Armpit Hair Feminist HEATED DEBATE?! 100+ Body Count?! MASSIVE COPE?! E-GIRLS! | Dating Talk #168

Date: 2024-06-10
Duration: 7h 24m

Identified Speakers

SPEAKER_02Tavia(guest)
SPEAKER_04Alyssa(guest)
SPEAKER_05Bobby Lavender(guest)
SPEAKER_07Andrew Wilson(guest)
SPEAKER_09Brian Atlas(host)
SPEAKER_11Karen(guest)
SPEAKER_13Sky(guest)
SPEAKER_14Juliet(guest)

Key Moments

00:03:56
QuoteBobby Lavender introduces herself: 30yo, Louisiana, OnlyFans since pandemic, also cams on MyFreeCams

hello my name is Bobby lavender I'm 30 years old just turned 30 I live in Louisiana I am on only fans for like four years now basically since the pandemic

00:17:00
QuoteAlyssa discloses she is legally separated from NPD husband; two kids ages 1 and 2; filed for divorce February

I officially filed in February I wanted out of my marriage the last several years Texas will not finalize divorces when you're pregnant and I was pregnant for 2 years in a row

00:27:30
QuoteKaren reveals she married her husband who was intended as a one-night stand in Skagway Alaska; he was a friend of her then-hookup

I married a one night stand he was supposed to be a one night stand and it turned into a 10-year relationship

01:21:51
ControversyMan vs bear debate begins: Brian presents the viral TikTok question to the panel; Bobby chooses the bear

going around the table would you rather come across a random man or a bear in the woods

01:34:00
QuoteSky argues men would commit SA if there were no consequences, saying it is a 'natural inclination for men to want to dominate women'

I feel like it's a natural inclination for men to want to dominate women and be aggressive

01:54:40
QuoteKaren reveals triple-digit body count: 'my husband knocked the hoe out of me'

that's all I'm going to give you it's a high three digit but it's up there I'm a recovered sex addict so I'll just put that out there my husband knocked the hoe out of me that's how I put it

01:58:10
QuoteBrian cites first fatal California black bear attack on a 71-year-old woman after panel chose bear over man; 'y'all will go to a bar filled with random men and hook up with random men'

rest in peace a woman first fatal bear attack in California so this is local to us here in California y'all will go to a bar filled with random men y'all will go home and hook up with random men that's what's crazy to me

02:02:20
QuoteAlyssa reveals the man she dated after separating from husband is now in a relationship with a trans woman who has a penis; debates whether that makes him gay/bisexual

someone that I was with is now dating a trans woman who has a penis so is that gay do you think that's bisexual

02:23:00
QuoteTavia objects to the recurring 'would a man date a sex worker' discussion framing; shares two men have already proposed to her despite her OnlyFans work

I had two people proposed to me already and I've said no and I do sex work and they didn't see me any differently based on that

02:45:00
QuoteBrian explains his objection to OnlyFans GFE: creators 'become very well practiced in deception and manipulation' by running chatters while advertising personal connection

you commit fraud by saying I'm talking to you you become very well versed in fraud and lying

03:46:27
QuoteAndrew Wilson joins show as call-in guest; introduces himself as political analyst and Blood Sport debater from The Crucible channel

political analyst and I'm a Blood Sport debater I appreciate Brian having me on I was scheduled for tonight I'm here a little bit late

04:52:20
QuoteJuliet concedes men have the burden in first date dynamics: the man has to convince her to sleep with him; she just has to exist and be polite

definitely it's more on the man I would say because the women I feel at least in my experience I don't really have to do anything besides just kind of existing and show up and being basically polite and friendly and the guy just he's the one who has to kind of convince me to sleep with him

07:18:00
QuoteBobby admits white people being bullied/called racial slurs at her predominantly minority school; Sky argues this does not count as racism (prejudice + power framework)

I was a white girl and I went to a school where white people were the minority and I experienced racism

Topics Discussed

00:00:07
Guest introductions (name/age/location/occupation)

Brian intro; each guest introduces themselves in order: Bobby Lavender (30, Louisiana, OnlyFans), Tavia (22, PA, model/OnlyFans), Alyssa (27, Austin TX, realtor), Sky (24, San Diego, environmental health specialist), Juliet (38, Denver CO, marketing), Karen (45, West Hollywood, writer/comedian), Madison (19, SBCC, Whatever staff).

00:07:00
Relationship status round

Each guest shares current relationship status, how long single, and longest relationship. Bobby: 3-year monogamish relationship. Tavia: 3-month talking stage, previously single since November. Alyssa: legally separated, getting divorced (NPD husband, 2 kids). Sky: always been single, only e-relationship (3 days). Juliet: single/celibate 4 years since 7-year relationship. Karen: married 10 years (husband was meant to be one-night stand in Alaska). Discussion of monogamish dynamics and open relationships.

00:16:00
Alyssa's divorce / NPD husband

Alyssa discloses legally separated, filing for divorce. Husband suspected NPD per therapist. Two kids ages 1 and 2. Filed for divorce during first pregnancy; unexpectedly pregnant again 3 months later. Husband abandoned family; filed missing person report during newborn period. Husband dodging divorce service; now dating someone new. Discussion of TX child support maximums (~$2300/month for 2 kids).

00:19:00
Bisexual men / would you date a bisexual man

Brian asks panel if they would date a bisexual man. Tavia: yes (is bisexual). Bobby: no (hygiene concern). Alyssa: no (wants masculine man). Sky: no. Karen: no (has been with some unknowingly, didn't bother her then). Debate about whether pegging makes a man bisexual. Alyssa says she would peg a man but not date a bisexual man.

00:32:00
Sky's celibacy / waiting until marriage

Sky (24) has never been in a real relationship; now practicing celibacy and considering waiting until marriage. Discussion of whether switching to celibacy after sexual history is valid or a 'raw deal' for men. Panel discusses compatibility issues when one partner becomes religious mid-relationship.

01:06:38
Self-ratings (looks, face and body 1-10)

Brian asks each guest to rate face and body separately on 1-10 scale (no 7s allowed). Bobby: natural 10 face, body 6. Tavia: face 9, body 10 (hates her nose). Alyssa: face 5-6, body 8-9. Sky: face 5-6, body 9. Juliet: face 8, body 8. Karen: face 8, body 8. Madison: face 6.9, body 8. Brian: face 5, body 4.5 (admits needing to lose weight). Armpit hair debate: Bobby reveals she does not shave armpits. Chat reaction discussed.

01:13:53
Armpit hair debate / Bobby's grooming choices

Brian asks chat and panel if Bobby's unshaved armpit hair is a dealbreaker. Discussion of leg hair (Bobby does not shave legs either, fine blonde hair). Bobby shares stripper clients who were attracted to her armpit scent. Panel discusses pheromone attraction.

01:21:51
Man vs bear viral debate

Panel discusses the viral 'would you rather meet a random man or a bear in the woods' question. Bobby, Sky, and others discuss choosing the bear based on predictability. Brian challenges logic with zoo/bathroom hypotheticals. Discussion of SA statistics, what percentage of men would victimize given no consequences. Reference to woman killed by bear in California (first fatal Black bear attack). Discussion of transgender bathroom safety.

