Brian Atlaslike you trying to put us like against each other it's not bro you were sniping at her for like 10 minutes I wasn't sniping at her I was saying that she needs to table was she sniping at her there some Snipes there there were some
01:10:46BriSnipes I was not trying to snipe at her I was being realistic I just say what's on my mind honestly I have no filter so that's just my problem thank you
01:10:56Brian Atlasthank you um let's do the Instagrams really quick Alexa first I'm never on instagr all right there's Alexa's on the whatever podcast boom Jesus Lover World traveler ex googler wait you used to
01:11:07Brian Atlaswork at Google I did good times adrenaline junkie former Miss teenage California 2014 10 years ago okay recipient of three gold three gold presidential
01:11:17Brian AtlasService Awards what wait what's that so I have uh was that George Bush who gave that [ __ ] to you uh that was Obama Obama so I have a lotun hours just kidding just kidding good good times uh scroll
01:11:30Jessica (project manager)down a bit Nick let's see some of the all right there she is okay I don't post often this is like the past four years all in like all right Game of Thrones she's on the throne I like your
01:11:41Brian AtlasInstagram it's very wholesome now is that [ __ ] AR on Grande What the fu looks like it I got pulled inung now now we're going to see Breeze we're uh we're pulling up Breeze
01:11:53Brian Atlasinstagam here oh that's uh Haram we can okay oh my God Bri I need to actually ask you something that I brought up last show but okay um scroll
01:12:04Brian Atlasdown Nick scroll down bro this is Haram Haram to Pro I mean it's on Instagram so
01:12:12Brian AtlasI assume it's fine Bri what is this Bri okay um that's me Bri I got to listen be
01:12:21Brihonest yeah I asked you previously yeah we were talking about plastic surgery yeah you said you hadn't had plastic surgery well I had my Bo on and your lips correct I never had my lips done I have my boobs done and my teeth done the
01:12:35Bricontouring of your face doesn't suggest that you've never had your lips done well I'm sorry to tell you that why okay we did this last time I'm going to be honest about the things that got done because why would I lie about getting my
01:12:47Brian Atlaslips done but I'm honest about getting no you can just tell by the contouring of someone's face if their lips are natural well I can tell you what I got done and myth I'm less interested in the lips I'm more interested so I think I
01:12:59Brian Atlasasked you I think if you had any lipo and if you had a BBL nope give me a break three you've got a no never you've got two full basketballs in there why
01:13:10Brian Atlasnever Bri I never got a BBL okay but hold on just just so you don't try to like weasle your way around this conversation did you have maybe there's
01:13:21Brian Atlasa different procedure that was focused on on your butock that is not called a BBL have you had a procedure done have you had any enhancements any
01:13:31Brian Atlasenhancements to the the the the gluteus maximus region no like I said bro GRE I went it's right there on your Instagram
01:13:42Brithis thing isn't even a my Instagram is my ass someone possible that's what I'm known for no actually okay so I'm going to tell you a quick little thing I blew up on Twitter when I was 15 years old
01:13:53Brifor having a fat ass I'm sorry I know Yik bro yeah I was yeah I was 15 years old I posted a picture of me and a bikini that's how I blew up on Instagram that's how I blew up on Twitter that's
01:14:04Brian Atlashow the following I have thank you for sharing is because I've just had a fat ass hold pull that pull her Instagram back up this is so CA this is so click
01:14:12Brian Atlason the first photo yeah brav I'm sorry like okay you can see it actually bro Bri come on dude so go go um question
01:14:23Brifor you Brian why would I why would I be honest about having my boobs son and my teeth Arrow no back Nick yeah Arrow yeah why would I be honest about having my
01:14:34Briboobs and my teeth done and then I would lie about having my butt done more people lie about you got the B Bri why you lying bro Bri you have a BBL stop lying wait hold on does the girl next to you have a BBL yes Amanda has probably
01:14:48Brian Atlaslike eight bbls bro you guys got like the exact same thing hold on uh next well wait uh hold on no like is there one more wait
01:14:59Brian Atlashold on God damn move [ __ ] frat get the [ __ ] out of here God damn bro how long has this [ __ ] go okay oh my God trans bubble bite I'm sorry bro but it just don't look that don't look normal
01:15:11Brinext I think the last no there's a video go ahead this is where you can definitely tell hold up I look way skinnier than like you could tell which one's fake and which one's
01:15:22Brian Atlasreal hold on what the we can see it moving dude that I'm sorry Bri you got a BBL why you lying son like two sa of Po I'm not going to
01:15:34Brisit here and lie about having a BBL and then be like but I got my titties and my teeth done and I have hair extensions excuse us you called yourself a uh virgin because you manifested it so excuse us for not trusting you I'm going to be honest we need to do another poll
01:15:46Briwe're doing another poll in the because does she have a BBL is the poll well if they followed me since I was 15 they would know so you're saying no one's going to admit to following you a lot of my followers are watching this and they
01:15:58Brian Atlasknow that it's so Bri just just so we have it definitively you have not had any modification besides GL my teeth my boobs what about the Lipo though boobs
