HEATED DEBATE! She ONLY Dates FAT Men?! He CHEATED On Her With Her MOM?! E-GIRLS! | Dating Talk 286

Date: 2026-03-16

Duration: 8h 57m

Guests

NNicole (Kansas)

Brian Atlas

LLexi (Chicago)>

BBri Nightwood >

KKaylee Chico >

Identified Speakers

SPEAKER_02Julia(guest)

SPEAKER_03Kaylee Chico(guest)

SPEAKER_04Lindsey(guest)

SPEAKER_05Jenny(guest)

SPEAKER_07Laetitia(guest)

SPEAKER_08Chris Love(guest)

SPEAKER_09Maria (NC)(guest)

SPEAKER_10Lexi (Chicago)(guest)

SPEAKER_11Veronica(guest)

SPEAKER_12Brooklyn(guest)

SPEAKER_14Bri Nightwood(guest)

Key Moments

IntroAll guests introduce themselves

ControversyVeronica cries and rage quits during weight rejection debate

ControversyLindsey rage quits/kicked off after confronting Brian

Key MomentMichaela drove 2.5 hours to date wheelchair man with warrants, chose him over green-flag guy

Key MomentLexi: 27yo boyfriend cheated on her with her biological mother when she was 17

Key MomentBri Nightwood: throuple with Satanist DJ with 12 dead exes and subliminal mind control

QuoteBri made $1M from dick ratings on OnlyFans (10,000+ ratings)

Topics Discussed

Guest Introductions + Findom

Lexi (findom $10K/mo), Chris Love (Playboy/stripper), Brooklyn, more.

Rage Quits

Veronica cries and rage quits during weight debate. Lindsey also rage quits/kicked off.

Lexi Ex Cheated With Her Mom

At 17, her 27yo boyfriend cheated with her biological mother at a hotel.

Bri Satanist DJ Throuple

Throuple with DJ who had subliminal mind control frequencies, altar for taking souls, 12 dead exes.

Trivia Failures

Chris Love can't name Canada. Valerie guesses 7 states in USA. Jenny thinks France capital is Italy.

Transcript

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Juliadoing that. Yeah. 10,000 a year. Has anybody here ever felt like any shame? >> I thought about it. >> Or they have a you have an Audi. >> Well, you know, you you I have a kid. >> Yeah. >> Sometimes people get lioplasty after they have a kid.

Julia>> Oh, wow. >> Cuz like a baby. Like, you know, babies are big, bro. >> I mean, it happened after you had your kid. >> I don't know. I just feel like it's not like >> I don't know about that. >> It's not the way it was looking. I don't

Laetitiaknow. Yeah. I was thinking about cuz Megan Fox got one. Oh, >> okay. Well, >> so it's a thing. >> Do you like camel toe?

Jenny>> Um, do I like cameltoe? Um, that's a crazy question. >> Well, I mean, you like labia, so I was just wondering is is it like a thing for you, too? >> Most likely. >> Like you can see the Are you like if I

Laetitia>> Yeah, like if we're like at the gym and you can literally like see that thing. >> I No, not not particularly. >> Okay, cool. I don't think it came to really does much for me, but

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Laetitiahand of a a male to actually have like an entertaining conversation? We got this. >> No, I'm just kidding.

Laetitia>> All right, let's see how bad the viewership drops off after I leave. All right, so >> I mean, they aren't here for you. >> You're from Chicago, correct? Are you? Yeah. So, >> I literally [ __ ] get up. I get up and she's asking a [ __ ] geographic

Laetitiaquestion. Nobody gives it. >> What? I was following up. You didn't even let me f I was going to go. >> Oh, do you like deep DISH PIZZA? WHO THE [ __ ] >> I WASN'T GOING TO ASK ABOUT this pizza.

JennyI was GOING TO ASK HER SOMETHING ELSE. >> WHAT? >> SO, about the, you know, lady, >> you want to ask her about where she's from? >> No. So, I was going to say, so you're from Chicago? I am, too. So, uh, when it comes to like night life out there, do

Laetitiayou, uh, >> Nobody gives a [ __ ] bro. What are you doing? >> Oh, okay. >> Who comes to the night life? >> No. Yeah. >> You want to ask her? Oh, do you go to that bar on [ __ ] Sixth Street? Nobody gives a [ __ ] What are you doing, lady?

Laetitia>> No, I was. So, >> somebody else ask a question. Come on. Competence. Let's see it. >> Crazy. >> You I believe >> going to ask about your dating life and the night life. But okay. >> So, yeah. Um, >> who's had plastic surgery? Raise your

Maria (NC)hands. >> Me. Me. Boobs. >> Yeah, me too. The boobs. Yeah. What about you, girl? >> Mommy makeover. Well, I lost a ton of weight and so I had a lot of loose skin and then my abs sewn back together. You feel like it's ch Well, you've been with the same person, but do you feel like

Maria (NC)it's changed like your dating life after you got like plastic surgery? >> For me, not for him. >> Cuz I feel like people objectify me more now that I I attract meaner people. >> My husband likes me. >> Yeah. I like the worst lesbians. Your

Maria (NC)husband like >> My husband likes me to show off my body and >> he would prefer my boobs were out all the time and stuff like that. It was But like makeover was for me. >> Yeah, of course.

Maria (NC)>> Because I had lost a lot of skin. Then I had my son was 10 and a half pounds. So I had a lot of loose skin >> and um between that and losing weight. So that made a huge difference for me not having the extra skin down below.

Maria (NC)>> So you feel better? >> Yeah, I feel better. That's amazing. I had my abs sewn back together, too, which is amazing because I love going to the gym. >> Did you It was like >> this big of a gap in between. >> I used to be a fitness instructor.

Julia>> Yeah. So they sew them back together. Yeah. Cuz there's no way like you can't do traditional crunches and stuff. Did you get diasticis recti? >> No. >> No. Crazy. And you guys are the only ones with We're the only ones with kids, right? >> I think so.

Lexi (Chicago)>> Yeah. It's crazy. You have three? >> Yeah. Um mine looks the same. >> She said mine is all good. >> It does good down there. >> Do you feel like dating as a mom You're single right now?