01:54:40
Body count round

Maddie (co-host) asks body count question. Karen: triple digits (recovering sex addict). Bobby: 50-100 (~80% male, 20% female). Tavia: over 40, under 60. Alyssa: ~6 (mostly long-term relationships). Sky: low count. Discussion of bisexuality, men who have had same-sex experiences, and what constitutes gay behavior. Debate about past guy going down on other men and Alyssa's dating a man now with a trans woman (penis).

02:06:08
Pre-show notes: modern feminism harms relationships (Juliet)

Brian reads Juliet's pre-show note: modern feminism harms men and women, keeps both from what they seek in long-term partnership. Juliet expands: second-wave feminism contributed to hookup culture; sex means different things to men vs women biologically (dopamine/vasopressin vs oxytocin). Discussion of who identifies as feminist; Brian's definition of feminism as women's advocacy not equality movement. Jordan Peterson quote on equal opportunity vs guaranteed outcome.

02:23:00
Sex work / dating a sex worker

Tavia's pre-show note: objects to framing 'would a man date a sex worker' as unusual question. Brian explains why dating sex workers is suboptimal (practised deception/manipulation via GFE fraud, lying about chatters). Panel discusses whether OnlyFans is easy or hard work. Body count and sex worker identity discussion.

03:01:08
Abortion / reproductive rights

Discussion of Texas abortion restrictions and women's medical care access. Brian argues abortion banning is not evidence of gender inequality since men have no reproductive rights. Panel debates equality framing of reproductive rights.

03:46:27
Andrew Wilson calls in (political analyst / debater)

Andrew Wilson (The Crucible host) joins as call-in guest. Introduces himself as political analyst and Blood Sport debater. Debates various topics with panel including feminism, male leadership, traditional roles.

04:43:00
Dating dynamics: male burden / who has harder time dating

Sky disagrees with framing that men have a burden in dating. Extended debate: Brian lists all male obligations in dating (approach, lead conversation, ask for number, plan date, pay, close). Panel acknowledges men are rejected far more than women. Andrew Wilson explains 'burden' means social obligation not that it is burdensome. Sky made Tinder at 17 to gain experience after getting no male attention in high school.

04:59:20
Age gap relationships

Sky objects to age-gap relationships on value-diminishment grounds. Karen is 9 years older than her husband (35-36 vs 45). Juliet has dated men 7+ years older. Brian notes younger women complain young men avoid commitment. Andrew Wilson weighs in on age gap dynamics.

07:12:00
Can you be racist toward white people / racism debate

Bobby shares experience being bullied/called racial slurs as a white minority at her school. Sky argues whites cannot experience racism (prejudice + power definition). Andrew challenges Sky's framework using logical consistency. Bobby ultimately concedes that whites experiencing racism does not have systemic effect. Karen notes she has seen racism directed at her white husband. Andrew points out Bobby's earlier framing justified racist behavior.

07:20:00
Roast segment and wrap-up

Short TTS roast segment at $25 trigger. Various viewer roasts read aloud. Chat donates, panel reacts. Brian closes show with thank-yous.

