03:41:46Sophiathing until I came to college other people um who weren't and so that's a pretty big thing for me like brush your teeth in the morning and at night I
03:41:56Sophiathink that's pretty basic basic hygiene you would think but yeah um yeah I don't have a racial preference I feel like I just have mostly gone with white guys just cuz maybe that's who's attracted me
03:42:09Sophiaand like who's around um and what else I was going to say oh also I do want someone caring too and I think I kind of skipped over that
03:42:18Sophiabut I'm pretty like giving and caring and I would not want someone that is just like taking and I've seen that in relationships of like other people and I
03:42:30Sophiajust think it's like doomed to end that like it's not an even relationship so
03:42:35Mayayeah um physically I'd say I'm attracted to like white or like Wan guys um taller
03:42:45Mayathan me athletic I like athletes um yeah people that like care about their physical health um yeah hygiene too now that
03:42:56Mayawe're talking about that that's big um I don't do well with germs and so yeah hygiene you're a germaphobe yeah probably like
03:43:09Mayayeah um what else someone who's loyal empathetic observant um I'm religious so someone a guy that
03:43:21Mayawas Christian um what else yeah someone that I think is like aware of their emotions and like
03:43:31Mayaeven if they don't have the best way of like expressing it like they like make an attempt MH my husband is my Ty good
03:43:42Taylor (TayTay)answer um I'm going to have to say godfear ambitious he has to go to the gym funny family oriented I'm Mexican Black and Filipino so I prefer to date black or Mexicans they're the only ones
03:43:53Taylor (TayTay)who understand my culture um but other ethnicities are good too trying to think of colored eyes tattoos nice teeth hygiene yeah smart and somebody who's respectable like a lot of people like him you know like uh you don't want
03:44:06Mason Gregoirethose guys that nobody likes to be around so very like happy funny yeah I think that's it fair fair uh for me um number one she has to be God-fearing uh
03:44:18Mason Gregoireshe has to be like God is her number one priority she has dedicated her life to uh his mission primarily uh secondly I I was talking to my friend about this and
03:44:30Mason Gregoireuh the advice I usually give to my buddies when they're asking like what do you look for in a woman uh I ask for submission I want them to be submissive
03:44:41Mason Gregoirebut what I think that plays out uh most applicably and they like as we're starting off the relationship is I want them to be teachable like and that kind
03:44:51Mason Gregoireof sounds like like I'm a teacher and they a child not not not like that but if there's a disagreement and I say hey this is what the Bible says about this
03:45:02Mason Gregoireissue uh here here are the references here's what it says um I want you to think about this pray about this and then come back to me with what you like where do you land on this and if the Bible is clear on a certain subject and
03:45:15Mason Gregoirecome back to me and they disagree and they say I don't care I still feel like it should be this way that's she's not teachable and like we can't grow as a couple if we can't say there's like an
03:45:25Mason Gregoireobjective standard to what we're trying to achieve um so she has to be teachable uh she has to be in the gym I I want a woman who cares about her uh Health uh her body um I guess it doesn't she doesn't necessarily have to be like a
03:45:39Mason Gregoirebody like I'm not asking for a bodybuilder I just want someone who's going to go into the gym do your cardio lift some lift heavy weights relative to much does she has to squat oh boy 350
03:45:50Mason Gregoirehow how much does she have to bench oh that's a good question 350 no uh I I was talking to this one girl who she benches
03:45:58Mason Gregoirelike well she benches equipped but she benches like uh mid 300s
03:46:06Mason Gregoireequipped a whole lot yeah yeah squat her squat her squat uh it was like like mid 400s damn equipped equipped does it I mean does it get to a
03:46:19Brian Atlaspoint to you like can it ever get to a point when it comes to a woman's looks where if they're too muscular they're getting into like masculine territory yeah yeah like she was definitely not
03:46:31Mason Gregoirelike she didn't look super muscular like I could tell she had like some muscle on her but she wasn't like ripped and like veiny and just H that doesn't look good
03:46:41Mason Gregoirelike she did look feminine like I could tell uh I mean she she had like a muscular Muscular uh oh what I'm trying to say uh she had muscular features so
03:46:53Mason Gregoireit accentuated certain things about her that I liked but um yeah so I'm looking for someone who's fit I'm also kind of like a natural body kind of guy I don't
03:47:04Soniawant someone who's say it say it you're a supremacist I am Natural Body supremacist yes yes I agree I have a question about that so would you
03:47:16SoniaSupremacy would you consider OIC a quote unquote modification uh well not so it depends on the
03:47:28Brian Atlassituation related to the Natural Body Supremacy thing not really I mean I for me that's more so anything that's a a
03:47:37Brian Atlascosmetic procedure or surgery so if you're taking a medication that's I mean that's for weight loss um also for diabetes as well I take it I wouldn't yeah so if she's taking medication I
03:47:49Brian Atlaslost 30 lb I would say awesome good for you I would say medication is really not really within the realm of what I'm talking about when it comes to Natural Body Supremacy I'm talking like I don't want a girl with fake boobs even if she
03:48:00Brian Atlashas small like again I'd prefer just no boobs small boobs small boobs over fake boobs um no lip filler no uh fat transfer stuff bbls no labioplasty
03:48:13Mason Gregoirealready said that um the most important thing obviously yeah obviously obviously uh you wanted to continue though you're saying on the Natural Body Natural Body
03:48:23Mason GregoireSupremacy so no procedures like I want a woman to be comfortable in who she is like uh God created me as such and I want her to be like I am totally cool
03:48:35Mason Gregoirewith that and I want to give myself to you like that and I I think that's like from a mental place that's awesome like she's comfortable in herself she's comfortable in her skin I think that's just super attractive um I guess
03:48:47Mason Gregoirepersonality wise I really love a woman who's kind of chaotic um what wait you love a woman who's kid so I'm I'm I'm a
