RAGE QUIT CRASH OUT?! She REJECTED 3 Billionaires?! Hater DEBATES Brian?! | Dating Talk #265

Date: 2025-10-20

Duration: 8h 04m

Guests

Brian Atlas

BBri (Matchmaker)>

Identified Speakers

SPEAKER_02Hannah (NYU)(guest)

SPEAKER_04Sofh(guest)

SPEAKER_05Bella (SBCC)(guest)

SPEAKER_06Shay(guest)

SPEAKER_08Brian Atlas(host)

SPEAKER_11Bri (Matchmaker)(guest)

SPEAKER_12Mahi (DT263)(guest)

SPEAKER_13Karina(guest)

SPEAKER_14Kennedy(guest)

Key Moments

IntroAll 8 guests introduce themselves

Key MomentKarina's near-death cocaine OD experience: saw hell, heard God

Key MomentBri: turned down 2+ billionaires romantically

ControversySofh rage quits crying after conflict with Brian

Key MomentSofh reveals she fled a conservatorship situation and thought she was getting paid

Topics Discussed

Guest Introductions

8 guests: Sofh (tower climber), Bri (matchmaker who rejected billionaires), Karina (repo agent/born-again).

Karina Near-Death Experience

OD'd on cocaine, experienced hell (demons, torture), heard God's voice, became Christian.

Bri Rejected Billionaires

Turned down 2+ billionaires; money/status does not equal happiness.

Career vs Perfect Man

Would you marry a billionaire or pursue career? Extended debate.

Sofh Rage Quit

Sofh cries and leaves after conflict with Brian over show format criticism.

Transcript

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Brian AtlasI I would actually say overwhelmingly the people who do throw the parties typically the men. Um, but what is stopping like even women who are under the age of 21 from them hosting or throwing the parties and saying you know

Brian Atlaswhat just women only women can come in never see it. Um, and then I guess the other uh is anybody here in a sorority? >> I lived at a sorority house

Brian Atlas>> but not in a sorority. You're in a sority. Why is it the sorty girls? You guys have great houses are really nice. >> Better houses than the frat. >> They're going to get trashed. >> But why? Yeah. So, why don't the sority

Brian Atlasgirls, if it's just about, well, let's cultivate the environment to party. Why aren't the sorority houses just having parties at the sority houses amongst her sisters?

Brian Atlas>> They do. We do. >> Like, literally, my friend last or on Friday night was at a little get together with her. Well, a kickback or a pre pregame, >> but also it's like these >> are the sority houses throwing parties

Mahi (DT263)at scale that the frat parties are doing. >> No, but I also really can't answer like historically like frats have always just thrown I can't name a like I don't know any sorty that would throw parties,

Brian Atlas>> right? But so that would I I think that would speak to my point which is it would speak to my point which is uh nothing nothing is stopping sorities

Brian Atlasfrom just hosting girl only raers. Girl only raers. Let's go. You can even have non-soryity girls come over. Um, >> but also none of the houses are built for it though. Like these frat houses are like really are actually built for

Brian Atlasit. >> I mean, you can throw a party kind of wherever, I guess. Um, but uh I don't know. There is I think there's a dynamic here where it's like people do go to

Brian Atlasthese parties. Yeah, sure. To have fun, but I think there's a component there of am I gonna meet am I gonna meet a guy? If you're single, >> if you're in a relationship, then yeah, it's like probably 99%

Bri (Matchmaker)you're just there for fun. >> Yeah. >> But maybe there's still like I get to reject guy. I don't know. Whatever. >> But you don't have to go to a male validation. You don't have to go to a party or a strip club or a sorority or whatever to meet somebody. I mean, you

Bri (Matchmaker)can literally go to the grocery store. You can literally put gas like in your car. You know what I mean? There's always a time and place to meet someone. So that's why I didn't don't necessarily

Brian AtlasSure. I I agree. Like for example, um a girl could get hit on at Trader Joe's. Should >> should the boyfriend be like, "No, you're not allowed to go to Trader Joe's because you might get hit on." No, I

Brian Atlaswould I wouldn't say that. But I think I would say that um that when it comes to parties, bars, nightclubs, these are like very purposeful, intentional social

Brian Atlasgatherings. >> And like, you know, I've >> I've never seen some girl getting fingerbanged in the middle of a Trader Joe's.

Brian AtlasI was young. I was >> I know I'm Boomer Brian over here, but uh I was young once and >> I saw some crazy [ __ ] go down at college parties. I'm from Santa Barbara. Um

Brian Atlastrust me, I saw some >> insane [ __ ] People like >> [ __ ] in the corner over there. [ __ ] crazy [ __ ] >> Just crazy [ __ ] >> I believe you. When I was in my 20s, I I also saw some stuff. So

Brian Atlas>> yeah. And these were like sex parties. It was just like here's a keg. It wasn't like some weird sex party. It's like house parties and all kind like house random house party. People like [ __ ] in the [ __ ] bushes or some [ __ ]

Brian AtlasPeople [ __ ] on the beach. Y'all know what I'm talking about. I know. Um not that you do it, but you've seen >> No, I've seen it. Yeah. >> Well, let's just go down to the beach. And uh anyways, um >> I don't know. I'm just saying like it's

Brian Atlasa different vibe at Trader Joe's. And uh True. Also, there's like a component of when it comes to cheating, >> there is a degree of in any scenario of temptation. >> So, like there are circumstances that

Mahi (DT263)could be tempting >> and secrecy. >> Yeah. So, well, I think >> and then why would you want to be a partner who gets tempted like that? Like I feel like these honestly I feel like you should be why would you want to put yourself in a position? >> But I feel like you should want to you

Mahi (DT263)would want your partner to experience these things to see how they react. And I feel like I would if >> Oh, >> my like boyfriend is getting >> Sorry, you're good. >> Yeah. >> Like I kind of also want to see like how

Mahi (DT263)my boyfriend responds to things because then it also shows me who he is as a person and if I don't like what he's doing then I then I don't want to like thing like I don't want to take away all these scenarios from him and then later when I when we're more serious I find

Brian Atlasout that he actually like does can get tempted pretty easily by other women. So, >> well, I think people can make mistakes, regret those mistakes, you throw alcohol

Brian Atlasinto the mix. >> You throw a bunch of factors. Um, >> question. Do you have a celebrity crush? >> No. >> No. Anybody have a celebrity crush? >> Brad Pitt.

Brian Atlas>> Any question. If anybody was um >> like question, would you uh if Brad Pit hit you up, >> he's like, "You know what? Leave your [ __ ] fiance or whatever." >> Yeah. >> You leaving your fiance? >> No. No.

Bri (Matchmaker)>> Not for Brad Pitt. Okay. How about um >> who's like a younger >> Come on. The like Come on. >> Well, no. You're in an age gap, so I mean you're probably fine with Brad Pitt. >> Yeah. I like Yeah, exactly. Like my older men. >> Uh >> you know,

Brian Atlas>> I don't know who's a bit younger. Henry Cavill. How about Henry? >> Oh, no. No, no. >> All right. >> I'm just saying there's certain temptations that, you know, you're not wrong. You're not.

