She Tried To MURDER Tinder Date?! E-GIRLS! SUPER Feminist Returns?! NALA SAVED?! | Dating Talk #144

Date: 2024-03-18
Duration: 6h 37m

Identified Speakers

SPEAKER_00TTS Donation Reader(audience)
SPEAKER_01Brian Atlas(host)
SPEAKER_02Lydia(guest)
SPEAKER_03Julie(guest)
SPEAKER_04Madison(guest)
SPEAKER_05Kylie(guest)
SPEAKER_07Matthew Gallagher(guest)
SPEAKER_09JoJo(guest)
SPEAKER_10Nala(guest)
SPEAKER_12Malia(guest)

Key Moments

00:02:54
IntroBrian introduces returning guests JoJo, Julie, Malia, Matthew and new guests Nala, Kylie, Madison, and Lydia. Notable: Nala and Kylie arrived late. Lydia is engaged; Julie is in a new LDR since last appearance.

"without further Ado we're going to have the guests introduce themselves"

00:17:23
ControversyNala (SPEAKER_10) discloses she stabbed a Tinder date twice in the neck in Las Vegas (2021) while off her bipolar/schizophrenia medication. Was in delusional state; told police it was revenge for Soleimani (later disavowed). Spent 6 weeks in jail; pled to 2 counts false imprisonment; serving probation. Brian argues a man in same position would have faced much longer sentence. Nala argues women's prison statistics show they have it harder (disputed).

"I ended up um harm him and stop him twice in the neck during sex"

00:23:37
Key MomentBrian argues female privilege in sentencing: Nala got probation for stabbing; a California woman who stabbed her boyfriend 108 times got probation. Brian states a man in the same situation would face significant prison time. Nala challenges this, citing mental health and criminal history context.

"if we put a man in that woman's position... there would be significantly long prison sentences"

01:23:30
Key MomentJoJo (returning guest, prior "super feminist" episode) maintains women can be primary victims of war by redefining "victim" as those who suffer most vs those who die most. Brian shows D-Day Into the Jaws of Death photograph. Matthew explains that death is the worst victimhood; widow suffers but soldier is primary victim. JoJo ultimately concedes men are primary casualties but maintains women suffer as victims too.

"women I'll still stand by you are not saying that I'm still standing by it"

03:06:08
Key MomentSelf-ratings round. Matthew asks panel to rate themselves on looks 1-10. Matthew self-rates 7 (currently); potential 8 if in peak shape. Brian: 5 currently; potential 7-7.5. Lydia refuses objective rating ("everyone's a 10 in God's eyes"). Extended debate follows on whether all sinners are equally evil — specifically whether Madison Vu is as evil as Hitler in God's eyes. Lydia: yes (all equally deserving of eternal death).

"what does everyone rate themselves on a scale of 1 to 10"

03:12:00
ControversyLydia (SPEAKER_02) maintains Hitler and Madison are equally evil in God's eyes (all sinners equally deserving of eternal death). Brian repeatedly presses her to say Hitler is more evil. She concedes Hitler's actions are worse but holds the theological position on equal sinfulness. Matthew (SPEAKER_07) asks if Hitler could go to heaven if he accepted Christ before death. Lydia: yes. Matthew: that doesn't seem right. Eventually someone in the room flatulates, diffusing the tension.

"who is more evil Madison or Hitler... I think that is that the word you used... equally evil"

03:49:43
Key MomentBody count round prompted by TTS donation from "Stiffler." JoJo: 8, Julie: 7, Malia: 6, Kylie: 7 (admitted range 10-20 when pressed), Nala: same as prior appearance (8, celibate since incident). Discussion of whether women underreport by factor of 3.

"we're going to have Madison start on this stiffmeister ask the ladies their body count"

04:30:00
Key MomentMatthew (SPEAKER_07) discloses divorce details: married 8 years, ex-wife was a hair stylist who moved to LA; got pregnant 2 months after meeting. Paid 4 years of alimony; ex-wife became a millionaire from settlement. Community property law: she got half of gifts he bought himself. If they had been married 10 years, alimony would have been indefinite. Made his last alimony payment this month.

"I mean she became a millionaire from our divorce"

04:43:00
Key MomentBrian probes Kylie on her 15-year chaotic relationship (ages 20-32). Partner was bipolar, manic, drug addict, physically violent once, involved in criminality. Got shot in college during police raid over a weed plant. Passed away from overdose ~1 year prior. Kylie had only one other relationship in that period (3 years; rebound; ended mutually). Brian summarizes: she gave her best years (20-34) to a bipolar drug addict.

"you gave arguably your best years from 20 to 34 to a bipolar chaotic drug addict"

05:30:00
QuoteBrian states his marriage position as a businessman: "we're businessmen... as a businessman we don't sign contracts that don't benefit us therefore no marriage for the boys."

"as a businessman we don't sign contracts that don't benefit us therefore no marriage for the boys"

06:16:57
QuoteBrian plays clip of Nala Ray apparently quitting OnlyFans and takes full credit: "we did it boys we did it we saved one only fans girl one porn star... totally because of the whatever podcast father I'm taking full credit."

"we saved we saved one only fans girl one porn star it was because obviously totally because of the whatever podcast"

06:36:57
OtherEnd of show. Brian does outro; plans raid on Eson on Twitch (Grand Theft Auto 5). Matthew plugs watchgang.com; announces special giveaway for viewers on Tuesday episode. 07s in the chat. Show ends ~6:37.

"07s in the chat good night guys"

Topics Discussed

00:02:54
Guest introductions and relationship statuses

Eight guests introduce themselves: JoJo (returning; masters student, international affairs; single 2+ yrs; celibate ~2 yrs), Julie (returning; 25, BC Canada, student + OnlyFans; now in LDR 7 months), Malia (returning; 27, OnlyFans mgmt; single 2.5 yrs), Nala (23, Dallas, business student; mental health advocate; bipolar/schizophrenia; on probation), Kylie (34, FL; bartender/yoga teacher; 1.5 hrs late), Madison (19, SD/SB, Whatever staff + SBCC student), Lydia (21, NC, Students for Life spokesperson; engaged), Matthew (38, LA, CEO watchgang.com; returning; divorced).

00:05:19
Kylie lateness debate

Kylie (SPEAKER_05) arrives 1 hour 30 minutes late. Brian debates accountability, punctuality, and whether women have inherent leeway to be late. Kylie argues men need more patience; Brian disputes this as removing female agency. Nala (SPEAKER_10) also arrived ~1 hour late. TTS donations mock the lateness repeatedly. Discussion pivots to general dating context: is being late on a first date forgivable; how long would you wait at a restaurant. Brian references cell phones enabling flakiness. Kylie eventually goes to the bathroom mid-discussion; conversation continues.

00:17:23
Nala's Las Vegas stabbing incident

Nala (SPEAKER_10) describes stabbing a Tinder date twice in the neck in Las Vegas (2021). Was off bipolar/schizophrenia medication; also under drugs/alcohol. In a delusional/hallucinatory state; told police she did it in revenge for Soleimani (disavowed). Victim survived; wounds were minor; did not go to hospital. Nala spent 6 weeks in jail pending competency hearing. Pled to 2 counts of false imprisonment; 3-5 year probation (no prison time). Brian argues a man in the same situation would have faced much harsher sentencing (female privilege). Nala argues the justice system is context-dependent; cites mental health factors. Debate about women's prisons vs men's prisons: Nala claims women die at higher rates in jail; Brian strongly disputes this; TTS donation later cites PBS study (7% higher mortality rate due to illness/suicide/overdose — not violence).