Transcript

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00:55:42
Skyfeel like he's referring how the hell are we supposed to know what men want patri it's my boy we're completely different like unless people are being honest with
00:55:53
Taviacommunication we don't like I don't know what men want it's an indivual Bas understanding what generally well it just cracks me up when people say like oh well female or oh men should be like
00:56:04
Alyssathis or female should be like this it's like females like it doesn't everybody's different yeah we're all literally a product of a million dependent variables that are unique to US based off of our nurture and nature and all our unique
00:56:18
Alyssaexperiences so everybody's going to be different but for the most part it seems like men kind of have some things that we can all say that they want and I think I don't think that we don't understand what men want I don't think I
00:56:30
Karendon't know what men want I think most women don't understand what they want most women that I know especially under under the age of 25 y'all don't know what the hell you want at all you don't know what to you want to eat for dinner
00:56:41
Alyssayou don't want know you don't know what outfit to wear you don't know a lot I think men mostly more than like y'all can say it's sex or whatever men want to feel appreciated for like the work that they do and they don't want to have to
00:56:53
Alyssaread your mind they want you to communicate what you want and if they're you know working for you providing for you they just want to be seen and appreciated and I think in society for the most part men don't get
00:57:04
Alyssathat and they're also not given as much freedom to be emotional and then they turn into like these incels that like I think the biggest thing that men would probably really appreciate from women
00:57:15
Karenthat they don't get is women holding themselves accountable for things that's a good one too 80% of women that I know don't know about accountability they don't know how to take accountability they don't know how to Adit their own
00:57:26
Karenfailures whether it's in relationship exactly they can't you know you want to take away the sex because of this and that and the other well what happened what happened what what prompted that in this in this relationship why do you
00:57:38
Alyssafeel like you need to be the one hold out and then you want to scream equality like come on though like obviously there's men who can't be held accountable to like my husband would Point things out about me and I make it
00:57:49
Alyssaa point in my life to not be ruled by cognitive dissonance like I feel like the more intelligent you are the more you know that you don't know like there's you have blind spots in your awareness and that made me a perfect victim to narcissistic abuse because he
00:58:01
Alyssawould be like it's you du D du and I would reflect and I'm like man was your therapist a liberal no I'm not a liberal was your therapist a liberal no well who
00:58:12
Brian Atlasdid did the therapist introduce narcissistic abuse into your Lexicon yes I didn't know anything about it but when I was explaining like all the experiences she said it sounds like she's like obvious obviously I can't
00:58:26
Brian Atlasdiagnose someone who's not my patient can I ask you a question is do you think there's anything you did wrong in that relation 1,000% 1,000% all kinds of things like
00:58:37
Alyssaum I would like threaten I would threaten to leave a lot instead of like that was my resort to stress like if it got too stressful I'm like I'm just I'm going to [ __ ] leave like I don't I'm not dealing with it when you say leave
00:58:48
Alyssado you mean break up or leave as in like physically walk in general um and then like it's I did plenty of wrong things
00:58:57
Alyssalike yell cuss throw things um all kinds of things like I would kind of Leverage my ex a little bit in the beginning but
00:59:08
Alyssaalso I was 22 at the time leverage your ex so like your husband your husband or like a previous guy yeah so my boyfriend before my husband like in the beginning when I first started to see like the
00:59:19
Alyssacrazy [ __ ] um I didn't I don't have family in the state so the only person that I knew was my ex and he was a couple hours away and I would call him and I would be like come [ __ ] get me this guy's insane and he would start to and then like my husband would kind of
00:59:32
Brian Atlaslike switch it up and like cry and like beg me to stay and then I would be like call my ex like never mind just go home like wait how early into the relationship did some of these wor
00:59:44
Alyssaworrying things like a year in but they were more of like a codependent nature like a um clingy obsessive like hacking my email
00:59:56
Alyssatype of stuff things like that maybe you should have a air a a air tag in your car let's share locations type stuff and I and whatever that's fine some of that is fine but um no it's not that's also
01:00:07
Alyssanot codependence is coercive control well yeah so I know that now I thought it was just like maybe he has BPD or something you know and then um after I had kids and people want to act like oh well they just lose attraction during
01:00:19
Alyssapregnancy he was more attracted to me when I was pregnant like and wait what yes and actually let me tell yall something about guys like the more preg like the more pregnant you got there's a the bigger the belly no I okay so I used
01:00:31
Alyssato have an only fans and I made more money during pregnancy than any other time in my life more money than when I was like 19 years old yeah so men are into that are all women under 25 I I you
01:00:42
Brian Atlasknow what maybe in my head one of the reasons why a guy might like like maybe at least early on in the pregnancy I mean you can't get pregnant twice right that's true and then there's a
01:00:53
Taviabiological component to it where you're refle fertility and you know they might feel more bonded to you wait what you never heard of that with with like twins so you're like you can like get pregnant
01:01:06
Taviaonce and then if you get like nutted in a second time like around that time never heard of pregnant have a dou you're month you're a month pregnant and
01:01:16
Brian Atlasa guy keeps blasting inside you you can get pregnant again repr pregnant I've never heard of this there's no [ __ ] way there's no [ __ ] way this is thing Nick can you Google this [ __ ] I believe
01:01:28
Taviawhere did you hear that it's it's happened before I I know a lady right now that's with never is this this could be a thing I they come out at different times I don't know all the details I just know I feel like I did see a story about a woman who got
01:01:40
Bobby Lavenderpregnant by two different men right and she had a white baby and a black baby I saw that story yikes it's the thing she must have had two EGS yeah
01:01:50
Brian Atlassometimes it does happen so wait hold on you can get is it safe to pull up can you show me let's let's see what
01:02:00
Brian Atlasdoes the what do the internet say Nick what the [ __ ] it's extremely rare superfetation involves a person ovulating again while
01:02:11
Brian Atlaspregnant uh usually prevents subsequent pregnancies once an embryo is developing because of hormonal changes that stop OB
01:02:20
Brian Atlasovulation however hormonal IM imbalances or irregular menstrual cycles could make it more likely to happen oh [ __ ] so okay guys be careful
01:02:31
Brian Atlasout there boys just cuz she's pagers you can't be blasting I guess I don't know all right Brian learned something very
01:02:39
Brian Atlasimportant today [ __ ] boys okay uh okay that's crazy anyways I did not know that it's rare though it's rare so you're probably good guys he's like I could
01:02:51
Alyssahave a kid out there uh wait so uh where were we were talking about so like he went a lot of people would say like oh it's cuz you had kids that ruin the relationship no it's just because we had kids he thought she's tied down I don't have to
01:03:04
Alyssado anything anymore you know whatever I can disappear for 11 days and her F missing person report on me and it's it's going to be all good you know she's taking care of two a newborn and a toddler like she doesn't have the energy to leave and then it just you know kept
01:03:16
Alyssathe behaviors got worse and worse until it like so but he was more into you when you were pregnant I mean he's always very inate you talking like sexually or what are we talking yeah oh yeah only sexually when I was pregnant I didn't
01:03:27
Alyssaget like the foot rubs or the hear some chocolate none of that uhhuh I wasn't even treated good giving birth actually damn I was dying and he was just like casually eating peanuts and inviting his
01:03:38
Brian Atlasmom room you seen there's like this meme that's going around of a guy who it's a it's a not a selfie but a guy takes a photo of himself with like a pepperoni
01:03:49
Brian Atlaspizza and then the woman is in the background giving birth to a child and like screaming pain yeah that's a trend and I actually showed him that and I was like hey can you find that Nick and by the way you can eat during pregnancy