Brian Atlas>> You throw alcohol in the mix. I'm not saying it's a guarantee, but um here we have some chats come through that I got to read here. Sorry, guys. I was Did any Oh, no. I think we're good. Or wait, let

Brian Atlasme double check. Then we're going to continue on with the notes. >> There it is. Sorry, Pace. Oh, just came in.

SPEAKER_00>> A message from the government of Canada. >> Yeah. Pasty George donated $2004. My brother has been married to an Asian woman for 2 years now in Southeast Asia.

SPEAKER_00And he noticed that feminist women back home are insecure and seek constant validation while traditional women do not.

Brian Atlas>> Was there a question? >> Yo, Pasty, thank you, man. Uh, Felicity, why don't you take that seat while uh uh well, how about this final thought on this? This is uh I'm going to do I'm

Brian Atlasgoing to read it off here because I wrote it down. Dream world hypothetical scenario. >> I'm going to create a dream world for for all of you. Do I have a sound for

Brian Atlasthis? I don't think I do. Um whatever. Uh

Brian Atlasokay, here it is. Dream world scenario. So, would you be okay with your long-term monogous partner going to a nightclub, bar, or party type environment where throughout the course of the night, he's going to get

Brian Atlasapproached, flirted with, and sexually pursued by numerous attractive women, some of which might be more attractive than you, could potentially be a better

Brian Atlaspartner than you. These women are buying him drinks, getting him drunk, and enthusiastically enthusiastically want to sleep with him that night and steal

Brian Atlashim away from you. All the friends he is going out with are single, by the way. And they're all kind of [ __ ] boys, you know? They want their friend back. They want to do some hood rat [ __ ] but he's

Brian Atlaslike wife wife wifey with you, you know, not actually married, but whatever. So, they want him back. They're like our boy is all locked up in the with his girlfriend, whatever. Maybe they don't

Brian Atlashave the highest opinion opinion of you either, right? Sometimes is the case. Um, and he does this regularly, once or

Brian Atlastwice a week, I guess, in instead of spending time with you. Um, would you be okay with that scenario? >> No. If he would go for them, then I don't want him.

Brian Atlas>> You can come. Go ahead. If he would go for that, then I don't want him. >> No, no, it's not that he would go for that, but that's the position that he finds himself in. >> Oh, well, what is his response? >> I don't know.

Mahi (DT263)>> You're good. >> I mean, like, the only thing that bothers me about that is just like he prefers to go out than spending time with me. That's like the only thing like and also this was like if he did this obviously like I can't help that if he

Brian Atlaswould have single friends and whatever. So if he did this every like 2 3 weeks like sure if this is how he wants to spend his time with >> how about he uh you spend as much time with him as you want then but I mean you guys are long distance. So he's doing

Mahi (DT263)this at whatever school he's >> Yeah. Then I guess >> high school parties I guess. What the [ __ ] Okay. >> I mean yeah then I'm fine with it. I would want to see how he reacts to it then. >> Hell no. >> Hell no. >> Free will doesn't bother me. It's what

Hannah (NYU)you do. >> Okay. >> So if he put himself there no I probably wouldn't be with that man. Okay. What do I >> I don't like the situation. >> You don't like it? Okay. What do you think?

Kennedy>> I don't like the situation, obviously. I mean, as a partner, like, nobody just wants girls harassing their boyfriend just in general. Like, I

Kennedyjust find that so annoying. >> Um, but I would expect like the reaction out of my partner to respectfully decline, right? >> And also mention like, hey, I have a

Kennedygirlfriend. that he or the person does like stop pestering him. It sounds like he's being harassed. So, >> what about you? >> I don't understand why if you're in a

Karinarelationship, you want to put yourself in a position to be tempted in any way or where mistake could happen because there's not always going to be an like a

Karinaconsistency. There might be one night where, you know, he's feeling a little weaker, she's feeling a little weaker. >> You guys just had an argument. >> It's like Yeah. It's like, why are you going to put yourself in a position

Karinawhere lust can take over? The Bible says, I'm going to bring it to the Bible because this is the truth, right? The Bible say >> not everybody here is Christian, so that's >> lust. I know, but I have to bring it up because that's that's where my >> Yeah, but that's not going to be

Karinacompelling to an atheist. >> Well, I have to plant the seed. Okay, that's my job. >> Go ahead. >> Um, yeah. So, I mean, we we have to flee from lust. That that's just the thing. And I don't know why if you're in a

Bri (Matchmaker)relationship that you would put yourself in a position to be tempted, especially if it's consistently. >> What I find interesting is I forgot your your name. Sorry. >> Mahi.

Bri (Matchmaker)>> Mahi. Uh I'm sorry. I'm so sorry. >> I think you owe her a rude. >> I'm sorry. Forgive me. Um no, how she actually says the opposite. Like I find that super interesting. She's like, I

Bri (Matchmaker)want to see what my guy's going to do and like how he's going to react. I 100% would not be that confident. Like personally, I'm like, "Uh, oh no, no, no. You stay home. You whatever." But

Mahi (DT263)she's totally on another, you know what I mean? So, to each their own. >> I think it's like it's nothing to do with confidence. It's just like if I would want to find out sooner than later. Like, say he didn't go partying. Say he didn't do anything and then we we

Mahi (DT263)get married and then 10 years later like he somehow ends up at a party and then he ends up cheating on me. Like I just it's not like I want him to be constantly tempted, but I want to see how he acts in these situations just so I know he's the right one. Like I don't

Mahi (DT263)want obviously someone who's lustful for other women, but if he's not put in these situations, how will I ever know? >> To play the devil's advocate though, like how would you know? >> I mean, if I mean I mean I'm just

Mahi (DT263)playing the devil's advocate. >> I don't know. I feel like if you find out your like husband's cheating on you, maybe you don't find immediately then sometimes people don't find out at all. But I mean with social media, with >> like all our apps and everything, like I feel like you could find it on his

Sofhphone. >> Lust is inevitable at this point. >> So it's it's better to find out sooner than later the temptation of lust that you were talking about. Like I said, I'm not Christian. But I I do I I like the truth in that statement. It's like if

Sofhyou detach yourself from lust or from any temptation, this could go with drugs or in this case it's going with love. >> You don't even have to deal with it. Let's say in that

Sofhin that situation, I'd rather find out sooner than later. I could let my boyfriend roam free with dozens of models and I know that at the end of the day, because we are built on a

Sofhfoundation of trust, he'd still choose my stinky ass because it's down to the soul. You know what I mean? So, I'd rather find out sooner than later. It's down to the soul, man. I guess the point of the the point of the dream world

Brian Atlashypothetical, >> it's to articulate the point of the gender difference. >> So what what I described there where your boyfriend, he goes to the club and all these girls are hitting on him and trying to buy him drinks and they want

Brian Atlasto [ __ ] him that night, that doesn't happen. The reverse happens. Women go to the club and men buy you drinks. They're flirtatious. They want to sleep with you

Brian Atlasthat night if they can. That that's or it's a party, whatever. if you're not 21. That that's the reality. And so it's like when you flip when you kind of put

Brian Atlasit in that paradigm, it's like I don't know if I'd feel comfortable with like hordes of women just like enthusiastically offering up sex to my boyfriend. >> Yeah.