01:23:30
Women as primary victims of war (JoJo returns)

JoJo (SPEAKER_09) maintains women can be primary victims of war. She redefines "victim" as those who suffer most, not those who die most. Matthew (SPEAKER_07) and Brian (SPEAKER_01) argue men are clearly the primary casualties. Brian shows D-Day photograph (Into the Jaws of Death) — no women in the image. JoJo acknowledges men are the primary casualties but maintains that widows and invaded populations suffer as victims. Matthew: death is the worst victimhood; the widow is a victim but the dead soldier is the primary victim. Debate reaches qualified agreement.

02:50:00
Pro-life vs pro-choice debate

Lydia (SPEAKER_02) presents pro-life position as spokesperson for Students for Life of America. Brings model fetal development props; throws one toward Brian at end. Brian and Matthew take more neutral/devil's advocate positions. Julie (SPEAKER_03) raises abortion pills and women knowing what they are doing. Lydia: women who knowingly abort should be held accountable. Brian proposes artificial wombs as compromise; panel mixed. Catholic TTS donation chimes in with faith-based argument. Brian identifies as Catholic and does not believe in reincarnation.

03:06:08
Self-ratings round (1-10 looks)

Matthew (SPEAKER_07) asks panel to rate themselves on looks 1-10. Matthew: 7 (currently); potential 8 if in peak shape/ripped. Brian: 5 (currently; potential 7-7.5 in prime shape). Lydia (SPEAKER_02): "everybody's a 10 in God's eyes" — refuses objective rating. Discussion of what "objective" vs "subjective" attractiveness means. Brian presses with Hitler vs Madison Vu: are they equally evil in God's eyes? Lydia maintains all sinners are equally deserving of Eternal death. Extended theological debate about sin, evil, and whether Hitler could go to heaven if he accepted Christ before death.

03:49:43
Body count round

Brian asks panel for body counts (prompted by Stiffler TTS donation). Results: JoJo (SPEAKER_09): 8 (same as prior appearance). Julie (SPEAKER_03): 7. Malia (SPEAKER_12): 6. Kylie (SPEAKER_05): 7 (stated first); range confirmed 10-20 when pressed. Nala (SPEAKER_10): same as prior appearance (8, celibate since incident). Lydia (SPEAKER_02): not stated (engaged Christian; body count discussion deflected to faith). Matthew: declined (not required for males on this question). Discussion follows on whether women lie about body count; whether men care about body count is insecure or a valid preference.

04:30:00
Marriage, alimony, and divorce laws

Matthew (SPEAKER_07) shares his divorce experience: married 8 years, 2 kids, paid 4 years of alimony, ex-wife (former hair stylist) became a millionaire. Community property law: she got half of gifts he bought himself. Brian: California divorce laws disincentivize men from marrying; 80% of divorces initiated by women. Lydia (SPEAKER_02) argues marriage provides stability and security for women; security for men too. Brian: marriage gives women financial incentive to leave; no equivalent incentive to stay. Matthew: would not get married again; dates for connection without needing marriage. JoJo (SPEAKER_09): would not change her last name; does not care about marriage either way. Discussion of prenups; attorney financial incentives; community property quirks.

04:43:00
Kylie's 15-year relationship and chaotic ex

Brian probes Kylie (SPEAKER_05) on her 15-year on/off relationship with a bipolar man. They met at 14 (friends in high school), dated from college (age 20) to 32. Three breakups; she initiated last two, he initiated the middle one. He was bipolar (undiagnosed), manic, made bad decisions: got shot in college during police raid over a weed plant; physical violence with Kylie once; involved in criminality; drug addiction. Passed away from overdose ~1 year before this taping. Kylie had one other relationship (3 years; rebound from high school friend; ended due to stagnation and dead bedroom). Brian: she gave her best years (20-34) to a chaotic drug addict. Now in a 10-month talking stage with a man who returned from oil rig work in Texas.

05:39:00
Does men disliking challenges in dating make them beta?

Twitter post debated: "men don't want soft feminine women — they want bold dominant women who are submissive for them." Brian disagrees: he does not want a woman who plays hard to get or is a challenge. Nala (SPEAKER_10) argues that playing hard to get creates more excitement (hunter-gatherer). Brian: Proverbs 21:19 ("better to live in a desert than with a quarrelsome wife"). Matthew (SPEAKER_07): men like conquest; the challenge aspect makes some sense. Lydia (SPEAKER_02): going to take her husband's last name; finds independence compatible with femininity. Brian: the most alpha men have women throwing themselves at them; the chase is a waste of time. "Play hard to get, quickly become hard to want."

06:16:57
Nala Ray "SAVED" — OnlyFans quit announcement

Brian plays a clip of prior Whatever guest Nala Ray (not present in studio) apparently quitting OnlyFans. Brian takes full credit for this decision on behalf of the Whatever Podcast. Panel reacts. Brian then discusses OnlyFans with Julie (SPEAKER_03): what it would take for Julie to quit. Julie: equivalent-paying legitimate job. Works enough hours to pay rent and fund school. Does not do custom/DM content; just posts. Boyfriend does not subscribe; she has not asked him. Does not want to do OnlyFans forever; plans to use degree after graduation.