Veronica>> Yeah. >> Do you feel like dating as a mom is hard cuz people don't respect that you're a mom? >> Yeah. Mhm. >> Um, but honestly, I don't I think I just want to stay single. I don't want to bring anyone around my kids. Like,

Julia>> yeah. I'm always scared to bring somebody around them and then like they'll break up with you in like the most savage way possible and then you need to like be a mom the next day. >> Yeah. And then you have to heal in front of your kids. It's not worth it. >> My son was like, I don't introduce people I'm dating to my son, but he's

Jennylike, "Oh, mommy, why are you sad?" >> That he's like, "Are you happy?" He's like, he's foreign. He's like interrogating me. >> Does dick size matter to you guys? >> That question's irrelevant for me. What about you guys? I don't like dicks.

Lexi (Chicago)>> I would say yeah, but it's like I don't want it too big. Like I don't want something >> I just care if it's like five and up. Five and up is good. Five and under. >> I agree. I think five and up is good.

Lexi (Chicago)>> Five and under. You better be carrying some good energy. Like seriously, to replace >> See, that's how I know that I don't like guys cuz like the fact that you would like go for like some people would overlook that

Lexi (Chicago)>> and like love them despite having a small penis. I feel like that's like real love. >> I would I would love a man if he had a small penis, but he like really like took care of me and he loved me back and I knew that I was loved, you know? >> Also, I feel like you can work with

Jennysmall. It like it does more than you think it does. >> Definitely. >> Yeah. But no, what I was going to ask you was when it comes to you like going to work, well, you too, cuz you said you're a stripper, right? So, in the city, do you ever run into just like

Jennysome straight up weirdos that are constantly trying to like I know there's the homeless people and there's some weirds like always walking the street, but have you ever dealt with like stalkers or like people just following you straight up?

Veronica>> I got follow people. >> I got person. They're like they stay in their own little groups. >> Yeah.

Veronica>> No, here. And yeah, the way they talk the way they talk to each other is like I don't know. It's like definitely like a separate like in LA there's like a homeless community and they don't really

Lexi (Chicago)interact like with like other people >> like in Chicago like the homeless people are so like not even noticeable like you don't even notice them even when you're >> place right by here I walked by and there was like three or four of them.

VeronicaThey were just kind of hanging out but they seemed like they probably hung out there that same spot like every day. One time I dated a girl who turned out to be couch surfing >> and she was like she actually she was super masked like she literally looked

Julialike a boy but it turned out she was like a homie hopper. Like does anybody know what a barracks bunny is? >> I know what a homie. >> She was a barracks bunny and like my ex-husband was in the military. A girl that like you know like if you want to get laid you're going to hook up with this girl.

Jenny>> So like my super masked to the point that people thought we were like heterosexual. She was a barracks bunny for men >> and she was like buy on the low. >> It was pretty crazy. >> Do you live in her car? Do you do any like um if you don't feel comfortable

Jennyanswering that's fine but besides only fans do you do like clubs like escort anything? >> No nothing else just o for three years straight. >> I feel like a lot of girls in LA are lowkey escorts cuz like the math ain't

Jenny>> say in Chicago escorts are very like it's more it's more recognized and I would say only fans like they're very popular. >> We have poker girls in LA. Do you guys have poker girls anywhere else? >> No. >> Like there's these like really high

Jennystakes poker nights >> and it's it's like sex worker adjacent. Yeah, I wouldn't do it though. >> The Yeah, I know there's a poker scene like in the city, but I've never like heard of any like other girls and that, but like I just know that it can be very dangerous if you mess with the wrong

Jennypeople. >> That's what happened. My friend married my friend that now she does Only Fans married one of those guys and they were really weird. >> Yeah. Yeah. Know, I've been like offered some like contracts and like when I went and like sent it to my lawyer, it ended up coming back and they're like, "This

Jennyis like I mean there's going to always be those companies that have those things, but like as soon as it pops up was crazy." like >> Yeah. >> I feel like it's just not worth like your mental health. >> Exactly. And also too, I've never done

Jennyanything like that before. So when I was like I was like did I like I was like if I want to transfer to this I was it would change like my morals and everything and it was like I don't want to just do it for the money and I was like I'm not going to change who I am

SPEAKER_13just to sell my body. So >> wait I have a question. You're you're by right? You like girls. >> I'm not really I'm I'm more gay. You're more >> Yeah. I don't really like guys at all. So, what is your opinion on like sex workers? Would you date somebody for if

Juliathey did like sex work? >> Probably. But then I don't really date feminine girls. >> So, I don't really think it would come up, but it would depend. >> Yeah. >> Maybe not. Like I I'm monogamous. >> Would I date someone that does sex work? >> Yeah.

Lexi (Chicago)>> That is a girl. >> Yes. >> Can you speak straight? >> Um, I would not. Why? Because I also don't date feminine girls. And also moving forward, um, like it's just like

Lexi (Chicago)rare for me to even like date a girl. >> Yeah. You're looking for like you know what you're looking for. So it's not in your cards type vibe. >> Honestly, I feel like I messed around with a lot of girls when I was younger because you know like I'm just like

Lexi (Chicago)sexually free and like >> Yeah. Like sexually like I'll do a lot of things but like romantically like to like involve myself moving forward I feel like it just like has to actually mean something for me to want to pursue

Laetitiait. >> Yeah. Okay. But if like even if they weren't like very like feminine. >> So anyways, um let's get into a different topic. Um some of you maybe

Laetitiahave seen the show. Uh sorry, I'm trying to save the chat here. Um does anybody have any disagreements with me on anything?

LaetitiaSome of you have maybe seen clips, you've seen the show, maybe um maybe you've heard things I've said. Does anybody have any disagreements?

VeronicaWell, I think that I saw >> Do I need to prompt you guys on everything? Holy [ __ ] >> All right. >> I remember seeing something one time.

VeronicaYou were talking about um dating a 19-year-old and how you said if that's wrong, like there's you said there's nothing wrong with it. I don't

Veronicanecessarily think it's wrong, but I don't think a woman's brain is fully developed at 19. So, I feel like she's

Veronicagoing to change and like, you know, not be the same person she is now. Like, you

Laetitiaknow, few years from now, her beliefs could change, her everything could change. uh but I don't think this is a particularly compelling argument against

Laetitiaage gap relationships. So this same phenomenon can be observed in women of any age. They could be 25,

Laetitia30, 35, 40. People change all the time. Uh people often times hide their true nature. Uh there's a term for this where uh people

Laetitiaare on their best behavior the first couple months things change up. But um women reserve the right at any time to [ __ ] change up. She could be a

Laetitia30-year-old Christian woman and then the very next day she she could be a Catholic. She could be Orthodox. The very next day she can be like I believe in divorce. Goodbye. So, this idea that,

Laetitiawell, your relationship is going to be more stable. Uh, I'm 36. Brian, date a 35-year-old woman and your relationship's going to be more stable.

