Armpit Hair Feminist HEATED DEBATE?! 100+ Body Count?! MASSIVE COPE?! E-GIRLS! | Dating Talk #168

Date: 2024-06-10
Duration: 7h 24m

Identified Speakers

SPEAKER_02Tavia(guest)
SPEAKER_04Alyssa(guest)
SPEAKER_05Bobby Lavender(guest)
SPEAKER_07Andrew Wilson(guest)
SPEAKER_09Brian Atlas(host)
SPEAKER_11Karen(guest)
SPEAKER_13Sky(guest)
SPEAKER_14Juliet(guest)

Key Moments

00:03:56
QuoteBobby Lavender introduces herself: 30yo, Louisiana, OnlyFans since pandemic, also cams on MyFreeCams

hello my name is Bobby lavender I'm 30 years old just turned 30 I live in Louisiana I am on only fans for like four years now basically since the pandemic

00:17:00
QuoteAlyssa discloses she is legally separated from NPD husband; two kids ages 1 and 2; filed for divorce February

I officially filed in February I wanted out of my marriage the last several years Texas will not finalize divorces when you're pregnant and I was pregnant for 2 years in a row

00:27:30
QuoteKaren reveals she married her husband who was intended as a one-night stand in Skagway Alaska; he was a friend of her then-hookup

I married a one night stand he was supposed to be a one night stand and it turned into a 10-year relationship

01:21:51
ControversyMan vs bear debate begins: Brian presents the viral TikTok question to the panel; Bobby chooses the bear

going around the table would you rather come across a random man or a bear in the woods

01:34:00
QuoteSky argues men would commit SA if there were no consequences, saying it is a 'natural inclination for men to want to dominate women'

I feel like it's a natural inclination for men to want to dominate women and be aggressive

01:54:40
QuoteKaren reveals triple-digit body count: 'my husband knocked the hoe out of me'

that's all I'm going to give you it's a high three digit but it's up there I'm a recovered sex addict so I'll just put that out there my husband knocked the hoe out of me that's how I put it

01:58:10
QuoteBrian cites first fatal California black bear attack on a 71-year-old woman after panel chose bear over man; 'y'all will go to a bar filled with random men and hook up with random men'

rest in peace a woman first fatal bear attack in California so this is local to us here in California y'all will go to a bar filled with random men y'all will go home and hook up with random men that's what's crazy to me

02:02:20
QuoteAlyssa reveals the man she dated after separating from husband is now in a relationship with a trans woman who has a penis; debates whether that makes him gay/bisexual

someone that I was with is now dating a trans woman who has a penis so is that gay do you think that's bisexual

02:23:00
QuoteTavia objects to the recurring 'would a man date a sex worker' discussion framing; shares two men have already proposed to her despite her OnlyFans work

I had two people proposed to me already and I've said no and I do sex work and they didn't see me any differently based on that

02:45:00
QuoteBrian explains his objection to OnlyFans GFE: creators 'become very well practiced in deception and manipulation' by running chatters while advertising personal connection

you commit fraud by saying I'm talking to you you become very well versed in fraud and lying

03:46:27
QuoteAndrew Wilson joins show as call-in guest; introduces himself as political analyst and Blood Sport debater from The Crucible channel

political analyst and I'm a Blood Sport debater I appreciate Brian having me on I was scheduled for tonight I'm here a little bit late

04:52:20
QuoteJuliet concedes men have the burden in first date dynamics: the man has to convince her to sleep with him; she just has to exist and be polite

definitely it's more on the man I would say because the women I feel at least in my experience I don't really have to do anything besides just kind of existing and show up and being basically polite and friendly and the guy just he's the one who has to kind of convince me to sleep with him

07:18:00
QuoteBobby admits white people being bullied/called racial slurs at her predominantly minority school; Sky argues this does not count as racism (prejudice + power framework)

I was a white girl and I went to a school where white people were the minority and I experienced racism

Topics Discussed

00:00:07
Guest introductions (name/age/location/occupation)

Brian intro; each guest introduces themselves in order: Bobby Lavender (30, Louisiana, OnlyFans), Tavia (22, PA, model/OnlyFans), Alyssa (27, Austin TX, realtor), Sky (24, San Diego, environmental health specialist), Juliet (38, Denver CO, marketing), Karen (45, West Hollywood, writer/comedian), Madison (19, SBCC, Whatever staff).

00:07:00
Relationship status round

Each guest shares current relationship status, how long single, and longest relationship. Bobby: 3-year monogamish relationship. Tavia: 3-month talking stage, previously single since November. Alyssa: legally separated, getting divorced (NPD husband, 2 kids). Sky: always been single, only e-relationship (3 days). Juliet: single/celibate 4 years since 7-year relationship. Karen: married 10 years (husband was meant to be one-night stand in Alaska). Discussion of monogamish dynamics and open relationships.

00:16:00
Alyssa's divorce / NPD husband

Alyssa discloses legally separated, filing for divorce. Husband suspected NPD per therapist. Two kids ages 1 and 2. Filed for divorce during first pregnancy; unexpectedly pregnant again 3 months later. Husband abandoned family; filed missing person report during newborn period. Husband dodging divorce service; now dating someone new. Discussion of TX child support maximums (~$2300/month for 2 kids).

00:19:00
Bisexual men / would you date a bisexual man

Brian asks panel if they would date a bisexual man. Tavia: yes (is bisexual). Bobby: no (hygiene concern). Alyssa: no (wants masculine man). Sky: no. Karen: no (has been with some unknowingly, didn't bother her then). Debate about whether pegging makes a man bisexual. Alyssa says she would peg a man but not date a bisexual man.

00:32:00
Sky's celibacy / waiting until marriage

Sky (24) has never been in a real relationship; now practicing celibacy and considering waiting until marriage. Discussion of whether switching to celibacy after sexual history is valid or a 'raw deal' for men. Panel discusses compatibility issues when one partner becomes religious mid-relationship.

01:06:38
Self-ratings (looks, face and body 1-10)

Brian asks each guest to rate face and body separately on 1-10 scale (no 7s allowed). Bobby: natural 10 face, body 6. Tavia: face 9, body 10 (hates her nose). Alyssa: face 5-6, body 8-9. Sky: face 5-6, body 9. Juliet: face 8, body 8. Karen: face 8, body 8. Madison: face 6.9, body 8. Brian: face 5, body 4.5 (admits needing to lose weight). Armpit hair debate: Bobby reveals she does not shave armpits. Chat reaction discussed.

01:13:53
Armpit hair debate / Bobby's grooming choices

Brian asks chat and panel if Bobby's unshaved armpit hair is a dealbreaker. Discussion of leg hair (Bobby does not shave legs either, fine blonde hair). Bobby shares stripper clients who were attracted to her armpit scent. Panel discusses pheromone attraction.

