She Says ALL Men Are UGLY?! GIGACHAD VlRGlN RETURNS! TayTay! College Feminists?! | Dating Talk #148

Date: 2024-04-01
Duration: 7h 32m

Identified Speakers

SPEAKER_00TTS Donation Reader(audience)
SPEAKER_01Mason Gregoire(guest)
SPEAKER_02Jory(guest)
SPEAKER_03Brian Atlas(host)
SPEAKER_04Alexa(guest)
SPEAKER_05Sonia(guest)
SPEAKER_06Sophia(guest)
SPEAKER_07Taylor (TayTay)(guest)
SPEAKER_08Ahe(guest)
SPEAKER_09Kiki(guest)
SPEAKER_10Maya(guest)

Key Moments

00:02:28
IntroGuest introductions round. 8 guests introduce themselves in order. Panel includes returning guests Mason Gregoire (GIGACHAD VIRGIN) and Taylor (TayTay). New guests are all young women, many UCSB college students. Sophia reveals she has never been in an official relationship.

"all right we're going to have the guests introduce themselves so please tell us your name age location"

00:32:02
QuoteSophia reveals she has never been in an official relationship, describing herself as "single for 20 years." Has only had casual talking stages.

"I actually haven't dated before like in a like official relationship so I've been single for 20 years"

01:46:34
QuoteTTS donation triggers extended transgender identity debate: "if someone is born with male chromosomes Brian and a female reproductive system are they a man or a woman if they can choose why not everyone else."

"if someone is born with male chromosomes Brian and a female reproductive system are they a man or a woman"

01:50:01
QuoteJory (22yo UCSB) states she finds 0% of men physically attractive — "honestly none." Identifies as pansexual; finds women far more visually appealing than men. This is referenced in the episode title ("She Says ALL Men Are UGLY").

"attractive starting with you honestly none"

02:01:35
QuoteBrian gives honest answer on AIS/transgender question: "I don't know." Admits uncertainty on edge cases while maintaining binary sex position for the general population.

"I don't I don't know that's my answer I don't know"

03:08:26
OtherSelf-ratings round: Ahe self-rates 7-8.5 ("not in final form, like Frieza"). Kiki rates self 4. Brian rates self 5 ("solid five"). Viewer (okydoi) rates panel left to right by clothing: leather jacket 5, denim jacket 6, black shirt 4, christmas sweater tomboy 4.5, fluffy jacket 4, ginger hair 7, black crop top 4.

"ask everyone to rate their looks on a scale of 1 to 10"

03:47:04
QuoteBrian declares himself a "Natural Body Supremacist" — strongly prefers women with no plastic surgery, no implants, no BBL, no lip filler, no labiaplasty. Would take flat chest over implants; small natural lips over filler.

"I'm a natural body supremacist"

03:51:34
QuoteMason Gregoire (GIGACHAD VIRGIN RETURNS) confirms he is a virgin waiting for marriage. Episode title reference. Brian serves as informal gatekeeper/approver for Mason's future partner.

"I'm a virgin um I'm not necessarily looking for a vir Brian's against this"

04:22:22
QuoteTaylor reveals she has a full Harley Quinn tattoo sleeve plus a face tattoo (not visible under makeup). Pushes back when Mason calls heavily tattooed women "trashy."

"I even have a face tattoo you just can't see it I'm like all tatted everywhere"

04:24:47
QuoteSonia reveals her best friend died by suicide and she found the body. Many of her tattoos were shared designs with this friend (sentimental memorial tattoos). Sonia also mentions this is her Sonia's rose tattoo.

"more than half of my tattoos my best friend also had and like I mentioned earlier in the show she unived her s and I found her body"

06:17:43
QuoteSonia states the hot take that women should not have the right to vote, arguing it pulls them away from their natural role as nurturers/caregivers, contributing to nuclear family breakdown.

"I don't think women should be able to vote hot take"

06:17:43
ControversySonia's women's voting hot take triggers extended panel debate on patriarchy, military conscription, and gender equality. Brian counters that women gained voting rights without corresponding military draft obligation. Mason points out all men must register for Selective Service at 18; women are exempt. Discussion of Ukraine men unable to leave country vs. women who fled. Brian concludes: military conscription inequality invalidates most feminist oppression arguments.

"I don't think women should be able to vote hot take wow with context of course"

07:28:00
OtherEnd of show wrap-up. Sonia doubles down on anti-women-voting position after full show of debate. Brian notes three no-shows at episode start; producer Nick recruited guests from Isla Vista. Twitch raid to WoW Grandma 78. Show ran until approximately 1 AM.

"all right guys we're going to wrap up there"

Topics Discussed

00:02:28
Guest introductions and relationship status

Panel of 8 guests introduce themselves. Notable: Mason Gregoire returning co-host (virgin, going into Air Force); Taylor "TayTay" returning (men's mental health advocate). New guests: Jory (22, UCSB psych), Ahe (21, valley, jr college), Sonia (23, Bay Area, engineering), Sophia (20, UCSB econ, never dated officially), Maya (21, UCSB public policy, married), Alexa (35, Venezuelan-American, married 8 years, farmer). Relationship status round covers: single histories, first relationships, celibacy periods. Sophia reveals she has never had an official relationship (single 20 years). Brian discusses Nala returning to Christ (real or fake discussion).

01:23:20
Dating app profile review

Brian and panel review two female guests' Hinge profiles on screen. Discussion of dating app culture, group swiping with roommates, profile quality, and whether apps attract serious or entertainment-seeking users. Sophia describes using Hinge as a group activity with roommates (AirPlaying profiles on TV). Panel debates whether this is disrespectful to men using apps in good faith. Sophia had 4 meetups from apps; none progressed. Ahe describes going to thrifting as a first date activity.

01:46:34
Transgender identity and gender debate

TTS donor asks: if someone has male chromosomes but female reproductive system, what gender are they? Extended discussion on gender vs. sex, intersex conditions, Androgen Insensitivity Syndrome (AIS), pronoun preferences, puberty blockers, and trans identity as mental illness vs. valid identity. Jory: any pronouns acceptable; gender is self-expression. Mason: calls trans identity a mental illness; wants compassionate treatment but no affirmation of delusion. Alexa: respects individual choices but won't affirm gender delusion. Brian: gave honest "I don't know" on AIS scenario; acknowledges complexity. Sonia: argues AIS and intersex aren't the same thing. Discussion of puberty blockers, detransitioners, conversion therapy. Pronoun round: Jory (any/all); Sonia, Sophia, Maya, Alexa, Taylor, Ahe (she/her); Brian (he/him).

01:49:20
"What percentage of men do you find attractive?"

Brian asks each guest what % of men they find physically attractive. Jory: 0% ("honestly none") — finds women far more visually appealing; identifies as pansexual. Ahe: 30-40% in person; lower on apps. Sonia: 50% in Bay Area (in person and apps). Sophia: ~1% on dating apps; ~20% at UCSB in person. Maya: ~25-30% in person; ~15-20% on apps. Taylor: ~45-50% in person; ~20-15% on apps. Mason: ~5% (very selective). Brian: ~50% of women walking around. Alexa: ~30-35% before marriage. Discussion of why women find apps unappealing vs. in-person. Brian attempts to show Mason off as attractive to Jory — she is unimpressed.

