04:37:51Brian Atlasfollow yo coloss thank for the prime Quack The thank for the prime and stay safe once again thank for the uh raid man really appreciate it uh human or no
04:38:00Brian AtlasMorlock for classic of course human based I [ __ ] with gnomes you [ __ ] with gnomes but so was it human warlock or
04:38:10Sophiagnome human human warlock or no warlock like you got okay Oher a little bit Nick lower the volume a little bit [ __ ] I was so excited gome warlock
04:38:21Brian Atlasor human warlock so check it out right gnome you got to think about the racials right the racials so like human you know they've got the spirit buff which isn't really great they've PVP
04:38:33Brian Atlasdecent with the perception for stealth but like reputation gain is huge and then the sword ma spec thing not really important for for a warlock um there's
04:38:45Brian Atlasno I don't really think there's such thing as a melee warlock you know even in sad you know right but gnome they get the engineering or wait yeah they get the engineering boost and then they get the int they get the buff to int which
04:38:56Sophiais like you know you're going to get more mana and then like I kind of I really like more Mana so I think I'm going to go with warlock yeah that's why no no no no no wait what okay there's human Warlock and no warlock oh okay no
04:39:08Ahewarlock okay what about you okay human human human human human warlock of course wait I'm sorry are we the warlock or are we fighting that warlock no that's D bro that's we're picking our
04:39:20Ahecharacters that's a deep question maybe know actually yeah cuz then you have like more mystical powers and stuff you just brought of gnome out of nowhere would you date a guy would you date a
04:39:31Brian Atlasguy who's got a level 60 no Morlock with Ates N I don't know Ates I don't even know what that is bro you got to go into KNX
04:39:42Brian Atlasand get 40 of the shards shards of was it shards of AES I forgot splinters of AES excuse me uh like he's you know if they had some other things going for
04:39:53Brian Atlasthem sure like only typically like you know depending on the timeline for the phases and stuff in World of Warcraft like maybe one one or two people in a guild are going to get AES
04:40:07Joryso he's got at would you date him they're spending more time with the game than than me but would you date him like would it be a plus if the guy had Ates I don't think so okay here let me
04:40:19Brian Atlasdo a let me do a comparison or contrast okay the guy makes 30k a year but he has Ates or the guy doesn't doesn't have atsh but he makes 200k a year and he has
04:40:31Kikia big peeee I I don't oh my God okay what about you I would definitely go with the second choice the AES guy or not no no whatever
04:40:42Brian Atlasatash guy no the other guy I'm not sure I'm still not sure what atash is but atash like it it oh my God wait hold on
04:40:51Brian Atlasit teleports you to H sorry I'm blanking boys I will give any girl at this table $1,000 $1,000 if you can tell me where atsh teleports you to
04:41:07Brian Atlas10 bucks if you can tell me we atsh teleports too can we get a hint is it like no we need like more contact for the forest I just said Kazan it
04:41:17Sophiateleports you that's what ATS does teleport you to Kazan the and what is the don't worry about it all right okay yeah I'm going to pick the 200k
04:41:27Brian Atlassomething I which guy I'll go option one that guy with a based nice Scot scoot the mic closer to you let scoot it closer to you could not even
04:41:38Brian Atlasexpain it's okay uh what about you atash guy um man I like Call of Duty in Mortal Kombat but yeah that guy okay all right yo stay safe thanks for the raid man much appreciated um
04:41:51Brian Atlaswhere were we what were we oh the tattoo thing we're talking about tattoos yes the question I'll pull it back up so this was for us good evening Brian and panel how did tattoos and piercings fit within your concept of Natural Body
04:42:03Mason GregoireSupremacy why don't you start and I'll give my take after yeah I am I definitely prefer no tattoos no body piercings um I guess like if she's got a
04:42:14Mason Gregoirecouple tattoos I want to know why like the the off-putting nature of tattoos is like spur the- moment decisions um so it's like sporadic behavior but it's also like if you have a ton of tattoos
04:42:26Mason Gregoireit could be it be perceived as like financially um uh she's not financially uh gosh intelligent or she's like she
04:42:35Taylor (TayTay)will spend her money willy-nilly uh the trashiness aspect fin irr respons I you looked at trash trashy thank youon sorry no you brought it up you're good you're good
04:42:48Mason Gregoireyou're good I wanted to do this it's okay respectfully the trashiness aspect cut the cameras right now Brian yes no
04:42:55Mason Gregoireso I guess the Trashy uh uh I think I don't know I mean I I guess I do see it as trashy but it's cuz like
04:43:06Mason Gregoirethe type of person who gets a buttload of tattoos is usually trashy I mean I guess that's just kind of a stereotype but like the more TR like the trashier
04:43:16Mason Gregoirewoman I see generally has more tattoos H okay but obviously that's not like a rule or it's not like everybody who has a lot of tattoos is trashy but generally
04:43:28Mason Gregoirespeaking it's a safe bet do you think I'm trashy looking at me right now uh just tell me I feel like this is a trap no no just say it just say it no I
04:43:37Mason Gregoiredon't think you yeah uhoh uhoh am I take show them off show them off show the tats let's see it I didn't even know she was tat I want to see this I can't see
04:43:46Mason Gregoireher she went from okay so well the thing is is like okay so that's not a ton of tattoos you think about the the the what is that the the the the Eye what's that I don't know I like that is that like a
04:44:00Taylor (TayTay)Freemason tattoo but she look so pretty though and like delate like I don't know how explain Illuminati that's not a trashy amount of tattoos what about me do you think I'm trash trash god damn they're
04:44:11Taylor (TayTay)going I just want on me and all that this whole sleeve I don't know I I mean like you're say trashy so I'm like trashy means like I'm like a 304 I'm out here hey you want
04:44:22Taylor (TayTay)to like what I make six figures go I just trashy I knew this was a trap respect it I respect it you say it respectfully so it's okay what do I me yeah like I don't
04:44:34Mason Gregoirethink no yeah I don't think you're trashing you you you you're in an 8year marriage like I don't think you're trashy yeah see you have you have a couple tattoos ones though we talking