01:16:10Briteeth what about the Lipo look how skinny I am look at my arm I have fat for lipo you think I have fat for lipo look at my arm how skinny I am but there's something that happens to the
01:16:20Brian Atlasstomach when you get lipo like it it it skinny like it tightens your belly button the my belly button looks normal look at my belly button dude I'm not you
01:16:30Brimight have LiPo belly bre I don't have LiPo belly cuz I never had lipo I am so skinny and I've been so skinny my whole life there is no way I could possibly
01:16:40Briget lipo like no way there's no fat to get look at my stomach there's no fat to get out of my stomach that is how skinny I am You're such it's just like even if
01:16:51Brian AtlasI wanted a BBL I'm not 100% certain on the B uh excuse me on the Lipo I'm not 100% certain on the Lipo there are some signs of it I don't but come on you got to
01:17:03Brian Atlasfess up you got to confess I weigh 110 lb okay for moving on from the Lipo thing I'm not I'm not 100% on the Lipo 10B I can't you've had something for the
01:17:13Bribooty I don't know if it's implants I don't know if it's BBL why you why you never got BBL because I'm too skinny for a BBL I've been 110 lbs since I was like
01:17:24Bri12 years old [ __ ] liar you're a [ __ ] liar well I don't care does I got my boobs done I'll tell you that does she have a BBL I'll tell you all what I did get done I have my B by Dr
01:17:35BriMiami I got my veneers done in Miami I'll do that I got my teeth done in Miami and I got hair extensions those are all the modifications I'm starting
01:17:45Brian Atlasthe poll does she have no BBL no at shots it's it's like right why do I have a perfect body I don't know Brian oh my God kill me I don't think a BBL butt is perfect I think it actually looks worse than the normal butt to be honest well I
01:17:58Bridon't have a BBL why does my body look like it's fake I have no idea that's just how I was born did you forget did you forget the plastic surgery you got no I know what I got I got my boobs done
01:18:10Briand I'm getting them done again in June and I told you this last time yeah I'm getting my boobs done again cuz I want to get them bigger oh my God B what are you doing so I'm going to get my boobs done
01:18:19Bribigger okay that's I'm not going to lie about surgery and then be honest about half the surgeries but lie about other fix like if I was saying if I was saying
01:18:30BriI have no surgery at all I'm totally natural then it'd be like okay like stop lying but why would I sit here and I think we should ban plastic surgery what do you think Jake I don't know sometimes it looks good if I were to say oh I got
01:18:41Brimy boobs done and my teeth done and my hair done but I didn't get BBL and be lying about that like why would I lie about one cuz obviously the ass is somewhat of a feature that you're somewhat proud of but I'm selling my
01:18:54Jakeboot honestly I'm selling my body my boobs and my butt yeah there it's a moing girls will come into to these podcast and they'll say all kinds of things that aren't true to attract to certain audience now the guys think that your ass is real and there's a novelty cuz otherwise you're just another girl
01:19:07Briwith a baby L but you have a natural one ex exactly that's what I'm saying mine is real I had I didn't like my boobs so I got fake boobs now I have fake boobs
01:19:17BriI'm selling I'm selling my whole body basic on the internet I'm selling my boobs my butt I got thake boobs and I will be honest about that you don't have to be honest
01:19:28Jessica (project manager)we can tell yeah so I'm going to be open about I'm not going to be here like oh I didn't get my boobs and they're real they're real like and here's the thing I have no problem with plastic surgery if that's what you want to do to make yourself feel better and more confident
01:19:41Brithat I just don't like when people lie about it be careful you don't end up looking like Michael though I yeah well I don't like when people lie about getting surgery oh Bri you're lying about it right now I'm not I'm not she's
01:19:53Brigoing to come in here in a few years literally looking like Michael and then like it's all it's all real just you know what it's not it is not who hurt you it is not an offense to me to say
01:20:05Brithat I look like I got surgery because a lot of girls pay a lot of money for that so the fact that I was naturally given some of the features that girls want even if you paid for it it's not a big
01:20:16Jessica (project manager)deal but it's like just own up for it that's the whole thing like BR your lips aren't real your nose aren't real your fillers real my nose isn't realse you don't you have it P I'm actually getting my nose done in June because I
01:20:29Jessica (project manager)don't like my nose don't get your nose done it's a beautiful nose don't don't my done in June because beautiful girl you're a beautiful girl know your work manifest it and know that you don't need to get that stuff no but I'm I'm
01:20:42Briliterally getting my nose and my boobs redone in June because I don't like my nose and I want bigger boobs I'm open about the surgery I'm getting I tell everybody when I was getting my boobs done I posted all over Tik Tok so you've
01:20:53Brihad your boobs done twice I've got my boobs done once itce no I got my boobs done once February 15th by Dr Miami I posted it I'm trying to I'm trying I
01:21:04Bridon't know why he thinks that okay I had boobs before I was a C cup before Brian thinks that I got my boobs done before mhm I was just born that way I didn't
01:21:13Brilike them I wanted them bigger plastic no I was born with SE cups I don't know popped out the [ __ ] womb okay well I'm not going to argue it's kind of a compliment they think