LaetitiaCouldn't be anything further from the truth. Uh, I actually think that the reality is my relationship probably would be more stable with a woman who's

Laetitiayounger. She doesn't necessarily have to be 19. She could be 22, 23, 24, 25. Uh, but I don't know the specific clip you're referencing. Uh, because I've

Laetitiastated I date women pretty much of all age ranges. I've dated women older than me. I've dated women my age. So, I'm not like exclusively like hanging out at

Laetitiacollege parties to like pick up [ __ ] 18, 19, 20 year olds. Um, but if an 18, 19, 20 year old, like she hits me up,

LaetitiaI'm not going to tell her no because she's 18, 19, or 20,

Veronicabut you don't think it's necessarily wrong. You say the the brain isn't fully developed. >> Yeah. Uh, >> I mean, it's not. >> How do you feel about that? like, you know, she's still technically growing,

Veronicayou know, >> but she's not a like she's developed. >> She's not a child. I'm not saying that, but I'm just saying like I feel like, you know, their brain's not developed. >> When you were 18, did you date someone

Veronicathat was older than you ever? >> Yeah, I dated older, not like like 10 years older. >> Did you feel you were like you were taking advantage of? >> No. Mm-m. But like when it comes to

Veronicadecision making, like your prefrontal cortex isn't fully developed until you're 25. >> Yeah. >> So I just >> I mean I don't look the prefrontal

Laetitiacortex thing. I don't know like Okay. So what is the the actual difference in development?

LaetitiaIs it like okay at 18 it's 95% developed and then at 25 it's 100% developed? Are they [ __ ] [ __ ] at 18 and then at 25 they might as well go to Harvard?

LaetitiaLike their [ __ ] genius IQ at 25? Ultimately, this idea that like, oh, okay, well, the prefrontal cortex isn't developed. So, this person is like a spontaneous uh chaotic [ __ ] mess and they're

Laetitia[ __ ] I don't know if that's actually true. Is there some further degree of development from the age of 18 or 20 up until 25? I suppose so. But then you also have to counter that with

LaetitiaI actually think that there's mental decline after a certain age. Uh in some ways I actually feel like I'm not as uh my mental acuity my mental like I

Laetitiaactually think in some ways >> I might have been [ __ ] a little smarter when I not smarter I don't know what the right word is mental capacity mental acuity might have actually been stronger when I was a bit

Laetitiayounger maybe in my mid mid20s. I think there's there is a bit of a decline. So, I mean, technically, maybe these women, maybe these [ __ ] 25 year olds or even 20-year-olds, maybe I'm so [ __ ] uh,

Laetitiathey're taking advantage of me. >> Have you taken an IQ test? >> I think >> uh, I have not like it was a pretty decent one, but I mean IQ there's other there's like EQ and other kinds. I don't

Laetitiaknow. >> I was surprised with my score. >> I >> Well, you got to be careful with the free tests online. >> No, no, no. I paid for mine. Even if you pay for it, some of these tests will give you >> grossly incorrect.

Jenny>> I hope that they didn't cuz they were like, "Oh, there like Purdue and like everyone helps with these tests or whatever." >> And I'm so I hope I didn't get scammed or I'm going to be really upset.

Laetitia>> I'll tell you this. I had a girl tell me she had 146 IQ and then the one that I took, I was like, "Take this one." And then it came back with 107 IQ. I got

Laetitia118. >> So, some of these online tests, there's quite a bit of variance. Um, I took the Mensah one. Uh, but

JennyI don't know. >> I feel But I what you were saying like how I feel like it depletes like I don't know why, but like when everyone talks about like the frontal cortex developing, I like think that like when I turn 25, I'm going to have this like

Jennywhole transformation. Like I'm like like I could see it happening. like my whole life flashes before my eyes and I feel like that's not really how that's going to be. >> I feel like it's like about what life stages you're at cuz like if you dated

Julialike Olivia Rodrigo or someone who's like you know she has her own place and all that. >> Who's that guy? >> Sorry who? >> Olivia Rodrigo. I just like she's like a >> she's like that one wait that one song where she's like

Julia>> good for she's like a teeny bopper Disney star but now she's 19 and she always dates older guys >> and nobody has a problem with it cuz she's been like an adult basically since but okay >> she's like and I left my >> But you're saying she's established in

Juliayour >> Yeah. Like she like she has a career and like nobody ever like comments on her age gap relationships cuz she's like >> they see her as more of an adult and she's in that adult life stage type vibe, >> right? like Millie Bobby Brown. She's

Laetitia21. She had her second kid. >> Okay. But I mean, I guess um I don't know this idea that uh the brain not fully developed. It's like okay well at

Laetitia20 how much more development is there to be had really? Um is it 5%,

Laetitiais it 3%. Also, I mean, look, I have uh I have uh chronic brain f fog and uh like I have a neck injury, so I don't

Laetitiaknow. I'm kind of [ __ ] So, I think technically these women are actually predators because I have some mental, you know, like I I uh I have brain fog.

LaetitiaI have um I had a neck injury which has an impact on, you know, certain things. So, uh, these women are actual they're

Laetitiapreying on me because my mental acuity is not these 18-year-old college girls are predators when they're dating me to be honest. >> I have a question. What's your opinion

Jennyon like using the word [ __ ] if like you're not [ __ ] >> Well, I am [ __ ] >> because I'm autistic, so like I can say it, but like >> I'm fine with I >> Are you on the spectrum or you just have neck problems?

Jennyuh >> like a brain injury, >> a TBS, >> cuz like I have brain fog, but it's from my PTSD. >> Well, okay. On the question of the the R word, the [ __ ] word. >> That's totally okay for anybody to use.

Chris Love>> Okay. >> You don't have to be a Hold on. What's that? I got something for this. >> The Black Eyed Peas. >> Uh >> everybody knows you never go full [ __ ] >> You don't call [ __ ] people retards.