04:44:46Taylor (TayTay)about like I even have a face tattoo you just can't see it I'm like all tatted everywhere wait where's the tattoo it's under my leg my whole Harley Quinn sleeve yeah I don't have bad T it's all
04:44:57SoniaHarley Quinn I my grandpa right here this is just a rose also I want to mention that more than half of my tattoos my best friend also had and like I mentioned earlier in the show she
04:45:10Soniaunived her s and I found her body you got oh my God so sorry I'm very out of pocket I'm so sorry anyways uh
04:45:19Brian Atlasshould we talk about the the Holocaust SW should we talk about what uh should we talk about
04:45:28Soniaum uh other really negative topics anybody should we I'm sorry but like I was saying I did share a lot of the tattoos with her they were pretty War
04:45:41Mayasentimental should we talk about you want to talk about the Ukraine war dang should we what's another morosin Israel oh boy I think you just
04:45:51Soniamean Israel just Israel political you asked for suggestion talk but I just want to go back to that a lot of them are sentimental to me
04:46:03Taylor (TayTay)mine's too trust me men don't care about that they look at us it could be you and your father that passed away a point that you made my first at two
04:46:13Brian Atlaswas impulsive and I regret it and I have to use laser to remove it and it was the must painful thing I've done so I'll answer I'll answer the question yeah n 911 should we talk about 911 oh boy what
04:46:26Brian Atlasdo you want to talk about you want to talk about you want to talk about some dark podast now by the way I apologize while so while tattoos
04:46:36Brian Atlasare not a deal breaker uh I would say I prefer few or no tattoos I think it's a scale right what about piercings yeah piercings mhm uh
04:46:47Brian Atlaspiercings are not as bad as tattoos I would as bad um do you think they L trashy what about like depends
04:46:56Brian Atlason like no offense it's okay no I'm not a fan of the St uh what septum excuse me speaking of sternum I'm not a fan of sternum tattoos I'm not a fan of the
04:47:08Brian Atlasseptum tattoo you know piercing piering piercing oh my God sorry guys I'm a little out of it
04:47:16Brian Atlastonight um yeah te piercings definitely it's a bit of a eyebrow raise if they have nipple piercings I'm like but you wouldn't be able to realize
04:47:28Mason Gregoirethat until you see the person yeah probably I'm
04:47:39Sophialike I'm yeah I'm thinking yeah I don't know a lot of those girls with small boobs would look good with um nipple piercings wait what cuz you were saying like you didn't like fake boobs
04:47:52Sophiaso I feel like a lot of girls that have like smaller boobs like look really good with nipple piercings I'm just saying yeah cuz their Bo smaller yeah so kind wait I don't even understand the logic I don't get
04:48:04Alexatheic girls with smaller boobs will look better with nipple piercings than girls with bigger boobs because are smaller and it's just like they look good on all
04:48:13Brian Atlasboobs is big boob racism he that's like well you know he's got a small dick so it would look better with a p I think
04:48:24Sophiasorry I think this that's another thing me my friends or whatever it's called maybe it's more specific to me and my friends but you are you trying to say that you do you have nipple no but I've
04:48:35Sophialike considered it I mean but it's it's kind of like I feel like you think it's like for for guys and I don't like I think it's like girls do it because no one can see it and it's kind of feels
04:48:47Brian Atlaslike powerful I mean I don't sounds painful I don't think when it comes to piercings I I it's just like something that you choose
04:48:59Brian Atlasto do I don't think I would make the argument that women get piercings for men I would make that argument for plastic surgery and makeup now you might want to debate me on that I don't know
04:49:11Taylor (TayTay)about makeup tattoos and piercings I don't I don't think men don't like make so if I like a man I wouldn't wear makeup like if I'm going on a date I wouldn't work this much makeup I would be lightest possible I know men don't like makeup and but it when with the
04:49:24Brian Atlastattoo things I think it's scale if they have like a little small heart tattoo or something it's not a deal breaker but my ultimate preference like my maximum most Optimum preference would be no tattoos
04:49:35Brian Atlasif she has a heart tattoo on her wrist that's never going to be a deal breaker yeah no with be my preference she didn't have it sure but I don't I wouldn't really care um in the same way that a
04:49:46Brian Atlasgirl might like a guy who's 63 over 62 like does that difference have like a massive impact probably not but it could be like just Edge out slightly on the
04:49:56Brian Atlaspreference scale um I do think that tattoos and body mods can be correlated with and precipitated by
04:50:05Brian Atlastrauma yes familial issues personality disorders not always but it can be so it could be a sign of some of those other
04:50:15Brian Atlasthings and I again when it comes to Optimum dating I would prefer to optimize my dating in that regard and uh
04:50:25Brian AtlasI tend to try to avoid those things so I'm not saying no I'm saying I'm not saying all people tattoos Body Mods are bad people not at all but just in terms
04:50:36Brian Atlasof making the most optimal dating decisions I do think we can infer things about people based on how they look how they Cho and choices they've they've made do this go for men and women or you're just talking about women cuz I
04:50:48TTS Donation Readerknow a lot of men with tattoos they have hell trauma I sure yeah blue donated $100 engineer guy have you talked to any special forces officers about commissioning there are also awesome
04:51:01Mason Gregoireopportunities for engineers in the Air Force like flight test engineering test pilot Etc quick answer to this um yeah I I've looked into a lot of those things I actually currently a Air National Guard
04:51:13Mason Gregoireso I do understand there are a lot of different engineering Avenues and I thought about go I thought about going the officer route um but I've the Special Forces route just kind of like
04:51:22Mason Gregoirespeaks to me oh biggs's boss who just subbed he's my boy I uh I game with him on the regular oh [ __ ] sweet dude oh yeah than man what do you play what do you uh I play Call of Duty hell divers
04:51:34Mason Gregoireuh hell divers I love hell divers right now um one of my other buddies not but uh probably most frequently Call of Duty mhm yeah based I don't play any video games anymore I I play a lot of video games
04:51:47Brian Atlasthat's what we do that's what a hobby oh heck yes wait speaking of entertainment has anybody watched don't Ru spoil it for me has anybody watched all of three body what's it oh I actually did what is