Transcript

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05:39:44
Matthew Gallagherhave a high body well they say you have to either be her first or her best and as long as you're one of those you're okay it doesn't really matter I agree with you what's your body count I I
05:39:56
Madisondon't know no I don't I don't know it it's that many it's a lot I don't know I don't I don't count but where did you meet this girl Brian this 18-year-old
05:40:07
MadisonTinder 18-year-old girl come up yeah on TI how did that come up I don't know this this was like she opened like wait four years ago her long
05:40:16
Brian Atlastime ago huh met her in person yes we did went on a date she seemed cool at first but she told me about some of her past
05:40:29
Brian Atlaswe didn't hook up we didn't hook up yeah she told me wow we didn't hook up nothing like that but that is crazy yeah you can't be looking for a girlfriend on
05:40:41
Brian AtlasTinder yeah I don't have dating apps anymore oh you don't how do you mean how do you meet girls now they come on your show I'm I'm I'm I'm a man of God married to
05:40:53
Brian AtlasJesus I'm a man of God um but no look okay with Madison's thing you know look some of these girl be putting up like 20 30 40 their first freshman year of I know a lot College hopefully not
05:41:06
Madisonhigh school Jesus Christ that's okay wait going back to okay sternum tattoos did you want to fight me on this you got a sternum tattoo is that it you have a sternum oh is it a chandelier wait into the mic
05:41:18
Kyliesays breathe wait don't don't [ __ ] pop that [ __ ] out bro what the [ __ ] keep that [ __ ] in there okay it says show into the into scoot into the table um yeah it says breathe in
05:41:30
Brian AtlasSanskrit so it's just like in the center of your heart that's some yoga [ __ ] if I ever [ __ ] heard it yeah so like you know when your chest and you get get anxiety you can be like it breathe bre you got to like look down at your [ __ ]
05:41:41
Brian Atlaslike remind wa is it backwards so when you look in a mirror you can read it properly it is who here has a sternum tattoo I'm just kidding sorry oh rip I thought about it no tattoos Julie
05:41:54
Brian Atlastattoos but yeah to answer Maddie's question not a deal breaker but prefer like I don't think most guys are like I'd like her more if she had more tattoos some guys are like that some
05:42:06
Brian Atlasguys really no some guys do it's a specific Niche for sure but speaking majority I'd agree majority generally speaking probably like no guys like I wish she had more she'd be hotter with
05:42:17
Kyliemore tattoos you can't say no guys I've got a lot of comments there's guys who have like a fetish or whatever but I do feel like it gives a like it makes a conversation piece too like it makes you easily like either people look at you
05:42:30
Kylielonger so than you have more of a interaction with them or they have a reason to come up and talk to you about it if if she has tatto I'm like demon woman like do you think it looks like dirty or like huh like what do you think
05:42:43
JoJoof it like do you think it looks like dirty or I want to get I want to get a World of Warcraft tattoo like very small but what what about that it means you [ __ ] a lot of guys
05:42:54
JoJoKirby yeah clearly clearly a wow tattoo that's great I feel like it'd be kind of trashy to get a no no but that's the thing it depends on what it
05:43:03
Madisonis what's the question Madison ignored like what what what do you think about it like do you think it looks dirty or it's just like not super modest of a woman to get a bunch of
05:43:17
Brian Atlastattoos or even like very minimal tattoos I I wonder why like what's the is an aesthetic thing but other some
05:43:26
Brian Atlaspeople get tattoos because it's like can be an indicator not always but it can be an indicator of trauma like I always thought tattoos were cool my T my dad is
05:43:36
Madisontat from like neck down mhm so I always thought it was just like a cool thing and we my my sisters and I we always grew up like thinking tattoos were super your mom have tattoos no none do you
05:43:48
Nalahave brothers no okay well also tattoos are permanent I don't know like if I love like a bag or jacket that I wear like long time but some point I'm like okay I mean there's
05:44:00
Nalalaser I don't know like do you ever like look at your tattoos like wow I'm kind of tired of it men are attracted to uh you don't put a bumper sticker on a
05:44:10
NalaBentley exactly Madison exactly that's what Kim Kardashian said that was then didn't she also get like a lip tattoo though like no recently here we got
05:44:20
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05:45:02
Kyliedrug use is a deal breaker yeah so I definitely was doing drugs when I was dating when I was around my ex partying with people go
05:45:14
Kyliedoing college and I think that people can definitely change so I found yoga and completely changed my lifestyle and my habits and the places that I put
05:45:24
Kyliemyself in and I think that everybody is like should be given a second chance to start over to not be judged by like
05:45:34
Brian Atlasmaybe a mistake or a situation that happened to them okay so this I I always get confused by this term judge so what if I for example you used to do heroin
05:45:47
Brian Atlaswhat's that oh you're telling us what you did no no no I was saying like for you it's your preference right but like I cuz I feel like we a lot of times when people bring up the Judgment
05:45:59
Brian Atlasthing you would also agree that people are free to have their preferences I agree so I personally think that drug
05:46:09
Brian Atlasuse in past or present is a deal breaker is that a judgment I would not date somebody without saying anything about who they are oh they're a terrible person let's
05:46:23
Brian Atlassay I don't say they're a terrible person I just say I would not date somebody who past or present was addicted to drugs for example like is that a judgment or
05:46:34
Kylieprefence like you would you would say for sure that would never happen I mean there's perhaps it could
05:46:44
Brian Atlasbe some outlier scenario where she's like amazing and maybe it's possible but I'm leaning very much towards if you were previously
05:46:55
Kylieaddicted to heroin yes I would not date you so I think it's just something that a lot of people all over the country have dealt with or been around not arguing about that terrible thing
05:47:07
Kylieit's just I wouldn't date them that's and that's not optimal that's your prog suboptimal suboptimal exact suboptimal dating choice I agree I think that's fine for you I just don't I don't think
05:47:20
Kyliewhat I don't think we should preclude them from date like as partners they should still be allowed to date I didn't say that of
05:47:30
Brian Atlascourse but I think it's a suboptimal dating choice and I I advise men not to date those women and I personally in my own
05:47:41
Kyliedating life would choose not to date those uh a woman would you also advise women to the same thing to not sure okay yeah okay I would yeah you've done it before last time we were on it that you
05:47:54
Brian Atlassaid the same thing don't date a drug addict yeah I it's not like this double standard thing where it's like well men you need to have really high standards
05:48:03
Brian Atlasfor women and women you just need to accept all of these conditions in men no don't I I don't have a double standard on
05:48:13
Kylieit but what like so what's I guess what's your argument here my argument is that I disagree that
05:48:23
Kylieit should be a qualifier for somebody if they have had something like that in their past that they can't be a change person it still be like that it would
05:48:33
Brian Atlasstill haunt your that it would still haunt your relationship and you would have to worry about it okay so if presented with the option two exact same
05:48:43
Brian Atlaspeople but they uh both physically attractive in the same way but one was previously addicted to heroin and the other wasn't it occurs to me that if I have
05:48:55
Brian Atlasthe option I would certainly pick the one who wasn't addicted to heroin yeah obviously well OB but so you say Obviously but it doesn't seem like
05:49:08
Kylieit's that obvious to well it's like it's a feelings versus an analytical thing right like how we feel about something versus your basic facts of saying well if you date somebody who used to be a
05:49:21
Brian Atlasdrug addict obviously they're going to be more of a liability or there could be there could be health health persisting despite them totally turning a new Leaf
05:49:32
Nalalet's let's even say that they would never use drugs again their could be some negative Health consequences yeah I agree certain drugs like permanently like change your body
05:49:43
Nalaor like your brain brain yeah oh sorry I said like certain drugs like oh certain drugs like permanently change your body or your brain so even if you like stop doing them you're kind
05:49:54