01:21:25TTSthat it's fake because it looks good so they think it so actually I I'm I think plastic surgery makes women look worse well I don't have surgery $200 can we Chuck Norris style
01:21:36Brian Atlasroundhouse kick Bri out of here no violence we're not going to Roundhouse kicker no yeah and bbl's don't look good yeah bbl's don't look good well good thing I don't have a
01:21:47Brian AtlasBBL good thing I don't have a BBL All Right Moving On Moving on but I don't lie about that stuff wait this just in your plastic surgeon is about to like
01:21:56Brian Atlasget [ __ ] up with HIPPA cuz he just dm'd me and he's like bro she's got a BB I'm just kidding oh to say Hippa out the
01:22:06Brian Atlaswindow it's all [ __ ] up obviously like unless Dr Miami is dming you right now I don't know anyways okay we're coming back really quick to we were
01:22:16Jessica (project manager)doing your dating app profile review um pull it up one more time just quick through like one sec three seconds what's up the first so you really think my nose was fake wait what the the the edge is tipped like the tip of your nose
01:22:29Jessica (project manager)is pinched and then your lips are full that's juvaderm not um you think my nose is fake so I shouldn't get it done in June I think you have a great nose I don't think you should touch your nose honestly don't touch it all right you
01:22:41Brian Atlashave a beautiful nose Okay so this was Jess yaps too much just pass through real quick yep yep that's it that's it oh okay you
01:22:52Brian Atlasyaap too much Jess what what do you mean by that that I talk a lot haven't noticed it so far uh what do you mean you talk too much or you you y too much when I get
01:23:03Jakeinto a deep conversation I just tend to give us a demo let's hear it you said you stud psychology are you on the spot let's go I do what are the what are the kinds of things that you like to Y
01:23:15Jakeabout oh I like this guy hold on a second the attention's briefly not on you I'm sorry are you talking about Psy yeah I'm I'm saying like what what interests you if you say you Yap a lot and you get like to get into deep
01:23:28Jessconversations what are some of the things that interest you um I mean I don't know I I'm only a year into college so I'm not like super deep into it yet I've only taken like six classes what kind of stuff are you
01:23:42Jessstudying what do they teach these days in Psychology um sociology um I'm taking I took two Child Development classes because I'm trying to focus on um becoming a children's behavioral
01:23:52Jaketherapist so I'm trying to you know study children psychology more what are some of the modules like like who do they teach I know there's some good ones that Jordan Peterson talks about sometimes early early life behavioral
01:24:04Jakepsychologists what kind of stuff they teaching you what does it take to be a good behavioral psychologist for a child I don't know yeah I've only been in school for a year aren't they teaching anything in that year we are it's just
01:24:14Jessthe basics like we God I took a gap year so I'm it was two years years ago when I
01:24:24Jessstarted college and then this year I took off because um money issues and then I'm re-enrolling um next semester so it's been a minute but you know they introduced um the most popular
01:24:37Jesspsychologists and um we so you like Freud young you know Joseph gamble all these guys yeah we talk about their studies and then you know do projects on it um lots of drug talk and how it affects children um John P I think he's
01:24:49Jakethe child psychologist behavioral psychology you know him John P I don't remember I don't interesting so like did you get into it because you're interested in psychology and sociology and all these things was there a a prior interest I
01:25:02Jakedidn't know what I major I wanted to do so it was kind of an impulsive decision I noticed that you said you like suicide can't say that sorry um self self deltion boys what do you mean by that
01:25:12Jakethat sounds like you kind of it's like a band isn't it oh is it a band yeah oh [Laughter]
01:25:21Jessokay yeah when I said I got too much when I said I Yap too much I meant like when I you know make a connection with people I tend to just talk a lot that's all so if you know if you're my friend if you get to know me I'm going
01:25:34Brito get comfortable with you and I'm going to talk your ear off very interesting very interesting so you don't like us cuz you're not talking I'm sorry what did you ask you I was asking
01:25:46Briif she liked us do you like us I mean I don't know any of you you're all very beautiful do you think she has a BBL l it's okay if you say yes I was born this way I don't know I don't really know the
01:25:58Jakedifference I don't I don't stare at the difference of what like a is honestly do you want me to stand up when show you can I I mean we saw it on Instagram oh yeah we saw the whole thing um can we just go around the table really quickly does she have a BBL I want a straight
01:26:12Jakeanswer and I don't want like a yeah but she's really pretty straight answer go yeah I have no idea I wouldn't know what one looks like you wouldn't know what a BBL looks like
01:26:24Ryan AbieI would just imagine like a really fat ass but I'm not is not that you're yeah just you're just like a tiny person like I don't know never seen a BBL before I have but on somebody probably a little
01:26:35Jakebit bigger no maybe yes see yes I would say yes no you don't think she's got a BBL
01:26:47Jakethis is the cont your contrarian here well I feel bad you guys are like picking on her do you do you think that she doesn't have have a BBL because because you feel bad or I feel I felt kind of bad you guys were like counting