04:51:59Brian Atlasit the three body problem I'm like episode 3 four what is it it started out good but it's starting to get no it's like a cool concept yeah does it get better what is it is that on Netflix
04:52:12Sophiadon't ruin what's like the general premise yeah I'll explain the premise time traveling and wait don't don't ruin it don't spoil anything no yeah I mean no just let people watch that [ __ ] okay I
04:52:25Alexathink if you explain the premise there's is it like a sci-fi movie it's sci-fi it's a show it's like dark you know that show dark with the time traveling and and quantum physics and all this okay
04:52:37Taylor (TayTay)speaking my language back to the tattoo thing your question was do is it the same for men right yeah cuz I feel like a lot of people like to say things about women but a lot of men as well like if that goes for women shouldn't It Go for men a lot of men have trauma too I just
04:52:50Brian Atlasthink men and women weigh weigh it differently and some people don't heal their trauma and stuff like that women that's a fair point and I certainly I think just as it you know when it comes to getting tattoos or body modifications
04:53:01Brian Atlasit can be correlated or precipitated by trauma familial issues personality disorder I think that would equally apply to men too yeah um I don't know if there have been studies on if there's a
04:53:12Brian Atlasdiscrepancy there but I do think in terms of what men and women find attractive I do think there's a there's a larger cohort of men who find uh
04:53:23Brian Atlastattoos unattractive in women and there's a what is it and then the reverse there's a larger cohort of women who find tattoos attractive on
04:53:33Alexamen now I'd be curious if anybody has any thoughts on why why that is I feel feel like tattoos make men look more masculine in some cases yes so that
04:53:45Taylor (TayTay)makes more attractive they look dangerous women like a guy who men look scared at women they think we're like masculine we're going to dominate you tattoos have nothing to do with masculinity though I don't understand
04:53:56Mason Gregoirewhere people corate I mean that's kind of the impression I get though if I look at a heavily tatted woman I do tend to think like I wonder if there is like something about like the uh the contrast
04:54:08Mason Gregoireon the skin it like I don't know it's like harsh like I don't know if there's like a harshness to it like Vis visually when you look at like certain images it just
04:54:20Mason Gregoirelooks more like aggressive MH I think maybe if there's like a tattooing on the skin it makes the person look more aggressive I don't know psychologically why that would be the case but I that's
04:54:31Brian Atlasmy best guess of the answer what about scars like scars on a man might be I could also see that yeah yes as like some women might be like well that's kind of hot attractive it's like it's
04:54:43Alexaaggressive but it's in many cultures is considered back in in history that mans were scarred have more value because they went through battles and Wars mhm yeah I I would guess they probably come
04:54:56TTS Donation Readerfrom this like a same place psychologically I don't know killer of Cal donated $100 video games and dating it's speed dating but you play one round of the
04:55:07TTS Donation Readerhardest Mario Kart level who whoever loses chooses to get a new opponent or a match rule is you must ask questions the whole time what's the question wait speed
04:55:19Mayadating but you you like play like while you're like talking and then oh that's cute if you lose if you you get to pick a new partner it says you lose whoever
04:55:29Brian Atlasloses well I never lose Mario Kart um that's cute rainbow R I think the rule should be if you're playing
04:55:37AheMario Kart with your girl and if you win you get to cheat on her wow just so deep from Z to
04:55:48Brian Atlas100 I don't know and if she loses you also get [Laughter] to oh j a great
04:56:01Brian Atlasgreat right Nick yeah uh all right we have Nickelodeon here big red flag if they say like more than three times in one sentence that's well put Nickelodeon half of the
04:56:12Brian Atlasfemale population yeah I think that's just yeah the human species will cease to exist if we don't procreate with women who say like absolutely it's just
04:56:22Ahedone it's done for um I feel like that also just like goes away with age like right like dude think so I'm like from here so like that's like my
04:56:33Brian Atlasdialect like like maybe when I'm old what can I even do all right we have R here hey thank you man R really appreciate it it long-distance girlfriend is not interested in seeing
04:56:44Brian Atlaseach other or moving together I proposed and she said yes about 6 months ago I feel she's not interested in moving forward 2.3 years should I end the relationship my dear friend I think
04:56:55Aheyou're I think your first mistake your first mistake was getting into a longdistance relationship to her if you have not ever like lived together I don't think you should at
04:57:07Alexaleast for a little bit I don't think you should propose to that person yeah I mean I'm no one to say about fast relationships because we got married pretty fast but absolutely long relationships are a nogo long distance
04:57:18Brian Atlasyeah long relationship I mean there's not enough information here R but did it start off long distance how did you guys initially meet um I typically tend to think and advise that well long-distance
04:57:30Brian Atlasrelationships are ill advised um especially if you're young and it's like one of these you dated in high school then you both go off to
04:57:38Brian Atlasdifferent colleges I mean almost always that's just never ends never ends well it's just recipe for disaster but you did proposed she said yes six months ago
04:57:50Brian Atlasyou feel she's not interested wait not interested in seeing each other wait hold on have you never met this woman in person cuz I'll pull it up again he says not interested in
04:58:03Brian Atlasseeing each other have you never met this woman reto burrito sounds like she wants get me a Dorito
04:58:14Mason Gregoireum if you've never met this woman in person just make sure it's not a male gorlock the Destroyer don't send her money you know I mean yeah got to verify
04:58:26Mason Gregoireyeah people will make time for what's important to them regardless of what's going on in their life absolutely I I will if if I'm in love with a woman I will move Heaven and Earth to make sure I give her the time of day and a woman
04:58:40Mason Gregoirewill do the same thing for a man she loves so it's hard hard to that's extremely difficult man but it's kind of time to accept the