01:21:51
Man vs bear viral debate

Panel discusses the viral 'would you rather meet a random man or a bear in the woods' question. Bobby, Sky, and others discuss choosing the bear based on predictability. Brian challenges logic with zoo/bathroom hypotheticals. Discussion of SA statistics, what percentage of men would victimize given no consequences. Reference to woman killed by bear in California (first fatal Black bear attack). Discussion of transgender bathroom safety.

01:54:40
Body count round

Maddie (co-host) asks body count question. Karen: triple digits (recovering sex addict). Bobby: 50-100 (~80% male, 20% female). Tavia: over 40, under 60. Alyssa: ~6 (mostly long-term relationships). Sky: low count. Discussion of bisexuality, men who have had same-sex experiences, and what constitutes gay behavior. Debate about past guy going down on other men and Alyssa's dating a man now with a trans woman (penis).

02:06:08
Pre-show notes: modern feminism harms relationships (Juliet)

Brian reads Juliet's pre-show note: modern feminism harms men and women, keeps both from what they seek in long-term partnership. Juliet expands: second-wave feminism contributed to hookup culture; sex means different things to men vs women biologically (dopamine/vasopressin vs oxytocin). Discussion of who identifies as feminist; Brian's definition of feminism as women's advocacy not equality movement. Jordan Peterson quote on equal opportunity vs guaranteed outcome.

02:23:00
Sex work / dating a sex worker

Tavia's pre-show note: objects to framing 'would a man date a sex worker' as unusual question. Brian explains why dating sex workers is suboptimal (practised deception/manipulation via GFE fraud, lying about chatters). Panel discusses whether OnlyFans is easy or hard work. Body count and sex worker identity discussion.

03:01:08
Abortion / reproductive rights

Discussion of Texas abortion restrictions and women's medical care access. Brian argues abortion banning is not evidence of gender inequality since men have no reproductive rights. Panel debates equality framing of reproductive rights.

03:46:27
Andrew Wilson calls in (political analyst / debater)

Andrew Wilson (The Crucible host) joins as call-in guest. Introduces himself as political analyst and Blood Sport debater. Debates various topics with panel including feminism, male leadership, traditional roles.

04:43:00
Dating dynamics: male burden / who has harder time dating

Sky disagrees with framing that men have a burden in dating. Extended debate: Brian lists all male obligations in dating (approach, lead conversation, ask for number, plan date, pay, close). Panel acknowledges men are rejected far more than women. Andrew Wilson explains 'burden' means social obligation not that it is burdensome. Sky made Tinder at 17 to gain experience after getting no male attention in high school.

04:59:20
Age gap relationships

Sky objects to age-gap relationships on value-diminishment grounds. Karen is 9 years older than her husband (35-36 vs 45). Juliet has dated men 7+ years older. Brian notes younger women complain young men avoid commitment. Andrew Wilson weighs in on age gap dynamics.

07:12:00
Can you be racist toward white people / racism debate

Bobby shares experience being bullied/called racial slurs as a white minority at her school. Sky argues whites cannot experience racism (prejudice + power definition). Andrew challenges Sky's framework using logical consistency. Bobby ultimately concedes that whites experiencing racism does not have systemic effect. Karen notes she has seen racism directed at her white husband. Andrew points out Bobby's earlier framing justified racist behavior.

07:20:00
Roast segment and wrap-up

Short TTS roast segment at $25 trigger. Various viewer roasts read aloud. Chat donates, panel reacts. Brian closes show with thank-yous.