JoJoof like damag those fear relapse is very real as well yeah that's that's to what I'm just like also you know yeah oh cuz like that would affect me the most even if they're completely recovered and
05:50:06
JoJoeverything else it's just the the constant fear if they're acting strange I'm like back of my head maybe have they relapsed yeah trust yeah trust very similar conversation uh that we were what was your name Kylie and you NAA na
05:50:19
Matthew Gallagherit's like the conversation we were having with na as well did did you say that you used to do drugs I did yeah right so like that thing that resonates with you cuz that's like a personal thing and then you're like why is it negative and then you know what I mean
05:50:31
Kylieand correct and I understand I understand why it's a negative but it's also one of those things that so many people experience that they don't want to feel like
05:50:43
Kyliethey're like she felt right like bipolar if you have bipolar like oh there's no options out there's no options out there for you you're not going to find somebody who loves you or that understands the situations or life path
05:50:55
Matthew Gallagherthat you've been I don't know if women date like this but I feel like and Brian if you do you date like this as well like you you mentioned like something's suboptimal we're looking at things very like logically like these are the best
05:51:06
Matthew Gallagherchances at having a successful mate right and so you disqualify certain things Based on data basically that's all it is well and the the funny thing
05:51:16
Brian Atlasis is that women enjoy a far greater level of sexual selectivity as compared to men uh women have far greater I would
05:51:25
Brian Atlasargue uh sexual optionality but also I would even argue that women have dating on easy mode as compared to men so you have far more optionality women are typically fairly well known for being
05:51:38
Brian Atlasvery selective when it comes to who they date you'll select based on personality you'll select based on his uh ability to provide uh you know based on personality
05:51:49
Brian Atlastraits so I think it's almost because women are the sexual selectors it's almost shocking for a lot of women to hear Men actually articulate preferences standards and
05:52:01
Brian Atlasboundaries because I would argue probably most of your Dynamics with men you guys are all being the sexual selectors right like the guys are chasing after
05:52:11
Brian Atlasyou so it's weird for you to hear a guy like Artic because most men are trying to get at you and they'll do anything for the [ __ ] [ __ ] anything for the [ __ ] right
05:52:23
Brian Atlasand so it's weird and and guys will like you could tell a guy I used to be a drug addict and guys are so pressed for [ __ ] they're going to be like it's okay babe that's cool going try I'm a social
05:52:35
Brian Atlasexperiment I'm going to TR that they won't like actually tell you that actually might be an issue long term um but I I do think because women fall into
05:52:45
Brian Atlasthe uh being the sexual selectors when you do hear a guy say actually no I'm disqualifying you
05:52:53
Brian Atlasbecause of XYZ it's a bit like shocking because most men just like you women pick amongst women are the rejectors typically you'll men will approach you
05:53:05
Brian Atlasyou pick from the best of them they've already kind of pre-picked you and then you get to pick from them and then you turn oh this guy's short this guy's got a [ __ ] T pay but how does how how
05:53:16
JoJodoes that argument work with this guy's a left leaning twitch streamer what we were I'm [ __ ] down what we were saying earlier about like oh a lot of times there are people who like dating
05:53:27
Matthew Gallagherlike people they can fix or whatever like so how how does that AR you should see a therapist for that [ __ ] there's a lot of people who like to date like men the side we we we say captain SEO and on
05:53:39
Matthew Gallagherthe women's side you're like a fixer I can fix them you know and I think that it's just a it's a it's I've never heard
05:53:46
Brian AtlasCaptain sa I have a question for you um you uh wait okay uh you had a history of drug use correct drug addiction yeah
05:53:57
Kyliewith the with the may I ask what the drug was uh so painkillers and it was kind of a trigger of when he would go into His Manic episodes and like opiates yeah okay and that was
05:54:10
Kylielike my trigger so when I felt sad and like he didn't love me and he was like angry with me or whatever I wanted to feel like warm and safe and because he
05:54:21
Brian Atlashad Supply to that that's what I turned to right okay um so I have a question for you how how tall are you 5'8 5'8 would you date a guy who's shorter than you I have they both both of the guys
05:54:34
Brian Atlasthat I dat the longest were shorter than me I just got Bamboozled all right check checkmate unfortunately my argument on
05:54:44
Kyliethis one is not um H really how tall were they I mean um like the child like the one I was with the longest was
05:54:56
Kylieprobably a half inch shorter than me and then the second guy dated after him was probably two or 3 in she got meys think all women only date taller men cuz like I would be fine
05:55:09
Lydiadating a shorter man I just don't think they were like how tall your boyfriend he's like 5'11 how tall are you 5 to that's the thing I I'm not going to find a guy that's shorter than me probably so that's not even an option out there I
05:55:21
Brian AtlasI'm not saying like I'm not saying all women like some women will date men who are short or even shorter than them but I mean do you disagree that generally speaking women generally are attracted to tall men but like I feel like also
05:55:35
Lydiawomen are more prone to value personality more than like physical I mean actually kind of disagree on that one really more so than men at least like I feel like women value personality more than men really I don't know about
05:55:46
Nalathat because it could be a little bit shorter like like 5A but you have this confidence in like o of energy versus somebody who's like 61 and is like shy and like just I actually think women are
05:55:57
Brian Atlasway picky are much more uh pickier physically than men are and they have far more rigid standards when it comes to body types and uh physical
05:56:07
Brian Atlascharacteristics uh really yes absolutely what good and and the things that women do care about typically tend to be entirely out of men's control so for
05:56:18
Brian Atlasexample height out of men's control balding uh out 100% out of a man's control penis size
05:56:27
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05:56:35
Brian Atlassize 100% now of man's control whereas for men it's like wait just be just don't be fat is basically it for men
05:56:47
Nalathat's not true there's more to it than just that yeah okay fine but that's your preference but what do you mean like you saying like dudes just be no I'm just saying like [ __ ] ACH is that what's up
05:56:59
Nalano I'm just saying like men probably have like if she's got bigia oh oh I said that way too loud you got excited there whoa what the [ __ ] so passion like
05:57:11
Brian Atlasthe bigger the labia the bigger the BMI so how does your nonprofit work by the way like like just curious what do you mean big labia matter it's it's like a grass it's just
05:57:22
Nalalike an advocacy group like you know that's really nice yeah I'm a nice guy so like I'm a do you reach out to people who like streamlabs.com not happy with their labia or how does that work I don't reach it's a it's it's like they
05:57:35
Brian Atlasreach out to I mean I do okay it's like the the the thing is kind of a it's a joke a joke but I actually am in favor of big laia I'm a fan what's
05:57:46
Brian Atlasup okay that's real you're actually a fan dude I'm a I like big labia the bigger the better where's I like I want to meet a girl who's like Guinness World Record lebia labia why just for curiosity you know how like there's like
05:57:59
Brian Atlasthe biggest dick like where's the biggest labia I'm trying to find her bro and is she you're the one for you I might get if she's I will marry the woman with the biggest lady I'll get married under those truth
05:58:12
TTS Donation Readerbomb donated $100 they'll take on the past drug use I was an addict earlier in my life and completely turned it around own several
05:58:22
Brian Atlasbusiness and have a Nate figure net worth life happens well look I again I have compassion for people that previously struggled uh if it's mental illness or currently struggling even
05:58:34
Brian Atlasmental illness or drug use but again like I for me that would be cuz I don't do drugs barely even drink I'll drink maybe
05:58:46
Brian Atlastwo or three times a year I'll have one glass of wine that's the extent of It Don't drink don't do drugs don't smoke so this is like a values thing but I also do think that somebody who's for
05:58:59