04:58:50Brian Atlasreality don't send her money yeah don't send her your money no no no Nigerian prin Canadian 100 men doing martial arts should train with women if women need to fight it will
04:59:02Brian Atlaslikely be with somebody bigger afford them a safe space to train with men and learn technique for men and affords opportunity to control and Temperance but I did bujutsu not Judo I've never
04:59:14Soniaheard of bujutsu I mean I I agree with that um because I do train with men but in competitions we don't go against men is what I'm saying like I've trained
04:59:26Soniaagainst men that are way bigger than I am so yeah I prefer it though instead of women right but they do hold back which is like I got kicked really hard in Muay
04:59:38Brian AtlasThai woo I got kicked really hard doing te window if you're actually in real life a man's going to fight you turn woman yeah let me get into some my pre-show notes here so we had let's see
04:59:51Brian Atlasuh Alexa you yes I married my husband three months after we met before that you dated a few guys in La when you just moved to the country from Venezuela major cultural shock so what was the
05:00:03Brian Atlascultural shock when it comes to dating from dating in Venezuela to dating in Los Angeles which is the the mecca of degeneracy I couldn't
05:00:15Alexaget to know anyone in person everybody keep telling me you need to have a dating up you and that's not how I work in my country it feels extremely weird and impersonal to trying to miss someone
05:00:26Alexathrough a nap that is authentic um which is so normal in here so it was a little bit of a shock um to see how that works in here because it's so normal in in Venezuela that's
05:00:38Alexanot how it works you just go introduce yourself or you kind of like hey you want to have a beer um that was very strange you also said there were cultural differences between dating a
05:00:49Brian AtlasLatino and dating a white person dating in La um so what's the difference between dating a Latino and dating a white boy um Latin culture is known for
05:01:02Alexathere's a lot of machismo which I'm going to let me explain that there is negative there's a negative type of being a machista I am all about masculinity and the men leading and but
05:01:14Alexathen what happened in Latin culture is the men became this person who has completely and a total totalitar uh figure on the marriage or
05:01:25Alexaon the families and there's also the constant cheating on the wife and and it becomes like a normal thing is that common in Latin infidelity yes is it's
05:01:36Alexavery common unfortunately and like they have Mistresses yes okay it's very common and becames a normal thing and I always knew I didn't want that for
05:01:46Brian Atlasmyself mhm and you said there's a lot of machismo yes and then what was it with the men like being in charge of the relationship or yeah which I'm not again
05:01:57Alexaof that I against of it actually you know my husband is the leader and in our house yeah what I'm against to is when
05:02:07Alexayou you say something earlier about co-art co-art part co- Partners yes and making decisions together and at the end of the day the husband has the last um
05:02:18AlexaWar for it the final say but in in a in a machista marriage there is no even a talking there is no what my wife what what matters for my wife what um how she feels about it there's none of that and
05:02:30AlexaI I I always knew I didn't want that for myself who is essentially acting as a single man yes and then yeah exactly so you go outside you have beers you you you know you Che and your wife you come
05:02:40Alexaon next day at 6:00 in the morning drunk and I don't think that's good um that's what a lot of people back in my country a lot of girls have daddy issues because
05:02:51Brian Atlaspar the father is not present yes huh I have actually a question for the panel here that's going to be sort of
05:03:01Brian Atlasrelated to your thing so you're from Venezuela uh which still is socialist country correct yes anybody here have
05:03:12Brian Atlasany socialist Marxist leanings he's looking at me around the table
05:03:22Brian Atlasany Communists I could say why it's bad yeah why are you looking at me well I start I start with you then I we go around the table
05:03:31Brian Atlasso no no so like full full steam ahead capitalism love it I don't love it but but it's the it's
05:03:43Brian Atlaswhat we have is it the best system I don't know you don't have any I don't know I got maybe I got the wrong
05:03:54Brian Atlasimpression a little bit socialist a little bit anti- capitalist just a teen do you know the definition of them not exactly no I don't just tell us
05:04:06Brian Atlasyou're communist it's okay you can say it this this is a safe space it's a safe space well I'll say I I'll go but
05:04:21Joryokay I don't know enough about any of the parties to really Define Myself by one I just know what I believe which is what I don't know like well you just
05:04:32Ahesaid you know are you she believes living you know in the country with the way that it is economically stuff like that I feel like it could be
05:04:41Sophiabetter it's obviously not perfect country so any leanings she says it could be better but she she probably just doesn't know how so it's hard to like Define like what
05:04:54Brian Atlasyou agree with when you don't really know would you prefer a different system to be in place like what what exactly Chang Socialism or
05:05:05Brian Atlascommunism in in place of in place of our current system capitalism like a bigger government or a smaller would you prefer either Socialism or communism in place of the
05:05:17Jorycurrent capitalist system in the United States I don't think so I think we could just have a better democracy better
05:05:30Jorydemocracy okay what would that look like I'm just what does that mean a better democracy like maybe dict the people
05:05:41Brian Atlascould have more sway in how things are done okay so like a is that a direct democracy CU don't we have we're Republic or what is it a
05:05:52Aherepresentative constitutional republic um okay what about you um can you repeat the question like full-blown Marxist um
05:06:03Aheno okay well if to be like for real I don't know I kind of like the way that you know I do like capitalism because if you think about it like try to start like a small business that's not really something that you could do in like a
05:06:15Sophiasocialist country so what does that mean um I prefer capitalism me too I'm also like an economics and accounting major so it
05:06:27Brian Atlaskind of like goes with that but yeah I'm not so you know so I know she knows she knows she knows uh capitalism same capitalism okay I was trying to get you a little something there but fortunately