01:26:59Alexa Morganon her for this I mean she could be working out a lot I don't wear G you tell in and I I don't mean that disrespectfully but that's how you can tell the difference between I was trying there so I think you're gorgeous no one's ganging up on you but you can tell
01:27:12Briin the thighs when someone works out and they actually work for it well I see I don't know I was just I don't know what if you guys think my ass is so fat which I don't think it is that fat but if you guys think my ass is so fat that it
01:27:25Jakelooks like I got a BBL I'm going to take that as a compliment you should I'm going to take I'm going to take that as a compliment I'm not going to be kind of a Latino are you I'm Panamanian PanAm do they even have big booties if you said
01:27:37Briyou're Colombian maybe you would have SED me a little bit Columbia is next to Panama Panama used to be a part of Columbia so yes we all come from the same ancestry yeah okay I haven't seen that many panamanians around what's the
01:27:47Jakepopulation of Panama like 4 million okay have you been there I was born and raised there yeah little baby L's around e actually surgery is not very common though really I went to Columbia and
01:27:58Brithey all have bbls 18 years old boom BBL Panama is more strict like more like conservative so it's more looked down
01:28:07Briupon to like get bbl's and get surgery when I got my boobs done my family was like freaking out but I got it done anyway you said you're from a
01:28:17Briconservative family like Panama is a conservative country yeah like more like rules and like it's looked down upon to get surgery and like wear a lot of like
01:28:28Briskimpy clothes and things like that let's look down upon so when I got my boobs done and I told my mom was G she lost her [ __ ] what did they say when you
01:28:37Brigot your BBL well I didn't get a BBL that's what I'm saying I can't like I'm not going to lie about one thing and not lie about the other if I wanted to lie about being natural I'd be like I'm 100%
01:28:49Brinatural and I'd push that [ __ ] like I was pushing I was being a virgin ask Brian I didn't fold to the people saying oh no but you're ly you're life true you were pretty truthful about that I don't like I'm
01:29:01Brisaying when this way SC your that way when people push me I'm not one of those people that's going to be like folding like oh no if you would have fall over on onto your bum would you bounce would
01:29:13Brihave bounc probably not because it's not that F okay look I'm going to be honest my butt is not that fat I mean it's nice like for my shape for how skinny I am it
01:29:25Brian Atlasdoes look round but it has I'm moving I'm moving this on this is this is ridiculous so I don't know how you think I have stop you're being disrespectful and mean to Bri Bri is being honest and
01:29:37Brian Atlasactually more logical than you guys you are trying to bring her down you sound ideologically driven by the rules in the Bible leave the judgment to God what we need is love compassion and openness
01:29:47Brian Atlaswell actually I can make a very simple secular argument here um lying about something you you can object to that why whether you're Christian or not and it's very evident that she's lying about a
01:29:59Brian Atlasgreat multitude of things what am I lying about you've lied about the fact that you're a virgin and when did I lie about being last show and on another podcast and then you're also lying about the BBL thing but we're not going to linger on it but I have a question why
01:30:11Briare you so obsessed with my with my fake real butt I actually I'm not why you so obsessed you love it do you want it you want to eat it I'm going hit my vape out
01:30:24Brian Atlasis I'm not lying is that you're lying about it that's the issue I don't I'm not like focused in on the booty I'm like why you lying about it I feel like if you're going to do something full
01:30:35Brisend it if you're going to get your boobs done tell everybody that you got your boobs done make it all out that's why I'm getting them bigger cuz I want them more obvious that it's fake I want
01:30:44Brilike I want that so if you're going to do something be proud of that [ __ ] stand on business if I get a BBL which I can't because I'm too skinny and I probably
01:30:55Briwould if I could um if I got a BBL bro I'd be showing everybody my BBL I'd be that's what you're doing oh my God I would be literally freaking telling
01:31:05Brieverybody to we're going to do the next dating app review next dating app review if you follow me since I was 15 you guys would know look up briad line 15 years
01:31:15Brian Atlasold that's y well hold on hold on hold on hold on hold on no really it's on Google you can see my bikini picture that's weird that's really weird for you to say I'm just going to move entirely
01:31:26Brian Atlaspast that that's kind of gross no it's on Google you're encouraging men to look at your young F that's really weird Bri that's super weird that's you being that's you being weird I didn't post those they're on Google because that's
01:31:39Brian Atlashow I blew up that's all over Twitter are they on Google because you posted them I posted on Twitter when I was 15 that's a crazy thing to say dude disavow bro the you the whatever podcast ain't
01:31:49Brian Atlasabout that [ __ ] weird [ __ ] that she just said [ __ ] disavow that immedia uh she says she goes crazy so this is Ryan here she goes crazy for like 30 minutes a day not just 30 minutes a day
01:32:02Brian Atlaslike 30 minutes a day next uh so I'll fall for you if you're chivalrous um so crazy shus okay