Brian Atlas>> You can kind of see, but you can maybe better see the perspective because from from us men, it's like if we go to the club and we're being good, girls ain't coming. girls aren't coming up and talking to us.

Bri (Matchmaker)>> Generally speaking, >> they might. I mean, like, look, it depends. It depends on the man. And also, like, as far as you go, I mean, okay, I'm not going to even talk about

Bri (Matchmaker)like looks, but like because you are sort of like a notable figure, women will 1,000% talk to you, you know, try to associate with you because they know who you are.

Brian AtlasThat's a very real thing. Also, >> my audience is mostly men. So, I mean, we It's like 8020. It's like 80% men. But girl, look, I think for that level

Brian Atlasof clout, like you need to be either like it has to be an interest of hers or like you have to be proper famous and be

Brian Atlaslike a musician, actor, like something else. Like girls don't really like girls don't really I I think they don't really care that much. Like

Brian Atlasif you're like semif famous on YouTube, like girls don't really give a [ __ ] unless they're a fan. Now that's different though. >> But like if I was at a club and some

Brian Atlassome girl was like, "Hey yo, that's that guy with that pod." First off, they'd be like, "Fuck that guy." >> They'd be like, "Fuck him." But um they're not like the girl be like, "Oh, okay.

Brian AtlasCool." I don't think they're gonna like I think >> unless again unless she's a fan then that's a different dynamic though. Then you got a group >> By >> that's different. >> But like a girl could see somebody who's

Brian Atlasgot real high status >> like famous athlete, musician, actor, whatever. Even if she's not really familiar with him, >> that status will become attractive

Shay>> in that context. But a YouTuber, I don't think girls give a >> I don't know. I've seen >> I don't think girls give a [ __ ] I've seen a lot of girls just go up to guys like especially at like the parties that um UCSB there's a it's a lot of girls

Mahi (DT263)going up to guys. >> Sure. >> Oh yeah. I was actually gonna say that like you said like it's a lot like the majority is men but I was going to say what I've seen like I would say it's

Brian Atlaslike maybe like 30 70 40 like >> that was ultimately my point is >> even if women will go up to guys I would

Brian Atlassay um and and I think that attention is a bit skewed. So like you'll have you'll have say you have 100 girls in a club, 100 guys in a

Brian Atlasclub, 100 girls in a party, 100 guys in a party, the tension will be skewed. Like men will more proportionately distribute the romantic or sexual interest to all the girls, whereas like

Brian AtlasI think the girls are going to like hyperfocus in on like 10 of the dudes out of the hundred. And you actually see this with like dating apps for example.

Brian Atlas>> Feel like recently men get shyer and shy and like more and more scared of to talk to women. >> Uh probably for good reason sometimes.

Brian AtlasBut um but uh I would argue though that if you do look at the frequency of which people get approached at a bar or club to your point that even if it is the

Brian Atlascase that women do occasionally approach men what I'm trying to talk about here is even though that happens it's overwhelmingly

Brian Atlasoverwhelmingly the case that women are going to be the ones who get approached. Like I would say you you put an average

Brian Atlasdude like think about the last time you went to Target or Walmart or CVS. You put the cashier at CVS in a

Brian Atlasnightclub. No girls are that guy's not talking to anybody the entire night if he's just kicking it. You put uh the

Brian Atlasgirl who works at CVS in the nightclub, bro, she's getting she's seven dudes, 10 dudes are coming in to talk to her. Come in to talk to her. That's how it is. Um

Mahi (DT263)>> like I just want to like I know woman it's Yeah. If you look at it, majority women get hit on more, but if your partner is respectful, why does it matter? Like she would reject him and go on with her night. Like that's what I'm saying. Like I know so many people who

Mahi (DT263)their boyfriends still limit them but I've seen them like like they reject the guy like they've never even played into it. >> Yeah. Sure. >> And that's what all like that was what I said like I feel like you shouldn't relationships shouldn't be like that. Like you shouldn't be restricting your

Mahi (DT263)partner especially if they're respectful. I don't understand really what they're worried about. I feel like they should also be not like happy but like they should be I don't know how like they should be happy that their partner is also rejecting and they should also have more trust in

Brian Atlasrelationship because of that. That was just like mostly my point. >> Do you think like in all instances of somebody cheating that like there was major issues in the

Brian Atlasrelationship? Or could it be the case that like alcohol, hot dude, hot girl, oops, made a mistake, cheated?

Mahi (DT263)But then also, shouldn't if you found out your partner cheated, shouldn't you, I guess, kind of be glad that you found out and you aren't like putting a lot more effort into the relationship or spending more time with them? >> Like, at least that's how I think about

Mahi (DT263)it. I think that's how my partner also thinks about it. we >> are kind of like we don't we're putting each other like we don't care that we're putting each other like we're in these situations is because if one of us ever messes up then that kind of just shows

Brian Atlasthe type of person we are and that we wouldn't want to waste any more time or effort that we're putting into the relationship >> well I think that's a compelling point and it's a good argument I I think what I would point to though is that people make mistakes people fall into

Brian Atlastemptation uh and uh hold on what somebody's saying some something in the chat and I have no idea what um I think people make mistakes,

Brian Atlaspeople fall into temptation. You throw alcohol in the mix. Uh I think it's okay for people to in a relationship to do uh

Brian Atlasit's called like mate guarding. So like trying to you might consider controlling or whatever. I do I personally consider more so having boundaries. Um, I I I

Brian Atlasthink that's kind of normal and it's like, hey, I don't want you doing XYZ. I don't know. Um, we we're going to move on to a new topic. We have Pasty George. >> Message from the government of Canada. >> From the message from the government of

SPEAKER_00Canada. >> George donated $2004. That's the thing about today's modern women influenced by feminism. It's all about them. And a man can never have a

Brian Atlashobby. She will often sabotage or guilt trip him from enjoying his chill time. >> Wait, can you just again just if you're going to speak, please speak into the microphone. Do you want to repeat it

Bri (Matchmaker)into the mic so we can >> Who hurt you, George? >> George, who hurt you, George? >> George, >> who hurt hurt you, George? >> Um, >> I love how he's just like putting out statements and like there's not really

Brian Atlasany questions, but >> I Hey, it's funny. >> No, it's cool. I think it's fine. >> It's cool. >> He's welcome to ask questions, though. Who hurt you, Pacy George. Was it some

Brian Atlasuh some It was a It was a uh It was a Vancouver chick, wasn't it? >> He's Canadian. Some girl from Vancouver broke this guy's heart.

Brian Atlas>> Broke my heart. Vancouver. Okay. Anyways. Oh, whoops. What the [ __ ] Why did I play that? Uh, okay. We're going to get into this thing really quick, but you're

Brian Atlasuh welcome back. Uh welcome back to the table. I did tell you though we would try to at least finish off your criticisms when you did rejoin. Uh did

Sofhyou want to finish that convo off? >> Sorry, say that again. >> Did you just >> I spaced out for a second. I I'm genuinely sorry. I spaced out. Can you repeat that, please?