05:06:40Alexano it's fine I mean I'm happy to hear that though because I had met people in the past here that they hate United States they don't want to be here anymore exactly you know I would love to
05:06:50Alexagive them a ticket to my for a week and then they can't experience life over there and then come back and tell me how they feel about it you know I think people who does who hates
05:07:02Alexacapitalism and they don't appreciate what they have here is because they have it too easy and they never have a real struggle they're too mind and they're well and they they're just too comfortable so they also just don't have
05:07:13Mason Gregoireany other experience exactly so actually I can speak a little bit to this um my parents actually live in uh North Africa right now um so I lived there for three
05:07:25Mason Gregoireand a half years and I mean it's a third world country it's a oh gosh what is it a constitutional monarchy what is moros uh yeah Morocco okay um so I lived there
05:07:37Mason Gregoirefor three and a half years and um I've seen what like dictator or monarchy does to a country I've seen like I've traveled all over the world
05:07:48Mason Gregoireand I know what these different types of uh social systems uh socioeconomic systems uh I know the toll it takes on a country and uh yeah my parents talk about it all the time and people over
05:08:01Mason Gregoirethere talk about it all the time that they would give anything to be able to be in the position that we are in absolutely and that's one of the issues do have to move it on from this but we
05:08:11Brian Atlashave bendra the offender apparently tattoos originated in 5,000 BCE Japan I would guess Most Japanese warriors had tattoos thus that's why they are viewed
05:08:21Alexaas masculine we're watching that show Shogun it's just really good and they have a bunch of tatone yes there you go it's interesting how it shifted into being something viewed negatively in
05:08:33SoniaJapan because they're associated with Yakuza which are gangs and I'm going to Japan hopefully in this the summer um so they actually don't allow some places
05:08:43Brian Atlaslike foreigners at all and some places don't allow you know tattoos so I think it is shifting a little bit in Japan but it's here in the US there was that
05:08:54Brian Atlassimilar stigma mhm I don't know when the shift started happening but maybe back in back before the 9s maybe I think
05:09:05Brian Atlastattoos were viewed a bit like okay is this you would be maybe a little suspicious of the person are they a criminal whatever but I think the stigma is totally totally gone for the most
05:09:16Brian Atlaspart gone now yeah on that level anyways um some pre-show notes from you you said you're part feminist part traditional did I say that I think so no sorry that was you my bad sorry I'll get
05:09:28Brian Atlasto you in a sec I said that wait no yeah you said you're feminist traditional I did I think so let me pull up the notes really quick Nick can you pull up her Instagram yeah or I also have my phone here too no it's
05:09:40Aheokay but it's all good you're fine you know okay well you know what I'll that maybe that's a little bit accurate maybe but um no no no um no I'll like
05:09:51Aheelaborate uh I do I personally prefer like a more traditional relationship you know that kind of stuff but you know as far as how you were saying you know
05:10:00Aheleader man is like the boss I grew up where my mom was the the stronger voice in the household you know what I mean she made more money da and like that's fine you know I'm okay with like having a
05:10:13Ahefuture like that you know with like my boo whatever my husband but yeah like the know it's hard you know I I believe in like a nuclear family and stuff but
05:10:24Ahedo I think that you know I definitely growing up seeing that I have a say in how things go you know what I mean that's that's basically it so we're
05:10:35Aheequals we're equals that's you're equals who should pay on the first date prefer if the guy did well hold on that's not equal no no yeah but I have you ever paid on the first date
05:10:48AheI've split I actually I've only ever gone on like one date where a guy has paid for me and then when I when I did that I
05:10:56Aheenjoyed it so I was like o yeah I like oh okay well who should make the first move no like neither it doesn't matter
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05:11:37Brian Atlasa partner I mean only in a marriage yes I agree but also don't get married that's my take no offense no offense sorry to the marriage people
05:11:48Brian Atlashere but I don't believe in getting married I agree I believe in getting married yes I I love to obviously what's the point right unless
05:11:59Mason Gregoireyou're religious then you should AG then if you're benefits yes negligible compared to the rest I feel like there's benefits actually I actually would agree with Brian like I think we've talked
05:12:11Mason Gregoireabout this before like I I agree with the position like you should get married if it's for religious reasons I don't understand why the secular world gets married it baffles me like it's you're
05:12:23Mason Gregoirelike it is a religious institution it always has been a religious institution and putting yourself in this
05:12:30Mason Gregoirecontract with like no basis in like objective truth like there's no like if we have a disagreement what what are we going to turn to to like hash this out
05:12:43Mason Gregoireit's like there's too many things too many things up in the air there's no like no authority over you that keeps you in that relationship so like for Christianity like God says divorce is a
05:12:54Mason Gregoireno you got to figure it out for yourself well you have values and and principles you don't need a religion for that H you can make those up like there are certain people there are certain people in history that had very different values
05:13:08Alexano you don't you have have a disagreement with your husband and you you think about the hard work and the love and the compromise that you have put through the years you don't you don't need to have God looking at you to
05:13:19Alexaand I respect your religion I respect how you view that but talking on my own experience you we are not going to run away the first time that we have a disagreement and we are not we're not
05:13:30AlexaChristians we believe that marriage is work and it's is um you have to work through it and and you're not going to run away just at the first time that you are not agreeing with your husband so do you have a
05:13:43Mason Gregoiresecular marriage what is a secular marriage like you guys are not religious we're not religious yes okay you had something no yeah um so I mean there I'll give a quick response