01:32:14Brian Atlasnext and then dating me is like going through TSA is there another one or is that it for her what's TSA like when you're going to an airport okay wait so why why is dating you like going through
01:32:25Ryan AbieTSA okay I want to be completely honest I got this dating app about 3 months ago when I finally felt ready to go on a date again um and I was at a bar with just all of my co-workers and they created it for me I could not think of a
01:32:38Ryan Abiesingle prompt I was drunk um so they made it for me and I turned it on for about a week and I've turned it off but when was this 3 months ago cre it uh I want to challenge you
01:32:51Brian Atlashere a little bit a lot of women will claim oh like the sort of quirky my friends just made my dating app for me and I don't really like as a way cuz you
01:33:00Brian Atlasalmost view the use of dating apps as pathetic so it's like a a way to reduce your uh culpability I yeah I see what you're saying I absolutely see like a
01:33:12Brian Atlaslot of women will be like oh my friends made it for me when it's like this I you might be being honest now but the two prompts the TSA and then the going 30 minutes a day those are from my
01:33:24Ryan Abiecooworker Tyler hi Tyler um the chivalrous one that's absolutely me the pictures are all obviously all me but yeah I was kind of just wanting to see who what kind of guys are in Dallas
01:33:34Brian Atlasdidn't love it so it's off now oh okay you're not you're not using the dating app really then no not really when's the last time you sent a message on the app oh gosh three
01:33:47Brian Atlasmonths AG two I guess two and a half months ago probably oh okay so okay there's the crazy so that he was wrong about the going crazy for 30 minutes a day thing you could I mean a lot of people would probably say that you said
01:34:00Ryan Abieit was a male friend who said that up no her name is Tyler oh her name's Tyler and she was trying to get you dates or trying to scare men away that's the prompt that she uses it was just a quick one I OB like I wasn't planning on
01:34:12Ryan Abiegoing I didn't go that's what she uses for her profile yes and then same with the TSA one can I ask I don't get the going crazy for 30 is it like Zoomies for cre I
01:34:24Brian AtlasI don't know it's a really bad dating profile quy thing to say I guess so I was very cringed out by it that's I it's off
01:34:34Brian Atlasokay um so you are desirous of chivalry though yes that one is 100 okay why is that those are just the types of guys that I've dated okay so what does it
01:34:46Ryan Abiemean for a guy to be chorous um I guess more traditional I guess it usually honestly starts with just the way that they would speak to me it's more of a respectful way I
01:34:58Ryan Abiewould could name a couple things but like they're they're so basic just like opening a door like the car door I feel like that's it's not like a expectation but it's so sweet when they do it I just love it um I don't know flowers on the
01:35:10Jakefirst date are cute flowers on the first date okay it's not again not an expectation it's just like cute I know but yeah it's it's tough though these days you don't really want to do that men get pun men get punished for doing
01:35:21Ryan Abiethat in the westst they do yeah yeah so just more older things that you know how many First Dates have you been on oh maybe like
01:35:32Ryan Abiefive only five I've dated two guys for a long time so between that time yeah I'd say five oh Nick you can um get rid of the uh the
01:35:44Brian Atlaschat yeah otherwise people are going to be just staring at at the whole show um all right oh let me end the poll here so okay you want you want chivalry um don't
01:35:55Brian Atlasnecessarily think there's anything wrong with that I just like to see people holding up their end of the bargain so if your expectations are men do all those things what are you expected to
01:36:06Ryan Abiebring early on in a relationship to be deserving UPS said chiv yeah again I want to say I don't expect it but when they do it I absolutely love it and that's what I'm attracted to
01:36:17Ryan Abieum I I mean overall like are you asking just like what I bring to the relationship um I I guess but or even early on in the dating scenario yeah I I
01:36:28Ryan AbieI mean what did y'all say earlier kind sweet and attractive I mean I would say I'm a very very kind person I listen to people I support them if I support them
01:36:40Brian Atlasum on the first date how would you support someone on the first date oh if we're talking about a first date that's a little bit different but you have it sounds like you have traditional gender Ro
01:36:50Brian Atlasexpectations immediately right on the first date chivalry flowers opening the car door paying for the first date treating you in a gentlemanly way um so what are some of the things that you would do immediately that you're
01:37:03Brian Atlasbringing to a guy because perhaps 3 months into a relationship you might fall into your traditional gender roles but what do you doing upfront that's traditional I would say I'm going to do my best to look the part what do you
01:37:14Ryan Abiemean look the part I'm going to do my makeup do my hairit I would say so and then I'm going to be kind to them while they're on the date I'm going to thank them for the dinner and then we're going to couldn't
01:37:26Brian Atlasa non-traditional woman do all those same things yeah I'm sure it's not clear to me though if like looking nice putting on makeup doing your hair
01:37:36Brian Atlasis like a specifically traditional thing because like a super liberal Progressive feminist could do all that [ __ ] too totally um I guess let's take the traditional part out of it and just say