03:00:30
Trans women in women's sports

Discussion of whether trans women should compete in women's sports. Nearly all guests opposed. Maya: plays lacrosse at UCSB; says women fought hard for their sports space. Alexa: trans athletes should have their own division. Mason: men and women are not equal biologically; separate categories exist for good reason. Jory: doesn't care about sports but objects to exclusion in principle. Brian: most men's sports are technically open to women; asks if eliminating women's sports would be objectionable if open sports remained.

03:08:27
Self-ratings round (1-10 looks)

Stiffler (viewer) asks panel to rate own looks 1-10. Ahe: 7 (said "eight and a half, not in final form yet"). Kiki: 4 (per SPEAKER_09 segment at 11341). Others in rapid sequence (diarization partially merged): seven and a half/eight, seven, nine, five, eight mentioned. Brian: 5 ("solid five, you know"). Mason: self-rated 8 (per chunk 2 reference). Chat viewer (okydoi) rates panel left-to-right from clothing descriptions: leather jacket 5, denim jacket 6, black shirt 4, christmas sweater tomboy 4.5, fluffy jacket 4, ginger hair 7, black crop top 4. Jory objects: "the way we look is the least interesting thing about all of us."

03:10:47
What percentage of men are physically attractive (extended)

Return to the attractiveness percentage question after gender debate detour. Jory reconfirms: one in a million. Brian tries to find a male celebrity she'd call attractive — fails. Mason expresses attraction to ~5% of women. Full panel goes around again for percentages; Sophia: ~1% on hinge, ~20% UCSB in person. Maya: ~25-30% in person / 15-20% apps. Taylor: ~45-50% in person / 20-15% apps. Brian: ~50% of women. Discussion of geography and dating pool quality (Bay Area vs. UCSB vs. national).

03:40:10
Guest ideal partner types round

Going around table: what is everyone's type? Brian shares his full list (see "Brian's ideal type" topic). Jory: attentive, creative, passionate, no specific physical preferences, maybe long hair. Ahe: Black or Hispanic preferred; masculine, disciplined, goal-driven; not fashion-forward. Sonia: athletic/slim-muscular build; good hygiene; slightly shy but decisive; masculine. Sophia: artsy/confident; hygienic; mostly white guys by circumstance; surfer aesthetic; not specifically frat boys (had that phase); similar ambition level. Maya: white or East Asian; athletic; loyal, empathetic, Christian, emotionally aware. Taylor: god-fearing, ambitious, gym-goer, funny, family-oriented; Black or Mexican preferred; colored eyes, tattoos, nice teeth. Mason: God-fearing first; submissive/teachable; fit; natural body supremacist; chaotic energy / unpredictable personality (Jennifer Lawrence / Emilia Clarke type). Prefers virgin but not required. Gatekeeper role: Brian must approve his future partner.

03:45:40
Brian's ideal type / partner preferences list

Brian reads his full "ideal partner" list: slight preference for Asian or white women; short (4'9"-5'2" ideal); natural body supremacist (no implants, BBL, lip filler, labiaplasty, fake nails, heavy makeup); prefers natural body over surgically enhanced equivalent in all cases; no perfume; introverted/quiet/modest; submissive; low/zero body count; no bars/clubs; doesn't drink or do drugs; has praise kink; attentive/supportive of his mission. Showed video of woman doing deep bow; wants this as greeting from partner. Guests debate the bow: Ahe declines; Sonia says she'd do it if asked; Maya does curtsy demo; Brian accepts curtsy as alternative. Brian: "I'd prefer the bow but I will begrudgingly accept a curtsy."

04:22:22
Tattoos, piercings, and natural body discussion

Discussion of how tattoos and piercings fit into the Natural Body Supremacy framework. Brian: prefers no tattoos; small heart tattoo not a dealbreaker; scale matters. Tattoos may correlate with trauma, family issues, personality disorders — not always. Mason: tattoos may signal trashiness or financial irresponsibility; still not an absolute rule. Taylor: has full sleeve + face tattoo; pushes back on trashiness label. Sonia: has multiple tattoos, many shared with deceased best friend (sentimental). Alexa: has Harley Quinn sleeve. Discussion of why women find tattoos on men attractive (signal of danger/masculinity/aggression). Piercings: Brian less opposed than tattoos; not a fan of septum piercings. Sophia discusses nipple piercings casually; says many girls with small chests get them. Brian: tattoos/piercings done for women, not men; makeup/plastic surgery more done for men.

04:24:00
World of Warcraft / gaming tangent

Mid-show WoW Classic discussion triggered by a Twitch raid. Sophia is a WoW Classic player (Alliance warlock); debate over gnome vs. human warlock racials. Panel discusses gnome INT buff vs. human reputation gain. Brian offers $1,000 to any panelist who can say where Atiesh teleports — no one gets it. Ahe prefers Call of Duty and Mortal Kombat. Brian: would you date a guy with a level 60 gnome warlock with Atiesh? Discussion of whether gaming = unattractive.

06:06:40
Patriarchy debate

Jory argues patriarchy is real; examples: car crash test dummies designed for male bodies, medical research historically done on male subjects. Brian challenges both examples as not strong evidence of systematic oppression. Jory defines patriarchy as men being the default blueprint in society. Sonia: US is not a true patriarchy; compares to Afghanistan where women can't drive/go to school. Mason: argues lack of strong male leadership is root of societal gender confusion. Brian: the examples given are niche; military conscription is one counterexample that invalidates most feminist oppression arguments. Closing: Brian argues all feminist collective grievances fall flat against military conscription.

06:17:43
Women's voting rights / military conscription debate

Sonia hot take: women should not have the right to vote. Reasoning: women are biologically nurturers; suffrage pulled women from family role, contributing to nuclear family breakdown. Brian: supports women voting but notes inequality — men received voting rights tied to Selective Service / military conscription obligation; women got voting rights without that duty. Mason: all men registered for draft at 18; women exempt; this is an inequality. Discussion: if women want equality, should they be subject to military conscription? Jory: no one should be drafted (ideally). Brian: draft will never be abolished politically; practically it remains. Reference to Ukraine: men 18-60 unable to leave country; women able to flee and live normally. Discussion of military physical standards differences between men and women. Extended debate on whether feminism is compatible with selective military exemption.

07:28:00
Closing and end of show

Brian wraps up. Final hot take: are men or women more oppressed? Mixed answers. Brian: all feminist oppression arguments invalidated by military conscription. Sonia doubles down on anti-women-voting position. Super chat read by Mason. Would you date someone who legally owns a firearm? Near-unanimous yes. Twitch raid to WoW Grandma 78 (300 viewers, playing World of Warcraft). Three no-shows at start of episode; producer Nick went into Isla Vista to recruit last-minute guests. Show ran until approximately 1 AM.