Jenny>> Yeah. >> It's bad taste. >> Yeah. Are friends retards when they're acting [ __ ] >> My friend always says, she's like, "Kayla, you can use that word cuz you are [ __ ] but others that are not

Jennycannot use that word." And I'm like, I don't think that's true. >> Uh, yeah. I mean, I totally fine with it. >> Yeah. My my question really was just are you actually [ __ ] or like do you just have like neck?

Laetitia>> I mean, I'm saying it I'm saying it in a joking way. So, >> okay. I didn't know if you actually like were or not. Okay. >> All right. Is there anything else you want to know? >> Um, >> what's your >> what's your zodiac sign?

Laetitia>> What's your attachment style? >> Where did you grow up? >> Oh my god. >> Where were you born? >> Back on topic, the age gap conversation. Do you have more? >> Um,

Julianot at this moment. >> I dated older guys when I was in my 20s and I don't think they were weird. It was like pretty fun, not going to lie. >> Well, they were like 35, so it wasn't like that much. They were 35 and I was like 25. And honestly, like some of the

Laetitiabest dates I've ever had, like like they knew how to it was a fun date. >> And look, to be clear, um I'm not like going out I'm not on dating apps and like setting my age filter for like 18

Laetitiato 20. I'm not I'm not on YouTube. >> I changed my filter from um 30 and up. >> Love that. Um but I'm not like I'm not

LaetitiaI'm not even on dating apps period. Um, I uh like but if a 19 20-year-old girl hits me up in the DMs or something, I'm

Laetitianot going to be like, eh. Now, look, I have a pretty crazy uh vetting process. So, I mean, she could it's not like just default I'm going to date somebody just because they're 20.

Lexi (Chicago)>> Yeah. >> She's got to also not be a [ __ ] idiot, too. >> Yeah. Also, there's a lot of research that like um women supposedly develop quicker like than men, right? So, or that like even like some men never

Laetitiadevelop as much as women do. So, >> well, how about this? What if um a woman who's 20 who has a genius level IQ and

Laetitiareally, really high EQ dates a guy who's 30 with a average IQ and average EQ? >> Yeah. Then the maturity. >> Who's being more predatory? Is it the woman? Who has more assets?

Maria (NC)>> I mean, >> probably the girl, >> but it's like they're still developed. It's not like one is like incompetent. >> I mean, >> I don't know that I think IQ or EQ

Maria (NC)really has anything to do with it. I think maybe your life goals do. Um, if you're a man and you're wanting like a traditional wife, you may want to look for someone who's younger, who isn't like establishing a career, wasting her

Maria (NC)younger years going to college, racking up debt. Um, there's part of me that wishes I hadn't wasted my time going to college simply because I don't use my

Maria (NC)degree. Um, and I'm very happy being a stay-at-home wife. Um, but I'm also homeschooling my kids. But I mean, like, I did very well in school and there's a lot of resources to help you really

Maria (NC)raise smart children without having a degree to support that. My husband's 14 years older than me. Um, and he we've said in conversations that he would recommend when our son is older that he

Maria (NC)wait till he's like in his 30s, a bit more established, has his career going before he starts really looking for a wife and then that he looks for someone who's quite a bit younger. um so that he can have if that's the dynamic he's

Maria (NC)wanting, if he's wanting his wife to be a stay-at-home housewife, then he's able to find it. Um and someone who's going to be less combative.

Laetitia>> Can I have a Johnny Pop? >> No. Maybe later. >> Uh let's see. I don't know. Uh okay.

JennyDoes anybody here have any want to weigh in on the age gap debate? Um, when I was what, it would be 16 turning 17 in high

Jennyschool. Um, I dated this guy. Well, we weren't dating. He strictly wanted to have sex with me. Um, and at first I 100% thought it was normal. I was like,

Jenny"This is okay." He was 24, 25, and I was like, "This is normal. This is okay." And then I realized down the line I was like, "He was definitely

Jennytaking advantage of me." Um there was no uh there there was just a line like I'm 17 and you were over here that almost twice my age. >> Well, you were a you were a minor. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Well, no. The legal consent age in

JuliaIndiana is 17. >> Oh, really? Oh, I didn't know. >> Actually, I think it's 16. >> Oh, okay. That makes sense. I feel like um Yeah. One time I went on a date with this girl that was like 40 and like she was so weird about it. Like she was like

JuliaI was like, "Okay, like I thought it was going to go great. Like I thought I was like doing a good job on this date and then she was acting so weird. She was acting like she thought that like she was a predator and I was like girl we're just like in West Hollywood right now. Like

Jenny>> don't get in your head. Like >> it does suck like that because like at first you don't realize what's going on. >> And then I was like I didn't want to ever feel like that. >> Yeah. I was like I'm employed. I have like five jobs in my own apartment.

Bri Nightwood>> Bri, don't you have some thoughts on the age gap stuff? I mean, um I think life experience like has a lot to do with it. Um but yeah, I think it is a little I

Bri Nightwooddon't know like sus if there was someone that's you know old enough to be my like grandpa or if I was like let's say I was 18 and like there was a guy that's like in his 60s and he's like you know he is in my DMs. I'd be like, "Okay, that's a

Bri Nightwoodlittle like why aren't you looking for someone more on your level and you know, just because life experience I, you know, I like um I mean I prefer dating guys in my age range cuz we can talk

Bri Nightwoodabout the same TV shows that we grew up on and just little things like that." And I feel like someone way older than me, it's like what do we what do we even have to talk about, you know? >> Unless you have like really strong shared interests >> or something like that. >> That's true.

Laetitia>> Can you scoot your mic to the edge of the table? Um >> right here. >> Yeah. >> Okay. Uh, I mean, yeah, we can go to these kind of extreme examples where you

Laetitiahave like a 70-year-old trying to date a 26-y old. Um, I think probably most the

Laetitiaperson on the younger end probably isn't going to be into that. >> He has the money or something. >> I mean, if you wanted to date him and he wanted to date you, I don't actually see

Bri Nightwoodan actual problem with it. I mean, yeah, it's legal and consensual. >> Well, you're 26, so yes, it would definitely be legal. >> Okay. Yeah. But in general, like if guys that are that go for like more like 18year-olds, like I don't know.

Bri Nightwood>> That would also be legal. >> That's true. But I'm just saying that it's still just I don't know. It's still just it's like why not look for someone more in your age range? There's so many people out there. >> Well, let's do something more realistic.

LaetitiaSo, I'm 36. Um >> I want to have kids. I want to have uh family. So from that perspective, wouldn't that be a really fantastic justification for dating a woman who's like 20?