Brian Atlas>> Yeah, just again though, can you just speak closer to the mic? Just >> I'm sorry. Can you repeat that again, please? >> Yeah. Uh you stepped away for a moment. You said when you came back you'd be

Sofhfine to uh finish off the conver we're having. I don't intend on lingering it lingering on >> It's all good, man. >> It It's just been It's been a long week. I had to take a little moment. You know, I'm not really used to sitting in in one

Sofhplace for like eight hours of time and just talking and talking. So, had to take a little step out. But >> your ancestors Wait, did you say you were Eastern European? >> I'm Moldovven. Yes.

Sofh>> Mulde. your great great great great great ancestors before they came to the United States. Do you do you know your family tree? >> Um vaguely. They're from this tiny little Moldovven village called Chilukani and we all got [ __ ] by the Russians.

Brian Atlas>> Not like actually. >> Do you know when like your when your family like immigrated here? >> Oh yeah. I'm a first gen American. >> Both both my parents are fresh out Moldova. >> Oh okay. All right. I was going to say if you've been here a couple

Brian Atlasgenerations, I was going to say like [ __ ] going back to like 17, 1800s, 1900s, whatever, your your your ancestors came here on a boat and the journey took 6 to 8 weeks and half the

Brian Atlaspeople on the boat died and you're sitting and [ __ ] you got scurvy and [ __ ] It's like, come on. You know what I mean? Like >> I wish that was the case, but my dad smuggled my mom across the border by plane. >> Yeah, that's also kind of a little

Brian Atlascrazy, right? There's a lot to unpack. She's legal now. She's >> Your dad sat on an airplane for for 20 hours coming from Muldova. You know, you got to transfer in [ __ ] Paris or

Sofh>> I was just out there. Moldova's [ __ ] beautiful. Shout out. I was planning on staying there and just becoming like a goat farmer. >> Yeah, Europe's cool. Um, >> Europe's dope. What were we talking about?

Brian Atlas>> Yeah, just I wanted I again I really don't want to linger long. I just wanted to get through the conversation super quick. >> Your criticisms. I just wanted to get through your criticisms. Do you want to at least elaborate a little bit? And again, I'll literally we we get through

Sofhit. I'll be off of it within five minutes. >> Correct me. Correct me if I'm wrong. Maybe this is just cuz sitting in one conversation and talking about from what it seems to me are very superficial frat

Sofhsorority >> boy girl boy girl. At least from my perspective on this white light for like eight hours. >> I'm offended on her behalf that you're throwing sority girls under the bus. This is >> No, no, no, no. It's just that you're

Brian Atlaslike >> really rude to Greek life. Okay, Greek life with Greek life. Plenty of high IQ conversations happening at SIGAP. Trust me. Big

Brian Atlas>> big high IQ conversations happening at SIGP at uh what is it? Atto at uh I don't know the other frats. Uh Beta Delta Zeta.

Sofh>> Mahi knows her uh geography though and history like she's A1 when she like uh >> Yeah, she Yeah, >> she's like I love my sorority home girls. It just kind of feels weird for like >> I don't know. You're like like 36 years old, sir, if you don't mind me asking.

SofhAnd he's just kind of like sitting here like asking about the intricate dynamics of like Greek life. I don't I don't know. It's just It's just new to me. >> You brought up the I wasn't asking about the You brought up the Greek life. >> It's It's just for eight hours straight. I I can't really concentrate on it much

Sofhand I'm >> We weren't talking about >> constantly recorded. It's It's just It's just all new to me. So, I need to take a step back. But hey, man, this is your show and you let me in on here. So, I'll take breaks as needed, but it's like

Sofhit's it's to each their own. I appreciate being here. I just had to take a little moment out. I'm just not used to yapping for like >> You're still yapping >> seven hours straight, but you wanted to continue the conversation. So, that's just me finishing it up, but like

Brian Atlasappreciate it, man. >> No, but what what does what does any of that have to do with your original uh criticisms? We wanted to talk about this and >> what's the next conversation?

Brian Atlas>> You invoked my age. I I'm a little confused there. What was the like issue with the age thing? >> I don't know. We also have like >> It just feels kind of off to me. Like >> we have a 33year-old, 26y old, 36y old.

Brian Atlas>> Don't remind me. >> Like sometimes the panel's younger, sometimes the panel's older. We try to diversify the panels a little bit just so it's not just like it's not just 30 year olds, it's not just 20 year olds.

Brian Atlas>> For sure. It it >> but what's weird about it? >> I don't know. It just kind of rubbed me off the wrong way considering >> why why can professors who are like in their 50s, 60s, and 70s talk to them for

Brian Atlasfor hours on end, but I can't have a one time. >> Good point. Good point. >> Good point. And by the way, they have to like pay the professors. Like they probably some of them are going into

Brian Atlasdebt st taking on student loan debt. Uh I I mean I don't actually see the issue with somebody who's older talking to a younger adult. What's the actual criticism? You want to walk that one back or

Brian Atlas>> It's all good. We can just >> It's all good, Broki. Um >> it's all good, Broki. No, it's it's >> What What is it? It gives you the ick. >> No. So, is it like if a father talks to

Brian Atlashis adult like young adult daughter, that's weird because he's older than her? >> Listen, man. It's I got >> Don't Don't get in your feelings about it. Wait, don't get >> Don't get in your feelings about it. It's not

Brian Atlas>> I'm not, man. I'm just I'm just ready to move on to the next conversation. >> Well, you you bring these things up that >> you get. No. Well, you're like you brought up Brian. It's kind of weird

Brian Atlasthat you're 36, blah, blah, blah. It's like, okay, you beget the conversation. Uh, so you don't want to explain why it's weird. Like, I'm just trying to understand. >> She said, "Fair point." >> Like,

Sofh>> about the professor comment? >> Yeah, I said fair point. >> Well, about the professor comment, but she still thinks it's weird. >> We just move on, please. Man, >> you you brought up this conversation. I

Sofhspoke my thoughts. You spoke your thoughts. I said, "Fair point. Let's move on to the next conversation." >> Okay. about the other criticisms though. There was the the other stuff. >> This was like an hour ago. Dude, I I said my points. You said your points. I said fair point.

Brian Atlas>> Why are you getting in your feelings about it? I'm not I'm not upset. >> Neither am I. >> You You seem a little little upset by it. You're like, "Move on. If If it wasn't a big deal, you wouldn't be like just move on. You're You're pouting now. You're

Brian Atlaspouting." >> I'm not pouting, man. I I just tone your tones about something else. >> Your tone's completely. >> I just genuinely want to talk about something else. Weren't we just Okay, but now we're in a meta conversation. If I say, "Hey, I'm just going to I want to

Brian Atlashear your criticisms. I'll address them, then we'll move on." But now you're doing a stonewall where you're like, "I'm just not going to state my criticisms." >> But I I already did several times and you're just kind of picking at them. So,

Brian AtlasI'd rather just continue with the conversation we were having before. I spoke my mind and that's all I really asked. >> But I was I was asking for clarification on what your criticisms were.

Brian Atlas>> Dude, I I don't know why you I'm I'm really not even pushing all that hard here, >> dude. Me neither. I would rather >> You're like Oh my god. You're You're

Sofhlike You're like >> in something else, man. Yes. >> But you brought you brought all this up. This originated with you. I stepped away.