Transcript

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05:34:30
Alexapursue people yeah okay well you don't have to really pursue someone to be rejected you can basically say hey how's it going you want to grab a drink and the person say
05:34:40
Brian Atlasno I don't no she's never she she's got the Riz bro she's got the Riz she's killing it when the dude steps boom it's on okay good
05:34:54
Brian Atlastalk wait okay um we talked about that Sonia you wanted to talk about um hold on you said you lied about your
05:35:04
Brian Atlasage on a dating app I did yikes oh my God bro chill chill out man
05:35:11
Brian Atlasgodamn every time freaking out not you wait in high school
05:35:19
Brian Atlasyeah boy I was I was 17 unfortunately unfortunately I'm very ashamed damn bro you trying to get trying to catch kick no you lie about
05:35:32
Brian Atlasyour age so like you were were you dating these dudes were you dating these dudes um no I wasn't even meeting up with half
05:35:41
Soniaof them so you met up with the other half I mean like no I mean no no I I wasn't meeting up with any of them um
05:35:53
Soniait's because in high school I was really really really shy introverted um I didn't have a lot of friends no I've never been in a relationship like in
05:36:05
Soniathat point in senior year I Haven I didn't even have my first kiss at that point um and I was kind of I was also diagnosed with like depression and
05:36:16
Soniaanxiety in high school mhm um you also said here that you are you're autistic is that correct yeah okay so it's really hard for me to like I don't relate to a
05:36:27
Sonialot of people um especially people my age um being on the Spectrum um I've also been diagnosed with a border Borderline Personality
05:36:39
SoniaDisorder so it makes it very yeah but but this was before it got romanticized and being like Oh yeah I have borderline personality anybody else show of hands B
05:36:51
Brian AtlasBPD it's not anything I'm proud of in fact I don't want BPD that mean any bipolar any
05:36:59
Brian Atlasbipolar going once going twice NPD Nar NPD narcissistic personality
05:37:07
Soniaanybody ber going once go ahead continue um and I I just really don't like the fact that people romanticize about it or
05:37:19
Soniaromanticize it on Tik Tok and they're like oh yeah I have BPD no it's not fun it really ruins everything it ruins relationships it ruins relationships with your parents with your your
05:37:30
Brian Atlassiblings with people that you're trying to date it's not fun um so BPD can manifest s differently for different people when it comes to your romantic
05:37:41
Soniarelationships how does it negatively manifest itself for you so um I didn't realize I had it until I joined a family therapy group with
05:37:53
TTS Donation Readeranother Russian Lady cuz we speak Russian um and she said she told D killer of cereal donated $100 better chance female or male if a
05:38:05
TTS Donation Readerguy got naked had would and tried to coerce a female over after just meeting they would be in jail a man wouldn't call cops on her for same behavior
05:38:17
Brian Atlasthoughts well he should what bro what the [ __ ] is this what hold on if a guy got naked had would try to it's like a sex over after just wait
05:38:30
Brian Atlasthey would be in jail a man wouldn't call cops on her so like a girl shows up wait naked gu naked yeah like on the date like public nudity you got other
05:38:41
Brian Atlasproblems that's like that's a crime right there like that's already crazy yes that's public exposure wait so Mason here's this well I don't know if this is going to apply to you like I show up to
05:38:51
Taylor (TayTay)a date at the beach and she's just like I'm a nudist and she's like she's a godfear she's got fear enough my God I
05:39:03
Brian Atlaswhat's your answer now me but she's like trying to chase me a naked woman trying to chase me I might call the cops in that situation I'd be like I'm like bro she's trying to like but what if she was attractive she's on drugs what what if
05:39:16
Brian Atlasshe was attractive what if she was attractive but she's trying to like if she B what if what if she bows what she bow this is such a ridiculous scenario like what she bow basically I guess what
05:39:29
Brian Atlashe's saying is like the standards are like different for like legally yes it's there is a double 100% legally there's a double standard thing wait what let go back though let's go back I think you're
05:39:39
Soniasaying how it manifests oh yeah so um in dating um it was very much black and white like all or nothing so for example
05:39:51
Soniaif this person didn't talk to me for example for an hour I'm not saying I'm like this now cuz I had a lot of therapy
05:39:58
Soniaand I'm happy to say that I'm improved um I would block them and just never talk to them again if they didn't
05:40:07
Soniarespond to my message oh impulsive but would you like unblock them or just like straight up block them and then I would unblock them and then they'd be like why did you do that and I'm like I'm sorry
05:40:20
Soniathe highs and lows a lot yeah very high very low um and then uh I'm trying to think of another thing that I did cuz I don't do it a lot
05:40:31
Soniaanymore uh a lot of seeking validation huh okay so a lot of people who have BPD are very impulsive so it it could be
05:40:41
Sonialike drugs uh sex with money for me it's with money unfortunately wait prostitution like they have sex with a lot of people
05:40:53
Soniawait sex with money hold on no no no like am I misunderstanding spending spending impulsively spending I'm sorry things my bad I'm
05:41:03
Soniasorry for me it's it's spending money um so I'm definitely not proud of that um so I kind of compensate by
05:41:15
Soniaoverworking and then that that just gives me burnout um but for example I I've never been drunk I don't do drugs
05:41:24
Soniaoh there you go um so I mean I I I got high but that was anyways but a lot of people do
05:41:34
Soniathatp what what I didn't say anything all the worst one no no okay well it's legal in California um okay yeah so I
05:41:46
Soniadidn't go down that route it was more spending money um luckily I do have a good relationship with my family where
05:41:53
Brian Atlasthey were like you need help we're going to help you so yeah and I ruined a lot of relationships can you give us like one
05:42:05
Brian Atlaslike the most glaring example like actually get into what you did that just destroyed one of these
05:42:14
Soniarelationships because of the BPD um I'm trying to think manslaughter yeah no I'm just kidding
05:42:29
Soniaum it's more like taking things to the extreme how so um so I would go so far to ask like do you like me do you still like me oh you don't like me
05:42:41
Brian Atlasbecause you don't you like we're not hanging out yeah you overthink everything but not only that you would like would you constantly do it constantly like it wouldn't you would
05:42:51
Sonialike every time you saw the person every time every time it was it's really awful and I'm not proud of that I did that I
05:42:58
Soniadidn't have any control over myself um and it's just it's really overwhelming um and like I said I don't like how
05:43:11
Soniapeople are saying like oh yeah I have BPD I'm insane like I don't I wish I didn't have it and a lot of BPD actually stems from trauma from
05:43:21
Soniachildhood so a big chunk of my childhood is don't tell us details but you can be General no I don't remember it okay oh cuz you blocked it from because the
05:43:31
Soniahuman brain is insane it it can block huge chunks of your m and it can only be brought back which I don't know if anyone believes in in hypnotherapy so it gives you gets you
05:43:43
Soniainto like a deeper State of Consciousness because like we said we we don't know anything about the human brain or a lot yeah I have one more question for you on something else
05:43:55
Brian Atlasyou've said but before I get there we always do it every single show does body count matter yes starting
05:44:05
Kikiwith you to a certain extent like if it's too big it's concerning okay same
05:44:12
Mayaresponse if yeah not too many yes kind of STDs matter okay yeah that's fair matter yes they it matters yes yes
05:44:24
Brian Atlasbody count matters of course so followup question do you think it's insecure for a man to care about a woman's body
05:44:35
Brian Atlascount only if it's one of the first things they bring up first thing hi nice to meet you Cindy what's your body what's your body count how many
05:44:50
