She Tried To MURDER Tinder Date?! E-GIRLS! SUPER Feminist Returns?! NALA SAVED?! | Dating Talk #144

Date: 2024-03-18
Duration: 6h 37m

Identified Speakers

SPEAKER_00TTS Donation Reader(audience)
SPEAKER_01Brian Atlas(host)
SPEAKER_02Lydia(guest)
SPEAKER_03Julie(guest)
SPEAKER_04Madison(guest)
SPEAKER_05Kylie(guest)
SPEAKER_07Matthew Gallagher(guest)
SPEAKER_09JoJo(guest)
SPEAKER_10Nala(guest)
SPEAKER_12Malia(guest)

Key Moments

00:02:54
IntroBrian introduces returning guests JoJo, Julie, Malia, Matthew and new guests Nala, Kylie, Madison, and Lydia. Notable: Nala and Kylie arrived late. Lydia is engaged; Julie is in a new LDR since last appearance.

"without further Ado we're going to have the guests introduce themselves"

00:17:23
ControversyNala (SPEAKER_10) discloses she stabbed a Tinder date twice in the neck in Las Vegas (2021) while off her bipolar/schizophrenia medication. Was in delusional state; told police it was revenge for Soleimani (later disavowed). Spent 6 weeks in jail; pled to 2 counts false imprisonment; serving probation. Brian argues a man in same position would have faced much longer sentence. Nala argues women's prison statistics show they have it harder (disputed).

"I ended up um harm him and stop him twice in the neck during sex"

00:23:37
Key MomentBrian argues female privilege in sentencing: Nala got probation for stabbing; a California woman who stabbed her boyfriend 108 times got probation. Brian states a man in the same situation would face significant prison time. Nala challenges this, citing mental health and criminal history context.

"if we put a man in that woman's position... there would be significantly long prison sentences"

01:23:30
Key MomentJoJo (returning guest, prior "super feminist" episode) maintains women can be primary victims of war by redefining "victim" as those who suffer most vs those who die most. Brian shows D-Day Into the Jaws of Death photograph. Matthew explains that death is the worst victimhood; widow suffers but soldier is primary victim. JoJo ultimately concedes men are primary casualties but maintains women suffer as victims too.

"women I'll still stand by you are not saying that I'm still standing by it"

03:06:08
Key MomentSelf-ratings round. Matthew asks panel to rate themselves on looks 1-10. Matthew self-rates 7 (currently); potential 8 if in peak shape. Brian: 5 currently; potential 7-7.5. Lydia refuses objective rating ("everyone's a 10 in God's eyes"). Extended debate follows on whether all sinners are equally evil — specifically whether Madison Vu is as evil as Hitler in God's eyes. Lydia: yes (all equally deserving of eternal death).

"what does everyone rate themselves on a scale of 1 to 10"

03:12:00
ControversyLydia (SPEAKER_02) maintains Hitler and Madison are equally evil in God's eyes (all sinners equally deserving of eternal death). Brian repeatedly presses her to say Hitler is more evil. She concedes Hitler's actions are worse but holds the theological position on equal sinfulness. Matthew (SPEAKER_07) asks if Hitler could go to heaven if he accepted Christ before death. Lydia: yes. Matthew: that doesn't seem right. Eventually someone in the room flatulates, diffusing the tension.

"who is more evil Madison or Hitler... I think that is that the word you used... equally evil"

03:49:43
Key MomentBody count round prompted by TTS donation from "Stiffler." JoJo: 8, Julie: 7, Malia: 6, Kylie: 7 (admitted range 10-20 when pressed), Nala: same as prior appearance (8, celibate since incident). Discussion of whether women underreport by factor of 3.

"we're going to have Madison start on this stiffmeister ask the ladies their body count"

04:30:00
Key MomentMatthew (SPEAKER_07) discloses divorce details: married 8 years, ex-wife was a hair stylist who moved to LA; got pregnant 2 months after meeting. Paid 4 years of alimony; ex-wife became a millionaire from settlement. Community property law: she got half of gifts he bought himself. If they had been married 10 years, alimony would have been indefinite. Made his last alimony payment this month.

"I mean she became a millionaire from our divorce"

04:43:00
Key MomentBrian probes Kylie on her 15-year chaotic relationship (ages 20-32). Partner was bipolar, manic, drug addict, physically violent once, involved in criminality. Got shot in college during police raid over a weed plant. Passed away from overdose ~1 year prior. Kylie had only one other relationship in that period (3 years; rebound; ended mutually). Brian summarizes: she gave her best years (20-34) to a bipolar drug addict.

"you gave arguably your best years from 20 to 34 to a bipolar chaotic drug addict"

05:30:00
QuoteBrian states his marriage position as a businessman: "we're businessmen... as a businessman we don't sign contracts that don't benefit us therefore no marriage for the boys."

"as a businessman we don't sign contracts that don't benefit us therefore no marriage for the boys"

06:16:57
QuoteBrian plays clip of Nala Ray apparently quitting OnlyFans and takes full credit: "we did it boys we did it we saved one only fans girl one porn star... totally because of the whatever podcast father I'm taking full credit."

"we saved we saved one only fans girl one porn star it was because obviously totally because of the whatever podcast"

06:36:57
OtherEnd of show. Brian does outro; plans raid on Eson on Twitch (Grand Theft Auto 5). Matthew plugs watchgang.com; announces special giveaway for viewers on Tuesday episode. 07s in the chat. Show ends ~6:37.

"07s in the chat good night guys"

Topics Discussed

00:02:54
Guest introductions and relationship statuses

Eight guests introduce themselves: JoJo (returning; masters student, international affairs; single 2+ yrs; celibate ~2 yrs), Julie (returning; 25, BC Canada, student + OnlyFans; now in LDR 7 months), Malia (returning; 27, OnlyFans mgmt; single 2.5 yrs), Nala (23, Dallas, business student; mental health advocate; bipolar/schizophrenia; on probation), Kylie (34, FL; bartender/yoga teacher; 1.5 hrs late), Madison (19, SD/SB, Whatever staff + SBCC student), Lydia (21, NC, Students for Life spokesperson; engaged), Matthew (38, LA, CEO watchgang.com; returning; divorced).

00:05:19
Kylie lateness debate

Kylie (SPEAKER_05) arrives 1 hour 30 minutes late. Brian debates accountability, punctuality, and whether women have inherent leeway to be late. Kylie argues men need more patience; Brian disputes this as removing female agency. Nala (SPEAKER_10) also arrived ~1 hour late. TTS donations mock the lateness repeatedly. Discussion pivots to general dating context: is being late on a first date forgivable; how long would you wait at a restaurant. Brian references cell phones enabling flakiness. Kylie eventually goes to the bathroom mid-discussion; conversation continues.