01:37:48Jakethat's what I would do I think it makes sense but like in the first date though this is where it's diff because men are expected to do things that embody traditional on a first date for a woman generally you want to be kind sweet
01:37:59Jakeattractive look pretty show up be sweet all that but it's what you've done outside of that that makes you traditional so if you've been like a massive hoe over the series of 5 10 years and then you rock up and say oh I'm traditional you better be
01:38:12Jaketraditional totally that's not that's not okay but if you've embodied certain values throughout your life and you come to the date and you act according to a traditional standard then that's fine
01:38:23Jakethen you can expect some sort of chival yeah I agree with that I don't really think there's necessarily so many things that a woman has to do on a first dat besides be there be sweet and kind like
01:38:34Ryan Abiewhen you date are you dating uh like are you talking to multiple guys at the same time no not I'm not saying sleeping with them but I truthfully like can't and I sometimes don't understand how a lot of
01:38:45Ryan Abiegirls can I can't all I'll forget things and then I would yeah that's too much I could say two at one time maybe but but then I don't know once you fall for somebody you kind of just don't really
01:38:58Brian Atlasyou can't get out of that I feel like you're just into them and like why pay attention to somebody else you're just like doomed to sure and I I'm not trying to come off like I'm coming at you but there is it does seem that even for
01:39:09Brian AtlasLiberal Progressive Fe even feminist women there's this very gendered expectation on men that they still uh uphold their Traditional Values
01:39:20Brian Atlaswhen it comes to or they adhere to traditional gender rules rather when it comes to the initial stages of dating even for Liberal Progressive feminist women and it's kind of like this frustrating thing for a lot of men where
01:39:31Brian Atlasyou have these women who are not traditional themselves but demand traditional treatment from men and frankly they get it anyway is because
01:39:39Brian Atlasmen are uh just we bend over backwards for anything pretty much but um so yeah right
01:39:50Brian AtlasBri yeah she was manifesting she no I only said that because she was totally zoned out she wasn't even she wasn't listening to what I was saying so um we
01:40:00Brian Atlashave one more dating app review scared we have who do we have we have KJ right KJ all right this is uh KJ here
01:40:11Brian Atlasfirst round is on me you can guess my real name okay next next uh key to my heart is a fat Mar on
01:40:22KJthe rock Rock next tell yeah brother don't hate me if I call myself Mama too much what wait what do you mean by the you call yourself mama what what are we talking about yeah I it's just a habit
01:40:34KJI've started picking up where I'm just I use myself in third person I will refer to myself as Mama started off as mommy this this this is a very this a very common mistake that I find that girls
01:40:46Jakemake on dating apps the first bit was great you look very sweet you had a photo with your mom that was amazing but then you started call myself Mama girls aren't really funny and Men we don't we
01:40:58Jakedon't care necessarily if you guys are fun some women can be funny I I haven't met many very like maybe a small handful but we don't really care if you guys are fun if and I'm just this is not even
01:41:08KJadvice but if I were a girl I would keep the jokes off of my profile okay I don't think that I'm like damn whatever whatever I don't think I'm funny um I will never say that I'm definitely not I
01:41:19KJdon't think I was she were you trying to be funny with that or no just literally it's literally just I don't even think she's I'm sorry um no I don't think I'm funny I
01:41:31KJwould actually never try to put a joke on there that would be embarrassing cuz I would definitely fail in that area call calling yourself Mama that was like a no I literally I just do and like I don't know it's just my personality I'm
01:41:43KJnot going to go on there and try like super hard honestly I'm just going to put myself out there and whatever what is the context what is the context in which you're calling yourself mama I'll just be like Mama's working hard today
01:41:55Brian Atlasshe's she's working that's manifesting a future it's multiple times today okay wait is this like will you
01:42:08Brian Atlasincorporate this into your if you're dating a guy will you be like Mama brought home mama got the goods no you ready for Mommy not on the
01:42:18Brian Atlasfirst day okay that comes out later look look at our good friend here Dario Reeds Canadian 140 I hate to give more money to this podcast because brixen has
01:42:29Brian Atlasturned into a misogynist the fact that you harp on her lips and she clearly explained she has no reason to hide it actually I didn't really linger too much on the lips but uh more harm is done than good happy to come on in chat
01:42:40Brian Atlasanytime to set things straight uh Dario reads bro I agree I have no reason to hide anything is it really a is it really misogynistic to to question
01:42:51Brisomebody when they're lying to you is is that like the new am I lying to you yeah you're lying why am I lying to you no like were you there in the surgery with me or something like did you watch
01:43:01Jaketextbook simp textbook textbook simp she obviously loves the attention she's really enjoying it she was enjoying us showing her Instagram talking about her ass she here to promote her only fans Dario stop
01:43:13JakeI'm not here to promote my only fans actually I quit only fans but yeah but you you enjoy the attention we all know that you enjoy the attention it's not you're not traumatized by it so it's