Mayapenises no it's not inure I feel like if it's the first thing that's a little we indicative thinking what's shot good to meet and can you bow also can you bow
05:45:02
Sophiabody count can you bow also like if he has a higher body count and he is like super like weird about you having a body count like over like over three or something and like he has a higher body
05:45:15
Sophiacount than you I think that's really weird I'm just just I don't think it's that weird hypocritical no not really why don't you think it's weird I don't think it's that weird well I don't think okay
05:45:26
Brian AtlasI here's my argument I don't think in order to desire a trait in a partner you need to possess that trait now if you make a judgment about it then that's different and if you're like well people
05:45:38
Brian Atlaswho have high body counts are pieces of [ __ ] and blah blah like then and you have a high body count yourself I I don't even know if it'd be hypocritical if you're like yeah I'm a piece of [ __ ] yeah well there you go I
05:45:52
Alexaacknowledge I'm a piece of [ __ ] that would be one thing but if you're judging someone cuz you're what what would you consider a high buy count what what is I mean it depends on age it depends on the
05:46:01
Brian Atlasage okay so let's say someone in I think years old once you get over 10 I think that's a pretty good cut off I 10
05:46:09
Brian Atlasyears for a second 10 years old no 10 the body count the body count Jesus Christ regardless of age F
05:46:20
Brian Atlasgirls um yes yeah body count over 10 that's high okay uh getting into the high territory high for a woman or for a
05:46:29
Brian Atlasman uh well I'm not in favor of male promiscuity either right I'm either um but I mean I do think are differences between men and women um but I don't think it's necessarily
05:46:42
Brian Atlashypocritical or weird because like for example as a guy let's say you've you've accumulated the high body count and perhaps you realized like you've had a shift and you're like ah actually this
05:46:53
Brian Atlaswas not the correct way to move in the dating Marketplace uh I actually have determined I value long-term relationships and uh and I acknowledge
05:47:04
Brian Atlasthat having a high body count having a promiscuous past having a lot of sexual partners is bad in a lot of ways it's a there's a potential higher risk of STDs as you mentioned there's a impact on pair bonding there's a greater
05:47:17
Brian Atlaslikelihood of infidelity there's a greater likelihood of reporting relationship dissatisfaction um and there's a greater likelihood if you're inclined to get married a greater likelihood of divorce and they've studied this so the more
05:47:29
Brian Atlaspremarital sex premarital sexual partners you've had the greater likelihood of all those things uh so you can like realiz iiz oh I [ __ ] up but if I'm going to make the most Optimum
05:47:40
Brian Atlasdating choice I can the most Optimum dating Choice might include dating somebody who's not promiscuous doesn't have a promiscuous past has a low body count I don't think that that's uh
05:47:52
Sophiaobjectionable so what if you were to meet a woman that went through the exact same experience you did of she had to pass like that where she was very promiscuous and then she decided that
05:48:04
Sophiathat was not the direction she wanted to go what you still judge her for having a high body count even though she went through the same realization you did um what so the question is would I
05:48:16
Brian Atlasjudge her she had the same realization pris past same like let's just say she has the same body count say like exact same like basically um experience you did as a woman so here's the scenario I
05:48:29
Brian Atlashave 100 I'm not saying this is my body count I have a 100 body count she has a 100 body count we both came to the realization that this is not uh you know
05:48:39
Brian Atlasthis being promiscuous is not good trying to you know turn a new Leaf yeah I would disqualify her I would disqualify her 100 body count I think that's hypocritical but it's not
05:48:51
Brian Atlashypocritical it's not hypocritical it can be your preference but I think it's hypocritical no because you're not obliged to date somebody you can use any sort of
05:49:03
Brian Atlasjudgment or disqualifying metrics that you can use to disqualify somebody totally it's not hypocritical I wouldn't date this okay do you think that in order to date somebody you need to
05:49:14
Sophiapossess all the same traits in order to date them well no no I'm just saying if you're going to so basically you have this preference because in my head at
05:49:26
Sophialeast because you were at least judging some part of that body count because that that is like taking everything else aside you are judging her body count sure
05:49:37
Sophiaokay let's say I am so me saying so what I'm saying is that you judging her body count when you did the exact same thing and have the exact same body count is hypocritical no not I'm I don't think so
05:49:49
SophiaI don't think it I'm saying you're entitled to that opinion but I think it's hypocritical I think it'd be hypocritical if you if you were making
05:50:00
Brian Atlasa sort of like a a criticism of of them like if you're like you're a piece of [ __ ] but I'm not a
05:50:08
Brian Atlaspiece of [ __ ] but you're a piece of [ __ ] but if it's like well I did this but I acknowledge if I'm trying to maximize
05:50:18
Brian Atlasthe type of partner that I want to be with despite myself doing it I acknowledge that this is a terrible thing to have in a partner this is a bad thing to have in a partner I don't think
05:50:30
Brian Atlasit's hypocritical because then you're just making a an optimization when it comes to who you choose to date and not date but basically you want to be accepted by
05:50:41
Sophiasomeone that that is okay with your body count so you want someone to not judge your own body count but you are willing to judge someone else for that body
05:50:51
Brian Atlascount so I think in that in a general sense it is hypocritical but again so are you obliged to date someone who you
05:51:02
Brian Atlasare you saying you cannot date somebody no that's what I'm saying okay in order for you to want to be with someone need
05:51:11
Brian Atlasyou be exactly the same not at all okay like so are there things that you desire in a partner that you yourself don't
05:51:20
Sophiapossess sure like what um maybe they're really good at
05:51:28
Sophiasports I don't I don't have that ability okay maybe I'm you know maybe or maybe they're really good at playing the
05:51:39
Brian Atlasviolin well here's I I'll give you a couple examples right because there's a whole if we're speaking in generalities here yeah there's a lot of things that
05:51:48
Brian Atlaswomen possess in men that they very frequently never possess in themsel so maybe this is more double standard than hypocrisy but for example uh May because
05:52:01
Brian Atlasyou're saying well if a guy has a high body count and he wants a woman with a low body count that would be hypocritical but what about women for example who are not funny who desire a man who's funny there's a lot of women
05:52:12
Brian Atlaswho really value humor in a partner mhm but they are not they're not funny at all would you agree with that yeah sure okay what about a woman who's broke but
05:52:22
Brian Atlasshe's attracted to a billionaire would you fault her for that attraction um would I wait say that again would you fault a woman who's broke being attracted to a billionaire
05:52:34
Brian Atlaslet's say she has access to dating a billionaire I mean would it be hypocritical of her to date to take the opportunity to date what is an optimal dating move I think I think the
05:52:45
Sophiadifference is is that if a guy were to possess all the qualities she wanted but like was also broke like her and she turned him down I think that is a little bit hypocritical maybe she has her reasons for it or maybe it's a double
05:52:58
Sophiastandard whatever you know word you would use to describe it but um I think like she can have those preferences I think that she's going to turn away someone that has the same
05:53:09
Sophiaqualities as her but she wants something better I think it it is a little funny you know like and that's kind of all I'm saying I'm saying you can have that preference and like and you know that's
05:53:21
Sophiawhat you want I'm just saying that it is kind of funny that that is your standard when you C when you yourself don't meet that standard well I mean then everybody in