01:04:02
Alyssadon't let or during labor don't let your nurses tell you that you can't that's Hospital Pol policy is not law you can eat during preg why would you want to cuz your body's like running a marathon it's it takes a lot of energy you need
01:04:15
Alyssafood and if you're in a long labor you're going to be hungry did you find it Nick I would think you're nauseous while trying to push something out of your vagina well you're not like in Act I mean sometime so for me I was like dying with preclampsia so I was there
01:04:28
Brian Atlasabout a week before that sucks and then got pregnant three months and later yeah did not know you could impregnate a pregnant chick that's crazy
01:04:40
Brian Atlascareful boys the more you know watch out all you guys with like your pregnancy fetishes or whatever you got to be careful you got it is it this one you see that uh it's hard for me to tell
01:04:51
Brian Atlaswait is it to it's not to yeah that's it I'm pretty sure go ahead pull it up good Lord yeah that's it oh with the jalapeno what a [ __ ] monster taking the picture who cares about like him
01:05:04
Brian Atlaseating during the pregnancy's put [ __ ] jalapenos on Pizza what an idiot delivery it's the joural that's sacriligious all right uh where were we nick uh let's do twitch guys go to
01:05:15
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01:05:28
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01:05:40
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Brian Atlasguys like the video Nick can you pull up the view count really quick I'm just hide that hide that yeah we're testing out this other thing all right so we got a th watching on Twitch oh that's weird
01:06:03
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01:06:13
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01:06:26
Brian Atlasdid something fall the table's breaking it's all good it's okay just um let it put it on the ground gently yeah we got a table malfunction here uh Good Times
01:06:38
Brian Atlasall right cool so we're going to go on the table ask everyone to rate their looks face body so two ratings on a scale of 1 to 10 you can't pick seven
01:06:48
Bobby Lavenderstarting with you face and body okay so I would say face um I'm a natural tin um what's a natural 10 oh I was hoping you would ask because I put a lot of
01:06:59
Bobby Lavenderthought into it a natural tin is like in Brian's perfect Utopia where women don't wear makeup don't have botox filler in wa in my perfect Utopia yeah if they don't wear makeup or Botox and filler I
01:07:10
Bobby Lavenderwould like to think I was in the tin range maybe a 9.5 in my perfect Utopia yes okay a natural tin but um in this
01:07:21
Bobby Lavendereconomy maybe different but body I would say six or seven can't say seven oh yeah okay why can't we say seven I guess
01:07:32
Taviaeverybody says it maybe what about you uh I would give my face a nine cuz I hate my nose yeah okay and my dad
01:07:43
Taviadoesn't like it either and I have his nose so it's a curse and then I'd give my body a 10 cuz I'm just Naturally Fit I think I'm hot so so somebody just asked you in total just to rate your
01:07:54
Brian Atlaslooks you give yourself 9.5 or would it be a 10 9.5 okay if you got a if you fixed your nose would it be a 10 10 face 10
01:08:06
Taviatotal yeah I guess yeah 10 show me your side profile turn that way your nose is looks normal your nose is fine what what's the what's the issue with it I just hate like if I make like if someone catches me off guard and I'm
01:08:19
Tavialike making a face or like scrunch my nose it just looks so pointy like oh my God pointy noses are aesthetic I think I don't know yeah yeah I think you have a cute nose thanks guys it's a good nose
01:08:31
Brian Atlasdon't worry about the nose you got a good nose I'll trade you I got a big I got a big nose I'll trade you the nose you want to trade noses I'll give you my nose you I'll take yours to call it a day all right what about you I think my
01:08:41
Skyface is a five and my body is like a nine body nine face face five okay yeah I was going to give myself a six for face um yeah I'll say six for face and
01:08:52
Brian Atlasthen for body of four okay what about you say an eight uh for Face Body probably about an eight for both for can
01:09:02
Julietwe see the tats shows the tats love it hold them out like like this my solar panels what so what's the is there a story behind the no story everyone always asks if
01:09:14
Julietthey're like coverups or something like that um I waited till I was 35 to get any tattoos at all I kind of knew who I was and have my life together and I was like all right I feel like wa so you had no tattoos until you were 30
01:09:25
Brian Atlaszero wow okay zero yeah cuz I mean like that's that's pretty uh intense to do like full coverage like that right it what do they call that is their name for black blackout tattoo
01:09:37
TTS/Donationsokay their Al meat ball donated $200 Blondie is a 10 in looks but got to work on the non-ls stuff rest her fives all lower Brian keep up the good work
01:09:49
Brian Atlashaven't been able to watch in a while the real Mr oh dude it's the meatball Guy Mr meall where have you [ __ ] been buddy I missed you dude you you can follow me on good to see you in the chat dude you're a [ __ ] Legend here let me
01:10:02
Brian Atlasdrop this for you bro is's a brave and a decent man he's a Pioneer you're a [ __ ] Pioneer dude I'm it's good to see you back we missed you welcome back man uh I'd love to know what Mr meatball looks like if he oh he's a giga Chad 10
01:10:14
Brian Atlasout of 10 I'm sure cut jawline with a name like that right yeah cut jawline huge PP I can change mind about my rating uh okay so what about you I'm
01:10:26
Karengoing to say an eight and eight I don't I don't do a lot of makeup I don't I've never put anything in my face no Botox I I hate chicks who wear fake eyelashes I don't know I don't like the fake stuff I don't like anything that's unnatural on
01:10:38
Madisonyour body wait so eight and eight Okay Madison what about you uh face probably 6.9 if I can't say seven and body
01:10:50
Madisoneight you're being too modest I think I could like stronger I think my arm makeup andox and
01:10:58
Brian Atlas[ __ ] the rest of your body I kill it yeah okay so are you're the only 10 then in Brian's perfect Utopia yes okay wait
01:11:09
Alyssahe said Blondie oh oh okay I believe in modesty so I didn't want to give myself a turn yeah I got you okay I wonder what the chat thinks what
01:11:20
Brian Atlasabout you let's find out oh what I get uh face and [ __ ] damn I I never I just give myself a five normally but uh face
01:11:33
Brian Atlasbody that's a tough one cuz I got to lose a bit of weight right now but I think have like a dumpy it makes you higher say if I got a dumpy yeah it makes you
01:11:43
Brian Atlashigher uh I'll just say uh he's sweating I can see
01:11:51
Alyssait f five five face 4.5 body right now fair I gota lose some
01:12:00
Alyssaweight I got a D women love Dad bods I promise say that but it's I swear to God it's not true it's not true they except that it is BS but they cheat with I I
01:12:13
AlyssaI've never cheated on anybody but if I was going to cheat it would be with a dad B oh [ __ ] but I wouldn't date somebody who's like super muscular anyway there's this meme that's like guys posting gym picks and the other men
01:12:24
Alyssaare like yeah bro and the women are like don't care we like Dad bods it's a thing you say it but like I swear the behavior came into this room absolutely
01:12:36
Alyssanot I have a crush on Jim from the office like that's my type like heavy Eric foran would also work wow Eric foran like he like if he was a little thicker I had a crush on
01:12:47
AlyssaUncle Joey growing up not Jesse Uncle Joey what what your dad what did your dad look like my dad is tall and skinny you're redheaded you're like an Atlanta
01:12:57
Brian Atlasmyom like this Italian Puerto Rican lady good to know good to know uh 10 really 10 don't you think it's a bit hubris you
01:13:08
Bobby Lavenderknow little hubris well like I said it's a natural tin like say we are in a world where there is no filler Botox and like people wearing makeup cuz I usually don't wear makeup at all I'm literally
01:13:20
Bobby Lavenderwearing some tinted like brow stuff Stu and blush just so that I don't get washed out on camera it's camera ready makeup but I usually don't not to brag but you bring
01:13:32
Bobby Lavenderit up all the time how you prefer women that don't and um I'm just saying like in that Utopia world I would say that I'm a 10 and you have to also think that I'm 30 so I have
01:13:43
Bobby Lavenderlike I still have my like wrinkles I'm no I would say wrinkles I still have my she looks younger I still got my I'll give you that I'll give you she look all
01:13:53
Bobby Lavenderreal all real yes sir don't you think though like the armpit hair is going to knock you down like a point or two I can shave that that's like literally not a thing can you show us one more time show
01:14:05
Bobby Lavenderus one more time we can't the mic's block actually a little bit thicker this one is like my favorite one cuz it's more like chat's on fire right now it's kind of cute she's get me Nick can you pull up those
