1 SHOW LEFT?! Andrew Wilson IRL vs. SUPER FEMINISTS! She Did 1 Guy PER DAY?! | Dating Talk #221

Date: 2024-12-16
Duration: 10h 06m

Identified Speakers

SPEAKER_00TTS/Donation(audience)
SPEAKER_02Mandy(guest)
SPEAKER_03Kenna(guest)
SPEAKER_04Mizy(guest)
SPEAKER_05Lucy / Ruby / Riley(guest)
SPEAKER_06Alicia Barbie(guest)
SPEAKER_07TTS/Other(audience)
SPEAKER_08TTS/Other(audience)
SPEAKER_10Brian Atlas(host)
SPEAKER_11Naomi(guest)
SPEAKER_12TTS Reader(audience)
SPEAKER_13Andrew Wilson(guest)
SPEAKER_14Mandy (alt)(guest)

Key Moments

00:08:17
IntroFull panel introductions: Lucy (21, LA, waitress), Mizy (29, Hollywood, streamer/Fish Tank), Ruby (20, Nashville, car dealership), Mandy (20, N.CA, unemployed), Kenna (19, Nashville, OnlyFans), Alicia Barbie (23, Chicago, social media), Naomi (18, SD, OF/vet school), Riley (18, SD, OF/psychology), Andrew Wilson (The Crucible host), Brian Atlas (35, Whatever host).

hi my name is Lucy I'm 21 um I'm from LA and I work as a waitress

00:21:11
QuoteMandy reveals she has a bisexual boyfriend she met on Grindr and that she pegs him. Andrew's reaction is comedic disbelief.

so you went to grinder to try to pick up gay guys I was in a dark place okay Andrew

00:58:02
ControversyAlicia argues that men with high body counts who prefer low body count women are hypocrites. Andrew systematically dismantles the hypocrisy argument, explaining it is a preference not a moral condemnation. Heated back-and-forth.

do you guys think that that's uh problematic for high body count man to be like I only want to date a virgin

01:29:27
Key MomentBrian bets $1,000 that he can beat Lucy at roofing two birdhouses tomorrow, challenging her claim that women face barriers in construction. Lucy accepts with conditions.

if we're talking about like body count... I'll put 1,000 bucks down come in tomorrow

02:42:23
RelationshipSelf-ratings round: Lucy 7, Mizy 7.5, Ruby 4-5, Mandy 8, Alicia 8-9, Naomi 9, Riley 10/6 (day-dependent), Andrew 10, Brian 5.

ask everyone to rate their own looks on a scale of 1 to 10

04:26:21
ControversyMandy tearfully reveals her teenage sex addiction: she contracted stage-2 syphilis at ~17 and unknowingly gave it to her current boyfriend. Very emotional moment; Lucy and Mandy both cry. Andrew makes dark quip about the strap-on.

I I and I just [bleep] up my body I'm sorry it's okay

04:32:42
QuoteLucy empathetically supports Mandy after syphilis revelation: 'you can be vulnerable about it on this with all these people you don't know... this is something that people don't talk about but probably a lot of people go through.'

you're being vulnerable and that's super hard and like scary thank you thank you for sharing

05:06:19
ControversyKenna's pre-show notes reveal she was on every dating app at age 17, sleeping with a different guy roughly every other day for about a month. Brian reads the notes aloud; Kenna confirms and gives details.

no crazy stories other than when you were 17 you were on every dating app imaginable you were getting a different guy every day for about a month

05:08:57
QuoteKenna reveals her total body count is 19, with 15 of those coming in a single month at age 17.

my body counts only 19 so like after that like little phase I'm just like now I'm dating to Mary it's over

05:46:53
Key MomentFull body count round: Alicia 32, Lucy ~25, Mizy did not disclose (7.5 mentioned in context of rating), Ruby 10-12, Mandy ~40, Kenna 19, Naomi ~50, Riley 5, Andrew claims 1 (crowd skeptical), Brian ~5.

some of you already actually stated your body counts but why we just uh starting with you

06:29:39
ControversyAndrew introduces 'faking virtue' concept: women who ordinarily would sleep with a guy quickly but make a different guy wait because they believe he values chastity — tailoring apparent virtue to what the man wants.

I call this phenomenon faking virtue

07:48:58
ControversyAndrew debates whether trans people are obligated to disclose their status before sex. Uses progressively more extreme hypotheticals (mask analogy). Panel and Brian discuss risks of heterosexual men being labeled bigots for not wanting to sleep with trans women.

all I'm asking is that men who generally try to proposition women for sex get rejected

09:00:11
ControversyAlicia and Andrew clash over race and Black history. Alicia struggles to name continents, confuses Cape Cod with Cape Town. Andrew discusses South African land reform and Black-on-Black crime comparisons. The exchange becomes heated before Brian moves on.

are they are they making their mothers their they killed them get together

09:22:49
OtherDonors pay guests to remove makeup and wigs. Most guests comply — transformation is notable (Kenna especially). Alicia initially refuses citing Barbie identity, eventually removes her wig. Chat roasts guests with makeup-related donations.

Makenna do it no excuses play Like A Champion my eyebrows

10:03:17
QuoteBrian announces Tuesday's final show of 2024: Andrew Wilson vs. a mystery guest. Teases it's 'going to be big.'

we will be live again Tuesday at 5:00 PM Pacific for our final show final show of the Year Andrew will be there we have a big guest

Topics Discussed

00:05:38
Guest Introductions & Champagne Pop

Brian introduces the panel; each guest gives name, age, location, occupation. Yellow Banana donor sends champagne pop for Andrew Wilson. Relationship statuses discussed round-table.

00:20:30
Relationship History & Unusual Dynamics

Mandy reveals she has a bisexual/gay boyfriend met on Grindr and pegs him. Kenna discusses recent breakup. Alicia admits to cheating in all relationships despite being married. Father relationship round discussed.

00:58:00
Body Count Hypocrisy Debate

Andrew and Brian debate whether men with high body counts who prefer low-count women are hypocrites. Alicia argues it's hypocritical; Andrew argues preferences are not the same as moral condemnation. Height vs body count comparison. Alicia reveals body count of 32.

01:20:00
Women in Male-Dominated Fields / Gender Roles Debate

Discussion about women working in construction, applied engineering, oil rigs. Brian challenges guest to a roofing competition for $1,000. Nature vs nurture in career choices. Andrew debates with Lucy and others about women's choices vs. societal barriers.

02:42:23
Self-Ratings Round

Guests rate themselves on a scale of 1-10: Lucy 7, Mizy 7.5, Ruby 4-5, Mandy 8, Alicia 8-9, Naomi 9, Riley 10/6 (varies by day). Andrew rates himself 10. Brian rates himself 5.

02:47:00
Will You Be Better Looking in 10/20/99 Years?

Brian asks if each guest will be better looking in 10 and 20 years. Alicia controversially claims she'll be hotter at 99, leading to extended philosophical debate. Andrew uses empty beer cup as analogy for the soul/body question.