03:48:57Mason Gregoirepretty mellow dude like I'm quiet I when I say things it's usually like I feel like they need to be said I'll usually Reserve like what I have to be said for like the last possible moment or if it's
03:49:08Mason Gregoirenecessary uh I I've had the most fun in relationships when like I can kind of hold frame and she's kind of chaotic inside of it like she brings energy like
03:49:18Mason Gregoireshe's kind of fun to be around uh she'll say things that like Off the Wall I'm like huh that's kind of strange or like like she has a sense of humor I think there's like something beautiful about
03:49:29Mason Gregoirelike a man being like that frame and then the the his woman being kind of like the energy bringer I love that Dynamic I'm really into that um I've kind of discovered that over time um cuz
03:49:42Mason GregoireI've I've dated women who are just kind of like low energy and it matches me and I'm just like it brings you down even more yeah I kind like I want you to like lift my
03:49:53Mason Gregoirespirits and some for some women that's like natural to them and I love that but you you used a specific word there you used chaos yeah cuz that the best word
03:50:07Mason Gregoireneutrala I knowa chaos yeah well cuz I'm like organized chaos chaos is like yeah so she like unpredictable yeah
03:50:17Mason Gregoirechaos is like unpredictability so like it's it's chaos to a certain extent like I don't want her to like uh one day she's like totally devoted to me and the
03:50:30Mason Gregoirenext day she's like I'm going to go sleep with this other dude no like I'm not talking like that chaos I'm talking about like just their personality kind of like like bubbly but not
03:50:40Mason Gregoirebubbly It's Kind she yeah exactly bubbly with like an edge she'll like say things off the wall or like say what's on her mind but it's the best way I've found to
03:50:53Brian Atlasdescribe it is chaos she's a little chaotic things just happen is there like a female celebrity you can point to who has this
03:51:02Soniatrait feel like Amia Clark Amelia Clark is kind of if you know her Jennifer Lawrence she's so pretty Maria from The Bachelor oh yeah yeah like Jennifer Lawrence you know who that is has I used
03:51:15Mason Gregoireto have a big crush on Jennifer what about Amelia from uh Game of Thrones Thrones yeah Daenerys she's super bubbly you seen her
03:51:24Mason Gregoirein interview she's kind of got this yeah I totally yeah she's she's my type MH okay there we go uh and are you're you're a virgin are you looking for a
03:51:34Mason Gregoirevirgin oh yes um so uh like 100% to be I'm a virgin um I'm not necessarily I me Brian's against this but I'm not necessarily looking for a vir
03:51:45Mason GregoireBrian really wants me to wait for a virgin I'm his I'm his uh gatekeeper yes he's my gatekeeper I'm the gatekeeper so whenever I find a woman I will present her to Brian for his approval you need
03:51:57Mason Gregoireto yes it has to go through me first you want to get to him you got to get through me indeed we have established
03:52:04Brian Atlasthis um so not sus at all wait so hold on uh so you're but it sounds like prefer virgin but you'd be okay if she exactly
03:52:15Mason GregoireI prefer virgin but I I'm not blind to the statistics that like if you have five or more Partners you're 20% you're only 20% likely to have a successful marriage so like I'm not blind to those
03:52:26Mason Gregoirestatistics I understand that so like I want someone to not have like a high body count if if you want to use I I'll use that term because it it describes
03:52:37Brian Atlaswhat I'm talking about but uh yeah I want someone who's not promiscuous fa based yes based is any any ladies here
03:52:49Kikiat the table wanting to get with a a virgin man not specifically like I don't care I don't care no preference I wouldn't care do
03:53:01Brian Atlaswhat if the guy like do you have a preference for a guy who's sexually experienced or a guy who's sexually inexperienced no
03:53:09Joryeither it are we going around the table um take it away no preference no no pref you have no preference kind of like with a sports
03:53:21Brian Atlassports thing no preference wa you you you don't have any preference so like let me frame it this way really good in bed and really inexperienced in bed which might not
03:53:34Jorynecessarily always mean that they're bad in bed but it's more likely I mean I'm not looking for either specifically if they have other traits that I like and that just so happens to
03:53:46Brian Atlasbe what they are so it's not a deal like it wouldn't be a deal breaker for you if they're just terrible and bad that's fine it's not the most I mean uh it might be a little bit terrible it might
03:53:57Brian Atlasinfluence things but it's not the most important thing ter okay H okay wait going back to the hygiene thing
03:54:06Brian Atlasuh you were talking about hygiene this is somewhat hygiene related and I'm bringing it back [Music]
03:54:15Brian Atlasto the Munch thing a little bit sort of but the reverse would you feel offut if like you went down on the dude
03:54:25Brian Atlasand whether you know he finished or or he didn't he didn't want to kiss you after would you feel a bit this is this is open to the panel we'll start there
03:54:37Joryyou know feel a little like what the [ __ ] maybe a a little I don't know it would be a little bit a little a
03:54:48Sophialittle bit didn't want to kiss you after getting no I that's fine like a little bit I could understand it's just like okay then we'd have to time that you know I don't know time it it's like if
03:55:00Sophiait's like it was just like at the beginning it's like okay now I can't kiss you unless I go brush my teeth it's like okay that kind of just killed the vibe or you just don't kiss for the remainder of which is kind of like session you know it works which is just
03:55:14Brian Atlasnot preferable okay what about you I think it's a little weird little little weird okay yeah it's weird unfortunately the mic was like 2 m away but I don't really care about that stuff don't care about that
03:55:24Brian Atlasstuff I'm not going to answer that I'm not going to answer okay I got to come out and say it I don't really uh you know don't want to kiss after that we
03:55:37Soniaknew no surprise hey look sexual boundary sure sexual boundary you know I mean it's also valid if like a guy goes
03:55:49Soniadown on the girl and then if the girl doesn't want to kiss him afterwards it's basically the same thing I I don't object to that exactly that's why I'm like if he doesn't want to kiss then he doesn't want to kiss like I'm not going to force him you know it's only the the