05:53:31
Brian Atlasthe history of dating I would argue is engaging in this double standard hypocrisy because again I would argue that the vast majority of women desire
05:53:41
Brian Atlastraits in men that they don't possess that's true like okay look I I'll I'll just go down the list I have it written down here so okay you'll they'll want a traditional men but
05:53:53
Brian Atlasthey're not traditional so chivalry you'll have modern women who really strongly desire like all the chivalrous treatment but they're like super modern
05:54:04
Brian Atlaswomen they want a charismatic man what what woman doesn't want a charismatic guy but they're totally devoid of any charisma at all this one's not totally fair because
05:54:15
Brian Atlasthere's sexual dimorphism but a tall you know women want tall men but they're not tall doesn't make them Hypocrites um they want a guy who's strong but maybe they're not physically strong themselves
05:54:27
Brian Atlasthey want a dominant man but they're not dominant they want a man who takes initiative but they've never taken initiative in their life they want a man to chase but they don't chase they want was confident but they're not confident
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Brian Atlasappreciate it LP appreciate it um and look there's some dudes that are maybe delusional in Desiring like all these traits and women that well
05:55:11
Brian Atlasfism what just like okay so here's the here's here's a bit of a differential on the whole body count thing right so I think men tend to care
05:55:22
Brian Atlasfar more about body count than do women MH and one of the reasons is based in evos pych evolutionary psychology so one of the reasons why I think men care far more about this than women when it comes
05:55:33
Brian Atlasto either female virginity or lack of promis or just having a low body count so I believe it was in the 1980s when we were able to um you know we started
05:55:43
Brian Atlassequencing DNA we could determine the paternity of fathers with certainty prior to the 1980s and again even with
05:55:51
Brian Atlasthe uh the uh invention of DNA testing that doesn't undo hundreds of thousands
05:55:58
Brian Atlasof years of evolution in this regard so if a woman gets pregnant you know for certain that she's the mother in every instance like if you're pregnant well
05:56:10
Brian Atlasyou're carrying the child so that's there's no doubt to maternity but when it comes to paternity there's not really a way to know now I know we have DNA tests now
05:56:22
Brian Atlasbut that doesn't again it doesn't undo uh you know the hundreds of thousands of years of evolution here so men they can't we can't know who the father is
05:56:33
Brian Atlasreally like unless we had our eyes on you 24/7 one of the biggest L's that you can take in life as a guy is to raise a
05:56:43
Brian Atlaschild that you think is yours but isn't so men have a much more vested interest in ensuring the paternity of their children whereas for women there's never
05:56:53
Brian Atlasa doubt of uh who's the parent for you that's never a concern um for example if a man has 10 wives who are all loyal to
05:57:04
Brian Atlashim you know who the father mother is and you know who the mother is for each of those children that ends up getting born but if one woman has 10 husbands and they're all assume before you know
05:57:15
Brian Atlasassume there's no DNA testing um and all those men the 10 men are having sex with that woman there you don't know who the father is who's the
05:57:26
Brian Atlasfather okay and so how does this relate to body count well that's why men care about it more because there's an evolutionary psych psychology basis DNA to
05:57:38
Brian Atlascare social there's cultural reasons but there's there is a evolutionary reason for men to care more about this and that's why men tend to be more territorial okay women are more women are very territorial for a different
05:57:51
Brian Atlasreason though and that comes down to like since men tend to be fall into the provider role women will be much more territorial when it comes to male provisioning so if a male is like for example paying for another girl's only
05:58:03
Brian Atlasfans and you're in a relationship with him that's like a huge [ __ ] slight to a woman or as a woman like you might be like object more to a man like financially um providing for another
05:58:15
Brian Atlaswoman as compared to like sexual infidelity they're both bad don't get me wrong but like that'd be I mean I probably would care more about infidelity but yeah that's fine um
05:58:27
Sophiarelating to the body count though and how I can see how over the years that has mattered but I think now that you have genetic testing it's it kind of does take it away and now it's it
05:58:38
Sophiadoesn't though like you're saying we're kind of wired like men are wired to care about body count but you can't intellectualize that that gut thing
05:58:49
Sophiaaway yeah like if it's also just be how guys are raised you know that there's kind of like just like through culture you know maybe that is also part of it what's the culture the culture that body
05:59:01
Sophiacount matters for women women that women I feel like I I don't think it matters more for women than men but you know
05:59:12
Brian Atlasum I think well yeah I mean I've I've already made the argument for paternity certainty so there's that component but culturally
05:59:23
Brian Atlasspeaking um who do you think is more desirous of virgins men or women I think with Purity culture I would think men Purity culture okay well
05:59:35
Brian Atlasit seems to me that there's not like a large subset of women who are like even women who have lost their own virginity who are like wow it would be really cool to like hook up or date someone who's a
05:59:48
Brian Atlasvirgin whereas I think there's a high much higher proportion of men who'd be interested in that I agree and so you're saying that's because of evolution or what you're I think there's a biological basis there's
05:59:59
Sophiaa cultural basis I think I think there's a religious B basis I think that has been like a major part I mean Christianity obviously but that's fair but I think it probably varies depending
06:00:11
Sophiaon each culture but I think in the US religion has been a huge part of it like um also the way that women were used like um used in marriages yeah what do
06:00:24
Sophiayou mean used in marriages used in marriages like to form alliances and they were expected to be pure for their husbands and arrange marriages that's what I was talking about I think they were being used but yeah they were being
06:00:36
SophiaI don't know I kind of object to the term used but um I mean I would argue that are you talking like arranged marriages not currently in the past how they were arranged marriages were women were being used yeah I don't they were
06:00:49
Sophiabeing used what about the men who were also part of that like there's two sides of that the man was arranged to marry her too yeah but he also he get a choice okay but here's the thing and usually this is how it went that it was just
06:01:03
Sophialike they could have Mistresses they could pretty much continue their life they yeah are you talking like monarchs like maybe Kings like way back yeah I'm not talking about like okay now I don't know if the peasantry really had much
06:01:14
Brian Atlasaccess to mistresses that was yeah that was more I mean I think for maybe you can speak better on this but my understanding of Christianity is that well chrity specif monogamy
06:01:24
Sophiawas pretty that was the okay sorry I was talking I kind of like went all over the place a little bit Yeah so okay I'll stick to Christianity um I think that just like the whole religion itself
06:01:36
Sophiawith Mary being pregnant and still being a virgin um I think that like that Rel like religion was founded on women being
06:01:45
Sophiapure and the fact that is that a bad thing for women to be pure I I don't think it's a bad thing in itself if
06:01:55
Sophiawomen choose that but when they are expected to be pure and it's kind of and when they're not like allowed to do what they want or aren't allowed to have access to like birth control and stuff
06:02:07
Sophiaand stuff like that it's a bigger issue yeah we don't have to get into that I'm just saying it can't have what is the so what would be the counter what would be the alternative to Purity the alternative generously yeah but I it doesn't have to
06:02:19