00:17:23
Nala's Las Vegas stabbing incident

Nala (SPEAKER_10) describes stabbing a Tinder date twice in the neck in Las Vegas (2021). Was off bipolar/schizophrenia medication; also under drugs/alcohol. In a delusional/hallucinatory state; told police she did it in revenge for Soleimani (disavowed). Victim survived; wounds were minor; did not go to hospital. Nala spent 6 weeks in jail pending competency hearing. Pled to 2 counts of false imprisonment; 3-5 year probation (no prison time). Brian argues a man in the same situation would have faced much harsher sentencing (female privilege). Nala argues the justice system is context-dependent; cites mental health factors. Debate about women's prisons vs men's prisons: Nala claims women die at higher rates in jail; Brian strongly disputes this; TTS donation later cites PBS study (7% higher mortality rate due to illness/suicide/overdose — not violence).

01:23:30
Women as primary victims of war (JoJo returns)

JoJo (SPEAKER_09) maintains women can be primary victims of war. She redefines "victim" as those who suffer most, not those who die most. Matthew (SPEAKER_07) and Brian (SPEAKER_01) argue men are clearly the primary casualties. Brian shows D-Day photograph (Into the Jaws of Death) — no women in the image. JoJo acknowledges men are the primary casualties but maintains that widows and invaded populations suffer as victims. Matthew: death is the worst victimhood; the widow is a victim but the dead soldier is the primary victim. Debate reaches qualified agreement.

02:50:00
Pro-life vs pro-choice debate

Lydia (SPEAKER_02) presents pro-life position as spokesperson for Students for Life of America. Brings model fetal development props; throws one toward Brian at end. Brian and Matthew take more neutral/devil's advocate positions. Julie (SPEAKER_03) raises abortion pills and women knowing what they are doing. Lydia: women who knowingly abort should be held accountable. Brian proposes artificial wombs as compromise; panel mixed. Catholic TTS donation chimes in with faith-based argument. Brian identifies as Catholic and does not believe in reincarnation.

03:06:08
Self-ratings round (1-10 looks)

Matthew (SPEAKER_07) asks panel to rate themselves on looks 1-10. Matthew: 7 (currently); potential 8 if in peak shape/ripped. Brian: 5 (currently; potential 7-7.5 in prime shape). Lydia (SPEAKER_02): "everybody's a 10 in God's eyes" — refuses objective rating. Discussion of what "objective" vs "subjective" attractiveness means. Brian presses with Hitler vs Madison Vu: are they equally evil in God's eyes? Lydia maintains all sinners are equally deserving of Eternal death. Extended theological debate about sin, evil, and whether Hitler could go to heaven if he accepted Christ before death.

03:49:43
Body count round

Brian asks panel for body counts (prompted by Stiffler TTS donation). Results: JoJo (SPEAKER_09): 8 (same as prior appearance). Julie (SPEAKER_03): 7. Malia (SPEAKER_12): 6. Kylie (SPEAKER_05): 7 (stated first); range confirmed 10-20 when pressed. Nala (SPEAKER_10): same as prior appearance (8, celibate since incident). Lydia (SPEAKER_02): not stated (engaged Christian; body count discussion deflected to faith). Matthew: declined (not required for males on this question). Discussion follows on whether women lie about body count; whether men care about body count is insecure or a valid preference.

04:30:00
Marriage, alimony, and divorce laws

Matthew (SPEAKER_07) shares his divorce experience: married 8 years, 2 kids, paid 4 years of alimony, ex-wife (former hair stylist) became a millionaire. Community property law: she got half of gifts he bought himself. Brian: California divorce laws disincentivize men from marrying; 80% of divorces initiated by women. Lydia (SPEAKER_02) argues marriage provides stability and security for women; security for men too. Brian: marriage gives women financial incentive to leave; no equivalent incentive to stay. Matthew: would not get married again; dates for connection without needing marriage. JoJo (SPEAKER_09): would not change her last name; does not care about marriage either way. Discussion of prenups; attorney financial incentives; community property quirks.

04:43:00
Kylie's 15-year relationship and chaotic ex

Brian probes Kylie (SPEAKER_05) on her 15-year on/off relationship with a bipolar man. They met at 14 (friends in high school), dated from college (age 20) to 32. Three breakups; she initiated last two, he initiated the middle one. He was bipolar (undiagnosed), manic, made bad decisions: got shot in college during police raid over a weed plant; physical violence with Kylie once; involved in criminality; drug addiction. Passed away from overdose ~1 year before this taping. Kylie had one other relationship (3 years; rebound from high school friend; ended due to stagnation and dead bedroom). Brian: she gave her best years (20-34) to a chaotic drug addict. Now in a 10-month talking stage with a man who returned from oil rig work in Texas.

05:39:00
Does men disliking challenges in dating make them beta?

Twitter post debated: "men don't want soft feminine women — they want bold dominant women who are submissive for them." Brian disagrees: he does not want a woman who plays hard to get or is a challenge. Nala (SPEAKER_10) argues that playing hard to get creates more excitement (hunter-gatherer). Brian: Proverbs 21:19 ("better to live in a desert than with a quarrelsome wife"). Matthew (SPEAKER_07): men like conquest; the challenge aspect makes some sense. Lydia (SPEAKER_02): going to take her husband's last name; finds independence compatible with femininity. Brian: the most alpha men have women throwing themselves at them; the chase is a waste of time. "Play hard to get, quickly become hard to want."

06:16:57
Nala Ray "SAVED" — OnlyFans quit announcement

Brian plays a clip of prior Whatever guest Nala Ray (not present in studio) apparently quitting OnlyFans. Brian takes full credit for this decision on behalf of the Whatever Podcast. Panel reacts. Brian then discusses OnlyFans with Julie (SPEAKER_03): what it would take for Julie to quit. Julie: equivalent-paying legitimate job. Works enough hours to pay rent and fund school. Does not do custom/DM content; just posts. Boyfriend does not subscribe; she has not asked him. Does not want to do OnlyFans forever; plans to use degree after graduation.