04:26:21
Mandy's Syphilis Story

Brian asks Mandy about her sex addiction as a teenager. She reveals she contracted stage-2 syphilis at ~17 from a party guy she suspects was bisexual. Her current boyfriend noticed red spots on her back and made her go to the doctor. Both were treated with large injections. Very emotional segment.

05:04:53
Kenna's OnlyFans & Sex Addiction Discussion

Kenna's pre-show notes read aloud: calls herself emotionally unstable nymphomaniac. Had a 'ho phase' at 17 — sleeping with ~10-15 men in a month (every other day off dating apps). Total body count 19. Her friend Ruby discusses whether to start OnlyFans. Mizy ends up crying about pressure.

05:46:53
Body Count Round Table

Full panel body counts: Alicia 32, Lucy ~25 (stopped counting), Mizy 7.5 (self-rating shown here was a different number), Ruby 10-12, Mandy ~40 (uncertain), Kenna 19, Naomi ~50 (lost V at 13-14), Riley 5, Andrew 1 (disputed/joked). Naomi started OF on 18th birthday.

06:13:00
Dating Standards & Faking Virtue

Andrew introduces concept of 'faking virtue' — women who would sleep with a guy immediately but make another wait because they think he prefers virtuous women. Lucy debates this. Panel discusses men who lie about wanting relationships to get sex. Brian gives reverse example.

07:48:58
Trans Disclosure Debate

Andrew debates whether trans people are obligated to disclose before sex. Uses mask analogy/hypothetical. Panel mostly agrees disclosure should be required. Brian discusses risks of being labeled bigot for heterosexual preferences.

08:55:00
Race & Africa Discussion

Alicia and Andrew get into heated exchange about Black history and racism. Alicia struggles to name continents and African countries (confuses Cape Cod with Cape Town). Andrew discusses South African white farmers. Chat reacts with TTS messages about crime statistics.

09:13:40
Feminist Debate / Women's Equal Rights

Brian reads pre-show survey results: do women have equal rights to men in the US? Mixed answers — Lucy: maybe; Mizy: yes; Ruby: yes; Mandy: no; Kenna: yes; Alicia: no; Naomi: no; Riley: no. Andrew argues women do have equal rights. Alicia cites abortion; Andrew: men can't have abortions either.

09:22:49
Makeup Removal & Wig Reveal

Donors pay guests to remove makeup. Most guests take off makeup and look notably younger. Alicia refuses initially (claims Barbie identity), eventually takes off wig revealing natural hair. Lucy also takes off lashes. Chat reacts that makeup was 'doing heavy lifting.' Kenna's transformation is dramatic.

10:00:05
Whether to Quit OnlyFans

Brian asks the younger girls if they'll quit OnlyFans. Kenna says when she's old. Naomi says after she graduates vet school. Riley says same. Brian expresses concern about the path they're on.