03:56:03Brian Atlasdifference is though it seems there's like a lot of push back when men have sexual boundaries about what they do or don't want to do like imagine if we were like what the [ __ ]
03:56:15Brian AtlasI just ate your [ __ ] you don't want to kiss me I don't know I don't know how many maybe I don't know if there's a they probably never done a study on this if there's like is it equal rates in
03:56:26Brian Atlasterms of do women not enjoy kissing after receiving dude I don't know what the difference is but any thoughts on that did anybody
03:56:37Brian Atlasnever mind actually never mind on that did we miss any oh let me read this chat Pia perc I don't know I'm a bit late to
03:56:46Brian Atlasit but bowing is a problem Hispanic in is Hispanic in the midwest in my family when we saludar we get on our knees kiss the
03:56:57Mayaback of the hand then touch their hand to our forehead what you did well I feel like that's like a cultural thing like personally that's not my culture so but in Hispanic count
03:57:08Brian Atlaswe don't really do that I don't know what he you know what fine I will I will accept a cur from a white woman if that's what it takes that [ __ ] people did that [ __ ] in the Middle Ages and
03:57:19Brian Atlas[ __ ] with kings and queens that was a Caucasian that's the Cal I'd prefer the bow but I will I will accept I will begrudgingly accept a
03:57:29Brian Atlascurtsy in fact I would like to see every single girl here I want to I want to see your curtsies that's applicable to Modern dating do you have it yeah are you going
03:57:39Brian Atlasto like bow back is it being reciprocated that was how it was check this out this is how it goes so if I let's say I'm walking back to my house I get I get to my house my girl's there she does the bow I just do like I'm like
03:57:52Brian Atlaswalking past her I just like don't just walk past I I use the side eye I'm just like that's it hell no sorry okay what we talking about why we curtsy
03:58:06Sophiayou it sounded like you wanted to do a curtsy no we were saying that like let's see it should I stand on the chair oh no can just hold on yeah like I don't have
03:58:16Mayaa skirt so it'll B you have one yeah and then the bow should we see the bow oh uh sure how they do Put Your
03:58:26Brian AtlasHands by your side yeah that's pretty good it needs a bit of work but it was good for your first attempt it was solid good job good job you'll make a man very happy one time oh that's my
03:58:40Mayapurpose I'm just saying I love that I was joking yeah uh okay anybody else want to try their hand at a curtsy I could I could try it's kind of
03:58:51Brian Atlasfun all right she's trying to curtsy there you
03:58:58Mayago wow that was so bad I am so sorry I I it was I mean she needs to stretch is that better the effort that was that was
03:59:10Brian Atlasbetter the effort it was the effort appr Dr it would be way way better better okay do you want me to Bow Bow I'll see
03:59:20Brian Atlasthe that was good way it was a deep was a deep vow have to bow to everyone I'm impressed I'm very impressed by The Vow
03:59:29Brian Atlaswell done well done I kind of want to see practice I I don't know if you're interested we could assess your bow or curtesy I seem like it seems like you
03:59:39Joryreally want to do this I can tell she's thinking about it Sophia's getting I'm water have to do one if I do one does
03:59:52Mason Gregoireeverybody have to do one if you do one okay I'll do one if she does one yeah I just have to yeah heck yeah fix my do it and you're cool do it and you're cooler pressure peer pressure pressure
04:00:03Brian Atlaswhere do I go that's yeah perfect right there wait right there all right were you were you a theater kid were you a theater kid nopee okay oh okay that was like a theater
04:00:15Brian Atlaskid and then the should we see the bow wait that was the bow H yeah I would have it was decent was definitely better than your bow typically you want to go a little
04:00:26Brian Atlasdeeper with the bow I think but I don't think I've ever bowed four is a hey you know I think yeah good stuff good stuff that was it
04:00:38Brian Atlaswas good it was good sorry all right thank you perc Ole for that one appreciate it let me get into some of my pre- did I do that no I did that sorry
04:00:50Brian Atlasdid the camera get I [ __ ] okay well are what are you doing are you going to sit back down what are you doing I thought oh well I was going to get in but I'd rather not honestly cuz then I have to like pull my skirt down and then yeah
04:01:02Brian Atlasokay here let me readjust the camera the end uh well I need to fix the camera so while I do that w't you guys Tay you got a question for the panel no
04:01:14Taylor (TayTay)T help me out bro help me out here T you got a question a question about anything dating you got this we did we already ask red flags no perfect ab what are
04:01:25Taylor (TayTay)your your top three red flags whe it's automatic a no for you when you meet a guy um you want me to start um I think somebody who doesn't keep their word um
04:01:37Taylor (TayTay)I would say lying um oh keeping your exes around it's a no for me there's a lot of who have their exes around I don't know what's up with that lately I can't do it not even as a friend no it's
04:01:49Joryrude agree very much agree I could go next yeah let's go around the table start over here never mind so top three I feel like I agree
04:02:01Jorywith the X one that one's pretty important um entertaining other people's flirting is really annoying I don't like that um
04:02:14Jorythat's a good one fac let's see what else literal jealousy of animals like yeah slightly
04:02:30Ahepersonal is it my turn okay she said D okay definitely big on that that egg stuff that's hard um how their relationship with their parents for sure
04:02:42Aheif they have a bad relationship with with their parents MH yeah I don't like that um what else and like a little bit bum you know in the way that you like can't keep your word you know if you say you're going to do something just do it
04:02:55Sonialike you know don't don't say it why why lie so I think one of the biggest red flags for me is when they don't treat service workers like Waiters with respect cuz
04:03:08Soniathat shows how they treat other people and potentially me um that's the first one the second one is if oh God I just
04:03:17Soniathought of it and it flew away from me uh like so many to choose from I know