Transcript

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JoJothe guests introduce themselves so please tell us your name age location so where you're from and occupation go ahead um my name is JoJo I'm a full-time student getting my masters in international Affairs um and I twitch
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Juliestream on the side at kerine all right welcome back hi uh I'm Julie I'm a uh full-time student I'm from British Columbia Canada and I
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Maliatwitch stream as well age uh 25 25 all right what about you I'm Malia I'm 27 years old I work for an only fans management agency and I also twitch
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Brian Atlasstream wait coming back to you really quick in your pre-show notes to us you said you're a certified I thought it was funny but now I have to answer for my crimes yeah cuz I mean we asked your occupation so why don't you
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Juliejust I just thought it was funny I think uh when I say it people are like what the hell is she talking about I didn't state it so why don't you state it I'm a certified ehore so what is that what is a
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Brian Atlascertified ehore sleding out online sling out online for attention money whatever Glory yeah yeah to O primarily yeah okay how do you become certified is there a
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Brian Atlascourse you have to take or no I certified her you certified she's certified you have you work for a agency right yeah we certified her you certified her yeah
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Nalaokay all right uh what about you hi my name is NAA I'm 23 years old I'm from Dallas Texas um currently I'm a student studying business I'm also a mental
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Nalahealth Advocate and do some businesses and side jobs here and there your mental health Advocate yes you really did a number on my mental health by being an hour late to the podcast I truly
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Nalaapologize for that and like I mentioned in the DM when I was ping up I did say that I'm sorry I do believe that punctuality is very important so very important yeah for sure do you do you think punctuality is important I do
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Brian Atlasbelieve that so how would you mentally Advocate you're mental health Advocate you said how would you Advocate like for for me to regain my mental health after this rather a like I'm not a mental
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Nalahealth professional like I would call your therapist I'm sorry okay I see bad I I think I do I probably I probably need that okay what what about you my
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Brian Atlasname is Kylie I'm 30 into please you were an hour and 30 minutes late speak to the microphone thank you I'm 34 I was
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TTS Donation Readeran hour and a half late yep say it again it's so I am a bartender a yoga teacher
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Kylieoh my God who the hell K and I'm here training for Game Day Men's Health it's a men's health optimization Clinic Men's Health like
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Kyliemen's mental health no just Men's Health in general Sexual Health their sexual health like testosterone therapy like an alternative to medications for dealing with hormonal issues for
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Kyliemen like what is that like what's what's the other forms I'm curious so a lot of men have a lot of trouble getting like women pregnant or they deal with
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Kyliedysfunction issues sure Ed yeah and so it's it helps men climb up out of like those situations without having to take a medication you're about a foot away
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Brian Atlasfrom the microphone take a medication or anything like that you know what I mean fall into a depression you can screw your chair into the into the table we
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Brian Atlaswe I feel like I would maybe you could like I I would get Ed if a woman was an hour and a half late to like a date or a
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Kyliepodcast okay and and I that would maybe she can give you like a discount like coupon I'm good I ended up here and
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Brian Atlasthat's that's just what happened and I apologize you can at the end we'll reevaluate okay wait you guys came from
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KylieLa too right and you guys were perfectly on time I thank you guys for being punctual they're from the area they they understand the traffic they understand
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Kyliehow the City Works it's quite different from Florida like you have to account for it it is what do you mean it's different from Florida you guys have tons of traffic it takes a lot longer to
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Brian Atlasget from a shorter distance didn't you wait you where's ocean she said she's coming from Oceanside correct that's further than is that fur that's further south it was over 3 and a half hours I
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Kyliewas on the road okay Oceanside far has more and I just flew here from Florida I got here at 9:30 this morning so in my
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Naladefense I'm sorry she's from Canada she came from Canada about that guys with me how about that that's further than Florida okay all right yeah punctuality is important but also like honesty and
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Kylieowning up to the fact that we were late we're like okay and honesty there wasn't much accountability there was not much accountability this is my accountability like it wasn't that I came here I came here for training for another job like
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Brian Atlasbut I really enjoy watching this podcast and I think it's important for men and women to have conversations and I do hopefully the conversations start on time though I think that's typically an
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Brian Atlasimportant component of of uh you know but uh to be fair you you are like the
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Brian Atlaslatest person we've ever had we made an like we could have just not even let you on the show I went to a Baptist school
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Brian Atlastill 8th grade and they P that's they paddled you I have they did paddle me cuz you were late all the time is this like a recurring theme in your life Lon
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Kyliedid not work your lack of punctuality no it is not it's not often that I fly into California for a podcast I apologize all right uh Maddie what about
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TTS Donation Readeryou my name is Madison I living on this cord donated $100 thought the girl was a she male heard her talk about testosterone
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Brian Atlasreplacement and now I'm fully convinced let's see that Adam's Apple girl thank you living appreciate it um
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Brian Atlasdo you want to respond to his accusations fine allegations do you want to dis dispel he's calling you man I I'm not going to show him my vagina I think we're good on that one but it's
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Madisongotten so serious what's it going to take to prove to somebody right oh you could just say no I'm a woman I am a woman okay there you have it all right Madison what about you Madison 19 I'm from San Diego California
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MadisonI work for the whatever podcast and I'm a full-time student at Santa barbar City College studying business and communication all right welcome Madison I'm Lydia I'm 21 and I am a spokesperson and social media content
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Lydiacoordinator for students life of America and I'm also a full-time student at Campbell University in North Carolina all right welcome Matthew Gallagher 38
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Matthew Gallagherlive in LA and I'm a CEO all right of what what what are you what are you the CEO of give us some details well I have the world's largest
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Matthew Gallagherwatch Club it's called watch gang.com shout out shout out to watch gang.com thank you for coming he's the CEO of we give away a Rolex every Friday there you
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Brian Atlasgot it folks W there you wait sorry your age again I I I'm 21 21 got it okay all right do we Linger on the the punctuality thing no like honestly we
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Kyliecan have way more better interesting conversations have mercy I rail that other girl out for not coming and I was like well I cannot not come that's for sure okay all right um we're going to