Transcript

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05:38:30
Brian Atlasyour first traditional dinner date oh wait you don't want to go there okay uh uh okay you said said you didn't want to go there in the notes so we won't go there you don't think gender rales and patriarchal relationships are for
05:38:42
Brian Atlaseveryone there's definitely more submissive and emotional men more dominant grounded women who are ideal for those men those households tend to be more matriarchal doesn't make it any less balanced it's just different from
05:38:53
Brian Atlaswhat most people are used to take the parents from the dancing for the devil documentary for I okay it's a new documentary about like the I saw a little bit of that um the father is very emotional not very dominant mother is
05:39:05
Brian Atlasvery sharp and intense and dominant but they seem very healthy and happy together and raised very intelligent successful kids their kids are thriving I mean one of them might be an cult but like a lot of people can be in a cult
05:39:17
Bobby Lavendersometimes it's a fake cult because it gets them money like I was in a fake cult before because it was financially beneficial to the community but you were in a fake cult I only watched the yeah I
05:39:29
Bobby Lavenderonly watched the first episode of that so I don't know it may you were you you were in a cult a fake one what does that mean what's a fake cult in Hawaii I um I just fle up to Hawaii
05:39:42
Bobby Lavenderstarted walking down the road I had like no knowledge and I come across a I come across like a hippie commune like a hippie commune and
05:39:52
Bobby Lavenderthey're like cool with nudity and stuff I'm sorry and the guy who owns it his name is actually Jesus it's not actually Jesus it's Eugene but we call him Jesus
05:40:03
Bobby Lavenderand we had you know we kind of like put on a show for our people that come to like visit the mhm commune and try to make it seem like super weird just because it's fun and because it to
05:40:15
Andrew Wilsonmanipulate people to to join yeah like the Discovery Channel and [ __ ] like came out and would check it out because they thought it was a c the Discovery Channel came out to check out your LARPing
05:40:27
Brian Atlascult yeah we basically were laring as a cult so uh in your other in your other notes you said bowing is playful and kinky as long as the context is but if there's a
05:40:38
Brian Atlasbad bad power Dynamic and expectation that she's actually your property slave no uh so obviously you have some objections to my uh preference for wanting a woman to Bow depends on the
05:40:51
Bobby Lavendercontext that's what I said what's the what's the context what's the context for you because I don't know I just it's cool I guess yeah yeah I would bow and I
05:41:00
Bobby Lavendermean as long as it's like playful and kinky like I said I think it's fun and I would say that's that's my frame for it it's just a playful endearing thing yeah
05:41:11
Bobby Lavenderit doesn't mean that much I don't I don't think it means that much what means more is how you treat her and if you really do see her as like someone
05:41:21
Bobby Lavenderwho's like really below you who's your slave or your kind of like what your friend kind of like what your friend did to her did it oh both of you did it he
05:41:31
Bobby Lavenderwas consenting he asked us to and I only did it once I was really honestly you made him like do chores for you work for you for free I couldn't even get him to
05:41:41
Bobby Lavenderdo that because like I'm just not that dominant person I couldn't even like he never paid me cuz I didn't ask for money I never got can I tell them what you made him do yeah go ahead do it tell us do it do it she like walked him through
05:41:54
Brian Atlasthe mall and made him drink his own come out of a cup wait in the mall yeah I thought that was more fun than hold onit that's more wait wait wait hold on now let me actually make a let me actually
05:42:05
Brian Atlasmake a criticism here while you two were consenting to that all the other people in the mall were not consenting though yeah they didn't know what it was yeah but you walked him through the mall so
05:42:16
Brian Atlasyou're doing some like BDSM [ __ ] publicly those people are not it's these people who like do that dog [ __ ] like the walking the dogs in public there's a
05:42:26
Brian Atlasweird like the people in public are not consenting to that [ __ ] yeah let me clar actually I think the BDSM that can I think the BDSM Community looks down on
05:42:37
Bobby Lavenderthat do that [ __ ] in public yeah they because it's nonc consent right because these people in public don't want to see that [ __ ] reiterate that this was can we can we just we clarify real quick I just
05:42:47
Bobby Lavenderwant to make sure I heard that right you made a guy walk through a mall and drank his sperm yeah and then I also made him uh try on some panties and then go to
05:42:59
Andrew Wilsonthe checkout and buy his own panties and just to be clear you have an issue with me wanting a woman to Bow yeah w morality of owners of the person that's
05:43:09
Bobby Lavenderreally the problematic part these girls I agree I totally agree and it was dumb of me to do that I literally only did it once I did it a few times that's fine
05:43:21
Bobby Lavenderyou know did it once it's not Mur somebody once just one time no big deal was actually funny we had that girl you might have traumatized a bunch of children you know that right uh well they didn't like they really didn't see
05:43:34
Bobby Lavenderthey didn't know they didn't see a guy crawling on the floor you I was the one crawling in that other scenario but that was a different person that I was with doing the leash thing different do you have any do you actually regret doing it
05:43:45
Bobby Lavenderto him do I regret doing it to him I mean I didn't necessarily like it's not my Kink but I don't kink shame I'll try most things once if it sounds interesting and I was like okay he
05:43:57
Brian Atlaswanted you to do that yes he approached both of us with this proposition for me he cleaned my house and Chastity and stuff and she made him so they both were involved
05:44:07
Brian Atlasin uh essentially like this guy was a slave to them basically he'd be getting off to this there was no he loved it like he proposed the idea are you guys
05:44:18
Andrew Wilsoninto like Cleveland Steamers and what is that okay let's not that basically taking advantage of somebody who's clearly mentally
05:44:27
Alyssaill I mean he's was he mentally ill I mean he's ill do that come on let's not H ourselves um I don't know he's pretty normal
05:44:40
Andrew Wilsonactually I think he agrees with most of your takes it's just just well he believes in like Li people he would agree with any of armit takes I promise you that promise he does no guy well if he does then the thing is is that he's
05:44:51
Andrew Wilsonlaring what's the real him I think both things can the guy who agrees with Christian conservatism or the guy who walks through a mall dranking his own which is the real guy he's not religious he just holds a lot of I guess religious
05:45:02
Alyssaprinciples like he thinks traditional gender roles are good he thinks it's okay much younger women he thinks he thinks what what I guess not for himself what
05:45:13
Brian Atlaswhat of the dynamic that you explained earlier has anything to do with tra traditional you can support it for society but not for yourself you know I mean you don't think that a guy
05:45:25
Alyssawho requests that you do that is mentally ill you don't think I mean he's definitely little throwed but like he's a functional member of society for the most part like I've definitely seen more don't feel bad about it
05:45:35
Brian Atlaseither ball just it's interesting the women the women object to the bow thing but like they they would absolutely B like we've had girls who come on the
05:45:46
Brian Atlasshow who are who do findom uh who's basically Financial abuse and um they basically bankrupt men but somehow I'm the bad guy because I want a woman to
05:45:57
AlyssaBow no I don't think she was saying it was bad she even said she'd do it she's just saying as long as you don't really view them as like less than human and beneath you view them as a
05:46:07
Bobby Lavenderproperty that is less than you or like a slave do you want a submissive women woman or do you want in what context I do not like Bratz at all I don't believe you what you like to argue a lot well a
05:46:21
Andrew Wilsonbrat is like trust me I they're submissive but they're going to fight back a little bit and like make you yeah it's like a sub thing of uh BDSM yeah so you don't mean like in the Commons if
05:46:31
Andrew Wilsonyou call a you know somebody a brat means they acting spoiled rotten you know something like that so it doesn't mean that it's some other Kink some other Kink [ __ ] sort of I mean okay
05:46:43
Brian Atlasyeah it's Kink [ __ ] okay but they act no to answer your question I don't want the bread I don't want you just want like a fully submissive fully fully
05:46:52
Brian Atlassubmissive yep what what camps Ethan what are you talking about I camps I'll read a wall it's up Ethan n much Love Actually Maddie can you read it much love and appreciation to the
05:47:05
Madisongood intentions of your podcast Brian and Andrew effing Wilson who is always the best on the show some of these women though would not have survived the camps thank you Ethan can you hide it and then
05:47:16
Madisonread this one number one rule to Kink you don't expose non-consenting people to King stoping with reasons why it's not so bad you basically essayed everyone who was around they didn't know
05:47:29
Brian Atlasdoesn't excuse right mine was in private just by the way Mom's at my house that okay that's fine uh Ethan thank you for that Super Chat man really appreciate it uh I think that's my first time seeing you uh send in a super so appreciate
05:47:40
Andrew Wilsonyour patronage man there's rules to King like what there's rules definely the name of degeneracy is this [ __ ] I don't do this stuff anymore F never into you have consent forms
05:47:52
Alyssafor you somebody that wanted me to do that [ __ ] there's a book get you had a man in the 101 yeah I experimented with it we