Transcript

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03:45:32
Andrew Wilsonkidding totally traumatized by it right really yeah she quit the way the men speak to each other no had nothing to do that with it was it was the rejection if you kill yourself cuz you get rejected
03:45:44
Lucy / Ruby / Rileyyou should go to therapy please no she she actually did end up wait wait how would you know what do you get rejected on no but that like I like I'm sure that there's other ways you could deal with that than well here's the thing here's my
03:45:55
Andrew Wilsonchallenge to you then my challenge to you is to start a uh dating profile as just a midman midman so so you do hang
03:46:06
Andrew Wilsonon hang on that's it just a midman and then just try to try to approach women on this dating profile and then next time you're on come back and show me all the responses and when you're crying and you're in tears and you're like my God I
03:46:18
Andrew Wilsondidn't know that women were such vicious heinous [ __ ] monsters I'm going to laugh my ass off okay quick question do you hate women not
03:46:31
Andrew Wilsonenough okay because I'm I wish I hated him a little bit more let me ask you a quick question do you always ask stupid questions no I'm
03:46:44
Alicia Barbiejust by by your by your responses it it kind of sounds a little to me like it's almost as if like you're like very negative on
03:46:56
Lucy / Ruby / Rileywomen wait wait wait wait hold on it sounds a little misogynistic I don't want to use that men says something misogynistic get C oh my God can you kindly stop
03:47:07
Brian Atlasinterrupting yes Brian so you just said you asked him if he hates women the implication being that he hates women do you know what the definition of misogyny is I I I mean I don't want to like I
03:47:20
Alicia Barbiesaid I don't want to use that word because that you're literally it's the same thing that you're trying to imply I'm just you're implying he hates women misogyny hatred of women well then why don't you want to use the word why don't you want to is because like that's a
03:47:32
Alicia Barbievery I mean in in today's society it's a very like what how do I say how can I put this it's a very uh just like feminism like people we don't really understand the definitions of like
03:47:43
Alicia Barbiefeminism or Mass istic so I don't really know I'm just asking that question because the response is just giving like women are the problem I'm not saying
03:47:55
Alicia Barbiethat you you I'm that's how that is how I'm interpreting your response to the questions that we're giving you so I'm just asking you know do you hate women and I'm not saying like I'm not trying
03:48:06
Andrew Wilsonto do you hate children well cuz based on the responses that you gave when it came to pregnancy and having kids it sounds to me like you really hate children I'm just I'm just asking I'm just asking too do you hate children
03:48:19
Andrew Wilsonhate children based on the answers that you gave about wanting to adopt not W to give your husband kids sounds to me like you hate children but I how would I hate why you ha children why do you hate children so much how could I hate women
03:48:30
Alicia Barbieif I'm in a room having conversation with them I'm just I mean but you could you can still have conversations with people my feeling is you hate children that's how I interpret it I'm just
03:48:41
Alicia Barbieinterpreting just interpret it what I'm doing so I'm just I'm just asking I'm just just interpret it that way yeah that's that's it that's all you don't want to give your husband children
03:48:53
Andrew Wilsoncuz you hate children and you hate husbands I also think you hate husbands too I mean why do you hate husbands so much I I mean I'm married so I don't really necessarily I know and I'm in a
03:49:04
Alicia Barbieroom full of women like what's your but like I'm just I'm just I'm just because I'm I'm going from like an emotional standpoint me too you hate husbands and you hate children no no no no no but I'm talking about but how that's how I feel
03:49:17
Andrew Wilsonno I'm talking about how it doesn't matter what's reality what matters is how we feel okay well no that's not what I'm saying it's that's what I'm saying okay so stop trying to invalidate my feelings oh my apologies thank you for
03:49:28
Brian Atlasthe apology here we have two things to react to um can you pull up that thing I just sent in um so this is uh this was a Tinder experiment that was done can you
03:49:37
Brian Atlasuh make it a little bigger whoa that's okay so they basically like um took scroll a little bit face app gender
03:49:46
Brian Atlasswitch same pictures uh oh scroll back up sorry okay so male zero matches in 12 plus hours female uh 200 matches in one
03:49:56
Brian Atlashour and so basically it took like they tried to compare like light uh Mario Maria both
03:50:05
Brian Atlas25 they change basically this could be brother sister right twins twins essentially um the woman and these are
03:50:15
Brian Atlasboth pretty average looking maybe even slightly below average looking uh say below average yeah yeah female 100 plus
03:50:24
Brian Atlaslikes or whatever male zero wow so below average looking woman uh even she can [ __ ] a bunch of dudes
03:50:35
MizyMario can't like most of you ain't swiping right on Mario I can't lie I would not swipe on Mario going to make a comment of something that um cuz I have guy friends
03:50:48
Mizythat have talked to me about these kinds of things anyways but yeah they make it so that the men also have to pay for it so they can get like oh right yeah which better cards mhm I'm just saying that
03:51:01
Mizyyou're saying the men have to pay on tnd it's it's a I think they try to make it the apps design it so that men pay so they can make more money also on top of it I know that it is true I saw my
03:51:12
Mizyfriend showed me like his app and I was like wow that's crazy yeah and they advertise the women he's attracted to only in like the paying section I don't know kind of then we have the age uh
03:51:24
Lucy / Ruby / Rileyforward for uh Barbie over here we got that I look so oh my God I
03:51:38
Lucy / Ruby / Rileylook but do you look better in the second picture I believe so she doesn't look 99 though yeah not 99 I know dude you you look at my my age up versus that
03:51:48
Brian Atlasone I mean it's pretty clear a okay your hair is so perfect you look like a super model oh you guys are so sweet all right we have uh NS in La dude thank you for
03:51:59
Brian Atlasthe big $200 super chats guys W's in the chat for NS we should just grant women all this all men should stop just stop working well let the women do all the hard work we'll bring our men back for M
03:52:12
Brian Atlasmilitary and send only women out and do all the heavy lifting in society women can pay for everything and fight the burglar at 2 a.m. when can we get started n thank you so much W's in the
03:52:22
Mandychat for NOS man thank you man so let Society die and then when we beg for the men back just like have them come back is that what the thing is right I think he's trying to show us
03:52:35
Lucy / Ruby / Rileythat we couldn't that we couldn't yeah we do need men we absolutely need men we wouldn't be able to have children without men we wouldn't be able to have houses we need men and women have a
03:52:45
Brian Atlassociety we wouldn't be able to have a patriarchal society no be able to any society well not literally here I'll I'll just piggy back on what Andrew said
03:52:56
Brian Atlasuh like so if all men disappeared I would I would say that uh well here I'll give you both examples so if all women disappeared this would be the end of the human species uh it would
03:53:07
Brian Atlasabsolutely suck there would be losses in certain Fields uh that that could be very detrimental however um of all the
03:53:17
Brian Atlassurviving men most of them would continue surviving Life Would Suck but I mean we would all survive until we all die and then that's
03:53:27
Andrew Wilsonthe end of the species if all men disappeared I'd have a party me except for you I'd be really sad that you were gone I know yeah I think you're
03:53:39
Andrew Wilsonright I think a lot of women would actually have parties and and then they would die within a year perfect oh no that sounds like a great time honestly I
03:53:47
Brian Atlaswould say 50% of women are dead within 3 weeks you think yes I think no way yes we'd like [ __ ] up the machinery and
03:53:57
Brian Atlaslike make the ozone layer like open all the way up all die of like radiation poisoning yeah no it's just men are so involved in critical infrastructure that
03:54:09
Brian Atlasum women are not involved in these fields there wouldn't be there wouldn't be the knowledge base to be able to replace them uh and also not only that
03:54:19
Brian Atlaseven if there was enough women to get into these fields like the the cascading the cascading chaos that would ensue uh
03:54:28
Brian Atlasit just everything would be completely [ __ ] like within 24 hours power grid done it's done okay yeah doesn't exist no no
03:54:40