04:03:26Sophiaum get back to me I forgot okay okay okay so mine we kind of building up or building off of other people's but yeah like the basically
04:03:38Sophiajust like all like talk no action like saying like oh like I was going to do this or like oh like I'm a good person or like these are my qualities but then not actually showing those qualities
04:03:49Soniathat's a huge red flag um I already I also forgot my other two okay hold on I I remembered mine um if they don't like animals I'm a very big
04:04:01Sophiaanimal person um and also if they don't have a good relationship with their family yeah okay so yeah mine was building off the family and I'm going to make it more specific if they're mean to
04:04:11Sophiatheir mom I think that is a huge red flag like so huge and I've seen that in like guys and it's just like because I think what it comes down to is a la lack
04:04:22Sophiaof respect for women and if you can't be nice to your mom like you don't have to be a mama's boy and I honestly don't like Mama's Boys but if you can't
04:04:31Mayarespect your mom that's a red flag I can't remember last one um probably like first one be like like if they lie and that like kind of
04:04:42Mayaencompasses like keeping your exes around like cheating all that kind of stuff um if they aren't
04:04:53MayaChristian and oh if they have like a victim complex and they think like everything is like an attack on them and they can't really like stand up for themselves
04:05:04Alexabased pretty much the same someone who well my husband who love uh animals and respect them uh someone who has uh doesn't have a weak personality and
04:05:14Brian Atlassomeone who doesn't get alone with their parents or doesn't treat them with respect uh wait did we hear from
04:05:24Mason GregoireT okay yeah then we went around the table yeah uh well I think it goes without saying she has to be a Christian so I'll just take that off the table if
04:05:33Mason GregoireI'm seeing them like I've already figured that out um uh first red flag is probably they have to have high um uh em
04:05:43Mason Gregoireemotional intelligence um and how I Define emotional intelligence is I don't know if it's the conventional definition but it's someone who can regulate their
04:05:53Mason Gregoireemotions like from uh given an external stimulus uh can they like suppress their own reaction to how they're feeling and
04:06:04Mason Gregoireinternalize that think about it and then respond to it um that's extremely important to me uh whenever I get if I'm in an argument with my significant other I want to be able to have a discussion an adult conversation I might say
04:06:17TTS Donation Readersomething that could be hurtful I'm going to try not to but I'll probably say something that is block you're not going to want to hear kilo of cereal donated
04:06:25TTS Donation Reader$100 Pick 6 1 in tall fit 180k a year 10 in P virgin but has a negative World
04:06:35TTS Donation ReaderOutlook and nasty attitude or 5 ft 2 in tall fat 25k a year 4 in P high body counts but who's is confidence and
04:06:45JorySwagger Ladies Single wait hold on start here I would think single because why the first guy's rude and the second
04:06:57Brian Atlasguy's what so okay 61 fit 100K 180k a year 10in pen that's a bit excessive my dude
04:07:08Brian Atlasum wait he's a virgin but has a negative World Outlook nasty attitude or 5 foot2 or a guy who's 5' two fat 25k a year
04:07:17Brian Atlas4inch pen high body count what bro what ooes confidence and Swagger which do you pick single sing Single like you just yeah
04:07:29Brian Atlasyou got to pick one probably the [ __ ] guy honestly one or two guys into the mics please if you can one if I had to choose if I had to
04:07:40Sophiachoose one just ignore him you okay nasty attitude hard
04:07:49Taylor (TayTay)one I guess one one no one I'm going one why does that even matter though why does the pp always have to be mentioned guys there's other attributes you guys have besides that jeez Maybe funny did
04:08:02Mason Gregoireyou want to wrap up on oh yeah I'll wrap up uh so high emotional intelligence um she oh yeah she can't have any male friends um I mean she can have men in
04:08:14Mason Gregoireher life but I don't want her trying to develop like relationships with other guys that's a huge no no to me uh I've been burned way too many times in the
04:08:23Mason Gregoirepast by that um yeah that's not not okay is that applicable to you too so like you wouldn't have any I have no female
04:08:32Mason Gregoirefriends like um like I I have women in my life that I know uh but I don't ever like develop relationships with women in my life um unless I'm interested in them
04:08:44Mason Gregoireromantically do you think it's true that men and women can't be friends because I don't think they can be friends I agree I think they're biologically created to
04:08:54Mason Gregoirehave something magical happen between them and they were created that way and I think it's extremely special and for us to pretend like that doesn't exist I think it's kind of like it's ignoring a
04:09:05Taylor (TayTay)whole lot of science I had a best friend that passed away from unal living we never had that connection whatever yeah so I feel like childhood maybe is different or like all my friends or my I
04:09:16Mason Gregoirechildhood extremely different cuz like you don't have those hormones going on um I mean we could have that discussion but I want to keep going if Brian wants to talk about something else well I mean maybe we go around the table their
04:09:26Brian Atlasthoughts on can men and women be friends starting with you I think it's possible okay they can with certain distance SC in like scoot in to the table they can with a certain distance yeah no I think
04:09:39Sophiayes you just need to establish boundaries and be loyal and trusting mhm yes with boundaries yes oh
04:09:48Brian Atlasyes yeah okay I mean one followup actually um what about people who remain friends with exes what about
04:10:00Jorythat I don't like it I mean it might work but I don't like it mhm no hell no baby it sounds like a recipe for disaster but I don't know maybe it could
04:10:11Brian Atlaswork out no yeah no that's swe oh no they're keeping them for a reason no I think you can be on good terms and have an an civil like to maintain maintain
04:10:23Alexamaintain frequent contact friend like friendship that's also theal parenting with someone you still have to have a good sure that's that's different if there's not a child involved then it's