05:48:03
Brian Atlasweren't hooking up or anything and I would never be a degenerate scumbag 10 written by oh boy boy uh anyways uh let's see you said how
05:48:13
Bobby Lavendercould uh wait hold on there's an honors course thing to say is you know a lot of men like to it's mostly men who get those like plugs that are like remote controlled and like wear them around in
05:48:24
Bobby Lavenderstores and stuff girls don't do that like as much as men they're really into like wearing butt plugs in public and stuff I well that's what my Subs like
05:48:34
Bobby Lavendertell me you know I yeah they're degenerate they're [ __ ] degenerate a lot of them are also married I live in West Hollywood she's married too they got a beard yeah they wife values are
05:48:45
Brian Atlasjust so high their wife is a beard their wife is a beard those guys are probably they're probably they're hanging out West Hollywood they're hanging out I personally don't judge anyone's Kink me neither but I'm
05:48:59
Andrew Wilsonnot through malls and make wear panties and drink sperm I'm sure you don't judge anybody's kink yeah would be a pretty precarious Branch to stand on wouldn't he did he
05:49:11
Bobby Lavenderpay you no I didn't ever ask for money that's the thing is I couldn't ask him for anything like to cuz I'm also very subie I don't want to yeah it's hard for me to even ask my
05:49:23
Brian AtlasSubs whenever I like need money I'm just like so sort of okay you said you've been the main provider in all your relationships it's not a preference I've just yet to connect with anyone who makes good money not a problem but
05:49:35
Brian Atlasunfortunately I've been used a lot so now I have the sphere of ulterior motives much like men do with women my recent ex fiance kinda had you paying student loans truck payments truck and
05:49:46
Brian Atlasmotorcycle mods regular and Wilderness EMT courses firefighter training General credit card debt Etc MH and yeah he also
05:49:58
Bobby Lavenderruns a scam on the internet under a fake name he's literally a Serial scammer so you're sugar mama boy you picked you picked a good one eh this was like the
05:50:07
Bobby Lavenderfirst guy that I dated who he was really just good at faking he had this mask but you know because I have a very degenerate past he was the first Good Guy the one that I thought like I was
05:50:19
Bobby Lavenderdoing the right thing like my parents would approve of this come to find out afterward they were like I always got a bad Vibe about him but I was not I was like oh this is you see why you're supposed to listen to your parents do you see why you're supposed to tell me
05:50:32
Andrew Wilsonuntil after because they just thought I was happy and they didn't want to give but they didn't give her the information until after she broke up with them so it's it's a they should have though they should have but you would have told her to ignore it you would have said ignore
05:50:44
Karentheir advice so yeah so that's on you how else wait how else are you going to become a good human being until you learn how to not be a you adopt your ethics your morals and even your
05:50:55
Andrew Wilsonmannerisms from your parents you're you're a genetic copy essentially of your mom and your dad so the nature that they are is probably going to at least trickle down to you somewhat so if they have good ethics or good morals or the
05:51:07
Andrew Wilsonpillars of the community or things like that I would think that you would want kids to listen to them that seems wise like if they were if they're successful at least some to some degree now I would judge success as being
05:51:19
Andrew Wilsonsomething as basic as um you know they go to work every day and they uh they get by and but they love you that seems like success to me that seems like uh it's something that most people could at least emulate to a degree if I'm going
05:51:31
Karento play The Devil's Advocate though if I were going to listen or if most people listen to their parents you wouldn't see a lot of the comedians who are comedians be comedians or actors be actors because those are frivolous
05:51:42
Andrew Wilsonjobs you know so there's things like that yeah but this isn't a 1980s movie come on where they're like where's the [ __ ] money Keith right where they're where they're like no you you know I don't want I want you to go to a
05:51:54
Andrew Wilsonbusiness school instead of an art school that's that like that was all phony baloney [ __ ] anyway that was all deconstructing Society in the'80s anyway due due to punk rock culture most of the time if you want to go to a good Art
05:52:06
Andrew WilsonSchool your parents aren't like no that's not that's just not really how it works in reality honestly they might give you advice to the contrary meatball donated
05:52:16
TTS/Donations$200 yikes stay away from bums purple Abella you can't keep saying people should not listen to parents when you are exhibit as to why people
05:52:28
Brian Atlasshould I'm not going to dispute that but I'm not an Abella stupid what's ab ab Abella is Grandma I'm not a grandma dumb [ __ ] okay oh he was like know oh he she
05:52:39
Brian Atlascalled you a dumb [ __ ] I did shots fired um name 10 books going back to you uh so this guy who you paid all the [ __ ] I'm a Christian conservative we
05:52:50
Brian Atlascan't read uh meanwhile he shamed you for how you made money and he ended up cheating on you with a nurse and got the clap
05:53:02
Bobby Lavenderoo yes sir yes sir this is true well I was stripping back then and then after the thing that I can't mention I started doing only fans
05:53:13
Bobby Lavenderand yeah he did not like that I was a stripper but he benefited from it and he used the fact that it was a degenerate thing and like he didn't like it and I'm
05:53:24
Bobby Lavenderjust a strumpet to be like manipulating me to feel like she watches the show she likes the show he manipulated me with
05:53:33
Bobby Lavenderyou know just shaming me for what I do and into making up for it by giving him all my money and I literally let that relationship with nothing I mean nothing
05:53:44
Brian AtlasI feel like I kind of I side with you on this one because like he can't be all bitching about your job while you're paying for all his [ __ ] that part like
05:53:55
Brian Atlashe needs to like pay for his [ __ ] or like and then he can going have to take a disagreement with Brian on this one so like okay I think he can I think that
05:54:06
Andrew Wilsoneven if uh he's not working and you're supporting him he can still [ __ ] if you're a sex worker I think that that's fine like I don't I don't actually have any objection to that I mean he can just well he shouldn't well my my view is he
05:54:19
Andrew Wilsonhe just shouldn't have dated her I mean yeah if he didn't like if from it until he didn't need me because watched jul robt Pretty Woman he thought he could
05:54:29
Andrew Wilsonturn him out right so he bitched about it a little bit it seems reasonable right seems reasonable like why can't he why can't you why can't you say you know I still would like you to not do that
05:54:41
Bobby Lavenderwell it wasn't even a moral thing because he was also very promiscuous um like while you were while you guys were together he was cheating but we had an open relationship but you didn't know he was cheating right this
05:54:55
Bobby Lavenderwas like probably the most open relationship I had he had no reason to cheat she literally shared him all you didn't know he was cheating right um I had a I had a suspicion because there
05:55:07
Andrew Wilsonwere some things that were like little signs and you know the RO in our relationship and if you knew he was cheating would end of the convo or the not the convo the the relationship so
05:55:18
Bobby Lavenderyou can't say well he was promiscuous if he didn't know he wasis there was no like you know cuz we're supposed to talk to each other and be like let them know about our partners like if I had a partner he knew about him if I was even
05:55:30
Bobby Lavenderjust in a talking stage like talking on Tinder with somebody I would be like hey I met this new guy who I kind of vibe with but he just did not tell me about this particular one at all and really denied it but I knew that there was
05:55:42
Andrew Wilsonsomething going on because is this one of those weird things where you okay hang on hang on I got to ask is this one of those weird things where you're like we have the ground rules where as long as we just
05:55:54
Andrew Wilsontell each other who we're boning then it's okay it's one of those things but oh you didn't tell me so you cheated is it one of those yeah it's about communication honesty and like obviously
05:56:04
Bobby Lavenderif there were somebody that we didn't feel comfortable with and we brought that up we would but this is why you're a sex worker right why why this
05:56:15
Karenrelationship or this whole thing no I've been a sex worker since I was 19 but that's that's that's where the H hypocrisy comes in it's like you can't
05:56:24
Karenreally expect him to just be monogamous if you're a sex worker that's another reason why like
05:56:35
Bobby Lavenderthat he used to basically but that feel bad about everything and like B to his every need and P for everything he wanted I think your ex was a [ __ ] and then you finally
05:56:47
Bobby Lavenderfigured that out I did left his I didn't leave him because of the cheating either I didn't leave him because of the cheating because I don't give a [ __ ] I didn't give a [ __ ] she doesn't give a [ __ ] I really don't care about the
05:56:59
Bobby Lavendercheating I just thought it was funny to bring up because she was a nurse and gave him and I clamydia oh you got the clap too well I mean I was [ __ ] my boyfriend so unfortunately yeah I'm
05:57:11
Backgroundreally happy you're with one good now thank you cuz he gave you he gave you the clap well we were because you guys
05:57:22
Bobby Lavenderwere honestly that's the only time I've ever had an STD so wow oh many years of is that is that is that like God's way of telling you stop doing that [ __ ] do
05:57:34