JoJoexample adicted addicted addicted to meth I mean I don't know I think I'm pass like it's the argument too of like even the body count
05:59:09
JoJoto you it's suboptimal like suboptimal I'm not saying like Okay you could date a recovering drug addict but it's or a recovering drug labia exactly here's here's the thing
05:59:21
Nalayou have to understand about me I'm very forgiving if the labia is like massive mhm this is crazy the biggest labia but she got a super high body count like how does that
05:59:32
Unknownand that's why the Ley is yeah exactly matter going on I don't know Works um no
05:59:40
Unknownexactly body counts a pretty bit she got a big laia though so the biggest Leia like he's like contemplating like I
05:59:52
Brian AtlasI still have values I still have values but wait how did we get onto the [ __ ] big Leia thing what the [ __ ] she was asking about how did your about it like I didn't know how oh no but look I do gen like I know we're kind of like having to laugh about it just really
06:00:05
Brian Atlasquick on that I do think it's unfortunate if uh women get shamed for their genitalia much in the same way that I think we shouldn't shame men for you know if they
06:00:15
Brian Atlashave penis what's your take on micros what's your take on micros is a crazy question bro I thought I had an ally in you when it come to the anti- genitalia shaming I I was just what's my thought
06:00:28
Brian Atlason that I know you should ask your ex-boyfriend oh got him just kidding I'm kidding your ex-boyfriend no idea who he is but I'm sure he's sure he's hung like
06:00:38
Unknowna Mong take like a [ __ ] wait that would not be a big take though I don't know I just such an insane question it's ridiculous bro it
06:00:50
Unknownjust it just came to mind what are we talking about what do you think you got micro penises on your mind you want to all sheia honestly shouldn't be shamed so I was like okay what your take
06:01:02
Brian Atlason micros learn about this for the next five days the truth bomb I got I got mad respects for you truth bomb but just from a dating perspective
06:01:12
Brian Atlasme personally and my advice I would not date a woman it was like shooting up heroin he wouldn't date a woman that's right I'm
06:01:24
Unknowndead I'm a homosexual he came out just now I would not dat woman not date woman clipped yeah what the [ __ ] c and end the
06:01:34
Brian Atlasstatement I would not I was I was doing like a pause was a long pause for theatrical effect I would not date a woman
06:01:44
Brian Atlaswho we go was like shooting up heroin like behind this [ __ ] in the 7-Eleven back lot okay fair in her [ __ ] [ __ ]
06:01:55
Brian Atlasup Mazda Miata seems normal okay okay let's Moving On Moving On Moving On okay uh last thing here oh wait disagreement body count and its implications
06:02:06
Kyliebody count matters period oh is that your position body count does matter or doesn't I mean if it's a it's again a personal preference but if you're with somebody who understands you as a person you can well yeah you said I think a man
06:02:19
Kyliethat is kind and understanding will get your Life Path yeah like they you'll if if you're have a connection with somebody they'll kind of un like you'll be able to talk
06:02:30
Brian Atlasabout these things you'll have a friendship right so are you if as a guy you disqualify a woman because of her body count you're not kind and
06:02:41
Kylieunderstanding I'm not a guy as a guy I'm no no no sorry no no no that's not what I mean I'm saying I'm saying you said that a
06:02:51
Brian Atlasman that is kind and understanding will get your Life Path I mean they're not necessarily like not kind not going to
06:03:01
Kyliebe like yeah but let's say okay let's say a guy a
06:03:07
Brian Atlasguy understanding is more likely to be kind a guy be unkind and un understanding to not want to date a
06:03:20
Kyliewoman who [ __ ] like hre dudes that would be fair it'd be fair fair but if okay all right I feel like it would
06:03:30
Kyliehe would be a guy that's willing to hear somebody like that out is probably a moreai my dear you just [ __ ] 10 guys last week not you but I know hear me out a
06:03:42
Brian Atlasnicer guy that's going to sit there and like hear me out though I just got gang bang I had to I was going through something that week
06:03:50
Unknownokay uh um any anybody I I just I it's a preference like you said the the body
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Kyliecounting would you date a guy who's a vir yeah I don't really think it matters that you you'd want to teach a guy how to [ __ ] you well no no I probably that's what you'd have to do right like but
06:04:16
Kyliethen that creates the whole no not that whole it creates a weird it creatd D asking is he really imers just saying wait what I said if you're teaching him
06:04:27
Kylieit creates a weird power Dynamic so then it's not really going to be a functional relationship I feel like you know you can't be the dominant one like woman can't be a dominant woman I mean absolutely you can but pump the brakes
06:04:40
Brian Atlasthere well she was like it's not a functional somebody oh no no she said it's have you ever pegged a dude no of course I bet you have course stop lying
06:04:49
JoJowhy [ __ ] lying why do you think that you're because of my general energy of a person like you think I've pegged people she only pegs me you like I get a Vibe I
06:05:01
Brian Atlasget a vibe from you that you're a pegger i that is the craziest sentence just didn't it I've never pegged never even say it into this camera I Peg men I'm
06:05:11
JoJofine with you what you guys want to do in your free time but to me that's not attractive to me that's not attractive no I'm so sorry I'm so sorry my Kings who want me to Peg them that's not my
06:05:22
Brian Atlasthing that's not my he's he's 1010 okay he's 10 out of 10 he has an AR-15 okay
06:05:29
JoJohe's he's hung okay he's hung super dope cool guy he just wants to but you got to peg him do you do it like do I have to
06:05:40
JoJocontinually do it too like is that like a one time thing we get over it like we forget about it three pump chump I get real drunk one night and like try it one
06:05:50
Julietime or is it Valentine's Day okay anniversary okay February 29th really close to Valentine's Day
06:06:01
Unknownthat's that's a lot I need time to recover whoa Je is there something you want to tell us about your relationship definitely
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Brian Atlasnot the whisper definitely not all right we have a super chat designed darts Should humans be aborted based on suboptimal characteristics oh my God
06:06:20
Brian Atlasthis is crazy uh what is this eug is that Eugenics basically yes are we going to go around your or you want my thoughts on that uh she it's probably the most
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Lydiaopinionated the we I would I would be curious to know actually if any of you think this is okay like obviously like we in places like Iceland they've almost eradicated Down syndrome completely cuz they've just aborted every single baby
06:06:44
JoJowith Down Syndrome like do you think that's okay you you can know that you're pregnant with someone it's a thought that's an thought experiment right that's interesting I still think the the parents who have the child with Down Syndrome love them like all the what do
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JoJoyou mean like that's why like if you're planning to have a child either way I think like you think it's loving to abort them no no no I I no no I didn't say that I meant like like I if you're
06:07:08
Lydiahaving planning to have a child you find out they have Down syndrome like I think have the child you're you're going to love your child either either way would you be supportive of the law that was written to ban abortion in cases of like
06:07:20
Matthew Gallagherdown syndrome and stuff like that um again it's everyone's personal you're pro-choice right yeah so it's everyone's personal so does the choice matter if it's because I don't want to
06:07:31
Matthew Gallagheror because it has like B syndrome um or if it's a boy can you just like abort until you get a girl that's crazy I mean it I mean is it really legal I'm just
06:07:41
Matthew Gallaghercurious like uh you know if you're a pro-choice person um are there lines where yeah I mean if if it's not like if it's not murder for instance um can you just keep AB boarding until you get the
06:07:53
JoJogender that you want I don't I to me I don't care who else is pro-choice me do would what about you do you think that's I'll never know if someone's doing that so I do not care no but in this hypothetical like does that matter I mean I would say that it's wrong you
06:08:06
Lydiaprobably shouldn't be doing that but again like why you don't care when other people do things that are wrong to other people like if someone was over there abusing can I think anybody who's
06:08:17
Brian Atlasinclined to get a sternum tattoo should be aborted I'm kidding I'm kidding sorry I'm sorry that oh no you're asking about Down