05:13:55Mason Gregoireto this there is something you hit on right there like we have morals we have values uh I agree with that actually the Bible hits on that uh for people who are uh non-believers uh God created man and
05:14:07Mason Gregoirewoman when he created Humanity in general he imprinted on them his moral law so man and woman that's why when we do something bad we feel that it's bad
05:14:19Mason Gregoirelike we know in our core that it's wrong now that that moral law that morality can be corrupted it can be uh it can be cauterized the more that we uh delve
05:14:30Mason Gregoireinto sin like those things become we can become numb to those things um so it depends on the person but that's why like generally speaking Humanity has an understanding that there are certain things that are good and there are
05:14:42Alexacertain things that are bad right you have something that tells you inside of you you say okay this is doesn't this doesn't sit right with me this this sits wrong um but overall in in my experience
05:14:53Alexawith my husband we when we have our bad days absolutely for sure but we decide that this is a compromise and we want to be with each other for the rest of our life and no matter what we're going to make it war of course I mean it's
05:15:05Alexasomething like terrible like he killed someone I killed someone but in daily basis you make a compromise with that person either if you're religious or not and you have to live through that I I
05:15:17Brian Atlasactually think it's an interesting like if from a secular perspective it's actually a rather pro-religious position to say secular people shouldn't get married because it's like no that should
05:15:29Brian Atlasbe like that's for religious people I think um but uh I really don't see the point certainly from the M's perspective
05:15:40Brian Atlasmarried if you're not can the reason a woman who's atheist or secular whatever would want to get married uh I actually um one reason in defense for people who
05:15:52Jorydo want to get married I don't personally want to get married but it gives you a right over each other in case of emergencies like if someone's injured and is incapacitated and someone needs to make a decision you get no right of any decision of what happens to
05:16:05Brian Atlasthem you might not even be allowed to see them if you're not married MH that's true that's true yeah okay so there are some considerations in terms of you know um there's uh end of or something like
05:16:17Brian Atlashealthc care directives there's a specific terminology for it but I want to ask the chat a question on this couldn't you in like a you're just you
05:16:27Brian Atlashave a girlfriend couldn't you just give her like a power of a attorney I don't want I don't no that's not exactly you could give her assign her the legal the
05:16:39Brian Atlaslegal power that's right to make decisions for you on behalf like in the event of a medical emergency you could sign some sort of contract an Advanced Health Care directive I think that's
05:16:50Brian Atlaswhat it's called I could be wrong saying in the event that I'm a vegetable or in the event that I'm incapacitated I give
05:16:59Brian Atlasthis person my proxy or I give them the authority to make medical decisions um on my behalf so I don't think it requires marriage to do that although I
05:17:10Brian Atlasthink by default if you are married I think it removes like there wouldn't have to be some actual uh it would just automatically upon marriage I think it would give you
05:17:22Brian Atlasthat level of authority over your spouse's like a healthc care directive but uh I it isn't it is a valid argument though you would have some benefit there
05:17:32Brian Atlasif there wasn't an existing uh signed Health power of attorney or Advanced Health care directive or something like that so but I can't really think of a
05:17:42Alexareason for for a man to get married if he's not religious that's funny cuz my husband proposed me and I initially say
05:17:52Brian Atlasno I mean perhaps the better statement is I don't see a reason why a bread winner should get married which typically tends to be men although there's certainly women who can be Bread Winners and who are Bread Winners well
05:18:05AlexaI'm not I stay home I take care of my animals at the farm I grow food and he brings the money in but I don't I never I've never heard a compelling argument for secular marriage for the bread
05:18:27Brian Atlasnothing uh not yet hold on we were wait we were going oh no we were talking to you we're kind of going on a million different topics here uh you said you're feminist traditional I pulled it up you
05:18:39Brian Atlasdid say hold on it's coming up here in just a sec sorry guys my thing is loading I guess while that's loading you said that your ex from San Diego you Liv together he was originally from Florida
05:18:51Aheyou're were 19 your dad broke us up did you tell us the quick story of um what your dad broke you guys up no his dad broke us up his dad broke us up so basically I mean him
05:19:03Aheand I'll try to make it like really fast basically we went to Florida um for like his birthday and stuff and my mom came along to uh he was supposed to get some stuff handled with his dad but I like we we ended up like having a moment like
05:19:15Ahewhere we broke up and he kind of just like bummed it out in his mom's house while I was just like with my mom and stuff at the hotel basically he was supposed to do some stuff with his Dad he flaked didn't say anything and then when he left when we went back to San
05:19:28AheDiego cuz we ended up getting like back together at the end of it um he like did not even say bye to his dad like he didn't even let his dad know that he was leaving so um went back to San Diego we
05:19:39Ahehad some issues he was like he was in um the Navy so he had like Barracks over there at the place at the you know
05:19:47Ahecornado yeah yeah um and then cuz we were like living together at the time so his dad was like oh why is your location why is his location over there da he called me was asking me for some stuff
05:19:59Ahehe was still upset with like everything that was like going on with him you know and his son my ex and we just had like a discussion and he basic basically gave me like a really good idea on how to
05:20:11Ahebreak up with him very easily which was Ghost him wait the dad yes okay yeah yeah um yeah he he was really like an
05:20:22Ahe[ __ ] wait so the dad didn't want you dating him or he didn't want his son dating you he yeah he felt bad for me that I was dating his son damn basically
05:20:32Ahethat's like betrayal bro that's betrayal wow wow [ __ ] awkward yeah but yeah he you know broke us up and stuff and yeah that's basically it like not necessarily