Sofh>> You >> as you got up >> come back ready to talk about join the conversation that we're having. But the moment I stepped back in, it's like >> I was trying to contribute to their conversation like >> Yeah. No, but when when you were back

Brian Atlasthere, I said, "Hey, when you come back and before you left, you said you needed a breather. We said we would revisit the conversation so you could have the breather and then finish off the conversation. I'm I'm being good faith.

Brian AtlasI said, "I just want to have the convo and then we'll move right. You're just stalling. You're delaying. We'll move right back into the dating conversation." But I think it's fair when you like I step away from the podcast and you're like

Sofh>> a lot of this to me seems like really superficial especially considering that >> like a 36-year-old man is leading a full-grown conversation almost like >> really like gritting into like 18 19

Sofhyear old girls about our relationship with birth and sex and we're still discovering this process and every time we make a remote uh flaw and lapse in judgment it's just look maybe

SofhMaybe I have this wrong. Maybe I have this incorrect. Like I said, I'm not really used to Hollywood or being filmed for eight hours straight. But >> trust me, if you're on a Hollywood film set, they film for 12 hours. >> So, I don't I don't

Brian Atlas>> Well, now I know. Now I know. >> Like major shows, like if you look at Game of Thrones, it's an absolute [ __ ] grind. >> Uh I I don't really understand the

Brian Atlasobjection. Um, but again, the the age thing I I I can't really change my age. You guys

Brian Atlascan't change your age. It is what it is. I don't see why that's a criticism. >> Like, you think this would be a more productive conversation if some like frat boy who's never had a girlfriend was leading the convo?

Sofh>> No, I just I I wasn't talking hours straight conversation about >> just pretty superficial topics. I I don't know. I thought >> I I think this has actually had the

Brian Atlasconversation has had massive amounts of depth. Superficial would be like what's your favorite sex position which we've never done before. >> I think this is not super What's the

Brian Atlasopposite of what's apologize >> chat what's the opposite of superficial like deep depth? >> I I apologize man. Let's just keep this going. >> Uh I I I think that the uh the nature of

Brian Atlasthe conversation has actually been quite deep. We've talked about all kinds of different things. We've talked about uh >> Bless you. >> I I think often times I have criticisms that people find the the show is

Brian Atlassuperficial. Uh you know, we talk about what's your body count or you know, what do you rate your looks on a scale to 10? 1 to 10. We haven't even got there yet. We've been talking about I think deep [ __ ] We've

Brian Atlasbeen talking about uh children, marriage. Uh, I I think that that's actually pretty valid conversation. >> Good point for sure. It's just at least

Sofhon on my shoes, it's been eight hours straight of this and >> I really have admiration for these guys' stamina cuz to be honest, >> I'm ready to knock out. I'm ready to go

Sofhto sleep. So, I'm just want to let y'all take the rest of the convers. I spoke my truth. So have you. I've taken a breather. I'd rather just go back to the conversation we were having

Sofhcuz you got me cornering. Look, man. like I I had my my critiques, you had your, you know, objections to those critiques, and I said fair, valid point, and now I think it's time to move on. Like, we've been ruminating on this for

Brian Atlastoo long. >> Look, you got to understand, it's not your podcast. I'm the host, so you're not going to really dictate the terms of what we talk about, what we don't. I think it's fair game if uh especially as

Brian Atlasthe host, if somebody raises a point for me to engage them on that point. Uh, if I want to talk about banana bread for the rest of the show, uh, you guys will be hardressed to actually actually prevent me from even doing that.

Brian Atlas>> I'd be so down to talk about banana bread for the rest of the show, dude. >> In any case, though, um, I guess the final question here is you said that the it's very superficial conversation. Uh,

Brian Atlaswhy don't you ask a profound con uh, dating related question that's actually profound? Go ahead. It doesn't have to be profound, but uh >> I thought this was too superficial for you. I thought you were bored. >> It's It's not that I'm bored. Okay.

Sofh>> Okay. Well, it's too >> Can y'all tell me some sweet stories about like the hardest you you fallen in love or what love means to you? >> Well, that's >> what >> I don't know. I just wanted to lighten

Brian Atlasit up a little bit, man. >> That's [ __ ] disgusting. >> Sorry. Sorry. >> That's it. pretty good. >> That's this that sounds more superficial

Brian Atlasthan what we've been talking about. But >> can you guys tell me a little moment where you spooned your boyfriend and he

Brian Atlaswas small spoon little spoon and you pegged him afterwards? I don't know that good talk. All right.

SPEAKER_00>> A message from the government of Canada. Pasty George donated $2004. To answer chair 1's question, I'm just quoting facts from the statements and

SPEAKER_00experiences of many men who had relationships with feminist women. Also, we all know you are hurting and you show it, lol. >> Oh, for sure. Not going to argue with you on that. Like, yeah, I just want to keep the

Sofhconversation moving. I want to hear these girls' opinions. I I spoke my truth for the past like seven hours. This is not something I'm used to. >> Oh, no. What does that mean? Speak your truth. >> I spoke my mind.

Brian Atlas>> I don't like I don't like that. >> Speak I speak my truth. I believe in the truth. I don't believe in individual truths. I believe in the

Sofhtruth like objective truth. >> It's just a saying. >> No, I I I know it's just a saying. Everyone has their own truth. It's my truth that the earth is flat. Well, objectively the earth isn't flat, you

Sofhknow. >> Can we just continue this conversation? Like, I don't want this to be a dialogue. I wanted >> uh >> you you brought me back off here and I'm I'm trying to like have a group discussion and it's immediately back to

Brian Atlasboom boom boom boom boom boom boom. Like, dude, you want it? It's cool. >> I I was off of I was making a a jab at

Brian Atlasyour my truth. Yeah. >> By the way, 5 hours is not 8 hours. Just saying. Um, okay. >> Feels like it, man. God, these lights, it feels like 12. >> [ __ ] >> Uh, here we're going to do uh little uh

Brian AtlasOkay, >> Andrew Tate, ask everyone to rate their own looks on a scale of 1 to 10. >> Andrew Tate, >> ask everyone to rate their own looks on a scale of 1 to 10. You can't pick seven. So, rate your own looks. Scale of 1 to 10. Can't pick seven.

Sofh>> Bye. >> Starting with you. Go ahead. >> I'd say three on an average day. If I doll myself up correctly, I could work my way up to a five and that's about it. >> Lovely. What about you?

Brian Atlas>> 6.5. >> Uh, let's avoid like half decimals. >> No. >> Six. I guess it's going to have to be a

Karinasix or an eight. If you have to pick one, can't pick seven. >> Eight feels high. Six feels low. >> That's why he doesn't want us doing

Bri (Matchmaker)seven. Um, six. >> Okay. What about you? >> Eight. >> Eight. Okay. >> Is this actually Andrew Tate asking? >> No.

Bri (Matchmaker)>> Yes. >> Boy, bye. I refuse to answer this question. >> Okay. It's not actually Andrew Tate asking. Now, do you want to answer the question? >> I I I abhore this question. I don't >> because Andrew Tate asked it or just in

Brian Atlasgeneral. >> So, if it was like Camala Harris who asked it, would you be fine with >> anybody who asked that? >> Would it be worse if Camala asked it? Not going to answer >> because I think you're conservative, right? So, >> I'm I'm not going to answer that.