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Brian Atlaswe're going to go around the table off to a great start right guys uh typical all right guys going around the table once more current relationship status single talking stage situationship
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Brian AtlasFriends with Benefits relationship married polyle sex cult whatever it may be if uh you're single how long have you been single and what's the longest relationship you've ever been in go ahead single for over two years longest
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JoJorelationship four years any any prospects since your appearance since last time no oh I mean prospects are yes people have slid in my DMs but it's not nothing I'm I'm still same opinion can I have you just pull
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Julieyour microphone to the edge of the table scoot it this way yeah perfect what about you uh I'm in a longdistance relationship for about seven months now but my longest relationship was five
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Brian Atlasyears five years okay uh long-distance relationship where does he live Texas he's in Texas and you're in Canada mhm when's the last time you saw him in person December in December yeah I'm
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Brian Atlasgoing to go see him next month though how did you guys meet online online mhm he twitch streams as well he's a twitch streamer mhm are you able to disclose
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Juliehis who he is he it's uh irrelevant he does like uh political uh content Hassan no irrelevant irrelevant irrelevant the username oh that's his name his name's
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Brian AtlasIR relevant yeah interesting he's relevant yeah sorry well my podcast is called the whatever podcast um wait so you guys met online mhm is what's his
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Brian Atlaspolitical leanings like probably left I guess probably left you guess it's it's very far left my bad my bad so like when you say very far left is
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Julieare we talking he's a socialist um Progressive leftist what do we I I don't know probably Progressive leftist I know about socialism though I mean you've been dating him for seven months yeah we don't talk about politics
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Brian Atlasthat often really so like what if you're like full-blown like super farri conservative I don't know if that's the case for you but wouldn't that be a mismatch you think of values um yeah I mean I guess we've talked about them but
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Brian Atlasnot enough for him to like tell me exactly what he is okay all right and who who contacted who um he was a chatter in my chat for a while okay so I guess he contacted me he was a chatter
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Brian Atlaswas did he wait hold on whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa I think I just exposed him acent so was in addition to him being a
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Brian Atlaschatter in your Twitch chat was he also subbing to your o no no definitely would that have been like would you if
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Juliehe was sub to it I'd be a little weirded out probably why is that um I think probably people who sub to my off probably would treat me differently than people who were just in my twitch chat
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Juliethey'd look at me differently for sure okay so he reached out to you mhm through the twitch chat like he hit on you in the twitch chat he didn't on he he ra he would be in my twitch chat like talking to me and then he raided me and
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Maliathen I thanked him for the raid and then we just kind of start started talking from there how many times have you guys met up in person like three times three times okay H unique okay what about you um I'm single still haven't been on a
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Maliadate still no dates since your last appearance still C still been single for 2.5 years 2.5 years my longest relationship was three and a half years three
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Brian Atlasyears why are you guys single I don't like it's it's not that you're single currently but you've been single for such a long period of time we are insufferable I'm just kidding no I don't
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Nalaknow why you're framing a question like singles being like not good like no I would like a boyfriend right well that there you go there's there's the problem then and I wouldn't because I again it's
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Brian Atlasjust I want to finish school I feel like that's just you said you're if I recall you said you were getting your Masters in what international Affairs International Affairs okay public
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Brian Atlaspolicy policy making so you wait you you've been celibate mhm for how long uh it's been almost two years yeah okay
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Unknownwith that you also have you you been selib it too or um yeah uh yeah for for yeah a few months yeah few hours that's crazy wait for real though
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JoJolike I'm just kidding like a week ago no I haven't I haven't slept with oh wait hold on you totally revealed it no no no it like a week ago no I didn't I I haven't slept well when we say the when
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Nalawe say body count it's going to be the same because I haven't slept with anyone okay all right what about you I'm currently single and I'm not really looking to like get a boyfriend per se
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Nalalike I would like to go on dates or would go on like casual could you close but um it's mo more so like focused just because I'm doing full-time uh school doing like 30 hours U work like with my
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Brian Atlasjob and business and I am also doing like so many different projects and hobbies that it's just kind of with my schedule okay uh so you've been single for how long oh hold on I need to know
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Brian Atlaswhat the blank is going on with Madison Herman is not being represented properly okay that's a
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Brian Atlascool I think it's great yeah um it looks amazing okay cool thank you
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Brian Atlasguys uh so you've been single for how long um since 2021 2021 yeah wait was that the event um was that the occurrence should we Nick do you want to
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Brian Atlaspull up the New York Post article do you know what I'm talking about yeah um is that you've been single since the occurrence yes to the question well wait mson can you read this makes sense only
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Madisona leftwing beta cup would be with a certified e you can have her man once again off to a great start already I knew I smelled fish in the air just the whatever pod W welcome to the whatever
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Brian Atlaspodcast okay I'm good with that that's a good one it's funny um where were we oh uh longest relationship um like year year and a
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Brian Atlashalf one year yeah uh just for context people we've had I've been I've been mercilessly roasting na here uh but
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Brian Atlaswe've had her on the show before um despite her just p p p pull up the article pull
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Nalaup the article okay you might remember her she's um oh you stabbed a hookup can you give us the I would frame it that way but I'm happy to like
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Nalaexplain it yeah yeah do you want to like give us the plot synopsis on the story sure yeah earlier in the podcast I mentioned I'm a mental health Advocate and um you know in life not everybody's going to be perfect people are going to
00:17:48
Nalamake mistakes the mistakes might be small might might be like you forgot you keys at your house it might be mistake that I did at the level that I did you know it's definitely not something that
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NalaI'm proud of of but um I did have a situation in which um I wasn't taking my Med prescribed medications and you know with inclusion of like um drugs and
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Nalaalcohol again not an excuse just providing context um those kind of situation especially as someone who is suffering from bipolar and schizophrenia
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Nalais kind of challenging in a way because uh it puts you in an unstable mood and for those who you don't know um those the hallucinations or the delusions that