Sophiabe like a complet like you know if it's a scale and like this is once it does we don't have to go to the complete other side I'm just saying that it it's all about just like women being able to
06:02:30
Sophiachoose do you think women are happy with hookup culture though not necessarily women are happy with it no I'm not saying I'm not saying that you have to
06:02:39
Mason Gregoirego to hookup culture well that's isn't that the status quo no but like you you live in ID Vista I do yeah is hookup culture the status quo it is here yeah for sure I mean you said you've been single for 20 years I would actually
06:02:52
Mason Gregoiremake the argument that women in history in patriarchal societies were happier than women are today in our society should we talk about we can talk about I mean would I want to get to the
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Brian Atlasrock brain he called me brain yo thank you man the old Bowl in Minnesota Minnesota thank you man I don't know which side he was wait we
06:03:38
Brian Atlaswe'll come to that really quick that will probably be the last topic of conversation really quick on the body count thing uh what's your body count
06:03:45
Brian Atlasstarting with you zero five nine pass oh come on Range range less than
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Ahe10 eight seven eight eight pass oh come on sorry you can't do that I don't want to
06:04:06
Brian Atlasanswer like not on here now over 10 yes over 20 no over 50 no over 100 hell no sorry sorry I was just yeah okay what what about you
06:04:21
Ahefour cool cool multiply by three and that's the real number for all of you I'm not singling any of you out looking me directly in my eyes when you say
06:04:33
Brian Atlasthat you got to do the math there do the math boys do the math I know it's complicated okay uh wait so the patriarchy is that what is that what you guys want to talk about let's talk really quick oh who
06:04:45
Sophiahere considers themsel a feminist feminist not really come on you don't know just there's so many like there's
06:04:55
Brian Atlasdifferent waves of feminism too I don't know maybe like first gen first yeah is there how about this we were talking about uh we go around here feminist feminist
06:05:06
Brian Atlasuh is there is there a patriarchy to an extent yeah to an extent yeah okay same yeah
06:05:16
Brian Atlasno yeah yeah I I yes no uh yeah there oh there is a patriarchy okay goodness we may be
06:05:29
Brian Atlasdiffer on this I reject that there's a patriarchy I reject the patriarchy although
06:06:35
Brian Atlaseffects for example that's almost like an attempt to protect women and to protect unborn children for example so that's one of the reasons why typically they'll do uh
06:06:47
Brian Atlastesting more so on men than women is the risk to a potential unknown unborn child do you think that's a a fair thing that's reasonable not necessarily
06:06:59
Jorybecause I'm sure there's plenty of women who know for a fact they're not pregnant and shouldn't be excluded from research studies sure but that's one consideration the
06:07:08
Brian Atlasother consideration is that could it also be the case that men are more willing to participate in these sorts of
06:07:18
Brian Atlasstudies where they're getting injected or pumped full of um experiment experimental drugs and women tend to have care a bit
06:07:29
Jorymore about their health and are less willing to put their health at risk in a uh you you know to test out some brand new drug that could be a factor but I still don't see why that would prevent
06:07:41
Sophiathere from being enough research on women there still could be more done I agree perhaps I feel like it has more to to do with the fact that women are harder to predict what their hormones
06:07:53
Sophiaand the Cycles that's the other thing the the impact of hormones so which is like I can understand how that makes research harder but at the same time women are you know like half the
06:08:04
Brian Atlaspopulation so the the other thing I wanted to just add to that is that I mean I could make a counterargument saying well when it comes to birth control for example
06:08:15
Brian Atlasthere's like dozens of birth control options for women there's zero birth control options for men I mean there's vasectomy and but that I mean I don't
06:08:26
Joryreally my counterargument to that would be because birth control is unpleasant most of the time and so the burden of it is placed on us if it were truly equal then there would be just as many options
06:08:38
Brian Atlasfor men as well well I think part of it is that it's it's if there was a birth control available for men it would put a lot of
06:08:49
Brian Atlasreproductive control uh it would give men a substantial amount of reproductive control and um it's interesting to me that there hasn't been one that's
06:09:01
Brian Atlasdeveloped I would like that for be for there to be one it would be nice if we all had options and also my understanding is when it comes to being able to control uh
06:09:13
Brian Atlasreproduction uh the mechanisms by which that's done vary so greatly between men and women you say well it would be uncomfortable for men but it's much and perhaps this is why there hasn't really
06:09:25
Brian Atlasbeen a development in men's birth control is that it's actually far just easier to find mechanisms to control women's um
06:09:36
Brian Atlasuh you know to provide birth control for women as compared to men the mechanism is far more difficult there and I've heard the the drugs are much more
06:09:46
Brian Atlasimpactful on men than their counterparts in women okay I was going to say okay let's not linger too long on that you had more examples of the patriarchy oh
06:09:57
Jorythat's where we were going there so it's nothing too I'm not bringing up anything that's too deep or serious it's just examples of things that are kind of made with men as the default in mind like
06:10:07
Jorycars for example impact in a crash is made with the survivability test done on male mannequins so it's not really built for our bodies we're not quite as likely
06:10:19
Mason Gregoireto survive isn't that just the the nature of a oh sorry isn't that just the like the nature of a vehicle
06:10:28
Mason Gregoireimpact it doesn't have to be though no I mean like as a student of physics it doesn't really matter what the object is like the impact is going to be the same manin has titties like did we got to
06:10:41
Ahegive the mannequin titties I don't think so yeah I do know what you're talking about though I feel it mostly it's just that um impact we have to do like a lot more like adjustments for the car we have to um lower the wheel like way
06:10:54
Mason Gregoirelower so that if we were to get impacted it would hit our chest and not our face but you have the option to lower the wheel which which is so I mean like but
06:11:03
Mason Gregoirethose those advancements benefit both men and women like it's not the man's fault that uh he's more substantial like
06:11:13
Mason Gregoirebodywise like I I don't see like I guess yeah you could make an argument that it's not equal that men are more um or less fragile than women yeah that's true
06:11:26
Mason Gregoirebut like yeah I just don't see how we can remedy that I think it what's what's the system there that makes men less fragile than women I think it mostly has to do
06:11:38
Sophiawith like the the height of stuff like I think that what you guys are saying is that it has like accommodations and stuff cuz as you said I haven't like actually I've only heard about this I don't really know much about it to
06:11:49
Sophiareally comment on it but I think what you guys are talking about is that like for example like the seat belt has to like sit like a certain way but if you're like like usually you can adjust like the you know the part where it
06:12:00
Sophiaconnects to the car but like if you're like for me at least I am average height for a woman and I still struggle to like adjust the seat and adjust like you know everything in the car to my height and
06:12:12
Sophialike if I was any shorter like I don't know if I could really see that well over a steering wheel stuff like that that it's just like it's not really I could make the same argument for short men I know like I mean there are like
06:12:24
Mason Gregoiremen experience like what about Shaq I mean he has to buy specific cars like I can come up with examples as well like are we prejudice against those men I
06:12:34