05:20:45Brian Atlasthough maybe he actually had an issue with you but he was like no no no my son's the problem you should definitely break up with him it was it was like some other stuff like you know which I like wouldn't want to get into piercing
05:20:56Brian Atlasmaybe a little is that I think that was it but yeah well you said you said you were somewhere between uh feminist and I also and traditional Okay so going back to what I
05:21:09Ahewas saying about like paying on the first day and stuff I would like it if a guy like paid on the first day for me you know what I mean like that would be very nice like I would really be like you know like that but if we split and
05:21:21Aheyou know you had like a proper reason as to why you believe that we should split and like you gave me you know I would be like okay you know I can get that um and like for future stuff if you take me out a date you pay for me who says that like
05:21:33Brian Atlasyou know not who says but maybe when we go to the movies I'll pay for the tickets in the popcorn you know okay so you said that you mostly you'd want you want to tell people how to be smarter in their dating choices and talk about how
05:21:45Brian Atlashorrible the dating pool is right now a quick thought on that um okay so do you have like any other prompts that can like May me like okay sure well I'll switch gears you said you were watching one of our previous videos and you'd
05:21:57Brian Atlaslike to talk about the difficulties of dating for men versus women especially if you're going to have one of the male guests on the show so what was that you had a disagreement there when it comes to dating for men versus women for
05:22:09Brian Atlasexample I've previously said I've previously said and anybody else here is welcome to disagree with me that comparatively speaking I think dating is harder for
05:22:19Brian Atlasmen and I think women have dating on easy modeh was that your disagreement yeah compared to men yeah any any any disagreements there
05:22:31Sophiaany disagreements I agree I feel like it's harder for men because they have to usually or they're usually expected to initiate I agree that that's harder but for dating itself I think
05:22:42Aheit's harder for women to find a guy that's ready to be in a relationship at our age at least not even just be in a relationship but to be a little bit more respectful because I
05:22:54Ahethink especially you know our like age range and stuff hookup culture is just so big it's so real and it really just seems like you know after college throughout high school they really seem to keep that and through having that
05:23:08Ahelike mindset you know growing up and stuff it's really hard for them to retain like a real relationship like try to get to know somebody and that just
05:23:16Sonialike FS up you know your whole I don't know Rhythm whatever but at the same time I would argue that it's not one-sided it's not just men it's
05:23:28Soniawomen that are kind of going into that hookup culture just for the fun of it so it's not just men that are not wanting relationships it's also women
05:23:39Ahebecause o is on the rise and it's just ridiculous and I think yeah especially with things like only fans and let's
05:23:49Ahesorry let's like if we were to talk about you know media and stuff like that [ __ ] I like forgot where I was going with this but um yeah media porn stuff
05:24:00Ahelike that it's that's so pushed like you know what I mean it's so pushed for girls to look a certain way or act a certain way and then you
05:24:09Aheknow it I believe so yeah I mean if we Whatever Gets like uh most media attention you know what I mean or who we see the most like we don't I feel like
05:24:21Aheit's not all the time that we get to see like natural girls anymore doing their natural girl things you know like I feel like a lot of us feel the pressure of having to like know how to shake her ass and no no okay sorry that was like a
05:24:33Ahelittle bit crazy I'm like my like all over the place but like you know um um the I like that like wa just just so
05:24:43Brian AtlasI can let me hold on women are just feeling the pressure I know to sh their feeling the pressure having to shake their ass and twerk It's hard out every
05:24:55Brian Atlasday it's like a weight on my shoulders right no but I mean you're not wrong um it's just sort of the it's a funny thing to think about but you're actually not
05:25:07Brian Atlaswrong there's definitely like degeneracy that's being pushed and like get on Tik Tok this is the norm and um and it's actually funny I do think I mean this is I don't know if this is conspiracy
05:25:19Brian Atlastheory territory but like if you look at what is being pushed on Tik talk in the United States versus conspiracy the what's being pushed I don't it's I think it's been shown versus like pushed in
05:25:31Brian AtlasChina for example which I they own Tik Tok they'll show like engineering videos like things that might stimate you intellectually and then on Tik Tok like
05:25:42Brian Atlasthey're just going to feed you like stupid [ __ ] dances and like twerking and sexuality and just shove it down your throat and just just perpetuate the
05:25:53Mason Gregoiredegeneracy they also push consumption a lot which I think is interesting consumption like eating food like like purchasing buying entertainment consumption I see okay so
05:26:05Mason Gregoirelike yeah it's all designed to like feed our feed our entertainment needs our like uh our comfort needs all this stuff over there it's like what can you do for
05:26:16Mason Gregoirethe good of our our country so like what can you produce so engineering like let's stimulate your mind and then they charge them okay now use this new stimulation for the betterment of our
05:26:29Brian Atlascountry wait you guys know how there's this thing like the pref front frontal cortex apparently I don't even know if I think it's [ __ ] but doesn't isn't fully developed until you're 25 years years old should we just I think we
05:26:40Brian Atlasshould like ban smartphones and social media until you're 25 you know no you can't vote didn't they do that in Florida you can't vote until you're 25
05:26:52Brian Atlasno smartphones no social media you're just in the dark all about it it's the 1700s until you're 25 yes and then you get social media things are going on that doesn't really sound too bad I'm
05:27:04Brian Atlassaying tough crowd um are you you down for that um she's so down she's so down yeah
05:27:15Brian Atlasjust you know okay never mind well I got to go fortunately yes you're good you can stay for a little bit yes that was awkward I have to go
05:27:28Brian Atlasbut thank you so much for having me I appreciate it get home safe take take her seat we are going to try to wrap up soon here guys we'll wrap up in like 15 minutes or so but 15