Bobby Lavenderyou think maybe God being like you know stop just stop you can get sick at the grocery store cuz someone sneezes on you like stop going to the grocery store like all you have to do is go get a little shot
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Bobby Lavenderand or take you know you get an HPV vaccine and then you're good like is that the case with HIV huh well I'm not
05:57:55
Brian Atlasthat's what I made get before ENT I'll I'll continue on with my notes Here Andrew I don't know if you saw this I just wanted to bring Andrew's attention to this Nick could you show up the
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Brian Atlasarticles about the bear killing Andrew Andrew's gonna love this one not love it you're talking about the attack been happening in California yeah the a woman
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Brian Atlasthe first ever black bear fatality in California a woman was killed it's kind of ironic in uh it's like the with all the women picking AAR timing is
05:58:27
Brian Atlasimpecable now uh going on to more notes from you you said don't hold body count against people even though I've been promiscuous in my past I've become very choosy of who I'm romantic with now in fact I'd argue that my experience has
05:58:40
Brian Atlasmade me even more secure in my current relationship because I know what I want and don't want well couldn't you know what you want and don't want in a
05:58:49
Brian Atlasrelationship without [ __ ] h Huh what huh well like you mean sexually or cuz I mean that's
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Bobby Lavenderthe I'm still confused about this question well you said in fact because okay said don't hold body count what I said there I think your misunderstanding
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Bobby Lavenderwas that I've had a lot of well sexually as well but like just with from person to person their traits their characteristics and all that stuff and
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Brian Atlaslike how we connect and just values as well like okay but so you said you'd argue that your experience has made me even more secure in my current relationship because I know what I want and don't want now you've become very
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Brian Atlaschoosy of who I'm romantic with now so you said you've had sex between like 50 and 100 people couldn't you like this experience you garnered in terms of what you want and don't want of all the people you've had sex with wouldn't you
05:59:46
Brian Atlashave gotten the same experience even if you hadn't had sex with them no well I'm not talking about sexual experience I mean am I maybe I'm
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Andrew Wilsonmisunderstanding what you mean by experience and what you want and don't want so what he's asking the simplified version he's just saying thank you couldn't you have gained the same exact
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Bobby Lavenderexperiences with these people absent having sex with them why is the sex the important part of these experiences well because it's I mean in a relationship it's usually well there's
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Bobby Lavendera number of things that you would um go outside of a relationship for besides sex um so no it isn't just sex it's also a lot of other things like the way they treat you the way you
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Bobby Lavendercommunicate and all those things but I was doing those things with the other partners that I've had in my life it wasn't just sex so I learned a lot about myself I learned a lot about people and
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Brian Atlashow they treat me and I don't know why it's not reading purple when you ran to the bathroom and started throwing up is it because you smelled your own rancid pits is that why the TP Chris Jenner did the blank try up before after the
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Brian Atlassurgery's roasts I actually inhal some water name t Books niol thank you Nickelodeon appreciate it oh by the way TTS is down says forgot to mention we we've lowered it to 69 uh if any of you
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TTS/Donationswant to get one in before we wrap up the show uh speaking of which let me pull this up Anonymous donated $100 number one rule to Kink you don't expose
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Brian Atlasno we already read this okay my bad my bad uh all right let's see the last notes Here we have you had a tweet and
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Bobby Lavenderyou said TBH I'm a cuck so I like when my man gets [ __ ] oh wow so you're cuck Queen you're cuck Queen only if it's under the right communication
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Bobby Lavenderbeforehand and even when not you know it can still be kind of hot it just depends on like a lot of different variables and if you know it
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Karenfeels cuy but wait so if the girl like for example if the girl's hotter than you and he still tells you but he has like a stronger sexual connection with her are you upset are you going to get
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Bobby Lavenderupset girl is hotter and he has a stronger sexual connection um yeah of course it's going to be a little but that'sit a c but that's but he told you about it you kind of he gave you he's
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Karenlike hey honey I want to [ __ ] this hotter chick I I like her [ __ ] better than yours is that okay um sure you can't a female can't be a
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Andrew Wilsoncuckold only men can be cuckold no definitely it cuck is just there's a term cuck Queen okay well yeah I know that's just but it that's meaningless
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Andrew Wilsonright the the whole purpose behind the term cuck is that you could unwittingly be raising the offspring that is not yours that's true well for women The Offspring is always going to be theirs
06:02:49
Andrew Wilsonthey not unwittingly ever going to be raising Offspring which is not theirs unwittingly that can't so there's just there is no female cuck that's just nonsense talk right so then what is it
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Andrew Wilsonis it just a no what is her situation she's a Voyer well any guy who's with her is so if if a guy is
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Andrew Wilsonsharing her he's a c right she's a Voyer can't yeah she's just a you know what you would call a I guess a strumpet right that's what you would yeah he
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Brian Atlaswould just call it call it that essentially oops uh so hold on we need to do some dating app review Nick can you pull up the dating app
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Brian Atlasreviews do the tweet uh what's the Tweet can you read it to me people are so stupid oh we'll pull it yeah we can do that really quick I don't know one of
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Brian Atlasyou posted this yeah actually he who does not lick the [ __ ] should not get to hit one of you guys tweeted this out like reacted to it it looks like a cool party look at all the punks they like crusty I love it so
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Bobby Lavendergoing around the table is it is it a deal breaker if a guys not willing to uh go down I've had a guy that did not want to and yeah there was a lot of other things going on there I don't prefer it
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Taviait's not my favorite it's not my favorite thing so I mean I don't think I'd care that much honestly okay I don't care that much I don't really care uh it's a bit of a deal breaker oo that
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TTS/Donationswould be a deal breaker for me I don't care okay I'm yeah I'm indifferent Anonymous donated
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TTS/Donations$69 your long-term boyfriend is cheating on you and all his friends know do you expect his friends to tell you Brian how about name tags on the mic stands to
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Brian Atlaseasily identify guests we've had the suggestion before it's we're not going to we're not going to do that but I appreciate it um yeah that is a scenario
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Bobby LavenderI'm supposed to answer I guess um well I think I'm pretty close with their friends they might snitch but they might not um it's a strange question mhm yeah I
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Bobby Lavenderthink they probably I'd like to think that they would his friends tell you the chatter is asking if they should should they snitch okay your long-term boyfriend is
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TTS/Donationscheating on you all his friends know you expect his friends to tell you for underscore theore patriarchy donated $69 question for the panel would you let
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Brian Atlasyour partner go to the strip club if they go for the wings and music uh okay we'll come here we'll do that one then we'll come back to the cheating one so going around the table
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Bobby Lavenderon this one yeah I don't have a problem with him going to trip we go
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Alyssatogether I don't care I don't care no no comment I wouldn't want him to go without me but I took the last guy I dated to the strip club for the his first
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Skytime for was it for the wings and the music uh no no okay yes only for the wings in the music the salad bar yeah
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Andrew Wilsonright oh gosh sometimes the food is good though my husband wouldn't go so but I wouldn't care honestly I wouldn't care if he went yeah would you let him read Hustler magazine cuz they just really like the Articles absolutely well it was the