Bri Nightwood>> 20 something. But if it's just like, you know, if it's like exclusively you're seeking out like the 18, 19, like barely legal, then there is something. It's like it's like how low would you go if the law said like, you know, let's just say the law said you can date a

Bri Nightwood13-year-old. It's like I feel like there's so many guys that would date a 13-year-old. And that's >> like how Indiana the legal age is 17. It's like would you sink down to 17? >> Yeah. Like how Yeah. How low would How would they go?

SPEAKER_13>> It's legal. I just honestly think it's just a little bit weird. Like as a 30 plus year old man, like why are you going for somebody who just got like out of high school? I think you've lived

SPEAKER_13enough like life to like know like how to live it in in a way. And you know, when you're freshly 18, you're probably still living with your parents and you're just kind of like kind of like a

SPEAKER_13like a lost puppy. And it feels like kind of like I don't know like you're not even legal to like drink yet. Like what do I do with a 30 plus year old man if I'm 18? Like >> I feel like some guys um they don't

Jennyreally think of it that way. They don't look as a as it as you just got out of high school. They look at her as an 18-year-old, not oh you're barely legal. It's just how their mind works and how they perceive the girl. They don't look at her like that. Like they're not going

Jennyto think about the high school aspect unless they're some weirdo who's trying to purposely harm them. uh they don't they're not going to go out of their way and just be like I know she's freshly out of high school. It's more or less it came up on Bumble and it said she was 18.

Laetitia>> I mean an 18 19 year old can be living on their own finishing up their first year >> in college >> of college. So um I mean it's your framing there is kind of a bit

Laetitiadisingenuous. She fresh she's literally a child. She's freshly out of high school. It's like it's very uh sort of

Laetitiabad light framing. Um yeah, it's basically just fra doing a frame game. Um but ultimately um

Bri Nightwoodyeah, I mean in terms of I think you referenced commonality. >> Yeah. Like >> Okay. So um do you think men and women have a lot in common? I mean, they can

Laetitiaif you have the similar like similar taste, similar interests. I don't think it's really a gender thing. Um, I don't know. >> Okay. But since when has commonality

Laetitiaever been like the ultimate deciding factor in whether you date somebody you cited to? What if you like the same movies and

Laetitiablah blah blah. First off, I can show her all the movies that I like. she I can show her like get her on some good music so I can introduce her to all

Laetitiathat. But then also it's like u I don't know this this idea of commonality. Um wouldn't you agree that there would pe people who'd be your exact age or older who you have nothing

Bri Nightwoodin common with also? >> Well, yeah, but then you probably wouldn't want to date someone or at least I wouldn't. I I prefer dating people with my like it doesn't have to be exactly the same exact um interests,

Bri Nightwoodbut it would be nice if we could, you know, go out and do things that we both enjoy doing together. Um I mean, but also I do understand opposites can attract, but I don't know. I'm just saying, >> well, it doesn't even have to be

Laetitiaopposites, but like, okay, do you think a 30-year-old and a 20-year-old, and they're both part of the same Christian denomination, do you think they have more in common than a a 30-year-old Christian man dating a 30-year-old atheist?

Laetitia>> Well, yeah, probably. >> So, there's probably more alignment on like core actually important values. >> I mean, yeah, I guess. Yeah, >> despite the age gap. So, you a

Laetitia20-year-old Christian woman dating a 20 like Catholic, whatever. Dating a 30-year-old Catholic man, there's more alignment and more in common than he would have with a 30-year-old like

Bri Nightwoodliberal atheist woman. >> Well, I suppose. Yeah. But I was talking more like just generational things. I'm just thinking in my mindset of like what I'm looking for. I just I don't know. I couldn't imagine myself dating someone

Bri Nightwoodthat's way too >> like cultural cultural touchston >> I guess like >> like oh my god she didn't have a game boy color like I don't give a >> I don't know I'm really picky it's like

Juliawe have to like the same video games. >> I feel like it matters more to some people but like I prefer dating older people cuz I have a kid and I found that like people at least in LA cuz you know LA is so like people age slower. It's

Julialike I feel like I have to date someone like 36 for them to be in the same space that I'm at. You know what I mean? >> Cuz I'm like, "Okay, like I'm I'm a mother, you guys. I have to wake up and like show this kid Paw Patrol." Like, girl,

Jenny>> I also feel like it does have to do with like what you like. Like, if I'm going to date a guy, it's going to be because we have similar interests when it comes to what we like. Um, I'm not going to

Laetitiadate a guy if we have nothing in common. And when it comes to things like that, >> well, okay. Um, but I I I don't know if I got an answer

Laetitiafrom my question earlier, which was, um, I'm 36. Do you think it is more beneficial for me to date a 35-year-old versus a 20-year-old? >> Well, if you're saying cuz you want

Bri Nightwoodkids. Um, >> I I mean, >> 35year-olds can still have kids, especially with like >> Well, that that's true. That's true. But let's say >> 35 like you guys just met.

Laetitia>> Well, just to be clear. So, okay. Yes, women can have kids into their 40s. >> Um, but of course, once you hit 35, fertility does start decreasing, but it's not. Look, some people go about

Laetitiathat conversation the wrong way. Oh my god, once she's 35, she she can't have kids. That's not true. >> Yeah. >> Um, it does as you age, actually, I

Laetitiamean, starting at 25 even, your fertility gradually slowly decreases. >> Always freeze, too. So, but yes, of course, women can definitely still get

Laetitiapregnant, but um just on that that primary component, uh when a woman's younger, the her fertility is better. Um the >> her ability to bounce back is much

Maria (NC)greater if she's younger. And if you want a lot of kids, which it seems like you've said you do, >> kids, >> then you need a young woman because she's not going to be able to bounce back if she's in her 30s and starting to have kids versus in her early

Julia>> 20s. I will say like I can't imagine having a kid like right now even like well I had my first kid when I was 26 and I would be like I would be scared of like the like exhaustion level at the exhaustion level of somebody at like 26

Laetitiaversus 30 is like so different you know like I'm tired. >> I mean yeah there's that there's um you know okay say I'm 36 I made a girl who's

Laetitia35. Okay. Uh, let's date for 1 to two years and then start you we're not going to have a kid right away. So, she's going to be 37 by the time we even start trying to have a kid. And it's like