Bri (Matchmaker)>> Why? Why? Just curious. >> Um because we as people are so multi-dimensional and it's No, it's the truth. No, not in looks. I mean,

Bri (Matchmaker)>> yeah, but the question is about looks. >> This is the most like basic of the basic of questions in my >> basic questions. I love it. Now >> I don't and I refuse. >> I am becoming superficial like she accused me of.

Bri (Matchmaker)>> I refuse. >> What's that Eminem lyric like I am whatever you say I am? If I wasn't then why would you say I am? >> This this is exactly the same qu this is exactly the same response that I would give to anybody who asks um

Bri (Matchmaker)>> is it cuz you're a 10? >> No. Who asks um what do you bring to the table? Boy, >> what's wrong with that? >> Boy by this is the most >> I love that question. offensive the most. >> Why is it offensive? Why would it be

Hannah (NYU)offensive? >> No. >> Okay, we'll come back to the terrible thing. All right. What about you? >> I'm not offended by the question in the chat. >> Yeah, I think people judge on different

Hannah (NYU)scales depending on what you're attracted to. >> Eight. >> I don't know. >> Eight. Okay. >> I'd say eight. Does >> I would also say eight. >> Eight. >> 10.

Brian Atlas>> 10. Oh, I should have started over here on this side. >> Yes, queen. >> What the [ __ ] >> What the [ __ ] >> I'm a I'm a girls girl. Okay. I'm a girl's girl. >> Oh, boy. Okay. Uh, so we got a 10 and I

Bri (Matchmaker)think you want to say you're a 10. Is that it? >> No. No, that's not it. No, that's not it. I just I absolutely hate the question. I don't >> She hates it. >> I hate it beyond measure. I will not answer it. Period.

Brian Atlas>> Sue me. >> I I will I will litigate this. I'm filing a lawsuit tomorrow. >> And that is the response of the truth. >> Um, >> period. How would you rate yourself on one?

Brian Atlas>> Oh, yeah. Yeah. I forgot to rate myself. Um, >> I uh I give myself a five. >> Give myself a five. >> Cool. >> Um, >> you should bump that up. >> Can you go? >> Me? >> Yeah.

Bri (Matchmaker)>> Oh, I always say six. >> She's a 10. >> Uh, give myself a five. Yeah. Um, question. Would you uh date a guy who's shorter than you? >> I am engaged to a guy who's shorter than

Bri (Matchmaker)me >> in heels. >> No, he 2 in shorter than me regularly. >> [ __ ] >> So, >> that didn't work. Um, >> but he doesn't like me to wear heels,

Bri (Matchmaker)which I think is ridiculous cuz I I love my femininity. I love to wear heels. So, >> I don't like that heels. >> Girl, I wear heels whenever I'm not with him. Let's put it >> But he But he he doesn't like it. Would

Kennedyyou date the bald guy? >> No, I can't do the bald man. >> Oh, >> I can't do bald. >> I was the bald guy. >> What if he What if he goes bald like eventually? Is that a deal breaker? >> Okay, that's No, that's different. That's different cuz you're like

Bri (Matchmaker)>> would he need to get >> Some people can really like we'll go to Turkey and we'll fix it. We'll fix it. Like I got you, boo. Like we'll go to Turkey. But no, I can't do balds. >> You can't do balds. Why? >> Why?

Bri (Matchmaker)>> It gives me the egg. >> It gives you the egg. >> It really does. And so my dad my dad's bald. Maybe that's why maybe that's why it's like some kind of >> childhood thing. >> No. No. I can't do it. No. Shorter

Hannah (NYU)though. >> I love being a short king. >> I love me a short king. I love me a short king. I'm with her on that shorter than 510. Me too. I'm 510. I can't do short.

Brian Atlas>> Um >> see there you go. >> It's Yeah. >> Uh well I guess so. Okay. You would then assess um you would then assess a guy with a

Brian Atlasperfect full head of hair is up here, right? Like there's a hierarchy like full head hair up here bald like fullon bald or maybe Larry David. I don't know if you know who that is.

Bri (Matchmaker)>> Of course I love Larry David. Your enthusiasm is like >> like he doesn't shave his head. He's just got like the hair on the side. >> I can't. >> And he's down here in terms of hair. Like he's down here. >> I can't do the no hair. question. Would

Bri (Matchmaker)you date Larry David? >> No, I just like him. Who cares? I already told you. I told you from the from the start. I'm like, >> looks matter to me. >> Looks do matter. >> Of course they matter. >> Oh, >> of course they matter.

Brian Atlas>> So, some men are better looking than other men. >> Of course. I mean, duh. >> Duh. Of course, right? >> But you could maybe like, let's say you had a hundred men in a room, >> okay? >> You could maybe

Brian Atlas>> bring them out. Bring them out. >> Good song. You could maybe be like like if I were to ask you Yeah. not rate them, but you could be like, could you put them in order of which ones? >> I see what you're doing here.

Brian Atlas>> Um, >> could could you do that? >> Yes. >> Okay. >> Yes, I could. >> And so maybe >> Yes, I could. >> 100. Well, I mean, it wouldn't exactly work out this way. >> What are you trying to get at, Brian?

Brian Atlas>> But well, essentially, I'm saying you're able to establish a hierarchy. you're able to establish this guy's better looking than this guy >> based on my subjective preferences though because look right she just no it

Bri (Matchmaker)wouldn't be subjective we're literally the same height I'm a tall girl she's also I'm 5'10 and a half she's 5'10 I said I love me a short king I literally let a short king put a ring on it okay amongst like

Bri (Matchmaker)>> what about the baby daddy was he a short king >> no he was my height >> okay >> my height but uh but she won't do a short king but see I can't do bald. So, it's like interchangeable. It's all subjective. >> All Yeah, but I would say

Brian Atlas>> personally, I love my long hair. Maybe that's just cuz I like emo boys. >> Hold on. I thought you wanted the other girls to get involved in the convo, but I feel you're quipping. Do you know what a quip is? I feel like you're quipping a little bit. >> I just wanted that out of the conversation. I'm sorry. Okay, my mouth

Brian Atlasshut. >> Well, it's one thing. It's like, okay, you want the other girls to like have their time, be able to participate, but you you find the need to like quip about >> I just call it ad living. It's like somebody says something, I'm like

Brian Atlasretweet or like she says something, I'm like, "Yeah, she says something, I'm like, yeah." >> You add up all those adlibs, it ends up being like 30 minutes of quips. But anyways, um, so okay. Hey, hey, look. Sorry.

Brian Atlas>> If if you engaged in the debate earlier, I would have been just like, "That's fine." But you're like, you want, "Hey, move the conversation on, Brian. Talk to the other woman." >> Okay. Well, then maybe reduce the quipping anyways.

Brian Atlas>> Okay. >> I'm still here. break >> of course. Saw that coming. Little rage quit again. >> It's not I'm just taking a break. I really can't sit in one place for too long. All right. >> Okay. So, listen to >> I'm still engaged separately. I

Brian Atlasappreciate that. So, ultimately the point I was trying to make here was >> was that you would be able to create a hierarchy and then if we were to look at that hierarchy, we would be able to attribute some sort of ranking to the hierarchy.