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Alyssacover of May so Hustler magaz he he can borrow I mean ideally You' pick a man that doesn't have an interest in going regardless you can eat wings somewhere else uh and then long-term boyfriend all
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Taviahis friends know do you expect his friends to tell you no no yes it's bro code yeah it's against BR but they do tell
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Karenus if they're trying to [ __ ] you yeah they be snitching okay all right bros before fros before hose okay um they tell you if they trying to Smashing next exactly apps
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Nick (production)yep wait which one is this 10 out of 10 is this zoomed out smash smash smash or pass oh she's like Facebook dating
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Brian Atlassmash uh I think you got to zoom can you zoom it out and show me please or is that the Tik Tok sound oh yeah that okay well I have it on the next one I did it on purpose what do you mean but that we
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Brian Atlasneed a okay that's fine uh can you read this one Alyssa just read your own Prof um based I value intellect and communication above all I typically won't engage in small talk but
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Alyssaif you want to talk space travel psychology philosophy Etc I'll probably bite I have kids and I'm opening to having more uh my insta is something like Clementine oh and my love language is acts of service so if you're lazy or
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Alyssadon't have your life together we won't Vibe and then I said looking for a man in Tech green eyes trust fun 6 Plus and then I said it's a Tik Tok reference totally not serious lol that song goes
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Brian Atlashard yeah it's just a funny reference your love language is acts of service yeah my confusion with the act with the love languages is
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Alyssadoes it what you want or how you express both it can be but most of the time it's in reference to what you expect uh men tend to be physical touch or acts of
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Alyssaservice or actually maybe men are more like physical touch and words of affirmation I think um acts of service is where and I just put that cuz the last guy that I was that I interacted
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Alyssawith was super lazy and like I take care of two toddlers alone keep a spotless house cook work multiple jobs so I'm very driven I cannot carry like I just feel like as a man how you're probably
06:08:42
Alyssalike a bum if you can sit there and watch someone that you claim to care about struggling and you're not naturally inclined to help because I would never watch a man go through it and not you know have the empathy to to
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Andrew Wilsonhelp him like I would take it a myself mean like the vast majority of women I don't I'm not the vast majority of women so I can't speak for them but so wait so
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Alyssahe wouldn't what clean up after your toddlers yes yeah no no no no no no like okay like one day um my air like I needed more Freon I needed to charge my
06:09:15
Alyssaair conditioner in the car and like I you're not useful to me as a man if I'm doing that and taking care of kids and cooking and cleaning like that's something you should be doing I feel I support gender roles I'm totally fine
06:09:27
Alyssakeeping a clean house looking hot for you bearing babies I don't think every relationship should be like that but I tend to prefer that the you know the more biblical type of thing um so like
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Alyssaif you don't have a job and you're not driven you don't have any goals or aspirations and you're just lazy and you just sit around and do nothing that's not attractive to me you didn't have a
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Alyssajob no not really I can't like disclose too much cuz then it'll be obvious who I'm talking about um so didn't you choose him no no once I realized that he
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Andrew Wilsonwas like that I was like this is not going to work out okay the your example of why he was lazy
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TTS/Donationsis cu recharge your AC with donated $70 purple hair girl catching an SD is not appealing please stop being a strumpet question for the ladies if a
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TTS/Donationsman is the provider in a marriage relationship is he the prize sure we'll go around the table on this go ahead hell yeah yeah I think
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Alyssaso I know know yes yeah I'd say so yeah mhm Assuming he's like good to you otherwise as well like cuz you can be a provider and be a piece of [ __ ] and then I'm still going
06:10:47
Bobby Lavenderto divorce you over your head or anything like to do crazy stuff is he the prize that's the question I don't I think we could both be the prize
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Brian Atlasbut I me uh was there another tab on The Dating one from her or is that the only thing the whole lazy guy thing yeah and like you have like my main thing is that you have to be
06:11:09
Alyssaintellectually stimulating for me wait so what do you want in a guy I want someone who's intelligent and like I don't expect anybody to take care of me but I don't want to have to take care of them either okay but mostly I want
06:11:21
Alyssasomeone who's like I love to debate and I like somebody to teach me things and like I want to I want who I'm around to be better than me so that I can grow want like debate with your partner ex I
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Alyssamean not all the time but yeah yeah that's fun stuff I hate that I just love to explore not necessarily debate but I like to explore intellectual topics
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Taviatogether yeah what why even if you don't have a disagreement you can just stop go ahead you said you don't like when people debate with you I mean we know it's obvious just saying
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TTS/Donationswhat say the spicy thing that you were going to say what spicy thing I don't know it seems spicy techcore Peach uncore eer donated
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TTS/Donations$69 6'1 in in Tech six figures skateboarder I eat peaches on first date and you are banging oh my god well I don't sleep with anybody on a first date
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Brian Atlasbut um get tested and if you know you have you ever had a one night stand yes once have you ever have you ever slept with somebody on the first date but continued seeing them yes but
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Alyssathis is all prior to becoming a Christian too what denomination again I mean I know yall push for this I mean I just I you could say Protestant I guess
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Alyssabut really I just like read like I interpret the Bible wait are you waiting until marriage to have sex no well so what why hold on I'm not
06:12:53
Brian Atlassaying that I'm a perfect Christian and that I uphold all the values why hold on hold on if the reason you no longer sleep with someone on the first date the
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Brian Atlasjustification the pretext is you ciding to Christian values sure but if you ultimate hold on wouldn't the ultimate manifestation of that be waiting until marriage sure but if you look at the
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Alyssacontext of marriage within Biblical times they weren't like having a court officiate a wedding you know what I mean yeah the church did is the church officiating your wedding I don't know like I wouldn't
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Andrew Wilsonactually be opposed to waiting why you shouldn't debate you're bad at it so you be a guy who's good you know probably a lot worse at atly whatever I try to uphold as many of them
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Andrew Wilsonas I can but you know I'm not going to be perfect at it there's I don't think anybody can pretend to be yeah but Perfection is not the point of Christianity or Christian ethics if you talk about Christian ethics though if you're trying to uphold not being
06:13:53
Andrew Wilsonpromiscuous because you think that a part of divine command then just not sleeping with a guy in the first date really doesn't have anything to do with it it's basically skirting the whole point of what that Divine command is is
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Alyssait sure yeah I mean that's not the only reason I don't sleep with someone on the first date but I do try what youed to I do try that's what you appeal to though was your Christian ethics okay fair now it's like okay by
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Alyssathe third date then we'll sleep together and it's like I'm not going to like just hook with people randomly like I just once we're in a monogamous commitment I guess that's how long does that
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Alyssatypically take mons I mean it can vary months it can vary like really telling me that the last guy you had sex with was it were you guys in a monogamous yeah we agreed from the very beginning that if we sleep
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TTS/Donationswith other people we're going to tell each other smoke donated $69 mommy milkers big big mommy milkers big big huge milkers and huge big
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Brian Atlasmilkies why are you covering up now question for you the last guy that you had sex with how quickly did you sleep with him I think like the second or third time