Laetitiathat's definitely less than ideal. So, there's a biological basis for men having an attraction for younger women, younger women. Um, and then also just the reality is younger women are just more attractive physically. Well, I

Bri Nightwoodmean, >> and that's tied to fertility a little bit, but >> I mean, I don't necessarily agree that um women are always attractive younger. Like I >> it's not the argument. >> I mean, okay. Well, back to um the

Bri Nightwoodpoint. I guess since you want seven kids, then yeah, it would make sense for you since that's what you want like for a 20-year-old. >> Well, with here, let me double down on this. So, even if I ne I didn't want any kids, I'd still prefer prefer to date a

Laetitia20-year-old. >> But why? Because she's 20 or >> she's more attractive. less baggage, less trauma, just more physically attractive. >> I mean, that's your preference. >> I feel like trauma, but

Laetitia>> trauma is what >> I I mean, is trauma based on age? Cuz like >> uh Well, not necessarily to you. >> So, okay. So, yes, is it logically possible that a 20-year-old can have

Laetitiaexperienced more trauma than somebody who's 30? Yes, absolutely. Um, however, a 30-year-old has had 10 additional years of potential life experience where

Laetitiathey've I mean, it could have been relationship baggage, even if it's not like abusive levels of trauma. >> Uh, typically people get a bit of relationship baggage, even if it's not like

Laetitia>> like severe abuse, like, okay, you get more jaded as you get a bit older, you lose a bit of your spark as you get a bit older, generally speaking. Um, and then just on a purely physical level,

Laetitiathis applies to both men and women. Uh, although there's some differences between men and women. Yeah. As you age, you're not as typically uh you're not as physically attractive. >> Yeah. I feel like I was talking to my friend about this earlier cuz my friend

Juliaand I both went through a breakup and we were like I feel like it was so much easier to date people when you're younger because you don't have that like relationship baggage and like somebody at 20 is like a lot more open to like fixing relationship problems and not like >> What's up? >> Huh?

Laetitia>> What's up >> there? Michael, >> everything okay? >> What's What's going on back there? She wants it out.

Laetitia>> Uh, is there a particular reason or can you say it on camera, please? >> What's that?

Laetitia>> Do you want to say it on camera? We should at least do your notes.

Laetitia>> Okay. >> Are you okay? >> Yeah, I'm good. >> Uh, can Okay. Can you kind of give us an explanation there, I guess, or what's going on, Alexis? >> Uh, all is well. What would you like to

Laetitiaknow off my notes? >> Well, uh, just I guess why did you you wanted to leave? What's going on? >> Didn't you like fly out here just to be

Laetitiaon the show? Mhm. >> Okay.

Veronica>> So, why did you want to leave? >> Because I'm tired. Is that okay? >> What time is it right now? >> It's 7. >> Take an energy shot. >> We have energy drinks. >> Yeah, it's 10:00 our time. I'm tired,

Juliatoo. But I'm going to stay I'm going to do an energy shot. >> I did have 2 hours of sleep because I got broken up with at 2 in the morning and I was doom scrolling. >> Not Not to put that on anyone else. >> Just take an energy shot. >> I'm chilling though. Sorry. Because

Laetitiayou're not getting enough attention or >> Oh, no. I don't think she cares about that. >> Uh, okay.

LaetitiaI'm happy to answer anything if you'd like. If not, that's fine, too. >> Uh, okay. Um,

Laetitiabro, um, like a few times during this conversation, I've tried to direct conversation towards you and you're like giving [ __ ] nothing.

Laetitia>> Oh, if it's about like a So, I'm just confused. Like, on one hand, it seems like you want to leave because you're not feeling like you're engaged enough in the conversation, but the moments that I've tried to direct the conversation towards you, you've not

Laetitiabeen contributing. >> Oh, no. It's okay. I don't I'm not The amount of times you've talked to me is fine. >> Okay. So, were you dissatisfied with the

Laetitialevel of attention you were getting? I'm just trying to understand. >> No. >> Okay. because like in our in our questions or whatever, um we do

Laetitiaask if you're able to make it for the full production. Uh we disclose like how long the show goes. So >> yeah, maybe I didn't read the part of

Laetitiahow long it was. >> Are you hungry or something? You want to order Door Dash or something? >> No, I'm just I'm literally tired. That's it.

Kaylee Chico>> You're tired? Okay. Do you do you got plans after this or what? What? No, >> I go to bed at like 8:00 p.m. Eastern every night. So, this is very late for me. I need to >> If it was something else, I'd tell you

Laetitialike if I felt left out, I'd literally just say it or talk about >> He's just wondering why with the preparation why you continue to sew. >> Okay. Um All right. Well, I'm going to read your notes now for whatever. Um I

SPEAKER_06do want to come back to I guess the age gap stuff. >> You should take an energy shot. >> Yeah. Try and stay for a little bit. >> Productions are always long. >> Yeah. Just take an energy shot. See how you feel. >> I'll take one with you. >> Yeah.

Lexi (Chicago)>> Let's take shots, guys. >> Oh, we can't all get off camera. >> We can We can do one at a time. >> Yeah, we can do one on a Bring us one >> if she wants one. I'm not getting any

Jennycommunication from her. If she wants a >> Yeah, that's true. I would like one because I'm tired. >> Can I have some water, please? >> All right, Tiffany, help them out,

Juliaplease. I I do have a Bloom energy drink there, girl. If you could pass it to me. >> Yeah, I definitely see what you mean though with the whole age gap thing because I'm like on I feel like the older I get.

Laetitia>> I'm going to I'm going to table the age gap. I'm going to do her notes. >> Uh, okay. We already went over the chubby chaser. You have juicy stories from your experience >> only being with big guys. The one man

Laetitiathat you dated in your life, he was 5'2 and 300 lb. >> Mhm. >> Yeah. Um, >> thank you. >> Thank you so much.

Laetitia>> Uh, let's see. You write, "Being a thinner woman who likes obese men, doing Only Fans as a welder, you went to trade school." Uh, >> thank you.

Laetitia>> You said, "Thank you. >> Some of the viewer comments you disagree with along with a few past guests." So, what are your disagreements?

Laetitia>> Um, with past guests. >> Yeah. In your notes, you wrote some of the viewer comments you disagree with along with a few past guests.