Lucy / Ruby / Rileyyou're you're probably right all the telecoms gone within 24 she thinks no no I I wasn't going to say that I think that we would be a that everything would be peachy keen if all men just disappear but I'm saying that wouldn't it be nice if our society
03:54:52
Lucy / Ruby / Rileydidn't rely so heavily on one part of the species wouldn't it be nice if it was a little bit more equal it doesn't have to be inherently compl procreate though needs to be well that's not the point I literally could not agree with
03:55:03
Andrew Wilsonyou more honestly where the [ __ ] are all the women Oil Workers yeah where are they I bet they look real cute in those uniforms where's all the Navy Seals oh wait they can't they can't I know but
03:55:14
Lucy / Ruby / Rileyimagine how fun they can't do it so you know what they have to do instead they have to take the standard and then lower it who's going to do who's going to do all the only fans like that's what I'm really concerned about all the woman all
03:55:27
Andrew Wilsonthe woman do but I mean honestly I'm with you Pearl Davis agrees with you imagine that Pearl Davis 100% agrees with you like where the [ __ ] are all
03:55:39
Andrew Wilsonyou're right wouldn't it be nice if Society didn't have to rely so much on one sex wouldn't that be that's Pearl Davis enti her entire argument her entire argument is your argument Andrew you
03:55:50
Lucy / Ruby / Rileyknow how to get under my skin oh he's so good at what he does if I'm ever in a sticky situation I'm hiring you as my damn lawyer why you're so good at what
03:55:58
Brian Atlasyou do that's cuz I'm a man no it's not the joke of the day all right uh let's get back I need to get through all the uh show notes
03:56:10
Brian Atlashere so uh mzy you have so many dating stories your ex got your best friend pregnant had babies with her then wanted
03:56:17
Mizyyou back I yeah uh-huh what's your question explain I thought that happened to everybody I guess that was just
03:56:29
Mizyprompting you if you want to give a little more detail or if that's I regretted sending that I was like but I didn't even know what I was going on I was just okay anyways I thought yeah I thought this was completely different
03:56:39
Mizybut this is a Vibe so basically um dated this guy I wanted kids he didn't want kids so
03:56:51
MizyI ended up breaking up with him because I found out he was talking to other women not like like like he was like you know dming girls whatever which is still cheating in my opinion but so then but
03:57:02
Mizythen I ended up in a situationship because I at the time wasn't secure enough to walk away which is why this was a while ago so um I've not I would
03:57:12
Mizynever tolerate this again or now moving forward but um I just really wanted a future with him and I couldn't let it go and I was willing to almost not have kids just to keep him around which is
03:57:25
Mizycrazy cuz like my biggest goal in life like one of them is I want a family I want kids and um it's just ironic cuz when they they then they me and him were still singing each other but then she
03:57:36
Mizywent after him they started on the DL hooking up or whatever I disappear I just said peace out I moved to LA to pursue my dream Dre I never talked to them again and and then
03:57:46
MizyI got reached out to that like they were pregnant ironically and keeping it keeping them there's Twins and so yeah and then he reached out like I don't
03:57:57
Mizyknow and was basically like I regret XYZ or blah blah blah you know just not not the kids he's he's he's happy as cuz it helped him it saved him it also saved me to get away from that [ __ ] but um which
03:58:09
Brian AtlasI'm happy I'm happy it happened ironically I think it's the best thing that could happen uh and I think this is the same guy you found out he had seven side chicks who all became friends and you later found out a few of the girls
03:58:22
Brian Atlasfinancially supported him and he would always buy you Uber Eats on their accounts when we were hanging out different guy different guy okay that guy like I wasn't like yeah I was where
03:58:33
Mizycan the chat go to worship this gentleman no no I'm kidding I'm joing it's a he was really nice like that's why I was so shocked I was like oh he's so nice like um kind of like thought he was kind of dumb like you know and then
03:58:46
Mizybut I found out like maybe eight seven or eight months later that oh he had seven side chicks like that's crazy but you know it I mean I don't know the whole story I don't I I don't think it
03:58:58
Mizywas at the same time as me they the girls were convinced but I didn't know who they were they knew who I was and then I found out that um yeah they were financially supporting him but what a king that's crazy wom can do it like why
03:59:10
Brian Atlascan't why can't a guy do it you know Legend uh you said that you wanted to talk about red flags for screen flags and why women are attracted to red flags ooh I didn't know we were going to like go down everything I like brought down
03:59:22
Mizyin this um yeah so I definitely become a like I've red flags can be attractive and and that's
03:59:32
Mizynot a good thing but women and men probably too you know sometimes we flock to like red flags I mean a lot of it has to do with our childhoods and and things like that but uh it's it's hard to break
03:59:45
Mizywhat you're the way that you're shown love as a child um and that's how when you're an adult that's what feels normal so when someone's really nice to you let's say not saying my dad was bad in any ways
03:59:57
Mizybut there's certain traits of like didn't let you cry didn't like let you talk like just like these little things so that's kind of how I feel love from a guy and so basically there yeah there's
04:00:09
Mizycertain things that I subconsciously am attracted to that are red flags that I shouldn't be like treating you like [ __ ] yeah MH I've gotten better I if a man starts
04:00:20
Andrew Wilsonyou you got better yes yes mhm I are there so Chad was in here right now treating you like [ __ ] well like well no
04:00:28
Andrew WilsonI want wait a minute wait a minute wait who chadu right here man a Chad a Chad some some like really good looking dude but Tre you like I don't like really good-looking dudes he meant like
04:00:42
Mizywhatever you think is a really goodl looking d what what are some of the red flags that you'll tolerate or whatever it's okay treating you poorly what else well it's not like treating you poorly right it's just like you know
04:00:55
Andrew WilsonI like you know I like to they like to drink every day you know and it's like drug problem and and then if they do that how do they treat you right well a lot of the guys that I've dated like
04:01:07
Mizypretend like they don't have these red vags and then once I love them then they're like oh hey by the way I'm a huge alcoholic and yada yada you know it's not and when they're when they're
04:01:18
Mizydrunk they treat you better or worse so the one that got my best friend pregnant better when he was drunk loved him when he was drunk great guy the other one when he did you know drank and stuff he
04:01:30
Mizywas like really mean and like distant and like hostile and stuff so I think it just depends but I'm definitely not trying to date like a heavy drinker in the future not like I I can date someone who like can have a drink but I'm not trying to date someone that every single
04:01:43
Brian Atlasday has to get like de with yeah sure yeah going around the table on this one though uh who here I guess ignores red
04:01:52
Brian Atlasflags in a man kind of here just yes or no I guess no no what okay I used to used to yeah yeah
04:02:02
Lucy / Ruby / Rileyignores ignores yes I had I had to get done so astronomic astronomically dirty that I was like wow I can literally never tolerate any thing ever again that's why
04:02:14
MizyI've been single for so long I think um yeah I kind of give them the benefit of the doubt so you want to believe in like you put them on this pedestal and you you know I'm like Second Chances third chances and
04:02:29
Brian Atlasthen 10th chances 12 I mean I wonder I get attached I do Wonder though when it comes to this so women often complain that men are
04:02:39
Brian Atlastoxic or abusive but and I I don't I think most men like are don't go down this path but
04:02:49
Brian Atlaswhen men are young they see the men that like when you're uh 18 19 20 other men in your peer group see the men that you
04:02:59
Brian Atlasguys are going after at that age and they see you they hear you even if they're friends with you complain you complain about oh he's such a jerk he's such an [ __ ] blah blah
04:03:11
Brian Atlasblah you guys uh engage in sexual relationships with these men men's have ma major motivation when it comes to wanting to find a
04:03:23
Brian Atlasgirlfriend you guys essentially train men to be abusive like because you reward the men who are abusive yeah with
04:03:34
Mandysexual access I'm a little confused by this no that's so fair oh I have a take on this I think it's cuz women are very like I'm not saying every woman ever