05:27:41Brian Atlasminutes 15 minutes I can say a little bit more it I mean no promises but I'm try I'm try to wrap up in 15 okay okay all right sorry keep K uh it's okay but
05:27:53Aheno but I mean I'm try my best okay wait so really quick on The Dating harder what was uh where did I leave off I remember like something like only
05:28:03Brian AtlasVans I think okay so the degeneracy okay here let me just throw out like the the most this is this is where you guys can attack me here women have dating on easy
05:28:13Mayamode go ahead disagree I don't feel that way let's have a conversation what you can you like explain easy mode like it's like easier for women to get dates sen it is for men to go one okay oh you have
05:28:26Taylor (TayTay)something on this yeah the reason why I'm saying something is cuz I feel like with all the O and the hookup culture um I don't sleep around so I feel like it's hard to find a partner who doesn't want to initiate things too soon and I'm not like that and I feel like a lot of think because of the tattoos and piercings
05:28:39Taylor (TayTay)that I want to jump their bones and I it makes me run away and I wasn't taught stuff like that so I've had two boyfriends my whole life so I feel like the dating game for some women are who want love it's harder for us but the other girls it's a little bit easier
05:28:51Mason Gregoirebecause they seep around really fast I guess uh to kind of clarify Brian's position I'm not talking I don't think he's talking about uh getting into a relationship is easier for women than it
05:29:03Mason Gregoireis for men you could make that argument but that's not what we're talking about it's like getting dating in women have dating on easy
05:29:15Brian Atlasmod clarify yeah okay I hard I mean let's even assume that the guy who's interested in you is desirous of a longterm relationship that process of
05:29:27Brian Atlasgetting on the date that that's typically I think going kind of you don't have to do
05:29:35Mason Gregoiremuch you know pretty yeah as a woman like speaking as a man like if like I'll ask certain questions about like your
05:29:47Mason Gregoiremorality uh things like that but there are very few things you actually have to do to make me stick around like I think men generally have
05:29:57Mason Gregoireto bend over backwards to like keep a woman around which I I don't necessarily see as a bad thing but there are negatives and positives that situation
05:30:09Brian Atlasand I mean just speaking about practical things I mean men typically the burden of initiative falls on men and that manifest itself in a lot of different
05:30:19Brian Atlaslike moving things forward in a potential uh even if it's casual but okay generally speaking men are expected to make the first move we're going to have to carry the conversation to some
05:30:31Brian Atlasdegree we can't just walk up to you and just say hey and then shift the conversational burden to you initially there's a pretty strong expectation that we have to hold uh carry the conversational burden we have to perhaps
05:30:44Brian Atlasplan the date pay for the date set up the date handle the logistics of that if we're moving things forward physically that can be so much as closing the you
05:30:54Brian Atlasknow if we're trying to close the physical barrier uh and that can extend all the way to going for the first kiss I think most women prefer the guy initiating on the first kiss and then
05:31:06Brian Atlasmoving I don't I don't need to get detail but moving things forward physically from there that typically is men initiating that uh or the expectation is there at least and then I
05:31:17Ahemean it goes on from there I agree as far as getting dates yeah girls definit I I would interpret it as in like a relationship stuff you know yeah and then also just when it comes if if we're
05:31:28Brian Atlaslooking at the difficulty of dating when it comes to well what would potentially make something difficult well the degree to uh the degree of rection that one might face so for example typically men
05:31:40Brian Atlasare the ones getting rejected quite frequently um whereas women my theory on this is women tend to get rejected on the back end so for
05:31:50Brian Atlasexample a guy will get rejected up front like he'll he'll shoot a DM he'll approach you he'll match with you on the dating app and usually it's like a an a
05:32:01Brian Atlasimmediate rejection but what will happen is women will get rejected on the back end so you'll sleep with a guy and then he'll ghost you you know that's you know hit and quit it that type of
05:32:14Brian Atlasthing that'll be the backend rejection which is bad like that sucks I'd say from a one to one comparison like one upfront rejection versus like a guy just [ __ ] you and like doesn't call that's
05:32:27Brian Atlasthat's got to that's worse than just an upfront rejection but it's obviously not happening to the same frequency as that upfront uh front end rejection that men experience so
05:32:38Brian Atlasyeah that's uh you know I mean we could really quit going around the table more often than not like I mean when it comes to dating men are you
05:32:48Brian Atlasrejecting men more than they're rejecting you yeah yeah yeah like how many I'm curious
05:32:56Joryhow many men have you rejected nick uh from Justin College hundreds no I don't go out that
05:33:07Joryoften inside say probably only about like 10 only 10 what dating apps no I didn't use da no dating apps okay all right that's not bad a good amount
05:33:17Ahehundreds I don't want to say like hundreds maybe like a hundred but okay I don't really get approached a lot so I would say 5050 5050 okay what about
05:33:29Brian Atlasyou um yeah you go out to parties right parties I Vista Party Town um do do you guys I feel like people approaching people in person not as frequent as it
05:33:39Sophiaused to be but you still get approached i' say at College I don't really get like like if I'm getting approached at a party it's not going to be like an you know it's like going to be different but I don't really go to those kind of parties anymore but I think I get mostly
05:33:52Sophiaapproached when I go back home actually or like go like outside of the college setting and then that's when I would probably reject someone okay so more often than not though you're rejecting okay yeah more often not am
05:34:05Brian Atlastoo yeah me my single day I used to to re more than yes yeah um I've only been rejected once and then I do the rejecting lately most of the time wait have you ever been rejected
05:34:18Brian Atlasno yes yes M yes yes oh okay and you said once yeah yeah okay never been rejected well I don't pursue people you don't