Mason Gregoirethink it's just on average she's saying like just what most likely War them in to strugle with I don't totally buy that I'm just saying like I'm just say I think arit yeah I don't see it as a a
06:12:47
Brian Atlasproduct of the patriarchy I just see it as a product of women being a little more fragile than men wait can I I want to jump in really quick back on the the like you you were saying like drug
06:12:58
Brian Atlasexperiments were mostly are the not necessar just drug just medical so your argument is there's evidence of a patriarchy because men are human guinea pigs is that no because a lot of these
06:13:10
Brian Atlasresearch that are done in that way are not necessarily in that kind of well you could make the argument that somehow because it's more well researched in men that perhaps these medications it's it's better understood their impact in men
06:13:23
Brian Atlaswhich could ostensibly down the road have a negative impact in women because it wasn't studied enough however if we're looking at the actual fact that men are the human guinea pigs for the
06:13:35
Brian Atlasthese experimental drug treatments couldn't it couldn't you make an opposite argument that men are so desperate to for money that they're willing
06:13:44
Sophiato under like go into these studies if they're making if the people designing the studies have to you know find the people they're doing the research on so
06:13:55
Sophiathey have to tell you know tell the public of if they're looking for males or females so what if there's just less women who are willing to volunte here I doubt it I out of the whole world you
06:14:07
Sophiacan I'm sure you can find women you know what I mean like I like I'm sure that if you're offering money there's enough there's going to be enough women to do it do you think let's Okay are men or do
06:14:19
Brian Atlasyou think men or women are more likely to be willing to maybe they're in a bind financially I don't think people are being human guinea pigs for like uh benevolent
06:14:31
Brian Atlasreasons I think they do it because they need money yeah I don't think they're like I want to help Advance science go inject me with this unknown thing I think they do it because they're desperate for money I'm also kind of
06:14:43
Mason Gregoireinterested I know like consumerism data for women like the if you take 100% of people who consume things 80% of that are women and 20% of that are men I
06:14:54
Mason Gregoirewonder if that's the you could make that same comparison to the medical industry like if 80% of the consumption in the medical industry is women and 20% men CU
06:15:03
Mason GregoireI know in consumerism just in general women women consume 80% of the stuffs so if you could carry that over to the medical industry it wouldn't make much
06:15:13
Mason Gregoiresense that like the medical industry is biasing all of their research towards men now I don't know maybe it is but but their consumer base they know
06:15:25
Mason Gregoirestatistically is largely women it just doesn't make much sense to me I I don't know maybe there's like statistics to disprove that I just like as I'm thinking through it it just doesn't make
06:15:37
Sophiatoo much sense no yeah and I what I think it I don't know if it's like women are purposly being discluded um for I don't even know like for what reason what I'm saying is that
06:15:50
SophiaI think that women are being discluded because they're harder to do research on because of the tracking you know it's like you'd have to put in more effort to
06:16:00
Brian Atlassomehow make all the you know take away the factors of hormones and Cycles right well to to bring it back so the original question was I think do we live under patriarchy I was asking for
06:16:13
Brian Atlasdefinition of what the patriarchy is and you're kind of giving some examples so there's the car one the human experimentation one
06:16:25
Joryum so what is the patriarchy I guess well what I originally said was it's just that things are originally made with just men as the blueprint like the default idea when it should be for all
06:16:37
Brian Atlasof us okay um the two examples you provided seem to
06:16:45
Brian Atlasbe a little bit uh Niche is there what what are some of the other examples of what a patriarchy is
06:16:56
Jorywell for the longest time um well until about someone could give me an exact date but until more recently education was kept from women education was kept
06:17:07
Soniafrom women okay can I say something um so a lot of people don't realize that we are really
06:17:19
Sonianot a patriarchy because if you look in a lot of um Middle Eastern countries for example Afghanistan um it's very much built around men that is truly a patriarchy
06:17:32
Soniawomen can't drive women can't go to school women can't some actually that's exactly what I was going to say to you you had something on women voting yeah I don't I
06:17:43
Soniadon't think I agree with you but I'm go ahead State your position I don't think women should be able to vote hot take
06:17:55
Soniawow with context of course like you know because statistically um more women are Democrats
06:18:05
Soniaand if you were to take away women's votes it would be more leaning towards Republican conservative yeah
06:18:16
Soniaconservative so you're you're conservative for the most part I'm libertarian I actually hold that position I'm sorry Brian wait you you
06:18:28
Brian Atlaswant to get rid of women's vote what are you a radical you [ __ ] extremist I mean I'm not saying like radical extremist I just feel like it was a mistake so so wait what was a mistake I want to
06:18:41
Mason Gregoiregive my reasoning giving women I say that and I yeah hold on let's let her give her reasoning for give your reasoning yeah because if you think about
06:18:51
Soniait by human nature women we're supposed to biologically are nurturers and Caregivers for the family so by adding
06:19:03
Soniawomen to the workforce and giving them the right to vote you're taking them away from their natural natural environment which is being a mother being a caregiver and that's I feel like
06:19:15
Soniathat's what's making Society crumble right now because we're get taking away from the nuclear family I completely disagree but I mean
06:19:25
Soniabut agree do you guys agree with her she wants she wants to take away your right to vote no um a lot of women don't vote I ask a lot of women they say no I
06:19:36
Ahedidn't vote so what's the point so that's okay but that's their choice so then what's the point I think I think maybe you know instead of taking away women's right to vote you know because I mean at the end of the day we we're also
06:19:49
Ahein this country too there's not not everybody I understand like the whole nuclear family and stuff but now is just a time where we're working women like we are involved in you know yeah I mean
06:19:59
Brian Atlassociet I'm just saying it shouldn't have happened I I think women should vote but hold on let me let me add this I do think you guys got the vote a little
06:20:10
Brian Atlasunfairly yeah yeah guys it was a little unfair how you got the vote because men the way we got the vote is we were
06:20:18
Brian Atlassubject to military conscription women were able to secure a right privilege to vote without any corresponding civil
06:20:29
Brian AtlasDuty or responsibility to your country yeah so I'm in favor of women voting yeah you kind of sneaked it in a little bit you know whatever I think we should be able to I think we should draft women
06:20:41
Brian Atlasthoughts I think no one should be drafted but it should be your own personal choice women and men can be in the Army but it should be your choice well okay so hold on there's so women can volunteer for the military women can
06:20:53
Brian Atlasparticipate in the military although there's okay I'm not going to get into that there's differ there's differences there um for example okay really quick
06:21:02
Brian Atlasthe the the uh physical requirements to join the military are like really low are way different for men and women which is an inequality and being a
06:21:12
Brian Atlassoldier requires a certain degree of uh physical labor um being physically strong whatever there's a certain standard there the same with police officers and firefighters yet it's interesting to me that despite these
06:21:25
Brian Atlasjobs requiring some degree of physicality uh there there is a call for example equal pay it used to be equal pay for equal work now it's just equal
06:21:35
Brian Atlaseveryone yeah but you know what I mean like for example if it takes three female police officers to subdue one male criminal versus it might take one or two male police officers to do the