04:03:45
Mandyobviously but a lot of women are very emotionally abusive so then that makes the man want to react to the emotional abuse and the manipulation or whatever that the woman is doing got to kind of
04:03:56
Andrew Wilsonpush back a little here I'm not saying like that oh he should have punch her in the face I think like maybe me and Brian even disagree a little here I do think that most men are toxic and I do think that they fit the criteria and modernity
04:04:09
Andrew Wilsonof what abuse is and I think that women love that [ __ ] so like here hang on hear me out hear me out okay the things that women consider to be toxic traits which
04:04:20
Andrew Wilsonis it's usually too much of the thing that they like too much assertion too much dominance too much of this too much of that right on a scale but but but
04:04:30
Andrew Wilsonthen if the man backs it off even an inch then it's too little then it's too little yeah right so it's like so all of these things which are considered toxic
04:04:41
Andrew Wilsonmasculinity right all those toxically masculine men they seem to be getting plenty of women they don't seem to have much problem with that at all uh when you say abuse especially verbal abuse
04:04:53
Andrew Wilsonright this is the idea of a man basically just saying no right that that's usually what verbal re abuse reduces to it I haven't actually heard there are some situations where like he
04:05:05
Andrew Wilsoncalled me this he called me that and they said some horrible [ __ ] I agree with that okay maybe we can consider that verbal abuse but most of the time it's just like he just said no and they consider that
04:05:17
Andrew Wilsonto be verbal abuse well this is where this is where I agree with you what I think what I think ultimately is that men who say no and are very toxic in their masculinity basically got nothing
04:05:27
Andrew Wilsonto worry about and he's right right aren't you training them to be toxically masculine I kind of agree with you to be completely honest I I can't that's
04:05:38
Lucy / Ruby / Rileylogical so I I don't know if training is the right word but I do think that women generally wom see I in my head there's an e there I just this is just my this is just it's
04:05:50
Lucy / Ruby / Rileyjust the accent but I do think that women is that how you want me to say it I do I I do think way dude that's so crazy no but I I do think that they participate in holding up the patriarchy to an extent like and
04:06:02
Lucy / Ruby / Rileyand I know that you guys don't like to say the patriarchy but when it comes to the patriarchy when it comes to like like like how you saying kind of like the overtly masculine like um not CU not that masculine is inherently a bad thing
04:06:15
Lucy / Ruby / Rileybut like where it gets to be I don't remember toxic masculinity yes I do think that that is occasionally upheld by women and their standards and I think can I ask you a question yeah how come all these blue-haired feminist chicks
04:06:27
Lucy / Ruby / Rileyare always [ __ ] the most toxically masculine men ever dude no actually let's talk about it and cuz I I don't I'm not going to sit here and say that it's only men that are the problem because I completely disree like my
04:06:38
Lucy / Ruby / Rileybrother he has had some seriously insane girlfriends who I am like how are you a real person but I've also had like you know and that's why I think we talked about this last time but I think it comes down to are you just a moral
04:06:51
Lucy / Ruby / Rileyperson or are you not and that has kind of nothing to do with gender but I do think it's more acceptable in tolerated in relationships for a man to be a little bit more on the crazy side you he stay with him he you know he'll cheat on you whatever crazy in what way it's not
04:07:03
Andrew Wilsonmore wait hang on back more tolerated it is definitely not more tolerated for the man to be crazy than the woman you'd really really but but but I will ask you this again because I feel like he kind
04:07:15
Andrew Wilsonof evaded oh the blue-haired feminist lunatic who is skysc screaming at the top of her lungs why is it that she ends up [ __ ] the toxically masculine man
04:07:27
Andrew Wilsonwhy is it that women are saying I want a man who acts like a conservative but has my liberal values why why are they all saying this I Andrew I wish I knew right
04:07:38
Andrew WilsonI wish I knew the answer what is considered to be toxically masculine right is not toxic at all it's just
04:07:47
Andrew Wilsonmasculine and that's why those women are single yeah it's just it's just mascul like let me give you an example of some toxic masculinity okay so there are men
04:07:59
Andrew WilsonI know not me of course I would never do anything like this hor there are men I know who they will go out to a shooting range and I've been with men like this and they will just unload on a Target
04:08:12
Andrew Wilsonokay yeah yeah exactly then a small little fluffy rabbit will run across the range and they'll blast that [ __ ] just to watch it explode and then they'll give a big yeah they'll give a big belly laugh they'll give a
04:08:24
Andrew Wilsonbig belly laugh they don't give a [ __ ] they don't [ __ ] care rabbits are pretty invasive yes they are invas and and they're evil right they're onl they're ontologically evil but the point
04:08:33
Andrew Wilsonis is that Fluffy gets blown to bits right those dud those dudes they never hop in the car with a chick who's like oh honey I can't believe that you K
04:08:44
Andrew Wilsonthey don't give a [ __ ] they don't care they don't care so the thing is is like all the things that you would consider toxically masculine here's another one right video games uh where you know you
04:08:56
Andrew Wilsonroll through the town and you just kill everything that you see women don't give a [ __ ] about that either when you're talking about toxic masculine traits it
04:09:05
Andrew Wilsonseems to only be the idea of you are using your masculinity as a weapon to
04:09:12
TTS Readerdefeat some absurdity that I have over here interesting okay yeah I like that take techn Trooper donated $200 thank
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Brian Atlasyou man tell us your favorite green flags in a partner that is undervalued Yo techn Trooper thank you so much for the $200 TTS we'll go around the table on that W's in the T chat for techn Trooper thank you man uh tell us
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Lucy / Ruby / Rileyyour favorite green flags in a partner that is undervalued okay um I think somebody who list and gives you good advice like I appreciate a partner that I can get advice from like someone who doesn't mind hearing about my daily
04:09:50
Lucy / Ruby / Rileytrials and tribulations because they want to help genuinely help me through it why do you undervalue that wait do I under no I think that is generally undervalued I think that people are very like okay with their partner not really
04:10:01
Lucy / Ruby / Rileybeing interested in what they do on a daily basis or like like you know disputes with people they're like oh whatever like my wife's complaining by the way Lucy do you prefer from front or your side I if I'm
04:10:13
Brian Atlasbeing so honest my like exact side profile is not it my 3/4 is where it's at yeah so you might want to you you tend to lean like you're looking that way you probably want to look more this
04:10:24
Lucy / Ruby / Rileyway just heads up because Brian are you saying I look bad we're getting we're already like 3 hours and they seen every bad angle that like wicked witch thing going on on that side that's probably
04:10:36
Lucy / Ruby / Rileythe most brutal insult I've ever heard it's like that um it's like uh what's that Ferris Wheeler's day off where he talks to the side of his
04:10:44
Brian Atlasmouthon is we're a lot of L most favorite green be able to quote Ferris beer underrated is hard cuz like undervalued favorite green flag how
04:10:56
Brian Atlasabout just the undervalued part is going to confuse the girl sorry techno let's just do favorite green flag in partner loyalty and like a good listener I also think like the underrated maybe is
04:11:07
Mizyfeeling like like the like the safe like a man making you feel safe I think um sometimes I'm a little out of line and
04:11:18
Lucy / Ruby / Rileybeing able to have someone confront me and critique me for sounds like toxic masculinity me take those [ __ ] ears off take that [ __ ] off take it off wait
04:11:30
Lucy / Ruby / RileyI kind of agree with her though but that's toxic masculinity telling her what to do can I tell her can I tell you guys why and I'm sorry if I interrupted you I I'll be super quick but my recent
04:11:40
Lucy / Ruby / Rileyex like you're not going to be super quick I'll try my best holy [ __ ] so I've actually been relatively quiet this episode all right right fast fast okay I'm trying to go anyways I have maybe some issues because of my the way I was brought up with arguing and about being
04:11:53