01:14:17
Bobby Lavenderthere's IG photos too where it's a bit more it's so gross it's okay to have your preferences and I have I mean I really just I don't have a preference for being hairy I just like I'm very low
01:14:28
Brian Atlasmaintenance most I do is purple my hair so that's another that's a photo of view with the the arm
01:14:37
Brian Atlasnext uh okay rocking ar ar you can uh so I want to ask the chat chat would you like would it be a red flag would it be a deal breaker would you date a girl who
01:14:48
Brian Atlashas armpit hair that's the question well every has armpit hair they shave it unshaved armpit hair wait hold on Madison that's like hold on that's like me saying hold on Madison that's like me
01:15:01
Brian Atlassaying uh uh if somebody ask you uh would you date a guy with a beard and then you're like well every guy has a beard they just shave it no not every guy can grow
01:15:13
TTS/Donationsa beard that's their aled meat B donated $200 armpit hair is Aus 1,000 armpit hair is a yo Mr can shave it and I
01:15:25
Bobby Lavenderfrequently do then she's plus then she's plus a thousand with now is it like what about leg hair do you shave leg hair too well I have very fine like blonde hair
01:15:35
Bobby Lavenderand so I like you can't even tell if I have like hair it's only like doesn't it feel like well we don't need to see I currently I currently have a bunch of scratches and bruises cuz I have a bunch
01:15:46
Brian Atlasof kittens but um yeah I don't shave my legs what I did like once and I did not like the trickly I don't want to like be prickly good to know good to know look some some
01:15:58
Karenwomen have like fine hair some women have uh fine hair so good to know good to know I dated a guy who loved the way my armpits smelled I don't know what that was all about but I just found it
01:16:09
Alyssavery interesting I knew a guy that like this arm excuse me strange but I shave my armpits though so less stink well would you that's [ __ ] disgusting so good would you wear
01:16:21
Skydeodorant or is it just like natural armpit smell she wears de yeah I always wear smell all right guys we're going whoa
01:16:31
Brian Atlasthat um the smell is like a six doesn't smell all the way good oh [ __ ] bro you sitting right next to her the whole [ __ ] show too smell like french onion soup oh from there it's just like if you
01:16:43
Bobby Lavenderif you like stick it in there if it someone who was sexually compatible or like to procreate then I'm sure and she's literally a woman her fairmon you know oh definitely
01:16:55
Bobby Lavenderknown people who go crazy over my smell I heard of that that's true like if you're attracted to like yeah guys guys I had clients when I was a stripper who would come in and literally just lab
01:17:08
Bobby Lavenderdance with him with his face buried in my armpit it's definitely a thing watch yeah
01:17:15
Bobby LavenderM good times that's cool I want to go home don't be king shaming don't that's not the weirdest thing hey Don King
01:17:25
Bobby LavenderShame you're the one that likes bowing come on what's wrong with that a k that not everybody is like cool it's not even a king I think it's King that is a king definitely
01:17:37
TTS/Donationssubmissive he's hella sub around meatball donated $200 he lik some dmy mommy [ __ ] huh n you donated $200 and
01:17:45
Brian Atlasyou only said one word facts bro facts okay wait you you think I'm I'm a sub I'm asking you think I'm a sub I don't know the back story want should be
01:17:56
Alyssainsulted no he likes if you like to Bow that's sub Behavior you're insulting I'm S no you like wa wait are you saying you like girls to bow to you yes oh okay I thought you say like I
01:18:08
Alyssadon't know the back I just you think I'm going to hit a bow no I don't I I could see you being a switch bow I wouldn't say like fully she this girl is already ready to peeg me okay great she wants to
01:18:20
Brian Atlastake me home after the podcast strap it on and just right that's why that's why something like that I think I know look all this narcissist [ __ ] [ __ ] you
01:18:31
Alyssawere trying to you wanted to Peg your husband he wasn't down actually no he been down he wasn't I don't want to say too much listen you're saying you're saying you were were
01:18:42
Alyssayou if a man wanted sodomizing your husband but if a guy was into that like you wanted to get pegged I'd peg him I probably wouldn't date that guy but like wait didn't you say you wouldn't date a
01:18:52
Brian Atlasguy who's by yeah I wouldn't but I can guarantee you that but you'd be fine you be fine putting a dude in doggy style and penetrating him an submissives
01:19:03
Alyssabefore so yeah but like I wouldn't romantically want to them you could say well I don't know I don't like to be fully like you're not going to be like yeah you dirty little no you're not going to do that to me um but that's
01:19:14
Alyssadegradation which is a part of sub well you don't have to do I guess it just depends on the level of dominance but you you could be like a gentle Dawn yeah for sure you don't have
01:19:25
Brian Atlasto like be degrading or even do uh uh masochism or sadism or whatever you can just be in charge let's
01:19:35
Brian Atlassay but uh okay oh the bear [ __ ] okay boys we've been talking about this man or bear conversation for a month now now
01:19:46
Brian AtlasCalifornia Nick pull up the art the page the Google page boys there was a bare attack and a bear
01:19:56
Brian Atlaskilling a woman this is the first fatal Oh Black Bear maybe there was a brown bear uh she picked the Bear in California Wait 2023 no wait 2023 woman
01:20:09
Brian Atlashold on two days ago I thought this was brand new scroll down a little bit lots of news articles CNN Sky News NBC USA Today AP News CBS California confirms first fatal black bear attack oh it's a
01:20:21
Brian Atlasthey're probably brown bears and grizzly bear attacks okay there's a black bear these girls saying oh well if it's a black bear it might be friendly scroll down a little bit stupid fatal black bear attack it's been in the news pull
01:20:34
Brian Atlasit uh Nick scroll up a little bit where or just right there CNN two days ago Patrice Miller 71 was no just leave it okay but I don't think she was so it broke into her home but a recently
01:20:46
Brian Atlasreleased autopsy report by California in her home [ __ ] it click that c and wait actually [ __ ] C already uh we're going to
01:20:57
Brian Atlasdo we'll do Sky News let's see Sky newsy I I'll I'll allow Sky News was at the end of they're kind of okay they're Australian woman found dead in mountains
01:21:06
Brian Atlaswas victim of state's first fatal bear attack she was a autopsy confirmed she was mauled to death in the Teeny Mount
01:21:16
Brian Atlasmountainous mountaineous how do you [ __ ] say that mous Sor for your lusus
01:21:26
Brian Atlasdefitely that's horrible like what is life we're in The Matrix so [ __ ] I should have asked the goddamn bear question first God dang ask the bear question all right we'll just I
01:21:39
Brian Atlasshould have asked it before I pulled up the freaking article cuz now maybe it's going to it's going to skew things yeah start on that side of the table no well I'm going to be yapping and you know this he's got to prove his dominance now
01:21:51
Brian Atlasyou can't so going around the table would you rather come across a random man or random bear in the woods starting with you done I've done both multiple times I
01:22:02
Bobby Lavenderliterally you've had sexual intercourse with a man and a bear what do you mean you've done Define done um well I used hitri the country like I was practically
01:22:13
Bobby Lavenderhomeless I just wanted to travel and you know in certain more rural areas I would go walking looking for my place to like camp for the night I would come across bears and then sometimes if I were like
01:22:24
Bobby Lavendermore cities I have literally slept in the woods right next to some bums that I didn't even say hi to I just walked up and I was like Hey are are you going to arrive at the point soon can you arrive
01:22:37
Bobby Lavenderat the point there are Point see I told you I was going to Yap but um I've done just answer the question bear did not kill me the man did not try nothing so this is the silliest
01:22:47
Taviaargument man but the bear is also cute like for the sake of yeah the Bear's cute what about you uh I'd probably choose bear over man in the middle of
01:22:58
Taviathe woods just cuz men are unpredictable and the bear I know if I if I poke it with a stick then it's a dumb way to die you know I'm not poking the bear with a stick we can what if you don't you can
01:23:09
Taviabe friends with the bear oh my for sure give it some food and stuff he'll be very happy I've run into a bear you are the
01:23:18
Brian Atlasfood choosing the man man be man 100% the dude man okay I shouldn't have shown
01:23:27
Bobby Lavenderthat the news articles think talk about this before answer was the same be ominous about it you have to be ominous about actually it did change it cuz I
01:23:38