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Nalapeople have but those conditions are very real and sometimes it's very hard to like distinguish like what is real yeah so tell us what happened right for
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Nalasure um so I was in Las Vegas and I moved there to pursu my music career and I ended up chatting with um a guy over
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Nalaum on a Plenty of Fish app and it ended up just progressing and you know we ended up um wanting to he picked me up to go to a hotel for like a date and
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Nalagoing from there it was just you know sorry I'm like trying to compose myself because it's kind of hard um but I ended
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Nalaup I having um like sexual intimacy in a way and I did um harm him and stop him twice in the neck during sex so did he
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Kyliedie no alive not was your relationship was to volatile towards one another like bro she met him on a dating app there was no relationship hallucination yeah like
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Nalathat's why I was like let me provide the contact person and I'll say it because I'm like people did did you bring the knife into the bed preparing for that I mean it was a hotel room so I had my
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Nalaknife in my bag and just for because of like security and like Vegas is like kind of dangerous and people told me that so I never had like intentions to just go up there and just like I don't
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Nalaknow but like given the mental health aspect and the hallucinations and the delusions I had it kind of led up to that um nothing against him but you know sometimes
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Nalayou're not in the right space and you end up creating harm did you go on a second date with him I did not so like did you get in trouble like did he press charges
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Unknownanything um yeah you were arrested right yeah and there's a case it was a news article of course things happen well yeah so like the kiss is closed down is it because ofal mental health like when
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Brian Atlasyou stab like what did he do when you stabbed him wait oh what did he like is the framing of the question what did he
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Nalado to deserve it or honestly both like 100% my delusions my hallucinations there wasn't anything
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Nalathat he done that like you know um we had like conversations in the car and like anything that would like it would trigger Trier me like I would see a sloth machine for some reason the lights would like be blinking and it would just
00:21:03
Nalamake me upset so you could have like the most regular conversation with me and I would just get upset and mad like for no reason okay and then what did he do
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Nalaafter this happened yeah so the first um poke I guess poke wow uh he didn't do
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Nalaanything um and then the second time he start he got up and like started choking me but obviously self-defense
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JoJooh yeah wow so well like how did like did you get it were you in jail like what was the consequences of it because
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JoJoyou are me like mentally ill like were you able to not uh go to I guess the Cent to jail you speak rected um I was I
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Naladid um I did go to jail um I bailed out and then had my case going on and then I ended up taking a plea deal um to to CS
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Nalaof false imprisonment which I'm serving probation for currently and just for clarification when I when the news articles are reporting like twice in a
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NalaNick stab that was a that's a wording that I used when the police were inter were interrogating like inter interrogating me um but when you look at
00:22:19
Nalathe evidence in the pictures the wounds were so minor that he didn't go to the hospital again totally not okay to like even the small ones are not okay but
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Nalajust for clarification purposes the word stab was involved in the case because of my words why did the the news article mentioned salomani as like like did it say that you stabbed him in like revenge
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Nalaagainst that or um yeah was the because like after the incident the police were questioning me too you know um like typical like I guess that's how they do like certain cases but um because of the
00:22:55
Nalahallucinations and the delusions I had um I just ended up saying things that I didn't like truly believe in I don't know if you've seen Homeland um Carrie from Homeland but she has the she has
00:23:06
Nalalike I for anybody who''s seen it it's um she has bipolar disorder and you can kind of see it in that context and she plays a role that is involved in like movies and like different like
00:23:17
Nalainterrogations between international relations and I really thought that I was like I had to say that or like I said it um obviously see my words it's
00:23:29
Nalaon a video can't take it back but um just for purposes of the podcast or like just anybody watching 100% do not
00:23:39
Brian Atlassupport solomani or anything you you were in a altered state and what you
00:23:46
Brian Atlastold the uh detective or investigator you told him that you uh attacked this Tinder date who you just met as a
00:23:57
Brian Atlasrevenge for the the killing of the Solomon how do you pronounce his name um is that is that is that accurate yeah okay and so you were arrested how
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Nalalong you but you said you bailed out how long were you in jail I was in jail for 6 weeks and six weeks yeah and took you okay but also like I bail that immediately but I had to stay there for
00:24:21
Nala6 weeks because the judge didn't think I was mentally competent enough to stand trial so I had to go through like psychological Val valuation and competency hearings to like to even
00:24:32
Brian Atlasbefore they even proceed with my case to see if I'm competent okay and so the trial you took a plea deal and part of that plea deal it got pleaded down to what what was the um two
00:24:45
Brian Atlascounts of false imprisonment two counts of false imprisonment and you no jail time no prison time correct it's suspend and under probation yes how
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Nalalong how much probation did you get um so it's like three to five years but like I mean it's the Contex dependent yeah so Nick can you pull up that
00:25:05
Brian Atlasthere's an article of a California woman who was in a weed induced psychosis and she um using her words poked her
00:25:17
Brian Atlasboyfriend he she deleted him and also attacked her dog uh and she got off on probation can you LA Times I don't know just whichever times typically has blocks or
00:25:32
Brian Atlaswhatever you got it us if there's any pay walls it's not going to go through it's not just can you pull it up I believe I've seen it
00:25:42
Brian Atlasmaybe but maybe uh CL Exile that thing at the top please scroll up no like a make a
00:25:52
Brian Atlasbigger uh so this is a somewhat similar case sort of she stabbed a man 108 times and got Pro ation okay
00:26:02
Brian Atlasum what to know about K she's on weed I guess killed a man and harmed grievously harmed a dog not I we kind of talked about this
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Brian Atlason the previous show I'm not going to linger on it too long but uh if we put a man in your position if we put a man in that woman's position the California woman who killed her boyfriend she got
00:26:28
Brian Atlasoff on probation bro it there would be significantly long prison sentences so that that's like the most insane example
00:26:39
Nalaof female privilege I've ever seen I mean I've mentioned it in the previous context uh like the podcast but it's very cont context specific there's many different factors that play into it like PR previous there's no scenario where
00:26:52
Brian AtlasI'm criminal background history doesn't matter does doesn't matter can you not interrupt in respect when I'm speaking well as the host I will I will gladly interrupt you whenever I I I feel like it um okay well if you ask a question
00:27:05
Brian Atlasthen let me know if it's such a it's such an absurd statement to say like a man the same lack of criminal history if
00:27:15
Brian Atlasa man were to have sliced his Tinder date if a man were to have deleted his girlfriend there would be like very long
00:27:26
Nalaprison sentences there wouldn't be probation there wouldn't be 100 hours of community service whatever it is can it's [ __ ] crazy yeah go ahead okay um with very context specific like your previous criminal history what kind of