06:08:29
Lydiasyndrome and [ __ ] I'm just thinking like what about okay what about what about for the feminists in China they I think they still do or yeah they still do still uh I have a question for you wait
06:08:38
Brian Atlaswait wait I hold on hold on would you be in favor of okay this is whoa this is like some like crazy [ __ ] here would you
06:08:47
Brian Atlasbe in favor of aborting people who would be inclin who would be pro-choice and within a generation it
06:08:58
Brian Atlaswould just be pro-life people and then there would not be any more abortion no that's kind of based I still value every choice about aborting Hitler wait let me
06:09:09
Brian Atlascook let me cook would you abort Hitler wait what the [ __ ] abort Maddie not what about me would you abort me would what about Democrats would you be down to abort Democrats be honest okay no and I
06:09:22
Lydiathink that's why the pro life movement is so important is that we value every life regardless of your disability your political party or whatever you'll grow up to be would you abort I just said no I would not hold on just one more
06:09:32
Lydiaquestion would you abort guys with with toxic dating podcast that that's like asking me would I kill you now it's the same thing either way you're still killing I have
06:09:43
Nalareally good hypothetical let's just say in this imaginary world we know before fetos is born whether are they going to be like like I don't know some bad person like Hitler or like somebody
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Nalathat's going to do more harm in society than good for some reason we have that system would you be okay with aborting those people that are not born yet but for Guarantee we know they're going to going to cause more harm than good in society well they're innocent in the
06:10:08
Lydiatime while they're in the womb so I would I would say that committing a wrong doesn't make a right are you Pro death penalty no I'm not actually okay I'm not but I I think that there are pro- lifers that are pro death penalty um there's a huge difference between
06:10:20
Lydiaending innocent human life and ending the lives of understand terrible would you criminals okay I'm not going to get in no do it I'm ready keep cooking what keep cooking I asked a question I wanted
06:10:32
Kylieto ask earlier about the new laws that they're doing in like Kentucky where um so when you do inv vitro and they
06:10:42
Kylieimplant like basically eggs right and so yeah so multiple sometimes multiple of them attach and then like either you end up with Octomom or they get rid of a few
06:10:53
Kylieruction correct and I feel like the new law like prohibits that from happening so so Julie can you read this one thank you I'm just a guy what do I know uh some
06:11:07
Juliepeople want to take their own lives due to their depression and state of life if my body my choice is an acceptable argument for abortion isn't an acceptable argument for um she's in Canada this is a great topic for her
06:11:19
Lydiawe've made you can do that if you want to in I don't think you can use your body to commit harm is the big thing like you can't use your body to harm a pre-born child not my body it's
06:11:31
Brian Atlasforceps EXA the wait what what are you saying I was making a joke I was making a joke my bad but that's really insensitive of you to joke about this is
06:11:41
Brian Atlasa very serious subject matter Julie I'm okay pleas display a bit of decorum I'm just okay never mind I'm we're good but as I was saying you can't use
06:11:54
Lydiayour body to commit harm whether that be to a baby in the womb to a teenager or to yourself so that's what I would say does anyone disagree actually what
06:12:05
Brian Atlaswasn't there something where there was somebody in Canada seeking like medical treatment for their cancer I forgot the exact details maybe
06:12:15
JoJosomebody in the chat can help me and like I think this was Canada they were like well here's some resources on deleting yourself there so it was actually a veteran I think if that's the
06:12:27
Juliecorrect s it was like a veteran who was just seeking help and they were like well you could just delete yourself that' be cool it's medical assistance and death if you like have cancer and you know you're going to die in like six months and you're suffering you can
06:12:38
Lydiaelect I see it all it's all over Tik Tok so perhaps that's a good argument against the so would y'all agree with that by the way since support my body my choice are all you Pro suicide cuz I've
06:12:50
Brian Atlasmet people that are say that you can't say that sorry guys I'm not doing that it's all good
06:12:59
Brian Atlasum say it like that um wait I think you guys answered it though is this an acceptable accept
06:13:09
Brian Atlasacceptable argument for self deluding what isn't acceptable wa all let's wait let's let's let's move on
06:13:19
Brian Atlasokay um I think so but whatever so we've hit a lot of topics tonight I'm trying to think if there's anything else oh we had a couple things to react to really quick oh [ __ ] I maybe I'll save it for
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Brian Atlasthe Tuesday show I'm going save it I'm wait hm actually Nick could you pull up that Reddit Thread about the 180k versus
06:13:43
Brian Atlas40K that'll be the last thing and I'll save the Nala thing for a [ __ ] it I'll pull it up but I'll pull it up next stream too we saved her bro we [ __ ] did it boys it's pretty crazy gotta say ready
06:13:56
Brian Atlasyeah I make 180k my girlfriend makes 40K how should we split our 3K rent what do you guys think I say half and half half and half unless they're more willing to spend more like that's
06:14:09
Brian Atlasfine but what's the status of the relationship are they just together and married like how like okay but so a lot of people are saying the guy should just pay for the whole thing some people are saying well it should be somewhat
06:14:19
Brian Atlasproportionate an easier way to look at it is he makes 200k she makes 50k so you can make the argument that uh what she pays a fourth of the rent and he pays
06:14:29
JoJothe other third because math I don't think that's like you're like that I I don't I don't get that argument it's just like like we can bring up the example of divorces on this what if they
06:14:40
Brian Atlasbreak up like and you're stuck in a a lease contract for like a a year or whatever yeah but do you what do you think should the guy just pay for the whole rent in that situation or it should be split somehow probably split somehow but like I mean obviously she
06:14:52
Juliecouldn't afford that on her own so if he wanted it to be 50/50 why don't you just get a cheaper place Mia your thoughts I think I'm going to go fourth the like fourth okay um he should pay for
06:15:03
Kylieit okay the whole thing okay what about you what do you think I mean it depends maybe half and half unless somebody's utilizing the space more like if he makes more money because he works from
06:15:13
Kyliehome then maybe he should pay more like if it's more of his space let's assume it's just a one-bedroom apartment okay and they're just Shar living room kitchen happy together
06:15:25
Kylieum I think maybe they split it and then maybe he pays for groceries since he makes more money or it like makes up that way man what about
06:15:37
Madisonyou I agree with like the 1/4 thing I mean obviously I would like for the m to pay but 40K is not that
06:15:47
Madisonmuch MH especially if you're going to pay ,500 for rent rent a month you don't have any money after that basically what about you this is why you
06:15:59
Unknownshouldn't live with people until you're married because then you have to worry about splitting your money when you could just have combined bank accounts and not have to worry about spitting anything so that's my hot take just your
06:16:11
Matthew Gallagherthought your thoughts on this guy pays the whole thing P it's the dope move it's the dope move but the rational way to split it would be based on income right yeah and you could also make the
06:16:21
Brian Atlasargument right she needs housing let's say she was living alone she needs housing anyways so she would be paying rent pay the full price is that what
06:16:31
Brian Atlasyou're saying like she would be paying rent otherwise so for fairness sake you know 180k though that's plenty to not make her pay rent just make her pay it
06:16:43
Brian Atlasall she'll be happier Rel what did you say make her pay it all yes she has to S exactly she pays the whole thing and Cook and Cook well yeah and if he paid all the rent then she
06:16:56
Brian Atlascould pay for the groceries and cook for him or that is an option yeah that's an argument I agree with that too any other disagreements from anybody on anything anybody want to argue for another 10
06:17:05
Brian Atlasminutes or why were you guys so late I'm rude that's a good that's a good topic you should expect that from a
06:17:13