Brian Atlaswait really no the chances of a guy wait so you would have said bear I would have probably said a black bear because I feel like your answer would have been
01:23:48
Karenblack bear black bear yeah yeah I but what I don't understand with the question is is like the the chances of if you're in the woods you're there for a reason whether you're camping hiking whatever the case is and I'm not saying
01:24:00
Karenthat this is across you know the board blanket wise but I'm pretty sure the dude is probably there for the same reasons it's I I mean I'm not saying that every single time you go to the woods and a guy's in the woods that he's
01:24:10
Karenlooking to a Kill you rape you or or you know sorry do terrible things to you so you know I just I don't I don't see that necessarily being the first thing that's going to happen so I the scenario the better way to think of it because a lot
01:24:23
Brian Atlasof people think like well what the man doing there I think it's kind of irrelevant to the question the scenario would better just be described as you randomly get dropped in the woods along
01:24:34
Brian Atlaswith randomly getting dropped in the woods with a man or a bear and you will cross paths with them so the motivations of why are they there are kind of
01:24:45
Karenirrelevant exactly in this scenario uh you pick bear why is that cuz in some cases bear can be safer than the man and what can in What
01:24:57
Karenscenario will a bear ever be safer than a man and a bear a man you have a chance to fight against a bear you do not a man could also more likely than not would well okay go ahead make your
01:25:09
Taviaargument why I just feel like I don't [ __ ] with the bear oh if I don't mess with the bear and bear doesn't mess with me we're good but men you don't you don't know I mean sometimes I talk to guys and just me
01:25:20
Brian Atlasbeing nice to them they're they think I'm trying to trying to move to the next base and I'm like bro I'm just being nice to you like I'm so good okay and in those situations where
01:25:32
Brian Atlasmaybe the guy was not reading the signals correctly did he end up murdering you mhm well no oh okay but you felt
01:25:44
Brian Atlasuncomfortable you could say almost you never know almost really so all the all those times where the guy misread the signals
01:25:54
Brian Atlasyou on the verge of being murdered but you just certainly dud never know I I bet he had like a butter knife in his back pocket waiting for the
01:26:06
Julietmoment yeah butter knife that would be a good way some weird King probably spoon I think the only fair argument there sorry to interrupt go ahead go ahead I think the only fair argument is like people in general men or women can be
01:26:18
Julietmore like calculated right and manipulative whereas like an animal is kind of just going to react whereas like person could possibly act like they don't have bad intent and then actually have bad intent I think that's the only argument I would say for choosing the
01:26:31
Julietbear yeah does that make sense I don't know I've been actually an animal is more predictable like I'm going to assume that a bear might do something aggressive so I can be ready for it but like a person a man could like pretend that they have good intent and then kind
01:26:43
Julietof get you to let your guard down and then not but I mean the men that I'm running into on the trail I'm a big trail Runner I have never knock on something and I'm in some really remote places run into a a man who is trying to
01:26:55
Taviahurt me in the wilderness ever well just here in La there was homeless guys randomly attacking women running mhm on the beach oh that's like in New York that's in like New York where they're
01:27:07
Brian Atlaslike punching women exactly it's different oh yeah I guess yeah I'm not so I'm not trying to make the argument here that there aren't bad men can we change the animal could it be like an
01:27:17
Brian Atlaselephant okay hippo but are terrible but you're you're like super Outdoors right like don't you do you do van Life I Lived in a van for 2
01:27:27
Brian Atlasyears okay and but and you're running you do trail running so I mean how many times a week would you be out running in the wilderness alone I guess I mean when
01:27:37
JulietI'm in Peak training I'm I'm running up at like 12,500 ft for like 40 50 miles a week so I'm spending hours and hours I'm talking like no sell service completely by myself and I do carry something I
01:27:49
Julietalso have a really um a really strong dog um so he's a very good deterrent but I mean still if someone has a gun or a knife you know and had really bad intent that's not going to do much like how
01:27:58
Brian Atlasmany how many um individual times would you say you've like been out in the wilderness over a thousand times easily I've been trail running for like seven eight years like where you're you're alone and how many times would you say
01:28:12
Brian Atlasyou've like maybe crossed an individual uh man when you're out there maybe like 15 20 just because where I run is so remote it's super remote so it's rare for you to even encounter anybody very rare but I've never never
01:28:24
Brian Atlasfelt unsafe I'm always like aware you know and kind of wary but I've never felt threatened or had anything yeah happen and of the times you did encounter men what I mean is it just you literally pass them and it's like a
01:28:36
Julietlittle nod or high and that's it you just walk past each other yes I think I think maybe I've just been lucky I do think like there's an element of luck here you know I know that bad things can happen to people and sometimes they're
01:28:46
Julietnot asking for it you know but um I feel like the men that I've passed were kind of aware of the circumstances of the fact we were alone and were aware of the fact that they are a man and we were in the middle of nowhere and maybe I've
01:28:59
TTS/Donationsjust been lucky but I felt that they were very respectful of that so their almed meatball donated $200 has anyone on this panel ever run into a beer before how safe did you feel
01:29:11
JulietI think you I have in Alaska same I was in a car there was no harm you're in a car yeah in a car car and I've run into probably about I would say five to six black bears since I've lived in Colorado
01:29:21
Bobby Lavenderlike 10 ft away and they all just leave you be day yeah same I've run into about five or six and one time not counting the Cubs it was a mom with two Cubs and
01:29:33
Bobby Lavenderyeah it was about like 10 15 ft away and I was excited I didn't feel any fear and I was just like oh that's so cute and I was terrified you're braver than I sat in my car for 30 minutes last night cuz there was a raccoon outside and I was so
01:29:45
Bobby Lavenderscared to get in my house raccoons are mean that was smart actually yeah got bit by a barracuda and there was like over a hundred Barracuda they're about that big and one of them bit me and I started bleeding and I just held my
01:29:56
Bobby Lavenderfinger and like swam to shore like but I my heart rate did not even skip a beat I don't know I have like survival instincts like a [ __ ] I guess or you're a beautiful
01:30:07
Bobby Lavenderpsychopath definitely not a psychopath I'm very emotional but hey we both lived in Vans before wow
01:30:17
Brian Atlascommonalities yes common boring than than you it's okay uh hold on just going back to you since you said bear and you were going to say bear I'm going to just
01:30:27
Brian Atlassay your answer was Bear my answer was Bear yeah sure um so why why bear because I'm an irrational human being oh that's a good that's actually probably the best answer I've heard on that you
01:30:39
Brian Atlasat least yourself aware of that it's an irrational uh answer and so really quick going back to you so you like how many times per week would you go out into the
01:30:50
Brian AtlasWilderness like 5 days a week it depends on the time the year obviously um but in the summer I'd say at least two three times a week I'm up pretty high okay so yeah good to know good to know so okay
01:31:03
Brian Atlascouple questions for you on this bear thing so you think you'd rather be with the bear than the man so what do you think the chances are if we select a random man from the United States
01:31:14
Brian Atlaspopulation what do you think the chances are that if placed in the scenario that a man would opt to victimize you in some way
01:31:26
TaviaH I don't know I actually I don't know well give us a percentage 20% 30% 40 50% well it depends on what what
01:31:36
Brian Atlasvictimizing means to you uh anyway from anywhere from say touching you inappropriately to
01:31:46
Brian Atlasall the way to murder uh I would say probably like 40% 40% % and is that 40 40% of men would touch you inappropriately do you
01:31:58
Taviahave a lower percentage for how many would murder you or still 40% I just think it's like 40% for more like men touching inappropriately cuz just like my experience in like school with dudes like going through puberty
01:32:11
Tavialike like there was this one kid that literally would like walk behind all the girls with big butts and just like smack them and run away yeah that's wrong um what so this was in how old were you in
01:32:22