04:10:35Mason Gregoirelike well it's a little sus you wanted to add some more I wanted to like I don't think in this is typically like I'll get this response from women they'll say yeah of course men and women
04:10:47Mason Gregoirecan be friends like given a certain circumstance I don't think you understand like the desperation that a lot of guys especially a lot of young
04:10:56Mason Gregoireguys have like they will put up the craziest act they will tell you exactly what you want to hear just so that they can keep you in their life so that when
04:11:06Mason Gregoireyou slip up that one time they are there to squeeze in the crack they they like are waiting for your boyfriend to piss you off they're waiting for that male guy in your that guy in your life that you've been talking to to do the one
04:11:19Mason Gregoirewrong thing and then just wait for you to make a mistake or wait till you're too drunk and then they will go in for the kill and I don't think
04:11:27Mason Gregoirewomen I don't think un women understand like how how crazy men can get because like I mean we have some really powerful
04:11:37Mason Gregoirehormones going through us like when we see an attractive woman it's like it is a battle to try to keep myself from one thinking about things I shouldn't be
04:11:48Taylor (TayTay)thinking about but two like acting upon those things everybody yes exactly lusting so can I say something yeah go for it I have a question cuz like uh if you could tell by the way I look I was raised with brothers so I naturally gravitate towards a lot of guys and I
04:12:01Taylor (TayTay)don't mean that in like every single guy for a single no they all have girlfriends and I'll never hang out with them by myself none of them coming to my house it's always them and their girlfriend because I've known them since I was a kid and I grew up around parents who had male and female friends yeah so when I look at it it's a culture like
04:12:14Taylor (TayTay)Hispanic people I don't know if you know that they're all cool with everybody very like really nice of course boundaries if a guy told me Taylor that guy likes you I'd probably drop him I would cuz I don't want any problems but I feel like some women don't know how to separate the two and some women won't
04:12:26Mason Gregoireget rid of their guy if the man knows more I'll do that if I if he says something's right you know wrong excuse I think that's awesome I also think like okay so say um I I'm I'm a single dude and I I'm I'm friends with a couple like
04:12:39Mason GregoireI have one of my best friends in the world is from Tennessee um I I knew him when he was single and I knew him when he met his now wife like I hung out with
04:12:49Mason Gregoirethem all the time and I got to know his now wife really well but yeah so it was in the context of them two being there I have never like texted her by myself
04:13:00Mason GregoireI've never held a conversation just her and I it's usually he's always there maybe he had to go to the bathroom and I'm like oh what are your hobbies whatever I I don't know but like yeah I guess there are EXT there are boundaries
04:13:13Alexathat I have for myself I'm not going to push those boundaries with a woman I would expect a woman to do the same for me well you also expect your partner respect you and you trust him and you know he's not going to be filtering with
04:13:23Mason Gregoireanybody or you know well kind of going on on trust like I don't think uh that ult like I having ultimate trust in your partner is important in a relationship I
04:13:35Mason Gregoirethink trust is important but as a foundation for a relationship I don't think trust should be held as high as it is like you should just trust me that I'm not going to hurt you in that way
04:13:47Mason Gregoirebecause trust is so easily broken all it just takes one mistake I agree so I I don't think trust is as important as people make it I I think um I mean it's important it's important in a
04:14:00Mason Gregoirerelationship I should be able to trust you but above trust in priority is I need information like let me see who you're talking to hey I'm I I want to
04:14:12Mason Gregoireknow like are you texting anybody can I go through your phone like if I'm in a relationship with somebody I want to be able to ask that question and I want them to be able to ask that question of me hey Mason can I have your phone of
04:14:22Mayacourse here you go like information is more important than trust I have a question so earlier you were saying you're only attracted to 5% of women so like when you walk into a room and
04:14:34Mayayou're like Beast no when you walk into a room and like are you automatically judging and like dis counting all these other women just based off the way that they look
04:14:46Mayalike as in like seeing them like you will not pursue a personal relationship with them because you think you can't be friends with them I mean if you want to put it in that language yeah I guess I
04:14:57Mason Gregoirecould get on board with that statement I mean um I'm not saying like you Val like your value as a human being is less because yeah yeah like if we're just talking about uh like romantic
04:15:09Mason GregoirePartners yeah if I walk into a room I'm probably going to find 5% of them attracted Ive and I'm probably not going to pursue a relationship with the rest of them because I'm not interested in them romantically I'm not going to
04:15:19Mason Gregoireentertain that kind of relationship cuz I don't I don't want to lead them on cuz I'm not I mean this is going to sound kind of um egotistical but I'm not I'm not blind to the fact I'm somewhat attractive so I don't want to lead other
04:15:32Mason Gregoiregirls on making them think that hey I got a shot with Mason yeah and like it's mean to them it's rude it's just uncaring it's selfish cuz like I could be like I could talk to a bunch of different girls and get all this
04:15:43TTS Donation Readerattention and I I'm not that kind of guy and that's just like all on the basis that like you don't think like men and women can be cor killer of seral donated
04:15:54TTS Donation Reader$100 I wanted to apologize to gaked Virgin for cutting him off did not time that right if you became great friends with one of your ex's friends but the
04:16:04Mason Gregoirebreakup was bad how would you feel about it okay wait if you became great friends with one of your ex's friends but the break was bad how would you feel about
04:16:17Mason Gregoireit o I mean I would probably still maintain the friendship like that's that's if the ex's uh friend was a dude like I I probably would maintain that