Kaylee Chico>> I disagree with some comments I get, but sorry. >> Wait, what? >> Please. >> Okay. What are the things in which you disagree with? Um,

Kaylee Chicowell, I guess I get a lot saying that, you know, I'm being dishonest for liking overweight men, which I'm not being dishonest about. Um, >> yeah. >> Okay. Um, there's already garbage in

Laetitiathere. >> Okay. Um,

Laetitiaso you wrote though when the question was anything you disagree with the show/host on. Thank you. >> To which you wrote some of the viewer

Laetitiacomments you disagree with along with a few past guests. So as it relates to the past guests, what are the things in which you disagreed with them on?

Kaylee ChicoI can't name anything specific. I guess there's just been some like, you know, uh directed toward women who do my line of work and u

Kaylee ChicoI don't know. I don't have anything too juicy on that. I can't think of anything specific. I'm sorry. >> Nothing. >> Um

Laetitiaare these childproof? I can help you, girl. I have a child. >> You guys got fake nails. >> Yeah, the nails. I couldn't get >> I'll help. If anybody can help, it's me. >> Uh, just put put the trash on the ground if you can.

SPEAKER_06>> Or also or put it in the pocket or put in the pocket. >> Put it on the ground. >> It's okay. The lesbian will help. >> Do I drink the whole thing? >> Okay. >> So, >> yeah, you take the whole thing.

Kaylee Chico>> Yeah, this is one serving. >> Hey guys, quiet. Please go ahead. >> I can't think of anything specific. Any specific comment at this very moment. You said that dis you disagreed with

Laetitiacomments directed at people in your line of work, your profession. So like Only Fans, right? >> Mhm. >> Okay. What? >> Um,

Laetitia>> hi. Dating podcast where conversation is expected. >> Sorry if I'm not moving quick enough for you. I'm thinking you can move on to someone else if you'd like.

LaetitiaSorry, I'm trying. So, what about the viewer comments you disagree with?

Kaylee Chico>> The mean ones. >> What? But is there like a specific, you know, they they >> I can't read comments here and I can't recall, you know, a video I watched six months ago. If I could see the comments

Laetitiahere, I'd be happy to >> share my comments. Um, all right. You said you went out with a 500 pound guy who got attention of tens everywhere you

Laetitiaguys went. >> Okay. Um uh

Laetitiayou say women care less about men's height weight than they think. >> Mhm. >> So that's a prompt.

Kaylee ChicoWould you like to elaborate on I'm prompting you. I'm >> Yeah. >> prompting you. >> Yeah. I I just think a lot of men in

Kaylee Chicomodern dating think that, you know, women won't date a guy who's under six feet tall and make less than six figures. And I just don't find that to be the truth. I think women really don't

Lexi (Chicago)care about that a whole lot. >> Women, what do you think? >> I agree. >> I agree, too. Like I mean I do I like to think that I have high standards but

Jennylike when it comes to like physically um my standards are not that high >> when it comes to height. Um this has been a hard one for me cuz I'm tall. I'm

Jenny5'9. So when I was in high school and I was very like egotistical and very in my head. I 100% was like I will only date a guy that's taller than me. And when I

Jennydid date someone that was my height, I was turned off by it. But it wasn't more or less because of him. It was like it wasn't because of him. It was just like my mentality and like my high school

Jennychildish self and I was like I was just like I had a standard and I didn't want to and I wanted to meet it. And now >> is your dad taller than your mom? >> Um no. >> Oh, >> my mom was pretty tall. She passed away

Jennylast year, but yeah, my mom was really tall. >> Yeah, my mom's pretty tall, too. Um, but yeah. No, my boyfriend, it's funny cuz like now my boyfriend, he's like shorter than me. So, and I love him to death. >> Honestly, the first time that I dated a

Lexi (Chicago)guy that was like as tall as I am and I'm pretty straight, please speak. >> Yes. Okay. I am 411 and um I dated a guy that was like 5'2 and the sex was really good cuz like the meat is like in the

Lexi (Chicago)perfect position. >> It's like it's not too tall, you know? Like I don't have to like arch up as much. I the only thing with being tall and dating someone short is like having sex in the shower, it doesn't work cuz

JuliaI'm taller. >> I like I like girls that are close to my height because like it's weird if they're too tall. Like if they're too tall, I'm like, "Hey, how's the weather up there? >> How are you doing?" >> Like my boyfriend like can climb me like when I'm wearing platforms. Like I feel

Julialike he can girl. >> Yeah. Like I like Yeah. >> I do feel like it depends though cuz some girls seem to be like more superficial, but I think it's like also a maturity thing. >> Yeah. 100%. Like when I was in high school, I was like, I want a tall guy. Like

Jenny>> I was ruthless. >> I was awful. >> I was a I was I was a hoe in high school. Like I was a hoe and had very high standards and that shouldn't have been it. >> Yeah. I was so mean to men in high school. If they dated me in high school, I'm sorry.

SPEAKER_13>> Preferences has anything to do with maturity. I think like me, I'm going to say straight up like I like taller men. I will not date a shorter man. >> You like them? It's just like that's just like cuz I think in a way like when you're dating somebody like in a way

SPEAKER_13like you're going to have to be like somehow like sexually attracted >> to be very sexually. So it's like when they're tall like that's like >> what about Kevin? >> Kevin No, >> he's too little girl. Too little

SPEAKER_13>> but he's funny. >> He's really funny. But no, I like Tyler Men. >> I love your tattoos by the way. >> Thank you so much.

Laetitia>> Okay. Um here we're going to switch gears. Uh h let's do this. Uh past past should not matter. I think some of you agreed on that. Uh we're just going

Lexi (Chicago)to do this. [ __ ] it. We usually do it a bit later, but we'll just do it now. Uh body count. >> Body count. >> Yeah, >> I have it in my notes app, but I'm pretty sure it's either five or six. Well, I wrote it down because backstory

Lexi (Chicago)some girl told me. She was like, "What's your body count?" And then she was like, "Check your notes." And I was like, "What?" She was like, "Yeah, check your notes. Everybody has a notes app." I was like, "What? I didn't know that everybody like writes down their body count on on the notebook." >> I think when you're younger, you do. I do in order

Lexi (Chicago)>> the names. >> Yes. Because I wanted to know exactly what my real body count was. >> It's 5 to six. >> It's 5 to six. >> What about you? >> 28. >> 28. Okay. >> It's probably 20 and up. >> Okay.

Laetitia>> I have a list. It's 16. >> 16. You have a list. Okay. >> Probably 30. >> 30. Maybe like four. >> Okay. >> Like 25. >> One. >> Oh, >> 15.