00:27:39
Nalacourt you are in the specific State many different state and judges have like different law laws and regulations but also I think one thing that's really important is to consider that sentencing in the in the justice system is one
00:27:51
Nalafactor of the entire Justice System if you look at different things like the amounts of death that happen in prisons
00:27:58
Nala29% of women get are harmed or died in a prison or jail more than a manwood this was a study that was done I would have to look at the statistic but
00:28:11
Brian Atlasthere's no are are you making the argument that female prisons are are less safe than male prisons is that your research on what specific Factor do know
00:28:24
Brian Atlasthat for sure women arefe women are Mo oh my have you seen prison like any prison documentary I have my phone there
00:28:35
Nalaif you want me to pull up the study I'll bring it I would argue oh my bro this is like the most okay repeat it one more time like I'll gladly bring it to you
00:28:46
Nalalike it's a it's a study it was done and it said like women are more likely to die or get harmed in a prison than men
00:28:55
Brian Atlasare that is the most ridiculous thing I've ever heard women in prison are much more safe than men in prison I mean I would bring with the study now but you
00:29:06
Nalahave your regulations and stuff about the podcast and I want to be respectful because phone's being there but after a show or I'm actually curious there's no way there I mean Nick you can Google it there's
00:29:19
JoJothere's it's plausible CU like what if there's more holy [ __ ] I was going to say what if there learn something well what if it's more like there's more security or something like
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Kyliethat I don't know I wouldn't know but maybe my argument is that women are affected differently by going to prison versus men like when women go to prison they're more likely to maybe maybe reform and do something about their
00:29:41
Kylielives versus men it takes a maybe a longer sentence or something harsher to like teach them the lesson that makes them change what's that movie with with
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Brian AtlasNikolai called d uh what's who's the guys uh from Game of Thrones who played Jamie Lannister what's that movie he's in anybody know no no what's that
00:30:03
Brian Atlasanybody in the chat uh the movie with uh the Jamie Lister from Game of Thrones Nikolai shot caller bro imagine they made that movie but
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Nalalike the flip the genders there's no way dude there's no way um that's ridiculous I'm sorry I don't have stud going back to the point it's just like the justice system you have your sentence and you have the
00:30:27
Nalaexperience in prison like there's different like things that H like are considered things that you would want to look at when you like are trying to see if a certain gender is preferred or not but yes sentencing that might be the
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Matthew Gallaghercase but in different circumstances you were there for 6 weeks yes did you see any violence or anybody get harmed while you were there yes did you get harmed I did not but you know what was like the
00:30:51
Nalayou mentioned like unsafe what was like the what was like the safety issue that you saw um like fights being T like breaking out people just like you see anybody like get shanked or
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Nalasomething um like honestly I'm not going to like go into detail on that but there was like fights that I saw or people just getting pulled out and put in separ different areas or you know yeah the
00:31:14
Matthew Gallagherstudy doesn't sound plausible I mean I I would want to see it 29% I want to see that for sure did you Google this in high school my freshman year after coming from Baptist school so I also feel like there's a big
00:31:26
TTS Donation Readerdifference between saying they got y Nick the audio is muted is a man could get the death sentence in a state that allows it if he did that crime she did to the man like yo James thank you for the TTS
00:31:39
Brian Atlassorry that we missed the beginning of it I'm studying criminal justice a man could get the death sentence in the state that allows it if he did that crime so she did to the man like OMG um
00:31:50
Brian AtlasI think there was another $100 y we missed Nick why was the audio muted all right here I'll re-trigger it
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Brian AtlasI'm not trying to be uh blank here but if the roles were reversed with the same mental issues the man would be would face a harsher sentence in jail or prison uh thank you Bender the offender appreciate it and it respond to that I
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Nala100% agree with you Bender the offender yeah um sorry can I okay so it respond to that um you know obviously mental health played a really big significant factor but I also had zero criminal
00:32:26
TTS Donation Readerhistory um was doing well in school and the Bron donated $100 is JoJo going to auction that chair
00:32:35
TTS Donation Readershe's sitting on asking for a friend say Christ is Lord who's JoJo that's me oh oh gosh okay he's back starting again
00:32:44
Brian Atlashe's back how much wait uh the Bron SS actually I think he dm' me on Instagram uh I'll sell it to you for like he was serious 5,000 I think she should 10,000 she
00:32:56
Julieshould get a cut I can I get like she should get a cut she should get a cut I'll get I'll buy you a hamburger come on I was just going to say something
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TTS Donation Readerin donated $100 question for the ladies would any of you date Brian also 777 deilan
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TTS Donation Readerm777 777 name 10 books name 10 books um which one do you want to answer okay I'll just have you name 10 books and then you can
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JoJoanswer the first question okay uh like Child Called It the Bible People magazine People magazine
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JoJokiding um uh Giving Tree uh Lord the rings of the book series um do you want me can I can name franchises too Harry
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JoJoPotter that's good good job I'm proud of you oh thank you so much Hunger Games
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Unknownum why am I bling on the book it's fine um the bassoon k King negotiations and strategies um it's beautiful uh
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Brian Atlasgreat doing great keep going thank you um born of crime all right we we'll just we'll ask the question we'll go around the table on it um I was I'm I was pretty much a
00:34:46
Brian Atlasmassive [ __ ] today so I'm pretty sure it's going to be no go but uh the TTS ask would you would you date me I don't know you behind the scenes enough yeah
00:34:58
TTS Donation Readerso but maybe if you're like a super cool person behind the scenes like I'm I'm not I'm not probably not you're not like super cool oh okay okay I'm so glad I'm not dating donated
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TTS Donation Reader$100 if it is going to auction I would love to put in my offer upon acquiring it I would immediately donate it to Jay Butler for research purposes I'm sure
00:35:19
Brian Atlasthe amount of data would be astounding uh okay thank you man yeah you're welcome to maybe we'll do like an eBay auction or some [ __ ] I don't know how to what's the that
00:35:32
Brian Atlasthat big what's the company that does the auctions for really expensive art pieces is it uh it Masterworks SES oh SES Saab bees
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Brian Atlasis that the auction wait or what what's the one chat s s is it SES that does like the here's the uh lenardo Da Vinci for hundred
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Juliemillion Saab okay um where were oh yeah I guess you can answer um besides the fact that I'm in a relationship I also don't know anything about you so no okay you guys are all right you guys are
00:36:05
Maliabeing nice okay um you're really quite nice all around my general experience I know people no people give me [ __ ] people give me a lot of [ __ ] for coming on this podcast but I'm like they're
00:36:16
TTS Donation Readerreally good hosts they're really respectable they're really nice darken 42 donated $100 from PBS while women comprised
00:36:26
TTS Donation Reader16.1% of all jail deaths in 2018 that has increased from 10% in 2000 article is called why more women are dying in
00:36:36
Brian Atlasjails it's not more than men H oh this is like I don't remember it being from PBS oh you know what this reminds me of
00:36:44
Brian Atlasif any of you guys are aw there was um this article about how female journalists there was an increase like a
00:36:54
Brian Atlasgreater uh percentage increase in female journalist deaths like if they're in a a war zone for example and but it was very
00:37:05
Brian Atlaslike this is how feminists will like [ __ ] mangle the truth 90% of all the deaths uh of all uh deaths by