Brian Atlas>> Sure. >> One, two, three. And it could be the case, for example,

Brian Atlas10% are 10, 10% are nine, 10% are eight. >> It could be like, >> uh, you know, there's three who are 10,

Brian Atlas>> five who are nine, 10 who are eight, >> uh, 10 who are seven, 20 who are six, 20 who are five, 20 who are four, five who are three, five who are two, one who's one. You know, it could be something

Brian Atlaslike that, right? >> Sure. you would be able to rank order it. So the point is is that you you abhore you abhore the conversation, right? You abhore the question.

Bri (Matchmaker)>> I find it benal. I find it I do. Yes, I do with my vocabulary. Uh no, I do. I find it banal and I just don't I think there are way better uses of our brain

Bri (Matchmaker)cells. Let's put it that way. Well, I I I guess my objection here is just simply >> I mean, look, I know I'm not ugly and I know I'm not Adriana Lima. Like, I was a professional model, assigned model at

Bri (Matchmaker)that. So, I clearly am above average attractiveness. And that's literally all I'm going to say about that. >> Uh, >> that's it. >> Okay, sounds good.

SPEAKER_00>> Uh, we have a chat. >> A message from the government of Canada. >> Pasty George donated $2004. Chair four, what do you bring to the

SPEAKER_00table? It does not seem like much. Also, you are a five on the attractiveness scale of 1 to 10. >> You won't answer because you do not have much to offer. Neard. >> Um,

Bri (Matchmaker)>> please. >> That is objective. >> And that's why you're behind the screen and I'm in front of it. >> Oh [ __ ] Pasty George. >> Hi. >> Behind the screen. >> Hi. >> Why don't you come? >> Oh [ __ ] She got you. Pasty George,

Bri (Matchmaker)>> why don't you come? Uh, yeah. Did you get paid for your looks ever in your life? >> Actually, he's a very He's a very handsome guy. >> Okay. Well, uh he needs to get his >> very tall, very handsome. >> Couldn't care less. >> Huge penis.

Bri (Matchmaker)>> Could not. How would you know that? >> How would you know? Couldn't care less. >> He just has big dick energy. You know, >> I am um >> Is there something you need to tell us? >> Yeah, right. >> Is this like right now? >> Huh?

Bella (SBCC)>> Wait, question. Has anyone ever noticed how blue Brian's eyes are? >> Wow. >> Is there something you need to tell us? A look look >> they are blue >> but they were I feel like they were more

Brian Atlasblue when he was younger. >> It's true that I like how you segueed. >> They've become colder. >> Can we see a picture? >> I've aged. >> Uh wait, just wait a little bit, Felicity. I know you're trying to goon over my young pictures or whatever. Just

Bri (Matchmaker)wait. Okay, we'll get to it later. >> Look, I've been like I was bullied, okay? Like since I was a child. Like like >> Well, let's not drama dump. Let's talk about the table thing. >> No, but I'm just saying so like this is

Bri (Matchmaker)not new to me. Like your opinion is totally cool and fine. You can think however you want about my outward appearance, but like I don't need anybody's validation for how I feel

Brian Atlasabout myself. Period. >> I see. Okay. Uh but you also didn't like the what the question what you bring to the table. >> Yeah. I don't like that.

Brian Atlas>> What's wrong with that? What do what do women bring to the table is my question. >> I can think of things, but I'm curious what you guys think. >> You want our children apparently. >> Yeah,

Brian Atlas>> we've been talking about that for like >> quiet back there, please. I know it's not your fault, but you guys don't be whispering back there [ __ ] [ __ ] and [ __ ]

Bri (Matchmaker)>> No, I didn't mean it like that. I said [ __ ] and I didn't have anything to follow it up with. >> All right. Um, >> what do women bring to the table? Is that like a a legitimate question right now?

Bri (Matchmaker)>> What does anyone bring to the table? >> We we literally are the portals to life. You would you know that you would not be in existence right now without one of us. Correct.

Brian Atlas>> Uh yes, I'm aware. What kind of a question is that? >> No, but I'm I'm a little bit confused. So you like for example, um she doesn't want to have kids. >> Okay.

Brian Atlas>> Um she's in a relationship. She doesn't plan to have kids at any point. Uh, I assume she brings something to the table for her boyfriend to want to be with her, unless she is the table. I don't know.

Brian Atlas>> But like this idea that women, like that's the ultimate defeater. Women have children. Are they first off? I >> No, that's not >> Are women actually doing a good job of having children?

Bella (SBCC)>> Do you want to be in a relationship with a woman? And why? >> Well, >> what >> do you want a man? >> Do you want a man or a woman? And why would you want a woman? I guess he's he's asking for like what positive

Bella (SBCC)traits do you bring aside from child birth? >> Um yeah, like personality. >> Wait, do you want a man? >> No, I'm straight. >> Wait, so then >> are you are you straight? >> Yeah. >> Is anybody here like by or anything? Just curious. No. Okay.

Bella (SBCC)>> Women clearly. >> Okay. So, here's a better way to put it. >> Here's a better way to put it. What What positive characteristics do you have as an individual >> that you could bring to a partnership? >> Well, really quick before you answer that question.

Brian Atlas>> Okay. You said like this women bring children but okay how about like when a guy is dating an 18 19 year old 20-year-old woman there's not an expectation that

Brian Atlasshe get pregnant anytime soon. So it's like what what is a woman bringing to the table beyond just children?

Bri (Matchmaker)>> Femininity. Nurture. >> Okay. >> Loyalty. >> Loy Exactly. Loyalty. Thank you. Intelligence, intellect. >> Wait, also men, >> guidance, insight, >> bring these things too.

Brian Atlas>> No, no, I was going to say men also. Men, it's like uh you need men to have children also. Men would bring that to the table. >> Intuition intu like spiritual intuition once again. >> Really? >> Yes. >> Women bring intuition. >> Absol. Absolutely.

Brian Atlas>> Wait, let's test this out. >> Of course. >> Um, who here has dated uh a bad guy? >> Show of hands. bad guy, abuser, narcissistic, >> psychopath, sociopath. >> Some would say,

Hannah (NYU)>> some >> I don't know. I I feel like every girl has like I did a narcissist story. >> I mean, that doesn't >> that intuition intuition >> that doesn't negate intuition. And I think you can see signs when you're

Hannah (NYU)younger and also ignore those signs at the same time. And then when you're older, you learn not to ignore the signs. >> How is a man going to benefit from your intuition? Like what does what how does that

Bella (SBCC)benefit your partner? >> She has an intuition that making life choices. >> I mean I'm saying I'm not saying you can't have a great intuition. I'm saying like what

Bri (Matchmaker)>> having having a solid support system. Why are the majority of men um you know dealing with loneliness with higher suicide rates uh you know

Bri (Matchmaker)>> how is your intuition going to help that? Because you are bringing something that a man does not innately have. That's >> men don't have a intuition.