Jenny>> Cool. >> Healthy numbers, guys. >> What about you? >> I'm a virgin. >> He's lying. >> Don't you have children? >> What about the labas? >> Wait, the labia. >> We missed. >> I don't know. I just It's like a thing. >> You can look at labas and still be a virgin.

Jenny>> True. >> Like what? Like that's how we probably >> He said that it grips. The lips that grip, >> right? >> That's true. That was a visceral. >> No, he was watching a video. He saw it on a video. >> Yeah. No. How would you know that they grip though?

Veronica>> He already Oh, no. >> With AI technology now, you can actually feel it through the video. Wait, I thought you were going to share yours. That's a thing. >> He's a man with empathy. >> I'm a virgin. I'm a virgin. >> But that's not true.

Laetitia>> I'm actually waiting until I'm 40 so I can claim to be a 40-year-old virgin like the movie. Do you want to lose your virginity to like 20-year-old like >> I'm actually hoping to lose my virginity

Jennyto like a geriatric woman. >> Okay. >> Maybe like 60 or 70. >> Oh, that's sick. That's going to be like cobweb push. >> Like I'm going to go I'm going to go to the the nursing home. >> Yeah. Like you you'll like go down there

Juliaand you'll have to like blow on it like cobwebs will fall off. >> But like what kind of 60 or 70? like Calabasas or like >> No, he said nursing home. >> Let's go. Like the Appalachian Trail. >> He said nursing home. >> The Appalachian. >> The Appalachian Trail.

Jenny>> You might like my grandma. >> She'll know how to >> set me up. Hook it up. >> Yeah, she's in a nursing home right now. Um on And you could have And you'll have mixed children. >> Mixed? What do you mean? >> I'm black. My grandma's I'm half black. My grandma's black.

Jenny>> You're black? >> I'm half black. Yeah, my mom's black. >> I could see the features. >> I have a sew in right now. I naturally have really curly hair. >> I could see it. >> I just I I used to be uh darker as a

Jennykid, but as I grew older, my melanin kind of just diminished. >> Okay. >> I'm actually half black, too. >> That's so You'll have full black children. >> Well, actually, technically, so this is

Laetitiasomething that always annoys people. My dad was born in North Africa. My mom was born in America. So, technically, I'm African-American. >> Oh, like Morocco. >> I'm Russian and Ukraine. Oh, >> yeah.

Laetitia>> I'm Mexican, but nobody believes me. >> I'm Cherokee tribe, Indian, black, Russian, and Ukraine. >> I could see the Russian girl. >> Uh, okay. Uh, here we're going to do,

Laetitiauh, what is the minimum yearly income to be your future husband? >> Um, 60K. >> That is not what you wrote on the paper. Tell me what you wrote on the paper.

Lexi (Chicago)>> Okay. Okay. Okay. Six to seven figures. >> Six to seven. Yeah. I thought you said six. >> Well, I mean like ideally that would be like in an ideal world, you know, like but like what I would be like content

Laetitiawith. That's like a minimum. Yeah. >> Minimum yearly income. >> But 6 to 7, that's a massive range. That's anywhere from $100,000 to $10

Laetitiamillion more even. >> Uh or well 9 what 999 whatever. Um >> that would be like in like a dream dreamland, you know.

LaetitiaOkay. So, but for on the six figure end, what's the minimum? Give it give me a number. >> Um, well, like 60K would be like the actual >> That is not six figures. That's five

Lexi (Chicago)figures. >> Yeah. I mean, that would be like an actual like minimum, you know? >> Oh my god. >> So

Jenny60K is five figures, >> right? So, >> oh my god. Wait, you haven't asked us any like when was World War I?

Veronica>> You're right. I haven't I haven't done that yet. That's a great observation. >> No, my favorite one was what country was the Vietnam War in >> here. Let's save it, please. Let's save

Laetitiait. >> Please, guys. So, okay, you wrote down six to seven figures. So, is the minimum 100,000?

Lexi (Chicago)>> Well, yeah. I mean, if you're talking about six to seven figures, then that would be a minimum. Yeah. >> So, not 60K. >> No, >> 100K. >> Yeah. But that's only 40,000 more. >> Okay. What about you?

Bri Nightwood>> Um, no preference as long as like the bills are paid. Um, and >> so there is a preference. >> Well, okay. Like I'm not >> preference bills paid. >> Okay. Do you live with your open relationship boyfriend?

Bri Nightwood>> Yes. >> Do you split the rent or does he pay it? >> Uh well I I have a mortgage and it's mine. It's in my name so I don't expect him. >> But does he contribute? >> Yeah, he contributes but not to like the mortgage like >> but he gives you money like rent.

Bri Nightwood>> Well, he doesn't give really give me like he'll pay for like um you know groceries and just things like that. Yeah. >> I don't really I don't know. I'm not really high. 100,000. >> 100,000. What about you? >> 100,000.

Jenny>> That's not what you wrote. What did you write? >> No, I said 100,000 to 150. >> You 150,000. >> Oh, did I say Oh, I sorry. I thought I did a parenthesis. Yeah, 150. >> Okay. What about you? >> I just want a girl who matches my

Julialifestyle. Like I want to go to Awan together. So maybe like 70k, 60k. >> What about you? >> Maybe like 20,000. >> Can you 30? >> Okay. 20,000 30,000. >> Sure. If he has a job, that's good.

Maria (NC)>> Okay. What about you? >> I said 30k. >> What about you? >> Um, I think I said 70 when I was dating. That's what I imagined, but my husband makes >> What about you? >> Um, like 50k.

Laetitia>> All right. How tall are you? And what's the minimum height? Actually, hold on really quick. 150,000 >> and you live in Chicago. >> Mhm. >> Why do you say it like that? And you

Lexi (Chicago)live in Chicago? Chicago? >> Well, I mean, based on my spending habits and what >> I thought you were in San Diego. Yeah, but Chicago is a city and I'm from Chicago. I was born and raised over there. Okay. I just got here not too long ago. >> How long ago?

Jenny>> I'm new to this. Not new to this. >> Okay. Um >> um just based on my lifestyle and like how I am and just what I've been given. Uh yeah, that would be I want him to

Jennymake equal to what or more than my parents make. Parent made. >> You want a guy to make equal to what your parents make. >> Parent or parent? Yeah. >> Your parents make 150

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