01:43:23Brian Atlasfine yeah wait Dario I have a question for you dude without Googling it Define misogyny I've got a question for you darny dude have you ever seen the clown the clown that hides from gays that
01:43:35Brian Atlashides from what the clown that hides from gays have you guys ever seen the clown that wait let bro Jake Jak please please let's let's avoid like uh I think it's probably a little like to okay I
01:43:48Jakethink I don't think so but yeah okay I'll avoid it what's that his wait it's is it like yeah no no it's it's saying if you haven't seen the clown that HIDs from gays the Clown's Harding from
01:44:01Jakeyou oh gotcha okay I don't get it have you and he was talking about humor have you not have you not seen it no is it like a
01:44:11Brian Atlasvideo or some [ __ ] if you haven't seen it I mean no I haven't seen it I haven't seen it no fair enough fair enough I have guys we have a lot of uh we we have like extra eyeballs on us
01:44:24Brian Atlasfrom YouTube and like twitch and [ __ ] so I'm just trying to be more careful with I won't say anything no it's okay it's okay I'm just trying to like make sure we don't say like anything [ __ ] TOS cuz like extra eyeballs on us um just me and you
01:44:37Brian Atlasbro okay so wait viewers do you swipe yes or do you swipe no on her profile I guess yeah swipe yes swipe no uh let's get into the we're gonna get
01:44:49Brian Atlasinto some of the pre-show notes Here for everybody um let's see hold on wait okay so we have talking stage single single uh really quick on
01:44:59Brian Atlaseverybody who's single so um are you really single like there's not some guy in the picture so well you're in a talking stage Jess is that correct yes
01:45:09Brian Atlasthere's some guy in the picture for you Bri no no guy in the picture for you there's no guy in the picture no guy none not even talking to a guy no not even like hooking up with a guy nothing
01:45:21Brian Atlassingle for 6 months yeah okay no guy in the picture no guy in the picture uh talking stage for you if I recall no guy in the picture nobody not even
01:45:30Brian Atlastexting and then Alexa any same single come on okay well all right okay so uh let's get into some of the
01:45:40Brian Atlaspre-show notes here so we're going to start with did car uh let's see she didn't show up uh we are going to start with Jess so Jess you're a feminist is
01:45:52Brian Atlasthat corre correct I don't think I said that when I texted you in the response to your thing said you're
01:46:04Brian Atlasfeminist pretty sure you did if I did that was a mistake well hold on don't walk it back because perhaps yeah you said okay 20 Rous single Oceanside apolitical
01:46:15Jessfeminist okay um that was a mistake then CU how how mistake how would you because I didn't want to scoot scoot to the mic to the edge of the table please please I didn't want to text anything that I didn't want to talk about so I
01:46:27Brian Atlasapologize for that wait what what do you mean like I don't want to debate this kind of things like debate what about Fe feminism wait so point of clarification are you a
01:46:39Brian Atlasfeminist um it depends on your definition so okay here was the question that we sent you like three weeks ago and you reached out the question is do you consider yourself feminist traditional or other to which you
01:46:53Jessresponded feminist then I apologize apologize for what don't apologize you can just say you not a feminist if you I I don't think I'm a feminist it
01:47:06Jessreally just depends on the definition because I feel like different people view feminism in different ways very different ways so I don't really want to label myself as one which wave of feminism are you I just believe in
01:47:18Brian Atlasequality that's it so first and second wave yes okay wait so you're not a feminist or you are I'm just going to go with no well hold what do you mean you're just G to go
01:47:30Jesswith no because like I just said there's people have different definitions of it people believe that feminism we can cross examine see if you want well I ask you the question because I don't want to
01:47:41Jesssound like one of those girls like oh I hate all men I hate all men you know um sure that's fine you can be a I suppose you can be a feminist and not hate men I'm not I'm I'm not a feminist
01:47:53Brian Atlasthat was that was a mistake in our text I'm sorry so you're traditional then no other na what is other na I'm just confused because the question was do you consider yourself a feminist and
01:48:05Brian Atlasyou responded feminist and that was a mistake and I'm sorry but I'm I got to give you a little push back here because you it seems like you're not you're
01:48:16Brian Atlasrefusing to stick to the identification that you provided because you don't wish to talk talk about the topic of feminism no it just sounds like I made a mistake I think maybe my mind was somewhere else
01:48:28Brian Atlasand then I read feminism and or feminist and then I wrote down feminist right but if I could rewind like 60 seconds didn't you I've never called myself a feminist that's fine but 60 seconds ago didn't you just say that you don't want to talk
01:48:39Brian Atlasabout that yeah I don't want to debate feminism with you so is that why you're now but is that what is that why you're now walking
01:48:51Jessback your self-identification as a feminist no cuz I wouldn't have said that in the first place I didn't mean to say that in the first place well I'm so then why would you not want to discuss
01:49:02Jessfeminism it's just not something I want to debate about CU I don't necessarily know your beliefs on the whole men and women equality probably cuz she sees how you attack me and then she's like oh [ __ ] I don't want to get attacked like