Brian Atlaswoman hey damn that's so sexist micine do you have internalized misogyny yeah yep I love your honesty uh Nick can you pull up the Nala clip I
06:17:26
Brian Atlasthink I tweeted it guys you should follow me on Twitter I've been posting some dope [ __ ] Clips on Twitter um maybe could you make it smaller oh do video tab too on
06:17:38
Brian Atlasthis uh make us a little smaller right side yeah that's fine uh so guys I don't know if you know Nala she's been on the show play that first
06:17:49
Brian Atlasone the big one wait your biggest fantasy is not even my biggest it's like one of that's not on the whatever [Music]
06:17:59
Brian Atlaspodcast we did it boys we [ __ ] did it we saved we saved one only fans girl one porn star it was because obviously
06:18:11
Brian Atlastotally because of the whatever podcast father I'm taking full credit I'm taking full credit for this W and so she's apparently allegedly
06:18:21
Brian Atlasstopped doing only fans she's deleting her o o account and I'm taking full credit for that personally now Julie
06:18:30
Julielet's talk a bit about you okay listen what would it take for you to stop doing Ling fans and what can the whatever podcast do um probably a job that requires the
06:18:44
Brian Atlassame amount of work with the same amount of pay yo how much is the pay Madison is going on vacation for three show days you want to be helmet girl for like
06:18:55
Brian Atlasthree three shows I'm going to be back in Canada tomorrow oh you're leaving oh [ __ ] that would was so good though that would have been good you would have been great at it
06:19:05
Brian Atlasyou been great but sad sad times okay well back to only fans you go what is the what do you get paid uh I get paid enough to pay my rent and put
06:19:15
Juliemyself through school how many hours a week do you work not that much like not that probably put in more time do you plan on doing this for the rest of your life or like no I want to finish my degree and then try to find like a noral
06:19:27
Juliejob dude she's going to make so much Bank like doing granny o I'm so excited this shit's there's an audience audience for everything love GS they love them and your boyfriend doesn't care no he
06:19:39
Juliedoesn't care does he subscribe no I don't think so he's not supportive of your career I've never asked him he's not supportive of your career what do you mean I'm just saying I follow my girls businesses on Instagram and stuff oh well if you want I mean I don't care
06:19:52
Lydiado you send them the images and ask are these good pictures today well no I'm not that's like cuckery I cuck them that's crazy I just didn't know it's just ackery do you find joy in what you do or
06:20:04
Juliedo you do you ever like have a moment where you're like what am I doing sometimes I mean sometimes I'm like this is great like I can get my bills paid easy and sometimes I'm like damn would you only fans no I wouldn't give a [ __ ] for like gay dudes that's fine that
06:20:17
Matthew Gallagherwouldn't bother you I mean I don't do like boy girl content so no but I mean you're talking to guys I'm assuming right not really like not that way oh you just post you don't like you don't talk to them in the messages not really for most of the money is made I know I'm
06:20:30
Brian Atlaslosing out on so much money but I just don't like it yeah gets a little p I feel like it gets a little personal especially while you're in a relationship I feel like that's tent for me yeah okay last thing guys we're going
06:20:40
Brian Atlasto react to a tweet I saw yesterday which I responded to Twitter SL whatever uh put this on the other
06:20:49
Brian Atlasside corner oh that works uh so this woman said the truth is men don't want a soft feminine Quiet Woman They want a bold competent dominant woman who will
06:21:01
Brian Atlasbe feminine and submissive for him just like how women want the bad boy Trope to be good for her and scroll down and she also said oh [ __ ] oh God
06:21:12
Brian Atlasdamn wait that's not your fault Nick just she had like a sub tweet reply to her can you wait scroll down find her like response tweet and then pull that
06:21:27
Brian Atlasup I think it should be below mine does she respond to the tweet I just see is ah okay it's it's fine but basically
06:21:39
Brian Atlasshe just said like beta males disagree alpha males agree you got it oh yeah she says men who agree Alpha masculine Chads men who
06:21:50
Brian Atlasdisagree beta incel internet anons SC uh so wait scroll back up to the very top again I'll have Julie read it one more time every time I should have had Julie uh so Julie just read her tweet okay the
06:22:02
Juliethe truth is men don't want a soft feminine Quiet Woman They want a bold competent dominant woman who will be feminine and submissive for him just like how women want the bad boy Trope to be good for her so do you guys agree or
06:22:13
JoJodisagree with this I don't like bad boys we'll start with you we'll go around no I don't agree that that's a crazy tweet I think everything's preferences like we've said the whole podcast I don't like I don't like bad boys so no she
06:22:24
Maliasaid Alpha men agree beta men disagree but like then that means that the men still like the soft women and the I don't get her
06:22:33
Unknownpoint I agree agree yeah I don't necessarily agree mhm disagree depends on the relationship I guess well I
06:22:45
Brian Atlasresponded to her tweet and you guys can see if this makes you think of anything so so I'm just reversing basically what he said the truth is women don't want a strong masculine bold man they want a
06:22:56
Brian Atlassoft feminine submissive man who will be masculine and dominant for her would you guys do you guys agree with that just like that TW retweet I
06:23:06
Nalamean it's a nice reply back also like at least for me the way like I read the original tweet is that like you know yes the men is men in a relationship especially like a high volume man is
06:23:19
Nalasupposed to be the one that's the leader or like the Bold The Confident and the woman is the submissive one but also what makes relationships interesting is seeing men being vulnerable at times and I think it's the balance of that Dynamic
06:23:31
Brian Atlasthat she's may be talking about but maybe really well here pull up her tweet again Nick I don't think that's really what she's getting at she says the truth is
06:23:43
Brian Atlasmen don't want a soft feminine Quiet Woman so this doesn't really have anything to do with being vulnerable in front of a Woman They want a bold
06:23:52
Brian Atlascompetent dominant dominant woman who will be feminine and submissive for him I think that's just ridiculous like so basically a Confident Woman
06:24:04
JoJowho's submissive for him ex like yeah well I think that's crazy too because sometimes they want like he just asked about pegging you know there's they want dominant in both ways like sometimes just I don't want to be Peg bro what the
06:24:16
Brian Atlas[ __ ] you I'm just throwing it out there just a huge generalization yeah it's a it's a weird it's a weird it's just weird it's like she's trying to dictate to men what they want but she's like the
06:24:29
Brian Atlasfirst thing that she listed is actually what men want but she's saying that men don't want that men want like the boss babe bad badass masculine dominant chick
06:24:41
Brian Atlasbut but for them like they want that girl who's out like there or excuse me out like that in the world but then she's submissive for him which is like nah that's not it's
06:24:53
Brian Atlasridiculous in the same way that women want really feminine men like outwardly feminine men who are kind of uh
06:25:02
Brian Atlassubmissive and feminine but with them in private if this man all of a sudden becomes really dominant and masculine that's what women want it's like the
06:25:13
Nalaopposite it's totally the opposite like I think maybe it's trying to Incline of the excitement Factor like and know we were talking earlier about like what is like exciting in a relationship and what when when you feel safe it doesn't feel
06:25:25
Nalalike or when you feel safe it doesn't feel you know exciting so maybe she's trying to imply like you know it's good to have like an an outgoing confident girl who's like Al like submissive like
06:25:36
Nalayeah that's that's the Vibes I'm getting but like I think that that creates more chaos and excitement in a relationship than a traditional the only who's like makes peaceful and like submissive is
06:25:46
Matthew Gallagherthat men like to have Conquest men like a challenge we like to like right and so that's the only that's the only world where that makes any sense at all but I I don't I I'm not a fan of the I want I
06:25:58
Madisondon't want challeng I don't want to try I don't like a challenge I don't like a challenge also like wouldn't you care about how like the outside world sees how your girl compliments you too in like a soft feminine way they don't want
06:26:11