04:16:28Mason Gregoirerelationship I mean if he's a cool guy and he's not like it's not awkward I'm not going to be talking to his ex yeah totally maintain relationship the ex is the friend of male or female I think the
04:16:39Mason Gregoirefriend is male I want to assume male friend friend My Ex's friend is male and I say like he didn't specify I don't what if it's like a assum like a
04:16:52Brian Atlasbrother brother like I feel like that would make more sense cuz it seems like be fun sure yeah be fun steal the brother away heck yeah yeah dude I got another brother that's my brother now yeah exactly what's what's that from
04:17:03Brian Atlasthat we mentioned it last show the the the movie with Tom Hanks where it's like this is I'm the captain now oh Captain Phillips Captain how what does he say I I don't know that's what he say it's
04:17:16Brian Atlasmy brother okay I don't know actually one thing that crossed my mind on the uh the staying friends with the ex or whatever um or can men and
04:17:27Brian Atlaswomen be friends maybe this is sort of a differential when it comes to the two genders uh and why men maybe care more
04:17:36Brian Atlasthan women do about uh if she has male friends so women will friendzone men but it's pretty rare for like dudes to be
04:17:47Brian Atlasfriendzoning chicks it happens but it's much more like a common occurrence for women to like friendzone dudes so dudes who who initially had a romantic interest but you're as the woman you're
04:17:59Brian Atlaspumping the brakes no no no we can be friends though and sometimes actual friendships develop from that that's I think perhaps an angle of why this might be a bigger deal for men than it is for
04:18:11Brian Atlaswomen because as I said men are really not like rejecting women on that level typically for there's a couple reasons but women are
04:18:20Taylor (TayTay)not um women are typically not taking the initiative to like push on men like that showing their interest like that do you guys think that all men that are friends with women are just like using them or like they just all get friend
04:18:33Taylor (TayTay)zoned or do you actually believe there's some men who actually value women as a friend cuz that makes me wonder if I have guy friends a guy's looking at that like she friendzone him I've been single with my guy friends for years and there now in relationships and nothing's ever happened I don't I don't know and I
04:18:46Brian Atlasdon't find myself that attractive to where every guy wants me I don't think like that I think I think you have to be attractive for that type of stuff I think it's possible uh I think it's easier for women to be friends with men than the
04:18:58Brian Atlasreverse okay I think men are much more likely to have ulterior motives uh when it comes to like uh male female friendship one of my issues with with the Friendship is when you inevitably
04:19:11Brian Atlasfind yourself in a relationship uh there's a decent chance look some Partners don't care but if your partner asserts their boundary that
04:19:23Brian Atlasof I don't want you to be hanging out with friends of the opposite sex that's going to be the end of that friendship if they're going to ultimately choose this romantic relationship over you and
04:19:35Brian Atlasjust the reality is like most people are going to probably going to you know if they care about that person enough are going to prioritize their Ro rtic relationship over their platonic relationship and certainly in the case
04:19:47Brian Atlasof marriage uh I do think there is some degree of um [ __ ] what's the word uh it's I'm blanking on it right now but
04:19:56Brian Atlas[ __ ] what's uh it doesn't look good like in a marriage context if you're like hanging out with a male friend I don't
04:20:07Brian Atlasknow that's I'm blanking on the word but um the Optics that's not exactly what I'm looking for but yeah basically so uh yeah I think
04:20:19Mayait's interesting what you're saying because like that like whole reason of like entertaining other people or like other like friends per se is like the reason why my last relationship ended twice like the first time like he was
04:20:33Mayastill talking to this girl that he had met on Bumble and like I like the whole relationship like was always wary of this girl and then like basically I went
04:20:43Mayathrough his phone and like found some stuff nudes and yeah yeah and um so then relationship end after that went no
04:20:55Mayacontact started talking on started dating again same thing happened with another girl and I like knew exactly who this girl was it was like this girl he used to like hook up with I guess and
04:21:05Brian Atlasyeah damn yeah yeah I mean because also you have to think about it like if you're pursuing let's say you genuinely are pursuing a friendship with someone
04:21:16Brian Atlasof the opposite sex like that is a sort of uh could be a transitory or volatile friendship
04:21:27Brian Atlasbecause if they get into a relationship with somebody who has this boundary of I don't want you talking to this person I don't want you to be friends with this person poof there goes your friendship
04:21:37Brian Atlasso it's almost kind of like well what's the point of getting into this friend ship if whenever this person ends up in a romantic relationship our friendship
04:21:48Brian Atlasis at risk of getting cut because of the expectations of their potential future partner that's um and so I mean especially with you know in marriage if
04:22:00Mason Gregoireyou're going to mean especially if you're like attracted to a man's man like traditional men are generally speaking extremely Territorial and they're not going to want another guy
04:22:10Mason Gregoirestepping on their woman so like steep step in Two Step In step in two steping on step in two step in two yeah okay but yeah I I think that's like if
04:22:22Mason Gregoirethat's what you're into that's probably something you like a practice you should adopt because you will attract more of those masculine guys if you have that boundary I mean it could be difficult especially like initially instituting
04:22:34Brian Atlasthat boundary but it'll probably give you a lot of really good success down the road I got some red flags here me I want you guys to weigh in if you hear
04:22:45Brian Atlasanything you object to I need you to weigh in all right I got a bunch here oh God I'm going to get the hate
04:22:55Brian Atlaspit Pitbull owner red Flack absolutely what about cats pit owner red flag I love dogs what about cats uh well
04:23:07Brian Atlasand also okay I love dogs big dog fan moving off from the pit thing though I do think