Bri (Matchmaker)>> They have they operate from a different operating system. They have more logic. We have more spiritual emotional intuition. That's my

Bella (SBCC)take. >> That's my take. >> That's my take. I don't know. I know plenty of women that are like, I'm not spiritual. I don't believe in Uh, so that doesn't apply to every woman. Are

Brian Atlasyou talking about yourself? >> I'm speaking Yeah. of myself. Yeah. >> Mhm. >> Ultimately though, look, if women can ask men what they bring to the table, that's fine. I think it's fine when men ask women what they bring to the table.

Brian AtlasI think the difference is is that men tend to better answer the question. >> What do you bring to answer the question then? How did I not >> You answer the question first, then? >> I did answer your question. >> I thought you hated the question. What

Brian Atlasyou bring to the table? what I personally I just answered the question for myself. >> What do I bring to the table? Yeah, sure. I'd be happy to go into that. So, I mean, I think people bring all kinds of different things into a relationship. I think

Brian Atlas>> Yeah, I know. I'm I'm going to get to that. So, I think that uh obviously both men and women care about looks. We care about personality. We care about certain things. So, uh looks wise, I think I'm pretty average-looking, but I think I do

Brian Atlashave one or two things in my favor. Uh I'm tall, 6'1, blue eyes. That's uh probably positive characteristics on looks, but again, average looking guy. Don't don't think it's like most of what

Brian AtlasI'm bringing. The other thing I bring though is in terms of my success. Um I uh I'd probably put myself in top 1%

Brian Atlastop uh well I guess are we using percentile or percent? Top 99 percentile in terms of uh my success. This would mean that uh I am more

Brian Atlasuh more so looking for more traditional dynamic. So whoever I'm with never have to work a day in their life. Everything will be taken care of. Uh not to say that I don't have any expectations of a

Brian Atlaswoman. I definitely do. Um but everything will be taken care of. You might not value that, but there are plenty of women who highly highly value that. Uh and then the other thing I would say is I have my head on pretty

Brian Atlasfairly straight. Don't drink. Don't do drugs, don't smoke, don't gamble, don't really participate in any vices. Um, some women might not care about that, but I I have my head on fairly straight. So, um,

Brian Atlas>> all I'm hearing is money and no addictions. >> So, what else? >> Oh, yeah. I'd say I'm uh massive amounts of ambition. I'm very creative, >> hard. >> What's that? >> Hardworking. I've heard you say that before.

Brian Atlas>> Yeah. I'm very hardworking, very ambitious. Um, I'd say I'm generally pretty good leadership. >> Can I ask you a question? How much of

Bri (Matchmaker)your personal success can you attribute to a woman? >> Uh, I don't really understand the question, but >> are you saying >> zero? >> Zero, >> I guess.

Bri (Matchmaker)>> So, your mom having you, raising you, >> caring for you, you would say that contributed nothing to who you are today. Is that what you're saying? You you've totally shoehorned in this.

Brian Atlas>> I mean that your question is completely incoherent. You're talking about my my success with my business in terms of my Hold on. And like you okay your your argument is incoherent and I'll explain why.

Brian Atlas>> So and you wanted to do this like straw man basically. So what do you mean? You wanted to do a little gotcha there. I see what you're doing. >> No, I didn't. I genuinely said how much of your current uh material success is

Brian Atlasrelated to your mother? Not material, just just personal success in general, just all things. I would have to say that your parents are like probably the number one influence on your life. So then, but you wanted to not make it

Brian Atlasabout my parents or my mom. You wanted to make it about women in general. So my parents raising me would entail both my mom and my father. >> Fair. Okay. >> Okay. But I You're trying to do some% of that. >> Well, your mom's a woman.

Brian Atlas>> So, but however, >> did you interpret it that way? Cuz that's not >> That's exactly how I interpreted it. >> Okay. And also I don't see how it's relevant. How is it relevant? Like yes,

Brian AtlasI'm prepared to sit here and say yes, both my mom and father uh shaped me and helped craft me and >> that's all I'm asking. >> But I mean a lot of it is also like I I'll give them props like had great

Brian Atlasparents, wonderful parents, >> but I also believe in having my own agency >> and I would attribute my success >> to >> look I had wonderful parents. They

Brian Atlasbrought me into the world. They raised me. They took care of me. Fantastic relationship with my parents. They're great. Love them. But like in terms of I I don't even know how to quantify this. Um my parents didn't give me a million

Brian Atlasdollar loan. >> Okay? >> You know, like Trump did. >> I'm self-made. >> Okay. >> And so perhap I I don't know how do we extend this to any other. So then by

Brian Atlasthis logic anybody who's ever successful ever what percentage do we attribute that to their parents? I don't know how to >> I mean, yes, we were all We all came

Brian Atlasfrom someone. I don't What was the >> That was sort of my biggest. >> Also, even if you had shitty parents, that can motivate you. Okay, my drug's an or my drug my dad's an alcoholic. I'm never going to touch alcohol. I'm not

Brian Atlasgoing to ever have a sip of alcohol. My dad was, you know, my mom uh she was uh abusive and I used that pain as motivation to become rich. >> Okay. >> So, I I I don't really understand that. I don't know. I just don't understand

Bella (SBCC)the question. >> The conversation has been totally derailed. We're talking about what you bring to the table and you said what you brought to the table and it was like all is blank. I'm all I was kind of like uh

Bri (Matchmaker)belittled >> your reasons. Oh, all I'm hearing is that you have no addictions and that >> or whatever. >> I didn't say that. >> I said your reasons are your reasons. That's all. >> Uh

Brian Atlasyeah. I mean, uh, I mean, I'm just trying to There's obviously like I don't know if you guys want me to just like list some

Brian Atlasof the givens. Like, I don't know. I like treat my girlfriend well and like will care about her and love her. Like, but I feel like that's just like it it's not even worth

Brian Atlassaying. I'm trying to think of specific things outside of just like the bare minimum givens. Like, so I don't know. Um, >> well, you you just listed your positive.

Brian Atlas>> There's probably other I'd say like >> I'm like a maybe a six or a seven on the funny scale, >> but some my sometimes my humor is like >> that was funny.

Brian Atlas>> I some people, you know, humor humor is kind of a uh some people might think I'm like [ __ ] cringe, but I think I'm uh probably like slightly above average when it comes to humor and like women

Brian Atlasvalue humor. So, I don't know. Um, what do you bring to the table? You You're asking me what I bring to the What do you bring to the table? >> I know how to communicate. I >> I feel like that's just like given though.

Shay>> No, it is not. >> It is not a given. >> Well, no. >> I am very emotionally intelligent and I'm also intelligent. Period. >> I have an IQ test. >> Sorry. >> Have you taken the IQ test?

Shay>> No. >> Half of those are like fake bull. Um, >> I am a very nurturing person. I have a lot of goals and ambition. >> I That's what you bring to the table.

Brian Atlas>> Yeah. I'm very You said I'm a very caring. >> Yeah. That that can be a pro for When you say you have goals and ambition, you're talking about your career, right? >> I'm talking about wanting to make like

Brian Atlaswhat is your question? You're not >> When you say you have goals and ambitions, that's related primarily to like education and career, right? Yeah. >> Yeah. That's Men would not view that as something you bring to the table.

Brian Atlas>> That is something you bring to the table. >> Your perspective and my perspective. >> I have a Pokemon card collection. I bring that to the table. >> That is a very different That is not >> Women don't give a [ __ ] about It's not

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