01:49:14Jessthat yeah I guarantee a lot of women don't want to bring up certain things that they believe in cuz they don't want to get into it with you because literally you come on here and then then you come and ask you guys do realize
01:49:24Brian Atlasthat hold on bri stop you do realize that this is an adversarial dating discussion show where we often get into debates I mean yes and there's there's certain things that I'll gladly talk about and there's just other things that I don't want to and there's some things
01:49:38Brithat maybe I don't think I'm educated enough to talk about so I don't want to and there's a difference between a debate and a nice argument about something and then you
01:49:49Jakecamey you came in bad faith straight away you can't talk you have bad faith you can't talk you on the other hand if you wanted to like we don't necessarily have to debate anything but if you wanted to obviously you don't have to but we could take it issue by issue and see what you think
01:50:02Jessabout things and see if you can have your mind changed or if you can change our minds that's fine but I'm just trying to say me saying that I was a feminist and our text was a mistake do you think you think that
01:50:13Brian Atlasthere's something wrong with identifying as a feminist no not at all it seems a little bit like a
01:50:23Brian AtlasI am a feminist but I don't want to get bulldozed by Brian in a debate over feminism so I'm just not going to say I'm a feminist sure oh so H hold on but
01:50:35Jesswhen you say sure do you mean yes because you're just kind of assuming at this point I I believe would I be wrong to assume you a feminist when you said you were feminist no I'm I'm not going to label myself and I told you that was a mistake I think about 10 times now
01:50:48Jakethat I would imagine that you have some view that you think probably do align with feminis want to De it the issues that's not something I wanted either same with politics and same with religion because
01:51:00Brian AtlasI'm not educated enough on either that's that's a self-aware thing to say I respect do you do you consider yourself you said you're
01:51:07Brian Atlasapolitical yeah okay huh interesting uh right
01:51:15Brian Atlaswell uh let's see you said you were cuz in number 14 you said that you disagree with many topics the host speaks
01:51:24Brian Atlason but also can agree on many as well actually and I'll open this up to the entire panel to let them in but one thing we typically do is we like to hear from people who disagree so um I would
01:51:36Jesslike to start if uh what so what are your disagreements and we'll start there I mean I didn't make a list I texted you back as I was studying your podcasts and
01:51:47JakeI I can't what do you mean you can't can I just say if you did if you did have things that you disagree with I know that you maybe don't necessarily want to go into anything adversarial but you're more than welcome to bring them up and and we won't like yeah I just I
01:52:01Jessdon't want to bring up like I don't want to bring up a specific topic and start a whole debate like if you know if you say something if you say something that I disagree with I will cut in really will
01:52:10Brian Atlasyou if I think that I can give a good input on it yes right but I mean this I'm am opening it up for opportunity for anybody who does disagree with me on
01:52:21Brian Atlasanything at this precise moment and I'm starting with you um well okay look in your pre-show notes mhm you said I disagree with many topics the host speaks on and I'm happy
01:52:33Jessto engage with you on that these messages were two weeks ago and I I thought that you were the one who brought up most of the topics that we talk about or it's just a discussion and it gets pulled into well you've seen the show right so okay well and I just ask
01:52:44Brian Atlasyou what do you disagree with me on I don't have anything named right now you I didn't know that you were going to ask want me to guess hold on you want me to guess what you disagree with me on why don't you just State what you disagree with me
01:52:59Brian Atlason I you have you seen the show or just seen Clips you've seen full shows yes not are you aware of the nature you and you dm'd us first correct yes requesting to be on the show yes and you're aware
01:53:11Brian Atlasof the Fairly adversarial nature of the show where we do like have heated debates about dating related topics mhm okay and you stated in your show notes
01:53:23Jessthat you disagree with many topics the host speaks on do you care to articulate at least one um can you come back to me can you
01:53:34Brian Atlaswhy you these messages week ago well hold on we have multiple G I think we have a couple girls here who've reached out even prior to that right and if I were to start asking them questions they
01:53:47Brian Atlaswould happily engage with me with their pre-show notes I'm not going to press you more but I have given you ample opportunity to engage in the
01:53:58Brian Atlasconversation I'm warning you now if you're refusing to engage I'm not going to really be particularly inclined to come back to you again is that is that fair I'm not refusing to engage I just have but is that fair I'm not going to
01:54:11Brian Atlasmake any further efforts in this conversation to reel you in is that fair for you that's fair because I've attempted but if you're just going to Stonewall then I I for the sake of the other panelists I don't want to have
01:54:22Brian Atlasmeta conversations like this okay okay all right moving on we're going to talk to KJ you said you were almost engaged