Brian Atlasmiddle school yikes okay well that's wrong of him to do 100% but are you kind of arguing that 40% of the boys that you went to school with touched you or other women
01:32:39
Brian Atlasinappropriately okay maybe like 20% just be clear if there were a thousand say there were a thousand boys that would be 400 of the boys or 200 of the boys in the case of MH 20% 200 of
01:32:51
Brian Atlasthe boys in the school were touching the way women inappropriately they would shut the school down is that your recollection of
01:33:02
Taviayour uh Middle School experience I just feel like dude before they have any common sense just do stupid stuff and then women are like uh what do I do about this like what do I some women don't even say anything they they get
01:33:14
Taviatouched inappropriately and they were never even taught that they were touched inappropriately so they're just like but I feel like if we did a statistic and women had to like if we had like a poll like how many women were touched inappropriate in their in like
01:33:27
Taviainappropriately in their time and didn't say anything I feel like it would be a higher number than than people would expect I think there is a that's what the whole me too movement was about that's that's what the whole me too movement was about is that every
01:33:40
Taviawoman has been through something like that mhm yeah so i' have to say like 40% I feel like 50 is too many but I definitely feel like 40% like men don't like feel like so I feel like it's
01:33:50
Skyactually a smaller percentage of men but it's the percent of men they're doing it more so they're going to so the percentage of men is probably like maybe
01:34:00
Sky5 10% but that percentage of men is doing so much SA or enough sa to where
01:34:09
Skyit's affecting multiple women what constitutes essay to you um for me uh anytime that a man inappropriately touches me or um holds me against my
01:34:23
Julietwill and I don't mean to put you on the spot I'm genuinely curious so like if a man were to come up and like put his hand on your shoulder you're not saying that that would be I think it would be a violation of my privacy but it would not be sexual
01:34:39
Brian Atlasassault so can we try to narrow in here on the number in terms of of the men random random man what percentage of men do you think
01:34:51
Taviawould opt to victimize you in some way in this scenario I feel like they don't opt I just feel like sometimes they do it and
01:35:01
Brian Atlasthey don't know that they're doing it like okay fine they're doing it whe whether doing they're doing it
01:35:09
Taviaunconsciously I think that's like a really good percentage 20% yeah okay
01:35:16
Brian Atlasso let's say that there's 160 million men in the United States 20% of that would be oh my math here is going to be [ __ ] be any
01:35:31
Brian Atlasbetter 30 something million let's just say around 30 so you think 30 million men in the United States in this situation would uh choose to victimize
01:35:42
Brian Atlasyou in some way maybe women in general not just me or well you're the one on the hike that would that the do you think 30 do you think 30 million men in the United
01:35:53
Brian AtlasStates throughout the the course of their life will uh victimize a woman in some way probably 30 million
01:36:05
Taviamen I mean America is pretty good with the rules and things and I feel like we have more morals than other countries but I feel the Cent the numbers might get
01:36:16
Brian Atlashigher so the current prison population uh let's see
01:36:23
Brian Atlasis over 1 million it's 1.2 million uh and this this is this includes uh huh in the United States
01:36:35
Brian Atlasyeah 1.2 million that's the current prison population in the United States and this is going to include uh Financial crimes it's going to include
01:36:43
Brian Atlasdrug like drug related crimes men who are violent towards other men um so obviously you know there are people who commit crimes get away with it they
01:36:54
Brian Atlasdon't get in trouble Etc there are men who are released but I mean don't you think given given this number I've provided that it's probably unlikely
01:37:04
Brian Atlasthat 30 million per of or sorry not 30 million men in the United States would choose to victimize you they probably have at some point in their lifetime you think 30 million men
01:37:16
Bobby Lavenderwould at some point at some you're making a very like broad definition of essay too so that's like like what about like no no no well I'm including like murder it's probably five okay but this
01:37:29
Alyssais a logical fallacy because just because there's that many millions of people in prison right now that's not like a broad overview of people who have maybe have gotten out of prison haven't gone to prison yet I mentioned that so
01:37:42
Taviathen you do have to account for that and let's just dou do the math and see how many people are in prison for rape and rap he did mention the ones that haven't been reported so maybe add a little bit more for that
01:37:54
Alyssabecause that's very common what women who don't report the essay yeah so it's really hard to look at statistics in this way when it's such a nuanced I think if you looked at the whole entire world how about w't you
01:38:06
Brian Atlastell us what percentage of men you think would choose to victimize somebody in these circumstances okay who I think would actively do it what
01:38:18
Alyssapercentage I don't think it's 40% um I mean I I can't really say um I mean
01:38:27
AlyssaI've encountered things like that myself but I also know a lot of really good men and the the other guys are like outliers
01:38:36
Bobby LavenderI don't know maybe 20% still a lot of men 20% again that's what 30 million or something at least once in their whole lifetime with this whole broad very vague no most men are
01:38:49
Julietthroughout their whole lifetime are never going to commit a violent crime I think it is a smaller percentage of men doing a lot of that if that makes
01:38:59
Bobby Lavendersense yeah cuz like 20 that's a lot that's a lot you would think that the hobos in the woods that I like Camp next to would be in the like demographic that's higher percentage to do something like
01:39:11
Bobby Lavenderthat I don't know if I'll phae that right but you think that they would be in that higher percentage and yet no one bothered me I did have a bum like throw his [ __ ] bucket at me once but I a correctional lster and we see stuff like
01:39:24
Skythat all the time I think another important thing you what I was a correctional lster at one point okay another important thing to know I guess is not necessarily how many men are actually doing it but how many men given
01:39:35
Skythe circumstances would do it and that is probably higher than what's actually happening because you mean if there were no consequences if there were no consequences for it
01:39:48
Alyssathere was actually an experiment no you really you think no consequences they would yes that's I think it's beautiful that you don't think that I think you're projecting a very good internal world that's the history of that you don't
01:39:59
Brian Atlasthink that what about I mean the so are you saying like no criminal consequences yeah no criminal consequen what about the consequences of your mind to to do
01:40:08
Skythat well um that too but I think that's okay then let's roll out culture and shaming because there's culture and
01:40:18
Skyshaming associated with saay so if you didn't have that present um I mean this is kind of like you're going to have a lot more cuz
01:40:29
SkyI feel like it's a natural inclination for men to want to dominate women and be aggressive you think it's a natural inclination for men to want to dominate women you mean not dominate by but but
01:40:41
Brian Atlasthe context of the conversation here is essay So when you say dominate you mean it's in men's nature to want to essay women if if you're considering the
01:40:51
Skydefinition of essay to be like any form of inappropriate gesture or touching um then yes I feel like a lot of men would do that we going by thought
01:41:04
Taviagive me a percentage uh what percentage of men would do it 15 15 okay go ahead what were you going to say I just uh I mean what we do for work
01:41:17
Tavialike the amount of men that make comments that are just like insane and it's like if if it was a percentage by like if there was no like liability for doing that I feel like it would easily
01:41:29
Brian Atlasbe 40% like men would just be what you mean the men that make comments what do you mean okay men men send you messages like like what nice titties I want to
01:41:41
Juliet[ __ ] you people say crazy things like CRA you're a sex work exactly I mean that's the world that you decided to be involved in no I know but it's just like it's proba that's different than
01:41:51
Brian Atlasactually like doing something I think she's hypothetical hypothal don't think men should be I don't think men should be sending you like sexually inappropriate
01:42:04
Alyssamessages but that's not sa for a guy to be like oh nice titties I want to could you ever saying based on those comments that's why her view is that it would be so many cuz she gets so
01:42:15