Lucy / Ruby / Rileyreally quick to start an argument and my ex-boyfriend kind of had to be like Lucy I need you to not raise your voice at me and I need you to genuinely just not do that because it doesn't make me feel good we're not going to get anywhere with that and I stopped raising my voice at him and then we didn't get into
04:12:05
Lucy / Ruby / Rileyfights as much because it was never or did he go Lucy shut up no cuz he he he respected me and he understood why it was that way yeah right okay women need to be put in our places you I don't know if I would put it like that but I well I just everyone needs to be
04:12:18
Andrew Wilsonput in their place I definitely need a man put me in my place all of these things that you would consider to be toxic masculinity no because he's not telling me Lucy shut he is you know what he's saying he's say he's telling you to shut up no he's saying that he doesn't he said he's he thinks that he thought
04:12:31
Lucy / Ruby / Rileythat basically I didn't respect him because I was speaking to him in a way that I might speak to my family who has lots of the thing is he's telling you if you don't have anything good to say in a
04:12:42
Lucy / Ruby / Rileytone that's to say shut up well it's not that we have hang on that's what he's actually saying right no we still had the conversations he just didn't like it when I would actually rais my voice so that way it was able to diffuse the conversation because I wouldn't get that
04:12:55
Andrew WilsonAng if you couldn't get into the conversation without raising your voice what should you have done no but then I just hang what should you have done shut up that's right yeah okay that's what you want to take away
04:13:06
Lucy / Ruby / Rileyfrom that all right you can just say constructive criticism there you go I love it Dr to that so what what's the kind of conduct that you're doing in a relationship that's been an issue
04:13:21
Lucy / Ruby / Rileyum I guess cuz before I was like oh I haven't really dated that much but I've like talked with and had friends with benefits relationships right so even in
04:13:32
Andrew Wilsonthe too assertive yeah yeah you're too assertive that's a problem no I'm not to a okay just tell us what when a guy is able to
04:13:44
Brian Atlasconstructively criticize something yeah so what are you doing which is eliciting the CR the criticism um
04:13:55
Lucy / Ruby / Rileywell stop stop I get I get told I'm like too nice and passive like that's what it was with him like cuz I would just go along with whatever was happening and wait hold on didn't you say that you
04:14:08
Brian Atlaswere like you needed to get checked so just to be clear your boy was checking on you like checked you oh my God who cares okay um distinguish
04:14:19
Lucy / Ruby / Rileylanguage okay yeah but whatever this guy was was checking you how didn't you say you were like behaving poorly or or something to that effect in that sense like of being too nice that
04:14:33
Lucy / Ruby / Rileywas like neglect what like I wasn't being like actively myself in the relationship
04:14:44
Lucy / Ruby / Rileyso it's like
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Lucy / Ruby / Rileylike being too passive and not being like Oh I hate when this happens or like when this happens cuz you'd be like more interested in me sometimes and I'd be
04:15:02
Lucy / Ruby / Rileylike let's do what you want to do why are you like looking why are you looking like that you're saying a whole bunch of nothing like I I I just I don't know
04:15:13
Andrew Wilsonum kind I mean to be to be fair to her Brian what she's actually saying is that she was too perfect and so he needed to check her being too perfect
04:15:24
Brian Atlasyeah fcks she was being too perfect so your boy so you're being too nice and your boyfriend was like I need you to be more of a [ __ ] I mean he must he needed me to be more real with him like okay so you're
04:15:37
Brian Atlasbeing disingenuous disingenuous and neglectful yeah you were neglect how are you being neglectful like emotionally how about just let her answer the question maybe
04:15:48
Brian Atlasthat'd be helpful yeah calm down over there sometimes it's easier to just let the people have the one-on-one so we can get through it well you seem really eager to get
04:16:01
Lucy / Ruby / Rileythrough it so we can like move on oh my God
04:16:06
Lucy / Ruby / Rileybro I'm trying to think of how to elaborate on it though cuz it was like like it wasn't super serious and then we would go like in and out of phases of being like Oh we should like make this
04:16:18
Lucy / Ruby / Rileyserious so like yeah
04:16:27
Mandyemotionally okay then did I answer your question all right or do you have anything else for me all right next um I think that a
04:16:39
Mandygreen flag is like when like someone tell like is able to tell what they want and need even if I don't want to hear it that's it I'm done like Okay C A 7 in strap on sure why
04:16:54
Kennanot oh okay oh it's just so weird my favorite green flag in a guy is when like they have active goals that they're like working towards so they're not like
04:17:05
Alicia Barbiejust being lazy all day um my green flags are um a guy that is understanding of me and who I am as a
04:17:16
Alicia Barbiewoman and also a man who like you said is a go-getter so my green flag is um when he opens the
04:17:27
Alicia Barbiedoors oo yeah simple it just shows that you care even about the littlest things like say it again you open the car door every time I go to the to the car I know you care about me you're not going to forget
04:17:39
Alicia Barbieabout me you realize that I do that for complete strangers you open the car door for them well I open doors for them well yeah that's that's nice of you I do that too yeah but doesn't I mean that's just common
04:17:51
Alicia Barbiecourtesy right yeah but like if I'm seeing a dude like no it's really not common courtesy I one time went to the movie theaters and this dude opened the door for himself and then it like it
04:18:01
Alicia Barbieslammed back and I was outside and so I'm like I'm like this is like what's going on this guy's a legend
04:18:11
Lucy / Ruby / Rileyhe's sick Ry what about you um mine would probably be when you like deep conversations like when you can just go out and like go on
04:18:23
Lucy / Ruby / Rileya nice drive and then it's just deep conversation you're opening up all right let's have a deep conversation right now what do you want to talk [Laughter]
04:18:33
Brian Atlasabout um I don't know never mind no no we're doing the deep conversation Oh I thought you getting up or yeah oh
04:18:44
Brian Atlasokay go ahead wait oh so just to be clear the men has to do all the work no oh okay go ahead let's have a deep go ahead lead it lead us there lead us to the deep
04:18:57
Lucy / Ruby / Rileyconversation no cuz I kind of trauma dump and like stuff like that to like other people I guess so like if he you wait you can only have a deep conversation about trauma no okay let's have a deep
04:19:09
Lucy / Ruby / Rileyconversation about something that's not tra like deep conversations like about the goals I don't know how to yeah okay go ahead but
04:19:23
Brian AtlasSP I don't know um you guys talk about aliens no don't just let her go ahead also aliens not a
04:19:34
Mandyparticularly deep conversation I don't know it can be yeah go ahead
04:19:44
Lucy / Ruby / Rileyum okay so here let me handhold you a little bit CU it kind of just has to you have to go with the flow like no like you can't just be like like you you okay here you would do
04:19:56
Lucy / Ruby / RileyRand like random conversations and then all of a sudden like we all open up and it's like I I don't know you have to be in the somebody has to lead it to the Deep Place yeah and I'm usually the one
04:20:08
Brian Atlasthat does that cuz I'm the Y but you're the one who does it yeah okay go ahead since you're the Le Yap you're a yapper okay go
04:20:21
Lucy / Ruby / Rileyahead um I don't
04:20:36
Brian Atlasknow next um how about give me an example of a time you had this deep conversation what
04:20:45
Lucy / Ruby / Rileywas the topic about adoption and foster care and yeah what excuse me what do you need
04:20:55
Brian Atlasfrom your lip gloss all right okay um I don't know I just find it interesting I've seen all these uh like Tik toks about women complaining
04:21:07
Brian Atlasabout like men when you go on dates with them they have nothing to say but like my own personal experience like if I didn't carry the conversation on dates granted there are women who are like good conversationalists that I've
04:21:19
Brian Atlasencountered and they do like contribute pretty equally but like overwhelmingly I've never been on a date where like my experience was uh where
04:21:33
Alicia Barbiewell like the reality is like men have to care conversations Point playing period question do you do deep conversations when you're on dates with women
04:21:43
Brian Atlassometimes and what do you guys talk about the specifics of it yeah uh I can't really think but like my position is not like well yeah but
04:21:55
Brian AtlasI I don't think it's a green flag that I can have a deep conversation with a woman it's your position not mine it's not my duty to prove your