06:21:47
Brian Atlassame job is it the same job is there great well okay well okay I'm sorry I'm totally [ __ ] derailing sorry the caffeine's [ __ ] kicking in hold on wait so
06:21:56
Brian Atlasokay oh right you're uh the the military conscription you think it should we should do away with the draft yeah one should be drafted but isn't that kind of like saying well war is bad I there just
06:22:10
Joryshouldn't be War well I'm not going to say war is good but I do believe it should be people's right to choose what they do and there's plenty of people who are willing to do it well there's yes there
06:22:21
Brian Atlasthere's volunteer you know this guy is volunteering uh to to join the Air Force uh but hold on I I'll finish my the underscore old uncore bcore in minutes
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Brian AtlasStuck In The Middle With You So Okay uh war is bad get it I totally get it but practically speaking
06:23:05
Brian Atlasis it conceivable that there could be some scenario where a draft would be
06:23:13
Brian Atlasrequired I think there could be a scenario where that happens and I don't think it like let's just be totally blunt practical here the draft is never
06:23:24
Brian Atlasgoing away so assuming that do you think it assuming that it's never going to be politically possible to get rid of the draft do you then think as a matter of
06:23:35
Joryequality that women should be subject to military conscription I just don't believe that should ever be forced if no one's volunteering then other means should be
06:23:46
Brian Atlasfound other me well okay but just try to engage with the question here so assuming that getting rid of the draft is politically impossible it just will
06:23:55
Brian Atlasnever happen engage with me there do you think then for the sake of equality that women should be subject to military conscription just as men
06:24:06
Joryare would that still need to happen if the world leaders themselves just fought each other just try to just engage with the
06:24:16
Joryquestion we get it draft bad mil War bad I mean I guess in that very specific scenario you mean have to be both you mean the scenario that ISR currently in
06:24:28
Mason Gregoirethat's actually the case but that's not the case in our current scenario plenty of people are willing to volunteer no in our current scenario the draft is in place should and all men when they turn
06:24:41
Mason Gregoire18 and register to vote they have to register for the draft I did it every man I know has done it women I no wom do it they don't they don't have to so in
06:24:51
Mason Gregoireour current situation would it be since the right to vote came with milit military conscription all of these other things the right to vote was given to men as a privilege for all of those things that they would do for their
06:25:03
Mason Gregoirecountry like they get a say in the political comings and goings of America do you think since we want to pursue equality
06:25:12
Mason Gregoirewomen should also for that privilege be required to meet those same standards for the privilege of voting you're saying
06:25:22
Joryyes yes but I think the D the question was more so directed to you if it's in exchange for being able to vote meaning from both sides if you weren't signed up
06:25:36
Joryfor the draft you couldn't vote then sure okay so you're in favor of women being subject to military conscription in those simple terms no
06:25:44
Brian Atlasbut in the scenario where you need to in order to vote well but so the current the current way it is is that there is a
06:25:54
Brian Atlasthere is a selective service for men to be able to vote they have to register for the Selective Service they're subject to a potential military
06:26:05
Brian Atlasconscription should the need arise women are exempt from this this occurs to me to be an inequality between men and women and if I recall I believe you stated you a feminist correct which if I
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Brian Atlascan be most charitable in my definition of feminism and this is a this is actually not how I Define feminism but if I just am charitable here and say that feminism is uh fighting for
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Joryequality between men and women then shouldn't you as a feminist be in favor of equalizing this yes and though we can't like if we were to go through my preferred route my version of equalizing
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Brian Atlasit is no one has to be drafted if that's not an option sure everyone it's not possible though to get rid of the draft but why is that not possible it's okay so there's just certain national
06:26:52
Brian Atlassecurity reasons why that could it would never be possible and I would argue even if even if we did get rid of the draft in a scenario where a draft was necessary
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Brian AtlasI would suspect that Congress would just pass a law or there would be martial law which would just force men into the military anyways yeah so even if we
06:27:15
Brian Atlaspolitically got rid of it some future Congress would just get reverse reverse it yeah or there would be martial law and they'd be like under martial law
06:27:25
Brian Atlasthey can suspend some of your rights and they just force men into the military anyways or women too but mostly the men
06:27:35
Brian Atlasyeah so it's just there's there's not a scenario like and somebody could probably speak better on this but there's just certain like realities when it comes to Warfare
06:27:47
Brian Atlaswho knows there could be a [ __ ] alien conflict bro we're getting [ __ ] drafted if the aliens come the zombies come bro I'm out there you're going to be out
06:27:58
Brian Atlasthere in the streets doing some Walking Dead [ __ ] [ __ ] Katana sorry I spit there a little bit [ __ ] Katana you know show me your Katana
06:28:08
Brian Atlasslice do it oh no no okay okay I'll say that there's no country that's peaceful enough to not have a draft at all also when it yeah when it comes to that I'd
06:28:19
Brian Atlasargue we're we're [ __ ] closer to some like global Military conflict than I think at any point in the past 30 years Ukraine
06:28:32
Brian Atlaswhat's going on in Ukraine what's going on in the m least the [ __ ] there's economic um there there's uh like various civil uprisings in various
06:28:41
Brian Atlascountries there's [ __ ] inflation like [ __ ] is a little chaotic right now shit's a little chaotic right now I'll give you one example with Ukraine for example um I don't believe that feminism
06:28:52
Brian Atlascan actually exist when there's a military conflict so in Ukraine uh all the men had to stay in the country I believe it was from the ages of 18 to 60 if you're a man you
06:29:04
Brian Atlascould not leave the country the women could just dip and I've pulled up this image we're not going to pull it up but it's it's this really interesting comparison when it comes to like I often
06:29:14
Brian Atlashear these terms male privilege blah blah blah so you have screenshots of women Ukrainian women who are on dating apps because they were able to flee and go to Stockholm and the UK and Paris
06:29:26
Brian Atlaswherever they went and they they were just partying it up living their life on dating apps getting [ __ ] and then the Ukrainian men who had no choice for that bro
06:29:38
Brian Atlasthere's V there the comparison photo is them like dead dead bodies it's like such a
06:29:52
Brian Atlascontrast so there's also no male privilege does anyone want to bite on that yeah there is no male privilege no male
06:30:02
TTS Donation Readerprivilege with the comes which is which would be that let's go Brandon donated $100 in honor of trans day what is
06:30:13
Brian Atlasstopping a man to identify as a woman to dodge the draft please ask the use any pronoun you want actually hold on there is something on this so first off I want
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Brian Atlasto do a cheers to e uh Easter Easter he is risen Nick if you can actually pull up the uh social uh oh my God I'm blanking sorry the Selective
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Brian AtlasService System website just it's like SS just you can Google it um actually it's
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Brian AtlasBX so you can't get out of it by uh transitioning um so Nick can you scroll up a little bit or make it bigger my