Taviamany comments like that if what was legal if it was legal for for men to just do whatever to women I mean other countries I mean the stuff that happens to women that I mean if we did a percentage of the entire planet in the
01:42:29
Brian Atlascountries that like women don't have rights well I don't know about the like I I'm not sure what country in specific you're talking about but perhaps there are some countries where this is a more common occurrence but I can't really
01:42:40
Skyspeak to that yeah so oh shoot I can't remember what I was going to say um I got I got a question
01:42:50
Brian Atlasso for those of you who say bear if we go to any zoo in the world and you go to a zoo with that has a bare enclosure um now take note that there
01:43:01
Brian Atlaswill be men and women outside the enclosure why are none of the women jumping into the enclosure to escape from the men cultural shaming why
01:43:13
Brian Atlashaven't we ever heard of that happening cultural shaming that's the reason because why would a man like essay someone in a public space like a zoo let's I don't know maybe it's late late at night there's nobody around
01:43:26
Skyright opportunity if a man was trying to essay me in a public space I wouldn't jump into the enclosure with the bear unless
01:43:36
Brian AtlasI felt like the bear would avenge me yes the bear would offend you okay um Nick could you pull up that uh the meme thing or whatever about the
01:43:49
Madisonbear I feel like we've been talking about the bear for now yeah right hey it's apparently doing well hypothetical ESS situation M can you read this brown
01:43:58
Madisonbear engineer up to 9 ft tall standing up to 1300 lb claws up to 4 in bite
01:44:04
Madisonforce 1200 PSI Pelt SL fur up to 5 in speed up to 35 mph Kyle 510 ew 174 lb
01:44:16
Brian Atlasproject engineer said hi to you at the gym Kyle's hot bro this is exactly it dude that's exactly it um yeah it's pretty crazy
01:44:27
Brian Atlasum but I mean I did preface that I'm a rational can I ask you guys here for you said bear if me and Nick were the two men here in the studio if we just transformed into Bears right now do you guys think you'd be
01:44:41
Brian Atlassafer two bears two bears in in one room me and Nick sounds like a bad right now just instantly transformed into two bears you think you'd be more safe or
01:44:53
Tavialess safe definitely less safe are you still you two bears in this room right now like right here like your Bear right there bam I just boom definitely less
01:45:03
Skysafe transform into a bear wait not safe at all okay like conscious wise as well what if they turned into the Bears from um Mortal Kombat there bears in Mortal
01:45:13
Brian AtlasKombat that would really be dangerous good one crazy of barstein bears you know I mean it could be more safe let me ask you another question um if you were in a bathroom would you rather a man or a bear wanders
01:45:28
Taviain uh that's a good question just say the man really good question that's that's different well if a man's coming into a bathroom that I'm
01:45:40
Taviain then definitely the bear because why is a man walking into the female bathroom so what if it's like a transgender woman then it's a woman what if he's like a really hot guy
01:45:56
Brian Atlasno you're eyeballing them all wait actually so question for you I don't know where where you fall on the whole like transgender in the bathroom
01:46:05
Brian Atlasthing uh do you think the concerns over transgender women going into women's and girls bathrooms do you think that that's
01:46:15
Brian Atlasuh a reasonable because of your uh hesitance to be in a forest with a with a male do you think that that a reasonable position to
01:46:26
Taviatake I mean I think it's fine I think it's fine up to the point where if there's like kids and stuff using that bathroom and what if that like people do
01:46:37
Alyssacrazy stuff like what if like what if a man yeah I can't talk about that on the I can't I can't even say that no one's going to feel comfortable given their authentic take but I would not want a trans woman who has a penis
01:46:50
Alyssacoming into the bathroom with me either yeah I'll be the one to say it um I think especially if I have kids not to say that every trans woman is like a essayer cuz they're obviously not but okay got it I do want to ask one
01:47:04
Brian Atlasquestion and then we're going to move on topics because this this spare one always gets a little heavy uh I do want to say rest in peace to that woman who who was killed by the bear Nick pull
01:47:13
Skythat up one more time but I family she was she was in FA with the predicament of man versus bear get to CH
01:47:23
Brian Atlasshe was 71 news articles back back back um let me know when you she fell asleep eating peanut butter or something it's just like what's crazy to me is right
01:47:34
Brian Atlasy'all will yeah so rest in peace uh if anybody's new T tuning in uh a woman first uh fatal bear attack in California
01:47:43
Brian Atlasso this is local to us here in California so uh RP to that lady man um rip it's but y'all will go to a bar
01:47:54
Karenfilled with random men y'all will go home and hook up with random men that's what's crazy to me that's why it's irrational that's why I don't go yeah when I first heard it I was like
01:48:05
Alyssaobviously the bear I get but I get I get the social thing that people are trying to shed light on like I get it but realistically come on now you're not going to choose the [ __ ] bear no it's just it's basically just like social
01:48:17
Alyssasignaling stupid to be like we don't like men basically yeah I would never say that I don't like necessarily think is that they don't like men I think they're just trying to shed light on a problem and put it into a perspective
01:48:28
Taviathink an some of them don't like men easier to predict a behavior with a brain that has is that is very complex a bear I know if I poke it with a stick I'm I'm probably going to piss it off
01:48:40
Karenand then it's probably even if you don't poke it with a stick you're it's a bear it's a 1300b animal that's willing to kill you you you said you've seen bears in person they never bothered you you've seen
01:48:51
Taviabears in person they've never bothered you me like any of us could say I mean what are the chances of a man bothering you out in public would you rather interact with higher than the bear probably I think it's about the danger
01:49:02
Alyssathough is is the point here does that make sense say if a bear was going to attack you and a man was going to attack you who would you rather attack a bear is not going to cat call me but like
01:49:11
Brian Atlasstill say bear they're D well the bear will just kill me but who knows the man could torture me you know do all kinds
01:49:20
Karenof depravate [ __ ] is there a difference between out you live though you the bear is really and also the bear will eat you
01:49:30
Brian Atlasalive exactly probably slowly a slow your arm off and just this is you're just kind of crawling there like that so this is kind of a heavy question but I am C I'm just
01:49:43
Brian Atlasreally curious to know because I want to better understand like the female Psyche on this um and I don't want to linger on it just cuz it's kind of heavy but like
01:49:51
Brian Atlasso would you rather be essayed or killed essayed essayed essay
01:50:02
Bobby Lavenderessay ESS sounds like collectively we all would rather be therefore you choose the man well there's no
01:50:12
Bobby Lavenderokay rich man so I can sue them yeah well you don't have evidence that's the whole part of like being in the woods is like I mean I guess you can go get a kit done immediately wait can I ask a
01:50:23
Skyquestion I support the Second Amendment okay would you rather encounter a female tweaker or a sober man that's like normal a [ __ ] sober man D so sober man yeah drug I seen some people do some
01:50:36
Karencrazy I saw some guy peeing on himself the other day I'll take the tweaker in La you'll take the tweaker yeah body Slammer I have a question no they get back up listen I a twe I just thought it a good one I just thought of a good one
01:50:47
Brian Atlaskept getting up okay if there was a bear in your home let's say your I don't know you're in a [ __ ] cabin or some
01:50:56
Brian Atlas[ __ ] would you call the police or animal control call the police I don't know a bear broke into your home trying to break into your home maybe smelled some food in there or something you left a
01:51:09
Brian Atlasscreen door you left this the screen door it opened it up whatever if there was a bear in a home would you call the police or animal control Animal Control Animal Control well it's I'm not asking what you call the police or like you'd
01:51:21
Julietcall one you call one of you would call one of them animal control and a man would show up potentially that's a good point
01:51:32
Madisonthat's true all right anyways anyways moving on moving on that's funny a man would show up to take the Maddie could you read this one my God I'm simply
01:51:42
Bobby Lavenderhosting oh sorry did you mean her or mind go okay you can read it actually go
01:51:49
Bobby Lavenderahead my God I'm simply hosting a sing simposium Symposium for the raven-haired