04:22:08
Lucy / Ruby / Rileypoint just ask a question I don't care about I frankly don't care about that deep convers guess it's more like about like the future like you're usually talking about the future in your deep conversations and like for me like since
04:22:20
Lucy / Ruby / Rileyit like what I said about like adoption and stuff like that like if we wanted to have kids cuz I say I date to Mary you know so like I don't just look at you
04:22:30
Brian Atlaslike okay all right libertar um he's on the table I'll pull it back up libertariat uh we have uh Lucas here one sec guys
04:22:42
Brian Atlasone sec thank you libertar W's in the chat for libertarian I do appreciate it man sorry [ __ ] got that all out of order guys like the video please if you're watching Lucas women are
04:22:55
Brian Atlasattracted by attributes that are toxically masculine because they are proxies for resource provisioning and the ability to protect women are often seduced and deceived by dark Triad
04:23:07
Brian Atlastraits Lucas thank you so much for the uh streamlabs message I do appreciate it um speaking of which we touched on this
04:23:16
Brian Atlastopic last show but it wasn't uh the uh healthc care CEO assassin Luigi mangon uh anybody here have a crush on them no you know who I'm talking about
04:23:30
Mandythough yeah no Crush no Crush I feel like that's that same weird phenomenon whatever his last name is I don't have a
04:23:37
Brian Atlascrush on him but kind of slay what he did murdering a murdering in general a father with a wife and children kind of
04:23:47
Lucy / Ruby / Rileyslay okay kind of slay aoke can I respond to that last uh I I think that a lot of the time people accept the love that they think that they deserve and the wom who end up in relationships that are maybe toxic and then they stay in
04:24:00
Lucy / Ruby / Rileythem it's because they probably have pretty low self-esteem not every single case but I think for the most part people who have higher standards for themselves people who actually like respect themselves don't get into that
04:24:10
Brian Atlaskind of situation because they don't accept that sort of thing okay we have a message here from libertariat Andrew how much do I have to
04:24:20
Brian Atlasdonate to get you to say man instead of men for the show on Tuesday W woman will be triggered on a millennial level if you do so two champagne pops two
04:24:30
Brian Atlaschampagne pops and I will use man instead of men for the plural there you have it thank you oh I didn't order the pickles hold on let [ __ ] I feel like I have to clarify one more time I am
04:24:41
Lucy / Ruby / Rileysaying woman every single time but with the way that I say words it sounds the way that you guys don't like it it's not a problem which is just
04:24:50
Andrew Wilsonyou this is something which happens on this show repeatedly every single panel with multiple women who cannot say women instead of woman and I have no [ __ ]
04:25:01
Andrew Wilsonidea why and no it's not isolated to locality they're from all over the country mhm I don't know why they can't say women do you say tomato or tomato
04:25:12
Andrew Wilsontomato okay I say tomato No I'm just Kidd but even if I said tomato right it wouldn't matter because
04:25:22
Andrew Wilsonthe plural form Tomatoes if I said all tomato M instead of all tomatoes that would sound stupid right yeah
04:25:32
Alicia Barbiethat then you have to check your grammar be like ult tomato kind is there kind of pickle that like will pickle slices do
04:25:40
Brian Atlasjust get dill pickles but pickle slices does have to be pickle like full pickle it's in the same jar it's in the same jar I'm ordering three jars of different
04:25:53
Brian Atlastypes of pickles I don't know if the guy's even still here the dude uh one sec I'm going to get that ordered um we're going to get back into the notes here in just a sec one sec
04:26:03
Brian Atlasguys let me order this what it's what hold on boys oh what the heck that could take a okay I'll I'll have to do in a
04:26:12
Brian Atlassec uh maybe we don't have time um let's see oh Mandy you said that uh
04:26:21
Brian Atlasyou had a uh you were a sex addict at one point yes and then uh what was this can you give us the details of the sex
04:26:31
Mandyaddiction the scope of it well it was it was when I was a teenager so that's why I was on all those dating apps and why I got banned off of all those dating apps um
04:26:44
Mandy (alt)I sorry I was hooking up with a lot of people it's really hard for me to talk
04:26:55
Mandy (alt)about cuz I didn't want to do it but it was like such an addiction at
04:27:03
Lucy / Ruby / Rileythat point sorry it's it's okay oh h now that one's going to cry too I know
04:27:15
Mandy (alt)you're you're making everybody cry it was just like I I had no self-confidence I had no self-confidence at that point
04:27:26
Mandy (alt)um I and I just [ __ ] up my
04:27:36
Mandy (alt)body I'm sorry it's okay it's okay you like grown so much yeah that's why I love my boyfriend so much he saved me from all of
04:27:51
Mandy (alt)that how go he got me out of it oh my God this is so dramatic you're no it's dumb I talked about it last time and I was fine it's
04:28:04
Mandynot [Music] dumb when you cry you're cute you should see me when I'm really crying oh yeah the real tears were
04:28:19
Mandyshow too
04:28:24
Brian Atlassorry if you don't mind me asking you said like your body you you said you did damage to your body or what do you mean by that I would just let people do whatever they
04:28:38
Mandy (alt)wanted basically I mean I just say yeah go for it I don't care like I didn't I didn't give a
04:28:49
Mandy[ __ ] hypersexual like hypersexuality is a real thing it's it really is and people don't take it as a serious addiction and it really really is especially today and with these these
04:29:00
Mandyyoung men that are just you know they they and and I don't know I it's just it's a lot
04:29:12
Mandyget you was there like STDs is that what you're talking about or well I did I did
04:29:19
Mandyhave an STI at one point yes um I had syphilis and um I did get it treated I don't have it anymore but
04:29:30
Mandyum I I did contract it because I didn't I didn't care and when I got with my boyfriend I had
04:29:40
Mandythese red spots all over my body and he said what is that and I said I don't know I never noticed that and they were all over my back so I go to the doctor and I I wouldn't have gone to
04:29:52
Mandythe doctor if it wasn't for him cuz I was thinking oh it's just going to go away I had stage two syphilis um so if I had gone any longer
04:30:03
MandyI I would be basically my brain would be getting eaten by this virus right now so sorry you had to go through
04:30:14
Lucy / Ruby / Rileythat oh you don't have to apologize you didn't do anything dude I just made things awkward I'm sorry no no like feel because to
04:30:26
Lucy / Ruby / Rileylike bring up hard conversations like that is super duper important like these are really things that people should like I didn't think this would make me emotional about but like you're being vulnerable and that's super hard and
04:30:38
Lucy / Ruby / Rileylike scary thank you thank you for sharing thank you yes this is a safe space and I imagine it probably doesn't
04:30:49
Lucy / Ruby / Rileyhelp when people like to like you know hate on body count and that sort of thing and it's like and some like obviously you do have control over some parts of it but some in some parts you really don't you know and like and then you just start to like feel really bad
04:31:02
Lucy / Ruby / Rileyabout yourself and even if it's something that you maybe didn't want to be true and happening it you know but you moved on I mean not moved on from it but you have moved into a different chapter your life and I think that's really important thank you so much in
04:31:14
Lucy / Ruby / Rileyfact you can be like vulner about it vulnerable about it on this with like all these people you don't like you know whatever like this is something that people don't talk about but probably a lot of people go through so you're being really raw and real and it's very brave
04:31:26
Brian Atlasof you thank you thank you so much oh thank you oh wait one clarifying question you said that so your now current boyfriend who
04:31:38
Brian Atlasyou've been with for like 2 and a half years you had you had the syphilis when you met
04:31:47
Brian Atlashim yes did you have syph hold on hold
04:31:57
Mandyon um had past had you had carnal knowledge with your boyfriend while you were he got treated as well and we we were not allowed like we literally
04:32:10
Mandycouldn't have sex for like a couple months because of it because we wanted to make sure it was completely gone and then we had to get tested again to make sure that it was gone before we could
04:32:20
Mandycontinue this your current boyfriend yes and the fact that he's bisexual didn't contribute to that at all no no it was before I met him that I had contracted you got it and you gave
04:32:32