04:23:17Brian AtlasI don't know if it's a red flag but it like adds a level of complication to our relationship which I guess is would be a red flag want a pit bull no well that's a different thing is
04:23:29Brian AtlasI've probably pissed off all the pit owners here uh I do think if she owns a dog it complicates the I love dogs love dogs it complicates the [ __ ]
04:23:40Brian Atlasrelationship I can't tell you how many how many like bro they want to bring their dog with them and it just like get again I love
04:23:51Brian Atlasdogs but I want to okay clarify yes it's kind of similar to women who who are single moms a little bit not
04:24:03Brian Atlasas not to the I knew you were about to say that not to the degree look dog the dog you know hear me out they're busier they have less free time they're more
04:24:14Brian Atlaslikely to flake and cancel on plans like and I've attempted a couple times to like okay let's see how this goes with single moms maybe this is anecdotal
04:24:26Brian Atlasevery single time I've like try to coordinate a first date with a with a single mom this is It's only I tend to avoid it no offense to single moms out
04:24:36Brian Atlasthere every time bro an hour before the date they flake it's like that's an issue for me because punctuality sticking to plans commitments very
04:24:48Brian Atlasimportant and I get it your kid comes first 100% doesn't mean I have to deal with it though um and like she's got to BR bringing it back to the dogs he's got
04:24:58Brian Atlasto bring the dog everywhere why pit specifically no well that's different I just kind of have like a I'm kind of rist towards pit bus yeah I'm racist towards racist towards pits but then
04:25:09Brian Atlasthere's like a preference for no dogs there's General there's a love I love dogs [ __ ] love dogs but to date it presents extra complications to dating
04:25:22Brian Atlasyou especially if you got to bring the dog with you and then like what if we want to get frisky and [ __ ] phos in the corner jumps up on the bed one time
04:25:31AheI had a Chihuahua like [ __ ] try to get it at me bro while we were having the dog the dog came into the room dog way way I mean obviously so
04:25:44Ahedifferent you know way easier than a kid but I mean like you can always leave the dog at home for like you know the whole they never leave the dog at home I understand what you're saying even if they do like the plans are still
04:25:56Brian Atlaseccentric to like the dog like you can only leave the dog alone for like what four or five hours like even then they're like oh I can't and then if if they don't have housemates then they got
04:26:06Brian Atlasto pay for a thing a a sitter whatever and again I love dogs but like it complicates it's more complicated than that just dating a woman who doesn't
04:26:16Brian Atlashave a dog so um also no offense uh no offense I do think and we see this with children too I think men
04:26:29Brian Atlaswhen it comes to raising children and I think this extends to pets and dogs men are disciplinarians and I've ex I don't know if you be training your dogs that much
04:26:42Brian Atlasis is that sexist the say I don't know bro a lot of people both men and women don't train their [ __ ] dogs they're terrible on a leash they're not obedient and like I've had too many like I'll
04:26:54Brian Atlastell a girl like I don't want the dog jumping on furniture and jumping on a bed which is in my view if you want to be a responsible dog owner you train
04:27:04Brian Atlasfrom a very early on yes your dog shouldn't be jumping on furniture training if your dog doesn't listen to your mans that's not a trained dog and
04:27:15Brian Atlasso they'll come over and the dog is [ __ ] feral wild dude like jumping on the bed doesn't
04:27:24Brian Atlaslisten I don't want that yeah well I don't want that everybody should be allowed to own dogs so their dogs misbehave urinate I don't want I got to clean up after urinates inside it's not
04:27:36Aheeven potty trained jumping on you barking whining jumping on furniture peeing pooping the woman destructive yes yes that was a good one might no
04:27:49Brian Atlasthat was a good one actually we had this funny I I didn't share this anecdote when it happened but Nick was there I think G Gustavo were you there we had this woman who we had her scheduled on
04:27:58Brian Atlasthe show and she brought what she claimed was a service Animal Boy typically service animals are well behaved and well trained and she tried
04:28:10Brian Atlasto like Madison dealt with it but she was trying to make this whole like I thought she was going to sue us or some [ __ ] cuz we're like yo we got expensive camera equipment in here we can't we got
04:28:20Brian Atlaslike we can't accommodate we can't accommodate your service I don't think it was a service well the main thing was the dog was barking yeah they didn't do that barking they not supposed to do that not supposed to do that and I'm
04:28:32Brian Atlaslike well we're running a podcast it's not a reasonable accommodation if we're trying to get good audio to have your dog barking in the background and he was
04:28:40Brian Atlasbarking anyways so um H you know it's just uh again Love Dogs it just complicates things too many times it's like well can I bring my dog with me oh I don't know if I can come over because
04:28:53Soniamy got to take care of my dog like I thought you were going to say the the woman ended up peeing on the ground I'm not into that I'm not going to King Shame though
04:29:03Brian Atlasif that's what some people are into the that thing okay let me more red flags here hold on oh bell bottoms major red flag 100% I agree wait what's that I'm
04:29:15Sophiawith that Bell Bottom Jeans bell bottoms yeah if they were bell bottom bottom red flag you like skinny jeans instead or what's your just a red flag I don't know
04:29:24Brian Atlashow see I can't even explain that [ __ ] oh she looks looks at her phone first date that's I agree yeah I'll maybe say something I'll give her a little
04:29:36Brian Atlasleeway I'll be like oh is something important or just have to check something real quick but but she's like if she's on Snapchat I'm just leaving I'll just get upud it's super rude super
04:29:48Brian Atlasrude I had that I had that and I was like you pay for the date no oh good I wouldn't have because she did that because she did that I'm like no happen
04:29:57Brian Atlasthen okay all right uh let's see what else uh oh Acro yoga such a [ __ ] red flag bro yeah Acro yoga have you seen
04:30:08Brian Atlasthose the dudes bro you know why the dudes you know