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Alyssayeah but we talked for a while before okay like he actually was asking me out multiple times before I finally went out with them yeah and we agreed like immediately like I'm not going to sleep with you if you're sleeping with other
06:15:18
Alyssapeople if you decide to that's fine just clue me in because I don't want to catch [ __ ] I just like what actual Christian ethics do you adhere to I I'm
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Alyssadefinitely very forgiving um I have forgiven my husband for a lot of things um I try not to like I don't feel like it's my place to judge anybody
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AlyssaIIs ethics have nothing to do with not judging people judge not that you may not be judged or like you know watch the that would just that would just be a standardization take the log out of your eye before you point out someone else
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Andrew Wilsonbut don't you understand that that's a standardization so that's that's that's actually giving a standard for which to judge okay yeah say okay yeah that's what it's doing it's giving a standard for wish but it also talks about like you know like you're not going to sit here and judge somebody for the [ __ ]
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Andrew Wilsonyou're doing yeah why couldn't you it cuz it says worry about the log in your own eye before you try to point out the Splinter in someone else or something just so you understand appeal to hypocrisy if you're
06:16:17
Andrew Wilsongoing to argue something one of the weakest forms of argumentation to say it's because it's it's actually fallacious it's called an appeal to hypocrisy so just pointing out well let's assume for a second that a serial
06:16:30
Andrew Wilsonkiller told you that it's bad to kill people he would still be right but he would be a hypoc right so the thing is is um when you're structuring arguments you don't want to think about what could or could not be
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Andrew Wilsonuh hypocritical from the person's angle when you're talking about judgment though you use judgment all the time I mean you have to just to get by in life you have to use judgment constant I mean to some degree yeah to some degree so
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Andrew Wilsonthe thing is is like you judge people constantly I mean if you see somebody who looks Sinister you probably stay away from them or um number different way you judge also doing I'm not going to judge I'm not going to judge someone
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Andrew Wilsonfor things that I'm also doing yeah but I don't understand why that makes it better because it's that's the thing I don't get I don't understand how that is the perception of the Christian ethic that if you're a sinner and you're
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Andrew Wilsonjudging other Sinners that that somehow makes your sin less bad that's what I don't get no I don't think it makes your sin less bad I'm just right so then so then why why is that part of this kind of ethical framework that you have of
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TTS/Donationsbut I don't judge because I'm doing the same thing that doesn't like it's in the spirit of that donated $69 almost to whatever first all these
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TTS/Donationslovely ladies without visible tattoos are piercings you don't realize just how beautiful and amazing you look the exception gets a pass from
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Brian Atlasme uh okay I think not sure what that means um he likes that you guys don't have tattoos I I guess okay thank you
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Brian Atlasgood to know good to know uh let's do the other dating
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Brian Atlasapp uh this is Sky uh okay this is your hinge scroll down
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Brian Atlasnext let's debate this topic adult circumcision I love that topic uh what just really quick what's your position
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Brian Atlasthere um for or against circumcision for you're for circumcision for adult circumcision oh adult uh wait so like them deciding for
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Brian Atlasthemselves yes gotcha oh so you're Against Child yes oh okay all right next uh
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Brian Atlasokay uh next next you won public okay cool congrats next fake a social cause I care about
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Skythis one's interesting environmental racism environmental racism is like red lining it's the practice of
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Skywhere um certain minority groups are living in areas that uh have higher
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Skypollution um and don't have investment from the community in like grocery stores they're like food deserts stuff like that so
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Skyyeah it's always been that way like everywhere it's yeah so that's a cause that I care about are there any more Nick or is that
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Alyssait okay that's my cat well my parents cat that's a that's a sweet little proper dating at uh what was the
06:19:50
Brian Atlasother was there something else we had to do Nick we didn't do BU oh we'll do that really quick
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TTS/DonationsSure hold on warlord 69 you w donated $69 Maddie where the heck is my man Gus Andrew great to see you again keep
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TTS/Donationsdestroying the C before it happens to others ladies bear or Mr yeast the English S I don't get it Mr yeast I don't know who I don't know who
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Brian Atlasthat is Mr yeast the English S I think he's talking about bivo oh yeah I don't know who that is but I'll take him over a bear that guy you might take the bear over
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Andrew Wilsonand I'm trying to think what the other thing is that that's how we should frame that question from now on Brian we should say the bear or bivo
06:20:47
Brian Atlasyeah uh yeah I agree bear or bivo um we were going to do bumble the Bumble segment really quick but I got to wait until all the girls are back to do it
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Brian Atlasso um what's up Nick Buck they need John oh bucker yeah pull up bucker come on
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Brian Atlasdating wait dating harder oh uh that was Rel that could be related to the burden component that we're talking about just pull up
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Brian Atlasbucker uh this was kind of funny feminists worn young girls against marrying Rich muscular football stars who love them and take care of all their needs and praise them in speeches
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Brian Atlasuh so this is basically like he had this speech me and Andrew reacted to it uh saying that that uh what did I forgot precisely what he
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Brian Atlassaid but basically he was saying that women are happiest I think as mothers and taking care of the household sort of thing instead of like working some job I
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Brian Atlasthink that was the that was the the uh that they don't have many options after college so I thought that was funny that was from The Babylon b or whatever uh
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Brian Atlasonce she's back we'll do the Bumble segment then we'll probably wrap up the show uh I guess we could do a brief roast section I don't know I need to put mod delay on if we're going to do it
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Brian Atlasthough so um uh we need mod roast section yeah we need we need a we need a roast section what was the thing that you were going to say and then the TTS
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Brian Atlascame in Saved by the TTS something about something that I said how you don't like to debate or something she like like what was the what was the own
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Brian Atlasshe was like so proud of she was so proud I know why I mean it's true you like turn off mics and [ __ ] when they don't agree with you H someone paid for that someone paid for
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Alyssathat like $500 he paid yeah and is that is that weird in a relationship to not want to debate I think it is actually Jordan Peterson has a talk on this where
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Brian Atlashe says want someone to contend with iag if you want to like stay one dimensional by all means but I want to know when I'm wrong I want to be able to grow onedimensional yeah and I don't think it has anything to do with being right or
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Andrew Wilsonwrong okay well then you're wrong now grow from this I hate de I don't I don't want you to be onedimensional I want you to be three-dimensional what what are the
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Alyssathree dimensions being a person of Life what what are the you mean what what are you asking me what are the three dimensions I know if like the three dimensions stood for something
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Andrew Wilsonor if you were referencing like three-dimensional reality no you said you said I don't want to be onedimensional right I I was doing a play on words was that you know is that
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Andrew Wilsonwhy like guys maybe are not always funny not everybody could be a comedian I mean it is if you understand it if you understand or maybe yeah but I mean you have to be seeking that high level intellectualism that you're seeking so