Lucy / Ruby / Rileyit to him yes that's [ __ ] awful I know not the right time Andrew exactly
04:32:42
Mandy (alt)the right time no it is awful it is awful cuz I had no idea she didn't know she had
04:32:53
Andrew Wilsonit but isn't that like a pointed lesson as to why promiscuity is so awful that's exactly the point I was bringing up oh yeah she regrets it I think I hate I
04:33:05
Mandy (alt)hate every all of that I hate that whole phase of my life
04:33:17
Mandythis is just a very touch this is like a soap opera I know how the hell are we going to switch this conversation topic how the hell are we going to move on from this a look though like it's it's okay yeah honestly it kind of looks like it
04:33:28
Brian Atlaswas on purpose but so just curious your your boyfriend he like how long had you been with him like was it 3 months in when you figured out
04:33:39
Mandyyou had c l it was literally like a couple weeks that we had like known each other for and he was like hey what are these spots all over your back and I'm like I don't know these just showed up a
04:33:48
Mandyfew days ago and um when I went to the doctor they confirmed that it was the stage two syphilis um how do they get rid of that
04:34:00
Mandyantibiotics much worse the biggest [ __ ] shot in your ass it's two like giant like giant needles like I'm not kidding you they're like this big like this long and two of them in in your
04:34:13
Brian Atlaslower back it was the most painful shot I've ever gotten and there's so there's I is it stage one stage two stage three is there stage four or just stage three I think it just goes to stage three cuz
04:34:25
Brian Atlasafter that you you're [ __ ] you're [ __ ] did you have symptoms during stage one or what what stage one is pretty much there's no
04:34:35
Mandysymptoms no symptoms and then stage two there's like some like uh like I got these just like red spots all over my body they almost look like mosquito
04:34:44
Mandybites um did they itch no not at all I didn't feel them at all but they were just they were everywhere looking making sure um everybody's looking everybody in the
04:34:56
Brian Atlaschat's looking at their bodies right now what this is an educational segment do I
04:35:00
Brian Atlashave do I have syphilis [ __ ] um damn uh okay good times I guess good times yeah
04:35:11
Mandyum any other sex at the table I have a suspicion that it was this one guy who
04:35:20
Mandyum I had he was like kind of like a party guy like he like every time I like I had hooked up with him a few times and he was always like on Coke or something
04:35:30
Mandywhile I was like hooking up with him was he also bisexual yes and I suspect that it was him because when I told him cuz you know when you
04:35:42
Mandyfind out that you have syphilis you tell all of your previous Partners how many phone calls did you have to make it's a lot listen like three or
04:35:52
Mandyfour yeah and I suspected it was him because when I told him he just said oh okay thanks and I and it was like like like he already knew like he already
04:36:04
Mandyknew and I'm like so you just had bugs you knew you had bugs and you gave it to me and you don't give a [ __ ] and I I'm like 99% sure it's this guy his morals
04:36:15
Brian Atlasgot to be careful out there yeah otherwise you get burned um don't have sex or you'll die was he was he older than you exactly uh yes I think he was
04:36:27
Brian Atlasonly like three or four years older than me but that would make you under 18 right cuz if you're 20 and you've been with your for two years yeah yeah I would have been under 18 but you were so you're 17 and you had stage two syphilis
04:36:41
Mandyyeah that's I'm sorry dude or 18 Dam 17 were you still in high school um at the time I'm trying to remember actually cuz I don't know if it
04:36:51
Brian Atlaswas before or after summer oh was after yeah after yeah after high school cuz my boyfriend okay uh well I guess sorry to hear about that experience although it
04:37:04
Lucy / Ruby / Rileysounds like sorry was that too casual too casual I like that was kind of therapeutic low key cathartic but I mean it's good that you're not no longer a sex addict you've
04:37:16
Mandybeen in a well you [ __ ] women so you're not in a mon relationship at least I check with people before I have sex with them true do you tell them wait you I
04:37:26
Alicia Barbiedon't know if I if you mentioned that but you did you tell your partner prior when you first started dating him that you had syphilis or you didn't know I he was the one that pointed them out to me well I I knew that they were there but
04:37:38
Mandyhe was the one that said like you need to get this checked out okay you got it so he had to get the two big needles too oh I feel so bad about oh my God Don't
04:37:48
Lucy / Ruby / RileyMake Me start cry no but he stayed with you though he loves my God a CH what a man y Andrew if
04:37:59
Brian Atlasif you were single back in your your player days if a girl gave you Si lless would is that would that be a breakup or that would that would be the end of the
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Andrew Wilsonrelationship I don't blame you I no now to be you know to be fair and charitable to her um I also didn't have the carnal need of having a 7-in strap on up my
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Andrew Wilsonrear that's fa point a hot gobe you'll take maybe you'll take a couple of needles to you know well he also like kind of passes out when he sees needles
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Andrew Wilsonso that's why I also feel really bad cuz he has like a really isn't that the easy way to go though that's what I'm saying he pass out when you see needles isn't that e way take a shot yeah but it's
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Brian Atlasalso like really painful like so [ __ ] painful uh so we have moving on with the uh show here wait okay hang on wait a second so can he hold this over your
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Andrew Wilsonhead can he be like I got [ __ ] shiftless from you can't talk to me like you [ __ ] did that to me can he do that like that seems legitimate he could but I'm I'm lucky enough that he never
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Mandyhas right but I wouldn't blame him I feel like that's a really good trump card to just like I blame him if he did honestly is he is he more of a feminine guy oh yeah yeah okay that makes sense
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Andrew Wilsonwe share clothes I love that I love that is he more is he more of a feminine guy I just want to remind you 7 in strap on I just wanted I just needed the
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Andrew Wilsonclarification I just needed clarification okay cuz it was giving it was giving lots of things I lots of all things come to mind when I think masculine that ain't one of them that
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Mizyain't one of them listen I'm a bartender and I know some [ __ ] like dudes that are kinky taking things in places like that you would never expect yeah that is very true and I know who they're getting
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Mizywith who's in the bar and my mouth is closed but like shocked the most alpha male men sometimes it's like insane oh yeah so you just came it's like when Jeffree Star was like you'd be so
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Andrew Wilsonsurprised who's in my DMs bunch of basketball players maybe uh what Andrew M yeah maybe Andrew maybe Andrew's and Jeffree STS and Jeffree Stars DM yeah H you guys would be cute together did you
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Andrew Wilsonguys make did you guys make a passive gay joke it's so clever when women do that you're so clever you're so CL that's why women are so funny Andrew
04:40:26
Brian Atlasstop I needed your validation obviously we need a vagina joke stack come on guys I don't have one I'm not anybody you know what we're gonna do you know
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Brian Atlaswhat we're gonna do chat we're gonna do a uh a $69 Pizza roast party we need a brief
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Brian Atlasintermission uh so guys TTS temporarily for about 10 20 minutes is going to be reduced to $69 if you guys want to get a roast in we got to get the
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Naomisyphilis jokes I'm sorry we have to we have to they're goingon to C this they really are I already have one
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Alicia Barbiemy boyfriend and I called us ourselves uh the syphilis sisters no that's cute syphilis sisters SS that's so
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Brian Atlascute I know and we coping it's good no it's good the sisters you know all right guys uh we
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Brian Atlasare going to do that if you want get a $69 TTS in streamlabs.com whatever and uh yeah thank you guys uh $69 TTS will allow those to come through