04:30:16Mason Gregoirewhy acrobatic yoga the GU laying down it's kind of like a you know like male female cheater leader Dynamic really simar so it's like yeah they're doing
04:30:27Mason Gregoirethese weird poses where like she'll put her hands on his hips and like he'll hold her up valid it's extremely physical and you know you really know why he's doing it what about Judo cuz then you get
04:30:40Mason Gregoirephysical that's a fair point actually like M men don't like Jiu-Jitsu I actually so I practice Jiu-Jitsu and I will not roll with a chick oh just cuz
04:30:51Mason Gregoireit really hurt them too for yeah well I mean for me it's a little different I'm a 220 lb man and there aren't too many 220 lb women yeah no uh let's see what else oh
04:31:04Mayashe posts more than three Instagram stories a day I don't even use Instagram any girls Millennial red flag sorry lady uh she's a van
04:31:13Brian Atlaslifer she's a what 304 304 if she's a van lifer that's what does that mean 304 oh area code area code for sure sure yeah for sure
04:31:25Brian Atlasright Chad yo Chad is it a red flag if she's one of vanifer people I think it's red absolutely here's why she's like cuz if you see a girl on a dating app who's a vanifer she's like travel excuse me
04:31:38Brian Atlasshe's traveling around I match with like van lifee chicks and they're like hooking up with dudes to use their shower like it's it's weird oh jeez it's not weird but I'm
04:31:50Brian Atlaslike thinking like bro she she hooks up with a bunch of dudes to like have a place to a normal place to crash for a [ __ ] night shower whatever you can go Planet Fitness or a gym for no that's
04:32:01Brian Atlaswhat I would do that's what you but I'll see for a shower I'll see the van lifers on dating apps they're in town for two weeks I'm like they are if they must be running through yeah running through uh
04:32:14Brian Atlaslet's see what else career hair stylist Works in HR flight attendant travel nurse I'm a hater any career where there's a lot of frequent travel how about
04:32:26Brian Atlasinjur engineer that's fine that's what I'm green flag that's fine yeah engineer good green flag um green flag yeah any push back from anybody I've just pissed
04:32:38Brian Atlasoff like half the population wait I'm still confused about the the pit one the pit one yeah oh well it's like they want to be victims
04:32:50Brian Atlaslike it's like they they're like I understand they're like nobody advocates for any other dog breed to this [ __ ]
04:32:58Brian Atlasinsane extent besides P maybe Chihuahua but not even victim complex it's like this weird I don't know it's it's like
04:33:08Brian Atlasthis performative virtue signal they like baby them a lot too like they're like look the reality is the ma the vast majority of uh
04:33:18Brian Atlasinjuries caused by dogs the breed is the pit vast majority of deaths caused by dogs pites I don't I that's probably also
04:33:30Sophiajust cuz they're really strong dogs and they have a history of being raised really badly owners a lot of running and mostly owners are B even if they're
04:33:41Brian Atlastrained could still attack someone go so any dog any dog can do that any dog can do it and like the thing is bad bad trainers whatever but the their bite is so strong well we'll get
04:33:54Alexait um you know that they don't really they have that many uh PSI on their B they're I think they're 15 or something well they're just strong definitely not they are strong they are and they can yeah and they can make damage and of
04:34:06Sophiacourse but they're they're not as strong as other breeds they just have a bad rep I agree I mean you think German Shepherds are also aggressive I mean they have to be strong to be used as police dogs you know but they just have been trained
04:34:19Brian Atlaswell and I think they're just recruited you know the difference is though like when it comes to this specific dog breed we're just so getting off of is is that welcome a Chihuahua a
04:34:31Brian AtlasChihuahua that is poorly trained if you get bit by a Chihuahua I can [ __ ] up any Chihuahua 50/50 on the pit bull I don't
04:34:43Brian Atlasknow how that's going to end up going if they get to my neck who knows um the it's different anyways um other uh anything flight attendant red flag
04:34:56Brian Atlastravel North red flag hit that let's do a couple chats here uh let's see unit 285 wait Leon who was it Nick oh Nickelodeon was it we'll get to
04:35:07Brian Atlasit said Leon in the chat I don't know okay unit 285 good evening Brian and panel how do tattoos and piercings fit within your concept of Natural Body Supremacy personally I find the vast
04:35:20Taylor (TayTay)majority of tattoos and piercings on women off-putting thoughts I can ask why I want to ask why guys always to no no to you though too because you guys are both men so I want to know your perspective they say it's like ran through but how does that correlate with
04:35:33Taylor (TayTay)I don't understand that I could understand like traa things like that but ran through I never understand it but you guys are both like different men so I want to hear perspective it's funny because when I in my oh my
04:35:46Brian AtlasGod hold on we'll come back to that chat we'll come back to the tattoo thing yo stay safe thank you very much for the big raid on Twitch dude hope you had a really good stream hold on let me give
04:35:59Brian Atlasyou a shout out there um Nick I'm going to need you to lower the volume just a little bit because all right ladies so stay safe
04:36:08Brian Atlashe's a he was playing World of Warcraft classic he's really excited for season of Discovery phase three right are you
04:36:16Brian Atlasguys stoked for the sunken Temple raid I don't know what that is you're not stoked for St sunken Temple I'm excited for that they're
04:36:28Kikiexcited I guess I don't know are you stoked for sunk Temple exatic so stoked for St yeah I'm hyped it sounds cool jumping for joy now question ladies when it comes to warlock if you're playing Alliance right
04:36:44Joryhuman or hold on human or gome for warlock human which do you pick to play as a warlock or to be a
04:36:54Jorywarlock that's a very good question both oh um maybe to play as a warlock be a human and then to beat a warlock not a
04:37:04Ahehuman it could be opposite there I don't know okay to face so uh for I want to be a human thatout
04:37:16Brian Atlasout stay safe t i don't I I just did a shout out over on Twitch oh really quick we we'll come back to the the question guys go if you're new here stay safe thank you for
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