00:37:16
Brian Atlasjournalists were male but because there was like from from a one year to the next year there was like a a slight increase in the female deaths they used huh I think I
00:37:28
Brian Atlashave it okay with the one I'm referencing yeah uh in 2021 the percentage of women among all journalists killed almost doubled rising
00:37:35
Brian Atlasto 11% from 6% the previous year um wait percentage of women among so it's like well okay who's the other
00:37:48
Brian Atlas89% men so it's like it's oh there's oh Nick could you Google there's this um one in five home homeless are women can you
00:37:59
KylieGoogle that one it's just like well okay four out of five homeless are men you got that one the world doesn't care about men unfortunately right now
00:38:11
Brian Atlasnot being it might just be a uh wait oht wait did we miss one of the ttss or no it came through right uh I'll read it so the system decided to let you
00:38:24
Brian Atlasfree so the woman's death rate in jail would not increase so now you roaming with innocent people daily and if the lights flicker you may poke again I don't think that's the case because I've also I have my uh treatment regimen I
00:38:38
Nalasee a therapist and a psychologist regularly but also I'm in school and I had a 4.0 last semester and I'm working um with my businesses and stuff so if
00:38:49
Nalayou can improve from a mistake and learn what you should have done in the first place and improve on that and make a drastic change in your life I think why
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Brian Atlasnot yeah I mean that's good I just the the I I almost don't want to linger on it too long because it's such an absurd topic but this idea that women's prisons
00:39:12
Brian Atlasand jails are more violent than men's prisons is just it's ridiculous like you can even you can probably look at the statistics okay who's more likely to be
00:39:24
Brian Atlasassaulted in jail who's more likely to be killed in jail and then just even go look there's there's like dozens of these prison shows jail shows look at
00:39:34
Brian Atlasthe conditions in the male prisons and compare them to the conditions in the female prisons like California the racial segregation in the prisons is insane like the the racial politics in
00:39:46
Brian Atlasthe P I don't know if I don't think there's a corresponding like racial politics in California prisons when it comes to women right but also the studies are
00:39:57
Nalalike what we pulled up was that or whoever sent that message um said that war wom are like dying or from the different studies that compared to men but it didn't specifically say that it's
00:40:10
Nalabecause of the violence like she mentioned it might be like due to me mental health and um different women women and men are biologically built differently so experience of a prison is going to be
00:40:22
Brian Atlassignificantly different between the you think it's going to be you think it's harder for women in prison than for men yes holy [ __ ] it's
00:40:36
Brian Atlasdifferent I I don't even know like where how to tackle it's such a absurd position like in a dating world you
00:40:48
Nalawould say like just for theoretical purposes you would want like an alpha male who's very confident outgoing that leader and the woman is supposed to be the submissive the one that is able to
00:40:57
Nalalike be caring and you know um so I guess what I'm trying to say is even in like a different context there's always going to be a difference in how women
00:41:08
Matthew Gallagherand men are within their traits what when it comes to their experiences and different conditions like such as so the percentage you said before I think we all took that as like they're physically being harmed or killed at a higher rate
00:41:20
Nalathan men but are you saying that they experience it in a harsher manner because they're not like equipped for it mentally what I'm saying is that um that specific study didn't say x
00:41:30
Nalaamount of percentage was from like direct violence x amount was from mental health like specific things they might have done in prison or you know I'm just saying like there's different ways that
00:41:43
Nalayou could be harmed in prison that is not directly correlated to like direct violence as Ryan was mentioning because he mentioned like the conditions of the prisons but I'm like okay well that might be the case but the harm and the
00:41:54
Naladeath might not be directly correlated or we are uh the stud is unsure of like the direct percentage it was just looking at the percentage of deaths in women's prisons and men's prisons so
00:42:05
Madisonwhat was the word they used to generalize like did they just say are less safe that percent of women are less safe or what was the word they use in
00:42:16
Nalathe study I mean I kind of really want to pull it up but um like more women die in prisons than men do you're saying death or harm death okay yeah
00:42:27
Matthew Gallagheryou lost me on that cuz I mean they definitely don't die at higher rates than men I mean you you know you kind of make a point about women not like tolerating prison as well like that kind of makes sense but if you're talking about physical violence and deaths I
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Maliawouldn't I wouldn't see how that could be high believe harm cuz like women probably self-report more but I don't I don't think death is end up with much much longer sentences so they're going
00:42:50
TTS Donation Readerto be dying more I feel like yeah men are harsh in prison acting like I've been there before are you saying TR donated
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TTS Donation Reader$100 only way I could see this being a true step is if they are counting trans women killing in women's prison either way this is a wild claim it's super wild I
00:43:15
Brian Atlasmean if you even look at these prison documentary shows what's the popular one does anybody know the name of that show like for women no
00:43:27
Brian Atlasthere's like a [ __ ] show been on for 20 20 years it talks about it like goes into the prisons and
00:43:35
Nalalike man I it's just totally uncomparable it's such a wild claim like I don't even know how to [ __ ] address it I guess we're just going to disagree and I'll show you the link
00:43:48
Brian Atlasafter the show so I don't know what else to do I mean okay so let's start here is your position that per capita more women are physically
00:44:00
Nalaassaulted because you agree that can you like Define what you mean by like per capita like what do you are you like looking okay do you acknowledge that there's more men in prison than women so
00:44:10
Brian Atlasif we're looking at the total numbers there's obviously more men more men in total that are physically harmed in
00:44:21
Brian Atlasprison right or do you disagree even with that I don't disagree with that certainly okay so for example per capita okay let's say
00:44:31
Brian Atlasthere's let's say there's a prison with 100 men and then there's a prison with 10 women so if 10 men and one woman get harmed that
00:44:44
Brian Atlasthat would be equal 10% of the population but there's still more men that are harmed well in is that what you're talking about are you talking per
00:44:54
Nalacapita if it's percentage he makes a great it's it's percentage Yeah so okay I would percentage though even per cap the points that like right but I'm just
00:45:06
Brian Atlasmaking sure we're talking about the same thing I would argue though per capita there's no way that female prisons are more violent than male prisons have you been there no I've not
00:45:17
Madisonbeen to a female prison I me you literally said all you saw was fights you think men in prison don't fight no I was just curious like you're so passionate about it so I thought
00:45:28
Kyliemaybe you have some experience there no it's just like it's women are way more likely to use like manipulative tactics and like things like that versus like
00:45:40
Kyliephysical violence especially in a setting like prison like men are going to reduce to like bumping heads versus women are going to like all right well I'm do things we're just going to move
00:45:50
Brian Atlason CU it's going to eat up too much time but I mean that's a absurd claim um all right uh oh the I think the last thing
00:46:00
Kylieon that just was uh I have all the questions I think I'm uh in a situationship um for the last year it
00:46:11
Kylieused to be long distance but he just moved back into my town um and then before that I was with kind of my best friend from high school like college
00:46:21
Kyliesweetheart on and off for like 13 years and then a big chunk in the middle there off a
00:46:30
Kyliebig chunk in the middle off of that relationship so you've been single for how long or you're in a sorry you're in a talking stage I've been single for
00:46:41
Kylieyeah I'm in a talking stage so single for about since like 2020 but you're in a talking stage yeah
00:46:50
Kyliethat's been going on for how long like 10 months he used to live in Texas he worked on an oil rig so he would like come into town every so often okay
00:47:01
Kyliewhat's your longest relationship um like straight through five five years five years okay
00:47:11