Lydiato see her be dominant well I feel like the dominant aspect could just be more of like being independent like for instance like my fiance likes that I am very bold and out there and independent and like that doesn't mean that I'm like
06:26:22
Lydiasome like traditional type baddy or something like that but like I think that could be an interpretation wait are you going to take your husband's last name yeah in marriage okay just checking wait Brian did you just say that you
06:26:34
Brian Atlasdon't don't like challenges when it comes to dating no I don't okay serve that up on a silver platter she well that was I think you're just self self admitting and not being
06:26:45
Nalaan alpha because how's well first off I don't I'm just saying like even like in history like the days that we were there were like hunter gatherers like men were the ones who wanted a challenge who
06:26:58
Nalawanted to go out there and accomplish something bro do you not listen I'm talking in even even in dating that's what makes makes some relationships more exciting and for the guys to keep pursuing because if it was safe and
06:27:08
Brian Atlasstable it kind of gets that's how girls okay first off we're talking about dating I absolutely engage in challenging things when it
06:27:19
Brian Atlascomes to my business when it comes to all that I'm not shying away from challenge when it comes to dating again Proverbs 21:19 better to live in a
06:27:30
Brian Atlasdesert than with a quarrelsome and nagging wife I don't want my part to be a challenge I don't want to date a fence sitter chick I don't want to date a girl who's playing hard to get because if you play hard to get you quickly become hard
06:27:43
Lydiato one that was beautiful [ __ ] you like to become a Christian for that verse what's that would you become a Christian you
06:27:51
Brian Atlasseem to love quoting scripture I draw inspiration from a great many sources are you religious and the Bible is a
06:28:01
Brian Atlasgreat source of some really [ __ ] big [ __ ] dog was so based [ __ ] right I'm
06:28:10
Brian Atlasnot but also me admitting that I'm not an alpha first off I don't even the the original study that they did on that with whatever however went up that's kind of okay but I first off this whole
06:28:23
Brian Atlaslike the the alpha wolf thing it's actually been debunked that was like um I'm not going to get into that but I don't like this like beta Alpha
06:28:35
Brian Atlaslike terminology any guy who's like I'm a [ __ ] alpha male well hold on any guy who's like I'm a [ __ ] alpha male that's cringe as [ __ ] first
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Nalaoff maybe it's cring I'm a sigma male how about that I'm a [ __ ] Sigma if that's your jam go for it but I
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Nalamost men Sigma men want want to express their confidence and be known as the high value or the alpha male Not all men wouldn't it be more Alpha they're not
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Brian Atlaswouldn't it the most Alpha thing be that you're so high valued that women are [ __ ] throwing themselves at you instead of you having to do all this [ __ ] to chase them to justify your Alpha
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Brian Atlasyou have to like like wouldn't you agree that the most Alpha dudes are the guys who are having [ __ ] [ __ ] thrown at them that could be a scenario but I'm
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Nalajust saying a guy I'm not a guy but like if I were to imagine a perspective of an alcohol high value man if they had option A and option b option a is a is a
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Nalawoman who is like that's safe comfortable stable or B that has the challenge like it might it might be playing a little bit hard to get you know I think that would create more excitement and as naturally men having
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Brian Atlasthat Hunter G experience that would want to pursue B more than a because they already know they have a I but I don't like girls who play hard to get I don't know how else I can
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Brian Atlasexplain this to you but again if you play hard to get you quickly become hard to want agree to disagree but
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Brian AtlasI I look maybe some guys like the chase or whatever me personally I'm not a fan it's a waste of my time I like you you like me do you want to be together let's
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JoJokeep [ __ ] very simple I don't like chicks that be playing games is simple I think that's a maturity thing honestly I just not wanting to do the whole Chase thing age yeah right and there's a distinction between like
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Nalafull-on playing games and like saying things and acting a certain way like the opposite there's like I think there's a way that you can have challenges in a relationship that makes it more interesting but like not in a toxic way
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Brian Atlasor like so what what do you think would demonstrate a woman's desire in you more her like playing hard to get and a woman
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Brian Atlasyou having to her being a challenge and you having to chase her versus a girl like who's so [ __ ] into you that she's made it clear up front that she likes
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Nalayou I mean it's different if you were saying women and bisexual so it's different for men or women for heterosexual relationships I guess
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Nalawhatever yeah so um I would say for women I would like to be more like just have that kind of challenge but for men I like to be the one that's the Challenger
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Nalabut so how does that look like how does that actually look like in practice how would you be a challenge I mean like not texting like every second or like time timing out
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Brian Atlasthings not being available at a certain times intentionally so if I want to hang out with you on a Friday and you're free but you intentionally say you're busy it hang out the past three days and like
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Brian Atlasand Friday is the fourth day I would probably be like no what but okay let's say I haven't seen you in the week I want to see you but you want to be a
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Nalachallenge I would have like a FaceTime or phone call but not hang out what but you want to see them too but you just don't want to come off easy just hang
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Brian Atlasout it just makes that's not a challenge just immature game playing no it's the hunter gather experience that's like so natural that's what I want yeah I want the hunter gather experience with a
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Brian Atlaswoman let me get my [ __ ] Spear and [ __ ] Chuck that [ __ ] I'm going to chase you for three days yeah go hunting for some meat you know you're the meat I don't want to be the
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Kyliemeat you're the meat I don't know where this is going but bra that's so funny I interpreted
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Kyliethat that Twitter as if you if a man and a woman are in a relationship and I don't know if she's
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Kyliesuccessful and has a good job the only way to make that relationship work would be for her to maybe be completely submissive at home if she's more powerful and like her day job or making
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JoJomore money or whatever the case may be I think some men I'm sure there's some men that oh for sure like most both aspects
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Brian Atlasmost men don't want like a dominant masculine woman no I agree we want we don't want to date ourselves
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Kylieyeah that's what she she said fiszel okay last chat and then we're going to wrap Julie do us the favors time oh it's
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JulieCanadian look at this okay you as a Canadian maid is terrible slippery slope to helping people with political wrong think or not wanting certain medical interventions considering Trudy's position on people with unacceptable
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Brian Atlasviews maid is about saving money not helping people profound facts thank you Phil Gowan for for the Canadian 100 which is like what like five bucks it's like
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Brian Atlasprobably I'm J I'm joking I'm joking wasn't at one point the Canadian dollar was more than the US dollar at some point maybe 90 I don't I don't know
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