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Alyssamuch I really do no I actually love things like this believe it or not like we all have like holes in our awareness nobody knows everything and I think being able
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Alyssato balance ideas off of people and disagree is good for Humanity and I think it's something that Society has I think great for Humanity I just don't think it's great for relationships I don't think that
06:24:26
Andrew Wilsondebating so debating is contentious right it the idea you can have an idea behind debate where you're just trying to get to the truth that's true but debate's also utilized as a weapon it's
06:24:37
Andrew Wilsona weapon which you can defend yourself or you can assail other people verbally and inside of a polite Society that's basically what you're left with that's basically what you're left with right is a it's a form of Verbal Judo let's say I
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Alyssameaness I Would S exhausting in relationship right no for me it's just like if we have different ideas I just want to discuss each stance and like help each other deeper understand one another's perspective and then maybe like you change your mind maybe I Chang
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Alyssamind maybe neither one of us do but then we better understand the other person's position and I just I like to really explore ideas that way Stacy forcen donated
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TTS/Donations$69 she doesn't like debate she likes head games and word vomit also is there a bar shortage in California where can we donate to
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Nick (production)help I can't my ex should comment I was actually having a conversation
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Bobby Lavenderwith somebody about this honey set okay honey set isn't it
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Brian Atlasthe case that wait if you wear a bra does it lead to less sagging or more sagging more more okay we can't have
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Bobby Lavenderthat good to know cannot have that not with these perfect okay don't please don't do that i l have nothing
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Brian Atlasnothing yeah at least I said yies um um but yeah any final thoughts from any of the panelists we'll do a short row session and then we'll wrap up
06:26:15
Andrew Wilsonmaybe Andrew do you have a question I do I do have one I've been kind of patient here in my notes um if you'll humor me
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Andrew Wilsonso um let me let me pull it up on my screen I wrote it down earlier uh what would make you stop only fans
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Bobby Lavenderforever that's the question um just finding a new like a interest or a
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Bobby Lavenderjob Avenue that I want to pursue I definitely would but I just I haven't found anything that I want to do more so is it because it's
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Bobby Lavendereasy it's definitely not easy you don't think being on only an on only fans is easy no I work literally like all the time yeah and it is it's an emotionally
06:27:09
Bobby Lavenderlaboring job too like how it emotionally lab people I'm literally playing therapist for half people that I talk to it's emotional labor too because we're actually like Brian said providing a girlfriend experience and that is you
06:27:21
Bobby Lavendergiving a bit of your if it's so hard then why do it f yeah it's fake it you're not really being their girlfriend a lot of jobs are hard you have to make money and have a living and like then what you were
06:27:33
Andrew Wilsonactually saying is that comparison to other jobs it's as easy but you it's easy money right comparison to the that is
06:27:44
Karena common misconception so you mean getting naked on a camera word doesn't require any actual real brain power cuz you're not you're not curing cancer you're not you know building houses
06:27:56
Karenyou're not doing construction you're not healing someone takes about as much brain power as Comm being have a masculine job like you might being being a doctor is a masculine take as much
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Karenbrain power as comedy what's that I'm not just a comedian I'm a writer and a podcaster as well and I have a real job but I won't talk about it on the show cuz I don't need to everybody to know where I work but I have a real big girl
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Andrew Wilsonjob I think it probably is though drop a on the video please comedy probably would be harder than only fans work yeah I think they're both dep on how you approach it she really does like a bunch of editing and photo shoot type stuff I
06:28:30
Brian Atlasdo all my own editing all my own everything marketing up guys we've dropped the TTS to 25 we'll do a short
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Brian Atlasroast segment uh oh warning I have uh unlimited moderation delay on this so uh
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Brian Atlaslast show I didn't have to reject any of the roasts But I'm warning you that it is uh again last show I let all of them go through but if any of them are like
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Brian Atlasto or like you're insulting anybody's appearance I'm not going to play it if you want to roast what somebody said or you know if it's kind of on the more playful side that's okay but if you're
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Brian Atlasactually like insulting anybody's appearance or you're doing anything to or you're being uh egregiously vile in some way I'm not going to play it but
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Brian Atlaslike I said I'm pretty open with it so if you guys want we're going to do a $25 TTS ladies you may want to have a drink for this letra yourself yeah but also
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TTS/DonationsAndrew speaking of which I want me fance to in uh I'll be done once I have enough money to buy donated
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TTS/Donations$200 great show good to see you back in theat Blondie you got potential purple stay away from bums and open relationships and the rest of you good
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Andrew Wilsonluck Abita yikes thanks for that hey old man marine I probably [ __ ] your father then what is that I I'm I'm not
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Brian Atlasconfident that's the only you think it is uh old man marine I'm very sorry but uh your chat is not appropriate
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TTS/Donationsnow on the gross chick with the Pooh story what poo story there's a poo story involved too someone thre some
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TTS/Donationsactivity for payment shout out ezed Nickelodeon donated $25 yeah but I don't know why you're throwing me shade I'll name 10 books
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Alyssawhen you can name three science slte books the demon Haunted World the three by Carl s the future of humanity donated $25 to the blonde girl is it cold in
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TTS/Donationsmy oh damn Raven simp donated $25 I don't think Craven head actually likes debating I think she likes
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Alyssaconflict and men being being aggressive notice how today she refused to say I'm wrong LOL I conceded multiple times did you yeah she did you didn't conce I did
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Alyssayes I did she did you did yeah not really yes I did well like there's some things I'm not going to just bow on Dat I gave multiple rewatch it do do we have a study that you
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TTS/Donationsconceded G Gracie donated $25 quote uncore ladies uncore end quote if a guy treats you badly not physically abusive but word on the street is you
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TTS/Donationssought to deserve it is he really the bad guy in this scenario what the hell no PLS help donated $25 hey Brian and Andrew 29y old I own
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TTS/Donationsmy house make $100,000 a year two kids I work in mental health and was left after 6 years of marriage do any advice on how to move forward well I'm sure wherever you work
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Brian Atlasyou'll get a discount so I wouldn't worry about uh any advice on how to move forward left after six years of
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Brian Atlasmarriage got to get back on the saddle you got to find a new woman is that is that Brian's Clint Eastwood impression I have no idea I don't know what I don't know what I was
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TTS/Donationsgoing for collec NE donated $25 Alysa I didn't say we would have sex first date I would bite them peaches in a lady's room that's [Music]
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TTS/Donationsregular pron and your only simps page trying to argue there is is just cope not only are you doing prawn but you are also a prostitute you nervous Rene an 13
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TTS/Donationsdonated $25 you hussies need to get your [ __ ] together let the patriarch fix you who's the patriarch in this situation exist
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TTS/Donationsmhm who is Hees to be tied up I promise you Brian's lint roller donated $25 back to low body count an example
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TTS/Donationsmattered jandar donated $25 Maddie is Queen and Men definitely prefer low body count facts goes Logan
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Brian AtlasPaul I don't think that's a roast I think that's just a opinion yeah they don't have to is the Pagan donated $25 to the prolife talk earlier the