Brian Atlasum the final point on that and I think I pulled it up is um the what's it called I'll just restate my position in your case and in that woman's case the
00:47:24
Brian AtlasCalifornia woman who uh deleted her boyfriend again flip the genders if men were to do that they would be they wouldn't get off on probation or community
00:47:34
Madisonservice just saying but we can agree to disagree okay what about you Madison I'm in a relationship my current one is my longest it's been a year and a half a
00:47:47
Lydialittle over all right what about you um I'm currently engaged um to thank you um my fiance who I met online in high school so I've been with him the longest I've known him for about four years but
00:47:58
Matthew Gallagherwe've been dating for three three years okay all right Matt what about you I am single for the past month or so and uh longest relationship 8 years eight years were
00:48:11
Unknownyou married or yes yeah I was married married okay um was that your only marriage it was how long ago did you uh get divorced we got divorced 5 years ago
00:48:22
Matthew Gallagher5 years ago okay and um who initiated that was you was it m was it Mutual was it her I mean it's never fully Mutual right but I I would I initiated and then we kind of just talked it out and agreed
00:48:34
Brian Atlasokay and you sorry you said you were Mar so you're married for 5 years no eight years ex eight years and it ended five years ago okay gotcha and you kind of wanted it it sounded like more so on
00:48:45
Matthew Gallagheryour side you wanted it to yeah yeah any reason why or yeah I mean we have kids we were fighting a lot in front of the kids and I come from kind of that so I
00:48:55
TTS Donation Readerwanted to you know and that cycle I see okay how many kids do you have two two kids all right Devon Jackson donated $100 just to put the nail in the bed of
00:49:06
TTS Donation Readerthe jail thing the study sh undoubtedly quoting states that women in 2018 had a 7% higher mortality rting jails than men due to illness suicide and overdose okay
00:49:18
Brian Atlasit's actually a very good way to get around that that word thank you Devon Jackson um yeah it's just it's such a ridiculous
00:49:28
Brian Atlasclaim but I we're not going to linger on it too long um and it's not something I've done enough research on to be able to perfectly articulate like a
00:49:38
Brian Atlascounterargument too so I'll have to research it and yeah but on its face it occurs to me that it's just ridiculous um so okay let's see here quite an interesting start of the
00:49:51
Brian Atlasshow so far let me read a couple chats we have a few and then I'll get into some of my pre-show questions Alberta Sovereign to the girl dating the Canadian communist actually Maddie can
00:50:01
Madisonyou continue reading it if he's a supporter of the dictator Justin Trudeau she's at she's at least buying need medication and BR get yourself a tan and a real
00:50:13
Julieman do you have a response to Alberta uh I probably need medication in a prayer but I don't like Justin Trudeau so and we're getting her a tan yeah I'll get a tan before I leave what part of Canada are you from uh I'm from Vancouver
00:50:26
MadisonIsland okay you don't speak French do you no not that's not this French speaking part mie transwoman in parentheses actual men are being allowed to stay in female prisons these same people are beating
00:50:39
Madisonand impregnating female prisoners male prisoners are so dangerous they have infiltrated female prison there you have it there you have
00:50:48
Nalait um but they're also like guards who are male in in a female prison you know and there's also female guards in male prisons
00:51:00
Brian Atlasall right let's not linger on the the prison conversation it's just too long okay so let's see here where do we start the rest of the panel
00:51:10
Naladidn't say if they would date you oh right I think everybody's like no probably that's probably we just we just wanted to like you know Bluff it off you know right it's okay if people don't
00:51:22
Brian Atlaswant to dat me I'm not I'm not upset by it it's it's totally fine um well I mean I laid into you and you boyfriend
00:51:31
Brian Atlasboyfriend straight well never say never right Matt I think about it okay um but uh okay just guys
00:51:42
Brian Atlasthis is your chance I talked mad [ __ ] [ __ ] you guys can talk some [ __ ] back no Brian I wouldn't date you you seem very angry H that's such gaslighting though
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Brian Atlassuch gaslighting you know well I feel like your job is such a red flag like I don't know I'm just say like no I get it I I say this on the show I'm like look I get it some some girls maybe a lot of
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Brian Atlaswomen would not want to date me because of the work I do just the same with girls to do only fans a lot of dudes don't want to date them because of the work they do the only difference between me and and them I don't cope about it I
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Brian Atlasjust accept it I I'm not like they're insecure if they don't want to date me right also sex work sex work is totally different than hosting a podcast but uh
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Brian AtlasI don't I don't I'm not like they're insecure and like no if you don't want to date me because of what I do that's totally fine that I don't care but uh
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Julieyeah yeah am I am I the only one with an only fans on this channel right now oh God W's yo W's in the chat only one o o girl sorry guys only one ctif people
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Brian Atlaspeople complain there's too many o girls on the panel so we got panel without o girls just one just one just one just one wait so we did you want to roast did you want to roast oh
00:53:06
Brian Atlasit's cuz oh I'm angry that's right you know I get I tend to be frustrated and angry when people are an hour and a half late to the podcast that they requested
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Kylieto be on that that can perhaps inspire a bit of anger and that's how it goes like it's like that yo speaking to the mic kindly it's that balance of like what
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Brian Atlaswait the balance are you okay so so sorry go ahead go ahead go ahead please I think she's saying that no no no no no wait let her talk let her talk go ahe make no no no make your point
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Brian Atlasgo I apologize for being late no no no no just just make the point you about to make kindly no no no stop stop make the point you were about to make go ahead this is something I was really looking
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Kylieforward to doing and I like did everything in my power to get here and everything else was out of my control I knew exactly what I was is going to come in for I don't know you so I can't like
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Kylieyou know be like okay I'll take a spanking like my bad like or just something like or silly right like you can't what are you going to do you you were about to no no no no no
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Brian Atlasstop you were about to make the point when it comes to being late that this is something that is to be expected when dating let me try to ignite the the
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Kyliethread you were about to lead into well it's when you're dating it's it's like that push pull of the man and the female like the so is your
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TTS Donation Readeryou're saying what that oh my God I'm so glad him not dating donated $100 watch guy maybe a watch giveaway to Harry Potter's dirty we we pull giving
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TTS Donation ReaderAunt ladies would you rather date a super hot loser with no ambition or Donald Trump as he currently is TEF London smiley face well we'll we're going to come back to that but we'll go
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Brian Atlasaround the table on this uh super hot loser with no ambition or Donald Trump as he currently is super hot loser hot loser um neither ideally but I would go
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Nalawith a super hot loser um nobody like not of those not of the above
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Nalathe um I like ambition so I can't do that so oh my God bro say like that's why I was like I don't want to pick like I would just like in
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Brian Atlasthat situation hypothetical it's [ __ ] hypothetical i' rather just be but also like answer the [ __ ] question she said Donald Trump I did
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Madisonwhen she said she like temp she said she'd rather be single let's just go to the next person no this is why you're not datable you don't listen to women no bro no it's your show just listen to my
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Brian Atlasanswer what was your answer my answer you said neither she slipped it in like that's not my fault for not hearing when when it took you [ __ ] an hour to meander your way to the [ __ ] answer I